WEBVTT - "Who's Next" 0:00:01.360 --> 0:00:05.920 Hold up, Hold up Alert, Barla Nation, Welcome to another 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:09.479 episode of the Ball Alert Show. I am Ota A 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:13.560 K A O. C. C. Simmons and I'm your favorite 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:20.840 Ethiopian suit. So low a little, a little hold live 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:24.279 will take it. Welcome back to the Ball Alert Show. 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:27.800 We appreciate you guys tuning in, and I think, um, 0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:30.040 we probably should just get right into it. Huh, unless 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:32.519 you charge. You got to discuss the charges. Come on, 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:38.320 break it down, sous all right, So I guess we're 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:41.320 just gonna go ahead and get into it, Y'ALLU. District 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:45.239 Attorney Paul Howard of Atlanta, Georgia said that he is 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:49.400 charging the former officer Garrett Ralf who actually shot Ray 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:52.560 Shard Brooks in the back in the Wendy's parking lot, 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:57.200 with eleven counts. One of them is felony murder. I 0:00:57.240 --> 0:01:00.720 know that aggravated assault is on their chrim, no damage 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:04.959 to property, and violations to his oath of office. You guys, 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:10.119 this is pretty major. Yeah, like, I like it a lot. Um, 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:14.000 It's an unfortunate circumstance, but I think, uh, these officers 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:19.360 will think twice before they decided to try to kill, um, 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:24.920 someone who could be innocent or guilty killing them. It's 0:01:24.959 --> 0:01:29.240 not the issue. I mean is the issue. Um, it's 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:32.520 the force to definitely using these these deadly forced tactics. 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:35.360 And I think it's all about their training too, Yes, 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:38.320 for sure. And it's just like the message that um 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:44.240 Jamika Mallory posted on her page. She's she had on there. 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:48.120 Just like the police escorted the guy who killed all 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:51.200 those people in that church to Burger King, they could 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:55.240 have escorted that young man home, ray Searn Brooks home. Yeah, 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:59.160 And that's why for me, it is difficult to sit 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:02.120 here and say, you know, it's training. They need to 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:05.720 be trained. We've seen countless times when they encounter white 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:09.680 criminals that they know how to take people in without 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:12.440 killing them. We have seen them show restraint over and 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:15.520 over again. So I think what it is is, you know, 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:19.440 police officers are able to sometimes use you know, like disrepency, 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:22.200 like if if they see something, they can kind of 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:24.680 gauge it out and see how they want to handle it. 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:28.440 The thing is, black folks don't get the same opportunity 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:30.639 as white folks when they getting pulled over. I mean 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.600 we're seeing celebrities and just you know, regular white folks 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:38.600 on social media, tweeting about what their encounters were like 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:40.920 when they got pulled over for being drunk. You know, 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:44.400 even if they were miners or people who you know, 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:47.000 all these other white people that had committed crimes that 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:49.440 just gotta slap on the wrist. And then when you 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:52.880 compare them to what a black person's experience is, it's 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:56.160 completely different. So, you know what, It's not the training, 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:59.400 it's the fact that they are intimidated by black people. 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:04.320 And that is what the basis of racial injustice is 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:08.119 when it comes to systematic racism in America. They are 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:11.200 afraid of black people. There's something about us that intimidates them. 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:15.360 There is something about them that has the need for power. 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:19.400 And I don't know what's gonna happen. Like you guys 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:22.280 are obviously losing your power and they're showing out because 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:25.560 they see that the world is changing. But I don't 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:29.040 really know. If these charges don't stick, now, it's it's 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:32.799 gonna be a problem, no, because if they don't, it's 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:35.200 gonna be another It's gonna be a lot going on 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:39.960 out here in Atlanta. Go ahead, now, it's gonna piggyback 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:42.000 off that for sure, because they posted up at their 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:45.840 Wendy's every day for hours and they wait in you know, 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:48.600 everybody's waiting. But I will say the reason I said 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:52.960 training sewers because I think, um, they need to be 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:58.760 taught that we are just like our Caucasian counterparts. We 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:03.160 are not I'm threatening, and we just have a different background. 