Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubil Show.
Speaker 3: Michael is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater,
Speaker 3: and he's been dating Harper for three months, but now
Speaker 3: he thinks something might be going on. So so we're
Speaker 3: gonna see if we can catch her cheating or not
Speaker 3: cheating in a minute.
Speaker 2: But first, Michael, what's up?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 2: Tell us what's going on?
Speaker 4: So this is sick Harper Man.
Speaker 1: So you know, we've been in there, this relationship for
Speaker 1: about three months now give a take, and this, you know,
Speaker 1: it just feels like the whole relationship she's been you know,
Speaker 1: sneaking around my back, you know what I mean, just
Speaker 1: this little things here and there just aren't adding up, okay,
Speaker 1: And I just really need to find out, like what's
Speaker 1: going on, you know, because you know, Harper, she's a
Speaker 1: great girl. We have you know, great times when we
Speaker 1: hang out. But you know, she's I don't have to
Speaker 1: say this, she's she's been of like a like a
Speaker 1: free spirit, I guess kind of girl.
Speaker 4: You know, she kind of just goes with the flow.
Speaker 4: You know, she just like lives in the moment, you
Speaker 4: know what I.
Speaker 2: Mean, that kind of Yeah, that's probably what you like
Speaker 2: about her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean that's cool. Yeah, I'm definitely down
Speaker 1: with it. But it's just it seems a little much
Speaker 1: like it like I get the free spirit like kind
Speaker 1: of going with the float, but then again, like I
Speaker 1: don't know, like you know, just things aren't adding up,
Speaker 1: you know when it comes to Okay for instance. You know,
Speaker 1: you know, we've been spending a lot of time together
Speaker 1: and I like her, you know, but there's you know,
Speaker 1: she's always like has an excuse to like never spend
Speaker 1: the night. It's it's just weird. And she she never
Speaker 1: lets me, you know, she never lets me go to
Speaker 1: her house, you know, first of all, so I'm never there.
Speaker 1: You know, I've never I've never met any of her friends,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And then most of our
Speaker 1: dates that we have are they're just at my place,
Speaker 1: you know what i mean. She's always coming over, but
Speaker 1: you know, she never stays, like I said, and there's
Speaker 1: like no PDA ever, you know, it.
Speaker 4: Just it kind of feels like it kind of feels
Speaker 4: like I'm like a side piece or something.
Speaker 3: Oh oh really, but what does she like to just
Speaker 3: take things a little slow.
Speaker 1: But I mean, but but no PDA, like ever, like
Speaker 1: you know, she hardly ever like.
Speaker 4: Kisses me and stuff, and I don't know, it's weird.
Speaker 1: And so you know, you know, she has a social
Speaker 1: media stuff, right, so I kind of go in there
Speaker 1: and look around and stuff, but it's just like it's
Speaker 1: just pictures of her and like food, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like no people.
Speaker 4: So it's really weird, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, I know it sounds weird, guys.
Speaker 2: I know, but no, it doesn't.
Speaker 3: I mean, I've been in situations like that where I'm like,
Speaker 3: she sees me, we talk, but then also it seems
Speaker 3: like it's at certain times and then certain times they're
Speaker 3: always like I fell asleep, and then it's the next day,
Speaker 3: you know, every single time.
Speaker 2: It's like I think you're just home with whoever you're with,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Yeah, yeah, it does.
Speaker 5: Well.
Speaker 4: Here's an example.
Speaker 1: So she's at work, right and I go to her
Speaker 1: job to pick her up from work, you know, and
Speaker 1: she made me wait in the car and I couldn't
Speaker 1: even go inside of her job, you know.
Speaker 4: And when she gets to the car, we drove off
Speaker 4: and I.
Speaker 6: Was like, hey, I was like, what was that about?
Speaker 1: Walking It out, and she was just like, well, I
Speaker 1: just really wanted to leave, you know, I wanted.
Speaker 4: To bounce you as quick as possible. I was like, like,
Speaker 4: I haven't met any of her friends, you know, I've
Speaker 4: met any of her co workers, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: So it's like, I don't know, it's just not right.
Speaker 4: I mean I like her a lot, though.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just not sure if she's being totally one
Speaker 2: hundred with you. I mean, it is just three months,
Speaker 2: and maybe she's just being cautious. But it does sound
Speaker 2: a little bit like she's hiding you.
Speaker 1: But wasn't you, like three months, wouldn't you, like, you know,
Speaker 1: kiss me in public or I could my hand or yeah, I.
