1 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: Hey there are folks. It is Saturday, August second, and 2 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 1: a therapy session, a walk in the rain, a walk 3 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: in the heat, and a romantic stroll through Central Park. 4 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: It was all part of Robot and I being good 5 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 1: to ourselves this week. Hope you were good to yourself 6 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: as well. Welcome to this Saturday recovery run. TJ. Holmes, 7 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: Amy Robock here alongside me, Robes. We did bet. We 8 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: were very conscious this week and had moments where we 9 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: stopped and said, when we get done with this, we're 10 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: gonna go do blank. We're gonna go to a blank. 11 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: We actually made a conscious decision this week to make 12 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: time for ourselves. 13 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 2: We did. 14 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 3: We have been working around the clock and actually one 15 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 3: of the days this week we worked I think something 16 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 3: like seventeen hours straight. So yes, I think we almost 17 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 3: had to force ourselves to specifically schedule these downtime and 18 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 3: fun time together. 19 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: Okay, now I feel terrible because to say we have 20 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 1: to schedule fun. 21 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 2: Time, but I think most people do. 22 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 3: But this is kind of what the whole point of 23 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 3: this or these episodes are is to recognize that if 24 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 3: we don't prioritize us time alone, time down time, you 25 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,639 Speaker 3: actually don't do it. You actually do have to pencil 26 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 3: it in. I really think for most people, you're so 27 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 3: busy and your kids take over so much of your life, 28 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 3: and your work takes over so much of your life 29 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 3: that even though we work together, we're still working. 30 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 2: So we'll say to. 31 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 3: Each other sitting across from each other on the microphone 32 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 3: or in the apartment, I miss you, And that sounds 33 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 3: crazy because we're together all day, but we're not being together. 34 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: That's so sad we have this. SKay, how's your schedule? Look, 35 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: you want to pencil in some fun at one point thirty. 36 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 2: Now we put it in permanent market. 37 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: Wow. 38 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 2: But no. 39 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 3: But I actually, instead of being sad, I think you 40 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 3: can look at it as smart because if you don't 41 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 3: do that, time just it just kind of escapes you. 42 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 3: It just melts away and you don't know what happened 43 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 3: to your day. So I actually think it's really cool 44 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 3: that we're intentional maybe instead of saying penciling. 45 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: It in or we're forcing ourselves hang it impressions. Yes, 46 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 2: you know, every time I do, why do some weird 47 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 2: low voice? I don't know. That's what we've been doing. 48 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 2: We describe or imitate our husband. 49 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:28,679 Speaker 1: Every guy has the same My dad talks like this, 50 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: my brother talks like this. 51 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 2: You talk like this. It's not actually personalized. 52 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 3: It's just the male Yes, it's just the male voice 53 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 3: that I hear, or that it's how I replicated. But 54 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 3: I do think maybe let's just say we were extra 55 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 3: intentional this week about having our time. 56 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: Okay, that's completely fair. You know we did it at 57 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 1: the end of the week on Friday, So I'll go 58 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: kind of backwards. We have long weeks, so when we 59 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: get done on Friday morning, we're able to be If 60 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: we plan things outright, we could be done working on 61 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: Friday by seven eight am. And even on a bad day, 62 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: if we don't plan it out right, we should be 63 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 1: done working on a Friday by nine am at the 64 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: absolute latest. 65 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 2: It's been more like noon or five pm. 66 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: Here's my Friday. This is my problem. So on this 67 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: most recent Friday, we were working, we were getting done 68 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: with the morning run, and I sit. When we get done, 69 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: can we get up and take a walk? Can we 70 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: go outside and just take a walk? And we did. 71 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: We walked a few blocks and it was nice, and 72 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: I almost insisted that we not talk about work the whole. 