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:06.080 Of course, I think that they are fearful of us 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:08.400 because we are naturally a little bit more aggressive than 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:10.840 our Caucasian kind of parts. But that doesn't mean that 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:14.320 we are going to kill them. The question. The crazy 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:19.560 thing is we actually are brought up to be fearful 0:04:19.680 --> 0:04:23.279 of the police, and that is crazy because they're supposed 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:26.000 to protect and serve our neighborhoods. But when they come 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:28.680 in our neighborhoods for some reason, they tend to kill 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:31.279 us and they tell to be uh. They tend to 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:35.600 be extra um physical with us when they arrest us, 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:37.799 for it could be for minor things. If they feel 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:41.280 any type of threat towards us, they tend to be 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:44.880 extra physical. And I think, to me, it has to 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.280 be some type of training that they need to go 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:50.000 through because and I understand your points, who I was 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:51.880 just saying, like in the training part, like they have 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.839 to tell these people like and I and then to 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:58.280 to segue a little bit, I feel like African Americans 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:01.320 were like a new species or something because all these 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:05.480 other things just popping up, came out like we just 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:07.400 came out like we're a new batch of race or 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:10.040 something like that. So I do like how things are 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:14.960 starting to unfold. But unfortunately, I do think the new 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:18.480 police officers have to have some type of, um, the 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:22.080 sense of time reform type of training for sure to 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:25.640 dealing with us in our communities. Well, you know, just 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:28.920 like you said, we are brought up to fear the police, 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:32.080 as a white person is brought up to fear black 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:36.240 people in general. And um, I was just watching this 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:38.720 video of this white man who was going off on 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:42.800 white people and just explaining the white privilege. And he 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:46.880 said in that video, you know, whether white people admit 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:50.320 it or not, they are raised to fear black people. 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:52.560 When a black person comes around, or you go into 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:55.760 a black neighborhood, lock your doors, you know. Um, so 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:59.280 this is a top behavior. And and just like for 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:03.360 the people, it's it's a it's a a top behavior 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:06.039 too because you know, your parents always, you know, getting 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:07.919 you prepared to how to on how to deal with 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:11.200 the police, and you know how to act. And you 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:13.320 know what I'm trying to say, no because listen, um, 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:17.040 I remember my mom clean houses when I was when 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:18.839 I was a younger kid, and I would go to 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:21.320 go with her to clean houses. And of course when 0:06:21.400 --> 0:06:25.400 we were clean houses will be in rich uh Caucasian neighborhoods. 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:28.560 And you know, I never forget. We parked on the 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:30.640 side of the road one time and we were walking 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:33.440 into the house with cleaning supplies and one of the 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:36.560 neighbors called the police office. The police got there, my 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:38.680 mom had to call the owner. She showed that she 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:41.360 had the keys to the house, but the police officer 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:45.640 went to leave until the owner came. I was in 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:48.159 eighth grade and you know, I'm from West Palm Beach. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.080 I think we saw a post on ball alert with 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:53.680 somebody from Wellington. We were actually in Wellington and that's 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:57.360 a very nice area compared to where we were living in. 0:06:57.400 --> 0:06:59.719 And of course my mom didn't drive the best car, 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:03.080 so you know, as soon as we parked on the 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:05.440 side of the on the side of the street where 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:08.159 the house was at and we were walking up, neighbor 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:10.560 called police like who are these black You know, I'm 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:12.840 I had braids because you know, I'm in eighth grade, 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:15.240 so I had braids in my hair, and I'm I'm 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:18.600 pretty sure they felt threatened. That's a perfect example what 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.600 you're trying to say. Well, we are definitely happy that 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:23.960 nothing happened to you all, that you guys are safe, 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:27.080 because it's far too often. We know that it's the latter. 