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<v Speaker 1>requests for second date updates from people all over the country. Now, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and when we're choosing who we should call, we usually

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<v Speaker 1>look for something interesting about their situation, whether it's a

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<v Speaker 1>really unique way that they met or an awkward moment

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<v Speaker 1>that they remember from their date. Yeah, And when we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have any of that, we just go off the

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<v Speaker 1>weirdest names. And recently we got an email from a

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<v Speaker 1>guy who signed it wrangler. Oh. I'm not sure if

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<v Speaker 1>that's a college nickname or if it was some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of typo in the email. But I don't know. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just ask him, wrangler, what's up? Is that a nickname

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<v Speaker 1>or is that your real name? That's real name? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't something where you're trying to reach a

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<v Speaker 1>country station and accidentally you guys are a country station. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I never heard anybody with that as a name, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>where does that come from? Well, as legend, we have it.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently I was conceived in the back sheets of a

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<v Speaker 1>geep Wrangler. Okay, oh my god. That was not very

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<v Speaker 1>creative and your parents wanted you to remember that for

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of your life. Fun fact, Alexis is almost

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<v Speaker 1>named Geometro. Yeah yeah, all right, Well, Wrangler, who we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to be calling today? And where'd you meet her?

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<v Speaker 1>You got a minute. It's kind of a long tale.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just hoping for her name. Yeah, her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Angler. Okay, how'd you meet Rohanna? We we dated

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<v Speaker 1>our senior year of high school. Oh, that's why it's

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<v Speaker 1>a long story, rekindled. This is like an X thing,

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<v Speaker 1>it is. Yeah, okay, well, why don't you give us

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<v Speaker 1>a short version of the legend of Rohanna? Okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>dated in high school most of senior year, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>went to prom. Okay, I love that young love. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure it was like kind of obsessive. It's the love

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<v Speaker 1>that you like kind of compare everything else too, And

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<v Speaker 1>we were really close. We always got along even when

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<v Speaker 1>high school was over and went to different colleges. We've

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<v Speaker 1>tried the long distance thing, but it's just too far apart.

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<v Speaker 1>It worked out. So you guys broke up just because

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<v Speaker 1>you were in different cities. Is that what you mean? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just it was like when the whole relationship

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<v Speaker 1>is just about the pain of not being together, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not you know, that's not healthy. Plus it is healthy though,

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<v Speaker 1>when you get to college after high school to take

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of time away and grow separately and

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<v Speaker 1>become your own person and then maybe you can come

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<v Speaker 1>back together. What you mean is you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>into college single, because why would you not. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was a cute way of him with other people

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<v Speaker 1>to what's going on. Wrangler had a good time in college.

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<v Speaker 1>His name was hold On. I have heard that sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>people dating it just wasn't the right time for them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, like, so maybe now is a better touch. Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you end up reconnecting with Rohanna? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, our friendship kind of drifted apart because it

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<v Speaker 1>was hard to just be friends. And after college she

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<v Speaker 1>moved to England for work, so we just lost touch

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<v Speaker 1>and then I dated, but I didn't really find the

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<v Speaker 1>one and I was just thinking about her. So not

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<v Speaker 1>too long ago, it was our ten year of high

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<v Speaker 1>school reunion, okay, and I was thinking, Okay, maybe she'll

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<v Speaker 1>be there, maybe she'll be single, maybe we'll hit it out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm hoping. I hope there'll be a jeep

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<v Speaker 1>wrangler out in the parking lot and we can make

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<v Speaker 1>a little wrangler. What happened, I'm like nervous for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Was she there? No, she wasn't there. Oh, and he

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<v Speaker 1>brought me to a place and then let me down. Wrangler. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it brought me to a place and let me down.

