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Speaker 1: All right here it is Monday.

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Speaker 2: We're kicking it off with a brand new episode on

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Speaker 2: our second day.

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Speaker 1: So thanks so much for being here. I hope you

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Speaker 1: had a good weekend. And what do we got for comments?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Tim Boy said, this is the only thing that

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Speaker 2: gets me through my days.

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Speaker 3: Is a FedEx driver shout out from Charleston, South Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Please stop moving here. Thanks?

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Speaker 3: Yeah delivery Yeah okay.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and before we get into the second date, I

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Speaker 2: do have to say hi to Lily and Stella. Were

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Speaker 2: two high schoolers who chased me down at a kid's event.

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Speaker 2: I was at this week event, so they wrote me

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Speaker 2: a poem even yes, yes, no, they just recited it

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Speaker 2: to me. It was a live performance. You had to

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Speaker 2: be there, So hey, thanks for listening. And your second

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Speaker 2: date starts right now.

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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Speaker 4: You know, if you search Brooke and Jeffrey on YouTube,

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Speaker 4: you might get a case of mistaken identity.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, don't.

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Speaker 2: Even get me started with those stupid AI videos of us.

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Speaker 4: There are so many weird copycats that use fake AI

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Speaker 4: generated images of me and Brook.

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Speaker 1: It might look like I'm about to sell you a car.

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Speaker 1: It's done by AI.

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Speaker 4: Isn't bad Brook when your AI doppelganger has botox?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes it is and somehow lip filler, Like

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Speaker 2: what is happening?

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Speaker 5: At least AIU is doing good self care?

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Speaker 1: It's the one where I was in a sequin jacket

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Speaker 1: for someone.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Sequence is making a comeback.

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Speaker 4: But what happens if you get a case of mistaken

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Speaker 4: identity when you're on a first date?

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Speaker 5: Oh that's how today's.

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Speaker 4: Caller Noah landed himself here on our show this morning. Noah,

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Speaker 4: how you doing?

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Speaker 6: Man? I'm all right, how you guys doing?

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Speaker 2: I feel like somebody went out with the wrong person

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Speaker 2: on this date, just the way Jeff set it up.

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Speaker 4: I mean your emails. There was some kind of weird

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Speaker 4: mix up that happened during your date. Why don't you

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Speaker 4: run us through it?

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Speaker 6: All right? So I matched with this really cute girl online.

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Speaker 6: She was just my type. She's got dark, curly hair.

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Speaker 6: It works out you tell from her profile picks. She's

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Speaker 6: about five foot four. It's like exactly my type. All right.

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Speaker 4: That looks like one of Brooks AI doppelgangers that I've

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Speaker 4: seen before too, So I get probably Yeah, okay, So

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Speaker 4: you were attracted.

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Speaker 6: Attracted, and then we were messaging each other back and

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Speaker 6: forth on the app. So we just tried to meet

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Speaker 6: up at this bar that's like right by where I work,

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Speaker 6: and it's usually busy. There's a good vibe around there.

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Speaker 6: So I get there early and I'm sitting there and

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Speaker 6: I'm waiting and this woman comes up to me. She

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Speaker 6: gives me a big hug. She says, hey, how are you. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: she's like very warm, it's very comfortable, and so she

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Speaker 6: sits down and we start having our conversations.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, what's your name, miss brown curly haired goddess?

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'll get to that hang on. Okay, So meeting

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Speaker 6: people on the apps, you go to the profile, You

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Speaker 6: memorize some things that are on their profile so that

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Speaker 6: you could bring it up, and it's part of topics conversation, right,

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Speaker 6: So I know she's into yoga, she likes guys with

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Speaker 6: And I'm bringing all of this stuff up and yeah,

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Speaker 6: it's not registering, she said, I'm getting all of these

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Speaker 6: things wrong.

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Speaker 1: Oh what Oh? Is she one of those that used

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Speaker 1: AI to set up her profiles?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 6: No, so about fifteen minutes into the conversation, we both

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Speaker 6: realized that we met the wrong person. No coincidentally, we

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Speaker 6: both set up dates at the same restaurant at the

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Speaker 6: same time, and I guess our dates we both kind

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Speaker 6: of looked enough like each other to where we can

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: She thought she was meeting up with a different guy too, exactly.