73 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 2: Time, and there was a light rain. 74 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 3: It was a misty rain, felt a little bit like Scotland, 75 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 3: and it had been so hot this week. It actually 76 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 3: felt so nice. And I even said to you, I 77 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 3: am so glad you asked us to do this. And 78 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 3: what we ended up doing was skipping a run we 79 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 3: were supposed to take, but we were so exhausted. So 80 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 3: when you train for any sort of race, in this case, 81 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 3: it's a half marathon that we're running in Stockholm in August, 82 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: and we were supposed to run four and a half 83 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 3: miles on Friday morning, and we were exhausted, and so 84 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 3: we took a walk in the rain instead of a 85 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 3: run in the park. 86 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: And I'm not upset about it. 87 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: We gave ourselves a break. It's never I know you 88 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: alway say I never regret a run, but I also 89 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: never regret being honest with myself and being kind to 90 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: my body. I'm giving a break. It's not the end 91 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: of the world that we didn't do that run. And 92 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: we should never run on. 93 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 3: Friday, right because Saturdays we have well is our long run. 94 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: So we ended up having to do eight miles. So 95 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 3: that's what I feel cool about, giving ourselves a break. 96 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 2: Before the long run. 97 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 1: The new Friday rule we show have implemented. Now that's 98 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: how we wrapped up things on Friday. But we were 99 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: very kind to ourselves unexpectedly starting out kind of the week, 100 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: kind of late into the weekend. Last weekend, something we 101 00:04:55,200 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: used to do a lot and we stopped doing. We 102 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: went back to Central Park and where we live now 103 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: in Lower Manhattan, it's a little bit of a hike 104 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 1: to get to Central Park. We have so much down 105 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: here and if we need to run, we have a 106 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: running paths. There's no reason to take off and do it. 107 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: But we made a decision to go to Central Park, 108 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: and knit was a wonderful day. 109 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 3: It was because you know, when you live in Manhattan, 110 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 3: it's funny. Anyone who lives here will tell you you 111 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 3: pretty much just stay within a ten radius block and 112 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 3: that's it. And you don't someone asks you to go 113 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 3: to the Upper west Side and it's as if someone's 114 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 3: asking you to fly to Miami. 115 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 2: It's like, what, it's just too much. 116 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 3: So it is something that we just usually end up 117 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 3: not doing and we just stay in this small little 118 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 3: block or this ten block radius. 119 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: But yes, it was so fun. 120 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 3: We went back up to Central Park, our old stomping grounds, 121 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 3: and we went to Tavern on the Green, which is 122 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 3: such a cool place. If you're ever in the city. 123 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 3: It really is an institution. You should absolutely go. And 124 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 3: if it's a nice time of year, eating outside in 125 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,239 Speaker 3: the bar area is so fun. You can people watch, 126 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 3: see everyone biking and running, and. 127 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: We don't appreciate it enough here maybe sometimes in the city, 128 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: and it's such a tourist attraction it should be. It's 129 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: a storied place with celebrity history and oh my god, 130 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 1: in the huge history of pop culture and movies. But frankly, 131 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: it's a great restaurant. It's just forget the great institution part. 132 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: If you just go there, want to have a meal, 133 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 1: it's just a cool play. 134 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,679 Speaker 3: It's a nice Yes, it's good food, good service, good drinks, 135 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 3: great atmosphere and awesome people watching. 136 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: And it was an apartment you used to live in 137 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: that made it more convenient for us to just hop 138 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: on a train. Couple of stops we're in Central Park, 139 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: we go for a run, go hang out, see our 140 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 1: girl over there. It's average on the Greens, a little 141 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: to go area, but we just haven't been up there 142 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: in a while. We decided to do so, and roll. 143 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: We not only had a great meal, a great experience 144 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: all some folks we hadn't seen in a while, but 145 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: we had a good experience with folks just being kind 146 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: to us that day that I am so glad we 147 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 1: decided to go. 148 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:58,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you didn't start off in a good mood, 149 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 2: and your mood completely changed what. 150 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: I kind of even remember what was hitting me that day. 151 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: Something was I'm not sure if something happened or if 152 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: I just didn't sleep well, but I started and I 153 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: was telling you. I said, yeah, I'm in a little 154 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: bit of a funk. I'm trying to fight my way 155 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: out of it. 156 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 2: Which I appreciated you explaining to me. 157 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 3: It's always nice to know I didn't do anything, or 158 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 3: you aren't mad at me. You're like, I am not 159 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 3: in a good place and I'm actively working on trying. 