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<v Speaker 1>So I went home right after the prom and I

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<v Speaker 1>got on Facebook. I sent her a message the problem,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the reunion. The reunion sounds like problem. And

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<v Speaker 1>that was good for you, all right? What did Rohanna

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<v Speaker 1>say when you reached out? I told her I was

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<v Speaker 1>bummed it and see her, and she actually responded right

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<v Speaker 1>away and we started talking again, and you know, first

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<v Speaker 1>it was like superficial chat, but very quickly it got

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<v Speaker 1>to like that kind of deeper level flirty. And I

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<v Speaker 1>found out she moved back like a year ago, not

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<v Speaker 1>to the same city as me, but not far and

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<v Speaker 1>she's single. Oh the stars are aligning, my friend. So

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<v Speaker 1>did you make your move. Did you ask her out?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it'd be easy to do. I asked her

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<v Speaker 1>if she wanted to meet up for coffee and she

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<v Speaker 1>said yes, So there we go. You know, I got

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<v Speaker 1>the ceiling going like I can't I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't even describe the feeling. I was excited, like my

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<v Speaker 1>heart was like crazy. So why are you It's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>All men have that feeling. It's something that you can

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<v Speaker 1>handle on your own time. No, there's a lot writing

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<v Speaker 1>on this because for years you've built this woman up

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<v Speaker 1>on this pedestal, it sounds like, and you've been comparing

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<v Speaker 1>everybody else to her and whatever you guys had together

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<v Speaker 1>very much. So what was it like when you met

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<v Speaker 1>up with her? Obviously I built it up too much

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<v Speaker 1>because I went and got flowers and I go to

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<v Speaker 1>the coffee shop and I sit down and she did

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<v Speaker 1>not show up? What she stood you up? Yeah, buddy? Sorry? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>What was that like? I mean, how long did you

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<v Speaker 1>wait there for her? Oh? I don't even want to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like I was there or upwards a two hours?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, He's like, I'm hoping this is the time something. Yea.

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<v Speaker 1>All the people with laptops thought it was weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>was there so long? Yeah, without one. Did you try

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<v Speaker 1>and text her or anything? Yeah? I texted her. I

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<v Speaker 1>called her. I got no response. Are you I mean

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<v Speaker 1>at this point because you've had a minute to sit

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<v Speaker 1>with like, of course the initial disappointment and sadness, But

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<v Speaker 1>now are you angry? I'm not angry. I am hurt. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And I figured, rather than just like sitting this for

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<v Speaker 1>another five days, I had to do something different. So

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<v Speaker 1>I turned to you, guys. Okay, I want to help

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<v Speaker 1>reunite you with your high school sweetheart. I hope you can. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>give Rohana a call, and we're gonna wrangle you up

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<v Speaker 1>a second date up dude, Okay, Wrangler? All right, thanks guys. Alright,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the sequel to Disney's Moana, The Legend of Rohanna

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<v Speaker 1>because it rhymes yes, where did she go? Did she

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<v Speaker 1>get lost on her journey to meet Wrangler at the

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop? Did she maybe end up on a different

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<v Speaker 1>island with a hot dude named after an even nicer car, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>mister land Rover. Perhaps either way, our job is to

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<v Speaker 1>help out our listener Wrangler to find out what happened

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<v Speaker 1>to his long lost high school sweetheart after she stood

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<v Speaker 1>him up at the coffee shop. A Wrangler, We're about

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<v Speaker 1>to call Rohanna for you, and this is a girl

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<v Speaker 1>you've been thinking about for years. What's going through your

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<v Speaker 1>mind right now? I'm really just hoping, she answers. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe I was thinking about this because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot in this and maybe she really does

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<v Speaker 1>feel the same as you. But maybe she was just

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<v Speaker 1>scared to see you. I don't know. Maybe something bad

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<v Speaker 1>happened in the last ten years, like she got arrested

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<v Speaker 1>or something she doesn't want to tell you about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean i'd be okay with that. Okay, Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking because she didn't show up to the reunion

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<v Speaker 1>and she stood you up, I've got a bad hair day.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe that is It's not an exone. Maybe her

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<v Speaker 1>five kids were acting up in the back of the

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<v Speaker 1>car on the way over and she had to ditch out.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you be okay with that? Wrangler? Five kids be weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see five kids on her Facebook page. But

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she's a horrible mom. Yeah. A lot of questions

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<v Speaker 1>and We're gonna try and get you some answers right now.