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Speaker 6: And this girl, the first girl I met with, her

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Speaker 6: name was Chloe.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so wait, the original, the original curly brown hair

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Speaker 2: girl is Chloe.

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Speaker 6: No no, no, no, no, no no. The second, the

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Speaker 6: mistaken girl is name's Clote.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, So now you're on a date with

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Speaker 2: Chloe that was completely not.

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Speaker 6: Planned right exactly. So we're like, oh, shoot, we have

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Speaker 6: our dates that we're supposed to meet and they're probably

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Speaker 4: Oh God, what was your feeling about that? Were you

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Speaker 4: laughing about it? Were you mortified?

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Speaker 6: Like it was very funny, but it also kind of

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Speaker 6: sucked too, because like I was having such a good

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Speaker 6: person who I'm supposed to be here with, and you

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Speaker 6: don't want to stand the.

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Speaker 2: Other person up and it kind of looks like you

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Speaker 2: planned a date before your date.

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Speaker 1: Now if the next girl.

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Speaker 5: Sees you, yeah, so what's your move.

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Speaker 6: So we're both kind of just processing what's happening, and

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Speaker 6: we both realize, oh my god, we need to go

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Speaker 6: looking for our date.

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Speaker 1: What if you find a third one?

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Speaker 5: Are you a girl who's into yoga and like stark chocolate?

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Speaker 6: Two?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, they're everywhere. I kind of hope they're

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Speaker 5: on a date. Like you find them together, you know,

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Speaker 5: the abound each other. Everybody looks alike.

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Speaker 6: Well, the problem is that hurt date. She ended up

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Speaker 6: finding out that her date ditcher.

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Speaker 2: Isn't there a part of you that wants to do

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Speaker 2: that to the person you were supposed to meet.

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Speaker 1: Since you're having such a Chloe.

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Speaker 5: You can stay on your date.

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Speaker 6: Well that was the thing. I felt like the gentlemanly

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Speaker 6: that I had set up and not ditch the first thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it's the right thing. Yeah, I mean it's the

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Speaker 1: right thing. I mean a real gentleman would have said, hey,

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Speaker 5: It's now a triple date. Yeah I can handle to

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Speaker 5: it once.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, come on, Yeah, I think you guys watched too

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Speaker 6: many adult films.

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Speaker 5: Oh, there's no such thing as too many go on.

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Speaker 6: So okay, So I go back to Chloe. I give

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Speaker 6: but I asked her. I was like, how about you

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Speaker 6: good connection. Okay, all right, She gave me her phone number,

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Speaker 6: and then I went along on my original date and

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Speaker 6: that date went, It went okay, it was fine.

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Speaker 1: Oh but you were thinking about Chloe the whole time,

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Speaker 6: Well, there just wasn't that same connection there. Yeah, And

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Speaker 6: I don't know if that messed me up or whatever,

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Speaker 6: but yeah, it just wasn't the same.

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Speaker 1: It was just natural and fun with Chloe.

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Speaker 4: But just asking as a question, because I don't know

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Speaker 4: as a woman, would it seemed douchey if a guy

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Speaker 4: was like, Hey, I'm going to go leave to meet

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Speaker 4: with another girl, but before that, can I get your number?

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Speaker 5: No, that doesn't come off.

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Speaker 1: As we get ready to get dressed up leave her house,

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Speaker 1: and I get a nice thing that he didn't stand

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Speaker 1: her up the situation, and she.

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Speaker 4: Did actually go, oh he still has respect for the

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Speaker 6: That's nice.

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Speaker 2: I mean that's what dating is, right, talking to meeting

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Speaker 2: and seeing who's out there.

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Speaker 1: Have you talked to Chloe since?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we have. I texted her a little bit, but

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Speaker 6: she doesn't reply too much, like her responses are very short.

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Speaker 5: I guess you really need our help.

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Speaker 4: Then when we come back and we call Chloe, the

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Speaker 4: girl you weren't supposed to go out with but ended

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Speaker 1: Who doesn't like chocolate or yoga that's not her thing

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Speaker 1: or humor. Yeah, that was the other girl's say.

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Speaker 4: We'll make sure to bring none of that in the

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Speaker 4: conversation when we do your second date update.

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Speaker 2: Right after this, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second

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Speaker 2: Date Update.

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Speaker 5: Let's recap real quick.

