1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: Good. So guys, welcome to tuesday's show, Morning Studio, Morning Amy. 2 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: How are you doing good? How about you? Pretty good? 3 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: Here's the question, because my dog, if I see him 4 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: having a nightmare in his little bed, I always go, oh, 5 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: I ain't all wake him up, because he'll be in 6 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: bed slap waving its stuff, slapping it stuff. If your 7 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 1: dog was doing that, like going on just like asleep 8 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 1: but slapping it, would you wake your dog up? I mean, 9 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: he's bothering you. No, he's just in his bed. But 10 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: you can tell he's a sleeping something's going on. Okay, No, 11 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: I don't. Why do you? Because you want to if 12 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: it's having a nightmare, you want him to not have 13 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: to do that. I kind of feel like I'm my 14 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: nightmare patrol with him, okay, because he'll just be going 15 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: at it and I'm like Stanley and you also fall 16 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: also a sleep so quickly again that I'm okay with it. 17 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's always wondering because he was having some 18 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 1: sort of fit this morning and it's bed. But now 19 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: my dog ninety five percent of the time he sleeps, 20 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: he doesn't have a room anymore. He just stays in 21 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 1: the house. Is all cool? And I used to put 22 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: him in a room. Is it first of us a 23 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,759 Speaker 1: crate when he's a puppy, bigger, bigger. Now we've kind 24 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 1: of he just runs free in the house. But he's 25 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: a big he's a bulldog. He's sixty pounds. He still 26 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: likes to chew at all times, meaning it does not 27 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: to chew to destroy. There's like a piece of iron, 28 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: he would just chew on it. He has something from 29 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: when he was He just always likes to chew. We 30 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: were told before we got him, because when he was 31 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 1: sick and two, they were like him and another dog. 32 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: They just chew all the time. From puppy. But when 33 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: he gets tightered, he'll grab your foot with his mouth 34 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: and just gnaw, not hard, but just gnaw. There's something 35 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: in him that makes him want to chew all the time, 36 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: like it's soothing for him. Whatever it is, I don't 37 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: like it. But now it's just trying to get into 38 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: a chew on the right things like if you must chew. 39 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: Because we have this unlike the bottom of the ball, 40 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: this bar thing we have in our house. He there's 41 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: a piece of wood and he's chewed it. It's just 42 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: like splinters everywhere like that's not that's what not to 43 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: chew right, and the chew toys I buy him, he 44 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,239 Speaker 1: doesn't want to chew on. He only wants to chew 45 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: on things, and he shouldn't chew on and all things 46 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: I buy him to chew on. He looks at it's 47 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 1: like he knows, like it's more valuable if he's not 48 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: supposed to chew on it. But I do have to 49 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: say it, I've been very grateful that he hasn't been 50 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: sick in a while. And I don't believe in the jinks, 51 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,519 Speaker 1: but he's been almost two and a half months that 52 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: any sort of surgery whatsoever, which is which is a 53 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 1: record for that dog, because he's had seven surgeries at 54 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: this point. All right, Anyway, that's why I was. That 55 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: was on my mind when I walked in. I know 56 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: now I'm wondering if I should start waking my dog up. Listen, 57 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: he could be having the greatest dream ever. He could 58 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: be running through a field with a bunch of lady bulldogs. 59 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: Why would you want to interrupt that? Right, I don't 60 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: feel like that's what it is. Though. I've never heard 61 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 1: about tipping the kitchen. Me neither, But my brother in 62 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: law does this all the time, and I thought, why 63 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: have I never heard of this or thought of it, 64 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: because you know, it is a way of being considerate 65 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: of the entire staff at a restaurant. But what he'll 66 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: do is he'll leave a tip for his server and 67 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: then like add extra and then he just tells the server, hey, 68 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: this is yours, and if you could tip the rest 69 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: out to the kitchen, I'd appreciate that. And the server 70 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: is he said, nine times out of ten, they'd get 71 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: it right away and they're like, awesome, kitchen's gonna love it. 72 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 1: Never heard of it and it worked in a restaurant 73 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: as a server for a long time. Nobody ever tipped 74 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: a kitchen when I was working at the restaurant, and 75 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: I've never tipped a kitchen because I didn't know that 76 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: was a thing me neither of it. Now I'm going 77 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: to be aware of that. And then so we started 78 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: talking about it. The reason why it came up is 79 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: I think my brother in law was just going to 80 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: order one drink, but we had already paid the full bill, 81 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: and then my other brother in law was like, hey, 82 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: why don't you just go ahead and add a big 83 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: tip on top of that. One drink and give it 84 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: to the kitchen. And that's how the conversation started. So 85 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: you could even do it that way if you want 86 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: to separate it from the servers tip. Would you tip 87 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: to kitchen lunchbox? No, well, I like, listen if they're gonna. 88 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: I can't tip everybody in the restaurant. I don't tip 89 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: the hostess, I don't tip the I mean, listen, guys, 90 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: there is one person I'm tipping, the waiter. If he 91 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: wants to give some of his money to the kitchen 92 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 1: staff or making him look good by getting me food, 93 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 1: that's fine. But I don't have time and I don't 94 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: have the financials to be tipping everybody in the restaurant. Sorry, guys, 95 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: I appreciate you working in the kitchen and cooking me food, 96 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: but I ain't tipping you. That's a good point. I 97 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: don't think that this is for everybody. But my brother 98 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 1: in law is in a place where he's like, I 99 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 1: can do this, and and I just so I do it. 100 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: But I don't think it has to be for everybody. Well, 101 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,239 Speaker 1: in all my days of waiting tables, nobody ever tipped 102 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: kitchen never, I know, I never all my days of 103 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: me and hostess for six weeks. Well, but we would have. 104 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: But the thing is, we would always pay out the 105 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: bus boys, you know, from our tips, like we were 106 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 1: expected to pay included like your tip. It just depends 107 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: on where you went. Because with us, you know, we 108 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: would at the end of the night, we would collect, 109 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: we'd have all our tips, and then we would give 110 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 1: a percentage to the bus boys and girls, the bussers 111 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: because they made our job easier. So yeah, we was 112 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 1: never a thing to tip the bussers. Also, if I'm 113 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 1: Amy's waiting on Amy's table and her brother in law says, 114 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: here tip the kitchen, Yeah, buddy, got you, no problem, 115 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: I'll do that. Yeah my back pocket. No, that's yeah, 116 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 1: interesting though, I wonder if that's it. Where does he live? 117 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: Let's date. He lives in Houston. So is he a 118 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: ball a bigger city? He's pretty. Yeah, he's worked as 119 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,559 Speaker 1: about off, but he's very success. He's older. Yeah, oh 120 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: he's a lot older. I can't understand ballers doing that. Yeah, 121 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 1: it saysn't a show off. No, he wasn't showing off. 122 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 1: I would do that to show off, okay, would be 123 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: like and it's for the kitchen. Yeah, No, he's not 124 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,239 Speaker 1: like that at all. He just, I think appreciate tries 125 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: to appreciate all the work of all the people, and 126 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: you know so how hard it is, especially right now, 127 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: so he's tipping the kitchens. Did you ever get tipped 128 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: as a hostess for six weeks? That's what I recall. 129 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: Sometimes I would seat people in the wrong area. But 130 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 1: here's the thing about being a hostess is you know 131 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: you have your map of the restaurant. You have a 132 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:18,039 Speaker 1: two different sections at each server, you should divide up 133 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 1: the people that come in, so you don't want to 134 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: double seat anybody because that would be as you as 135 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 1: a waiter, that's add stress. Right. So, but sometimes because 136 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 1: I feel really bad if I would be taking people 137 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: to section twenty five A to their table and then 138 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: the people all of a sudden we're like, oh, we 139 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: really don't want to sit there, I didn't have the 140 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: heart to be like, oh, let me go back to 141 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: the map and try to figure this out. I'd just 142 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 1: be like, well, which table do you want? And then 143 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: I let them pick, and then I would end up 144 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 1: screwing over servers. And but I just had a hard 145 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: time telling people, oh what to do. That was easily 146 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: fixable though. Wow, well, because I mean the people would 147 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: all the time. They would go, hey, wen want to 148 00:06:57,960 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 1: sit there? CODs any wa winks it up here? And 149 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: the answer is yes. The answer should always you know, 150 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 1: the customers always right. But the servers did not like 151 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: me sometimes right. I got yelled at a lot in 152 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: my six weeks. You weren't there there. You must have 153 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: been a very good you. Guys. Hit us with your questions, 154 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: hit us with your comments. You can email us the 155 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: email addresses mailbag at Bobby Bones dot com. Let's open 156 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: it up Bobbies Mailbag. Hey guys, this is Mark. I'm 157 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:28,559 Speaker 1: emailing you this morning to get your opinion on something. 158 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: So last night I was in Costco and I saw 159 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: a wallet and the parking lot. It was right by 160 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: my car and I was like, huh. It had all 161 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: this guy's stuff in a cash cards, no phone number. 162 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: So I did some research, found the guy on Facebook 163 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: and contacted him. He actually posted on Facebook I lost 164 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: my wallet today, I'm freaking out. He was so grateful. 165 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: I met up with him at the back of the 166 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: Costco game was wallet. He thanked me from a distance 167 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: and that was it. Now my girlfriend thought for sure 168 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: he would offer me some cash, but he didn't. You know, 169 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: I thought he would too. Was that wrong? I mean, 170 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: was he obligated to offer me a reward? Or am 171 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: I being a little greedy? Sign mark? Well, you can 172 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: relate to that. Yeah, oh yeah, this happened to me 173 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: and different. First of all, he doesn't know you anything, right, right, 174 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: and you didn't do it to get anything. Honestly, in 175 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: your heart, you thought I'm gonna get this guy his 176 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: and I would think you thought that because if it 177 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: happened to you, you don't want someone to do that 178 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: to you as well. I don't think his first instanct. 179 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: If that was your first instant, you're probably taken some cash, right. 180 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: And maybe people that are wondering if they're wrong for 181 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: feeling like they should have gotten some sort of a reward, 182 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: maybe because they're the type of people that would give 183 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: a reward nice. Here's what I'm gonna say on the 184 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: front side of this, You're not You shouldn't expect a reward. 185 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 1: You shouldn't expect something back for doing something nice. Right. 186 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,599 Speaker 1: It's kenny, you know. Maybe you could have given you 187 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: a few bucks, but that's up to him. Maybe he 188 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: didn't have it to give. Maybe that cash was for 189 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: something specific and that's all the cash that he had. 190 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. You're not wrong to feel a certain way. 191 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: I feel like you're never wrong to feel. You're only 192 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:02,559 Speaker 1: wrong to act sometimes if that action is bad, you're 193 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: not wrong to feel that way. But you didn't if 194 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: he didn't want to give you one, You're cool like 195 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: you didn't. Don't go in voice him or anything. So 196 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 1: I'll leave it there. Do you feel the same way, Yeah, 197 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 1: you're not. Nobody's obligated to pay you back for you 198 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: doing the right thing. You did the right thing, like, 199 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 1: just know that in your heart. Lunchbox. Oh, you should 200 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: have probably taken a twenty out of the wall at 201 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: least before you give it to him. That way, when 202 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: they say, oh you know, no, I'm not gonna give 203 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: you a reward, you already know I already got my reward. 204 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: Don't worry about it. So you would say even take 205 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: it and then demand you him not give you a reward. Yeah, 206 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh no, don't worry about it, dude, you 207 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 1: don't need to give me a reward. I'm cool, like 208 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: I just did another goodness of my heart. You shouldn't 209 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 1: expect a reward. It's okay if he disappointed you didn't 210 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: get one, but it's a single person if it were 211 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: an entity like mine. When the bank said, hey, come 212 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 1: back for your reward. The quick version of this story 213 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 1: was I was in an atm I saw a bunch 214 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: of money blow out of it. I want to pick 215 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: it all up. I took it into the bank, hundreds 216 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: and hundreds of dollars. I said, here you go. You 217 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: may need this. They said, wow, guy, you're a hero. 218 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 1: Come back Monday, we have a reward for you. That 219 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: was on a Friday. So I spent all night Friday night, 220 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 1: all day Saturday, all day Sunday just thinking of what 221 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 1: that reward was going to be. This is a bank, 222 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 1: a multimillion dollar institution. What trump are they going to 223 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: send me on? What car were they gonna buy me. 224 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: I arrived to get my reward. Chess poked out only 225 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: because they told me. I didn't expect the reward. Ever, 226 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 1: I didn't do it for the reward, but they told 227 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: me come get your reward. On Monday. Walked into this 228 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: financial institution, hair slicked back, my collar popped, and they said, 229 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:34,559 Speaker 1: here's a hat for the bank and a teen percent 230 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 1: coupon to the fish restaurant, not even a free meal. 231 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 1: And I wouldn't have cared ex that. They built it 232 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: up and it was one of those hats. It doesn't matter. 233 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have expected the reward and I didn't, except 234 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: they told me I was going to get one. But 235 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 1: you do the right thing and you know that in 236 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 1: your heart. It's fine. I'm done now, and I'm irritated 237 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: again at the bank. Morgan the email address mail bag 238 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: at Bobby Bones dot com. That was bobbies mail bag. 239 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: It's time for the good news. So there's this guy. 240 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: He's driving along in his SUV and then he rams 241 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: into the back of a bus because he had a 242 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 1: seizure while he was driving. He passed out at the 243 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: steering wheel with his foot on the accelerator. You can 244 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: hear in the audio the car still revving up against 245 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: the bus. Then he just stopped that cut let's stops. 246 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:32,439 Speaker 1: He's having a seizure right now, Yeah, because he put 247 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 1: and he passed out. So then some bystanders were able 248 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: to break the window and get inside to help rescue him. Luckily, 249 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: nobody was hurt. He only suffered minor injuries, but pretty crazy, 250 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 1: and then awesome of people to step in and get 251 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: him out of there so it would stop doing that. 252 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: And everybody's okay, yea, everybody's doing everybody's okay, wow, except 253 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: for I mean, now now he's gonna I don't think 254 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,559 Speaker 1: after you, like, if you have seizures, then you can't 255 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 1: drive for like a really long time. Yeah, but at 256 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: least now he knows that he may have seizure and 257 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: he can step away from the wheel. Good thing for 258 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: those uh good Samaritans. Yeah, as they say, all right, 259 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: that's what it's all about. That was tell me something good. Say. 260 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 1: This story comes to us from Pennsylvania. Two people broke 261 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 1: into a house. They thought that people were out of town. Oh, 262 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 1: people are inside. What are we gonna do? Girls like, 263 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: I'll tie them up with my brawl. So she tied 264 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: them up with their brawl. They got away. Only problem 265 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: if she had her name on her tag of the brawl. 266 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: That's funny. I'm munch boxed at your bonehead story of 267 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 1: the day. A lot of you guys are asking questions 268 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,320 Speaker 1: from the text line. I have a screen that sees 269 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: all the texts. Morgan number two has a screen, the 270 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,679 Speaker 1: same screen that SE's all the same text, and so 271 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 1: she notes a lot of these and let's let's answer 272 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: some of them. Here we go. Question number one, why 273 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: did Amy adopt through Haiti in America? Ooh, a question 274 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: that we hit about once every six months. Yeah, he 275 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: has two kids about two years ago. They came to 276 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: America after about a five year old process of getting 277 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: them from Haiti. Amy. Okay, so we were adopting domestically. 