1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: What's up. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 2: It's way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee and 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 2: we have the star of Married to Medicine here with us. 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:11,399 Speaker 2: Doctor Heavenly is in the building. 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: Hey lady, how are you today? I'm good. How are 6 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: you from making time for me? I appreciate it, well, thank. 7 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 3: You for making time for me. 8 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: I see. 9 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 2: First of all, everybody's always talking about you, and rightfully 10 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 2: so you know that's a positive thing. 11 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 3: But Married to Medicine ten seasons. 12 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: Now. 13 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 2: Talk about the difference between when you first started on 14 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,599 Speaker 2: a show like this to where you are now, because 15 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 2: I know that mentally, when you leave a show, it 16 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 2: can sometimes you think about things that happen, it can 17 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,319 Speaker 2: bother you throughout the day. But now you're experienced at 18 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 2: being on television and dealing with all kinds of different 19 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,599 Speaker 2: things being thrown at you. What advice would you give 20 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 2: people like when you do a show like this because 21 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 2: you have a new cast member, a couple of new 22 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: cast members this season, But what advice would you give 23 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: so that people can live their best lives when they're 24 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: not filming. 25 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: You know what, I think I've learned a lot about people, 26 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: you know, in a sense that some people are never 27 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: gonna see what you see. They can look at the 28 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 1: same thing and see something very different. So that's why 29 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: I really don't care what people say I think, because 30 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: I really do believe what I think, and I think 31 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm I'm right all the time. Not all the time, yeah, no, 32 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: most times, yes, okay, most times? 33 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay? 34 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 1: All right? 35 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 2: And you know one person that always gets you know, 36 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 2: to your soft decide is your daughter. Yeah, and she's 37 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 2: in her freshman year at college, not a fam you 38 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 2: and at first you didn't really want her to go 39 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 2: to your uh, to your school. 40 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 3: But how do you feel now? 41 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: You know? First of all, when I went to family, 42 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: I knew how I was. Okay, I had a good term, 43 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 1: so I was like, you know what, I don't want 44 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: to do. But it's bittersweet. I mean, she's a lot 45 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: like me. She's fun she's funny, she has a sense 46 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: of humor, she has thick skin, that's why she films, 47 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: and she had no problem. But I'm so proud. I'm 48 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: proud of my baby girl. 49 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 50 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 2: And you so you met your husband in school, right, 51 00:01:59,080 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 2: But what. 52 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: School was Maherry Medical College? 53 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 3: Medical college? 54 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, I went there with a purpose to meet 55 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: to get my mrs and my dds to a MD. 56 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 3: Okay, and so that's why. 57 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: And now what you talk about purpose? What purpose? Don't 58 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: you talk about like having purpose? Yeah? That was my 59 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: purpose to get married. Yeah it was ye purpose Okay 60 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: my husband? Well it worked, it did, Yeah, had a plan. 61 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 3: Now. 62 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 2: Another thing that comes up a lot now is people 63 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 2: feel like, you know, you guys seem like you have 64 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 2: a great relationship together. But I saw and I know 65 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 2: you brought Sweet Tea on the show. Right, You're the 66 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 2: person that felt she should join the cast? 67 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: Is that true? I can't take full credit for that. 68 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: I think all of us had a relationship with doctor 69 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: g Yes, but I talked to a lot of people 70 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: about the show. She was just the chosen one because 71 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: it was the messy thing to do. But I can't 72 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: take total credit for her coming on the show. And 73 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: then when she said they approached her, I encouraged her 74 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: to do it. 75 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 3: Yes, Okay, how do you feel about that? 76 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: Now? You see a lot of things have been revealed 77 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: to me about what happened with Quad that maybe it 78 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: shouldn't it. It's a great idea, like what they don't 79 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: want me to talk about it? 80 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 3: Okay, So who doesn't want you to talk about it. 81 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. 82 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 3: She's like, I don't say too much. 83 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Have you spoken to quiet? Okay? 84 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 2: It just takes me yeah, okay, So everything is good 85 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 2: between you and Okay, but you are okay. So I 86 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 2: have to say, I do understand how Quid could feel, 87 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 2: and I understand how you guys felt because you felt 88 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 2: like Quid was closed off. 89 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 3: She left the show. 90 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: She kind of wasn't communicating with anybody, but she might 91 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 2: have had her own reasons for. 92 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: That, and now I know those reasons. 93 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 3: Okay, So she did have Oh. 94 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: We I didn't know. I didn't know before the shop 95 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: show started, but over when it happened, Quad has revealed 96 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: to me and other people never talked about it. The 97 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: things have happened, and I probably wouldn't have encouraged the 98 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: girl to join had I known the things that I. 99 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 3: Know now, Okay, all right, and you can. 100 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: Read between the lines. I'm not saying it, but you. 101 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 2: Know, Okay, that's interesting. So you guys have had conversations. 102 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 2: You're not saying necessarily y'all are on a good page, 103 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 2: but you understand I understand, Okay. And then as, but 104 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: doctor G is your friend, and. 105 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: See my friend, Damon my husband. Okay, it does intervention. 106 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know any of the men. I 107 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: don't talk to the men. I'm just sad. But uh, 108 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:20,359 Speaker 1: Damon refers patience to him. He's a psychiatrist, and Damon 109 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: does intervitional pain. And if you know anything about a 110 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 1: lot of chronic pain, people have you know, issues with 111 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: you know, mental because they're hurting all the time. So 112 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: he refers patience for that psychological evail. 113 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 3: Okay, all right. 