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Speaker 4: Our listener Noah had a case of mistaken identity where

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Speaker 4: he was scheduled to meet up with a dark chocolate,

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Speaker 4: yoga loving woman with dark curly hair, and instead found

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Speaker 4: himself chatting with a dark curly haired woman who doesn't

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Speaker 4: like chocolate and is more into pilates.

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Speaker 1: Oh did you say that?

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Speaker 5: Well, I don't know about that last part. I'm just

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Speaker 5: assuming they're different.

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Speaker 4: But it was all an accident and they both realized

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Speaker 5: With the wrong people. Yeah, so out of.

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Speaker 4: Just pure respect, Noah decided he should go and find

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Speaker 4: his original date and spend some time with her. But

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Speaker 4: he promised to arrange a future hang out with Chloe.

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Speaker 4: Unfortunately that is not materialized, and that's where he's hoping

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Speaker 4: we can step into help.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I sink in it may not be

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Speaker 5: It's not my fault.

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Speaker 2: Talking about what's his name, No, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Talking about Noah. I don't think it's Noah's fault, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, he's a thing like her original date stood

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Speaker 2: her up, remember, Yeah, so she left that night probably

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Speaker 2: feeling pissed off and like you just kind of got

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Speaker 2: wrapped up into it, right, Yeah, Like.

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Speaker 5: Her memory of the night's bad.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but that still doesn't explain why she won't hang

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 5: I could have been the last straw.

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Speaker 6: I hate to be that guy, but like there is

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Speaker 6: a straw, and she may just be done with dating app.

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Speaker 1: Yes deleted the app.

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Speaker 4: Yes, this was the last chance that she was given

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Speaker 4: and it fell flat.

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Speaker 5: So she has sworn off men forever.

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Speaker 6: Okay, we're hoping.

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Speaker 2: Isn't. It's sad.

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Speaker 5: That's what the world's come to. But here we are.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm hopeful too, but it's been like a

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Speaker 6: few weeks and I just I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 6: know what you guys can do.

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Speaker 4: Well, we'll get answers at least, let's see if it

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Speaker 4: could be a little bit less hopeful, because it puts

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Speaker 4: a lot of pressure on me and I don't like that.

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Speaker 6: I can do that.

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Speaker 5: Beautiful. Okay, I'm gonna die the number. Here we go, hopefully,

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Speaker 5: Chloe answers.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, Chloe, this is a radio show called Brook

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Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Okay, by good morning.

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Speaker 1: Probably a little shocked to hear a radio show calling you.

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Speaker 1: It's not an everyday thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, how you doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm confused.

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Speaker 5: Good, that's exactly how we want you to be.

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Speaker 1: That was so crazy.

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Speaker 5: What are you on today? Dark Chocolate?

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Speaker 4: I get that you're confused. This is totally weird that

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Speaker 3: Okay, why why are you calling me?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess you didn't officially go out on

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, I remember Noah Okay.

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Speaker 5: It's good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because he said it's been a couple of weeks

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Speaker 3: I mean that's not entirely true, like we've been texting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he mentioned that you are texting, but it's been

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Speaker 5: That's the vibe that he's getting.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I guess it just seemed like he

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Speaker 3: Oh he told you about that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if he filled us in on how there was

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Speaker 1: Mean, what a funny coincidence.

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Speaker 2: You two walk in both looking for a first date

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Speaker 3: Early people, it was kind of strange how that happened.

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Speaker 1: How could you tell.

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Speaker 3: I promise I'm I'm not crazy?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 5: No, we'll start.

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Speaker 1: I'm not crazy, but where are we going?

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Speaker 3: So first I just want to say, like I fully

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Speaker 1: So it didn't bother you that he didn't stand her up.

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Speaker 3: No, it didn't bother me off. But after I said

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Speaker 1: Oh that's just going to be paid for you. Why

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I was just like, when else am I

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Speaker 3: So it was a very busy bar. He didn't see me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he definitely didn't see you.

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Speaker 2: He definitely what did you see?

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Speaker 3: He was like smiling at her, and it seemed like

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Speaker 4: No, okay, far down might as well keep seeing.

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Speaker 1: No, you followed them down the street.

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Speaker 3: I mean not like down the street like they left,

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Speaker 3: block and there was like a flower bender there, and

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Speaker 2: Oh you went straight, Pi and the investigator.