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:30.120 We know that black people are targets no matter what 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:32.520 they're doing. So it's time to see change. It's time 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.960 to see reform, do what we have to do to 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:38.760 make our communities feel safe again. And honestly, speaking about change, 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:43.200 who would have thought that your pancakes might be a problem. 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:48.040 That's your pancakes and your syrup might be a problem. Okay, 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:51.200 shout out to a young lady singer actually by the 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:57.520 name of Kirby. She's single handedly, single handedly got on Jemima, 0:07:57.600 --> 0:08:01.320 the company that that produces on Jima Quaker oats to 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:05.360 change the imaging and the name. She educated me on 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:10.720 something I did not know that Jemima really comes. It's 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:15.240 inspired from a stereotype obviously many you know, and I 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:17.920 just didn't realize how deep and when of course, it's like, 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:21.000 we're looking at this imaging all the time, but I 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:24.720 don't even think that as black people, we let that register. 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:27.920 But the way that she pointed it out and explained 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:31.160 it in her TikTok video, I guess word got back 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:35.800 to Quaker Oats and they are changing the imaging for sure. 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:39.200 After one hundred and thirty one years, then Jemima name 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:43.080 and image will be scrubbed from syrup bottles, pancake mixed 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:46.280 packages because they are based off of, like you said, 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:50.760 racial stereotypes. I haven't let downstairs in my kitchen. Are 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.239 you what are you want to do about it? Now? Pancakes? 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:57.040 Are you guys, pancakes? I feel you? I feel you? 0:08:57.080 --> 0:08:59.880 Are you going to continue to purchase Quaker Oats products 0:08:59.880 --> 0:09:04.480 because listen, it's they knew where that came from. Why 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:07.480 did it take for a revolution for them to do that? 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:10.960 And honestly, it's hella the pancake options, like, come on, 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:13.960 black folks don't be taking no apologies and putting money 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:17.160 right back into their pockets because honestly, they don't really care. 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:20.200 They just don't want to lose any money. You know, 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:22.640 you know it hurt me, man, go ahead. I know it, 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:24.840 I know it hurt. Well. I was just gonna say, 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:28.600 you know, with all that's going on and how everybody 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:31.880 is being forced to look at race in this light, 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:35.840 um you have, I'm glad that these corporations are taking 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:39.200 accountability now, you know, better late than never. Although you 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:41.679 know what we're supposed to say, thank you for something 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:44.199 that you have, you should have been doing exactly you know, 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:46.439 um yeah, what you want to say, Oh yeah, we 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:50.360 appreciate it, thunk y'all right, But the way that we 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:52.480 really stick it to them is don't spend no money 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:55.000 on their products. I know, man, Damn, I got the 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:57.320 whole set up at the house to y'all, it's okay. 0:09:57.360 --> 0:09:59.280 You you got a family, you're gonna run through it 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:04.040 real quick, and then you're gonna buy your other options. Damn. Man. Well, 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:08.800 hours after Quaker Oats made that announcement, another one, you're 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:12.439 going another one. They're going to be changing the packaging 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:16.000 for Uncle Ben's you know what, before y'all even start 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:20.160 actually that Now that one, now it makes it's making sense. 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:23.680 We got Aunt Jemima and then Uncle Ben. Uncle damn. 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:25.959 I'm over here, I'm over here putting two and two 0:10:26.040 --> 0:10:31.079 together right now, like, wow, they've really even slick trying us. 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:33.160 But you know what, I'm glad that all this, all 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:35.520 this stuff is coming to light now. My biggest question 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:37.520 is what about the Quaker What about the man on 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:42.040 the um on the Quaker oats? No, no, not not 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:45.680 the oatmeal, the cream of wheat on the cream. Let 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:51.000 me out, trust me. Oh my god, oh my god, 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:52.880 oh my god. I'm looking at it right now. I 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:56.800 don't know. I saw I saw a me on Instagram 0:10:56.880 --> 0:11:01.440 that said you're next, and hey, we funding down the line. Listen. 