WEBVTT - Episode 350: The Black D*ck Will Rule (Feat. Maino)

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<v Speaker 1>What's up to live service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm g

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<v Speaker 1>G McGuire, I'm Stephanie Santiago Jamno, yeah, boy, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a minute. Mayno got his own things now, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you got a kitchen talking everything, So he got his

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<v Speaker 1>own way that he doesn't in the building. Thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>congratulations on you. Yes, you know, I always felt like

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<v Speaker 1>Mano needed his own I mean, you've had other situations,

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<v Speaker 1>but for you to have your own showing podcast, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a great talker. Thank you. Listen. I'm super happy to

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<v Speaker 1>be here. Angela Coles, I'm it doesn't matter what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>B RF. You just got that upgrade. Just emote you

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<v Speaker 1>to just the R Because apparently Mayno has a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>that he hasn't invited none of us to family business.

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<v Speaker 1>And I would really love for y'all to come by. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now this is officials invite, So tell us about this restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the Chelsea House. It's in Chelsea. It's dopeful. You

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<v Speaker 1>can get a seafood. Boy, you're there. It's a good vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>It's something like like when you go to Atlanta, you

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<v Speaker 1>might go to Copper Cove. That's the vibe right there.

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<v Speaker 1>This is our this is us right here, this is

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<v Speaker 1>this is a vibe right with with rappers. Feel free

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<v Speaker 1>to come by. You know last week we had gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come by him in future. Came by, um, you know

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<v Speaker 1>Fabris dead regularly. You know me, Jim and or Davis

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<v Speaker 1>was there last night, like y'all need some ladies, no ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>come now play with you. Came by. I just see

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<v Speaker 1>a wedding together that oh wow. And she was an

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<v Speaker 1>extra hype about it. She was dancing and everything right

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<v Speaker 1>that like, and she was talking about it before we

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<v Speaker 1>went up to cast the bouquet. Now you know me,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't trying to cast the bouquet. I was filming her,

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<v Speaker 1>her catching the bouquet. Your hands was full and my

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<v Speaker 1>hand was full. I didn't want it. It's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of ladies. It's it's like a ladies spot by. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of a lot of people, a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're really into food, which I've never knew until

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<v Speaker 1>you started doing the kitchen talk, and then I came there.

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<v Speaker 1>You had the caterer and everything got the cook there

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<v Speaker 1>shout out to pearls monrole. So when you come you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the kitchen talk. We provide the vibe. So it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a cooking show. It's not about food, right, So for me,

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<v Speaker 1>the kitchen is where we hang out at right in

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<v Speaker 1>the house, right before you go out, you're in the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't gating when you come back from the club.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't getting the kitchen, you understand. And then it's

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<v Speaker 1>a metaphor for the street though, because you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>go to the kitchen when we go outside, and you understand,

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<v Speaker 1>we go get it right right. It's also like the

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<v Speaker 1>back of our hair. It's funny because we don't provide

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<v Speaker 1>no food. We just give you all drinks. No, that's it,

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<v Speaker 1>get you drunk and you start talking crazy. We actually

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<v Speaker 1>don't provide food for that reason. Go. But seriously, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know you were like, are you a foodie? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say I'm a foodie because I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>my brother Rick is really a foodie, like he really

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<v Speaker 1>is into food. But I feel like certain things make

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<v Speaker 1>people comfortable, right, So I said, if I'm gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>this show, I want to make people comfortable. We're in

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<v Speaker 1>the kitchen already, you know, if we got a female chef,

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<v Speaker 1>females in the in the room. It make it's comfortable. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, create the vibe. We got some alcohol

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<v Speaker 1>and whatever you like, like who you know, whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever the vibe is that you like, we can create

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<v Speaker 1>that and the food is just gonna make you feel

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<v Speaker 1>even better, like, oh world. So it's just at home vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Like we're sitting there and we're kicking it, we're talking,

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<v Speaker 1>we're laughing, and you know, and been then and it's been,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a hit. I like your co host. I

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<v Speaker 1>like that you're very comfortable speaking around women, which I

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<v Speaker 1>think is a good thing. Right, So most men are

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<v Speaker 1>not a lot of minute we've spoken to you, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like have not been as comfortable until they had

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<v Speaker 1>like round two of a drink that I've brought a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of podcasts is like if a guy's on it,

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be like all dudes, you know what I'm saying, right. See.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that because I feel like I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to create a situation where it's like I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>the hero, i always know what I'm talking about, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always the master, I'm always the best. Noah, It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Life is not like that, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I got friends fortunately in my life that

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, Nick, you don't know the you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>So I like that. I like the contention that we

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<v Speaker 1>don't always agree. So because you get a males perspective

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<v Speaker 1>from things and then you get a female's perspective and

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<v Speaker 1>in those things, and although they clash, the listener gets

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<v Speaker 1>to tap into both, you know, areas. But something you

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<v Speaker 1>say you learned about women that you didn't know before

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<v Speaker 1>most recently, Um wow, y'all never let up. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>take a day off. Y'all, don't take a day off

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<v Speaker 1>over over overthinking? Right, It's like it's thoughts to everything.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like damn, damn, I say your big ange what

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<v Speaker 1>you mean big? Yeah? I would say that if everything

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<v Speaker 1>is that, I don't take a good man. I was

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<v Speaker 1>on vacation a lot, right, so that's one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things I noticed stuff. So it's safe to say. You

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<v Speaker 1>like to eat. I like to eat. I love to

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<v Speaker 1>eat everything. Are you overthinking? Yeah, but I'll do that too.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you understand what we're talking What you're talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Everything good? I mean, you think you got good at it?

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<v Speaker 1>And with food, eating, eating every do you think you

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<v Speaker 1>got good at everset because I feel like, no guy,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I forgot you've been here in a while. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know it is Listen, guys are usually not good

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<v Speaker 1>at it, like off back. So how do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you got good at it to practice? I listen, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be honest with you. Don't like I like beautiful women.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want a woman that I can't look

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<v Speaker 1>at her and say that I want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. I want to desire her

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<v Speaker 1>to the point where I say, God damn, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to put my mouth for her. This is what I

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<v Speaker 1>want to say. I want to fantasize about her. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be an ultimate lust with her when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking at her. I want to be thinking about her

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<v Speaker 1>that way. If I can't have that thought of her

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<v Speaker 1>in that way, I don't even want to play with it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you never ate a pussy that you wasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>like that into the woman. He definitely young man though.

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<v Speaker 1>See first, I'm not giving up my clown like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like even it's either I'm gonna do it or I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna do it. I'm not gonna play with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to really do it. I'm not gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>it at all. Like I mean, it's up to you

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<v Speaker 1>if it happens or not. Now, if there's something going

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<v Speaker 1>on down there, then I don't need to business down there.

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<v Speaker 1>You understand you don't even need a business in the

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<v Speaker 1>room then period. Yeah right, yeah, But sometimes you already

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<v Speaker 1>committed and you gotta finish. Car You never have to finish.

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<v Speaker 1>Times you got to do it for the ladies. Have

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<v Speaker 1>y'all ever backed out of a situation like, because I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think women feel like happening here right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you the times that we committed that were

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<v Speaker 1>like fine, I gotta you know, But there's times when

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<v Speaker 1>we've backed out. Yeah, there was there was. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>can say I backed out. I've never been backed out on.

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<v Speaker 1>I backed out because I couldn't handle it. It was

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<v Speaker 1>too much. Sorry, man, you never been backed out on. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't change the whole concept. I didn't mean that

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't need to do it like you. But it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but to see me but that was my personal But

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<v Speaker 1>he allowed you to buy gout. Yeah, what's he gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>May I'm just saying, like, come on, backed out, but

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<v Speaker 1>not in the middle of the act that moment were

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<v Speaker 1>already there already, so we need write a story to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I always gotta stay. So we spoke about

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<v Speaker 1>this before I had I thought about you, right, I had,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she know I had laser rejuvenation to my vagina. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So there was a laser that tightened me up. And

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<v Speaker 1>there was a guy that I was, you know, having

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<v Speaker 1>some fun with prior to the laser, so he was

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<v Speaker 1>used to when he used to be like and then

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<v Speaker 1>after laser, it's a little different. And he came in

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<v Speaker 1>trying them same moves, and I had to tap out

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<v Speaker 1>medical conditions. Medical okay, like you had an excuse and

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<v Speaker 1>it's to somebody that that that that you have been

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<v Speaker 1>with prior. Yeah, he had to understand that he had

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<v Speaker 1>to respect it because I'm pretty sure he knew that

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<v Speaker 1>you went and did it up. Yeah, yeah, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's a plausible reason here. So he was good

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<v Speaker 1>trying to I've changed my mind at the last minute

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<v Speaker 1>because the guy's panis was so smart and feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I could do it. I didn't know, And then I

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<v Speaker 1>was like and then I was like, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>we're ready for this. And that was so like he

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<v Speaker 1>just took his pants off and you just looked like

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<v Speaker 1>it was terrible. Okay, it was a medical condition. Something

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<v Speaker 1>got that out there. No, but I really did because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know, you kind of don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to waste a body on that, like because that's a body. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's then you let a minute your joint because if

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<v Speaker 1>I did, it would have just been for sympathy, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you feel bad, do the chicken nuggets? Man? Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's the only well maybe not the only time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure I've done it before too. If I'm committed,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm committed because if you here's what happens, right, if

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<v Speaker 1>you get up and go to the bathroom and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>halfway thinking about it, that will be like, man, and

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<v Speaker 1>you come back, I'll be dressed, all right, you never

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<v Speaker 1>did that? Change your mind? And then he's like I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be right back. And then you're like, you know, how

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<v Speaker 1>did he handle that? Go after that? What can you say?

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<v Speaker 1>Because if he asks, if he asks, fact up, then

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be glad you didn't do it. He still got

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<v Speaker 1>to be cool because he might think later on it

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<v Speaker 1>could still happen yet exactly that it's not even playing

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<v Speaker 1>because you could just really be on the fence and

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<v Speaker 1>not sure it's gonna happen. And then how far did

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<v Speaker 1>you get? Did you take your clothes off? Put my clothes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>put my clothes back on him that's not on the fence,

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<v Speaker 1>clean off, you know, do something in the bathroom and

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<v Speaker 1>came back and lost his chance. Yeah, because sometimes I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like this in the bedroom, right, And I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like this for guys to Like, if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do something to a guy, you shouldn't really ask him first.

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<v Speaker 1>You just try and then see because sometimes if you

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<v Speaker 1>ask a guy doesn't sound right to him. Ask him

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<v Speaker 1>like what like if you want to try something maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that he's never done before, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot my show. This. I forgot, like it's been

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a while. Like if you're gonna do something

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<v Speaker 1>to a girl and you're not sure she if she'll

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<v Speaker 1>like it, you're not gonna be like, it's okay for

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<v Speaker 1>put my finger in you, but you'll just do it, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know? Is it okay? If I spin in your mouth?

