1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: Ryan pacts on air with Ryan Seacrest. Good morning, It's 3 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: Ryan seacreston Sissany and Tanya Kristin. Good morning. How are 4 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: you okayod morning, and I'm Jane, Well how are you guys? Well, 5 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: we're doing well. We know who this call is not for. Yeah, yeah, 6 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: well okay. So the other morning I was listening to 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: Your Guys's um Your Guys' show, and I heard Tanya 8 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: I was talking about having meltdowns with her puppy Sonny. 9 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: And my husband and I just got married in October 10 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 1: and we decided, hey, okay, it's time to get a puppy. 11 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: Well we have her. She's twelve weeks old, and I'm 12 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 1: having meltdowns and I've been having moltdowns for about like 13 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: a week and a half, and so I wanted to 14 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: see how Tanya was doing with her meltdowns. And I 15 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: can't ask Tany for puppy advice. She didn't even a tag. 16 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: That is so nice that she just calling it like 17 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: check in. That's so sweet. Yes, you know they're just 18 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: going because you guys both are hysterical about your puppies. Yeah, 19 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: you need to First of all, do you have a 20 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: caller on your puppy Kristen? Okay, yes, And I was 21 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: going to tell Tanya girlfriend, you got to do it 22 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 1: because I was listening to the show the other morning 23 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: and I heard somebody call in and tell you know, 24 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: because you got locked out of your car with you 25 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 1: with your phone. So my husband and I did it 26 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: with our puppy this weekend. We went to a pet 27 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: smart something super quick. We got to tag it has 28 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: her name on the front, our last name on the back, 29 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: with our phone numbers on the back. To think about 30 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: to do that. Yeah, I'm gonna do it. Don't you worry? 31 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: All right, on the last you were supposed to do 32 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: it this weekend. It's on the list. You said you 33 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: were going to do it on Saturday. You need to 34 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: prioritize your family before us. Yeah, yeah, thank you. No, 35 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: well leave the show right now and go to They're 36 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: not even whatever it takes. I know where she is at. 37 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: Um well, I think it's like deep breaths. You know 38 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: you've got a toddler there, We've Susan and I've been 39 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: through it. You got a toddler you gotta deal with. Listen, 40 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: trust me, I did not understand how to pick up 41 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: anything until I had my puppy. And then I and 42 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: I used to like, oh my gosh, hold my breath. 43 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:15,839 Speaker 1: And when I have to pick up the poop, taking 44 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: a walk because you know, the bag to warm all that, 45 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: and then tying it and carry I would carry it 46 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: out like four feet from my body and my hands, 47 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: dam and her poop. Something about you picking up poop 48 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 1: makes me really happy. Ryan. Yeah, well you're welcome. Yeah. 49 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: You know what's interesting though, I'm gonna tell you, I 50 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: think that it's I'm a little bit worried about parenting 51 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,239 Speaker 1: for myself because I feel like I'm so attached to 52 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: my dog and I'm I like get really sad to 53 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: leave her, and I just want to, like I take 54 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: photos of her all the time and videos, and I 55 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 1: can't imagine what it's like with a human baby. But 56 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: the meltdowns are exactly becoming a lot less and I'm 57 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: starting to do, like I haven't, starting to separate more. 58 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 1: And it's good you two should share your locations, Kristin, Yeah, 59 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: I should. Thank you very much for calling. Good luck 60 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:01,359 Speaker 1: with your puppy. That's your puppy's name. Thank you so 61 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: much guys. Her name's Lola's name. No no no no 62 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: no no no no no Na. She was a show girl. 63 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: All right, thanks for calling by, Nicole. Good morning. How 64 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: you doing Hi? Hi? And good how are you doing 65 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: doing super well? Thank unicol. So you're a nanny and 66 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: you have nanny trouble? Yes, I yeah, So I'm a 67 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: nanny for a family with a ten year old girl 68 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: and the family is like super strict with technology and 69 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: doesn't allow her to play like any video games, like nothing, 70 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: and they sometimes allow her to watch like movies on 71 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: the weekend, but others not, like straight up no technology. Okay, um, yeah, 72 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: thank you. So literally yesterday she showed me that she 73 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: has this little video game console hidden in a drawer 74 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: and it's like a super basic one but like only 75 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: plays like Catchers and pac Man and stuff. Um. But yeah, 76 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 1: so I'm just caught in this dilemma of like do 77 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: I tell the purance because like, on one hand, I 78 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: have to like fall the roads and stuff and do 79 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: my job, but then on the other I don't want 80 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: to like betray her trust. And she's a sweetheart and 81 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: she's probably just going to find another way to speak 82 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: in games anyway. Um, so, yeah, what what do you 83 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: recommend they do? I have to defer to crisis any 84 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: on this one. You absolutely have to tell the parents. 