160 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 2: To get out of it. 161 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: I God, what does that say? 162 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 3: And I was like, Okay, that's cool. So you worked 163 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 3: that out. I'll just be quiet and try not to 164 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 3: make your mood worse. 165 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: Okay, let's take a moment here. Okay, mates out there, 166 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: don't take that tax. You didn't try to help me 167 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: out of it. You were just who. 168 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 2: I mean, that was my first thought. I'm not gonna lie. 169 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: But we go to our place and we were even 170 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: I think initially disappointed because the seats we wanted and 171 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: seats we were used to having weren't open. Fine, and 172 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: they were standing about to order from the bar, and 173 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: there were We walked through and there were a lot 174 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: of folks eyeballing us, and that's fine. 175 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 2: We're used to that kind of used to. 176 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: But he got a little awkward, got a little weird, 177 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: and it got a little much that we wanted to 178 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: go hide, if you will, in the back of the 179 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: outdoor place. So we order our food. Everything's fine. We 180 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: go through the first round of food or it was coming. 181 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: The first round was coming, and a kid came over 182 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: to us. How old was he? 183 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 3: Oh, I mean he probably was Sabine's age, probably around 184 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 3: eleven or twelve. 185 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: Okay, scruffy, blonde hair, right. She was it Leo? 186 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 2: Yes, Leo was his name. 187 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: I think his name was Leo. This kid, white kid 188 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: in Florida comes up to us out of nowhere. He 189 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:36,839 Speaker 1: comes up to me first. I don't I think your 190 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: back was to him, yes, and he says, can I 191 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: take a picture with you. And my initial reaction I 192 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 1: might have seemed like a jerk initially because I'm like, 193 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: how do you know who I am? Like? 194 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 2: Why are you. 195 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: Twelve year old kid from Florida asking me? And it 196 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: was cool. We are starting to get this and it's 197 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:56,719 Speaker 1: bizarre that people are coming up to us and complimenting 198 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: us or fans of ours because. 199 00:08:58,280 --> 00:08:59,719 Speaker 2: Of our podcast? 200 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 3: Were you so just saying I miss you on TV, 201 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,839 Speaker 3: I miss you on GM. These folks actually two sets 202 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 3: to them and the restaurant were like, we love your podcast. 203 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 3: We listened to your podcast. Really yes, And he said 204 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 3: my parents listened to your podcast. So he was honest, 205 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 3: and that's understandable. I would never expect a kid like 206 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 3: that to be listening to our news or Morning Run, 207 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 3: but yes, and it was sweet he wanted a picture 208 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 3: with us because his parents listened. 209 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 2: To our podcast. 210 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: That was just a sweet moment. And then over when 211 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 1: I went back to the bar area to order another 212 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: drink and I'm standing there and I'm waiting, a guy 213 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: comes over and starts talking to me. I kind of 214 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: remember he and his wife's name. I think her name 215 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: was Cindy Marius is something his name I remember having 216 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: a red shirt anyway, I remember all this, and he 217 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: came over. He wanted to buy us a drink and 218 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: he said, man, no, we're fans, we love you. We 219 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: just buy you a drink. He and I went back 220 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 1: and forth, boom boom boom boom boom. I say no, man, 221 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 1: it's no, no, no. And then I finally said, you 222 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: know what, man, The point is when people want to 223 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: do nice things for you, you should let them. And 224 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: that's the whole point. And I said sure, thank you. 225 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 1: And this nice couple bought us a couple of very 226 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: sweet sparkling rosees. 227 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 3: Yes, and then we went over I got to meet 228 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 3: them too and thank them. But they were very sweet, 229 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 3: very kind. It was it was an uplifting afternoon. And 230 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 3: then what I loved about it next, because we're usually 231 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 3: very quick in our timing. We don't have a lot 232 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 3: of time, so we have a very specific route we 233 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 3: go back or what we're doing, we just kind of 234 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 3: walked through Central Park holding hands, and then we ended 235 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 3: up at Columbus Circle. Loved that mall over there, and 236 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 3: just went into a few stores and it was just 237 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 3: really fun and not an unplanned and that's what was 238 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 3: cool about it just to kind of let the river 239 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 3: take us, and so we just walked and said where 240 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 3: are we going to end up? 241 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 2: And we just ended up just walking around at the 242 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 2: Upper west Side. It was so fun and it's weird. 