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<v Speaker 1>You would just do it. I don't like to spit

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<v Speaker 1>in the mouth thing. Yeah, now they do that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying if you were going to do something

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<v Speaker 1>like that and that more people like to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>We keep hearing about my mouth and don't be like

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<v Speaker 1>they'd be like, spit in my mouth and I'll be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to spit in my mouth, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be like, I don't like that. Ship I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want you to slide in my mouth like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just something that you don't know what to do with.

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<v Speaker 1>Anybody swallow it? Did you have curry play like that?

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<v Speaker 1>So would you say that you're a freak or not? Really?

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<v Speaker 1>What constitute a freak? Like if somebody asked you if

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<v Speaker 1>you were talking to a girl and she's like, are

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<v Speaker 1>you a freak? Possibly? Yes? Yeah? Possibly? I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that I'm outrageous. I don't think i'd do anything,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, out the ordinary, like a traditional Yeah traditional,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, put me in my place and sit on

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<v Speaker 1>my face? Can put me in my place? Comes that fun? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>sit on your face? You like that? What would you

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<v Speaker 1>say that you do this a little like out of

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<v Speaker 1>the ordina? I don't think I do nothing out of

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<v Speaker 1>the ordinary. Nothing no, I don't think you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think sex or sex all that is. It's pretty standard nowadays.

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<v Speaker 1>But if a girl's like slap me, oh no, I

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<v Speaker 1>did oh? I did like role play before nice, I

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<v Speaker 1>did role play play white women women have a white woman?

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<v Speaker 1>I just okay, I didn't know women. What what was this?

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful woman? To shut up? What you're talking about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like that? Huh? What was the role? This

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<v Speaker 1>feels like it's gonna be so wrong. It's so wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you right now. I've never talked about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to be like a runaway slave now ship,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. I like to play like a runaway slave. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like a disobedient slave with a white woman. Tell me

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<v Speaker 1>like what you say? Yes, sorry, it's two of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's like me getting whooped, right, you get whooped.

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<v Speaker 1>I played like whipping. But most of them don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to play like that. Is like, well, white women goes

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<v Speaker 1>along with this. They don't want to play like that.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't. This is mys like, listen, you're gonna act

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<v Speaker 1>like your masterest husband wife and I just got by master.

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<v Speaker 1>But the whole time you've been really you know, man

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<v Speaker 1>balling me. This sounds like some freaky porn, right, this

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<v Speaker 1>some freaky ship. And then I'm gonna I'm gonna come

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<v Speaker 1>all sweaty, right, just finished getting whooped, and you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say no, Billy Joe nons it's not gonna like it.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not gonna like it. Had done along with this

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<v Speaker 1>and done this. He's speaking from experience. Nobody really went

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<v Speaker 1>along with it. Like I s get up on the

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<v Speaker 1>wall and said, come on, let's act it out. And

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, man, are you crazy? What if they call

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<v Speaker 1>you the N word? See? This is this is because

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<v Speaker 1>this comes with it. This is where it goes deep,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is where I'll probably be canceled that go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I can say this, say it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna takes advice. This is really want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know because it's not right. But this is

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<v Speaker 1>a fantasy stuff. Stay in in the fantasy where in

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<v Speaker 1>a fantasy world, I've never nobody's ever did it. So

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<v Speaker 1>the other fantasy is that they whipping me and they're

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<v Speaker 1>calling me a nigger. Right, so let's say you want that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy. You feel weird after nah, because at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day, the black dick will rule. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I do know this woman who used to

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<v Speaker 1>have sex with this white guy and he used to

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<v Speaker 1>call her like the N word and everything. He used

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<v Speaker 1>to pay her though to have sex, who used to

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<v Speaker 1>call the guy the white guy to say that to

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<v Speaker 1>her like, yeah, that's different, but she allowed, like she

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<v Speaker 1>was okay with you. That's but that's kind of the meaning.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if this is the same fantasy now,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, no body's done that. Did you see

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<v Speaker 1>that play, the slave play on Brow You should go

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<v Speaker 1>see it because it actually in that play that actually happens,

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<v Speaker 1>because in my mind, I feel like there were slaves

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<v Speaker 1>fucking that's anywhere. That's what I'm saying. You got to

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<v Speaker 1>see this go to slave that that keeps getting this

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<v Speaker 1>ass whoop. You definitely would have been in the house too.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't have been in the house, did you brown

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<v Speaker 1>paper bag? But I'm negative. I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>follow rule. So that's me. I'm not asking some negative

0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:39.360
<v Speaker 1>have been in the house regardless, because your grandfather was there.

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<v Speaker 1>Runaway slave. That was Yeah, my foot off, cut my

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<v Speaker 1>foot off, the foot off. This is awesome. Will still

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<v Speaker 1>be fucking Oh my god, I just want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just Maino's fantasy, right, it's not a real thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to don't come, yeah, can't Yeah, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because is very worried about me right now, she's I

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<v Speaker 1>am to Yeah, it's very worried about Let me ask

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<v Speaker 1>you this. What is something that you've said no to?

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<v Speaker 1>May know? Ain't let you? No? Girl put her finger

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<v Speaker 1>and right, we don't play like that. Has anybody tried it? Girls?

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't, some girls would would try like they

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<v Speaker 1>try to try. They act like they down man how

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<v Speaker 1>to do it? You understand. But if it's a white

0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:32.600
<v Speaker 1>women calling you the N word that she first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>it has to be if I'm in the fantasy mode,

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<v Speaker 1>it's whole welcome to me. No, no, hell no, we

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<v Speaker 1>can't play like that fantasy. Just making sure this makes

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<v Speaker 1>because you gotta understand that going on here, it's me

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<v Speaker 1>from the bottom, me being a slave, really overpowering masters

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<v Speaker 1>master's wife wife. We get with this. What makes yeah right?

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<v Speaker 1>And the whole thing is that she acts like she

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<v Speaker 1>don't want it, but she really she really do. She's

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<v Speaker 1>been wanting it. Why she's sitting there. I'm on a plantation.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about this sweating like a motherfucking she over there

0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:15.640
<v Speaker 1>watching this is crazy. Have you watched porn like this?

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<v Speaker 1>They have that. I feel like they have to sounds.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it sounds like it might. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>made anything under the son. I just didn't seen that one.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta see. I think Sara Jay is coming up here,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe she oh you do stars, maybe we could

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<v Speaker 1>get this in. Man, do you see yourself getting married

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<v Speaker 1>one day? What? I'm just got thrown off from a

0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:43.879
<v Speaker 1>question do you see yourself ever getting married? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>was just at a wedding and I was like thinking

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<v Speaker 1>to myself while I was there, I was like, do

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<v Speaker 1>I see myself ever getting married? It was a beautiful

0:18:49.720 --> 0:18:53.200
<v Speaker 1>experience married Mary. I'm not against marriage. I just think

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<v Speaker 1>that people get married for the wrong reasons. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of us get married, you know, looking

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<v Speaker 1>to find off. I think that who you married, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you if you marry a person that was an

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<v Speaker 1>asshole before you married them, They're still gonna be an

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<v Speaker 1>asshole after the marriage. The marriage is not gonna change people.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we have the wrong outlook on what marriage is,

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<v Speaker 1>and we put so much emphasis on the actual marriage itself,

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<v Speaker 1>that we're not putting emphasis on ourselves. So the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm not against it, and I can't never

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<v Speaker 1>say never, but it's not something that I actually really

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<v Speaker 1>give a lot of thought to. Have you ever been

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<v Speaker 1>close to it? Like, oh, well you was a quick answer. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you never was, laying in be like I can marry her.

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<v Speaker 1>You never went rain shopping. No, Because I'm thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>the matter, Because the way I think about it, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I feel like marriage should just be the last

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<v Speaker 1>step to what is already there. We should already feel

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<v Speaker 1>should already live like we we should already you know,

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<v Speaker 1>our soul should already be dancing and intertwined with one another.

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<v Speaker 1>We should already be connected spiritually immensely. Right, it should

0:20:11.680 --> 0:20:14.840
<v Speaker 1>be already. We should already be a union, the ceremony,

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<v Speaker 1>the actual standing in front of the priests. That should

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<v Speaker 1>just be the ice is on the cake to something

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<v Speaker 1>that already is opposed to the other way around. So,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if I'm already in an organic situation like

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<v Speaker 1>that and it feels that way, and then we wake

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<v Speaker 1>up one morning and say, you know what, let's just

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<v Speaker 1>let's just do it, I think people do it that

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<v Speaker 1>other way around. This is why it doesn't want reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I don't. Yeah, I don't feel like you should

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<v Speaker 1>get married thinking that things would be great after you

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<v Speaker 1>get married. They gotta be great before you get women

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like I'm a whole wife. Okay, your whole wife,

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<v Speaker 1>but that your husband is a whole same type of

0:20:54.920 --> 0:20:59.320
<v Speaker 1>he always been husband, still got bitches. What's what's the difference?

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<v Speaker 1>This whole thought? An idea of just being a wife

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<v Speaker 1>or just being married for the sake of what society says.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, right, it's like you should be married, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so you feel like a husband shouldn't have other women

0:21:15.240 --> 0:21:17.879
<v Speaker 1>when you're married, you should just be with your worn wife,

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<v Speaker 1>and you feel like her husband shouldn't have MESSI no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not what I feel like. If a guy has

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<v Speaker 1>pictures that makes him not a husband. It depends on

0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:27.520
<v Speaker 1>a woman if she's if she's okay with it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay with me. But what I'm saying is that

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<v Speaker 1>most women in that situation, they want to live a

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<v Speaker 1>monogamous marriage. Right, So a lot of women have that

0:21:36.440 --> 0:21:39.919
<v Speaker 1>degree of thought when it comes to their marriage, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I've just married this nigger and you know it's just us,

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<v Speaker 1>but right here, A lot of times that's not as

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<v Speaker 1>realistic as we think all we supposed to be together

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<v Speaker 1>for one person forever. Is that really really realistic? Does

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<v Speaker 1>that go for women too? Yes? Okay, yes, because when

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<v Speaker 1>you change up, you change up when you're done with

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<v Speaker 1>then when you'll changed, and it's when you're whatever switch

0:22:05.280 --> 0:22:08.160
<v Speaker 1>is hit, when y'all fed up and you're done, you're

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<v Speaker 1>like a whole different person. So it's like love never was.

0:22:14.560 --> 0:22:17.840
<v Speaker 1>It's like it never had been because you'll become totally different.

