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Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with

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Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice.

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Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. Hi, guys, We're back with

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Speaker 2: another episode of Dirty Rush, and today I'm going to

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Speaker 2: be talking all about sorority pinning ceremonies. I personally never

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Speaker 2: went through a sorority pinning ceremony, so I do not

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Speaker 2: know one hundred percent what it's all about. But we

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Speaker 2: are going to have a lot of guests today to

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Speaker 2: talk to us about everything that it is and everything

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Speaker 2: that it entails, and I'm sure we'll hear some really

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Speaker 2: good stories as well along with those. So if I

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Speaker 2: were to think of what a pinning was, going back

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Speaker 2: to my sorority days, I know I got pinned, but

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Speaker 2: it was like when I was getting initiated. Then I

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Speaker 2: got pinned to be in my sorority. But the pinning

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Speaker 2: that we're talking about today is actually I think this

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Speaker 2: I'm wrong. But when a guy in a fraternity wants

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Speaker 2: to like be with you forever and so then it's

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Speaker 2: like this huge ceremony. I've heard that some schools like

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Speaker 2: we're all white and then the girl gets pinned and

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Speaker 2: it's parents. Basically like before an engagement comes. So you

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Speaker 2: get pinned and then you get engaged. I guess I'm

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Speaker 2: not really sure how it all works out, but that's

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Speaker 2: my understanding of it. So we're gonna talk to some

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Speaker 2: people and see what it's all about. I know, so

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Speaker 2: I know a few girls my age who had them

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Speaker 2: about this or knew it was a thing. So I'm

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Speaker 2: interested to talk to these people and see what they say.

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Speaker 2: It's all about. Hi, Jennifer, Why, Okay, So I'm so

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Speaker 2: excited to have you on this episode. We heard that

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Speaker 2: you have a pinning ceremony that had happened, and you

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Speaker 2: went to one and experienced one.

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Speaker 3: I had.

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Speaker 2: I was in a sorority, but I actually experienced a pinning.

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Speaker 2: So I think it's when like a guy really likes

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Speaker 2: a girl, he pins her and then they like get

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Speaker 2: engaged or something. But can you let us know what

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Speaker 2: your experience was.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I didn't know the girl super well. She

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Speaker 4: was an upperclassman at the time. I was an underclassman. Okay,

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Speaker 4: because I was an underclassman, we were told that we

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Speaker 4: had to go to this, so we didn't make a

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Speaker 4: lot of choice in the matter. I don't even know

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Speaker 4: if these people ended up getting engaged, but it's pretty strange.

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Speaker 5: It's like.

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Speaker 4: The entire frat house came out. Oh, all presented her

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Speaker 4: with a single rose.

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Speaker 2: Oh, like all of them handed her a rose.

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Speaker 4: While singing, and then eventually she had a giant bouquet

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Speaker 4: of roses and he pinned her with his fraternity pin

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Speaker 4: and we were all outside. I don't know why I

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Speaker 4: had to be there. We were just kind of like

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Speaker 2: Be there, Yeah, just so she wasn't like alone standing there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like a giant gaggle of girls just

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Speaker 4: standing there watching men bring up single flowers and singing.

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Speaker 2: Do you know, like how long they have been dating before?

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Speaker 4: I think like a year? You know nothing, okay, your

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Speaker 4: college sweethearts. I do not remember the exact song that

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Speaker 4: they sang. I think it may have been like top

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Speaker 4: gun you've lost that love and feeling, which wouldn't make

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Speaker 2: Right, So were there a lot of girls in your

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Speaker 2: sorority throughout college that got pinned?

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Speaker 4: I mean I believe there was like at least one

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Speaker 2: Pinned, and so if you get pinned, it's like that's

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Speaker 2: basically like their proposing kind of.

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Speaker 4: I think, I don't know, it's so heteronormative and strange.

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Speaker 4: It's like a light proposal. I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 2: That's so funny. Do you know if they like, did

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Speaker 2: she wear the pin or out?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think so. She only wore it when

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Speaker 4: she was pinned. And then I do remember that we

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Speaker 2: That was very o you all had to be in black? Yes, okay?

