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Speaker 2: Things to me. Jail, Jail.

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Speaker 1: Let's rewind all the way back to March eight, twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty three, the day I, twenty five female, married a

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Speaker 1: complete stranger, oh, my husband, only seven days after being

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Speaker 2: We weren't like total strangers.

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Speaker 1: He dated an old friend of mine and she split

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Speaker 1: up with him prior to us. That in itself is

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Speaker 1: a long story with some piping tea that I'll get

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Speaker 1: to next time if wanted. But this comes from anonymous lionfish,

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Speaker 1: And if you want to submit your story, go to

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Speaker 1: our sush Okay storytime send it in there. So anyways,

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Speaker 1: I was also in a relationship that had ended, and

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Speaker 1: we found each other. We didn't know a dang thing

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Speaker 1: about it in one another. He didn't know if I

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Speaker 1: was a serial un alive or and vice versa. All

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Speaker 3: And you married him after seven days?

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Speaker 2: Yep, what's the risk? What's the risk?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Right right?

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Speaker 1: Some people do the craziest things after let's say, family

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Speaker 1: cruise on Saturdays. So you know seven days getting married

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Speaker 1: crazier has happened, right, Yeah, doing it all on his

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Speaker 1: We got married in a courthouse in Tennessee. We literally eloped.

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Speaker 1: We didn't tell anybody, We didn't even bring up the

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Speaker 1: idea prior. It just happened on a spur of the moment.

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Speaker 1: After we said or I do is, the pastor who

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Speaker 2: He could take a picture.

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Speaker 1: We were just so happy and over the moon. We

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Speaker 1: he'd possibly post it to social media, which is exactly

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Speaker 1: what happened.

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Speaker 3: Wait, just like a random pastor was like, hey can

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Speaker 3: I can I do a butcher of you guys? So,

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Speaker 3: how many followers does this pastor have?

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Speaker 1: Six hundred and eighty six? So so called back to last.

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Speaker 3: Time, he's got some crazy family drama.

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Speaker 2: Just to quickly summarize where we're at.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, OPI like kind of tangentially knew this guy right

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Speaker 1: after seven days after they met each other. They're just like, fitt,

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Speaker 1: let's get freaking married. And then the pastor you married

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Speaker 1: them at the courthouse? Mind you? Like literally just like

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Speaker 1: is where people find out cue the crazy mother in law.

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Speaker 1: We will now call Patsy late fifties pushing sixties female.

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Speaker 1: I mean, hey, that's not great true, So it's a different,

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Speaker 1: it's different, it's.

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Speaker 2: Different, totally different, Patsy.

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Speaker 1: She saw the post on Facebook and immediately started blowing

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Speaker 1: him up, screaming at him, disrespecting him, calling him every

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Speaker 3: A yay yai. Oh I'm blake, Mom.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like a grown man and I'm like

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Speaker 3: Please get married this week?

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Speaker 3: No, song, it was okay that I got married. If

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Speaker 1: let you all now. Granted, I definitely understand the fear,

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Speaker 2: It was messy. She was messy, and when he.

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Speaker 1: Finally caught her, he had absolutely no trust, but was

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Speaker 1: She wasn't even raising this freaking kid. Too busy on

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Speaker 2: Sorry not sorry.

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Speaker 1: I was probably definitely the ahle there and I'll take it.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't it be the ale for that.

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Speaker 1: If your friend is cheating and like coming home and

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Speaker 3: Just I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. I think it's okay. I mean

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Speaker 1: Honestly, you cannot be friends with someone even if you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you just don't got the vibes. Man, It's cool.

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Speaker 1: With all that, she painted a pretty awful picture of

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Speaker 1: us in any way. Yes, they voiced their concerns. They

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Speaker 3: Aw this guy has really good first impressions.

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Speaker 2: Dude.

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Speaker 1: The king of first depressions. I'm impressed, Like married seven

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Speaker 1: I mean? And like, dude, just freaking he said love

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Speaker 1: it first? How about married first? How about children at

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Speaker 1: that was the end of the story, Sophia, what's it's over?

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Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on everything that crazy messages with me?

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Speaker 3: WHOA, I guess, I guess you're good. You got a husband,

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Speaker 3: your family seems to like him. Your mother in law

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know, Like with the mother

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. You don't know anybody until like.

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Speaker 2: Two years in three months minimum.

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Speaker 3: Well, three months is when you like get past the

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Speaker 2: Like, dude too, you don't even know me, man, I

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 3: So we don't know if we really know you know.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's funny that you mentioned the mother in law. Huh,

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Speaker 1: because the story is not over. I've lied to you.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 3: I don't forgive you. I don't even know you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know you. I don't know you, viewer.

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Speaker 1: We've only we've been here three and a half years,

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Speaker 1: so you know me at this point. You know more

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Speaker 1: Anyways, Patsy though mother in law, though, she had a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and did you reg Yeah, he was already in ruin.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I am a salute in all those

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Speaker 1: Patsy's girlfriend comes in, Oh lord you we'll call her

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Speaker 1: Patricia thirty seven female, which is dangerously close to her

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Speaker 3: Patsy, is this her girlfriend or her girlfriend?

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Speaker 2: I think girlfriend? Which moment? Don't? We don't know you

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Speaker 1: Patsy and Patricia both started to immediately threaten him about

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Speaker 1: They are going to take the daughter.

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Speaker 3: I think they're gonna try it.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna flee, They're gonna try to freaking flee.

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Speaker 3: That's also, once again crazy that they're saying she's homewrecking

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Speaker 3: Did I misread that?

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Speaker 2: I think mishearrett.

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Speaker 1: I think it was so there was Uh so we're

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Speaker 1: if we're if we're following Opie's husband, right, So husband's

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Speaker 2: Passed away, Oh, second wife cheated, second.

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Speaker 1: Wife cheated, then here we are at op I bet three.

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Speaker 1: I bet it was like it was like three years

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Speaker 1: and in seven days.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you know what, third times the charm.

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Speaker 1: Third times, it's freaking charm. Might as well just run it.

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Speaker 1: So this lady started calling around the family asking if

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Speaker 1: she took us to court, if they'd speak on her

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Speaker 1: and Patricia's case, and every single one of them ah

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Speaker 2: Thank god, at least a families.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're on your side.

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Speaker 1: Contact got cut. She snipped that following me, my family

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Speaker 1: and I took a vacation to Orlando, Florida. Our daughter's

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Speaker 1: nice to take her with me. My husband wasn't able

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Speaker 1: Clover had a ball. We went to water parks, we

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Speaker 1: Freaking screw you, Patsy and Patricia, not Riley's mom. Thank you,

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Speaker 2: She's being raised by a man, and a man cannot

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Speaker 3: Doesn't work like good, Yeah, it's not gonna work. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Come on, hey, and how they were so scared something

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Speaker 3: How long has it been?

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Speaker 2: This is week two?

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Speaker 1: The ten year old what yep, Poor Clover broke down

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Speaker 2: I have receipts. Yeah, we need to get like a

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Speaker 1: I have a whole freaking folder with a little over

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Speaker 2: Until the right time.

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Speaker 1: I feel so once again, contact was briefly cut because no,

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Speaker 1: A little while later, it's our daughter's tenth birthday, against

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Speaker 1: But you know what, they're gonna completely have a life

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Speaker 1: kick them out, Kick them out, kick them out.

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Speaker 2: They should not be here, dude, Can we call the

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, you're say like leave or we're calling the cops.

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Speaker 2: You're not alloud, You're you're not freaking loud. Okay.

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Speaker 1: All of this happened while I was inside prepping the

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Speaker 2: Very typical of him.

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Speaker 1: As you'll see, I didn't really find out about the

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Speaker 1: Patsy works, and we're dropping off Clover. I really didn't

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Speaker 3: Don't use Clover as a means of keeping the peace.

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Speaker 1: That is such a good point.

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Speaker 3: She's not your peace offer, she's not your olive brand.

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Speaker 3: She's a kid who's been bullied by these people.

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Speaker 1: You can say, hey, yeah, uh, I'd love.

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Speaker 1: You know, yeah, like we can stay in contact about this,

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Speaker 1: Clover Clok Clove, It's cute. As soon as we get there,

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Speaker 1: his mom is asking for us to give her money

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Speaker 1: because she wants to take Clover Clover to Gatlinburg and

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Speaker 2: Dude, okay, okay, this I know exactly where this person

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Speaker 2: Gatlinburg is like in the South. Huh what is that Gatlinburg?

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Speaker 2: I thought you were correct to me, because I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I know what it is. No, Gatlinburg, Tennessee is like

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Speaker 2: Pigeon Forde is a very touristy town in the mountains

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Speaker 2: in Tennessee, and everyone and their redneck family cousins go there.

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Speaker 2: It's a great place. But I mean, like I grew

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Speaker 2: grew up going to Gatlinburg for like vacations and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Did you go to the science museum Ripley Science Museum? No?

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Speaker 2: I didn't. Oh, but you know it. I know exactly

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Speaker 2: what they're talking about.

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Speaker 1: Whoa so Riley has has I've walked past it.

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Speaker 2: Actually, Uh in December last December, like a month ago.

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Speaker 2: I was in Gatlinburg. Is this real December? No? No, really

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Speaker 2: what tage graduation was in Gatlinburg and we stayed there

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Speaker 2: in Gatlinburg. I didn't go to North Carolina. I went

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Speaker 2: back to North Carolina for a days so'd get a

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Speaker 2: flight back. No, No, dude, Gatlinburg is a real thing.

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Speaker 2: Oh my okay, we got in this story. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, this dude. You're so right.

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Speaker 1: Guys, guys, we know that Riley. We're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: get back to the story. Riley doesn't get to do this.

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Speaker 1: Riley doesn't get to this because he was a failthy liar.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying no, no, no, Rather, I'm not saying you're

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Speaker 2: I'm saying that you planted this in the story.

