1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: My in laws called me a filthy gold digger, but 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: what I said next might make my husband divorce me. 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: My fiance, male thirty three, comes from a very well 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 1: off family. Well, I, female twenty nine, come from a 5 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: working class family. My fiance's family are nice, but they 6 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: can't help but throw comments at me about how I 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: might be a gold digger. For example, if he buys 8 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: me something, they'll go, like, you are a filthy gold digging. 9 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. For example, if he buys me something, 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: they'll go, oh, Jason bought you that. You know what 11 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: this looks like? Right? Yeah, like I go digging filthy 12 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: butt liquor? And or wait, did Jason pay for this? 13 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,919 Speaker 1: Holy gold diggers would make their partner pay for stuff 14 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: all the time. I'm just saying, it's so demeaning, and 15 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 1: my fiance does nothing to stop it, especially now that 16 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: he's in a bad place. Here's what happens, Sam, he 17 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: lost his job. 18 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 2: Oh, so, so the digger becomes the gold diggie exactly. 19 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: So we've been keeping it secret from the family, So 20 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: they haven't even told the family he's unemployed for some 21 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 1: dumb reason. 22 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:13,040 Speaker 2: People get, you know, let go all the time. It 23 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 2: happens like eleven thousand people just got let go from Facebook. 24 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: Literally, don't be a shame. It's so stupid. And since 25 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 1: he's keeping it the secret, I'm the one paying for 26 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 1: everything now. Huh funny the turntable's turn. And this has 27 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: been going on for four months now. Last week, his 28 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: parents invited us over for dinner and insisted that we go. 29 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 1: So we went. At the dinner table, his mom grabbed 30 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: my hand literally while I was eating. That's hilarious. 31 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: You're like, no, take that mark out, think of your figure. 32 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: And then she looked at my bracelet and went ooh, 33 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: that brace look looks really nice. Dude, Jason pay for it? 34 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 35 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: I nodded and reminded her that he bought it for 36 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: me as a birthday gift last year. She was like, hmmm, 37 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: I wonder how much it costs. She then leaned back 38 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: and said, you know, when my brother was dating this 39 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: other gold digger woman, she would receive expensive stuff like 40 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: this bracelet here for her birthdays. Why would she say 41 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: that this asshole move. This is literally like your son's fiance. Yeah, bro, 42 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 1: have a little support man, literally, or at least if 43 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: you have nothing nice to say say nothing at all, 44 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: a bare minimum. I was stunned. I cut her off 45 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: and asked her if she meant to say that I 46 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 1: was a gold digger. She threw her hands up and said, 47 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: I mean, well, if the shoe fits, no, that is so. 48 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 2: With the shoe fits, dude, that's like exactly what I imagine, 49 00:02:55,760 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 2: like a rich older woman saying yeah to demean everyone 50 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: she's giving. 51 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: She's giving evil stepmother while laughing awkwardly. Silence took over. 52 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 1: I looked at my fiance and he shook his head 53 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 1: at me, like what, so I snapped. I told her 54 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: it was bold of her to imply that I was 55 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: a gold digger when I was literally providing for her 56 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: unemployed son for four months. Now, Yo, that secret ain't 57 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 1: a secret anymore. 58 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 2: Son, guy under the bus. But he should have, like 59 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 2: they should stood up for her. 60 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: He should have stood up for her, and they should 61 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: have told it. It's like the dumbest thing. 62 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 2: They don't necessarily like broadcast this to the world, but 63 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 2: like they. 64 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: Shouldn't hide it, they're actively hiding. 65 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 2: They should just like the boyfriend should or the guy 66 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 2: should just like say like, hey, don't don't talk to 67 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 2: my wife like that. 68 00:03:54,880 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: My fiance simple, that's easy, right, imagine he believes it. Yeah, 69 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: while he's being employ women women just want me for 70 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: my for my stuff. 71 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 2: I don't understand for my unemployment benefits, but four hundred 72 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 2: dollars a month from. 73 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: The edd Come on, bro. They all look shocked. She 74 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 1: glanced at me in shock, and his dad asked if 75 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 1: it was true, and my fiance just frozed but looked 76 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: really angry. It's like, bruh, you could have said something 77 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: all the times before, literally, and like also, oh, p 78 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: should be angry, not you? Are you kidding? Who cares? God? 79 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: An argument ensued and dinner was cut shorts and we 80 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 1: had to leave and they started berating him. 81 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 2: This family, him, this family is what like what like 82 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 2: just for being unemployed? How dare how dare you not 83 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 2: to be employed? Or maybe it's like how dare you 84 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 2: be a gold digger to this fine woman? 85 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: Like maybe they're just super anti gold diggers. 86 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: Whoever they perceive as a gold digger, he's just gonna 87 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 2: get like their ass blasted. 88 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 1: It's like back back in the eighteen hundreds, the mcflellands 89 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: had a big had so much wealth, but then the 90 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: gold digger came in and Legacy. 91 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 2: The four Nations lived, and the gold Diggers attacked exactly. 92 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: Then my fiance had a rage fit in the car, 93 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: just yelling and lashing out at me. 94 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 2: Yo. Wow, this guy needs to like just chill or 95 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 2: one hundred percent just believe literally like it should be 96 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 2: the other way around. 97 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 1: If anything. In my defense, I said that he sat 98 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: by and let his mom continually imply that gold digger. 99 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 2: Dude, dude like like, he had so many chances to 100 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 2: stick up for her, but she said that they had 101 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 2: never outright called me a gold digger before, so at 102 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 2: this moment I snapped. He said I had no right 103 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 2: to take advantage of. 104 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: His unfortunate circumstance get a job, literally to get back 105 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: at my mom and expose him to the family. His 106 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: parents went on about how disappointed they were and now 107 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: as a result, he got disinvited from Thanksgiving. 108 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 2: Wait because he doesn't have a job. What is this family? 109 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 2: This is the most screwed up family of all time. 110 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: He blew up at me because of it this morning 111 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: and kept saying I screwed him over so badly when 112 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 1: he was just an innocent bystander. 113 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 2: You're not an innocent bystander if you're watching Injustice happen 114 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,119 Speaker 2: and choose to do nothing. 115 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:33,239 Speaker 1: And again, like we've literally said it in this recording session, 116 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: We've said it a million time. I know how how 117 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: do you not see the red flags? I hope that 118 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: there's an update where he leaves. Yeah, please, because it's 119 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 1: a bad situation. That's what we need. Also, if you've 120 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 1: ever been in this situation, let us know how you 121 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: handled it. If you thought this one was crazy, check 122 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 1: out this one where OPI betrays their own family to 123 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: help the gold digger. Check it here a linkoln description