1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:10,399 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all at all? 3 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 3: Soon given them bu. 4 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 4: Bus things and boozy listening to to. 5 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 5: I don't joy joy. 6 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 4: You know you love? You gotta turn. I can't. 7 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 5: Got to turn the mouth turn you probably got to 8 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 5: turn the mouth, the turn out, turn the word of 9 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 5: the mony. 10 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 4: Yo, look, come. 11 00:01:58,440 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 6: Come out your thing. 12 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are 13 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: listening to the voice, come on dig me now. One 14 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show man. 15 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 6: Oh man, oh man? 16 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 2: How many times I got to say that before I 17 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 2: get tired of it. I think it's gonna be a minute, folks. 18 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 2: I gotta be real with you, because boy, that's Steve Harvey, 19 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 2: got a radio show man. Clear indication of how God 20 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 2: can do some unexpected, wonderful things for you, how he 21 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 2: leads your life in directions that you never ever saw coming. 22 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 7: You know. 23 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 2: I was talking with somebody the other day and they 24 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 2: were talking about how man, they were young and they 25 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 2: were doing things, and they never knew that the things 26 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 2: that they were doing as a youngster would come and 27 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 2: help help form who they were today as an adult. 28 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 2: This guy is fifty years old. And you know the 29 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 2: same thing for you. If you look back on your 30 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 2: life and all of the things that you've done, it 31 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: helped shape you into who you are now. This is 32 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 2: provided now that you take the positive approach. Now when 33 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 2: I say look back at your life and see what 34 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: you've done, that doesn't mean dwell on the misfortunate moments, 35 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 2: because the misfortunate moments were necessary. 36 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 6: I know it. 37 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 2: It's hard to see that when it's happening to you, 38 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 2: but the unfortunate moments are necessary. You know, what really 39 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: makes you appreciate summer vacation is winter work. What really 40 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 2: makes you appreciate a walk on the beach is when 41 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 2: it's cold. 42 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 6: Is rain in our side. 43 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 2: What really makes you appreciate when you're up, it's because 44 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: you've been down. See if you were up all the time, 45 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: just the nature of us as human beings, we would 46 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 2: lose our appreciation for it because it becomes case arrah. 47 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 6: Whatever it is, what it is, what it is. 48 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 2: I'm just what you take it for granted, it becomes expected. 49 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 2: But what happens in life is it has so many 50 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 2: twisting turns, and then you learn how to deal with 51 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: those twisting turns, which makes you now a more experienced person. 52 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 2: And then when the sunny days come, man, you go, wow, 53 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 2: it's really nice outside. You really want to appreciate how 54 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 2: warm weather. Just stay in a bunch of cold weather 55 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 2: all the time. You know what I'm saying. I'm just 56 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 2: this is really simple and now allowing the analogies, but 57 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: it helps you along the way. Now here's what I 58 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 2: came to say today to everybody out there. 59 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 6: And this has helped me in my life. 60 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: I can't tell you what it's done for me, but 61 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 2: a lot of people are struggling with moving forward with 62 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 2: their future. Their future plans, their future goals, their future aspirations, 63 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 2: their future hopes, their future dreams, just simply your future wants. 64 00:04:59,160 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 6: A lot of people try. 65 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 2: I have a hard time mapping out their future, even 66 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 2: what I'm gonna do, what I'm gonna be, what I'm 67 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 2: gonna make, how I'm or go about it? 68 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 6: What do I do next? I want to share something 69 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 6: with you that I had. 70 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 2: To come to terms with the quickest way to lose 71 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 2: focus on your future is to keep focusing on your past. 72 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:24,239 Speaker 6: You know, It's like I said at the beginning. 73 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 2: You know, when I say It's wonderful to look at 74 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 2: your life and review it, because if you look at it, 75 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 2: it'll tell you it really helped shape inform you today 76 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 2: as the person you are now. If you look at 77 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 2: it in a positive sense. But if you dwell in 78 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 2: harp on the negative that's happened to you, then that 79 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 2: keeps you from seeing the good in the incident. Every 80 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 2: bad thing that's happened to you, that was a silver 81 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: lining behind it. 82 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 6: I know people who were on. 83 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 2: Drugs who finally, man just got sent to prison for 84 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 2: stealing because of their habit had sold dope. Well, he 85 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 2: went to prison. He told me one time, he says Steve. 86 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: He said, man, this is the best thing ever happened 87 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 2: to me to save my life. Now, most people would think, 88 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: how in the world is going to prison helpful for you? 89 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 2: The brother said, it saved my life. First of all, 90 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 2: it got me clean. He said, I've been clean for 91 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 2: five years from sitting in here. That's for starters. I'm clean. 92 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 2: I ain't stealing no more. I ain't putting myself in jeopardy, 93 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 2: and I ain't jeopardizing nobody else. 94 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 6: He said. 95 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 2: Now, man, I done went to college. I done got 96 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 2: a college degree. While I'm in here. Then he was 97 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 2: released from prison, and the brother's life was completely turned around. 98 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: He married, he got a family, he got a great job. 99 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 2: He go to work every day. He's a productive citizen. 100 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 6: I mean. 101 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 2: So he looks back on his incarceration, even his drug abuse, 102 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 2: and it taught him how to appreciate the things in 103 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:02,359 Speaker 2: life he had taken for granted and was missing because 104 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 2: he said, man, my life was just in a blur. 105 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 2: I didn't even know what was going on. He said, 106 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 2: Now I appreciate every day I wake up. That's what 107 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 2: I mean. Even in your missteps in life, there is 108 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 2: a purpose for the missteps. 109 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 6: Every time you fail, there was a reason for the failure. 110 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 6: See what I. 111 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 2: Had to do was I had to learn that all 112 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 2: of my failures taught me how to get back up. 113 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 2: So I became a very strong and tough person in 114 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 2: getting back up. And then I was down and out 115 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 2: so long that it taught me how to really appreciate 116 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 2: that up. And so I've taken all of that and 117 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: used it. Those experiences that happened to me, and I 118 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 2: became a more experienced person. 119 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,239 Speaker 6: So next time when. 120 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 2: People talk about me who don't know me, it don't 121 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 2: shake me, cause everybody not gonna like you. Man, you 122 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 2: might as well go and get on this train right now. 123 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 2: And so what I'm saying to you out there is 124 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: the quickest way to lose focus on your future is 125 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 2: to keep focusing on your past. Let it go. Yeah yeah, yeah, 126 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 2: he left. Sometimes the breakup is the blessing. I know 127 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 2: it's hard to break up because now you're loaning you 128 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 2: by yourself. But man, but wasn't you in misery when 129 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: you was in that? Weren't you in complete misery in that? 130 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 2: Now you kept asking God to fix it. But it 131 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 2: takes two people to fix a relationship. It don't just 132 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 2: take one. It take two to make a thing go right. 133 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: It take two to make it out of sight. You 134 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 2: really do have to have two people wanting a relationship 135 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 2: to work. It can't just be one person won a relationship. 136 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 2: So you can pray about the relationship all you want. 137 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 2: If the other person don't want you no more, it 138 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 2: ain't gonna act right. You can't make him do that. 139 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 2: Oh you can't make her do that. But you steady 140 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 2: asking God for a new relationship. But you are yet 141 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 2: to be grateful that you are in a position to 142 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 2: have a relationship. And you keep harping on the past. 143 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 2: You don't think you hear that. I'm just a dude 144 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 2: with a show and I hear it all the time. 145 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 2: Let it go, go forward. 146 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 6: It's over. 147 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 2: You made it, He bought you through it, you conquered, 148 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 2: you survived it. Why are you dwelling on it and 149 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 2: making it the cross around your neck when clearly he 150 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 2: had removed it for you. 151 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 6: Now, all you got to do is come on. 152 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 2: So if you sitting behind them walls, brothers and sisters, 153 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: I'm talking directly to you sometimes. Man, you just got 154 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 2: to get it right. All this repeat of fender business, 155 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 2: that's for? 156 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 6: Who is that for? 157 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 2: How ignorant can you be to keep giving your life 158 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 2: back to the penal system? Be free, man, walk the streets, 159 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 2: do the right thing. Ask God to help connect you. 160 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 2: He could do anything. You think he can't give you 161 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: a job? Are you serious? 162 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 8: Man? 163 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 6: Put some faith on it. Let's move forward, y'all. Let 164 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 6: it go. 165 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 1: Let's move you. 166 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 9: Morning show. 167 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, your undivided attention is needed right now. 168 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 2: I have a special announcement to me. It is the 169 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 2: beginning of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Which means there 170 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 2: will be an abundance of ignorance, some serious laughter today 171 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 2: because I've decided that today that Steve Harvey is gonna 172 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: go vintage Steve Harvey vintage, which means all the clo 173 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 2: questions anything directly with me, I will be delivering an 174 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:38,239 Speaker 2: answer in the form of ignorance. 175 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:40,559 Speaker 8: We're gonna get fired. 176 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: Which means, you know this is gonna be funny to 177 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 2: me even if it ain't to you. And I have 178 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 2: a high level of sense of humor, I happen to 179 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 2: know what is funny. Now, if you touch it, probably 180 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 2: need to turn your radio today. Touch your people, turn 181 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 2: your radio because it's about to pop off. It's about 182 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 2: to pop off. 183 00:10:58,240 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 6: Time you hit. 184 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 10: It, It's about the to pop the pop off. 185 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 6: Won't he do it? JR? 186 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 2: That's what's gonna be happening today. Warning Shirley Strawberry. 187 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 11: Hey, good morning Steve. Thanks for the warning. Thanks call 188 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 11: learning for real. 189 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 12: I'm ready, I guess good morning again, JR. 190 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:34,679 Speaker 10: Yayyyy, Tommy, one more time, were about to pop the 191 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 10: pop the pop off? 192 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 2: Now what you have been worn? Welcome to the ride. Yeah, yeah, 193 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 2: that was at the end right there. That was Yeah, 194 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 2: with James Thomas on the Y. 195 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 6: Man. All right, well Thursday, y'all scared, y' all I 196 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 6: want to talk. 197 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 11: About No, No, I'm not. I'm myself. 198 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, because if I know what vintage Steve Harvey is, I. 199 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 11: Know it's embarrassing. That's what it is. 200 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 2: You know, And that's that's a good thing. Sometimes you 201 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 2: need that in your life, some embarrassing moment. My mama 202 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 2: used to tell me that when we go to church, 203 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 2: don't embarrass me. And I sit my ass right over 204 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 2: there and do it, mouth full of candy, spit it out, 205 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 2: laughing at the visiting past. I didn't think nobody could preach, 206 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 2: but Bishop James L. Harton anybody else was a comedy 207 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 2: routine to be here. That was just came, he snorted. 208 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 6: I believe a god I would one day come back. 209 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 2: We would all be in the health and we all 210 00:12:55,840 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 2: you know, we're right, boy Floyd the ho was that. 211 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 6: The third snort? Paul Walker and butcher boy cousin. 212 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 2: We was leaving on E show to laugh and I 213 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 2: had so much cand here my mom. You know, I 214 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 2: was trying to keep my mouth prosing of chewing candy 215 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 2: so my mama couldn't see our head, candid juice all 216 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 2: down and crack of Mama. I was dripping on my suit, 217 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 2: was laughing so hard. 218 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 11: My embarrassed her. She asked you not to. All right, listen, 219 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 11: we got to move on, sir. 220 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 7: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 221 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 7: hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back 222 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 7: right after this. 223 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 9: You're listening hard morning show. 224 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 7: All right, guys, it is time now to run that 225 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 7: prank back with the nephew. 