Speaker 4: Think we're in our like what do you call like
Speaker 4: our honeymoon state? Like this is where we do all
Speaker 4: that stuff, you know.
Speaker 2: Right right? Definitely?
Speaker 3: Okay, Well we'll see what's going on. You already told
Speaker 3: us what grocery store. What grocery store. She's a rewards card, remember,
Speaker 3: at So we'll call up, pretend to be for the
Speaker 3: grocery store and say that she's this month's big winner
Speaker 3: of thirty six long sim red roses to be delivered
Speaker 3: to anybody that she wants, and we'll see if she
Speaker 3: sends them to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 4: Okay, man, man, I appreciate it that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, all right, we'll play a song come back
Speaker 3: and get you to Catch a Cheater next.
Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 3: Michael is on the phone and he's been dating Harper
Speaker 3: for three months, but he's pretty sure that something is
Speaker 3: going on. So we're about to call her and pretend
Speaker 3: to be from the grocery store that she's a rewards
Speaker 3: card member at and say that every single month, we
Speaker 3: choose one random rewards card member who gets free flowers
Speaker 3: delivered from our floral department. We'll see if she sends those. Well,
Speaker 3: first we'll see if she believes it, and then we'll
Speaker 3: see if she sends those to Michael or to somebody else. Hey, Michael,
Speaker 3: before we do that, though, why don't you refresh everybody's
Speaker 3: memory on your situation.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So, you know, me and Harper we've been dating for
Speaker 1: about three months now, so and it's been kind of shady,
Speaker 1: you know, like she just doesn't you know, she doesn't
Speaker 1: want to spend a lot of time together. And three
Speaker 1: months is very earlier in the relationship. She doesn't want
Speaker 1: to do any PDA like. Ever, I haven't been any
Speaker 1: of her friends. I've been co workers, and all the
Speaker 1: date has been at my place, so I've never even
Speaker 1: seen her place. And yeah, I just I think something's
Speaker 1: going on. I think she's hiding something, and so I
Speaker 1: just want to get.
Speaker 4: To the bottom of it.
Speaker 2: I think you might be a side piece, and.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I'm a five piece.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, hopefully you're not. And hope this is
Speaker 3: a good explanation. But you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, this is Trouble calling from I was looking
Speaker 3: for our rewards card. Remember named Harper. Hi, Yes, Hi Harper.
Speaker 3: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 3: I'm actually to tell you congratulations. You're this month's big winner.
Speaker 6: What have I won?
Speaker 5: What?
Speaker 3: I Every single month we choose one rewards card member
Speaker 3: at random who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department,
Speaker 3: just our little way of saying thank you very much
Speaker 3: for shopping with us and being such a loyal customer.
Speaker 3: So you've just won thirty six long sim red roses
Speaker 3: a box of chocolates and a card to be delivered
Speaker 3: anywhere in the United States.
Speaker 2: Absolutely free. It's a three hundred and forty two dollars value.
Speaker 6: Actually, wow, amazing.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So here's how it works.
Speaker 3: If you know the person that you would like to
Speaker 3: send them to right now, you have all the information.
Speaker 3: I can do it just in a matter of minutes
Speaker 3: over the phone. You get confirmations on everything. It's absolutely free.
Speaker 6: I definitely have someone in mind that i'd like to.
Speaker 2: Okay, great, do you have just a couple of minutes
Speaker 2: to do that now?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Wonderful.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: To start, I will just need to get the first
Speaker 3: and the last name of the person you would like
Speaker 3: to send the flowers.
Speaker 6: Too, So it's going to be to Michael.
Speaker 2: Would you like to put anything on a card?
Speaker 6: Yeah, just say to Michael, I can't get enough of you, Harper.
Speaker 3: Wonderful. So I can't get enough of you, Okay, cool,
Speaker 3: Well then I guess I'll just tell you the truth.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 3: So my name is actually Jubel and this is a
Speaker 3: radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I hear on the show too, Hi,
Speaker 2: and I'm Victoria. Yeah, on the show Michael's actually on
Speaker 2: the phone too.
Speaker 1: Oh Hi, Hey, hey hey Harper, how that was it going?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 6: Pretty elaborate and weird.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Michael, do you want to explain what it is
Speaker 2: or do you want me to?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll do it. Okay, So Harper, have a small
Speaker 4: confession to make.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'll bought you on the show because yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought that you might have been like sleep around.
Speaker 4: Or cheating on me. You know, I don't I know this,
Speaker 4: I know this is weird. Just hold on. So as
Speaker 4: of lately, you know, you can tell that I've been
Speaker 4: trying to like hang out more and do things a
Speaker 4: lot more with you, but.
