WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Imperfect 10

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of day when I was thirteen years old.

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<v Speaker 2>This is true.

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<v Speaker 1>I recorded an original song called Reach for the Sky,

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<v Speaker 1>which the sky.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe. We've gotten to a point where you

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<v Speaker 3>willingly playing this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's dead last on iTunes currently. But the thing is.

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<v Speaker 1>The underlying message of this song is, no matter what

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<v Speaker 1>you do in life, you should aim high, shoot for

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<v Speaker 1>the stars, even if you're a weird, little sheltered Jewish boy.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the worst that could happen?

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<v Speaker 1>I wish we could just hear more of it without

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<v Speaker 1>us talking.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, even though that mantra didn't really work

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<v Speaker 1>out so well for me because here I am in

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<v Speaker 1>the dying industry of terrestrial radio, Luckily it did work

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<v Speaker 1>for one of our listeners named Brett, who says he

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<v Speaker 1>shot for the moon in his dating life and it

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<v Speaker 1>may have actually worked out for him.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's let's talk to him right now. Brett. How's

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<v Speaker 2>it going, man?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, what's up? Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, you've been young Jeffrey fans Is single years

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<v Speaker 1>ago and now you're reaching for the stars or.

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<v Speaker 3>What he's the one person download.

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<v Speaker 2>But then immediately before it.

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<v Speaker 5>Even finished, that's all right, dude, I got respect, Like

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<v Speaker 5>it's true, like I do, like I choot for the moon,

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<v Speaker 5>like I'm always looking for the best for the stars.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what does that mean in your dating life?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, that's what I mean, you know, Like so when

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<v Speaker 5>I'm dating, like, I love the challenge of trying to

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<v Speaker 5>get with somebody that's just completely beautiful, knowing that like

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<v Speaker 5>I don't really deserve them.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, tell us about the challenging woman that you met.

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<v Speaker 5>Our names Hannah, and I matched a tin. Like, good

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<v Speaker 5>for you?

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<v Speaker 2>How do you? How do you land a ten? What

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<v Speaker 2>was your secret?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it's almost like you know, so I go into

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<v Speaker 5>like my laboratory and just like okay, yeah, yeah, So

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, I try to be witty with her. I

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<v Speaker 5>make some jokes, and I guess the term is courting.

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<v Speaker 5>But like with somebody who's that gorgeous, it's worth it

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<v Speaker 5>to work for her attention.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I feel like it's worth it for anyone that

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<v Speaker 3>you're interested in. It doesn't have to be only worth

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<v Speaker 3>it for tens. But okay, so it.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like attention.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you used some like witty, interesting humor

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<v Speaker 1>on her and that got her attention.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And like she did respond with me, but it

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<v Speaker 5>was kind of hit or miss. I wasn't always getting

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<v Speaker 5>a response from her. And granted I was a little

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<v Speaker 5>corny sometimes, but like I was genuine.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, give us an example. Can I hear an example

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<v Speaker 3>of something you would have said to her?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, it just wants to be sweet talk.

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<v Speaker 5>Ut I told her that she had pretty eyes. Oh man,

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<v Speaker 5>a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Where's the funny part that come from your laboratory?

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<v Speaker 3>It's not mixing with a lot of chemicals.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, so like I sent her a gift of like

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<v Speaker 5>Steve Vashimi.

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<v Speaker 2>I and that is actually funny.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, yeah yeah. So finally, like we get to the

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<v Speaker 5>point where I'm like, okay, hey, you and me dinner

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<v Speaker 5>Saturday night?

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<v Speaker 3>Right? Did it happen?

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<v Speaker 5>And you know, I'm sitting there kind of like waiting

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<v Speaker 5>a while, and it's just after a while, she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Just like no, oh turns down. What Well?

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<v Speaker 5>I was back to my laboratory. And then like you're

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<v Speaker 5>like thirty minutes to get another text. She says no

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<v Speaker 5>Sunday six pm. And I'm like, okay, hey.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait so she said no, but then she said yes,

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<v Speaker 3>she's trying to be funny.

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<v Speaker 5>She said no to Saturday and then half an hour

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<v Speaker 5>later she said, I can do Sunday.

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<v Speaker 2>There we go, not.

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<v Speaker 4>Quite worthy of a Saturday night, but that's you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you're getting your foot in the door.

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<v Speaker 2>Date is a date. So what did you end up doing?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? So I said, all right, so sushi, okay, all right?

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<v Speaker 5>And then she responds like immediately like, no, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Did she give a suggestion or do you just have

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<v Speaker 4>to keep going down the list of different foods?

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<v Speaker 5>No? But half an hour later, another half an hour later,

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<v Speaker 5>she suggests the place that's by her her apartment.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, she just bossing you around telling you whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yes, ma'am.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a power move for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, so you ended up going out to a restaurant?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, we did.

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<v Speaker 3>What was that like?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? So, like I was so nervous that I got

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<v Speaker 5>there like half an hour early, and I had them

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<v Speaker 5>like set up the whole table because like I wanted

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<v Speaker 5>everything to like look perfect. When she got there and

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<v Speaker 5>she comes in, she also she like does not disappoint.

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<v Speaker 5>She is every bit of amazing as she looks in

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<v Speaker 5>her pictures.

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<v Speaker 3>And great conversation. She only says no, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she walks in and I greet her with the

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<v Speaker 5>table and everything, and she says we need to move

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<v Speaker 5>the table, that she can't sit there.

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<v Speaker 3>What.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you specifically chose the best table in the house,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you.

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>I thought I did, but she had her reasons like

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<v Speaker 5>I don't. I don't know. I just wanted to make

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<v Speaker 5>her comfortable. So I was like, no problem, we'll move

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<v Speaker 5>the table. And I asked her if we could, like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, if they're getting everything together. I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>want to like get a drink or like get to

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<v Speaker 5>know each other. And she's like, what you asked that?

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that the whole point now that we're on this date.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like to have a conversation, perhaps you should

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<v Speaker 1>have some food?

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<v Speaker 4>Why she's gonna say no, She said, to every other

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<v Speaker 4>question you ever asked this woman, why would you set

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<v Speaker 4>yourself up for that?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she said that she'd feel more comfortable if we

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<v Speaker 5>didn't start getting to know one another until we moved

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<v Speaker 5>the table. So we just sort of sat there and

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<v Speaker 5>she think, she is.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, and you're attracted to this still.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, She's she just looks so amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all right, I don't know if your brain's working,

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<v Speaker 4>but something's working in your decision.

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<v Speaker 5>Making it, so we got it. We got moved to

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<v Speaker 5>another table. Huh. Yeah, she likes the corner spot and

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<v Speaker 5>don't know, it's great. It didn't really last very long.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you ever get to know each other at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm trying to sense was there like an actual

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<v Speaker 1>love connection, any type of bond.

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<v Speaker 3>At all, Jeff, because it sounds like you just stared

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<v Speaker 3>at her the whole time.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I mean, I'm not. I was trying really hard.

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<v Speaker 5>As I was walking her out, I was like, I've

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<v Speaker 5>got a surprise for you, like I have something for you,

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<v Speaker 5>and she said, oh, I didn't realize. I didn't see

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<v Speaker 5>kidnapping me on your profile.

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<v Speaker 2>And what is a joke?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she was joking.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, okay, okay, like kidnapping jokes.

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<v Speaker 2>All right. Did you laugh at it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I tried to, Like I've been trying to laugh

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<v Speaker 5>it off. But I had some flowers in my car

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<v Speaker 5>I wanted to give her.

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<v Speaker 4>And she thought it was going to be zip ties

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<v Speaker 4>and duct tape. That was probably a pleasant.

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<v Speaker 3>Surprise the car.

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<v Speaker 5>So I gave her some flowers and I asked her

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<v Speaker 5>if I could walk her to her apartment and she

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<v Speaker 5>said no, And I was like, yeah, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>Respect her boundaries, right, what can you do?

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<v Speaker 5>Of course, I offered, So that's it. I tried to

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<v Speaker 5>text her for another date, and uh, that's all I got.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that was your opportunity to actually kidnap her, like

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<v Speaker 1>she w.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what we want to Yeah, I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>want to unveil a mystery, but it sounds like she's

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<v Speaker 4>just a typical girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe a nice free dinner. You seemed like a nice

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<v Speaker 2>enough guy.

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<v Speaker 3>And maybe she's trying to find love, but you were

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<v Speaker 3>a no.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we'll find out.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I think you should be kidnapped her. But

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<v Speaker 1>one of these answers is right. We're gonna call her

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<v Speaker 1>and find out which one.

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<v Speaker 2>It is when we do your second date update right

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<v Speaker 2>after this update. A perfect ten. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>I've ever seen one before.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Oh, you're right, except when I look in the mirror,

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<v Speaker 1>that is true.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for pointing out this side.

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<v Speaker 3>Of the room. Come on.

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<v Speaker 2>The division. That's smart.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm fine with division.

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<v Speaker 2>Tens are rare, but they do exist. And one of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>Brett, say he actually matched with a perfect He actually

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<v Speaker 1>matched with a perfect ten online and her name is Hannah.

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<v Speaker 1>She's kind of a handful though, because she shot down

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much every suggestion Brett had for their date, changed

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<v Speaker 1>the time of it, the location, even made them move

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<v Speaker 1>tables when they were at the restaurant, which might sound

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<v Speaker 1>high maintenance for a nine or lower, but again, Hannah's.

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<v Speaker 2>A tent yeah, and the standard tens get what they want.

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<v Speaker 3>God, wouldn't it be nice to live in that world?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, it really is nice to live in the world

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<v Speaker 4>than you know, Brad.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we get started, you said that you've been texting

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit with Hannah, but it's been spotty. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the nature of your text with her?

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<v Speaker 5>I texted her, I've invited her bowling. I've invited her

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<v Speaker 5>out to the bar.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't want to bowl. They don't break a nail exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>But I've given options, you know, like, I've expressed that

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<v Speaker 5>I want to.

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<v Speaker 2>See her again, and what does she say it?

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes she gives me nose and sometimes it's nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're not misunderstanding that she's not interested. You're just

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<v Speaker 4>hoping we can help you, I see.

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<v Speaker 1>But the fact that she is still at least responding

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<v Speaker 1>at all, I think that's a win.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, we're going to try the man thing to say.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you got to look at someone else be positive

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<v Speaker 2>on this show. I guess it has to be me.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's call this other ten and see what she

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<v Speaker 2>has to say. You're ready to do this, Brett, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's do it. I'm thrilled. I haven't been blocked yet.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, but maybe after this.

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<v Speaker 5>Here you go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing your number right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi is this Hannah?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Answer the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Really nice to talk to you right now. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is jeff from brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hannah.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are some other people that are on the show,

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<v Speaker 2>but the main you want to talk to is me.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you doing, Hannah?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just assistant.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're doing a really special segment that we only

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<v Speaker 1>do for really special people like yourself. It's called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update, and we're looking to reconnect you with

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<v Speaker 1>a really cool guy that you went out with recently

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<v Speaker 1>named Brett.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, do you remember Brett? Hannah?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>You do?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? Good?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Did he What kind of impression did he make on you?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't understand why I would be calling you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we spoke to Brett about your guys's date and

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<v Speaker 1>he had a lot of really nice things to say

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<v Speaker 1>about you and said he had a good time, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's been trying apparently to arrange a second meet up.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure whatever, whatever the reason is, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>your font.

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<v Speaker 3>You think it's Brett's fault.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to I'm trying to guess. Panah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on your side, is what I'm trying to say. No

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<v Speaker 1>matter what you say, it's right.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, Bread's getting the vibes that maybe you don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to go out again.

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<v Speaker 2>Sound like a seven would say it.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Okay, Yeah, I'm just like doing stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, maybe that's great. Maybe you could do stuff with Brett.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I don't want to do the type of stuff

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<v Speaker 6>that he keeps asking me to do. Like he's texting

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<v Speaker 6>me about bowling and I told him I hate bowling

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<v Speaker 6>and he's just like still asking me to do that.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, anything you like. Yeah, it's a good question of lexis.

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<v Speaker 6>I like dinner, but only because I have to?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean only because you have to? You

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<v Speaker 3>don't have to?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, what you have to eat. It's an activity to live.

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<v Speaker 2>If she had a choice, she would never have dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>What would you do? What is there anything you find fun?

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<v Speaker 3>It just sounds like you hate everything.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't hate everything. I just don't like everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, pessimist, Well I think don't call me that. Don't

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<v Speaker 3>call you you don't like That's what a pessimist is.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't.

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<v Speaker 6>Here's my situation. I don't like activities in general. I

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<v Speaker 6>don't want to do that. So honestly, it's just like,

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<v Speaker 6>if he wants to go out to eat, we can

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<v Speaker 6>do that. But other than dinner, I'm really not interested

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<v Speaker 6>in ask throwing or all that other dumbs that he's

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<v Speaker 6>text me about.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, so curious what you do all day?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sounds perfect. I think that that would be okay

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<v Speaker 2>with Brett.

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<v Speaker 1>He was just trying to figure out some fun stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys could do together.

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<v Speaker 3>Take away fun, don't do fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he just wants to find some stuff, not even

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<v Speaker 2>he just wants to while you both don't enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 6>You guys literally have any other questions for me? Because

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<v Speaker 6>I have other.

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<v Speaker 5>Stuff I do.

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<v Speaker 1>A one more question, would you like to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>Brett and the answer is yes, because he's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line right.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, listening and wanting to say something. Brett.

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<v Speaker 5>Yo, hey, and it's Brett. Uh Hey, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm trying, Brett? Why do you have these people calling me?

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<v Speaker 5>No? Look, I just I really like you. I just

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<v Speaker 5>heard a bit of what you said. I just what

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<v Speaker 5>do you mean? Like you don't like to do activities?

