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Speaker 1: This is an episode that we should have had a

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Speaker 1: are like, hi, guys, welcome to you another episode because

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Speaker 1: to shout out because maybe something we probably have listeners. Guys,

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Speaker 1: we are joined today by two podcasters that are not

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Speaker 1: to start saying we're we're gonna, we're gonna, We're gonna

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Speaker 1: get them on. But because there's new listeners before we start, y'all,

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Speaker 1: the raspy bitch voice is me Mandy for y'all holes

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Speaker 1: that don't know the bitch with the braids if you're

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Speaker 1: watching on YouTube, that's wheezy, Like, can we at least

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Speaker 1: introduce ourselves? So she just did. Yeah, this episode should

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Speaker 1: have happened a long time ago. Because I describe you,

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Speaker 1: guys as horrible decisions with kids, like pretty accurate. I've

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Speaker 1: always felt that, Like, y'all, every time I even click

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Speaker 1: really one of my favorite concepts I think I've ever heard,

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Speaker 1: and I know I'm like piping you all up and

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Speaker 1: never really heard of a more original idea like hearing

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Speaker 1: we introduce our guests? Hey, guys, we have guests today

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Speaker 1: from um the Good Mom's Bad Choices podcast. Um, go

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Speaker 1: ahead and introduce your names and kind of maybe your

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Speaker 1: Hello there everyone, that was amazing. Thank you. I'm Mila.

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Speaker 1: My personality, I would I would describe it as spunky.

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Speaker 1: These are black girls, by the way, they're just yeah,

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Speaker 1: My nickname is is Perky And um, why because you're

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Speaker 1: it's when okay, well let me tell you since when

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Speaker 1: it was fatty catty. It's also fatty catty plenty. You

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Speaker 1: just you may even have a secret Instagram called fatty

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Speaker 1: kat You have a fence, so they're dropping a plussy bit. No,

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Speaker 1: but I need to start this year because I'm holding

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Speaker 1: I'm really considering my fans only page, the only fans whatever,

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Speaker 1: you have a fucking Footipedia, don't even start a wicky

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Speaker 1: describe yourself pretty feet? Hey the foot It was funny.

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Speaker 1: It's your name for My name is Erica, and I

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Speaker 1: would describe myself as feisty and judgmental. Okay, great, you

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Speaker 1: are one of the first black skins I've ever met.

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Speaker 1: A way, I didn't know they made black in Florida.

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Speaker 1: They don't have those. I don't know. That's more like

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Speaker 1: to that side of the So many of us over there.

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Speaker 1: So your show is good Mom's Bad Choices. What's it about, Well,

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Speaker 1: it's about a lot of things, ladies and gentlemen, but

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Speaker 1: mostly about being moms and not having to subscribe to

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Speaker 1: this like archaic stereotype that once you give birth, he's

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Speaker 1: ship and you don't have sex anymore. Um, Eric and

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Speaker 1: sleep out everything. Oh yeah, she does sacrifices and wait,

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Speaker 1: but you don't sacrifice animals? Ship? You like fucking throw

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Speaker 1: I told you, you do look like you could have

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Speaker 1: the show No Bitch. Eric is very Caucasian. What Caucasian

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Speaker 1: ship does she do? Child say? Sh like I was.

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Speaker 1: to have don't need the valley the value fucking god, Yo,

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Speaker 1: can you tell me the blackest shop you guys have

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Speaker 1: done with it? Which black king? Oh that is, and

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Speaker 1: interviewed him with his right right. Yeah, the blackest thing

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Speaker 1: I mean these braids look new. That's a black thing

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Speaker 1: pindled all roundmas, so let me not funk with you.

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Speaker 1: Then he went to cutebu got something, got some moves

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Speaker 1: down with no trouble. Um. Weevey went ahead and compiled

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Speaker 1: some icebreakers for you guys. So when we have guests,

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Speaker 1: you ever had sex with your kid in the bed? No? Wait,

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Speaker 1: I've judged myself. Well we're getting you out there. Okay,

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Speaker 1: It wasn't my wasn't my greatest moment, but ship happens,

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Speaker 1: and she's fine. She's not going to remember it, I

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Speaker 1: mean until she gets old enough to listen. Has your

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Speaker 1: kid ever found one of your sex toys? Yeah? You

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Speaker 1: fixing what is not found me. I'm a good hider,

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Speaker 1: you're I was thinking though, because I went as a

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Speaker 1: the ship. But no, Irie has not yet, Luna, right, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: like chicken wing. People have been talking ship like doophobia

423
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Speaker 1: going around? Yeah, which is not cool I mean, first

424
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Speaker 1: of all, we're in America. I just yeah, just again

425
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Speaker 1: with the fear. Am I gonna be fucking tripping out

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Speaker 1: now if it gets me, it's my time to go.

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Speaker 1: Because they're saying, because no one knows rumors. I'm on

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430
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Speaker 1: exotic foods in China. So yeah, that's so basically, So basically,

431
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Speaker 1: what they're saying is, um, they were like lab testing animals,

432
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Speaker 1: and so in the US you have to get rid

433
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Speaker 1: of those animals the right way. What they're saying is

434
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Speaker 1: there were animals that were being lab tested and instead

435
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Speaker 1: of getting rid of them, they were still selling them

436
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Speaker 1: on the black market to be consumed. And so what

437
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Speaker 1: happened is these live tested animals were consumed and that's

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Speaker 1: how it started. No bit, she didn't hear. You didn't

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Speaker 1: get there on it. They found the scientists at Stanford,

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445
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Speaker 1: they don't want to stop talking about these Chinese people.

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Speaker 1: Now they apparently it's it's man made and it's always

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Speaker 1: aids all this shi is man made. I'm saying, find

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449
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Speaker 1: it isn't man made. Yeah, but they don't know it

450
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Speaker 1: don't mean it's right. Is killing people. So I don't

451
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Speaker 1: believe in science. You know, vaccinate your children? Um? No, Well, Um,

452
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461
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462
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463
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464
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465
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466
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Speaker 1: dude anymore. They're looking for comfortable, tallish man who is

467
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Speaker 1: not too fat, not too thin. I don't know, it's

468
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Speaker 1: as tall ash, I don't know. I guess I was

469
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Speaker 1: gonna say just six ft because and then niggas really

470
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Speaker 1: be five it's tall, not sixas really be five ten especially.

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Speaker 1: The study comes from New Chapman University study and was

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Speaker 1: published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology. It looked like any

473
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Speaker 1: other study when it comes to height. However, men who

474
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Speaker 1: are relatively tall may be preferred by women because taller

475
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Speaker 1: height is acute and dominant social status, access to resources,

476
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Speaker 1: inheritable fitness, leading them to have more mating opportunities and

477
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Speaker 1: sex partners. But the surprising part is that men who

478
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Speaker 1: are considered quote unquote overweight tend to have more lifetime

479
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Speaker 1: sex partners than men who are fit and trimp, which

480
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Speaker 1: means that somewhere along the way, women really did not

481
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Speaker 1: decide we like someone with a little bit Women did

482
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Speaker 1: really decide that they like men with a little bit

483
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Speaker 1: more meat on their bones. I wanted to ask you, ladies,

484
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Speaker 1: because I am not one of these women in the studies.

485
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Speaker 1: I want to either count your ribs or count your abs.

486
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Speaker 1: That's it. Um, yeah, I'm cool with a little skinny

487
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Speaker 1: niggas cat ribs. I liked Wiz before he put on

488
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Speaker 1: the weight. So your wife you're wanting you, Yeah, I'm cool.

489
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Speaker 1: I'm thinking of I'm the one that feels like that

490
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Speaker 1: was a bird chest. I'm I'm cool. I hear what

491
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Speaker 1: you're saying with like lean I love. Actually I prefer

492
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Speaker 1: soccer and basketball players for a body type. But the

493
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Speaker 1: bird chested, yea. Sometimes sometimes those bird CHESSI niggers to

494
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Speaker 1: be having pink ticks today. Knees, bitch, it's a third,

495
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Speaker 1: it's it's a kicksting. Also a short guys also be

496
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Speaker 1: having thinks. I don't even so. I'm a highest for sure,

497
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Speaker 1: but I've recently we have changed my mind because I

498
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Speaker 1: found a nigga that is short and what a short?