278 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 1: We were unable to get pregnant. We didn't want to 279 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 1: pursue IVF for any other fertility treatments. We did a 280 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: little bit, we'll work with that, but then decided adoption 281 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: was probably what we should do. We were adopting a 282 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: newborn domestic baby, and that ironically was taking forever. And 283 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: in that time frame, I went to Haiti to work, 284 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 1: like on a mission trip to work at this orphanage, 285 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 1: and I saw a need there for older kids, older 286 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: as any bitty that's like two and a half three 287 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: years old and up. Like all the babies were spoken 288 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: for or matched. But I felt like, oh my gosh, 289 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: like what is going to happen to these kids if 290 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: some of them age out and they grow up and 291 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: they don't have a family and I went home my 292 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: husband I talked about it and we were like, are 293 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 1: we could this? Could we be someone that takes in 294 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 1: an older kid from an orphanage? And we both decided 295 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: that yeah, we felt like we could do that. So 296 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 1: we decided to give it a try. And we're still 297 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: figuring it out and it took years and years and years. Yeah, 298 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: Amy would just go, I gotta go to Haiti, so 299 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: she would go, and I would. I went about four 300 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: or five times a year for five years, and so, yeah, 301 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 1: it was. It was. It was one of those things 302 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 1: I think it's put on your heart, you just know. 303 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: And then we put our domestic adoption on hold and 304 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 1: pursued that, and that's what that's what we went after 305 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: because for us, I think, honestly, you either it's not 306 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 1: it's not for everybody, and sometimes I don't even know 307 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: that it's for us, but I think you kind of 308 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: have to feel it in your heart if that's what 309 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 1: you should do, And that's we listened to. Our The 310 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 1: answer is quick answer is they were doing a mission 311 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: trip in Haiti. We're moved. I saw a need that 312 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: I didn't really without going there, I didn't know that 313 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 1: was a need. I didn't know. Some kids actually, like 314 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: my daughter was, you know, six, by the time she 315 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: came here, she was ten. Some of those kids then 316 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 1: they're twelve and they're thirteen, and then people are like, oh, 317 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: you know, everybody wants a baby or a young one 318 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 1: and they can be you know, and it I couldn't. 319 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: I just couldn't imagine them growing up in turning eighteen 320 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 1: and then just being in the streets it, which is 321 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: what happens to some people. Morgan number two. Next question, 322 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: how is it determined who talks on the show? Well, 323 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: I think it all goes to Amy and I first, 324 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: so we talk about it, and then mostly it's who 325 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: has an opinion about something? Who who? What would you say? 326 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 1: I don't know that there's a real method to our madness. 327 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: It just starts with Amy and I and kind of 328 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: seeps out sometimes if it's like Morgan number two s like, 329 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: if it's a young female thing, oh, I'll go Hey, 330 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 1: it's Morgan number two thing, I'll go over to her. 331 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: If it's a real dad thing, I'll go to Eddie. 332 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: Eddie's got four kids. If it's about casinos and gambling 333 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: or lottery tickets, you know, We kind of all have 334 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: our specialty as well. I'll go to lunchbox, so if 335 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 1: it's about movies, we'll go to mind. Everybody kind of 336 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 1: has their there's area of expertise, so I think that's 337 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: how Also people will say, hey, I have an idea 338 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: for a segment, and if they have the idea for 339 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: a segment and it gets used, they get on the 340 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: air for that too. I think that's probably how it 341 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: goes for the most part. I think you'd like to 342 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: add I know that sounds about right. Mostly I just 343 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: go to Amy and go, what do you think? Some 344 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 1: sounds like I've no idea? All right? What else? All right? 345 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: Last one? What is Bobby's thoughts on the evolution of 346 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 1: country music or as people know it, pop country music. 347 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: My thoughts on the evolution of country music interest that 348 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: this has never not been a discussion, meaning for the 349 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: history of country music, it has always been a discussion 350 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: of the same country music. It's never not been a discussion. 351 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 1: We're not in this new area of well, country just 352 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: sucks now. People have always said that about in the 353 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: art by the way period, where there are eras and themes, 354 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: every art is considered garbage by somebody who's in a 355 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: different area. It's funny to watch hip hop go through 356 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: this same thing because we're handling that country music. You 357 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 1: have guys, well, that's not country. When anyone says that's 358 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: not country, I laugh at that because okay, you're you 359 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: are the ex part of all art. To me, what 360 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:17,679 Speaker 1: country music is is wonderful, authentic storytelling in music. That's 361 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: what it means to me. Now it may mean to 362 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 1: you a ban Joe. Now, you're not wrong, but I'm 363 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: not wrong either. Within art, there is no right or wrong, 364 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 1: and that's the beauty of it, and people that consume 365 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 1: it are dictating where it goes. So when Garth was 366 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 1: blowing up, people were like, that's not country music. They 367 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: said the same thing to Garth. They said the same 368 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: thing to Johnny Cash. All of this is happening right now, 369 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 1: has always happened, and when it stops happening, that's when 370 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: it dies. Whenever people stop getting mad about where country 371 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:54,400 Speaker 1: music is going, that's when it dies. You never want 372 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 1: to stop having this conversation because when everyone's happy and satisfied, 373 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 1: that means it's just in a place and it's not moving. 374 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:03,919 Speaker 1: Sometimes it moves in directions. It has to correct itself. 375 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: Sometimes it goes in wonderful places to you, but not 376 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 1: to me. So as soon as people stop going well sucks, 377 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,479 Speaker 1: it's gonna die. You want it to always be like that. 378 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 1: You want people always challenging art because otherwise, without art 379 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: being challenge art stagnates and just dies, dissipates. And it 380 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,439 Speaker 1: is so when people get into those fights, I'm like, 381 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 1: that's where it should be. People should be having these fights. 382 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: That's what's amazing about it. Any art, it country music 383 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: is we're in that. So it's a big deal to us. 384 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: And I know that's a weird way to think about it, 385 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 1: but it's jazz music is a good example. It never evolves. 386 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 1: So now it's like that's dead. Who listens to that? 387 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: That's a great example. And I don't listen to jazz, 388 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 1: you know, in the thirties and the forties, Yeah gone. 389 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: So they And for all of you out there, when 390 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: you hear a song that's our country music, you're not right. 391 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: You're also not wrong because to you that's not country music. 392 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 1: And art is where we hold it in what it 393 00:18:58,440 --> 00:18:59,919 Speaker 1: means to us in that spot. We all have our 394 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 1: walls for the art that we like and how we 395 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: feel about it, and if it doesn't fit within your walls, 396 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: it's okay for it not to be that to you. 397 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 1: And if it doesn't fit in enough people's walls, then 398 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: it people dictate where it goes by spending money on it. Um. 399 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 1: So my real country music would mean you make country 400 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,439 Speaker 1: with a rubber band and a stick in the literal country. 401 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,879 Speaker 1: Oh and then with a bottle like a Andy Griffith. 402 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 1: You know that would mean. But that's that's not what 403 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 1: it means to most people. Three chords and the Truth, 404 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: Oh goode Wamy came to me. I was like, what 405 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 1: is it Bobby talking about? So that's why I would 406 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: say it should be something to be addressed all the time, 407 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: because as soon as it's not, it's dead. When it's 408 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 1: not a topic and people worried and bouncing it back 409 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 1: and forth, it just dies. So I love that it's 410 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 1: a conversation. How you feel about that answer, I feel 411 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 1: like it's a good answer. But I mean, yes, keep 412 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 1: the conversation going, keep the challenges there, especially for artists 413 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 1: to like, you know, test their creativity, push their boundaries, 414 00:19:56,960 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 1: see where they can go. And that's awesome, But don't 415 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: be annoying about it. Yeah. Yeah, there are people that 416 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 1: are very annoying about it. It's they're the hardest too, Like, 417 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: there's not a country where I do is country. It's 418 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: like an egg. You know, you're right, you're also wrong 419 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: because somebody else it can be country. Right, So it's 420 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 1: like a fine line I'm with you on yeah wow. 421 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: Keeping the actually yeah, keeping the conversation and challenging it 422 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 1: keeps it going and evolves it and makes it better 423 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: to some, worse to some, but it keeps it going. 