1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: I demanded a new ring from my fiance because he 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: bought it on Tiamu. 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 2: Dakota knows a lot about Timu. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 3: Dude, I went crazy, Dakota first drop. Yeah, they banned me. Yeah, 5 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 3: they banned me because I was well, actually, well that's 6 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 3: another story. I have the right to remain silent. I've 7 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 3: read for me, okay, Si, Yeah, no reason. 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: No reason at all. My twenty seven female fiance twenty 9 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: nine male proposed to me a few weeks ago. I 10 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: caught me completely by surprise. But we've been together for 11 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: three years and things have been going great, so I 12 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: was really excited and said yes. By the way, this 13 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: comes from xnx NCB on the Best of Redditor updates 14 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: se burnt it So. I really liked the ring when 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: I first saw it, and my friends and family all 16 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 1: think it's donning. It's an oval cut with diamonds across 17 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: the band. I asked where he got it, and he 18 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: wouldn't tell me where, but that he got a great 19 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: deal on it. I don't. I don't know if I 20 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: would tell my fiance that I got a great deal 21 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: on their ring. I think that's maybe like a thing 22 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: you keep to yourself. You lost points, like, your ring 23 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: was super cheap, babe. It didn't cost me that much. 24 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I know how to work a deal, babe. 25 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 2: Baby, it was a two for one one. 26 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: It was a two for one deal. 27 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 2: We have to stop having. 28 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: The dang it. We were just so in sync. 29 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 2: We have to stop each others sent to damn? 30 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 3: Which is I was going to say, for the record, 31 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 3: I was going to say sandwiches? 32 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I didn't think anything of it until yesterday. 33 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 1: We were in bed and I was asking him if 34 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: it was a diamond or moist to Night? 35 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 2: Is that? 36 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: He pronounced that. 37 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 3: I think it might be mos night last night. 38 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: Moist to Night, mainly out of curiosity. I don't have 39 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: a preference by He said he didn't know and would 40 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: have to look it up. When I glanced over at 41 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: his phone, he was in the Timu app. 42 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 3: Oh. 43 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 1: I asked him if he got it from there, and 44 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: he didn't respond, so I asked again, and he responded 45 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: with something like does it matter? Does it matter how 46 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: much did you pay on the ring? Was it ten dollars? 47 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 3: Hold on, baby, will me getting my TEAMU account? 48 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: Oh? One six? 49 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:29,959 Speaker 3: Let me let me check if there was a discount 50 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 3: on that or. 51 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 2: I'm a gold member of Timu. Don't worry. 52 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 3: It was ninety five percent off. But I'll tell you 53 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 3: the MSRP. 54 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah. I spent all nights so confused today 55 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: it decided to download the app and look at my ring, 56 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: and I found one that looks identical. I found that 57 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: exact ring and it's listed at thirty eight dollars. 58 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 3: That's actually, for the record, really expensive on Temu. 59 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, aren't they usually like five bucks? 60 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: He actually pen a sponge in terms of like Temu price. 61 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 2: Dakota would know about tea. 62 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 3: Yeah again, I have the right to remain silent. 63 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: No new for the comment. I am mad. He makes 64 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: good money, two hundred k a year. 65 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 3: He's officially lost, he's done any break up, like breakw. 66 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: I can't even spend like a couple hundred on you. 67 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 3: I was teeing it up in my head. I'm like, 68 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: maybe he maybe's maybe he couldn't afford like a real 69 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,360 Speaker 3: nice quality ring. And it was like no, no, no, no, no. 70 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: No, you could afford it and. 71 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 3: A half a year's salary. What's the what's the standard 72 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 3: that the diamond company is like made up? I know 73 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 3: eighty years ago, you know a lot about it something. Yeah, 74 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 3: you should be if you make two hundred grand a year, 75 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 3: you should be spending more than thirty eight dollars. 