Speaker 1: This is an episode that we should have had a
Speaker 1: long time ago. That's how you prefaced it anything. You
Speaker 1: are like, hi, guys, welcome to you another episode because
Speaker 1: we gotta be like, horrible decision now, well, I want
Speaker 1: to shout out because maybe something we probably have listeners. Guys,
Speaker 1: we are joined today by two podcasters that are not
Speaker 1: only friends of the show, but friends. And we love
Speaker 1: to start saying we're we're gonna, we're gonna, We're gonna
Speaker 1: get them on. But because there's new listeners before we start, y'all,
Speaker 1: the raspy bitch voice is me Mandy for y'all holes
Speaker 1: that don't know the bitch with the braids if you're
Speaker 1: watching on YouTube, that's wheezy, Like, can we at least
Speaker 1: introduce ourselves? So she just did. Yeah, this episode should
Speaker 1: have happened a long time ago. Because I describe you,
Speaker 1: guys as horrible decisions with kids, like pretty accurate. I've
Speaker 1: always felt that, Like, y'all, every time I even click
Speaker 1: and listen for a few minutes, I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: this is me but like with a baby, and like
Speaker 1: really one of my favorite concepts I think I've ever heard,
Speaker 1: and I know I'm like piping you all up and
Speaker 1: not and I know we're friends, but I just have
Speaker 1: never really heard of a more original idea like hearing
Speaker 1: your children, and like, it's just such an amazing show
Speaker 1: and I'm not even something I think kids are gross.
Speaker 1: I mean, now you're getting into opinion, you're gonna introduce
Speaker 1: them or not. I just am so grateful for what
Speaker 1: y'all do. I just want to start by saying it
Speaker 1: because I really think it's a it's a dope concept
Speaker 1: and I wish more people so the dope concept that
Speaker 1: she's talking about. I mean, well I am. But can
Speaker 1: we introduce our guests? Hey, guys, we have guests today
Speaker 1: from um the Good Mom's Bad Choices podcast. Um, go
Speaker 1: ahead and introduce your names and kind of maybe your
Speaker 1: personality on the show, like what differentiates the two of you.
Speaker 1: Hello there everyone, that was amazing. Thank you. I'm Mila.
Speaker 1: My personality, I would I would describe it as spunky.
Speaker 1: These are black girls, by the way, they're just yeah,
Speaker 1: they're from That's why they talk like from the valley.
Speaker 1: My nickname is is Perky And um, why because you're
Speaker 1: it's when okay, well let me tell you since when
Speaker 1: it was fatty catty. It's also fatty catty plenty. You
Speaker 1: don't have to explain why, I know, self explanatory, but
Speaker 1: just you may even have a secret Instagram called fatty
Speaker 1: kat You have a fence, so they're dropping a plussy bit. No,
Speaker 1: but I need to start this year because I'm holding
Speaker 1: I'm really considering my fans only page, the only fans whatever,
Speaker 1: because I got I got a nice fee to ok
Speaker 1: you have a fucking Footipedia, don't even start a wicky
Speaker 1: foot page for me. Get the fuck? They updated like
Speaker 1: weekly that your only fans could be lit I know,
Speaker 1: but don't like what your nickname is that how you
Speaker 1: describe yourself pretty feet? Hey the foot It was funny.
Speaker 1: It's your name for My name is Erica, and I
Speaker 1: would describe myself as feisty and judgmental. Okay, great, you
Speaker 1: are one of the first black skins I've ever met.
Speaker 1: A way, I didn't know they made black in Florida.
Speaker 1: They don't have those. I don't know. That's more like
Speaker 1: Mexicans in l A. Black guys, but they there's a
Speaker 1: lot of babies being made by blacks of Mexicans. Callie
Speaker 1: to that side of the So many of us over there.
Speaker 1: So your show is good Mom's Bad Choices. What's it about, Well,
Speaker 1: it's about a lot of things, ladies and gentlemen, but
Speaker 1: mostly about being moms and not having to subscribe to
Speaker 1: this like archaic stereotype that once you give birth, he's
Speaker 1: fucking morph into Martha Stewart and are bacon cookies and
Speaker 1: ship and you don't have sex anymore. Um, Eric and
Speaker 1: I are both single, So it's a lot about being single, mom, life, dating,
Speaker 1: fucking you know, mental health, actuality, which ship just just
Speaker 1: sleep out everything. Oh yeah, she does sacrifices and wait,
Speaker 1: but you don't sacrifice animals? Ship? You like fucking throw
Speaker 1: me sweet? Did a whole episode about it on the Pie.
Speaker 1: I told you, you do look like you could have
Speaker 1: been one of the actors on the Craft, right, like
Speaker 1: the one that was no, she won, the freaked out
Speaker 1: was the one that breaked out. I just got to know,
Speaker 1: did you sacrifice something for like dick or love? Was
Speaker 1: that sacrifice something to cut ties? And they were? It
Speaker 1: wasn't like a gun Wait, it was okay girl, And
Speaker 1: I didn't do it like the my shaman did. And
Speaker 1: if you check out her the episode with him and
Speaker 1: we talk about it. You're sacrificed to what That's what
Speaker 1: the episode is called. Actually that to cut cord. No bit,
Speaker 1: I'm not killing animal to cut cord. Okay, what's what's
Speaker 1: the big deal, Let's just think about it. Let's why
Speaker 1: wait Yeah, first, just killing murderer. I like animals. Calmed
Speaker 1: down everyone, Okay, read the Bible. They was sacrificing ship,
Speaker 1: so it's spiritual. Did you eat it after at least? No? No?
Speaker 1: So the pigeon sacrificing ship we saw a lot of
Speaker 1: firsthand in Cuba, and it's so part of their religious culture.
Speaker 1: Like and there, I think Kathleen like religions sacrifice all
Speaker 1: the chi. It was gone. And then I was wondering,
Speaker 1: like maybe the chickens are here because like this is
Speaker 1: when they cook them. And I'm like, okay, but I
Speaker 1: guess the body wouldn't be here still, it's just the
Speaker 1: head is gone. It's fucking crazy. But I learned a
Speaker 1: lot about sacrificial ship and I was like, I'm definitely
Speaker 1: gonna kill something to get something. Well, you don't. You
Speaker 1: don't actually have to do the killing, Like I didn't
Speaker 1: snap the necks of the pigeons the guy did, and
Speaker 1: then he put some blood on me. And that was
Speaker 1: to the extent. This is the call Casian one of
Speaker 1: the show No Bitch. Eric is very Caucasian. What Caucasian
Speaker 1: ship does she do? Child say? Sh like I was.
Speaker 1: I was going on a date with this white guy,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: he's so white. He said he's making a res and
Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, a reservation. I totally say rez. So
Speaker 1: I say, let's make him res in her. I said,
Speaker 1: I have a resonate pretty five for sure. She's when
Speaker 1: I told her it was so white, She's like, what
Speaker 1: are you talking about? I say res all the time.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, do you don't make me pull
Speaker 1: your card? That all is bad a thing fetch never,
Speaker 1: it's just a bradiation she is. I wouldn't say too white.
Speaker 1: I would just say it's so obvious that you've like
Speaker 1: grown up in l A and not even in an
Speaker 1: offensive way. We talk no, no, no. So I was
Speaker 1: in the car with Erica, I think, where do we come?
Speaker 1: We came from sohouse, which makes it even more l A.
Speaker 1: We're in the car and she's dropping me off my
Speaker 1: hotel and she's like I can't. This is exactly why
Speaker 1: I don't do Beverly Hills. It's just ridiculous. This is stupid.
Speaker 1: It's like they just they have no regard. They just
Speaker 1: can't drive here, and I'm just I'm over it. It's
Speaker 1: true they can't drive anywhere in Los Angeles. Because I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm a New Yorker at heart, because I
Speaker 1: hate driving. I just want to be driven everywhere. And
Speaker 1: I'd rather take the subway than sitting in traffic. Traffic,
Speaker 1: Would you rather sit in traffic? Are you? Are you
Speaker 1: moving on the subway? Subway? My phone died yesterday on
Speaker 1: the subway, and I'm like this sucks. Like and I'll
Speaker 1: actually when when I commute in New York, I'll look
Speaker 1: on my app to see, like the time is going
Speaker 1: to take in a car, time's gonna take in a train.
Speaker 1: And if it's quicker on the train, likeny, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: hop on the train. Yeah, because y'all have traffic and
Speaker 1: ship we have a lot of traffic, Like you could
Speaker 1: go four miles and it's gonna take you forty five minutes.
Speaker 1: I still think l A traffics work though, traffic stupid. No,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I was like, where can we
Speaker 1: get that? We need a subway and there's no option
Speaker 1: to have don't need the valley the value fucking god, Yo,
Speaker 1: can you tell me the blackest shop you guys have
Speaker 1: done with it? Which black king? Oh that is, and
Speaker 1: interviewed him with his right right. Yeah, the blackest thing
Speaker 1: we've done lately. Yeah, we are, We're we're very but
Speaker 1: I mean these braids look new. That's a black thing
Speaker 1: to do, Like I'm gonna prove my blackness. Like that's
Speaker 1: really bitch here talking about what's the blackest thing? Don't do?
Speaker 1: What is the most Jewish thing? Right now? I got
Speaker 1: pindled all roundmas, so let me not funk with you.
Speaker 1: Then he went to cutebu got something, got some moves
Speaker 1: down with no trouble. Um. Weevey went ahead and compiled
Speaker 1: some icebreakers for you guys. So when we have guests,
Speaker 1: we like to kind of break the ice a little bit,
Speaker 1: although I don't think we need to with yours. But
Speaker 1: she got some cute ones. Um, so the first Ibreak
Speaker 1: icebreaker for you guys. And these are really only gonna
Speaker 1: pertain to y'all. We can't really answer them because we
Speaker 1: ain't got kids. Um, so the first icebreaker is, have
Speaker 1: you ever had sex with your kid in the bed? No? Wait,
Speaker 1: she was asleep? Wait are you serious? How old was
Speaker 1: she's a baby? I mean, okay, first of all, let
Speaker 1: me say this. I think Eric is lying. I'm not lying,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't. I don't bring people around my
Speaker 1: I've only brought one person, the dad. Okay, well it
Speaker 1: was the dad. It was it was the dad of
Speaker 1: that baby. And I know and he wouldn't have done
Speaker 1: that in the beginning. There's some a jesting that has
Speaker 1: to happen, you know, you just become a mom and
Speaker 1: be like, oh ship, there's things I need to change that.
Speaker 1: It takes time. That question in When I first read
Speaker 1: about someone doing this, I was reading Terrible Dusting, and
Speaker 1: then I was talking to my friends about it and
Speaker 1: she was like, bro, She's like, you have no idea
Speaker 1: how hard it is to put my kid asleep. And
Speaker 1: she was like even sometimes moving, like she was like
Speaker 1: I could leave the room and like bam, it's over.
Speaker 1: She's like crying all day and baby baby Okay. I
Speaker 1: was thinking about and I'm like, well, if it's on
Speaker 1: the other side, I don't think you got a California king.
Speaker 1: It was it was a California king. Actually, actually that
Speaker 1: big as bed for no, that was the only good
Speaker 1: use of it because it took up the whole goddamn
Speaker 1: really good. I got the daddy. Okay. The craziest thing
Speaker 1: is I've never said this on any of our episodes
Speaker 1: because I didn't know consciously because it's like that sounds
Speaker 1: I've judged myself. Well we're getting you out there. Okay,
Speaker 1: well judge you. I actually think it's fine. Okay, good hall.
Speaker 1: It wasn't my wasn't my greatest moment, but ship happens,
Speaker 1: and she's fine. She's not going to remember it, I
Speaker 1: mean until she gets old enough to listen. Has your
Speaker 1: kid ever found one of your sex toys? Yeah? You
Speaker 1: just lie and say it's a tool. It's like it's
Speaker 1: like a pink I've, I've I've or like one of
Speaker 1: those i've whatever, I one of those Doc Johnsons in
Speaker 1: like like like a rabbit, like kind of like one
Speaker 1: of these mom what's said, like it's Mommy's tools, fixes things,
Speaker 1: fixing what is not found me. I'm a good hider,
Speaker 1: you're I was thinking though, because I went as a
Speaker 1: as a kid, I went through all my moms ship
Speaker 1: like all the fucking time, and I was thinking, like,
Speaker 1: she's it's about time. I have to start like hiding
Speaker 1: things higher, up higher, So I just leave it right
Speaker 1: in the drawer, my underwear drawer behind. I know my
Speaker 1: housekeeper she'd be seeing all my ship, but plugs all
Speaker 1: the ship. But no, Irie has not yet, Luna, right, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: And the last icebreaker is, what is the one major
Speaker 1: change about yourself since becoming a mother? Everything? If you
Speaker 1: don't you mentioned that she said I would never bake.
Speaker 1: I'm more empowered. I feel like you're like, fuck you,
Speaker 1: get out of my way. You know, like I'm a mom,
Speaker 1: do whatever I want. I can't tell me sugar, um
Speaker 1: a smaller scar over my pussy. Um? You know section
Speaker 1: I did, and I do. I feel more empowered to
Speaker 1: I don't have time. I feel like the I'll never
Speaker 1: realize when I was single since dub a friend of
Speaker 1: the show said to me once that she didn't use
Speaker 1: an EPI journal when she pushed her baby on. I'm
Speaker 1: like why and she's like, the fucking slaves didn't. I
Speaker 1: wanted to feel my son come out of me, and
Speaker 1: I can appreciate that to me was like, first of all,
Speaker 1: I think no man could really even like I wanted
Speaker 1: to know fucking way, Like, have you seen the videos
Speaker 1: of men when they experienced pain, they put those little
Speaker 1: things on them like they that's not appropriate word to
Speaker 1: describe them, because are clearly strong could take a pounding
Speaker 1: bounce back into shape. It's so crazy because your magic
Speaker 1: is magical science. That's how we are magic. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of moisture happening. It's like a cut on your tops,
Speaker 1: a muscle right and elasticity. Like my boobs they're not
Speaker 1: like my breastfed for hell a long like two and
Speaker 1: a half years, and like the nipples are kind of
Speaker 1: looks like but the boops for the most Parker back,
Speaker 1: What what do people say about how long you're best fed?
Speaker 1: Like at one point, oh yeah, like oh she's too big. Um,
Speaker 1: it's like should like fall asleep and get scared that
Speaker 1: she's gonna clench her teeth. So it's like, you know you,
Speaker 1: you get you if you figured out what made you
Speaker 1: do it so long? I'm all natural And also I
Speaker 1: didn't I opted not to immunize her, and I feel
Speaker 1: like like natural immunization is from my titty, from God
Speaker 1: himself or herself. So that was my motivation. Like you're
Speaker 1: an anti baxy, you want your child? How did your
Speaker 1: child get into? Okay? I mean, oh girl, I gotta
Speaker 1: I got a special doctor for what I have. You
Speaker 1: look at a space right now, because so I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie, like I feel like it's a it's I've
Speaker 1: had this conversation before because so there was a child
Speaker 1: in New York that died of the musles because of
Speaker 1: a mother who believed in not vaccinating. That's and so
Speaker 1: to me, I feel like it's kind of a irresponsibility
Speaker 1: and a and a harm to society to not go
Speaker 1: through with doing that now knowing that, Like, I mean,
Speaker 1: we have ship out here, and they are you to
Speaker 1: even start school with these Let me school you a
Speaker 1: little bit. Um go ahead. I ain't got no kids,
Speaker 1: but I know, girl, I's not about to tell other
Speaker 1: people's so um Like, compared to when we went to school,
Speaker 1: there's like three times as many vaccinations as there was then,
Speaker 1: which I think is us um measles. I mean, I
Speaker 1: didn't hear about that case, but like that's been not
Speaker 1: around for a very long time. Um, I'm black. I
Speaker 1: don't trust the government. I don't trust pharmaceuticals. I didn't
Speaker 1: exist it up myself. You came shaped for God through
Speaker 1: my pussy. I think you're cool. Um. And you know
Speaker 1: there's like there's like the Syphilist experiment in Alabama and
Speaker 1: they just given nigga's syphilis because I wanted to see
Speaker 1: what would happen to black people. So no, me and
Speaker 1: the pharmaceutical companies in the government of the US, I
Speaker 1: don't trust you because of slavery. So I don't want
Speaker 1: to just let just because of this nigga in a
Speaker 1: white coat who paid a lot of money to go
Speaker 1: to school told me to do it. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to just be like, sure, no problem, bob, because I
Speaker 1: just I just that's I think people. I would like
Speaker 1: to say, you know, there's this fear you might contaminate
Speaker 1: other people. But the truth of the matter is vaccinations.
Speaker 1: Right now, bitches, we ain't vaccinated nomo. How would you
Speaker 1: feel about a coronavirus vaccination for her? I don't do
Speaker 1: vaccinations period. I don't like, let's we're traveling out of
Speaker 1: the country their mandatory and then we'll do it. And
Speaker 1: now she's older. I mean, if I had to consider
Speaker 1: if we're traveling and maybe you know, like I feel
Speaker 1: like she's more like they try to literally shoot your
Speaker 1: baby episode and come out your pussy. The bitch just
Speaker 1: came from God. She's cool, Like I. I, you can't
Speaker 1: convince me like that you can inject something that's ir
Speaker 1: irreversible in my child that I did not mix up myself.
Speaker 1: I didn't even see the nick and mix it up.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what's in this ship. Nobody asked
Speaker 1: for itemized copy of that ship because nobody just everybody
Speaker 1: just believes with their spoon fat have a feeling about
Speaker 1: like any So I'm gonna vaccinate my kids unless I
Speaker 1: live in Europe. I feel like the intensity of American
Speaker 1: drugsure right, is absolutely fucking insane, and I think that
Speaker 1: the iMusic like I'm always fucking sick and I've had
Speaker 1: every food shot all of that ship. I don't necessarily
Speaker 1: always believe in it, but I do know that it's
Speaker 1: more rampant in children and elderly people here, like the
Speaker 1: common colds and the flues and chicken pope and not measles,
Speaker 1: but um just ship like that. But I've also read
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff about vaccines with like giving kids autism,
Speaker 1: and it's mercury and that's Tremelda hide. There's like all
Speaker 1: those things. And I do just because I like that chicken.
Speaker 1: And I know you live on the other side of
Speaker 1: the country. Um, but measles has been around. Um, there's
Speaker 1: actually a real quick New York City has declared public
Speaker 1: health emergency since there's been two and eighty five cases
Speaker 1: of measles that's been reported in Brooklyn and Queens Um
Speaker 1: since October and by the beginning of May nineteen, four
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty three confirmed cases of measles reported. And
Speaker 1: it's there's eleven million people here. Okay, wait wait wait,
Speaker 1: And and also I know you guys are aware and
Speaker 1: this is not going to be like probably googleble. But
Speaker 1: there's like this secret like very high end doctor that
Speaker 1: all like he he's like been a whistle blower and
Speaker 1: he like meets with all the like celebrity parents to
Speaker 1: tell him not to anti like they're joining together forces.
Speaker 1: And basically he said that, Um, I gotta text my
Speaker 1: friend and see his name. He said that, you know,
Speaker 1: just like in any vaccination, they put a portion of
Speaker 1: the virus and it had a lot of these these
Speaker 1: measles outbreaks that they're they're they're trying to make crisis
Speaker 1: to shame. Parents like myself are from the actually from
Speaker 1: the vaccine, the fact that they put so some of
Speaker 1: you know, I have an egg allergy. Um. I talked
Speaker 1: about it on the show. I've it's gotten to the
Speaker 1: point where it's like almost starting to hinder my every
Speaker 1: day life. Is actually getting worse getting food that's not
Speaker 1: doesn't have veggas. Find like I broke out in a
Speaker 1: rash from touching something that had mayonnaise on it, Like
Speaker 1: it was crazy, um, and it was almost on my face,
Speaker 1: like it got how really high up and I had
Speaker 1: to show that Daniel's freaking out. So I've been googling
Speaker 1: how to get rid of it, and this doctor was like, well,
Speaker 1: we'd basically have to shoot you up with some eggs.
Speaker 1: And that's not not literally all eggs, but like a
Speaker 1: little bit. It's something that starts with it's some word
Speaker 1: whatever is in egg. I can't remember what it is,
Speaker 1: but anyway, and he's like, and you probably will, you know,
Speaker 1: get an allergic reaction. You may have a respiratory issue,
Speaker 1: but it has to go into the point where you
Speaker 1: just and I'm like, yeah, I don't really know how
Speaker 1: much I want, how I feel sick just to not
Speaker 1: like that ship is wild to me. The fact that
Speaker 1: you have to shoot me up with it. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: vaccinated my daughter. I don't know, you know what. And
Speaker 1: the thing is it's fear based either way. And I
Speaker 1: agree with that because I mean it's funny, because I
Speaker 1: mean there's a lot of questions about even me. I
Speaker 1: know people are gonna be like, oh, so you vaccinate,
Speaker 1: but you don't believe in science. But I do agree
Speaker 1: and a little bit with you as far as to me,
Speaker 1: there are a lot of things that are perceived to
Speaker 1: us just based on government um spectacles and what they
Speaker 1: want society to believe. Um. I was even listening to
Speaker 1: the Brilliant Idiots recently and Chris Morrow got on there
Speaker 1: and talked about even the coronavirus, the government has only
Speaker 1: told us of what they want to even about who's
Speaker 1: been infected and died. Um. So just to the point
Speaker 1: of science, like, I do believe that they tell us
Speaker 1: the things that they want us to tell us. They'll
Speaker 1: go to extreme measures to prove their point right, right,
Speaker 1: kind of getting on my nerves a little bit. I
Speaker 1: know that I'm going to speak in turn from when
Speaker 1: I don't know. We could be dead by the time.
Speaker 1: The way they're acting this is like this is gonna happen.
Speaker 1: But I know recently, I just saw something and we're
Speaker 1: recording this just so you guys know, probably a week
Speaker 1: and a half before you'll hear it. Um. I already
Speaker 1: know New York is gonna hit this week because it's
Speaker 1: in Connecticut, Rhode Island. I would already hit Manhattan. There's one.
Speaker 1: There's one case in Manhattan, so I'm gonna be real.
Speaker 1: I'm not that freaked out, only because Stars was more deadly.
Speaker 1: There's been eighty two cases. Only two thousand people have died,
Speaker 1: and they're mostly elderly or children. But we we black,
Speaker 1: so were good. It's from the droplets of a cough
Speaker 1: or sneeze and it has to touch your his nose,
Speaker 1: her mouth. It's not airborne. So it's crazy because when
Speaker 1: I was on the plane and I was like, Wow,
Speaker 1: more people should be wearing gloves than the mask, even
Speaker 1: because it's it's contractions to your face, which is why
Speaker 1: they're saying wash your hand, don't do Um. Santitizer sanitizer
Speaker 1: because sanitizer is antibacterial. But the coronavirus is actually a virus.
Speaker 1: Virus is not bacteria, so we're not protecting right all this,
Speaker 1: I don't know, that's what they're saying. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's like string STDs, like that's why medicine it's like
Speaker 1: not all in one, you know what I mean. I
Speaker 1: read something that was quite funny. They said that there
Speaker 1: was two hundred thousand cases of the coronavirus. And we're
Speaker 1: sitting here having a goddamn uproar, but over two hundred
Speaker 1: million people have died from HIV. Anyway, I really have
Speaker 1: to work to life what then everybody'll be fine. I
Speaker 1: think people are more concerned this virus than what they
Speaker 1: have been over aids. That's literally captured. Dude watches the
Speaker 1: news before he goes to work every morning, right, I
Speaker 1: swear to crying laughing because this woman on CNN dead
Speaker 1: ass to the camera was like, so yeah, it's pretty
Speaker 1: much gonna hit the East Coast soon. I would suggest
Speaker 1: everyone get canned goods, get your water water. The roads
Speaker 1: are clear. People have been told to stay in their houses.
Speaker 1: There's been a lot of business stopped. All the stars
Speaker 1: are they're not even letting um goods be exported from
Speaker 1: China over here, Like, do you know how much is
Speaker 1: sucked up my Alley expressed, Like, let me just tell
Speaker 1: you guys, no bullshit. For those of you watching on YouTube,
Speaker 1: I normally buy um A lot of y'all asked about
Speaker 1: my braids, like, oh, is a human hair? Yes? I
Speaker 1: get bulk hare from Alley expressed, because I don't want
Speaker 1: this synthetic braids because I leave the hair out. I
Speaker 1: was just shipping hair to go on vacation this week
Speaker 1: and I can't get any fucking shipping from China. So
Speaker 1: last minute, because I already had the appointment, I had
Speaker 1: to buy packed hair. Okay, my hair is so fucked
Speaker 1: up and it's been three days. I can't even brush
Speaker 1: it from this fucking pack. I missed so much. I
Speaker 1: swear to God, I'm like, I'll rinting myself. Give me.
Speaker 1: Are you all eating from the Chinese restaurants? You're good
Speaker 1: on it? You know? Oh, I wonder if I didn't
Speaker 1: even think about that. I just thought about it being
Speaker 1: like chicken wing. People have been talking ship like doophobia
Speaker 1: going around? Yeah, which is not cool I mean, first
Speaker 1: of all, we're in America. I just yeah, just again
Speaker 1: with the fear. Am I gonna be fucking tripping out
Speaker 1: now if it gets me, it's my time to go.
Speaker 1: Because they're saying, because no one knows rumors. I'm on
Speaker 1: a Washington Post Chinese food in the coronavirus rumors and
Speaker 1: reports that the virus may have been contracted by eating
Speaker 1: exotic foods in China. So yeah, that's so basically, So basically,
Speaker 1: what they're saying is, um, they were like lab testing animals,
Speaker 1: and so in the US you have to get rid
Speaker 1: of those animals the right way. What they're saying is
Speaker 1: there were animals that were being lab tested and instead
Speaker 1: of getting rid of them, they were still selling them
Speaker 1: on the black market to be consumed. And so what
Speaker 1: happened is these live tested animals were consumed and that's
Speaker 1: how it started. No bit, she didn't hear. You didn't
Speaker 1: get there on it. They found the scientists at Stanford,
Speaker 1: a professor that was that was at what is it?
Speaker 1: Partner trying to originate from I don't know. He did
Speaker 1: a little African used to be like you want to
Speaker 1: come to go on zoo? Was what is do put
Speaker 1: that under the age. There's a h in there. Oh,
Speaker 1: they don't want to stop talking about these Chinese people.
Speaker 1: Now they apparently it's it's man made and it's always
Speaker 1: aids all this shi is man made. I'm saying, find
Speaker 1: y'all whole just mixed it together and then in fact
Speaker 1: it isn't man made. Yeah, but they don't know it
Speaker 1: don't mean it's right. Is killing people. So I don't
Speaker 1: believe in science. You know, vaccinate your children? Um? No, Well, Um,
Speaker 1: while we easy gets from MICI, if y'all are watching
Speaker 1: us on YouTube, I'm gonna go ahead and jump into
Speaker 1: our vanilla ship. This is actually a cool conversation as
Speaker 1: we have four women talking here. Um. We just had
Speaker 1: our Fairy Home Mother Tay that was on and this
Speaker 1: conversation got brought up. We were talking about to get money.
Speaker 1: Gut Um Wheezy from she Knows dot Com found an
Speaker 1: article um that says chubby or met may just do
Speaker 1: better with women than fifth ones. If you think sexy
Speaker 1: model men are the ones who get more women than
Speaker 1: anyone else, you might want to think again. A new
Speaker 1: study says with the infamous dad mom actually has more
Speaker 1: lifetime success with money than hard body hotties. As it
Speaker 1: turns out, women are looking for Mr. Hard body trainer
Speaker 1: dude anymore. They're looking for comfortable, tallish man who is
Speaker 1: not too fat, not too thin. I don't know, it's
Speaker 1: as tall ash, I don't know. I guess I was
Speaker 1: gonna say just six ft because and then niggas really
Speaker 1: be five it's tall, not sixas really be five ten especially.
Speaker 1: The study comes from New Chapman University study and was
Speaker 1: published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology. It looked like any
Speaker 1: other study when it comes to height. However, men who
Speaker 1: are relatively tall may be preferred by women because taller
Speaker 1: height is acute and dominant social status, access to resources,
Speaker 1: inheritable fitness, leading them to have more mating opportunities and
Speaker 1: sex partners. But the surprising part is that men who
Speaker 1: are considered quote unquote overweight tend to have more lifetime
Speaker 1: sex partners than men who are fit and trimp, which
Speaker 1: means that somewhere along the way, women really did not
Speaker 1: decide we like someone with a little bit Women did
Speaker 1: really decide that they like men with a little bit
Speaker 1: more meat on their bones. I wanted to ask you, ladies,
Speaker 1: because I am not one of these women in the studies.
Speaker 1: I want to either count your ribs or count your abs.
Speaker 1: That's it. Um, yeah, I'm cool with a little skinny
Speaker 1: niggas cat ribs. I liked Wiz before he put on
Speaker 1: the weight. So your wife you're wanting you, Yeah, I'm cool.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of I'm the one that feels like that
Speaker 1: was a bird chest. I'm I'm cool. I hear what
Speaker 1: you're saying with like lean I love. Actually I prefer
Speaker 1: soccer and basketball players for a body type. But the
Speaker 1: bird chested, yea. Sometimes sometimes those bird CHESSI niggers to
Speaker 1: be having pink ticks today. Knees, bitch, it's a third,
Speaker 1: it's it's a kicksting. Also a short guys also be
Speaker 1: having thinks. I don't even so. I'm a highest for sure,
Speaker 1: but I've recently we have changed my mind because I
Speaker 1: found a nigga that is short and what a short?
Speaker 1: Five nine Okay, that's really short. But guys listening to this,
Speaker 1: they're probably like bitches. I'm sorry. I don't don't call
Speaker 1: me a bag because I said I changed my mind. Okay, mother, look, okay,
Speaker 1: I'll tell are you I'm five six you, So I
Speaker 1: wear heels so like, I don't really want to be
Speaker 1: taller than my nigga. And I was with someone for
Speaker 1: seven years that was six two so and then my
Speaker 1: father's six three. Everyone, every man in my life has
Speaker 1: always been tall, so I equate that with what like
Speaker 1: I think of a man and um, but recently, actually
Speaker 1: I've had two experiences. Actually I think my R and
Speaker 1: B bay is actually even shorter than that ship uma.
Speaker 1: But that's the shortest. Um. How did anyone sink to
Speaker 1: your pussy? No, he's saying your pussy vibrate like his mouth. No,
Speaker 1: I want to give me your hands, okay, because this
Speaker 1: is what he did, and I couldn't believe it because
Speaker 1: I want I'm gonna make sure to hear this. I
Speaker 1: don't feel like I'm getting my palm red home on
Speaker 1: your bus because it isn't do it. There's a sex
Speaker 1: tip well known, humming during blow jobs because of the vibrations. Okay,
Speaker 1: but it was not he homed on your clip. Okay,
Speaker 1: So I did it. He was one time and I
Speaker 1: was like, did this pendy just happened? Like what the fun?
Speaker 1: And then he did it again recently and he's perfected
Speaker 1: even more and like it's like he does more things
Speaker 1: and the ship is as strong as a vibrator strong,
Speaker 1: Like it was amazing. Okay, both of y'all like you
Speaker 1: guys maybe above like ivertight men. But what means okay,
Speaker 1: so chubster um, I generally, normally I am attracted to lean,
Speaker 1: tall men. Um. I have slept with a chubster before
Speaker 1: and I didn't like it. Um. I feel like I'm shaming,
Speaker 1: but like you, it's your preference. I just felt like
Speaker 1: there was a lot of belly on my belly and
Speaker 1: it was just like there was a lot of sweat.
Speaker 1: He sweat on me. I'm not it was skinny niggers. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like this ny was sweating on the space Like
Speaker 1: I like my baby daddy. I'd like to see what's
Speaker 1: happening so like I can't. I like to see what's
Speaker 1: happening to right, and I can't do that if your
Speaker 1: stumming's an way, Um, what about you? Oh thank God
Speaker 1: that I'm working on it. Wait, um, big niggas, love
Speaker 1: love you little bitches. It will come find me in
Speaker 1: the class. Literally, I know everybody. She has a body
Speaker 1: for a tiny girl and and soap. I'm so happy
Speaker 1: you agree because I was like, I'm thick, bitches, I
Speaker 1: don't know what anyone else is talking. Okay, Mandy, sorry
Speaker 1: you didn't get a clear. You didn't get you don't
Speaker 1: get clear. Okay, don't worry, I'll show you later. You see,
Speaker 1: I'm curvy, curvy, petite. I don't like I mean, I
Speaker 1: prefer like an athletic body. I want to look at
Speaker 1: you and be like, oh yeah, I'm gonna sit on that,
Speaker 1: and that's like abs and all. I mean. Also, I
Speaker 1: don't want something super skinny, like I'm you're gonna start
Speaker 1: fucking fire, you know, even when I did even with
Speaker 1: women like you need to be the thicker. You need
Speaker 1: to be thick. Kind of a thick girl, because what
Speaker 1: the fund are we going to do together? You know something?
Speaker 1: And that's where I would prefer. So I like thicker women.
Speaker 1: Um So, in terms of like the women that I've
Speaker 1: had fun with, they've been either my size, are bigger
Speaker 1: or just very curvy. I also deal with women who
Speaker 1: have fake bodies, So I'm cool with a whole lot
Speaker 1: of ass like titties. Like, I love thick women, but
Speaker 1: I do prefer like my men to be I've never
Speaker 1: thought with somebody with a fake ask or even really
Speaker 1: got a great grasp like I've never had I don't
Speaker 1: want to do that, touched some fake acid strip club.
Speaker 1: But I've never hooked up with a woman with so
Speaker 1: I I have some like, well, I've had sex with
Speaker 1: good fake ass and bad fake as. So the us
Speaker 1: so like the like actually most of the women I fakes,
Speaker 1: Um what do the man? Yeah? But um, so I
Speaker 1: like when they moved like a lot of a lot
Speaker 1: of people. So I it was during it was it
Speaker 1: was during a threesome when I lived in Miami. So
Speaker 1: I was like twenty years old and I was sucking
Speaker 1: a guy um who worked on the beach with me,
Speaker 1: and so he fu mat bitches. I was like, he
Speaker 1: was like, you wanna have threesome? And he like knew
Speaker 1: how to make me squirt, So I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: let's have a three some cool. So when I got
Speaker 1: off work, I used to bartend down there and he
Speaker 1: brought this chick over and she looked nice, definitely visibly
Speaker 1: a fake body because she was slimmer, but her ass
Speaker 1: was like okay. So like when we went to have sex,
Speaker 1: like and I went to eat her pussy, and went
Speaker 1: to grab because she sa her ass was hard. It
Speaker 1: literally was hard to where like like it didn't it almost.
Speaker 1: I was like, you know the stress balls were you there,
Speaker 1: but it's like it wasn't like a jiggling to fall.
Speaker 1: It was too firm, but you could. It was like
Speaker 1: a fake firm, not an athletic firm. I was just like,
Speaker 1: I am it's her be off feeling that she didn't
Speaker 1: feel like a natural woman, like I know girls that
Speaker 1: have gotten their bodies done and it still just feels
Speaker 1: very soft. And it's so she was botched. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: had to be the few assides that I've touched that
Speaker 1: are fake. We're cold? Is that a thing cold? Like
Speaker 1: no blood flow? Oh my god? That cold. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe it was they were negative when people want to
Speaker 1: touch fake titties, and like a girl ever asked me,
Speaker 1: this is how they touch it. They taped my titties.
Speaker 1: They take two fingers. No one really they're like so
Speaker 1: scared to grab it, which I don't understand either, but
Speaker 1: they always go like this like I don't know, I
Speaker 1: feel like you've always just like they're like scared. I
Speaker 1: had a great compliment last night though, the girls that
Speaker 1: I slept. When I was in the shower, I heard
Speaker 1: her ask my dues are fake? Are they real? And
Speaker 1: I was like, I just love it when you're not sure.
Speaker 1: That lets me know that Dr Greenberg sucking did it right.
Speaker 1: That's the best compliment you can have for fake anything.
Speaker 1: We've nails flashes. Are those yours? Yes? Yes? They all absolutely.
Speaker 1: Oh so we got through Urbanella Ship. Our Horrid Derve
Speaker 1: is our new segment where we serve you up a
Speaker 1: sex tip every week. We just talked about Humming. I
Speaker 1: want to know the best sex tips single or collectively
Speaker 1: that you guys have ever had told you or like
Speaker 1: we've done, are like we've done best sex tip you have,
Speaker 1: best one that's passed down from a former home or
Speaker 1: I mean that Humming ship was that. I don't mean
Speaker 1: someone someone's done to us or sex Any best sex
Speaker 1: tip that you give our listeners. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: want to hear this fucking ship. Someone told me in
Speaker 1: high school and I was doing it for like twelve years.
Speaker 1: The alphabet this guy twelve years. That's like now this Yeah,
Speaker 1: last week this guy told me don't don't don't spit
Speaker 1: it out. It's disrespectful. Oh he is, I like swallowing
Speaker 1: them all. Now I do too, because I've been doing
Speaker 1: it for fifty year. That you's respectful. If I doubt oh,
Speaker 1: he said it was to spit it out. He's like
Speaker 1: you girl, he got you just been over here swallowing
Speaker 1: even when you didn't want to. I started to stop,
Speaker 1: but I realized that that wasn't a lie. That's not true.
Speaker 1: It's funny because um it pretending to oral. I had
Speaker 1: an African that I used to deal with and he
Speaker 1: actually did not let me suck his dick. Because what
Speaker 1: is that? Because I just have a question because he
Speaker 1: said he said that, and like he said, like he
Speaker 1: had all these feelings for me, but he's African. He
Speaker 1: has feelings for every woman he's with. He's married, Like, okay, sure,
Speaker 1: but he said that, like, and I remember trying to
Speaker 1: go when he was like, stop, what are you doing?
Speaker 1: Don't suck my dick because I don't disrespect you. And
Speaker 1: when you if you suck my dick, that means I
Speaker 1: have no respect for you if I let you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so he literally would not let me suck his dick
Speaker 1: because he said it means that he doesn't respect me
Speaker 1: as a woman. Wh there's a bitual listening to this.
Speaker 1: Didn't he didn't eat up with the end. He only
Speaker 1: sucked me missionary. He would not from the best terrible,
Speaker 1: just like you hear the same excuse from the mind
Speaker 1: was medical. No wait wait wait please, I didn't know
Speaker 1: you can't do you need to elaborate. This was This
Speaker 1: was alarming to me because man said that you couldn't
Speaker 1: want the wait wait wait Now when I think about
Speaker 1: it more, actually I'm like, I'm scared, I'm embarrassed and
Speaker 1: actually like to tell you j okay. So, so I
Speaker 1: met this guy and he told me that he doesn't
Speaker 1: like head. He doesn't like to get head. And I
Speaker 1: was like receiving yes, And I was like why and
Speaker 1: he was like, um, it just doesn't. It doesn't like
Speaker 1: go well with my page balance. And I said, okay,
Speaker 1: what's with you? He said he has a condition. He said,
Speaker 1: he's a condition. It's called I don't know some of
Speaker 1: the immunity. Body starts attacking itself because it's Aliva sends
Speaker 1: a message to his penis that something was crazy. No no,
Speaker 1: but I put it wouldn't you deficiency didn't but he
Speaker 1: let me suck you didn't hear the rest of it said.
Speaker 1: Then he said that a few days later he'll be
Speaker 1: itchy and it won't be good. But so I So
Speaker 1: he said, but you can lick my ass and my
Speaker 1: balls asshole? Wait, yes, which mind you is more once
Speaker 1: he gets in the asshole, Like that's where a lot
Speaker 1: of things can go on in your anus. So he
Speaker 1: was willing to let you lick his ass and his balls,
Speaker 1: but not the shaft, the deficiency. It wasn't it wasn't
Speaker 1: his pe hole. He thought that that's where his me
Speaker 1: his portal for his auto, the portal for the portal
Speaker 1: for his disease, was specifically in this eresa. So while
Speaker 1: he actually had sex, I feel like I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't think this is true, Like I'm not funk,
Speaker 1: like I'm really good at this, Like you want this,
Speaker 1: trust me? So I was like, I like licked my
Speaker 1: hand and I like went he and he was like,
Speaker 1: don't do that, and I was like oh, And then
Speaker 1: he was like and they put the condom on, and
Speaker 1: I was like, well do you get head through like
Speaker 1: over with the condom on? Which I don't like that.
Speaker 1: We talked about that. I don't think I don't I
Speaker 1: know we should unless you're working, if you share blunts.