243 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: To say out loud, now, this is something we just 244 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: don't do. We don't have time to just blow time. 245 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 1: We don't just go and float around places because we're 246 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: looking at the clock. Okay, we got this much time, 247 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: next call is at two thirty. It's always something so scheduled. 248 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: That was a rare moment and that was really cool. 249 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 3: It was it set the whole week off really really well, 250 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 3: and that was awesome. So yes, it began with that 251 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 3: kind of walk around, just unplanned walk, and it kind 252 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 3: of ended with a walk in the rain. The week 253 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 3: was really really cool. But in between there were also 254 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 3: some amazing moments. For instance, well we did a walk. 255 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 2: In the heat too. 256 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:28,719 Speaker 3: You know, sometimes you get it's oppressive, it's hot here 257 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 3: in the city, the concrete jungle, and we. 258 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 2: Ended up doing a really fun walk where we. 259 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 3: Also didn't have the specific destination. So we did that 260 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 3: twice this week. 261 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know why I asked for that, but 262 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 1: it was we had a really blistering I mean we 263 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: had a heat advise. 264 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 2: Every day here and triple digits and that was that. 265 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: I said, yeah, let's go for a walk for whatever 266 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 1: is that the day Sabine men of sound, Yes. 267 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 3: And we sat in the shade and it wasn't terrible. 268 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 3: There was a little breeze. We were down by the seaport, 269 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 3: and yeah, it just kind of took a moment. I 270 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 3: think we took about an hour, and even Sabine was like, 271 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 3: why are you. 272 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 2: All sitting out here? It's hot? 273 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 3: You know that, right, But then she ended up hanging 274 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 3: to and realized that get you acclimate, you acclimate more 275 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 3: as long as you're in the direct sunlight. 276 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 2: We acclimated. It was great. And then a wonderful woman 277 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 2: who was serving us as well, who was so sweet 278 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 2: bringing water. 279 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. You know what, if you had some 280 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: doubts about humanity, this week would have renewed your faith. 281 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: We ran into some really nice people, and not nice 282 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: just because they decided to do nice things for us 283 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 1: or had any idea who we were. That woman was 284 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: kind in a way that we didn't ask and she 285 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: didn't have to and actually made her own job harder 286 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 1: out there. That was a really sweet lady. 287 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 3: She's standing out in the heat all day long serving people, 288 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 3: and she was didn't have to leave her. She had 289 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 3: a little it's like a little kiosk bar. She did 290 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 3: not need to be running back and forth to bring waters, 291 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 3: sauce to beane was there. Cayman brought her a water 292 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 3: without us ever going up and asking. It was just 293 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 3: really it was above and beyond a. 294 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,599 Speaker 1: Major change we did make this week Robes and I 295 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: think that followed us in the morning run the episodes 296 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: we do every single morning, the news updates. People know 297 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 1: we get up very very early in the morning. We 298 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: made an adjustment to our schedule to give us an 299 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 1: extra hour of sleep, and I think it's working. 300 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 3: I do too, okay it you know, it's funny. I 301 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 3: still haven't so. My alarm used to be set at 302 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 3: three am. And what I found this week because I 303 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 3: pushed it back to four am, and I was scared. 304 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 3: The first day I did three forty five because I 305 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 3: just wasn't sure how it was going to turn out. 306 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 3: And then the next the rest of the week, I said, 307 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 3: at for four am. I have yet to not see 308 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 3: three am. My body has continued to wake up. Now 309 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 3: I have fallen back asleep a little bit, but it's 310 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 3: funny I haven't and then I've woken up before my alarm. 