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:09.520 Who's okay? Listen what at a time? We are not 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:14.520 here value our money right now? He looks. Okay, I'm 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:16.760 looking at it, but I don't know. I got now. 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:21.240 We gotta research this. We gotta research this, y'all song, 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:29.120 and y'all says on the box. Yeah. But you know 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:31.080 what I want to say to these companies, it's not 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:33.440 enough for you to change the imaging and the name. 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:35.440 I want to see you all get involved in the 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:39.760 black communities, whether it is monthly community service adventures that 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:44.120 your employs can get into, or financially contributing like you guys. 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:45.880 It's not enough to just change the name. You got 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:50.040 to prove that you are really down. What if the 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:55.600 guy on the Quaker oats grits and the oatmeal, what 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:59.439 if he what are the origins of him? He looks 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:04.240 like the owner the planet, the plantation owner on that 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:08.520 same you're making me looking at everything. I'm looking at 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:13.400 the grids and the old man about Captain crunch, You 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:20.680 got chill out out for that's the captain cutting. Oh 0:12:20.840 --> 0:12:24.559 hell no, he was one of the people driving the boat. 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:30.600 Let me crush. Don't nobody eat that sugar it is 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:39.000 I'm just talking all of these packaging um from from 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:44.200 corn flakes. These all stem from way, way like years ago. 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:47.280 So you never know the mindset of these companies. They're 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:51.280 all Europeanized and you know, push that upon us and 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:55.400 for them to unveil what you know, stereotypes that they 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:59.120 piggybacked off of to brand their product. I could see 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:08.440 more companies. I'm a forward. We cannot continue to be 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:13.000 shocked when these companies that come from the eighteen hundreds 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:16.400 or whenever it was that they that they were born 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:19.440 that they're not racist. They absolutely are. But you know what, 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:25.320 speaking of something that is shocking, people are kind of 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:31.079 tripping to Deja Harris's reaction. If you watch t I 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:35.400 Family Hustle the latest episode, then you got to see 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:40.319 what Deja's reaction was. Back when t I revealed that 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:45.280 he um he goes to the gynecologists with her to 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:49.520 make sure that she is intact, basically to make sure 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:53.760 his baby girl is not sexually active. So obviously we 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:56.360 knew that she was embarrassed, you know. We we knew 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:59.280 that she deactivated her social media, she kind of went 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.440 goes for a little bit. But this was where we 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:05.240 actually got to physically see her reaction. And some people 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.199 feel like she might be a little harsh on t 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:10.079 I because at one at one point she actually said 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:13.000 that she'll be a better parent, you know, not to 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:15.640 say that he is a bad parent, but she just 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.320 felt like she would be a little more empathetic and 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:22.720 respectful of her children's privacy. And I can understand that 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:28.000 I can relate as a woman. I would be completely embarrassed, 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:31.520 could not my face if my father told the world 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:34.680 about me like that, let alone on that platform, you know, 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:39.800 UM as a father of a teenager with now I 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:41.680 see when I wake up in the morning, I just 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:44.480 realized that by the last month she got boobs now 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:49.600 and it bothers me a little bit, but I don't 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:52.720 necessarily and my and my teenager is actually super private, 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:56.840 so she don't really like attention like that. So I 0:14:56.880 --> 0:15:01.280 can already imagine how, of course, growing up being TIA's 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:05.000 daughter and being on TV for everyone to judge you, 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:08.120 so I can kindred and teenagers. You know, once teenagers 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:11.800 start becoming mature and you guys are you you? You 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:14.440 ladies are females, so you will know this more than me. 