226 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 11: What you got f the church. 227 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 8: Parking lot here it is, Come on care. 228 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 13: Hello, this is Brendan. 229 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 10: Uh yeah, Brendan, Hey, trying to reach you. How you 230 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 10: doing uh Britain. I want to make sure I got 231 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 10: the right person. You're the person that uh you work 232 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 10: at the at the first of all, I go to 233 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 10: uh my name, my name is Calvin, got brother Calvin. 234 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 10: But I go to uh sat Missionary Baptist Church where 235 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 10: you yeah? 236 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 13: So yeah, so everything all right. 237 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 10: Everything fine, Well, I got a little issue and I'm 238 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 10: trying to get to the bottom of it. 239 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 8: Now. 240 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 10: You work in the before service start. You work in 241 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 10: the parking lot on and yeah yeah, and you tell 242 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 10: people where the park and stuff right right, right, what. 243 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 13: You looking for some employment? You want to you want 244 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 13: to join us? 245 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 10: No, no, no, what to see the issue I got, man, 246 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 10: I've been dealing with this probably about the last two 247 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 10: months now that okay, hold on, I'm trying to tell you. 248 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 10: So the problem is when I come to the church 249 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 10: last couple of months, man, I've been I've been coming 250 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 10: like my my my my regular card and broke down 251 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 10: on me. So I had I got an old van that. 252 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 13: I've been about that. 253 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, you know, I got old van and I've 254 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 8: been using to get around in. 255 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 10: So now for the last two months, I've been riding 256 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 10: in it when I come into the church. You know 257 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 10: you and I find out who you were, but you 258 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 10: keep sending me to the back of the parking lot. 259 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 10: And then but you know I noticed, now, no, brother, 260 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 10: not on the real So you sending me to the back, 261 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 10: and I'm noticing when I see cars that's like two ten, 262 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 10: twenty fifteen cars. 263 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 13: Well, brother, well listen, we don't have no set place 264 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 13: where we put model car. You know, I just direct 265 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 13: the traffic. 266 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 10: Brother, Okay, So so you're trying to tell me. For 267 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 10: the last two months, you just direct traffic. But you 268 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 10: got but you directed me to the back every time. 269 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 10: But a car behind me or a car in front 270 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 10: of me, it'll be going to the front. 271 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 13: Now where you getting this information from me? 272 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 10: I didn't seen you man or send people to the 273 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 10: front to park. I hadn't seen you do. 274 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 13: No. No, I just I just put you know, the 275 00:15:56,840 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 13: bigger vehicles in the in the back and uh certain 276 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 13: you know it's really no schedule if if you come in, 277 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 13: I just I just direct you to the right of 278 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 13: the left. It's really nothing to it. 279 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 10: Really, So you're not trying to say so my my 280 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 10: van being raggedy ain't the reason why I'm. 281 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 13: Be No, no, no, no, no, no, that's not what 282 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 13: we're about. Now, Okay, I'm sorry you feel that way. 283 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 13: I mean, so I guess this Sunday. 284 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 10: Let me let me I'm gonna tell you about this Sunday, Michael, 285 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 10: make sure, no, no, let me tell you right now 286 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 10: when my van pull up there Sunday. I'm gonna tell 287 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 10: you right now, if I get sent to the back, 288 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 10: I'm gonna tell you right now, it's gonna be no, 289 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 10: it's gonna be a problem if I get. 290 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 8: Sent to the back. 291 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 13: You know, now, you don't have to cuss up. Just this, 292 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 13: calm down, it's not it's not that serious. 293 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 10: No, it is serious. See what already know. I know 294 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 10: I got a ragged ass van. 295 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 1: I know that. 296 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 10: I know that, but I see that's the reason why 297 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 10: I'm getting sent to the back. And I know it 298 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 10: because the car I had before y'all were sending me 299 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 10: up front. 300 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 8: So already know. I'm just saying. 301 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 10: I'm telling you right now, Brendan, I'm telling you right now, 302 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 10: it's gonna be a problem if I get sent to 303 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 10: the back. 304 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:07,199 Speaker 13: Brother, you just singled me out, and no, no, or 305 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 13: did you? 306 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 10: I didn't single you out? You you are the person 307 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 10: that has been sending me to the back, Dude, No, 308 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,679 Speaker 10: I haven't. Hey, man, why you keep Why are you 309 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 10: sending it? 310 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:18,439 Speaker 13: Why are you accusing me? 311 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 8: I'm thank because I didn't seen it. 312 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 14: No you are. 313 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 13: You're calling me. You're calling me out of the blue, 314 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 13: and you accuse me of something that I'm not doing. 315 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 8: No, No, you just sent my ragged ass band to 316 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 8: the back. 317 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 10: You dodnet done it. You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan, 318 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 10: you have. 319 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 13: Done having Yes, you have. 320 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 10: You sent all the Preda cars up front. That's what 321 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 10: you're doing. But I tell you what comes sound is 322 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 10: gonna build a problem. 323 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:42,119 Speaker 8: You're threatened me. 324 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 13: I mean now now listen, we we we can meet 325 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 13: up at it. We can meet up there to be 326 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 13: for any cars get there? How about that? 327 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 8: I don't care how you want to do it, Brendon. 328 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 13: You actually do know how you want to do it, 329 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 13: So bring it then. 330 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 8: Okay, I'm letting you know my car, yea, my van 331 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 8: gonna build. 332 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 13: Frock comes give bent get band. It's me and you. 333 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:00,479 Speaker 13: How about that? You want you you want to talk 334 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 13: to Tony stuff? 335 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 8: Oh okay, so you are you sweating all up? 336 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 6: Now? 337 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 8: All right? 338 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 13: So now like you already did so, I guess I'm. 339 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 8: Making Okay, Well, no, I'm going to call. 340 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 13: Listen, brother, brother, listen, you're not gonna call my phone 341 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 13: and threaten me and tell me what you what you 342 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 13: think I did? When I didn't do it. 343 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 10: I told you, man, you've been sending me to the 344 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 10: damn back man. 345 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 13: That's what we passed, what you thought. 346 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 8: Okay, that's what it is. No, it's what I know. 347 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 8: It's what I know, Brendan, it's what I know. Okay, 348 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 8: you didn't you didn't sit where you're at right now. Okay, 349 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 8: you know you know work, you know what. I'll tell 350 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 8: you what you are right now, Come sunny. That's it's 351 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 8: damn brend. 352 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 13: No, no, no, no, no, no, no. How about what 353 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 13: you're doing right now? 354 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:38,879 Speaker 8: What you mean what I'm doing right now? I'm at 355 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 8: work right now? 356 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 13: Ohh So you at work calling me about some bull 357 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 13: parking spot? 358 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,400 Speaker 8: Oh okay, Oh look at the cussing Christian. 359 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 13: Now look at you. No, look at the cuss No 360 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 13: you no, no, no, matter of fact you Okay, if 361 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 13: you want to do something, let's do it now. 362 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 8: Parking lot. 363 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:56,479 Speaker 13: I don't I don't care. 364 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:57,639 Speaker 8: We'll be at okay. 365 00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 13: Okay, that's one thing you're not gonna do. 366 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 6: Is this just me? 367 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 13: I'm telling you that right now, Brother, Calvin, you bring, 368 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 13: I'm gonna fold you like a wet piece of paper. 369 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:08,360 Speaker 13: You don't know who you with? Okay. I didn't been 370 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 13: locked up six seven years. I'm just in the church 371 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 13: trying to get my life together. And you said you're 372 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 13: just gonna talk to me. You got another thing coming, brother, 373 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 13: I'm gonna tell you that right now. So if you 374 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 13: want to get it off, meet me in the parking 375 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 13: lot right now. I give you an hour to get 376 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 13: there your piece tonight. 377 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 10: Now you're trying to scare me with your God, with 378 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 10: your background. What it is you're trying to scare me 379 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,159 Speaker 10: with your background or something like EVI then you I 380 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 10: ain't know you had been in jail. 381 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 13: With the wrong one. 382 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 10: I'm just gonna say this. Do you know Lester that 383 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 10: that also want he also had a cars parking. 384 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 13: Would you dry by yourself out of this you're talking 385 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 13: about I know a lesser? 386 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 10: Okay, okay, Leicester is the person to tell me to 387 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 10: call you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby 388 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 10: Morning Brenda, your boy Lester in the parking lot, got 389 00:19:54,480 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 10: me the front from the car. Yeah, I brought the 390 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 10: lockdown out there? 391 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 8: You man? Did I bring the lockdown out there? 392 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 13: Strangles? Y'all got me out here talking recklessly. I should 393 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 13: have cast it this way. 394 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 10: By hanging there, bro, and then do this for me, man, 395 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:21,719 Speaker 10: tell me this. What is the baddest and I mean 396 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:23,639 Speaker 10: the baddest radio show in the land. 397 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:25,679 Speaker 13: Man, It's Steve Harvey Radio. 398 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 6: Man. 399 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 10: Hey, man, if you see somebody's Sunday pull up in 400 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 10: a van, show them some love, baby, show them some love. 401 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,360 Speaker 13: I might have to call out just wed, my heart 402 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 13: can't take you. 403 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 11: I know where you're going. 404 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 7: Coming up next, it is Ask the Clo with our 405 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 7: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey and the Building for your 406 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 7: Love Questions. Right you're listening, shoot Steve Harvey Morning show 407 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 7: Time Now for Usk the Clo. This one is from 408 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 7: Frida in Jacksonville. I'm a twenty eight year old single woman, 409 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 7: free to set and a man that lives in my 410 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 7: apartment complex invited me to game night at his place. 411 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 7: It was just the two of us and we played 412 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 7: Uno and drank a lot of tequila. The rules were, 413 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 7: whoever loses has to take off, you know, a piece 414 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 7: of clothes. Okay, I lost two games and I ended 415 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 7: up in my panties and my bra. When it got late, 416 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 7: he told me to get dressed so he could walk 417 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 7: me home. Nothing happened, not even a kiss on the cheek. 418 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 7: Was he turned off by me? 419 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 11: Or was he being a gentleman? 420 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 2: Well, let's talk about a couple days. They're I don't know, naked, 421 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:59,919 Speaker 2: and you're sitting up in brown panties. He made up 422 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:04,120 Speaker 2: rule yeah, and when you took all your clothes off, 423 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 2: he said, all right, that's it. 424 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 6: Put everything on. 425 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 1: You're pretty nice, Seela, see you some all the time. 426 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 6: Well, let me ask you something. 427 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 2: When you pulled your clothes off of you completely comfortable. 428 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,439 Speaker 11: At least she sounds like she was Steve. 429 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 7: She was really Yeah, she said I lost two games 430 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 7: and I ended up in my panties in bra. 431 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 6: Okay, Well she didn't say if he lost any games. 432 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 2: So let's just look at this. Let's take the road 433 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 2: that I think. It depends if you're twenty eight, it 434 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 2: depends on how old he is, If he over forty, 435 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 2: it's game. Yeah, he played you and you just gonna 436 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 2: he just gonna see where it would go. And he 437 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 2: playing it. Now, next come on there and you take 438 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 2: them off. 439 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 6: I can't tell you. 440 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 2: I can't promise you nothing, nothing to that if you 441 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 2: come back up in there, if I invite you the 442 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 2: game night again, and yeah, sure we ain't got to 443 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 2: play no cards this time. 444 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 6: All to be seeing one of them, that could be it. 445 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 7: Well, she sounded like she was disappointed. Nothing happened, not 446 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 7: even a kiss on the cheek. 447 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 6: Well, you know. 448 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 2: You just I haven't seen you, so only you can 449 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 2: answer this question. But you could send us when you 450 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 2: saw yourself sitting if you was him and you saw 451 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 2: you sitting over there in some panties and a brawl 452 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 2: twenty eight, what would you do twenty eight? 453 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 11: At twenty eight. 454 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 1: This sounds like it was really naked and afraid. 455 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:50,880 Speaker 8: It really do sound. 456 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,640 Speaker 2: Like when I was twenty eight, I wouldn't have given 457 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 2: a damn what you look like it would have been. 458 00:23:56,000 --> 00:24:00,119 Speaker 2: I would have felt obligated at this point your duty. 459 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 2: This looks like something I must do. 460 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 11: But how is she not fine at twenty eight? 461 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 8: Though? 462 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 11: Twenty eight? Twenty eight? 463 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 2: Some people ain't fine at Shirley, Shirley. When you graduated, 464 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,360 Speaker 2: you was about eighteen, as all of. 465 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:17,200 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah. 466 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:21,679 Speaker 2: When you went to your ten year reunion, did you 467 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,439 Speaker 2: not go what the hell? 468 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, holy hell? 469 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 11: At ten years years? 470 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Lloyd Freeman. 471 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:40,120 Speaker 1: Looking a mess. 472 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 6: Lloyd had full teeth missing in the front, all the top. 473 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 10: Just ten years later, I'm going to tell you ain't 474 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,439 Speaker 10: get no tea for the reunion. 475 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 7: Lauren in the DMV says, I'm in my mid thirty 476 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 7: and I'm dating a fine man I met at church. 477 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 7: We're both in the choir, and I had a question 478 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,360 Speaker 7: on him for a while, but then I heard he 479 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 7: wasn't interested in females. Well, he asked me out a 480 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 7: few months ago, and now we're dating. Other choir members 481 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,479 Speaker 7: give me the side eye when they see us together, 482 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 7: and it makes me unsure about my man. We've had sex, 483 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 7: so I know he's into me, But how can I 484 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 7: tell if he's got other interests too? 485 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,159 Speaker 6: Well, everybody else knows you. That's it. 486 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,639 Speaker 8: Yeah, we're not preaching to the choir. 487 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 6: You in the choir and who looking at you? 488 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:37,200 Speaker 11: Side? 489 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 15: Ay? 490 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 11: All right now, choir members. 491 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, you know he. 492 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 2: Might be changing his ways, but he picked you to 493 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 2: change with. Should it could have happened? 494 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 7: Well? Mo and Gary Indiana says, I'm a forty four 495 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,439 Speaker 7: year old married woman and I need to know why 496 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 7: my husband's underwear disappearing. He had started going back to 497 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 7: the gym after work and when he gets home, he 498 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 7: drops his clothes on the floor and he takes a shower. 499 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 7: I've been picking up this man's clothes and washing them 500 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 7: for nine years, and I can't figure out why some 501 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 7: days there's no underwear on the floor or in his 502 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 7: gym bag. My intuition says, something strange is going on, 503 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 7: and he's hiding his underwear from me. 504 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:26,400 Speaker 2: What do you think no one or two things can 505 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 2: be happening. I have taken off a pair of draws. Yeah, 506 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 2: in my life. 507 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 8: Here we go. 508 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 2: Well, I had to immediately take out back, tell them 509 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 2: and start a fire. 510 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 6: And get them draws off flame. 511 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 2: I knew he held well not to put them in 512 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:57,680 Speaker 2: my mama washing machine. Yeah, but I was gonna spawn 513 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 2: all the clothes in the water. Can't run up and 514 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 2: down the floor playing basketball. 515 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 6: Them things, and that would would ruin some things. 516 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 2: Now the other other time, back in my wild days 517 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,680 Speaker 2: when I was wild, and yeah, some of them draws 518 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,399 Speaker 2: couldn't come back to the house. 519 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 6: Either, because it just ever did. 520 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 14: It? 521 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 16: You know? 522 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,640 Speaker 6: Telling what's on these draws? 523 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 10: Running that blue light over that. 524 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 2: I can't explain nothing on these draws, hand prints, make up? 525 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, what is this stuff? I could not so Chamber 526 00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 6: two things. 527 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 2: Are you either working out really hard he's embarrassed or 528 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 2: he's working out real hard and he's in bad. 529 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Clo. 530 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 11: You're listening. 531 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 9: Morning show. 532 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 7: All right, Jay, it is time for one of our 533 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 7: favorite segments, comedy roulette. 534 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 1: Why do we do that, Jay, because. 535 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 17: Because juniors comedian comedian. 536 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 1: Let's show number one. 537 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 7: Things people say who've been in jail a long time. 538 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 11: Okay, get this one, guys. Directions that black people give 539 00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 11: you all. 540 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 7: Right, okay, okay, excuses men say when they're not getting 541 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 7: a lot of sex all day, that for a hour. 542 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 7: If you want, some people say, who don't have cable? 543 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 7: That's another girl, all right. 544 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 18: It's funny. Oh this is unusual. 545 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 11: It's step down directions that black people get. 546 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 1: Definitely, black people give different directions. 547 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 11: What do you mean jay? Here though? 548 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 17: What you want to do is do you know where 549 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:33,719 Speaker 17: the Baptist church used to be? 550 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 6: You don't know where it. 551 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 8: Used to be. 552 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 17: You're not gonna find it. 553 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: Okay. 554 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 8: I know a lot about this because I am. 555 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 12: Black, so I do have a I do know some 556 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 12: directions that black people here. This is also a direction 557 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:56,640 Speaker 12: when you back it up. 558 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 8: Come on, come on, come on, come on back, come 559 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 8: on back, come on, you. 560 00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: Come on, o union. You got it on this side? Yeah, yeah, 561 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 1: come on. Hold what you. 562 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 8: Got that's what you're looking for right there, that's the 563 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 8: whole what you got direction people give all Now, look, 564 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 8: this is what you want to do. 565 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 10: Now you want to go down here to the second 566 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 10: stop time you're gonna mend the left right there, go 567 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 10: down to the next block. I don't know what street 568 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 10: that is, but go down to the next block. It's 569 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 10: the store there. Go in that store and ask for Lucky, 570 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 10: and Lucky know how to get. 571 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 8: Come on, see. 572 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 6: All is right down there across from Earl Neil. 573 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 8: That's what people say. 574 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, come on, directions and black people give you jay. 575 00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 8: We're different with. 576 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 17: You're gonna go down a bit ways and you're gonna 577 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 17: see an old man sitting on the porch. If he 578 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,720 Speaker 17: ain't on the porch, you just keep driving or wait 579 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,960 Speaker 17: till he come out, and then you make the left 580 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 17: right there. 581 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 1: You can't miss. 582 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,479 Speaker 11: It right during that. 583 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 12: This is a direction step Black people give you what 584 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 12: you mean. You don't know where we're at. We at 585 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:33,479 Speaker 12: the same place where Liddy was shot right there. How 586 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 12: come you home with him? You've been when Liddy got shot. 587 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 12: I was there, Keith was said down with that. We 588 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 12: the exact same spot with when Liddy got shot. My god, 589 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 12: this is what you want to do. Take this road, 590 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 12: this road, Take this road, this road. 591 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 6: It take this road. 592 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,239 Speaker 10: It you go down that road. Now this here is 593 00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 10: is uh asphalt. Now wait, do you see your dirt road. 594 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 10: You see a dirt road that way, you make your right. 595 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 10: You are to see the house coming up on the 596 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 10: right side. If you go further than that, you might 597 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,360 Speaker 10: see a clan round and that means you went too far. 598 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 8: You might want to back it up. You might want 599 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 8: to back it up. 600 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 1: Directions that black people give make enough. 601 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 2: When you get down there and see the big black 602 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 2: tree that got the squirrels in. 603 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,800 Speaker 1: It, and you got to be looking. 604 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 17: The directions, Yes, he go here, go right here. How 605 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 17: much gas you got in your car? Because you ain't 606 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 17: gonna make it on half a tank. You're gonna need 607 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 17: to have a whole full tank of gas. 608 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 6: To get what. 609 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 8: I got it. 610 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 12: These are directions that black people give you. Okay, you 611 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 12: coming to the Fan of Reunion, follow the north. 612 00:32:58,360 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 8: Star till the run into Sherylf House. 613 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 6: People. 614 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 10: Yeah, all right, all right, you're trying to get your 615 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 10: convention center. Thats where you're trying to go. Let me 616 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 10: tell you what you need to do. I can't get 617 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 10: you there, but I can get you there for them 618 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 10: to do what I need. 619 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 1: You to do. 620 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 10: Take Maine, get your main if you go down nine 621 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 10: uh uh the second street. I think commerce, commerce and name. 622 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 10: It's a girl named Glitter. That's the prostitute right there 623 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 10: on the car. 624 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:29,760 Speaker 4: Glitter. 625 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 8: Get Glitter in that car and Glitter. 626 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 6: Know how to get you to that convention. 627 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 9: Thank you Glitter? 628 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 4: All right? 629 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 6: Direction, all right? 630 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 2: You go all the way down now to you'll see 631 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 2: black people no more. Then come back two blocks black people. 632 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 6: Get it hig bigger, right. 633 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 17: Kenny, Kenny, it's a man out hit lost. 634 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:10,360 Speaker 6: I didn't even know how to get that. 635 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 2: Come out breath, Okay, Going down all the way to 636 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 2: the rock, the rock. Get down at that rock, make 637 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 2: a right pulling that gas station on that corner. Now, 638 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,280 Speaker 2: it's an old woman in there that's selling Barbyq sandwich. 639 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 2: You got to buy a Barbyque sandwich from her. 640 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 6: Then't ask her question where you're trying to. 641 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 2: If you don't buy a sandwich, that's just gonna be 642 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 2: stepping in there. 643 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 7: And that lady concludes comedy Roulette for today. 644 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:53,279 Speaker 8: We'll be back. 645 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, right after this. 646 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 7: You're listening morning show. All right, it is time now 647 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 7: for a rounded. Would you rather, guys, would you rather 648 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:07,280 Speaker 7: have a missing tooth on the side or a full 649 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:08,879 Speaker 7: chest of gray hair? 650 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,320 Speaker 6: Give me b Yeah, I'm gonna take you want that, don't. 651 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 2: Take that chest full of gray hair. I'm making sex 652 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 2: out wear black shirts with it. Who salt? I got 653 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,399 Speaker 2: to have that tooth though. You know, I'm talking about 654 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 2: the wall where you can have a cigarette dangling off 655 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 2: the side of your mouth in that flot. 656 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 11: That is not sexy. 657 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 8: That's a visual. We all got it right. 658 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 6: Down, all right. 659 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 7: Would you rather take a guaranteed five hundred thousand dollars? 660 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,839 Speaker 7: Are guaranteed five hundred thousand dollars? Or would you rather 661 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 7: a chance at getting one million dollars? 662 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:53,319 Speaker 8: Would they say? 663 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,320 Speaker 1: One hand be two in the bush. 664 00:35:55,560 --> 00:36:00,080 Speaker 11: That's why, sure thing I can flip that. 665 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 8: I'll take the hash. 666 00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 11: Can't make a die, make a nickel. 667 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna definitely take that hand. 668 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:09,839 Speaker 1: All right, all right? 669 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 11: Would you rather have stinky breath or stinky feet? 670 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 6: Yeah? B, I put them in them shoes I got, 671 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,799 Speaker 6: I got shoes. I get through fishing. I can't even 672 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:21,640 Speaker 6: take my damn. 673 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 11: Boots off like that. 674 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 19: Yeah, I'm going with bee, Yeah, B all. 675 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,239 Speaker 2: Right, the gym got through working out and took them 676 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:37,760 Speaker 2: shoes off, But at least you have to unleash them. 677 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 6: A problem with bad breath is it is you? 678 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:48,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, you've never heard nobody go like people go, man, 679 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:49,319 Speaker 2: whose feet is that? 680 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 6: You know? Ain't nobody would? Who breath? 681 00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 10: Is that? 682 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 1: They know? 683 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 2: You open your mouth and used to hut talking and 684 00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 2: we were affected. 685 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:02,800 Speaker 11: And what about the mask? The mask? 686 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,640 Speaker 2: Well you know that bad Breaference rough Man, because if 687 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 2: you put that mask on, you actually knocked your own 688 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:09,799 Speaker 2: ass out. 689 00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 8: And there's some people just not knowing it was them. 690 00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 6: I can't wait. This is another. Ain't gonna finish the 691 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:22,359 Speaker 6: day out right here? 692 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 4: All right? 693 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:25,680 Speaker 11: Last one? 694 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 7: Would you rather have a constant sinus headache? Constant sinus 695 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,880 Speaker 7: headache or constant itching down there? 696 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,239 Speaker 16: I'm just I'm just gonna be stopped up all the 697 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:43,719 Speaker 16: way stopped up. No sis headache. No, well, I'm just 698 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 16: I'm gonna just be digging. Damn you can dig and 699 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,320 Speaker 16: I help dog. I'm talking about look. 700 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 6: At making eye contact? 701 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,640 Speaker 1: What you want that. 702 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:56,720 Speaker 11: You're listening? 703 00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 9: Morning show time? 704 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 7: Now to check Steve's voicemail. If you want to leave 705 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 7: Steve a message, call him eight seven seven twenty nine. 706 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 11: Steve. All right, So Steve. 707 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,440 Speaker 7: Recently we talked about the new dating term on the 708 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 7: dating apps called ethical non monogamy you guys remember that 709 00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,200 Speaker 7: from the other day. It's a practice of having a 710 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 7: closer sexual relationship where both parties consent to the infidelity. 711 00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,359 Speaker 7: In other words, I'll tell you that I'm married and 712 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,319 Speaker 7: you agree to sleep with me anyway, Swinging, open relationships, 713 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 7: all that polyamory all fall under the umbrella of ethical 714 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,840 Speaker 7: non monogamy. So we have a caller that left a 715 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:36,920 Speaker 7: message about our discussion on the subject. 716 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 9: Take a listen, So y'all. 717 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:43,680 Speaker 15: Are talking about ethical non monogamy and call them at cheating. 718 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 15: And I'm going to let y'all know right now you're 719 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:49,920 Speaker 15: very much showing your age. 720 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 14: Just in times of it all. 721 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,120 Speaker 15: If you don't want to do it, then don't but 722 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 15: call us I'm cheating and changing the terms, because again, 723 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:04,560 Speaker 15: what is monogony monogymy saying partnership ethical nominogamy? You're saying 724 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,839 Speaker 15: that you don't want now is it something that I 725 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 15: want to do? So I get jealous? I don't feel 726 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 15: like sharing. Is it something that I almost to hear 727 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 15: in clowns because I don't want to do it? Now 728 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 15: I understanding that it's just not for me. Y'all are 729 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,760 Speaker 15: very much showing your age and insisting that something is cheating. 730 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 15: When you are open with your partner and discussing the 731 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,040 Speaker 15: fact that neither of you want to just be with 732 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:32,000 Speaker 15: one person is not cheating. Not the first time I 733 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,040 Speaker 15: saw something that I don't understand, probably not gonna be 734 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 15: the last time. But again, being ethically non monogamous means 735 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 15: you're quite literally let your partner know that we're not 736 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 15: the only people together. You both know that you both 737 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:46,759 Speaker 15: have that agreement and. 738 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 4: It works for them. 739 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,040 Speaker 15: If it works for them and it doesn't work for you, 740 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,600 Speaker 15: leave it alone. Simple as that. Don't folk call on 741 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 15: something cheat and cheating. 742 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:55,360 Speaker 3: This is not cheating. 743 00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 15: Cheating is lies. 744 00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:57,880 Speaker 1: Cheating involves lines. 745 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,920 Speaker 15: If it does not involve lighting line, it's not you. 746 00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 2: I appreciate you calling in and telling us we're showing 747 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,480 Speaker 2: our age because well we have the age to show. 748 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:11,520 Speaker 2: Your ass is showing yours because you don't listen. The 749 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,560 Speaker 2: lady that wrote the letter and called in did not 750 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:18,719 Speaker 2: say they partner knew about it. They said that's what 751 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:23,840 Speaker 2: they were practicing. There are sites on where married people 752 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,319 Speaker 2: are on there putting it out there for the other 753 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 2: person to partake in them and letting them know that 754 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 2: they're married and their partner knows nothing about it. That's 755 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:36,239 Speaker 2: what the phone call was about. So when you call 756 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:39,319 Speaker 2: here talking about somebody showing they age, make sure yo, 757 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 2: the last I ain't showing yours too. So learn to listen, 758 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,080 Speaker 2: because that's what it takes when you come after me, 759 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:51,239 Speaker 2: y'all showing y'all age. Now, look, if y'all swingers, we 760 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 2: know what swingers is. We was doing when this was 761 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,080 Speaker 2: around for your young ass was born. Now have you 762 00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,320 Speaker 2: got another couple of y'all going out to the club. 763 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,239 Speaker 2: Now you want to swing? We know what that is. 764 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,840 Speaker 2: That ain't what the damn call was talking about. But 765 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,839 Speaker 2: you didn't listen to that. You heard the part you 766 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:10,719 Speaker 2: on it, and now you want to call it and be 767 00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:14,800 Speaker 2: critical because we old. Old is the goal and maybe 768 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,960 Speaker 2: one day your ass to get older and have some 769 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 2: damn sense too. Sitting up in here and I'll be 770 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 2: listening to this stuff, and I'm sorry, lady, but you're 771 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 2: on the back end of my work week because I 772 00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:29,800 Speaker 2: work for young people. That family few say stupid sugar 773 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,360 Speaker 2: hundred ice teeth all. 774 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 6: Damn day long. 775 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 2: And I got to sit there because HR just riding 776 00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 2: the corner and I gotta act like I'm okay with that. 777 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:40,360 Speaker 14: What I. 778 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:45,400 Speaker 2: And you done walked up into the hornet's nest while 779 00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:49,280 Speaker 2: the hornet was sitting outside reading the paper and buzz 780 00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:55,799 Speaker 2: stanging your ass. All right, I can ty the young 781 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,440 Speaker 2: people because we old, we stupid, and we don't know 782 00:41:58,480 --> 00:41:59,400 Speaker 2: how to look at stuff. 783 00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,240 Speaker 6: Y'all can come up with all these new ass titles. 784 00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:03,160 Speaker 9: You won't do, Brian. 785 00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 6: It's called cheat the hell it is man. 786 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:13,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's an agreement between the people who are going 787 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:16,359 Speaker 7: to be cheating with the or seeing each other. They 788 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 7: didn't say anything about the their telling their partners or 789 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 7: anything like that. 790 00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:24,359 Speaker 2: That's surely definite, even what the call was that though, 791 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,000 Speaker 2: you all want to light us up because her dumb 792 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,840 Speaker 2: ass is some relationship and some man that told her 793 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,120 Speaker 2: he's seeing somebody else. 794 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,799 Speaker 6: No, her dumb ass trying to be okay with what you. 795 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:48,480 Speaker 7: Call he's uninformed. Coming up next, the nephew with the 796 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:52,040 Speaker 7: frank phone call for today right after this You're listening 797 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:57,280 Speaker 7: morning show coming up at the top of the hour, 798 00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:00,400 Speaker 7: right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today. 799 00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:04,439 Speaker 7: The subject he facetimes me when he's with her. 800 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:09,399 Speaker 11: Huh. We'll get into that and just a few. 801 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,759 Speaker 7: But right now the nephew is here with today's frank 802 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 7: phone call. 803 00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:15,280 Speaker 11: What you got for us, nest? 804 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:23,360 Speaker 10: Surely it is PSC ps C. That is pro State Checker, 805 00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:25,720 Speaker 10: pros State Checker. 806 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,040 Speaker 11: Okay, you going in? 807 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:33,799 Speaker 10: Huh yeah, I'm going I'm going in PSC. All right, 808 00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:38,160 Speaker 10: all right, let's go get o PSC pros State check. 809 00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:40,000 Speaker 13: Hello. 810 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:44,719 Speaker 14: Hello, I'm trying to reach a Roger. Hi. My name 811 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,360 Speaker 14: is Greg. I'm a PSC. I got you on my schedule. 812 00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,239 Speaker 14: I'm supposed to come by your house tomorrow morning at 813 00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,160 Speaker 14: about seven to fifteen. I just want to give you 814 00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 14: a call and give your heads up and let you 815 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,600 Speaker 14: know we will be there about seven to fifteen. From 816 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,239 Speaker 14: my understanding, you go to work yet, Oh you say 817 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,759 Speaker 14: I'm a PS See, sir, I'll be there. I'll be 818 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,440 Speaker 14: there tomorrow. I got you on my schedule for Monday morning, 819 00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,080 Speaker 14: and I'll be there at least about seven to fifteen. 820 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 14: From my understanding, you go to work at seven thirty, 821 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,439 Speaker 14: and my proceed is only going to take a couple 822 00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,239 Speaker 14: of minutes. But I wanted to do a friendly call 823 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:15,520 Speaker 14: and let you know that I will be by there 824 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:16,160 Speaker 14: tomorrow morning. 825 00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:18,480 Speaker 20: What's the PSC PFC. 826 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:20,480 Speaker 21: What's you say a PSC PSC? 827 00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 14: Sir, PSC, I will be there tomorrow. I've been in 828 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:26,799 Speaker 14: business probably for the last I guess about thirteen fourteen years. 829 00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 21: Now. 830 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,000 Speaker 20: What is PSC specialist? 831 00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:29,440 Speaker 13: What you do? 832 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:29,919 Speaker 8: Oh? 833 00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:31,440 Speaker 14: You're not I'm sorry you're not familiar. 834 00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:33,879 Speaker 20: How you got me on the schedule? Why ain't trying 835 00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:34,479 Speaker 20: us for nothing? 836 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,319 Speaker 14: Oh? I got you on my list here. I don't 837 00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,279 Speaker 14: know who puts you on here, but you've it's been 838 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,360 Speaker 14: paid for in everything for me to come by and 839 00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,520 Speaker 14: do my job. And like I said, only take me 840 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,280 Speaker 14: a couple of minutes and I'll have you on your way. 841 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:46,680 Speaker 14: How do you get my number? 842 00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,800 Speaker 20: Say again, how did you get my phone number? 843 00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:50,439 Speaker 6: Sir? 844 00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,360 Speaker 14: Everything I have I got. I got twenty stops tomorrow 845 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:58,160 Speaker 14: and I got you schedules as my first stop tomorrow morning. 846 00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,759 Speaker 14: I don't know I got your phone number. I do 847 00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:03,760 Speaker 14: have your address. Are you at drive? 848 00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:04,479 Speaker 8: Yeah? 849 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 20: That's my address. But I'm not scheduled for nobody to 850 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 20: come to my. 851 00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 3: House in the morning. I gotta go to work in 852 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,440 Speaker 3: the morning. I'm i gonna be here right right. 853 00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,239 Speaker 14: My understanding, Well from understanding, you pull out about seven 854 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,279 Speaker 14: thirty and I'm gonna get there seven fifteen. Like I said, 855 00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 14: you know, the procedure only takes about two three minutes. 856 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:22,040 Speaker 20: And you tell me about everybody my information, you know, 857 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:23,400 Speaker 20: when I leave home and everything. 858 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:23,880 Speaker 3: Who is this? 859 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 14: Like I say, my name is Greg, I'm a PSC, 860 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:27,479 Speaker 14: and I'll be there. 861 00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:29,200 Speaker 20: Okay, you said that already. 862 00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 14: You'll see me tomorrow. I'm sorry. I just wanted to 863 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,200 Speaker 14: give your friendly call here on Sunday. I'll let you 864 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,560 Speaker 14: know that i'll be there. I'll be there about seven 865 00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,200 Speaker 14: fifteen and we'll get you taken care of and then 866 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:38,399 Speaker 14: I'll let you get on any way to work. 867 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:40,360 Speaker 20: You still ain't telling me what I was supposed to 868 00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:41,839 Speaker 20: What you're supposed to be doing, sir. 869 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:45,480 Speaker 14: A PSC is PSC. I'm a pro state checker and 870 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 14: what I'll be doing is coming in and checking your 871 00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 14: pro state tomorrow. 872 00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 20: Oh well, now you ain't coming here and check my 873 00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,680 Speaker 20: prive state. I gave my pro state checked by my doctor. 874 00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,160 Speaker 20: Who is you talking about coming to check my five state? 875 00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:55,839 Speaker 3: Not at my house? 876 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,279 Speaker 21: You ain't come to check my And you know what, 877 00:45:58,400 --> 00:45:59,399 Speaker 21: I get this all the time. 878 00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,440 Speaker 14: I get a lot of people that are in denial, 879 00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 14: a lot of men that that claim that they STY. 880 00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 20: Is signed I hear my price state checked just at 881 00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,120 Speaker 20: at the beginning of this year. Man, you don't need 882 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,160 Speaker 20: to come to my eye checking my price. 