1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to Stuff Mom Never Told You? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: From House stu Words dot Com. Hello, and welcome to 4 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: the podcast. I'm Kristen and I'm Caroline, and we are 5 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: talking today about mediums. Some might confuse them with psychics, 6 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: but I say that mediums are a little bit different, right, Yeah. 7 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: Mediums use their bodies and their brains a sort of 8 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: a vehicle, a conduit for spirit communication, whereas psychics are 9 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 1: like using esp and stuff supposedly, supposedly. And this might 10 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: seem like quite an out of the blue, left field 11 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: topic for us to pluck from the ether and talk 12 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: about on the podcast, because we haven't talked about religion 13 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: all that much on Stuff Mom Never Told You. But 14 00:00:55,800 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: come to find out, talking about mediums in Victoria in 15 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: America and the related religion of spiritualism is so apt 16 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: to all of our discussions about women and gender inequality, because, 17 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: come to find out, there is a surprisingly strong connection 18 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: between early feminism and suffrage movement and spiritualism. Right, women 19 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: definitely had a place in spiritualism that they weren't afforded 20 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: in other more mainstream Puritan inspired religion. Uh. And just 21 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: to give you a little bit of background, spiritualism came 22 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: about in eighteen forty eight, although it is rooted back 23 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 1: to other ancient religions. Uh. And we were jumping off 24 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: from a book called Talking to the Other Side by 25 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: Todd Jay Leonard. Right. In eighteen forty eight, two wily 26 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: sisters Katie and Maggie Fox claimed to have made contact 27 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: with an entity they called Mr. Split Foot, which, yeah, okay, 28 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 1: I guess if we're making up names. Um. They used 29 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: this elaborate coade of hand clapping that resulted in wrappings 30 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: to answer them as if these spirits in their house 31 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: were we're communicating with them. They went on tour, they 32 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: became famous. People migrated to their home in New York 33 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: to see them and and witnessed this crazy spiritual phenomenon. 34 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: And P. T. Barnum even swooped in and brought them 35 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,239 Speaker 1: to New York City to you know, make them part 36 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: of his tour and make them famous. But then in 37 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: the Fox sisters finally fessed up that they had actually 38 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: produced the noise for Mr. Split Foot from cracking their 39 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: toe joints crows, and that they yeah, they both could 40 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 1: do this because siblings are weird. Um, And yeah, so 41 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: they're just lying to everybody. And they also used an 42 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: apple that they tied to a string and bounced on 43 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: the floor. And they were sort of playing off the 44 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: history of the house that they lived in because the 45 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: house was sort of known in the in the neighborhood 46 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: for for having sort of your bumps in the night, 47 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,119 Speaker 1: and so they were sort of playing off of that 48 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden it exploded, yeah, into 49 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: a freaking religion basically. But yeah, so it didn't turn 50 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 1: out so well for them because after they confessed, and 51 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: I think there were three sisters total, two of them 52 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: ran on the hoax, the older one who she was 53 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: like twenty years older. She became a medium in her 54 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: own right. But they all confessed that it was a 55 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: hoax and then some of them were canted, but they 56 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: all ended up destitute, alcoholic downfall. Um. And yeah, this 57 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: is going on in the midst of uh, this spike 58 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: in spiritualism, which is an American made religion that centered 59 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: on a medium. Like you said, Caroline, it's a person 60 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: who is sensitive to vibrations and energy and a lot 61 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: of times in uh, spiritualism terms, the energy from the 62 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: other world great Beyond is termed more feminine energy rather 63 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: than masculine energy. So it makes sense even from the 64 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: beginning that women would be become the major conduits of 65 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: this type of energy, and through them spirits would deliver messages. 