76 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: I think a couple a couple of hundred at the very. 77 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 3: Wait, actually, is this the is this the full blown 78 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 3: wedding ring? The engagement ring? 79 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: But that's like that, that's where you spend all the money. 80 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 3: I don't know. The engagement ring is Wait, it's the 81 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 3: engagement ring. That's where you spend spend money. 82 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: Yes, the wedding rings are like important, but the engagement 83 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: ring is the the that's like the. 84 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 3: I thought it was the well, I mean, I'm not 85 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: a ring. 86 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 2: It's about the quality and the love at. 87 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 3: This point, and there's no quality, no quality. In three 88 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 3: months three months, there we go. 89 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:25,919 Speaker 1: He makes good money to k and I feel like 90 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:27,839 Speaker 1: he could have shelled out some money for a ring 91 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: better than one on tu Am I the a hole 92 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 1: for telling him I don't want it? There's one comment 93 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 1: or a couple of comments from op and an update, 94 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: so we'll read the comments and then talk about it. 95 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: Opie's thought, Okay, I'm not mad that the diamonds are 96 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 1: not real, but I worry about the equality of the 97 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: ring because I imagine my engagement ring to at least 98 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: be sturdy. It's fine for now. It just breaks apart. 99 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 1: It's one of those. It's one of those rings that 100 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: they sold as like mood ring, you know, and if 101 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 1: they break apart, you have too much bad energy in 102 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: your life, you know. 103 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 3: One of those. Yeah, but it was the apparently it 104 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 3: was blessed by a guru and when it breaks, get 105 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 3: good luck. I don't know who knows, though. 106 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: Well, I've heard about rings like that. It's like where 107 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 1: it breaks, it's absorbed all the bad energy, and you're. 108 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:14,919 Speaker 2: Like, probably could do that, you know. 109 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 1: If that's I don't know, maybe there's something behind it. 110 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: But I do think companies can use that as an 111 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: excuse to just sell cheap ring, to. 112 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,359 Speaker 3: Sell almost trash. Yes, they're like, oh it broke on 113 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 3: I have I have five hundred tons of elastic. What 114 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 3: do we do with it? We just turn them into 115 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 3: rings that break. It's on purpose. Tell them they break 116 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:34,239 Speaker 3: on purpose. 117 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: It's all about marketing. Everything's in the marketing. Everything's marketing, guys, 118 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: A commenter, not the a hole, because that thing make 119 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: turn your finger green. He's lucky. You don't have sensitivity 120 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:48,280 Speaker 1: sensitivity to fake metals like some do. Yeah, I would 121 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: know right away. I would know right away because I 122 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: have very sensitive skin. 123 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you're not right away. You just feel like act. 124 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: He makes good money, but a thirty eight dollars ring 125 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: is he cheap? With other things where this discount shopping 126 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: isn't a new thing for him, and he's just an 127 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: all round penny pincher. My first thought was, did he 128 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: not spend the money because he doesn't want slash expect 129 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: this to laugh? 130 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 3: Ooh yikes. 131 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, also, babe, could we sign a what 132 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: are they called the winemon. 133 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 3: Blanking pre pre Yeah, the prenuptials. Well, I don't know. 134 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 3: I mean, I guess being look being able to like 135 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 3: save money and find deals is cool. Not on the 136 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 3: engagement ring, fiance, maybe just like may if you're making 137 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 3: two hundred day this guy had, was this like maybe 138 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 3: a prank? 139 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? He's like, god, gotcha, here's the real ring. 140 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:47,559 Speaker 3: Here's okay, I bought I bought your Mercedes Surrey because 141 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 3: I make two year exactly. 142 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: Oh, P responds, Yeah, let me provide some more context. Really, 143 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: he's never been overly frugal. I'm probably more frugal than 144 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: he is. Neither of us are huge spenders, but we 145 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 1: each make enough to not have to strictly budget on anything. 