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Speaker 2: I mean, finding out you're an a fair baby.

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Speaker 1: You think that would already rum already kind of life

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Speaker 3: Right, It's always more.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea how to process all this, and

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Speaker 1: I am completely unprepared for what lizahead. Both my older

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Speaker 1: their cars, pocket money, you name it.

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Speaker 3: He paid for it.

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Speaker 1: My brother has a job now, his own place, lives

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Speaker 1: together with his fiance, and has his life together. My

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Speaker 1: to the same college, which was always a plan, John,

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Speaker 1: amazed was always going to happen, and I was looking

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Speaker 1: Of course, you know, I was going to ask them,

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Speaker 2: Give me that jetta.

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Speaker 1: I always assumed they had money put aside for my

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Speaker 1: a perfectly normal thing to assume, very very logical, you know,

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Speaker 1: trail down instead, Uh oh, I was met with a story. Oh,

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Speaker 1: a story about my mother's cheating. Oh god, how I

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Speaker 4: Whoa at all at all? My god?

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Speaker 3: Geez.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if there's one thing they need to do here,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and easiest way to do that check public data check,

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Speaker 3: of course.

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Speaker 4: Like with just a name or a number, you can

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So if you guys ever need to figure out who

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Speaker 1: or check our link in bio do it?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 4: What happened next?

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Speaker 1: So my dad told me that my mom had eighteen

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Speaker 1: He said it was never his place to say anything,

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Speaker 3: It's all it's all a ruse. Wow, fake fake dad.

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Speaker 4: No idea Mitchy help her apply for a loan or

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Speaker 1: I did manage to talk with both my mom and dad,

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Speaker 1: I got through the comments shout out, Reddit comments, coming

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Speaker 1: and Clutch. I think it's sad to say that both

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Speaker 4: Ah Okay, now more senses being made, So apparently I

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Speaker 1: It will be college, and I've always wanted to go

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Speaker 1: to it'll be the same as my siblings, and the

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Speaker 1: This fight's juicy, John, It's a juicy fight.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready for it.

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Speaker 1: So what started the entire scandal. My parents were talking

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Speaker 1: Dad was talking about how proud he was of his children,

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Dad took it as quote, the affair was the best

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I gets yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: This is where it gets worse, John, It gets worse.

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Speaker 1: And the fight escalated from there, and Mom told Dad

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Speaker 4: You've got to be joking. You cannot say that you

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Speaker 4: are the one that cheated.

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Speaker 3: I know, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna I'm if I was Dad, I'm like, shit, fuck,

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Speaker 4: Literally like, do I have no do I have no children?

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Speaker 1: So it went downhill from there fast. Shortly after that,

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Speaker 1: made up. Mom is still a mess. Dad is not

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Speaker 1: handling my grandpa's passing away too well either. I did

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Speaker 1: Mom and dad then got back together. After a lot

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Speaker 3: She met him in a bar, not a fundraiser.

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Speaker 1: S I did learn where I stand with my family, okay,

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Speaker 1: That actually pieces back together, pieces back together. Yeah, very rare.

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Speaker 4: That is sloppy. He was, he was first, and he

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Speaker 3: Yikes, yikes, yikes. Okop.

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Speaker 1: I'm Samuel Donner and I'm John fra and this is okop.

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Speaker 1: We tell the funniest stories on REDDA and John I

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Speaker 1: tell you, what is your accidentally caught your spouse cheating

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Speaker 1: I wanted to break up with her, but her mom

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Speaker 2: So sometimes you need to get slapped in the face.

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Speaker 1: Exactly what the heck? I was like, what are you

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Speaker 1: a week before my birthday.

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Speaker 3: Oh some birthday present, some birthday present. Birth And that

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