0:22:18.440 --> 0:22:21.680
<v Speaker 1>But I don't think that love has never been. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just personally speaking. When I was in that predicament, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just that I've had all that I can take

0:22:25.760 --> 0:22:29.679
<v Speaker 1>and I couldn't take no more indeed. But it didn't

0:22:29.760 --> 0:22:32.280
<v Speaker 1>delete the presence of the love that was there. But

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<v Speaker 1>the way you, the way you might have made the

0:22:35.119 --> 0:22:37.080
<v Speaker 1>nigga feel like way because you was just a total

0:22:37.160 --> 0:22:39.879
<v Speaker 1>different person after that at that point, I kind of

0:22:39.880 --> 0:22:41.480
<v Speaker 1>wants you to feel that way though, when we're getting

0:22:41.480 --> 0:22:42.800
<v Speaker 1>to that point. He wants you to feel like you

0:22:42.920 --> 0:22:45.919
<v Speaker 1>wasn't ship never right. You turn, you look at her,

0:22:45.960 --> 0:22:48.800
<v Speaker 1>You're like damn she damn, she's so cold like, But

0:22:48.840 --> 0:22:50.439
<v Speaker 1>it takes a lot for a woman to get to that.

0:22:51.160 --> 0:22:54.280
<v Speaker 1>When you'll do, when y'all do, y'all do so all

0:22:54.320 --> 0:22:57.840
<v Speaker 1>we meant to be with each other forever. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's different for everything. Choice yeah, two choice. And I

0:23:00.920 --> 0:23:03.760
<v Speaker 1>also feel like it's at a certain point in your life.

0:23:03.880 --> 0:23:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like, once you've experienced a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>things and you lived your life, you might feel like,

0:23:09.040 --> 0:23:10.960
<v Speaker 1>I just want to be with one person for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of my life. I'm good now. I don't did

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<v Speaker 1>everything chill like I could do it. I'm not missing

0:23:16.640 --> 0:23:20.359
<v Speaker 1>ship because it really there ain't shipped out here like that.

0:23:20.880 --> 0:23:22.600
<v Speaker 1>Once you get to a certain point, you're like, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to be in my situation, be comfortable, be stable,

0:23:26.359 --> 0:23:30.360
<v Speaker 1>be happy. That's also a level of mature. Yeah, that's

0:23:30.520 --> 0:23:34.159
<v Speaker 1>that right, there is the mature thing to feel. And

0:23:34.240 --> 0:23:38.159
<v Speaker 1>at points I think men, I think for us, we

0:23:38.280 --> 0:23:40.520
<v Speaker 1>battle with that. Yeah. Yeah, I feel like a man

0:23:40.560 --> 0:23:42.960
<v Speaker 1>could get to that point, but he doesn't stay there,

0:23:43.640 --> 0:23:46.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, So I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you can say that a manner is in

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<v Speaker 1>a husband just because he's a cheeter, well, and I

0:23:52.760 --> 0:23:56.000
<v Speaker 1>feel like this too. And I also feel like at

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<v Speaker 1>times like it's hard for me to determine whether men

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<v Speaker 1>went a woman who was really sick, successful and busy

0:24:01.000 --> 0:24:03.880
<v Speaker 1>or not, because sometimes I feel like men who are

0:24:03.920 --> 0:24:07.880
<v Speaker 1>really successful don't want a woman who is doing her thing,

0:24:08.359 --> 0:24:09.960
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, What do you think about

0:24:11.800 --> 0:24:15.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm attracted to successful women. But on the flip side,

0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:19.720
<v Speaker 1>sometimes you want a woman to just do certain things

0:24:19.800 --> 0:24:24.320
<v Speaker 1>for you that you would feel like, this is my woman,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, sometimes the successful woman, you know, because

0:24:29.359 --> 0:24:31.639
<v Speaker 1>of her grind, she may not have the time to

0:24:31.760 --> 0:24:35.639
<v Speaker 1>do some of those things that we will with cryer mh.

0:24:36.280 --> 0:24:38.720
<v Speaker 1>But it doesn't it doesn't make it any less different

0:24:38.720 --> 0:24:40.560
<v Speaker 1>though it's it's still it's still the same because you

0:24:40.600 --> 0:24:42.760
<v Speaker 1>still would love all the same way though, right So,

0:24:42.880 --> 0:24:48.639
<v Speaker 1>But um, I don't know, I personally like a successful woman.

0:24:49.680 --> 0:24:53.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm personally more attracted to a woman that I feel

0:24:53.480 --> 0:24:57.399
<v Speaker 1>like don't need me really okay, because some guys like

0:24:57.440 --> 0:25:00.679
<v Speaker 1>women to feel like yeah and feel like, um, a

0:25:00.720 --> 0:25:03.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of guys they wanna save, they want to save

0:25:04.000 --> 0:25:07.680
<v Speaker 1>a girl, you know, intimidates them. I feel like this

0:25:08.040 --> 0:25:12.480
<v Speaker 1>is one of my biggest problems in vating, right, because

0:25:12.480 --> 0:25:15.920
<v Speaker 1>it makes them feel inferior because I don't need anything

0:25:16.080 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 1>from a guy, just loving attention and makes some weird

0:25:23.960 --> 0:25:27.800
<v Speaker 1>sometimes for men. A lot of men, you gotta remember,

0:25:27.840 --> 0:25:30.000
<v Speaker 1>like a lot of men, they deal a lot of insecurities,

0:25:30.359 --> 0:25:32.959
<v Speaker 1>a lot of them not as confident as they seem.

0:25:32.960 --> 0:25:36.040
<v Speaker 1>And sometimes the money the trink is, you know, the

0:25:36.119 --> 0:25:39.440
<v Speaker 1>things that we see, you know, helps with your confidence.

0:25:39.520 --> 0:25:43.240
<v Speaker 1>It covers what's really there. Right, you don't know if

0:25:43.240 --> 0:25:46.760
<v Speaker 1>this person is really the niggy because right what we

0:25:46.840 --> 0:25:50.879
<v Speaker 1>see is the image of it of them, you know. Um,

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:53.479
<v Speaker 1>So when you get a girl that that needs you

0:25:53.520 --> 0:25:59.280
<v Speaker 1>more than you need her, it probably makes them feel better, right,

0:25:59.320 --> 0:26:02.600
<v Speaker 1>They feel most solid because now I can I can

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<v Speaker 1>change your life, or I can help her in a

0:26:05.119 --> 0:26:09.000
<v Speaker 1>situation and she looks to me, you know, So that

0:26:09.000 --> 0:26:11.120
<v Speaker 1>that is a thing for some men, you know. Yeah,

0:26:11.160 --> 0:26:14.520
<v Speaker 1>it's a balanced because then sometimes guys get like angry

0:26:14.520 --> 0:26:16.560
<v Speaker 1>if you need them too much, you know what I'm saying,

0:26:16.600 --> 0:26:19.520
<v Speaker 1>Like if they feel like it's just a weird balance

0:26:19.520 --> 0:26:21.359
<v Speaker 1>that you have to figure out that that's not a

0:26:21.400 --> 0:26:23.880
<v Speaker 1>good place for a lot of women to be anyway. Yeah, Yeah,

0:26:23.920 --> 0:26:26.679
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like guys have absolutely nothing to offer me.

0:26:26.720 --> 0:26:29.200
<v Speaker 1>I have so much to offer and guys have nothing

0:26:30.160 --> 0:26:33.400
<v Speaker 1>for me, Like I have everything that a guy could

0:26:33.400 --> 0:26:39.120
<v Speaker 1>offer me. No, I'm not even talking about anything, Like

0:26:39.240 --> 0:26:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I have so much to offer. Besides, just as a person,

0:26:44.160 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 1>I have so much to offer. I'm a guys at

0:26:47.320 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 1>least the guys that i've I don't know, I can't.

0:26:50.160 --> 0:26:51.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to talk about about about the guys

0:26:51.880 --> 0:26:55.359
<v Speaker 1>that I've been with. But I'm just saying, you know,

0:26:55.440 --> 0:26:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I like to learn, Like I feel like a guy

0:26:57.560 --> 0:27:02.200
<v Speaker 1>could provide me with knowledge, teach you. Nothing is exactly,

0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:04.359
<v Speaker 1>but it's like at this point, I'm I feel like

0:27:04.400 --> 0:27:09.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm the one who's always teaching. But maybe you just yeah,

0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:13.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe you're right. So like if you're not learning nothing

0:27:13.160 --> 0:27:16.439
<v Speaker 1>from any can't show you'll teach you something or you

0:27:16.520 --> 0:27:18.399
<v Speaker 1>can't a matter of fact, That's what I'm saying, Like

0:27:18.440 --> 0:27:20.280
<v Speaker 1>I have so much to offer. I could do so

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:25.240
<v Speaker 1>much for for a person in my life, whether it's

0:27:25.280 --> 0:27:30.040
<v Speaker 1>somebody I'm dating or somebody that's just my friend. If

0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 1>I have a lot to offer, Yes, Okay, let's just

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:37.199
<v Speaker 1>let's make up a scenario. May know, what could you

0:27:37.240 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 1>offer Stephanie. Direction and correction, correction and correction. That was

0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:51.680
<v Speaker 1>just it was that was just some selection to say

0:27:51.720 --> 0:27:55.680
<v Speaker 1>that was a song. Listen. No, I mean I feel

0:27:55.720 --> 0:28:00.280
<v Speaker 1>like a man is to provide direction, definitely lead ship

0:28:00.359 --> 0:28:03.480
<v Speaker 1>A managed to be a leader, right, So I mean

0:28:03.520 --> 0:28:05.000
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, you know, I know that you were

0:28:05.000 --> 0:28:10.399
<v Speaker 1>being funny, but that kind of sounded good correction because

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:14.119
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like service. It sounds like you're helping. I'm helping.

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:19.120
<v Speaker 1>But no, no direction is right though, because I want

0:28:19.160 --> 0:28:25.400
<v Speaker 1>to provide outside of what monetary and you know, outside

0:28:25.400 --> 0:28:28.680
<v Speaker 1>of those roles like direction in life though, like if

0:28:28.800 --> 0:28:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to be able to teach her and show

0:28:31.119 --> 0:28:34.440
<v Speaker 1>her things and and maybe to help um guide her

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:37.720
<v Speaker 1>in the right direction you understand and into doing things

0:28:37.760 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 1>like So, it's not about me giving you the bag.

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:42.160
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's about me showing you how to get it

0:28:42.320 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 1>for yourself, you understanding. It's about us coming, you know,

0:28:45.960 --> 0:28:48.680
<v Speaker 1>making the bag that you already have a bigger one,

0:28:49.160 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 1>you make it together. But that comes from actually learning.

0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:53.600
<v Speaker 1>So it's like let me put you onto this and

0:28:53.600 --> 0:28:56.360
<v Speaker 1>then but that's that that's a given take thing because

0:28:56.440 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 1>as people, right, we should be learning from each other, right,

0:29:01.760 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 1>and that's that's how I feel. I feel like I

0:29:03.960 --> 0:29:07.400
<v Speaker 1>have even in the situation you're saying, like, I I

0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:09.760
<v Speaker 1>feel like a guy being with me I can make

0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:12.920
<v Speaker 1>him a billionaire? What type of is you talking about? Though?

0:29:12.960 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm just saying like I'm just saying any any

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 1>guy who gets with me. It's like dumb, Like, what's

0:29:22.680 --> 0:29:25.080
<v Speaker 1>you mean? Who's that? This is the way you're speaking

0:29:25.120 --> 0:29:27.640
<v Speaker 1>about men? Is that as if the niggas that you

0:29:27.760 --> 0:29:30.000
<v Speaker 1>deal with or have been dealing with is just so

0:29:30.480 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 1>a b E level that you know, No, it's just

0:29:34.040 --> 0:29:37.360
<v Speaker 1>even I have to say, the guys that I've deal with,

0:29:37.520 --> 0:29:40.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't think they're slashes. I think there there's every

0:29:40.200 --> 0:29:43.080
<v Speaker 1>guy I've been with as a successful man, you know,

0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:46.880
<v Speaker 1>um god bless him, they've they've done well in their lives.

0:29:47.480 --> 0:29:49.800
<v Speaker 1>But I still feel like being with me is kind

0:29:49.800 --> 0:29:53.360
<v Speaker 1>of upgrade. Well upgrade you should have that confidence? Baby? Yes,

0:29:53.840 --> 0:29:56.600
<v Speaker 1>what is this giving? Though? I feel like, so what

0:29:56.760 --> 0:30:00.160
<v Speaker 1>is it giving? Something? Giving? I mean that cow is

0:30:00.200 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 1>definitely hot. No one, we're normal, we're normal ty sure.

0:30:06.520 --> 0:30:08.000
<v Speaker 1>Now let me ask you this. Do you feel like

0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:11.000
<v Speaker 1>your taste has changed? Right? And people like we were

0:30:11.040 --> 0:30:15.120
<v Speaker 1>looking at that that podcast, The Pivot podcast. Channing Crowder's podcast,

0:30:15.160 --> 0:30:18.440
<v Speaker 1>he was talking about Russell Wilson and Sierra and he

0:30:18.520 --> 0:30:21.960
<v Speaker 1>was saying that how do you go from future to

0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:25.000
<v Speaker 1>Russell Wilson? And he's saying this years with him for

0:30:25.040 --> 0:30:26.880
<v Speaker 1>the money and there's no way you can change that.

0:30:26.920 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 1>But I also feel like sometimes being in a relationship

0:30:29.640 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 1>that didn't work for you can't make you really like

0:30:32.600 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 1>do a one eight and date a whole different type

0:30:35.760 --> 0:30:38.280
<v Speaker 1>of person. Absolutely right, that's true, And I don't really

0:30:38.280 --> 0:30:40.520
<v Speaker 1>feel like it's really no placeful nego to be saying

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:44.240
<v Speaker 1>that though about another Negato really honestly like, who am

0:30:44.280 --> 0:30:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I to be saying? It was very hard. It felt

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:49.600
<v Speaker 1>like he has him personal he must have lost a

0:30:49.760 --> 0:30:55.800
<v Speaker 1>bad actually maybe maybe maybe do him don't really get along.

0:30:57.240 --> 0:30:59.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Don't make sense that you're speaking about it, dude,

0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:02.480
<v Speaker 1>you're saying you're cool with but I don't know. But

0:31:02.520 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I I just changed, though. Would you say, like, because

0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:08.240
<v Speaker 1>sometimes have you broken up with somebody and then been

0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:12.720
<v Speaker 1>like I'm doing the opposite? Yeah, it taste change because

0:31:12.720 --> 0:31:17.240
<v Speaker 1>on the journey of life, right, you're developing constant, constantly,

0:31:17.520 --> 0:31:20.280
<v Speaker 1>and the things that you like you know, you start

0:31:20.320 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 1>to dislike depending on the experiences that you have, right,

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:25.680
<v Speaker 1>So you're learning more, right, You're like, man, I'm over

0:31:25.720 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 1>these fucking strippers and Bartender's fuck this ship way, I'm

0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:32.280
<v Speaker 1>getting out this fucking locker room. Right. So, like you know,

0:31:32.360 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 1>like you change as you like, Like you change depending

0:31:37.720 --> 0:31:39.800
<v Speaker 1>on whatever it is that you that you that you

0:31:40.000 --> 0:31:43.480
<v Speaker 1>used to and in depending on where you're going in life, right,

0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:46.440
<v Speaker 1>And that's just a part of evolution. You're supposed to

0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:50.440
<v Speaker 1>evolve at some point. Yeah, life is about learning, and

0:31:50.720 --> 0:31:53.440
<v Speaker 1>you should take each experience and learn, take something from

0:31:53.480 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 1>it and and use that to make better choices and

0:31:56.240 --> 0:31:58.960
<v Speaker 1>have a better experience in the future. And I feel like,

0:31:59.440 --> 0:32:01.640
<v Speaker 1>of course you can change. I feel like I changed.

0:32:01.960 --> 0:32:03.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't even feel like it was that I changed

0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:06.600
<v Speaker 1>my taste, but I just feel like I took what

0:32:06.760 --> 0:32:11.720
<v Speaker 1>I had and learned the yes and nose and move

0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 1>forward with Okay, I don't want this anymore, but this

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:16.800
<v Speaker 1>is what I want more of us, and I definitely

0:32:16.840 --> 0:32:19.080
<v Speaker 1>got what I X were. So Yeah, the main thing

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:22.320
<v Speaker 1>about relationships that don't work is learning from them, because

0:32:22.360 --> 0:32:25.080
<v Speaker 1>everything you should learn from, even if it's something that

0:32:25.240 --> 0:32:27.640
<v Speaker 1>it feels like a failure because it didn't work. Is

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:30.480
<v Speaker 1>really like something that teaches you what you don't want.

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 1>I think that's just as important as what it really does.

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:35.680
<v Speaker 1>It really does, and then you learn how to maneuver

0:32:35.840 --> 0:32:38.640
<v Speaker 1>and navigate in your next situations. You know what you

0:32:38.680 --> 0:32:40.920
<v Speaker 1>want to do, you know what you don't want to repeat,

0:32:41.280 --> 0:32:43.000
<v Speaker 1>and some of the things that you went through in

0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:45.560
<v Speaker 1>that Pride relationship, you can spot them old. Well, I'll

0:32:45.560 --> 0:32:49.800
<v Speaker 1>see this coming now. I don't want this again. Now, man,

0:32:49.840 --> 0:32:52.200
<v Speaker 1>are you were in a long term relationship that was

0:32:52.240 --> 0:32:55.920
<v Speaker 1>public because you guys want no? No, I'm saying, but

0:32:55.960 --> 0:33:02.080
<v Speaker 1>since then, yeah, yeah, So now since then you've been single? Okay,

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:07.600
<v Speaker 1>So are you like happy? Happy? Because I had to

0:33:07.640 --> 0:33:11.280
<v Speaker 1>fall in love with myself. I had to first learn

0:33:11.320 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 1>how to how to do that before I could possibly

0:33:15.320 --> 0:33:19.280
<v Speaker 1>be out here actually trying to be in a relationship

0:33:19.320 --> 0:33:21.440
<v Speaker 1>with somebody else and trying to make them happy. See.

0:33:21.520 --> 0:33:24.440
<v Speaker 1>I think we'd be getting in relationships for the wrong reasons, right,

0:33:24.480 --> 0:33:27.000
<v Speaker 1>We're thinking that somebody's gonna make us happy. We're looking

0:33:27.000 --> 0:33:29.520
<v Speaker 1>for happiness. But the happiness got to come from within.

0:33:30.160 --> 0:33:33.560
<v Speaker 1>So once I started to really like because I was

0:33:33.600 --> 0:33:37.360
<v Speaker 1>at a real low point, I was. I was going

0:33:37.400 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 1>through some ship, like I was like on Molly and

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:45.000
<v Speaker 1>drinking and just going crazy, like in a dark place

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:49.160
<v Speaker 1>in my life, and for no reason but the highs

0:33:49.160 --> 0:33:51.560
<v Speaker 1>and lows of being in the industry and the ups

0:33:51.600 --> 0:33:55.720
<v Speaker 1>and downs expectation and trying to compete and not being

0:33:55.760 --> 0:33:57.960
<v Speaker 1>able to being able to and not being able to

0:33:58.000 --> 0:34:01.680
<v Speaker 1>like those ups and down hounds, you know, I felt

0:34:01.720 --> 0:34:04.760
<v Speaker 1>myself succumbing to certain things, and then I had to

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:09.439
<v Speaker 1>hit a rock bottom. I had to get real low.

0:34:10.400 --> 0:34:13.319
<v Speaker 1>And I remember you called me. Remember that call, and

0:34:13.360 --> 0:34:16.600
<v Speaker 1>I appreciated that call because that day you called me,

0:34:16.960 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 1>I was sitting in my my hotel room in Miami,

0:34:20.360 --> 0:34:24.120
<v Speaker 1>fucking some some some bit I had in the room.

0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:26.600
<v Speaker 1>Just walked out of my room with a rolex like

0:34:26.960 --> 0:34:31.640
<v Speaker 1>I was just on rock bottom, right, stole stole a

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:36.320
<v Speaker 1>watch this lady's on Instagram going crazy on me on

0:34:36.320 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 1>on social media. Right, So I'm just at a bad place, right,

0:34:41.800 --> 0:34:44.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm this middle of the afternoon, all this ship is happening,

0:34:45.280 --> 0:34:49.080
<v Speaker 1>and I'm saying to myself, what am I doing? Right?

0:34:49.200 --> 0:34:50.960
<v Speaker 1>You didn't get this far in your life for to

0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:54.759
<v Speaker 1>just throw away everything. Right, You're still in the race.

0:34:54.800 --> 0:34:56.840
<v Speaker 1>You're still in the car. You understand it might be

0:34:57.000 --> 0:34:58.840
<v Speaker 1>it might not be going as fast as everybody else's.

0:34:58.920 --> 0:35:02.200
<v Speaker 1>But nigga, you ain't. You ain't in jail, you ain't

0:35:02.200 --> 0:35:05.319
<v Speaker 1>in the casket. You understand what I'm saying. You're free,

0:35:05.360 --> 0:35:08.799
<v Speaker 1>you're healthy, You got opportunity and time get on your ship.