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Speaker 5: So now, because you're like, oh I bet I Compulley twice,

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Speaker 5: there's nothing to fool here. This is this patsy and

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Speaker 5: it's talking about Gatlinburg Science Museum, to which you have

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Speaker 1: Suspicious, we cannot we can trust again.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying I'd be a little bit more clever

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Speaker 1: So you gotta get creative now, right Because ron so

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Speaker 1: Opie continues on this was like right after her party,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Kimberly fund. Who the f goes to

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Speaker 2: Gatlinburg for science though? That? Yeah, No, We're good for

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Speaker 2: the theaters, the food, the barbecue, not for the science.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you need to learn you already you already went

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Speaker 1: Like you're like a freaking 'aird. Well, you're gonna end

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Speaker 2: On the street.

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Speaker 1: It's because you skipped three days of school to go

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Speaker 1: to freakin' oh Clover, no, I'm well, you don't know

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Speaker 3: But don't don't.

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Speaker 1: So Clover comes home that Sunday. They went to the

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Speaker 1: talking about how I'm controlling him and how I won't

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Speaker 3: Hey, yay.

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Speaker 1: That's when the harassment starts taking a turn for the worst.

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Speaker 1: You thought it wasn't bad, Well wait, you see this

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Speaker 2: It's all documented.

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Speaker 1: They start telling him that the best thing that could

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Speaker 3: And this is when we cut these people off forever.

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Speaker 2: Guys, we need to.

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Speaker 3: This is when we cut these people off forever.

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Speaker 1: This needs to be gone on no hesitation, literally zero seconds.

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Speaker 3: And this is when you find out what type of

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Speaker 2: You only want way to find out?

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Speaker 1: That way he would have an out for our marriage.

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Speaker 1: A man who already lost his wife to a tragic

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Speaker 2: Baby should pass away.

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Speaker 1: Then it went to them wishing that upon our unborn son.

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Speaker 1: Then it went from them wishing that to say as

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Speaker 1: soon as I had the baby, they were gonna take

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Speaker 2: We cut all contact again. Make it permanent.

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Speaker 3: Good, Literally, never let these people see you your child, Clover, nobody.

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Speaker 2: We can't do it.

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Speaker 1: We absolutely cannot allow this to happen. No, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 1: Months went by and I just got into my third trimester.

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Speaker 2: Baby. Things have been rather quiet and calm.

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Speaker 1: Once again, they wiggled their way into my husband's heart

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Speaker 2: A part of all of this. What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: I am terrif to figure out they apologized quote unquote

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Speaker 2: I let them in again. Girl. What they certainly seriously said,

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Speaker 2: they wish you were none of this planet, and you'll

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Speaker 2: let it back in. You're back, They're back.

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Speaker 3: I'm questioning your husband's judgment.

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Speaker 2: Maybe a little bit of maybe a little bit. I mean,

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Speaker 2: they did get married in seven days. But we got

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Speaker 2: to listen to not judge.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, though, Patricia and Patsy start to develop

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Speaker 2: Oh god, oh dude, I think they're gonna try and

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Speaker 2: take the baby as well.

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Speaker 1: Yo.

441
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,840
Speaker 3: They already said that. They already said we want to

442
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 3: try and take your they get you let them back

443
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:19,600
Speaker 3: into her life. We need critical thinking, critical thinking real quick.

444
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 1: I got something I gotta pass by you, Sophie and

445
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 1: chat and comments. What if they're like, Okay, we're just

446
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 1: gonna have the baby. You know, we know they're gonna

447
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,160
Speaker 1: try and like take the baby. But if we let

448
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 1: them take you know, let them take the baby. But

449
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 1: we're tracking it, like actually monitoring it and have like

450
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: the the cops on standby. Can we arrest them, get

451
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,639
Speaker 1: them thrown in freaking jail.

452
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 6: You want to use the baby as bait, I'm just saying,

453
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,159
Speaker 6: or a fake baby, fake baby baby baby.

454
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 2: We we yeah, yeahah. We put the baby, the fake

455
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,399
Speaker 2: baby in a cradle and there's like a cage thing.

456
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 2: They go into it and we just lock it up.

457
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 1: And they're so freaking like old and delusional, they don't

458
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 1: even know it's a fake freaking baby.

459
00:21:58,480 --> 00:21:59,880
Speaker 2: Then so we.

460
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 3: Cheese trap them.

461
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 2: Cheese trap them, ye, mouse trap, Yes, we absolutely do that.

462
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 2: I'm going with it all.

463
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,879
Speaker 3: Right, you know what we listen, we don't judge.

464
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 1: They were showering me and praise and infection once again,

465
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 1: just doing the most, and anytime I voiced I was

466
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 1: uncomfortable with them, I was met with aggression, and honestly,

467
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 1: after everything and being this dang pregnant, I was just

468
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,120
Speaker 1: over it and wanted to try to enjoy the rest

469
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,400
Speaker 1: of my first experience, considering it was ruined by them.

470
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 3: No, they're going to keep ruining everything until you get

471
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 3: them out of your life.

472
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 1: Well, I go into labor on January seventeenth, around nine

473
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,160
Speaker 1: pm now there's a snowstorm in Alabama.

474
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 2: This is literally happening, like as we speak, ooh cute.

475
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:43,959
Speaker 2: All the roads are iced.

476
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: And my husband had to drive us what's typically fifteen

477
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 1: minutes of the hospital almost an hour to get there.

478
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 1: You to go five miles per hour the entire time.

479
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 6: Oh, because the ice, Because the ice are probably traffic

480
00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 6: And yeah, I'm sure.

481
00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 2: And then if it was like five hundred miles, that

482
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 2: take them one hundred hours to get through it quickness.

483
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was awful, but thankfully contractions hadn't really started

484
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: hitting yet.

485
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 2: I was being induced due to being high risk. I

486
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 2: have a few medical.

487
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 1: Problems, heart complications being one, and my birthing experience was

488
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:18,400
Speaker 1: actually terrifying and pretty rough.

489
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 2: My gosh to break.

490
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: And continuing with that, they come to the hospital.

491
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 2: And Patricia stays in the room.

492
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 3: In the room, just say I don't want her in here?

493
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, can we just can we tell that to like

494
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 2: the doctors.

495
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 3: Yes, we could absolutely say, like, hey, I'm uncomfortable, we

496
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 3: have two people in here.

497
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's just pop her tires. Can we just not

498
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 2: do that? Just can we just do that? Stop it?

499
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 1: I didn't want her there, but I was too doped

500
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 1: up to even argue or a fight, and I'm in

501
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: freaking labor. I'm not about to fight you. Uh the food,

502
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,639
Speaker 1: So yeah, gave birth, All is well, and it just

503
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: spirals from there. I get home and they're immediately trying

504
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,400
Speaker 1: to get him to wash and keep He's not even

505
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 1: four days old.

506
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 2: Calm down.

507
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 1: I let them know he wasn't going anywhere until he

508
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: was at least two to three months old. They finally

509
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: finally get him, and when they do, they bring him

510
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:22,879
Speaker 1: back and just start talking about how they made a

511
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: nursery for him and gave him an entire bedroom over

512
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: at their house, and how they were buying all this stuff,

513
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: newborn stuff, and I was perturbed.

514
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 2: I told my.

515
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: Husband he needed to talk to them net yes, yes,

516
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 1: that's the move, right, yes, and explain to them they

517
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 1: don't need to be spending all kinds of money making

518
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: a nursery and newborn room for him, considering he won't

519
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 1: even be going over there like that.

520
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 2: Let's take a quick pause.

521
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 3: I'm pausing, Sophia, that's me.

522
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: We have a crazy John. We have a crazy setup here.

523
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 3: We do.

524
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:05,239
Speaker 1: We've tried. I don't know how these parents keep it

525
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: keep getting back in.

526
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 2: What do we do? What do we do?

527
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 3: We cut them off? You go no contact with these parents.

528
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 3: You said to your husband, Hey, I need you to

529
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 3: back me up because you're my partner and your parents

530
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 3: have actively been horrible to me. Your daughter and our

531
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 3: future child are now actually current child. Uh, and you

532
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 3: need to stand up to them because I'm not going

533
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 3: to be around them and stop trying to let them

534
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 3: walk all over you and subsequently walk all over me.

535
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 3: Put your foot down.

536
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 2: I like that. I like that a lot. That's good stuff.

537
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: That is how we give good advice.

538
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 3: Goofully.

539
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: Sometimes we'll just laugh for you, We'll smile for you.

540
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: Okay, Patricia, the whole time is going on and on

541
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 1: and on about how she wants a baby and how

542
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: she wants to adopt blah blah blah blah blah, and

543
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 1: how he is just so perfect. And I swear to God,

544
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: the way.

545
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 2: She talked and referred to him, he wasn't mine, he

546
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 2: was hers.

547
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 3: Get her out of there, get her out of the house.

548
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: Where's the line where we can like get restraining orders

549
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: and like like police involved his staff.

550
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 3: We don't have any proof now, Honestly, she hasn't necessarily

551
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 3: done anything.

552
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you.

553
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 3: Do have enough proof to just get her out of there. Verbally,

554
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 3: that's true, just like you just say, hey, I don't

555
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 3: want you to be in my life.

556
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,399
Speaker 1: Trespassing. Yo, you're on my property, get off, get out

557
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 1: of here. Mamma out of here, Get out of here.

558
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 1: Mama's and lamma's get out of here. So that made

559
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 1: me very uncomfortable, right, Yeah. Hubby talked with them finally,

560
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 1: and they did not like it.

561
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 3: Shocking.

562
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 2: They flew up again and started making threats.

563
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 1: Threatening the kids, threatening me, begging my husband to divorce me,

564
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 1: trying to convince him that I don't love him, that

565
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: I just used him to have babies in there, I'm

566
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 1: going to leave him. Saying every vile thing that you

567
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:07,679
Speaker 1: can say about a person.

568
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: They said it while she's just like giving birth, she.

569
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 1: Just well now she yeah, not.

570
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 3: Just she's post delivery, but she just.

571
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: Yeah basically yeah, yeah, yeah, it means after birth. Does

572
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: that literally mean after birth?

