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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us where it's so excited to be back today.

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Speaker 2: How are you doing today, Susan.

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Speaker 3: I am in happy world.

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Speaker 1: Susan's totally unhappy world now that she's in love. That's

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Speaker 1: all she says. I'm in happy world.

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Speaker 3: It's all good and we've been having so much fun

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Speaker 3: answering your questions and chatting with our Bachelor Nation fans.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so today we have a very special guest, another

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Speaker 1: absolutely gorgeous woman from Grant season.

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Speaker 2: Alex. Welcome to Golden Hour.

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Speaker 4: Bonjous, Hello, work, Hi, thank you so much for having me.

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Speaker 4: How's everyone doing.

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Speaker 2: We're right, Susan. Alex is from Canada and speaks fluent French,

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Speaker 2: so you might want to talk to me.

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Speaker 3: It's a different French, I believe.

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Speaker 4: Oh do you speak French from France?

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Speaker 3: Oh yet, but I'm studying. I am trying. He is

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Speaker 3: from France and I hear that Canadian French, and yes,

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Speaker 3: so we did.

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Speaker 4: It's funny. I did a little TikTok the other day

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Speaker 4: with my my my Quebec French, my Quebec friend and

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Speaker 4: then me, because it's totally two different accents. I'm from

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Speaker 4: New Brunswick, and then he's from Quebec. And then I'm

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Speaker 4: getting so many responses from people from France being like,

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Speaker 4: what kind of accent is that we can't understand a thing?

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Speaker 2: But do you understand French?

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Speaker 4: Alex absolutely, I'm like, I understand you guys understand us,

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Speaker 4: But yes I can. But it's not everybody who can.

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Speaker 4: I think. I'm just like very I've always been interested

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Speaker 4: in accents, so I feel like, yeah, me too, and

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Speaker 4: you too, Yeah, and I can do. Then that's the

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Speaker 4: one that you know.

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Speaker 2: Of course, of course it is.

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Speaker 1: Wait, I have a question, so you My sister lives

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Speaker 1: in Ottawa, Canada. I have good friends who lived in

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Speaker 1: New Brunswick. My sister is a Canadian citizen.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wait, okay, we're wait wait wait wait. So first

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Speaker 4: of all, I went to school in Ottawa.

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Speaker 2: Where'd you go?

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Speaker 4: I went to University of Ottawa. I did my master's there.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, okay, there you go.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy. Okay, And how do you know people from

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Speaker 4: New Brunswick and where?

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Speaker 1: Well, they moved, they left New Brunswick. They're back in

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Speaker 1: Toronto now. My sister lived in Toronto. This interviews about

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Speaker 1: you said, We're going to go through this really quickly.

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Speaker 1: My sister lived in Toronto for twenty something years, married

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Speaker 1: to Canadian, offloaded the Canadian but stayed in Canada, became

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Speaker 1: a Canadian citizen, and her children one lives in Ottawa.

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Speaker 1: She spent twenty years in Toronto. The friends in New

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Speaker 1: Brunswick were old friends of my husband and mine from

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Speaker 1: the navy, and he married a woman from Toronto, and

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Speaker 1: then business wise they moved into Brunswick and now they're

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Speaker 1: back in Toronto.

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Speaker 4: And now do you remember where? I'm just curious.

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Speaker 1: I'll get back to you on that. I have their

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Speaker 1: address somewhere, but it's a small place.

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Speaker 3: And I just filmed the show, well actually just aired,

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Speaker 3: and I was like fifty minutes north of Toronto and

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Speaker 3: this mansion, yes.

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Speaker 4: Wow, it's Canada.

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Speaker 3: Is beautiful.

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Speaker 4: I always most beautiful.

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Speaker 2: It is Quebec City, Montreal.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, can I just say, speaking of

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Speaker 1: aac sense and I am I am a I love

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Speaker 1: the whole study of language. Americans usually say Quebec and

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Speaker 1: people from Canada say cumeback Quebec, because I know good

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Speaker 1: Americans will.

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Speaker 4: Say back, Quebec, you're right, but it is. Yeah, it's kid,

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Speaker 4: it's cume back.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So, and you grew up on a farm with like,

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Speaker 2: I want to see.

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Speaker 4: The record straight, Like I wasn't the one like milking cat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't look like somebody who'd be milking a cat.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, that's why I moved to Los Angeles. But definitely,

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Speaker 4: my my mother had we had a calf, we had chickens,

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Speaker 4: of that was too obviously eventually, you know, use the meat.

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Speaker 4: And then she did the error of the mistake of

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Speaker 3: Kind, we could need it.

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Speaker 4: You O'Neill. O'Neill was the name.

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Speaker 3: So when did you move to La So?

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Speaker 4: I moved two and a half years ago because I

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Speaker 4: am crazy and I it was a Friday night on

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Speaker 4: a whim, I said, you know what, I want to

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Speaker 4: move to California. I mean, I had planned to do it,

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Speaker 4: stuff within the weekend on Facebook Marketplace and I packed

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Speaker 4: my two thousand and seven, Hondai accent with a cat

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Speaker 4: to Los Angeles by yourself. Well, I was going to

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Speaker 4: do it by myself because I've always been very, very stubborn.

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Speaker 4: And my friends were like, Alex, don't do that by yourself.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna and I was like, I can do it.

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Speaker 4: And then four so that because it was a Friday

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Speaker 4: Then I was like, Okay, this is not a good idea.

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Speaker 4: Let me just tell a friend just to see if

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Speaker 4: she would do it me. And she was like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: let's do it. I've always wanted to do a road

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Speaker 4: trip with.