0:35:09.239 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 1>So I had to really find myself. I had to

0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:15.759
<v Speaker 1>really dig deeper into into who I was, so I

0:35:15.760 --> 0:35:17.960
<v Speaker 1>had to go through that though I had to go

0:35:18.080 --> 0:35:20.360
<v Speaker 1>through all. I had to go through that, that suffering,

0:35:20.760 --> 0:35:23.640
<v Speaker 1>you understand it. Sometimes the pain is necessary, you know

0:35:23.680 --> 0:35:25.399
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. So I had to go through that

0:35:25.760 --> 0:35:28.960
<v Speaker 1>for me to find who I was and really to

0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:32.160
<v Speaker 1>climb back. And that's why I'm I feel like I'm

0:35:32.200 --> 0:35:35.840
<v Speaker 1>in the best place ever in my life ever. Sometimes

0:35:35.840 --> 0:35:39.760
<v Speaker 1>you gotta break down the build up, So do you

0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:42.000
<v Speaker 1>do you feel like after you find yourself and you

0:35:42.040 --> 0:35:45.200
<v Speaker 1>feel like the love coming from within you, you will

0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:48.120
<v Speaker 1>double back to someone you felt like gave you love

0:35:48.160 --> 0:35:51.560
<v Speaker 1>but you didn't return it to them. And I'm just saying,

0:35:51.560 --> 0:35:55.160
<v Speaker 1>like someone you was in a long relationship with. I

0:35:55.200 --> 0:35:58.640
<v Speaker 1>don't understand that question. You don't understand this personal. It's

0:35:58.680 --> 0:36:02.640
<v Speaker 1>not a personal course I'm talking about myself in a relationship.

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:11.920
<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying, what's the question? The question is all right,

0:36:11.920 --> 0:36:15.319
<v Speaker 1>I'll ask it again. Like after you feel like you've

0:36:15.360 --> 0:36:18.400
<v Speaker 1>come to that place where you you find loving yourself

0:36:18.440 --> 0:36:20.640
<v Speaker 1>and you feel like you can receive love back because

0:36:20.640 --> 0:36:23.440
<v Speaker 1>you love yourself, when you go back to someone who

0:36:23.560 --> 0:36:27.759
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you hurt m hm, oh, got it.

0:36:28.360 --> 0:36:33.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean usually a lot of times, I mean most times,

0:36:33.719 --> 0:36:37.160
<v Speaker 1>some things could have ran its course, and sometimes going

0:36:37.200 --> 0:36:40.600
<v Speaker 1>back it's not the answer. And sometimes you're not the

0:36:40.640 --> 0:36:44.640
<v Speaker 1>same person. They're not the same person, and sometimes you'll

0:36:44.719 --> 0:36:47.840
<v Speaker 1>just have to agree that you know, to to evolve,

0:36:48.200 --> 0:36:51.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, separately. I don't know if going back is

0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:53.800
<v Speaker 1>the answer. I mean it may work for some some people.

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:58.279
<v Speaker 1>You know, Um you turns for me never really been good.

0:36:59.560 --> 0:37:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Turns work. I have to agree, and you know, you

0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:08.279
<v Speaker 1>know what what's hard for you is that I think

0:37:08.320 --> 0:37:11.359
<v Speaker 1>people view you in a certain ways, Like what I'm saying,

0:37:11.360 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 1>it's like a strong person. It is hard to admit

0:37:17.080 --> 0:37:21.120
<v Speaker 1>like your own vulnerabilities. And that's why I be honest,

0:37:21.160 --> 0:37:23.759
<v Speaker 1>because I know so many people go through so many

0:37:23.760 --> 0:37:25.600
<v Speaker 1>different things. You know what I mean, you don't have

0:37:25.640 --> 0:37:29.680
<v Speaker 1>to be a wrapper or celebrity or media person, says,

0:37:29.760 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 1>we all share the same experiences, you know. I mean,

0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:36.040
<v Speaker 1>we're all dealing with hurt and pain and suffering and

0:37:36.120 --> 0:37:38.640
<v Speaker 1>loss or whatever. So I think when you when you

0:37:38.800 --> 0:37:41.239
<v Speaker 1>find and you start to get happy within yourself, then

0:37:41.440 --> 0:37:43.719
<v Speaker 1>the only object, the only thing you should be doing

0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:45.880
<v Speaker 1>is moving forward. And I like you do on your

0:37:45.880 --> 0:37:48.040
<v Speaker 1>show is therapeutic for you to It is because I

0:37:48.040 --> 0:37:50.240
<v Speaker 1>get to talk about all my ship. I could be honest,

0:37:50.880 --> 0:37:53.200
<v Speaker 1>you understand that, And like I said, I don't have

0:37:53.280 --> 0:37:57.000
<v Speaker 1>to be the hero. You don't like the thing about music,

0:37:57.880 --> 0:38:00.560
<v Speaker 1>It's like, especially coming from a rapper standpoint, we always

0:38:00.600 --> 0:38:02.719
<v Speaker 1>it's so much or it's so like, you know what

0:38:02.719 --> 0:38:06.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it doesn't really express vona ability, you know,

0:38:06.200 --> 0:38:08.320
<v Speaker 1>in a way where people relate a lot of times,

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:10.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, but when you do, people were like, damn

0:38:10.560 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 1>you really you know, Like my biggest song is all above,

0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:15.680
<v Speaker 1>so they always you know, that was something I was

0:38:15.719 --> 0:38:21.920
<v Speaker 1>talking speaking real So the podcast gives me the opportunity

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:23.799
<v Speaker 1>to do that. Like we laugh and we joke and

0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:27.200
<v Speaker 1>we talk real ship and you make money. Ain't that amazing?

0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:32.799
<v Speaker 1>So much? Looking at him smiling, you got dad you've

0:38:32.800 --> 0:38:37.000
<v Speaker 1>got the lobby boys. I noticed too that you like

0:38:37.080 --> 0:38:39.640
<v Speaker 1>to team up with people a lot. I think New

0:38:39.719 --> 0:38:42.520
<v Speaker 1>York needs that. Yeah, I think that this is a

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:45.359
<v Speaker 1>city that it was always about who is the one king?

0:38:46.280 --> 0:38:48.080
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? It was always about who

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:51.760
<v Speaker 1>is that one nigga. I think that that has been

0:38:52.000 --> 0:38:55.640
<v Speaker 1>embedded in our minds and our brains. It's always right.

0:38:56.200 --> 0:38:58.759
<v Speaker 1>And I think that that had a lot of you know,

0:38:58.920 --> 0:39:02.120
<v Speaker 1>bad ramifications for the city. I'm just talking about for

0:39:02.160 --> 0:39:05.720
<v Speaker 1>the for the morality of the city, right. I figured

0:39:05.719 --> 0:39:08.960
<v Speaker 1>out that. And once me and Jim started coming together

0:39:09.360 --> 0:39:12.359
<v Speaker 1>and doing a lot of boys album, you know, in

0:39:12.680 --> 0:39:16.359
<v Speaker 1>Fab and in Davis, and we all started to come

0:39:16.360 --> 0:39:19.160
<v Speaker 1>together and work out and share your own experiences with

0:39:19.200 --> 0:39:22.160
<v Speaker 1>each other as black men in the business, it starts

0:39:22.160 --> 0:39:26.080
<v Speaker 1>to send a message out that says, look, we all kings.

0:39:26.480 --> 0:39:28.880
<v Speaker 1>We all can have our own individual success, but there

0:39:28.880 --> 0:39:33.319
<v Speaker 1>ain't nothing wrong with us going at these niggas together too, right,

0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:36.880
<v Speaker 1>stronger together, all talk about like women problems, We talk

0:39:36.960 --> 0:39:41.560
<v Speaker 1>about all Yeah, some people don't have that, but that's

0:39:41.560 --> 0:39:43.800
<v Speaker 1>what makes it so good. And we're actually doing the

0:39:43.840 --> 0:39:46.359
<v Speaker 1>pilot with a revolt. I was gonna say this sounds

0:39:46.360 --> 0:39:50.920
<v Speaker 1>like a TV. Yeah, like in today's climate, especially in

0:39:50.960 --> 0:39:53.360
<v Speaker 1>New York with the drill rap and everybody with the

0:39:53.400 --> 0:39:55.879
<v Speaker 1>gangs against each other and everybody coming at each other

0:39:55.920 --> 0:39:57.759
<v Speaker 1>and people getting hurt, and it's in the third I

0:39:57.800 --> 0:40:00.120
<v Speaker 1>feel like y'all being the o G. It's set the

0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:03.480
<v Speaker 1>tone to change the narrative and to get things back

0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:06.600
<v Speaker 1>to all of this craziness dying down because it's all

0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:08.600
<v Speaker 1>for nothing or getting over ship. They don't even make

0:40:08.640 --> 0:40:11.280
<v Speaker 1>no sense. So I applaud you all for that for rest. Indeed,

0:40:11.320 --> 0:40:13.560
<v Speaker 1>I think that it shows like we were talking about

0:40:13.560 --> 0:40:14.880
<v Speaker 1>the thing. It was me and Fab the other day.

0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:18.200
<v Speaker 1>It was like people really respect how we're moving right,

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:21.320
<v Speaker 1>because it shows like leadership and it shows us really

0:40:21.360 --> 0:40:23.759
<v Speaker 1>like coming together and it's not taking nothing away from

0:40:23.920 --> 0:40:27.160
<v Speaker 1>us individually, like you know, you know, me standing next

0:40:27.200 --> 0:40:28.719
<v Speaker 1>to you or you're standing next to me is not

0:40:28.760 --> 0:40:32.120
<v Speaker 1>taking away. So it's like it shows the city and

0:40:32.120 --> 0:40:35.040
<v Speaker 1>it shows the rest of the world. It's okay. We

0:40:35.120 --> 0:40:39.080
<v Speaker 1>can't okay that we come together on some mutang ship.

0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:41.239
<v Speaker 1>We can support each other. Like I told all, that's look,

0:40:41.440 --> 0:40:43.120
<v Speaker 1>you're having a video. I ain't gonna be on a song.