66 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: I don't know what Mr split Foot really had to 67 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: say to the world. I don't either. I know that 68 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 1: they asked him a bunch of questions like how old 69 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: he was and stuff like that, and I was telling 70 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: Kristen this earlier. But the simple fact that he expressed 71 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: like certain numbers by wrapping, which was really them cracking 72 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: their toes, which over and over and over and had 73 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: to crack there too. Oh God, I can't even stand 74 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: up with somebody cracks their knuckles twice. I mean it, 75 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:42,720 Speaker 1: be careful. I could use a good knuckle crack. Caroline, Yeah, 76 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: I can't do it my toes. So the growth of 77 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: spiritualism in the mid eighteen hundreds sort of a demonstration 78 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: against the puritanical belief system that had really come to 79 00:04:56,120 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 1: h service the foundation for American mainstream religion at the time. Right, Yeah, 80 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: the world is modernizing and people were moving away from 81 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: the really puritanical beliefs, you know, of of sin and 82 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: hell and basically feeling guilty all the time got pretty exhausting. 83 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: So they were open to as as lifestyles changed, as 84 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: as the world was changing around them, people were tended 85 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: to be in this time, we're open to other ideas, 86 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: particularly about religion. And I think it's interesting that around 87 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: the same time that Spiritualism developed, Mormonism and Christian Science 88 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: also came about. Yeah, Christian Science actually emerged from former 89 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: spiritualist Mary Baker Eddie who had an epiphany after she 90 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: experienced a miraculous healing that occurred after she read the Bible, 91 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: and Mormonism becomes introduced in the eighteen thirties, which offered 92 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: Americans a link to Jesus. So after Mormonism really got 93 00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: rolling um, the spiritualist movement took off, and it included 94 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 1: some pretty radical ideas, some of which included ideas about 95 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: equality of the sexes, a denial of vicarious atonement, and 96 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: promoting a belief that the resurrection of Jesus was not 97 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 1: necessarily in the physical sense, but in keeping with everything 98 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:19,159 Speaker 1: they believed about being a conduit for spirits. They believed 99 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: that Jesus came back as an entity to communicate, a 100 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: spiritual entity to communicate with those on earth. But spiritualism 101 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: has so many other radical ideas surrounding it, right, And 102 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: one of the most radical UH tenets of spiritualism is 103 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: the fact that unlike Mormonism and Christian Science, which you're 104 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 1: developing around the same time, that had strong central leaders, 105 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 1: spiritualism was a lot more divided among these mediums. And 106 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 1: it's not like you could go to seminary to become 107 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: a medium. It was something that you were almost born 108 00:06:56,600 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: to do, like if you would be a chosen conduit 109 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: it for a spirit And at the time, as these 110 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: female mediums like the Fox Sisters, although that was more 111 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: of a hoax um. And we'll talk about some more 112 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: authentic mediums in a little bit, UM, But at the time, UH, 113 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 1: these spiritualist mediums who were women were incredibly radical for 114 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: even being in a public forum talking about religion or anything. Yeah. 115 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: And what's interesting is, um, after they became more popular 116 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: and it sort of started to sweep the nation. Um, 117 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: it really became something that you could make a lot 118 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: of money off of if you could actually whether or 119 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: not you were really a medium, if you could produce phenomena. UM, 120 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: you can make a lot of money. And with that 121 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: came a lot of pressure from the public to really perform. 122 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: And so as everybody was saying more and more, they 123 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: ended up a lot of them used trick or even 124 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: if they maybe had some real skills UM, a lot 125 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: of them resorted to trickery to UM create more exciting things. 126 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: So through this, you know, we talked about how UM 127 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: mediums were not as organized as maybe Mormons and Christian 128 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: scientists were. They began to develop associations UM providing lectures 129 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: and classes, and mediums ended up having to prove their 130 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: abilities through tests and demonstrations. But these associations, excuse me, 131 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: associations were largely made up of women, and so that 132 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 1: gave women of the day who didn't really have a 133 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 1: voice and in the public arena, a chance to get together. 134 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: And so when a bunch of repressed people are getting 135 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: together and talking, it can turn into something else. And 136 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: so a lot of them were involved in the suffrage movement, 137 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: and a lot of suffragists looked at spiritualism as sort 138 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: of a I guess, an outlet, a way to communicate 139 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: with other women and and try to really make strides, 140 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 1: because we have to remember that while um, all this 141 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: is happening, we also have the abolition movement and the 142 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: temperance movement, which women were very much involved in, but 143 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: yet they were by and large prohibited from speaking in 144 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: those public forums, which is a large reason why the 145 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: suffrage movement really took off, because they were fed up 146 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: with not being able to um to speak in front 147 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 1: of these other groups that they were contributing to. And spiritualism, uh, 148 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: and mediumship becomes this new pulpit in a way for women, 149 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 1: and the thing is okay, So this is going on 150 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: during the Victorian era, and we've talked a lot before 151 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: about this, the whole cult of womanhood where women's place 152 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: obviously very much in the home, and women are considered 153 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: to have these weak constitutions. They were scared to put 154 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 1: women on bicycles because we might our bones just might shatter, 155 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: shatter and fall to pieces. But the funny thing about 156 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:03,199 Speaker 1: spiritualism is that it considered women's weak bodies the prime 157 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: vessels for contacting spirits. Yeah, what's funny because we kind 158 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: of talked about that topic, not not exactly in the 159 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: same way obviously, but we kind of talked about women 160 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: being shells in our romance novel podcast, like the characters 161 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 1: being sort of not not empty. I don't get defensive listeners, 162 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: but you know, um, so that you could sort of 163 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 1: put yourself in her shoes. Well, in the kind of 164 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: a similar way, mediums, Uh, we're conduits, and so women 165 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 1: who were supposedly so weak, killed and everything, you know, 166 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: since we're so vapid and empty. Yeah, just put spirits 167 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 1: in us. We'll tell you what they're saying, right, And 168 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: that was the thing they weren't. Um, these female mediums 169 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: weren't contradicting that are speaking out against this whole notion 170 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 1: of women. Is the weaker sex? That all They're like, yeah, no, 171 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: bring it on, Yeah, I'm completely weak. And at the time, 172 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: the very fact that female media ms would be able 173 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: to speak or a spirit to speak through them in 174 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 1: front of other people, very fact that that could happen 175 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: was proof in contemporary eyes of its authenticity, because how 176 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 1: else good a frail woman managed to stand in front 177 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: of people and talk. She certainly wouldn't come up with 178 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: those ideas by herself. It had to be someone like 179 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 1: Mr Spliffoot exactly or other spirits exactly. And Anne browd 180 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: says that spiritualism was the first sustained moment of public 181 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: participation by women. It was one of the few career 182 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: opportunities open to women in the eighteen hundreds. So even 183 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 1: if they were still considered you know, weak and nonsensical 184 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: and whatnot, here they were being the deliverers basically of 185 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: a message of a religion um And She also writes 186 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:53,559 Speaker 1: that although a few abolitionists women preceded them, trance speakers 187 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: outnumbered reform women lecturers by the end of the eighteen fifties. 188 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:02,959 Speaker 1: So even though spiritual was um and mediumship uh isn't 189 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: something that we really think about in terms of America's 190 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 1: religious history, and certainly not in its social history, it 191 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: actually is playing a surprisingly significant role in simply getting 192 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 1: women out in the public and getting people used to 193 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 1: seeing women speaking in public. Right. Spiritualists supported, I mean 194 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 1: talking about in the social arena. They supported socialism, labor reform, 195 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: health reform. They were really out there and um it 196 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: attracted a lot of women's rights leaders who were drawn 197 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: to a religion. It reinforced the self ownership of women. 198 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 1: So men are not speaking for them, they are speaking well, 199 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: they're speaking for spirits so and and frequently female spirits. 200 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: Uh in Victoria woodholl for instance, we did the podcast 201 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: on her a while ago. Uh. She was the first 202 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 1: person of first female I should say, to run for 203 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: president in the United States. And she was quite a 204 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:03,199 Speaker 1: colorful character and also in the spiritualist movement be Leaeve, 205 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 1: she was also a medium who was very much for 206 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: for free love. Well talking about you know, not not 207 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 1: to totally make it sound like I believe that women 208 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: are empty, vapid vessels, but but continuing with that theme, 209 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 1: Pearl Current is a housewife and she channeled the spirit 210 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: of Patience Worth, who through Pearl claimed to be a 211 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 1: seventeenth century woman who came to America from England and 212 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 1: had been killed in an Indian raid. And Pearl was 213 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: really considered she was, you know, real skinny, and she 214 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: was a housewife, and she didn't have any kids, and 215 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: she was she just kind of puts around the house 216 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 1: all day. So people didn't think much of or they 217 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:43,839 Speaker 1: didn't assume that she was very smart or that she 218 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: had much going on in her life, and so they 219 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: just thought, well, there is no way she's making all 220 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 1: of this up herself, because what she would do is 221 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: Um as the voice of patients Worth the seventeenth century woman. 222 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: She would read or recite all of US poetry, literature, 223 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: amazing history. She would speak in language patterns that were 224 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 1: from the time, and she was able to describe, you know, 225 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: the geography of early America and England, where Patients was 226 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: supposedly from. And so all these people are like, oh, 227 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: there's no way she wouldn't know this, and and even 228 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: if she read books before her her seances and readings 229 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: and whatever, there's no way she could remember it. And 230 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: it's all happened because Pearl and Um, a lady friend 231 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: of hers, were hanging out one day playing with the 232 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: Oluigi board, and next thing you know, they're getting these 233 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: messages and so of course they gotta keep fooling around 234 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: the Uiji board and get these uh, get the spirit 235 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 1: really talking and Um and yeah, And it starts out 236 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: where it's the Ouiji board guiding her hand with the 237 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: you know, spelling everything out. But then she becomes so 238 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 1: accustomed to everything that yeah, she's just resigning on this poetry. 239 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 1: In between nine teen thirteen and nineteen thirty seven, patients 240 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: Worth the Spirits mostly through Pearl Current produced nearly four 241 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: million words, and she became a pretty celebrated poet and 242 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: writer at the time. The ghost became a celebrated poet 243 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: and writer. People are weird back then. Even um even 244 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 1: lead literary figures at the time praise Patience Worth's works, 245 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: and so much of that was people who would come 246 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: to witness Pearls readings of patients work. They were like, well, 247 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 1: there's just no way, I mean that that goes back 248 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: to them, just not believing that this could happen. And 249 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: it was a little unbelievable just because the way she 250 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: would recite all this stuff. You know, there's no way 251 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: that any normal person could remember all of that and 252 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: recite it from memory unless they had been studying it 253 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 1: for years and years. And so what's really interesting is 254 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: that during during her lifetime, nobody really could prove that 255 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 1: Pearl was a fraud or whether she was genuine and 256 00:15:55,360 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: really channeling this spirit. But more recently, neurobiologists James McGaw 257 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: determined through an m r I that parts of Pearl's 258 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: brain were larger than normal and refers to her condition 259 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: as super autobiographical memory. And and I've heard of this 260 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: in the news and stuff like people who just remember 261 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 1: every single moment of every day of their lives. And yeah, 262 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 1: it's it's possible that she had that, that she just 263 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: read so much over her lifetime and retained every single 264 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: bit of it. Because the name Patient's Worth was actually 265 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: in a romance novel from the time people. It's a 266 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: really popular romance. So it's true all of this uh 267 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: Synchronicity novel podcast and the medium podcast um. And the 268 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: sad thing is, though, I feel like a lot of 269 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 1: these popular mediums at the time meets sort of sad ends. 270 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 1: So Pearl writes all of this poetry, and she even 271 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: writes a novel at some point, I think under her 272 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 1: own name. But when um, when she's writing all this 273 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: stuff from Patients the Spirit, it's another guy who ends 274 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: up publishing all of the books, so she doesn't. Even 275 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: though she published like seven books or something, she and 276 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,479 Speaker 1: her husband never really made much money. And then her 277 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 1: first husband dies and then she has two children, and 278 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: all of a sudden she's like, what do I do? 279 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 1: And she ends up getting married again and I think 280 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 1: moving to Los Angeles, where she ended up um still 281 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: doing seances and readings for celebrities at the time, including 282 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: like Douglas Fairbanks Jr. Yeah, but just kind of a 283 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 1: you know by that point, well that that by that 284 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: point it was sort of on the down slope. So 285 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: you know, here's this poor woman, you know, I guess 286 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: she's in her forties and fifties by this point, traveling 287 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 1: doing seances and you know, still just not making any money. 