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Speaker 1: You, like you know that I've driven twice by myself

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Speaker 1: from Texas to Toronto twice.

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Speaker 4: Well, then that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: Well I was going to say, and you and I

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Speaker 2: are similar, we're both of the you know.

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Speaker 4: They muted us. I was like, no, we're going to

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Speaker 4: have yeah sign language.

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Speaker 2: We always keep talking.

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Speaker 1: So wait, you are a pediatric speech therapist, which I

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Speaker 1: get it little. You know kids who go away they

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Speaker 1: can't pronounce their letters.

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Speaker 2: I get it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, or instead of uh, yeah, instead of red, it's wed.

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Speaker 1: Well, right, so I can you give me like a oh,

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Speaker 1: let's call it fifteen second primer.

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Speaker 2: How you get a kid who says wed to say red?

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Speaker 2: How do you do it?

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Speaker 4: Okay? So the R sound is the most difficult sound

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Speaker 4: to work on in speech therapy. It's really difficult because

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Speaker 4: it's just the way the tongue has to be. But

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Speaker 4: there's a bunch of tricks that you can do. It

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Speaker 4: depends on the age, it depends on their cognitive level obviously,

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Speaker 4: but little tricks that I like to do is, for example,

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Speaker 4: of peanut butter on their palates, and I start with

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Speaker 4: R sound, or sometimes what I'll do is I'll say

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Speaker 3: Wow, And the French never pronounced the rs. What'd you say?

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Speaker 3: The French never pronounced there are.

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Speaker 4: You know what? Sometimes I say to parents, I mean,

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Speaker 4: if you don't hear that your kids sounds like they're

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Speaker 4: from London because it's a oh the ladder.

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Speaker 1: Mother, or Wait a minute, Wait a second. If you're

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Speaker 1: from Boston, it's packed the ca go to patties. There

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Speaker 1: was no such thing as an R in Boston. They

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Speaker 1: just eradicated it from the alphabet.

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Speaker 2: It was a sad day.

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Speaker 3: There need a Spanish person and that's too funny.

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Speaker 4: But it's like, you know, it's cute until like it's

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Speaker 4: of course it's developmentally appropriate up until they're like six

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Speaker 4: years old, and then it's cute until it's not right, right.

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Speaker 4: I always say, you know it's yeah, it's because it's cute.

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Speaker 4: What I was I going to say, because it impacts

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Speaker 4: the meeting. So for example, like instead of like sleeping,

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Speaker 4: if they say sweeping, well then you're going to be like,

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Speaker 4: what are you trying to say?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: There are too so.

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Speaker 2: Do you still do that? Now?

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Speaker 4: That's what I'm doing. Yes, I just got off work and.

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Speaker 3: Well, Alex, we have so much we want to dive

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Speaker 3: into today and we want to get to know you.

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Speaker 3: So we're going to get things started.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we first got to know Paradise.

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Speaker 3: Yes, if you're.

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Speaker 2: Asked, you want to go? And who do you want

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm okay, yes, I would love to go on Paradise.

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Speaker 4: I think this is very much so my wheelhouse. I'm

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Speaker 4: a very light, fun, you know, easygoing person and I

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Speaker 4: feel like that's what paradise is. So absolutely, if I

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Speaker 4: were asked, I would love, love, love to go and

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Speaker 4: I'd love to travel. Also, yeah, and who would I

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Speaker 4: like to see? I mean, oh, that's a good question.

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Speaker 4: Like I said, I this is what I've been saying,

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Speaker 4: is people have been saying like, oh, you know and Jonathan,

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Speaker 4: because you have the same personality, so we'll see, you know,

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Speaker 4: it might just turn out as friends. Just that Jonathan

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Speaker 4: Jaggedy John.

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Speaker 3: Yes that guy. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: I haven't really you know, talked to him, but that's

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Speaker 4: what I'm we're seeing online, I guess, So we'll see.

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Speaker 2: Would you are you? Do you feel like you're ready

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Speaker 2: to get married?

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Speaker 4: So I always say this, So I am twenty eight

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Speaker 4: want to travel, I want to have fun, and lately

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Speaker 4: I've been still going on trips with my friends. But

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I want it'd be fun to like

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Speaker 4: you know, be here and like watch a sunset and

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Speaker 4: I'm definitely ready to go.

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Speaker 2: I thought you were going. I thought you were going.

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't it be fun to have a little baby on

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Speaker 1: this trip? And I'm like, have you ever traveled on

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Speaker 1: an airplane with an infante?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 4: Eventually I wanted my kids. I want to, you know,

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Speaker 4: expose my kids to the world for sure and travel

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Speaker 4: with them, but not yet. But no, I've just been

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Speaker 4: kind of longing for, you know, a nice quiet Friday

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Speaker 4: night where you watch that's in the city and you

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Speaker 4: make pasta.

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Speaker 3: I love this.

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Speaker 4: I love this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So do you know what qualities you look for

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Speaker 3: in a partner?

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Speaker 4: So this is an interesting question. So you would have

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Speaker 4: asked me before the Bachelor changed, right, I would have

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Speaker 4: said I wanted someone who could balance me out because

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Speaker 4: I'm very outgoing. I'm very like head in the clouds, like.

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Speaker 3: Have you met Kathy?

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Speaker 4: And I know exactly I'm the same exact way. And

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Speaker 4: I used to say, like, oh, I want someone who

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Speaker 4: my like light a little bit, and then after The

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Speaker 4: Bachelor I realized, like, you know, me and Grant were

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Speaker 4: complete off it and it's still you know, I still

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Speaker 4: started catching feelings for him, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: So that's like Frederic, he's just like me, outgoing funny

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I have a question, what do you think?