0:40:43.160 --> 0:40:45.840
<v Speaker 1>But I'm pulling up. I'm supporting it because it looks

0:40:45.920 --> 0:40:50.600
<v Speaker 1>better and it is out here about yourself as much

0:40:50.640 --> 0:40:53.600
<v Speaker 1>as we all want to be, and we are all individuals,

0:40:53.640 --> 0:40:56.520
<v Speaker 1>but sometimes it's hard like and it's good to have

0:40:56.560 --> 0:40:59.200
<v Speaker 1>people that understand the navigation of the system and have

0:40:59.320 --> 0:41:02.400
<v Speaker 1>been through similar things because everybody has up there, and

0:41:02.719 --> 0:41:05.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure individually you all can appreciate the support from

0:41:05.560 --> 0:41:08.640
<v Speaker 1>it from another. Right, we all fall this, right, we've

0:41:08.640 --> 0:41:12.000
<v Speaker 1>all been in the business, right, and it's a rocky road,

0:41:12.640 --> 0:41:14.759
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, And you know, but we

0:41:14.760 --> 0:41:17.320
<v Speaker 1>we together though, we get to change some of the narrative,

0:41:17.480 --> 0:41:20.680
<v Speaker 1>narrative and it looks exciting for the fans. Right. So

0:41:20.719 --> 0:41:24.000
<v Speaker 1>we just dropped another another song, another video last week,

0:41:24.480 --> 0:41:29.160
<v Speaker 1>fit Lit because that's the name of our club. Yeah,

0:41:29.200 --> 0:41:31.279
<v Speaker 1>so yeah, we shot that in the gym. We're working out.

0:41:31.320 --> 0:41:34.080
<v Speaker 1>We really, we really go and work out. This is

0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:38.600
<v Speaker 1>not a game like it was the most fit on

0:41:38.719 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 1>some real ship. You got. You gotta remember that gym

0:41:43.280 --> 0:41:47.280
<v Speaker 1>always been working out, right, So he's always been working

0:41:47.280 --> 0:41:52.759
<v Speaker 1>out and right because he is he's like a trainer, right,

0:41:52.800 --> 0:41:57.759
<v Speaker 1>he's a maniac. What we're doing today, capital legs on

0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:00.640
<v Speaker 1>back chest, just yes and what we're doing the mom

0:42:02.600 --> 0:42:07.080
<v Speaker 1>he's a madman. Um Dave's is super fit. He's always

0:42:07.080 --> 0:42:09.200
<v Speaker 1>maintained because me and Daviess used to work out together

0:42:09.239 --> 0:42:14.760
<v Speaker 1>before um So's, He's maintained a steady regime of working

0:42:14.760 --> 0:42:18.680
<v Speaker 1>out and he gets busy. But the person that that

0:42:18.760 --> 0:42:26.000
<v Speaker 1>surprises everybody that that actually is really consistent, it's Fab.

0:42:26.480 --> 0:42:29.319
<v Speaker 1>Fab is super consistent. And no matter what city, because

0:42:29.320 --> 0:42:30.759
<v Speaker 1>we got a group chat that week were in and

0:42:30.880 --> 0:42:32.759
<v Speaker 1>we gotta you know, no matter what city we in,

0:42:32.800 --> 0:42:35.080
<v Speaker 1>we gotta send a video make sure everybody working out

0:42:35.360 --> 0:42:37.120
<v Speaker 1>the matter. Fab is in l A, in Vegas. He

0:42:37.120 --> 0:42:39.200
<v Speaker 1>will find a gym, don't matter. You think he dressed

0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:46.759
<v Speaker 1>the best in the gym too. Definitely, definitely definitely come

0:42:46.840 --> 0:42:48.680
<v Speaker 1>he's come. He's gonna come getting busy, but he's gonna

0:42:48.680 --> 0:42:58.719
<v Speaker 1>come coordinated for the busy. Definitely. Now. I think that's

0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:00.960
<v Speaker 1>amazing though, and I left to see it, man, and

0:43:01.000 --> 0:43:02.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, you know, I look at you like there

0:43:02.960 --> 0:43:04.360
<v Speaker 1>was periods of time in your life and you're like,

0:43:04.400 --> 0:43:06.040
<v Speaker 1>I really want a girl. Man, So you don't even

0:43:06.080 --> 0:43:08.759
<v Speaker 1>feel like that right now. I mean, it has to

0:43:08.840 --> 0:43:11.600
<v Speaker 1>be the right situation, you think working out has given

0:43:11.640 --> 0:43:15.799
<v Speaker 1>you more stamina in the bedroom, was there every time

0:43:15.800 --> 0:43:18.399
<v Speaker 1>when you felt like I think it's the person though,

0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:20.479
<v Speaker 1>because you could be out like like it's the person

0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:22.680
<v Speaker 1>that drives you more crazy, like like damn, I just

0:43:22.719 --> 0:43:26.759
<v Speaker 1>want to just be on all day long. Like sometimes

0:43:26.840 --> 0:43:30.479
<v Speaker 1>it's the person that just drives you to that point

0:43:30.480 --> 0:43:34.040
<v Speaker 1>where you just want to be on them all the time. Um.

0:43:34.200 --> 0:43:36.279
<v Speaker 1>Then there's people that's just like, I'm gonna do it

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:40.239
<v Speaker 1>and I ain't. I ain't doing another round, so you

0:43:40.239 --> 0:43:44.399
<v Speaker 1>can forget about it. Damn. We don't know if it's

0:43:44.440 --> 0:43:46.239
<v Speaker 1>the one round and it was so amazing you were

0:43:46.280 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 1>just exhausted, or if it's just yeah, which one is

0:43:48.960 --> 0:43:50.760
<v Speaker 1>it could be? It could be one or the other.

0:43:51.120 --> 0:43:53.560
<v Speaker 1>I'd go one round and I turn around and go damn,

0:43:54.719 --> 0:43:58.840
<v Speaker 1>mm hmmm, I want some more. This is weird. And

0:43:59.080 --> 0:44:02.960
<v Speaker 1>just know I'm just saying turning around about right, I

0:44:02.960 --> 0:44:06.920
<v Speaker 1>would use these terms of really turned around. I would.

0:44:07.040 --> 0:44:08.880
<v Speaker 1>I would. I would usually tell them about writing, and

0:44:08.920 --> 0:44:13.160
<v Speaker 1>I would say I want some more. What would you say,

0:44:13.160 --> 0:44:17.400
<v Speaker 1>Stephanie if that was you? Why would it be me?

0:44:21.280 --> 0:44:25.000
<v Speaker 1>Because you to his right right turn out a scene.

0:44:26.000 --> 0:44:28.680
<v Speaker 1>I got a whole slave role yeah, I just did

0:44:28.680 --> 0:44:30.680
<v Speaker 1>a slave bro. I had nothing to do with the

0:44:30.719 --> 0:44:44.240
<v Speaker 1>slave bro money said about slaves. Oh my god, no, no, no, okay,

0:44:44.280 --> 0:44:46.600
<v Speaker 1>So on adverte, do you normally do like two or

0:44:46.640 --> 0:44:50.200
<v Speaker 1>three times or is it usually once? And did it

0:44:50.320 --> 0:44:53.560
<v Speaker 1>change as you got older? N you know, listen, it

0:44:53.640 --> 0:44:56.720
<v Speaker 1>was this girl that I was like going like four

0:44:56.800 --> 0:45:00.239
<v Speaker 1>and five times like this was recently, Like I was

0:45:00.280 --> 0:45:03.719
<v Speaker 1>going crazy. This is because she just turned me on

0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:05.680
<v Speaker 1>and she just drove me crazy every time she get

0:45:05.760 --> 0:45:07.040
<v Speaker 1>up to walk to the bathroom and be like, damn,

0:45:07.080 --> 0:45:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to fuck her. Like it was just she

0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:14.080
<v Speaker 1>just had that sex appeal. And then sometimes I'm with

0:45:14.200 --> 0:45:16.279
<v Speaker 1>somebody else I noticed that I would just be like,

0:45:16.880 --> 0:45:19.120
<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm one and done. I'm cool, tired, I'm

0:45:19.120 --> 0:45:22.040
<v Speaker 1>going to sleep, you know what I mean. I put

0:45:22.040 --> 0:45:27.440
<v Speaker 1>on ESPN, you know, put on a movie, you know,

0:45:27.520 --> 0:45:30.480
<v Speaker 1>but for average, I say about two rounds at least

0:45:31.000 --> 0:45:34.719
<v Speaker 1>if you pushing my lust to that level, like there's

0:45:34.800 --> 0:45:37.359
<v Speaker 1>less equal can of equal love to you? Like can

0:45:37.719 --> 0:45:39.279
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that the people that you've been most

0:45:39.280 --> 0:45:42.040
<v Speaker 1>attracted to are the people that you have in love

0:45:42.080 --> 0:45:45.240
<v Speaker 1>with or do you feel like those two things cannot

0:45:45.280 --> 0:45:47.560
<v Speaker 1>be related? To each other, like I could lust for

0:45:47.600 --> 0:45:52.680
<v Speaker 1>you but not have feelings for you. Mm hmmm. I

0:45:52.760 --> 0:45:55.759
<v Speaker 1>think lust because if you're spending so much time with

0:45:55.880 --> 0:46:01.160
<v Speaker 1>one person, I think you can start developing true feelings

0:46:01.239 --> 0:46:04.360
<v Speaker 1>for them. And if you got a high level of

0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:07.760
<v Speaker 1>lust for them, that makes it even better. But what's

0:46:07.800 --> 0:46:11.759
<v Speaker 1>better than than being desired by your partner? But have

0:46:11.840 --> 0:46:14.080
<v Speaker 1>you ever listed for somebody that you didn't really care

0:46:14.080 --> 0:46:17.880
<v Speaker 1>about like that? Yes, but because it was just something

0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:21.080
<v Speaker 1>that's that was just so sexual about them or so

0:46:21.160 --> 0:46:23.640
<v Speaker 1>sexy about them, and I just it was just like

0:46:25.239 --> 0:46:29.879
<v Speaker 1>more animalistic than real passion, right, and it wasn't more

0:46:29.920 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 1>about me actually wanting to get to know them in

0:46:33.000 --> 0:46:37.719
<v Speaker 1>a in a more personal level. Can that last? I

0:46:37.719 --> 0:46:41.320
<v Speaker 1>don't think so, because women are not right. It's gotta

0:46:41.360 --> 0:46:43.239
<v Speaker 1>it got a date on it, because after while women

0:46:43.360 --> 0:46:45.279
<v Speaker 1>is not that you just ain't gonna keep fucking on me,

0:46:45.600 --> 0:46:49.600
<v Speaker 1>what's up? What we're doing? Like you're coming over here?

0:46:49.680 --> 0:46:53.360
<v Speaker 1>Everyone ever? Do you understand? You're going crazy? And then

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:56.279
<v Speaker 1>y'all don't hear from you for a week and then

0:46:56.320 --> 0:46:59.680
<v Speaker 1>it's the same ship. So you know, I think that

0:46:59.680 --> 0:47:03.279
<v Speaker 1>that that got a time limit on it. I think

0:47:03.320 --> 0:47:08.080
<v Speaker 1>women like is that it's consistency. So if you if

0:47:08.120 --> 0:47:12.000
<v Speaker 1>you consistently having sex, but then at the same time

0:47:12.040 --> 0:47:14.480
<v Speaker 1>you're spending time and we're doing things, we're stepping out,

0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:18.280
<v Speaker 1>we're going places, we're doing things other than the bedroom,

0:47:18.920 --> 0:47:21.279
<v Speaker 1>then it's going on. A woman you know, ain't got

0:47:21.280 --> 0:47:24.080
<v Speaker 1>no issue with that. Do you think a woman could

0:47:24.239 --> 0:47:26.760
<v Speaker 1>We were talking about guys not doing oral sex properly?