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Speaker 2: Was she in white or black?

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Speaker 2: Sounds like a funeral.

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure if it was a promise ring but

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Speaker 4: a promise pined Like I don't know, you know, I wasn't.

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Speaker 4: I didn't go to college to get married, so I'm

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Speaker 7: Like I love that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, if this was like.

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Speaker 2: A pro I feel like most people don't. I feel

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Speaker 2: everyone's like away from home and like figuring things out.

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Speaker 2: So M just also like it's funny because like you

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Speaker 2: didn't even like really know the girl you said, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't think i'd want people there who

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that well, yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean I'm not sure what you're experience and a sorority

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Speaker 4: was like, I have no regrets in being involved. I

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Speaker 4: just found that when we were supposed to treat all

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Speaker 4: one hundred and eighty girls that were in it as

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Speaker 4: one big friend group, it was kind of strange because, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't have one hundred and eighty close friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's so true. It's like when you're in it,

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's like this like sisterhood thing. But

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Speaker 2: then like when I think about it right now, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I would not want one hundred and eighty girls that

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Speaker 2: I barely knew at my boddy.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean I have like ten really good girlfriends that

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Speaker 4: I made from it, and then I have like, you know,

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Speaker 4: a satellite group of a few others that I stay, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm friendly with, but I'm not best friends with one

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Speaker 4: hundred and eighty girls. Correct.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of how mine is too. I don't

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Speaker 2: regret doing it at all either. I had such a

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Speaker 2: great experience and it was so fun, but yeah, it

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Speaker 2: is funny those like little things like that. Wow, I

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Speaker 2: really wonder if that couples together.

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Speaker 4: Still, I don't care perfonally, I am sorry that sounds bitchy, No,

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Speaker 4: not at all. I mean I think I was just

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Speaker 4: an underclassman and they needed bodies, yeah, throughout the situation, which,

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Speaker 4: like I don't really know why they needed a giant

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Speaker 4: gaggle of girls standing on steps watching a girl get roses.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is so true. It is funny all those

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Speaker 2: little things. And also like I wonder, like is it

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Speaker 4: So I think, okay, I might be like misremembering this,

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Speaker 4: but I'm pretty sure that the pin eat is in

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Speaker 4: the dark. They don't know what's coming. They're told that

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Speaker 4: they have to be at the house for a special event,

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Speaker 4: and we're black. Oh wow for the story that I

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Speaker 4: then when I heard she kind of knew it was coming.

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Speaker 4: And you know, obviously when a giant group of men

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Speaker 2: You, Oh for sure.

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Speaker 4: I mean hopefully it's just getting pinned.

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Speaker 2: Uh, But like I kind of love the like thrill

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Speaker 4: Yeah. This was in the aughts, late outs, like midats,

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Speaker 4: so not recently. But my my younger sister did get pinned.

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Speaker 4: And she's ten years younger than me, so.

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Speaker 2: Oh no way. Yeah, is she still with the guy?

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Speaker 4: They got married?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they are married.

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Speaker 4: They got married last year.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, that's amazing.

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Speaker 4: No, But like it's funny because I don't really think

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Speaker 4: I wasn't there for that because I obviously wasn't in

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Speaker 2: So did she like get pinned and then get engaged.

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Speaker 4: No, No, she got pinned, was with him for like

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Speaker 4: an additional five years, then got engaged.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so it was like two separate.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't really a formal pre engagement type of situation

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I feel like back in the day it probably was

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Speaker 4: a pre engagement, but I don't know, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, Yeah, I'm sure, like depending on the school and

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Speaker 2: like the situation too, it's probably different.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well this is southern California, like USC. So okay,

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Speaker 4: I feel like in I don't were you in like

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Speaker 4: a southern sorority or were you in what what area?

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Speaker 2: I went to San Diego State.

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Speaker 4: Okay, God, this is southern California as well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel like southern.

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Speaker 4: Ones probably do it a little different or you know,

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Speaker 4: everyone's got their own flavor.

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Speaker 2: Oh for sure. Well, thank you so much for coming on.

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Speaker 2: It was great to talk to you, Jennifer. Okay, everyone,

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Speaker 2: we have Jeanette and Mollie. Hi you guys.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 2: So I'm curious to hear your experience about the whole

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Speaker 2: like pinning situation. For me, my understanding was it. A

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Speaker 2: pinning for a sorority is when a fraternity I really

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Speaker 2: likes her basically wants to get engaged to her and

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Speaker 2: they get pinned. But tell me from your guys's experience,

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Speaker 8: I mean, that's like it, that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: But it's like at our school, it was just like

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Speaker 1: a huge roast pretty much, and.

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Speaker 2: It was oh no way, it was like.

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Speaker 1: One big roast and then yeah, like usually it was

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Speaker 1: a couple, so whoever's like been dating for a while,

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Speaker 1: it's like a big deal at the end, like you're

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Speaker 1: gonna have a pinning and it's originally it was like

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Speaker 1: you're supposed to like pin your frat pin on the girl,

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Speaker 1: and it's like this whole big thing, and I think

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Speaker 1: that's how it started. And then as the years went

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Speaker 1: huge roast battle.

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Speaker 5: Between the girls.

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Speaker 1: She has like a panel, so it would be like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like five girls her roommates usually, and

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Speaker 1: then they have like five guys and then they would

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Speaker 1: kind of go through and roast the girls would roast

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Speaker 1: the guys, and then they would roast the couple.

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Speaker 2: Uh okay, yeah, So would it always be like just

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Speaker 2: the girls roasting the guy or would the guys roast

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Speaker 2: the girls too?

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Speaker 5: So the guys would they would first roast the guys

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Speaker 5: and then they would go down and do all the girls.

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Speaker 5: So you would have.

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Speaker 3: Like some roommates who are like they're like, oh, we're

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Speaker 3: like super good friends, You're my best friend, but and

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Speaker 2: Roast about like the girl like they're ing.

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Speaker 3: So it would be like, hey, sister, I love you

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Speaker 5: And I would just say like the lightest not even rude,

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Speaker 1: So leading up to it, we were when I like

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Speaker 8: I don't want to do this.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to be roasted whatever.

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Speaker 1: And then I was also sick, so I also like

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Speaker 2: So I was so.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Yeah, honestly, this just sounds kind of evil.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but they used to be like super

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Speaker 2: Also, I feel like college is already like a hard

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Speaker 7: Then?

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Speaker 2: Like who's like I want to be roasted with my friends?

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Speaker 5: See, it wasn't levy.

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Speaker 3: It was just like a hard watch and they were

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Speaker 2: Yeah that sounds horrible.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it honestly was like it was terrible. There

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Speaker 2: Yeah, lot of t I'm sure there was a lot

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, how could they're not me?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 2: We had so we would have when we would have

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Speaker 5: It's like at what costs? Like best case.

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Speaker 8: Scenario, what you're the ivy man, Like I know, right,

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Speaker 2: I can't imagine like girls going at girls though, and

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Speaker 5: Honestly. It was like everyone would have drinks and.

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Speaker 2: Like everyone was kind of like free forrawling, like yeah,

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Speaker 3: Exactly, so there was like no boundary.

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Speaker 7: That so bad.

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Speaker 2: I guess people got to get things off their shoulders.

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Speaker 5: No, really, is.

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Speaker 2: There anyone that you guys were friends with and then

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Speaker 2: like heard them say something. I know, Jeanette, you didn't

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Speaker 1: Not me personally, but like I've seen it. I think

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Speaker 1: her and like this is so bad. He like went

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Speaker 6: Like that was just.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's horrible, horrible, and so yeah, I think and

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Speaker 5: He's a total loser.

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Speaker 2: Oh for sure if you do something like that.

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Speaker 3: It was yeah, that was like his junior year and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he probably had the worst year after that.