85 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: But so I should give it to Tanya. That would listen, 86 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: there's a way to spin this so that everybody involved, 87 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: all right, I can't spin it so everybody wins. You 88 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 1: tell the parents because they're the ones that hired you. 89 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 1: You are working for them, okay, because you never know 90 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: if she if they find it and they find the 91 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: video game, she's going to go to the parents and 92 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: be like, well, I told you know. I told Nicole 93 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: she knew, and then she throws you under the bus. 94 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: She's a kid and kids do stuff like that. So 95 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: you tell the parents and then it's on them to 96 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 1: go about it without throwing you under the bus, which 97 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: I'm assuming if they like say, hey, don't like I 98 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: like have such your own Yeah, don't throw me Yeah 99 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: I like it. Hmm, then the parents will go in 100 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 1: and they'll start talking to her and they'll fish and 101 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: then eventually it'll come out. Yeah, because you know this 102 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: happened to me once. Nicole Oh, a friend of mine's teenager, 103 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 1: was confiding to me they wanted to get a tattoo, 104 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 1: and I know the mom well, and I told the mom, 105 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: even though the teenagers like kind of don't tell. Mom 106 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,839 Speaker 1: was like, I gotta tell you, but don't say I 107 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: did it, And so she the mom never threw me 108 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 1: out of the bus. She just asked a lot of questions. Yes, 109 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: the parents will ask a lot of questions to get 110 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: to where they need to go, and you'll be in 111 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: the clear solutions. One on one, Nicole, let me take 112 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: Marcy here in Anaheim. Good morning, Marcy, how are you hi? 113 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: Good morning, I'm good. How are you super good? Thank 114 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: you very much for listening to us. How can we 115 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: help you? Yes, So I was just calling in to 116 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: let I was on the same boat with Tanya. I 117 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: didn't have a collar on my dog, and I heard 118 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: the conversations for last week about everybody saying that the 119 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: dogs should have a collar on. So I actually went 120 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: out this weekend to get one for my dogs. So 121 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:05,919 Speaker 1: I don't know if Tongue ended up getting one for hers, 122 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: but it just made me think maybe I should put 123 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: one on mine as well. What Tony did you get it? 124 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: I did get a caller or a name tag for 125 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: did you say? Do you say? We love Sonny and 126 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: her phone number on their name. She has a home, yes, 127 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: please return to Yeah I didn't. I mean I didn't 128 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: have one on mine for the longest time and night. 129 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, you know, let her be free. But 130 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 1: after hearing all everybody saying that they should have one, 131 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I need to go to the 132 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: store and get one. So well, I think it is 133 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: a good idea. I think it's your responsible parent by 134 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: doing that. Yeah, yeah, for sure, you're right. I mean, 135 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 1: even if they're microchips, you don't you don't know who's 136 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: going to take the time to actually go and scan 137 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: them or whatever. So you know what I realized though 138 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: when I was making mine, we need more inventions of 139 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: making name tags because I wanted to put a little 140 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: son on it because her names Sonny, and I couldn't 141 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: do a name. Of those things you can get like 142 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: a charm, I think you can do. Yeah, you can 143 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: get charms. There's very limited ones. Okay, well we'll work 144 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: on that. We should do an invention. Is that we said, 145 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: let's do an invention inventions? I think thank you very 146 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: much for calling you take a care. Okay, what's your 147 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: dog's name? Thank you, roomy. Oh, I like it all right, 148 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: bye bye. Think so many mornings we have debated the 149 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: perfect size for a wedding. I'm gonna tell you so. 150 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: Science is getting involved now with a wedding. So, well, 151 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: what do you think the average right size is? I 152 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: would say a hundred one hundred people. Yeah, Couples who 153 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: spend more than twenty seven thousand dollars on their wedding 154 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: are twice as likely to divorce within three years. Oh, 155 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: come on, so a small wedding. Couples who marry in 156 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: front of ten or fewer guests are twice as likely 157 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: to divorce within ten years, ten or fewer people, ten 158 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: or few words, or twice as likely to within a decade. 