0:47:27.000 --> 0:47:29.320
<v Speaker 1>Can a woman suck a dick wrong? Like that happened

0:47:29.320 --> 0:47:40.200
<v Speaker 1>to you? Yes? Yes? What is he like? Not not

0:47:40.280 --> 0:47:44.960
<v Speaker 1>that we need any advice, but like nineties head, like

0:47:45.000 --> 0:47:48.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't like it's like, hey, without spit. It was

0:47:48.600 --> 0:47:51.680
<v Speaker 1>like what I was doing in the nineties. Okay, they

0:47:51.719 --> 0:47:54.280
<v Speaker 1>did that in the nineties. They didn't have spitting the nineties.

0:47:54.280 --> 0:47:56.040
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm trying to take. They didn't they didn't

0:47:56.040 --> 0:47:58.479
<v Speaker 1>spend the night, spent the nighties. That's what I'm saying.

0:47:59.280 --> 0:48:03.680
<v Speaker 1>Those kids, they spitting it like a dry blow. It

0:48:03.800 --> 0:48:07.400
<v Speaker 1>was that straight up and down. Yeah, you know, I

0:48:07.480 --> 0:48:11.359
<v Speaker 1>need some still cares like moviehead, not more in him black,

0:48:11.400 --> 0:48:14.160
<v Speaker 1>movie head like TV. I think you were saying if

0:48:14.160 --> 0:48:16.120
<v Speaker 1>you're in a movie theater, no no, no no, But

0:48:16.239 --> 0:48:17.960
<v Speaker 1>just like the head that you see on TV. That's

0:48:18.040 --> 0:48:21.160
<v Speaker 1>just like for you, Like it's like I don't really

0:48:21.200 --> 0:48:23.160
<v Speaker 1>want to do it. It's not slopping out. It's like

0:48:23.200 --> 0:48:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't really want to do it, but I'm gonna

0:48:24.719 --> 0:48:26.880
<v Speaker 1>do it. I'm just gonna give you a you know,

0:48:27.080 --> 0:48:31.640
<v Speaker 1>just just go through the motions. But you say something, yeah,

0:48:31.719 --> 0:48:37.279
<v Speaker 1>that sounds like, yeah, let's get past this. Yeah, let's

0:48:37.320 --> 0:48:40.120
<v Speaker 1>move on to women you think are good at it,

0:48:40.160 --> 0:48:42.680
<v Speaker 1>like that you've been with. The funny thing is that

0:48:42.719 --> 0:48:44.600
<v Speaker 1>a lot of women think they're great at it and

0:48:44.640 --> 0:48:47.279
<v Speaker 1>then a lot of times that they're not. Ship. Yeah,

0:48:48.160 --> 0:48:49.880
<v Speaker 1>let me tell you something I had a conversation with

0:48:50.080 --> 0:48:52.600
<v Speaker 1>that had a conversation with a guy friends of mine.

0:48:52.760 --> 0:48:55.880
<v Speaker 1>I had a conversation because Kevin Samuels had the clip

0:48:55.880 --> 0:48:57.680
<v Speaker 1>when he was talking to the girl and she was

0:48:57.760 --> 0:48:59.799
<v Speaker 1>like that she had good sex and he's like, well,

0:48:59.800 --> 0:49:01.840
<v Speaker 1>how you know and she's like, well, I haven't had

0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:04.160
<v Speaker 1>any complaints. And he's like, just because you finish a plate,

0:49:04.200 --> 0:49:06.239
<v Speaker 1>thought mean, you enjoyed the food. You know you're gonna

0:49:06.719 --> 0:49:09.320
<v Speaker 1>follow through because you're hungry, but you know not because

0:49:09.920 --> 0:49:11.960
<v Speaker 1>it was that good. Um. So I was having a

0:49:11.960 --> 0:49:14.080
<v Speaker 1>conversation with one of my guy friends, and I was like,

0:49:14.480 --> 0:49:16.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, ask the same question, like how many girls

0:49:16.400 --> 0:49:20.360
<v Speaker 1>that really do stand up to having this good sexual

0:49:20.400 --> 0:49:23.440
<v Speaker 1>behavior that they claim to have? And his answer was surprising,

0:49:24.040 --> 0:49:27.160
<v Speaker 1>He's had not that many don't think that they don't.

0:49:27.520 --> 0:49:31.399
<v Speaker 1>He said more women are not as good women can

0:49:31.440 --> 0:49:33.600
<v Speaker 1>actually back up that, oh I got fire head or

0:49:33.800 --> 0:49:36.640
<v Speaker 1>pussy bomb. He said, it's a small percentage. Right, every

0:49:36.640 --> 0:49:39.560
<v Speaker 1>woman that I know like swears a pussy is the

0:49:39.560 --> 0:49:42.640
<v Speaker 1>greatest pussy on, Like, oh this is good pussy. I'll

0:49:42.680 --> 0:49:46.480
<v Speaker 1>be like, how you know you got good pussy? Like mistakes,

0:49:46.520 --> 0:49:50.160
<v Speaker 1>you got good pussy? Like, so what makes it good pussy?

0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:54.319
<v Speaker 1>That off top? Some some women are more wetter than

0:49:54.400 --> 0:49:57.600
<v Speaker 1>others for some reason, like some women everybody's different. Really

0:49:57.800 --> 0:50:02.160
<v Speaker 1>like it's like like gush like ver like like wow,

0:50:02.239 --> 0:50:05.719
<v Speaker 1>I was like water pumping this bit, like the fun

0:50:05.880 --> 0:50:08.799
<v Speaker 1>is going on? Right, that's really good. And then it's

0:50:08.840 --> 0:50:11.239
<v Speaker 1>I guess it's the move the way she moves, like

0:50:11.960 --> 0:50:16.520
<v Speaker 1>the way she worked that pussy is makes it better.

0:50:16.960 --> 0:50:21.240
<v Speaker 1>Like you know that noises and talking, well that's good

0:50:21.320 --> 0:50:25.440
<v Speaker 1>because then I was messing with an Asian woman that

0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:28.080
<v Speaker 1>she looks so sweet And then did you get into

0:50:28.080 --> 0:50:34.200
<v Speaker 1>the bed. She talked crazy. She goes crazy like come on,

0:50:34.200 --> 0:50:37.040
<v Speaker 1>give me that dick, give me that fucking dick on

0:50:37.440 --> 0:50:40.920
<v Speaker 1>what But she just looks like an angel. You are

0:50:40.960 --> 0:50:42.640
<v Speaker 1>another she up in this room. You would never think

0:50:42.680 --> 0:50:44.880
<v Speaker 1>can anyone ever overdo it? Sometimes because you know how

0:50:44.920 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 1>sometimes people talk like day in the porn. Yeah, one

0:50:48.160 --> 0:50:49.560
<v Speaker 1>day I tell her. I told a girl, I said,

0:50:49.600 --> 0:50:55.319
<v Speaker 1>you tell everybody to shut the funk up. Shut the

0:50:55.320 --> 0:50:58.160
<v Speaker 1>funk up, like daddy just taking so good the best.

0:50:58.800 --> 0:51:01.040
<v Speaker 1>Shut up like you're about to make my dick just

0:51:01.120 --> 0:51:08.440
<v Speaker 1>go solid. Just shut up like just sounds like sounds

0:51:10.040 --> 0:51:13.680
<v Speaker 1>you don't sound realistic to me, like script and you're right,

0:51:13.760 --> 0:51:16.960
<v Speaker 1>you sound like this is what sees your line? Can

0:51:16.960 --> 0:51:20.239
<v Speaker 1>you understand what's what's the most expensive thing I saw

0:51:20.280 --> 0:51:23.920
<v Speaker 1>that I saw Kanye but his new girlfriend? What is it?

0:51:24.000 --> 0:51:31.000
<v Speaker 1>Two thousand dollar berking? Have you brought a Berken yet? No? Club? Watch?

0:51:32.080 --> 0:51:37.239
<v Speaker 1>Um car, there's a big gifts. I'll help out if

0:51:37.400 --> 0:51:39.160
<v Speaker 1>I funk with you? Funk with you? Do you ever

0:51:39.200 --> 0:51:41.960
<v Speaker 1>have buyer's remorse? Never? I'll never try to take nothing

0:51:42.000 --> 0:51:43.520
<v Speaker 1>back from nobody. But have you ever been like I

0:51:43.520 --> 0:51:46.200
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't have did that? No? Because at that moment, everything

0:51:46.560 --> 0:51:48.560
<v Speaker 1>was done in that moment and when you was meant

0:51:48.600 --> 0:51:51.440
<v Speaker 1>to have that. Let me get my watch back, or

0:51:51.520 --> 0:51:53.880
<v Speaker 1>let me get those bags back, or like, what's the

0:51:53.880 --> 0:51:56.759
<v Speaker 1>best person you ever got? I don't know. Women like

0:51:56.920 --> 0:52:00.800
<v Speaker 1>by gifts, like maybe like sneakers and that's so you

0:52:00.880 --> 0:52:02.680
<v Speaker 1>buying cars and roll lex and you get a pair

0:52:02.680 --> 0:52:06.640
<v Speaker 1>of sneakers. Oh a woman brought me a bracelet before. Okay,

0:52:07.040 --> 0:52:10.160
<v Speaker 1>I like twenty of them are right now. Let one

0:52:10.160 --> 0:52:16.400
<v Speaker 1>of those? Is it one of those? I like that

0:52:16.480 --> 0:52:18.920
<v Speaker 1>your feet is out, only one. I like that you

0:52:18.920 --> 0:52:22.000
<v Speaker 1>can take it off more comfortable. No, it's okay. Is

0:52:22.040 --> 0:52:24.640
<v Speaker 1>that sometimes when my foot is like in the sneaker

0:52:24.680 --> 0:52:27.120
<v Speaker 1>for too long, I get like a nerve that pinches

0:52:27.680 --> 0:52:33.120
<v Speaker 1>from wearing heels for so many years that a break?

0:52:33.480 --> 0:52:38.680
<v Speaker 1>Is that what you? Chelsea? I'm kind of hungry. I

0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 1>gotta drive you to the airport though my fight is seven.

0:52:43.320 --> 0:52:46.720
<v Speaker 1>But me now, congratulations on anything you got lobby boys,

0:52:46.719 --> 0:52:49.400
<v Speaker 1>you got kissing talk, you've got this pilot. Butte, what

0:52:49.440 --> 0:52:51.480
<v Speaker 1>else do we know about a little bit everything? I'm

0:52:51.760 --> 0:52:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm on a lip service with y'all. I know, But

0:52:54.200 --> 0:52:57.279
<v Speaker 1>what you always have when I tell you hust so

0:52:57.440 --> 0:53:00.359
<v Speaker 1>hard is since you came out with that, its never

0:53:00.400 --> 0:53:03.439
<v Speaker 1>stopped stop hustling. That's the whole thing. We gotta keep going.

0:53:03.440 --> 0:53:05.560
<v Speaker 1>We gotta figure it out. And I like now better

0:53:05.560 --> 0:53:07.640
<v Speaker 1>than ever. I like the times that we in now

0:53:07.719 --> 0:53:10.839
<v Speaker 1>bet than ever because of the social media and everything, Like,

0:53:11.239 --> 0:53:13.640
<v Speaker 1>you can have different components. I can have the podcast

0:53:13.680 --> 0:53:15.200
<v Speaker 1>and still go on the studio with Jim and make

0:53:15.200 --> 0:53:16.800
<v Speaker 1>a whole album and go get a deal for it

0:53:16.880 --> 0:53:18.799
<v Speaker 1>and put that out and still go overhead and do

0:53:19.080 --> 0:53:21.200
<v Speaker 1>in you I need help with this book, right, I

0:53:21.200 --> 0:53:23.720
<v Speaker 1>could still do all these things and have these different

0:53:23.719 --> 0:53:26.719
<v Speaker 1>components as a brand, as a hustler. We don't have

0:53:26.760 --> 0:53:29.759
<v Speaker 1>to stay in one in one place. You know. I

0:53:29.800 --> 0:53:31.440
<v Speaker 1>think years ago when you was a rapper, you was

0:53:31.480 --> 0:53:33.560
<v Speaker 1>just a rapper, you know what I mean, and you

0:53:33.600 --> 0:53:36.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't do as many different things. I mean, the smart

0:53:36.640 --> 0:53:39.200
<v Speaker 1>ones did many things, so you know, and you've always

0:53:39.239 --> 0:53:42.319
<v Speaker 1>been into executive producing and creating your own content. That's

0:53:42.440 --> 0:53:45.840
<v Speaker 1>definitely from the beginning, you know, Yeah, definitely ownership and

0:53:46.160 --> 0:53:49.479
<v Speaker 1>get coming in the game shooting shoot it ourselves, Like yeah,

0:53:49.719 --> 0:53:52.800
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you have some ideas that got taken, Like, yeah,

0:53:54.120 --> 0:53:58.040
<v Speaker 1>I had this TV idea about me and Kimo Surreal

0:53:58.480 --> 0:54:01.560
<v Speaker 1>about the hip hop Police. Oh and that's happening, right,

0:54:01.880 --> 0:54:05.040
<v Speaker 1>I think that's happening. But that wasn't yours. That's somebody else's.

0:54:05.320 --> 0:54:08.319
<v Speaker 1>But I did, you know, and it's actually happening. I

0:54:08.320 --> 0:54:11.840
<v Speaker 1>think Derek Parker, who was original hip Hop Cop, actually

0:54:11.960 --> 0:54:13.960
<v Speaker 1>was years ago taking him to meet and so I

0:54:14.000 --> 0:54:16.000
<v Speaker 1>probably was too early on it, right, So I was

0:54:16.040 --> 0:54:18.560
<v Speaker 1>taking him to meeting and it was like, what are

0:54:18.560 --> 0:54:22.960
<v Speaker 1>you talking about? Man? I'm like, listen, every Cops show

0:54:23.840 --> 0:54:27.680
<v Speaker 1>it's based off of a real unit, right, all of

0:54:27.680 --> 0:54:31.800
<v Speaker 1>these units are real. There's one unit that is actually

0:54:31.840 --> 0:54:34.000
<v Speaker 1>happened in New York City that's real that we need

0:54:34.000 --> 0:54:36.319
<v Speaker 1>to show about. And I'm talking about the hip hop

0:54:37.000 --> 0:54:40.760
<v Speaker 1>cop thing, like the police that police the music business,

0:54:41.040 --> 0:54:45.200
<v Speaker 1>the entertainment world like that. And I don't even know that. Yeah,

0:54:46.640 --> 0:54:48.160
<v Speaker 1>I haven't met some of them before. I'd be coming

0:54:48.200 --> 0:54:53.160
<v Speaker 1>up the hip hop cop. Of course. It's interesting that

0:54:53.200 --> 0:54:55.120
<v Speaker 1>you would have a relationship where you could even really

0:54:55.160 --> 0:54:58.840
<v Speaker 1>speak like that to them, like how does that happen? Well, see,

0:54:58.880 --> 0:55:02.600
<v Speaker 1>he was right right, and he put the book out

0:55:02.600 --> 0:55:04.960
<v Speaker 1>to put the book out, So because he had put

0:55:05.000 --> 0:55:07.719
<v Speaker 1>that book out. I had went in and got some

0:55:07.840 --> 0:55:10.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, advice and information from him because when I

0:55:10.120 --> 0:55:12.440
<v Speaker 1>started writing and then I was taking him around, I

0:55:12.480 --> 0:55:14.080
<v Speaker 1>was trying to shop it because I felt like this

0:55:14.200 --> 0:55:17.440
<v Speaker 1>idea was was next level. But it's actually happened, and

0:55:17.480 --> 0:55:20.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, and it's and it's cool because it's it

0:55:20.120 --> 0:55:22.320
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make me feel no kind of way that it's

0:55:22.360 --> 0:55:24.839
<v Speaker 1>not my idea, but it makes me feel like I

0:55:24.880 --> 0:55:27.080
<v Speaker 1>was on the right track. So we just gotta keep going.

0:55:28.600 --> 0:55:30.880
<v Speaker 1>That's interesting. I feel like you had a lot of

0:55:30.920 --> 0:55:34.040
<v Speaker 1>ideas that I see happening now, what I mean. I've

0:55:34.040 --> 0:55:36.600
<v Speaker 1>seen some other stuff that we've had discussions about, Like

0:55:37.120 --> 0:55:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I know you had one um about plastic surgery. Oh yeah,

0:55:41.160 --> 0:55:44.719
<v Speaker 1>I did the whole documentary on the Bartenders in New York.

0:55:45.239 --> 0:55:48.799
<v Speaker 1>Actually shot that, Yeah, I actually shot that. I never

0:55:48.840 --> 0:55:51.279
<v Speaker 1>found that the right distribution. I couldn't. I could have

0:55:51.360 --> 0:55:53.640
<v Speaker 1>always put it out. I can still put it out,

0:55:54.040 --> 0:55:56.320
<v Speaker 1>but I wanted the right distribution on it, you know

0:55:56.360 --> 0:55:58.400
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. I didn't want to spend you know,

0:55:58.560 --> 0:56:01.400
<v Speaker 1>the money and the time and effort into doing it

0:56:01.440 --> 0:56:04.399
<v Speaker 1>and not having the right home. I mean, it's still live,

0:56:04.640 --> 0:56:07.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, Um, you know, every day we still, you know,

0:56:08.120 --> 0:56:10.759
<v Speaker 1>still trying to actively find the right home for it.

0:56:11.080 --> 0:56:12.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, I didn't want to just you gotta put

0:56:12.600 --> 0:56:15.520
<v Speaker 1>that out, Man's I know because I really, I really,

0:56:15.560 --> 0:56:18.120
<v Speaker 1>I really put some heart and soul into that. I

0:56:18.120 --> 0:56:21.080
<v Speaker 1>think you should have screening for it because at the

0:56:21.120 --> 0:56:23.040
<v Speaker 1>time it was But you know what I really need

0:56:23.080 --> 0:56:25.439
<v Speaker 1>to do though, what I need to do that with

0:56:25.480 --> 0:56:28.280
<v Speaker 1>that as I need to go back in and update

0:56:28.600 --> 0:56:33.000
<v Speaker 1>the things that happened since COVID, after COVID and how

0:56:33.000 --> 0:56:35.680
<v Speaker 1>it affected the clubs and what is it like today,

0:56:35.760 --> 0:56:38.719
<v Speaker 1>because you know it's been a change's going to change.

0:56:38.719 --> 0:56:41.600
<v Speaker 1>It's been a change. So yeah, it was you just

0:56:41.920 --> 0:56:44.560
<v Speaker 1>call a dollar at the time, all right, may now,

0:56:45.040 --> 0:56:48.000
<v Speaker 1>But as I always always working and we always appreciate you.

0:56:48.000 --> 0:56:50.399
<v Speaker 1>You know you are my still my BRF. I had

0:56:50.440 --> 0:56:54.120
<v Speaker 1>to motiate earlier, but we back the whill. We're back

0:56:54.200 --> 0:56:56.279
<v Speaker 1>everybody that everybody person that knows me. I'm like, I'm

0:56:56.280 --> 0:56:59.239
<v Speaker 1>going to see minute. Yeah, BRF, your best friends and

0:56:59.320 --> 0:57:02.880
<v Speaker 1>you can see why. Man, do you feel like every

0:57:02.880 --> 0:57:04.640
<v Speaker 1>girl you've ever been with you could double back if

0:57:04.640 --> 0:57:09.160
<v Speaker 1>you wanted to know some of them, some of them,

0:57:09.200 --> 0:57:11.759
<v Speaker 1>some of them you don't want to know. Some of

0:57:11.840 --> 0:57:14.480
<v Speaker 1>them don't want me. Really. Have you ever had your

0:57:14.480 --> 0:57:21.520
<v Speaker 1>heart broke? I want broke? Stepped on? Maybe? Yeah? Play

0:57:21.600 --> 0:57:25.720
<v Speaker 1>with yeah? I guess um. I don't think that every

0:57:25.760 --> 0:57:29.720
<v Speaker 1>girl wants to double back, you know, like, ain't you

0:57:30.000 --> 0:57:35.360
<v Speaker 1>you have a cried over a girl? It's okay? Yeah, yes, yes,

0:57:36.200 --> 0:57:44.800
<v Speaker 1>yes fucking right. I'm not gonna make you cry. I

0:57:44.800 --> 0:57:51.680
<v Speaker 1>don't cry make you cry? All right? Well that note,

0:57:51.840 --> 0:57:55.160
<v Speaker 1>we gotta go. Lip service. Thank you so much, man. No,

0:57:55.400 --> 0:57:58.280
<v Speaker 1>definitely a friend to all of us. We love you,

0:57:59.480 --> 0:58:00.280
<v Speaker 1>We love your yo.