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<v Speaker 1>About to dial her phone number? You ready, man? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god? Yeah, oh I feel that. I feel the

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<v Speaker 1>risk right now. I want to blow a Concha has

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<v Speaker 1>zero love story in it. I just won't let you know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go and the number right now. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for Rohanna. This is Rohanna thinking this is Rohannah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's good. Yeah, that's who we're looking for. Who are

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<v Speaker 1>all these people? We're a morning radio show. We're called

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. And I'm really glad

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<v Speaker 1>that you answered because we've been trying to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of you on behalf of one of our listeners. Okay, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We do something on our show called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if you go out on a date with someone,

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<v Speaker 1>and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you

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<v Speaker 1>can email our show and we'll reach out to them

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<v Speaker 1>for you to help them figure out the reason why. Huh, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't technically you didn't go on a first date

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<v Speaker 1>with this person, well a long time ago, but not recently.

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<v Speaker 1>It's someone that you did go on dates within the past,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were scheduled to meet up with him again,

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<v Speaker 1>but you never showed up. You know what, I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about your date with Wrangler. I'm sorry, I need to

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<v Speaker 1>I need to go. No, no, hold on. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling to like attack you or tell you you're a

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<v Speaker 1>bad person for not showing up. We're just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out because Wranglers really confused about what went

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<v Speaker 1>on that day because he showed up, he tried reaching

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<v Speaker 1>out to you and you never came, and he just

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know what happened. He's worried. If anything, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>need time because I need to figure out how to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him. You know, I just just kind of complicated. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I understand how this could be complicated. I

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<v Speaker 1>know your relationship spans over years and years, going back

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<v Speaker 1>to high school, so I'm sure there's a lot to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about. But it would be really helpful if you

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<v Speaker 1>could tell us anything that we could pass along to Wrangler.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't even know how to honestly go about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to explain it, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>really would love to just at some point just be

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<v Speaker 1>able to sit down and talk to him. Well, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing, Rohanna, Like, if you don't tell him, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to just wait around. There's not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a time where you get to sit down with him.

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<v Speaker 1>He's hurt. I mean, you would be hurt if you

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<v Speaker 1>had been really looking forward to seeing this person after

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<v Speaker 1>so long and then they just don't show up. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lot, man. Yeah, I get that. I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to have it all, like really ready to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to get emotional. Yeah, I understand that.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand things like this can be tough. But the

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<v Speaker 1>truth is, there's probably never going to be a perfect

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<v Speaker 1>time to do anything like this. The conversation is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be hard no matter what, no matter when. And

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, when that's the case, what better time

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<v Speaker 1>than now? Because I need to tell you, Rohanna, that

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<v Speaker 1>Wrangler's actually on the other line listening and he's ready

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Are you kidding me? Surprised? I'm serious?

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<v Speaker 1>Ripping the band aid off? It's the perfect time now, Wrangler,

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<v Speaker 1>you there, I'm here. Oh my god, I'm really sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean to the blindside you here or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I just really I didn't know what happened and I

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<v Speaker 1>was really, Oh my god, I'm just like, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe this. Rohanna, don't be too angry. I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get a hold of you. You weren't answering your

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<v Speaker 1>phone call as your tech. I was worried. The man

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<v Speaker 1>was desperate in a good way. I mean, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like what might help Rohan in this moment is if

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<v Speaker 1>you just at least start by explaining what happened that

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<v Speaker 1>day of the day when you're supposed to meet him

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<v Speaker 1>at the coffee shop, because he still doesn't know. We don't, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know. Well, I actually was there. I was

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<v Speaker 1>in my car outside of the coffee shop, and I

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<v Speaker 1>saw him going in with the flowers, and then right

