Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Kristen is on the phone today for it to catch
Speaker 1: a Cheater, and she thinks that her husband of two
Speaker 1: years named Andrew might be messing around. So we'll see
Speaker 1: what we can help her out. Kristin, sorry, you have
Speaker 1: to come on the show this way, but what's going on?
Speaker 1: Why do you think Andrew's cheating?
Speaker 3: You know, thanks have been great in our relationship, other
Speaker 3: than this conversation that I have with a friend of
Speaker 3: mine a while back. His name is Mac. We were
Speaker 3: having blunch. It wasn't even that long ago. It was
Speaker 3: like a week ago, and I guess I have to
Speaker 3: say you gay. So he found something on his phone
Speaker 3: and he said, oh, I really have to talk to
Speaker 3: you about this, and so I was like, okay, great,
Speaker 3: I was in stuff about Okay.
Speaker 4: Let's just go to brunch.
Speaker 5: Matt showed me Pat Andrew is on Grinder. Oh yeah, and.
Speaker 1: If anybody doesn't know, Grinder is a dating site where
Speaker 1: guys meet other guys, well try about that. It's the
Speaker 1: same sex dating site.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and my husband's on it. And Max told
Speaker 5: me that he tried to match with Andrew just to
Speaker 5: see what he was doing, but he.
Speaker 2: Either didn't see it or you know.
Speaker 3: Knew that he should have matched with him because they
Speaker 3: didn't respond.
Speaker 6: Did he have or does he have like a detailed profile,
Speaker 6: so he's got his photo? Does is everything filled out?
Speaker 5: So on his profile it said that he was in
Speaker 5: a relationship. I don't know why you would be on
Speaker 5: a dating app if you were in a relationship, obviously,
Speaker 5: but then you would say.
Speaker 2: It, you know, like it's just weird.
Speaker 3: Wouldn't you lie about that?
Speaker 6: Well, it's kind of more of a hookup app. I
Speaker 6: believe it's like the Tinder. Oh yeah, essentially, so it's
Speaker 6: like it's for hooking up. But would you want to
Speaker 6: hook up with someone that's on like in a relationship?
Speaker 6: People do it all the time. We personally no, but
Speaker 6: it happens all the time.
Speaker 7: But would you like swipe right on someone who's in
Speaker 7: Like That's what I don't get, Like, why would you
Speaker 7: put that in your you're in a relationship?
Speaker 6: Because that way you don't have any strings attached, there's
Speaker 6: not going to be no problems. You can just have
Speaker 6: a transaction and not worry about what happens later.
Speaker 1: And I'm guessing you haven't asked him about this, No,
Speaker 1: not yet.
Speaker 3: I didn't. I didn't know what to do because I mean,
Speaker 3: you know, if he is closeted, I want to know,
Speaker 3: yeah really, And he hasn't ever said anything about wanting
Speaker 3: to try something with another guy or being unhappy or
Speaker 3: anything like. And I didn't know just how to go
Speaker 3: about confronting him with this. But it's not even like
Speaker 3: it's just he's cheating, but now he may want to
Speaker 3: be with a man. So I just I didn't know.
Speaker 2: I emailed you it.
Speaker 5: I don't want to figure out what's going on.
Speaker 2: Would you be open if he wanted to have both?
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm ready to think about that yet.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't.
Speaker 2: I'm not what Yeah? Yeah, okay, good point.
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: So do you think his friends know about this? Do
Speaker 6: you think anybody else knows about this other than your friend?
Speaker 3: I don't know if he has. He doesn't really have
Speaker 3: any friends that are gay that would be on the
Speaker 3: app to see that I do, which is interesting because
Speaker 3: he knows that I have gay friends that are on Brinder.
Speaker 5: So I don't know how he could not have said
Speaker 5: of this if he's going to be so defeaitful.
Speaker 7: Could someone be using his picture I've known sometimes it's
Speaker 7: like catfishing.
Speaker 3: Like but it's got information about him, like the town
Speaker 3: he lives in, that he's a real toor like.
Speaker 5: It is info on it. So I mean that would
Speaker 5: have to be a very convincing soccer.