159 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: Crazy talk. Well, I'm not making it up science. Where 160 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: did it come from? I don't know that part, but 161 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: I'll tell you I didn't the solution. The experts say 162 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: fifty people spend less than ten thousand dollars and only 163 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: fifty people. Fifty people, that's like how many people we 164 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 1: have over Thanksgiving. It's impossible. I think fifties too many. 165 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 1: You know, Bryan's right, because you either have to go 166 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: super small and just do the nuclear family, or you 167 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: gotta go big and just do it up. We did 168 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 1: two hundred and I wouldn't change a thing. So much 169 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: fun not for me, all right. Today's quote count your 170 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles 171 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: not tears headlines. The LAUSD board approved new instructional calendars 172 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 1: for the next three school years, with a shorter winter 173 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: break and the longer summer, but the Teachers Unions says 174 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: it wasn't given proper notice about the calendar change and 175 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: is asked for a pause so they can review the 176 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: new calendars. And Hey, the Historic Queen Mary officially reopened 177 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: for tours after a three year hiatus due to the pandemic. 178 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: The three tours kicked off on Saturday, and guests are 179 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,959 Speaker 1: welcome to start booking overnight stays aboard the Queen Mary 180 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: beginning May twelve. And Meghan Markle has beaten a defamation 181 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 1: lawsuit filed by half sister Samantha Markle. The lawsuit claimed 182 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: the Duchess made false and malicious statements about her sister 183 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: in an interview with Oprah Winfrey, but the judge ruled 184 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: in favor of Megan, saying that her statements could not 185 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: be proven false. On air with Ryan Seacrest. Hey Ben, 186 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 1: good morning. How are you? Hey, Ryan? I'm good. How 187 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: are you? Super good? Ben? Thank you very much. So 188 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: what's happening? Yeah? I have an issue with my family. 189 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm graduating, getting my grad school from NYU, and my 190 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: sister is pregnant with their first baby, so a very 191 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: same time for my family. However, my graduation date is 192 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: scheduled the same as my sisters do date. And because 193 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: of this, my sister doesn't want any of my family 194 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: members coming to my graduation. You know, she wants everyone 195 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 1: to be there when the baby is born, and I 196 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: just think it's kind of unfair to me and I 197 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: don't know how to broke to the situation with my family. Huh, 198 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 1: this is true. Yeah, let me call her and tell 199 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: her that she does not need all the family in 200 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: the room or around when that baby is born. Trust me, 201 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: she can wait a few days and it's not going 202 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: to be that big of a deal, right, That's what 203 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: I thought. She won't even let my dad and brother 204 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: come my mom. It's ridiculous. I mean, it's just the hormones. 205 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: You need to sit down and talk to her, and 206 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys can figure it out. Yeah, I mean, yeah, 207 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: just been in a situation like this when it's your close, 208 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: close family, Just having an honest, transparent conversation with everything 209 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: you're telling us, all right, Yeah, I know she's just 210 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: very sensitive about this and it was kind of an 211 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: issue before. So I guess I'll just do it delicately. 212 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: I would, yes, proceed with caution, but you you should 213 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: definitely be honest. I'm happy to talk to her. I'll 214 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 1: give you your phone number, happy to let me grab 215 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: Lauren here. Good morning, Lauren. How are you good? Thank you? 216 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,719 Speaker 1: How are you super good? Thank you? So you have 217 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:30,319 Speaker 1: been a wedding officient, oh cooling. I have a question 218 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: about it. I have an issue with it, per per 219 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: some friends and I heard you guys talking about it 220 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: the other day and I was like, maybe you can 221 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 1: help me with my question. Okay, So because I'm ordained, cister, 222 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:44,719 Speaker 1: did you get your ordainment now? Yeah? But I heard 223 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:46,719 Speaker 1: it's really easy to do. Gosh, I could do it now, 224 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,559 Speaker 1: you can literally do it and during a song. Yeah, 225 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:50,719 Speaker 1: I mean I have told may. But yes, I got 226 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: asked to officiate my best friend's wedding. So I'm so 227 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: honored and excited and then all the things that's so amazing. 