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:17.880 Once you get like sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen twenty, you 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:21.320 kind of over here life bro a pops, You're not 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:25.160 necessarily as cool as everybody think you. Hi, why are 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:28.240 you talking about my business on TV social media? You 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:29.640 know what I'm saying. I think he could have left 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:31.520 that private. That's my big dog. But hey, I think 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:33.680 you could have left that alone. That's true. And it's 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:37.760 just like the old Kanye. Piece of the old Kanye said, 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:41.040 and we made you from the Late Registration album come 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:44.359 on feeling better. There's some head on a Sunday afternoon 0:15:45.040 --> 0:15:48.240 better than a check that says yes too soon until 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:50.600 you have a daughter. That's what I call calmen and 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.880 you pray the guy she don't grow breast too soon. 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:56.720 Yeah yeah, well my my, my seventeen, my soon to 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:59.960 be seventeen year old breasts are here. They're they're definitely here, 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:04.640 and I don't like it. The double standard has to stop, 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:06.360 you know. I feel like we're in an age now 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:10.680 where people who wanted to ignore or could not understand 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:14.080 systematic racism or racism period are starting to open their 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:16.760 eyes to it. And now I feel like we have 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:21.080 other conversations to have right for centuries, for since the 0:16:21.080 --> 0:16:24.680 beginning of time, men have always talked about women's bodies, 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:26.840 what they should do, what they should look like, how 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:30.640 they should be and listen, it is not your place 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:33.360 to talk about this young woman's body, no matter what 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:36.440 stage she's in. I understand you know. This may be 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:39.000 your child, this may be a family member, a niece. 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:42.200 But I promise you there is not a single young 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:46.760 woman in the world who is truly okay with her 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:50.240 body being talked about. They're still trying to understand their 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:53.080 body at that age themselves. So to have to go 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:56.240 on social media and read all these comments and then 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:59.600 also here other men chiming in, Oh yeah, I would 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:01.600 do that with daughter too. I mean, she she better 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:03.920 be a virgin. She too young. But then you turn 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:07.359 around and you hear fathers having conversations with their kids 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:11.000 about being baby daddy's or you have a situation like 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:15.000 Little Boosey where he went and got a woman to 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:18.760 service his young kids and his nephews. Like, the double 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:23.119 standard is so extreme it just does not make sense. 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:26.960 So please leave these young women alone. If they have 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:30.040 a mother, let the mother deal with that. If they 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:32.560 have aunts, let the aunt deal with that. Certain things 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:34.960 should be private, you know. Yeah, And if they don't 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:37.359 have female figures in their life and you have to 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:39.520 be that as a father, then I applaud you for 0:17:39.600 --> 0:17:42.959 being that, But please understand the boundaries and give her 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:46.280 the respect to talk to her about what those boundaries 0:17:46.320 --> 0:17:48.720 may be. Because don't just don't assume that she'll be 0:17:48.760 --> 0:17:51.800 okay with it. Don't assume that these girls are okay 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:54.960 and she was just mortified to even have a conversation 0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:58.280 about it with her dad. You know, that alone says 0:17:58.280 --> 0:18:01.440 a lot. I'm pretty sure, like the conversation at if 0:18:01.440 --> 0:18:05.040 it was more of a private conversation versus it going 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:09.080 viral or whatever, we called it, and it's just you know, 0:18:09.200 --> 0:18:11.320 it's just embarrassing. You know, just as a kid, I 0:18:11.359 --> 0:18:14.760 can kind of I would set be embarrassed. That's embarrassing, 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:17.280 so you know, and just as a father, you you 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:20.120 don't want to embarrass your kid. But at the same time, 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:23.720 we don't know what's going on. We kind of see 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:26.760 bits and pieces. Well we see the majority of it. 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:29.359 I ain't gonna lie, but I mean, I couldn't imagine 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:34.720 being a celebrities child. Being a normal person is already enough. 