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody who knows him right to know that. Okay, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll try to figure it out for you. You already
Speaker 1: told us what grocery store. You guys are Rewards card members.
Speaker 1: That's so play a song, come back, and then call
Speaker 1: him and pretend to be from the grocery store and
Speaker 1: say that every single month we choose one lucky Rewards
Speaker 1: card member who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department.
Speaker 1: Was see he says, o seu or to somebody else? Okay, okay, okay, right,
Speaker 1: play son, come back to get your to catch a
Speaker 1: cheeter next, if you're just joining us for today, is
Speaker 1: to catch a cheater. Kristen is on the phone and
Speaker 1: she thinks that her husband of two years named Andrew
Speaker 1: might be messing around. So in a minute, we're gonna
Speaker 1: call him and pretend to be from the grocery store
Speaker 1: that he's a rewards card member at and say that
Speaker 1: every single month, we choose one rewards card member who
Speaker 1: gets free flowers delivered from our flooral department, and we'll
Speaker 1: see if he sends those flowers to Kristin or to
Speaker 1: somebody else. But before we do that, Kristen, why don't
Speaker 1: you refresh everybody's memory on your situation.
Speaker 3: Gosh, if I've been married like you said, and my
Speaker 3: friend Max took me to brunch the other day, he's
Speaker 3: active on Grinder and said that what he showed me
Speaker 3: that my husband has a profile on Grinder that I
Speaker 3: obviously didn't know about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's a big deal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely a little bit alarming.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, all right, are you ready for us to
Speaker 1: call him?
Speaker 2: Ready as I'll be.
Speaker 1: Yeah, here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, this is Corporal calling from SO. I was looking
Speaker 1: for our rewards card member named Andrew.
Speaker 4: That's me speaking. Yeah, what can I help you with?
Speaker 1: Andrew? Hello, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 1: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations here
Speaker 1: this month's winter. Thank you so much for your business.
Speaker 1: Can here's the topping over here?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: What I didn't enter anything?
Speaker 1: Congratulations? No, you won the flowers.
Speaker 4: Oh, okay, tell me more.
Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member to
Speaker 1: say thank you very much for being such a loyal customer.
Speaker 1: You've just won thirty six longstim red roses, a box
Speaker 1: of chocolates or candy, and a card to be delivered
Speaker 1: to anybody that you want within the fifty United States.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 1: That's really nice for you guys.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Okay, I can take the information over the phone. What
Speaker 1: I would need to do is just get some information
Speaker 1: from you. I can do that right now.
Speaker 4: If you have it, I can do it over the
Speaker 4: phone totally. I got a second.
Speaker 1: Great. First thing I would need from you would be
Speaker 1: the first and last name of the person he's like
Speaker 1: to send them to.
Speaker 4: That would be Kristen.
Speaker 1: Alrighty. And anything you want to write on a card.
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, just something simple like love you baby, see tonight.
Speaker 1: Oh that's sweet. I'm the same last name there is?
Speaker 4: That?
Speaker 1: Your your wife?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's my wife.
Speaker 1: How long has we married?
Speaker 4: I would have married for two years.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, now I'll let you know that this is
Speaker 1: not a grocery store at all. My name is Jewbell
Speaker 1: and I'm from a radio show. It's called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the whole show's here. I'm Nina and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. What.
Speaker 1: Yes, we do a segment on the show called to
Speaker 1: Catch a Cheater, where if you think your significant other
Speaker 1: might be messing around, we can try to catch them
Speaker 1: by who they send flowers to and your wife.
Speaker 4: I don't think my wife is cheating on me, now,
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's not.
Speaker 1: That she suspects that you might be doing something and
Speaker 1: she's actually on the phone won't to talk to you.
Speaker 4: This is really strange, babe.
Speaker 3: You there?
Speaker 1: Hi?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1: Hi.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't baby, I would never, ever, in a million years,
Speaker 4: cheat on you? Are you? What? What are you thinking?
Speaker 7: What?
Speaker 4: Why?
Speaker 1: Why do you think I'm cheating on you?
Speaker 2: Okay? So remember how I went to brunch with Max
Speaker 2: the other week. Yeah, he showed me your profile, Andrew.