311 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:41,479 Speaker 2: So my whope, my goal. 312 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 3: Is next week that I'll actually sleep up until my 313 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 3: alarm goes off. But my body just got so used 314 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 3: to getting up so early. So but I'm I think 315 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 3: it makes a huge difference. That hour is a big deal. 316 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 1: That was a cool adjustment, and we made a conscious 317 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 1: decision on a couple of occasions, I think Thursday and 318 00:13:56,559 --> 00:14:00,080 Speaker 1: Friday to lay down and take a damn nap. Yes, 319 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 1: you know, I am very anti napps. 320 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 3: So am I because I say sometimes, well I often 321 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 3: say every time I've taken a nap, when I get up, 322 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 3: I feel disoriented. 323 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:09,839 Speaker 2: I don't feel refreshed, I feel. 324 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 3: But honestly, we are so sleep deprived that those naps 325 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 3: were everything. And I was rejuvenated and I felt so 326 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 3: much better. So and they were I mean, they were 327 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 3: an hour and a half, like like legit naps. 328 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: But folks, that wasn't even the highlight of the recovery 329 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: we had this week. We actually saw an off Broadway 330 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 1: play the same play on back to back nights this 331 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: week and it was absolutely the highlight of our week. 332 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 1: Oh and by the way, Robock had some therapy. 333 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 3: Before we go to break, I have to tell you 334 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 3: about new leggings I've been living in lately. They're from 335 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 3: this brand called Tona, and fun fact here, they were 336 00:14:56,680 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 3: actually designed by the same visionary behind Lulu Lemon, So 337 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 3: from that alone, you already know they're going to be 338 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: pretty good. These leggings feel like a second skin. 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Head to tonaactive dot com and use 348 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 3: code iHeart for twenty percent off and free shipping. Welcome 349 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 3: back everyone to our recovery run on this Saturday morning. 350 00:15:54,320 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 3: Let's start with my therapy. So I have made a 351 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 3: point to keep working on just I want to be 352 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 3: a better human. I want to be a holder being 353 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 3: where I am self reliant, I can self soothe all 354 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 3: these things that, yes, as adults, we realize we are 355 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 3: lacking in sometimes. So I did a couple sessions here 356 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 3: and there, and what I end up usually doing. I 357 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 3: have a therapist who I have been with, who I 358 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 3: love for literally two decades now, and I usually call 359 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 3: her if I'm feeling something specific and I have an emergency, 360 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 3: and I have decided I actually just want to have 361 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 3: some maintenance therapy, and so once a month I'm checking 362 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 3: in and I'm checking in with her and on myself 363 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 3: and what I can do better and how I can understand. 364 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 2: Better in all of this. 365 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 3: So, yeah, I made the decision to have a consistent 366 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 3: therapy session once a month. 367 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: And I'm really proud. 368 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 3: Because I think it's it's hard to work on yourself, 369 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 3: and it's hard to reflect sometimes, and it's you have 370 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 3: to come to terms with real truths about yourself. 371 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 2: So I've I feel like that is. 372 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 3: An investment I'm making not just in me, but in 373 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 3: our relationship, because the better I am, the better we are. 374 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 1: I'm all for it the better you. Yeah, I sleep 375 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 1: better thanks to a better you. I'm teasing you. It's 376 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 1: always the funniest part about this, and all that is great, 377 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:24,679 Speaker 1: and it's maintenance, right, you know, you shouldn't have to 378 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: go when there's an emergency. It's better to do maintenance. 379 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 1: And it's always interesting when you. I've been around you 380 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: and you've done a few therapy sessions. It's always hilarious. 381 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: I know it's very private, it's very intimate, but we're 382 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: always in the same place, right, so you're trying to 383 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: find privacy, so you'll get away from me. There have 384 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 1: been times you've been places, we've been, places you were upstairs, 385 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: but you will still turn on this white noise machine 386 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 1: and I hear. 387 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 2: You because you know, I learned the tactic. 388 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 3: I learned the tactic back in the day before COVID, 389 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 3: when everybody had to go into therapy in person. 390 00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 2: I had never done a zoom. But you walk into 391 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 2: the office and usually get there a. 392 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 3: Little early and they're still in the session with the 393 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 3: person before you, and in the lobby they have a 394 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 3: white noise machine because it just it makes everyone feel comfortable. 395 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 3: You can really speak what you're feeling and not worry 396 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 3: that someone else can hear you. 397 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 2: So I have employed that tactic. 