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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew.

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Speaker 2: Subject.

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Speaker 1: I knew it was too good to be true. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty three years old, and I've been

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Speaker 1: dating this great guy that a friend introduced me too.

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Speaker 1: He's thirty eight years old, never been married, and no children.

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Speaker 1: He looks good, smells good, and he has a good job.

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Speaker 1: We started dating a month ago when he invited me

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Speaker 1: to his class reunion recently. They had ourdoures and drinks

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Speaker 1: and he fixed us a plate of food to share.

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Speaker 1: He was killing these tuna sandwiches that were cut into

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Speaker 1: tiny triangles, and I told him and didn't smell right

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Speaker 1: to me. Three hours later, he excused himself to go

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Speaker 1: to the bathroom and he was gone for thirty minutes.

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Speaker 1: He texted me and said to meet him at his car,

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Speaker 1: and he asked me to drive him home. He went

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Speaker 1: straight to the bathroom. When we got to his house,

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Speaker 1: I did not go to the bathroom door to check

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Speaker 1: I said no, and I suggested that he go to

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Speaker 1: the er if he's that much in pain. I got

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Speaker 1: in an uber and I went home. The next day,

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Speaker 1: I called to check on him and he said he

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Speaker 1: didn't want to talk to me ever again, since I

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Speaker 1: didn't seem to care that he was sick the night before.

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Speaker 1: He said, I don't know how to take care of

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Speaker 1: a man. What more could I have done for him

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Speaker 1: that night? Do I try to work things out with

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Speaker 1: him or let him go? There's really nothing to work out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you both showed who you really are. That's

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Speaker 1: when you get to see the real character, the true

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Speaker 1: character of a person, like in trying times like these.

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Speaker 1: If he's sick or if something happened to you, then

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Speaker 1: you get to see so you saw, okay, he was

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Speaker 1: sick with what sounded like food poisoning. You drove him

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Speaker 1: home after he asked you. He said after he got

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Speaker 1: go to bed, and at that point it was okay

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Speaker 1: that you went home. You obviously didn't feel comfortable staying there.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you guys have only been dating for a month.

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Speaker 1: At the reunion, you told him the tuna sandwiches didn't

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Speaker 1: smell right. He didn't listen. He scarfed them down anyway.

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Speaker 1: You also suggested that he go to the er if

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Speaker 1: he was in that much pain. He didn't respond to

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Speaker 1: that either, and you didn't offer to take him. You

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Speaker 1: called the next morning to check on him, which shows

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Speaker 1: you do care. You were concerned, but he was mad

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Speaker 1: that you didn't stay the night with him, and he

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Speaker 1: said you didn't know how to take care of a man. Well,

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Speaker 1: that was insulting. I mean, maybe a glimpse of what's

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Speaker 1: to come if something else happens between you two, if

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Speaker 1: you stay in this. So I think it's good that

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Speaker 1: you guys go your separate ways.

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Speaker 3: Steve, Wow, you and I differ on this one so much,

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Speaker 3: so much. This is a sad, sad letter because you know,

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Speaker 3: she said the subject of the letters, I knew it

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Speaker 3: was too good to be true. Really, well, ladies, here

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Speaker 3: we go. Let's just walk down this from the male perspective,

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Speaker 3: because I know sometimes you don't like to do that,

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Speaker 3: but let's just look at this from the male perspective.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm gonna do, because I'm trying to find

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Speaker 3: out in this letter what this dude is wrong at.

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Speaker 3: I'm struggling, okay, and I'm being real with y'all because

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Speaker 3: and you'll understand what I'm saying as I take you

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Speaker 3: through this.

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Speaker 2: You're thirty three years old.

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Speaker 3: You've been dating this great guy that a friend introduced

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Speaker 3: you to. He's thirty eight, never been buried in no children,

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Speaker 3: He looks good, smells good, he has a good job.

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Speaker 3: We started dating a month ago, Okay, So that means

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Speaker 3: that's this we're about to describe is not a first date.

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Speaker 3: They started dating a month ago. Now, there's nothing in

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Speaker 3: this letter that says this woman is going by the

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Speaker 3: ninety day rule or anything. All we know is the

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Speaker 3: facts is they've been dating for a month, which means

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Speaker 3: they've been out on several occasions. Ain't nobody gonna take

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Speaker 3: you to the class reunion first date. That ain't That

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Speaker 3: ain't a good look. So okay, here we go or

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Speaker 3: derbs and drinks. He fixed play of food for us

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Speaker 3: to share. He was killing these tune of sandwiches cut

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Speaker 3: into triangles. I told him it didn't smell right to me.