573
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 2: Yeah? Dude, get get a dictionary. Well, well, well, the turntables.

574
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 3: I have the turn tables.

575
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 2: I knew that. I was just confirming it.

576
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 6: I was testing you, brother, and you failed, and you

577
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 6: actually he passed but he failed the friendship tests. O,

578
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 6: that's smart.

579
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 2: I should have known. Thanks Sophia. That's a good value.

580
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: So what really put the nail in the hammer is

581
00:27:55,960 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 1: they made a very public Facebook no post, sorry, a

582
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: very public Facebook post making accusations that I mistreat our

583
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,639
Speaker 1: daughter with holding food, forced her to stay in dirty

584
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: clothes and refuse to let her shower, et cetera, et cetera.

585
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: All was very clearly false, and they ended up taking

586
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: the post down after a man near every family member

587
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 1: mine included came down on them, Thank god, thank god.

588
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 3: And I just don't understand how they can see so

589
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 3: many obvious signs, not even signs like these are just

590
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 3: like pictures, yeah, just just proof pick picture proof, also

591
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 3: evidence of them being awful.

592
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 2: If I was someone on the social media platform and

593
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 2: I'm want to be extra petty, I know I'm gonna

594
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 2: be commenting and everyone's gonna behind me, I would screenshot

595
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 2: what they said, post it and then put all the

596
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 2: comments there too, so like they can delete it off

597
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 2: of their profile, but like it will not be deleted

598
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 2: off of app.

599
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: That needs to be okay, actually, question and we can

600
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: kind of think about this, and I think talk about

601
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 1: it as the story goes on. But do we I

602
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 1: feel like there's two options. Option A is we kind

603
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: of fight back, you know, we fight fire with fire

604
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: because it's like, hey, they're not gonna stop, like we

605
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: need to, you know, post the receipts to get them

606
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 1: to finally be shamed into submission. Or do we try

607
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: to go the like not like, okay, let me just

608
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 1: not get mixed out, let me not fan the flames.

609
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: Maybe even I don't know, move or something like that,

610
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: like what path is your gut telling.

611
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 2: You to go down? Right now, Sophia, I think we

612
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 2: just cut them off.

613
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 3: I think that if you go down the route of

614
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 3: like firefire, you're just gonna your house is gonna burn down. Yeah,

615
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 3: And I think what you need to do is kick

616
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 3: them out, lock the door of your metaphorical house, yeah uh,

617
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 3: and grab a hose and start watering down that lawn.

618
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

619
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 3: Via if any CPS people come knock and just be like,

620
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 3: heyre is the proof I took all these screenshots?

621
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: Yes, Cassanda's point in chat, like who keeps letting them in?

622
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: Opie says, we cut him off. We cut him off,

623
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: We cut him off, But they're still here. Like, I

624
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: think it's the husband.

625
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 3: Over and over has Opia said, oh, well they convinced

626
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 3: him to let or he he told me that we

627
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 3: should let them in.

628
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 2: No, I'm sorry, and I don't want to bring it up.

629
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 3: When we know someone seven days, you don't really know

630
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 3: them that well.

631
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 2: But I don't think the husband's been that.

632
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 3: He hasn't been bad, like of a person that you

633
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 3: married after seven days? Pretty good? Pretty good. Yeah, However,

634
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:36,239
Speaker 3: I think he's not your partner's not being your partner right.

635
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, he has two mommies, so double the mommy has

636
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: double mommy issues.

637
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 1: And I think also that Opie hasn't really focused on it,

638
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: which is why it didn't jump out to me immediate.

639
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 1: But it's absolutely he should be the one putting a

640
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: stock to this and he's like, hey, if you guys

641
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: don't get out right now, I'm calling the cops.

642
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 3: Second, it is after that, after they said freaking they

643
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 3: wish that she was unlived. Yeah, the first time he

644
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 3: should have said literally, never talk to me or my family.

645
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, the first freaking go back to the story.

646
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: So after very clearly false post, they ended up taking

647
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: the post down after a man and nearly every family

648
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: member including mine, came down on them, including my husband's

649
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 1: oldest step daughter he has from his first marriage. It

650
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: was really bad, and at that point I couldn't mentally

651
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: deal with that anymore. So now it gets even mess here.

652
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 1: I let my husband convince me one last time and

653
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: let us just pray this is truly the last time

654
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 1: to let Clover go see them. Honestly, it's at this

655
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 1: point it's teetering on divorce because you're telling me the

656
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: people who threatened me, who threatened our baby, is gonna

657
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: let our you know, my stepdaughter, but you know our

658
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: daughter go be with them.

659
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 2: I do not trust that. No, I don't trust that

660
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 2: for a second.

661
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 3: Ridiculous.

662
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: It's been months, and Clover really wanted to see her grandmother,

663
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 1: and I grew up in a separated household, so I

664
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: knew first hand what that feeling was like. I caved

665
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: and let her go tell her in an age appropriate way,

666
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: what her grandmother is. Okay, we drop her off on

667
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: a Monday.

668
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 2: I get a call that.

669
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: Thursday because Patsy and Patricia once again got into a fight,

670
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: only this time Patsy and Clover got evicted and Patsy

671
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: had nowhere to go.

672
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 2: This is this is the.

673
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: Husband's mom bio mom?

674
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 2: Right.

675
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: I pick up Clover and as I'm there, Patsy starts

676
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: talking about how she's gonna brew a white lie because

677
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: Patricia cheated on her with a man.

678
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 2: Oh boy's gonna brew this.

679
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: She's gonna tell Patricia that man had stabbies. God, if

680
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: that's what I think that is, that's a disgusting case.

681
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 3: It's like a it's like a skin like oh condition,

682
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 3: Oh okay, but you can I don't. I think you

683
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 3: get it from like contact with yes, with things.

684
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 2: Right, okay, well yeah.

685
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 3: Dirt, like if it's a place really dirty, I think

686
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 3: you can get it.

687
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: I'm not, but that's as far as we know. Please

688
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 2: educated in the comments.

689
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: Yes, jelly skin mites, ah okay, And because he was

690
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 1: in the house, Clover got it and Clover started to.

691
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 2: Break out with a rash on her legs.

692
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, is she saying that is the white lie?

693
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 3: Or is that what happened to Clover?

694
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 2: So running it back?

695
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: So I pick up Clover and there Patsy starts talking

696
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 1: about how she's going to brew a white lie.

697
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 3: So, so Clover did not get this the scabies? Is

698
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 3: that what it's I don't know.

699
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: No, I think so she did. So I'm going to

700
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: start brewing a white lie because Patricia cheated on her

701
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: with a man.

702
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 2: So I think she's I think the white cheap.

703
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: But there she's going to make up a white lie

704
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: about about something about something. She's gonna, Oh, here we go.

705
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: She's going to tell Patricia that man had scabies and

706
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: because he was in our house, Clover got it, and

707
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: Clover started to break out with a rash on her legs.

708
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: So that the white lie that again scabies and had

709
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: had Clover had got.

710
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 2: It as well.

711
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: I told Patsy not, don't do that, because she has

712
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 1: a doctor's appointment tomorrow anyways, that y'all was gonna take

713
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 1: her to. But since I'm doing it, all have the

714
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: doctor tester and we'll find out. So she said that

715
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 1: was a white lie, but I am now suspecting it is.

716
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 3: Not a white lie.

717
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:27,280
Speaker 2: There's always some choice.

718
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 1: It might have been clear as day. Facts, Baby, did

719
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: we find out? Tell me why my ten year old

720
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: daughter had to get her legs scraped and tested positive

721
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 1: no for scabies. Turns out Patricia did in fact have

722
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:49,800
Speaker 1: a man over with a child. There might I remind

723
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 1: you and they slept together.

724
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 3: I'm so angry. I'm so angry. How are you like,

725
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:01,240
Speaker 3: you're so stupid, You're so stupid. These people have shown

726
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 3: you who they are so many times, and you keep

727
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 3: letting them have like you keep letting them have access

728
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 3: to a child.

729
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 1: But also I'm the most madnest honestly at husband because.

730
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:11,879
Speaker 3: I'm mad at him.

731
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 1: This is the bio bio, this is your bio daughter.

732
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 1: And you know your mom the longest, Like at least

733
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: we can say, like, Okay, well he's only known here

734
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: for two weeks or whatever.

735
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 3: It is, you know, at least nine months.

736
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: Husband has known her his entire life. Okay, huh, Like.

737
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 3: How I just I just can't. I cannot imagine ever

738
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 3: letting them around any of my children after they said

739
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 3: that they wanted me to be unalived and along with them.

740
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:44,959
Speaker 2: That should the first time.

741
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 3: First time.

742
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 2: First time should have been.

743
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 3: When people tell you who they are, believe them.

744
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: You gotta listen, listen and please judge because you need

745
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: to judge for your safe.

746
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 3: If you're gonna be a parent, you have to watch

747
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 3: out for your children.

748
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: That is literally something you need to do.

749
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 2: And that is the father of oh PA's baby.

750
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 3: And also if you wanted, if you wanted your kid

751
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 3: to like have access to their grandparents, because you know,

752
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 3: we heard Clover wanted to see her grandma. Clover did

753
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,280
Speaker 3: say that if you want to do that, you don't

754
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 3: let them just like watch her alone. You stay with her,

755
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 3: You stay with her, you go, you guys go on

756
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 3: an outing. I don't know, you get brunch so she

757
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 3: can see her grandma and you're watching.

758
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 2: This is really bad.

759
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 3: This is so bad.

760
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: Turns out Patricia did in fact have a man over

761
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 1: and they slept together. Now, if y'all now how scabies work,

762
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: you know, it's not an STI. It's just a mite

763
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: you get from pure filth, not being sanitary or hygienic,

764
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: with him even being in that house, sitting on the

765
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: couch's chairs, whatever that stuff spreads. We confront them and

766
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: then immediately Patsy starts trying to say how she was

767
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 1: lying about with Patricia, just to get Patricia mad. Patricia

768
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: said there was a man over and she did sleep

769
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: with them, but he didn't have scabies. That scabies is

770
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: a spicy disease and it had to have come from us.

771
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: I E.

772
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: My husband and I we have to child endangerment CPS,

773
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 1: and I feel like now we've had threats, uh we have.

774
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: We could probably know those people who are mad at

775
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: them on Facebook, get them as testify, testify, run it,

776
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: run it, run it. We need to get them in

777
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 1: jail immediately, immediately, immediately, immediately. That piss us off to

778
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: no end. We explained that it was impossible considering one,

779
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: it is not a spicy disease, and two neither of

780
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: us nor the baby has it, so please be for real.

781
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 1: After that we cut all contact. I pray you better

782
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: freaking mean it please, Like I do, I do feel

783
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,479
Speaker 1: for OP, but again, there reaches a point where it's like, OP,

784
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: even if your husband who sucks like he shouldn't be

785
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 1: letting him do this or trying to convince or anything.

786
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:07,240
Speaker 1: We know that's true, But you did have the opportunity

787
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 1: to say no, right, You did have the opportunity to

788
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: have the buck stop at you, and it has happened

789
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 1: multiple times. Then, like you said, it could have been

790
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: okay where it's like, hey, I want to see Grandma.

791
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: You don't want to, Like, yeah, you know that that's

792
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: kind of like a wee. It's a weird thing to

793
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,919
Speaker 1: explain to the kid, so let's go to a brunch. Hey,

794
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: every every weekend. She really wants to see them, she really,

795
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, maybe the solution.

796
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 2: I don't.

797
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to cause any you know, mental whatever

798
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: to the to the daughter every weekend or however frequent.

799
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: Go get a bunch, Go get a dinner, simple where

800
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 1: you can watch and make sure things are not this,

801
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: not this, not this. After that we cut all contact.

802
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 1: I had cut all contact and have them blocked on everything.

803
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 1: Hubby still has Patsy's number on blocked though block it.

804
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 2: Tell him to block it.

805
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: Here we are, my son is eight months old, and

806
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 1: I'm nineteen weeks pregnant with our second child.

807
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 3: Y'all quick with it.

808
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: They're truly not slow about any Clover is now eleven

809
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: and I have still maintained no contact with Patrician and Patsy. Well,

810
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 1: more threats started coming in, and then Patsy decided to

811
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,439
Speaker 1: take it a step further to tell us they got

812
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 1: a lawyer and they would be taking us to court

813
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: for custody of their kids, and that her and Patricia

814
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,280
Speaker 1: would be getting married because as is, it doesn't matter

815
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 1: how long Patsy and Patricia have been together. They're not married,

816
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,359
Speaker 1: and she has no standing grounds if they get married, though,

817
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 1: according to their oiler and I put that in quotes

818
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: because it's written in quotes, Patricia will have more of

819
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 1: a claim to take it even further, Patsy decided to

820
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 1: transfer her job from Walmart and work.

821
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 2: At the one in our hometown, which.

822
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 1: Is almost two hours away from their home, per reason

823
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: she wanted to be closer. She didn't know where we lived. Truthfully,

824
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: she didn't know where we lived and was trying to

825
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 1: find out so she.

826
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:10,800
Speaker 2: Could serve us. Oh my god, dude, how are you driving?

827
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 1: Why are you getting yourself a unnecessary two hour commute till.

828
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 2: Walmart to work?

829
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: Patsy, Oh, I want to some grant. Listen, this granny

830
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: deserves him.

831
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,359
Speaker 2: Pow pow pow.

832
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 1: Anyways, I've had at this point, and with postpartum depression

833
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 1: on top of being pregnant. Oh man, if you have

834
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 1: postpartum depression and then you get pregnant again, Sophie, I

835
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:39,840
Speaker 1: didn't even even considered. Because you're pregnant so far and

836
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 1: dealing with all this, I had somewhat of a mental breakdown.

837
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 1: I don't blame you to the previous wife's family.

838
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 2: We love him.

839
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 1: Oh anyways cool. I came up to Tennessee to be

840
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: with him and just get my mental in check because

841
00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 1: there was so much going on and I was just spiraling.

842
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 1: It wasn't good for me, my kids or my health.

843
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 1: Good good move, take care of yourself first. Now the

844
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: prior wife will call her Kathy. Her family absolutely loves me.

845
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: They love how I stepped into the mama mantle and

846
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: is just raising Clover as my own. They despise Patsy.

847
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 3: Thank God, I wonder why.

848
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 2: I wonder.

849
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 3: He is such a lovely woman.

850
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 2: What a gem I came. I healed.

851
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: I went back down to Alabama, and then my husband

852
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 1: and I decided to move to Tennessee to not only

853
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 1: be around this family, but to also let Clover be

854
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: around her immediate family. Clover missed them, and like I

855
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: always tell her, I'll do everything in my power to

856
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 1: make sure she has those good memories of her mama

857
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 1: and that she never forgets her, as well as making

858
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: sure she has that good, healthy relationship with the ones

859
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: living which she does.

860
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 2: All of that is good.

861
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 1: We've been here for three weeks now, and this week

862
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 1: is Kathy's passing. Away anniversary week. It's been a tough

863
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: way for my husband, as she's only been gone a

864
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 1: few years. Tell me why Patsy and Patricia are blowing

865
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: up his phone talking about how disrespectful it is for

866
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: me to be around Kathy's family, and how he's a

867
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 1: sorry excuse for a man for having me here, and

868
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,399
Speaker 1: how he needs to just divorce me, leave our son

869
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: and our unborn child, and Clover and himself come live

870
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: with them, rent free in their Walmart house where they

871
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:31,760
Speaker 1: can give him the care, comfort and support that I'll

872
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: never be able to give him, because when I leave him,

873
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: they'll be the only ones there to support him. They

874
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:39,720
Speaker 1: won't let this man grieve.

875
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 2: Dude, Honestly, I'm just so lost by the way.

876
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 1: You know where it's easy to get lost, You know,

877
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,240
Speaker 1: it's easy to get lost of via in the sea

878
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 1: of content, where we have guys full length episodes of

879
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: stories just like these. It's on Spotify, it's on Apple Podcast, it's.

880
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 2: Wherever you listen. Just type in okay story time and.

881
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 3: You've got access.

882
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: It'll pop right up. You'll get lost in a sea

883
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,240
Speaker 1: of episodes. A lot of good ones. People have literally

884
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 1: binged our like five ten thousand hour catalog. Yeah, I

885
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 1: don't know how they do it, but road trips it's great.

886
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 1: But Sophia, Yeah, we have been through the absolute.

887
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: Wow wow wow. Yeah, how are we feeling a lot?

888
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 3: The I just had the like it seems like they

889
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 3: finally cut her off, but she's still there. She's like

890
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 3: a bad disease that you can't get rid.

891
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 2: Of, scraping your legs.

892
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: She's scabbies of humans, scabies of humans.

893
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 3: Man oh man. But like it's like, I want this

894
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 3: husband to block his mom.

895
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

896
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 3: Also, of course there is complicated feelings about that, but

897
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 3: still I think that like he needs.

898
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: To if he doesn't because like we say often like

899
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 1: oh go low contact, which is basically, unless there's a

900
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 1: severe medical emergency or something, you basically don't respond. If

901
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: he had the problem is he keeps responding.

902
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, it seems like he keeps responding.

903
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: Yet, so I think he needs the blocker because he's

904
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 1: he's lost his privileges. Yeah, he's lost his but he

905
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 1: lets he lets her convince him every time.

906
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:25,919
Speaker 3: Every time. How long will it be before he's like, oh,

907
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 3: we should just give her another chance. He's done it

908
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 3: every time.

909
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: He's done it every time. And this might be controversial.

910
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 1: People might hate me, people might flame me. People might say, Hey,

911
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: if you suck John, You're the worst show host ever,

912
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 1: get out of my face.

913
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 2: I never want to listen to you again. But I'm

914
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:44,280
Speaker 2: going to say it anyways.

915
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: Anyway, I think we should sit down Clover and tell

916
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: her in an age appropriate manner, who Grandma Patsy and

917
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 1: Patricia really freaking are.

918
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 2: I think we need to explain that.

919
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,040
Speaker 3: I think you could say, like, hey, I know you

920
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 3: gonna miss Grandma Patsy where we can't have her or

921
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 3: you know, we can't have her around anymore because she's

922
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 3: not she's not being very she's being pretty mean to us. Yeah,

923
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 3: and and maybe you know, maybe somedays she'll apologize and

924
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 3: this isn't about you. You haven't done anything wrong and

925
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 3: we love you, but you know we can't she can't

926
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 3: come around anymore.

927
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm curious to the parents of uh Clover is.

928
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:25,720
Speaker 2: Now eleven or twelve eleven.

929
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: I would honestly be tempted to obviously not go into

930
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 1: the full graphic details, but to kind of really let

931
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: her in on what like, she's threatened us, she's threatened

932
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: the baby, She's I think threatened you or she I

933
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: mean you and then and you know.

934
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,439
Speaker 2: What, Yeah you can.

935
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 3: I mean you can even bring up what she did

936
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,919
Speaker 3: to Clover because Clover was there for that obviously. Yeah,

937
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,760
Speaker 3: you'd be like, hey, and I didn't like how.

938
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 2: She treated you.

939
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like she's been treating us pretty poorly. That

940
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: was the tip of the iceberg. And they basically do

941
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: this kind of thing all the time. Yeah, and like

942
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 1: we want to basically avoid you because the more time,

943
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:02,919
Speaker 1: the more close you are to them, the more things

944
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: like that could happen.

945
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 3: I agreed, I agree, I don't flame you.

946
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: Well, okay, Stephanie says in chat. Agree there, she's old

947
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: enough to understand in age appropriate conversation. Cool, Thank you, Stephanie,

948
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:17,319
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Jem says, twelve year olds know what's up.

949
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: That's what I was kind of wondering anyways. So I

950
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: have no idea what to do. Should we just move

951
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 1: forward with pressing charges? Should I take this up legally?

952
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,240
Speaker 1: I'm so lost and I've never experienced anything like this before.