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Speaker 5: Was like a year long of scaries.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my goodness, for sure. Okay, wait, so Jeannette,

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Speaker 5: I was pinned?

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Speaker 2: And are you still with him?

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Speaker 3: I am not still with him? Okay, So yeah I

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Speaker 3: we can't do this. So we just had like a

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Speaker 5: So that was like my pinning.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like a great dive. So you can kind of

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Speaker 2: you wanted your pinning to be if you didn't want

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was kind of me, just like f this.

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Speaker 3: But they's supposed to be a roast. And so people

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm happy your pinning was more fun than the

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Speaker 2: other ones it was. That's great. Well, thank you Mollie

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Speaker 2: and Jeanette for coming on. It was great talking with

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Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you guys, have a great rest of your night,

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Speaker 2: you too.

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Speaker 6: Hey Jack, Hey guys.

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Speaker 2: So I'm so excited for you to be on this

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Speaker 2: one because I have not heard about what a pinning

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Speaker 2: so I'm excited to hear your take on it. So

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Speaker 6: So I need to preface this by saying pinning, can

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Speaker 6: you mean a lot of different things at a lot

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Speaker 6: when a guy and a girl who have been dating

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Speaker 6: will have their own wedding, if you will. Maybe wedding

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Speaker 2: Okay, so what are so is it like a sarah

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Speaker 2: mean like like she's like your wife, like you want

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Speaker 6: I mean, that's definitely plays into it, But I think

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Speaker 6: it taps into some more raunchy parts of your guys

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Speaker 2: Yeah, give us, give us the whole rundown. What happens

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Speaker 6: Right, So what happens is like any wedding, it'll start

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Speaker 6: the same thing happens. The same thing happens with the girls.

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Speaker 6: We'll do their bachelortte party. You'll like take a party

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Speaker 6: because after you're bouchering a better rupp party. Everyone will

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Speaker 6: meet up at the sorority house and you're joined by

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Speaker 6: like the rest of like your entire fraternity and sorority,

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Speaker 6: up to one hundred and for those hundred seconds, whoever's

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Speaker 6: Oh my goodness, right in front of everyone.

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Speaker 2: This is it's so funny because we've talked to a

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Speaker 6: That's kind of how it goes at our school. But

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Speaker 6: the bride, if you will, so she won't know that

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Speaker 6: like her pinning's happening until a couple hours before.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So like the other girls have it like set up,

446
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Speaker 2: like the party busts and stuff.

447
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:36,479
Speaker 7: Kind of.

448
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Speaker 6: Yeah, they plan it all like without her knowing, and

449
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Speaker 6: they'll have an event on their social calendar that might

450
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Speaker 6: say something like really generic, just like something totally unexpecting,

451
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Speaker 6: but everyone knows that it's the pinning except for her,

452
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 6: or at least that's the idea. Of course, you know,

453
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,880
Speaker 6: sometimes it'll get spoiled. But yeah, they trick her into

454
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Speaker 6: going to a dinner at their sorority because like when

455
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Speaker 6: you're a senior, maybe you don't go to your sorority

456
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 6: house as much. As you did when you were like

457
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Speaker 6: lesh and sophomore junior. So that's that. That's like step

458
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Speaker 6: one except two us. Once you get him there, one

459
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 6: of their close friends will read them the letter that

460
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Speaker 6: I wrote, or that the groom I wrote to his bride.

461
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Speaker 6: So in that letter, you know, there's there's a couple

462
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Speaker 6: of sweet notes and then there's a couple there's a

463
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Speaker 6: couple of jokes, maybe some things that the bride would

464
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 6: would have rather preferred him keep to himself. But that's

465
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Speaker 6: the whole point of it.

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Speaker 2: That's so sweet, and you're still with this girl, right

467
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 2: I am? I am okay.

468
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Speaker 6: And funny enough, her parents were dating when they were

469
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Speaker 6: in college. Her dad was in a fraternity and her

470
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Speaker 6: mom was in a sorority and they had piddings at

471
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Speaker 6: their school. It was a little different celebrate and we had.