883 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 21: State, sir. 884 00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:12,920 Speaker 14: A lot of people, a lot of men are in 885 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 14: denial saying that they got it checked and they got it. 886 00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 14: A lot of times we find out they haven't. And 887 00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:19,239 Speaker 14: there has to be a reason. If I got you 888 00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,359 Speaker 14: on my list and it's paid, somebody is paid one 889 00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,279 Speaker 14: hundred and twenty five dollars for me to come out 890 00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 14: there and check. 891 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,799 Speaker 20: It, well, you should be happy you paid us twent 892 00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 20: a five dollars. This is a lesson job you have 893 00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 20: to do then, because you're not come and check my price. 894 00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,319 Speaker 14: State, sir, I'm gonna check it now. I'm gonna be 895 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 14: by there tomorrow and I'm seven pif pent. I'm putting 896 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 14: my rubber glove on with a little bit of jail 897 00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:38,439 Speaker 14: on it, and I am gonna check your prop state 898 00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 14: and then I'll let you get on the work. 899 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,040 Speaker 20: Well, I'll tell you what that rubble glove ain't going 900 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 20: nowhere near me, home boy. I'll tell you what you 901 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,600 Speaker 20: pay on over my eyes if you want to. It 902 00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,839 Speaker 20: ain't gonna be pretty, and it ain't gonna be nice 903 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 20: with you in your rubber glove, sir, I might have 904 00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:53,120 Speaker 20: had to stick a rebel glove up yo. When I'm 905 00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:54,600 Speaker 20: done with you, and I'll be comforted by my eye 906 00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,000 Speaker 20: talking about checking my price. 907 00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,279 Speaker 14: State sir, Sir, do you realize that this is the 908 00:46:58,360 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 14: leading calls to black men? 909 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 20: You realize that I understand that, all right. 910 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:03,120 Speaker 14: They ain't. 911 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 6: Black men. 912 00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,440 Speaker 14: Three out of five black men are lost every year 913 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 14: we dump, So you ought to be very grateful that 914 00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:13,759 Speaker 14: someone is sending me by there to check it and 915 00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:14,680 Speaker 14: make sure you're okay. 916 00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:16,759 Speaker 20: I'm grateful that I can pay for a doctor that 917 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:18,799 Speaker 20: I go to every at once a year. 918 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:20,359 Speaker 3: Man, you're gonna have to come to my hot time, 919 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,520 Speaker 3: my sticking, no rubber glove of me. Man, it's phone 920 00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:23,200 Speaker 3: with you, sir. 921 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,040 Speaker 14: So I'm not gonna sit here and go back and 922 00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:27,200 Speaker 14: forth with you. My job is to give you a 923 00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,759 Speaker 14: friendly call and let you know that I'm coming all 924 00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:31,080 Speaker 14: right now tomorrow morning. 925 00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:31,399 Speaker 2: Listen. 926 00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 14: I don't want to hear anymore of it. Tomorrow morning, 927 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 14: I'm there at seven fifteen, and you're gonna get your 928 00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,319 Speaker 14: pro state check. Whether you like it or not. 929 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:39,279 Speaker 20: Well, you bad it. 930 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 21: Don't buy here dead. I showed me here. You bay 931 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:42,640 Speaker 21: your bad thank. 932 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,320 Speaker 20: You bad enough us come over here, check my prist 933 00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:45,080 Speaker 20: take you bay it. 934 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,839 Speaker 14: I'm gonna make it so you just be ready at 935 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 14: seven fifteen that you're gonna get your prostate check, and 936 00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:51,000 Speaker 14: I'll be here. 937 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 21: I want to let you go on the work case comes. 938 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,400 Speaker 20: You come on over here if you want. You you know 939 00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:57,319 Speaker 20: my address and all my wi time I go to 940 00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,280 Speaker 20: work and everything. You you bag your back. 941 00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 3: Don't know me if you want to. 942 00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:02,759 Speaker 14: I don't care if I gotta come over there, sir 943 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,960 Speaker 14: and hold you down and check your prostate. I'm coming 944 00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:09,040 Speaker 14: to check your prostate at seventy fifteen tomorrow. 945 00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 21: Morning, or I'll tell you what you bring your mas 946 00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:11,560 Speaker 21: John over them. 947 00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:13,480 Speaker 20: You you think you know who I am? 948 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,319 Speaker 21: What I need over here? You come on over here 949 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:15,600 Speaker 21: and you. 950 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:16,240 Speaker 13: Do what you gotta. 951 00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,399 Speaker 21: Don't over that worrow more wherever being wrong. You're gonna 952 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:20,799 Speaker 21: be checking something else besides me. 953 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:21,839 Speaker 20: You're gonna be checking you own. 954 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,759 Speaker 21: You bring your don't know where if you want to, 955 00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:25,319 Speaker 21: she'll wrong. 956 00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:26,279 Speaker 3: Get you up out of here. 957 00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:27,640 Speaker 20: I be coming to my house and that. 958 00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:30,080 Speaker 13: But but you. 959 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,399 Speaker 3: You tell somebody talking about I needed pros stint check 960 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,359 Speaker 3: or something somebody on the phone talking about I need 961 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:36,440 Speaker 3: a prostate or something. 962 00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,239 Speaker 20: You bring your I'll tell you what. I'll be here 963 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:39,960 Speaker 20: when you get here. 964 00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:41,160 Speaker 21: You bring it over. 965 00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:46,359 Speaker 14: You will tomorrow right in the mall going wrong. 966 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:47,759 Speaker 3: You won't walk it over. 967 00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,200 Speaker 21: If you might be wheeled away from this, you rain. 968 00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:51,239 Speaker 3: Up where if you want to. 969 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 14: I'm gonna have my glove on tomorrow and I'm gonna 970 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:55,800 Speaker 14: be checking your prostates. 971 00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 21: I'll tell you what you ain't in the morning. 972 00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,600 Speaker 20: Where you want to talk about checking the price state, 973 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,799 Speaker 20: You're gonna be checking you on frid Stay cause I'm 974 00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,680 Speaker 20: telling you what I got something for you. You come 975 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 20: from here, you bring your bad You think you're bad 976 00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:07,839 Speaker 20: enough to come on here and chase something over here? 977 00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:09,759 Speaker 14: You come on with it. I got one more with 978 00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:10,799 Speaker 14: I need to say to you. 979 00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:11,480 Speaker 8: Are you listening? 980 00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:12,920 Speaker 20: But what Dad you got to say to me? 981 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 15: Now? 982 00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,600 Speaker 20: You told me it's not just you got to tell me. 983 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:17,040 Speaker 14: Now, Are you listening to me? 984 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 20: This bab down over here? 985 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,319 Speaker 14: You're gonna be here and I'm gonna be over there. 986 00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,160 Speaker 14: But I got one more thing I want to say. 987 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:23,080 Speaker 21: Are you listening? 988 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:24,520 Speaker 20: What you got to say to me? 989 00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:24,759 Speaker 6: Man? 990 00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:28,319 Speaker 14: That is nephew Tim me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 991 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:31,160 Speaker 14: You just got pranked by your homeboy. 992 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:36,360 Speaker 20: H who you say you was? 993 00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 14: Again? Hey man, this is Nephew tim Me from the 994 00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,799 Speaker 14: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, your homeboy got me the 995 00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:50,840 Speaker 14: prank phone call you. 996 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:59,680 Speaker 3: Good, damn Harbin tell me by man, you are right? 997 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:02,719 Speaker 14: Roger boy, y'all about to make me go out. 998 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,879 Speaker 21: I'm wondering, who the hell don't come out somebody how 999 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:06,239 Speaker 21: to do. 1000 00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:09,279 Speaker 20: A postage chicks may on a regular basis like that? 1001 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:13,399 Speaker 21: Yeah, yeah, I got me man. 1002 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:14,440 Speaker 20: I'm gonna get him back. 1003 00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:14,680 Speaker 21: Boy. 1004 00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:15,879 Speaker 20: I can't believe he do. 1005 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:16,399 Speaker 21: Me like that. 1006 00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 20: I'm gonna go over there and check his prostate. 1007 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:20,760 Speaker 21: You know, I don't even think you get here checked 1008 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:21,400 Speaker 21: on the regular. 1009 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,480 Speaker 20: I want to have somebody to come check mine. 1010 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,520 Speaker 14: Hey man, I got one more thing to ask you, man, 1011 00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,840 Speaker 14: what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the 1012 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 14: baddest radio show in the land, Steve. 1013 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,799 Speaker 20: Harvey Morning Show Man, Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1014 00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,040 Speaker 8: All right, come on. 1015 00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:47,640 Speaker 11: Oh my god, he's not about that. 1016 00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 17: You didn't when you get there. Yeah, he's gonna tinch 1017 00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:53,120 Speaker 17: up when he gets there. 1018 00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:59,360 Speaker 11: Right now, I don't even have one. 1019 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 1: Fringe you. 1020 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,959 Speaker 8: It saves lies. Get out there and get yourself checked. 1021 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:03,880 Speaker 8: I'm just telling you that's what. 1022 00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:06,480 Speaker 6: You don't get. 1023 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:11,359 Speaker 8: So you're doing awareness with the prank. Why not? 1024 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:13,239 Speaker 1: Why not just do it all? 1025 00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:15,600 Speaker 8: See I say I do stupid, then I turn around 1026 00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:17,040 Speaker 8: and make some sense. I do all that. 1027 00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:20,880 Speaker 17: I don't know what I did was stupid, but on 1028 00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:22,840 Speaker 17: he put his finger on the funny. 1029 00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:24,160 Speaker 6: Go ahead, you get. 1030 00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:26,919 Speaker 1: That, Carl. 1031 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:28,640 Speaker 8: I'm getting me a shirt made with that on it. 1032 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:32,920 Speaker 1: Stupid and he. 1033 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:37,320 Speaker 8: Got a walk and everything with it. Stupid with a purpose. 1034 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,160 Speaker 10: Dothan, Alabama and everybody around the way, it's your boy 1035 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,319 Speaker 10: nephew telling me July fifteenth, the nephew is coming to town. 1036 00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,880 Speaker 8: Did you hear what I said, Dothan, Alabama? 1037 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:49,160 Speaker 10: I said, July fifteenth, the nephew is coming to town. 1038 00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:53,239 Speaker 10: I'm back, I'm stronger, I'm better, I gotta testimony. Oh, 1039 00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 10: I got a purpose and I'm still straight stupid. Come 1040 00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:58,919 Speaker 10: on and get your laugh on, baby, it's going down. 1041 00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 10: July fifteenth. Mm hmm, Oping Alabama tickets are on sale 1042 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 10: right now? 1043 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,560 Speaker 7: All right, well, thanking if you coming up. Strawberry letter, 1044 00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 7: He facetimed me while he was with her we'll get 1045 00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:13,200 Speaker 7: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning 1046 00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:17,319 Speaker 7: Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you 1047 00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 7: need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. 1048 00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 7: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 1049 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:29,000 Speaker 7: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 1050 00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 7: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 1051 00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,160 Speaker 7: read this one right here, right now. 1052 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,399 Speaker 8: Buggle up, hold on tight, We got it for you here. 1053 00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 7: It is letter subject he facetimed me while he was 1054 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:41,560 Speaker 7: with her. 1055 00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 11: Dear Stephen Shirley. 1056 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,120 Speaker 7: I met the love of my life seven years ago 1057 00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 7: and I was twenty one years old at the time. 1058 00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,680 Speaker 7: He's three years older than me and had already had 1059 00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:53,840 Speaker 7: a child. He was my first everything, and he influenced 1060 00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 7: everything I did. I overlooked a lot of things he 1061 00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:00,160 Speaker 7: did because I was young and crazy in love. He 1062 00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 7: would be intimate with the mother of his child, and 1063 00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:04,960 Speaker 7: he didn't try to hide it. It made me feel 1064 00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:07,720 Speaker 7: like I wasn't good enough or skilled enough at sex 1065 00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,919 Speaker 7: because he kept on having sex with her. She threw 1066 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,719 Speaker 7: it up in my face whenever she could, so I 1067 00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:17,800 Speaker 7: finally broke up with him. I was heartbroken, but managed 1068 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,880 Speaker 7: to stay friends with him. He ended up having another 1069 00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,200 Speaker 7: child with this lady and told me that it was 1070 00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:26,319 Speaker 7: a big mistake. Then he started dating this lady he 1071 00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:28,760 Speaker 7: worked with, and they had a baby together. 1072 00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 11: After his third child. 1073 00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:33,719 Speaker 7: Was born, he came to me humbly and said he 1074 00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,040 Speaker 7: was so tired of how he had been doing things 1075 00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,759 Speaker 7: and he wanted me back. He also said he was 1076 00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:43,040 Speaker 7: ready to get married. We got back together eight months ago, 1077 00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:46,279 Speaker 7: and I'm pregnant. He seemed to be happy when I 1078 00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:49,480 Speaker 7: told him, and he said he would have my dream wedding. 1079 00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:52,440 Speaker 7: We would have my dream wedding, but that's on hold 1080 00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,560 Speaker 7: for now. Week ago, he went to visit his youngest 1081 00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:58,800 Speaker 7: son and we were on FaceTime as he drove. 1082 00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,000 Speaker 11: When he got out out of the car. 1083 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,840 Speaker 7: He thought he had hung up and he must have 1084 00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,600 Speaker 7: thrown his phone in his pocket. I heard a female mumbling, 1085 00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,480 Speaker 7: and then I clearly heard her ask if he had 1086 00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:14,040 Speaker 7: a condom. Then I heard a lot of moaning. I 1087 00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:17,520 Speaker 7: hung up and I got physically ill. When he came back, 1088 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,200 Speaker 7: I didn't let him know what i'd heard. I'm about 1089 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,320 Speaker 7: to deliver his fourth child, and he's still a liar 1090 00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:24,200 Speaker 7: and a cheater. 