Speaker 1: The second dat day. I think there's this big misconception
Speaker 1: that when you meet the one, it's love at first sight,
Speaker 1: Like there's an instant attraction, a sudden, unspeakable connection there,
Speaker 1: money's exchanged and then boom, you're in love. Money you know.
Speaker 1: But sometimes the truth is the best love stories can
Speaker 1: be the opposite, where they start with disappointment at first sight.
Speaker 1: Near they don't make the movies, that's for sure. Does
Speaker 1: think of the notebook. She doesn't like him when they
Speaker 1: first meet. In the fact, I think Ryan Gosling tries
Speaker 1: to hurt himself when they first meet. I don't remember him.
Speaker 1: I was drunk on a plane when I watched it,
Speaker 1: so I can't give you the details. Say love comes
Speaker 1: in all different forms. And that's what happened for one
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Candice, who met the guy she wants
Speaker 1: to call today in an unusual way. Candice, how you doing,
Speaker 1: I'm doing great? Cool. I'm intrigued, Candice. If you say
Speaker 1: that you met him online, though, I'm gonna be upset. No, no, okay,
Speaker 1: before we get into how you met. What's the guy's name?
Speaker 1: His name is Teddy? Okay, all right, So how did
Speaker 1: you and Teddy come to be. I met Teddy in
Speaker 1: a parking garage. That's fear. Actually she was hiding under
Speaker 1: his car. Stories garage, keep going. What happened in this
Speaker 1: parking garage? I was coming off of the elevator and
Speaker 1: that was a guy standing by my car. Look really
Speaker 1: really upset. Oh my god, I mean, how are you feeling?
Speaker 1: I would have been freaking out. I was too, and
Speaker 1: I didn't know if I should turn around little back,
Speaker 1: but I kept on going and he said is this
Speaker 1: your car? And I said yes? So he said, well,
Speaker 1: you see you parked too close to my car. St Okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to excuse me. Okay, he couldn't do
Speaker 1: the passenger side crawl through. So is that when you
Speaker 1: kissed him? Okay? I mean it is a good question,
Speaker 1: like at what point do you find a guy who's
Speaker 1: angry at you and critiquing your attractive I wasn't even
Speaker 1: thinking at the time, So I just pulled out of
Speaker 1: the space where I was parked, and guess what happened?
Speaker 1: What I get his bumper moving on Alexis is like
Speaker 1: those are the times I usually just leave, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: this morning, did you speed off or did you did
Speaker 1: you stick around, I suck around, okay, And he said,
Speaker 1: are you kidding me? And so embarrassing? True? I mean
Speaker 1: this sounds very romantic. But at what point does this
Speaker 1: turn into like a date situation? Or was this it?
Speaker 1: I gave him my business card with some information from
Speaker 1: the insurance company. A good girl, okay, And you know
Speaker 1: we started talking after that on the phone. On the phone,
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so he called you all right. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: we were both kind of bending about how we both
Speaker 1: had bad days that day. That was a bad day
Speaker 1: for me and a bad day for him, as he stated,
Speaker 1: but intentional. Yeah nah, And he's apologizing to me also
Speaker 1: he did for his anger. That's well that's a good
Speaker 1: sign too. So did you ask him out or did
Speaker 1: he ask you out? I asked him out. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: was just like, like, how did you preposition that? I
Speaker 1: just was saying, well, be since we both had bad
Speaker 1: days and I kind of messed up bumping into your car,
Speaker 1: and I just thought it would be nice, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe we can both go out and have dinner. And
Speaker 1: he said that sounds like a good idea. This is
Speaker 1: a nice meal together. I gotta try that the next
Speaker 1: time I get into Okay, so you guys went out
Speaker 1: to dinner. Then how did that go? Yeah, it went
Speaker 1: okay itself. I guess I had one too many margarita
Speaker 1: and I let something out as I was talking about
Speaker 1: how I was at this same restaurant where we were,
Speaker 1: and that I had hooked up with a random guy
Speaker 1: in the club. I mean at the restaurant, like just
Speaker 1: like no, no, no, not like that. Okay, I was
Speaker 1: at the restaurant with my girlfriend and when we left there,
Speaker 1: we went to a club nearby. But the most shocking
Speaker 1: part of the story is the I hooked up at
Speaker 1: the club that wasn't my boyfriend that I hooked up with.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, oh, this this is a cheating story that
Speaker 1: you by choice. I told you I had one too
Speaker 1: many margarite. No, oh yeah, it sounds like you had
Speaker 1: six too many margarite. But so how did you were
Speaker 1: able to recover after admitting this? No, we wrapped up
Speaker 1: the night, okay, gave me a handshake. Oh, I think
Speaker 1: nothing might be better. I mean, are you singles now?