Speaker 1: I say this all the time when niggas act like
Speaker 1: they're so fucking disgusted at like kissing a bit after
Speaker 1: a sucking dick, or like like you share blunts. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's your dick, if you're if you're concerned, then I
Speaker 1: don't need to put it in my mouth. I don't
Speaker 1: need to. I don't even want to suck the dick
Speaker 1: of a guy who won't let me suck the dick
Speaker 1: thing kiss were spit in his mouth like I want
Speaker 1: someone to like, you need to be like and if
Speaker 1: you won't let me kiss you after I suck your dick,
Speaker 1: I'm not sucking your dick. That lets you know what
Speaker 1: he won't do for you. He's not gonna please do anyway.
Speaker 1: But I don't want to be told no at all.
Speaker 1: We have not done with my story. Okay, sorry, but
Speaker 1: well I'm gonna tell you because now, oh god, it's
Speaker 1: really bad. But I I put the condom on and
Speaker 1: then I was like, you need me to experience this,
Speaker 1: maybe you'll change your mind, maybe for that mouth. I
Speaker 1: know this is like I don't have a lot of skills,
Speaker 1: but this is what this is this is a good one. Um.
Speaker 1: So I tried. I did that, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to do I don't want to do
Speaker 1: the ship like felt weird in my mouth. Whatever. So
Speaker 1: later on after we were done, I was thinking I
Speaker 1: was in bed with him, and I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, does he have an STD? Does he have
Speaker 1: an STD? Is that? And I totally freaked myself out.
Speaker 1: I don't have an STD, guys, but I just I
Speaker 1: don't think that's it. You don't think maybe? Well then
Speaker 1: I thought that too, maybe he's what Okay, why would
Speaker 1: that matter? Don't I don't know. I just sounded it.
Speaker 1: And then he also had this special this special um
Speaker 1: the special sex move that I thought was interesting, A
Speaker 1: special sex move. It wasn't like perpendiculous Are you talking
Speaker 1: about that? It was great wait, but it kind of
Speaker 1: was like perpendicular if you got our patre. We did
Speaker 1: an example of it demo. But basically it's me like
Speaker 1: laying down flat on your stomach. He lay down on
Speaker 1: his stomach the opposite way, and then he tucks it
Speaker 1: he doesn't, and then our asses are like, so I've
Speaker 1: seen that on a lot of the game. Warning that's
Speaker 1: why I said, maybe he's gay, like this ass eaten
Speaker 1: he does want to look also gay, like I find that,
Speaker 1: I find them might be attracted to game. And sometimes
Speaker 1: I don't even know because I'm not. I don't know.
Speaker 1: She's like, really think he's gay. I'm like, he's flaming
Speaker 1: Erica definitely by sexual bitch. I mean in that case,
Speaker 1: as long as he wants me. Yeah, I mean camaraderie me.
Speaker 1: I like everybody to. I get it. I don't mind
Speaker 1: men with like I like it's funny because I like
Speaker 1: very masculine men, like a little twist today. Snap no, no,
Speaker 1: it's one of the other, or like the emotional like
Speaker 1: sensitive speaking of emotional sensitive. So Erica met old day
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, she used to date this dude.
Speaker 1: And when I was first started working with you, we
Speaker 1: were swapping profiles and you followed him. And when I
Speaker 1: talked about you know what I'm talking about, okay, he
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, oh like earth winning fire,
Speaker 1: like I can't see them together, and he was like
Speaker 1: he was like he did type of negatively emotional with
Speaker 1: a bit. And I was like, you know, it's so crazy.
Speaker 1: He's just so deep, so unnecessarily deep. Deep, Like, give
Speaker 1: me an example. Let me say, oh my goodness, my beautiful,
Speaker 1: gorgeous writing and queen, Happy Monday evening. It is a
Speaker 1: lesson to see you. Wait that you the god that
Speaker 1: talked like that bitch? Everybody like to me and I
Speaker 1: was like, all right, nig you're happy to see me slip.
Speaker 1: It was the church. I didn't look like that. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, he's not that loud and ascidable. It doesn't
Speaker 1: way more. Chill, No, he doesn't. How does he do it?
Speaker 1: Eric a beautiful queen, You're so gorgeous. I've been waiting
Speaker 1: to connect with you. I'm just so blessed for you
Speaker 1: to be in my presence. You know you? So he
Speaker 1: holds up. Yeah, and that's why he's a fake. I
Speaker 1: don't do the holcause anymore because of him. Like she
Speaker 1: was sucking another night, he called her a queen. She said,
Speaker 1: don't call me that. I didn't triggered though, he was like,
Speaker 1: what you are? I was like, I don't give fox.
Speaker 1: The one thing I remember you said about him? Can
Speaker 1: I say it? We were eating and we were like
Speaker 1: sharing pitcher the nig as we're talking too, and she's like,
Speaker 1: he's great, takes great it's big, but he just can't
Speaker 1: eat pussy. And she was like, I was like, well,
Speaker 1: why don't you. I think he even called me that
Speaker 1: he gave me so much. I was like, okay, try
Speaker 1: and do it and help. I was about the fucking
Speaker 1: volt you know me, So don't let her beat around
Speaker 1: the bush bach but no pussy home. You will go
Speaker 1: pus because you're a little sensitive to and you I
Speaker 1: think you like a little You like a little sensitive.
Speaker 1: That's why I sounded we can both a little bit
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Speaker 1: As many of you guys know, or if you do
Speaker 1: not know, Weezy and I both do not have children. Um.
Speaker 1: I am twenty nine, about to be thirty, and I
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Speaker 1: are you guys on birth control? Though? When you're pregnant?
Speaker 1: Are you? It was just like yeah, coming me daddy, yep,
Speaker 1: were you do you? Did you ever track the moment?
Speaker 1: Then I got pregnant? Really, Jamaica, that's what my daughter's
Speaker 1: name's ire, I hate you. A lot of people say
Speaker 1: that they know the moment they got pregnant, and I
Speaker 1: got came in the other day and I wasn't ovulating
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Speaker 1: That was the that was the swimmer my baby Daddy,
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Speaker 1: He did say you'd be with the moons and suns
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Speaker 1: what should like to be a Capricorn. I was like,
Speaker 1: it's no libra hope, but I don't believe that ship
Speaker 1: but as but he would tell you that the moment
Speaker 1: that he got me pregnant is we were in Jamaica
Speaker 1: and we did anal for the first time and he
Speaker 1: thinks that he unlocked the key it's a pregnant c
Speaker 1: which I don't. I'm not arguing with him. I'm not
Speaker 1: arguing because we are very open. It opened me up
Speaker 1: like a flot because we have been very irresponsible for
Speaker 1: a long time. You're responsible irresponsible? Yeah, like I don't
Speaker 1: think we ever pulled out like sodomizes and look what happened.
Speaker 1: Happen And then so I have a question, Um, beautiful,
Speaker 1: a beautiful story. It's well, my question is about back
Speaker 1: last year podcast for Being Moms that you know are
Speaker 1: fluid and sexual, but mainly for you. You've posted stuff
Speaker 1: with Luna where you're naked and she's naked, and I've
Speaker 1: always found those pictures to be beautiful. But I'm curious,
Speaker 1: you know, if anyone's ever gave you ship in it,
Speaker 1: and like what what have they said about it? If so? Um,
Speaker 1: actually we're kind of lucky are people don't really come
Speaker 1: for us? No one really talks shit to us anyway? Um,
Speaker 1: mostly from my family and like people closer to me,
Speaker 1: I get shipped like just dumb ship. Just like what
Speaker 1: if Luna post pictures like that when she's older? What
Speaker 1: do you think she will think or like, I'm like
Speaker 1: she knows, she knows what the funk I am. But
Speaker 1: my mom, she don't have to do what I got
Speaker 1: what I do, But it's what the funk I do.
Speaker 1: We'd be naked. I'm naked. I'm I'm a naked person.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's always like I'm human. So
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes I'm like, damn, is this too much?
Speaker 1: I should have I posted that, But then at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, it's just like sucking this what
Speaker 1: I wanted to know. My body. I love my fucking body,
Speaker 1: and I feel like I read that read something about
Speaker 1: like girls saying she never heard her mom said damn,
Speaker 1: I love my body growing up, not one time, and
Speaker 1: I was like, that's true. It's powerful. So I'm trying
Speaker 1: to be naked and like I love my breast, I
Speaker 1: love my body, I love my brown skin, I love
Speaker 1: my hair. Yeah, we gotta love ourselves. Nobody else is
Speaker 1: gonna do it. That's the whole thing. Like like I'm
Speaker 1: I'm very one with nature and my vagina as a
Speaker 1: part of that, you know, the whole. So I don't
Speaker 1: think and I really am against like over sexualizing ship,
Speaker 1: you know, everybody's like, just because I'm naked doesn't mean
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to fuck like that is like my
Speaker 1: nudity doesn't necessarily represent like sex. There's a very cute
Speaker 1: video on the internet of I think an uncle and
Speaker 1: his nephew um on a pole and they're fully clothed
Speaker 1: and there's no weird music playing, like there's nothing over sexualized,
Speaker 1: but like doing yoga and he's jumping on his uncle
Speaker 1: and his uncle is a pole instructor poll dancing instructors
Speaker 1: use me, and the little kid is I don't know
Speaker 1: who was, but the kid is having a fun time
Speaker 1: because he's like, you know, doing a whole surfboard thing
Speaker 1: and he's jumping on him. He's like, let's do it again.
Speaker 1: And I remember you posted moment Luna playing around too,
Speaker 1: and I was curious what people said about that. I
Speaker 1: lost friends off of that off of the pole picture.
Speaker 1: Why because literally the kids were just playing on the pole, Like, bitch,
Speaker 1: there's poles at the park. They don't they're not associating
Speaker 1: the pole but being a stripper night. That's that's imposing
Speaker 1: your adult, fucked up nous on an innocent child. I
Speaker 1: have a problem with that. Too, I had, like, I agree, like,
Speaker 1: and I was gonna ask you have a daughter as well, right,
Speaker 1: So I was gonna ask because what I see online
Speaker 1: as far as um specifically with daughters is aging them
Speaker 1: too soon. Um. So it's the makeup, the perming up
Speaker 1: hair sometimes too early, the ear rings. Um. And even
Speaker 1: more so the style of dress. So crop tops, you know,
Speaker 1: tank tops thing. And I remember growing up, I couldn't
Speaker 1: wear two tops until I was almost you know, damn
Speaker 1: near going to high school. Like certain even clothing is sexualized.