146 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: We have our own accounts and split rent equally. I 147 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 1: know he has at least one hundred k across his 148 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: savings slash investments accounts. We got for drinks a few 149 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: times a week, and we'll go to concerts together and 150 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: what not frequently. We travel a few times a year 151 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 1: and stay in basic accommodations like our door dash the 152 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: other night was forty dollars. My ring costs less than 153 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: the door dashing dinner. 154 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 2: Oh get away from me. 155 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: Wait, those ring is thirty eight dollars and their door 156 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: Dash dinner was forty. That's break up within This relationship 157 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: is over. 158 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 3: That is literally completely unacceptable. We have no free adverts. 159 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 3: You're right, Yeah, you're right. So now I'm Paddington Bear. 160 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 3: That's what I am. 161 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 2: They took the words right out of my mouth. 162 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: There, that's a great movie. 163 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 3: I just need overalls. 164 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: Pometers as you are not the a hole. But what 165 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: we all really want to know is whether or not 166 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: you would still marry him if he replaces the ring. 167 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: I don't think you should. I don't think OPI says. 168 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: The responses to this have made me even more confused. 169 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: People saying it could be a loyalty test, that he 170 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: doesn't want me to be able to sell it if 171 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: we divorce, or that he doesn't plan to be with 172 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: me for long. I have a pit in my stomach. 173 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 1: I haven't considered breaking things off, but that was before 174 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 1: I wrote this here. I was thinking maybe he was 175 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: just not thinking or rushed getting the ring, or maybe 176 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: he genuinely thought he was getting a great deal on 177 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: a high quality rinks. 178 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 3: If he actually thought that, that's the reasonable Because he's 179 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 3: a stupid guy. 180 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: Either he's thoughtless divorce, he's stupid divorce, or he doesn't 181 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: care about you divorce, the div then on the ring itself. 182 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 1: The response to this is just absolutely insane. Sorry, I'm 183 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: having a hard time keeping up. A few of you 184 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: want to see the ring, so here it is if 185 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: you want to look it up. I'm still waiting for 186 00:08:55,960 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: him to get home. No responsors update though, Uh, there 187 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:06,719 Speaker 1: is an update, but we can pause and talk about it. 188 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, divorce or not, because we know what's gonna happen. 189 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: I know exactly what the answer is. 190 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 3: I think that's that's the biggest thing right there is 191 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 3: like it needs to be you like conversation has to 192 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 3: be had about like all right, do we want to 193 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,079 Speaker 3: actually pay money? What do you want out of your 194 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 3: engagement ring? Like do you want something that can may 195 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 3: he go like dam or like do you want a 196 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 3: thirty eight dollars demu ring? 197 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the question because it seems like she liked 198 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 1: it originally, which he could have just said, hey, are 199 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: you okay with this ring and we could spend more 200 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: on like the wedding or is this something that is 201 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 1: really important to you than like it is for us 202 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: people all get it ringed. 203 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. 204 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 3: It feels like maybe it was just really really poorly executed. Yeah, 205 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 3: like although it does this guy, was that that comment 206 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,599 Speaker 3: we read Was that just an assumption that he's like 207 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 3: kind of a penny pincher or. 208 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: Was that someone asked if he was and op said, 209 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm more frugal than him. He's not usually very frugal. Wow, 210 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: So I'm like, why are you? It just doesn't seem 211 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: like he he's just thoughtless or he doesn't care. 212 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 4: Or he will at least like communicate it like I'm 213 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 4: getting you the the Temu ring, but baby, the real ring. 214 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, once I get that real ring. 215 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: Just to just you. 216 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 3: I don't know if I can go divorce on this 217 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 3: just because it's like you're staying in it. I think 218 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 3: like it needs to just be like discussed more and 219 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 3: you need to like get to the bottom of like, 220 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 3: all right, why he makes like two hundred grand? Like 221 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 3: it was did was this funny? Like was this silks? Like? 222 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 223 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 3: Because I feel like there's just something and he's not 224 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 3: a penny pincher. He's not the guy who's like always 225 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:53,959 Speaker 3: trying to uh, you know, save a buck over. I mean, yeah, 226 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:55,839 Speaker 3: come on, how do you how do you know what 227 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 3: I'm saying. 