288 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: And she ended up dying I think at seven, and 289 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: it just kind of became more of a side show. 290 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: People just weren't taking it as seriously anymore. It was 291 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 1: it was the twenties, other things were going on. Yeah, 292 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: things were really starting to pop. Yeah, but just for 293 00:17:56,200 --> 00:18:00,400 Speaker 1: a couple more notable mediums, we have you sappal Adino, 294 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 1: who was an Italian spiritualist who supposedly was able to levitate, 295 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: elongate herself, um, produce spiritual materializations and of course channel spirits. 296 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: And it was all junk. She was weak, I know, 297 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. She was really good at faking. And you know, 298 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: even when they had her strapped to a chair or 299 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 1: like had her feet held down to the floor, she 300 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 1: would still manage to slip one foot out of a 301 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: shoe and sort of lift the table with a knee, 302 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 1: which I'm like, come on, like, what were those Were 303 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 1: those doctors just intoxicated? They had to be. I think 304 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:37,640 Speaker 1: there's I think there's something to be said for people 305 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 1: who want to believe something, and one of those people 306 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 1: is all of her Lodge, who if you've ever read 307 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 1: the book Thunderstruck, it's really good. I recommend it. And 308 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 1: it's not about mediums or the paranormal or anything. It's 309 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: actually about Marconie and wireless technology and a murderer this 310 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 1: other guy. It's superilest story anyway. Um, all of her 311 00:18:54,359 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: Lodge is a really famous physicist, but he also put 312 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: a lot of stock in the paranormal and in mediums, 313 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 1: and he was fascinated by it to the point where 314 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: he sometimes would put his own research aside to go 315 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 1: check out whatever paranormal stuff is going on. And so 316 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: he loved I mean not a lot. You know, he 317 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: really respected you, Safia Palladino um and really believed that 318 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: she was the real deal. And unfortunately for her, she 319 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: was deemed a fraud by contror William Marriott, who sort 320 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: of made a career out of debunking stuff like the 321 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: Real Parade Rainer on her. Uh. But she was deemed 322 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 1: genuine by the American Society of Psychical Research. There were 323 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 1: a lot of similar, uh kind of societies that had 324 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 1: come up at the time, because at the time this 325 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 1: kind of paranormal spiritualism was considered a potentially valid science. 326 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 1: Because this is also the time when we have a 327 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:56,399 Speaker 1: Franz Anton Mesmer who gave us Mesmerism, which evolved into 328 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 1: hypnotism coming up at the time. And then Emmanuel swedenbor 329 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: Sweden bug feedenbog is um and he was a Swedish 330 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: scientist who experienced visions. Yeah, he had a vision of 331 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 1: a fire that happened, that was happening three dred miles away. 332 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 1: And my skeptical brain, I'm like, well, he probably told 333 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:16,639 Speaker 1: somebody to set it. I mean I thought you were 334 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: going to say he probably smelled some spell. But yeah, 335 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: I mean maybe he had Vision's good for you, speeding bug, 336 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: speeding bog. And then there's Leonora Piper who would go 337 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:33,719 Speaker 1: into trances during which spirit rulers would take over and 338 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 1: speak through her. And is this the person you said 339 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,119 Speaker 1: you kind of you kind of on board with, Well, 340 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean she's dead. I would have 341 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:44,200 Speaker 1: to like she did see her. I'd have to sit 342 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,880 Speaker 1: with her, but she did. She sat with dozens upon 343 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 1: dozens and dozens of witnesses who all you know, they 344 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,439 Speaker 1: did all these tests. It started out where she was 345 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:55,399 Speaker 1: just freaking out some scientific people. Um, but then they 346 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,359 Speaker 1: had her sit with complete strangers and she was able 347 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:01,360 Speaker 1: to go into a trance and and tell tell them 348 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 1: things about themselves that they had not told her. And 349 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 1: the researchers who were sort of checking into her abilities, 350 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: they had her followed to make sure she wasn't like 351 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:14,120 Speaker 1: stalking the the research subjects, that the people who were 352 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: testing around and things like that. Basically that she was 353 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 1: not using any um underhanded methods. So she very well 354 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: might have been able to use ESP. Yeah, well she 355 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: Professor William James was a total pragmatist and he believed 356 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 1: she was the real thing. And of course there's Oliver 357 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: Lodge who had of course he has to get in 358 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 1: on this too, So Oliver Lodge is totally believing that 359 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 1: she's the real thing. I like, how Oliver Lodge is 360 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: this this well known physicist a medium groupie? Yeah? I know, Well, 361 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: you know, some people just want to have that connection 362 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 1: with the with dead relatives and whatnot and and have 363 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 1: that affirmation that there is life after death. And Oliver 364 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 1: Lodge was one of those people. Okay, but we've got 365 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: one more sad afternoon for Leonora Piper. We do. She 366 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 1: actually it seemed like every time she came to America 367 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 1: she lost a little bit of her sparkle. Where was 368 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 1: she from? I think she's from England, and um she 369 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 1: she would come to America, you know, to to be 370 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: tested and researched and everything. But people became so suspicious 371 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,679 Speaker 1: of her that when she went into a trance, they 372 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: would do all sorts of experiments on her and like 373 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 1: poking and prodding to make sure she was really in 374 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 1: a trance, and so you know, she would wake up. 375 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 1: And her daughter ended up writing much later that you know, 376 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 1: she came out of one trance and had a swollen tongue. 377 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 1: It would that took you know, days to heal. And 378 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 1: so she started to lose her quote unquote powers because 379 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 1: she was her subconscious. She was so afraid to go 380 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 1: into a trance because something might happen to her that 381 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 1: she was sort of unable to slip into that trance. 382 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 1: And people thought, you know, maybe she has esp maybe 383 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 1: she has multiple personalities and her other personality is psychic, 384 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: so nobody, I don't know, there's no talent. It is 385 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 1: not an easy life out there for mediums, because mediums 386 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: do still exist today, although a lot of them. And 387 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: I would want to say this is going back to 388 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 1: the Todd Jay Leonard book Talking to the Other Side. 389 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 1: He actually went out and talked with spiritualists and mediums 390 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 1: who exist today. And even still there's that um uh 391 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:26,120 Speaker 1: gender gap where most of the medium's practicing are older 392 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 1: now women. It's a graying religion obviously not kind of 393 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 1: had that that spike in the eighteen fifties and early 394 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: nineteen hundreds and then really started to wane. And maybe 395 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,439 Speaker 1: by that point, uh, women had found more of their 396 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 1: voice in public and uh it moved away from more 397 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 1: of the those radical friendships fringes. Interesting and I'm not 398 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 1: I'm absolutely not criticizing here, but I do think it's 399 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: interesting that um, these quote unquote American religions, two of 400 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 1: them are still going strong, Mormonism and Christian Science, where 401 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 1: Spiritualism is basically totally failed by the wayside. But I 402 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 1: wonder though, if it's because it was so divided up 403 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 1: and scattered among all of these different personalities rather than 404 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: having a central figure anyway. Um, but fascinating connection between feminism, 405 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 1: very early early feminism, and spiritualism, and one that I 406 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,880 Speaker 1: was certainly not aware of for this. So, if any 407 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:31,719 Speaker 1: of you have an insight on mediumship, are you a medium? 408 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 1: Have you used a medium? Have you ever hung out 409 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,640 Speaker 1: with ghosts? Do you live in a haunted house? Can 410 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,760 Speaker 1: you crack your toe joints? Repeatedly? 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Thanks Natalie Well. 429 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 1: I've got an email here from Kirsten and this is 430 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: a response to episode about women on Television, and she writes, 431 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:44,479 Speaker 1: your women on TV podcast really got me thinking about 432 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: how there's no one representing me in television. It seems 433 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 1: that TV likes to show the extremes of gender roles 434 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 1: and or stereotypes, but it leaves many segments of the population, 435 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 1: men and women all together unrepresented. For example, I'm twenty seven, 436 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 1: a single woman working on a cultural studies PhD at 437 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 1: a Big ten university. 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