1 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby Bones here, We're back with another Sunday 2 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: Sampler episode, highlights from five podcasts on the Nashville Podcast Network. 3 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: So let's go. 4 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 1: This week on four Things with Amy Brown, Amy talked 5 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: with content creator, comedian, and TikTok star Danae. Hayes about 6 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: turning her childhood anxiety into confidence and comedy. You can 7 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: hear a lunchbox this trip to the casino in North 8 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: Dakota as part of Sore Losers and I sat down 9 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: with Thomas Rhett. We basically had a small therapy session. 10 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: And let's start it off with that. Here is a 11 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 1: clip from the Bobby Cast with Thomas Rhett. If you 12 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: were to get on your TikTok, what do you see 13 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: on yours? Because of what you're looking at? 14 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 3: Can I be very honest with you? 15 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'd rather not lie unless it's a 16 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: really good lie. 17 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 3: I haven't been on social media since January. 18 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: Oh that's great. 19 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: That's even weirder and better than what you would have said. Yeah, 20 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: why because I'd really go down that road. 21 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 22 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 4: It was getting to a point where, I mean, it 23 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 4: sounds super cliche to say it, but it was just 24 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 4: taking up so much of my time, you know what 25 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 4: I mean. And I was finding so much of my 26 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 4: worth in a post, and like, especially since all the 27 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 4: algorithm stuff changed, you started to get you started to 28 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 4: be like man, like I used to post videos and 29 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 4: they'd get like a million views, no doubt. And then 30 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 4: you start to see this thing of like, Okay, my 31 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 4: views are starting to go down. Does that mean that 32 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 4: I am starting to suck more? You know what I'm saying, Like, 33 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 4: that's what That's what my brain would tell me. 34 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 1: That's what I think. 35 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 2: That's I think it's probably everybody creative. I think that 36 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 2: is absolutely fair. 37 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,639 Speaker 4: And so you know, then you would like put songs 38 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 4: out and then some people would think they were really cool, 39 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 4: and then some people would just hate on them. And 40 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 4: then you start to see all the people in our 41 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,919 Speaker 4: genre that the bloggers just be like, this is terror, 42 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 4: this is trash, Thomas Repp music, this is not what 43 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 4: he's best at all these kinds of things. And so 44 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 4: then you start making music out of fear. You start 45 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 4: my produce. One of my producer's name, Julian said, you 46 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 4: can't work out of hit desperation, you have to work 47 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 4: out of hit inspiration. And I think for a while there, dude, 48 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 4: I was working out of hit desperation because I was 49 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 4: so terrified of what this genre would think about what 50 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 4: I thought was cool that it got to a point 51 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 4: where I just wanted to write what I think they 52 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 4: think would be cool. 53 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: It's a lot of predicting going on. 54 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 4: A lot of predicting of being like, well, maybe if 55 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 4: I write songs that sort of feel like a loop 56 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 4: Coms thing, then these people will kind of think. I'm like, 57 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 4: okay again, you know what I'm saying, And maybe if 58 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 4: I can do some of this stuff that like Morgan 59 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 4: is doing, then maybe this group will think that I 60 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 4: maybe I can fit into that group. 61 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: But I didn't like get here by ever fitting into 62 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 3: a group. 63 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 2: You actually did the opposite. 64 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 4: I did the complete opposite, and so I started to 65 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 4: really not be myself anymore, just kind of lamed right 66 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 4: with honestly just vanilla, straight down the middle stuff. 67 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: Okay, what was the bottom for you that made you go? 68 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: I got to get I have to because something had 69 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: to happen for you to go. I got to make 70 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: a change in my life. 71 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, it was. 72 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 2: It was. 73 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 4: It was around Christmas time last year, and like I 74 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,519 Speaker 4: kind of go into weird places when I'm off the 75 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:10,559 Speaker 4: road because. 76 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 3: It feels like a therapy. Are all your podcasts like 77 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 3: therapy sessions, like. 78 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: Hey buddy, I am who am? 79 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 3: Okay? 80 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 1: I go to a lot of therapy myself, say, you know, 81 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: maybe same. 82 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 4: But when I'm off the road is is a really 83 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 4: challenging time for me because when you're on the road, 84 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:28,359 Speaker 4: you're getting three straight nights of like dopamine. 85 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 2: Celebration, Yes love, how are you? 86 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:31,239 Speaker 5: Yes? 87 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 6: Yes? 88 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 4: And then you come home and I love my children 89 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 4: and I love my wife. It is the complete opposite. 90 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 4: It's like retractable dopamine, if that makes any sense. 91 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: I mean, I will leave a stage being told I'm 92 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: the funniest person in the whole world by a couple 93 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: thousand people are and then my wife's like, you did 94 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: not take out the trash and she loved me more 95 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: than they ever will for sure. But you're right, the 96 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: dope it is not and you you just feel it's 97 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: a different kind of loneliness, no doubt. 