Speaker 1: I know you said you don't sexualize things. Is that
Speaker 1: something that is going to continue on as she grows
Speaker 1: up as far as how she dresses? Um, I think
Speaker 1: like even now, I promote like your choice to wear
Speaker 1: what you want to wear, like you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like I mean, and I think I believe that. I No,
Speaker 1: there's just like there's scal age appropriateness like no, but
Speaker 1: she ain't wear in it. I look at go to
Speaker 1: the mall sometimes I see little girls and my looks
Speaker 1: crazy things those things like that I just don't think
Speaker 1: are crazy. You know, Like for example, me and I
Speaker 1: could talking about I have a diamond on my tooth,
Speaker 1: right and she was like, I want looted to get one.
Speaker 1: I said, if I already asked her one, I don't
Speaker 1: give an she could have one. It's sucking glue And
Speaker 1: like Brian Stone, some people would think that's too grown
Speaker 1: for a child to have. You know, my daughter asks,
Speaker 1: but like as far as like clothing goes and those
Speaker 1: type of things like what do you what does it think?
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna be honest, I dress I would
Speaker 1: just lie to my parents. I would rather I'm not
Speaker 1: going to encourage my daughter to be hoochie, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? And I want I'm gonna ask her
Speaker 1: why do you why do you want to wear that?
Speaker 1: You know? I think those are the questions we never
Speaker 1: ask and for me, like I would just sneak the
Speaker 1: ship out, I would just wear something else, you know.
Speaker 1: So I also know as a parent, I can't control everything.
Speaker 1: I think it's the way that I dressed attested or
Speaker 1: had something to do with the men that I dated
Speaker 1: being older than me, which is why I'm worried about
Speaker 1: my daughter dressing a certain way. And you know what's
Speaker 1: funny that it's very basic, but I feel like it's
Speaker 1: too grown and I see thirteen year old girls with
Speaker 1: like certain kind of nails. Well, I think why and
Speaker 1: it's I think it's being black. How often do we
Speaker 1: hear that she's fast, that's too grown? All my white
Speaker 1: friends who were like makeup and glitter and my parents
Speaker 1: made such a big deal and even that, like I
Speaker 1: know now, like I'm not gonna make a huge deal
Speaker 1: over every fucking thing because then the bitch is gonna
Speaker 1: go in the bathroom and pack the ship on to
Speaker 1: change her outfit when she leaves. But also there is
Speaker 1: age appropria because there are pervs and we know firsthand
Speaker 1: because we was with the PURBs when we were in
Speaker 1: high school. And I'm gonna be real about that too,
Speaker 1: Like let me let me keep it real with you,
Speaker 1: because these niggas are purps, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You think you're rich here, but like and you are,
Speaker 1: but this way it has no bit. But I'm just
Speaker 1: you have to like it's almost like playing you know,
Speaker 1: reverse psychology, because you know, as a high school student,
Speaker 1: you just did everything against what your parents said. So
Speaker 1: if we have the comfortability and you have the confidence
Speaker 1: to know who you are and make your own decisions,
Speaker 1: and I'm empowering you, like that then that's how you'll move,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and you'll have to hide
Speaker 1: ship and it would just be like an open conversation.
Speaker 1: But absolutely like there's lenits both of you guys too,
Speaker 1: because you brought it up specifically in the black household
Speaker 1: and y'all noticed a Black as podcast. Why what things?
Speaker 1: And why do you think the black households over sexualized
Speaker 1: things that maybe white households don't. And you're you're mixed
Speaker 1: with Mexican. Is that's something that even in the Mexican
Speaker 1: household that they you know for sure, I mean in
Speaker 1: like Latin household were covered up like you go out.
Speaker 1: But I think I don't know. But to answer your question,
Speaker 1: I think, um, I think a lot of it has
Speaker 1: to do with, like ore, how our bodies were used.
Speaker 1: You know, it's deep trauma. You know, it's not just
Speaker 1: like we were over sexualized. We over were still over sexualized.
Speaker 1: The black man is the most over sexualized person on
Speaker 1: this planet. I don't really know if white people don't
Speaker 1: do the same with cluse, I wouldn't. I don't. I
Speaker 1: can't experience. We have to protect like I think it
Speaker 1: comes from where it is normally When I think kids
Speaker 1: are molested and and things are going on, it's normally
Speaker 1: from someone you know, our family members. I think that's
Speaker 1: probably the obsession for like making sure. Like I think
Speaker 1: my mom did that when my cousin and he would
Speaker 1: bring like friends around, um shout out to streeps who
Speaker 1: come to the show. And I remember always wondering, cause
Speaker 1: I was so young, I'm like, why can't I have
Speaker 1: my pajamas when his friends here in my pajama be
Speaker 1: just like a loose dress like Little Cinderella or whatever
Speaker 1: they were. I'm like, why, why why would they do
Speaker 1: something to me? But the way she would act was
Speaker 1: almost over the top insane in my in my head.
Speaker 1: But I mean, really for her, she's just thinking, like,
Speaker 1: who fucking knows, she might be projected. She made some
Speaker 1: experiences that she's had and unfortunately, like that's that's huge,
Speaker 1: and you know, and and and and also women, was
Speaker 1: she not right to have done My mom has had
Speaker 1: those experiences from family members. If it was me, I'm
Speaker 1: sure I would do that to my kid too. And like,
Speaker 1: it doesn't doesn't make you over precautious in a good way. Listen,
Speaker 1: you could be you could do all the things to
Speaker 1: protect your kid. It doesn't guarantee shit. Yeah, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. But also like I'm not gonna have
Speaker 1: my kid around anyone I even suspect for five minutes,
Speaker 1: one second unattended, like I hate, Like like there's a
Speaker 1: meme going around, like I'm sick of hearing. Uh, parents
Speaker 1: tell kids, go put this on. You know there's men
Speaker 1: around here. If these men are even remotely kind of
Speaker 1: creepy and weird, I don't care his uncle, cousin, Pete,
Speaker 1: you gotta you can't. I don't know. I don't know that.
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't know. You don't know anyone. I
Speaker 1: want to ask you all, because you're both single moms,
Speaker 1: you're dating, you're having sex partners, lovers, people that may
Speaker 1: be potential later on down the line, at what point
Speaker 1: do you introduce someone to your child? Um, I I'm
Speaker 1: really like, I don't. I don't you know, like I haven't.
Speaker 1: I don't think i've I've she's met one person that
Speaker 1: I've dated, and it was like I've known him for
Speaker 1: years even before that, and so when I did, even
Speaker 1: they even met, it was like in a very social situation,
Speaker 1: you know, it wasn't like this is the mom this
Speaker 1: is mommy's boyfriend, even though he wasn't my boyfriend, but
Speaker 1: it was someone I was with, got it. But other
Speaker 1: than that, like I don't know, I'm weird. I was
Speaker 1: thinking about that too, because Jamila has, you know she has,
Speaker 1: And I agree with your theory too that you would
Speaker 1: rather know ahead of time, Like it's like, can you
Speaker 1: handle this situation? What do you mean handle well? I
Speaker 1: think also because testing it out with the guy you're
Speaker 1: saying testing it out, it's like, that's my friend, like
Speaker 1: I don't have. I don't have a lot of boyfriends.
Speaker 1: Like if if it goes there, then I'll tell express
Speaker 1: to my kids that's my boyfriend. But so I feel
Speaker 1: like I would be that way too, only because I
Speaker 1: love seeing with friends that have kids, the interactions and
Speaker 1: appreciate very much when it's not their baby daddy, and
Speaker 1: seeing how those men like honor their kids, how they
Speaker 1: treat them. So I see that. But then it's also
Speaker 1: scary because what about the attackment. Your friend is not
Speaker 1: going to go somewhere. Most likely your friend will be
Speaker 1: in your life. But if you get attached to Carl
Speaker 1: and he's just gone, I'm gonna be getting attest, like
Speaker 1: that since I've been single, I haven't had any real
Speaker 1: my mom and I haven't really had to face it
Speaker 1: that much. But I think too though, like I think
Speaker 1: about when I do date, I'm living a double life. Essentially,
Speaker 1: this person is never seeing me be a mother, which
Speaker 1: is such the biggest part of my life. Then like
Speaker 1: we could be building and building and have this amazing
Speaker 1: on one on one relationship and then we introduce our
Speaker 1: world and he could decide, you know what, I don't
Speaker 1: know if I could do this because I do it
Speaker 1: or couldn't do it at the step mom thing. Until
Speaker 1: dating someone seriously, I was like, oh, no problem. And
Speaker 1: that's almost That's why I almost like I'm conflicted about
Speaker 1: it because I feel like it might almost be better
Speaker 1: is to just get it out of the way, like
Speaker 1: in a social way, not like this is someone like
Speaker 1: she doesn't even realize, but he can see me being
Speaker 1: a mother. This is what I do. You have to
Speaker 1: share my time being a mother is definitely I think
Speaker 1: I have a question um A lot of social media,
Speaker 1: like I've been seeing the r A Fletchers thing or whatever,
Speaker 1: Alex this s guy and everyone's always talking about how
Speaker 1: so so it was a bad mom Lea is a
Speaker 1: bad mom because mom, who's Bernie? She's bad grandma? But
Speaker 1: people like how how can you be a good mom
Speaker 1: and make that choices? Like what balance from your social media?
Speaker 1: Like how do you care? Do you care all about
Speaker 1: how you project yourself? And do you ever think like oh,
Speaker 1: I'm a mom, I shouldn't be doing this and like
Speaker 1: naturally that's going to come out like damn, am I
Speaker 1: doing too much? Should I go to home? Like did
Speaker 1: I go into me dates last week? Like that's life?
Speaker 1: Like did I too many carbs? Should I have ate that?
Speaker 1: But then how do you not endure yourself that? No,
Speaker 1: like we always meet moms. I feel like all of us,
Speaker 1: I've met a mom that's like I never get to
Speaker 1: do anything, and then the second they do, they feel guilty.
Speaker 1: Well there's a difference that I'm have you asked this?
Speaker 1: Like there's just some a ship fucking bitches, Like let's
Speaker 1: be clear, there's some bitches I should not be moms.
Speaker 1: And I think like what makes a bad? Like where
Speaker 1: are your priorities? Like I heard a couple of people
Speaker 1: on that list, Like but also how do we know
Speaker 1: they're bad? Like I wrote you, I know nothing about
Speaker 1: Lexis guy. I think she was on the I don't
Speaker 1: know anything, okay, but like she's a stripper, she's an
Speaker 1: I g quote unquote ho who cares? Is she really
Speaker 1: bad mom because she goes out? Or is she not?