Speaker 1: I don't know, You've been giving me some pushback, right,
Speaker 1: and so like the behaviors are really sketchy. So I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to figure out, like is there like another
Speaker 1: person or like what's kind of going on, because like
Speaker 1: you're not giving me anything. So I'm just I'm just
Speaker 1: here to try to through the air.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, just go out there.
Speaker 5: I guess I should probably let you know that I
Speaker 5: am in a relationship, but it's we're not cheating on
Speaker 5: each other.
Speaker 6: We're open.
Speaker 5: And there's some guidelines around that, you know, but the
Speaker 5: rule is is, you know, we can do whatever we want,
Speaker 5: but we always come home at night and no one
Speaker 5: else is allowed in our place. Oh wow, And you know,
Speaker 5: I think Michael's great.
Speaker 6: I really enjoy his company. He's a fantastic guy.
Speaker 5: But I'm very free spirited and open and I'm having
Speaker 5: fun and I'd like to keep seeing where it goes.
Speaker 2: Okay, were you going to tell Michael this?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Well yeah, when when was the time You're going
Speaker 4: to tell me?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: It was something I feel that would come up a
Speaker 5: little more if things were to keep going about the
Speaker 5: halfier mark, ye half year.
Speaker 1: Okay, So about this other guy, like are you are
Speaker 1: you guys like married or something like are you are
Speaker 1: you trying to leave this guy?
Speaker 4: Or why would you want to be with me? Like
Speaker 4: like what's going on?
Speaker 5: Well? Yeah, we're married, but you know, he's musicians, so
Speaker 5: he's traveling a lot. And we've always had an understanding that,
Speaker 5: you know, we could do what we wanted, just don't
Speaker 5: bring it home and don't bring it in our beds.
Speaker 6: And I think you're great. I really fun hanging out
Speaker 6: with you.
Speaker 5: But that's the situation, and I know that it's not
Speaker 5: necessarily easy information to digest.
Speaker 2: How do you feel about that?
Speaker 1: Man, I've never ever been caught up in a situation.
Speaker 1: I mean, you hear about this stuff on movies, right, Like,
Speaker 1: this never happens to you.
Speaker 4: This is nuts.
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Mean, Harper, You're You're great. I mean, I'm like, these
Speaker 1: past three months have been tremendous. Like the only thing
Speaker 1: that the only disconnect here is that like I want
Speaker 1: to spend more time with you, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: and it just seems like you're not giving me that.
Speaker 4: I mean, but now that I know the reason why,
Speaker 4: you know it kind of it makes me understand you.
Speaker 4: Now you know a little bit more and I know
Speaker 4: you're you know, free spirit girl. You know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess what I'm trying to say is
Speaker 1: that you know, I'm not really a side piece kind
Speaker 1: of guy, really, but it does make me feel better
Speaker 1: that you let me know.
Speaker 4: Does that make sense?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean I never viewed you as a side piece,
Speaker 5: but you know, now that it's out there and you
Speaker 5: know you have to weigh in on it, I respect
Speaker 5: your decision, but you know, just let just to let
Speaker 5: you know, I really think you're fantastic. Sicken if you're
Speaker 5: open to it. I would like to keep seeing where
Speaker 5: this leaps.
Speaker 2: Where can it lead though?
Speaker 4: Yeah, would you be open to leaving the guy or.
Speaker 5: That's a really hard question to answer, but you know,
Speaker 5: the right person came along.
Speaker 6: Who knows what would open up?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 5: So yeah, basically, you know, I'd like to keep seeing
Speaker 5: where it goes. And I don't know if you've ever
Speaker 5: heard of the concept of a ruffle at all, but
Speaker 5: maybe that's something you might consider down the line. And
Speaker 5: you know, I live with my husband and my lover,
Speaker 5: but yeah, that's something for you to consider that.
Speaker 6: You know, you might have heard about that in the
Speaker 6: movies that Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean that people are doing that. Michael, would you
Speaker 2: want to be in house lover?
Speaker 1: I got to figure about it, Okay, right now, I
Speaker 1: do want to keep hanging out.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: Oh well, hey cool, I'm glad communication is happening.
Speaker 2: To enjoy yourself. Good luck.
Speaker 6: Oh and the flower things? Do they do you just
Speaker 6: took up the flowers? Do I get no flowers?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: There are no no flowers are but it sounds like
Speaker 3: you guys are gonna have fun anyway.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, the hell of a story The
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