398 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,919 Speaker 3: In the apartment, I put the white noise machine right 399 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 3: by the door so you can't hear. Mostly, I just 400 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 3: feel better that you can't hear, because if I think 401 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 3: maybe you can hear, then maybe I'll edit what I'm saying. 402 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 1: Do you think I would positively have my ear to 403 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 1: the door. 404 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 2: You're not that guy. 405 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: I know you're not sure. I am terrified to hear 406 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: any part of your therapy session. You have no idea. 407 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: I had to get close to the door to get 408 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 1: something out of the clout, like a towel, and you 409 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: should have seen how quickly I did it and retreated. 410 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 1: I didn't even close the door all the way after 411 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:43,399 Speaker 1: I got the thing out. 412 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 3: And there was something funny that happened during the therapy 413 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 3: session because so you were on a phone call, actually 414 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 3: a part of it, so I could hear you, you know, 415 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 3: the background of like won't you're on the phone. 416 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:54,680 Speaker 2: Then I could hear won't stop. 417 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 3: So I knew you were off the phone, and I 418 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 3: knew you were going into the shower, which was good, 419 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:00,919 Speaker 3: But all of a sudd sudden, when you got off 420 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 3: the phone, I heard music. You just it blasted, and 421 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 3: I thought, oh my god, can he hear what I 422 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 3: just said? And he doesn't want to hear it, so 423 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 3: he's blasting music now, and then I started to get. 424 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 2: Panicked while I was in the middle of my session. 425 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 1: It was just a Bluetooth mishap with the soundbar and 426 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 1: it blasted accidentally, and I do apologize for that. It's funny, 427 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 1: you say funny, the funniest part of the week. If 428 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:28,640 Speaker 1: folks don't know how many people might why not. Your 429 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:32,439 Speaker 1: daughter has produced a play that's off Broadway. That is, 430 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 1: we were there from the inception to hear her talk 431 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 1: about it. To have this idea for play and what 432 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna do. You're gonna have all these wigs, and 433 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 1: we're gonna have all the actors. It's going to have 434 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 1: a different wig every time that they put on, chosen 435 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:49,360 Speaker 1: by the audience, and then they're gonna do an improv 436 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: show based on whatever the audience picks. That really is 437 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: the pitch. Yes, that was the idea we heard months ago, 438 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: and we went to back to back shows. We've seen 439 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: it three times now, but it to see this thing 440 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: come to life that we heard as a crazy ass 441 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: idea has been really really cool to watch. 442 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, from the inception to the actual perfection, I mean 443 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 3: it is remarkable. Look, she's not even performing in the play. 444 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 3: She went to acting school. She wants to be an actress. 445 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 3: But it's pretty cool that she decided or she recognized 446 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 3: that improv is not necessarily her strength. It's a very, 447 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 3: very incredibly. 448 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 2: Difficult skill set to have. 449 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 3: And so she has some of her fellow NYU grads, 450 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 3: folks who she came up with, who are really good 451 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:38,880 Speaker 3: comedic timing, like amazing, and she had created it, produced 452 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 3: it and directs it. But watching these folks on stage 453 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:47,439 Speaker 3: have no script, no pre planning, and the audience actually 454 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 3: votes ahead of time what the genre is going to be, 455 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 3: so it can be a who done it? Yes, So 456 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 3: we got to see all three. I mean they kind 457 00:20:58,280 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 3: of skewed the voting. By the way, if you go 458 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:04,120 Speaker 3: see this play, to tell Autumn Wiggs the play, wigs 459 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,199 Speaker 3: the play, they have an Instagram handle and everything, And 460 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 3: I'm telling you she's getting more and more theater's book 461 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 3: throughout the fall. So it's going to be everywhere soon hopefully, 462 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 3: because this thing is really incredible. And look, I'm a 463 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 3: harsh critic of my daughter, and I will say. 464 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:17,359 Speaker 2: Oh, that's good. 465 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 3: I walked away from the first show saying, you have 466 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 3: a hit on your hands. We were laughing from start 467 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,159 Speaker 3: to finish, and you're a tough critic and you were 468 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 3: laughing to be so all ages. So Bean was laughing, 469 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,199 Speaker 3: Like I looked over and saw you guys, and I 470 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 3: was so happy because it was resonating and it was fun. 471 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 1: It is just it's such a good time. And it 472 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: opens with a drag queen who does the initial introductions 473 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:43,880 Speaker 1: to the audience. It shows you who the characters are, 474 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,120 Speaker 1: and then you get to pick and vote which wig 475 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: you want them. It is just a fun, a good 476 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: time and this week to be there and to see that, 477 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 1: and to see the friends come out to support her, 478 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 1: and to talk to them afterwards and actually say thank 479 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: you for being here, thank you for being here. It 480 00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 1: was just it was really really a cool Who knows 481 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 1: what's going to happen with the show, but it is 482 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 1: at this moment, after just three public shows, it is 483 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: a success no matter what happens to it later, because 484 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 1: she has made it this far and what she pulled 485 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: off is so impressive. 486 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you I'm really proud of her, not just 487 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 3: because of her creativity, creativity and how much work she's 488 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 3: put into this while she's working three different jobs because 489 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 3: she's moving out, getting her own place in just two weeks, 490 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 3: and she knows she's responsible for all the bills, so 491 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 3: she's hustling. But to be able to get theaters here 492 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 3: in New York to allow them to put this on, 493 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,159 Speaker 3: and she had to get a couple different theaters and 494 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 3: she's running around town doing it. But I love her hustle. 495 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 3: I love what she's doing to be a working actress. 496 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 3: She also has to have, you know, several other jobs 497 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 3: and also try to do what she loves. So it's 498 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 3: pretty cool to watch her start off like this making 499 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 3: something this cool and this funny. 500 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:54,239 Speaker 2: So look for it. 501 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 3: I mean, I hope that this just grows and gets 502 00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,439 Speaker 3: bigger and bigger. But it really was a highlight. And 503 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,879 Speaker 3: having you there, supporting her, supporting me, it was everything. 504 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 3: And to have you and Speen both there was awesome. 505 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 1: Sabine wanted, Sabine was scrapping, She adjusted, and he shows 506 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 1: the what was at eight o'clock? When was at nine thirty? 507 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: This twelve year old we got run in the streets 508 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,879 Speaker 1: in New York or a nine to thirty show. No, No, 509 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,359 Speaker 1: Sabin kicked. It was fun, It really really was. And 510 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 1: the final thing, it's something everybody knows. They listen to 511 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,680 Speaker 1: us Rose, they know I do most of the cook 512 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: What percentage of the cooking do I do in our relationship? 513 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: I'll let you say. 514 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 2: I would say ninety five percent. 515 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair, and that's fun and I enjoy it 516 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 1: and that's all good. But having the girls in the 517 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 1: house this summer, there's been a lot more cooking, yes, 518 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 1: and a lot less eating on my part because they 519 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:44,160 Speaker 1: come in and eat all the food that I cook. 520 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 1: Because they won't tell me ahead of time, Yes, we're 521 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 1: we're eating tonight as well. Can you make enough? No? No, 522 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,399 Speaker 1: no, no no. They'll say, nah, we got other plans. We 523 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: don't eat anything, and then they wait and then they 524 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: see the deliciousness and folds and then here they come. 525 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,359 Speaker 1: So that's been my experience. But Robes it was. And 526 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:08,120 Speaker 1: you know, I have known Eva since what twenty fifteen? Yeah, 527 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 1: go back as far as twenty fifteen or so. What 528 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 1: age was. 529 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 2: She she would have been like twelve thirteen years old. 530 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have known her since she hit teenage years. 531 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 1: This week I had the best experience, most engaging, and 532 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 1: most the experience with her. I'm most appreciative of happened 533 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 1: this week because I was at the house. I'm not 534 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: sure where you were. 535 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: I was working some other gig. 536 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: You were somewhere at the time, and at least was 537 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 1: I think working at the time as well. And so 538 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 1: it was just me and Eva at the house for 539 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 1: a little while, and we just got a chance to 540 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,400 Speaker 1: engage with nothing else around, nobody else around. I had 541 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,640 Speaker 1: to ask her about the play and who she's dating, 542 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 1: and all the tea from work and all these things. 543 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 1: And then at one point, this goes back to the cooking, 544 00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 1: I was asking her, well, you're gonna eat because that 545 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 1: was the night I was going to cook for you. Yes, 546 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,440 Speaker 1: but they weren't around and I was making for lates. 547 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was great. You actually went to Whole Foods 548 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 2: and got a whole meal planned. It was very sweet 549 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 2: and they weren't. 550 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 1: Gonna be able to make it, but I said, all right, 551 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: you do you want anything? I have shrimp in here. 552 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 1: You know that I make this shrimp dish she loves, 553 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 1: And I made a meal for and we just said 554 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 1: we had an hour, hour and a half just the 555 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: two of us to hang so I haven't I don't 556 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: think I've said this to this extent with you. It 557 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: was one of the best experiences I've had involving your family. 558 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,880 Speaker 2: That's great. I love that. That's well. 559 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 3: I walked in it was a long day and I 560 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:34,879 Speaker 3: came in and I saw the two of you, and 561 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 3: I saw her eating shrimp that you had made her, 562 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 3: and I was like, it really was one of my 563 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 3: favorite moments to come in and you weren't. You know. 564 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 3: It wasn't some like, oh look at what they're doing, 565 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 3: Look what It was just I caught a real sweet, intimate, 566 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 3: lovely moment that I really appreciated, and thank you for 567 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 3: being so kind. 568 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:54,920 Speaker 2: You know, when someone is is. 569 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 3: Goes out of their way for your child, it's the 570 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 3: biggest and nicest thing they could do, because when someone 571 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,640 Speaker 3: is kind of your child, it's like the biggest compliment 572 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 3: in a way. 573 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: Let me just say that was the moment I wasn't 574 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: going out of my way. That was There were things 575 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 1: that I mean, I had to organize the parties for 576 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: her and had to work my ass off to do 577 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:16,880 Speaker 1: some things that was going out of my way. This 578 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 1: was effortless and wanted and natural, and it was just 579 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 1: a really really cool moment. Anyway, I don't think i've talked. 580 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,159 Speaker 2: To you about it sharing that that much fun. 581 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, that was a part of my cooking. But 582 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 1: I've been doing a lot of cooking this week and 583 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 1: I've enjoyed. It's been fun. It's been communal at the house. 584 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 3: And guess what, ladies, here's the amazing thing. Not only 585 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 3: does he cook, but he actually cleans while he cooks, 586 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 3: and sometimes it's already clean by the time we're eating. 587 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 2: It's it's kind of remarkable. So thank you, baby. If 588 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 2: I don't say thank you enough, thank you, I don't 589 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 2: know where I learned. 590 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,920 Speaker 1: That trick, because it wasn't for my dad. He used 591 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: to cook and then he would announce I cooked. I 592 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,640 Speaker 1: ain't cleaning like we get it, dude. 593 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,639 Speaker 2: I like to clean while I cook too. Though it 594 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,400 Speaker 2: does help. It does help. Well, thank you, And. 595 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,400 Speaker 3: We had a we actually had a really really really 596 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 3: nice week in the middle of a lot of chaos, and. 597 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 1: A really really nice weekend coming up and a really 598 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 1: nice week ahead me and all the girls. We're going 599 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:14,679 Speaker 1: to be spending some time, getting a little time out 600 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,479 Speaker 1: of the city. But it's how many girls are involved 601 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:18,040 Speaker 1: in this weekend. 602 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 3: Well, it's going to total very but it's going to 603 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 3: be one, two, three, four, five, six girls and TEJ 604 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 3: that's being included in the group. 605 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:27,439 Speaker 2: Yes, I included. 606 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,400 Speaker 3: I think it might be six or seven because there's 607 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,880 Speaker 3: a couple overlap and some kids are coming and going. 608 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 1: Okay, but it's good. We're going to get out. We're 609 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 1: going to do some more parenting, yes, for the next week, 610 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 1: but we'll keep you posted and updated about exactly what 611 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,919 Speaker 1: are our deal is this coming week. But it'll be fun. 612 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,359 Speaker 1: But hope you're getting a chance to recover. We didn't 613 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 1: do so good about it for a couple of weeks there, 614 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:51,160 Speaker 1: but we have in the past few weeks really turning 615 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 1: it around and it has been indoluable. So I hope 616 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:54,919 Speaker 1: you all take the time to do so. 617 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 2: All right, well, thank you so much for listening to us. Everybody. 618 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 2: I'm Amy Roebuck alongside t J. Holmes. 619 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 3: We hope you have a wonderful, relaxing Saturday.