Speaker 1: Before we call this guy? I just want to make
Speaker 1: sure good question. Yeah, all right, And so since the
Speaker 1: end of that night, after the handshake, have you guys
Speaker 1: spoken at all. No, the weird thing. He was supposed
Speaker 1: to be in touch with me, you know, regarding the
Speaker 1: insurance stuff, but he hasn't done nothing. Oh really No,
Speaker 1: And he was a cute guy and we did connect,
Speaker 1: but before I opened my mouth. Yeah, gosh, this is
Speaker 1: gonna be a hard one to come back from, right, No,
Speaker 1: I mean everybody's made mistakes in relationships before that. That
Speaker 1: part's not a metaful, I know. I mean, you may
Speaker 1: need to go and hit his car again. Things up,
Speaker 1: but probably call him. Let's play a song, we'll come back.
Speaker 1: We'll try and get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 1: Hold on Candice. Okay, second, for a second, I thought
Speaker 1: Candice called us for the wrong segment. She really should
Speaker 1: have been on Busted, where we hear cheating significant But no,
Speaker 1: Candice really does want a second date after a one
Speaker 1: night misguided foray into infidelity. Let's call it, Joe. You
Speaker 1: know that can happen to anyone, right Brook. I haven't
Speaker 1: done it in a very long time, right, That's why
Speaker 1: I know. That's why I was waiting in the parking
Speaker 1: garage for you as soon as the show. I've never
Speaker 1: cheated on my husband, but you know, like boyfriends, it
Speaker 1: didn't really dating. I mean where the relationships didn't really matter.
Speaker 1: Does it really support? I don't. I'm just shaving it.
Speaker 1: Like I get it, Candice, like I feel you. You
Speaker 1: guys are focused on the wrong thing. That was a
Speaker 1: story that I told a long time ago. Yeah, mine
Speaker 1: was like mine was when I was in college. Explain yourself,
Speaker 1: you never It's fine. I think that there's anyway After
Speaker 1: admitting it to Teddy that she hooked up with the
Speaker 1: wrong person that wasn't her boyfriend, she now wants us
Speaker 1: to call him and try and help smooth things over
Speaker 1: to maybe get a second date. Now, before we call him,
Speaker 1: is there anything else that you admit it to him
Speaker 1: that we need to know about before we do this? No,
Speaker 1: that was the only thing, Okay, okay that she remembers,
Speaker 1: at least because there was a lot of Margarita's involved.
Speaker 1: I forgot. But we're gonna find out for sure. I'm
Speaker 1: ready to dial Teddy's number. Are you feeling ready, Candice? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm ready. Okay. Correct, Let's see if he answers and
Speaker 1: find out what he has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Teddy. Yeah, this is Teddy, Hey, Teddy,
Speaker 1: what's up? Man? My name is jeff from the radio
Speaker 1: show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning Broke. I never
Speaker 1: heard of you, guys, So I mean listen about not
Speaker 1: broke it broke co host? Yeah, Hi Teddy, Hey, what
Speaker 1: is this about? Did I win something? Uh? Maybe in
Speaker 1: a way kind of, but well we don't know for
Speaker 1: sure yet. This is something we do call the second
Speaker 1: date Update, where we help our listen get back in
Speaker 1: touch with people that they went out with after they've
Speaker 1: been ghosted. I haven't been out in a minute, so, um,
Speaker 1: what's this about? Well, you've only been in a minute.