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Speaker 3: Three hours later, he excused himself to go to the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: He was gone for thirty minutes. He texted me and

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Speaker 3: said to meet him at his car. He asked me

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Speaker 3: to drive him home. He went straight to the bathroom

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Speaker 3: when we got to his house. I did not go

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Speaker 3: to the bathroom door to.

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Speaker 2: Check on him. Right there.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's just make note of that. She didn't even

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Speaker 3: go to the bathroom door to check on him. You know, look,

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Speaker 3: if somebody he leaves in the middle of that class

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Speaker 3: reunion asked you to come to the car and drive them.

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Speaker 2: Home, something's wrong. Something is wrong.

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Speaker 3: Number one, You didn't even go to the bathroom door

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Speaker 3: to checkoer. And this is you writing the letter. This

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Speaker 3: ain't him accusing you of nothing. You're telling us what

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Speaker 3: you did and did not do. So you didn't even

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Speaker 3: go to the bathroom door to check er. He finally

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Speaker 3: to take a shower, which means he been sweating pretty hard,

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Speaker 3: and tuna sandwiches was cutting into him.

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Speaker 2: That tuna was doing this damn thing.

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Speaker 3: I've had a bad oystry before, when you get hold

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Speaker 3: of some bad seafood woo. This boy was in that

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Speaker 3: eating that tuna, and that tuna was doing what tudah do,

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Speaker 3: swimming round, making waves and run it. That's what tuna

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Speaker 3: do in the while. That's what it was doing in

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Speaker 3: his stomach. That sandwich that he had chewed up got

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Speaker 3: in his stomach cutting up all right now. He finally

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Speaker 3: I would stay with him. I said no, and I

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Speaker 3: suggested that he go to the er if he was

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Speaker 3: in that much pain. I get in the uber and

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Speaker 3: I went home. Damn, the dude is in enough pain.

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Speaker 3: He ain't trying to trap you into stay in.

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Speaker 2: Oh girl, are you glue? Hang on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, You'll have part two of Steve's response coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter, subject,

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Speaker 1: I knew it was too good to be true. We'll

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Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject I knew it was too good to be true.

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Speaker 3: I knew it now, like I said earlier, if you

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Speaker 3: weren't here, Shirley and I's response is quite different because,

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Speaker 3: of course I have a different perspective, because it's the

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Speaker 3: male perspective. Women don't get to have that perspective. Now,

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Speaker 3: this woman says in this letter, I knew it was

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Speaker 3: too good to be true. She's thirty three. She met

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Speaker 3: a man through some friends who's thirty eight. Great guy,

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Speaker 3: she says it off. Now this is this woman writing

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Speaker 3: this letter. Great god, look good, smell good, got a

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Speaker 3: good job. They've been dating for a month. He invites

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Speaker 3: her to the class reunion. They get it to class reunion.

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Speaker 3: Now this man right here to invited this woman to

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Speaker 3: the class reunion. He if a dude, don't care nothing

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Speaker 3: about you. He not taking you to the class reunion.

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Speaker 3: This is the flex moment. So now he going, hey, man,

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Speaker 3: look what I got. This is after how many years?

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Speaker 3: This well, that's about the twenty year reunion. You at

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Speaker 3: the twenty year thirty eight. He had his twenty year reunion,

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Speaker 3: graduated when he was eighteen, and he going, hey, hey,

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Speaker 3: look what out of found. I ain't never been married,

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Speaker 3: I ain't got no kids. Man, look what I found. Ladies,

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Speaker 3: take note of that. He took you to a very

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Speaker 3: important moment right here. All after this is just meeting

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Speaker 3: the mama. If you can meet the mama after this,

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Speaker 3: you're pretty much locked in. We've been dating for a month.

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Speaker 3: He takes you to the class reunion. He eats some

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Speaker 3: tuna sandwiches. You told him wasn't good.

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Speaker 2: He hard hited.

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Speaker 3: He ate the tune of sandwiches. Anyway, He ended up

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Speaker 3: going to the bathroom for thirty minutes. Then he texted you.