228 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 1: So here's my question, my kind of my issue with 229 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: my friend group. So I have like two best friends 230 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 1: from middle school, like we're inseparable, love them to death, 231 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:11,959 Speaker 1: and my friend is getting married, and I just found 232 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: out that she asked her other friend to aspreciate her wedding, 233 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: and I'm a little irritated that it's not me. I 234 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: don't know if I did something wrong, like how do 235 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: you choose that? I like lived with her and her fiance, 236 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: And now I don't know if I'm just I'm overreacting, 237 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: or do I feel kind of slighted? You know, am 238 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 1: I justified in feeling that way. I think you're justified 239 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 1: feeling that way. Sure, But I also don't think you 240 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: need to cause a scene and bring it. I think 241 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 1: you just let it go. Let it go. Yeah, And 242 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: you know, you can always see the glass two ways. 243 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 1: It can be half empty or half full, and you 244 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: got to look at the bright side. Now you can 245 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: get drunk at the wedding. You don't have to worry 246 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: about things. You're getting drunk at the ceremony. That is 247 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: that frowned upon, not the urch. Generally, this explains a 248 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: lot about you and my wedding now, So yeah, I think, 249 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: like Sisney said, water under the bridge, I know, just 250 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: just forget about it. So you feel super honored. But 251 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: if you had another friend that was like, well, I didn't. 252 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 1: I get asked, do you think that like would cause 253 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: issues with you and your friend or you're just like, 254 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: maybe I'm a better public speaker. I work on the radio, 255 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: Like maybe that's why. I don't know, But you know, 256 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: it's funny when I was asked. We were we were 257 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,959 Speaker 1: playing poker with like a bunch of friends and they 258 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: brought up like, you know, our wedding's coming up and 259 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 1: we're looking for an officiant. And then all of our 260 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: other friends were like Michael. They all pointed to my husband, Michael, 261 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: and then they were like, actually, we wanted Sissy to officiate. 262 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: So there was a moment of awkwardness, like, oh, because 263 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: Michael lived with Morgan, and he was like they were 264 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: best friends and on they were roommates and there is 265 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 1: a connection there. But I guess I've known them longer. Okay, Okay, 266 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: so no, your husband's stop mad, No he's not hang 267 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: in there. By by the way, I am not good 268 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 1: at public speaking. Well, yes you are. First of all, 269 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: probably not, I'm really not. Yes you Maybe you don't 270 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: feel like you are, but to us you are. So 271 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: I'm not good. I'm not good at toasts, but you're 272 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 1: great at toast. You are not good at toast. Where 273 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: have you ever seen me give a good toast? At 274 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: our honor with Ryan Seacrest? You wing it, it's great. 275 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: You may crack a joke, it's always good. I panic. 276 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: I really get nervous when I have to do a 277 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: toast or a speech. I know what you mean, though. 278 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 1: I don't prefer public speaking either, like especially if I 279 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: have to just go like from the heart and like 280 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: out of nowhere. But if I if I have something 281 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: like a guide, whether it's like a script or bullet point, 282 00:14:55,480 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: I think you can do it. Yeah, one or two 283 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: point seven Kiss FM. It is time for Ryan's roses. 284 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: Sydney and Pacoima is reaching out Sydney. Good morning. I 285 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: see your email here and it says you noticed your 286 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 1: husband keeps getting dms about astrology and numerology and that 287 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: sort of stuff. Fun, says Tanya. But that's not really 288 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 1: his vibe. No, not at all. That's never been anything 289 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: he's remotely interested in. So why do you think you're 290 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: connecting the dots in your head? What do you think's 291 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: going on? I mean, it's just so weird, Like I 292 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: will see these pop ups on his phone, you know, 293 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: like he has Instagram notifications, and like it's it's just 294 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: so weird because it's never been a thing and it 295 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: happens to all be from the same woman. It's not 296 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: like he's following multiple sites or people involved in this stuff. 