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping to get to go to Paradise, but Susan's

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Speaker 3: Are you concerned at all about us some one of

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Speaker 2: Does I mean I have to tell I do have

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Speaker 3: You just have to tell team I still love them

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Speaker 1: I don't think I truly don't think that's an issue.

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Speaker 4: No, I know, I'm not worried at all. I feel

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, exactly, you know, inappropriate. Do you understand that

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Speaker 1: you're looking at that girl? She could be your daughter?

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Speaker 1: How do you feel that that was really worried?

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Speaker 4: Is that I was like, okay, when my butt cheeks

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Speaker 3: I want to know about Thailand.

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Speaker 2: How was it?

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Speaker 4: It was beautiful? So I am extremely lucky. People like

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Speaker 4: It was beautiful. It's you know, I've traveled quite a lot.

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Speaker 3: Really, Yes, What is it about Thailand that you love?

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Speaker 1: Where I Will tell you it's high. You know you

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Speaker 1: have a bucket list. I read that you have a

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Speaker 1: bucket list of places you want to travel. Thailand is

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Speaker 4: Oh it is you? Have you guys been able to

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Speaker 3: We've traveled where Asia?

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Speaker 2: Where else? I want to go?

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Speaker 4: Where else do I want to go? I want to

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Speaker 1: I've been to Peru, I've hiked, I've hiped, I did.

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Speaker 1: I did the whole thing, the camping, the whole bit.

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Speaker 2: How oh you can't, Oh yeah, you can go to Portugal.

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Speaker 2: I'm a great I'm a huge hiker. I love it.

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Speaker 4: I see what happened? Did you say you are You're.

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Speaker 4: You lazy? No? So I played beach volleyball. That is

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Speaker 4: The only thing that gets me outside is playing beach

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Speaker 2: Do you play with the full team or just like too? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So on a scale one to five? How competitive are you?

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Speaker 3: Have you seen?

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Speaker 4: Granted? Have you seen?

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Speaker 2: I just I want to hear from the horse's mouth.

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Speaker 4: I got concussed, so just that, mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: I need to know. Do you cook?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 3: Okay, you're very similar to Kathy my You know.

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Speaker 4: One of my fun sacks when the thing came out

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Speaker 4: was that I'm obsessed with cooking shows.

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Speaker 3: Obsessed. Can I no?

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Speaker 2: I love.

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: No? No?

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Speaker 3: I cooked for Kathy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I mean, why cook when you can do

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Speaker 4: Think you know what Kathy is like, it takes an

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Speaker 4: hour and you finish it in what five minutes?

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Speaker 3: And then you want to.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 1: However, however, I am a Crackerjack dishwasher, like I will

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Speaker 2: If someone cooks, oh.

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Speaker 4: Like you'll do yes, It's well, that's courtesy coming Curtesy.

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Speaker 3: If you're going to cook, absolutely, Okay, I'm going to

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Speaker 3: change it up just a little bit. In one word,

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Speaker 3: describe your experience on The Bachelor work give me one.

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Speaker 4: Mmm roller coaster. I know it's not an adjective, it's

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Speaker 1: I think that's actually fair. There are a lot of

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Speaker 4: Because I started so bubbly. It's like my real personality.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, and people are like Alex.

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Speaker 3: Who took my happy? So is there anything that you

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Speaker 4: I think what I did? You know this is okay.

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Speaker 4: Before I left, I got one text from a friend

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Speaker 4: and it sounds corny to say, but she said, be

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Speaker 4: oh my gosh, and it shined through the screen and

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Speaker 4: you know, people saw that. You know, it was just this.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to you know, if you're yourself the

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Speaker 4: whole season and you go out, you don't have to

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Speaker 4: like be someone You're like, it's exhausting after a while.

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Speaker 2: Ye like, so did you change do you?

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Speaker 1: Did you come off the show different? Like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I want to hear where your friends were on the show.

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Speaker 1: Do you still see them? But how do you feel now?

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Speaker 4: Well? One thing that if I don't know if I

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Speaker 4: please redirect me. One thing that my friends did say

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Speaker 4: was so fun to watch because it felt like we

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Speaker 4: were just watching Alex on TV right, like you recognized, Yes,

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Speaker 4: but and that really felt like like that. I really

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Speaker 4: guys would know, it's like an experience that you will

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Speaker 4: never share with anybody else in the world. I'm a

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Speaker 4: little bit like if I do go in perison, like

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Speaker 4: there's too many fishing to see. If you're interested in him,

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Speaker 4: please go for him, Like I'm not. I don't want

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Speaker 4: to put a friend a girl friendship.

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Speaker 3: So tell us after you come off the show. Now,

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Speaker 3: has your dm it blowing up? Have you gone on

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Speaker 3: any dates?

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm. I have been on kind of like one

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Speaker 4: date one person that like, I was like, oh wait,

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Speaker 4: this could be fun, and he's actually someone who's like

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Speaker 4: so similar. It's someone who watched the show who then

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Speaker 4: set me up with their friend and he reached out

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Speaker 4: and he's so similar to me. It's like literally looking

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Speaker 4: of dates. It was fun good.

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Speaker 2: I want to know.

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Speaker 1: I want to know what made you go on? Did

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Speaker 1: you submit yourself? How did you end up going on

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor?

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Speaker 4: So it was last summer. I'm drive with my friend

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Speaker 4: and I get a message on Instagram like, hey, you

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Speaker 4: would be great for the Bachelor. I'm usually it's all scams, right,

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Speaker 4: so that are all asking for like feet pick for

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Speaker 4: like twenty dollars, And I'm like, oh, what's the same.