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Speaker 3: I said, meet him at the car. Something happened in

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Speaker 3: a bathroom. Traumatic. Traumatic. Not only could you meet me

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Speaker 3: at the car? Can you drive this damn car home?

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Speaker 3: I'm in pain? He'd get to the house. He go

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Speaker 3: in the bathroom for thirty minutes. He come out, tore up.

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Speaker 3: Did he look disshovel? Probably deep? And did he went

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Speaker 3: straight to the bathroom got to the house? You didn't,

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Speaker 3: She said, I didn't go to the bathroom though, to

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool.

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Speaker 3: He finally came out of the bathroom, said he was

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Speaker 3: gonna take a shower and get into bed. He asked

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Speaker 3: me if I would stay with him. I said no,

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Speaker 3: and I suggested he go to the er. If he's

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Speaker 3: in that much pain. Why didn't you stay with the man?

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Speaker 3: He didn't ask you to sleep with him. You said,

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Speaker 3: if he has so much pain, go to the er.

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Speaker 3: You didn't offer to take him to the er. You

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Speaker 3: didn't offer to stay with him. Where the soup at,

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Speaker 3: where the cracker is at? Where that's at you know,

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Speaker 3: that's all you had to do. Hey, look, I'll stay

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Speaker 3: in here on the couch with you. Let me check

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Speaker 3: on you, make sure you're okay. That's all the man

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Speaker 3: won'ted gotta cook. See right here, soup ain't cooking. Soup

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Speaker 3: coming it can that ain't cooking. Lord, have mercy chiefs

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Speaker 3: help her.

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Speaker 2: It's in the kitchen. It's heating up some soup. Who

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Speaker 2: can make soup.

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Speaker 4: For the man?

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Speaker 2: Anyway, I got in an uber and I went home.

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Speaker 2: So that means.

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Speaker 3: He picked her up, took her to the event, She

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Speaker 3: drove his car to the house. She got in the

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Speaker 3: uber and went home. The next day I called a

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Speaker 3: check on him. He said he ain't even want to

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Speaker 3: talk to me of again, since I didn't seem to

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Speaker 3: care that he was sick the night before. He said,

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Speaker 3: I don't know how to take care of a man,

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Speaker 3: and I have news for you. You don't because it just

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Speaker 3: would have been a little thoughtful thing to say, hey,

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm not staying in here. He wasn't trying

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Speaker 3: It wasn't a trap to get you to the house.

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Speaker 3: Something was seriously wrong with this man and you didn't

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Speaker 2: He was testing you to see.

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Speaker 3: Now, Shirley said, y'all need to break up because both

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Speaker 3: of you showed who you really were. Well, yeah, he did.

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Speaker 3: He showed that he was looking for somebody to care

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Speaker 3: for him. You decided to show him. And then Shirley said,

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Speaker 3: and he did. He found out exactly who you really was.

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Speaker 3: and he told you right, you don't know how to

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Speaker 3: He should have wrote this letter and said it was

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Speaker 3: at least just care about it. That's all you had

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Speaker 3: I'm sick. I'm gonna take a shower, getting in his bed.

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Speaker 3: Would you stay with me? No, I'm getting the ober heat.

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Speaker 3: The man of some soup, get him some crackers, where

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Speaker 3: a pepto bismol. You ain't did nothing? What more could

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Speaker 3: I have done for him that night? It's called comfort,

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Speaker 3: It's called concern. It's the thing that I teach all

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 3: They all time want you to fix nothing. I used

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Speaker 3: to verbalize it, you know, man, That's how they work

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Speaker 3: What you had opportunity to do, young lady, was show concern,

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Speaker 3: You know what you're finn to let go? These are

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Speaker 3: that a friend introduced me to. He's thirty eight years old,

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Speaker 2: Are you?

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Speaker 1: Are?

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Speaker 2: You? Are?

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Speaker 4: You are?

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Speaker 2: Are you? Are you ignorant?

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Speaker 2: What what what is it?

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Speaker 3: What is so you're gonna let him go because you

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Speaker 3: missed an opportunity to learn how to treat a man.

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Speaker 2: That's probably why you ain't got.

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Speaker 1: Nobody post your comments.

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Speaker 3: On, because you don't know how to treat a man. No,

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Speaker 3: you probably don't deserve to do.

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