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<v Speaker 1>away all these crazy memories from high school and from

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<v Speaker 1>college just came back, and you know, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>extremely overwhelming for me, and I just couldn't get out

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<v Speaker 1>of that car. And Fangler, do you remember when I

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<v Speaker 1>had to go to London? Yeah? COOLi what do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember that you were supposed to take me to the

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<v Speaker 1>airport and you never shall? Wrangler was supposed to take

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<v Speaker 1>you to the airport on the morning that you left

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<v Speaker 1>for London. Yes, I was going abroad for a year,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was supposed to take me to the airport

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<v Speaker 1>and he never showed up. And he was one of

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<v Speaker 1>the most devastating things that I've had to go through.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not like we were boyfriend and girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>at the time, like, but we were really really close,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just it was almost like I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>him to go there and convince me not to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that makes sense because it's like, you have

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<v Speaker 1>all these like big feelings from that moment they're brought

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<v Speaker 1>up again, and I'm sure you're scared of setting yourself

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<v Speaker 1>up for that type of disappointment again from him. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Wrangler was my first big love, ye, And

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<v Speaker 1>you just never forget that, Wrangler. You never told us

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<v Speaker 1>about that half of the story where you were supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to take her when she left for England. Yeah, why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you show up that morning first? Before I even

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<v Speaker 1>explain why. I'm sorry. I am so sorry. That was

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<v Speaker 1>a strong move. I should have known that I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to affect you. I was thinking about how it

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<v Speaker 1>was going to affect me. I was thinking about how

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<v Speaker 1>I felt about you and how I still had feelings

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<v Speaker 1>with you. In the idea of putting you on an

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<v Speaker 1>airplane and sending you away just it destroyed me. I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't do it. I could not do that. Wow. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean this was high school. Everyone not to be heartless,

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<v Speaker 1>the big, huge emotions and relationships. And I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even say anything to her, Wrangler, Like, why wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you at least tell her how you were feeling instead

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<v Speaker 1>of completely shutting down. But at that point, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to be over it. You know, we've

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<v Speaker 1>broken up, we moved on, or I thought you would

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<v Speaker 1>moved on. You know, I know you were dating in college.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I dated in college too, and I probably

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<v Speaker 1>probably thought I moved on now that I looked back

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<v Speaker 1>at it, but I really never did. Wrangler's got a wrangle.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, it was my first big love and

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<v Speaker 1>it's something that you never forget. And at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I had those feelings for you. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I had them for a really long time, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about it. Sounds like you have them right

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<v Speaker 1>now for each other, that they're still that they still exist.

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I mean, I know, I know I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>seen you in forever. I know the feelings I have

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<v Speaker 1>are for you. From ten years ago. But I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it seems like there's definitely something still there,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys need to talk this out in person. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're terrible at communication so far. Yeah. The only way

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<v Speaker 1>that we can solve this is by getting you guys

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<v Speaker 1>face to face. And that's why we would like to

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<v Speaker 1>offer to send you guys out on another date and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for it, kind of like a second first date.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say, Rohanna, Oh wow, um, sorry, Wrangler,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like she's not interesting. Answer Rohanna say, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that it could be setting you up for

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<v Speaker 1>more heartbreak, but that's what dating is, right Like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>taking a chance. You have to take that chance. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like my life has been a being heartbreak and

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<v Speaker 1>it's tough, I mean, but I do have to say

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<v Speaker 1>that the time that I was a strangler is probably

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<v Speaker 1>one of the happiest times of my life, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I can't take that for granted. So I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>give it a chance. Yes, all right, great, great reward.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how it works. You guys excited again? Except God,

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<v Speaker 1>there you go, Rangler. Congratulations you got a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys, Thank you so much and Rohanna, your

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<v Speaker 1>five kids are cool with this? Okay, awesome. Congratulations you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I got it. Update us, keep us up. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how things go. Please yeah, unless they go bad,

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<v Speaker 1>because we don't want a sad story. Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning.