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Speaker 1: It is time for a chief Love officer to answer

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Speaker 1: some love questions from you. This one's from Donnie and Lexington.

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Speaker 1: Donnie says, my mother and I own a rental home

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Speaker 1: in a not so good part of town, and she's

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Speaker 1: letting one of her old male friends stay in the

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Speaker 1: house and isn't charging him the full rent. I think

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Speaker 1: he's a bootlegger because there's a stash of liquor in

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Speaker 1: the basement, and I have watched people come and go

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Speaker 1: from there. I told my mom it's time to sell

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Speaker 1: the property, and she got upset. I suspect she might

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Speaker 1: be part of his underground enterprise. How do I go

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Speaker 1: against my mom?

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Speaker 2: You can't. You can't.

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Speaker 3: It's probably your mama's house. I don't know how it worked,

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Speaker 3: how y'all aught it. I don't really understand that. But

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Speaker 3: your mama is involved in the bootleg operation. It's been

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Speaker 3: going on in the hood for years. Son has nothing

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Speaker 3: to do with you. Go sit your ass down somewhere.

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Speaker 3: And the reason getting his half rent is because she

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Speaker 3: getting half of the proceeds coming up out that basement.

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Speaker 3: Now you're gonna start running moonshine. You as ain't got

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Speaker 3: nothing to do with this. Now, you take your little

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Speaker 3: young ass to college and get you an education and stay.

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Speaker 2: Out of grown folks business. Next question, All right in

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Speaker 2: Queen mama's a bootlegger.

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Speaker 3: Yes, she might be running numbers too, show you might

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Speaker 3: want to look into that.

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Speaker 1: Gena and Queen says, I'm a thirty seven year old

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Speaker 1: woman and I bray hair for a living. I have

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Speaker 1: a forty seven year old boyfriend that works as a

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Speaker 1: restaurant manager. He referred one of his waitresses to get

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Speaker 1: her hair done and she paid me in cash two

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Speaker 1: hundred and ten dollars. When she was leaving, she said

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Speaker 1: she was going to thank my man for getting her

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Speaker 1: hair done. I called him and asked him if he

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Speaker 1: paid for it, and he denied it. I don't know

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Speaker 1: who to believe, and I want.

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Speaker 2: To beat them both.

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Speaker 1: Why would she lie about it?

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Speaker 3: Well, what does she lie about it? I don't think

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Speaker 3: that she Well, she said she gonna go and and

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Speaker 3: forgetting her hair done. Could she have been said, I

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Speaker 3: want to thank your man for sending me over here

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Speaker 3: to get my hair done, because.

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Speaker 2: You did such a wonderful job. Cash she paid.

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Speaker 1: In cash, and yeah, and she thinks her man supply

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Speaker 1: the money for it, paid for it.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, there are some stupid men in this world.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he denied it, he said he did. Well, maybe

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Speaker 1: what you said you maybe that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it could be. I just want to thank

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Speaker 3: him for sending me over here. Man, you did such

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Speaker 3: a great job. But I don't know if Cash meant

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Speaker 3: that he gave it to her. You know, he just

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Speaker 3: recommended that she go. What she looked like.

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Speaker 2: You know, that's her last time doing my hat on.

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Speaker 2: You know that that's our last time. Yeah, that ain't

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Speaker 2: gonna help me. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's the last

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Speaker 2: time doing the heir. You can believe that. But you

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Speaker 2: got two hundred and ten dollars cash what you want?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: You e din have braiden biers As I ain't you know?

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Speaker 2: She was throwing shade though to gurd again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, why you sit her over there to

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Speaker 3: your woman if you're doing something, it's beyond stupidity to me.

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Speaker 2: All the place you could have sent him the whole lot.

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Speaker 3: Pautiple could braid hair want She didn't pull it out

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Speaker 3: once she said that you could pull the braid right

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Speaker 3: on back out of them.

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Speaker 2: No, she was walking out to Doe.

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Speaker 3: You think you're gonna take some braids out of woman's

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Speaker 3: hair after she just had them done, set there for hours.

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Speaker 2: I got a whole other news for you. That's a

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Speaker 2: whole other strawberry letter in she snatched my braid. That's

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Speaker 2: the subject, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on, Mika and Fayetteville says, I'm a fifty year

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Speaker 1: old divorced woman and I'm still having sex with my

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Speaker 1: ex husband. He is remarried, but his wife doesn't enjoy

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Speaker 1: sex as much as I do, so we have an arrangement.