472
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Speaker 6: But her dad refused to get pinned to her mom

473
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Speaker 6: because he didn't want to jinx the relationship.

474
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Speaker 2: In no way. That's funny. Well, that's funny that they

475
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 2: like it was like a thing there too. But I

476
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Speaker 2: think we have your girl in the waiting room too,

477
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 2: so I think we'll bring her in also, Oh please

478
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: do then we can get her side. Well, hey, team, okay,

479
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 2: so now we have Jill in here with us. So

480
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 2: jail Jack was just telling me all about the pinnings

481
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Speaker 2: on like his side and how they all looked like. So,

482
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Speaker 2: I'm curious, did you know when you were gonna get

483
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 2: pinned that it happened, or that it was happening or no.

484
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Speaker 9: So I heard some rumors, but essentially kind of It's

485
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Speaker 9: supposed to be entirely a surprise.

486
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 8: But a lot of people wound up surprising me.

487
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Speaker 9: Right after I got back from a little movie night

488
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 9: at Jack's, came in and the entire apartment was decorated

489
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 9: with like a bunch of different hearts, and everybody else celebrated,

490
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Speaker 9: and then we went to our favorite frozen yogurt spot

491
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Speaker 9: in Los Angeles, so Jack and all the girls for

492
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 9: a little bachelorette party, And then I got some good sleep,

493
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Speaker 9: and it was the next day.

494
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Speaker 8: But it was totally a surprise and it was lots

495
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Speaker 8: of fun.

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Speaker 2: I love that, So were you, Like we heard about

497
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Speaker 2: the like making now in front of the whole sorority fraternity.

498
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Speaker 9: But I wish I could tell you all the details.

499
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Speaker 9: But to be quite frank, if anybody has to do

500
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Speaker 9: that you're not supposed to remember parts of it.

501
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 2: Say you were pretty tuned up, yeah.

502
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 8: But no, it was awesome. We were all in a

503
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 8: circle and thankfully there was another.

504
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 9: Couple that could steal the show with us, so they

505
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 9: were in the circle and we all counted to you

506
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Speaker 9: one hundred and I have video proof if you'd like

507
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 9: to see.

508
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Speaker 2: Did yes send in the video? Did a lot did

509
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 2: a lot of your friends get pinned?

510
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 8: I'd say so it was. It's a very fun tradition.

511
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 9: Like freshman year, I remember our first pinning and it's

512
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,679
Speaker 9: just this crazy event. And by senior year it's normal

513
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 9: and some of your other friends are getting pinned too.

514
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 9: Funny enough, this tradition has actually been a thing for

515
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:21,400
Speaker 9: a long time.

516
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 8: My grandparents were actually pinned. But back in the.

517
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 9: Day they pass their letters to the girl, so like

518
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 9: they get a little pin of letters.

519
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 8: But by senior year, a lot of our friends to

520
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 8: get pinned. So it's super cool.

521
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Speaker 2: So did you like, did you call your grandparents and

522
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 2: were you like I got pinned?

523
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Speaker 7: They?

524
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Speaker 8: Essentially I think it was very different.

525
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 9: Truly, theirs is a super cute little pin passing.

526
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 8: Yeah, a dance around. It was very wholesome. However, nowadays

527
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 8: it's a lot different.

528
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 9: You know, I was on back shoulders, we signed a beam,

529
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 9: we kissed for one hundred seconds.

530
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 8: It's a lot different, but it's definitely definitely a party.

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Speaker 2: Well, it sounds like a great time. Honestly, maybe I

532
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: think they should do pinnings everywhere if they're that fun.

533
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:11,439
Speaker 2: And how long have you guys been together?

534
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Speaker 6: Just under a year and a half.

535
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Speaker 2: I love that. Well, congrats to you guys. I hope

536
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 2: you're pinning last forever. This is a great spot to pause.

537
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 2: We had so many callers that called in, and I

538
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Speaker 2: definitely want to get to more. So we'll be back

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Speaker 2: with more on Dirty Rush.