98 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, so you know I was off the road. I've 99 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 4: been off the road for like two or three months 100 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 4: and just constantly in my freaking phone, you know what 101 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 4: I mean, Like my kids are like literally asking me 102 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 4: questions upon question and I'm literally just I can't. I'm 103 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 4: not even hearing them because I'm just here. And so yeah, 104 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 4: it was like January first. It was like one of 105 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,359 Speaker 4: my like New Year's you know, resolution type things that 106 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 4: I thought would last for like two weeks because I've 107 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 4: never really fully quit social media. And then yeah, January, man, 108 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 4: I haven't. I haven't even seen an app since January. 109 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 4: So I hired a team. I mean, everything that we 110 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 4: post is from me. It's just that I'm not physically 111 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 4: on scrolling looking at the comments doing the stuff. 112 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: Weh I got a message from you to day. I 113 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 1: send you a much Apple gift cards because you said 114 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: I needed to send you that. Oh my gosh, you 115 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 1: were like any Apple gift cards and bitcoin? So I 116 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 1: sent you good So you sent yeah, yeah, so you 117 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: should have that. 118 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 2: Yeah that wasn't you. 119 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: I was the son of a gun. I got scammed again. 120 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: Good self awareness. I think we all know. I have 121 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: a friend. You know him too. He's one of my 122 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 1: best friends. I won't say his name here, but he 123 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: locks his apps up. He has a it's not Dirk's, 124 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: but Dirk's also does this but he goes to a 125 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: flip phone at different times during the month when he's 126 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: starting to feel a little anxious, and then when he's 127 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 1: not and he's on his smartphone, there is an app, Oh, 128 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: I don't care, hey, get on its Twitter Twitter. 129 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 2: It's a Twitter notification, don't forget to me. 130 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,919 Speaker 1: He has an app that locks all of his social 131 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 1: media up at like five pm and you can't get off. 132 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 2: You can't get on it unless you have the code. 133 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: The only person has his code as manager, and so 134 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: he is. 135 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 4: I would like delete it off my phone every day 136 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 4: and then just redownload it. 137 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: I would do that and then just then get on 138 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: the internet on my computer and then do like the 139 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: browser version. 140 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 2: I'd be like, well, I'm. 141 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: Kind of you, you know, I have a weird relationship 142 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: with social media, but I think that self awareness is like, 143 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: that's extremely valuable that you found that. Do you think 144 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 1: you'll ever go back? 145 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 4: Probably at some point in time. And I've quit a 146 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 4: couple of things this year that I mean, I quit 147 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 4: nicotine this year, which I have. 148 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 3: I love nicotine so much. 149 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 7: Never had it. 150 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: What's good about it? 151 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 2: Get me started? 152 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 1: Like, sell me on it? 153 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 4: I don't know, I mean, I started dipping when I 154 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 4: was like, you know, eighteen years old, grizzly winter green. 155 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 4: And then when I turned like twenty eight, I started 156 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 4: using this stuff called zen. 157 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: Is that in the packs. 158 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like it's like just nicotine and mint, and 159 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 4: like it kind of just became I'm trying to quit 160 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 4: things that are crutches for me, you know what I'm saying. 161 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 4: Like social media was a crutch. It was the place 162 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,479 Speaker 4: where I went where I needed validation, but then it 163 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 4: was the place that I hated when it didn't validate me, 164 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, polar And so nicotine was 165 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 4: kind of like that crutch for me. It was just 166 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 4: like when I felt nervous nicotine, when I felt weird nicotine, 167 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 4: when I felt happy nicotine. It was like always just 168 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 4: a thing. And so I mean I haven't been off 169 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 4: of it that long, but it's been been three weeks, 170 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 4: which is the longest ever gone. 171 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 8: Be kind good, cast up little food for yourself life. 172 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 2: Oh it's pretty bad. 173 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 7: It's pretty beautiful, beautiful that for. 174 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 8: A little more, said he can you're kicking it with 175 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 8: full with Amy Brown. 176 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 6: That's when Zoloff came into play. Is I needed something 177 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 6: to in other words, maybe numb some of those obsessive thoughts. 178 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 6: So I do think a lot of my creativity stems 179 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 6: from trauma. I think if you talk to any comedian, 180 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 6: I think there's some form of trauma in that lineage. 181 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 6: And that's kind of a messed up thing about it is. 182 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 9: I think in order to really. 183 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 6: Be funny, sometimes you have to equal the scales, and 184 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 6: you have to have trauma equal that out. I can 185 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 6: only really think of one comedian that doesn't have some 186 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 6: form of trauma, and that's Adam Sandler. 187 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 2: And he talks about it. 188 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 6: He's like, I'm a rare bird in this business. I'm 189 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 6: one of the only comedians that doesn't have some form 190 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 6: of craziness that's happened to him to make me funny. 191 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 5: Do you know Trey Kennedy, Oh yeah, Well he was 192 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 5: on the podcast last month and he's like Adam Sandler, 193 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 5: a rare comedian who's humor didn't come from a sad place. 194 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 5: But gosh, you know, I'm still thinking about zoloft at 195 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 5: eleven years old. I mean, what happened with your personality, 196 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 5: your creativity? I don't know, did any of that change? 197 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 5: Did you feel it change? 198 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? 199 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 6: I mean, it goes from being this loud, goofy center 200 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 6: of attention kid that is so joyful and goofy too, 201 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 6: she starts becoming crippled with obsessive compulsive disorder. And then 202 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 6: at that point it's almost like a trade off, like 203 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 6: would you rather be crippled with OCD or would you 204 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 6: rather some sort of medication be able to numb your 205 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,439 Speaker 6: brain just enough to where you don't have to touch 206 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 6: the doorknobs seventeen times? So I think for myself and 207 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 6: for my parents, I mean, I can't speak for them now, 208 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 6: but I think for myself, it's like, had my mom 209 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 6: and my dad just said, you know what, you're ten, 210 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:16,680 Speaker 6: you're eleven, let's not worry about who you find cute 211 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 6: and who's attractive. Why don't we just keep an open 212 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 6: line of communication and until you're old enough to start 213 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 6: dating somebody where you can put those thoughts into action, 214 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 6: let's at least make sure there's an open line of communication. 215 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 6: And I will say, my dad, there's always been that 216 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 6: open line of communication there, And he's now expressed to 217 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 6: me sobbing how upset he was that he allowed that 218 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 6: to happen to me and him and I've had so 219 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 6: many open conversations now about how he just didn't want 220 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 6: me to be the loner kid in high school where 221 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 6: everybody knew I was different and I was gay in 222 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 6: a small southern town in Alabama. He was like, I 223 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 6: just wanted selfishly to you to keep that a secret 224 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 6: until you could go to college and be around people 225 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 6: that were more open minded, and he goes, I feel 226 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 6: so flawed now in the way that I'm thinking, But 227 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 6: that's where my mind was at in two thousand and 228 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 6: three in the deep south of Alabama. But like, my 229 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 6: mother is still very rigid on those beliefs. I haven't 230 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 6: spoke to her in seven years now because since Mandy 231 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 6: and I and my wife now have been together, she's 232 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 6: been very rigid and using the ideology that you can't 233 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 6: be gay and also be a Christian. 234 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 2: So she's stuck with that. 235 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 6: My parents are divorced now, but she about to ask, Yeah, 236 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 6: she's stuck with that mindset and she hasn't swayed from it. 237 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 6: My dad, on the other hand, is like, if he 238 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 6: could go back this second, he would go back and 239 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 6: not allow me to go through that. But there's this 240 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 6: story that I always tell because I think it shows 241 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 6: a depiction of the marriage that they were in while 242 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 6: they were having a child that was dealing with that. 243 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 6: The first time they took me to a psychiatrist, they 244 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 6: had done their research and they had taken me to 245 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:52,479 Speaker 6: this band and he had. 246 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 10: This frizzy, curly hair. It was kind of like all 247 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 10: over the place, and he was dressed really casually, and 248 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 10: we sat on his couch in his office and he 249 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 10: was like, well, today, why aren't you telling me why 250 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 10: you think you're here? 251 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 6: And I said, well, I think I'm here because I 252 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 6: touched the door knob a lot, and I obsess over 253 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 6: thoughts and I wake my parents up in the middle 254 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 6: of the night to apologize for my thoughts. 255 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 2: Like things I hadn't even told him about. I was 256 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 2: apologizing for That's how bad it was. 257 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 6: And he goes, okay, okay, Well, I'm going to ask 258 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 6: your parents to go outside per second, and you and 259 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 6: I are going to continue this conversation. So they left, 260 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 6: and he goes, why do you think you touched the 261 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 6: doorknobs so many times? And I said, I'm just always nervous. 262 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 6: And he goes, what are you nervous about? And I said, well, 263 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 6: I'm just nervous that I'm thinking about things I shouldn't 264 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 6: think about. And he goes, well, what are you thinking about? 265 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 6: And he just dissected it one question at a time, 266 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 6: and I was like, ooh, I'm gonna have to say it, 267 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 6: and I have to tell somebody other than my parents. 268 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 6: And I go, well, I'm nervous that liking girls is wrong. 269 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 6: And that man looked at me and he goes, what's 270 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 6: so wrong about that? And I just stared at. 271 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 9: This guy, like all right, is this a trick question? 272 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 6: And he goes, it doesn't matter. He goes, You're just 273 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 6: a little kid. And I remember I got back in 274 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 6: the car with my parents. We were headed to go 275 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 6: to Arby's to get something to eat, good old Arby's, 276 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 6: and my mom my dad was driving wo my mom 277 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 6: propped her arm up on the passenger chair and she 278 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 6: swiveled and she looked at me in the backseat and 279 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 6: she goes, well, tonay, what did he say? And I 280 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 6: was so overjoyed about getting relief that I said he said, 281 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 6: there's nothing wrong with who you like. You can let 282 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:30,959 Speaker 6: girls or boys. And my mom hauled off and punched 283 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 6: my dad in his arm and said, I thought you 284 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 6: booked a Christian counselor, and then the entire energy shifted 285 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 6: in the car. So from that moment forward, I realized 286 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 6: that I had developed a belief that you can't like 287 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 6: God and trust God and also like girls if you're 288 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 6: a girl. A week later, they took me to the 289 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 6: psychologist that specialized in homosexuality, and that was the guy 290 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 6: who instilled in me every single time I saw him 291 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 6: was it's not a sin, and to think about robbing 292 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 6: the bank. You can think all you want, Tony, but 293 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 6: it is a sin to rob the bank. So we 294 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 6: would go over things like that every day or every 295 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 6: time that I saw him, And that was the guy 296 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 6: who put me on sol off. 297 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 2: But I could see it. 298 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 6: In that moment. My dad was doing his best to 299 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:22,839 Speaker 6: live in a happy marriage while also not trying to 300 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 6: upset his wife while also trying to predict his kid. 301 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 6: And it was I know it was hard for him 302 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,839 Speaker 6: because my mother's beliefs were so rigid, which is why 303 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 6: you know they're obviously not married anymore. 304 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, that'll make things hard. 305 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 9: Let's do alive. 306 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 7: Oh the what you losers? What up? Everybody? I am lunchbox. 307 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,079 Speaker 7: I know the most about sports soggy of the sports facts, 308 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 7: my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius. 309 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 9: What up, y'all? 310 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 11: At his sisson, I'm from the North, I'm in Alpha Male. 311 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 11: I live on the West side of Nashville with Baser, 312 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 11: my wife. We do have a white picket fence at 313 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 11: the apartment complex. Soon I'm gonna have two point five kids. 314 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 11: And yes, sadly, I will die of a heart attack 315 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 11: when I'm seventy two years old. Here's a clip from 316 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 11: the last podcast. 317 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 2: So we go. 318 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 7: We go to Benny Hannah. Oh yeah, can we get 319 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 7: in for two? Do you have a reservation? 320 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 10: No? 321 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 7: Okay, to be about fifteen minutes. 322 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 9: Congratulations, cool engagement. 323 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 7: All right, So we sit back. We're sitting there. Fifteen 324 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 7: minutes comes nothing. 325 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 9: These guys think we're together. 326 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 7: Twenty five minutes nothing. 327 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 9: You got to get the hell out. Another high worker. 328 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 7: Thirty two minutes. Your table is ready. 329 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 9: Yeah, thirty two minutes too late. 330 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 7: So now we have an hour and eight minutes until 331 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 7: we have to be back at the airport. If we 332 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 7: want to be back in time for boarding, get out. 333 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 7: And so we sit there and we're all around the 334 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,239 Speaker 7: hibachi grill. There's another husband, wife, there kid. 335 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 9: And then uh so three husbands and then a married 336 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 9: couple and you and Kevin. Yet four husbands? 337 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 7: No, no, no, just a husband and wife, their kid, another 338 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 7: husband and wife, and then Kevin and I. 339 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 9: So there's how long have you guys been dating? We're not? 340 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 7: Oh, four husbands? I see what you did there? 341 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 9: Got it? 342 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 7: Never mind, I got it. So we're sitting there, I'm 343 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 7: happily married, sitting there, not cheating. And it's about nine minutes, 344 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 7: tall man, ten minutes and Kevin started getting nervous. He's 345 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 7: starting to rock back and forth, and he's like, dude, 346 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 7: I think we got a bail. 347 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 9: Can you imagine me? 348 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 7: Oh no, no, you would have never left the airport. You 349 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 7: would have left airport. And I'm like, I mean, I 350 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 7: don't know, dude, Like I think, I think we're good. 351 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 7: I mean, as long as they take an order any minute, now, 352 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 7: you know. And then it's like fourteen minutes, and I'm like, 353 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 7: he's going, I'm gonna go ask the host is how 354 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 7: long it takes for them to cook the hibachi. I'm 355 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 7: sure they got a real number on that one, and 356 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 7: usually it's seated my pain, And I'm like, okay, yeah, 357 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 7: go ask her. And he comes back and he goes, 358 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 7: we gotta go. I said, what's wrong? Goes, The hibachi 359 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 7: experience is one hour thirty minutes. That's twenty two minutes 360 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 7: longer than one minute and eight seconds minutes. Yeah, and 361 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 7: I'm like, yeah, that means we would be missing our flight. 362 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 7: So let's go. So we went across the hall to Crave. 363 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 7: Did you pay for anything? 364 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 12: No? 365 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 7: No, we didn't even get to order anyother hack. So 366 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 7: you can go sit at a benni hana table for free, 367 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 7: for free, absolutely free, dude. If you guys ever want 368 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 7: to do haibachi, just walk in, have them seat you 369 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 7: around the table, and lead before they take your order. 370 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 7: No charge. He great. You get to see everything you 371 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 7: want because you can watch them cook at another ubachi grill. 372 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 7: You get the entertainment value and it's absolutely free. 373 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 9: So you guys are hailing cabs. 374 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 7: No, So we're going over to Crave, which is the 375 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 7: restaurant right across the hall, because we got to eat. 376 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 7: You guys are restaurant hopping with an hour left. Yeah, 377 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 7: and we sit down. 378 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 9: I knew the eating was gonna be a problem, and. 379 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 7: We sit down. No one comes by. 380 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 9: No one comes by, am I in some sort of 381 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 9: joke video. Is this April Fools? 382 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 7: Nine minutes in, Kevin's like, dude, I think we just 383 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 7: got to go. I think we gotta go back to 384 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 7: that Chick fil A in the food court. I'm like, dude, 385 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 7: we got plenty of time. He's like, I don't think 386 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 7: they know we're here. 387 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 9: Crazy world. Chick fil A went third usually that's number one. 388 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 7: And he's like, dude, I think I think we gotta go. 389 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 7: I'm like, dude, we got plenty of time. And then 390 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 7: a guy comes walking by and goes, oh my gosh, 391 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 7: so sorry guys, didn't know you guys were here. 392 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 9: Yeah, we're customers. We were at your restaurant. 393 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 7: And Kevin's like, I told you, and he was like, oh, 394 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 7: let me, let me put this down. I'll come back 395 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:40,880 Speaker 7: and you know, help you out. And he comes back 396 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,440 Speaker 7: with waters and he asks us we want something to drink. 397 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 7: We order a couple of cocktails and then he's like, 398 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:48,159 Speaker 7: you know, I'll give you the time to look are 399 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 7: the menu. Kevin goes, no, we got to order now. 400 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 7: And when we got a flight to catch and we 401 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 7: got to be out of here in forty minutes. This 402 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 7: trip just got serious and he's like okay, and he 403 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,640 Speaker 7: was like you think we canknew? That Guy's like yeah, 404 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 7: no problem. So we order, we eat, no problem, he 405 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:05,119 Speaker 7: brings the check. It's time to go. Mall is closed though, 406 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 7: like it is nine. It's past nine pm. Oh so 407 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 7: where we wanted to exit, right outside the Macy's. That's 408 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 7: where the Benni Hannas is. Couldn't do it. We had 409 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 7: to walk down a little bit and go down one 410 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:16,160 Speaker 7: of the main entrances. 411 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 9: Dude. 412 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 7: So we call the you know, the uber. It comes. 413 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,400 Speaker 7: We get back to the airport. Our flight was at 414 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 7: ten thirty eight and we're there at ten. No problem, right, 415 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 7: and we walk in the door and I looked at 416 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:32,160 Speaker 7: my left and it says security line less than five 417 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 7: minutes security. 418 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 13: Eh. 419 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 7: So we walked down there and there's two like got 420 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 7: normal cops and they're like Mountain's up there, like Canadian police. 421 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 7: Now they got the normal cops, they got the normal TSA, 422 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 7: normal everything. 423 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 9: How's it going, guys? 424 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 7: I loved that show Canadian Border, but I don't think 425 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 7: Minneapolis is on the border, man, I don't think we 426 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 7: were near Canada. 427 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 9: Your damnos Canada, brohs. 428 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 7: Minneapolis, close to Canada. No idea, no idea. So we 429 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 7: get to the security line, right and there's two guys 430 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 7: like workers, and they're pushing wheelchairs, like to take them 431 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 7: back wherever behind security. And then there's one behind us 432 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 7: and he's like, excuse me, excuse. 433 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 9: Me that one NFL player will sit in one and 434 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 9: use one for his luggage. 435 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 7: But oh god, then he gets in a fight. That 436 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 7: was a great that was a good video, look it up. 437 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 7: And then he's like excuse me. I was like, why 438 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 7: do you think you're going in front of me? Dude, 439 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:23,119 Speaker 7: You're not pushing anybody. You just got an empty wheelchair, 440 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 7: you know. And I'm like just standing there, and the 441 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 7: two guys walk up and they get through, and then 442 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 7: I walk up and the guy goes, are you a 443 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:31,160 Speaker 7: normal citizen. 444 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 9: Yes, Nashville. 445 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 7: And I'm like yeah, and he goes, this is the 446 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,679 Speaker 7: wrong entrance. This is the wrong entrance. 447 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 9: How many people are there? 448 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 7: Five? There's literally the two guys pushing wheelchairs in front 449 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:47,479 Speaker 7: of me, a blondeaded girl that had a suitcase, great body, 450 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 7: Kevin me and the guy behind me with the wheelchair. 451 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 7: So I was like I didn't know where to go. 452 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 7: I'm sorry. He goes like, you need to go back 453 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 7: over there, go back over there, and he goes, this 454 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 7: is the wrong this is for employees. But it's fine, 455 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 7: move back over there any points, And so I moved 456 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 7: back against the wall where he pointed, goes, no, not 457 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,879 Speaker 7: over there, not over there, right here. 458 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 9: Why could I not have seen this right here? 459 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 7: And I and I said, you said, and he goes, 460 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 7: right here, not over there. I wanted him to go 461 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 7: over there. Sorry, And he's talking about the wheelchair guy. 462 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:33,199 Speaker 7: He wanted him over there and me over here, and 463 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 7: I'm like, okay, Like do I need to go to 464 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 7: another and right here? Just stand right here? And I'm like, okay, 465 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 7: all right, I'll just stand right here. I'm sorry. I 466 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:47,360 Speaker 7: didn't know you every idea. Here's your idea. I'm going 467 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 7: have a nice fight, man, and I'm my mypolar okay, cool, 468 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 7: And then tell him he needs some lithium. Then we're 469 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 7: going through and the wheelchair guy has a bottle of 470 00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 7: water and the TSA is I, hey, man, I need 471 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 7: to see that, and he's like, no. 472 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 9: Yeah, three one one rule, No, no, no. 473 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 7: It's my water, and he goes, I just need to 474 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 7: look at it. He's like, look at my water and 475 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 7: he's like yeah, and he goes, just sit right there 476 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 7: in your wheelchair, just I just got to run a 477 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,439 Speaker 7: test on it. So the wheelchair guy sits in his 478 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 7: own wheelchair that he's pushing to go pick up a 479 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,439 Speaker 7: customer while they check his water, and Kevin and I 480 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 7: get through and I'm just like, were we on the 481 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,880 Speaker 7: show punked? Is this Canadian exposure? Where the hell are 482 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 7: you guys? I don't know. 483 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 14: Carl n she's a queen and talking, so she's getting 484 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 14: really not afraid to feats, So just let flu no 485 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 14: one getting we QUI carl. 486 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 2: Is carel. 487 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 12: It's Caroline Hobby. This week on Get Real, I talked 488 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 12: to Jin Drummond, who is the world record holder. She 489 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 12: climbed all the seven second summits in the world. 490 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 13: She's the only woman to do it. 491 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 12: We talked about her mind blowing story, how she survived 492 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 12: recovering from a horrific car accident, the timeline of her 493 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 12: journey living life on autopilot. She's a mom to seven kids, 494 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 12: and she says, we don't get to choose how we died, 495 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 12: but we do get to choose how we live. Check 496 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 12: it out. 497 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 15: You are that woman who has had the absolutely most 498 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 15: mind blowing story that could really you really had permission. 499 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,920 Speaker 2: Nobody would have been mad at you if you would. 500 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 15: Have thrown in the towel on your life after you 501 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 15: had a massive car accident that I'm sure I can't 502 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 15: even imagine the recovery process mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, all 503 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:53,199 Speaker 15: of it. 504 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 7: But you didn't. 505 00:22:55,560 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 15: You did the exact freaking opposite. And I just actually 506 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,439 Speaker 15: of chillsen want to cry thinking about it, and I 507 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 15: don't want to even attempt to tell your story. So 508 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 15: I would love for everyone listening to get to hear 509 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:09,920 Speaker 15: your journey that you have been on. 510 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,200 Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, So let's start with the car accident. 511 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 13: Because the car accident was a line in the sand. Definitely, 512 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 13: I was doing life bit on autopilot. 513 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 2: You are, yeah right. I mean I wasn't unhappy. 514 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,439 Speaker 13: I wasn't I wouldn't say I was thriving, but I 515 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 13: wasn't like struggling. 516 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 2: It was just fine. It was fine. 517 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 13: I was going through the motions, and I kept selling 518 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:36,360 Speaker 13: myself on the concept that when my kids are older, 519 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,920 Speaker 13: I'll come back to me and what sets my heart 520 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 13: on fire. But right now. This is my lot in life, 521 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 13: and this is what I'm supposed to do. And who 522 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 13: even is that person that determines that's supposed to do 523 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 13: but myself. But I kind of felt it. You know, 524 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 13: seven kids, I have seven kids exactly, I'm not sitting here. 525 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 15: I have one kid who's three, and I literally she's 526 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 15: consumed my entire existence. You know, it's like you've got 527 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 15: seven existence consumers. So it's like, then you have your own. 528 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 15: There's no time for you, right, There's really no time, right. 529 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 13: So you're just saying, They're like, Okay, this is the 530 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:12,880 Speaker 13: reputable good thing to do. 531 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 16: So this is what I'm going to do. 532 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,199 Speaker 13: Thank you for society for telling me this path. I 533 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:23,360 Speaker 13: get into a horrific car accident December eighteen, twenty eighteen. 534 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:25,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was. 535 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 13: I had to go to Hebrew, Utah, which is a 536 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,120 Speaker 13: sound town nearby, to get a new driver's license because 537 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 13: I lost my license why skiing. And when I was 538 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 13: driving back, I was looking at the reservoir on the 539 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 13: right hand side of the road and I remember thinking, oh, wow, 540 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,440 Speaker 13: I wonder when it's going to freeze over this year, 541 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 13: because winter's been kind of late to the party and 542 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 13: even though we have ski at the resort, that's just 543 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 13: because they've made all the snow. We don't really have 544 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 13: snow other places. And it's global, you know all the things. 545 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 13: Your brain just starts running. And then I pay attention 546 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:59,640 Speaker 13: to the road again, and I am coming up extremely 547 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,639 Speaker 13: fast on a semi pulling a trailer that is going 548 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 13: extremely slow. And so I'm looking at this thinking I 549 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 13: have to get into left lane. So I look in 550 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 13: every of your mirror. I go to get into the 551 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 13: left lane. I don't make it. The semi kind of 552 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 13: had this trailer pop pop out a little bit. The 553 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:22,439 Speaker 13: corner of my passenger side headlight hits. I go end 554 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:27,959 Speaker 13: over ins, I rotate one, two, three times, and then 555 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 13: the car starts spinning sideways. I end up in the median. 556 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 13: The car stops. I remember thinking, okay, now I'm going 557 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:37,439 Speaker 13: to get hit. Now I'm going to get hit by 558 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,760 Speaker 13: another car. And this is where Hollywood's trained us to 559 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:43,879 Speaker 13: expect the car act to keep continuing, and instead, an 560 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 13: individual pulls down the windshield because it's all shattered into 561 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 13: little pieces. 562 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 2: He's like, are you okay? 563 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:50,119 Speaker 7: Are you okay? 564 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 1: Are you okay? 565 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 13: I look at him, looking at his face, I'm like, 566 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 13: I don't think I'm okay if that's what you're looking 567 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,360 Speaker 13: at me like, but I don't even want to look 568 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 13: at myself because I'm too fraid. So I closed my 569 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 13: eyes and I wiggled my fingers and toes and I 570 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 13: said out loud, I can feel my fingers and toes. 571 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,400 Speaker 13: I can feel my fingers and toes, as if saying 572 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 13: it twice makes it more real. And he's like, I'm 573 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,440 Speaker 13: assuming you're okay. Then I'm like, I'm oking. I can 574 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 13: feel my fingers and toes. 575 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 2: So I took an ambulance ride. 576 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 13: To the hospital. 577 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 2: The hospital did a check up. 578 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 7: I was fine. 579 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 13: I got released to go home. I did end up 580 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 13: going to the hospital a couple more times over the 581 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 13: next few weeks because I was fine, like fine, like 582 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,159 Speaker 13: zero set fine. 583 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 2: I was fine. 584 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 13: The police rebuilt the accident at least fifty different times 585 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 13: to see if they could figure out like how it 586 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 13: happened and how to make this area safer and blah 587 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 13: blah blah blah blah, and they could not build one 588 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 13: scenario where I lived, And I was, why do you 589 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 13: think you lived? 590 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 2: I mean I think I was. 591 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 13: It wasn't my time like, I'm a firm believer that 592 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,399 Speaker 13: we don't get to choose when we die, but we 593 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 13: sure get to choose how we live. And it was 594 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 13: a wake up call to me saying, girl, you need 595 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 13: to start living. Holy sh schreister. 596 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 15: We don't get to choose when we die, but we 597 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 15: do get to choose how we live. That is profound 598 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 15: and I just I feel exactly what you're saying, Like, 599 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 15: you had a fine life. You're going through the motions. 600 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,439 Speaker 15: I feel like so many of us do that, and 601 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 15: then you get to the end You're like, what in 602 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,880 Speaker 15: the world I didn't do any of my dreams or passions. 603 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 15: I mean, it was all okay and good, but we 604 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 15: came here to experience and to live. And I feel 605 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,160 Speaker 15: like I finally am realizing that because when you're born 606 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 15: into society, I mean, you're on the conveyor belt immediately. 607 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 15: You know, it is really hard to realize to get 608 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 15: out of this whole story we've been told and the 609 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,880 Speaker 15: whole setup that we're living in, as far as the society, 610 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 15: which there's a lot of great things, but we're taught 611 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 15: that you have to get a job, you have to 612 00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 15: make money, and that's it, you know, right. 613 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 13: Right right, Yeah, no, totally, And it was just I mean, 614 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 13: it had to be that extreme of an event for 615 00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 13: me to snap out of my current way of doing things. 616 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 2: Hello, it is Mike d from The Bobby Bone Show. 617 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,360 Speaker 16: This is a clip from my podcast movie Mike's Movie Podcast, 618 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,920 Speaker 16: where I gave my top five summer movies of all time. 619 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 16: Check out this episode to hear what movies made my 620 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 16: entire list. 621 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 2: You can also hear spoiler free movie reviews. 622 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 16: I break down the latest and greatest movie trailers. It's 623 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 16: all there for. 624 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 2: You right now. 625 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 16: But here is my number one Summer movie of all time. 626 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 16: But at number one the movie I feel in Body 627 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 16: Summer one hundred percent throughout this entire movie. It is 628 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 16: the nineteen ninety five now cult comedy co written by 629 00:28:56,880 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 16: Judd Apatow. It stars Ben Stiller as a uniac fitness 630 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 16: instructor who terrorizes the kid's fat camp until the kids 631 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 16: overtake the camp. It is Heavyweights, and I feel like 632 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 16: you look at this movie now and say they couldn't 633 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 16: make this movie today. And I am speaking to you 634 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 16: as a former self proclaimed fat kid. I was overweight 635 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 16: my entire life as far back as I could remember. 636 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 16: Which caused me to feel like the outcast. I was bullied, 637 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 16: picked on, made fun of, and even now as an adult, 638 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 16: sometimes I just revert back to that same kid who 639 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 16: was in third grade and thinking that, man, life is 640 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 16: never really. 641 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 2: Going to get any better than this. I'm always going 642 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 2: to be the overweight kid. 643 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 16: And it wasn't until I was exposed to this movie 644 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 16: where it actually didn't have a whole lot of success 645 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 16: in theaters. Disney didn't know what to do with this movie. 646 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 16: It was a live action movie that didn't really fit 647 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 16: the Disney brand, so they didn't really shelf it. But 648 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 16: kind of like what I was saying with that venture Land, 649 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 16: they didn't really know how to promote this movie, and 650 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 16: Ben Stiller didn't even want to be used in the 651 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 16: promotional material for this movie. He asked for his image 652 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 16: not to be included in the poster or the trailer. 653 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 2: So that was a big hit to this movie. 654 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 16: You take your biggest star of the movie and can't 655 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 16: use him when selling this movie. The original trailer was 656 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 16: a bit of a mess and didn't really give you 657 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 16: what this movie was about. And as I was saying, 658 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 16: you think, oh, you couldn't make this movie today, but 659 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 16: I don't really look at it this way. I don't 660 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 16: really think this movie was made with the intention of 661 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 16: making fun of overweight kids. And this is coming as 662 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 16: somebody who was overweight their entire life until they made 663 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,120 Speaker 16: the decision to get healthy. And something that I struggle 664 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 16: with a lot was, you know, getting made fun of 665 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 16: and a lot of times that happens in movies where 666 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 16: the overweight character is the butt of every single joke, 667 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 16: and to be completely honest, you get sick of it. 668 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 16: You think, why is somebody like me always depicted in 669 00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 16: that way, always as the bozo, the one messing things up, 670 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 16: and never the hero of the movie. And it wasn't 671 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 16: until Heavyweights that I realized, look, we can be cool, 672 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 16: we can be the stars of movies. This was the 673 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 16: first time I looked at a cast of a film, 674 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 16: looked at the poster, and I saw kids that look 675 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 16: like me, and we're funny, and you were able to 676 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 16: see that, Oh, they are just regular people and we 677 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 16: should be telling more stories like this. So I don't 678 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 16: look at this movie thinking, ah, they were awful for 679 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 16: making fun of overweight kids. No, I look at this 680 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,360 Speaker 16: movie as, yes, we have our movie, we are able 681 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,239 Speaker 16: to tell our story. We are able to take our 682 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 16: stance and be proud of who we are because the 683 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 16: roles are really reversed in Heavyweights, where all of these 684 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 16: kids are the cool ones and the skinny ones are 685 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 16: the losers and the lame os and the jerks. So 686 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 16: I am so glad that this movie exists. You can 687 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 16: watch it still on Disney Plus. And if there was 688 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 16: one summer I could live out from any movie, it 689 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 16: would hands down be Heavyweights. And I haven't really seen 690 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 16: a movie made like this until well, I watched Theater 691 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 16: Camp this past weekend, and I'll get into my full 692 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 16: review during that part of this episode, but this is 693 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 16: hands down the best movie to ever take place in 694 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 16: the summer. My number one pick goes to Heavyweights. I 695 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 16: do have a lot of honorable mentions. Almost sneaking into 696 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 16: my top five was The Parent Trap, which is a 697 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 16: great movie. I almost put it above Jaws, but I 698 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,360 Speaker 16: guess since the fact that it was a remake in 699 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 16: me think, let's put an original in the top five. 700 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 16: But of course that story takes place because of the 701 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:42,160 Speaker 16: switchero that happens at Summer Camp. Also almost making my 702 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 16: top five was We're the Millers from twenty thirteen, which 703 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 16: all takes place over the Fourth of July weekend. I 704 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 16: feel like that's another great comedy that doesn't get enough attention. 705 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 16: You also have the Lizzie McGuire movie from two thousand 706 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 16: and three, which took place right after they graduated middle school, 707 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 16: and it was their summer in Rome. Summer of two 708 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 16: thousand and three was very significant for me because of 709 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 16: the Lizzie maguire movie. I also almost through a different 710 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,080 Speaker 16: horror movie in my list. I Know What You Did 711 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 16: Last Summer from nineteen ninety seven, So close would have 712 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 16: been Independence There from nineteen ninety six, one of the 713 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 16: best sci fi action movies of the nineties. You also 714 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 16: have movies like Dazed and Confused from ninety three, My 715 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 16: Girl from ninety one, or even Friday the Thirteenth from 716 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 16: nineteen eighty. What I really think is lacking from this 717 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 16: list is a superhero movie, which leads me to my 718 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 16: next point. I have an idea for a movie about 719 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 16: a superhero that gains their powers on the last day 720 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 16: of school. I've had a lot of ideas for superhero 721 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 16: movies where I feel like people are saying, ah, every 722 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 16: superhero movie has been done and it's becoming a little stale. 723 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 16: I just think the formula needs to be switched up 724 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 16: a little bit, and we need to stop making origin 725 00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 16: stories that are all completely the same trying to another Avengers, 726 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 16: whether it be in the MCU or in DC. We 727 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,800 Speaker 16: just need to make great solo movies that stand on 728 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 16: their own. So my idea for a movie going along 729 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:13,280 Speaker 16: with our theme of the best Summer movies, is about 730 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:16,399 Speaker 16: a character who gets their powers on the last day 731 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 16: of school. And they have been somebody who hasn't had 732 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,560 Speaker 16: a whole lot of friends, has struggled the entire year, 733 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,320 Speaker 16: and they look forward to the last day of school 734 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 16: because that means, okay, now I just get to spend 735 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 16: my time in my room and do what I want 736 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 16: and not be bothered by bullies and not have to 737 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 16: deal with schoolwork. But then that last day of school, 738 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:37,880 Speaker 16: somehow they encounter their superhero powers. And what you always 739 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 16: see in superhero movies is somebody discovers their powers and 740 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,840 Speaker 16: they have that whole time of like, oh what do 741 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,880 Speaker 16: I do now I got to be a superhero. And 742 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 16: eventually they do become a superhero. But I want a 743 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 16: story about a reluctant superhero, somebody that gets powers and 744 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:58,400 Speaker 16: doesn't want them. They're kind of a nerdier, more introverted person. 745 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 16: So what would happen if a person like that that 746 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 16: got superhero powers and thought, I'm not going to do 747 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 16: anything with this. I'm not telling anybody, and I'm also 748 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,880 Speaker 16: not going to fight crime because just interacting with people 749 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,800 Speaker 16: scares the crap out of me. But through the course 750 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 16: of this summer they realize, oh man, it's actually kind 751 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 16: of my duty now to do good. And it's them 752 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,319 Speaker 16: coming out of their shell in a summer, which I 753 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,840 Speaker 16: think we all did as kids. The summer felt like 754 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 16: such a big throwing time where people were so different 755 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,879 Speaker 16: on the last day of school versus the first day 756 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 16: of the next year, where somebody's gotten taller, somebody has 757 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 16: gone on a specific trip that has changed their perspective 758 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,839 Speaker 16: on things, and everybody grew so much every summer in 759 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,880 Speaker 16: middle school and in high school that I feel like 760 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,319 Speaker 16: that should be represented through a superhero of somebody who 761 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 16: is very nerdy, timid inside their own thoughts. But then 762 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 16: at the end of the summer, they've had all these 763 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 16: adventures of becoming a superhero. But as soon as that 764 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 16: first day of school hits, they kind of go back 765 00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 16: into hiding and they're not a superhero anymore. The next 766 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:04,040 Speaker 16: summer kicks off and they go back into superhero mode. 767 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:04,759 Speaker 2: So that is. 768 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 9: Thanks for listening. 769 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,400 Speaker 1: A lot of awesome podcasts out this week, so hopefully 770 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 1: you heard something here that you want to hear more of. 771 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 1: Go subscribe if you can. New episodes are out weekly. 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