Speaker 1: You went to dinner recently, right with a woman named Candice. Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about now I get it.
Speaker 1: Oh did you not consider that a date? I mean
Speaker 1: we were hanging out. I don't know what you'll call it. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: well you're hanging out, you know. Sure, we we'll call
Speaker 1: it to hang out too. But the whole, the whole
Speaker 1: point of us doing this is Candice has been trying
Speaker 1: to get a hold of you after she had a
Speaker 1: really nice time with you that night, and she doesn't
Speaker 1: understand why you're not responding to her, especially because you
Speaker 1: guys are supposed to stay in contact after the whole
Speaker 1: fender bender thing. Yeah, she owes you money, right or
Speaker 1: her interest company does. Yeah, she sure it does. But
Speaker 1: you know, things got busy for me. You know, life
Speaker 1: moved on. We had had an interesting time. It was cool,
Speaker 1: interesting interesting time. I mean, was there any chemistry were
Speaker 1: you guys? Were you attracted? Did do Candice at all?
Speaker 1: I thought she was okay, she was attractive, but it
Speaker 1: wasn't like when you asked me earlier the day that
Speaker 1: was it was something we went out we you know,
Speaker 1: I know she told you how we met and she
Speaker 1: hit my car. Yeah, yeah, and I thought she was
Speaker 1: trying to skip. When you are build, I say, hey,
Speaker 1: I pay for your dinner. You know, just don't tell
Speaker 1: anybody about the car after that's possible. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean we spoke to Candice earlier, man, and she told
Speaker 1: us the whole backstory about how you guys met and
Speaker 1: when you guys went out to dinner, and she did
Speaker 1: bring up that there was kind of an awkward moment
Speaker 1: where she told you a story about going to the
Speaker 1: club and she feels kind of embarrassed about what she
Speaker 1: admitted to Oh, yeah, I would have told them about
Speaker 1: too what she said, you know, yeah, where she cheated
Speaker 1: on her boyfriend with some dude. Yeah, that was actually
Speaker 1: a big moment for me hearing that. Yeah, did the
Speaker 1: did the attractive level of her drop after she told
Speaker 1: that story? Yeah, it wasn't really more about her. It
Speaker 1: was really about more about me. You know. I came
Speaker 1: to a big realization that time, like I shouldn't be
Speaker 1: here right now. Why what realization are you coming to? Well,
Speaker 1: my girlfriend was at home, and then I realized I
Speaker 1: shouldn't have been out doing what she did. Youship, did
Speaker 1: you know you were on a day? I don't mean
Speaker 1: to laugh, I'm sorry, but like I said, it was
Speaker 1: just more of a hangout. I didn't know I was
Speaker 1: putting myself in a bad situation and being there. You know,
Speaker 1: she was gonna tell me about her pass and think
Speaker 1: of that sort to hang out. Now. We weren't going
Speaker 1: to get married or go down to y'all. Was just
Speaker 1: a hangout. Well, hold on a second. You're saying that
Speaker 1: moment when she admitted to cheating was a realization for you.
Speaker 1: What were you thinking before that moment? I wasn't really
Speaker 1: thinking of anything. I just wanted to go out and
Speaker 1: have some fun, to hang out. But when she told
Speaker 1: me that story from the back of the days, I
Speaker 1: realized I shouldn't be here right now. Wait, so, like
Speaker 1: I was going to give you the benefit of the doubt,
Speaker 1: like that you thought it was like an insurance meeting, yeah, something,
Speaker 1: you know, but you were going out to have fun.
Speaker 1: I mean it was to have fun, so I know
Speaker 1: it wasn't gonna be an insurance meeting. YEA. Well that's honest, honest,
Speaker 1: But that's honest. You didn't kiss or anything. Did you
Speaker 1: write you? No, I didn't do that. I didn't being
Speaker 1: honest with us right now, But were you honest with Candice?