228 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: I think you should always talk first, regardless of whether 229 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: you're gonna break up or not, just to just to 230 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: figure out what's going on. 231 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 4: But I do think voices on the way I propose 232 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 4: with a ring pop just for the fun of it, 233 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 4: and then half a real Yeah. 234 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: That's kind of fun though, because they know immediately that 235 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: this is a ring PROPM. Yeah exce you know, there's 236 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 1: no there's no deceit involved. 237 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, he was going like, Babe, I got I got 238 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 4: a good. 239 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 3: Technically, he didn't lie, lie immediately say I got a 240 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 3: good baby. You're not gonna believe what did? What do 241 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 3: you think this is what you want to do? He 242 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 3: wanted to say what do you think that costs? Yeah, 243 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 3: to say thirty eight bucks? Yeah, I think he realized 244 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 3: halfway through the actual conversation. He's like, this is horrible 245 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 3: for me. 246 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. She starts talking about Moss and night. She's like, yeah, 247 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 1: it's like a couple of thousands, like did you see 248 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 1: that add at the super Bowl? But there is an update. 249 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: After reading responses for my first post on am I 250 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,959 Speaker 1: the Ale subburnt it, I was freaking out a bit. 251 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,839 Speaker 1: He came home while I was facetiming a friend about this. 252 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: I hung up with her and then talked to him 253 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: for an hour or so. He apologize for sleeping on 254 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: the couch and then he needed time to think. He 255 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 1: doesn't see i'd I with me on my concerns about 256 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: the ring and says he did research and that it 257 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: was highly rated. They have five stars on TIMU. Everyone 258 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 1: said I got this ring. I'm a real life person 259 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: and I loved it. 260 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 3: Is there anything that's not highly rated on t MoU 261 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 3: It's like I'm assuming it's you go on uh blank Prime, 262 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 3: no free no free ads here. Every single show and 263 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 3: movie on that it is four and a half to 264 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 3: five stars. You can't find a single bad rated. It's crazy. 265 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 3: If you see something with like three stars, it'scompletely unwatchable. 266 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: You can't Yeah, don't even look at it. 267 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,680 Speaker 3: So is Temu the same way? I feel like maybe 268 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 3: it is. 269 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 1: I feel like when you have those website you know, 270 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: like the scam websites or you know, yeah, but like 271 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: with the scam websites, they they have just a bunch 272 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 1: of fake people who are like, this is the best 273 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 1: thing I've ever had. I would buy this again ten 274 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: out of ten. 275 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,559 Speaker 3: And the account is like x C J h j 276 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 3: f f F fior A J dash. 277 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, real peopot real people. He says if the 278 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: ring breaks he will replace it, but didn't say it'd 279 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 1: be higher QUALBI. He's like, no, no, baby, I spent 280 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: like a couple hundred dollars on the thirty eight multiple 281 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:29,959 Speaker 1: thirty eight dollars rings. 282 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 3: He bought, he bought, he bought, he bought a dozen 283 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:33,319 Speaker 3: backup rings. 284 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: They know, even what are you talking about? 285 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, you know. Actually I've spent I spent. 286 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 2: These rings. 287 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, they keep comming. I have people messaging me that 288 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 1: the ring could be harmful to my health and that 289 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 1: TIMO has horrible standards for their jewelry and labor issues. 