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<v Speaker 6>You don't mean it super clear? I'm okay, what's going

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<v Speaker 6>out again? Honestly we could do that. It's not a

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<v Speaker 6>big deal. But I don't want to do anything.

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<v Speaker 5>God, he sounds perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you understand where Brett is? Maybe I'm a little confused.

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<v Speaker 3>So what do you do?

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<v Speaker 6>You just have that we can eat? But you know what, honestly,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm thinking about going on a forty day fast. So

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<v Speaker 6>you want to do?

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<v Speaker 5>What could I? What would can I? What do you want?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay? Honestly, Brett, listen, I'm over dating at the moment.

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<v Speaker 6>So if you really don't want to do it again,

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<v Speaker 6>like that's fine too. Just no, like it's whatever I

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<v Speaker 6>want to date you.

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<v Speaker 5>I just like, so, like, do you want to just

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<v Speaker 5>hang out and watch TV?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 6>Listen, if you want to buy me dinner. I need

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<v Speaker 6>to eat. Let's do that. We can. That's it, and

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<v Speaker 6>no activity.

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<v Speaker 1>But the TV seemed like a good suggestion, Hannah, Like that,

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty much not doing anything right.

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<v Speaker 6>TV is an activity and I already made clear I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not interested in activities, right, Okay, why do you want to?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, literally, we no offense, Hannah. But you sound

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<v Speaker 3>like one of the least interesting people in the entire

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<v Speaker 3>We can find you a nice nine, Brett. Yeah, it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>what are you going to offer in a relationship, Hannah.

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah, I apologize for my co host over there. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a six talking over there. She doesn't understand what it's

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<v Speaker 1>like being elite, even with a ten.

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<v Speaker 3>If you don't have a good personality, like what are

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<v Speaker 3>you like?

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<v Speaker 2>You're not You're a ten brooke. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>be anything else.

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<v Speaker 1>You just exists.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah that's okay, it drops you by like half.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I don't really understand why you guys talk on

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<v Speaker 6>nine tens and all these other numbers. But honestly, I

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<v Speaker 6>really have to go, Brett, is there anything else?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Well, uh, spit it out.

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<v Speaker 6>Just stay with you, say, because I'm going to hang out.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to go out with you again. We can

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<v Speaker 5>eat dinner. I'll buy you dinner. We don't have to

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<v Speaker 5>do anything like, just whatever, whatever you want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that was kind of sweet, wasn't it, Hannah. We'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to pay for you guys to sit in the

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<v Speaker 1>same vicinity and do nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys sit in the dark and just match each other's breathing.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, I'm hanging.

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<v Speaker 2>That's considered an activity.

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<v Speaker 5>Hang it up.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that was a yes from her, though.

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<v Speaker 6>I think that was a yes only if he pays.

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<v Speaker 6>He doesn't need your money, not a charity.

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<v Speaker 2>Brett, I get it. You got the bill on this,

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<v Speaker 2>I got it. I got it. Well we did.

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<v Speaker 3>This feels so wrong. There's a lot of other women

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<v Speaker 3>out there. It's gonna be like it's like a silent

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<v Speaker 3>fill Like I like soup. He likes soup. She doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>like anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Head and even she did like it, she wouldn't talk

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<v Speaker 2>about it. I'm be careful. Eating soup is in activity.

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<v Speaker 6>It's dangerously close freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we have to do this every few weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>But once again I must warn my co hosts, please

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<v Speaker 1>do not openly bag on the people that we're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to score dates with.

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<v Speaker 3>She was just mean, like she wasn't nice.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna be nice to people who aren't nice

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<v Speaker 4>or kind or just something.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of boring. She was just sad.

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<v Speaker 1>She was saying what she likes and who she is,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're out there telling her she's not interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a pessimist. She's a terrible person.

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<v Speaker 3>When the pessimist is it's somebody does everything.

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<v Speaker 2>The pessimists that doesn't like everything.

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<v Speaker 1>See what he doesn't feel good to be called a pessimist.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just trying to defend our listener and help him

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<v Speaker 3>in his life. That choice to go out with this.

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<v Speaker 1>Woman still coming after I say she's unique, she is different.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you think we should.

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<v Speaker 1>Celebrate the unique different people in our community?

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<v Speaker 2>Brook Or do you want to take away her rights too?

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<v Speaker 3>What's unique about her?

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you now, But if this girl hit

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<v Speaker 1>me up on my like I love you, say anything,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't say nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like to say anything either.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can be all judgy. But me and Jose

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<v Speaker 1>are going to be enjoying our time with her at

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<v Speaker 1>our two nothing, absolutely nothing parties.

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't annoy her in two seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, you can always email the show for help or

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<v Speaker 1>find our podcast up online at Brooknjeffrey dot com.

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