114 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 2: And then you know, Jessa, a few days ago, you 115 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 2: and Sweet Tea, it feels like this ongoing thing now 116 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 2: between the two of you and I saw the live 117 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 2: that kind of spun out of control. So now that 118 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 2: that has settled, because that was, you know, almost two 119 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 2: weeks ago. Now, how do you feel now about everything? 120 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 2: Looking back? 121 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: I feel like that shouldn't have happened. I feel like 122 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: I'm the oldest session I went on there plan you 123 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: know how I do? I trade like, who the hell 124 00:04:58,520 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: called me? Oh? You know what I mean? They're kind 125 00:04:59,920 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: of And then when she said, you said something like 126 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: the show was about to come back on, and she said, 127 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: I said, the hell with the show. Let's talk about it, yo, 128 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: Mama in hell. Yeah, Oh that took me for a 129 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: loop and I went the wrong way. I'm not mad 130 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: at it. I just feel like I just went to 131 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: hell with her and that wasn't good. I shouldn't have 132 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: done it. And I apologize for the things I say. 133 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: And I don't understand not being able or may possibly 134 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 1: having problems having children because man came too. 135 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 2: Easy, so right, and that was a difficult topic for 136 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 2: sure for her to also have to deal with because 137 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,039 Speaker 2: I saw that, well, you said that you felt that 138 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 2: because she has like fibraides and. 139 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: Is demetrio issues. 140 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 2: Yes, but part of what doctor g wanted was to 141 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: have kids. That's been something that. 142 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: That was the main thing he wanted. And I think 143 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 1: that's why he went twenty three years younger than him 144 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 1: so he could have that. And I'm gonna say this, 145 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna take it back. I think that knowing 146 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: your body, maybe because I'm a doctor, I realized that 147 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 1: if I'm bleeding and I'm hurting, I would look it up, 148 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: and you know, as a doctor, I would say go 149 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: to web md and see what all the things I 150 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: could have, And even if the doctor didn't diagnose it. 151 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, hey, listen, do it ultra sound. 152 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,239 Speaker 1: Let's test for this. That's why I lead to believe 153 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: that she knew she had these issues when she told 154 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: him she was gonna have a baby, and she got 155 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,359 Speaker 1: married under fosse precists and now he in it, you. 156 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 3: Know, because when they even initially met, she DMed. 157 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,599 Speaker 1: Him yeah, and she got a baby emoji, right, I 158 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: got what you wanted. What you need a baby? 159 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I get it. 160 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 2: That's you know, like we don't know what she did 161 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,799 Speaker 2: or didn't know about her body, and that is also 162 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: not easy for a lot of women who my ass 163 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 2: issues you know with that. But my condolence is for 164 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 2: what she said about your mom, because I know your mom. 165 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 2: Oh sure did past Did she apologize to you? 166 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: No, not to me directly. Somebody said she did it 167 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: online or something. But you know, I ain't even mad, 168 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: because you know, I'm cool with your mama jokes. I 169 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: just probably haven't processed my mama din or properly mourned 170 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 1: that yet, you know what I'm saying. But my mama 171 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 1: is your jokester. She was a jokester. She would have 172 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: laughed you know what I mean, It wasn't that deep. 173 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 1: I just took it there because probably some resolved feelings 174 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: of that. 175 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 2: Now, the one thing that people also love about you, 176 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 2: Doctor Heavenly, is that you're about your business. Yeah, all right, 177 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 2: and you have your Doctor Heavenly University as well, so 178 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 2: I just want to make sure we talk about that too. 179 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 2: And you're also very outspoken about making sure that you 180 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 2: have multiple streams of income too, for anybody that's out here, 181 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 2: you know, in this business world. My uncle's a dentist, 182 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 2: so I also have an affinity tour that helped me 183 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 2: so much growing up, I want to say, because I 184 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 2: always feel like people do not. 185 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 3: Go to the dentist the way that they should. 186 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 2: You know, a lot of times, like when we have 187 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:34,239 Speaker 2: to go to the dentist, it's never a pleasant visit. 188 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 2: But if you go consistently and take care of things, 189 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 2: you feel so much better afterwards. 190 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: I was just going to say that if you do 191 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: preventative dentistry, it won't be unpleasant. But people wait until 192 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: they're having a problem, right, and then when it comes 193 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: to a rooknal or whatever. 194 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 2: So talk about your what made you decide to do this? 195 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 2: Because I know you want to help other people too. 196 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: Oh, absolutely not to Headley University actually started with dentists. Okay, 197 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: because I own nine practices, people ask me, how did 198 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: you do it? What are you doing? So I started 199 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: teaching dentists on the top five income procedures. We would 200 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: give them se credits, we would bring bankers in to 201 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: tell them how to get the loans, real estate agents 202 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: in to come tell them how to get a property 203 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: and all that. And then somebody said, well, we want 204 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: to know you should extend this to everybody. So it 205 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: started out with that and then I extended. We had 206 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: ended up getting twelve coaches with credit repair, how to 207 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: manage your money all the way to insurance, to saving 208 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: your money, precious metals. All those things came together and 209 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: I knew a lot because I've done a lot, but 210 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: I brought specific specialists in for each avenue and it 211 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 1: actually actually been well received. I love that me too. 212 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: It's fun and I've learned more than anybody. 213 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 2: No, I think that's amazing because I feel like when 214 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: you learn and then you're able to pass that knowledge 215 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 2: on the other people and teach people, that's the greatest 216 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 2: power a person can have. You know this helped me, 217 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 2: so I want to help other people figure these things out. Now, 218 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 2: what does your daughter want to do while she's in college? 219 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 2: What is she studying? 