Speaker 1: Because it's not about going out. You could go out,
Speaker 1: but every every night, you know, you don't ever have
Speaker 1: your baby? How are you day in the week are
Speaker 1: you with your kids? How much? How are you how
Speaker 1: much time are you actually spending over? And they were
Speaker 1: left unattended? Like what environments are you making for your children?
Speaker 1: There are just there are just things that are blatantly
Speaker 1: bitch no, Like if I had dropped my baby off
Speaker 1: on Friday with her dad, love you buy and then
Speaker 1: I go get it popping Saturday and Sunday. Who Like,
Speaker 1: I'm a grown assom Saturday today, But guess what, I'm
Speaker 1: not going to not take my kid to school on Monday.
Speaker 1: My mom. Now I realized, like knowing the life my
Speaker 1: mom's lived, there were mornings where I thought she was
Speaker 1: just waking up. She was just coming in and my
Speaker 1: mom one of my friends and one of her friends
Speaker 1: I'll never forget, they were in the kid and they
Speaker 1: looked a little crazy. I was just like, well, baby,
Speaker 1: but they just had a sleepover and my mom was
Speaker 1: like me and Auntie Patty, we're gonna take you here.
Speaker 1: I was like yeah, And I remember so I was
Speaker 1: born in San France, but most of that childhood age
Speaker 1: was living in Miami before Orlando, and my mom was
Speaker 1: hitting the clubs. Funny, but I had we had to
Speaker 1: live in nanny and I remember one morning hearing La
Speaker 1: da ver I come outside and it was Saturday morning.
Speaker 1: I didn't have school and my mom had like five
Speaker 1: gay niggas in the hell one drag queen and they
Speaker 1: fucking danced with me and put makeup on me. You
Speaker 1: had the time of your mother life. And oh my god,
Speaker 1: what my party in the morning. This is great. It
Speaker 1: was so fun. And now I'm like that you guys
Speaker 1: are just leaving the clubs. You're like at you sleep.
Speaker 1: It's really what I think happened. My last question for
Speaker 1: you guys is for those listeners who have casual sex
Speaker 1: with their baby mama and baby daddy co parenting. Um.
Speaker 1: I think the only other single parent that like I know,
Speaker 1: talks about this and he's been on your show as well, Sharona.
Speaker 1: Is he co parents with his baby mama. Amazing. I'm
Speaker 1: curious to know, like the sex ruined things? How can
Speaker 1: just like should you suck your X? Yeah? If you
Speaker 1: guys have question? No, I don't know, not speaking personally,
Speaker 1: but like what advice do you have for co parenting?
Speaker 1: I think it's very it's very um playing, like are
Speaker 1: are they saying like are you saying can you handle that?
Speaker 1: Mostly likely not when both parties aren't saying immature there's
Speaker 1: you're never wors together so when you break that ship,
Speaker 1: I mean, trust me, I have back slid because I
Speaker 1: have like knowing good and god damn well, this is
Speaker 1: not for me, you know, like you're crazy. I'll stay
Speaker 1: as someone who is single who dates men with with
Speaker 1: baby moms. Um, it's called issues because there's a level
Speaker 1: of how do you how do you feel this honesty?
Speaker 1: Because so to me, that's my problem. Like and I
Speaker 1: think that at any time I decided to date a
Speaker 1: guy with children, I do want to know not only
Speaker 1: the relationship and respect he has with his baby mom,
Speaker 1: but the level of respect needs to also be there
Speaker 1: with me to let me know. I do think that
Speaker 1: they all they always go back. However, I grew up
Speaker 1: in a single parent household where my mama could not
Speaker 1: stand my daddy. I know they wasn't fucking, but I
Speaker 1: dated two guys um in the past where one told
Speaker 1: me he wasn't working with his ex baby mom. They
Speaker 1: now have two kids, so there was another baby that
Speaker 1: creeped in while they weren't together. And then also I
Speaker 1: had a threesome with a guy and his baby mama,
Speaker 1: So I know that outside of when we mean him
Speaker 1: weren't sucking, he was probably still sucking her solo too.
Speaker 1: And so I feel like at any given point men
Speaker 1: always go back to or feel like it's an open gate.
Speaker 1: I just think connection that we couldn't understand. There's a
Speaker 1: comfortable and most of the time there is, and there
Speaker 1: ain't no way they're going back to y'all using a
Speaker 1: condom because y'all let you use the kind of pop
Speaker 1: that one goes back to because I never told you
Speaker 1: that they're lying. Well, I was sucking my baby mama.
Speaker 1: What a condom? You were not attention? It's never would
Speaker 1: say no, never not going back with see I knew it,
Speaker 1: So then you're also sucking her raw. And if y'all
Speaker 1: aren't exclusive, whoever she sucking. You don't know because she
Speaker 1: damned trying. Telling you so that to me is just
Speaker 1: it becomes I don't want to I don't want to dip.
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal suck my baby daddy, like
Speaker 1: I don't want to suck anybody who says it, you know,
Speaker 1: Like I just want to cut that ship needs to
Speaker 1: be cut clean. I wanted to be I think it does.
Speaker 1: It has to be. It's toxic for the child. It's
Speaker 1: just it's just it creates too many gray areas, toxic
Speaker 1: for the child's goddamn back proof. You can't do it.
Speaker 1: You can't. I've never back slip. Oh, that bitch is cold.
Speaker 1: I have to for my own great I love too deep,
Speaker 1: I love him too deep. I can't do that. I
Speaker 1: really I hate saying it, you know. I'm like a
Speaker 1: super fan of you guys being together. I feel like
Speaker 1: maybe she'll be ten. But I think just experiencing the
Speaker 1: way you both have spoken about each other, I've never
Speaker 1: heard someone talk about their baby mama or their baby
Speaker 1: father in that hiever regard and just even being able
Speaker 1: to simply be like, it's just not right, like it's
Speaker 1: not working out. And I think that there also is
Speaker 1: a time and place for things, like you, maybe we
Speaker 1: had to have a kid right now, she was supposed
Speaker 1: to be here, and maybe we're just we're supposed to
Speaker 1: be together. I don't. I can't. I don't live my
Speaker 1: life like that because I can't like do that. Maybe
Speaker 1: maybe maybe maybe because that's too much, and so I
Speaker 1: just I think that for me, like it was, that's
Speaker 1: been the best thing because we know we have perfect
Speaker 1: trust me. We have our ups and we have our downs,
Speaker 1: and they're they're extreme, you know. But I think for me,
Speaker 1: like I just I don't know. I just I can't.
Speaker 1: And I know there's women out there that are like me.
Speaker 1: So for you, someone who you know fears dating a
Speaker 1: man with another family and there's two people involved, and
Speaker 1: he maybe he might, but there there's someone on the
Speaker 1: other side that has to make that decision too. So
Speaker 1: I know that it is possible. I realize though that
Speaker 1: it's rare. It is rare, and I'm like, day, I
Speaker 1: never thought about this. Is weird that anybody And I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say I've never thought it. I feel like
Speaker 1: act like I never thought about it. I mean, no,
Speaker 1: of course I have. I just I just also your
Speaker 1: So maybe that's positions to do that because a lot
Speaker 1: of like you're saying, you guys were in a serious
Speaker 1: relationship before you already, right, you're in a relationship, yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of time, so you've already had like it's
Speaker 1: like a boyfriend and my baby daddy. Yeah, like how
Speaker 1: many feels like my husband? Right? Well? If yeah, if
Speaker 1: you if you've been just working it again, you decided
Speaker 1: to have the baby, that don't have the baby thinking
Speaker 1: you're gonna be together. A lot of people, a lot
Speaker 1: of women work like that. I know what I'm telling
Speaker 1: you all. It's fucking crazy. It's actually don't it's actually
Speaker 1: dumb as hell. I have to that dumb as hell
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Speaker 1: hear it again. But please tell our listeners. We me
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Speaker 1: they're fine. On that, she was like, I just feel
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Speaker 1: I don't know why. For what reason, I went to
Speaker 1: Philly even though I was broke. I was like laid
Speaker 1: on my rank. I was like, I'm so go out
Speaker 1: there and see some nakeds. So my cousin calls me,
Speaker 1: this is very rearly my twenties, so this is nothing.
Speaker 1: I would tell Luna to do um. She's like, she's like, um,
Speaker 1: my friend called me and he's picking up his brother
Speaker 1: from prison and he wanted to take a girl up there,
Speaker 1: like you know, just you know, so when he comes out,
Speaker 1: I have a little party on the bus company out
Speaker 1: of an upstate New York and he'll pay you. So
Speaker 1: I was like, well, how much. It's like a thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: I was like twenty So it sounded good, you know.
Speaker 1: I was like that's a lot of all. I'm like,
Speaker 1: really because my barn's only five, so so being my
Speaker 1: righteous stuff, I'm like, well, just um, well, not giving
Speaker 1: him any head and can you give me a call
Speaker 1: Andy to see what the guy calls me. He's like,
Speaker 1: seems like no the brother setting it up. He's like,
Speaker 1: oh no, it's it's really good. It's it's really good.
Speaker 1: Just me. A couple of our childhood friends are driving
Speaker 1: up running RV. We're taking Jamaican food. He's like, we
Speaker 1: got weed for real. He was like, He's like, you know,
Speaker 1: I have daughters. It's just you know, we just want
Speaker 1: to welcome him home. That's really that. I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: he's not going to try and kill me. He just
Speaker 1: doing a nice steed for his brother. I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: well we'll pick me. It's a little booth. Bo Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll pick me up. It's six you know fine, I'm
Speaker 1: signed me up. Fuck it. I was like, I wasn't thrilled.
Speaker 1: I had to drive twelve hours up to up state
Speaker 1: New York with something that I didn't know. But he
Speaker 1: seemed like a good enough character. And my cousin says
Speaker 1: she knew him. He was get the thousand. I was
Speaker 1: getting thousand dollars most importantly. And they have weed and
Speaker 1: drinks and making food, and she's about her stomach. I'm
Speaker 1: all on my stomach. I've got lots of dates. So
Speaker 1: I am telling my cousin like, um, can you take
Speaker 1: the money now? I want to make sure, no matter what,
Speaker 1: I have my money, So like when I get on
Speaker 1: this this thing and take the money. So she she
Speaker 1: was like her older kinsin and I don't know why
Speaker 1: she's just leading me to this direction. She like goes outs.