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Speaker 4: So I woke it up and I'm like, oh, I

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Speaker 4: think it's legit. Let me just okay, let's see if

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Speaker 4: you know. So we have the first interview. Someone reached out.

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Speaker 4: And I am a big believer that not everything happens

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Speaker 4: for a reason, but the universe working in your favor

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Speaker 4: right when you manifest and everything. And my life I

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Speaker 4: had just you know, ended a relationship that had been

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Speaker 4: you know, on and off for like five years, and

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Speaker 4: it was just like the perfect timing. It was almost

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Speaker 4: like the universe being like, okay, you need this to

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Speaker 4: move on from this back and forth. Yeah, and that

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Speaker 4: it just happened at the perfect time. If it would

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Speaker 4: have been a year before, I was just not ready

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Speaker 4: I was not there. I you know, it was just

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Speaker 4: not my best self, I guess, and it happened at

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Speaker 4: me perfect time.

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Speaker 1: Wowesome, it's such. It's you know, things do happen, Susan

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Speaker 1: always pleased. Everything happens for a reason I perceived it,

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Speaker 1: or a season. I think sometimes things do, but sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's just, you know.

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Speaker 3: It's a reason. You learn something from every experience.

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Speaker 4: Every experience that you go through. Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I heard Susan, I have been Both of

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Speaker 2: you get asked because I'll be out of here podcasting, going,

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Speaker 2: I wonder what they're doing.

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Speaker 1: Well, I can tell you what I'll be doing. I'll

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Speaker 1: be ironing the clothes for the young ones. I want

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Speaker 1: to know, are there are other updates in your life?

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Speaker 2: What you know? Is there anything we need to know?

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Speaker 4: I boring?

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Speaker 3: She's waiting for the call for paradise.

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Speaker 4: I go to paradise. If I'm going to to a

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Speaker 4: beautiful exotic country.

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Speaker 2: How hard is to pack? You have all the clothes.

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Speaker 4: I do have all the clothes. Y'all will forget probably

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Speaker 4: half of my underwear. That's I'm always like, and I

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Speaker 4: will bring something so irrelevant that I don't need there.

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Speaker 3: What about the guy that you dated a couple of times.

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Speaker 3: Do you have any feelings about if you're asked, would

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Speaker 3: you tell him or would you just you know?

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Speaker 4: And he's so supportive, He's like, I want you to

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Speaker 4: have fun to you know, you're young, Like I would

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Speaker 4: never want you to good something for me because we

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Speaker 4: just met.

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Speaker 1: Right, Let's just be honest here and you and I

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Speaker 1: are both leaving with a ring and a date.

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Speaker 3: She asked me today, I got to check.

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Speaker 2: Gold.

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Speaker 3: That's white gold on your ring, isn't it?

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Speaker 2: No? This this ring is yellow gold, yellow gold. But

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Speaker 2: I can go white gold, I can go platinum. You

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Speaker 2: know what.

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Speaker 1: Just find me the guy. I actually don't care about

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Speaker 1: the ring. I just want the nice guy.

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Speaker 2: And that is the truth true.

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Speaker 3: I want the ring, to want the ring.

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Speaker 1: I had a ring. I had a great ring. I

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Speaker 1: had a great husband. I had a great ring.

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Speaker 3: Now I am here's what do you have any questions

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Speaker 3: for Kathy and I?

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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, what would be your advice you know, going

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Speaker 4: into as you know, I'm sure you've dated a lot,

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Speaker 4: and what would be like your advice to a twenty

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Speaker 4: eight year old and who hasn't you know found.

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Speaker 3: The same that's already covered, covered for yourself. For yourself,

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Speaker 3: a red flag is a red flag if you see

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Speaker 3: something you're not going to change. Yeah, so just.

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Speaker 1: You know you can get them to put his socks

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Speaker 1: in the hamper, you give them to wear polo shirt

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Speaker 1: and said, I have.

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Speaker 4: Those red flags, Kathy, So those are those are my Yeah, but.

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Speaker 2: Don't you know, just you know, you'll it'll be a feeling.

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Speaker 2: You'll know.

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Speaker 1: I always say my advice to I gave to all

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Speaker 1: my kids, and I'll give to you. Do the things

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Speaker 1: you love, be who you are, and the right people

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Speaker 1: will come into your life.

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Speaker 4: I love.

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Speaker 3: That's all right, and I'm living proof.

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Speaker 1: Okay, speaking of advice, we are going to go into

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Speaker 1: the advice portion of our episode and we're going to

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Speaker 1: kick things off Alex with the question of the day,

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Speaker 1: and we.

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Speaker 2: Want your thoughts on it. So here it is, how

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Speaker 2: do you determine if a guy you've started seeing could

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Speaker 2: be right for you? What things do you look for

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Speaker 2: once you've established a mutual connection.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to speak in with my experience for me,

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Speaker 4: I you have to check in with yourself what your

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Speaker 4: non negotiables are, first of all, because if it's going

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Speaker 4: to be someone long term. You want to make sure

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Speaker 4: that you're seeing eye to eye. And people have made

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Speaker 4: relationships work where you have different values, different political views.

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Speaker 4: I've tried it. It wasn't for me, but usually you

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Speaker 4: want to be aligned with those And I think you know,

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Speaker 4: love is not always going to be feeling. It's it's

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Speaker 4: a choice. It's the person that you you choose to

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Speaker 4: you know, have your life. So I think that will

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Speaker 4: laugh Like for me, that's what it is like if

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Speaker 4: you make me laugh and you're a good person and you,

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Speaker 4: you know, inspire me to do better things that are

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Speaker 4: aligned with my values, like I don't you know that's

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Speaker 4: to me, it's the.

