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Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fread Show.

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Speaker 2: Like you're running in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 2: We call them blogs. Caitlin, you got one right, Yes, okay.

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Speaker 1: Though, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: So, I like to consider myself a girls girl. And

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Speaker 3: just so you know, if you are a friend of mine,

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Speaker 3: which you all are, I am ready to hate your

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Speaker 3: partners at any time that.

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Speaker 1: You need me to.

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Speaker 3: Okay, if you break up, I'm on your side. If

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Speaker 3: you're in a fight, I got you. I still see

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Speaker 3: ex's of my friends who they're cool, and I still

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Speaker 3: give them a look like from across the room, like

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Speaker 3: I got your back.

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Speaker 4: So imagine how mortified I was when I realized that

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Speaker 4: I had accidentally message one of my friend's husbands that

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Speaker 4: he was cute.

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, yes, yes, so let me tell you

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Speaker 3: how this happened. But it's kind of been bothering me

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Speaker 3: ever since, so you know, on Instagram, how now, it

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Speaker 3: kind of makes it a little bit confusing when you're

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Speaker 3: sharing someone else's story, like whose story it is? Because

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Speaker 3: you can share a story, but if you make it bigger,

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Speaker 3: you barely see that it's not their own story.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So my friend was posting a really cute She

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Speaker 3: posted a really cute story of her getting emotional because

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Speaker 3: her husband coaches a football team and they won, and

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Speaker 3: she posted like a little video of herself crying and

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Speaker 3: like just happy tears and celebrating him and off to

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Speaker 3: the screen. So apparently she tagged him and he had

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Speaker 3: shared that video.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so it was his story.

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Speaker 3: So I replied to his story and I said, uh,

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Speaker 3: first of all.

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Speaker 1: Where is that TV entertainment center from? Because it's very cute.

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Speaker 1: And then the second message said, by the way, you cute? Okay, oh,

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Speaker 1: because I was trying to tell my friends. So I'm

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Speaker 1: a jedib unbelievable. I'm a harlot. So what I was

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Speaker 1: trying to tell my friend is she was cute and

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Speaker 1: she was crying.

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Speaker 3: Like I didn't want her to feel like I was

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Speaker 3: just acting about asking about the entertainment center.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to go.

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Speaker 3: I acknowledge that you posted and you're happy for your husband,

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Speaker 3: You're cute, but like, where the hell is.

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Speaker 1: That TV entertainment center from? Anyways?

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Speaker 3: He responded and he hearted it, but like I realized,

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Speaker 3: once he hearted it, that was him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I messaged him.

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Speaker 3: And I said, oh my gosh, I thought this was Alyssa.

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Speaker 3: I'm so so sorry. And then it was weird because

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Speaker 3: I was like, wait, but why did you heart that?

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Speaker 1: So then he spun in was like I thought.

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Speaker 3: You were saying we were cute as a couple, and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, good, everybody pass this test.

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Speaker 1: We're all good.

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Speaker 3: And then just to make sure everything was above board,

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Speaker 3: I then messaged her and told her the whole story

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Speaker 3: because I felt so guilty and so bad that I'm

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Speaker 3: a home wrecker.

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Speaker 2: Oh see, that sounds like something I would do is

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Speaker 2: over explain the thing that could have been interpreted in

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Speaker 2: a non inflammatory way. Yeah, you know, like like that's

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Speaker 2: what I would make it worse. I did, yes, right

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Speaker 2: over explaining my I mean, it's what I'm famous, why,

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Speaker 2: I mean, my story of my life. It's over explained

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Speaker 2: Fred the memoir. That's what I would do. And where

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Speaker 2: no one, where no one saw offence, I would find

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Speaker 2: a way to then let them see how they could

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Speaker 2: have been offended and should have been maybe. And then

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Speaker 2: all of a sudden it's like, oh, wait a minute, woh,

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Speaker 2: but you did the right thing, I guess, just to

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Speaker 2: clarify that you were, in fact calling your friend's husband cute.

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Speaker 1: It was just I just could not believe I did that.

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Speaker 3: You by the way, you're cute to a married man,

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Speaker 3: And it was like a he knew that I didn't

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Speaker 3: mean it that way. If I would have sent it that,

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Speaker 3: you know, like he's friends with my boyfriend, YadA YadA.

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Speaker 1: But thank goodness that he hearted.

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Speaker 3: It because he thought I meant them as a couple,

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Speaker 3: because then we would have a whole new slew of problems.

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Speaker 1: Right, what if you like responded like, oh you do

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Speaker 1: you think I'm cute? Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Hey, hey, what you doing? What you're wearing, you know,

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Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, look what you and oh man,

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Speaker 2: then what do you do? Do you go run right

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Speaker 2: to your friend and tell her?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's a tough one because in that situation, if she

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Speaker 2: ever saw the message, then she if you didn't go

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Speaker 2: tell her, or you didn't say something like really strong

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Speaker 2: against it, then it might look like you're culpable, like

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Speaker 2: you're complicit.

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Speaker 3: I think I would find the nearest body of water

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Speaker 3: and just throw my phone in because that would really

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Speaker 3: stress me out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because the problem is once he writes that, if

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Speaker 2: you see it, now you're you're Now you're implicated.

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Speaker 1: Now we're having an affair, right, That's what it sounds

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Speaker 1: like to me that I think it's going to get

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Speaker 1: me one of these days.

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Speaker 2: Is And maybe everyone else understands this very clearly, and

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Speaker 2: I'm the only one that just screws this up. But

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Speaker 2: if you have an iPhone and you have like used

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Speaker 2: the mail app, and there's a chain of emails going mmm,

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Speaker 2: if you're at depending on where you are in the chain,

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Speaker 2: if you're trying to respond to like the email you're

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Speaker 2: looking at, if you hit the reply button at the

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Speaker 2: bottom that doesn't necessarily right to the person that you're

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Speaker 2: looking at whose email you're looking at, you'd have to

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Speaker 2: go into the email itself and click reply on that

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Speaker 2: particular email. Because more than once I've, like you know, Jason,

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Speaker 2: will be on an email to someone else and then

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Speaker 2: I'm replying to Jason, but I don't want the other person,

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Speaker 2: but I'm looking at Jason's email, so I hit reply.

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Speaker 2: If you don't look carefully, you might be sending it

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Speaker 2: to the wrong person. And so if I don't like

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Speaker 2: what the email says and I want to be like Jason,

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Speaker 2: this person's a moron, and you gotta be very careful,

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Speaker 2: it's gonna get me one of these days, because I

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Speaker 2: think it could be more straightforward than it is. I

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Speaker 2: think it's confusing.

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Speaker 3: Another one that gets people a lot is when you're

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Speaker 3: trying to send someone's story or post and like talk

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Speaker 3: a little smack. Sometimes people will accidentally send it to

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Speaker 3: the person who posted it and not their friend.

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Speaker 1: So you've got to be real careful and you're doing that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we gotta check our work these days, man, We

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Speaker 2: got it. We gotta show our work. We got double trick. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: get a big double trick.

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Speaker 1: I'm a home runner,