297 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: It's one woman. And so I looked into her profile 298 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: just to see, like, Okay, who is this chick? And 299 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: she's not like, got thousands and thousands of followers. It's 300 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: not like a sight or business that she runs. Um, 301 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: it's just like this normal gal. And sure she's attractive 302 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:16,359 Speaker 1: and like, I get it. But they have mutual friends. 303 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: And then I saw that they have a couple of 304 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 1: high school friends in common. So it's making me think 305 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: something more is going on. What's this? What's her name? Alicia? Alicia? Okay, okay, 306 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: I hold on one second. The high school friends thing 307 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: was a curball to me. Maybe it's an old friend, 308 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 1: right right, I think so, But sending astrology is flirty, 309 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: isn't it totally flirty tany don't you agree? Uh no, 310 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: because I send it to a lot of people, but 311 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: I don't send it to guys men. Yeah, that would 312 00:16:57,240 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: be right. That's what I say to Brad. Sometimes that's different. 313 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 1: Why because of your friend? Right? Understood. So let's go 314 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: back to Ryan's roses Sydney and Cooper. So Sydney saw 315 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: DMS coming from a woman named Alicia to her husband 316 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 1: about astrology. Then we get Cooper on the line, and 317 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: sure enough, he sends the roses to that woman Alicia. Yeah, 318 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 1: didn't even hesitate. So what else? I mean, how do 319 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 1: you believe anything he says from that point? You just can't. 320 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 1: I can't know. And he was trying to make her 321 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 1: sound like she's crazy. He's like, you're crazy. No, she's 322 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 1: roses on her Instagram? Is that what he said? Right? 323 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 1: Come on? Like, so but you thought of her first, 324 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 1: and you said these made me think of you. Yeah, Like, 325 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: even if you are being friendly, Yeah, you'd be very 326 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 1: careful to make sure they knew you were being friendly 327 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: when you said something like that. Exactly, you know what 328 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, you'd be very clear. Hey, this is 329 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: a friendly bouquet that I laughed when I saw these 330 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: something like that, I don't think you would or like 331 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: from your pal, from your pal. Yeah, you just would 332 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: be clear. It just would be clear. I just think 333 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 1: that no matter what Cooper spins to us, there's just 334 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 1: no credibility. Right. He sends the roses to the woman 335 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 1: that's dmming him about astrology and numerology. Lauren, good morning, 336 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: you heard it. What do you think? I think it's 337 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: the end of the line for the relationship. I mean her, 338 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:35,400 Speaker 1: he said, I know we have our issues, so clearly 339 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:40,159 Speaker 1: there's already some breaking points, some cracks. This may have 340 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 1: shattered right. Well, and anybody that gets into a hobby 341 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:51,160 Speaker 1: that used to hate, that's a total red flag. That's true, totally. 342 00:18:57,119 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 1: Well well, well, so this is something you were saying 343 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 1: that if we do this on a dating app, they'll 344 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,239 Speaker 1: ensure a lot more traffic and activity. It did for 345 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 1: this one woman, so I'm assuming it could work for everybody. Okay, 346 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: what is it? So think about it. You get out 347 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:15,880 Speaker 1: of a messy breakup, you have to enter the dating 348 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 1: world again. You probably go to the apps and then 349 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: you start messaging with a bunch of guys or girls 350 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: and it just kind of leads to nowhere. You go 351 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: on dates and there's no chemistry. And that's what this 352 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 1: woman was experiencing, the back and forth of like text 353 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 1: messaging or messaging each other and then they meet and 354 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 1: then it's just like not there. So what she decided 355 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:34,119 Speaker 1: to do was to start asking a guy on a 356 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 1: last minute date. And what that means is as soon 357 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: as she matched with the guy and they swiped and 358 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 1: there was a match, instead of messaging back and forth 359 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 1: and getting to know each other on the app, you 360 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 1: just said, this was exactly what she said, Hey, there, 361 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: you seem cute. Want to grab a drink tonight and 362 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 1: see if there's any point in us messaging for weeks 363 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:53,919 Speaker 1: on end lol, And so she does. She'd get twice 364 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 1: as many dates, and they would meet on the first 365 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 1: date and actually have more stuff to talk about because 366 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 1: they didn't waste it all in the app, and it 367 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 1: the chemistry was there. And it just feels like that 368 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 1: might be the move as opposed to kind of like 369 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 1: sitting behind these apps and oh I would hate Oh no, 370 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 1: I love it. What part would you hate? Tana? I 371 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,199 Speaker 1: need time. I can't go out with you tonight? Like 372 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 1: what if I already had plans that night. You know what, 373 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: if I was like plucking my hairs that night. I 374 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: need time, I need I don't know it, just i'd 375 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 1: be freaked out if somebody saidn't want to meet tonight. 376 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 1: H Well, it is nice to actually have some things 377 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,719 Speaker 1: to talk about when you go meet someone in person, 378 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 1: right Otherwise, like you said, you're communicating through the app. 379 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 1: I think so too. And I'm a nobis type of personality, 380 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 1: so like we're either going to click instantly or we're 381 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: not going to click at all. And so I just 382 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 1: I just say, put jump right in, jump in the 383 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,199 Speaker 1: deep end. So tell me. By the way, if you 384 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 1: were busy, you just say no, you don't need to 385 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: tell them that you do pretty. I wouldn't do that. 386 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 1: I wouldn't just tell you guys. Oh is that powerful 387 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: little word? All right, let me grab lista. How are 388 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:05,640 Speaker 1: you alyssa? Hi? Am good? How are you so super good? 389 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: So you're calling with a gift idea? I need a 390 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: gift idea if you guys have any suggestion. Okay, you 391 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,159 Speaker 1: need a gift idea? Okay, got it? What what is 392 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 1: the situation? So I want to be better about supporting 393 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: the women in my life during their exciting moments. Um, 394 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 1: not just when they have a baby or get married, 395 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 1: which I feel like is when we primarily do those celebrations, 396 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:37,400 Speaker 1: buy a house, we need to support more women, um, 397 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 1: but when they buy a house or get a new 398 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 1: job or a promotion. And a friend of mine who 399 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 1: lives out of state, so that's the hard part. She 400 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: just got a new job, and I'm trying to figure 401 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: out something to gifts her, whether it's a gift idea 402 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 1: or something I can do for her to really celebrate her. Well, yeah, 403 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: that's a good idea. Wait, I think you should get 404 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: her a boujeo because those help you stay organized, they 405 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 1: help you plan, joujo bullet journal. Oh, I think you're 406 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 1: getting talking about a car. You're talking about on those 407 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:16,479 Speaker 1: bouncy balls. No, no, no, the BuJo because it'll help you, 408 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:21,200 Speaker 1: it'll help her stay Really so what is the boujeo? 409 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 1: The bullet journal? It helps you stay organized, it helps 410 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,199 Speaker 1: you plan, stay motivated day to day. I feel like 411 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 1: it'd be really good for somebody starting in a job. 412 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:32,679 Speaker 1: And the bottle of champagne. Oh, I've never but I 413 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 1: love that idea. Bujojo whoa, this is perfect I love 414 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 1: both of those ideas, so thank you for sharing that. 415 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 1: All right to listen, Thank you, good luck and what 416 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 1: a good friend you are. Thank you, Thank you so much. 417 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 1: Have a good day. You know what, I'm not good 418 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: at writing thank you notes and handwritten thank you notes. 419 00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 1: I love texts, but I feel guilty what I'm thinking 420 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: somebody from if I don't write the note. As a kid, 421 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: my mom would make me write thank you notes, but 422 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: as an adult, I don't make myself do that. But 423 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:12,640 Speaker 1: I feel it's a lost art. It is right, remem 424 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: when I texted you mind when you texted me your 425 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,920 Speaker 1: yes thank you? Yeah it wasn't. I mean that was fine. 426 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't with you, but I wanted to 427 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 1: thank you, so I hand I hand wrote it and 428 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 1: I took a picture of its right, that's right, Okay, 429 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 1: that's right. There was a photo of a handwritten Yeah, 430 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 1: that was very that was thoughtful. Okay. Is it Laura 431 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: or Lara? Yeah, it's Laura. Hi Laura, it's Ryan Seacrest. 