499
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Speaker 1: Five nine Okay, that's really short. But guys listening to this,

500
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Speaker 1: they're probably like bitches. I'm sorry. I don't don't call

501
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Speaker 1: me a bag because I said I changed my mind. Okay, mother, look, okay,

502
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Speaker 1: I'll tell are you I'm five six you, So I

503
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Speaker 1: wear heels so like, I don't really want to be

504
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Speaker 1: taller than my nigga. And I was with someone for

505
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Speaker 1: seven years that was six two so and then my

506
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Speaker 1: father's six three. Everyone, every man in my life has

507
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Speaker 1: always been tall, so I equate that with what like

508
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Speaker 1: I think of a man and um, but recently, actually

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Speaker 1: I've had two experiences. Actually I think my R and

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Speaker 1: But that's the shortest. Um. How did anyone sink to

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513
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Speaker 1: I want to give me your hands, okay, because this

514
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Speaker 1: is what he did, and I couldn't believe it because

515
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Speaker 1: I want I'm gonna make sure to hear this. I

516
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Speaker 1: don't feel like I'm getting my palm red home on

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518
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Speaker 1: So I did it. He was one time and I

521
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Speaker 1: was like, did this pendy just happened? Like what the fun?

522
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Speaker 1: And then he did it again recently and he's perfected

523
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Speaker 1: even more and like it's like he does more things

524
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Speaker 1: and the ship is as strong as a vibrator strong,

525
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Speaker 1: Like it was amazing. Okay, both of y'all like you

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Speaker 1: guys maybe above like ivertight men. But what means okay,

527
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Speaker 1: so chubster um, I generally, normally I am attracted to lean,

528
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Speaker 1: tall men. Um. I have slept with a chubster before

529
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Speaker 1: and I didn't like it. Um. I feel like I'm shaming,

530
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Speaker 1: but like you, it's your preference. I just felt like

531
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Speaker 1: there was a lot of belly on my belly and

532
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Speaker 1: it was just like there was a lot of sweat.

533
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Speaker 1: He sweat on me. I'm not it was skinny niggers. Yeah,

534
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Speaker 1: I like this ny was sweating on the space Like

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Speaker 1: I like my baby daddy. I'd like to see what's

536
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Speaker 1: happening so like I can't. I like to see what's

537
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Speaker 1: happening to right, and I can't do that if your

538
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Speaker 1: stumming's an way, Um, what about you? Oh thank God

539
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Speaker 1: love you little bitches. It will come find me in

541
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542
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Speaker 1: for a tiny girl and and soap. I'm so happy

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Speaker 1: you agree because I was like, I'm thick, bitches, I

544
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Speaker 1: don't know what anyone else is talking. Okay, Mandy, sorry

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547
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Speaker 1: I'm curvy, curvy, petite. I don't like I mean, I

548
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Speaker 1: prefer like an athletic body. I want to look at

549
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Speaker 1: you and be like, oh yeah, I'm gonna sit on that,

550
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Speaker 1: and that's like abs and all. I mean. Also, I

551
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Speaker 1: don't want something super skinny, like I'm you're gonna start

552
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Speaker 1: fucking fire, you know, even when I did even with

553
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Speaker 1: women like you need to be the thicker. You need

554
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Speaker 1: to be thick. Kind of a thick girl, because what

555
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556
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Speaker 1: And that's where I would prefer. So I like thicker women.

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Speaker 1: Um So, in terms of like the women that I've

558
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Speaker 1: had fun with, they've been either my size, are bigger

559
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Speaker 1: or just very curvy. I also deal with women who

560
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Speaker 1: have fake bodies, So I'm cool with a whole lot

561
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Speaker 1: of ass like titties. Like, I love thick women, but

562
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Speaker 1: I do prefer like my men to be I've never

563
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564
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565
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566
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567
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568
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569
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Speaker 1: Um what do the man? Yeah? But um, so I

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572
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573
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575
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Speaker 1: a guy um who worked on the beach with me,

576
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577
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578
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579
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Speaker 1: let's have a three some cool. So when I got

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581
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Speaker 1: brought this chick over and she looked nice, definitely visibly

582
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Speaker 1: a fake body because she was slimmer, but her ass

583
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Speaker 1: was like okay. So like when we went to have sex,

584
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Speaker 1: like and I went to eat her pussy, and went

585
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Speaker 1: to grab because she sa her ass was hard. It

586
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587
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588
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589
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590
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Speaker 1: I am it's her be off feeling that she didn't

592
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Speaker 1: feel like a natural woman, like I know girls that

593
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Speaker 1: have gotten their bodies done and it still just feels

594
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595
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Speaker 1: had to be the few assides that I've touched that

596
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Speaker 1: are fake. We're cold? Is that a thing cold? Like

597
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598
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599
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600
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601
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Speaker 1: They take two fingers. No one really they're like so

602
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Speaker 1: scared to grab it, which I don't understand either, but

603
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604
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607
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608
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609
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Speaker 1: even when you didn't want to. I started to stop,

632
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,760
Speaker 1: but I realized that that wasn't a lie. That's not true.

633
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: It's funny because um it pretending to oral. I had

634
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: an African that I used to deal with and he

635
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 1: actually did not let me suck his dick. Because what

636
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: is that? Because I just have a question because he

637
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: said he said that, and like he said, like he

638
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: had all these feelings for me, but he's African. He

639
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 1: has feelings for every woman he's with. He's married, Like, okay, sure,

640
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 1: but he said that, like, and I remember trying to

641
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: go when he was like, stop, what are you doing?

642
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 1: Don't suck my dick because I don't disrespect you. And

643
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 1: when you if you suck my dick, that means I

644
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,879
Speaker 1: have no respect for you if I let you. Yeah,

645
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: so he literally would not let me suck his dick

646
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: because he said it means that he doesn't respect me

647
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 1: as a woman. Wh there's a bitual listening to this.

648
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 1: Didn't he didn't eat up with the end. He only

649
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 1: sucked me missionary. He would not from the best terrible,

650
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 1: just like you hear the same excuse from the mind

651
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,320
Speaker 1: was medical. No wait wait wait please, I didn't know

652
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,800
Speaker 1: you can't do you need to elaborate. This was This

653
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: was alarming to me because man said that you couldn't

654
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 1: want the wait wait wait Now when I think about

655
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: it more, actually I'm like, I'm scared, I'm embarrassed and

656
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: actually like to tell you j okay. So, so I

657
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: met this guy and he told me that he doesn't

658
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: like head. He doesn't like to get head. And I

659
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: was like receiving yes, And I was like why and

660
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: he was like, um, it just doesn't. It doesn't like

661
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: go well with my page balance. And I said, okay,

662
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: what's with you? He said he has a condition. He said,

663
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 1: he's a condition. It's called I don't know some of

664
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 1: the immunity. Body starts attacking itself because it's Aliva sends

665
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: a message to his penis that something was crazy. No no,

666
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: but I put it wouldn't you deficiency didn't but he

667
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: let me suck you didn't hear the rest of it said.

668
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 1: Then he said that a few days later he'll be

669
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 1: itchy and it won't be good. But so I So

670
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 1: he said, but you can lick my ass and my

671
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: balls asshole? Wait, yes, which mind you is more once

672
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 1: he gets in the asshole, Like that's where a lot

673
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: of things can go on in your anus. So he

674
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 1: was willing to let you lick his ass and his balls,

675
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: but not the shaft, the deficiency. It wasn't it wasn't

676
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: his pe hole. He thought that that's where his me

677
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 1: his portal for his auto, the portal for the portal

678
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: for his disease, was specifically in this eresa. So while

679
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: he actually had sex, I feel like I was like,

680
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 1: I don't think this is true, Like I'm not funk,

681
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:53,320
Speaker 1: like I'm really good at this, Like you want this,

682
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: trust me? So I was like, I like licked my

683
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 1: hand and I like went he and he was like,

684
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: don't do that, and I was like oh, And then

685
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: he was like and they put the condom on, and

686
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: I was like, well do you get head through like

687
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: over with the condom on? Which I don't like that.

688
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: We talked about that. I don't think I don't I

689
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: know we should unless you're working, if you share blunts.

690
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: I say this all the time when niggas act like

691
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: they're so fucking disgusted at like kissing a bit after

692
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 1: a sucking dick, or like like you share blunts. Yeah,

693
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 1: it's your dick, if you're if you're concerned, then I

694
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: don't need to put it in my mouth. I don't

695
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: need to. I don't even want to suck the dick

696
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 1: of a guy who won't let me suck the dick

697
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: thing kiss were spit in his mouth like I want

698
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: someone to like, you need to be like and if

699
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: you won't let me kiss you after I suck your dick,

700
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,800
Speaker 1: I'm not sucking your dick. That lets you know what

701
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: he won't do for you. He's not gonna please do anyway.

702
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: But I don't want to be told no at all.

703
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: We have not done with my story. Okay, sorry, but

704
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: well I'm gonna tell you because now, oh god, it's

705
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: really bad. But I I put the condom on and

706
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: then I was like, you need me to experience this,

707
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 1: maybe you'll change your mind, maybe for that mouth. I

708
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: know this is like I don't have a lot of skills,

709
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 1: but this is what this is this is a good one. Um.

710
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 1: So I tried. I did that, and I was like,

711
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to do I don't want to do

712
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:18,800
Speaker 1: the ship like felt weird in my mouth. Whatever. So

713
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: later on after we were done, I was thinking I

714
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 1: was in bed with him, and I was like, oh

715
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 1: my god, does he have an STD? Does he have

716
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 1: an STD? Is that? And I totally freaked myself out.

717
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 1: I don't have an STD, guys, but I just I

718
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 1: don't think that's it. You don't think maybe? Well then

719
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 1: I thought that too, maybe he's what Okay, why would

720
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 1: that matter? Don't I don't know. I just sounded it.

721
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: And then he also had this special this special um

722
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 1: the special sex move that I thought was interesting, A

723
00:38:54,840 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: special sex move. It wasn't like perpendiculous Are you talking

724
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: about that? It was great wait, but it kind of

725
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 1: was like perpendicular if you got our patre. We did

726
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: an example of it demo. But basically it's me like

727
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: laying down flat on your stomach. He lay down on

728
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: his stomach the opposite way, and then he tucks it

729
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: he doesn't, and then our asses are like, so I've

730
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: seen that on a lot of the game. Warning that's

731
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 1: why I said, maybe he's gay, like this ass eaten

732
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: he does want to look also gay, like I find that,

733
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,399
Speaker 1: I find them might be attracted to game. And sometimes

734
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: I don't even know because I'm not. I don't know.

735
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: She's like, really think he's gay. I'm like, he's flaming

736
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 1: Erica definitely by sexual bitch. I mean in that case,

737
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 1: as long as he wants me. Yeah, I mean camaraderie me.

738
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 1: I like everybody to. I get it. I don't mind

739
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 1: men with like I like it's funny because I like

740
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 1: very masculine men, like a little twist today. Snap no, no,

741
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 1: it's one of the other, or like the emotional like

742
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 1: sensitive speaking of emotional sensitive. So Erica met old day

743
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, she used to date this dude.

744
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: And when I was first started working with you, we

745
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 1: were swapping profiles and you followed him. And when I

746
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: talked about you know what I'm talking about, okay, he

747
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, oh like earth winning fire,

748
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 1: like I can't see them together, and he was like

749
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: he was like he did type of negatively emotional with

750
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,720
Speaker 1: a bit. And I was like, you know, it's so crazy.

751
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 1: He's just so deep, so unnecessarily deep. Deep, Like, give

752
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: me an example. Let me say, oh my goodness, my beautiful,

753
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 1: gorgeous writing and queen, Happy Monday evening. It is a

754
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: lesson to see you. Wait that you the god that

755
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 1: talked like that bitch? Everybody like to me and I

756
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: was like, all right, nig you're happy to see me slip.

757
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: It was the church. I didn't look like that. Oh

758
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: my god, he's not that loud and ascidable. It doesn't

759
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,800
Speaker 1: way more. Chill, No, he doesn't. How does he do it?

760
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 1: Eric a beautiful queen, You're so gorgeous. I've been waiting

761
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: to connect with you. I'm just so blessed for you

762
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 1: to be in my presence. You know you? So he

763
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: holds up. Yeah, and that's why he's a fake. I

764
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 1: don't do the holcause anymore because of him. Like she

765
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: was sucking another night, he called her a queen. She said,

766
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: don't call me that. I didn't triggered though, he was like,

767
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: what you are? I was like, I don't give fox.

768
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:36,799
Speaker 1: The one thing I remember you said about him? Can

769
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: I say it? We were eating and we were like

770
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: sharing pitcher the nig as we're talking too, and she's like,

771
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: he's great, takes great it's big, but he just can't

772
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 1: eat pussy. And she was like, I was like, well,

773
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:50,800
Speaker 1: why don't you. I think he even called me that

774
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 1: he gave me so much. I was like, okay, try

775
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: and do it and help. I was about the fucking

776
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:09,439
Speaker 1: volt you know me, So don't let her beat around

777
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: the bush bach but no pussy home. You will go

778
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:16,200
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779
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: think you like a little You like a little sensitive.

780
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:23,839
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781
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,520
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Speaker 1: we haven't yet had to have this conversation. Really, I

841
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: really like the questions that we're about to ask. Um.

842
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 1: As many of you guys know, or if you do

843
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: not know, Weezy and I both do not have children. Um.

844
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: I am twenty nine, about to be thirty, and I

845
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: still don't feel like I want them. I am pro

846
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: choice and I also like condoms. Um, so I don't

847
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 1: plan on having one anytime soon. Um, but you guys

848
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 1: are our parents. You guys, we didn't use condoms? Well

849
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 1: are you guys on birth control? Though? When you're pregnant?

850
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 1: Are you? It was just like yeah, coming me daddy, yep,

851
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 1: were you do you? Did you ever track the moment?

852
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 1: Then I got pregnant? Really, Jamaica, that's what my daughter's

853
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 1: name's ire, I hate you. A lot of people say

854
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 1: that they know the moment they got pregnant, and I

855
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 1: got came in the other day and I wasn't ovulating

856
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: or even close, and it was like a few months ago,

857
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: and I remember thinking, if I'm pregnant, that was it.

858
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 1: That was the that was the swimmer my baby Daddy,

859
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 1: which you guys know my baby dadd because he was

860
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,800
Speaker 1: a guest on the show. Um and he said so

861
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: many nice things about your baby daddy. Just don't do oh.

862
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:46,959
Speaker 1: He did say you'd be with the moons and suns

863
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: and shipm be telling me we ain't a line that

864
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: was cute. No, I'll be set him because I like,

865
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: you need this, you need to read this. Okay. No,

866
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 1: I don't believe in astrology at all. You know, Mandy

867
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: was we were on a live man. He came in

868
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:02,439
Speaker 1: like one of the things I asked it was like, Maddy,

869
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: what should like to be a Capricorn. I was like,

870
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,399
Speaker 1: it's no libra hope, but I don't believe that ship

871
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 1: but as but he would tell you that the moment

872
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:13,720
Speaker 1: that he got me pregnant is we were in Jamaica

873
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: and we did anal for the first time and he

874
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: thinks that he unlocked the key it's a pregnant c

875
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: which I don't. I'm not arguing with him. I'm not

876
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: arguing because we are very open. It opened me up

877
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: like a flot because we have been very irresponsible for

878
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 1: a long time. You're responsible irresponsible? Yeah, like I don't

879
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:39,400
Speaker 1: think we ever pulled out like sodomizes and look what happened.

880
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 1: Happen And then so I have a question, Um, beautiful,

881
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 1: a beautiful story. It's well, my question is about back

882
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: last year podcast for Being Moms that you know are

883
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 1: fluid and sexual, but mainly for you. You've posted stuff

884
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:57,919
Speaker 1: with Luna where you're naked and she's naked, and I've

885
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 1: always found those pictures to be beautiful. But I'm curious,

886
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: you know, if anyone's ever gave you ship in it,

887
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: and like what what have they said about it? If so? Um,

888
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: actually we're kind of lucky are people don't really come

889
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: for us? No one really talks shit to us anyway? Um,

890
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,360
Speaker 1: mostly from my family and like people closer to me,

891
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: I get shipped like just dumb ship. Just like what

892
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 1: if Luna post pictures like that when she's older? What

893
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 1: do you think she will think or like, I'm like

894
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: she knows, she knows what the funk I am. But

895
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: my mom, she don't have to do what I got

896
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: what I do, But it's what the funk I do.

897
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: We'd be naked. I'm naked. I'm I'm a naked person.

898
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's always like I'm human. So

899
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes I'm like, damn, is this too much?

900
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 1: I should have I posted that, But then at the

901
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: end of the day, it's just like sucking this what

902
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 1: I wanted to know. My body. I love my fucking body,

903
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:45,720
Speaker 1: and I feel like I read that read something about

904
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: like girls saying she never heard her mom said damn,

905
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: I love my body growing up, not one time, and

906
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: I was like, that's true. It's powerful. So I'm trying

907
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 1: to be naked and like I love my breast, I

908
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: love my body, I love my brown skin, I love

909
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: my hair. Yeah, we gotta love ourselves. Nobody else is

910
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: gonna do it. That's the whole thing. Like like I'm

911
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: I'm very one with nature and my vagina as a

912
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 1: part of that, you know, the whole. So I don't

913
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: think and I really am against like over sexualizing ship,

914
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: you know, everybody's like, just because I'm naked doesn't mean

915
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to fuck like that is like my

916
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 1: nudity doesn't necessarily represent like sex. There's a very cute

917
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: video on the internet of I think an uncle and

918
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: his nephew um on a pole and they're fully clothed

919
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,839
Speaker 1: and there's no weird music playing, like there's nothing over sexualized,

920
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: but like doing yoga and he's jumping on his uncle

921
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: and his uncle is a pole instructor poll dancing instructors

922
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: use me, and the little kid is I don't know

923
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: who was, but the kid is having a fun time

924
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: because he's like, you know, doing a whole surfboard thing

925
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 1: and he's jumping on him. He's like, let's do it again.

926
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 1: And I remember you posted moment Luna playing around too,

927
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 1: and I was curious what people said about that. I

928
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 1: lost friends off of that off of the pole picture.

929
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: Why because literally the kids were just playing on the pole, Like, bitch,

930
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,879
Speaker 1: there's poles at the park. They don't they're not associating

931
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: the pole but being a stripper night. That's that's imposing

932
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 1: your adult, fucked up nous on an innocent child. I

933
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: have a problem with that. Too, I had, like, I agree, like,

934
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,640
Speaker 1: and I was gonna ask you have a daughter as well, right,

935
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: So I was gonna ask because what I see online

936
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 1: as far as um specifically with daughters is aging them

937
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 1: too soon. Um. So it's the makeup, the perming up

938
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 1: hair sometimes too early, the ear rings. Um. And even

939
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 1: more so the style of dress. So crop tops, you know,

940
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: tank tops thing. And I remember growing up, I couldn't

941
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: wear two tops until I was almost you know, damn

942
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 1: near going to high school. Like certain even clothing is sexualized.

943
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: I know you said you don't sexualize things. Is that

944
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: something that is going to continue on as she grows

945
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 1: up as far as how she dresses? Um, I think

946
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 1: like even now, I promote like your choice to wear

947
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: what you want to wear, like you know what I mean?

948
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 1: Like I mean, and I think I believe that. I No,

949
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 1: there's just like there's scal age appropriateness like no, but

950
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: she ain't wear in it. I look at go to

951
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: the mall sometimes I see little girls and my looks

952
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 1: crazy things those things like that I just don't think

953
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: are crazy. You know, Like for example, me and I

954
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: could talking about I have a diamond on my tooth,

955
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: right and she was like, I want looted to get one.

956
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 1: I said, if I already asked her one, I don't

957
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: give an she could have one. It's sucking glue And

958
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:17,720
Speaker 1: like Brian Stone, some people would think that's too grown

959
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 1: for a child to have. You know, my daughter asks,

960
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 1: but like as far as like clothing goes and those

961
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 1: type of things like what do you what does it think?

962
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna be honest, I dress I would

963
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: just lie to my parents. I would rather I'm not

964
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: going to encourage my daughter to be hoochie, you know

965
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: what I mean? And I want I'm gonna ask her

966
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 1: why do you why do you want to wear that?

967
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 1: You know? I think those are the questions we never

968
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:40,320
Speaker 1: ask and for me, like I would just sneak the

969
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 1: ship out, I would just wear something else, you know.

970
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: So I also know as a parent, I can't control everything.

971
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 1: I think it's the way that I dressed attested or

972
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: had something to do with the men that I dated

973
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:54,280
Speaker 1: being older than me, which is why I'm worried about

974
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 1: my daughter dressing a certain way. And you know what's

975
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 1: funny that it's very basic, but I feel like it's

976
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 1: too grown and I see thirteen year old girls with

977
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: like certain kind of nails. Well, I think why and

978
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 1: it's I think it's being black. How often do we

979
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 1: hear that she's fast, that's too grown? All my white

980
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:19,919
Speaker 1: friends who were like makeup and glitter and my parents

981
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 1: made such a big deal and even that, like I

982
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: know now, like I'm not gonna make a huge deal

983
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 1: over every fucking thing because then the bitch is gonna

984
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:27,440
Speaker 1: go in the bathroom and pack the ship on to

985
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: change her outfit when she leaves. But also there is

986
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 1: age appropria because there are pervs and we know firsthand

987
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: because we was with the PURBs when we were in

988
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 1: high school. And I'm gonna be real about that too,

989
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 1: Like let me let me keep it real with you,

990
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 1: because these niggas are purps, you know what I mean.

991
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 1: You think you're rich here, but like and you are,

992
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:43,840
Speaker 1: but this way it has no bit. But I'm just

993
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 1: you have to like it's almost like playing you know,

994
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,240
Speaker 1: reverse psychology, because you know, as a high school student,

995
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: you just did everything against what your parents said. So

996
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 1: if we have the comfortability and you have the confidence

997
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 1: to know who you are and make your own decisions,

998
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: and I'm empowering you, like that then that's how you'll move,

999
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and you'll have to hide

1000
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:02,280
Speaker 1: ship and it would just be like an open conversation.

1001
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 1: But absolutely like there's lenits both of you guys too,

1002
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 1: because you brought it up specifically in the black household

1003
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 1: and y'all noticed a Black as podcast. Why what things?

1004
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: And why do you think the black households over sexualized

1005
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:19,720
Speaker 1: things that maybe white households don't. And you're you're mixed

1006
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 1: with Mexican. Is that's something that even in the Mexican

1007
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 1: household that they you know for sure, I mean in

1008
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: like Latin household were covered up like you go out.

1009
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 1: But I think I don't know. But to answer your question,

1010
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 1: I think, um, I think a lot of it has

1011
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 1: to do with, like ore, how our bodies were used.

1012
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: You know, it's deep trauma. You know, it's not just

1013
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 1: like we were over sexualized. We over were still over sexualized.

1014
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: The black man is the most over sexualized person on

1015
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 1: this planet. I don't really know if white people don't

1016
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 1: do the same with cluse, I wouldn't. I don't. I

1017
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: can't experience. We have to protect like I think it

1018
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: comes from where it is normally When I think kids

1019
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 1: are molested and and things are going on, it's normally

1020
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 1: from someone you know, our family members. I think that's

1021
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: probably the obsession for like making sure. Like I think

1022
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 1: my mom did that when my cousin and he would

1023
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 1: bring like friends around, um shout out to streeps who

1024
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 1: come to the show. And I remember always wondering, cause

1025
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 1: I was so young, I'm like, why can't I have

1026
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 1: my pajamas when his friends here in my pajama be

1027
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 1: just like a loose dress like Little Cinderella or whatever

1028
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 1: they were. I'm like, why, why why would they do

1029
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: something to me? But the way she would act was

1030
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: almost over the top insane in my in my head.

1031
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: But I mean, really for her, she's just thinking, like,

1032
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 1: who fucking knows, she might be projected. She made some

1033
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: experiences that she's had and unfortunately, like that's that's huge,

1034
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: and you know, and and and and also women, was

1035
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: she not right to have done My mom has had

1036
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: those experiences from family members. If it was me, I'm

1037
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: sure I would do that to my kid too. And like,

1038
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,399
Speaker 1: it doesn't doesn't make you over precautious in a good way. Listen,

1039
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 1: you could be you could do all the things to

1040
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 1: protect your kid. It doesn't guarantee shit. Yeah, you know

1041
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: what I mean. But also like I'm not gonna have

1042
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: my kid around anyone I even suspect for five minutes,

1043
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 1: one second unattended, like I hate, Like like there's a

1044
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 1: meme going around, like I'm sick of hearing. Uh, parents

1045
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: tell kids, go put this on. You know there's men

1046
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 1: around here. If these men are even remotely kind of

1047
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: creepy and weird, I don't care his uncle, cousin, Pete,

1048
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: you gotta you can't. I don't know. I don't know that.

1049
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't know. You don't know anyone. I

1050
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 1: want to ask you all, because you're both single moms,

1051
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:37,359
Speaker 1: you're dating, you're having sex partners, lovers, people that may

1052
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:40,399
Speaker 1: be potential later on down the line, at what point

1053
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: do you introduce someone to your child? Um, I I'm

1054
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 1: really like, I don't. I don't you know, like I haven't.

1055
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: I don't think i've I've she's met one person that

1056
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,880
Speaker 1: I've dated, and it was like I've known him for

1057
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: years even before that, and so when I did, even

1058
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 1: they even met, it was like in a very social situation,

1059
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 1: you know, it wasn't like this is the mom this

1060
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: is mommy's boyfriend, even though he wasn't my boyfriend, but

1061
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: it was someone I was with, got it. But other

1062
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 1: than that, like I don't know, I'm weird. I was

1063
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 1: thinking about that too, because Jamila has, you know she has,

1064
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 1: And I agree with your theory too that you would

1065
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:17,840
Speaker 1: rather know ahead of time, Like it's like, can you

1066
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 1: handle this situation? What do you mean handle well? I

1067
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 1: think also because testing it out with the guy you're

1068
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:25,719
Speaker 1: saying testing it out, it's like, that's my friend, like

1069
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:27,280
Speaker 1: I don't have. I don't have a lot of boyfriends.

1070
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,320
Speaker 1: Like if if it goes there, then I'll tell express

1071
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,439
Speaker 1: to my kids that's my boyfriend. But so I feel

1072
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 1: like I would be that way too, only because I

1073
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: love seeing with friends that have kids, the interactions and

1074
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 1: appreciate very much when it's not their baby daddy, and

1075
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,839
Speaker 1: seeing how those men like honor their kids, how they

1076
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 1: treat them. So I see that. But then it's also

1077
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 1: scary because what about the attackment. Your friend is not

1078
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 1: going to go somewhere. Most likely your friend will be

1079
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 1: in your life. But if you get attached to Carl

1080
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 1: and he's just gone, I'm gonna be getting attest, like

1081
00:56:57,640 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 1: that since I've been single, I haven't had any real

1082
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 1: my mom and I haven't really had to face it

1083
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 1: that much. But I think too though, like I think

1084
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 1: about when I do date, I'm living a double life. Essentially,

1085
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: this person is never seeing me be a mother, which

1086
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:11,320
Speaker 1: is such the biggest part of my life. Then like

1087
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 1: we could be building and building and have this amazing

1088
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 1: on one on one relationship and then we introduce our

1089
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 1: world and he could decide, you know what, I don't

1090
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 1: know if I could do this because I do it

1091
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 1: or couldn't do it at the step mom thing. Until

1092
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 1: dating someone seriously, I was like, oh, no problem. And

1093
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 1: that's almost That's why I almost like I'm conflicted about

1094
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 1: it because I feel like it might almost be better

1095
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: is to just get it out of the way, like

1096
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 1: in a social way, not like this is someone like

1097
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 1: she doesn't even realize, but he can see me being

1098
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 1: a mother. This is what I do. You have to

1099
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 1: share my time being a mother is definitely I think

1100
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: I have a question um A lot of social media,

1101
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 1: like I've been seeing the r A Fletchers thing or whatever,

1102
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: Alex this s guy and everyone's always talking about how

1103
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 1: so so it was a bad mom Lea is a

1104
00:57:56,120 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 1: bad mom because mom, who's Bernie? She's bad grandma? But

1105
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 1: people like how how can you be a good mom

1106
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: and make that choices? Like what balance from your social media?

1107
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: Like how do you care? Do you care all about

1108
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 1: how you project yourself? And do you ever think like oh,

1109
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 1: I'm a mom, I shouldn't be doing this and like

1110
00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 1: naturally that's going to come out like damn, am I

1111
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: doing too much? Should I go to home? Like did

1112
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: I go into me dates last week? Like that's life?

1113
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 1: Like did I too many carbs? Should I have ate that?

1114
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 1: But then how do you not endure yourself that? No,

1115
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: like we always meet moms. I feel like all of us,

1116
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 1: I've met a mom that's like I never get to

1117
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 1: do anything, and then the second they do, they feel guilty.

1118
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: Well there's a difference that I'm have you asked this?

1119
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: Like there's just some a ship fucking bitches, Like let's

1120
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 1: be clear, there's some bitches I should not be moms.

1121
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 1: And I think like what makes a bad? Like where

1122
00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,439
Speaker 1: are your priorities? Like I heard a couple of people

1123
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: on that list, Like but also how do we know

1124
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 1: they're bad? Like I wrote you, I know nothing about

1125
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 1: Lexis guy. I think she was on the I don't

1126
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 1: know anything, okay, but like she's a stripper, she's an

1127
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 1: I g quote unquote ho who cares? Is she really

1128
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 1: bad mom because she goes out? Or is she not?

1129
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 1: Because it's not about going out. You could go out,

1130
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: but every every night, you know, you don't ever have

1131
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 1: your baby? How are you day in the week are

1132
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:21,360
Speaker 1: you with your kids? How much? How are you how

1133
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 1: much time are you actually spending over? And they were

1134
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:29,320
Speaker 1: left unattended? Like what environments are you making for your children?

1135
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 1: There are just there are just things that are blatantly

1136
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 1: bitch no, Like if I had dropped my baby off

1137
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 1: on Friday with her dad, love you buy and then

1138
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 1: I go get it popping Saturday and Sunday. Who Like,

1139
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 1: I'm a grown assom Saturday today, But guess what, I'm

1140
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 1: not going to not take my kid to school on Monday.

1141
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 1: My mom. Now I realized, like knowing the life my

1142
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: mom's lived, there were mornings where I thought she was

1143
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,920
Speaker 1: just waking up. She was just coming in and my

1144
00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:58,919
Speaker 1: mom one of my friends and one of her friends

1145
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 1: I'll never forget, they were in the kid and they

1146
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 1: looked a little crazy. I was just like, well, baby,

1147
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 1: but they just had a sleepover and my mom was

1148
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 1: like me and Auntie Patty, we're gonna take you here.

1149
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 1: I was like yeah, And I remember so I was

1150
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: born in San France, but most of that childhood age

1151
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 1: was living in Miami before Orlando, and my mom was

1152
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 1: hitting the clubs. Funny, but I had we had to

1153
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:24,800
Speaker 1: live in nanny and I remember one morning hearing La

1154
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 1: da ver I come outside and it was Saturday morning.

1155
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: I didn't have school and my mom had like five

1156
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 1: gay niggas in the hell one drag queen and they

1157
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: fucking danced with me and put makeup on me. You

1158
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: had the time of your mother life. And oh my god,

1159
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 1: what my party in the morning. This is great. It

1160
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 1: was so fun. And now I'm like that you guys

1161
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:49,440
Speaker 1: are just leaving the clubs. You're like at you sleep.

1162
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 1: It's really what I think happened. My last question for

1163
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 1: you guys is for those listeners who have casual sex

1164
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 1: with their baby mama and baby daddy co parenting. Um.

1165
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: I think the only other single parent that like I know,

1166
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 1: talks about this and he's been on your show as well, Sharona.

1167
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: Is he co parents with his baby mama. Amazing. I'm

1168
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: curious to know, like the sex ruined things? How can

1169
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:14,440
Speaker 1: just like should you suck your X? Yeah? If you

1170
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 1: guys have question? No, I don't know, not speaking personally,

1171
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,320
Speaker 1: but like what advice do you have for co parenting?

1172
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 1: I think it's very it's very um playing, like are

1173
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,440
Speaker 1: are they saying like are you saying can you handle that?

1174
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 1: Mostly likely not when both parties aren't saying immature there's

1175
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,760
Speaker 1: you're never wors together so when you break that ship,

1176
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 1: I mean, trust me, I have back slid because I

1177
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: have like knowing good and god damn well, this is

1178
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 1: not for me, you know, like you're crazy. I'll stay

1179
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 1: as someone who is single who dates men with with

1180
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: baby moms. Um, it's called issues because there's a level

1181
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: of how do you how do you feel this honesty?

1182
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: Because so to me, that's my problem. Like and I

1183
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: think that at any time I decided to date a

1184
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: guy with children, I do want to know not only

1185
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 1: the relationship and respect he has with his baby mom,

1186
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: but the level of respect needs to also be there

1187
01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 1: with me to let me know. I do think that

1188
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 1: they all they always go back. However, I grew up

1189
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 1: in a single parent household where my mama could not

1190
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 1: stand my daddy. I know they wasn't fucking, but I

1191
01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 1: dated two guys um in the past where one told

1192
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 1: me he wasn't working with his ex baby mom. They

1193
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: now have two kids, so there was another baby that

1194
01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 1: creeped in while they weren't together. And then also I

1195
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 1: had a threesome with a guy and his baby mama,

1196
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 1: So I know that outside of when we mean him

1197
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 1: weren't sucking, he was probably still sucking her solo too.

1198
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 1: And so I feel like at any given point men

1199
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 1: always go back to or feel like it's an open gate.

1200
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 1: I just think connection that we couldn't understand. There's a

1201
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 1: comfortable and most of the time there is, and there

1202
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: ain't no way they're going back to y'all using a

1203
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 1: condom because y'all let you use the kind of pop

1204
01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 1: that one goes back to because I never told you

1205
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: that they're lying. Well, I was sucking my baby mama.

1206
01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 1: What a condom? You were not attention? It's never would

1207
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: say no, never not going back with see I knew it,

1208
01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 1: So then you're also sucking her raw. And if y'all

1209
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: aren't exclusive, whoever she sucking. You don't know because she

1210
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 1: damned trying. Telling you so that to me is just

1211
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 1: it becomes I don't want to I don't want to dip.

1212
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal suck my baby daddy, like

1213
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to suck anybody who says it, you know,

1214
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 1: Like I just want to cut that ship needs to

1215
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 1: be cut clean. I wanted to be I think it does.

1216
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 1: It has to be. It's toxic for the child. It's

1217
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 1: just it's just it creates too many gray areas, toxic

1218
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 1: for the child's goddamn back proof. You can't do it.

1219
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: You can't. I've never back slip. Oh, that bitch is cold.

1220
01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 1: I have to for my own great I love too deep,

1221
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:55,280
Speaker 1: I love him too deep. I can't do that. I

1222
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: really I hate saying it, you know. I'm like a

1223
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 1: super fan of you guys being together. I feel like

1224
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 1: maybe she'll be ten. But I think just experiencing the

1225
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: way you both have spoken about each other, I've never

1226
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 1: heard someone talk about their baby mama or their baby

1227
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: father in that hiever regard and just even being able

1228
01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:15,200
Speaker 1: to simply be like, it's just not right, like it's

1229
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 1: not working out. And I think that there also is

1230
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 1: a time and place for things, like you, maybe we

1231
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: had to have a kid right now, she was supposed

1232
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 1: to be here, and maybe we're just we're supposed to

1233
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 1: be together. I don't. I can't. I don't live my

1234
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 1: life like that because I can't like do that. Maybe

1235
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 1: maybe maybe maybe because that's too much, and so I

1236
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:36,919
Speaker 1: just I think that for me, like it was, that's

1237
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:39,360
Speaker 1: been the best thing because we know we have perfect

1238
01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: trust me. We have our ups and we have our downs,

1239
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: and they're they're extreme, you know. But I think for me,

1240
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 1: like I just I don't know. I just I can't.

1241
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:51,600
Speaker 1: And I know there's women out there that are like me.

1242
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:54,240
Speaker 1: So for you, someone who you know fears dating a

1243
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: man with another family and there's two people involved, and

1244
01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:59,760
Speaker 1: he maybe he might, but there there's someone on the

1245
01:04:59,800 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 1: other side that has to make that decision too. So

1246
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: I know that it is possible. I realize though that

1247
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: it's rare. It is rare, and I'm like, day, I

1248
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 1: never thought about this. Is weird that anybody And I'm

1249
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 1: not gonna say I've never thought it. I feel like

1250
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: act like I never thought about it. I mean, no,

1251
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: of course I have. I just I just also your

1252
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 1: So maybe that's positions to do that because a lot

1253
01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: of like you're saying, you guys were in a serious

1254
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 1: relationship before you already, right, you're in a relationship, yeah,

1255
01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 1: a lot of time, so you've already had like it's

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Speaker 1: like a boyfriend and my baby daddy. Yeah, like how

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Speaker 1: many feels like my husband? Right? Well? If yeah, if

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Speaker 1: you if you've been just working it again, you decided

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Speaker 1: to have the baby, that don't have the baby thinking

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Speaker 1: you're gonna be together. A lot of people, a lot

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Speaker 1: of women work like that. I know what I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you all. It's fucking crazy. It's actually don't it's actually

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Speaker 1: dumb as hell. I have to that dumb as hell

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Speaker 1: one of the most hilarious fucket stories review. It was

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Speaker 1: so funny. I actually have to pee because I can't

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Speaker 1: hear it again. But please tell our listeners. We me

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Speaker 1: and Mandy wanna Um revamp Homail a little bit. We're

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Speaker 1: still doing homemaale, but we talked at our live shows,

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Speaker 1: people tell us thus great stories. So we've been talking

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Speaker 1: about your live show in New York. The stories, the

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Speaker 1: one with the pegging and they can't wait to tell

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Speaker 1: were like, yeah, I jerked off a vix. I can't wait. No,

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Speaker 1: someone jerked off with VIC and someone jerked off with

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Speaker 1: pig moisturize a bitch. Okay, okay, I don't know. This

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Speaker 1: is what our audience be telling us a live shows.

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Speaker 1: So we ended up like with the pink during our

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Speaker 1: lives show. We do have not only live homemale, but

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Speaker 1: we we walked into the audience of her heels hurt

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Speaker 1: her feet. Then I gotta walk into the audience and

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Speaker 1: like walking into an audience, but she'll walk in and

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Speaker 1: we get stories from them. So She's like, let's start

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Speaker 1: to wear. Maybe not every episode we answer questions, but

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Speaker 1: maybe our listeners can share sexual stories and experiences that

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Speaker 1: you probably won't believe. But bitch is true. So if

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Speaker 1: you guys do have a story, we're about to hear

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Speaker 1: from one from Ela. But if you guys do have

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Speaker 1: a story, say too horrible decisions at gmail dot com

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01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 1: and maybe put hotel not homemail. It's gonna be hotels.

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Speaker 1: Look how quick I am with it. I just made it.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna do hotels and homemail. Um. So if

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Speaker 1: you guys also just have a story where you may

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Speaker 1: or may not even need any feedback, from us at all.

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Speaker 1: Just write it. Please, let it be less than like

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Speaker 1: two three minutes being read, and we'll possibly read it

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Speaker 1: on the show. So what's the little story she was

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Speaker 1: so excited to get? You want to talk about this

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Speaker 1: story just so you know, wheezy. When she came on

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Speaker 1: our podcast, we had both of our kids in the

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Speaker 1: room in the hotel room. I don't know if she

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Speaker 1: like painted the picture for when it looked like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, we did it was a bad choice. And

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Speaker 1: then like and then on ours were called Horris horror stories.

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Speaker 1: So the kids are like over there watching. She's like,

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Speaker 1: should I be saying this in front of them? Like, oh,

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Speaker 1: they're fine. On that, she was like, I just feel

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01:07:51,200 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 1: weird because your kids were like, shut up, they're fine. Um. So,

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01:07:55,760 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: once upon a time I was in college. I was broke.

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01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 1: I don't know why I went to college in Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. For what reason, I went to

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Speaker 1: Philly even though I was broke. I was like laid

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Speaker 1: on my rank. I was like, I'm so go out

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Speaker 1: there and see some nakeds. So my cousin calls me,

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01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 1: this is very rearly my twenties, so this is nothing.

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Speaker 1: I would tell Luna to do um. She's like, she's like, um,

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01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:21,800
Speaker 1: my friend called me and he's picking up his brother

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01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:26,599
Speaker 1: from prison and he wanted to take a girl up there,

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01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:28,680
Speaker 1: like you know, just you know, so when he comes out,

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Speaker 1: I have a little party on the bus company out

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Speaker 1: of an upstate New York and he'll pay you. So

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, how much. It's like a thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: I was like twenty So it sounded good, you know.

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Speaker 1: I was like that's a lot of all. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: really because my barn's only five, so so being my

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Speaker 1: righteous stuff, I'm like, well, just um, well, not giving

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01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 1: him any head and can you give me a call

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01:08:56,400 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 1: Andy to see what the guy calls me. He's like,

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01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 1: seems like no the brother setting it up. He's like,

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Speaker 1: oh no, it's it's really good. It's it's really good.

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Speaker 1: Just me. A couple of our childhood friends are driving

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Speaker 1: up running RV. We're taking Jamaican food. He's like, we

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Speaker 1: got weed for real. He was like, He's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I have daughters. It's just you know, we just want

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Speaker 1: to welcome him home. That's really that. I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: he's not going to try and kill me. He just

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01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 1: doing a nice steed for his brother. I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: well we'll pick me. It's a little booth. Bo Okay,

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Speaker 1: we'll pick me up. It's six you know fine, I'm

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01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:34,320
Speaker 1: signed me up. Fuck it. I was like, I wasn't thrilled.

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01:09:34,360 --> 01:09:36,479
Speaker 1: I had to drive twelve hours up to up state

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Speaker 1: New York with something that I didn't know. But he

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01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 1: seemed like a good enough character. And my cousin says

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Speaker 1: she knew him. He was get the thousand. I was

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01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 1: getting thousand dollars most importantly. And they have weed and

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01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:50,640
Speaker 1: drinks and making food, and she's about her stomach. I'm

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01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:52,680
Speaker 1: all on my stomach. I've got lots of dates. So

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01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:56,080
Speaker 1: I am telling my cousin like, um, can you take

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01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:57,600
Speaker 1: the money now? I want to make sure, no matter what,

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Speaker 1: I have my money, So like when I get on

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Speaker 1: this this thing and take the money. So she she

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Speaker 1: was like her older kinsin and I don't know why

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Speaker 1: she's just leading me to this direction. She like goes outs.

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01:10:06,360 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 1: She talks to him at the window, takes the money,

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01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 1: and I get on the best. I'm like the first

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Speaker 1: time to come down this little ass block. And Philly

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01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 1: is like a white family on the side. It's like

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Speaker 1: one of those like the rentals with like there's a

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01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:17,560
Speaker 1: picture on the goddamn press. I'm like, great, this is

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01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 1: hot like in the bust and like Hi everyone, I'm Jamilla,

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01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:24,400
Speaker 1: like knowing everyone knows. I'm like the hope. I literally

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01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:27,439
Speaker 1: going as a homemail to pick up the room like hi.

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01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:30,200
Speaker 1: And you know, as I started talking like come California,

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01:10:30,240 --> 01:10:34,400
Speaker 1: I'm in school. I'm just here visiting, like whatever. How

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01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:37,840
Speaker 1: long is the drive? Like fucking seven hours from Billy

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Speaker 1: You like people, we drug all the way up there, right,

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01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:47,960
Speaker 1: We picked the guy up. He's not bad looking or whatever, like,

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01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 1: but they're all like rallied around him, like like there's

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Speaker 1: like the sentimental like first of all, he has been

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01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:55,840
Speaker 1: in prison for seven years that had this deep sentimental

1369
01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:58,439
Speaker 1: like connections talking how much they're like I'm so happy

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01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:02,080
Speaker 1: to see him talking about old school, childhood memories laughing.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty amazing to before you signed up to this,

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01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:07,920
Speaker 1: did you ask what he was in jail for. No,

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01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:12,400
Speaker 1: I didn't you know? Now, No, I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I was a thousand dollars? Did he know that that's

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01:11:18,080 --> 01:11:20,920
Speaker 1: why you were there? Yeah, I'm pretty sure. I was

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01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 1: the only probably knew everybody else's childhood and then me

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01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:31,080
Speaker 1: I saw me drive up with everyone, um so he could.

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01:11:31,280 --> 01:11:33,320
Speaker 1: So we drive all the way back. It's actually very pleasant.

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01:11:33,360 --> 01:11:34,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is this is wow, this is nice.

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01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,519
Speaker 1: I'm so happy this guy is home. We make it

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01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 1: back to Phillip Philly, and I'm like, I got thousand dollars.

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01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 1: I didn't do sh you know, like they forgot. That's

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01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 1: how I tell her to take my money before I

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01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:49,280
Speaker 1: got on the bus, you know. So I pull over

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01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:51,880
Speaker 1: the pull over at the gas station. His brother gets

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01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:54,880
Speaker 1: gets out to pump the gashes like I mean how

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01:11:57,680 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 1: like um, so he walked and he's like, okay, so

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01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm about to We're gonna go over to Friday's. I'm

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01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:04,800
Speaker 1: gonna park in the back. I'll take them with the

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01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 1: guys in hands me a condom. Oh my god. And

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Speaker 1: I was like and he's like all right, and I

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01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 1: was like, okay, fucking I signed myself up for this,

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01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 1: So I'll my way back to the RV. I'm like

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01:12:17,120 --> 01:12:20,040
Speaker 1: giving myself a talk pep talk like yeah, it's gonna

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01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 1: get this. Was gonna do this ship and get this.

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01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:25,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, you did it. Now you signed up

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01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:28,599
Speaker 1: for it. We're gonna, We're gonna. I'm not a quitter.

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01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 1: I'm not. So I'm in the rvy like okay, like

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01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:33,639
Speaker 1: pumping myself off in my head. They all get out,

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01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 1: they all get out. I look over at him, I

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01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:43,120
Speaker 1: started closing the blindsnography. Just take off my shirt and

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01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:45,680
Speaker 1: like walk over to him real slow, and we had

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01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:48,040
Speaker 1: like pretty good sex, like a nice dick. It was

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01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:49,800
Speaker 1: like put on the condom. I didn't give him a

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01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:51,880
Speaker 1: head here and I pussy for like fifteen minutes. It

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01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:56,800
Speaker 1: was like maybe it was like twenty five minute transaction

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Speaker 1: and we walk fast. It was twenty five minutes, five minutes.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't like terribly fast. Yeah that's not around and boom.

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01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 1: We we wanted to tea j I Friday's hand in hand,

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01:13:09,880 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 1: like we went together us a nice dinner, and they

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01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 1: dropped my ass up. I thought it was a fair

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01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:19,800
Speaker 1: Like we exchanged the numbers. He also cell phone. They

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01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:22,720
Speaker 1: got him a phone when we talked a little bit,

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01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 1: but nothing ever became with that. But honestly, I mean,

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01:13:25,680 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 1: I don't would you have for free again? Possibly know

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01:13:29,200 --> 01:13:33,920
Speaker 1: I might maybe I just you know, I don't advocate

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01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 1: for you know, exchanging sex for money. But in that case,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was a good deed. I felt I

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01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:42,320
Speaker 1: needed I needed the money at the time he needed

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Speaker 1: the love, and I felt it was a fair exchange,

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Speaker 1: and I think that was respectful. A lot of women,

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01:13:47,280 --> 01:13:49,600
Speaker 1: even even sex workers, aren't getting a thousand dollars for

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01:13:49,640 --> 01:13:56,479
Speaker 1: a I'm a healer. I feel like I can have

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01:13:56,720 --> 01:13:59,559
Speaker 1: sexual healing energy. Sometimes I just want to love on people,

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01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:01,400
Speaker 1: like let me, let me love on you, let me

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01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 1: give you some love. Yeah. Well, I really enjoyed that story,

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01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:08,080
Speaker 1: and it's so funny because I think that more so

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01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:10,519
Speaker 1: than not, we have stories like that from our like

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01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 1: like late teens to early twenties. Lord, one day we

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01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:16,960
Speaker 1: come in here and just bring up some of god

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Speaker 1: damn stories for us, like the side, the Side. Well,

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Speaker 1: before we get out of here, ladies, let our audience

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Speaker 1: know we're not only they can find you, but where

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Speaker 1: they can listen to Good Mom's Bad Choices. Well, you

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Speaker 1: Bad Choices And if you're in l A, we're having

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Speaker 1: a live show. Mary, I'm really excited for that. I

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Speaker 1: gotta be a MoMA to kick it Saturday night, Bad

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Speaker 1: Choice Friendly good show in l A and Atlanta. Right. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we spoke a lot of weed, y'all. So mean, we

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Speaker 1: didn't really smoke a lot right now? And okay, and

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Speaker 1: if you guys are in the l A area that's March.

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Speaker 1: Where can they get tickets? Um? You can go to

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Speaker 1: our website or our Instagram page. Good Moms Underscore Bad

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Speaker 1: Choices and make sure to look us up on Patreon.

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Speaker 1: Is it Patreon or Patreon and our patrons once they do, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like, what the fun is it? Calling? There's an e? God?

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Speaker 1: Why do you say checked bath? There is an e? Right? Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to see all of you guys this week

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Speaker 1: in a t L hope um. And of course next

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Speaker 1: week we're in Toronto also we will be was coasting

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Speaker 1: it out. Um. On April five, we will be in

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Speaker 1: San Francisco and April nine in l A. I want

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Speaker 1: to come. Yeah, it just on a Thursday. You know

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Speaker 1: you gotta drop the kids off, but it's you know,

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Speaker 1: by What's going on over there looks stressed right right.

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Speaker 1: I'm having an issue me being around even my friends

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Speaker 1: families growing up. Um, I remember them blaming me for

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Speaker 1: their daughters dating black men. I remember, um, yes, my

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Speaker 1: like literally like my my friend was Columbian growing up,

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Speaker 1: and you're weezy. Um may actually meet some of them

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Speaker 1: at the Orlando show. Um, but I just remember like

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Speaker 1: them blaming me for them dating black men. I remember, um,

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Speaker 1: certain music or people that we liked them being like

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Speaker 1: using the N word in a bad way, like to

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Speaker 1: where they literally to me, Latinos have oppressed and shown

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Speaker 1: hatred towards black people the same way I've seen white

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Speaker 1: people do. So I don't agree that all Latinos can no.

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Speaker 1: I never say, ah, well you said Latino shouldn't use

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Speaker 1: the word, but there I don't think a lot of them.

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Speaker 1: I have an issue with the Afro Latina and Latino blanket.

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Speaker 1: The only close friend that I have that says that

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Speaker 1: is Sharona's um, he's Afilatica. He'll say he's Afi Latino.

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Speaker 1: But I just really feel like like there's this other

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Speaker 1: dude I know that talks about how he's Afi Latino,

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Speaker 1: and I feel like he does it so he can

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Speaker 1: say naked. I know I'm being extraly, it's a feeling.

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Speaker 1: I feel like if there's a weight when you say

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Speaker 1: it and like, oh no, this is like when Merrow

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Speaker 1: says the N word. I don't know. I understand he's Dominican.

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Speaker 1: He is our Dominican, so he's black as ship to me,

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Speaker 1: Mary's black. Okay, he's Latino and Dominican is ship. So

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say both. He's not black, Well, he is black,

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Speaker 1: he's Dominican. Actually, what is it gonna be? What is it? Guys?

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Speaker 1: The black black Jesus is here. Here's why Meryl is

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Speaker 1: what you would say, is black passing right, But there

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Speaker 1: are a lot of Afro Latino people with I would

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Speaker 1: even and this is just me looking at you, not

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Speaker 1: even knowing you. I would even call you Afro Latin

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Speaker 1: no saw, but also don't think you're black passing. So

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Speaker 1: I feel like nika can't be used. Is that weird?

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Speaker 1: I say, if there was a meter, the metric is

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Speaker 1: the way people say. I can tell when you weren't

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Speaker 1: raised in this, you weren't grandfathered in this, like when

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Speaker 1: I can tell what people are just saying it to

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Speaker 1: acclamate or like to like using it, like on some

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Speaker 1: really eilish type ship, some appropriating ship. It's a weight.

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Speaker 1: Of course, when you talk about it, it's hard to

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Speaker 1: contextualize because it to feel it just still like Afro

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Speaker 1: Latino doesn't give you a nigga pass. I don't believe that,

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Speaker 1: but I believe that like Afro Latino people like when

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Speaker 1: you are when you have black skin as an Afro Latino,

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's different. I know what's fucked up

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Speaker 1: because I'm I'm mixed, you know what I'm saying, and

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Speaker 1: I don't have black skin. But at the end of

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Speaker 1: the day, I feel like, this is a new thing

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Speaker 1: that I've never seen before, that's come about since, like

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Speaker 1: I would say, since I've turned twenty five, suddenly I

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Speaker 1: started seeing this thing. It's just moved up here though this.

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Speaker 1: Dominicans are all around here a l the aflato. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean we're we're from Florida's so yes, New York

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Speaker 1: is probably on the on a well on a larger

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Speaker 1: scale too, as far as Dominicans. But no one like

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Speaker 1: there was no just white and black in any question

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Speaker 1: for the can Afric Latino say the N word, No, ma'am,

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Speaker 1: I think if I think so, it's a it's a

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Speaker 1: note for me, it's not. However, I do have a

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Speaker 1: there's a merril thing for me. She just said, as

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Speaker 1: Mary Harrow is, because I didn't know which one made

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Speaker 1: it was Jesus or Mary. I don't know which one.

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Speaker 1: Do they not appear to both the black men to you, though,

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Speaker 1: no one looks hispanic look black to Mell, No, he is.

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Speaker 1: He looks Missy, so he looks mixed. He's not. Jesus

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Speaker 1: is clearly the black one. If you see both, the

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Speaker 1: guess do it? One looks because he's attained this huge

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Speaker 1: success and now, like, does that give him credence incredibility

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01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:30,720
Speaker 1: to see the ANI word, because that's classes that's not fair.

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Speaker 1: That's an interesting point of view because I and and

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Speaker 1: I guess that's where it's like subjectivity because I just said, oh,

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Speaker 1: if you're a Latino black skin, then I feel like

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Speaker 1: you can't when I would say, mayor, I thought he

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Speaker 1: was black. But see but see, here's the thing. To me, Um,

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Speaker 1: your sister, yeah, even though she is in the skin

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Speaker 1: of a and after Latina, and would I guess identify

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Speaker 1: like view to us as someone who's black. Me to me,

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Speaker 1: knowing that she grew up in a family that that

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Speaker 1: was racist or presented. Oh, my sister says the N word,

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Speaker 1: but that's what I'm saying. But to me, like even

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Speaker 1: that's like with my friend now, Like to me, I

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Speaker 1: joke all the time, and I tell her she's white passing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, bro, don't say the N word on

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Speaker 1: the phone with me, because I know the people that

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Speaker 1: you grew up around are racist. So to me, being

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Speaker 1: that you grew up around people who have that mentality,

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Speaker 1: to me, that takes away the fact that you could

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01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 1: use that N word even more because the people around

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Speaker 1: you showcase that racism, which is why we don't let

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Speaker 1: white people say the word right, there's the level of

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Speaker 1: oppression behind it. And to me, if you were oppressed

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Speaker 1: in that space and you grew up and the people

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01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:40,479
Speaker 1: that you love and around you are oppressing you because

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01:22:40,520 --> 01:22:43,240
Speaker 1: of the color of your skin and you being black presenting,

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Speaker 1: I have a problem with you even using that word.