0:18:34.920 --> 0:18:37.439 It's already a lot of being a celebrities child is 0:18:37.520 --> 0:18:40.600 completely different. So I guess we can go ahead and 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:44.920 get into this. Yeah, right, well, let's go ahead and 0:18:44.960 --> 0:18:49.240 get into this Rick Ross situation since we're talking about kids. 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:54.280 So Brianna Camille and Miami rapper Rick Ross, they've been 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:57.400 going back and forth in a custody battle regarding their 0:18:57.400 --> 0:19:00.280 two children. And keep in mind she is currently agnant. 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:02.439 There's a third child on the way. They got two 0:19:02.520 --> 0:19:07.040 kids together and then she got pregnant with him. Was 0:19:09.359 --> 0:19:13.800 well listen, she is his former living girlfriend. You know, 0:19:13.840 --> 0:19:17.840 they were in a real relationship, and last month Brianna 0:19:17.920 --> 0:19:21.119 actually said it was documented in court papers that she 0:19:21.240 --> 0:19:26.119 has no problem, you know, granting ross any parenting time 0:19:26.200 --> 0:19:28.600 like he she wants him to have time with his kids, 0:19:29.080 --> 0:19:32.960 but she wants him to test negative for COVID nineteen 0:19:33.080 --> 0:19:36.000 because she said that he's been traveling and because of 0:19:36.040 --> 0:19:38.720 her current pregnancy, it means that she's at a higher 0:19:38.840 --> 0:19:43.399 risk of complications. Some people say she's tripping. Some people 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:46.639 think he's tripping because he's saying that the virus is 0:19:46.680 --> 0:19:49.760 a non factor. It doesn't matter. He thinks that she 0:19:49.920 --> 0:19:52.200 just wants to keep him from from seeing his kids. 0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:55.479 Where she's just like, listen, just take the test. If 0:19:55.520 --> 0:19:58.640 it says you're negative, you can come get them right now. 0:19:59.080 --> 0:20:02.400 It just sounds like a o they're protecting her kids. Okay, guys, listen, 0:20:02.400 --> 0:20:04.520 you know what I think. It sounds like a pregnant 0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:08.960 lady being extra number one, number two. How the hell 0:20:09.000 --> 0:20:11.280 did you get pregnant anyway? Okay, was you worried about 0:20:11.320 --> 0:20:15.440 COVID nineteen, then was you worried about COVID team, then 0:20:15.560 --> 0:20:19.000 when y'all y'all was not even together, you got pregnant. 0:20:19.000 --> 0:20:21.320 And then now you know that went together when she 0:20:21.400 --> 0:20:26.000 got pregnant because they weren't How do you know, were 0:20:26.000 --> 0:20:29.800 they quarantining together? I don't know. Do you know that? 0:20:29.520 --> 0:20:33.840 We don't know, That's what I'm saying. And she want that, Well, 0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:37.840 he don't got COVID nineteen, but you said he that's that. 0:20:37.840 --> 0:20:40.760 That was his living girlfriend, right, Yes, they lived, so 0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:43.840 they had for the first for the first two kids. 0:20:43.800 --> 0:20:46.359 I thought they only had one together. No, they have 0:20:46.480 --> 0:20:54.160 two children, and they they've been shocking pregnant and she's 0:20:54.240 --> 0:20:56.960 all the way pregnant. So she got three months she 0:20:57.600 --> 0:21:00.920 got pregnant. She got pregn it with the breakup sex 0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:02.960 and lett y'all know she had she got pregnant with 0:21:02.960 --> 0:21:07.320 breakup sext the beginning of fourteen. We're like almost six 0:21:07.359 --> 0:21:12.000 months in. If that's the case, they got pregnant, okay, 0:21:12.040 --> 0:21:17.160 because they did it together. And the reality is, listen, 0:21:17.280 --> 0:21:21.679 cod's emotionally unstable because she's pregnant. I get it. And 0:21:21.760 --> 0:21:25.560 she wants him to take a COVID nineteen tests across. 0:21:25.600 --> 0:21:27.800 Just take the test, bro, and just test negative and 0:21:27.840 --> 0:21:29.879 then go over there. That's it, because what if he 0:21:29.920 --> 0:21:32.320 actually has it? What if he's asymptomatic and the kids 0:21:32.320 --> 0:21:36.240 get it? Now, what everybody's gonna be like, Oh, oh, 0:21:36.320 --> 0:21:39.119 he should have took the test. Like the mama said, 0:21:39.240 --> 0:21:41.439 she's pregnant. She don't want to, she don't want her 0:21:41.480 --> 0:21:43.600 kids to get sick. You don't want the new and 0:21:43.640 --> 0:21:51.480 she's elevatedly emotionally extra and the fair sir, take the 0:21:51.600 --> 0:21:54.360 damn test and go to your kids. Want to take 0:21:54.359 --> 0:21:58.879 the test? Man, what are you gonna listen if he 0:21:58.920 --> 0:22:01.240 took the test when when the conversation first came up, 0:22:01.240 --> 0:22:03.120 he would have been with his kids. But that thing 0:22:03.160 --> 0:22:05.840 all over your nose, man, that ship don't even look comfortable, 0:22:05.880 --> 0:22:08.600 look like it hurts. It's up your But what's worse 0:22:08.920 --> 0:22:11.480 that are getting your kids sick? Come on now, because 0:22:11.520 --> 0:22:16.959 y'all know even y'all know eve been traveling or getting 0:22:17.119 --> 0:22:21.560 um colonoscopy. I hope by the time it's time for 0:22:21.600 --> 0:22:23.240 me to take that they have a research. They have 0:22:23.280 --> 0:22:24.920 a new way in doing it where they just think, 0:22:25.560 --> 0:22:28.840 like something in my ear or some ship. Man, that's 0:22:28.880 --> 0:22:31.159 gonna be the worst day of my life. Well, I 0:22:31.200 --> 0:22:33.399 want to know who do y'all think is tripping? Do 0:22:33.440 --> 0:22:36.399 you think Rick Ross is tripping for refusing to take 0:22:36.720 --> 0:22:39.560 a COVID nineteen test, or do you think Brianna Camille 0:22:39.640 --> 0:22:42.680 his baby mama is tripping for asking him to take 0:22:42.720 --> 0:22:45.960 one before seeing his kids. I think Brianna Camille is 0:22:45.960 --> 0:22:47.480 tripping on. Want me to tell your why because I 0:22:47.560 --> 0:22:50.159 think deep down she knows Rick Ross does not have 0:22:50.240 --> 0:22:53.640 COVID nineteen and she's just being extra. But I could 0:22:53.640 --> 0:22:56.600 be wrong know that. How do I think it's between 0:22:56.640 --> 0:22:59.439 them two? I think them to know they know like 0:22:59.520 --> 0:23:02.280 she know was. But I think she's just challenging him, like, Yo, 0:23:02.440 --> 0:23:04.360 you need to take the test. You've been going out 0:23:04.359 --> 0:23:06.480 and doing too much stuff. What do you think O 0:23:06.600 --> 0:23:12.840 c T. I think we're giving this too much energy. Okay, 0:23:13.080 --> 0:23:16.120 take the test. That's it. Just take the tests. Are like, 0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:18.160