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Speaker 1: He said it's getting too expensive and he wants to

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Speaker 1: pay me a flat rate monthly instead of each time

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Speaker 1: he visits. I told him he could get it free

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Speaker 1: if he left his wife and came back to me.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't called me in a few days. Is he

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Speaker 1: considering it or did I run him off for good?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 2: You ran him off? He ran him off.

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Speaker 3: He's your ex for a reason. He want you for

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Speaker 3: what he got you for, not for nothing else. You

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Speaker 3: too much with the rest of it. You just too much.

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Speaker 3: It's too much with you. But if I can just

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Speaker 3: come over here now, he on a flat rate. So

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Speaker 3: now you're not really having sex with your ex husband.

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Speaker 3: You are the owner and operator of a brothel, and

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Speaker 3: now you won't and you think he's reconsidering to move

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Speaker 3: back into the brothel. But if he moved back the

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Speaker 3: into the brothel, they don't just be brothel duties being performed,

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Speaker 3: you talking and wearing him about other stuff. So, lady

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Speaker 3: and man, then you got to remember why you all

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Speaker 3: became a divorce in exes in the first place. And

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure it would have something to do with

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Speaker 3: that or the wife he got.

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Speaker 2: How much is she charging him monthly? Don't what is this? Car?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but he want a flat rate, thought

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Speaker 3: just a monthly rate. And he won't come over.

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Speaker 2: He won't put it on Saturday. I just put you

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Speaker 2: on Saturday.

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Speaker 3: Then when I come over, if I come over four

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Speaker 3: five times, that's same as two.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he want a salary to employ you. They don't

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Speaker 3: do that at the brothels. They don't have packages at

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Speaker 3: the brothel.

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Speaker 2: I don't think.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure I'll pay you as you go all

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Speaker 3: the cars, yeah, car, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Danny and Baltimore. Danny says, I'm twenty

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Speaker 1: eight years old and my boyfriend and I have been

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Speaker 1: together for six years. I've been messing around on him,

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Speaker 1: and I think it's time for us to break up

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Speaker 1: because he never talks about us having a future together.

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Speaker 1: When I try to leave him, he cries and has

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Speaker 1: an attitude for days. I hate to upset him, but

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Speaker 1: I don't want a cry baby man that doesn't have

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Speaker 1: a five year plan. Do I cut him off whole turkey?

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Speaker 1: Or do I talk to him in person, let him cry,

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Speaker 1: and then leave him.

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Speaker 3: Hey, ma'am, why did you write us, Danny? Why did

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Speaker 3: you write us? You don't want this man. He's a

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Speaker 3: damn cry baby. You've been sleeping around on him for

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Speaker 3: six years. You obviously want to sleep around more than

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Speaker 3: you want him. You don't want him upset because you're

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Speaker 3: a nice person. But you're a nice person with tricky ways.

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Speaker 3: There are a lot of.

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Speaker 2: People like you, Danny.

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Speaker 3: It's okay, just going about your business. Just look we

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Speaker 3: throw that's it. Let him cry and going to do

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Speaker 3: what you've been doing. Next question, Shreny, We not dealing

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Speaker 3: with Danny no more.

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Speaker 2: That's all. That's all we have. Your crying ass up.

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Speaker 2: You can cry now.

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Speaker 3: Don't leave me, Jenny, But I don't want to sit

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Speaker 3: here with all this crime.

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Speaker 2: These other people I'm seeing don't do all that crime.

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Speaker 2: We were meant to be.

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Speaker 3: Did you hear what I said? These other people I'm

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Speaker 3: seeing don't do all that crime. Just punk ass up.

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Speaker 2: That's why she's cheating.

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Speaker 3: Don't nobody want you?

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Speaker 1: Jenny coming up?

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Speaker 2: Thank you. It's Steve Harbin Martin show Man.

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Speaker 3: Men that wear throngs don't pay money back. Wearing men

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Speaker 3: do not pay money back. I don't know, it's just

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Speaker 3: a rule. I don't know where the rule came from anybody.

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Speaker 3: I know. Whar throns don't pay money back. And men

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Speaker 3: who wear throngs that think they sexist, it's usually not thong.

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Speaker 3: And some don't even go in the same have a

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Speaker 3: thong on and all they see is the love V.

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Speaker 2: In the front.

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Speaker 3: Mor Steve Harby Morning Show coming up right after you.