220 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: My daughter wants to make money and not work. That's 221 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: what these little kids, well, right, that's what these little kids. 222 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: These little kids have fuelt different from us. They they 223 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: want microwave stuff. You know, her major is biology pre 224 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: mad so she does want to go down to school, 225 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: but she don't want to work. These kids don't want 226 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 1: to work. They different. They can't handle too much and 227 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 1: they not gonna do too much. So they're a little different. 228 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: But you know, I'm working on them. She's doing good though, 229 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: she's doing very well. 230 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 2: But I love to see that. Now, another thing I 231 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 2: want to talk about. So, you've been married for what 232 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: twenty six years? 233 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: Twenty six years? We've been together thirty years. 234 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 3: Twenty six years. Absolutely, that is amazing. 235 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 2: Now people look at your relationship from the outside and 236 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 2: they're like, it's so perfect, and I know your man 237 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 2: is perfect for you, but what are there times that 238 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 2: y'all have had, you know, any child's and tribulations that 239 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 2: you have to work through. 240 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: Absolutely? Absolutely, yeah, for sure. Yeah, he ain't never cheated 241 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 1: that I know of. If you know what I'm saying, 242 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: Like the little girl putting that right now, they're gonna 243 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 1: say she if it did that, I don't know. And 244 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: if you look at my last blog, I told you 245 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: how I think about it. At fifty, I think differently 246 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: than a thirty year old, you know what I mean 247 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 1: about any of them that. But no, he's never given 248 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 1: me a reason to think that he's and you know 249 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: he's a good guy. He just really is. And like 250 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 1: I was telling the other girl the other a few 251 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 1: minutes ago, when I look at reality TV, I don't 252 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: have nothing to complain about. Like when I look at 253 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: the other husbands not coming home for seven days, not working, 254 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, talking crazy to the white 255 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: I you know, we respect each other, you know what 256 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So when I look at that, I'm like, dang, 257 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm good. 258 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 2: You also have a new cast made besides sweet See, 259 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 2: Phaedra love Her is on this season. Yes, So how 260 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 2: did you initially feel when you found out she was 261 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: going to be joining? 262 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: Honestly, I was excited, just like everybody else excited. But 263 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:41,839 Speaker 1: Phaedra is analytical. She's thinking her way through, and I 264 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 1: think she's trying to ease her way and try to 265 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 1: learn everybody, and it's slower than people want her to be. 266 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: But she's reading the girls. They're just not showing it. 267 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 2: She has her moments. Yeah, and you did what was 268 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 2: it reiki? Is that what it's called reiki? So how 269 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 2: was that for you? Because you said you could feel 270 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 2: a burden? 271 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: I was actually serious, No, I really I know something. 272 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: I don't know enough about it, you know what I mean. 273 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: And I've heard, you know, people say, you know it's 274 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: one way or the other. I think it's some kind 275 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 1: of spiritual healing and energy or something like that. I 276 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:11,439 Speaker 1: really didn't do more research about it, but I was 277 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: pleading the blood of Jesus all over it. So you know, 278 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: whatever it is. Uncovered afterward, how did you feel like? 279 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 3: Did it do anything? Is it something that you like? 280 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 3: I would try this again. 281 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: I think it opens up emotional feelings, like you feel 282 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: something that's energies present. Since they said it was in 283 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: my heart, you know what I'm saying. And I don't know. 284 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 1: I'm alluding that that may have something to do with 285 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 1: my sister, so you know, I don't know. Ooh and 286 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: speaking of your sister, have you guys spoken not really, 287 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: not really, okay, but that is something that you do 288 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 1: feel really intent on making happen. That was my mother's 289 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: last wish on her dying bed for me and my 290 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: sister have a relationship. 291 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, are there any plant you said? Not really, 292 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 2: but so you've spoken a little bit. But yeah, do 293 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 2: you feel like she is receptive to being able to? 294 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 1: I think we need therapy. I think there's a lot 295 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: of feelings that I don't even freaking know what they are. 296 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I think that when you're 297 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 1: a child, you're in different stages of development that I 298 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: don't remember the stuff that she remembers, you know. So 299 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 1: it's a lot of stuff. But do you want to 300 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: up in those cans of worms? I don't know, because 301 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: do you know how to put them back? I don't know. 302 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,319 Speaker 3: If you put them back, you might open them. And then. 303 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: That's a lot. I get a lot already. I can't 304 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: even really it's a lot. 305 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 2: Is this something you would do on the show or 306 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 2: is that something that you feel like everything doesn't need 307 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 2: to be on camera. 308 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 1: I think that everything does not need to be on camera. 309 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: I think that. You know, I don't think she's cut 310 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 1: out for the show. She's not strong, just like I say, 311 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: sweet Tea, she gets emotional, becomes unhinged. I'm not saying 312 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 1: that my sister would be like that, but I don't 313 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: think everybody's cut out for this. You have to have 314 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: thick skin and you have to know how to control yourself, 315 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: you know in some capacity. 316 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 2: Did you always have thick skin or is that something 317 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 2: you had to develop out if they grew. 318 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 1: Up in Miami in the hood, like we joned, that's 319 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: what we did, so it was something you would never 320 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,079 Speaker 1: think that skill would help you later in life, right, 321 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:02,959 Speaker 1: But reality TV is just you. 322 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 2: Know, could you have seen Married to Medicine from when 323 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 2: it first started taking off and being here and you 324 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 2: still being on, Like that's amazing. That's ten seasons already 325 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:14,719 Speaker 2: is a long run and it doesn't feel like it's 326 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 2: going anywhere anytime soon. 327 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: I think that we're doing something that people need to see. 328 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 1: I think that people think because you have a degree, 329 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 1: you're different. Were the same people. We have the same issues, financial, merital, spiritual, whatever, 330 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: you know what our friends and our family, and I 331 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 1: think it's good to see, you know, right. 332 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 3: And I know you're also really great at giving advice. 333 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: Absolutely relationship advice, yes to. 334 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 3: People when it comes to relationships. 335 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 2: So I wanted to ask you a couple of questions 336 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 2: that people had actually called in here, right with it with, 337 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 2: just to get your take on it. 338 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 3: Okay, all right? 339 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 2: So one person wanted to know about dating while he 340 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 2: doesn't have a lot of money. So he met a 341 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 2: woman on a dating app and he wants to take 342 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 2: her out, but he's trying to take her out on 343 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 2: a budget, and he's a little nervous that she might 344 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 2: want to get, you know, a drink, and he can't 345 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 2: really afford to do too many extra things. 346 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 3: So he's wondering what should he do. 347 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,319 Speaker 2: And I told them that maybe it's not the time, 348 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 2: you know, on a first date, to have to bring 349 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 2: that up. 350 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 3: But what do you think. 351 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: I think that when you're dating, if you're seriously dating, 352 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 1: and you're dating someone you want to marry, you shouldn't 353 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 1: be taking just everybody out, you know what I'm saying, 354 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: Because that's a waste of time. You're taking out ten women, 355 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 1: that's a waste of time. But if you don't have 356 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 1: money to take out the woman, you really won't you're 357 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: not ready to date. You're not ready, you get your 358 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: get your fax up and then date. Because I'm from Miami, 359 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: I just I see men as providers and you're not 360 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: gonna change my mind. Okay about that. You're a city 361 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: girl for sure, for sure, for sure I was gonna 362 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: say that, but I didn't want to say it. But yes, 363 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: for sure, for. 364 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 2: Sure it's good for you because you haven't had to date. 365 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 2: And since you know, twenty. 366 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: And I always stated with a purpose, I wasn't just 367 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: dating people. You know what I'm saying. I was dating 368 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: with a purpose. Like you know, me and my husband 369 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: was a plan. I had a man on my vision board. 370 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: I went to school to get them. So life to me, 371 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 1: even the relationship part, the money part, it should be 372 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: a plan. Now, the plans don't always go it's it's planned, 373 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: but you got to have a plan to get to 374 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 1: your goals. And what was it like when he proposed 375 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: to you? Now, mad you? I was five months pregnant. 376 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 4: But but yeah, he took me to uh Now, he 377 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 4: didn't have a whole lot of money, but he had 378 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 4: the potential because we were at school school and I 379 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 4: want to have. 380 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 1: The money, right, he took me to oprey Land Hotel. 381 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: I know that's in Nashville, and we went to the 382 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: conservatory and he got on his knee. But I was 383 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: expected already already. You better better because we were. We 384 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: were inseparable from the time we met. And that's how 385 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 1: you know when you when you meet somebody, it don't 386 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 1: take long to know that that's the person you want 387 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: to be with. So you want that for your daughter 388 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: to absolutely. I don't want her dating too much. I 389 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 1: want her to find her when she's ready to find 390 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: her husband. You know, ain't no need of going through 391 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: a whole bunch of people. 392 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 3: Does she ever bring people you like? 393 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? You like him? 394 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 3: Do you ever like anything? 395 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: I think your mother has a very deep power because discernment, 396 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: and you should listen to your mother. 397 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 3: Okay, that's that's just the thing. 398 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: There's some advice I'm giving everybody in the world. Listen 399 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: to your mama. She has your best interest and she 400 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: could see stuff you can't see. 401 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 3: All right, that's good. 402 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 2: I'm glad you said that because I just think about 403 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 2: how my mother used to tell me something and I 404 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 2: always wanted to do the opposite, right, And sometimes you 405 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 2: get very if my mom or my parents didn't like somebody. 406 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 2: It would make me try to go harder to prove 407 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 2: them wrong, and then they would be right. 408 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: Though we always right, we usually write we right. We 409 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: could see through it like we could tell and my 410 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: husband and men don't have it as well. But my 411 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 1: how do you know that? I just know? I just 412 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 1: know that person not for you? That person is this? 413 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: I just know? 414 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 2: Now do you see any and do you see any 415 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 2: way that you and sweet Tea will be able to 416 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 2: get on the same page? 417 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: Absolutely? 418 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 3: Okay? She also did not want to. 419 00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 2: You were taking off the guest list for her wedding 420 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 2: as well. 421 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 3: Now I was wondering, is that just for TV? Or 422 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 3: was that real? 423 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,439 Speaker 1: I think it was real. I walked up in there 424 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,640 Speaker 1: because I was going to my daughter and I had 425 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 1: a scene and they sent me and I'm thinking, I'm 426 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: finna get in and Toya laughing like she already know 427 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: they planned it, And my whole thing is all I 428 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: was doing was looking out for the little girl. Once 429 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 1: I saw the way the thing she was telling me 430 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: the man was controlling, I said, listen, stop telling him everything. 431 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 1: Come over here, let me show you how to do 432 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 1: not to have me university, get your insurance together, get 433 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,119 Speaker 1: your stuff together. And the problem was he was hearing 434 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: about it. I was trying to look out for. Yes, 435 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: I said to Jackie and someone, maybe she should slow 436 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:37,199 Speaker 1: us down, you know what I mean? But right, and 437 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 1: you know, when you try to help people that really 438 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 1: want something, you really should just shut. 439 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 3: She was gonna do it. 440 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 1: She was to do it anyway, all right. 441 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 2: Now, in retrospect, do you think that it was wrong 442 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 2: for a phasia to invade Quiet to the bridal shower? 