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Speaker 3: As a winner and how he makes you feel what

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Speaker 3: I feel when you're.

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Speaker 4: With him, uplifted when.

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Speaker 1: You're with him, or but okay, those are all the

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Speaker 1: love romantic things, but you know, and you look for

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Speaker 1: all those things, but you also have to think about

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Speaker 1: at your age, you're building a career, you know the guys,

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Speaker 1: your partner's building a career, where you're going to live.

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Speaker 1: How are you going to balance careers? How are you

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Speaker 1: going to balance how what do I mean? Those things

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Speaker 1: you have to consider as well.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely absolutely, and I think that's it's important to like

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Speaker 4: establish that right away. And if, like you said, if

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Speaker 4: your careers are going to match. If again, for me,

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Speaker 4: if I want to look for someone who's spontaneous, I

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Speaker 4: love my career, but if someone who's too career driven.

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Speaker 4: Not saying I don't want someone who's on the couch,

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Speaker 4: but I mean I want someone who still has that spontaneity.

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Speaker 4: And I feel like you need you need to find

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Speaker 4: a balance.

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Speaker 3: Balance.

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Speaker 4: You're going to circle back to what we said at

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Speaker 4: the beginning. Is for me, I can't be with someone

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Speaker 4: who's exactly exactly like me because I said to Grant

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Speaker 4: and you said, I'll always remember this first, and I go,

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Speaker 4: if I was with someone like me, I would be

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Speaker 4: in Morocco with five dollars in my pocket on a

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Speaker 4: campra r will like be like you, but also will

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Speaker 4: be able to balance you out. So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: And what about what they want in the future, Whether

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Speaker 3: you want a family and children.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's what I mean by like the you need

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Speaker 4: to know.

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Speaker 2: You you have to decide are you going to live

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Speaker 2: in the same city?

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Speaker 1: Are you you know? Those are things at your age,

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Speaker 1: in your generation. So many mar So Susan in our generation, truly,

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Speaker 1: you guys have huge careers. Yeah, some of you work

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Speaker 1: you know, long distance, remotely, whatever, but those are real

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Speaker 1: concerns and raising family.

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Speaker 2: Who's going to be home.

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Speaker 1: I mean, all those other characteristics are important, but you

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Speaker 1: really have to think about that.

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Speaker 3: You do not immediately, like you got to get a

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Speaker 3: connection going first, and like you said, you have to

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Speaker 3: have the gift of laughter. That's right, that's right, but

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Speaker 3: a serious side as well.

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Speaker 4: Because even for like with my on my my past relationship,

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Speaker 4: I think that's where we went at like a roadblock

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Speaker 4: where we talked about, you know, our values and our beliefs,

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Speaker 4: and you said, when we want to raise kids, that's

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Speaker 4: going to be an issue, right, And it's not that

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Speaker 4: we didn't love each other, it's just that because we

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Speaker 4: had so much fun together, but it was just we

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Speaker 4: got ahead and we said, if we have kids, I

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Speaker 4: want to raise them this way, and you said, well,

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Speaker 4: I want to raise them that way. And unless you're

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Speaker 4: able to find like a compromise and I talked about

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Speaker 4: it on The Bachelor. Lot to Grant is like for me,

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Speaker 4: it's a lot about compromising because if you're willing to

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Speaker 4: compromise and you can come to a middle ground. But

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Speaker 4: if you're not absolutely and you're going to have issues,

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Speaker 4: you know, your whole relationship and your.

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Speaker 1: I you know what I I think that is so again, Susan,

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Speaker 1: I talked about how so many of the women from

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Speaker 1: Grant season, including you, that beautiful. But you guys are smart,

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Speaker 1: You're wise beyond your years, and you you know, you

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Speaker 1: have figured it out. That compromising that's the only way

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Speaker 1: you make it through a relationship communication.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, compromise.

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Speaker 4: It can't be excited, right because I think a lot

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Speaker 4: of it unless you Again, it's it also comes down

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Speaker 4: to to your non negotiables though, right, Like there's non negotiables.

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Speaker 2: What is your biggest non negotiable?

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Speaker 4: I think for a long time it was religion, and

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Speaker 4: now I'm a little bit more open to it. Me.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we don't have to talk religion, but you

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Speaker 2: mean it had to be your same religion that the

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Speaker 2: guy had to be your sad religion or.

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Speaker 4: Whatever. My beliefs were in that, yeah, like I don't

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Speaker 4: believe or I believe, And I was like, you know,

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Speaker 4: I you know, I was raised Catholic and my grandmother

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Speaker 4: made me go to church every Sunday, and I just

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Speaker 4: don't have a different relationship with my right now. But

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Speaker 4: I starting, you know this, it's crazy, you know, as

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Speaker 4: we'll talk about it. But this weekend I joke with

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Speaker 4: my friend, I'm like, I have a new I think,

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Speaker 4: how would I say this in English? I'm trying to

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Speaker 4: find the words. I think. You know, it kind of

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Speaker 4: pushed me away, I think from when it because it

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Speaker 4: was forced when I was growing up, And the last

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Speaker 4: couple of weeks through months have been just so I've

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Speaker 4: been just so grateful that I'm like, wow, I feel

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Speaker 4: like someone's working in my favor.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, like at the stage of the game,

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Speaker 3: as long as they have a belief and you have

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Speaker 3: to respect theirs. Same with politics. I mean there's a

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Speaker 3: lot of people today that will break up friendships over it.

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Speaker 3: But you have to be able to give your partner

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Speaker 3: the respect that he deserves and he in turn gives

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Speaker 3: you something that you don't discuss. Then it's it still

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Speaker 3: can work even though you have opposite thoughts about absolutely.

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Speaker 4: I know, and that's the thing with my past relationship.

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Speaker 4: We had different political views and religion, so I think

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Speaker 4: it was just a lot like I think I can

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Speaker 4: do one, but when it comes to like so many

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Speaker 4: different things everything yet and it's something I have to

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Speaker 4: work on, is that I'm an instigator. Like if I

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Speaker 4: don't like I can't understand your way of thinking, I

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Speaker 4: can't like I'm someone who can see both sides. But

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Speaker 4: sometimes I'm just like.

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Speaker 2: I think you and I are twins out I think.

663
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 3: So I'm watching this, okay, I am watching this. How

664
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 3: are you?

665
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 4: How are like? How do you are you an insigat

666
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 4: or two? A little?

667
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yes, I'm like, I can't shut it.

668
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 4: I'm like, don't say it, don't say well, why did

669
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 4: you do that?

670
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, I understand what you're saying, but really, what

671
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: were you saying? FORDA, Yeah, let's talk. I think we're

672
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: sisters from another mother.

673
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 4: I'm oh my god, it's so blessed.

674
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 2: Okay, so now we've got we're moving on here because

675
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 2: we have questions advice time.

676
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: Probably a fan who needs some advice you want to help,

677
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: says and go on to go ahead and read it.

678
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 3: This is from Carly. Hi, ladies, I'm really hoping you

679
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 3: can help. I've been dating this guy for about two

680
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 3: months and I really like him, He's a much kinder

681
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 3: and healthier partner than any of my exes or flings.

682
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 3: The problem is he kind of gets me the ick.

683
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's because I'm genuinely not interested

684
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 3: in him or I'm just not used to sweeties. He

685
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 3: says things like I can't believe a girl like you

686
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 3: would go for a guy like me. He doesn't say

687
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 3: it in a way that's like sad lol or phishing

688
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 3: for compliments, So it's not that he's super insecure. I

689
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 3: just feel blat when he gets overly mushy. Is there

690
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 3: a way that I can talk to him about this

691
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 3: without hurting his feelings? Or am I just like not

692
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 3: into him? Thanks? Ladies. I developed two opinions while reading.

693
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, what says you? Alex? Go first?

694
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 4: I go first? Oh yeah, okay, So first of all,

695
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 4: I empathize with her because I understand where she's coming from,

696
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 4: because I think from a biological standpoint, we want the alpha, right,

697
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 4: we want someone to like feel like they're the prize.

698
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 4: And I think if he's leading with I can't believe

699
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 4: you would go with someone like me? Well, we think

700
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 4: as I think as me Anyways, I would think, oh no, secure,

701
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 4: and you're insecure, right, I don't want to goure, So

702
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 4: your feelings are totally valid. I think a lot of

703
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 4: women would feel the same way. But it doesn't mean

704
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 4: that it's not something that he can work on. And

705
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 4: if you can, just I think be like that. I mean,

706
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 4: maybe I'm too blunt, but I mean, if you like

707
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 4: him and he likes you, just be honest. I would

708
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 4: just say, like, hey, you know what you're great and

709
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 4: you should know that, and you know you don't have

710
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 4: to tell me that. There. I would just tell him, like,

711
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 4: just be more confident, don't tell me that you know

712
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 4: that's me. I'm a little blunt with guys, so I'm like,

713
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 4: that make me awkward, I would say, makes me awkward.

714
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 1: And then if if a guy gives you the ick,

715
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm stuck on he gives me the I'm out if

716
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: he gives me the air.

717
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 4: Because listen, and it's fun that we're talking about this

718
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 4: because I did another pod where my words got twisted

719
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 4: when I never said that Grant gave me the eck,

720
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 4: but I said that the piano gave me the it.

721
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 4: Because for me, I am not a musical person. When

722
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 4: someone serenades me on the firth. It makes me a

723
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 4: little awkward. I'm like, you know, And people ran with

724
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 4: that and they were like, well, Alex is saying that

725
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 4: Grant gave him the it. No, no, no, and it

726
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 4: is not a deal breaker, right, and you can get

727
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 4: over an eck, you can. And it's I used to

728
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 4: get the egg from my ex all the time, and

729
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 4: you have white want to.

730
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: She said, So you're saying it's it's an aspect of

731
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: him that gave gives you the ap not like I read.

732
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: It, he gives me the eck, oh the whole that's

733
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 2: what I to. But you're right, maybe it's just that aspect.

734
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 4: I think it's just that aspect when he says and

735
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 4: he says all that mushy stuff of like, oh, I

736
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 4: can't believe you're with me. I think it's a psychological

737
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 4: thing for her of like oh, like is he not

738
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 4: a catch? Like and I think that's what's giving her like, oh,

739
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 4: I'm not into him.

740
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 3: Like I couldn't agree with you or my take on

741
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 3: this though. If you're my age, you want that guy.

742
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 3: You want that guy that thinks you're all that plus

743
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 3: sum instead of the bad boy that we're all attracted

744
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 3: to most of our lives. You want the man that says, wow.

745
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 2: Wait, excuse me, Alex. Have you always been attracted to

746
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 2: bad boys?

747
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 4: It's something I'm on learning now.

748
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: Granted, Alex, I was married at twenty. I met my

749
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:30,399
Speaker 1: husband when I was Jeff, Sorry, no, I was, Oh,

750
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: I do not like bad boys. I don't go after him.