290 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 1: So now I really don't want to wear it. He 291 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: left and went to his brother's house. Usually I'd go 292 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 1: with him, but things are just tense. Am I the 293 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: a hole for telling him I still don't want it? 294 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 1: And then some other comments. Commoner says, kind of tough 295 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: because had you not found out it was from TIMU, 296 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 1: would you be upset? Okay, but that's I mean, he lied. 297 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 1: If you hadn't found out he lied, would you still 298 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: be able? Yeah? Is it a lie? 299 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 3: Or is it? Like I think it was like, uh, 300 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 3: what's what's Yeah? Maybe mission a live a mission like 301 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 3: O missions omitted? Like I mean, because well it's kind 302 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 3: of true. It's like, if you like the ring, does 303 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 3: it matter how much it costs? Because also I'm also 304 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 3: in the camp of like, I don't know if I 305 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 3: just always learned this backwards, but I didn't. I didn't 306 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 3: know you were supposed to spend like more money on 307 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 3: the engagement ring than the wedding ring. 308 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: Well, I think it's the wedding rings are just like 309 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 1: usually bands, so they're gotta be cheaper. 310 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 3: But I thought it was the opposite, because the wedding 311 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 3: rings are the engagement wedding ring engagement band crazy. 312 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: So okay, so when you get engaged, you get a 313 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: really nice if you usually the receiver gets like a 314 00:14:57,400 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: really nice engagement ring, like you know, off diamonds and 315 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: they've got like a rock and stuff, and it's like 316 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: the showy one. And then when you exchange wet like 317 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: at the wedding, you exchange wedding bands, which are usually 318 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: just like gold ring. 319 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 3: Okay, well, I'll tell you what, ladies, that is not 320 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 3: how I would do it, all right, if you which 321 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 3: that around we're getting married or getting them, well, you 322 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 3: see what kind of ring I could. 323 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: We'll see. 324 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 3: Look, we'll see what's on TMU in the masonite section. 325 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 3: Could those really be dangerous? She said? She has people 326 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 3: you have. 327 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: Cheap if you have sensetive skin, like for me, I can't. 328 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: There's only certain metals that I can wear in my 329 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: ears because otherwise I get infection. So you can if 330 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: you're sensitive to metals, you can have like a reaction 331 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 1: to it if it's not high quality, and if he 332 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 1: said it was high quality and that she didn't know. 333 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've definitely had the fake green skin jewelry situation. 334 00:15:56,880 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: We've all been there, and she might you know it. 335 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: I feel like it might have been bad if she's 336 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 1: wearing it she's like, oh, this is lovely, and then 337 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: like a month later she's like, my fingers turning green. 338 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 3: That would have been the best to just be like, hey, babe, babe, 339 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 3: what's going on with this? Can you tell me? Am 340 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 3: I getting gang green? Or did you buy me a 341 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 3: thirty ring? 342 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 1: Exactly? Opie responds, tbh. If I hadn't found out it 343 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: was from Timu, I probably wouldn't be upset, but when 344 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 1: it inevitably breaks or tarnishes, the truth would come out. 345 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 1: Now that I know, it has completely changed how I 346 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 1: feel about the ring, even if esthetically it doesn't look 347 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: too bad. Opie addresses several commentars asking if he thinks 348 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: she is a gold digger. This was her most comprehensive response. 349 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: I want to clear up these gold digger rumors because 350 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 1: this isn't only about the cost of the ring. I 351 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: only mention these things for context, not because I feel 352 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: he owes me something in return. When I met him, 353 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: I was making just over one hundred K and he 354 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 1: was working part time and doing an internship, bringing in 355 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: significantly less than me. He totaled his car early on 356 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 1: in our relationship, and I happily drove him to his 357 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: work every morning on the way to my work when 358 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: he didn't have a car. When his mom got sick 359 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: and went to hospice, I immediately canceled all of my 360 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 1: travel plans and holiday plans with my family and sat 361 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 1: with him, visiting her every day for months. I helped 362 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 1: with funeral arrangements. I helped plan his brother's wedding. I 363 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 1: even loaned him money for a new car once he 364 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: started his new job. He did pay me back by 365 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 1: the way. He moved in with me recently, and most 366 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:33,120 Speaker 1: everything the home is mine that I paid for prior 367 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: to the relationship. I have paid for so many plane 368 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 1: tickets for our travels, concert tickets, et cetera that I've 369 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: never asked him to pay back and never will. That's 370 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 1: what a relationship is. I genuinely care about him. He 371 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,679 Speaker 1: has done similar gestures for me and is more than 372 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 1: willing to spend money on dates. Believe it or not. 373 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 1: I'm not this greedy woman here sitting here excited to 374 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: get his money. I have my own and final comment. 375 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,199 Speaker 1: Have they ever been ring shopping? Op? He says, we 376 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,919 Speaker 1: never went ring shopping. The proposal was a surprise to me. 377 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 1: We'd casually discuss getting married in the future for the 378 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 1: past year or so, but he never asked my taste 379 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: in rings, So I was kind of thinking that happened 380 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: before the engagement. I actually like the style of the ring, 381 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 1: but then now that I know it's from Timu, I 382 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 1: can't look at it the same. There there are two 383 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: more updates to finish this story off. But yeah, it 384 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 1: doesn't seem like he's apologetic. He just kind of left. 385 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 3: This is a weird situation. Yeah, because it's like Game 386 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:42,159 Speaker 3: seven and Michael Jordan he had it. He went from 387 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 3: the internship making two hundred K. Yeah, he would have 388 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 3: got the nice ring boom marriage and it's like, you're done. 389 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 3: Emu got involved. 390 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 1: What happened? 391 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 3: He saw that super Bowl ad and he's just like, yeah, 392 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 3: that super. 393 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: Bowl ad really really works. He probably also is Geico. 394 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, Geico. 395 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 1: He's like, I'm really into Geico. And like coke. No, 396 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: I'm just saying other Super Bowl ads. 397 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 3: H fifteen percent? How about fifteen dollars? 398 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:14,199 Speaker 1: How about that? I have fifteen more dollars. It's been 399 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 1: a little bit more. Yeah, but there is a little 400 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 1: bit mini update. I like how these are all hours apart. 401 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: I'm literally just sitting here refreshing your comments, trying to 402 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 1: figure out what to do next. He texted to let 403 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 1: me know he plans at staying at his brother's for 404 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:32,160 Speaker 1: the weekend and he's taking Friday off. It's not crazy 405 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: abnormal since he's been watching football over there super Bowl. 406 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:37,919 Speaker 1: He's watched the Super Bowl, but I feel like he's 407 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 1: avoiding me. Now. I'm trying not to be pushy about 408 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: the situation, and I'll give him some space. But now 409 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: I'm just in my head about all of it and 410 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 1: regretting my initial reaction. It's just a dumb ring and 411 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 1: maybe I've read into it too much. The only other 412 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: time we've had an argument like this, it was resolved 413 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 1: within a couple of hours, So I'm not used to 414 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:00,719 Speaker 1: this behavior from him. And update two next day, he 415 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 1: came home this morning while I was in a work 416 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 1: from home meeting. These comments made my head spin all night. 417 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: I got like three hours of sleep, So I admit 418 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: I may be in the wrong for bringing up his finances, 419 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 1: but I did b the gold digger rumors. When we met. 420 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: I was making more than him and often paying for 421 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 1: his things. His high paying job is a recent development. 422 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: I have my own money and don't need his. I 423 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 1: asked him what was going on, if there was anything 424 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: he needed to tell me, if he was testing me 425 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: by doing this, well that really set him off. What 426 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: kind of person do you think I am? You think 427 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 1: I'm a cheapskate, a liar. You obviously think really poorly 428 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: of me. But still he never gave me a reason, 429 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:47,639 Speaker 1: so I asked why he was deflecting every question to 430 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 1: victimize himself and to avoid my questions. He tried to 431 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 1: leave again, so I tried de escalating and told him, 432 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: I see where he's coming from, but I need to 433 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: know if he still loves me. He was immediately apologetic 434 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 1: and still wants to get married. He said, I can 435 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 1: just pick my own ring out and buy it with 436 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 1: my own money. 437 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 3: WHOA, we were right there. 438 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 1: You make your own ring up it you fumbled it, 439 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 1: bro Oh my god, does that does this guy? 440 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 3: Watch football conspiracy theory, is this guy's job not real? 441 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 3: Did he lie about hitting this job? 442 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 1: I think he's a liar? 443 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,479 Speaker 3: Is he not? He's he's just going and watching the 444 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 3: super Bowl. That's all he does with his buddies every day, 445 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 3: every day. Yeah, and he's like, yeah, I'm making tuner. Kay, 446 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 3: don't worry. 447 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 1: My fantasy football league is doing really well this year. 448 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,640 Speaker 2: He's just not that guy. He's not that. 449 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 4: Wait, those tiny I don't understand this this thing that 450 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:51,919 Speaker 4: it seems like now that's getting into like a competition 451 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 4: of like yeah I had I made more money than. 452 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:55,440 Speaker 2: Him, now he makes more. 453 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: Now they're just fighting. 454 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 2: Now they're just fighting. 455 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, little at it right there. And to be honest, 456 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 3: if I had gotten my fiance Timu ring, I would 457 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 3: avoid her too because I'd be embarrassed because I'm like, 458 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 3: oh my god, how do I I be brainstorming how 459 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 3: to fix it? 460 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be like lie, I'd say, oh, that's just 461 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: your interim ring. Don't worry getting you another ring. Uh. 462 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 1: He said he's sick of taking talking about this, and 463 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 1: it's like in it's water under the bridge. Now he's 464 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 1: acting like his normal self again since this conbo. I 465 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 1: hear him out there skipping around and humming to himself, 466 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 1: all happily, and it's actually pissing me off. Maybe I'm 467 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 1: being dramatic, but I don't think I can handle a 468 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 1: marriage with someone like That's that. 469 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,439 Speaker 2: That's it. There were so many updates and then nothing 470 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 2: like hours and then. 471 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 1: Ye, well it seems like he's considering prevorse not going 472 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: through with the marriage. This is Yeah, if this is 473 00:22:58,359 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: his reaction. 474 00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 3: I mean, a part of me kind of gets like you. 475 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 3: I'm very much like a water under the bridge type 476 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 3: of person in this kind of scenario. It's like this 477 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,919 Speaker 3: is just getting continually weirder and weirder. There are like 478 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 3: more layers like let's just like it, like forget this happened. 479 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 3: But see but then I would say, and we'll go 480 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 3: ring shopping together and now get you your mars. 481 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,119 Speaker 1: Let's go fix this, like let's it doesn't seem like 482 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: you know, I made a mistake. Let's go fix this 483 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 1: water under the bridge. That's you can only do water 484 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: under the bridge if you've apologized. 485 00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's The man was ready to like, all right, 486 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:36,120 Speaker 4: you got this, You're good, and then he doubled down. 487 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like, let's get you a new ring, 488 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 1: but you're not to be yours so bad. 489 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 3: I guess you can fot it out for yourself. Since 490 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,639 Speaker 3: I'm not good enough with my tevy rings. 491 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 1: I don't have any money. 492 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 3: I'm cheap scared little miss I am thirty eight dollars 493 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 3: not good enough for me. Oh, I didn't know I 494 00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:00,240 Speaker 3: was talking to the queen here. You got the crowne ool, 495 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 3: So what are you gonna do? Go shopping at the 496 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,159 Speaker 3: at the at the palace. 497 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 2: A terrible combination because both of you are gonna be 498 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 2: doing so many voices. 499 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 1: I meaning, I'm like, this is perfect