443 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:49,919 Speaker 2: Looking back at that, that was an awkward thing. And 444 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:51,440 Speaker 2: then y'all had to ask Qua to leave. 445 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 1: Y'all know that was wrong. And you ain't even got 446 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 1: to ask me to bring the X wife to nobody 447 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 1: bride a shine. I mean, we could play with it, 448 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: but you know it was wrong. But it was great TV. 449 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: Two babies walked up in there, and it was like 450 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: it was it was great TV. 451 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 2: Can you imagine where your reaction would have been in 452 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 2: a situation like that, because Sweet Tea was very like, hey, girl, 453 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 2: come sitting next to me, which. 454 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 1: I thought was very odd. I'm not gonna be it 455 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 1: a fan. She fanned out when she saw Quiet I 456 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: was sitting there She's like, oh my god, what girl comes? 457 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 3: Who does that? Who does not gonna sit next to me? 458 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: No, asn't. Matter of fact, you're not even sitting. 459 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 2: It's gonna be like listen, I don't know why somebody 460 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:31,199 Speaker 2: would invite you to this. 461 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 1: But you know the only person that was mad, Toya 462 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 1: was mad as hell. Toyo was mad. 463 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 2: I saw she don't play, but I was wondering why 464 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:39,880 Speaker 2: we Quid want to come? 465 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 3: Also to that? 466 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: S what you want? That was a scene you said 467 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 1: you would like her to be back on the show. 468 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,440 Speaker 1: I know that absolutely would. I would. I've been having 469 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 1: mixed feelings about it. Quiet has pissed me off to 470 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: the teeth. I'm sick. She's so it's a difficult friendship, right, 471 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 1: and I like effortless friendship like that to Jackie that 472 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 1: Jackie is got and she's not bothered. I can say 473 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 1: whatever and she's gonna like, hey, heavenly, that was a 474 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: good scene. He I. It's a lot. They have to 475 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: go backwards and say, listen, girl, it's a lot. So yeah, 476 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 1: I love Quad. I will always have love for Quad, 477 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:18,360 Speaker 1: but she's difficult. 478 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, you know, do you think people have 479 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:22,719 Speaker 2: to have thick skin to be friends with you too, 480 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 2: because you give it like it is and sometimes it 481 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:25,480 Speaker 2: can be harsh. 482 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 1: I am not for everyone, okay, that's at all, and 483 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:31,680 Speaker 1: not trying to be you know. I mean that when 484 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: you get a certain age, it's like your friends are 485 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: the people that you want around you. They can uplift you. 486 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 1: They can. But if I ask you a question, I 487 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 1: want the truth. Right. If I don't ask you, now 488 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 1: that's a different situation. But if I ask you, Angela, Hey, 489 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 1: what do you think about this? I want your honest 490 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 1: You not probably if you're not going I'm not gonna 491 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: listen to you, no way, but I would like to 492 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,360 Speaker 1: know your opinion. I love it. 493 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 3: I don't even know. 494 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 4: Now. 495 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 2: You have so many things that you've accomplished already. What 496 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 2: else is on the bucket list for Jack to. 497 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 1: Heaven's enjoying everything I'm doing. I love Doctor Heaven University. 498 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 1: I love the financial literacy because some of us need it. 499 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 1: And a lot of people say, is it just for women? 500 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: That's who I cater to. I understand the thought process women, 501 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:15,479 Speaker 1: so yes, women smiles about that. The Heavenly We've been 502 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: doing that for years, were making beautiful smiles. I love 503 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 1: doing it, but I also love being a wife and 504 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 1: it's a different chapter of my life when my children 505 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 1: are gone, so me and my husband are really getting 506 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 1: to know each other. Yeah, that's a weird thing. 507 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:30,160 Speaker 3: It's the first time to have the house to yourselves. 508 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 1: It's different. It's different. 509 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 3: What do you think about everybody getting venaias now too? 510 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: I think if you go out of the country and 511 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 1: get those big ass chicklets, that's not a good thing. 512 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: I specialize in natural looking dentition. 513 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because it feels like some people. 514 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 2: Maybe like I know somebody who Fortunately for him, he 515 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 2: did not get the venias. All he needed to get 516 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 2: was like some braces to kind of straighten his teeth up. 517 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 2: It's not always necessary to have. 518 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: To do that. There are beautiful if they're done right, 519 00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 1: But if you get the ass, then the ass A 520 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 1: THI racial is. I think people want people to know 521 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 1: that they spent the money or something, because sometimes I'm. 522 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 3: Super white and super bright and super big. 523 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: And if your answer is super big, you just want 524 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,159 Speaker 1: people to know you're not trying to do something naturally 525 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 1: just enhance your beauty. You just want to be seeing 526 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: I guess I don't know, but that's not you know, 527 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 1: people come in asking for those bleached teeth, you know, 528 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 1: that white white So you know, I inform you, but 529 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,880 Speaker 1: I oblige you if you want it, but I don't 530 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 1: like doing them. I don't. I don't When you come 531 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 1: at my office, I want you to have as heavenly smile. 532 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 2: Right, yeah, because I've always you know, sometimes those people 533 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 2: get them really young. Now, who should be getting like 534 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 2: for people? You know, it's gotten so much more popular, right, 535 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 2: and so I've never understood because you know, clearly I 536 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,440 Speaker 2: can have a nice, beautiful white smile if I went 537 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 2: and got veneers. Because people want perfection is what it 538 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 2: seems like. I'm okay with like the imperfection of my teeth. 539 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 2: So for when it comes to ven there's like, who 540 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 2: are people that Have you ever told somebody maybe you 541 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 2: don't need to get. 542 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 1: That all the time? Okay, yes, ts Madison, I told 543 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 1: her she actually is on the next episode. You don't 544 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 1: need vaneers, girl, you got beautiful teeth. It's not gonna 545 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:08,399 Speaker 1: enhance your smile anyway. Veneers are people with maleligne teeth 546 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: and staining like you got, uh, staining from from different 547 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: medication or something in your teeth. Then we can white 548 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: because we whiten them, but we can't get the intrinsic staining, 549 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 1: the stainingness inside the teeth based on medical conditions or medicine, 550 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:28,640 Speaker 1: and and but veneers are not for everyone. Everybody don't 551 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 1: need them. Everybody want them and certain people. You look 552 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 1: at it, you cannot make them without being big. So 553 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 1: you think, hey, you know what, you got a diastema, 554 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: but it's big. These teeth gonna come our biggest hell. 555 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: The space a gap between your teeth, I see, unless 556 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 1: we start over, since we can do it like that 557 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:46,160 Speaker 1: gap is cute too. 558 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 2: I do too do things like that are very distinctive 559 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 2: for a person. I agree, and to be you know, 560 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 2: kind of cute. But I noticed that sometimes teeth can 561 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 2: be such a big deal. I know, people who they'll 562 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 2: like won't want to smile all the way, or they'll 563 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 2: cover their moth because they have a lot of insecurities 564 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 2: about what their teeth look like. But that's why I'm 565 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 2: always I always tell people how important it is to 566 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 2: make sure that you have a great dentist and to 567 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 2: make sure that you're always going and not waiting until 568 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 2: you're in pain. And there's nothing you could do about 569 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 2: it but pull that tooth out. 570 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 1: You know. You know what, when I got my teeth done, 571 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 1: I think it changed my whole profile. So it can 572 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: it's cosmetic, but it changed the whole facial profile. So 573 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 1: dentistry is something good. 574 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 575 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: And I always say get your teeth domb before your ass, 576 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,439 Speaker 1: because your teeth are more important. Now let me before 577 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,199 Speaker 1: your ass. Then get your ass done. Get somebody to 578 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 1: pay for your ass teeth or vice versa. 579 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 2: Now do you feel like the women shade what it 580 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 2: is that you do? Like it's not you know, on 581 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:42,400 Speaker 2: the level of. 582 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,199 Speaker 1: I think that it's two sided. I think that my 583 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: husband would have a problem if somebody shaded him for 584 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 1: being a doctor if he wasn't. Md EMD is the 585 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: krim de la krim of being a doctor. It just is. 586 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 1: But I do think that the women envy me that 587 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 1: I work less and I make more. I do think 588 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 1: they be that fact I'm not at work all the time. 589 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: I work three days a week half a day, and 590 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 1: I still make more, you know. And it ain't no read, 591 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 1: that's just facts. It is though. I mean it's a 592 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,439 Speaker 1: classy factual read. And I chose it. For that reason, 593 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: I wanted to be a wife and a mother. I 594 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 1: wanted to outside life. I didn't want to be on call, 595 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 1: you know. So where did you. 596 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 3: Get all of this instilled in you? 597 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 1: Like no matter how my mama, My mama, My mama 598 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 1: never came on the show because she thought it was foolishness, 599 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 1: is what she called it, Jackie cus it foolishness. But 600 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: my mama, from the time I was four years old, 601 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 1: my mama instilled in me you're going to be a doctor. 602 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: First I thought I was going to be a pediatrician, 603 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 1: but then when I went to school, I decided the 604 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 1: dentistry because I'm I'm I'm an artist, Like I can 605 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 1: draw really well, I can you know, do different things 606 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: and dentistry as an artist well as a science. And 607 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 1: when I shadowed the dentist, I was like, this is 608 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 1: the career for me. 609 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 2: I could do this, yeah, you know, and it's something 610 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 2: that's much needed to Absolutely when it comes to your 611 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 2: nine different practices, you're also set up so you can 612 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 2: sell those. 613 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 1: I did. I already done that. I've had nine different 614 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 1: practices over time. Now I'm in one cosmetic practice. I've 615 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: done that. I bought practices. I sold them. I realized 616 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 1: that a lot of dentists did not know business, so 617 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: a lot of times they would become over the overhead 618 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 1: and I would just get them on the low, low 619 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 1: pay cash form and then build them up and sell them. 620 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 1: I've been doing that for years. 621 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 2: This is amazing, just the abilities that you have to 622 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 2: not just do what you do for Alan and. 623 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: I could read a bit on reality TV. I'm sorry, 624 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I can't help it. I can't help it. 625 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: I'm very versatile. I can sit here with Michelle Obama. 626 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 1: I could sit here with Mama d what you want, 627 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 1: I could do it. 628 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 2: And y'all had a guest appearance from our vice president 629 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 2: Kamala Harris, you know, kind of on the show as. 630 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: Well, saying that was a great moment for doctor Jackie. 631 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, for doctor Jackie, for I love doctor talking about 632 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 2: my black maternal health care and all of those things, 633 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 2: which is really important. 634 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: Are you how are you. 635 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 3: Feeling about elections? 636 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 2: Because it is an election year and so I know 637 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 2: that's something I would love to hear. 638 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: I don't talk politics at all. 639 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 3: Do you ever? So you've never endorsed anybody or. 640 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 2: Published if I did, I wouldn't. Okay, Yeah, that's I'm 641 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 2: saying publicly. You've never done that. Is that for professional 642 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 2: reasons or is that just because I just I. 643 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,360 Speaker 1: Just to me, to me, it's too sticky of a subject, 644 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Just like religion. You know, 645 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 1: I thought a lot of ship but want to those 646 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:20,120 Speaker 1: are not Yeah? 647 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, are there ever things that you feel like 648 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 2: looking back, you're like, man, I can read a bitch, 649 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 2: but maybe I went too far. 650 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: No, they got what they wanted. They got what they wanted. 651 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:32,479 Speaker 1: I think a lot of times on the show, they 652 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 1: don't show what they say to me, Like for example, 653 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 1: that lad with Phedro, they saw what the bitch said 654 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: to me. But on TV they want to say my 655 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: mom and hell, oh bitch, you get what you get? 656 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,239 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And they might cut that 657 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: part out. Absolutely they do because they say it's too dark. 658 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:49,959 Speaker 1: But they say my stuff is funny. I don't think 659 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 1: my ship is funny. I be real, you know. But 660 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 1: they say when I'm naturally funny, So they say, when 661 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:55,679 Speaker 1: I read people, it's funny. 662 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 2: I think for you, people look at you as it's 663 00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 2: not coming from a place of maliciousness. 664 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: It's not. It's fun. It's funny most times. 665 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 2: Most times, yes, yeah, because sometimes people say things with malintentions, 666 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 2: oh for sure, But yours it might seem like it's honest, 667 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 2: and it's just we talk. 668 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,000 Speaker 1: I talk about what people present on the show. I 669 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 1: know so much about people. I never say you know 670 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But if you present on the show, 671 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 1: of course on my podcast, I'm gonna talk about it. 672 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 1: You put it out there, you know what I'm saying, 673 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,439 Speaker 1: and even you talk about it. I think people have 674 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 1: a feeling about that. But I ain't trying to ruin 675 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 1: nobody marriage. I'm for a family. I love family. I'm 676 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,120 Speaker 1: not trying to ruin anybody business, you know what I mean. 677 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,640 Speaker 1: So I do have my limitations. 678 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 2: Yes, Now have you met Phager's man, which one I 679 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 2: thought she was dating a doctor and that well. 680 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 1: Well initially she was dating a doctor. No, seriously, no, no, no, 681 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 1: I tell you the truth. I would tell you the 682 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 1: truth if I thought it wasn't real. She did a 683 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 1: casting with the doctor African guy. They didn't get the 684 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: release sign. I mean, I don't know if it's supposed 685 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:56,919 Speaker 1: to be plugged, but it is what it is so. 686 00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 1: But she is dating people now and one guy that 687 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 1: she met at one of my husband's events, who is 688 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: a doctor. I didn't introduce her, but she met him 689 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 1: because Damon has events, and I think she's dating a doctor. Now, Okay, 690 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if I could put that out there, 691 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 1: but a long haul, I think you'll see it, right. 692 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: I don't like to go ahead of them. 693 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 2: You think Quiet will come back, You think there's that's 694 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 2: a POSSI that it's up to her if she comes 695 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 2: back or not. She got to learn how to play 696 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 2: the game. But we will find out at some point 697 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 2: what happened that you didn't know before. 698 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,160 Speaker 3: Like you said, there was something expected. 699 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: The reunion, because if you I think that if you 700 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: come on the show with that kind of baggage, you 701 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 1: had to have expected that. QUI gonna say it that 702 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 1: I think that I think that she's gonna say why 703 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 1: she feels the way that she does. 704 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 3: You think that her ex still would prefer to be 705 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 3: with her. I know you've said that. I didn't know 706 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 3: if you were saying that in the heat of. 707 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 1: To be honest, yes, but I think what we messed 708 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 1: up at is well not I ain't gonna say that, 709 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 1: but yeah, yeah, yeah, I think the way that he 710 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 1: acts around her, or or acting like he cannot be 711 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: around her, the people around are saying that he's still 712 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 1: you know, and I'm sure he's not gonna say that, right, 713 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 1: And I'm sure you know he's not gonna say he's 714 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 1: disappointed that he can't get what he thought he could 715 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,040 Speaker 1: get from Sweet Tea. I think that he's gonna play role. 716 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 1: But if you watch the show, you can see that 717 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 1: he's been on his best behavior. He taking out the garbage. 718 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: Remember that was a big issue for Quad. He would 719 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,400 Speaker 1: never take out a guy. So he's playing a role. 720 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 3: Now, okay, and that doesn't always last. 721 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 1: It ain't gonna last telling the little girl, litle girl, 722 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 1: come over here, let me show you how to get 723 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: your coins, and your duck is in a role. But 724 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: then it always backfires because people go with their man. 725 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: But okay, let's see, and then in the end you're 726 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 1: gonna saying he that to Himley was right. She was like, 727 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 1: she's trying to tell you, what. 728 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 3: Did you think about their bachelor party? 729 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 1: The men? Yeah, a man, Yeah, I'm gonna take my 730 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 1: pants up, my pants come down and not come back up. 731 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 1: I think that. I know I'd be wrong for the 732 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 1: stuff I say, but I think that if that was 733 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,520 Speaker 1: a bachelorette party for Quad, he wouldn't have done that. 734 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: I think it shows how much respect you have for 735 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 1: your your wife or your wife to be. If my 736 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: pants come down, and I don't know if they showed 737 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 1: this part, but you know, he actually invited the stripper 738 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 1: to his web. 739 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 2: I saw you guys talked about it. I feel like 740 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 2: he wouldn't have done that with Quad. 741 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: I think that that shows how much he I ain't 742 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 1: gonna say disrespects or I think he loves his wife. 743 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that, but I think that because she's 744 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 1: so much younger, I think that the amount of respect 745 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 1: is probably not. He knows he can get away. Thank you. 746 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, thank you for helping me because 747 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: I was gonna say the wrong. Fact. He knows he 748 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 1: can get away to right people will do what you. 749 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,959 Speaker 1: My man would never do that because he knows I'm crazy. 750 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: You know I'm crazy, So you know what I mean. 751 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: You gotta show a dude early, But did you do that? 752 00:30:58,480 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 3: Was crazy? 753 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: Early? He said, I hit my hand over the head 754 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 1: with a pan, But I told her that because I 755 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,600 Speaker 1: told her don't try to shit at home because he 756 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:12,480 Speaker 1: might not react the way that Damon did anyway, Okay, 757 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: you let him know early, right, Yeah, I'm crazy. Yeah, 758 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 1: but two crazy people don't work, right. 759 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 2: You said you're the crazy one, he's the calm about 760 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 2: and you're right. It's a balance and a relationship. 761 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 3: And so you've also said I saw this that Phaeder. 762 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 2: Has a lot on the reunion, Like she'll have a 763 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 2: lot to talk about on the reunion. Yes, okay, so 764 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 2: there's gonna be some more things, yes, that go on 765 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 2: with her. 766 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 3: Yes, Okay, you're like, I can't get it. 767 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: But you know what, honestly, I don't know what they 768 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 1: gonna play because a lot of stuff they face that's done, 769 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 1: they have not played it. I don't know why. Maybe 770 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 1: they don't want you to come in and just not 771 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 1: like I'm not saying you would. I'm not like her, 772 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 1: but you know what I mean. When I first came in, 773 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 1: I was in a ship from the first episode, right, 774 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: so that whoever you start out beating on the show, 775 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 1: that's who you are. Fare they don't kind of lead 776 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 1: her in and I'm not even saying it's her fault. 777 00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 1: It's that ed and they bringing her in easy. I'm 778 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 1: not a producer. I think that I'm very smart. I'm 779 00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 1: believe it, but I would do things differently. 780 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 2: Okay, would you ever want to like produce a show? 781 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 2: And is that No. 782 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 1: That's not what I'm interested in. No, but I damn 783 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 1: show would have had Quad in the room with Doctor G. 784 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 1: I would have had a dinner. 785 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, right, Yeah, that interaction, just to. 786 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 1: See that interaction, like y'all missed. I ain't talking about 787 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep my job. I'm a dennist, but I 788 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: know mess like if y'all will miss I done brought 789 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 1: the bitch to excuse me. Come on, I don't know 790 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 1: what you trying to show you got because you know 791 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 1: I try to follow you know what I mean? The energy, 792 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 1: So I don't know, Anthony, I don't no, no, no, no, 793 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,760 Speaker 1: you gotta be you. No, you don't want me. They 794 00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: told me to be me on TG. When I was me, 795 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 1: everybody got mad, so I try to come on bed, 796 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 1: come on. 797 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:07,400 Speaker 2: Okay, that you so much for asking And you've also 798 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 2: been doing these weeks with Carlos King. Carlos King, Yes, 799 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 2: so how do the other castmates feel about that anybody's. 800 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 1: I think that for the people that are thinking about it, 801 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 1: they know it's for the greater good of the show. 802 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: I mean, we go viral every week and it's allowed 803 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 1: a lot of people to continue to watch the show 804 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 1: because not only is it that we're talking about the show, 805 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 1: it's other bloggers that pick it up that are talking 806 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,840 Speaker 1: about what we're talking about and the things that are 807 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 1: behind the scenes. Now, Carlos is kind of hard on 808 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: our show because he's a producer. A lot of times 809 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,600 Speaker 1: he says what we could have done differently, and I 810 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 1: probably don't like that part as much, but he definitely 811 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 1: gives a great insight on what's going on and what 812 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 1: he thinks, you know, and we really don't review the show. 813 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: We talk about the other thing about the show, do 814 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 1: the producers love you? From Married to Medicine? 815 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,719 Speaker 2: I would think they know you the best out of 816 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,480 Speaker 2: absolutely Okay, because. 817 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 1: All the stuff I talk about whatever days stop me, 818 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So obviously they like it because they would 819 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 1: have called it heavenly haavenly, Hey, that's what they do. 820 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 2: But the one thing I think that h that you 821 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 2: don't like is that sometimes things get edited in a 822 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 2: way that you're not being able to. 823 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: At this point on here, at this point, it is 824 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 1: what it is, you know what I'm saying. I'd have 825 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 1: been on Twitter. The people drag me every week. I 826 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 1: don't care. Actually, I know who I am and I 827 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 1: know whose I am, so yeah, you got my mad. 828 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,279 Speaker 3: But I also feel like people love you at the 829 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:26,799 Speaker 3: same time. 830 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 1: They love me. A lot of people love me, and 831 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:30,280 Speaker 1: a lot of people love to hate me, and probably 832 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 1: another third don't give a damn one way or the other. 833 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: So you get your third, the third they love you, 834 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 1: third they hate you. 835 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 3: Know, people don't care, and you get your check. 836 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, more so you get the the platform to 837 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 1: get a bigger check with your businesses. 838 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 2: Right, and so do a lot of So how many 839 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 2: patients come and they are familiar with watching all of them. 840 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 1: All of them. Very rarely do I get a patient 841 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 1: that does not know. And you know, we had to 842 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 1: separate our our office that we actually have to put 843 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:02,280 Speaker 1: like a three hundre dollar consultations, so people just don't come. 844 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,760 Speaker 1: But the three hundred goes towards your treatment, of course. 845 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 1: But we had people, yeah, because they had insurance and 846 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 1: just coming in to take a picture. You know what 847 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 1: I mean. 848 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 3: That's wild. 849 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we limited that by chart, but you know 850 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:15,880 Speaker 1: we people paid the three hundred to get a picture 851 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 1: they don't want. No, it didn't work. Okay, it's just 852 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: three dollars, you know what I'm saying. But it's it's 853 00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: a free consultation, but you paid it three hundred, and 854 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 1: it goes towards your treatment. You might as we get 855 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 1: a cleaning, if you're going to do get a cleaning. 856 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely well. 857 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 3: Doctor Heavenly, thank you so much. 858 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 2: And I hope that once the reunion airs that I 859 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 2: get to hear back. 860 00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 1: From call me up girl. Let me get your number now, 861 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:36,600 Speaker 1: and I. 862 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 2: Want to be able to hit you up when things 863 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 2: are happening on the show and just text you and 864 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 2: be like, girl, like what just happened here? 865 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 1: Put your number in my phone. I'll always everybody number. Look, 866 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:48,400 Speaker 1: but I assure you I enjoy you. Yeah, thank you. 867 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,239 Speaker 1: It's can we let me know when the mic ain't hot, y'all, 868 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:51,880 Speaker 1: don't play with me. 869 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 3: You don't play with her because. 870 00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,360 Speaker 1: Play you know what I'm saying. I don't trust no mics. 871 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 2: All right, well, doctor Heavenly, thank you some much for 872 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,439 Speaker 2: coming through. You know we're gonna hear a lot more 873 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,319 Speaker 2: of her on the way upside. I appreciate it so much. 874 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:05,799 Speaker 3: Thank you 875 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: Well