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Speaker 4: Are you sure you didn't misread that as a rejection?

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Speaker 4: Flower like this was a nice date. Here you go,

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Speaker 3: No, it was actually like really sweet. But it just

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Speaker 2: It looked like something though, right, Like maybe he was

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Speaker 4: He called that, Yeah, he was probably imagining that she

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Speaker 1: Too.

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Speaker 5: He gave you a flower, yeah, and he kissed you.

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Speaker 5: That was a practice.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that. That's creepy.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I don't know. You just forget that I say that.

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Speaker 4: I'm just I'm just trying to guess, because look, the

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Speaker 1: Who's listening in?

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Speaker 3: Maybe there are you?

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Speaker 4: He is the one that wanted us to call you

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Speaker 2: Yes, you can't get upset?

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Speaker 6: Hey, So all right, I guess Hi, Noah, what are

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Speaker 6: And like, I'm I'm really sorry to do this, but

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Speaker 1: What what about? What?

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Speaker 6: Well? All of those things that she described did happen,

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Speaker 6: But like, I didn't have a second date with her.

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Speaker 6: I asked her out for a second date and she

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Speaker 5: Would you what?

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Speaker 1: Would you admit.

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Speaker 2: Your first So the reason you're calling Chloe is because

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Speaker 6: Honestly I would have been okay with either one of them.

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Speaker 2: Actually, Oh well, thank you girl Field special the other

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Speaker 4: I've heard that in a rom com movie once, though,

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Speaker 4: I think it worked.

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Speaker 5: Are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we were doubting that you were reading

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Speaker 6: I know what I'm talking about, dude, sir, you be honest.

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Speaker 4: If the other girl would have said yes to a date,

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 6: Maybe, I don't know. I'm going to speak hypothetically like that.

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Speaker 4: You told us the entire time you were hanging out

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Speaker 5: That's what you told us.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, yeah, was disingenuous.

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Speaker 6: No, no, it wasn't disingenuous because she had ditched me

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Speaker 6: by that point. That's why. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Wow, as a positive to you, he hasn't up you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, actually tell you. I thought that was kind of hot.

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Speaker 6: Nobody's done that to me. Okay, that's so crazy.

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Speaker 3: Why would you want somebody following you?

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Speaker 4: Weird?

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Speaker 5: She's like, look, I'm weird.

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Speaker 1: What you do?

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Speaker 5: Don't like me when I'm like that, like me when

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Speaker 2: I can't tell if you guys would actually be a

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Speaker 4: Gave me a good match If none of this would

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Speaker 6: I agree we would make a great match, because I'm

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Speaker 4: Okay, you got leave it in the past.

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Speaker 5: It's done. Stop bringing it up. Nobody wants me. Why

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Speaker 1: Want to go out?

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Speaker 6: I don't know how else I can make it clear

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Speaker 4: You have to All you have to do is focus

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Speaker 5: If she's even willing to give you a chance.

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Speaker 4: Here, come on, Chloe, and I'm gonna go ahead and

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Speaker 4: ask her whether it's a good idea or not. Because Chloe,

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Speaker 4: we would like to offer to send you out with

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Speaker 4: Noah one more time, and we would pay for that date.

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Speaker 3: You're willing to be honest, I really did like him,

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Speaker 3: but I'm nobody's second choice.

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Speaker 6: No, you're not my second choice, You're my only choice.

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Speaker 5: I think it sounded more romantic in your head.

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. I don't think any

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Speaker 4: we just witnessed there. We tried to take his shovel away,

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Speaker 5: I literally could have called.

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Speaker 4: This back and go, hey, I just wanted to clarify

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I know this is a hard concept for a lot

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Speaker 5: Shut up.

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Speaker 4: Take the phrase you're my only option out of your

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Speaker 4: dating because it turns out nobody finds that romantic.

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Speaker 1: No no, and that actually doesn't matter about gender. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that applies to all.

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Speaker 4: Just don't well except for one person, well us. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: if we're your only option to help with your dating life,

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Speaker 4: we are flattered. Yes, call us, call us, email the show,

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Speaker 4: and we will call that person who is not calling

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Speaker 4: you back your that's right. Go find all of our

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Speaker 4: second date podcasts are up online wherever you get yours.

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Speaker 5: Abrooke and Jeffrey