Speaker 4: I don't understand which profile are you talking about? Facebook? Instagram?
Speaker 2: The grinder? The grinder?
Speaker 4: Okay, Oh my god, I get it. I get it.
Speaker 4: I completely get it. Wait did did he did he
Speaker 4: try to match with me? Yeah?
Speaker 3: I have to figure out what.
Speaker 4: You were up to. Oh my god. Oh I didn't
Speaker 4: see his request. I just honestly should have been hilarious. Honey, babe,
Speaker 4: I am not gay and I am not cheating and
Speaker 4: full transparency. I am sorry I didn't tell you about
Speaker 4: this earlier. So a colleague of mine told me about
Speaker 4: real estate agents finding clients on these dating websites and
Speaker 4: dating apps.
Speaker 1: What really?
Speaker 3: Hell?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 4: No, No, it's completely like just for networking. There is
Speaker 4: no relationship, no dating, no sex involved, just potential clients
Speaker 4: and I legitimately just wanted to try it out and
Speaker 4: also full transparency. I'm on bumble and hinge too.
Speaker 1: People do do that. People do do that like it's
Speaker 1: like a marketing place. Now, it's crazy.
Speaker 2: I don't understand. Do they have to put a disclaimer
Speaker 2: on the bed?
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: They match with people and then when they start messaging,
Speaker 1: it's like you promote whatever you want to promote.
Speaker 7: That doesn't feel right, But I don't think i'd want
Speaker 7: to be my realtor. If I also try to hang
Speaker 7: up with you, it could be fun, but you know, oh, okay.
Speaker 5: They why would you tell me that.
Speaker 4: I'll be honest, it's it was a weird way of
Speaker 4: just introducing you to it, and I didn't know if
Speaker 4: there was actually going to go anywhere with some of
Speaker 4: these pantric clients. It actually has in a completely professional
Speaker 4: real estate centric way. Really, and yes, I've actually got
Speaker 4: sold a few properties based off matches I've had on
Speaker 4: a Hinge Bumble as yet to hit and Grinder I
Speaker 4: think twice. And I can show you these when I
Speaker 4: get home. Like, I feel free to go through my
Speaker 4: program taking profile. You're totally allowed.
Speaker 3: Huh.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry to ask this question, Andrew. I'd never heard
Speaker 6: of this before. So does the people that match with
Speaker 6: you understand that you're not trying to date them, that
Speaker 6: you're just trying to sell them?
Speaker 4: Yes, they do understand that, maybe not right away. Like
Speaker 4: a few people have tried to flirt with me, but
Speaker 4: I very quickly talk down and like address what I'm
Speaker 4: looking for, which is very consensual sales.
Speaker 2: Also an ego boost.
Speaker 6: He's getting matched with all these people that are initially
Speaker 6: attracted to you, Okay, Andrew, ego and sales.
Speaker 3: I don't really want you like talking with other women
Speaker 3: who want to sleep with you.
Speaker 2: I don't know about that.
Speaker 3: I hear you. I hear you, and I can.
Speaker 4: Show you my opening line, which is always I am
Speaker 4: not here for anything romantic or physical that includes verbiage
Speaker 4: like that in there. I make it very clear from
Speaker 4: the get go that none of this is to lead
Speaker 4: or can ever lead to anything romantic or physical, I
Speaker 4: promise you. Okay, Look, there's nothing to worry about from
Speaker 4: the money that I've been getting from this. I have
Speaker 4: actually been keeping well surprised from you, but I guess
Speaker 4: I can tell you here.
Speaker 1: I have booked us a.
Speaker 4: Trip to France. Who with all the money that I've
Speaker 4: gotten off of this, and I want that to be
Speaker 4: proof in the pudding that the only romantic things to
Speaker 4: come out of all of these profiles is between you
Speaker 4: and me. Were good enough France? France for France?
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations, Kristin. He's not cheating. He is on the
Speaker 1: dating apps and you get I guess you have to
Speaker 1: prove to you that he's just there for real estate,
Speaker 1: but you also get to go to France.
Speaker 2: Yeah, congratulations.
Speaker 1: Wait when are we going to France?
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