953
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: I could understand if maybe I was doing things and

954
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:30,760
Speaker 1: being ugly to them.

955
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 2: But I'm not.

956
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: I've walked on eggshells and bent over backwards to try

957
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: and accommodate them and make things work. But nothing I

958
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,439
Speaker 1: do is ever good enough or will ever be good enough.

959
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? Should I just put it

960
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 2: aside and get over it? Advice? Please?

961
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:46,800
Speaker 1: I am at my wits end. Thank you, and sorry

962
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,240
Speaker 1: for such a long post. I think to just quickly

963
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 1: wrap up and put a bell on this all of

964
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: those things, like possibly even move farther away I don't know,

965
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 1: make sure you stay, or just like you know, being

966
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: an address where they don't know you are, do all

967
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: the legal action you can to get them out of

968
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: your life. And I think there's like a balance of

969
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 1: like going no contact but letting them know you're not

970
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: an effing around like you call us, We're immediately going

971
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: to get the cops called and arrest you. We're gonna

972
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 1: get all the restraining orders, We're gonna press all of

973
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: the charges. Go where we are on Go. Clover doesn't

974
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 1: want to be with you guys anymore. These babies are ours,

975
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: not yours. You are insane. Restraining order restraining.

976
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 3: Order, which maybe you already said, but I agree with

977
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 3: all of what you said.

978
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 2: Thank you, Sophia, You're welcome.

979
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: I love stories, So could you read the next?

980
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to give me this.

981
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: Ay and good thing. Sophie is the fastest rider the

982
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 1: saddo read in the Wisp.

983
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 3: Clips with you a little too fast. Everyone said they

984
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 3: liked my reading style in the chat sho beg to differ.

985
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I feel like John's like the perfect

986
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,760
Speaker 2: I'm a little slower than John and you're like way faster.

987
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 3: That's It's freaking crazy.

988
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 2: Sophia reads very well. She reads very well.

989
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 1: Like to her well, her style obviously her like comprehension everything,

990
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: but like I mean her, like her.

991
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 2: You know the swag confrehension is another streeting swag, you

992
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 2: know what I mean.

993
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 3: I appreciate that my mother in law ruined our trip

994
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 3: because she always throws a tantrum when she can't get

995
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 3: her way. I watch Starbies.

996
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 2: I want to know.

997
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 3: I am giving vague locations to avoid possible family members

998
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 3: reading this. Not again with the niche background. No, I

999
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 3: want to.

1000
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,720
Speaker 2: Okay, just tell the story, OpEd to give info.

1001
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 3: My mother in law, my husband and I traveled to

1002
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 3: a southwest state to visit my brother in law. We're

1003
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 3: staying in a small apartment to save money. My mother

1004
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 3: in law from the planning stages of the strip has

1005
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 3: been trying to dictate everything when we get up, when

1006
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,839
Speaker 3: we eat, what we eat, and what we do. By

1007
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 3: the way, this comes from Goadie Junior, and if you

1008
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 3: want to submit your own stories, go to our slash

1009
00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 3: ooky story time separate it. So where we're going is

1010
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 3: a very few food popular place, and going out to

1011
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 3: eat is considered one of the highlights of traveling here.

1012
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 3: But she wanted to eat at home two out of

1013
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 3: the possible three meals per day. But when we arrived,

1014
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 3: she made it clear she only wanted to go out

1015
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 3: to eat once during the trip, not even to an

1016
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 3: expensive place, but a place where one full meal is

1017
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 3: fourteen dollars. So she wants to go grocery shopping at

1018
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 3: a cheap place like Walmart no no Costco. Oh, at

1019
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 3: a cheap place like Walmart no Costco for a four

1020
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 3: day trip. That's actually the craziest place to pick up

1021
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 3: groceries for a fort age. We finally convinced her to

1022
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 3: go to Walmart. As we get there, she starts loading

1023
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 3: up the cart with food items she wants and they're

1024
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 3: all organic, high priced, healthy food items.

1025
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 2: The worst unbelievable.

1026
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 3: She demands that we have eggs in the morning and

1027
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 3: salads during the evening. Is she gonna put the bill, Nope,

1028
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 3: she wanted to split the bill with us. Literally, none

1029
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 3: of the food in the cart was for the rest

1030
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,879
Speaker 3: of us, but she wanted us to split the bill

1031
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:08,760
Speaker 3: with her. Every time we made a plan to do something,

1032
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 3: she would interject and say, I want to do X

1033
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 3: y Z first. Let me tell you. After hearing a

1034
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 3: full grown boomer say I wanna in a whiny voice,

1035
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:22,399
Speaker 3: you're just about to pull your hair out. The second day,

1036
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,720
Speaker 3: she wanted to work out with the sun she was visiting.

1037
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,279
Speaker 3: He didn't want to because he wanted to work out alone.

1038
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 3: I can't imagine anyone wants to hang out willingly with

1039
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 3: the mother.

1040
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 2: In law, That is true. Yeah, So she.

1041
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 3: Decided she was going to take a three hour walk

1042
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 3: in the one hundred and five degree fahrenheit weather with

1043
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 3: only twenty ounces of water and no sunscreen.

1044
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 2: Is a human girl, If it's human, you're ft.

1045
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 3: Your toast, I mean your toast regardless, So I mean

1046
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:55,439
Speaker 3: I'm toast. Maybe this is just me. So after one hour,

1047
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 3: we had to go on a search and rescue for

1048
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 3: her because she most definitely was going to suffer from

1049
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:03,720
Speaker 3: a bad sunburn slash dehydration. Not only did she literally

1050
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 3: walk off to throw a hissy fit, but she delayed

1051
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 3: the actual plans my brother in law made for the day.

1052
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 3: Our third day hasn't happened yet, but my brother in

1053
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 3: law wanted to make me feel included and asked what

1054
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,280
Speaker 3: I would like to do since the day was wide open.

1055
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 3: I suggested a fun tourist attraction and both him and

1056
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 3: my husband were eager to do it. But before we

1057
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,479
Speaker 3: could start figuring out the timing of it, my mother

1058
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 3: in law spoke up and said she wanted to go

1059
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 3: take photos first and get a workout and cook and

1060
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 3: go swimming and get coffee. But she finished off first

1061
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 3: her list of demands with but whatever you guys want

1062
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 3: to do, No, ma'am, apparently it's not whatever we want

1063
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:42,359
Speaker 3: to do, because you get pissy when things aren't going

1064
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 3: your way. You know, she's just gonna throw a tantrum

1065
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 3: if she doesn't, if she doesn't get to go on

1066
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 3: her what did she say? Work out, cook, swim, coffee?

1067
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:52,919
Speaker 2: Right, bro, hot take. She just needs to get laid.

1068
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:55,840
Speaker 2: That's really what this woman needs.

1069
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,240
Speaker 3: At the end of this day. That's all she needs.

1070
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 2: But dude, I mean, in my calmer down h Chat

1071
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 2: will agree with me. Chat will agree with me.

1072
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 3: I will never travel with her again, nor will I

1073
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 3: ever spend more than three hours with her. Visiting my

1074
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,320
Speaker 3: brother in law was supposed to be fun and relaxing,

1075
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,320
Speaker 3: but she's treating this vacation like a to do list

1076
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 3: and making sure all her boxes are ticked off first

1077
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 3: before anyone else. I want to go home. That's sex. Yeah,

1078
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 3: she's totally ruining your relationship. I mean, not your relationship,

1079
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 3: your vacation, but there isn't edit. Oh gosh, thanks for

1080
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 3: all your encouragement. Guys. Today is day three. You have

1081
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 3: one more day after this, so I'll finally be saying

1082
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 3: something to my mother in law when she starts up

1083
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 3: her antics again. Oh Ezekiel says we're a Snickers bar

1084
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 3: because she's not her when she's hungry. I will probably

1085
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 3: make an update post with the rage that will ensue

1086
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 3: and comments.

1087
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 2: Oh gosh.

1088
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 3: Common one says it's a shame because the brother in

1089
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 3: law at least seems to want to spend time with

1090
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 3: you all and wants to include you, which is awesome.

1091
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 3: At some point, I just leave and tell mother in

1092
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 3: law if she wants to do at home activities all day,

1093
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,400
Speaker 3: she's more than welcome to. You're going to enjoy the

1094
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:12,280
Speaker 3: vacation and actually explore the city a bit. You would

1095
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 3: have to deal with the tantrum afterward, but at least

1096
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 3: you would enjoy one day of the vacation. Common two

1097
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 3: says Info. I know she'll be upset, but besides that,

1098
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 3: why can't you guys just go without her. Let her

1099
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 3: do what she wants and you do what you want.

1100
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 3: Let her throw her toddler tantrum, Yeah, OPI says, because

1101
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,319
Speaker 3: my brother in law is our only ride and she's

1102
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 3: stupidly decided to only bring cash, so Uber and Lyft

1103
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 3: are out of the question.

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00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:39,400
Speaker 2: Interesting and interesting.

1105
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 3: Uh. I would love to call her out on her selfishness,

1106
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 3: but my brother in law and husband are non confrontational people.

1107
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 3: I even had a fight with my husband during the

1108
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 3: flight about how I was worried that she was going

1109
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 3: to control everything, not ask anyone's opinions on what they

1110
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 3: want to do, and play the victim. But he kept

1111
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 3: disagreeing and said that he wanted to have a good

1112
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 3: time and to not ruin things for him. Update There

1113
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 3: is an update, but John just got back. But basically

1114
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 3: OP is on this little four day trip with the

1115
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 3: fam and her mother in law swalks. Her mother in

1116
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 3: law has always throwing tantrums, is like, we need to

1117
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 3: go on a swim, we need to go on a walk.

1118
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 3: We're gonna do what I want to do, and no

1119
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 3: one else wants to do that. And she keeps learning

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00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 3: these tantrums and hope he's just sick and tired of it.

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00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:24,479
Speaker 2: Yep. And they're on day three yep. And I said

1122
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 2: she just needs to get laid Yeah, yeah, that's true.

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00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:28,439
Speaker 3: That's what Riley said.

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Speaker 1: Thank you some d for the mi IL update.

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Speaker 3: Day three has officially ended and it was a doozy

1126
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,719
Speaker 3: for my mother in law. Four more info that got

1127
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:41,880
Speaker 3: buried in comments on the original post. My husband specifically

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00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 3: asked me not to say anything to my mother in

1129
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:47,760
Speaker 3: law prior to this trip because he's a non confrontational person.

1130
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 3: I mean, I also can imagine growing up with this

1131
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 3: mother in law. Would not be back.

1132
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 2: No, you would not want to. I don't want to.

1133
00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 3: His main focus was just having a good time with

1134
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 3: his brother and not wanting to fight with his mom.

1135
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,319
Speaker 3: During the night of day two, my sister in law.

1136
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 3: Brother in law's wife called my mother in law and

1137
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:10,360
Speaker 3: complained about her controlling behavior. She told my mother in

1138
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 3: law that she was ruining his vacation by constantly trying

1139
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 3: to get him to do everything she wanted to do.

1140
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 3: Fast forward to day three, my mother in law had

1141
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 3: wanted to go on a three mile run with my

1142
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 3: brother in law. However, after the call she had with

1143
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 3: my sister in law, mother in law decided to go

1144
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 3: on a four hour walk on her own. And I

1145
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 3: believe this is in the one hundred and fifteen degree

1146
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 3: weather or one hundred and five degree weather.

1147
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:36,280
Speaker 2: Cool OII that is freezing.

1148
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:38,799
Speaker 3: My brother in law had just about enough of her

1149
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,399
Speaker 3: being dramatic and told her that we were going out

1150
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 3: for breakfast and she's welcome to join, but we aren't

1151
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:46,399
Speaker 3: going with her. Without skipping a beat, she just said

1152
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:49,320
Speaker 3: okay and try to leave. Before she left, my husband

1153
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:51,879
Speaker 3: told her she needed to put on sunscreen, wear a hat,

1154
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:54,759
Speaker 3: turn on her location on her phone, and stay on

1155
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 3: the paved walking trails in good boom or fashion. She

1156
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 3: started resisting, saying she'd don't need that crap. We told

1157
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,839
Speaker 3: her she did. She just kept saying, I don't need

1158
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 3: you guys to parent me.

1159
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:06,879
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was just about to say, I love how

1160
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 2: Key's being the mom to her.

1161
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 3: Yes, where bring the water? Where your sunscreen? Thankfully we're

1162
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 3: all on the same wavelength, and told her that we

1163
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 3: did need us, she did need us to parent her,

1164
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 3: and that she was being silly for no reason. She

1165
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 3: were saying at you see you. At four pm, b

1166
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 3: we went out to breakfast, went shopping, and hung out

1167
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 3: peacefully at home. It was so fun. Around three pm,

1168
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 3: we again and needed to rescue her because it was

1169
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 3: another one hundred and five degree fair night day and

1170
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 3: she only brought another twenty ounce of water.

1171
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 2: Honestly, she said this twice.

1172
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 3: Now this is the second time.

1173
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: She said this question is when do we let her

1174
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 1: learn her lesson? So yeah, oh oh, did we not

1175
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 1: say that's like probably not a good idea, and like

1176
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:56,839
Speaker 1: at least you were going to do it, bring all

1177
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 1: this stuff, And they're like, screw it, I don't need you.

1178
00:56:58,680 --> 00:56:59,840
Speaker 2: Go ahead and go ahead and.

1179
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:03,839
Speaker 3: Fig if she doesn't. Honestly, by the second time, I'm

1180
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 3: just going big on the I told you SoSE going

1181
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 3: like she's getting a hardcore twenty minute I Told you

1182
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 3: so parenting lecture.

1183
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:12,479
Speaker 2: Yep.

1184
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,239
Speaker 3: We brought her back, told her to get freshened up

1185
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 3: because we were heading downtown to go shopping, eating, and sightseeing.

1186
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 3: She initially said she didn't want to go, but reluctantly

1187
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 3: said fine. This is where crap hit the fan, and

1188
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 3: she fully pulls out the boomers selfishness. As all four

1189
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 3: of us are walking, She's consistently walking four paces behind us,

1190
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 3: her arms crossed and eyes locked to the ground. We

1191
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 3: tried asking her where she wanted to go and if

1192
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 3: she wanted anything to eat, but she kept pouting and

1193
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 3: saying no, is this a four year old?

1194
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 2: Truly, what are you doing woman?

1195
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 3: We went to a tourist attraction and asked her to

1196
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,560
Speaker 3: participate in the activities included in the place, and again

1197
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 3: all we got was a nope. It wasn't until she

1198
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 3: was almost groped by a wasted homeless man that we

1199
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 3: finally snapped at her.

1200
00:57:58,080 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 2: We asked what her problem was.

1201
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 3: It was she she was acting this way?

1202
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 2: That was the well, I don't know if that okay?

1203
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 2: Was that connected? I don't know.

1204
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 3: We asked what a problem was and why she was

1205
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 3: acting this way. She told us she felt left out

1206
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 3: and that she thinks she should have just stayed back

1207
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 3: since no one wanted her there.

1208
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, go away.

1209
00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 3: We told her that we did want her there and

1210
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 3: tried all night to include her in activities, but she

1211
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 3: wanted to be upset instead. I spoke up and told

1212
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 3: her that if she wanted to be upset, that's okay,

1213
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 3: but she can't look like a victim or someone might

1214
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 3: try to hurt her. She only responded, oh f eolp

1215
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 3: and try to walk away again. My husband told me

1216
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 3: not to say anything, and I agreed, because honestly, I

1217
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 3: don't know how the heck to respond to an adult

1218
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 3: throwing a temper tantrum. We all agreed that she can

1219
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 3: stay upset for all week are because she has literally

1220
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 3: no reason to be. We told her we've done everything

1221
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 3: she wanted this trip, except for going exercising with her

1222
00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 3: and eating at home for all our meals. We told

1223
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 3: her that she is wanted and were trying to include her.

1224
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 3: If she wanted to be upset, that's her problem, but

1225
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 3: she needs to stop being stupid and stick with the group.

1226
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:09,919
Speaker 3: By the way, you should stick with us and listen

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Speaker 2: That was a great transition.

1231
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 3: That really was, uh, there's a little bit left.

1232
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 2: We're just gonna dumb right now. Jump.

1233
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 3: Finally, after five hours and one last tourist attraction, she

1234
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 3: turned around and started having fun.

1235
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 2: She just needed a little tot.

1236
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 3: You can't have a little melts.

1237
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:44,840
Speaker 2: I thought that was what's hut.

1238
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 3: She did eventually let out a small sorry, but the

1239
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 3: damage was done. This woman is a nightmare to vacation with,

1240
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 3: and I have seen her true colors this trip. I

1241
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 3: will be removing myself from what most visits with her.

1242
00:59:58,120 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 3: I've always had a gut feeling that she isn't a

1243
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 3: it's nice as she tries to make people believe. So

1244
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 3: it's very reassuring to finally have that peace of mind

1245
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 3: and comments. And that's it. And that's the end of

1246
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 3: that story. Your mother in law's a nightmare.

1247
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 2: She sucks.

1248
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 3: She sucks. Don't get another trip with her. Get her

1249
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 3: that's my recommendation. But that is the end of that episode.

1250
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 3: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 2: We love you and Samo.

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01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time

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01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 1: for okop relash. I'm just so angry because my careen

1254
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: neighbor threw a party, so I filed a restraining order,

1255
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 1: got her fired from her job, and then took blackmail

1256
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 1: to a whole new level.

1257
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 4: How do you take blackmail to a whole new level?

1258
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 4: After all of that, it gets deep? Where does it

1259
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:46,880
Speaker 4: go from there? Like a murder? Are we about to

1260
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 4: see a meta take place?

1261
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 1: I put you in a spaceship and launch you into

1262
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 1: space with no snacks. I rip out your sphincter and

1263
01:00:56,120 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: use it as a hat. I mean that's pretty bad,

1264
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 1: pretty pretty bad. But we'll see what Opie does to

1265
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 1: top it. All right, let's see it. I'm twenty female

1266
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 1: and I live in a suburban neighborhood with my family.

1267
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 1: A few years ago, we had new neighbors move in

1268
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: next door. Oh new neighbors, Oh god, problems. At first

1269
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: they seemed all right, but then they turned out to

1270
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 1: be complete party animals.

1271
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 4: That's what it sounded like, twenty four to seven exactly.

1272
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 4: I feel like op sounds a little straight edge.

1273
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I well, you.

1274
01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 4: Know, we lived in a quiet neighborhood, and then these

1275
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:40,520
Speaker 4: people who were cool as fuck moved in and had

1276
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 4: all these people hanging out.

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01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 1: Imagine they're literally just have like like hangouts where they

1278
01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:46,640
Speaker 1: just like place music, eat some chips and stuff. Like

1279
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 1: he's like partiers. They were just drinking Pepsi by the

1280
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 1: case load. Oh my god, that sugar high was insane.

1281
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: I'm talking about partying three times a week, blasting loud

1282
01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: music till two am in the morning. Two am is

1283
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:01,600
Speaker 1: a little late.

1284
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 2: That's a little a little late. Sounds like your apartment.

1285
01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 1: I was literally about to say the same thing.

1286
01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 3: Bro.

1287
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1288
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 1: One time, we literally were like six grown men jumping

1289
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: up and down, and I was like, how are the

1290
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 1: police not here?

1291
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 2: Right?

1292
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:14,920
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1293
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:18,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, the friddiness of my apartment has declined. That's true

1294
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 4: in the last year, I would say that. Being said,

1295
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:23,440
Speaker 4: I cannot believe we didn't get the cops called on

1296
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 4: us more because you could hear.

1297
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 1: Our music from the street usually.

1298
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 2: That's true, Yes, you could. You guys are slick.

1299
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: We're slick.

1300
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 2: Can you say we're slick?

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01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 1: Over the past year and a half, we've had multiple

1302
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 1: confrontations with our neighbors over petty little stuff In fact,

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01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 1: I made a post about one of these petty confusions

1304
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: on our neighbor on our slash malicious complying, Oh we

1305
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 1: got a reddit or on her now. I'm shocked that

1306
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 1: story blew up as much as it did, and honestly

1307
01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 1: I almost forgot about the post entirely until a few

1308
01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: weeks ago. Oh intrigue. So our neighbors were having one

1309
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 1: of their super crazy pool parties and it was driving

1310
01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 1: everyone in the neighborhood crazy. The police couldn't much because

1311
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 1: we would make a noise complaint and the police would

1312
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 1: show up give them a warning.

1313
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:05,919
Speaker 2: Things would go quiet.

1314
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: For maybe thirty minutes, but then they would just go

1315
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 1: right back to partying again. Over time, some neighbors begin

1316
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: to give up, and eventually some even moved away.

1317
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 4: Oh my god, dude, it's gonna become parties Central. And

1318
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 4: then other neighbors moved in that liked to party just

1319
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 4: as much as.

1320
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm imagining I don't know why, like it, like

1321
01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 1: those like really biker gangs. Was like really old people

1322
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 1: and they're just like blasting like Motley DC, just popping

1323
01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 1: back boiled peanuts and drinking beers all night. I'm imagining

1324
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 1: the plot of Neighbors.

1325
01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 4: Don has never seen any movie God editors put in

1326
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 4: like a clip from Neighbors in here has Zach Effron

1327
01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 4: in it and Joe Rogan or not sorry, Seth Rogan,

1328
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 4: not Joe Rogan.

1329
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 1: That would be funny, though I would watch that movie too.

1330
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 2: At this point, my mom had finally had enough. Yeah.

1331
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: Once the party finally seemed to wind down at around

1332
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 1: midnight and guests started leave, my mom marched straight up

1333
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 1: to the owner of the house. We'll call her Lying

1334
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 1: Sally because she's a pathological liar, yeah, and warned her

1335
01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: that we will start calling the cops on them more

1336
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:11,280
Speaker 1: if they don't stop.

1337
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 2: I like it.

1338
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 4: Its like a more like we call the cops every

1339
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 4: time they throw a party, but we're gonna do it.

1340
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 2: Twice as much.

1341
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 1: It's like it's like they were they were running their

1342
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 1: blender too loud. He got you now, of course, Lying

1343
01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 1: Sally and her party guests laughed and started taunting my

1344
01:04:28,000 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 1: mother dang, which led to an ugly screaming match. Luckily,

1345
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: I just had the common sense to record all of

1346
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 1: this just in case, and thank god I did. At

1347
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 1: some point during the fight, Lying Sally screams at my mom.

1348
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna effing beat the crap out of you.

1349
01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 4: Yo, Lying Sally seems not that chill, actually not chill

1350
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:51,439
Speaker 4: at all. Yeah, come on, I thought you were chill

1351
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 4: like that.

1352
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 2: I thought this was like like low five, like party beats,

1353
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:55,840
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

1354
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 4: No, No, maybe lying Sally is a little bit of

1355
01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 4: a weirdo and we're One.

1356
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:02,760
Speaker 1: Of our neighbors called the cops, which I don't blame

1357
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:06,919
Speaker 1: him for doing. So everyone just calling the cops. God,

1358
01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 1: They're like cos it is like, please, please, no one

1359
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 1: call us. I was getting worried for my mom since

1360
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 1: lying Sally kept threatening to beat her up. The cops

1361
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 1: came around and everything got peacefully resolved.

1362
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 2: Thankfully.

1363
01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 1: It wasn't until the next morning I reviewed the video

1364
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 1: and remembered that you can file a restraining order against

1365
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 1: someone for threat of assaults. Yo.

1366
01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 2: Now here's the thing.

1367
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 1: I knew that filing a straining order against someone can

1368
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 1: cause that person to maybe lose their job or make

1369
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:40,320
Speaker 1: it difficult for that person to find a future job.

1370
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 1: Does a restraining order go on your record? I guess

1371
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:45,600
Speaker 1: I never knew that. Maybe, like you know, like background

1372
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: check when they I bet that is probably where it

1373
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 1: comes down.

1374
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 2: So it's like restraining order. Dang, that's that's wild. Now.

1375
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 1: I knew from a sticker on the back of her car.

1376
01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 1: She works in daycare, which is hilarious to me. She's

1377
01:05:57,680 --> 01:05:59,440
Speaker 1: just like taking care of kids.

1378
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:03,439
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, she has to be you know, she's hanging

1379
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 4: around kids, is like all the time.

1380
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 1: She needs to let loose like an adult.

1381
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 2: Dude. Come on, now, that's the cops. They just got called.

1382
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 1: Why do they keep calling calling them?

1383
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 2: Now?

1384
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 1: If I were a nicer person, I would have just

1385
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: let it go. But but there's his rdhitch. It's too bad.

1386
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:25,200
Speaker 1: I'm petty game time baby. So we filed the restraining order.

1387
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: I took my neighbor to court, and after showing the

1388
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 1: judge the video, he was immediately on our side, especially

1389
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 1: after she had initially tried to lie and claim that

1390
01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:36,439
Speaker 1: she never once threatened my mom.

1391
01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:38,280
Speaker 2: She didn't know I had video proof.

1392
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, the proof is in the VID. That's why

1393
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 4: you always have a body cam on you.

1394
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:50,040
Speaker 1: That's three sixty go pros just around like through my body.

1395
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 4: All the time and then you can turn into content

1396
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:54,280
Speaker 4: for okop wow bamn bingbo.

1397
01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 1: The judge granted us the restraining order and we were

1398
01:06:57,040 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 1: jumping for joy. Meanwhile, lying Sally wouldn't stop crying and

1399
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: pleading with the judge to rethink his.

1400
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 4: Bird steps in a little baby, bro, come on, you're

1401
01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 4: supposed to be a daycare care giver, not a daycare kid.

1402
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 2: Come on, come on, get out of here.

1403
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. I thought the kids influence you poorly for being

1404
01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 1: a cry baby. Now this next part is extra savage.

1405
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: Here the real kicker. I made an anonymous call with

1406
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:29,360
Speaker 1: a friend's phone to the daycare center where she worked,

1407
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 1: and I let her boss know everything.

1408
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 4: Wow, ope, Geez's going insane.

1409
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 2: Du good golly.

1410
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:40,000
Speaker 1: A few days later, I noticed she had removed the

1411
01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 1: sticker from the daycare from the back of her car.

1412
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's so sad. I just wanted to party.

1413
01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she was fired because she started staying

1414
01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 1: at home almost twenty four to seven. Her car almost

1415
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 1: never left the driveway.

1416
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 2: Oh it's rough.

1417
01:07:56,320 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 1: Oh this girl's probably depressed too. Can't party?

1418
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, dude, she's struggling.

1419
01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:09,080
Speaker 1: Also, the best part, the crazy loud parties finally stopped.

1420
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:12,360
Speaker 1: It's been radio silent for a whole entire month. The

1421
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:16,240
Speaker 1: neighbors just popping prozac. Just like God, I din't can't party,

1422
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:18,400
Speaker 1: I can't eat, takecare Like dude, what can you do?

1423
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:18,719
Speaker 2: Really?

1424
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:23,200
Speaker 1: All her life's meaning has disintegrated. Now you can bet

1425
01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 1: that during Christmas, our closest neighbors dropped off a lot

1426
01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:29,720
Speaker 1: of cookies and chocolates as a thank you, thank you

1427
01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 1: for helping ruin her life. He don't cross a redditor,

1428
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 1: They'll destroy you. First question when you meet anyone, are

1429
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:40,240
Speaker 1: you a red editor? So you know, not quite please,

1430
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm getting away, but Sam, it's not over. There's an update.

1431
01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:46,720
Speaker 1: Oh so, somebody asked how the judge was able to

1432
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 1: see the video because phones aren't allowed in the courtroom.

1433
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 1: This is true, but we were told to have our

1434
01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:53,639
Speaker 1: phones turned completely off once the hearing started, and lying

1435
01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:56,759
Speaker 1: Sally straight up said to the judge, I never threatened

1436
01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 1: my mom. So I told the judge I have video proof,

1437
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:01,640
Speaker 1: and then the judge allowed me to show it on

1438
01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 1: a projector for the entire courtroom. That was a nail

1439
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 1: in the coffin for lying Sally. Also in the comments

1440
01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:10,719
Speaker 1: I mentioned I have video proof of her kissing someone

1441
01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:12,680
Speaker 1: who is not her husband.

1442
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:17,679
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Ope he is ruining this woman's entire life.

1443
01:09:17,760 --> 01:09:20,920
Speaker 1: I've met you, she'd be cheating so seriously. Now, there

1444
01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 1: are several reasons why I haven't exposed her yet. I'm

1445
01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 1: not sure if her and her husband are an open relationship,

1446
01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 1: but they're both crazy enough to do it.

1447
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:28,799
Speaker 2: They have kids.

1448
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:31,240
Speaker 1: I'm a child whose parents almost went through a divorce.

1449
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 1: I know how horrible it can be. I kind of

1450
01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:36,040
Speaker 1: hate the husband. He's always been extremely rude, So this

1451
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:38,679
Speaker 1: is my petty revenge against him. And I'm holding onto

1452
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 1: the video as blackmail just in case the party starts

1453
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:48,800
Speaker 1: up again. Wow, Bro, this lady is a pro fashion Nah.

1454
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 4: He is playing like forty chess over here, dude. I

1455
01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:55,840
Speaker 4: am scared. Yeah, I'm scared that these kind of people

1456
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:58,960
Speaker 4: like exist because like mostly I just feel, you know,

1457
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,679
Speaker 4: like you and you or me, like someone fucks us over.

1458
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:04,240
Speaker 4: We're like all right, I'm just we're just gonna like

1459
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:07,479
Speaker 4: move on live and I live, I live, and like

1460
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 4: we'll probably want to associate with them or whatever, but

1461
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:12,519
Speaker 4: we're not gonna like go out of our way to

1462
01:10:12,720 --> 01:10:17,960
Speaker 4: ruin their entire live Like this is vindictive as heck, bro.

1463
01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:21,320
Speaker 1: And and like the other person, she basically thinks it's over.

1464
01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:23,880
Speaker 1: She's like, all right, there was this horrendous time in

1465
01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:25,600
Speaker 1: my life, but you know what, it's over and I

1466
01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 1: can go on. Little does she know she literally has

1467
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:31,600
Speaker 1: a full freaking clip, just ready to scheme in.

1468
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 3: Man.

1469
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:34,400
Speaker 1: But you know what, you should always scheme on.

1470
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 4: Oh what sam r slash okop show tell us your stories?

1471
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:41,320
Speaker 2: Send him in, baby, This is Okayop.

1472
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:43,559
Speaker 4: I'm Samuel daughter and I'm John Fry and we tell

1473
01:10:43,600 --> 01:10:47,000
Speaker 4: the funniest stories on the Internet. And John, boy, do

1474
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 4: I have another cancerous one for you.

1475
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 2: I'm ready.

1476
01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 1: It's about cancer. Just to blow your mind.

1477
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:54,200
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

1478
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:59,800
Speaker 4: Mom felt entitled to my wish after I was diagnosed

1479
01:10:59,840 --> 01:11:01,560
Speaker 4: and survived cancer.

1480
01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:05,439
Speaker 1: Bro, where do they make these moms? So? Where where

1481
01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 1: did they make them?

1482
01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 2: At? Hell? Cancel? Are there are a bunch of a

1483
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:12,639
Speaker 2: bunch of Karen Moms? Weake Karen's buy merch.

1484
01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 4: So today, I twenty nine female, am thirteen years in

1485
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:18,920
Speaker 4: remission from cancer. I had a very aggressive type with

1486
01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,280
Speaker 4: less than a twenty percent chance of survival for the

1487
01:11:21,320 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 4: first five years. But that's not the story I'm here

1488
01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 4: to share. It's just relevant information. As I was sixteen,

1489
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 4: I qualified for make a Wish. I'd played around with

1490
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:33,400
Speaker 4: a bunch of potential ideas, this nation, vacations, meeting my

1491
01:11:33,439 --> 01:11:36,120
Speaker 4: favorite band, getting electronics, all that. Once the idea of

1492
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:40,200
Speaker 4: traveling somewhere warm came up, my mom entitled parent was

1493
01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:43,400
Speaker 4: convinced that that was what was happening with my wish.

1494
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 4: Oh dear, the discussion of Barbados came up, so that's

1495
01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:48,840
Speaker 4: what she set her mind to. However, I was still

1496
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:51,840
Speaker 4: in the fence, and after discussing it with my correspondent

1497
01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:54,559
Speaker 4: at Make a Wish, I wanted to meet my favorite band.

1498
01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:56,439
Speaker 1: We would not have been able to go to the.

1499
01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:59,360
Speaker 4: Caribbean for the trip, simply because of costs, but we

1500
01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:01,919
Speaker 4: could still go somewhere warm and out of the country.

1501
01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 4: We live in northern Canada with negative forty celzia as winters.

1502
01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:08,800
Speaker 1: No thank you, go, no thank you.

1503
01:12:09,040 --> 01:12:12,080
Speaker 4: There was talks of Florida, California, or even Hawaii is

1504
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,439
Speaker 4: destinations to meet them. At I wrote a letter directed

1505
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 4: to said band explaining how listening to them helped me

1506
01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 4: through treatment and that actually one song in particular that

1507
01:12:19,360 --> 01:12:22,679
Speaker 4: the youngest wrote really helped me, and my correspondent had

1508
01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 4: mailed it out to the managers, and they were going

1509
01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 4: to begin preparations for the band to get time scheduled

1510
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 4: for the wish, which all sounds great, right. They're gonna

1511
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:32,559
Speaker 4: fly out to somewhere warm and they're gonna meet the band.

1512
01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:34,240
Speaker 1: Oh, it's like a double whammy wish. Yeah.

1513
01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:37,280
Speaker 4: Yeah. They maybe not Barbados because that would be too expensive,

1514
01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 4: but they would be able to go to like Florida.

1515
01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 2: Her waff, I love it. I love it already. I

1516
01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:43,080
Speaker 2: can tell it's not going to be end twelve.

1517
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:43,720
Speaker 1: No. No.

1518
01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 4: When I told my mom what I wanted and the

1519
01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:51,400
Speaker 4: plan to meet the band, she went nuts. She went

1520
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 4: off about how she deserved this trip as much as

1521
01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:59,759
Speaker 4: I do because she was there for me the entire tie,

1522
01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 4: and that if I wanted to do anything besides going

1523
01:13:03,560 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 4: to Barbados, I could find another adult to supervise the

1524
01:13:07,520 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 4: trip because neither her or my stepdad would be joining me.

1525
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:16,960
Speaker 2: What God, wasn't what she wanted? Oh my God.

1526
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:19,200
Speaker 1: She then told me to pack my.

1527
01:13:19,320 --> 01:13:22,439
Speaker 4: Bags and I'd be staying at my dad's place till

1528
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 4: I came to my senses stop and then told make

1529
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:30,400
Speaker 4: a wish that we were going to Barbados.

1530
01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 1: You're kicking out your own daughter with cancer, owned daughter

1531
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 1: with cancer, over a freaking make a wish.

1532
01:13:35,240 --> 01:13:36,080
Speaker 2: It's not even yours.

1533
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 4: I spent a month at my dad. I spent over

1534
01:13:38,680 --> 01:13:40,800
Speaker 4: a month at my dad's and during this time, the

1535
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 4: correspondent was trying to convince me to go through with

1536
01:13:42,960 --> 01:13:44,639
Speaker 4: what I really wanted.

1537
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:47,559
Speaker 1: But I eventually caved and let my mom have what

1538
01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 1: she wanted.

1539
01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:49,479
Speaker 2: Oh man.

1540
01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:53,000
Speaker 4: Now, my parents did make a compromise with me at

1541
01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:55,280
Speaker 4: the time and told me they drive me to their

1542
01:13:55,280 --> 01:13:59,559
Speaker 4: concert in Toronto if I had paid for the entire trip.

1543
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:02,440
Speaker 2: Bro, she's a teenager with cancer.

1544
01:14:02,600 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 4: Foolish seventeen year old me thought that was a great idea.

1545
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:07,160
Speaker 4: I get to see the band in concert and make

1546
01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:09,519
Speaker 4: my parents happy. In the end, it costs a lot.

1547
01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:12,639
Speaker 4: My parents complained the whole time, but at least I'd

1548
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:13,599
Speaker 4: see them in concert.

1549
01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:14,920
Speaker 2: Oh wow.

1550
01:14:15,080 --> 01:14:17,519
Speaker 4: On the occasional time where the conversation of the trip

1551
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:20,200
Speaker 4: to Barbados has come up, my mom likes to paint

1552
01:14:20,280 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 4: herself as a victim after all these years. Could you

1553
01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:26,759
Speaker 4: imagine if you'd gone through with it and we'd messed

1554
01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:30,720
Speaker 4: out on Barbados, you would have gone with the You

1555
01:14:30,760 --> 01:14:33,519
Speaker 4: would have gone with a person's mom instead in last

1556
01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:35,679
Speaker 4: us her and her stepdad behind.

1557
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:38,559
Speaker 1: I would have never forgiven you if you'd done that.

1558
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:41,559
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're child with cancer. I know.

1559
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 4: To this day. I'm still a huge fan of that band.

1560
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 4: They were on hiatus for a while but came back,

1561
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:50,639
Speaker 4: and this whole situation really sticks in my mind, especially

1562
01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:53,280
Speaker 4: when I see them performing on shows and on their

1563
01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 4: two tours they've done post hiatus. Yes, I saw them

1564
01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 4: in a concert and it was a great time. But

1565
01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 4: I could have physically met them, gone to a concert

1566
01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:03,680
Speaker 4: through make a wish while traveling to another country.

1567
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 2: Without having to pay out of pocket for the experience. Amazing.

1568
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:08,760
Speaker 4: And I couldn't do any of this all because my

1569
01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:12,599
Speaker 4: mom felt entitled to making my wish about her rather

1570
01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:14,880
Speaker 4: than the actual recipient of it. I understand that she

1571
01:15:14,880 --> 01:15:17,000
Speaker 4: didn't care to be the ban herself, but there could

1572
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:20,280
Speaker 4: have been many opportunities available aside from just doing that.

1573
01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:23,480
Speaker 2: I nearly died. It shouldn't have even been a question.

1574
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:25,680
Speaker 4: That it was my wish and I should do what

1575
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 4: I want for my wish, especially with the extremely high

1576
01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:30,800
Speaker 4: chance of the cancer coming back.

1577
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:33,679
Speaker 1: So what do you guys think? Do you think?

1578
01:15:33,840 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 2: Ope?

1579
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 1: He is in the wrong ear. Do you think the

1580
01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:37,920
Speaker 1: parents are in the wrong ear. You know who's never

1581
01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:41,679
Speaker 1: in the right Adam Levine. Adam, his existence is an

1582
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:43,080
Speaker 1: insult to humanity.

1583
01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:43,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1584
01:15:43,400 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 4: And if you want to show whose boss on TikTok,

1585
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:46,800
Speaker 4: let's surpass him and.

1586
01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:48,400
Speaker 1: Followers follow us.

1587
01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:49,639
Speaker 2: Screw Oudam Levine.

1588
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:52,000
Speaker 4: But John, what do you think of the like who's

1589
01:15:52,040 --> 01:15:57,640
Speaker 4: actually wrong here? Gee, it's pretty obvious. God tell us

1590
01:15:57,640 --> 01:15:58,760
Speaker 4: at the commons.

1591
01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:01,680
Speaker 2: Dude, let us let us no, guys, this one was

1592
01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:04,400
Speaker 2: a doozy. You delivered, Sam, This one was a doozy.