432 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 1: It's Sissony. How can we help you? Yeah, I need 433 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,640 Speaker 1: some advice from you, guys. I need to know if 434 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,199 Speaker 1: there's anything you can do, like for someone who's going 435 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,679 Speaker 1: to give their kids that they're about to have, like 436 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:52,640 Speaker 1: a really terrible name. My sister is pregnant and we're 437 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: all super excited, but she wants to name the baby Emily. 438 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 1: Not Emily, but Emily was too ease, let me show 439 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:06,640 Speaker 1: it's e E M. I L Why yes? Why why 440 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 1: do you chime in on this? Like? Where? What? Why? Why? 441 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,640 Speaker 1: Why would you give her her guidance? Well, I mean 442 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,920 Speaker 1: I think it's I think it looks like a typo. 443 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:22,160 Speaker 1: I mean, are you having the baby. I'm not having 444 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 1: the baby, but she's going to be my sweet little 445 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,719 Speaker 1: knees and she's going to spend her entire life like 446 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: correcting people. Oh that's the worst. Oh it's not the worst. 447 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,640 Speaker 1: I still spend my entire life correcting people with my name, 448 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 1: and it's I feel like it made me stronger. Oh really, Look, 449 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 1: there's a lot of there's a lot of competition for 450 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 1: unique names these days, right, and you know one Sisney 451 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:51,880 Speaker 1: had all three babies, most of them are going so 452 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 1: so I think if it were me, I think it's 453 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 1: none of my business to give my opinion about my 454 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 1: sister's baby's name. Really, yeah, yeah, so I have to 455 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: step back. Okay, I think it is you. You you're 456 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,679 Speaker 1: a crossing a line. I had to think everybody mispronounced 457 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,160 Speaker 1: my last name for my whole life, and it was exhausting. 458 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: It's so exhausting. So you know what, if you can 459 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: help her out, throw a bone. What's her last name? 460 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 1: Her last name? It's just normal. It's just it's just 461 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 1: a normal, like every name last what's the last consonant 462 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 1: or vow? It's oh, it starts with an a. It's 463 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: just it's it starts with an ass. It's very simple. 464 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 1: What's what's her middle name going to be? You know what, 465 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: I don't even know. I don't know there. I don't 466 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: hate Emily. What what if her middle name is Alison, 467 00:25:53,880 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 1: then she's e s you know, yes, like yeah, he 468 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,119 Speaker 1: has t Yes. There are ways to work around this 469 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: without having to criticize, you know, the mom's name. So 470 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: here's everything. She didn't have to share the name with you. 471 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: That's why we kept all of our names secret from 472 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 1: all of our family, close relatives included for this reason. Specifically, 473 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,639 Speaker 1: we did not want input. The fact that she shared 474 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 1: the name with you opens the door for input. So 475 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 1: if you want to give her your two cents and 476 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,439 Speaker 1: your input. Go for it, but just know that then 477 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,440 Speaker 1: there's going to be that sour taste in the air 478 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 1: if you if she ends up still going with the name, yeah, 479 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 1: maybe let's hope with the middle name. I'm going to 480 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 1: have to get the scoop on that stat Well. Good 481 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: luck and thank you and congratulations on Emily Cummingston. Thank 482 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: you so much, guys, sweet little You know, I think 483 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 1: at some point you have to realize what your place 484 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 1: is now. Your people take as you did, Cystany, you 485 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:59,639 Speaker 1: take that naming very seriously. And if if you step 486 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 1: in and say, hey, look, I think she's gonna be 487 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 1: teased all our life, that puts it into the universe. 488 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,719 Speaker 1: And I am not about putting that into the universe 489 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 1: for my niece or my kids at all. Have in 490 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 1: twenty years on a Ryans. Good morning, Charlie. Hi, how 491 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 1: are you guys doing? How you doing? I have a 492 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 1: question about whether or not I'm allowed to date someone 493 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:34,719 Speaker 1: without asking their exes for like permission. First, Okay, let 494 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:40,879 Speaker 1: me get a pen out. It's going to require some notes. Well, Charlie, Okay, 495 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 1: the question is reset it one more time so I'm 496 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:50,440 Speaker 1: totally clear. So am I allowed to date someone without 497 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 1: asking their exes permission? First, Well, do you know their exes? Okay, 498 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: so I know him, but it's not like from my 499 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,919 Speaker 1: immediate friend group. If that makes sense, then why do 500 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 1: you even question it? Well, because like I do see 501 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,159 Speaker 1: him from time to time. There's like a group of 502 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,239 Speaker 1: like eight or nine of us that get together, and 503 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 1: he's the guy that comes every once in a while, 504 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 1: you know, to watch games and stuff like that, barbecues, 505 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,159 Speaker 1: and I've never been like one on one with him necessarily, 506 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 1: but he's a part of the friend group. So I 507 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 1: don't want to cause like a schism in due. I mean, 508 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 1: this doesn't go well if you ask him, I don't think, 509 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 1: And it doesn't go well if it bothers him, I 510 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: don't think. So are you ready for it not to 511 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 1: go well on some level with him? And that's the thing. 512 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: It's like, I don't know what the immediate repercussions are. 513 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: I don't want to be known as that guy, but 514 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: I do like her. She's a really cool girl. Um, 515 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 1: I just yeah, it's a rocket of heart and we're 516 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 1: trying to avoid sis, right. Yeah, I don't even know 517 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 1: what that is, but it sounds bad. It sounds no fun. 518 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 1: It's what do you think on this sisany I if 519 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: you care about the guy and he's your friend, maybe 520 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 1: say something. But if you're not, really you don't ever 521 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: talk to him. I think you played dumb. You do 522 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: your life. So that was what I was thinking initially, 523 00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: is just let it kind of come up naturally and 524 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: make oh, you guys, they didn't know. I didn't know that, 525 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 1: and just kind of play it dumb. I mean, well, 526 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 1: you are on the radio, Charlie, just so now he 527 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 1: probably knows that you know, or somebody might know. Well, 528 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of not you know, clever 529 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 1: moves here. But if you're interested in her and you're 530 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: questioning this, it's probably okay that you date her, and 531 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 1: it will be what it will be, right because you 532 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: don't have a friendship with the guy, so you might 533 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:55,560 Speaker 1: cross paths and then you'll see what happened when paths crossed. 534 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 1: The air part of it. He's not dating her. It's 535 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 1: over between them, So that's a reality he's got to 536 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 1: live with and deal it. Maybe better off it's somebody 537 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 1: in the group, even though the periphery of the group 538 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: then a stranger. No, no, I feel like, don't you 539 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 1: guys just like talk chill though you could kind of 540 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: just throw it in there. Lay, yeah, man, I'm dating. No, 541 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: I don't think guys received that. Well, you don't think so, 542 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think I prepared for him 543 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 1: to have a problem with it and then or just 544 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 1: avoid each other. But I think just go for it, 545 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 1: like life's too short. Yeah, let me ask you some 546 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 1: as a man, am I breaking bro code? Do you 547 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 1: think that that's that's what's going on? Or am I 548 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: good to go? Ryan? You say it's like a third 549 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,840 Speaker 1: layer of acquaintances that you cross paths with. So I 550 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: don't think you're breaking a code? Cool? All right? Well 551 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 1: who am I to know any that? Cool? Thanks? By 552 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: all right? Thanks, good luck. No. I know that maybe 553 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: we're giving bad advice to some but I felt like Charlie, 554 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 1: she just go for it, not worry about it. The 555 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 1: other guy he does, don't really know and they're not 556 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 1: together the woman he wants to date, and the X 557 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 1: and A schism, by definition is us I'm just looking 558 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,479 Speaker 1: up is a split or division between strongly opposed sections 559 00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 1: or parties caused by differences in opinion or believe. I 560 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 1: can safely say. In the thirty four years I've done 561 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 1: this Kiss Morning Show, never ever has anyone used the 562 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 1: word schism. No. I do enjoy it though. The skis 563 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 1: them the fun word. Yeah, because it's confusing. It sounds 564 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: sounds like it could go a lot of places. It 565 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 1: sounds like a scuffle. On Air with Ryan Seacrest, Well 566 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 1: there you go. Is it for us? You come in, 567 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: you think, oh, we got all the morning together, and 568 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, when time flies, it flies by, 569 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: right my mom, she's listening, she's here, she's visiting. Mom. 570 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying it for you. What was that saying? She says, 571 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 1: time flies by when you're having fun. That's all. I 572 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 1: have a good one. This is Kiss. Thanks for listening 573 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 1: to on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe 574 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 1: and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.