Speaker 1: She talks to him at the window, takes the money,
Speaker 1: and I get on the best. I'm like the first
Speaker 1: time to come down this little ass block. And Philly
Speaker 1: is like a white family on the side. It's like
Speaker 1: one of those like the rentals with like there's a
Speaker 1: picture on the goddamn press. I'm like, great, this is
Speaker 1: hot like in the bust and like Hi everyone, I'm Jamilla,
Speaker 1: like knowing everyone knows. I'm like the hope. I literally
Speaker 1: going as a homemail to pick up the room like hi.
Speaker 1: And you know, as I started talking like come California,
Speaker 1: I'm in school. I'm just here visiting, like whatever. How
Speaker 1: long is the drive? Like fucking seven hours from Billy
Speaker 1: You like people, we drug all the way up there, right,
Speaker 1: We picked the guy up. He's not bad looking or whatever, like,
Speaker 1: but they're all like rallied around him, like like there's
Speaker 1: like the sentimental like first of all, he has been
Speaker 1: in prison for seven years that had this deep sentimental
Speaker 1: like connections talking how much they're like I'm so happy
Speaker 1: to see him talking about old school, childhood memories laughing.
Speaker 1: It's pretty amazing to before you signed up to this,
Speaker 1: did you ask what he was in jail for. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't you know? Now, No, I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was a thousand dollars? Did he know that that's
Speaker 1: why you were there? Yeah, I'm pretty sure. I was
Speaker 1: the only probably knew everybody else's childhood and then me
Speaker 1: I saw me drive up with everyone, um so he could.
Speaker 1: So we drive all the way back. It's actually very pleasant.
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is this is wow, this is nice.
Speaker 1: I'm so happy this guy is home. We make it
Speaker 1: back to Phillip Philly, and I'm like, I got thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: I didn't do sh you know, like they forgot. That's
Speaker 1: how I tell her to take my money before I
Speaker 1: got on the bus, you know. So I pull over
Speaker 1: the pull over at the gas station. His brother gets
Speaker 1: gets out to pump the gashes like I mean how
Speaker 1: like um, so he walked and he's like, okay, so
Speaker 1: I'm about to We're gonna go over to Friday's. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna park in the back. I'll take them with the
Speaker 1: guys in hands me a condom. Oh my god. And
Speaker 1: I was like and he's like all right, and I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, fucking I signed myself up for this,
Speaker 1: So I'll my way back to the RV. I'm like
Speaker 1: giving myself a talk pep talk like yeah, it's gonna
Speaker 1: get this. Was gonna do this ship and get this.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, you did it. Now you signed up
Speaker 1: for it. We're gonna, We're gonna. I'm not a quitter.
Speaker 1: I'm not. So I'm in the rvy like okay, like
Speaker 1: pumping myself off in my head. They all get out,
Speaker 1: they all get out. I look over at him, I
Speaker 1: started closing the blindsnography. Just take off my shirt and
Speaker 1: like walk over to him real slow, and we had
Speaker 1: like pretty good sex, like a nice dick. It was
Speaker 1: like put on the condom. I didn't give him a
Speaker 1: head here and I pussy for like fifteen minutes. It
Speaker 1: was like maybe it was like twenty five minute transaction
Speaker 1: and we walk fast. It was twenty five minutes, five minutes.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like terribly fast. Yeah that's not around and boom.
Speaker 1: We we wanted to tea j I Friday's hand in hand,
Speaker 1: like we went together us a nice dinner, and they
Speaker 1: dropped my ass up. I thought it was a fair
Speaker 1: Like we exchanged the numbers. He also cell phone. They
Speaker 1: got him a phone when we talked a little bit,
Speaker 1: but nothing ever became with that. But honestly, I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't would you have for free again? Possibly know
Speaker 1: I might maybe I just you know, I don't advocate
Speaker 1: for you know, exchanging sex for money. But in that case,
Speaker 1: I thought it was a good deed. I felt I
Speaker 1: needed I needed the money at the time he needed
Speaker 1: the love, and I felt it was a fair exchange,
Speaker 1: and I think that was respectful. A lot of women,
Speaker 1: even even sex workers, aren't getting a thousand dollars for
Speaker 1: a I'm a healer. I feel like I can have
Speaker 1: sexual healing energy. Sometimes I just want to love on people,
Speaker 1: like let me, let me love on you, let me
Speaker 1: give you some love. Yeah. Well, I really enjoyed that story,
Speaker 1: and it's so funny because I think that more so
Speaker 1: than not, we have stories like that from our like
Speaker 1: like late teens to early twenties. Lord, one day we
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Speaker 1: by What's going on over there looks stressed right right.
Speaker 1: I'm having an issue me being around even my friends
Speaker 1: families growing up. Um, I remember them blaming me for
Speaker 1: their daughters dating black men. I remember, um, yes, my
Speaker 1: like literally like my my friend was Columbian growing up,
Speaker 1: and you're weezy. Um may actually meet some of them
Speaker 1: at the Orlando show. Um, but I just remember like
Speaker 1: them blaming me for them dating black men. I remember, um,
Speaker 1: certain music or people that we liked them being like
Speaker 1: using the N word in a bad way, like to
Speaker 1: where they literally to me, Latinos have oppressed and shown
Speaker 1: hatred towards black people the same way I've seen white
Speaker 1: people do. So I don't agree that all Latinos can no.
Speaker 1: I never say, ah, well you said Latino shouldn't use
Speaker 1: the word, but there I don't think a lot of them.
Speaker 1: I have an issue with the Afro Latina and Latino blanket.
Speaker 1: The only close friend that I have that says that
Speaker 1: is Sharona's um, he's Afilatica. He'll say he's Afi Latino.
Speaker 1: But I just really feel like like there's this other
Speaker 1: dude I know that talks about how he's Afi Latino,
Speaker 1: and I feel like he does it so he can
Speaker 1: say naked. I know I'm being extraly, it's a feeling.
Speaker 1: I feel like if there's a weight when you say
Speaker 1: it and like, oh no, this is like when Merrow
Speaker 1: says the N word. I don't know. I understand he's Dominican.
Speaker 1: He is our Dominican, so he's black as ship to me,
Speaker 1: Mary's black. Okay, he's Latino and Dominican is ship. So
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say both. He's not black, Well, he is black,
Speaker 1: he's Dominican. Actually, what is it gonna be? What is it? Guys?
Speaker 1: The black black Jesus is here. Here's why Meryl is
Speaker 1: what you would say, is black passing right, But there
Speaker 1: are a lot of Afro Latino people with I would
Speaker 1: even and this is just me looking at you, not
Speaker 1: even knowing you. I would even call you Afro Latin
Speaker 1: no saw, but also don't think you're black passing. So
Speaker 1: I feel like nika can't be used. Is that weird?
Speaker 1: I say, if there was a meter, the metric is
Speaker 1: the way people say. I can tell when you weren't
Speaker 1: raised in this, you weren't grandfathered in this, like when
Speaker 1: I can tell what people are just saying it to
Speaker 1: acclamate or like to like using it, like on some
Speaker 1: really eilish type ship, some appropriating ship. It's a weight.
Speaker 1: Of course, when you talk about it, it's hard to
Speaker 1: contextualize because it to feel it just still like Afro
Speaker 1: Latino doesn't give you a nigga pass. I don't believe that,
Speaker 1: but I believe that like Afro Latino people like when
Speaker 1: you are when you have black skin as an Afro Latino,
Speaker 1: I feel like that's different. I know what's fucked up
Speaker 1: because I'm I'm mixed, you know what I'm saying, and
Speaker 1: I don't have black skin. But at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, I feel like, this is a new thing
Speaker 1: that I've never seen before, that's come about since, like
Speaker 1: I would say, since I've turned twenty five, suddenly I
Speaker 1: started seeing this thing. It's just moved up here though this.
Speaker 1: Dominicans are all around here a l the aflato. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we're we're from Florida's so yes, New York
Speaker 1: is probably on the on a well on a larger
Speaker 1: scale too, as far as Dominicans. But no one like
Speaker 1: there was no just white and black in any question
Speaker 1: for the can Afric Latino say the N word, No, ma'am,
Speaker 1: I think if I think so, it's a it's a
Speaker 1: note for me, it's not. However, I do have a
Speaker 1: there's a merril thing for me. She just said, as
Speaker 1: Mary Harrow is, because I didn't know which one made
Speaker 1: it was Jesus or Mary. I don't know which one.
Speaker 1: Do they not appear to both the black men to you, though,
Speaker 1: no one looks hispanic look black to Mell, No, he is.
Speaker 1: He looks Missy, so he looks mixed. He's not. Jesus
Speaker 1: is clearly the black one. If you see both, the
Speaker 1: guess do it? One looks because he's attained this huge
Speaker 1: success and now, like, does that give him credence incredibility
Speaker 1: to see the ANI word, because that's classes that's not fair.
Speaker 1: That's an interesting point of view because I and and
Speaker 1: I guess that's where it's like subjectivity because I just said, oh,
Speaker 1: if you're a Latino black skin, then I feel like
Speaker 1: you can't when I would say, mayor, I thought he
Speaker 1: was black. But see but see, here's the thing. To me, Um,
Speaker 1: your sister, yeah, even though she is in the skin
Speaker 1: of a and after Latina, and would I guess identify
Speaker 1: like view to us as someone who's black. Me to me,
Speaker 1: knowing that she grew up in a family that that
Speaker 1: was racist or presented. Oh, my sister says the N word,
Speaker 1: but that's what I'm saying. But to me, like even
Speaker 1: that's like with my friend now, Like to me, I
Speaker 1: joke all the time, and I tell her she's white passing.
Speaker 1: I mean, like, bro, don't say the N word on
Speaker 1: the phone with me, because I know the people that
Speaker 1: you grew up around are racist. So to me, being
Speaker 1: that you grew up around people who have that mentality,
Speaker 1: to me, that takes away the fact that you could
Speaker 1: use that N word even more because the people around
Speaker 1: you showcase that racism, which is why we don't let
Speaker 1: white people say the word right, there's the level of
Speaker 1: oppression behind it. And to me, if you were oppressed
Speaker 1: in that space and you grew up and the people
Speaker 1: that you love and around you are oppressing you because
Speaker 1: of the color of your skin and you being black presenting,
Speaker 1: I have a problem with you even using that word.