424 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: But this is why I am the absolute best person 425 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,399 Speaker 1: for this job, because I have such respect for the 426 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: history of country music, right, love it. Consider myself I'm 427 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:39,199 Speaker 1: not Marty Stewart, but an elementary scholar of the history 428 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 1: of country music. I also love the new side of 429 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: it and the places it goes and the messages because 430 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: it's all about the message to me. So listen, when 431 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,640 Speaker 1: they brought in a steel guitar to country music, people 432 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: were like, this is not country music. What are you 433 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 1: talking about that? When they put an amp with the 434 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 1: steel guitar, they were like, this is not This is 435 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: against But at the time that was crazy. It's what 436 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 1: a snaptrack is now on some of these songs, and 437 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: someday we're gonna be like people didn't think snaptracks one 438 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 1: country anyway, Morgan number two, why do you ask me 439 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 1: that question? Now? He's mad? Okay, is that it? Yeah? Okay, 440 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:17,919 Speaker 1: that's it for today. Terry in Baltimore. You're on the 441 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 1: Bobby Bone Show. Terry, what's happening with you? Good morning Bobby, 442 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: Good morning morn studio. Hey Bobby, I read in your 443 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 1: book that you worked with like a speech therapist to 444 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 1: get rid of your accent. Yeah. Do you ever find 445 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,359 Speaker 1: yourself lapsing into it when you're talking through some country 446 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:36,679 Speaker 1: stars with sick accents? Yeah? I mean I think I 447 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 1: haven't gotten rid of my accent totally. But what happened 448 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 1: when I was in college. I thought, Man, if I'm 449 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 1: going to be on the radio and I'm going to 450 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 1: be wherever this weird job sends me, I need to 451 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 1: lose some of my accent. And so I went and 452 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 1: I went for free because they were teaching speech pathology, 453 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: so you could work with some of the college kids 454 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: that were learning how to teach people later in their career. 455 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 1: And I worked on my my eyes because in Arkansas, 456 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: or your eyes aren't their eyes, and so it'd be like, 457 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: I'm feeling feeling fine, that's normal. You're your eyes then 458 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: turn to eyes. Another one you do is fishing, is 459 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: fishing your I n g's because growing up, it's really 460 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 1: small things that you work on that you try to 461 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 1: eliminate anyone knowing where you're from. I still have a 462 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 1: bit of a Southern accent, no doubt about it, because 463 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: a lot of my friends that live in New York 464 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 1: or that live in mostly the Eastern side of America 465 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:35,719 Speaker 1: give me a hard time about it still because I'll 466 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 1: be on American Idol, which is a national show, and 467 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: they'll be like, the Hillbill is on American Idol, And 468 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: that's fine. But when I get tired, you start to 469 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: fall back and you get lazy. When I'm tired, I'm 470 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 1: just time tired, tim tired. So yeah, my accent does 471 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 1: come out either when I'm tired or when I go 472 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 1: back home to Arkansas and I'm there around some of 473 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: my friends for a long period of time, you kind 474 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: of just go back into it. Terry, you're in Baltimore, 475 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:02,679 Speaker 1: do you hear it often? Like? Do you hear it 476 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:06,399 Speaker 1: in me? When I talk rarely, and I've got family 477 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 1: and friends all over the South, but I do know 478 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: when I mean. And I grew up on the East Coast, 479 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 1: but when I visit South, I start thinking an accent. 480 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 1: Nice I am, yeah, when I'm tired, when I'm talking 481 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 1: to folks, and some words I use are very Southern 482 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,640 Speaker 1: words that were just in my vernacular that I don't 483 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: think about. Like and I didn't know that washing detergent 484 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: was called that regularly until you guys started making fun 485 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:33,959 Speaker 1: of me on the show because I would say, hey, 486 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:35,640 Speaker 1: we got it. I was going to get some washing 487 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 1: powders and you guys like, look at that. Look at 488 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,400 Speaker 1: the hill, Millie. It's detergent, yeah, but washing powder. Yeah. 489 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: So there are certain things that I say too that 490 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 1: words that I've also tried to eliminate. But I don't 491 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 1: mind being regional at this point, Like I think it 492 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 1: definitely's who I'm from. I'm really worried about that in 493 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,880 Speaker 1: my the first part of my career because I didn't 494 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:56,439 Speaker 1: want to be attached anywhere, and now I'm happy to 495 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: be attached to where I'm from. So, um, that's an 496 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:00,919 Speaker 1: interesting question. I thought about that in a while char 497 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Okay, enjoy the show. You'll have a 498 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: good day. Yeah, you have a good day too. Now 499 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 1: you don't drink because you've never had anything to drink. 500 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 1: But if you were to ever start drinking, I could 501 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 1: see your accent coming out. Then that's when you hear 502 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: some people too, like if they have a couple of drinks, 503 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,200 Speaker 1: then their accent starts to slip back in because I 504 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 1: guess they just get more relaxed, because you really have 505 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 1: to How many grapefruit in club sodas do I need 506 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 1: before I start falling back into that? I don't know, 507 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: do you Samy's Pile of Stories? So do you like 508 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,640 Speaker 1: sad movies? I know you like sad music, but sad 509 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 1: movies that's tough. It's tough. I like movies about dogs, 510 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: but the bad thing is most dog movies in sad 511 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: true like, oh man, what was that one? So I 512 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: don't know that I love sad movies, but I like 513 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 1: movies and the things that I like movies to be 514 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 1: about often in sad. What's your favorite movie? My dog 515 00:24:55,320 --> 00:25:00,199 Speaker 1: Skip is the best dog movie possibly ever. Oh I mean, 516 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,879 Speaker 1: I can cry just thinking about that movie. Favorite movie 517 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 1: ever is Man on the Moon Jim Carrey kind of sad, 518 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 1: a little dark, because I don't know about dark. It's 519 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 1: it's a biography, you know, but I thought I've only 520 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,480 Speaker 1: seen bits and pieces of it, and I know I 521 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 1: was kind of sad. It is kind of set overall. 522 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 1: He gets sick. Yeah, Um, I don't. I'm gonna say, 523 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 1: I don't know that it's sad, but I like real stuff, 524 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,239 Speaker 1: and you know what reality said a lot of times. Well, 525 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: I think this could apply to music too, because music 526 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 1: with you, even though it's sad, it's releasing some sort 527 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: of music. Oh and like cookie Monster, but with sad songs. Well, 528 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 1: I bring all this up because the psychologists explained why 529 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 1: we like sad movies, or even if you don't, why 530 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 1: watching a sad movie is good for you. And there's 531 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 1: four reasons why. Sad movies let people experience emotions, They 532 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: create a sense of empathy and bonding with the characters. 533 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: The story often results in people feeling better about their 534 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 1: own lives. And then crying can release oxycotton or oxycot what, 535 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:07,360 Speaker 1: oxytocin and other endorphins. So so basically we just want 536 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 1: to feel, yeah, and sad movies allow you to do do that. 537 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 1: So sometimes maybe you just need to you hear like 538 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,879 Speaker 1: people are like I just need to put on a 539 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 1: good sad movie. You get a cry in and like 540 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 1: feel better. What's the most sad movie? And then when 541 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 1: I say what's your favorite sad movie? I go around 542 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 1: the room. Here favorite sad movie? Amy Steel, Magnolia's my 543 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 1: cry every time. What do you think my favorite sad 544 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,879 Speaker 1: movie is? Because my dog Skip comes to his favorite 545 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 1: dog movie. That's a tough one. It's very sad, but 546 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,679 Speaker 1: one of my favorite Oh, I'm gonna tell you what 547 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 1: got me was And I don't know if it's sad 548 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 1: and I but Coco Coco, Yeah, Holy Moley, Oh my goodness. 549 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 1: Up is a sad movie. And those are cartoons? What's 550 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 1: wrong with Me? Like, I go to lights to two cartoons. 551 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: It's a most sad movie, Lunchbox. The saddest movie is 552 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,200 Speaker 1: The War with Kevin Costner and Elijah Wood Eddie, Oh, 553 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: do you ever see big Fish? Big Fish is about 554 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 1: this guy that is just not really close to his 555 00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: dad and then he gets to know his dad and 556 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 1: then right when that happens, he dies. Pretty sad. How 557 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: about the pursuit of happiness? With Will Smith. Oh my gosh, 558 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 1: so sad and it ends up you know not, but 559 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: there are parts of that the bathroom seeing where he 560 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: locks himself in the bathroom. But oh what he has 561 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: to go through. But you're right it it's like a 562 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 1: cutting feeling, like I for sure feel right now what 563 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 1: I felt then whenever I was watching that movie. All right, 564 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,159 Speaker 1: what else you get? Okay? Well, the next thing is 565 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,880 Speaker 1: about if you're feeling pain or sadness, the best thing 566 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 1: you can do is have a pet, a dog or 567 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: a cat. Yes, having one literally can ease the pain 568 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 1: when you're going through a difficult situation. Investigators looked at 569 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: adults who had lost someone who is very close to them, 570 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,919 Speaker 1: you know, a parent, is sibling, a significant other, and 571 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 1: they evaluated how they handled it whether or not they 572 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 1: had a dog or a cat. And the people with 573 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,400 Speaker 1: pets got through it a lot. I'd like to make 574 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: a I'd like to give a theory, yes, as to 575 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 1: why I think that is. I think that we have 576 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: to become more selfless when we have to take care 577 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,119 Speaker 1: of something, so we don't have as much time for 578 00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 1: our own sadness. If we've got to take care of 579 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 1: some thing, that's not so much thinking about yourself. That's 580 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,159 Speaker 1: what I would say. I think kids are probably a 581 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: big factor. And I don't have kids. Have a dog 582 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 1: that doesn't mind. That's all I have right now. Um, 583 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,640 Speaker 1: but I would think that's a big reason why. Yeah, 584 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 1: but if your dog was more it was minding and 585 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 1: being more like because gets sat on my dog minding, 586 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: calm and cuddly and stuff like it just can be 587 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 1: of comfort. Still cuddly. My dog is amazing at two times, 588 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 1: when he's going to sleep at night and when he 589 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:26,639 Speaker 1: is still sleepy when he wakes up in the morning. 590 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 1: Same with my kids. We have our best moments then 591 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,399 Speaker 1: the rest. It's kind of like a wild card. I 592 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 1: don't know what's going to happen. Kids are great. Exam Okay, 593 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: so Eddie got me this like rubber straw thing like 594 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 1: with a case because I wouldn't stop using plastic straws 595 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 1: and we're all being more aware and conscious of that. Well, 596 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about this new pinestraw because I 597 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: know the big thing with like these reusable straws is 598 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: like how do you clean them? And you carry them 599 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: around and uh, well, this is a straw that comes 600 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 1: with a little case. It looks like air podcase, which 601 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: is kind of what Eddie gave me. But this case 602 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 1: can actually be filled with water and has little brushes 603 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 1: on the inside and you can shake it up and 604 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 1: it actually cleans the straw and then you dump out 605 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:12,720 Speaker 1: the water. Let me say you can take it off. 606 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 1: I'm all for the environment. I love the environment. Right, great, 607 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go through all this for a straw. 608 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,719 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna drink with my mouth hole, Like this 609 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,239 Speaker 1: is just a lot of work to not use your 610 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 1: mouth hole. You're not gonna shake it up and wash, 611 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: You're I just not gonna carry this around with me 612 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 1: when I can. I already have a mouth hole, Like, well, 613 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,479 Speaker 1: what is so? Sometimes straws are just so. I just 614 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 1: like venient, But is it worth that convenience to have 615 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 1: an inconvenient straw cleaner? You got a freaking car wash 616 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,239 Speaker 1: in your pocket. You gotta put a quarter in it. 617 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 1: You gotta well in case people are curious, it's a 618 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,160 Speaker 1: pin of straw PNNA and I get it as I 619 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 1: get it, Yeah straw, Yeah, there you go. Straw struggle 620 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:54,480 Speaker 1: is real. I'm Amy. That's my pile, right, that was 621 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 1: Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the good news lunchbox. 622 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:06,959 Speaker 1: Good airport staff at Cincinnati's airport found a stuffed dalmatian 623 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 1: sitting in the chair and they're like, man, I wonder 624 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 1: where this belongs. And they put a call out on 625 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,360 Speaker 1: social media, did someone lose their stuffed Dalmatian? And it 626 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 1: turns out this six year old Jaden, who had been adopted, 627 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: that's the stuffed animally got from the court when he 628 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 1: was adopted, and he had left it in the baggage area. 629 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: And so they found him and reunited with a puppy 630 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 1: all the way down in Florida. That's awesome. Probably meant 631 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: a lot to him too, man, That's what it's all about. 632 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 1: That was tell me something good. Over to Amy with 633 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 1: the Morning Corny. The Morning Corny. What's wrong with a 634 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 1: blunt pencil? What's wrong with a blunt pencil? They're just 635 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 1: really pointless? Nice? That was the Morning Corny. Do you 636 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 1: ever eat pho? So that's what I call it? Oh, 637 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: I guess it's not called that. I guess called fuff. 638 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: Oh I call it foe. Do you read that? Uh No? 639 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 1: But I mean I know I live next to a restaurant. 640 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: They make fun of me because I'm like, hey, what's 641 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 1: the foe And they're like, is that called foe? What's 642 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 1: called fun? Well let's call pho. Okay, yeah yeah, I 643 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 1: just want to know how if you were also lame 644 00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 1: like me and said her wrong, Well I do. I 645 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: never even I didn't want it was until I think 646 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: it's the same place that you go to noodleball. Yeah yeah, yeah. 647 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: Here's a voice mel from Carrie. Hey, Bobby, Hey, studio. 648 00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 1: We are taking my daughter in two weeks to college 649 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: and setting her up in the dorm and everything. She 650 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 1: is going to nursing school at Georgia's Southwestern. And I 651 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: had a question for you. I think a lot of 652 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 1: you guys in the studio have lived in the dorm. 653 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: Is there anything that we should know, Like if you 654 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 1: went back and he said, oh I'm glad I had 655 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 1: this or I wish I had this in the dorm. 656 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: Her name is Sydney. I'm very proud of her. All right, thanks, 657 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, I love the dorm. First of all, 658 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: the best thing you ever day was moving the door 659 00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 1: in my freshman year, made so many friends that I 660 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: still am with today. It wasn't the best like living building. Like, 661 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: physically it wasn't the best situation. We had to share 662 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 1: a bathroom. We had no bathroom in our room. We 663 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 1: had to walk down the hall and there was a 664 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 1: big bathroom that we all were in. So that part 665 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: wasn't the best. But you're just with folks, and it's 666 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 1: a confusing time because you're a freshman. You don't know 667 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: a lot of folks. And when you're forced to be 668 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: with people, you meet them, you learn them quicker. I 669 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 1: love the dorm if you have to share a bathroom, 670 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,520 Speaker 1: but I would recommend is like some kind of shower 671 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 1: shoe or some kind of flip flop that you can 672 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 1: wear all the time. You I never lived in a dorm. 673 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 1: Oh too good to go for school? Oh I wasn't 674 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: in my freshman year. Remember I didn't get into Texas 675 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 1: A and M, so I had to go to the 676 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 1: to blend the junior college and they didn't have dorms. 677 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 1: Saying dorm was awesome. I love the dorm absolutely the 678 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 1: best thing. You'll make your best friends there and just 679 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 1: whatever you do, don't wear your roommates clothes, you know 680 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like that's what make your keep your 681 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,040 Speaker 1: clothes on lockdown because you'll come in sometimes your roommate 682 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 1: be wearing your underwear and not cool. What you wore 683 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:03,240 Speaker 1: your roommates he wore yours? Ah, he wore mine. Well. 684 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 1: One time found a pair of boxers in his dirty 685 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 1: clothes and I was like, okay, so that's I mean, 686 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 1: just gotta burn those. So yeah, just make sure your roommates. No, no, no, no, 687 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 1: no no no. We had a note. We had one room. 688 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 1: There were not split rooms in ours, so it was 689 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 1: just literally one small square room. Yeah that's ours. And 690 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 1: we had two beds near each other, and it was 691 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 1: very packed in. I could see where clothes would get 692 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,600 Speaker 1: mixed up, but I would never I think, I know 693 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: my own underwear. Yeah, yeah, very awkward. Once a guy 694 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: came pete in my recliner. I thought it was a bathroom. 695 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 1: I woke up hearing water on fabric and I was like, 696 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: what the and he was just peeing. He'd had two 697 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 1: months to drink, and I was like, what are you doing? 698 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 1: And he bought me another recliner later, and then I 699 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 1: had that one clean, than I had two recliners. Nice boom. 700 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 1: There you go, Sydney. Congratulations. What can I just say 701 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: to the dad that this is the sweetest call because 702 00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 1: for dad to be so involved in care about his 703 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 1: daughter's well being her door life like that, I think 704 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 1: that's super sweet. I mean, my dad's awesome. But you 705 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 1: would never call anybody to ask for advice on what 706 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 1: would make my life easier. Final advice would be to you, dad, 707 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:13,799 Speaker 1: is that she will figure out what she needs after 708 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 1: she's there for a bit. Yeah, it's a whole new world. 709 00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: And it's again lunchbox, and I had the greatest dorm 710 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 1: experiences in a place that really isn't that enjoyable. But 711 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,920 Speaker 1: it's the people, it's the situation. It's everybody's new to college, 712 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,440 Speaker 1: you learn. So you should be pumped for her, which 713 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: sounds like you already are. And thank you for that 714 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:37,759 Speaker 1: lunchbox you call. I called Subway the restaurant in New York, 715 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 1: and I acted like I was trying to catch a 716 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 1: train and I needed to know what time it was 717 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:45,480 Speaker 1: leaving the subway. So you're actually calling a subway sandwich 718 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 1: shop looking for the actual subway. Yeah, okay, all right, 719 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: here we go. Oh yeah, yeah, mil yo, I'm trying 720 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: to get on that jay tray into the Queens, you know, 721 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, what times the latest Jay train? I 722 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,240 Speaker 1: think they've heard this bit before. Also, what's that accent? 723 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,439 Speaker 1: That's about New York? You know what I mean? What's 724 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:07,400 Speaker 1: what's saying? New York, New York, New York. How are you? 725 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:13,839 Speaker 1: How are you doing? It's all your news? Joey all right, yeah, yeah, 726 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,879 Speaker 1: I mean, uh yeah, you know, I'm trying to get 727 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 1: I'm a work you know, and I'm working late, and 728 00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 1: I'm trying to find out what's the latest one train 729 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 1: to the Bronx. Let's try one more here again. Yeah, 730 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get on that one train to the Bronx. 731 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,800 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying tonight? What times the latest 732 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,760 Speaker 1: train leave? So I decided this is Astronauts n subway. 733 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,440 Speaker 1: Then oh wait wait wait, no, no, no, it's a 734 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,080 Speaker 1: subway that you know what, I'm trying to go to 735 00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 1: the Bronx. Go Yanks. You know what I'm saying. I 736 00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:46,279 Speaker 1: got a business meeting. Yeah, sorry that I don't know 737 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 1: because this subby Astronaut is Saturday. So you you you 738 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 1: don't look up the subway. You don't have the map 739 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 1: right there? You tell me how to get there. I 740 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,800 Speaker 1: don't have that I don't know. Oh man, you know, 741 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 1: like because I'm new here, I'm not you were used 742 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 1: to these subways and I'm just trying to figure out 743 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: my way around. Is the one train a good train? 744 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:06,240 Speaker 1: Is that a good one to take to the Bronx. 745 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,359 Speaker 1: He's like, you're an idiot. I'm kind of like, you're 746 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:18,800 Speaker 1: an idiot. Here's the game. I will give you the actor, 747 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 1: you give me the TV role they're best known for. Okay, 748 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,360 Speaker 1: And these are all people that basically we just know 749 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 1: from having one role. Does that make sense? Like, for example, 750 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 1: how this came up was Elizabeth Berkeley had a birthday 751 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:34,600 Speaker 1: last week from forty eight? Do you know who Elizae Berkeleys? Yes? Um, 752 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 1: say by the Bell Jesse Spano. Mostly people know her 753 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,880 Speaker 1: as Jesse Spano. Yeah. Or that dancer show she did 754 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:49,360 Speaker 1: is a movie? Right? Yeah? What is it called show Girls? 755 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: That was a good one. She also finished sixth on 756 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,959 Speaker 1: Dancing with the Star Season seventeen. I had no idea exactly. Okay, 757 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 1: So I'll give you the actor. See if you can 758 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,400 Speaker 1: give me the TV role they're best known for, Amy Lunchbox, 759 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: Morgan Nuber two. You guys all play okay, all right? 760 00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:11,880 Speaker 1: Write your answer down up first, Jason Alexander. What's the 761 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 1: one role that Jason Alexander had that we know him 762 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,640 Speaker 1: for his head of the roles Morgan, are you in in? 763 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 1: What do you have? I don't have. I don't know 764 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,960 Speaker 1: his character name. I have Seinfeld Seinfeld's right, good, Lunchbox 765 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 1: George Costanza. Okay, Seinfeld, Wait, don't looking for I have 766 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,239 Speaker 1: George Costanza. Mike, what do you want on this dude? 767 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 1: Character name? Morgan? I'm sorry, the judge has ruled Amy 768 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: and Lunchbox one point. It is George Costanza from Seinfeld? 769 00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:41,359 Speaker 1: All right, how about this one Rain Wilson Morgan. That's 770 00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,200 Speaker 1: seventies show. I got nothing? Also not a name person 771 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 1: Lunchbox White shrewt Amy Dwight Truth from the Office Dwhite shrewd. Yeah. 772 00:37:54,880 --> 00:38:06,359 Speaker 1: How about Alfonso Roberto here's an act he Alfonso Ribero Morgan. Well, 773 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 1: you're struggling. Huh, I really? Am is An't? Did I 774 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 1: do that? Guy? Isn't? No? Is not? It's Carlton Banks, Amy, 775 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 1: Carlton Banks from The Fresh Prince. Right, that's it. Now, 776 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 1: this is a story about Jalil White. Jalil White, what 777 00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,239 Speaker 1: character did you play? Mostly just know him from this 778 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: one character Morgan Family Matters. I really don't have characters 779 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:55,399 Speaker 1: Arkle Amy, Arkle Family Matters. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, one 780 00:38:55,440 --> 00:39:07,759 Speaker 1: more Kelsey Grammar, Kelsey Grammar. We're gonna going over five. 781 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm looking at you. O there. You don't 782 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 1: even put your head down to try to think of one. 783 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,280 Speaker 1: This is there's nothing and these are all older shows 784 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 1: for me. Yeah, but they're still on reruns. Yeah. I 785 00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 1: know that. I know the TV shows, but character wise, yeah, 786 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:27,000 Speaker 1: I got nothing. Kelsey Graham, what do you have? Nothing? 787 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 1: Taylor No, on the same time, but not the same 788 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:34,799 Speaker 1: show Lunchbox. He's Frasier Amy. Shoot, I thought the show 789 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,840 Speaker 1: was called Kelsey. Was his name Kelsey Grammar? I just 790 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,799 Speaker 1: said Kelsey Grammar. I know, but I thought I thought 791 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 1: he was played himself. But it was Frasier, wasn't it. 792 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 1: It was Frasier Crane. Yeah, I put Kelsey Grammar. Do 793 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:53,720 Speaker 1: you know how you know? Shows are like that? Sometimes 794 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:59,200 Speaker 1: Lunchbox wins. There you go. Amy sent me a text 795 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 1: and all that said is I love you having a girlfriend. 796 00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:05,160 Speaker 1: Why do you send that text? Oh? I think I 797 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:12,839 Speaker 1: just this feeling different about how you are and how fun. 798 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 1: It is to have her, I guess obviously because I 799 00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:16,840 Speaker 1: like her. I like you having a girlfriend. If I 800 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,840 Speaker 1: didn't like her, then it would be a nightmare. But 801 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,840 Speaker 1: I love her, and then I love how she is 802 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 1: for you and how you are. How am I any different? 803 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:30,480 Speaker 1: Because I feel everything just feels different. It's I can't 804 00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:34,120 Speaker 1: explain it. That's why I'm having trouble finding the words. 805 00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:35,800 Speaker 1: Other than that, I wanted you to know, like, I 806 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 1: really like this relationship a lot. I think she's good 807 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:45,319 Speaker 1: for you. I think she's fun. I think she's You're 808 00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 1: more social, but not in a I mean, we're in 809 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 1: a pandemic. You'll you're not like super social, but you're 810 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,440 Speaker 1: intentional about y'all. Just do things together. Like I can 811 00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,120 Speaker 1: tell it's been good for you. Something about you is 812 00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,279 Speaker 1: just more. I'm gonna tell you what she did to me, 813 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 1: so I'm very much about being on time all the time. 814 00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,359 Speaker 1: She did take it or leave it right same. That's 815 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 1: why I like her. Yeah, Well, we had a meeting 816 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,640 Speaker 1: with a guy and we were meeting at this place, 817 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,880 Speaker 1: and I don't want to get too many details, but 818 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,080 Speaker 1: he was providing a service and we were meeting there 819 00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:22,759 Speaker 1: to see if he had provided sort and he's like 820 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,320 Speaker 1: eight minutes late, and I'm like, I could not believe 821 00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:28,920 Speaker 1: he's eight minutes. Did she tell you the story? No, 822 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,560 Speaker 1: but I mean I've been there with my husband. I said, 823 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:33,759 Speaker 1: if it were me, I will be her fifteen minutes 824 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:37,319 Speaker 1: early because I'm trying to sell my service. And she's like, well, 825 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 1: everybody's not like you. Let's just hear him out and 826 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,399 Speaker 1: if he says something, great, If he doesn't, whatever, don't 827 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,440 Speaker 1: do what you do. What I do is I'm just 828 00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 1: already irritated. I'm irritated. I'm like, I respected you enough 829 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:52,080 Speaker 1: to be here on time. You couldn't respect It's just 830 00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,479 Speaker 1: my normal met I'm always going to be there because 831 00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,560 Speaker 1: I feel so the guy gets there, I'm irritated eight 832 00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 1: minutes late. So we said to Able. We start talking 833 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,040 Speaker 1: about whatever we're talking about, and he's like, hey, I'm 834 00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 1: it's embarrassing to share. He's like, I'm really sorry, I'm late. 835 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 1: Uh my dad's buried over here. I don't get to 836 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,400 Speaker 1: this part of town often. And I stopped off and 837 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:19,319 Speaker 1: I was just like I am yeah, see, and then 838 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,040 Speaker 1: we finished and she just looked at me and she's 839 00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:27,799 Speaker 1: like yeah, and she's good for you. She's a yin 840 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:32,320 Speaker 1: to your yang or whatever that would be the accurate 841 00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,600 Speaker 1: thing to say, like Yindi yang. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 842 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 1: I felt pretty dumb after that, but I still then 843 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,839 Speaker 1: I was like, then this is me being an idiot. 844 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,840 Speaker 1: I was like, but don't really fifteen minutes earlier, but 845 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,000 Speaker 1: maybe it was. I know, you're right, You're right, that's 846 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,000 Speaker 1: all I'm saying. But she is good in that way. 847 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,879 Speaker 1: She does push. Yeah, she doesn't take my crap. Yeah 848 00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,000 Speaker 1: she doesn't, but I think she should take it a 849 00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 1: little more, honestly, Why because I like my crap be 850 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 1: taking a little bit. Yeah. I think she's good for you. 851 00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: I've I just feel something different. I was asking her 852 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,880 Speaker 1: about you the other day because she's you know, she 853 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:06,920 Speaker 1: moved here and it's not been normal socially, so she 854 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 1: hasn't been able to go out and make friends really, 855 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 1: And I was like, who would you like what you 856 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: put on your tier of friends because you know, she 857 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,359 Speaker 1: can't like go out, she can't go to a gym 858 00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,400 Speaker 1: and work out and meet people, but you're up in 859 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 1: her a list. Yeah, she was like, Amy, Obviously, I 860 00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,239 Speaker 1: was worried about that. You always worry about that. Yeah, 861 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:29,800 Speaker 1: I think that it's awesome to see you caring about somebody. 862 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:32,960 Speaker 1: Look at that. Not that you don't care. I mean 863 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 1: you care about people. But in this way, it's just 864 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 1: been good for you. I see a difference. Can't really 865 00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:39,839 Speaker 1: explain it. I just like it and I like her, 866 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:43,680 Speaker 1: So don't mess it up. Excuse me, I was about 867 00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,600 Speaker 1: to go to song. Excuse me, I don't mess it up? 868 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,680 Speaker 1: What do you What do you mean? Don't get scared? 869 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 1: And I'm not going to I know. I'm just or don't. 870 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 1: Don't you mess up and do something? Well? Would I do? 871 00:43:55,760 --> 00:44:02,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, I just don't. Okay, it's time for 872 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 1: the good news. Good An Indiana boy got some help 873 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:13,439 Speaker 1: running his lemonade stand from a surprising person, a local cop. 874 00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,359 Speaker 1: Jalen Wilson was totally surprised when South Bend officer Ron 875 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 1: Glonde showed up and said, Hey, let me help you 876 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,320 Speaker 1: out with this lemonade and this popcorn, and I'll do 877 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,880 Speaker 1: some selling too. And that wasn't enough. The officer pledged 878 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:26,800 Speaker 1: to match one hundred percent of the money that his 879 00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,279 Speaker 1: stand made that day. He was gonna match it, so 880 00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,399 Speaker 1: one He's like, dang, that's really cool. And two he's like, man, 881 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,840 Speaker 1: cops are on here are awesome, and he's like, hey, 882 00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,919 Speaker 1: don't be a friend of police officers. That's what Jalen said. 883 00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 1: So I love that story. I wanted to share it 884 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,400 Speaker 1: with you, guys. That's what it's all about. That was 885 00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:47,520 Speaker 1: tell me something good. When's your son's birthday? August ten? 886 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 1: Next week? Next week? Yeah, Dan, he's gonna be ten. 887 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:55,200 Speaker 1: It's a big one. Yeah, we intend for me was 888 00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,319 Speaker 1: big because you turned double digits. I know, I can't 889 00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,920 Speaker 1: believe it. He thinks he should a phone because he's 890 00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:03,200 Speaker 1: gonna be ten. Are you gonna give him a phone? No? 891 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 1: What do you get a ten year old? I think 892 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 1: like a hoverboard or something, yeah, or something like that, 893 00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,759 Speaker 1: because his sister got one for her birthday and now 894 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,320 Speaker 1: they fight over it and I'm kind of done with that. 895 00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,399 Speaker 1: So they can't tell you about the golden birthday. Yes, 896 00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,760 Speaker 1: you did, because I mentioned to her that he's turning 897 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,919 Speaker 1: ten and his birthday's August tenth, and she immediately said 898 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:31,280 Speaker 1: his golden birthday. I looked at her August tenth. August tenth, 899 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:35,800 Speaker 1: he's turning ten on twenty ten, Yeah, twenty It doesn't 900 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,719 Speaker 1: matter the year. It only matters the day you were born. 901 00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,719 Speaker 1: Oh what stinks? For me? I was two, right, I know, 902 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,960 Speaker 1: I remember my golden birthday right, and I missed mine. 903 00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,800 Speaker 1: I was eighteen because mine's March eighteenth, and so I 904 00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:50,719 Speaker 1: was like, why am I just now learning this? Someone 905 00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:52,800 Speaker 1: was forty years old and she acts like it's a 906 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,680 Speaker 1: really big deal and you celebrate it and make a 907 00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 1: huge deal about it. I'm like, well, thank goodness you 908 00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:58,919 Speaker 1: told me in time. You explained the golden birthday again. 909 00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,840 Speaker 1: It's when you're turning the age of the day that 910 00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,960 Speaker 1: your birthday is on. So you're April second two. We're 911 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 1: sorry about that eighteen for me. My daughter, she'll be 912 00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 1: twenty five for her golden birthday. Lunchbox missed. I think 913 00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:17,520 Speaker 1: we all missed ours because oh, yeah, we're old. There's 914 00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:19,479 Speaker 1: more than no more than thirty, I guess Morgan, Morgan, 915 00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:22,840 Speaker 1: what's your birthday? No, mine's October six? You're six? Did 916 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:24,920 Speaker 1: your parents celebrate it? Don't have you ever heard of 917 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:29,640 Speaker 1: it on birthday? Either? But for some people, yeah, they 918 00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,480 Speaker 1: it's like super special. So I'm gonna we're gonna live 919 00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,399 Speaker 1: it up. It's his golden year. Have you told him 920 00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,160 Speaker 1: it's a golden birthday? Now, I'm a surprising on his 921 00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:40,400 Speaker 1: birthday and then I'll just tell Sophia, don't get jealous. 922 00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 1: At twenty five you'll get something. Wait, what's happened? So 923 00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,799 Speaker 1: you guys doing like I'm I'm assuming you're doing something 924 00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:48,080 Speaker 1: a story your daughter or you did a socially distant movie. Yeah, 925 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,359 Speaker 1: I mean we just had a movie on a big 926 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,080 Speaker 1: screen at the house. I think we're need the same thing, 927 00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 1: but outside. Hers was supposed to be outside, but the 928 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,040 Speaker 1: weather was bad, so we had to do it inside, 929 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,279 Speaker 1: So it'll kind of be the same. Is there anything 930 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 1: I can't get him? No? You want to get him 931 00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,960 Speaker 1: a houd Oh? Get him a Phone's kidding? No, no, no, 932 00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 1: Because when I came and I was like, here's all 933 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,239 Speaker 1: this stuff. I know, what can I not get him? Well? 934 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:19,319 Speaker 1: Would you like me to get him? He has a list? Okay, okay, yeah, 935 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,359 Speaker 1: be easier. Listen. If he's got something out there, I'm 936 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,600 Speaker 1: happy to get it. Is there a registry? Can I 937 00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,320 Speaker 1: clean you? No, there's no registry. I don't want to 938 00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,480 Speaker 1: get ridiculous. But he does have a list, and he 939 00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 1: is really excited about his birthday, So that's cute. I 940 00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,439 Speaker 1: want him to. He just is such a little he's 941 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:40,279 Speaker 1: like ten, but he's just stuff. She is super responsible 942 00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: and knows where all of her stuff is. And then 943 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:45,080 Speaker 1: he just kind of loses things, you know, But that's 944 00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:46,799 Speaker 1: not an age thing. He'll probably do that his whole life, 945 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,600 Speaker 1: like you and me. That's why I can't. We're similar 946 00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:52,319 Speaker 1: in a lot of ways, but also you live your 947 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 1: life wild and free. I live my life regimented down 948 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:57,759 Speaker 1: to the minute second, make sure things are buttoned up. 949 00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:00,360 Speaker 1: That doesn't mean we're any any better or worse each other. 950 00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,040 Speaker 1: He like put stuff in his jacket pocket and then 951 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 1: doesn't zip up the pocket, and then ties the jacket 952 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:07,319 Speaker 1: around his waist and then goes for a bike ride. 953 00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,160 Speaker 1: And he's like, I don't know what happened in my AirPods. 954 00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,280 Speaker 1: I don't know where were they. They're in my pocket? 955 00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,400 Speaker 1: Which pocket, the one dangling down while you have it 956 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:20,200 Speaker 1: tied around your waist. So stuff like that. So that's 957 00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:23,800 Speaker 1: why I'm hesitant sometimes telling me he needs air pods. No, 958 00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 1: but he he got air pods because he earned them. 959 00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,279 Speaker 1: He did a bunch of work and earned him because 960 00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,760 Speaker 1: he really wanted them, but he only lost one AirPod, 961 00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,640 Speaker 1: you know, because well, you know, what I learned is 962 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:39,800 Speaker 1: you can buy single air pods. Inn't that awesome. I 963 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,600 Speaker 1: didn't know that you rematch them, pair them, I guess so. 964 00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 1: I only had just found it online because I was 965 00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,440 Speaker 1: researching him buying. I thought it'd be funny for his 966 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 1: birthday for him to open it up and it'd just 967 00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:52,279 Speaker 1: be one AirPod, you know, and it said you can 968 00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 1: do it, So whatever. Happy Golden Birthday, Happy golden birthday. 969 00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,320 Speaker 1: All right. This is a message that was left for 970 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:03,080 Speaker 1: me from Jackson, who's thirteen years old. More a video. 971 00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,080 Speaker 1: I'm thirteen years old and me and my family have 972 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,160 Speaker 1: been talking about maybe moving, Bobby. I know that you 973 00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:11,640 Speaker 1: said you moved many times in their life. Can you 974 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,080 Speaker 1: help me give you some advice, you know, like going 975 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 1: to a brandish school. You know, new people, don't know nobody. 976 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,920 Speaker 1: I would really appreciate it, man, I tell you, I 977 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 1: went to a bunch of new schools. They walked you 978 00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,560 Speaker 1: in that classroom door and they would say class this 979 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,600 Speaker 1: is Bobby. Have them look at you and care that 980 00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,080 Speaker 1: they have the opposite would try to show you they 981 00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:33,160 Speaker 1: didn't care at all. The best thing about it was, though, 982 00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,920 Speaker 1: is every stop I made I made more and more friends. 983 00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:38,880 Speaker 1: It's always a bit awkward and weird when you have 984 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,080 Speaker 1: to be new people, and not just for thirteen years old, 985 00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 1: when you go to college, when you start a new job. 986 00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:45,440 Speaker 1: This is something that happens to you in your life 987 00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 1: over and over again. The great thing about it is 988 00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,680 Speaker 1: you get to start experiencing it and getting better at 989 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,279 Speaker 1: it younger. For me, it was a valuable tool. Yeah, 990 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 1: stink sometimes, but at some point in your life you're 991 00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,800 Speaker 1: gonna have to do it anyway. So I mean I 992 00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:04,319 Speaker 1: changed schools second grade, fourth grade, sixth grade at least 993 00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 1: four times. And every time they open that door you 994 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:11,959 Speaker 1: walk into a classroom, kid's already sitting in there. Also, listen, 995 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,480 Speaker 1: if you're moving into virtual school time and everything's kind 996 00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,440 Speaker 1: off anyway, maybe it's easier to get back in that way. 997 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, true, because everything's so off anyway. Let's hope 998 00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:21,520 Speaker 1: to God kids get back to school as soon as 999 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,719 Speaker 1: they possibly can when everything is safe. But here's what 1000 00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, Jackson. For me as someone who move 1001 00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:26,839 Speaker 1: around lot, because we would get kicked out of places 1002 00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:28,520 Speaker 1: to kick out the tray of the park evicted. It 1003 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:30,839 Speaker 1: isn't the most pleasurable thing right away, but you make 1004 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,760 Speaker 1: so many more friends, and you're gonna be so ahead 1005 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,879 Speaker 1: of the game for everyone else in life that hasn't 1006 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,440 Speaker 1: had to move around and go through those situations. It's 1007 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,440 Speaker 1: gonna make you so much stronger. Like, if I need to, 1008 00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:41,320 Speaker 1: I can walk in a room right now and just 1009 00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:44,160 Speaker 1: dominate the room. There's just a skill I've had to 1010 00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,960 Speaker 1: pick up. So it's gonna be good for you. Man. 1011 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:49,200 Speaker 1: You're gonna make a lot of friend and it's also listen, Jackson, 1012 00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you. I don't know how the situation 1013 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,600 Speaker 1: is with the girls, but when you're the new guy, 1014 00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:54,919 Speaker 1: all the girls are a little bit curious at first. 1015 00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:57,680 Speaker 1: Oh tell us more. Well, they were only curious for 1016 00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,080 Speaker 1: a minute. They figured me out than they wouldn't. But 1017 00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:01,479 Speaker 1: for Jackson, anything like a real winner there. I like, Yeah, 1018 00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,400 Speaker 1: it's gonna be an overall good experience. Jackson. It'll be 1019 00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,279 Speaker 1: a little rocky for a second, but I think you're 1020 00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: gonna be very happy you move because you're just gonna 1021 00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:09,840 Speaker 1: acquire a whole new skill set. You're gonna make a 1022 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:13,080 Speaker 1: whole new crop of friends, and I'll end on this. 1023 00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,080 Speaker 1: If there was something about you at your last school 1024 00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,399 Speaker 1: you didn't like you, turn it. You know, people had 1025 00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,359 Speaker 1: an idea of you for someone. You can be whoever 1026 00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,120 Speaker 1: you want. It's a new school. It's like when you 1027 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,400 Speaker 1: go to college, you're like you, you don't have me 1028 00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,560 Speaker 1: the same person you're in high school. If you're trying 1029 00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,040 Speaker 1: to like have people know something about you that maybe 1030 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,960 Speaker 1: you didn't do a good enough job at you can 1031 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,720 Speaker 1: do that here. He can be anybody you want. All right, Jackson, 1032 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:37,120 Speaker 1: go get them, dude. All right, check this game out. 1033 00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna play you a cartoon character. It's voiced by 1034 00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:44,080 Speaker 1: a celebrity. Just name the celebrity doing the voice. For example, 1035 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:50,040 Speaker 1: this number one is pretty easy. What do you from 1036 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:52,759 Speaker 1: Toy Story? That's Tom Hanks. That's Tom Hanks. Right, Okay, 1037 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:54,400 Speaker 1: at five of these for you, Let's see how many 1038 00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 1: you get. Here. You go first, one up is Dory 1039 00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:00,640 Speaker 1: from Finding Nemo. I suffered from short term memory laws. No, 1040 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 1: it's true. I forget things almost instantly. It runs in 1041 00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,040 Speaker 1: my family. When life gets you down, you know what 1042 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,040 Speaker 1: you gotta do. Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming, Just 1043 00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:12,200 Speaker 1: keep swimming, swimming. Swimming was my dream job. That's ellen. 1044 00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:16,799 Speaker 1: What is voicing a fish? Oh? A specific fish? Yeah, 1045 00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:20,360 Speaker 1: all right? This is a baby from boss Baby. Fine, 1046 00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,279 Speaker 1: I can talk. Now, Let's see if you can listen. 1047 00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,239 Speaker 1: Give me a double espresso and see if there's some 1048 00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:28,000 Speaker 1: placed around here with decent sushi. I kill for a 1049 00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 1: spicy tune. Roll right about. Now, get yourself a little something. 1050 00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,160 Speaker 1: Who's that celebrity voice? I've seen boss Baby, but I 1051 00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:38,520 Speaker 1: don't know who that is? Should I know? Can I 1052 00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:41,719 Speaker 1: get a hint? New Yorker? I mean you can hear it, 1053 00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:43,920 Speaker 1: buy his accent a little bit, right, we play a 1054 00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,919 Speaker 1: little more of that. Fine, I can talk now. Let's 1055 00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:51,080 Speaker 1: see if you can listen anything. It's Alec Baldwin. Oh okay, yeah, 1056 00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,680 Speaker 1: now I know that here to the game. Fine, I 1057 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,319 Speaker 1: can talk here now, now let's see you totally all right, 1058 00:52:56,320 --> 00:53:00,680 Speaker 1: see if you can name Branch from Trolls, really really great, 1059 00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 1: good job. I could hear you from a mile away, Poppy, 1060 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,439 Speaker 1: if I can hear you, so getting the Burgens. They're 1061 00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:09,520 Speaker 1: not going to find me because I'll be in my 1062 00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:14,360 Speaker 1: highly nice Okay. How about Oscar from shark Tail. So no, 1063 00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:19,040 Speaker 1: and it's just hard, all right, because I'm I'm a 1064 00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:22,840 Speaker 1: little fish in a big pond, a really big pond, 1065 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 1: the ocean. I'm a nobody's that. Well, let's do MAUI 1066 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,680 Speaker 1: from Malana unless you already know the rock? Yeah what 1067 00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:35,319 Speaker 1: I believe you were trying to say? All right, all right, 1068 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,919 Speaker 1: she knows that. How about grew from Despicable Me. Rule 1069 00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:44,359 Speaker 1: number one, you will not touch anything. Okay. Rule number two, 1070 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,600 Speaker 1: you will not bother me while I'm working. Rule number 1071 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:53,320 Speaker 1: three you will not cry or y lap, or giggle 1072 00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:59,720 Speaker 1: or sneeze or barbar fart shoot, um, say Michael Scott, 1073 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:04,040 Speaker 1: Steve Carell, that's who it is. Nice shot, your bonus went. 1074 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,040 Speaker 1: See if you can name Ralph from Wrecket Ralph. My 1075 00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:11,319 Speaker 1: name's Ralph and I'm a bad guy. Uh let's see. 1076 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:14,879 Speaker 1: I'm nine feet tall high, weigh six hundred and forty 1077 00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:17,640 Speaker 1: three pounds, got a little bit of a temper on me. 1078 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:23,040 Speaker 1: I'm a wrecker. I wreck things professionally. I mean, I'm 1079 00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:25,279 Speaker 1: very good at what I do. Probably the best I know. 1080 00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:28,120 Speaker 1: You know that is John c Riley. I don't know 1081 00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:30,120 Speaker 1: do you know who that is? And I said, John, 1082 00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:33,080 Speaker 1: what if you saw a picture? Um? Step brothers, He's 1083 00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,800 Speaker 1: the other step Oh yeah, okay, alright, alright's Will Ferrell 1084 00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,000 Speaker 1: it okay, I give you a B minus. Thank you. 1085 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:41,200 Speaker 1: I'll take it. I was a B student. I hope 1086 00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:43,480 Speaker 1: everybody has a great day. Thanks for hanging out. We 1087 00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,560 Speaker 1: just appreciate that you'll be our friends and hopefully we 1088 00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:48,480 Speaker 1: give me some companionship as you do whatever it is 1089 00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:51,320 Speaker 1: you're doing this morning, or listen on the podcast, whatever 1090 00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:54,759 Speaker 1: you're doing. Just thank you. See tomorrow, by everybody, get 1091 00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:55,800 Speaker 1: your Bobby balls.