1091 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,080 Speaker 11: I don't want to be a single parent. What should 1092 00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:27,360 Speaker 11: I do? 1093 00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:27,800 Speaker 6: Now? 1094 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,399 Speaker 7: Well, girl, you got to get it together, I mean 1095 00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:35,120 Speaker 7: quickly and in a hurry. You're about to deliver his 1096 00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,640 Speaker 7: fourth child. You gotta just stop being stupid. 1097 00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:40,279 Speaker 11: These are some stupid moves you've been making, you know, 1098 00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:41,280 Speaker 11: with this man. 1099 00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:44,320 Speaker 7: This guy's been using you, lying to you all along, 1100 00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:48,719 Speaker 7: and you keep on falling for it. I know you're young, 1101 00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:53,080 Speaker 7: but I mean you could have just asked him to 1102 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,839 Speaker 7: use a condom. You could have to use protection. It's 1103 00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:00,520 Speaker 7: okay to say that you know or or did you 1104 00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 7: want to get pregnant by him? I'm not so sure 1105 00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,719 Speaker 7: you didn't, you know because you were so happy to 1106 00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:08,160 Speaker 7: have him back. I mean, and did you think that 1107 00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:11,960 Speaker 7: a baby would keep him well, as you can clearly see, 1108 00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,120 Speaker 7: it didn't. And now although you may not want to 1109 00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,400 Speaker 7: be a single parent, you will be. This guy is 1110 00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,920 Speaker 7: a loser in every sense of the word, who just 1111 00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:24,560 Speaker 7: keeps dropping babies wherever he goes. I mean, he's not 1112 00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:25,840 Speaker 7: thinking about protection. 1113 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:27,000 Speaker 9: And you know. 1114 00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,200 Speaker 7: You never once said at least he's a good father, 1115 00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,040 Speaker 7: because he's not. 1116 00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:33,759 Speaker 11: He's not. 1117 00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:38,359 Speaker 7: Let's face it, he's too busy making kids and he's immature. 1118 00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:38,920 Speaker 1: Like a kid. 1119 00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,160 Speaker 7: I'm sorry you loved him more than you loved you 1120 00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,959 Speaker 7: and got yourself caught up in his game of lies 1121 00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:45,560 Speaker 7: and deceit. 1122 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:48,560 Speaker 11: But please know that it is not the end of 1123 00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:49,480 Speaker 11: the world for you. 1124 00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:53,560 Speaker 7: First of all, please don't even consider marrying this guy 1125 00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,480 Speaker 7: right now. I mean, you need to walk away from 1126 00:55:56,480 --> 00:56:00,720 Speaker 7: this toxic relationship. It is now time to make plans 1127 00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:02,160 Speaker 7: for a future without him. 1128 00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:04,680 Speaker 11: Use this time. I'm telling you to use. 1129 00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,360 Speaker 7: This time to figure out how are you going to 1130 00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:09,680 Speaker 7: take care of your baby and taking that baby daddy 1131 00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:11,440 Speaker 7: to court right now? 1132 00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:18,000 Speaker 6: Steve, Wow, it's a lot of here, man. Listen. 1133 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,840 Speaker 2: I feel bad for this lady right here, this young girl. 1134 00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:28,480 Speaker 2: But this started wrong, and it's wrong from the very beginning, 1135 00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,439 Speaker 2: and there are no corrections being made along the way. 1136 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,080 Speaker 2: And now you're faced with the ultimatum. At the end 1137 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:37,040 Speaker 2: of this letter, you're simply saying, I don't want to 1138 00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:38,080 Speaker 2: be a single parent. 1139 00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:39,520 Speaker 6: What should I do? Now? 1140 00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 2: Well, let me show you what has happened so I 1141 00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:47,160 Speaker 2: can paint a clear picture of you. You met the love 1142 00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:52,040 Speaker 2: of your life seven years ago. Stop saying that because 1143 00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:55,000 Speaker 2: this is the love of your life, your life is 1144 00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:59,399 Speaker 2: headed for a loveless, remaining livelihood. 1145 00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:02,400 Speaker 6: This can't be the love of your life. 1146 00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:05,600 Speaker 2: This was the love of your life, so you thought 1147 00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:08,080 Speaker 2: up until that point. 1148 00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:11,600 Speaker 6: But after you met him, he started proving to you 1149 00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:13,400 Speaker 6: he was not the love of your life. 1150 00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:16,320 Speaker 2: You've got to get a better definition of love of 1151 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,160 Speaker 2: your life. You got to learn how to let somebody 1152 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:21,840 Speaker 2: else love you that knows how to do it. Twenty one, 1153 00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:27,280 Speaker 2: he's three years older, he already had a child. He 1154 00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 2: was my first everything. He influenced everything I did. I 1155 00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:33,720 Speaker 2: overlooked a lot of things he did because I was 1156 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:38,840 Speaker 2: young and crazy in love. Right there, right there, you 1157 00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,960 Speaker 2: made the statement, young lady, that I want you to 1158 00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:45,160 Speaker 2: pay attention to I overlooked a lot of things he 1159 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:49,120 Speaker 2: did because I was young and crazy in love. He 1160 00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:53,440 Speaker 2: would be intimate with the mother of his child. He 1161 00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:58,400 Speaker 2: didn't try to hide it, so he just throw it 1162 00:57:58,480 --> 00:57:59,200 Speaker 2: up in your face. 1163 00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:00,880 Speaker 6: It made me. 1164 00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,120 Speaker 2: Feel like I wasn't good enough or skilled enough as 1165 00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:07,480 Speaker 2: sex because he kept having sex with him, and you 1166 00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:10,040 Speaker 2: knew he was kept having sex with her, and you 1167 00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:14,120 Speaker 2: allowed him to have sex, and then he kept having 1168 00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:15,840 Speaker 2: sex with and then the lady threw it up in 1169 00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:16,320 Speaker 2: your face. 1170 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,240 Speaker 6: Whenever she could, and now you got. 1171 00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:25,360 Speaker 2: Other women calling you about the love of your life, 1172 00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 2: and the love of your life is screwing all these 1173 00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:34,080 Speaker 2: other people. I was heart broken, but I managed to 1174 00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:40,280 Speaker 2: stay friends with him. Why why what has he done 1175 00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:44,120 Speaker 2: that's friendly towards you know, we need to do two 1176 00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:44,919 Speaker 2: things right now. 1177 00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:47,120 Speaker 6: When we come back, we talk about it. You need 1178 00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:50,280 Speaker 6: a new definition of friend and you need a new 1179 00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:51,400 Speaker 6: definition of love. 1180 00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:55,720 Speaker 7: Wow, all right, Steve, hold on to that thought. We'll 1181 00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:58,080 Speaker 7: get part two of your response coming up at twenty 1182 00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:01,800 Speaker 7: three minutes after the hours subject he face timed me 1183 00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:03,000 Speaker 7: while he was with her. 1184 00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:04,800 Speaker 11: We'll get back into it right after this. 1185 00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,120 Speaker 9: You're listening morning show. 1186 00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:09,760 Speaker 11: All right, Steve, come. 1187 00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:12,760 Speaker 7: On, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject he face 1188 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:14,240 Speaker 7: timed me when he was. 1189 00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:18,960 Speaker 2: With her, This young lady who I have no jokes 1190 00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 2: for because I'm heartbroken for her because the twenty one 1191 00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:25,200 Speaker 2: she claimed to have met the love of her life, 1192 00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,080 Speaker 2: which was just the love of her life up at 1193 00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:32,760 Speaker 2: that point. But this guy has shown her no respect 1194 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:36,280 Speaker 2: or love. He was your first everything. He influenced everything 1195 00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:38,560 Speaker 2: you did. And the mistake you made was I overlooked 1196 00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:40,320 Speaker 2: a lot of things he did because I was young 1197 00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:41,200 Speaker 2: and crazy in love. 1198 00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:43,040 Speaker 6: So what did you do? 1199 00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:47,840 Speaker 2: You allowed him to have sex with other women repeatedly 1200 00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:51,200 Speaker 2: that you knew about it. They had other women call 1201 00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:54,160 Speaker 2: you to confront you about the screwing that he was 1202 00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:57,919 Speaker 2: doing with them. You allowed it, and you allowed him 1203 00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:01,840 Speaker 2: to put it in front of your faith because he 1204 01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:05,480 Speaker 2: didn't care that you knew about it. Okay, these are 1205 01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:07,840 Speaker 2: the stuff did you allowed to happen because you was 1206 01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:09,080 Speaker 2: young and crazy in love? 1207 01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:12,960 Speaker 6: Now let's move on. 1208 01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:18,360 Speaker 2: So finally you broke up with him, You say, but 1209 01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:24,080 Speaker 2: y'all remain friends. Why what friendly was he towards you? 1210 01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,440 Speaker 2: He's done nothing but dog you the entire time. That 1211 01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:32,680 Speaker 2: ain't love on friendship. I was heartbroken, but manistate friends 1212 01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:35,920 Speaker 2: with Windom. He ended up having another child with this lady. 1213 01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 2: So now that lady they had another baby and told 1214 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,200 Speaker 2: me that it was a big mistake. Then he started 1215 01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:45,720 Speaker 2: dating a lady from work and they had a baby together. Now, 1216 01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:49,040 Speaker 2: after the third child was born, he came to you 1217 01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 2: humbly and said he was so tired of how he's 1218 01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:55,680 Speaker 2: been doing things and he wanted you back. He also 1219 01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:58,120 Speaker 2: said he was ready to get married. Oh, he said 1220 01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:01,360 Speaker 2: everything you wanted to. Hear got been together eight months ago, 1221 01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:04,240 Speaker 2: and I'm pregnant. He seemed to be so happy when 1222 01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:07,800 Speaker 2: I told him. He said we would have my dream wedding. 1223 01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:12,680 Speaker 2: But all that's on whole now. You know why because 1224 01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:15,280 Speaker 2: a week ago he went to visit his youngest son 1225 01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:17,720 Speaker 2: and we were on FaceTime as he drove. 1226 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:19,160 Speaker 6: When he got out. 1227 01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,440 Speaker 2: The car, he thought he had hung up and he 1228 01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:24,520 Speaker 2: must have thrown his phone in his pocket. You heard 1229 01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:28,320 Speaker 2: a female mumbling, and you clearly heard her ask if 1230 01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:31,160 Speaker 2: he had a condom. Then I heard a lot of moaning. 1231 01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,880 Speaker 2: I hung up and I got physically ill. When he 1232 01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 2: came back, he go to other mistaken I did not 1233 01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:40,440 Speaker 2: let him know what I heard. 1234 01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:44,480 Speaker 6: Now I'm about to deliver his fourth child. 1235 01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:48,080 Speaker 2: He's still aliar and a cheetah, has been that the 1236 01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:51,520 Speaker 2: entire time, and I don't want to be a single parent. 1237 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 6: What should I do now? 1238 01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:54,600 Speaker 2: So, a young lady, you don't want to be a 1239 01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:58,920 Speaker 2: single parent, So the only other option is this. You 1240 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:06,200 Speaker 2: can get married and ruin your entire remaining life by 1241 01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:12,640 Speaker 2: being married to this liar and this cheater. Or you 1242 01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:17,680 Speaker 2: could take this blessing, this baby. Learn from your mistakes. 1243 01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:23,840 Speaker 2: Never allow another person to walk over you, take your child, 1244 01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:28,400 Speaker 2: raise him, and then wait on your real love of 1245 01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:29,600 Speaker 2: your life to come along. 1246 01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:33,440 Speaker 6: You're still young, You're still young. This is not the 1247 01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:36,640 Speaker 6: end of the world for you. The baby is not 1248 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:38,280 Speaker 6: a mistake. It's not. 1249 01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:43,840 Speaker 2: The baby is fine. The baby will you'll You'll be fine. 1250 01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,840 Speaker 2: You will manage, just like every other single parent does. 1251 01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:52,440 Speaker 2: Do not marry this man. Now he gonna have to 1252 01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:55,160 Speaker 2: get his But it's not up you. It's not up 1253 01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:57,680 Speaker 2: to you to give it to it. Let me tell 1254 01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:02,200 Speaker 2: you some ladies, y'all alwayste a lie time being scorn, 1255 01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:05,720 Speaker 2: and I do understand it, and I ain't saying it 1256 01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:08,760 Speaker 2: shouldn't be that way. Because you hurt, you hurt. He'll 1257 01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:10,760 Speaker 2: have no fury like a woman scorn. I used to 1258 01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:12,520 Speaker 2: think it was a Bible verse. I swear to God, 1259 01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:15,080 Speaker 2: I did. I thought it was a Bible verse. It's not, 1260 01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:19,520 Speaker 2: but it sounds so true. And they use the word scorn. 1261 01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:22,720 Speaker 2: Scorn is a biblical term. That's why I thought it 1262 01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:24,320 Speaker 2: was a Bible verse. 1263 01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:25,440 Speaker 6: But it's not. 1264 01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:30,080 Speaker 2: So now you have it, you have a decision to make. 1265 01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:34,760 Speaker 2: Cut your losses from this man. Stop giving yourself to 1266 01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:39,240 Speaker 2: this man. Stop thinking you can change this man. Stop 1267 01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 2: hoping this man changes. You may have been the love, 1268 01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:45,960 Speaker 2: he may have been the love of your life, but 1269 01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:48,400 Speaker 2: listen to me, young sister, you have never been the 1270 01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:50,480 Speaker 2: love of his life ever. 1271 01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:52,360 Speaker 11: He knows nothing about it. 1272 01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:56,520 Speaker 2: And you are not now, So let God handle him. 1273 01:03:56,640 --> 01:04:00,880 Speaker 2: Oh please know he got his coming. Ladies, dudes that 1274 01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:02,560 Speaker 2: do like this, they don't get. 1275 01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 6: Away scott free. I'm just why. I just need you 1276 01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:04,800 Speaker 6: to know that. 1277 01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:08,640 Speaker 11: And he'll probably have more kids with other women. 1278 01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:11,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean a lot of stuff gonna happen, but 1279 01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:13,120 Speaker 6: it don't need to happen in your face though. 1280 01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:14,000 Speaker 11: Nope, nope. 1281 01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:17,720 Speaker 2: You could take your baby and get along and start over. 1282 01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:21,560 Speaker 2: And it happens all the time. There are men who 1283 01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:27,200 Speaker 2: accept women who have children with open arms. Become great fathers, 1284 01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:31,720 Speaker 2: great families, They adopted kids, the kids take their name. 1285 01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:35,480 Speaker 2: All types of stuff happen. Don't think it's hopeless for you. 1286 01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:38,600 Speaker 2: But please do not let your yearning not to be 1287 01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:41,600 Speaker 2: a single parent, wanting not to be a single parent 1288 01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:44,480 Speaker 2: be in your decision in fact of whether you marry 1289 01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:50,680 Speaker 2: this worthless, no good human being. For don't compound your mistakes. 1290 01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:55,720 Speaker 2: Your mistake was taking him back don't compound it by 1291 01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:57,920 Speaker 2: keeping him right. 1292 01:04:58,160 --> 01:04:59,280 Speaker 6: Let it go, little girl. 1293 01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:05,400 Speaker 2: Uncle Steve, you're telling you walk off, cut your losses, 1294 01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:10,640 Speaker 2: tell him what you know so he know, and go 1295 01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:11,560 Speaker 2: about your nie. 1296 01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:12,600 Speaker 11: Steve, thank you. 1297 01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,520 Speaker 7: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 1298 01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,320 Speaker 7: FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter 1299 01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:23,760 Speaker 7: podcast on demand. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1300 01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:28,080 Speaker 7: so this was a question guys from Facebook. It says, Hey, Steve, 1301 01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:32,360 Speaker 7: Tommy Junior, my homeboy took his girlfriend on vacation because 1302 01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,280 Speaker 7: they were beefing and thought. 1303 01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:35,240 Speaker 11: They needed a get away. 1304 01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:38,880 Speaker 7: They both were tripping and still arguing, so while on vacation, 1305 01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:41,880 Speaker 7: they decided to break up on the last day there. 1306 01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:45,800 Speaker 7: The flight home was tough, but they said, ultimately it's 1307 01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,560 Speaker 7: for the best man. I'd be mad if I had 1308 01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:50,760 Speaker 7: to spend three grand to figure out we needed to 1309 01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:51,320 Speaker 7: break up. 1310 01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:53,600 Speaker 9: Here's a question for you, guys. 1311 01:05:54,400 --> 01:05:56,720 Speaker 7: Did you ever break up on your vacation with your 1312 01:05:56,720 --> 01:05:59,760 Speaker 7: book or did you stay and fly home early? 1313 01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:01,040 Speaker 1: You did? I? 1314 01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:02,000 Speaker 8: Actually did? 1315 01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:05,160 Speaker 1: I did? 1316 01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:08,520 Speaker 8: We broke on a damn cruise ship. 1317 01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 9: Yes happened. 1318 01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:11,240 Speaker 8: It all just. 1319 01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:13,000 Speaker 1: Came to a rocky inn. 1320 01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:15,840 Speaker 10: It was bad I don't know how we stayed in 1321 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:17,560 Speaker 10: that cabin two extra days. 1322 01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:18,680 Speaker 8: It was just bad. 1323 01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:21,800 Speaker 10: And by the time we docked, matter of fact, call 1324 01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:25,560 Speaker 10: it doc back in New Orleans. Man, take something. I 1325 01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:28,200 Speaker 10: was broke, didn't have no money, but I was though 1326 01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:29,560 Speaker 10: with hot. 1327 01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:31,560 Speaker 6: God. 1328 01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:34,760 Speaker 7: Were you guys having problems before you went on the 1329 01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:37,360 Speaker 7: cruise like this guy until you thought the cruise might 1330 01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:40,440 Speaker 7: you know we was having might make it better. 1331 01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:43,120 Speaker 8: Before we met. Seemed like we was having problem. 1332 01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:46,520 Speaker 10: Not Yeah, I don't want to talk about this. 1333 01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:47,440 Speaker 6: This is like some. 1334 01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:50,840 Speaker 8: Ragged in memory lane. 1335 01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:56,000 Speaker 12: No, I ain't never did anything like that. First of all, 1336 01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:58,240 Speaker 12: only beef I'm eating is on the plane. You can't 1337 01:06:58,280 --> 01:06:59,240 Speaker 12: be beef before we go. 1338 01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:03,720 Speaker 6: I ain't never did nothing like this. 1339 01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:10,280 Speaker 2: Come, I'm here to tell you that I've gone on 1340 01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:15,560 Speaker 2: several vacations, yes, sir, and wanted to break up this 1341 01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:20,080 Speaker 2: soda vacation, wanted to break up on the vacation, stayed 1342 01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:21,320 Speaker 2: and went on some. 1343 01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:22,680 Speaker 6: More vacations. 1344 01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:28,200 Speaker 2: Until finally he's talking about he would be mad if 1345 01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:29,560 Speaker 2: he spent three thousand. 1346 01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:30,520 Speaker 14: Uh huh. 1347 01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:40,600 Speaker 2: I've lost millions in bad vacations and break up. So no, son, 1348 01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:43,440 Speaker 2: Sometimes you try to save it. You try to go 1349 01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:45,320 Speaker 2: out there and you know, maybe this we get some 1350 01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:48,600 Speaker 2: time away alone. But that's the best way to find 1351 01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:52,120 Speaker 2: out if you really belong with somebody. Go somewhere where 1352 01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:55,480 Speaker 2: there's no distractions. It's just you and Marjorie and I 1353 01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:58,360 Speaker 2: have a running joke we knew we were meant to 1354 01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:01,640 Speaker 2: be each other when we went to Borrow because Bora 1355 01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:05,000 Speaker 2: bora has nothing to do. 1356 01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:14,080 Speaker 6: Bora bora. There's a Latin word that means boring, boring 1357 01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:16,120 Speaker 6: and bora. 1358 01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:17,720 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, that's a good way to 1359 01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:19,320 Speaker 2: find out if you belong to think if you can 1360 01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:22,160 Speaker 2: pay three thousand to get out and learn that information, money, 1361 01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:23,000 Speaker 2: well spit. 1362 01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:25,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow about lesson? 1363 01:08:26,240 --> 01:08:28,160 Speaker 11: Uh huh, you're listening. 1364 01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:30,960 Speaker 9: Hard morning show. 1365 01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:34,000 Speaker 7: All right, So Steve, here's the question that we saw 1366 01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:36,960 Speaker 7: on Facebook. It says, my sixteen year old daughter has 1367 01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:39,320 Speaker 7: been dating a kid from school for the past six 1368 01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:43,519 Speaker 7: months and he's cool. The problem is, now, you know, 1369 01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:45,880 Speaker 7: we all know, it's summer and they're out of school. 1370 01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:48,240 Speaker 11: He's always at the house, I mean. 1371 01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:51,320 Speaker 7: Like from eight am to like ten pm sometimes later, 1372 01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:54,200 Speaker 7: which means we wind up having to feed him all 1373 01:08:54,320 --> 01:08:58,000 Speaker 7: his meals unless they should. Maybe they'll go out for 1374 01:08:58,040 --> 01:08:59,280 Speaker 7: an evening or something. 1375 01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:01,599 Speaker 11: I don't mind. I'm feeding him once in a while, but. 1376 01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:03,840 Speaker 7: Food costs a lot these days, and we can't really 1377 01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:07,000 Speaker 7: afford to keep feeding him. I told my daughter that 1378 01:09:07,040 --> 01:09:11,000 Speaker 7: he either has to come by less or maybe bring 1379 01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:13,240 Speaker 7: his own food now and again, and she got mad, 1380 01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:16,559 Speaker 7: telling me I was being cheap and unsupportive. This boy 1381 01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:19,519 Speaker 7: is eating us out of house and home. I mean, 1382 01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:21,960 Speaker 7: at this point, his parents should be paying me. I 1383 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:25,280 Speaker 7: feed him so much. So the question is, Steve, what 1384 01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:27,800 Speaker 7: would you do and how did they get this boy 1385 01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:29,520 Speaker 7: to stay home sometimes? 1386 01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:32,519 Speaker 2: First of all, it's certain days you can't come over here. 1387 01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:36,240 Speaker 2: We're gonna we're gonna get this bill back down to normal, okay, 1388 01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:41,040 Speaker 2: and we're gonna have some visitation out and you sixteen y'all, 1389 01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:43,679 Speaker 2: you'll leave over here. You can't be over here all day. 1390 01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:47,679 Speaker 2: What they doing all damn day? You don't think nothing 1391 01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:50,040 Speaker 2: on his mind all day long, and you could don't 1392 01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:53,200 Speaker 2: lit onm night here, and that's why he's over there 1393 01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:56,800 Speaker 2: all day all night. No, man, you ain't coming over here. 1394 01:09:57,040 --> 01:10:00,680 Speaker 2: You can come over here on sad and wins now 1395 01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:02,559 Speaker 2: during the summer, we got in there and they may 1396 01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:04,000 Speaker 2: go somewhere in the evening here. 1397 01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:05,720 Speaker 6: You mean they may go somewhere. 1398 01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:10,440 Speaker 7: In eave, go out for the evening or something. 1399 01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:16,200 Speaker 2: Oh, you got to be careful, y'all showing your age, 1400 01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:23,360 Speaker 2: trying to show guidance and yeah. 1401 01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:23,639 Speaker 6: And things like that. 1402 01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:26,080 Speaker 2: But you're not bringing your ass over here all day 1403 01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:27,640 Speaker 2: every day. 1404 01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:31,080 Speaker 7: And the daughter remembers said that they were being cheap 1405 01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:31,920 Speaker 7: and unsupportive. 1406 01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:33,240 Speaker 11: She said that to her parents. 1407 01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:35,360 Speaker 2: Well, I tell you what, you split your food with 1408 01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:37,400 Speaker 2: it because we're making three plates here. 1409 01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:41,559 Speaker 11: Yeah, because she got mad mad? Yeah, you know the 1410 01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:42,519 Speaker 11: daughter got mad. 1411 01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:44,800 Speaker 6: Do you know I wasn't even loud to get mad. 1412 01:10:45,320 --> 01:10:47,880 Speaker 11: Oh we didn't do at our parents. 1413 01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:50,679 Speaker 2: No, I be mad. But you just best to keep 1414 01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,960 Speaker 2: to yourself. Are you in that blowing. 1415 01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:56,479 Speaker 1: Shoe? 1416 01:10:57,360 --> 01:10:58,200 Speaker 8: What did you say? 1417 01:10:58,520 --> 01:10:58,800 Speaker 9: Shoe? 1418 01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:02,360 Speaker 7: Show your eyes again, that's the one I got all 1419 01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:04,759 Speaker 7: the time. Roll your eyes again one more time. 1420 01:11:06,200 --> 01:11:07,599 Speaker 6: Put you're in that quiet fault. 1421 01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:09,200 Speaker 1: All of that. 1422 01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:09,920 Speaker 8: I could. 1423 01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:13,800 Speaker 11: Let me give you something to think about. 1424 01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:20,960 Speaker 2: Better, not being there thinking about me and your daddy. 1425 01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:25,360 Speaker 7: So, yeah, this is crazy. So you're saying he can 1426 01:11:25,439 --> 01:11:27,200 Speaker 7: only come over one day a week. 1427 01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:29,519 Speaker 6: A couple of days a week, that we put some 1428 01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:30,240 Speaker 6: restrictions on. 1429 01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:32,640 Speaker 11: I know, everything boundaries. 1430 01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:36,160 Speaker 6: But you know, you know I'm gonna get his parents involved. 1431 01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:40,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, that's right. Come you sixteen without a 1432 01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:44,639 Speaker 1: summer jerm Where is your job? When I had it, 1433 01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:45,120 Speaker 1: I had to. 1434 01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:45,559 Speaker 4: Be at work. 1435 01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:47,679 Speaker 8: Get me over my girlfriend every day. 1436 01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:48,479 Speaker 6: I've had a job. 1437 01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:54,080 Speaker 7: Any high school memory? See when you were a teenager 1438 01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:55,639 Speaker 7: dating a girl in high school? 1439 01:11:55,640 --> 01:12:07,639 Speaker 22: Anything had a bunch of failures, no success story, all failures, 1440 01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:09,120 Speaker 22: no game. 1441 01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:11,759 Speaker 8: What's the longest you dated in high school? 1442 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,680 Speaker 2: Probably about four weeks? 1443 01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:18,720 Speaker 11: It a month, a month. Yeah, it was all Why 1444 01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:20,280 Speaker 11: did you break up? Why did you break up? 1445 01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:25,120 Speaker 2: I usually had something to do with money. 1446 01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:27,640 Speaker 8: Yeah you heard earlier it was facial features. 1447 01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:30,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know money, you don't had a flat tire, 1448 01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:34,479 Speaker 2: couldn't couldn't buy the glue to fix the flash that 1449 01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:37,960 Speaker 2: broke up one relationship. Then a girl gonna ask me 1450 01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:40,160 Speaker 2: to go to the movies, have me pay for it, 1451 01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:41,800 Speaker 2: and I didn't have no problem with it. But when 1452 01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:43,799 Speaker 2: we got to the movie, I didn't have enough money, 1453 01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:46,640 Speaker 2: so I just let her go. 1454 01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:49,880 Speaker 6: Don't have enough money? 1455 01:12:50,960 --> 01:12:53,439 Speaker 11: You were rich, you had to be. 1456 01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:55,639 Speaker 6: I went. I went to move with one girl. 1457 01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:58,400 Speaker 2: She mad because I only got one box of popcorn 1458 01:12:58,400 --> 01:12:59,120 Speaker 2: and we split it. 1459 01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:03,080 Speaker 6: That's all I had. Yeah, Drake, I said, here's a 1460 01:13:03,120 --> 01:13:04,040 Speaker 6: water fine out. 1461 01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:11,160 Speaker 7: All we gotta god me cry. All right, more more 1462 01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:13,320 Speaker 7: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up for twenty 1463 01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:16,360 Speaker 7: minutes after right after this, you're listening. 1464 01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:18,120 Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show. 1465 01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:22,599 Speaker 7: All right, So, guys, have you ever eaten a meal 1466 01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:24,559 Speaker 7: that just brought you to tears? 1467 01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:27,240 Speaker 11: It was so good? I mean, have you ever done that? 1468 01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:29,679 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what's gotten close? 1469 01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:34,599 Speaker 10: What when we were all in Paris that baked potato, 1470 01:13:34,880 --> 01:13:38,120 Speaker 10: oh with that loaded cayeh. 1471 01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:37,959 Speaker 8: That cavear. 1472 01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:40,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it had me so emotional. 1473 01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:43,559 Speaker 11: Yes you all right? 1474 01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:48,080 Speaker 7: Okay, well wait a minute, so good, hold your tears. 1475 01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:48,800 Speaker 8: It was good. 1476 01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:51,160 Speaker 1: Hold your tears, baby, all right, here we go. 1477 01:13:52,320 --> 01:13:55,280 Speaker 7: So yeah, So, so some of us have eaten a 1478 01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:57,439 Speaker 7: meal that has brought us to tears, or at least 1479 01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:00,400 Speaker 7: come close to bring us to tears. Or maybe it 1480 01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:02,320 Speaker 7: was a bill at the end of the meal that 1481 01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:03,160 Speaker 7: made you cry. 1482 01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:07,519 Speaker 11: Well, anyway, there is this elderly man in China. 1483 01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:11,760 Speaker 7: He's been diagnosed with an extremely rare condition. It's known 1484 01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:16,040 Speaker 7: as crocodile tears syndrome. I'm like, is this for real? 1485 01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:21,000 Speaker 1: You got this? Yeah, you got a to turn here. 1486 01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:21,320 Speaker 2: I didn't. 1487 01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,759 Speaker 1: I beat my mama oxtails and he just happened. 1488 01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:29,679 Speaker 7: It causes him to cry every time he eats. It's 1489 01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:33,479 Speaker 7: ruining his social life. Doctors reported that his nerve fibers 1490 01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:38,479 Speaker 7: are misdirected and they interfere with his uh salivary glands, 1491 01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:42,040 Speaker 7: so when he smells or tastes food, it makes him cry. 1492 01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:45,160 Speaker 11: And I'm very funny, No it's not. 1493 01:14:45,360 --> 01:14:48,320 Speaker 1: Nat can't and try and trek him to him to say, 1494 01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:49,880 Speaker 1: just eat like this. 1495 01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:58,200 Speaker 7: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Ship. 1496 01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:01,400 Speaker 7: You're listening Hardy Morning Show. 1497 01:15:02,120 --> 01:15:03,920 Speaker 11: All right, it is time now for a round of 1498 01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:05,200 Speaker 11: would you rather? Guys? 1499 01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:08,840 Speaker 7: Would you rather have a missing tooth on the side 1500 01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:11,680 Speaker 7: or a full chest. 1501 01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:12,400 Speaker 9: Of gray hair? 1502 01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:15,040 Speaker 2: Give me be Yeah, I'm gonna take you want that, 1503 01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:18,280 Speaker 2: don't take that chest full of gray hair. I'm making 1504 01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:26,040 Speaker 2: sexy out wear black shirts with it. Oot. I got 1505 01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:28,920 Speaker 2: to have it too, though. You know, I'm talking about 1506 01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:31,120 Speaker 2: the wall where you can have that cigarette dangling off 1507 01:15:31,160 --> 01:15:32,080 Speaker 2: the side of your mouth. 1508 01:15:33,080 --> 01:15:34,000 Speaker 6: That flop. 1509 01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:39,479 Speaker 1: That is not sexy. 1510 01:15:39,760 --> 01:15:40,519 Speaker 8: That's a visual. 1511 01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:43,719 Speaker 1: We all got it right down. 1512 01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:45,559 Speaker 8: All right. 1513 01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:50,280 Speaker 7: Would you rather take a guaranteed five hundred thousand dollars, 1514 01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:53,360 Speaker 7: A guaranteed five hundred thousand dollars, or would you rather 1515 01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:56,040 Speaker 7: a chance at getting one million dollars? 1516 01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:57,639 Speaker 8: Would they say one in a hand. 1517 01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:00,519 Speaker 1: Be two in the bush. That's why one of their 1518 01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:02,280 Speaker 1: take the half of the thing. 1519 01:16:02,720 --> 01:16:04,639 Speaker 8: I can flip that. I'll take the hash. 1520 01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:06,440 Speaker 11: I can't make it die, make a nickel. 1521 01:16:06,240 --> 01:16:11,679 Speaker 6: Fun I'm gonna definitely take that half. 1522 01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:13,360 Speaker 1: All right, all right? 1523 01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:18,120 Speaker 11: Would you rather have stinky breath or stinky feet? 1524 01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:19,560 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1525 01:16:20,720 --> 01:16:23,000 Speaker 2: I put them in them shoes I got, I got shoes. 1526 01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:25,560 Speaker 2: I get through fishing. I can't even take my damn boots. 1527 01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:26,720 Speaker 4: Off like that. 1528 01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:35,120 Speaker 19: Yeah, I'm going with bee Yeah, b all right, closing 1529 01:16:35,160 --> 01:16:37,360 Speaker 19: the gym, got through working out and taking them shoes off? 1530 01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:38,080 Speaker 4: Whoa? 1531 01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:42,720 Speaker 2: But at least you have to unleash them. Problem with 1532 01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:45,559 Speaker 2: bad breath is it is you? 1533 01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:46,519 Speaker 15: Yeah? 1534 01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:51,960 Speaker 2: You ain't never heard nobody go like people go, man, 1535 01:16:51,960 --> 01:16:52,840 Speaker 2: whose feet is that? 1536 01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:53,120 Speaker 8: You know? 1537 01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:55,400 Speaker 6: Ain't nobody would? Who breath? Is that? 1538 01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:57,560 Speaker 11: They know? 1539 01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:02,080 Speaker 2: You open your mouth and you still talking, and we 1540 01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:03,080 Speaker 2: were affected? 1541 01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:06,280 Speaker 11: And what about the mask? The mask? 1542 01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:10,160 Speaker 2: Well you know that bad breakfast rough man, because if 1543 01:17:10,160 --> 01:17:11,439 Speaker 2: you put that mask on me. 1544 01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:13,479 Speaker 6: You actually knocked your own ass out. 1545 01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:19,479 Speaker 8: And there's some people just not knowing it was them. 1546 01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,840 Speaker 2: I can't wait, there's another. This ain't gonna finish the 1547 01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:25,880 Speaker 2: day out right here? 1548 01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:28,640 Speaker 8: All right? 1549 01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:29,200 Speaker 1: Last one? 1550 01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:34,080 Speaker 7: Would you rather have a constant sinus headache? Constant sinus 1551 01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:37,400 Speaker 7: headache or constant itching down there? 1552 01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:41,599 Speaker 16: He No, I'm just I'm just gonna be stopped up 1553 01:17:42,520 --> 01:17:44,759 Speaker 16: all the way stopped signs headache. 1554 01:17:46,320 --> 01:17:49,920 Speaker 2: No. Well, I'm just I'm gonna just be digging. Damn 1555 01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:52,080 Speaker 2: you dig and. 1556 01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:55,040 Speaker 6: I help dog. I'm talking about looking at making eye contact. 1557 01:17:55,120 --> 01:17:59,880 Speaker 7: What you want that's around today, coming up with. 1558 01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:02,439 Speaker 6: How you do it? 1559 01:18:02,920 --> 01:18:05,920 Speaker 7: Last break of the day, and closing from Steve Harvey. 1560 01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:10,000 Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. 1561 01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:11,200 Speaker 4: Steve. 1562 01:18:11,240 --> 01:18:14,200 Speaker 7: Here we are end of the show with just one 1563 01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:15,880 Speaker 7: more thing. Your closing remarks. 1564 01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:21,000 Speaker 2: Uh, you know, today I want to still stay on 1565 01:18:21,040 --> 01:18:25,080 Speaker 2: the encouraging tip and I want to talk to people 1566 01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:29,800 Speaker 2: about something that you should make. These are just suggestions, folks. 1567 01:18:29,880 --> 01:18:32,320 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know everything, but these are some 1568 01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:36,200 Speaker 2: things that I do to personally keep myself moving forward 1569 01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:39,680 Speaker 2: in a positive direction because I'm always trying to accomplish 1570 01:18:39,760 --> 01:18:42,760 Speaker 2: something new. You know, I'm never satisfied. Well, it's not 1571 01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:47,240 Speaker 2: that I'm never satisfied. I'm never complacent. I don't I 1572 01:18:47,240 --> 01:18:51,040 Speaker 2: don't believe in sitting still. I don't believe in they're 1573 01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:52,320 Speaker 2: not moving forward. 1574 01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:53,479 Speaker 6: I just don't see it. 1575 01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:56,600 Speaker 2: You know, every day I try to wake up and 1576 01:18:57,080 --> 01:19:02,679 Speaker 2: approach and attack a new challenge. I've always setting goals 1577 01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:05,000 Speaker 2: out there because it just gives you something to aim 1578 01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:09,360 Speaker 2: for throughout the day. One of the things I want 1579 01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:12,200 Speaker 2: to remind people of something that I do and you're 1580 01:19:12,240 --> 01:19:15,400 Speaker 2: invited to do the sing is you know, have a 1581 01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:21,160 Speaker 2: life feel with a mission, have a life filled with 1582 01:19:21,280 --> 01:19:25,160 Speaker 2: a mission. Now you can have several missions in life, 1583 01:19:26,040 --> 01:19:29,639 Speaker 2: but get your life filed with missions. Remember the show 1584 01:19:29,720 --> 01:19:33,439 Speaker 2: Mission Impossible, And remember that tape recording that used to 1585 01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:35,639 Speaker 2: come on every day and tell the guy what to do, 1586 01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:38,120 Speaker 2: and then at the end of it, the tape with 1587 01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:43,559 Speaker 2: self destruct. But that became the mission. It became the purpose, 1588 01:19:43,680 --> 01:19:46,880 Speaker 2: the task at hand, and until you completed that task, 1589 01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:48,600 Speaker 2: you came back in and that's what the whole show is. 1590 01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:49,559 Speaker 6: It was a really funny thing. 1591 01:19:49,600 --> 01:19:52,040 Speaker 2: You know, this tape recording comes on and in it 1592 01:19:52,360 --> 01:19:55,719 Speaker 2: fears is and disintegrates, and that's your mission. 1593 01:19:57,120 --> 01:19:58,360 Speaker 6: I still do that. Man. 1594 01:19:58,400 --> 01:20:00,840 Speaker 2: It's sort of a funny analogy. I try to create 1595 01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:03,920 Speaker 2: a mission in my life all the time, and in 1596 01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:06,240 Speaker 2: order to accomplish your mission, one of the things you 1597 01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:11,320 Speaker 2: have to do is you have to surround yourself with people. 1598 01:20:11,600 --> 01:20:13,879 Speaker 6: Who are about the same mission. 1599 01:20:15,160 --> 01:20:20,280 Speaker 2: That will be no missions accomplished in life solely by yourself. 1600 01:20:21,960 --> 01:20:24,400 Speaker 2: I don't I can't think of anything that you can 1601 01:20:24,439 --> 01:20:29,800 Speaker 2: accomplish solely by yourself. You know, even if you want 1602 01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:31,519 Speaker 2: to have a relationship with God, Yeah, you can have 1603 01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:34,360 Speaker 2: a relationship with God, but to draw closer, you know, 1604 01:20:34,360 --> 01:20:35,639 Speaker 2: you gotta have some type of tool. 1605 01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:37,879 Speaker 6: Lig you know, you got to read some scripture. Somebody's 1606 01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:40,680 Speaker 6: got to show you another way to approach it. Somebody go, Man, 1607 01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:41,240 Speaker 6: if you going. 1608 01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:43,599 Speaker 2: Through this, read this or read that, and it sort 1609 01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:46,720 Speaker 2: of helps you with your goal even in that. But 1610 01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:50,439 Speaker 2: I don't know anything that you can accomplish mission wise alone. 1611 01:20:50,920 --> 01:20:54,639 Speaker 2: So you need to surround yourself who with people who 1612 01:20:54,640 --> 01:20:59,240 Speaker 2: are like minded. As a motivational speaker, sometimes when I'm 1613 01:20:59,360 --> 01:21:02,480 Speaker 2: going you use my motivational pictures. 1614 01:21:02,080 --> 01:21:03,880 Speaker 6: That I keep in my phone, and. 1615 01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:05,400 Speaker 2: I put them up on a big screen and I 1616 01:21:05,400 --> 01:21:08,200 Speaker 2: show them to people. And one of my favorite pictures 1617 01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:13,280 Speaker 2: is a picture of these lions walking and the expression 1618 01:21:13,320 --> 01:21:17,559 Speaker 2: on the lion's face because they've woken up from their 1619 01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:20,040 Speaker 2: nap and they're going out for the hunt. 1620 01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:24,000 Speaker 6: And if you look at lions when they're walking to 1621 01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:24,840 Speaker 6: go out on. 1622 01:21:24,800 --> 01:21:30,559 Speaker 2: A hunt, they all have that same determined look on 1623 01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:34,000 Speaker 2: their face because they're all about the same mission. You 1624 01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:36,599 Speaker 2: ever notice when lions ready to go out on the hunt, 1625 01:21:36,760 --> 01:21:40,720 Speaker 2: they leave the cubs back at the den because see, 1626 01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:43,160 Speaker 2: it ain't no time to play out here, because we're 1627 01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:44,400 Speaker 2: going out here to feed. 1628 01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:46,320 Speaker 6: Were going out here to hunt. 1629 01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:49,320 Speaker 2: So they leave the cubs back in the den when 1630 01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:50,920 Speaker 2: they go out on the hunt because they ain't got 1631 01:21:50,920 --> 01:21:54,200 Speaker 2: no time for no foolishness. And I have this picture 1632 01:21:54,240 --> 01:21:58,240 Speaker 2: in my phone of these lions just striding and if 1633 01:21:58,280 --> 01:22:00,559 Speaker 2: you look at all the looks on when they face, 1634 01:22:00,840 --> 01:22:01,639 Speaker 2: they serious. 1635 01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:03,920 Speaker 6: It ain't no playtime. 1636 01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:10,720 Speaker 2: Because everybody is on the same mission. Everybody is of 1637 01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:14,559 Speaker 2: the like mindedness that it takes to accomplish the mission. 1638 01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:19,320 Speaker 2: And the capture says, surround yourself with people who are 1639 01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:22,439 Speaker 2: on the same mission. And I'm saying that to you today. 1640 01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:27,439 Speaker 2: Find someone who is about the business just like you are. 1641 01:22:28,720 --> 01:22:34,920 Speaker 2: Start hanging out with people who are goal oriented, who 1642 01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:38,960 Speaker 2: are are success minded. Somebody was talking to somebody one time. 1643 01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:41,160 Speaker 2: They said, man, Steve, let me ask you something. Why 1644 01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:43,720 Speaker 2: rich people are always talking about money? That would get 1645 01:22:43,760 --> 01:22:46,960 Speaker 2: on my nerves. Okay, what else you want to talk about? 1646 01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:49,760 Speaker 2: You want to talk about what happened on the Real Housewives? 1647 01:22:51,040 --> 01:22:53,400 Speaker 2: What you want to talk about, what's going on in 1648 01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:58,040 Speaker 2: the theaters today? We can talk about that. But when 1649 01:22:58,080 --> 01:23:01,680 Speaker 2: I get together with my friends, we get together. We 1650 01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:05,800 Speaker 2: on a mission. I even play golf with people who 1651 01:23:05,880 --> 01:23:09,040 Speaker 2: are on the same mission as me, you know, because 1652 01:23:09,080 --> 01:23:11,560 Speaker 2: we of like mindedness. I don't play golf with a 1653 01:23:11,600 --> 01:23:14,640 Speaker 2: bunch of single friends because see, now, when we're not 1654 01:23:14,720 --> 01:23:16,840 Speaker 2: playing golf, we're not gonna be able to single mind 1655 01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:19,559 Speaker 2: I need people just want to go play golf, Go 1656 01:23:19,640 --> 01:23:23,240 Speaker 2: to the clubhouse, have a cigar, get yourself a drink, 1657 01:23:23,320 --> 01:23:25,320 Speaker 2: get yourself some neat and go and go to your room, 1658 01:23:25,400 --> 01:23:26,960 Speaker 2: cause we gotta get up early in the morning play 1659 01:23:27,000 --> 01:23:28,799 Speaker 2: this tournament game we got going again. 1660 01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:29,840 Speaker 1: That's just it. 1661 01:23:30,200 --> 01:23:33,840 Speaker 2: Even when I play, I play with people of like mindedness. 1662 01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:37,479 Speaker 2: I don't play with people that's doing something else because 1663 01:23:37,479 --> 01:23:40,920 Speaker 2: I don't need the distraction. It's very important that you 1664 01:23:40,960 --> 01:23:43,799 Speaker 2: surround yourself with like minded people. 1665 01:23:44,720 --> 01:23:46,320 Speaker 6: Find them somewhere. 1666 01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:47,960 Speaker 8: See. 1667 01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:50,320 Speaker 2: It goes along with an old saying. You've all heard this. 1668 01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:54,080 Speaker 2: If you're the smartest person in your group, then you 1669 01:23:54,200 --> 01:23:57,960 Speaker 2: need a new group. You can't be the smartest person 1670 01:23:58,000 --> 01:24:02,360 Speaker 2: in your group. Man, you gotta have somebody that knows 1671 01:24:02,400 --> 01:24:05,520 Speaker 2: a little bit more about the journey, or is familiar 1672 01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:07,879 Speaker 2: with a certain thing that's going to happen on the journey, 1673 01:24:08,080 --> 01:24:09,760 Speaker 2: or they can give you a suggestion when you get 1674 01:24:09,760 --> 01:24:12,960 Speaker 2: to that point. Everybody ain't got to be good at everything. 1675 01:24:13,040 --> 01:24:16,120 Speaker 2: Sometimes you have specialty people. It's like you know, when 1676 01:24:16,160 --> 01:24:18,880 Speaker 2: you assembling your team, all of your friends ain't the same. 1677 01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:23,040 Speaker 2: Some of your friends you don't have spiritual messages for you. 1678 01:24:23,479 --> 01:24:25,280 Speaker 2: Some of them just have uplifts, some of them just 1679 01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:27,599 Speaker 2: cool to be around. Some of them do the same 1680 01:24:27,640 --> 01:24:31,120 Speaker 2: things you do. But surround yourself with people who are 1681 01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:34,320 Speaker 2: on the same mission. It will make your journey to 1682 01:24:34,400 --> 01:24:37,799 Speaker 2: the top a lot smoother. It won't make it easy, 1683 01:24:38,120 --> 01:24:39,519 Speaker 2: it will make it smoother. 1684 01:24:41,640 --> 01:24:42,879 Speaker 6: Y'all have a great weekend. 1685 01:24:44,880 --> 01:25:00,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, you already know. For all Steve Harvery contests, no 1686 01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:04,360 Speaker 7: purchase necessary, void were prohibited. Participants must be legal US 1687 01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:07,880 Speaker 7: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For 1688 01:25:08,040 --> 01:25:11,479 Speaker 7: complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. 1689 01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:14,400 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1690 01:25:16,560 --> 01:25:19,599 Speaker 6: Saturday in ju line twenty seconds. 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