751
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: I don't go after him. I don't trust him. I

752
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: want a good, solid, kind man. And that's what I

753
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 1: had for my marriage. Well at twenty. I mean, I

754
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: knew I just and Susan We've talked about that. Susan

755
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: was as attracted to the bad guys. And I'm like,

756
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: how long does it take you to learn that a

757
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: bad guy who's messing around you know?

758
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 3: That doesn't that bad guy doesn't mean he's cheating, like

759
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 3: just a popular guy, a guy that is very.

760
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 2: Sure that's not a bad guy.

761
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 3: No, but there's something about them.

762
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 4: There's something about or getting the guy. I think that

763
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 4: is so sought out for me anyways, sought after and

764
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 4: he chooses you out of what I liked. I was like, oh,

765
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 4: he chose me. You feel special, right, But I think

766
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 4: you can get over the I I think if communication,

767
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 4: if she communicates with him, and I know she said

768
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 4: without hurting his feeling.

769
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 3: I think she's more worldly than he is. He's a

770
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 3: little bit it's they say, not insecure, but he is.

771
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 3: He never thought he could get a girl like that.

772
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 3: But you don't voice it, you know.

773
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,359
Speaker 2: It makes it makes a girl think, oh, maybe he's

774
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 2: not all that. Maybe what am I doing with him?

775
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 3: Yes, instead say say something.

776
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 4: Because you address that without hurting his feelings. That's the

777
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 4: thing that I'm I don't.

778
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: I would love a guy to say musty stuff to me.

779
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: So you know this is I got. I got nothing there.

780
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, Carly, send me his name and

781
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: number if he's in appropriate.

782
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 3: Sweet enough. Maybe she just felt uncomfortable well because he

783
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 3: was saying that.

784
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 2: All right, Well, Carly, you got to let us know.

785
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 2: We want to know.

786
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: Yes, inquiring minds want to know if you stuck with him.

787
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 1: But I think I think we're all saying the same thing.

788
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 1: Maybe talk to him kindly and just tell him how

789
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: it makes you feel, because that's good communication. And if

790
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: you want it to be you know better than what

791
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: it is, you have to work at it.

792
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:20,439
Speaker 3: Right.

793
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 4: You might be the best guy in the world for

794
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 4: him a little bit because he's but I think at

795
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 4: the end of the day, he seems like you're He

796
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 4: really really likes you, So I think you'll just appreciate

797
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 4: that you're communicating with I agree.

798
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: We want to know so you've gotten we've got to

799
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: know you a little bit better. We want to open

800
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: the floor to you. Do you have any questions for us, comments,

801
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: concerned anything, anything?

802
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 3: So fun?

803
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 4: And I feel so bad because I was not a

804
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 4: reality TV person and I didn't.

805
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 3: Didn't watch and I didn't watch a lot of.

806
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, guys, but what, okay, tell me about

807
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:56,240
Speaker 4: your friendship.

808
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 3: We met on the show.

809
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 1: We met first night, Yeah, the first time. I don't

810
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 1: actually remember. I just remember the pictures.

811
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 2: I remember we took up That's what we remember.

812
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 1: Somebody somehow we ended up in front of the fireplace

813
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: in the mansion and they took a picture and we were.

814
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 2: Talking and we just hit it off.

815
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 1: And then we ended up just coincidentally being uh, in

816
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 1: the sharing a bedroom. And then you know, I would

817
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: never I mean, Susan comes from a big Italian family.

818
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: I mean, she's a shopper, she's a makeup girl. I'm

819
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 1: just like, I want to go for a high cook

820
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 1: and she's a cook. I'm I loved a needle point.

821
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 1: I'm but I'm not a shopper. I want someone to

822
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: make me look good. I don't want I don't want

823
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: to take the Africans.

824
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 4: Funny is the first night they asked me, what's one

825
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 4: thing you don't want to do, and I go, don't

826
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 4: bring me shopping. I hate shopping.

827
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 3: Gosh, I called you got did you call it too?

828
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 3: As soon as you started talking, I'm like the two

829
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 3: when you said about the kitchen, I knew.

830
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't want. I like to look nice

831
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 2: and I know you like nice.

832
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 3: Because of course, of course that goes without saying exactly.

833
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 1: So that's that's how we made friends. It was just andial,

834
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: it was just and they were in the same room.

835
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 3: Went through the whole show together. I mean we stayed

836
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 3: you know, four and fifth rose ceremony. So we got

837
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 3: to know each other.

838
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 4: Not support when you go through an experience.

839
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,359
Speaker 1: But I will tell you, Susan has taught me like

840
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 1: we're very different people. Anybody can see that we're very

841
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: different people. I'm a I'm just we're both very outgoing

842
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: and now and now we're diverging because now Susan has

843
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: a guy and I don't. I'm gonna keep rubbing your

844
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 1: nose in that, Susan as.

845
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 2: Long as I can.

846
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 1: But we we have fun together. Susan has helped me shop,

847
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: She's helped me updated. Now I'm getting a haircut again,

848
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: you know, update my look.

849
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 3: Remember your closet cats. When I came, I came to Austin,

850
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 3: I married, I performed this ceremony for Kathy's son.

851
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, what's that show? You would take someone and they

852
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 4: would like dress them up?

853
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 2: And then I don't know if that show is still around?

854
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 2: Could they pick me please?

855
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 4: On TLC. I'm pretty sure, like after the dress, what

856
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 4: not to wear?

857
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 3: That would be me. I'm in their closet. They gotta go.

858
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 2: She got rid of clothes. She took me sharp and she's.

859
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 3: Up me and that's fine for me.

860
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 2: Yes, I'd rather stab myself. I'd rather stand.

861
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 3: Kathy has taught me grammar when to say I or

862
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:25,399
Speaker 3: me and thinks you know.

863
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 2: We took each other smith. I'm a girl.

864
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 4: Language linguistics.

865
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:36,320
Speaker 1: Love that linguistics language studied Speakanish, German. I can't speak

866
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 1: any of them, but just enough to introduce people you know,

867
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: but I love language.

868
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 3: I love language, so anything else.

869
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess. I guess. I asked kind of like

870
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 4: in the middle of the episode, what was like one advice,

871
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:50,919
Speaker 4: but we kind of talked about it. But oh, it's

872
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 4: great to see you guys. You know, just that friendship

873
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 4: and it's also motivating for us, like, you know, the

874
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 4: friendships that we're going to make if you know forever.

875
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 3: Did you make some good friendship from your season?

876
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 4: Yes, And it's funny. You guys remind me of me

877
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 4: and Chloe where it's like we're super outgoing, but like

878
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:07,879
Speaker 4: we're so different at the same time.

879
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, so this one. Kathy and I asked this a lot.

880
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 3: If you were on a deserted island and you could

881
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 3: only take three people from your season when you're looking

882
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 3: at the two of them right now and why and.

883
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 4: You're looking at it would be Chloe, Natalie and now

884
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 4: and Letia and.

885
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 2: Well then again Letia, Natalie and Chloe and Chloe. Interesting.

886
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 4: Nalie's like my my closest, like my rock. She It's funny.

887
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 4: At one point we were saying, if they decide to

888
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 4: show the edit of me and Chloe, they're going to

889
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 4: think or me and Nalie. They're gonna think, oh, what

890
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 4: kind of relationship? Was going close? Either cry in her

891
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 4: arms or I was like braiding her hair. We're like

892
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 4: always touching. And then at the when she got eliminated,

893
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 4: I was bobbing and I was like, she goes, You're

894
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 4: going to do just fine without And then the next

895
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 4: day when I saw Grant, I go, you know, I

896
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 4: was crying, But it's just because you said my best

897
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 4: friend home.

898
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 2: You know what, Honesty is always the best policy.

899
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 4: It is exactly.

900
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: I mean I went home one rose before Susan and

901
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: I was ready to go. I mean Gary and I

902
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 1: were not a match made in heaven or in the Bronx,

903
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 1: or in Queens or anywhere anywhere else, anywhere anywhere, but

904
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 1: nice guy, nice guy, but not my guy.

905
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 2: But I missed.

906
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: I missed the girls. I couldn't wait until everybody came

907
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 1: home so we could talk.

908
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 3: Yes, And is that still have week?

909
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 2: We still have a large.

910
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 4: Two all friends that you're close with.

911
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 3: We talked to all of them, but there's a certain

912
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 3: few of us that are every day.

913
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, Susan, Nancy, we're we're kind of are the you know,

914
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: the ones that we talked about.

915
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 2: But we love I mean, I talked to Leslie occasionally.

916
00:41:59,400 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 2: We talked.

917
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 3: You know, there's a lot of Fame and Ellen, Sandra,

918
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 3: there's a.

919
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 2: Lot of them, and we have a big do you

920
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 2: have a chat chain, you know.

921
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 4: Like some little sub groups of you know, and I

922
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:17,879
Speaker 4: keep touch with Caresa and Beverly and ye Ali Joe.

923
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, we talked with Ali Jo.

924
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 2: I always this is Jersey Girl.

925
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 4: Every morning, everybody was. I loved it.

926
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 1: That's the accent. You know, you could have done that.

927
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: You could have helped me with that accent, with your

928
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 1: speech pathology.

929
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 2: You know.

930
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 4: No, I don't want to get rid of her accent.

931
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 3: I love it. Coffee, it's coffee and water. Water. Well,

932
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 3: this has been so much fun.

933
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 4: I had a blast.

934
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: Guy.

935
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 3: I hope you both get called. I really really do.

936
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 3: I cannot wait to hear the stories. I love this

937
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 3: and I really hope that both of you, both of

938
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 3: you find your person in love. Susan, Yes, that's wonderful.

939
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 4: This is what we want at the end of this

940
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 4: is that's right.

941
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 3: That's right, and it's when I least expected. I was

942
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 3: on vacation with Kathy. Actually, oh, that's how they met.

943
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 3: I introduced them in French. He doesn't speak English. He's French,

944
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:20,240
Speaker 3: he does not speak English.

945
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 4: He doesn't because you knew French.

946
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 2: Well I don't, no, no, no, I was just French, Spanish, English.

947
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 2: I just introduced them, you know, I mean everybody can say,

948
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 2: I mean helloiento.

949
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 3: You know, play anyhow. I hope you find a French, Italian, German, Irish.

950
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 3: I don't care who he is, but may you both

951
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 3: be matched, not together though, it's all good, It's all good.

952
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 3: This is so much fun. I hate to say this part,

953
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 3: but I think that does it for the episode, and

954
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 3: we're gonna have to say goodbye and thank you so

955
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 3: much for joining us, and for everybody out there listening.

956
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,760
Speaker 3: This is going to be it for Bachelor Happy Hours,

957
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 3: Golden Hour, and thank you to our lovely guest Alex

958
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 3: for joining us and dishing out some great advice. And

959
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 3: if she does get asked and finds her person, we

960
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 3: will definitely have her back.

961
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: On absolutely and we really did love getting to chat

962
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: with you all.

963
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 2: You ladies are amazing.

964
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 1: You are another strong, beautiful, intelligent woman, So celebrate that.

965
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,839
Speaker 1: Thank you everyone else for joining us, and be sure

966
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,520
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967
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968
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,160
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00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,840
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970
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,480
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972
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:54,239
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973
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974
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975
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