Speaker 1: Did Candice know that you had a girlfriend? Well, that
Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to come up. We were just hanging out, Okay,
Speaker 1: you were trying to hide it from her. It sounds like, well,
Speaker 1: I can't hide it anymore because I gotta let you know, Teddy,
Speaker 1: that Candice has actually been on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and she wants to talk to you. Man. You guys
Speaker 1: shut me up now. Candice. Yeah, I'm kind of shocked
Speaker 1: and surprised that you didn't tell me that you had
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. Um, we wouldn't have went on a date.
Speaker 1: She's calling it a date now. It wasn't no date.
Speaker 1: We were just hanging out met you, So I was
Speaker 1: it a date. You should have came out and told
Speaker 1: me you had a girlfriend, because we wouldn't have went out.
Speaker 1: Because you know what I call that, Teddy, cheating? You're
Speaker 1: a cheater and that's the pot calling the kettle black.
Speaker 1: Look at you. I know, yeah, but she's not still
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Told about being cheating. You've been cheating
Speaker 1: before me. Oh you did the first time and I
Speaker 1: didn't even cheat you. You said you you something, Teddy.
Speaker 1: I heard you. I wasn't dating at that time. I
Speaker 1: told you a story happened back in the day that
Speaker 1: was here comes the violin, and you know what you
Speaker 1: can do, Teddy for me? Put an egg in your
Speaker 1: shoe and beat it. Oh that was a dig or
Speaker 1: somebody's making pancakes today. So did you come clean with
Speaker 1: your boyfriend? Then? Right after that hook up and you
Speaker 1: guys broke up immediately because you felt so bad about
Speaker 1: cheating on him at the club. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: talk about that. You know, that's all in the past.
Speaker 1: Let's focus on the present in present day. Before you
Speaker 1: went to dinner with Candice, did you let your girlfriend
Speaker 1: know that you were meeting up with another woman? Well,
Speaker 1: just like Canada said, we're not going to focus on
Speaker 1: the past. We're not going to focus Okay, here minding
Speaker 1: my business. You guys called me, okay, well, did you
Speaker 1: tell her after you went out with Candice that you
Speaker 1: had met up with a woman that's in the past.
Speaker 1: You're trying to bring my pass in the future. I
Speaker 1: left that alone a long time ago. That's what cheating is.
Speaker 1: Currently hooking up with someone right now, it's all of
Speaker 1: your cheating is going to be in the past. There's
Speaker 1: nothing to tell you know, it's how time works. This
Speaker 1: is it's just like about intent. Maybe there was a
Speaker 1: little bit of intent there and in the court of law,
Speaker 1: that's enough to convince. Okay, okay, but okay, but better
Speaker 1: the doubt, Teddy, Did it scare you straight? Right? Are
Speaker 1: you not? Are you? Are you never going to do
Speaker 1: that again? I'm never gonna do that again. This is
Speaker 1: in the past. There's no remix of the past. I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to mind my business, and you guys are
Speaker 1: calling me about something to happen in the past. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: let's forget about the past. Let's let's erase our minds
Speaker 1: about what happened in the past. Let's talk about the future.
Speaker 1: Would you guys like to see each other again? Because
Speaker 1: we'll offer to send you guys out on another day
Speaker 1: and we'll pay for it. Can we send him and
Speaker 1: his girlfriend out? Yeah? I'd like to see two cheaters
Speaker 1: hook up with each other. Two cheaters hook up, then
Speaker 1: it cancels it out. You need to shed your your mouth.
Speaker 1: I'm not no seater. That's true in present day, that's true. Okay. Well,
Speaker 1: at LSA, she was gonna call me a cheat. I
Speaker 1: should have got something out of that night. I should
Speaker 1: have got something. I would get nothing. Okay. So it
Speaker 1: sounds like you are interested in seeing her for another
Speaker 1: endorsing this. Nobody cheat on anyone. So is it a no?
Speaker 1: Then no, it's a no. Definitely no. All right, goody,
Speaker 1: good boy. You have a good life, Teddy. Okay, she'll
Speaker 1: see you at the club later tonight. All right, Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning,