WEBVTT - Part Three: The Orgasm Cult

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<v Speaker 1>Alzoone Media.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to Behind the Bastards, a podcast that you're

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<v Speaker 2>listening to or like watching right now. I think like

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<v Speaker 2>ten percent of the audience watches, but it's impossible to

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<v Speaker 2>tell because streaming numbers are famously opague. But you know

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<v Speaker 2>what's not opegue. Our guest for the podcast today, the

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<v Speaker 2>great Jamie Loftu, is here to help us finish the

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<v Speaker 2>epic saga of One Taste, a Bay Area orgasm cult

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<v Speaker 2>that went way too far. Jamie, Welcome back to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>So good to be here. I am famously translucent. It

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<v Speaker 3>is nice to not be opaque. Yeah, I do wonder

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<v Speaker 3>who's watching, but usually I feel like if someone is watching,

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<v Speaker 3>they'll let you know, and they'll let you know exactly

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<v Speaker 3>what looks wrong about you. So I'll get back to

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<v Speaker 3>you with the numbers.

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<v Speaker 2>Good to know. We also have on the podcast today

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<v Speaker 2>our producer Sophie Lichterman, who is not showing up through

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<v Speaker 2>video because you don't need to. You just need to

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<v Speaker 2>justify that to you, you maniacs watching the show. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't need to know why Sophie's not going to be

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<v Speaker 2>on video. She's not deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we don't need another subreddit about if I'm safe

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<v Speaker 1>or not?

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, Yeah, podcast listeners, you can just continue ignoring.

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<v Speaker 1>All twenty twenty six. I'm not, of course, I'm unsafe.

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<v Speaker 2>What you Jamie? Are you excited to conclude this epic

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<v Speaker 2>story because we had a little bit of a break,

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<v Speaker 2>a longer one than we usually do between the first

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<v Speaker 2>two parts and the third, so you know, I expect

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<v Speaker 2>things have been building up, edging if you will, as

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<v Speaker 2>we wait for you know, the conclusion here.

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<v Speaker 3>I liked it did feel kind of like message podcasting

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<v Speaker 3>that you sort of left me hanging on the edge

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<v Speaker 3>of something thrilling for like ten days and now I'm

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<v Speaker 3>ready to uh what what is like? Is enlightenment? This

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<v Speaker 3>feeling of knowledge? Like what is if knowledge is coming?

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<v Speaker 3>What is that? That's enlightenment? Nirvana?

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<v Speaker 2>It's interesting they come to the longer one taste goes

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<v Speaker 2>on the more Nicole didone, who is again like the

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<v Speaker 2>leader of all. This gets everyone referring to orgasm as

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<v Speaker 2>if it's like mana in like a like a like

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<v Speaker 2>a role playing game or something like your orgasm is low,

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<v Speaker 2>or you've got a high level of orgasm, your power,

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<v Speaker 2>your orgasm is powerful. So like you're They refer to

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<v Speaker 2>orgasm not as like like a biological thing that that

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<v Speaker 2>happens you know sometimes, but as like this this mana

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<v Speaker 2>pool that you build up over time, both through like

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<v Speaker 2>O wimming, through like receiving it if you have a vagina,

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<v Speaker 2>or through giving you know, O wimming you build up

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<v Speaker 2>your orgasm level. And it's almost like this mana pool

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<v Speaker 2>that helps you gain powers. That's kind of how she taks, and.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you were doing for us and for them.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I see, I think I wanted to raise your mana.

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<v Speaker 3>One of my favorite things about cult stories is just

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<v Speaker 3>like the moving goalposts and how you're like, oh, you

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<v Speaker 3>thought that was coming. Well, actually there's a secret different

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<v Speaker 3>kind of come that. There is a huge financial barrier

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<v Speaker 3>to accents.

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<v Speaker 2>It's part of this like colts have to be all consuming.

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<v Speaker 2>They have to like fill every space in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Colts don't want you to have like hobbies or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>outside stuff going on. So you know, if you're if

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<v Speaker 2>it's a call like scientology, where it's supposed to be

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<v Speaker 2>all consuming, you've got this totally different way of looking

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<v Speaker 2>at the world and psychology in the mind that's easier

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<v Speaker 2>but if you come in with like this really narrow

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<v Speaker 2>focus like Nicole did, where it's just about you know

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<v Speaker 2>kind of lingis basically you really have to like you

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<v Speaker 2>have to get creative to make that all consuming because

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<v Speaker 2>most people just it's not an option to to have

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<v Speaker 2>oral sex all day every day for that to be

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<v Speaker 2>like your only behavior. So you really have to work

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<v Speaker 2>to make that everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you should never you should never start a cult

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<v Speaker 3>around something that is free to do, right, Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 3>it's gonna get difficult quickly if people figure out they

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<v Speaker 3>can come for free at their house.

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<v Speaker 2>Although you know, Jamie, people have always technically been able

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<v Speaker 2>to come for free, and yet one of the most

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<v Speaker 2>reliable ways to make money is assisting them in that.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's true. That's true. And I will say, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>say what you will about Nicole, but she certainly has

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<v Speaker 3>gotten creative with it so far.

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<v Speaker 2>She's creative. She's creative.

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<v Speaker 3>I have never heard quite of this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So in mid two thousand and six, one Taste

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<v Speaker 2>used Rob's money, Remember our boy Rob, who's you know,

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<v Speaker 2>she's she's turned into like the figure the male figurehead

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of the time of the Colt in this period,

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<v Speaker 2>she uses his money to lease a warehouse, and the

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<v Speaker 2>coal mandates everyone's got to live together. Now we're all

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<v Speaker 2>living in this fucking warehouse. This will be the first

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<v Speaker 2>of two different warehouses that are like communal living spaces

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<v Speaker 2>and initially nice warehouses.

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<v Speaker 3>Warehouse could mean so they're in the bay.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's it's off of what's it called. It's

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<v Speaker 2>off of folsome Street. So it's not like it's an

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<v Speaker 2>expensive area, like it's fairly expensive realist date from the videos.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a warehouse, but not a bad one. I

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<v Speaker 2>have spend time in San Francisco warehouses that are living

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<v Speaker 2>well Oakland warehouses that were living spaces. This seems like

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<v Speaker 2>one of the nicer ones, right, okay, sound around fifty

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<v Speaker 2>people move in it first, and they have to give

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<v Speaker 2>up most of their early possessions to do so. Once

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<v Speaker 2>they all live in the warehouse. Clothing, basically most things

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<v Speaker 2>are communal and borrowed or shared. People will like borrow

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<v Speaker 2>and take each other's clothes.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>If you complain that someone's like taking all of your

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<v Speaker 2>clothes or taking your stuff and that you don't feel

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<v Speaker 2>like it's equal, you'll be sort of critiqued or attacked

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<v Speaker 2>for being too obsessed with attachments. Nicole starts having these.

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<v Speaker 2>She'll go through a couple of different names, but they're

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<v Speaker 2>all there's these various different sort of group meeting structures

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<v Speaker 2>that she'll do where everyone sits around in a circle

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<v Speaker 2>and like critiques each other. This is all downhill from

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<v Speaker 2>send and on and the game that they played whereveryone

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<v Speaker 2>gets in a circle and insults each other. There's different

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<v Speaker 2>versions of this, but it's a way.

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<v Speaker 3>Honesty approach where it's like I'm actually I'm being abusive

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<v Speaker 3>towards you for your self improvement.

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<v Speaker 2>Because this is a lot of ye yep, yeah. So

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<v Speaker 2>people who complain that, like, hey, all my clothes have

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<v Speaker 2>been taken by someone else will be critiqued as being

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<v Speaker 2>obsessed with attachments. You don't want to be too obsessed

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<v Speaker 2>with attachments. You know, we're we're doing this for the

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<v Speaker 2>betterment of humankind. You know where you care that everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>taking your shirts? Everybody sleeps. There's one giant central main

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<v Speaker 2>room with like a dozen or more beds crammed together,

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<v Speaker 2>like it has to be like twenty beds, twenty something

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<v Speaker 2>beds for fifty people cram together and like between I

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<v Speaker 2>mean two and three people for a bed. It kind

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<v Speaker 2>of seems like I think it's usually couples, but it does,

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<v Speaker 2>at least from some interviews, it seems like some people

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<v Speaker 2>are doing you know, thropples or foursomes too. So again,

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<v Speaker 2>at this point, you've got a few dozen, maybe around

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<v Speaker 2>fifty full time members who have like really devoted themselves

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<v Speaker 2>completely to the cult, and then a few hundred people

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<v Speaker 2>in the Bay area who are kind of taking their courses.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of these folks are casual, maybe once or twice

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<v Speaker 2>a year they'll do a thing. Some of these folks

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<v Speaker 2>are more regular. You know, they're coming in every month

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<v Speaker 2>or even every week to do a variety. Maybe they're

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<v Speaker 2>doing a mix of yoga, some om classes, whatever. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's kind of how the cult is limping along at

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<v Speaker 2>this point in times.

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<v Speaker 3>So we've fifty people like full time in the warehouse,

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<v Speaker 3>living together, completely committed, and then a few hundred people

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<v Speaker 3>who are like paying money.

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<v Speaker 2>And you wouldn't even call those folks cult members, right

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<v Speaker 2>because the cult has a business side, So it'd be

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<v Speaker 2>more accurate to say there's maybe fifty or some members

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<v Speaker 2>than a few hundred customers, right. I think that that.

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<v Speaker 3>Makes sense for San Francisco.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, right, right. The cult is not at this

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<v Speaker 2>point financially self sufficient, but it is making enough money

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<v Speaker 2>that Nicole only needs to like donations from rich people

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<v Speaker 2>to kind of seal the gaps. So periodically, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>probably a few times a month, she'll be like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we need x thousand dollars, so we've got to find one, two,

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<v Speaker 2>three wealthy donors who are willing to put in this

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<v Speaker 2>much money. And generally what she's doing is kind of, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you remember you took this last class. We've got another one.

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<v Speaker 2>It costs like five grand, but I know you're really

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<v Speaker 2>attracted to this cult member. She'll be in the class,

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<v Speaker 2>don't you want to get right, that's kind of how

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<v Speaker 2>this is. And that's not quite prostitution, but that's like

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<v Speaker 2>on the edge, right well, especially.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she has too much, she has all the power

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<v Speaker 3>in that situation. And also I'm assuming that you know,

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<v Speaker 3>at least some of the time she's lying about that,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, for sure, for sure. So yeah, so in

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<v Speaker 3>a way, that is trafficking, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's definitely trafficking or trafficking adjacent, and it's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get a lot more direct at this point, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>little you know, fuzzy, and she's always.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still enjoying the idea of all of the like hundred,

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<v Speaker 3>like the few hundred people who are just sort of

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<v Speaker 3>like one toe into the cult. I think we both

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<v Speaker 3>live in cities where that is the case for about

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<v Speaker 3>half of the residents, where I'm like, yeah, I've been

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<v Speaker 3>a couple a couple of times. Yeah, yeah, a couple

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<v Speaker 3>times a month. I probably go to a place that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to read an expose about in a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of years.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know easily. Like I said, I'm not one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred percent sure. I haven't been to parties with like

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<v Speaker 2>a bunch of one taste people. Look, because I got

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<v Speaker 2>high a lot in the Bay Area around this time.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's like, we're never going to move into

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<v Speaker 3>the warehouse. But you know, not on a the question

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<v Speaker 3>that maybe you've been to the warehouse.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I've been to a few been to a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of warehouses.

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<v Speaker 3>You're an open minded guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I'm an open minded guy. I love a warehouse.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I've maybe presed what if I done stand

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<v Speaker 3>up at it?

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<v Speaker 1>Robert Adams, I love a warehouse.

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<v Speaker 2>I love good warehouse. I love a good warehouse. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So uh and this is kind of so, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>on the on one side, you've gotten Nicole reaching out

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<v Speaker 2>to these folks who are like regular wealthier customers. These

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<v Speaker 2>are Bay Area tech bros generally who have a good

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<v Speaker 2>amount of money. So she's got a list of these

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<v Speaker 2>guys who she's like, Okay, we need money. I can

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<v Speaker 2>reach out to these dudes and maybe that'll bring in

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<v Speaker 2>five or ten grand that we need. And then on

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<v Speaker 2>the other side, within the cult, she frames this often

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<v Speaker 2>as like a game, where like she'll go to a

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<v Speaker 2>specific member and be like, hey, so we're doing a

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<v Speaker 2>class and it's a high dollar class. I'll give you

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<v Speaker 2>a free ticket, but I'm gonna have to partner you

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<v Speaker 2>up with so and so because he really likes you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, do you want to freak class? Right? And

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<v Speaker 2>she would she would ask you to do her like

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<v Speaker 2>a favor, often for you, right, or a favor for them.

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<v Speaker 2>And so even outside of the classes, she's sometimes saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>this guy needs you know, I want to convince him

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<v Speaker 2>to sign up. Would you do me a favor? And

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<v Speaker 2>favor is a hand job generally, usually when she uses

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<v Speaker 2>that term that means like, I want you to jerk

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<v Speaker 2>this guy off for me outside of the class. So

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<v Speaker 2>now we're really now we're.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, come on, no, this isn't so the line.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this is this is kind of and from a

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<v Speaker 2>very early point two thousand and five six, she's regularly

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<v Speaker 2>it's not always, but she's pretty regularly crossing the line

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<v Speaker 2>into into prostitution. Right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, this like ex seeds like certain Epstein tactics. To me,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like, it's not just you're recruiting someone to go

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<v Speaker 3>to a second location. It's your being trafficked to go

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<v Speaker 3>give a hand job to get to a second location.

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<v Speaker 2>Right to get them into the class where they'll then

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<v Speaker 2>be going down on you for an hour or for

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<v Speaker 2>three days or whatever, depending on the kind of class

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<v Speaker 2>that they're.

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<v Speaker 3>Doing, depending on how warehouse you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, how in the warehouse you are, and yeah

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<v Speaker 2>that that kind of overtime. This just becomes a major

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<v Speaker 2>part of how one taste gets by certain moneyed men

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<v Speaker 2>will pay for group workshops where many of the other

0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:24.280
<v Speaker 2>seats are taken by other people paying for seats, including women.

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<v Speaker 2>There are women in the Bay Area who pay for

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<v Speaker 2>these seats and they get paired up with these guys too,

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<v Speaker 2>but a decent number of seats and holes kind of

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<v Speaker 2>if we haven't sold. Oh, there's twenty four slots in

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<v Speaker 2>this We only found fifteen people and most of them

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<v Speaker 2>are men, so we need to make up the difference

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<v Speaker 2>with a lot of young females from the cult.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, the ratio is off in the colt.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we got to get right. So by two thousand

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<v Speaker 2>and eight, the constant struggle to keep the lights on

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<v Speaker 2>in one taste because again they're never quite in the

0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:57.840
<v Speaker 2>black has made in a cold, had made in a

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<v Speaker 2>cold desperate, right. She likes the lifestyle, but it's also

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<v Speaker 2>not quite working, and there's I think she's aware of

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<v Speaker 2>the risk. I think she knows I've crossed the line

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<v Speaker 2>already and we're still not profitable. Maybe I should either

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<v Speaker 2>leave or try to like sell off my position in

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<v Speaker 2>the cult to a mark. Right, So she starts wondering

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<v Speaker 2>has this thing run its course? And just as she's wondering,

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<v Speaker 2>like do I need to cancel a say or do

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<v Speaker 2>I need to end things? A savior appears and that

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<v Speaker 2>savior is The New York Times. So one of their

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<v Speaker 2>reporters calls and here's I've heard there's this Bay Area

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<v Speaker 2>company that's, you know, an orgasm classes and they're teaching

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<v Speaker 2>people how to do orgasmic meditation. Sounds like a great story,

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<v Speaker 2>and Nicole is like, come on by, we would love

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<v Speaker 2>to have you. Now. I've quoted a couple of times

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<v Speaker 2>in previous the previous episodes from that New York Times article,

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<v Speaker 2>and what I really want to emphasize to you is

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<v Speaker 2>that this is a bad and irresponsible piece of journalism.

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<v Speaker 2>The Times does not come in. There's a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>lines in there where they're like, some people say this

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<v Speaker 2>is problematic, and there's a couple references to they may

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<v Speaker 2>be blurring some lines, you know, in regard.

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<v Speaker 3>Crazy about the New York Times both sizing an issue

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<v Speaker 3>in which there is a clear right side to be on.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they treat this like it's a cool tech company.

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<v Speaker 2>They treat this like it's between somewhere between that and

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<v Speaker 2>like an interesting new you know, uh kind of alternative

0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:34.080
<v Speaker 2>healthcare thing like like cold plunges or something. It's very

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<v Speaker 2>much written like that, or like when that dude was

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<v Speaker 2>talking doing all those classes onlike I can be submerged

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<v Speaker 2>in the cold. We did episodes on them for crazy periods.

0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:45.360
<v Speaker 2>It's like that sort of thing where they're treating it

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<v Speaker 2>like a fucking Malcolm Gladwell book, like, oh she made

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<v Speaker 2>you know, yeah, she says science tells us this about orgasms.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they're just trying to be more scientific, right,

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<v Speaker 2>That's how it's brand. These are researchers.

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<v Speaker 3>How like I mean, The New York Times is its

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<v Speaker 3>whole own set of issues. But how like East Coast

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<v Speaker 3>journalists often talk about like West Coast trends where they

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<v Speaker 3>are just like they're just kookie, They're just weird over there.

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<v Speaker 3>Check out these freaks, and you're like, no, those are

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<v Speaker 3>sex criminals.

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<v Speaker 2>No, this is the weird problem.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And so as a result, the the article winds up

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<v Speaker 2>working as an advertisement for one Taste more than anything else.

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<v Speaker 2>And it even features they take photos of om sessions

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<v Speaker 2>of like women being stroked in and other like otherwise

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<v Speaker 2>masturbated in these in these different clinic classes that go on,

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<v Speaker 2>but like really work safe. So you'll just get like

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<v Speaker 2>Sophie's gonna put one on screen for those that you

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<v Speaker 2>can see, and it's this like beautifully lit photo of

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<v Speaker 2>just like the top half of a woman and she's

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<v Speaker 2>she's like it's it's reversed, so like her head is

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<v Speaker 2>facing down and so you could just see her head

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<v Speaker 2>and she's got this like expression of ecstasy. She's wearing

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<v Speaker 2>like a black shirt or something. It has her hands

0:15:57.360 --> 0:15:59.800
<v Speaker 2>like kind of folded across her chests, and she's lit

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<v Speaker 2>so that like it almost looks like her face just

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<v Speaker 2>her face is glowing.

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<v Speaker 3>She looks like a vampire coming back to life. Said

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<v Speaker 3>to have this picture taken in view, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean in the in the article, the framing of it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the title of the photo is Inner Bliss and

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<v Speaker 2>a One Taste Urban retreat Center. A resident practices or

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<v Speaker 2>gasmic meditation. Partner not shown.

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<v Speaker 3>Partner not shown.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so just of all. In the article, The Times

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<v Speaker 2>describes Nicole as a literal quote sex diva. And here's

0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:34.760
<v Speaker 2>Sophie'll show you again. There's this photo. Nicole's right in

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<v Speaker 2>the center. This is her given a class. She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>well lit sex diva. Nicole didone One Tastes founder says

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<v Speaker 2>women will experience freedom when they own their sexuality.

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<v Speaker 3>God, how proud was the writer who came up with

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<v Speaker 3>the phrase sex diva that they had to write it down.

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<v Speaker 2>God, god fuck it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an interesting photo to choose because it almost looks

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<v Speaker 1>like a like like a like a ted talk.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, great, Sophie put a pin in that. So

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<v Speaker 2>the article is a massive hit for one taste. Suddenly journalists,

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<v Speaker 2>including a lot of like local TV news journalists in

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<v Speaker 2>the Bay Area, are crowding in to get the story

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<v Speaker 2>on one taste, and most of them are covering it

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<v Speaker 2>in positive ways. They're kind of amused, look at this

0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:21.560
<v Speaker 2>kooky thing, but it's like good, no, Like these are

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<v Speaker 2>not generally wondering is this all like a sex cult

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<v Speaker 2>that she's just like trafficking her members to rich tech

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<v Speaker 2>guys in order to keep the lights on? Right? That's

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<v Speaker 2>not really quite asked, you know, And she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Still like playing into the whole. I Mean, what has

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<v Speaker 3>kind of been striking to me about a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>the marketing we've looked at is that she's getting she's

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<v Speaker 3>got the girl boss scam of like making it seem

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<v Speaker 3>like this is good for women and women centered.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, this is empowered, This is empowering. Going with it, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because this is always framed us like, did you know

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<v Speaker 2>this very large percentage of women have never had an orgasm,

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<v Speaker 2>never had an orgasm with another partner, you know, And

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<v Speaker 2>then from there to like, so that makes this health

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<v Speaker 2>issue right, and that makes this and then there's all

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<v Speaker 2>this like and here's what we've learned about the health

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<v Speaker 2>benefits of orgasm, and so there's always this like underpinning

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<v Speaker 2>of actual statistics and actual stuff, and as a result,

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<v Speaker 2>it gets covered as if it's just part of the

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<v Speaker 2>broad sort of body hacking, body optimization stuff that's going

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<v Speaker 2>crazy in the oughts. And so in very short order,

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<v Speaker 2>one taste starts picking up some really like mainstream partners

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<v Speaker 2>Audible Sponsors. One of their podcasts they have like an

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<v Speaker 2>erotic poetry open mic night, and like Audible Sponsors turning

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<v Speaker 2>that into a podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>They always oh, my god, every cult is trying to

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<v Speaker 4>get stand up comedians in the door. Some of the

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<v Speaker 4>worst people that come in your door, they're oh, the site,

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<v Speaker 4>never forget.

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<v Speaker 3>I came very closed. I was nearly persuaded in twenty

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<v Speaker 3>fifteen to go to a Scientology open mic.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that would have been amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>They have refreshments, They have refreshments.

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<v Speaker 2>That's really been awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh man, I know my career would be at a

0:19:05.880 --> 0:19:07.080
<v Speaker 3>better place of sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah they still have that. That sounds great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So cult members were very active on social media, and

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<v Speaker 2>specifically like a lot of like local social media, like

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<v Speaker 2>in the Bay Area. So there's a lot of like

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<v Speaker 2>posts about like was that this great house party? Here's

0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:25.359
<v Speaker 2>some crazy pictures, and you'll see these like giant cuddle

0:19:25.400 --> 0:19:28.520
<v Speaker 2>puddles a bunch of young women, and like thirty percent

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<v Speaker 2>of the cuddle puddle will be like schlubby Bay Area

0:19:31.160 --> 0:19:34.120
<v Speaker 2>engineer looking dudes. Right. These are all very much framed

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<v Speaker 2>as being like, hey, are you like a nerdy guy

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<v Speaker 2>with a lot of money who lives in the area,

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe he's not good with like women, this cult,

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<v Speaker 2>there's lots of young women who were good to go.

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<v Speaker 2>All you got to do is pay to take a class. Right,

0:19:47.040 --> 0:19:50.919
<v Speaker 2>That's very much what the messaging is to these guys.

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<v Speaker 2>And a lot of new members are drawn and a

0:19:52.960 --> 0:19:55.600
<v Speaker 2>lot of new male members in particular, are drawn in

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<v Speaker 2>by posts from residents of the warehouse talking about these

0:19:58.440 --> 0:20:01.680
<v Speaker 2>wild sex parties and you know these we're doing. We've

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<v Speaker 2>got a party, and they'll throw parties like on the beach.

0:20:04.240 --> 0:20:06.240
<v Speaker 2>Here's a one Taste party on the beach. Come on,

0:20:06.480 --> 0:20:09.159
<v Speaker 2>like show up. You know, people are being plied with

0:20:09.280 --> 0:20:11.800
<v Speaker 2>drugs off and at these events, they're being plied with

0:20:11.840 --> 0:20:13.879
<v Speaker 2>sex to get them to pay for and come in and

0:20:14.040 --> 0:20:17.760
<v Speaker 2>take classes and stuff. I watched an interview with and

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<v Speaker 2>I think this actual was from the Netflix documentary. I've

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<v Speaker 2>watched a couple of interviews, but I watched an interview

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<v Speaker 2>from one of these members who joined during this period

0:20:25.160 --> 0:20:27.400
<v Speaker 2>of time. And this is a like a middle aged

0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:31.480
<v Speaker 2>nerdy engineer dude who discovered one taste via these posts,

0:20:31.480 --> 0:20:34.120
<v Speaker 2>and it first assumed this is his quote was like, oh,

0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:36.040
<v Speaker 2>this either has to be fake or if it's real,

0:20:36.080 --> 0:20:39.440
<v Speaker 2>they'll never have me, right, But when he showed up,

0:20:39.680 --> 0:20:41.760
<v Speaker 2>he found out that he in fact had what they

0:20:41.800 --> 0:20:45.480
<v Speaker 2>wanted most a credit card quote. One night, I was

0:20:45.520 --> 0:20:47.320
<v Speaker 2>living on a boat by myself, and the next I

0:20:47.400 --> 0:20:49.520
<v Speaker 2>was living with like forty people, sleeping in a bed

0:20:49.560 --> 0:20:52.240
<v Speaker 2>with my research partner. I was like this nerdy tech

0:20:52.240 --> 0:20:54.000
<v Speaker 2>guy by day and at night I'd go home and

0:20:54.000 --> 0:20:57.120
<v Speaker 2>be in the middle of this craziness. And that's the appeal.

0:20:57.400 --> 0:20:59.440
<v Speaker 2>You can keep being because they want they don't want

0:20:59.440 --> 0:21:01.239
<v Speaker 2>you to quit your if you're like making a lot

0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:03.440
<v Speaker 2>of money in the tech industry. You can keep being

0:21:03.480 --> 0:21:05.800
<v Speaker 2>your nerdy tech guy by day, but you don't you

0:21:05.840 --> 0:21:07.480
<v Speaker 2>get to actually be cooler than that. You've got a

0:21:07.520 --> 0:21:11.240
<v Speaker 2>secret life where you're researching orgasm magic with like beautiful

0:21:11.240 --> 0:21:14.879
<v Speaker 2>young women and living in this like free love compound,

0:21:15.040 --> 0:21:17.199
<v Speaker 2>and so your life is a lot more exciting than

0:21:17.200 --> 0:21:20.480
<v Speaker 2>the other fucking engineers at Google or whatever. Uh.

0:21:20.200 --> 0:21:22.480
<v Speaker 3>And the fact that all of this is because it's

0:21:22.520 --> 0:21:26.399
<v Speaker 3>like the wish fulfillment uh, Like this thing is very clear.

0:21:26.680 --> 0:21:30.760
<v Speaker 3>She couldn't have chosen a better location to find this

0:21:30.800 --> 0:21:35.080
<v Speaker 3>particular kind of guy. Perfect And also the Silicon Valley,

0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:39.480
<v Speaker 3>but the Silicon Valley detail of corporate sponsors for the

0:21:39.600 --> 0:21:43.760
<v Speaker 3>sex cultriz wah.

0:21:43.280 --> 0:21:46.080
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm, it's perfect stuff. And you know what else

0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:49.480
<v Speaker 2>would be a corporate sponsor for a sex cult?

0:21:50.200 --> 0:21:51.560
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I have a feeling.

0:21:51.600 --> 0:21:54.680
<v Speaker 2>I know the products and services that support this podcast.

0:21:54.800 --> 0:21:57.320
<v Speaker 2>Some of them may have been We've had audible ads before,

0:21:57.600 --> 0:22:00.000
<v Speaker 2>like this is what we've shared at least one advertise

0:22:00.320 --> 0:22:01.200
<v Speaker 2>with this sex cult.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go over to more than one, Let's be honest.

0:22:05.560 --> 0:22:10.040
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm, more than one almost certainly anyway, God.

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<v Speaker 1>What if it's what if it's what if it's an

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<v Speaker 1>ad for dick pills.

0:22:13.240 --> 0:22:15.040
<v Speaker 3>What if it's an ad for dick pills.

0:22:15.520 --> 0:22:17.119
<v Speaker 2>There's a good chance it will be, and I know

0:22:17.240 --> 0:22:29.679
<v Speaker 2>it is. I know we're back, and we're all hoping

0:22:29.720 --> 0:22:31.760
<v Speaker 2>that the ad you just heard was for dick pills,

0:22:31.880 --> 0:22:34.480
<v Speaker 2>because they do. We do have some Dick Pills sponsors.

0:22:34.480 --> 0:22:36.400
<v Speaker 2>Wouldn't that be fun? Wouldn't that be a good time?

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<v Speaker 2>Every guy?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>Comedy hahaha, comedy it So. Nicole spent the first few

0:22:42.960 --> 0:22:45.760
<v Speaker 2>years of the Colt's life sharing spaces with everyone else.

0:22:45.800 --> 0:22:49.679
<v Speaker 2>She's living there, initially at the warehouse. But after a

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<v Speaker 2>few years, around two thousand and ten or eleven, I

0:22:53.200 --> 0:22:56.000
<v Speaker 2>think is kind of when this starts to happen, she

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<v Speaker 2>decides there's too many demands on her attention. Now coincidently,

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<v Speaker 2>this is shortly after she starts sometime we're in two

0:23:03.200 --> 0:23:05.919
<v Speaker 2>thousand and six or seven, off and on seeing and

0:23:05.920 --> 0:23:10.960
<v Speaker 2>then eventually dating seriously, this Silicon Valley entrepreneur and multimillionaire

0:23:11.040 --> 0:23:16.360
<v Speaker 2>named Reys Jones. Right now, Reese meet. This guy's pushing fifty.

0:23:16.640 --> 0:23:19.480
<v Speaker 2>He's not in great shape, but he's just sold his

0:23:19.520 --> 0:23:22.000
<v Speaker 2>company to Motorola for a shitload of money. So this

0:23:22.040 --> 0:23:24.800
<v Speaker 2>guy has spent the first chunk of his life building up,

0:23:24.840 --> 0:23:27.840
<v Speaker 2>and he finally cashed out and he's like kind of

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<v Speaker 2>over the hill and looking to recapture his like youth

0:23:32.400 --> 0:23:34.600
<v Speaker 2>now that he's got a shitload of money, and he

0:23:34.640 --> 0:23:37.520
<v Speaker 2>stumbles into One Taste for the same reason a fly

0:23:37.640 --> 0:23:40.600
<v Speaker 2>winds up in a Venus fly trap. Right, it's made

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<v Speaker 2>as a trap for this guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Reese Jones excellent name for an insecure multimillionaire. Couldn't have

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<v Speaker 3>written better.

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<v Speaker 2>Myself had to be a recee.

0:23:50.320 --> 0:23:54.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, had to Yeah, and just oh god, the yeah,

0:23:54.240 --> 0:23:57.479
<v Speaker 3>the idea of conceptually, I feel like we encounter them

0:23:57.480 --> 0:23:59.720
<v Speaker 3>all the time. A fifty year old guy that's like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I think I'm ready to sell down. I

0:24:02.960 --> 0:24:07.480
<v Speaker 3>think I'm ready. I was like, wow, huge, huge, You've

0:24:07.480 --> 0:24:09.199
<v Speaker 3>really just figured it out, haven't you.

0:24:09.440 --> 0:24:11.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think I'm ready to settle down with a

0:24:11.359 --> 0:24:17.359
<v Speaker 2>building full of trafficked people. So Reese, Yeah, you know,

0:24:17.480 --> 0:24:20.800
<v Speaker 2>One Taste is losing money badly during most of this period,

0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:23.600
<v Speaker 2>and Nicole needs a rich mark like Reese to prop

0:24:23.640 --> 0:24:26.600
<v Speaker 2>everything up. He gives them like a million dollars. He's

0:24:26.760 --> 0:24:29.840
<v Speaker 2>absolutely critical to their survival during this period of time.

0:24:29.880 --> 0:24:33.000
<v Speaker 2>So Nicole starts dating Reese, and this is going on

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<v Speaker 2>from like two thys and six or so's like twenty eleven,

0:24:35.160 --> 0:24:36.919
<v Speaker 2>and she's over this period of time, spending more and

0:24:36.960 --> 0:24:39.720
<v Speaker 2>more time with him, less and less time at the

0:24:39.760 --> 0:24:43.160
<v Speaker 2>warehouse around her members. She's going on vacations with him.

0:24:43.480 --> 0:24:45.960
<v Speaker 2>She moves out of the warehouse and into a mansion

0:24:46.000 --> 0:24:48.760
<v Speaker 2>with him because she decides that it's way better to

0:24:48.840 --> 0:24:51.160
<v Speaker 2>live like a multi millionaire than to live with her

0:24:51.359 --> 0:24:53.960
<v Speaker 2>colleagues at the masturbation Store.

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:57.320
<v Speaker 3>Another classic cult moment where you're like, and now the

0:24:57.400 --> 0:25:01.760
<v Speaker 3>leader has decided that personal space does matter only for

0:25:01.840 --> 0:25:03.280
<v Speaker 3>them for the leader.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So from this point on, she no longer lives

0:25:06.960 --> 0:25:09.280
<v Speaker 2>full time in the communal spaces with her cult members,

0:25:09.280 --> 0:25:12.080
<v Speaker 2>who are still technically researchers but are starting to look

0:25:12.119 --> 0:25:15.800
<v Speaker 2>a lot more like her workforce. Twenty eleven was the

0:25:15.840 --> 0:25:18.840
<v Speaker 2>big shift year for One Taste, where it goes from

0:25:18.880 --> 0:25:22.040
<v Speaker 2>being a weird self help culty thing to a Silicon

0:25:22.119 --> 0:25:26.639
<v Speaker 2>Valley body hacking startup. Nicole publishes I Mean and this

0:25:26.760 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 2>is there's a couple of big moments that kind of

0:25:29.080 --> 0:25:33.439
<v Speaker 2>delineate this shift from the past where One Taste is

0:25:33.600 --> 0:25:37.320
<v Speaker 2>very much like a descendant of these previous kind of

0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:41.080
<v Speaker 2>orgasm wu cults that we'd talked about, right okay, And

0:25:41.400 --> 0:25:44.399
<v Speaker 2>there's not much to differentiate her from that until she

0:25:44.520 --> 0:25:47.919
<v Speaker 2>publishes a book called Slow Sex, The Art and Craft

0:25:47.920 --> 0:25:51.760
<v Speaker 2>of the Female Orgasm, And that happens, like right as

0:25:52.240 --> 0:25:55.119
<v Speaker 2>one taste is sort of maturing to be more of

0:25:55.160 --> 0:25:58.200
<v Speaker 2>a service provider and more of like a body hacking

0:25:58.280 --> 0:26:02.280
<v Speaker 2>thing than a we're re searching, you know, the future,

0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:07.400
<v Speaker 2>We're researching orgasm magic too. We're selling courses on orgasmic meditation.

0:26:07.640 --> 0:26:11.159
<v Speaker 2>Right as that shift happens, it's kind of signposted by

0:26:11.200 --> 0:26:13.560
<v Speaker 2>she puts out this book that sells very well called

0:26:13.760 --> 0:26:16.679
<v Speaker 2>Slow Sex, and it's framed is that a guide for

0:26:16.760 --> 0:26:19.960
<v Speaker 2>both men and women and dedicated to quote the orgasm,

0:26:20.240 --> 0:26:23.600
<v Speaker 2>may each of us find ours now? Right kind of

0:26:23.600 --> 0:26:27.440
<v Speaker 2>talking again of like of orgasm like it's magic. One

0:26:27.440 --> 0:26:29.880
<v Speaker 2>of the book jacket quotes for Slow Sex is by

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<v Speaker 2>Ian Kerner, a sexuality counselor and New York Times best

0:26:33.240 --> 0:26:37.399
<v Speaker 2>selling author of She Comes First. Ian said, no, close sex.

0:26:37.200 --> 0:26:40.600
<v Speaker 3>Is no dude, No oh my close.

0:26:40.320 --> 0:26:42.760
<v Speaker 2>Sex is the real deal on pleasuring a woman for

0:26:42.800 --> 0:26:45.359
<v Speaker 2>any guy who wants is fifteen minutes of sexual fame

0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:49.200
<v Speaker 2>to don't offers practical and inspired guide to the orgasmic

0:26:49.240 --> 0:26:52.840
<v Speaker 2>big leagues. What No, fifteen.

0:26:52.400 --> 0:26:57.320
<v Speaker 3>Minutes of sexual fame? What the male feminist has clocked in?

0:26:58.720 --> 0:27:00.920
<v Speaker 1>This is why I'm more than one of my female

0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:02.560
<v Speaker 1>friends has given me a taser.

0:27:03.320 --> 0:27:06.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Oh, there's a lot that's like just the Yeah,

0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:08.400
<v Speaker 2>it's wow.

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:12.920
<v Speaker 1>She comes first, Wow, she comes first, she tastes second, and.

0:27:12.880 --> 0:27:13.720
<v Speaker 2>You get you.

0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 4>You.

0:27:14.040 --> 0:27:16.600
<v Speaker 2>You really see a lot in terms of who the

0:27:16.720 --> 0:27:19.920
<v Speaker 2>real customers are here because it's always framed as we're

0:27:19.960 --> 0:27:22.359
<v Speaker 2>doing this for women. This is foreign by women, But

0:27:22.400 --> 0:27:25.120
<v Speaker 2>that quote is like, yeah, for any guy who wants

0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:27.040
<v Speaker 2>is fifteen minutes of sexual fame? Do you want to

0:27:27.040 --> 0:27:28.560
<v Speaker 2>feel like a big shot? You know, I feel like

0:27:28.560 --> 0:27:31.879
<v Speaker 2>you're the best at like sex and pleasure right, Like

0:27:31.920 --> 0:27:34.680
<v Speaker 2>you're a fucking sex god. Like that's what will make

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:38.080
<v Speaker 2>you into is that It's like, really, what one taste

0:27:38.119 --> 0:27:38.600
<v Speaker 2>is selling?

0:27:39.119 --> 0:27:43.280
<v Speaker 3>This slow switch to an orgasm is not something that

0:27:43.320 --> 0:27:46.879
<v Speaker 3>happens for women, but at them in this way that

0:27:46.960 --> 0:27:51.560
<v Speaker 3>feels really like that ugh, I don't know it, it's gross.

0:27:51.880 --> 0:27:56.200
<v Speaker 3>It almost like it feels reminiscent to me of like

0:27:56.400 --> 0:28:01.200
<v Speaker 3>a justin Baldoni playbook of like I'm me, Respecting women

0:28:01.400 --> 0:28:04.159
<v Speaker 3>is a business that I have. Yeah, yeah, and it

0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:06.960
<v Speaker 3>is marketed at men, but it's for women, and I

0:28:07.160 --> 0:28:09.960
<v Speaker 3>just happen to be financially benefiting from it.

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:13.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Now, Sophie, I told you to put a pin

0:28:13.240 --> 0:28:16.440
<v Speaker 2>in this. But the moment that most embodied the evolution

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:20.440
<v Speaker 2>of One Taste into Silicon Valley startup was Nicole's Ted

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:26.840
<v Speaker 2>talk Nicole de doone Orgasm the Cure for Hunger, this speech,

0:28:27.320 --> 0:28:30.000
<v Speaker 2>and Sophie's got to play you a long clip from

0:28:30.000 --> 0:28:33.399
<v Speaker 2>this fucking Ted talk that shows you how Nicole is

0:28:33.480 --> 0:28:37.120
<v Speaker 2>pitching this to like a mass audience. This is her

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:41.440
<v Speaker 2>gearing her pitch to like the biggest possible group of people. Right,

0:28:41.560 --> 0:28:45.480
<v Speaker 2>So here is like the mainstream focused look at this.

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:48.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Sands Steva, I just want to give it for

0:28:48.960 --> 0:28:52.160
<v Speaker 1>the for the non Netflix watchers. She's wearing what I

0:28:52.200 --> 0:28:56.920
<v Speaker 1>can only describe as like a peak peak like express.

0:28:57.400 --> 0:28:59.000
<v Speaker 2>It looks like twenty eleven in there.

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:02.880
<v Speaker 1>That's pretty damn express blazer with like with like a

0:29:03.160 --> 0:29:06.800
<v Speaker 1>like a ooh is this a tank underneath? And purple.

0:29:07.800 --> 0:29:11.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's a serious. Woman would never show her arms,

0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 3>so she's very a peaceful blazer, but a little bit

0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:15.520
<v Speaker 3>of cleave is that.

0:29:15.600 --> 0:29:15.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay?

0:29:15.920 --> 0:29:19.160
<v Speaker 5>Sorry, So I figure we're ten people, were fast, we're savvy,

0:29:19.160 --> 0:29:20.880
<v Speaker 5>we're smart, so I'm just going to break the ice

0:29:20.880 --> 0:29:21.160
<v Speaker 5>for us.

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:21.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:33.000
<v Speaker 5>My topic is female orgasm for absolutely odd. So that said,

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:35.560
<v Speaker 5>I want to thank the people of ted X for

0:29:35.600 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 5>having me on this stage. This has been a dream

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:40.400
<v Speaker 5>of mine that I thought was absolutely impossible that we

0:29:40.480 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 5>could have a relevant, intelligent conversation about female orgasm was

0:29:46.720 --> 0:29:49.000
<v Speaker 5>just a distant dream for me. I just fell in

0:29:49.040 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 5>love with this practice. That's what happened for me. I

0:29:50.880 --> 0:29:53.480
<v Speaker 5>gave nearly ten thousand hours to this practice.

0:29:53.480 --> 0:29:55.560
<v Speaker 3>That's a lot of hours.

0:29:57.560 --> 0:30:00.320
<v Speaker 5>But I learned some key things in that time that

0:30:00.360 --> 0:30:03.560
<v Speaker 5>I am bringing to you. The first is that female

0:30:03.680 --> 0:30:07.600
<v Speaker 5>orgasm is vital for every single woman on the planet.

0:30:08.320 --> 0:30:10.200
<v Speaker 5>The second is it's not.

0:30:10.120 --> 0:30:11.280
<v Speaker 3>So bad for the guys either.

0:30:13.360 --> 0:30:16.480
<v Speaker 5>The third, and on a much more serious note, is

0:30:16.480 --> 0:30:22.320
<v Speaker 5>that it roots our fundamental capacity for connection. It's for

0:30:22.400 --> 0:30:26.800
<v Speaker 5>this reason that I believe that at some day, at

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 5>some point, you will hear.

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 3>They cut to two women who let it.

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:38.600
<v Speaker 5>And orgasm, and you won't hear it. Yoga meditation and orgasm.

0:30:38.840 --> 0:30:41.920
<v Speaker 5>So in two thousand and four I found one taste

0:30:42.000 --> 0:30:43.360
<v Speaker 5>urban retreat centers with this.

0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:48.120
<v Speaker 2>I think that's one taste. Yeah, that great.

0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 3>Yes, girl, give us nothing. Oh my god, I love it.

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:57.720
<v Speaker 2>I love it. That's Peak twenty eleven Silicon Valley hype

0:30:57.760 --> 0:31:02.520
<v Speaker 2>train nonsense. She's very very much. She's doing a Steve job.

0:31:02.640 --> 0:31:07.200
<v Speaker 2>She's doing a fucking fairhose. She's she's really trying to

0:31:07.280 --> 0:31:10.200
<v Speaker 2>thread that needle and doing it very honestly, very successfully.

0:31:10.400 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 2>This this this great.

0:31:13.480 --> 0:31:15.560
<v Speaker 1>You know what she was giving. She was like, I

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:19.440
<v Speaker 1>don't shop, but Ann Taylor. I shop, but Ann Taylor lost.

0:31:22.440 --> 0:31:25.920
<v Speaker 3>This is a show. But I really love this is

0:31:25.960 --> 0:31:28.160
<v Speaker 3>I feel like a common feature of any time. I'm

0:31:28.200 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 3>like watching a TEDx talk for whatever reason, that mentioning

0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:34.520
<v Speaker 3>at the top, like, I never thought I would make

0:31:34.560 --> 0:31:38.160
<v Speaker 3>it here when I can guarantee you any garden variety

0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:41.920
<v Speaker 3>narcissist can get a TEDx talk. It is not it

0:31:42.040 --> 0:31:43.040
<v Speaker 3>is not difficult.

0:31:43.680 --> 0:31:47.840
<v Speaker 2>I never thought I would email a fucking PR representative

0:31:47.880 --> 0:31:49.880
<v Speaker 2>and show them, hey, look at how many followers I

0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:52.080
<v Speaker 2>have on social media. Can I have a TEDx talk?

0:31:53.600 --> 0:31:56.040
<v Speaker 3>I never thought, Oh god.

0:31:56.000 --> 0:31:59.479
<v Speaker 2>Like an award and not what every hack and grifter

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:03.400
<v Speaker 2>in the aughts and fucking early twenty teens did a

0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:06.920
<v Speaker 2>fucking TED talk, Like I think we can us olds

0:32:06.960 --> 0:32:09.920
<v Speaker 2>remember when there seemed to be some prestige around ted talks,

0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:12.560
<v Speaker 2>But a lot of it was just a con. You know.

0:32:12.800 --> 0:32:15.800
<v Speaker 2>A lot of it is how a lot of grifters grifted.

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:21.040
<v Speaker 3>Particularly ted X, which is like, yeah, yeah, Sophia was

0:32:21.080 --> 0:32:23.840
<v Speaker 3>reminding me so much of like how we were encouraged

0:32:23.840 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 3>to dress in high school and college. We're like, I'll

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:28.360
<v Speaker 3>look at a picture of myself at nineteen and be like,

0:32:28.400 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 3>why am I dressed like I'm fifty years old?

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:33.240
<v Speaker 1>Why am I wearing business casual?

0:32:33.360 --> 0:32:37.520
<v Speaker 2>To the frack we all dressed in business casual.

0:32:38.520 --> 0:32:41.600
<v Speaker 3>I should have been dressing like a huge slut, and

0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:43.280
<v Speaker 3>it was just such a missed opportunity.

0:32:43.520 --> 0:32:46.000
<v Speaker 1>I have the exact same regret, Jamie.

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:48.680
<v Speaker 3>But you know what, there's always time we could do that.

0:32:49.800 --> 0:32:52.520
<v Speaker 2>I dressed as a huge slut for that period of time,

0:32:52.560 --> 0:32:55.520
<v Speaker 2>which means I only wore ed hardy shirts, my pants

0:32:55.880 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 2>ed hardy shirts, my underwear ed hardy shirts, my ed

0:32:59.800 --> 0:33:03.640
<v Speaker 2>heart are your shirts actually not for Bett Hardy anyway.

0:33:03.320 --> 0:33:07.120
<v Speaker 3>That's the sluttiest thing a man could do at one time.

0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:11.080
<v Speaker 3>So Jamie and I are out here in our.

0:33:11.080 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Ann Taylor law.

0:33:13.000 --> 0:33:15.240
<v Speaker 2>That's right, just like older.

0:33:14.880 --> 0:33:17.040
<v Speaker 3>Than my mother. There truly are pictures of me as

0:33:17.040 --> 0:33:19.520
<v Speaker 3>a teenager where I think I look older than I

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:21.440
<v Speaker 3>do now. It's so bizarre.

0:33:22.760 --> 0:33:26.280
<v Speaker 1>Time I will find a pantsuit pic. I mean, like

0:33:26.320 --> 0:33:29.840
<v Speaker 1>a little pant suit skirt picture that will ruin your day.

0:33:30.640 --> 0:33:32.600
<v Speaker 2>There was a period of time. Yeah, we just thought that,

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:35.080
<v Speaker 2>like everyone was kind of dressed like Hillary Clinton. You know,

0:33:36.280 --> 0:33:38.200
<v Speaker 2>if only, if only that had taken over.

0:33:38.120 --> 0:33:42.120
<v Speaker 1>Hillary Clinton wishes. She found this outfit that I definitely

0:33:42.120 --> 0:33:43.880
<v Speaker 1>got from H and M on sale.

0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:45.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know.

0:33:46.960 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 2>So, while Nicole was absent from the two different warehouses

0:33:49.960 --> 0:33:52.120
<v Speaker 2>that her cult members lived in over the years, she

0:33:52.240 --> 0:33:55.320
<v Speaker 2>was always present in spirit. And by that I mean

0:33:55.440 --> 0:33:58.720
<v Speaker 2>Nicole picked who slept in each bed. She had like

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:03.480
<v Speaker 2>a seating chart for beds in the commune spaces, and

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:06.640
<v Speaker 2>she would decide who was sleeping with who and paired

0:34:06.680 --> 0:34:09.440
<v Speaker 2>with who is a research partner and for all that.

0:34:09.600 --> 0:34:12.520
<v Speaker 2>Nicole over the years she would sometimes date women and

0:34:12.560 --> 0:34:15.360
<v Speaker 2>she would portray herself. And one taste is very queer

0:34:15.440 --> 0:34:19.279
<v Speaker 2>positive because it's the aughts and the twenty teens in

0:34:19.320 --> 0:34:21.879
<v Speaker 2>the bay and you have to. But despite all that,

0:34:22.040 --> 0:34:26.440
<v Speaker 2>one tastes, teaching and practice were very heteronormative and very

0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:29.040
<v Speaker 2>much like anti queer in a lot of ways.

0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:34.200
<v Speaker 3>Well, even what how she was talking about sex and

0:34:34.360 --> 0:34:39.240
<v Speaker 3>orgasms felt just yeah, like because she's ultimately her customers

0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:40.880
<v Speaker 3>are men.

0:34:40.480 --> 0:34:44.160
<v Speaker 2>Right, yes, exactly exactly, so I mean well not, I

0:34:44.200 --> 0:34:47.359
<v Speaker 2>mean there are like she does have to get a

0:34:47.400 --> 0:34:51.640
<v Speaker 2>certain number of like female like customers buying in and

0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:54.160
<v Speaker 2>getting into the cult because she needs to use their

0:34:54.200 --> 0:34:56.960
<v Speaker 2>bodies in order to further the business. So it is

0:34:57.000 --> 0:34:59.319
<v Speaker 2>true that and we've talked about this, right, Like in

0:34:59.320 --> 0:35:00.920
<v Speaker 2>the last episode, I showed you this was kind of

0:35:00.960 --> 0:35:03.400
<v Speaker 2>the pitches she's making it to a lot of these women,

0:35:04.760 --> 0:35:08.120
<v Speaker 2>But it is they like, the money part of the

0:35:08.120 --> 0:35:11.880
<v Speaker 2>cult is entirely focused at selling to men, right. She

0:35:11.960 --> 0:35:15.319
<v Speaker 2>has to sell one taste to women to get the

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:19.280
<v Speaker 2>workforce that she then basically traffics to get the money

0:35:19.360 --> 0:35:21.640
<v Speaker 2>from the guys. Right, So there is kind of a

0:35:21.640 --> 0:35:24.120
<v Speaker 2>two part aspect of it, I guess, which is important

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:24.600
<v Speaker 2>to see.

0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:27.839
<v Speaker 3>The name never gets easier to hear.

0:35:28.120 --> 0:35:31.480
<v Speaker 2>I have to say, it's always upsetting. So as I

0:35:31.600 --> 0:35:34.760
<v Speaker 2>was saying men, it is very heteronormative, like the actual

0:35:34.880 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 2>cults teaching, and Nicole is like kind of really anti

0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:41.080
<v Speaker 2>queer past a certain point, men and women are always

0:35:41.280 --> 0:35:43.880
<v Speaker 2>pretty much paired together as far as I can tell,

0:35:44.239 --> 0:35:48.160
<v Speaker 2>and Nicole would even break up existing queer relationships when

0:35:48.200 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 2>people joined the group in order to pair them with

0:35:51.760 --> 0:35:56.959
<v Speaker 2>opposite sex partners because she doesn't think queer relationships are real.

0:35:57.560 --> 0:36:00.759
<v Speaker 2>The bleakest example of this is probably the story of

0:36:00.840 --> 0:36:03.680
<v Speaker 2>two One Taste members, Jamie and Caitlin. They are a

0:36:03.800 --> 0:36:05.439
<v Speaker 2>lesbian couple who were drawn.

0:36:06.280 --> 0:36:12.440
<v Speaker 3>Hold On said, look, I can tell you I fake names.

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:16.120
<v Speaker 2>I think these are fake names that I believe because

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:19.360
<v Speaker 2>I found this account from Ellen Hewitt's book Empirate of Orgasm.

0:36:19.400 --> 0:36:22.000
<v Speaker 2>I think she's using pseudonyms for these people, right.

0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:28.160
<v Speaker 3>I think she's a or she wants I don't know.

0:36:29.320 --> 0:36:33.120
<v Speaker 2>These are sympathetic people. So Jamie and Caitlyn. This, Jamie

0:36:33.120 --> 0:36:35.799
<v Speaker 2>and Caitlyn are a lesbian couple who get into One Taste.

0:36:35.840 --> 0:36:39.279
<v Speaker 2>They're like teenagers, they're young adults, very young adults, and

0:36:39.320 --> 0:36:42.880
<v Speaker 2>they're broke, and so they're both obviously interested in female

0:36:42.960 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 2>pleasure because they're lesbians. But they also don't have any money,

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:48.600
<v Speaker 2>and so being able to live for free in the

0:36:48.640 --> 0:36:52.040
<v Speaker 2>bay and this warehouse seems kind of rad as soon

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 2>as they move in, and again they move in as

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:58.200
<v Speaker 2>a as a partnership, as a unit. Nicole tells them, well,

0:36:58.400 --> 0:37:01.360
<v Speaker 2>this this all is about exploration. We're all trying to grow,

0:37:01.800 --> 0:37:04.040
<v Speaker 2>and you're not going to grow if you just stay

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:06.480
<v Speaker 2>with like the partner that you like, and you're not

0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:09.600
<v Speaker 2>going to grow as a queer woman. You can't grow

0:37:09.680 --> 0:37:11.880
<v Speaker 2>by just having sex with the people you're attracted to.

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:16.040
<v Speaker 2>You can only grow by by having male partners. That's

0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:18.799
<v Speaker 2>the only way to grow as a queer one, right,

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:21.000
<v Speaker 2>and so you should you need where you need to

0:37:21.080 --> 0:37:24.480
<v Speaker 2>experiment with your sexuality by letting men oweim you, right

0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 2>and eventually by having sex with men. Now, in public,

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:30.719
<v Speaker 2>o wiming is all that one taste is about, and

0:37:30.800 --> 0:37:34.520
<v Speaker 2>in public owim is described in almost asexual terms because

0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:38.239
<v Speaker 2>they really want to avoid the allegations that they're just

0:37:38.320 --> 0:37:42.760
<v Speaker 2>trafficking and sex. But within the actual commune, people aren't

0:37:42.840 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 2>just oimming two times a day in the morning and

0:37:45.120 --> 0:37:47.800
<v Speaker 2>two times at night. They're being commanded buying a cold

0:37:47.920 --> 0:37:51.400
<v Speaker 2>to have intercourse. Right when she's pairing people up for beds.

0:37:51.680 --> 0:37:55.000
<v Speaker 2>Those aren't just your om partners. You're ordered to fuck them.

0:37:55.400 --> 0:37:58.879
<v Speaker 2>And so Caitlin and Jamie are paired with dudes in

0:37:58.920 --> 0:38:02.120
<v Speaker 2>the cult, often with dudes you know, maybe who have

0:38:02.239 --> 0:38:05.719
<v Speaker 2>some money that are that that Nicole wants to make

0:38:05.719 --> 0:38:08.680
<v Speaker 2>sure stay right. But they're told they have to fuck

0:38:08.760 --> 0:38:11.760
<v Speaker 2>dudes to level up. Basically in order to like gain

0:38:12.200 --> 0:38:14.920
<v Speaker 2>XP in this cult system, in order to make your

0:38:15.040 --> 0:38:17.640
<v Speaker 2>orgasm more powerful, you have to do these things that

0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:20.720
<v Speaker 2>you're physically uncomfortable with because you're not into guys. I'm

0:38:20.719 --> 0:38:21.480
<v Speaker 2>gonna quote.

0:38:21.280 --> 0:38:25.200
<v Speaker 3>From well at this point, are Jamie and Caitlin as

0:38:25.239 --> 0:38:29.800
<v Speaker 3>an ally to both are Are Jamie and Caitlin paying

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:33.279
<v Speaker 3>for this? Or are they quote unquote being paid in

0:38:33.560 --> 0:38:34.280
<v Speaker 3>free logic?

0:38:34.440 --> 0:38:37.000
<v Speaker 2>Like how there what they're being paid? I think mostly

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:39.080
<v Speaker 2>in free life, I think because a lot of members

0:38:39.120 --> 0:38:41.440
<v Speaker 2>do pay, but a lot of the ones who don't

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:44.440
<v Speaker 2>are the women, especially the younger women, and these two

0:38:44.520 --> 0:38:47.880
<v Speaker 2>are broke, so I don't think they now maybe because

0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 2>they are getting some money when they're working for the company,

0:38:52.680 --> 0:38:56.160
<v Speaker 2>but it's it's very uneven and those one taste will

0:38:56.160 --> 0:38:59.040
<v Speaker 2>switch up what you're being paid at the last minute,

0:38:59.080 --> 0:39:01.720
<v Speaker 2>and often you're feeding that right back into the company.

0:39:01.840 --> 0:39:04.040
<v Speaker 2>So to that extent, maybe they're being given money that

0:39:04.080 --> 0:39:05.840
<v Speaker 2>they then have to Yeah, I'm not sure how it

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:09.000
<v Speaker 2>works for every individual person. It's kind of out different

0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:12.839
<v Speaker 2>for everybody, depending on your position and what Nicole is

0:39:12.880 --> 0:39:16.160
<v Speaker 2>getting out of you. Right, But to quote from the

0:39:16.160 --> 0:39:19.400
<v Speaker 2>book Empire of Orgasm, Jamie said that in courses she

0:39:19.520 --> 0:39:22.640
<v Speaker 2>heard a repeated message, all women are hungry for cock.

0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:25.400
<v Speaker 2>If you're not feeling cock hungry, you're not connected to

0:39:25.440 --> 0:39:29.200
<v Speaker 2>a part of yourself. Right. This is very anti queer. Now,

0:39:29.239 --> 0:39:32.560
<v Speaker 2>eventually both women start having sex with male members of

0:39:32.600 --> 0:39:35.680
<v Speaker 2>the group, and this is psychologically devastating to Jamie, who

0:39:35.680 --> 0:39:37.920
<v Speaker 2>started to feel like her desire for her girlfriend or

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:40.000
<v Speaker 2>the woman because they're broke. They've been broken up forcibly

0:39:40.040 --> 0:39:42.040
<v Speaker 2>by now, but the person who had been her girlfriend

0:39:42.120 --> 0:39:45.920
<v Speaker 2>was wrong. She convinces herself to push on because Nicole

0:39:46.040 --> 0:39:48.399
<v Speaker 2>keeps teaching her resistance is key to growth, and she

0:39:48.480 --> 0:39:53.400
<v Speaker 2>really admires Nicole, and she also needs this place to live. Experiences,

0:39:53.600 --> 0:39:57.560
<v Speaker 2>Nicole tells Jamie, aren't good or bad for you. Experiences

0:39:57.800 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 2>aren't good or bad at all. You choose. It's the meaning.

0:40:01.200 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 2>So you are, if you're deciding that this is an

0:40:04.400 --> 0:40:07.040
<v Speaker 2>unpleasant sexual experience, that's because you made a choice. You

0:40:07.080 --> 0:40:08.799
<v Speaker 2>could choose for it to be a good one. Why

0:40:08.800 --> 0:40:11.279
<v Speaker 2>aren't you choosing for it to be a good one? Right, right?

0:40:11.400 --> 0:40:12.520
<v Speaker 2>The fucking abusive this.

0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:15.680
<v Speaker 3>Logic, this is just like yeah, and all under and

0:40:16.000 --> 0:40:20.520
<v Speaker 3>it still sort of falls under the like early twenty

0:40:20.600 --> 0:40:24.399
<v Speaker 3>tens definition of like being pro woman is. I mean,

0:40:24.680 --> 0:40:27.240
<v Speaker 3>you could even extend this to like Cheryl Sandberg logic

0:40:27.320 --> 0:40:30.280
<v Speaker 3>of like it is your fault that you are feeling

0:40:30.360 --> 0:40:34.120
<v Speaker 3>oppressed and abused, and it is on you to behave

0:40:34.200 --> 0:40:36.360
<v Speaker 3>the right way to be accepted in this environment.

0:40:37.200 --> 0:40:38.920
<v Speaker 2>Yep, And there's bits of all there's bits of the

0:40:38.960 --> 0:40:41.239
<v Speaker 2>secret in there, right, you just have to change your

0:40:41.280 --> 0:40:45.120
<v Speaker 2>attitude and you can change reality. And you can see

0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:48.440
<v Speaker 2>both how people don't necessarily pick this out as poisonous initially,

0:40:48.440 --> 0:40:53.080
<v Speaker 2>but also how running with this logic, the obvious instate

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:55.640
<v Speaker 2>of this is that like, there's no such thing as rape. Ever,

0:40:55.960 --> 0:40:58.880
<v Speaker 2>if experiences are not bad or good, there can't be

0:40:58.960 --> 0:41:01.920
<v Speaker 2>such a thing as rape. You are choosing to be

0:41:02.080 --> 0:41:04.880
<v Speaker 2>raped if you're raped, because you're choosing to interpret that

0:41:04.920 --> 0:41:08.800
<v Speaker 2>as a bad experience. This is directly in those words

0:41:08.840 --> 0:41:11.719
<v Speaker 2>what Nicole will eventually be teaching her followers, right and

0:41:11.760 --> 0:41:14.160
<v Speaker 2>not I'm so, I know it's really bad.

0:41:14.520 --> 0:41:20.680
<v Speaker 3>Like that is Yeah, that's horrifict It's so real. It's

0:41:21.080 --> 0:41:24.520
<v Speaker 3>oh god, it's like that. Even in the way she's

0:41:24.600 --> 0:41:29.000
<v Speaker 3>like the number of like pressure points she's attempting to

0:41:29.480 --> 0:41:33.560
<v Speaker 3>attack is like she's sort of telling people to dissociate,

0:41:34.160 --> 0:41:37.520
<v Speaker 3>but also telling them that, like the failure to do so,

0:41:37.640 --> 0:41:40.000
<v Speaker 3>or the failure to feel pleasure or pleasure doesn't exist

0:41:40.000 --> 0:41:43.279
<v Speaker 3>because its abuse is a personal failure. But it also

0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:44.960
<v Speaker 3>sounds like she's like, well, if you don't like it,

0:41:45.000 --> 0:41:48.399
<v Speaker 3>then just pretend you're a person who likes it.

0:41:48.520 --> 0:41:50.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, pretend you're a person who likes it. Why why

0:41:50.719 --> 0:41:54.279
<v Speaker 2>can't you do that? And it's you'll, well, well yeah,

0:41:54.280 --> 0:41:57.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean yeah, we'll keep talking. So in time, Jamie

0:41:57.760 --> 0:42:00.560
<v Speaker 2>becomes a coach and she starts to see success in

0:42:00.600 --> 0:42:03.160
<v Speaker 2>the organization, and this success, the fact that she's moving

0:42:03.280 --> 0:42:06.279
<v Speaker 2>up the ladder, so to speak, validates is like the

0:42:06.320 --> 0:42:08.560
<v Speaker 2>first she because again, this is a young queer woman

0:42:08.560 --> 0:42:10.279
<v Speaker 2>who doesn't have a lot of life experience. You've seen

0:42:10.320 --> 0:42:13.200
<v Speaker 2>I think had a pretty rough background, and so this

0:42:13.320 --> 0:42:16.920
<v Speaker 2>is like the first validation she's gotten as an adult person.

0:42:17.160 --> 0:42:20.759
<v Speaker 2>So she becomes extremely loyal, even though this is she's

0:42:20.760 --> 0:42:23.400
<v Speaker 2>been horribly abused by this cult, which is a common

0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:27.240
<v Speaker 2>cold story, right sure. Yeah. So then in twenty twelve,

0:42:27.680 --> 0:42:30.480
<v Speaker 2>Nicole calls Jamie and Caitlin in for a little one

0:42:30.520 --> 0:42:33.760
<v Speaker 2>on one and she informs them she's breaking up with Reese,

0:42:33.800 --> 0:42:36.360
<v Speaker 2>the Silicon Valley millionaire who had kept the cult alive

0:42:36.400 --> 0:42:38.799
<v Speaker 2>through its bad years. But she still owes him a

0:42:38.840 --> 0:42:42.400
<v Speaker 2>lot of money from all the you know, because he's

0:42:42.440 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 2>calling in basically you know, the loans he'd given them, the.

0:42:45.920 --> 0:42:49.439
<v Speaker 3>Amount of like discarded one taste guys at this point

0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:51.520
<v Speaker 3>could like unionize.

0:42:51.440 --> 0:42:54.960
<v Speaker 2>And it she hasn't. I don't fully understand the financials here.

0:42:55.320 --> 0:42:59.120
<v Speaker 2>She does not discard him. Some reports I've said, suggest

0:42:59.160 --> 0:43:02.400
<v Speaker 2>that she repays him by twenty twelve, that she's repaid

0:43:02.440 --> 0:43:04.720
<v Speaker 2>him for like the million dollars that he loans the COLT.

0:43:05.200 --> 0:43:07.280
<v Speaker 2>But that's when this is all happening, And that doesn't

0:43:07.400 --> 0:43:10.280
<v Speaker 2>entirely line up with this, because this suggests she's still

0:43:10.320 --> 0:43:13.080
<v Speaker 2>getting some money from him in twenty twelve. I don't

0:43:13.120 --> 0:43:15.719
<v Speaker 2>fully know, and I don't claim to know at which

0:43:15.760 --> 0:43:18.160
<v Speaker 2>point was Reese giving the Colt money, which point was

0:43:18.200 --> 0:43:21.799
<v Speaker 2>Rees receiving money, But whatever the case, at this point

0:43:21.840 --> 0:43:24.520
<v Speaker 2>in twenty twelve, she still wants to keep Reese in

0:43:24.560 --> 0:43:27.200
<v Speaker 2>the fold, even though she's breaking up with him, right

0:43:27.920 --> 0:43:31.080
<v Speaker 2>because she tells Nicole, I'm not gonna I have to

0:43:31.120 --> 0:43:33.879
<v Speaker 2>move to Los Angeles because I've important work to do there,

0:43:33.880 --> 0:43:35.640
<v Speaker 2>which is she's trying to find more rich guys. Right,

0:43:36.640 --> 0:43:39.920
<v Speaker 2>But Reese needs a handler, and I've been his handler

0:43:40.080 --> 0:43:43.160
<v Speaker 2>for the last, you know, several years. And in my place,

0:43:43.239 --> 0:43:46.400
<v Speaker 2>I need you two to be Reese's handlers so that

0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:49.120
<v Speaker 2>I can move on to Los Angeles. And here's how

0:43:49.120 --> 0:43:52.680
<v Speaker 2>Ellen Hewitt describes what happens next. Jamie paused everything she

0:43:52.800 --> 0:43:54.839
<v Speaker 2>learned up to this point had primed her to say

0:43:54.920 --> 0:43:58.080
<v Speaker 2>yes to the position, and to do so willingly, idolizing Nicole,

0:43:58.480 --> 0:44:00.680
<v Speaker 2>becoming accustomed to having sex with me, and to having

0:44:00.719 --> 0:44:03.440
<v Speaker 2>sex with any kind of man, getting off on any stroke.

0:44:03.719 --> 0:44:06.440
<v Speaker 2>Being told that she should provide anything to help the company.

0:44:06.640 --> 0:44:09.360
<v Speaker 2>Plus being asked to be Reese's handler felt like an honor.

0:44:09.680 --> 0:44:11.920
<v Speaker 2>Jamie knew that only a few women in One Tastes

0:44:12.000 --> 0:44:15.279
<v Speaker 2>history had held the same position. They were often Nicole's confidants,

0:44:15.360 --> 0:44:18.600
<v Speaker 2>an admired group. She also knew the unspoken threat. The

0:44:18.680 --> 0:44:21.800
<v Speaker 2>consequence of saying no is that you would be ostracized, ignored,

0:44:21.840 --> 0:44:25.440
<v Speaker 2>and stripped of all your power in that world. Jamie said, So,

0:44:26.480 --> 0:44:29.279
<v Speaker 2>I want to be clear that last bit, the fact

0:44:29.320 --> 0:44:32.520
<v Speaker 2>that if you displease Nicole, if you like wind up

0:44:32.560 --> 0:44:35.360
<v Speaker 2>on the outskirts, you'll be kicked out. You'll lose everything

0:44:35.480 --> 0:44:38.040
<v Speaker 2>that you've gotten from this world. That is something she

0:44:38.320 --> 0:44:44.120
<v Speaker 2>directly tells people during lectures after everyone has experienced orgasmic meditation,

0:44:44.239 --> 0:44:47.839
<v Speaker 2>When folks, you're in this powerful cathartic afterglow, she will

0:44:47.880 --> 0:44:49.719
<v Speaker 2>tell them. This is a direct quote from one of

0:44:49.719 --> 0:44:52.720
<v Speaker 2>her sessions. That's why this place is called one taste.

0:44:52.760 --> 0:44:55.640
<v Speaker 2>Once you've tasted being inside of yourself and knowing yourself,

0:44:55.800 --> 0:44:57.680
<v Speaker 2>there is some part of your soul that will always

0:44:57.719 --> 0:45:00.000
<v Speaker 2>crawl to get back. The truth is, if you get

0:45:00.120 --> 0:45:04.399
<v Speaker 2>kicked out, your soul will never relax again. She's very

0:45:04.440 --> 0:45:05.319
<v Speaker 2>direct about this.

0:45:05.719 --> 0:45:08.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, and she's also like just describing chasing

0:45:08.920 --> 0:45:09.719
<v Speaker 3>a drag.

0:45:09.560 --> 0:45:12.960
<v Speaker 2>And chasing a high. And one of the things when

0:45:12.960 --> 0:45:14.680
<v Speaker 2>this becomes a quirky people say no one was ever

0:45:14.760 --> 0:45:16.680
<v Speaker 2>forced to have sex with anyone. No one was ever

0:45:16.760 --> 0:45:20.520
<v Speaker 2>forced to stay, and they weren't. They were just heavily

0:45:20.600 --> 0:45:23.439
<v Speaker 2>coerced and basically told that life will be like a gray,

0:45:23.560 --> 0:45:26.560
<v Speaker 2>colorless hell of an experience if you get forced out

0:45:26.560 --> 0:45:30.280
<v Speaker 2>of this group because you fuck this rich guy, right.

0:45:29.440 --> 0:45:31.600
<v Speaker 3>You're like, well, yeah, maybe then in that case we

0:45:31.640 --> 0:45:33.839
<v Speaker 3>should expand the definition a little bit.

0:45:35.360 --> 0:45:39.640
<v Speaker 2>So by twenty twelve, One Taste has totally come around

0:45:39.640 --> 0:45:43.000
<v Speaker 2>to becoming like seen as a tech startup, to fashioning

0:45:43.040 --> 0:45:46.680
<v Speaker 2>itself that way. Her followers in public face and communications

0:45:46.880 --> 0:45:49.880
<v Speaker 2>are talking less about all the crazy parties and a

0:45:49.880 --> 0:45:52.880
<v Speaker 2>lot more about how Nicole is like a philosopher but

0:45:53.000 --> 0:45:55.200
<v Speaker 2>also like a Steve Jobs figure.

0:45:55.520 --> 0:45:58.279
<v Speaker 3>Right, what is she selling you though? Like, what is

0:45:58.320 --> 0:45:59.680
<v Speaker 3>the product exactly?

0:46:00.239 --> 0:46:01.520
<v Speaker 2>Or has any power? Magic?

0:46:02.040 --> 0:46:05.759
<v Speaker 3>God? Oh, I guess, I guess it's at least we're

0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:10.239
<v Speaker 3>not having children overseas manufacturing customs.

0:46:10.360 --> 0:46:16.319
<v Speaker 2>Sure, jesus. So in the years after twenty twelve, you know,

0:46:16.640 --> 0:46:19.520
<v Speaker 2>One Taste finally gets in the black right. It had

0:46:19.560 --> 0:46:22.239
<v Speaker 2>been struggling. It had been utterly reliant upon these like

0:46:22.400 --> 0:46:25.560
<v Speaker 2>infusions of cash from these rich dudes, and that's not

0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:28.279
<v Speaker 2>really the case, I mean kind of. After twenty twelve,

0:46:28.320 --> 0:46:31.160
<v Speaker 2>it's it's it's profitable. After twenty twelve, the money is

0:46:31.200 --> 0:46:33.520
<v Speaker 2>still coming from like rich guys we're paying for sex,

0:46:33.640 --> 0:46:37.479
<v Speaker 2>right sure, but not one rich not one rich guy,

0:46:37.600 --> 0:46:39.759
<v Speaker 2>and not her saying hey, I need a loan, and

0:46:39.840 --> 0:46:43.040
<v Speaker 2>it's her instead selling courses to these guys. Right, So

0:46:43.080 --> 0:46:45.400
<v Speaker 2>it's no longer loan. It's like it is a profitable

0:46:45.400 --> 0:46:48.760
<v Speaker 2>business after this point. In fact, a quite profitable business.

0:46:49.160 --> 0:46:52.160
<v Speaker 2>One Taste not only repays Reese, but it starts to

0:46:52.239 --> 0:46:55.040
<v Speaker 2>succeed on its own, raking in millions a year. And

0:46:55.080 --> 0:46:57.439
<v Speaker 2>they do this. They make this switch in large part

0:46:57.520 --> 0:47:00.920
<v Speaker 2>by copying something Nicole had seen from the yoga industry.

0:47:01.360 --> 0:47:03.960
<v Speaker 2>So during the first part of the twenty first century,

0:47:04.000 --> 0:47:07.719
<v Speaker 2>a lot of yoga studios begin offering teacher training. Now

0:47:07.800 --> 0:47:10.880
<v Speaker 2>this qualifies somebody to teach a different kind of yoga.

0:47:11.280 --> 0:47:15.280
<v Speaker 2>Most attendees who do teach your training don't become yoga

0:47:15.320 --> 0:47:18.000
<v Speaker 2>teachers because there's not that many yoga teacher jobs, and

0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:20.239
<v Speaker 2>so it's often they're doing it for self improvement. It's

0:47:20.280 --> 0:47:22.239
<v Speaker 2>being pitched as like a well you take to teach

0:47:22.239 --> 0:47:24.520
<v Speaker 2>your class because it makes you that much better, right,

0:47:24.840 --> 0:47:26.759
<v Speaker 2>And these are expense and there's and I'm not if

0:47:26.760 --> 0:47:29.160
<v Speaker 2>you do if you like, that's fine, right whatever. There

0:47:29.160 --> 0:47:31.279
<v Speaker 2>are some cults within yoga, but also it's fine to

0:47:31.320 --> 0:47:33.279
<v Speaker 2>pay money to get better at a thing that you

0:47:33.440 --> 0:47:35.239
<v Speaker 2>like to do. Right, I'm not shitting on it.

0:47:35.239 --> 0:47:37.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying I s receive a gentle touch from

0:47:37.640 --> 0:47:39.840
<v Speaker 3>a beautiful woman. This is what I mean when it's like,

0:47:39.880 --> 0:47:42.040
<v Speaker 3>we all got our toes in the call.

0:47:42.280 --> 0:47:46.080
<v Speaker 2>Right, a little bit piece, and so she takes that

0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:48.960
<v Speaker 2>idea and moves it over to one taste. So she

0:47:49.080 --> 0:47:51.920
<v Speaker 2>starts selling teaching courses and this is like, this will

0:47:51.960 --> 0:47:54.600
<v Speaker 2>certify you to teach om and to do classes of

0:47:54.640 --> 0:47:58.000
<v Speaker 2>your own right. And there's often more advanced because there's

0:47:58.080 --> 0:48:01.400
<v Speaker 2>there's endless layers and endless Every teacher always wants to

0:48:01.400 --> 0:48:02.920
<v Speaker 2>be you have to be up on the latest thing.

0:48:02.960 --> 0:48:05.320
<v Speaker 2>So every year there's a new class about the stuff

0:48:05.320 --> 0:48:06.960
<v Speaker 2>that you have to get to stay certified. And it's

0:48:06.960 --> 0:48:09.720
<v Speaker 2>another five to ten thousand dollars. Right, these are multi

0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:12.080
<v Speaker 2>day courses. Again, these are a lot of these are

0:48:12.239 --> 0:48:13.400
<v Speaker 2>hugely expensive.

0:48:13.920 --> 0:48:17.760
<v Speaker 3>And I'm assuming that the teacher is the teacher. Training

0:48:17.840 --> 0:48:19.320
<v Speaker 3>also includes abuse.

0:48:20.520 --> 0:48:24.120
<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, I mean yes, like that like big sure yes.

0:48:24.560 --> 0:48:27.560
<v Speaker 2>Now Nicole had offered a coaching program since twenty twelve,

0:48:28.120 --> 0:48:31.000
<v Speaker 2>and this takes off. It's successfully, they make money of it,

0:48:31.040 --> 0:48:34.160
<v Speaker 2>so increasingly One Taste pours all of its efforts into

0:48:34.239 --> 0:48:38.640
<v Speaker 2>either hosting coaching classes or selling them. Right, They recruit

0:48:38.719 --> 0:48:41.680
<v Speaker 2>a huge crop of students in twenty twelve, and eventually

0:48:41.680 --> 0:48:44.400
<v Speaker 2>they are going to license or whatever, more than thirteen

0:48:44.480 --> 0:48:47.320
<v Speaker 2>hundred people as home coaches, each of whom have paid

0:48:47.840 --> 0:48:50.520
<v Speaker 2>probably well in access of ten grand to get to

0:48:50.560 --> 0:48:54.680
<v Speaker 2>that point, right, in some cases much more. The company

0:48:54.719 --> 0:48:57.600
<v Speaker 2>starts turning a profit in twenty thirteen, and before long

0:48:57.640 --> 0:49:00.920
<v Speaker 2>they are making a surprising amount of money. Olbrigan's bringing

0:49:00.960 --> 0:49:03.640
<v Speaker 2>in celebrity guests to provide a sheen of legitimacy. They

0:49:03.680 --> 0:49:06.200
<v Speaker 2>start doing cult events. They have these like One Taste

0:49:06.200 --> 0:49:08.359
<v Speaker 2>Mastery for which are like these big you know, they're

0:49:08.400 --> 0:49:12.160
<v Speaker 2>these like conferences and stuff for the One Taste family

0:49:12.239 --> 0:49:14.359
<v Speaker 2>for all the people who were coaches. Because now there's

0:49:14.360 --> 0:49:16.880
<v Speaker 2>One Taste houses in different states, they're starting to fill up,

0:49:16.880 --> 0:49:19.360
<v Speaker 2>and people are doing classes outside of the Bay Area.

0:49:19.560 --> 0:49:22.719
<v Speaker 2>So they're doing these courses, and she's hiring celebrities to

0:49:22.840 --> 0:49:24.880
<v Speaker 2>like talk to everybody at the start of these like

0:49:24.920 --> 0:49:27.920
<v Speaker 2>three day and five day events. For one event in

0:49:27.960 --> 0:49:32.080
<v Speaker 2>twenty thirteen, she hires doctor Joscelyn Elders, the former Attorney General,

0:49:32.360 --> 0:49:36.920
<v Speaker 2>who tells students you are part of a new sexual revolution. Great,

0:49:37.120 --> 0:49:40.959
<v Speaker 2>thank you, Jocelyn. Wow. I'm sure she just cast the jetway.

0:49:41.600 --> 0:49:44.759
<v Speaker 3>It is always wild hearing these celebrities that you that

0:49:45.560 --> 0:49:49.239
<v Speaker 3>cult managed to back for things like this. It's a

0:49:50.960 --> 0:49:54.600
<v Speaker 3>it's a good reminder that people are desperate for attention

0:49:54.880 --> 0:49:58.080
<v Speaker 3>and refuse to do even a basic level of research.

0:49:58.560 --> 0:50:01.080
<v Speaker 2>Of course, not that's offensive. So I want to show

0:50:01.120 --> 0:50:03.560
<v Speaker 2>you guys an example of an ad for one Tastes

0:50:03.719 --> 0:50:06.400
<v Speaker 2>Mastery program, which is one of their like really advanced,

0:50:06.520 --> 0:50:09.279
<v Speaker 2>you know, certifications. So Sophia is going to play that

0:50:09.400 --> 0:50:09.879
<v Speaker 2>for us.

0:50:10.160 --> 0:50:13.280
<v Speaker 1>Now looks like the masterclass logo.

0:50:13.640 --> 0:50:16.480
<v Speaker 3>I was gonna say, it does the very tech logo.

0:50:17.080 --> 0:50:19.480
<v Speaker 2>Master class master something else.

0:50:22.200 --> 0:50:25.280
<v Speaker 1>It's like, this is a course in how to open

0:50:25.320 --> 0:50:26.000
<v Speaker 1>your sex life.

0:50:26.160 --> 0:50:30.160
<v Speaker 3>It's a way for you to research what your actual

0:50:30.239 --> 0:50:31.040
<v Speaker 3>boundaries are.

0:50:32.719 --> 0:50:34.960
<v Speaker 5>I like to make sure that my whole mouth, my.

0:50:34.920 --> 0:50:37.320
<v Speaker 2>Whole tones without boundaries.

0:50:39.239 --> 0:50:42.000
<v Speaker 3>And it takes sex to a whole new paradigm. I

0:50:42.120 --> 0:50:45.120
<v Speaker 3>learned how to slow down and actually feel everything that's

0:50:45.200 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 3>happening versus constantly being in my life.

0:50:51.760 --> 0:51:03.479
<v Speaker 2>Yes, oh my god, looks great.

0:51:04.160 --> 0:51:04.440
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:51:05.239 --> 0:51:06.959
<v Speaker 2>I love that. One of their quotes is.

0:51:08.760 --> 0:51:14.120
<v Speaker 3>Sex about boundaries. Now there's at least three phrases present

0:51:14.200 --> 0:51:20.440
<v Speaker 3>in the advertising that could plausibly describe assault. Energetic sex

0:51:21.160 --> 0:51:23.799
<v Speaker 3>also feels kind of like a line also with all

0:51:23.800 --> 0:51:27.480
<v Speaker 3>of these, I mean, I guess something that like feels

0:51:27.480 --> 0:51:30.799
<v Speaker 3>like a big other than like the techification of this

0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:34.600
<v Speaker 3>sex cult. It's like been decades since this has been

0:51:34.680 --> 0:51:38.759
<v Speaker 3>accessible to anyone who doesn't have an insane amount of

0:51:38.800 --> 0:51:41.360
<v Speaker 3>disposable because like the original.

0:51:41.320 --> 0:51:43.600
<v Speaker 2>Is going to be trafficked, right yeah.

0:51:43.239 --> 0:51:46.480
<v Speaker 3>Right, where it's like the the the earlier sex cults

0:51:46.480 --> 0:51:49.840
<v Speaker 3>were like at least you could beat, you could be

0:51:49.880 --> 0:51:52.040
<v Speaker 3>trafficked as someone who doesn't have a lot of money

0:51:52.120 --> 0:51:56.319
<v Speaker 3>laying around, Yeah right yeah. The cuts to rooms full

0:51:56.480 --> 0:51:59.120
<v Speaker 3>of white people with bad haircuts really does kind of

0:51:59.120 --> 0:52:03.080
<v Speaker 3>pull it all into foe of like, what's going on here? God,

0:52:03.120 --> 0:52:03.799
<v Speaker 3>that's so bleak.

0:52:05.120 --> 0:52:12.480
<v Speaker 2>It's really yeah. Yeah, isn't that remarkable? It's so mlm me,

0:52:12.960 --> 0:52:17.120
<v Speaker 2>it's so yeah, I I it's it's really upsetting to me,

0:52:17.160 --> 0:52:20.160
<v Speaker 2>it's upsetting, like again coming out of like the sex positive,

0:52:20.360 --> 0:52:24.000
<v Speaker 2>you know community, the kink community, like the idea that

0:52:24.000 --> 0:52:26.400
<v Speaker 2>anyone could hear the phrase sex without boundaries and not

0:52:26.480 --> 0:52:30.000
<v Speaker 2>immediately be like, whoa wait a second, what are you

0:52:30.200 --> 0:52:34.160
<v Speaker 2>talking about? What do you mean by that? Because that's

0:52:34.200 --> 0:52:36.600
<v Speaker 2>a that's a dangerous phrase.

0:52:37.080 --> 0:52:40.640
<v Speaker 3>Right, and it feels so that's why it's like going

0:52:40.680 --> 0:52:42.799
<v Speaker 3>back to the New York Times article, like it's so

0:52:43.000 --> 0:52:47.399
<v Speaker 3>clearly preying on people who don't have basic, a basic understanding,

0:52:47.480 --> 0:52:52.760
<v Speaker 3>and it's just how they imagine like non vanilla sect

0:52:52.760 --> 0:52:55.040
<v Speaker 3>to work, right, non vanilla sex to work.

0:52:55.360 --> 0:52:59.360
<v Speaker 1>That video really really really reminded me of nexium.

0:52:59.560 --> 0:53:02.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's very similar, and I didn't catch this until

0:53:02.920 --> 0:53:06.080
<v Speaker 2>right now, But honestly, that's part of what's most upsetting

0:53:06.120 --> 0:53:09.760
<v Speaker 2>to me about all of this is that she's almost

0:53:09.760 --> 0:53:13.160
<v Speaker 2>set this up to be like a flies web in

0:53:13.239 --> 0:53:16.839
<v Speaker 2>between people who like are know that they want more

0:53:16.880 --> 0:53:19.000
<v Speaker 2>out of like sex than they're getting, know that like

0:53:19.440 --> 0:53:22.279
<v Speaker 2>maybe what they weren't educated, they didn't get a good

0:53:22.360 --> 0:53:25.319
<v Speaker 2>enough educating like what sex could be. They want more

0:53:25.320 --> 0:53:27.760
<v Speaker 2>out of like their relationships than they feel like they're getting,

0:53:27.920 --> 0:53:30.480
<v Speaker 2>and there is like a sex positive, a kink community

0:53:30.760 --> 0:53:33.560
<v Speaker 2>where people like aren't trying to like just take your

0:53:33.600 --> 0:53:37.040
<v Speaker 2>money and abuse you, where you can like learn stuff

0:53:37.080 --> 0:53:39.960
<v Speaker 2>like that if you're into that. And she's created like

0:53:40.000 --> 0:53:42.880
<v Speaker 2>the spider's web in front of it to ensnare people,

0:53:43.320 --> 0:53:46.080
<v Speaker 2>But in a way that is very much different because

0:53:46.120 --> 0:53:49.480
<v Speaker 2>like if you were to like every kink community, every

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:53.359
<v Speaker 2>kink event that I have ever been to, starts and

0:53:53.480 --> 0:53:56.440
<v Speaker 2>a lot of like education, and that starts with boundaries

0:53:56.480 --> 0:53:59.480
<v Speaker 2>and boundaries setting. And the importance is not sex without boundaries.

0:53:59.560 --> 0:54:02.319
<v Speaker 2>The importance is knowing what your boundaries are and having

0:54:02.400 --> 0:54:04.360
<v Speaker 2>ways to make sure everyone else knows them and that

0:54:04.400 --> 0:54:08.320
<v Speaker 2>you're communicating them and that you can like that's what's important.

0:54:08.360 --> 0:54:13.080
<v Speaker 2>Like the it's so fucked up to create this thing

0:54:13.239 --> 0:54:18.279
<v Speaker 2>that is meant to almost like stand in between that

0:54:18.760 --> 0:54:21.920
<v Speaker 2>and people who are curious in order to ensnare and

0:54:22.640 --> 0:54:25.839
<v Speaker 2>hurt them very much. What's happening, Hey.

0:54:25.800 --> 0:54:27.799
<v Speaker 1>Jamie, is Barbie naked behind you?

0:54:28.840 --> 0:54:32.800
<v Speaker 3>Is Barbie naked behind me? No, she's wearing a painted

0:54:32.840 --> 0:54:33.800
<v Speaker 3>on body suit.

0:54:34.480 --> 0:54:37.839
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, great, I was just making sure I used

0:54:37.880 --> 0:54:39.560
<v Speaker 1>to use her on stage.

0:54:40.280 --> 0:54:46.800
<v Speaker 3>But she does have a body suit painted on the doll. Great, great,

0:54:48.480 --> 0:54:50.440
<v Speaker 3>thanks for trying to add Robert.

0:54:50.480 --> 0:54:52.239
<v Speaker 1>Now that I have checked in on Barbie, it is

0:54:52.320 --> 0:54:53.400
<v Speaker 1>time for an ad.

0:54:53.560 --> 0:55:02.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we should do an ad break, Okay, all right,

0:55:02.680 --> 0:55:03.560
<v Speaker 2>and we're back.

0:55:04.480 --> 0:55:07.920
<v Speaker 3>So I just just sort of closing the loop on

0:55:08.120 --> 0:55:11.080
<v Speaker 3>talking about kink where like I feel like truly kink

0:55:11.080 --> 0:55:15.760
<v Speaker 3>communities are our best communicators, like it, and it makes

0:55:15.760 --> 0:55:18.319
<v Speaker 3>me really sad, like you're saying, to see people who

0:55:18.400 --> 0:55:21.760
<v Speaker 3>are seeking something out and then very likely getting scarred

0:55:21.800 --> 0:55:24.759
<v Speaker 3>to the point where sex at all is going to

0:55:24.800 --> 0:55:30.440
<v Speaker 3>be definitely traumatized. Yeah, but at least they were parted

0:55:30.600 --> 0:55:32.840
<v Speaker 3>with ten thousand dollars in the process.

0:55:33.320 --> 0:55:35.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, at least that happens, right.

0:55:36.280 --> 0:55:36.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:55:36.640 --> 0:55:40.880
<v Speaker 2>So, as the most expensive courses went from thousands to

0:55:40.880 --> 0:55:43.320
<v Speaker 2>tens of thousands of dollars and the big money started

0:55:43.400 --> 0:55:46.000
<v Speaker 2>rolling in, much of what the early members had loved

0:55:46.000 --> 0:55:49.680
<v Speaker 2>about life in the cult changed. The clatoral massages were

0:55:49.719 --> 0:55:52.359
<v Speaker 2>still a part of life there, but members now were

0:55:52.400 --> 0:55:55.320
<v Speaker 2>not called researchers. In fact, there's like a big announcement

0:55:55.360 --> 0:55:59.359
<v Speaker 2>that like you're no longer researchers, You're now employees. And

0:55:59.440 --> 0:56:02.120
<v Speaker 2>now in fact most of you are salesman. Most of

0:56:02.120 --> 0:56:04.880
<v Speaker 2>you are like doing calling, right, Like, your job is

0:56:04.920 --> 0:56:08.560
<v Speaker 2>to call people and try to get them to take classes, right, Like,

0:56:08.600 --> 0:56:12.040
<v Speaker 2>that's the new business is selling and teaching classes. You're

0:56:12.080 --> 0:56:14.759
<v Speaker 2>no longer We did the research, we figured it out, right,

0:56:15.560 --> 0:56:19.480
<v Speaker 2>the experiments over. So they moved to a new warehouse

0:56:19.520 --> 0:56:24.160
<v Speaker 2>which has semi private rooms, and yeah, everybody sales people now.

0:56:24.440 --> 0:56:27.400
<v Speaker 2>In order to justify this change, Nicole tells her followers

0:56:27.600 --> 0:56:30.920
<v Speaker 2>the universe is made of love. Sales is love. Therefore,

0:56:30.960 --> 0:56:32.400
<v Speaker 2>the universe is made of sales.

0:56:34.200 --> 0:56:38.920
<v Speaker 3>Okay, honestly, based on the level of cruelty and evil

0:56:38.960 --> 0:56:41.799
<v Speaker 3>she's capable of. She's half assing it with this.

0:56:41.960 --> 0:56:45.480
<v Speaker 2>She's half assing it. That's lazy. That's lazy. I'm sorry.

0:56:46.400 --> 0:56:50.200
<v Speaker 3>If sales is love and love huh.

0:56:50.840 --> 0:56:54.040
<v Speaker 2>Really, Nicole, that's what we're going with. Uh. God, it's

0:56:54.040 --> 0:56:56.600
<v Speaker 2>a measure of her charisma that no one leaves on

0:56:56.640 --> 0:56:57.960
<v Speaker 2>the spot after hearing that.

0:56:58.560 --> 0:56:58.799
<v Speaker 5>Sure.

0:57:00.120 --> 0:57:00.200
<v Speaker 3>So.

0:57:00.520 --> 0:57:04.239
<v Speaker 2>One of Nicole's most valuable members and employees during this period,

0:57:04.280 --> 0:57:06.600
<v Speaker 2>there's a young man named Sayid who first gets drawn

0:57:06.719 --> 0:57:09.040
<v Speaker 2>into the group because he was in love with somebody.

0:57:09.040 --> 0:57:11.160
<v Speaker 2>He goes to like a class and he falls in

0:57:11.200 --> 0:57:13.760
<v Speaker 2>love with someone who lives at the warehouse named Maya,

0:57:14.239 --> 0:57:16.560
<v Speaker 2>and he basically tells Maya, Hey, I've got a crush

0:57:16.600 --> 0:57:18.560
<v Speaker 2>on you, and she's like, well, if you're into me,

0:57:18.800 --> 0:57:20.400
<v Speaker 2>the best way for us to hang out is for

0:57:20.440 --> 0:57:23.360
<v Speaker 2>you to take more classes here, and eventually he winds

0:57:23.400 --> 0:57:27.439
<v Speaker 2>up moving in. Now said is a really conventionally attractive guy, right,

0:57:27.800 --> 0:57:31.160
<v Speaker 2>and he starts being used as a lure by Nicole

0:57:31.320 --> 0:57:33.960
<v Speaker 2>and Rachel, who's like her head of sales. This woman

0:57:34.040 --> 0:57:37.040
<v Speaker 2>Rachel and like the other people running the cold said

0:57:37.280 --> 0:57:39.480
<v Speaker 2>both as like maybe a way to get off themselves,

0:57:39.480 --> 0:57:42.080
<v Speaker 2>but also, here's a really hot guy. We can use

0:57:42.160 --> 0:57:46.040
<v Speaker 2>him to bring in both hot women that we want

0:57:46.080 --> 0:57:49.160
<v Speaker 2>to work and join the cult, but also maybe older

0:57:49.200 --> 0:57:52.280
<v Speaker 2>women who have money to spend on expensive classes and

0:57:52.280 --> 0:57:54.240
<v Speaker 2>they want to be paired with this hot dude. Right.

0:57:54.840 --> 0:57:57.960
<v Speaker 2>So a separate part of internal one taste culture. As

0:57:57.960 --> 0:58:00.800
<v Speaker 2>I've said before, these like circular meetings where people will,

0:58:01.040 --> 0:58:02.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, one way the other the purpose is for

0:58:02.680 --> 0:58:05.840
<v Speaker 2>you to get insulted and mocked and derided and have

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:08.880
<v Speaker 2>like a cathartic experience. Right. So people will sit around

0:58:08.920 --> 0:58:11.120
<v Speaker 2>and ask the whole questions and she'll answer them and

0:58:11.160 --> 0:58:12.640
<v Speaker 2>like coach them and say this is what that question

0:58:12.680 --> 0:58:15.200
<v Speaker 2>tells me about you. Right. During one of these sessions,

0:58:15.280 --> 0:58:18.160
<v Speaker 2>she focuses on Sayed, and she asks him, why do

0:58:18.240 --> 0:58:20.240
<v Speaker 2>you think so many of the women here like being

0:58:20.280 --> 0:58:23.720
<v Speaker 2>paired with you? Sayid? And here's how Ellen Hewitt describes

0:58:23.720 --> 0:58:27.000
<v Speaker 2>what happens next. Because I'm willing to violate them, he

0:58:27.080 --> 0:58:29.440
<v Speaker 2>started to say. A murmur of surprise shot through the

0:58:29.520 --> 0:58:32.560
<v Speaker 2>room as Sayid remembers it, and then the students started cheering.

0:58:32.800 --> 0:58:34.600
<v Speaker 2>He was cut off, but he had wanted to say,

0:58:34.760 --> 0:58:36.600
<v Speaker 2>I know how to violate them in ways they want

0:58:36.680 --> 0:58:38.360
<v Speaker 2>to take them to their edge, but I also don't

0:58:38.400 --> 0:58:40.760
<v Speaker 2>make them feel taken advantage of or left empty or

0:58:40.760 --> 0:58:43.720
<v Speaker 2>not held afterwards. All he got to, though, was violate.

0:58:43.920 --> 0:58:47.360
<v Speaker 2>After that, everyone started calling him the violator. Another one

0:58:47.400 --> 0:58:51.280
<v Speaker 2>Taste executives decided she would call him the fucker. That

0:58:51.760 --> 0:58:56.439
<v Speaker 2>says a lot both that they love that term because

0:58:56.440 --> 0:58:58.720
<v Speaker 2>they love the aggression. That's a bigger and bigger part

0:58:58.760 --> 0:59:01.520
<v Speaker 2>of it is that like aggression is good, some violence

0:59:01.640 --> 0:59:02.080
<v Speaker 2>is good.

0:59:02.320 --> 0:59:07.240
<v Speaker 3>Right, sex without boundaries? Yeah, that is I That is

0:59:07.280 --> 0:59:09.360
<v Speaker 3>not how I thought that anecdote was gonna go.

0:59:09.680 --> 0:59:11.120
<v Speaker 2>Nope, that no, it is.

0:59:11.040 --> 0:59:14.560
<v Speaker 3>Really I thought I genuinely thought it was going to

0:59:14.600 --> 0:59:18.520
<v Speaker 3>be people who were becoming uncomfortable interjecting and being like, yeah,

0:59:18.560 --> 0:59:20.800
<v Speaker 3>that is what it feels like, but it's doubling down

0:59:20.840 --> 0:59:23.520
<v Speaker 3>and saying like, so we're just deep enough in at

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<v Speaker 3>this point where it is sexually violent and were and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm shocked at how willing they are to say it.

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<v Speaker 2>They're willing to say it. And the craziest thing to

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<v Speaker 2>me is, at least if this is being reported accurately

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<v Speaker 2>by Hewett and I have no reason to believe it's

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<v Speaker 2>not sure the violator is the one being violated here,

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<v Speaker 2>right because after Nicole here's this, she loves this as

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<v Speaker 2>a branding thing, and she uses Sayid as she starts

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<v Speaker 2>calling him their hook, literally their hook, because he will

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<v Speaker 2>pull women into the company's classes and gatherings and there's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of women who like our or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe want to explore that kind of thing and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>wants to explore some more aggressive stuff. SAYI doesn't want that.

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<v Speaker 2>Though he doesn't actually like being the violator. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>like being called in to do all of these like

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<v Speaker 2>violent and aggressive sex acts in order for Nicole to

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<v Speaker 2>make more money. But she keeps telling him to go

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<v Speaker 2>do go, be the violator again, go do that this

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<v Speaker 2>other that. We've got this other woman who wants it

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<v Speaker 2>and is willing to pay if you'll like spend some

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<v Speaker 2>time with her. Right and Nicole keeps asking him to

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<v Speaker 2>go further and further. She signs him to have sex

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<v Speaker 2>with a one Taste executive named Emma, who thought the

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<v Speaker 2>violator sounded hot, and she starts using him to rev

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<v Speaker 2>her up. Is her words before speaking events, She'll she'll

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<v Speaker 2>make him come in and masturbate her, and then she'll

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<v Speaker 2>go out to give a speech. On another instance, one

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<v Speaker 2>of Nicole's top lieutenant's Rachel, who's also ordering Sayid to

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<v Speaker 2>have sex with her, periodically orders him to have sex

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<v Speaker 2>with another female cult member. He refuses, and Rachel calls

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<v Speaker 2>him an ungrateful, petulant brat and shouts at him and

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<v Speaker 2>gets everyone else in the compound shouting at him until

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<v Speaker 2>he agrees to go upstairs and do it again. So

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<v Speaker 2>he's not forced to have sex exactly, He's just berated

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<v Speaker 2>and mocked and ostracized when he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, he is for staves.

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<v Speaker 2>He is to be I would say he is be

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<v Speaker 2>but like but in terms of the people who defend

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<v Speaker 2>this will be like, well he could have left. He

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<v Speaker 2>was a big guy. Why I didn't know it was

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<v Speaker 2>stopping him, right, because there's not a great Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It is wild. How I mean, how Nicole is you know,

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<v Speaker 3>doing classics like she's she's going full Darvaux and and

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<v Speaker 3>then like, I mean, like all calls like that there.

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<v Speaker 3>It seems like a lot of why this is working

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<v Speaker 3>is not only is she preying on you know, probably

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<v Speaker 3>his masculinity, but also that berating is a part of

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<v Speaker 3>the culture, so no one would flinch at someone being rated.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a part of it, and it's celebrated. She

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<v Speaker 2>talks a lot about people needing to have sharp scalpels,

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<v Speaker 2>and that she celebrates that we all have sharp scalpels,

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<v Speaker 2>which means we're good at cutting each other. It's good

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<v Speaker 2>to cut each other. We need to do that. It

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<v Speaker 2>makes it stronger. These are this is Nicole's literal language. Right.

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<v Speaker 3>You just fought like someone in the room to have

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<v Speaker 3>a moment of lucidity and be like, sorry, what is

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<v Speaker 3>the goal? No, why don't we start doing this? It's yeah, God,

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<v Speaker 3>that is that's really I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It's pretty bleak, yes, yep, So like a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>one Taste cult members say it is also queer. He's bisexual,

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<v Speaker 2>and at one point he admits interest to a man

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<v Speaker 2>to Rachel and she allegedly calls him the F word

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<v Speaker 2>and forces him out of her bed. So again, this

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<v Speaker 2>is a very like queer phobic, anti queer environment too

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<v Speaker 2>for the people living in it. By the late twenty teens,

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<v Speaker 2>One Taste was more profitable than ever and had transitioned

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<v Speaker 2>entirely to depicting itself as a Silicon Valley startup. People

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<v Speaker 2>had once been researchers exploring the frontiers of desire and

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<v Speaker 2>sexual power are now operating a call center, spending days

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<v Speaker 2>at a time awake, struggling to hit aggressive sales targets.

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<v Speaker 2>Nicole successfully convinced many of them that selling and buying

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<v Speaker 2>courses was the infinite game. Talk a lot about games, right,

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<v Speaker 2>This is very much coming out of these other cults, right, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, and infinite growth because we're in Celebrat.

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<v Speaker 2>Valley, Silicon Valley, and anything was justifiable as long as

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<v Speaker 2>you had to keep the game going. Right. Per an

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<v Speaker 2>article in Bloomberg, Quote, One Taste taught members that money

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<v Speaker 2>is just an emotional obstacle. It encouraged students to take

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<v Speaker 2>out multiple credit cards to pay for courses, and some

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<v Speaker 2>turn to such sites as go fund me and prosper

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<v Speaker 2>funding for help. The first time I didn't cover my

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<v Speaker 2>credit card bill, it broke something in my mind, says

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<v Speaker 2>ruined Mippelaga, who went to his first one Taste event

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<v Speaker 2>in twenty twelve at age twenty four, worked for the

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<v Speaker 2>company for about two years and left owing thirty thousand

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<v Speaker 2>dollars on his credit cards. I was no longer afraid

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<v Speaker 2>of debt, he says. Once you break that barrier, three

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<v Speaker 2>thousand is the same as thirty thousand. At one point,

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<v Speaker 2>Mipelaga complained that he and his coworkers hadn't been paid

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<v Speaker 2>in two months. He says he was publicly shamed for

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<v Speaker 2>having a scarcity mindset.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh every other hot button phrase that's constantly misused.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Three thousand is very different than thirty thousand, very much so,

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<v Speaker 1>my guy, now ten times three thousand, Actually.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, soie.

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<v Speaker 2>None of its real money. And you're like in an LLM,

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<v Speaker 2>you're always being told, what, what's the big deal? You're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna pay ten grand? This will make you so much better,

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<v Speaker 2>It will open you up you'll make that much so

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<v Speaker 2>much more money than that give itself fully right, right,

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<v Speaker 2>it's an investment, you know now the art that Bloomberg

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<v Speaker 2>article was published by Hewitt, the author of the book

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<v Speaker 2>Empire of Orgasm, in June of twenty eighteen. She was

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<v Speaker 2>not the first reporter to write critically about one Taste,

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<v Speaker 2>but she was the first to write critically about one

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<v Speaker 2>taste and have it matter. The vast majority of mainstream

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<v Speaker 2>reporting on the company, as it was generally described, was

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<v Speaker 2>bemused but open minded. In fact, if you want a

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<v Speaker 2>really good study in journalism versus pr you should read

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<v Speaker 2>that first two thousand and eight New York Times a

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<v Speaker 2>article the Pleasure Principle, and then Hewitt's article. Now, I

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<v Speaker 2>think the best example of this is how the Times

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<v Speaker 2>wrote about Vic Baranco, the Morehouse founder. That's like one

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<v Speaker 2>of the earlier orgasm cults. This is the guy you

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<v Speaker 2>like to crush women's vaginas with his hands when he

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<v Speaker 2>was in a bad mood. Here's how the described Vic

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<v Speaker 2>Morehouse's founder. Vic Baranco was a former appliance salesman who

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<v Speaker 2>called his philosophy responsible hedonism. By some accounts, mister Baronco,

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<v Speaker 2>who died in two thousand and two, used coercive techniques

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<v Speaker 2>of mind control. It was a huge ego crushing machine,

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<v Speaker 2>as any valid monastic tradition is. Said a man who

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<v Speaker 2>lived at more House more than twenty years and did

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<v Speaker 2>not want to be identified, And like, that's all you

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<v Speaker 2>guys had about More How really, that's all you had

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<v Speaker 2>the New York Times, that's all you needed to say

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<v Speaker 2>about him, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Thought, I mean, the New York Times is stand out

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<v Speaker 3>for this, but it's God, I mean, it's it's a

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<v Speaker 3>lesson that no one ever seems to learn. And even

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's amazing that, uh that the article that

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<v Speaker 3>came out eventually did, because that had to probably be

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<v Speaker 3>hard to get through, Like you just have to have

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<v Speaker 3>an editor that actually cares about stuff in order to

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<v Speaker 3>get that done. I don't know, I'm sure we all have,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I have like three Los Angeles cult adjacent things

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<v Speaker 3>that you're just like, well, I guess we'll just see

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<v Speaker 3>if a journalist bandages to get it through at some point.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's that's thankfully one did, right Hwan did you know?

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<v Speaker 2>And not only for this article? She'd get dozens of

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<v Speaker 2>brutal accounts inside life of life inside One Taste accounts

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<v Speaker 2>that The Times could have got some of them, at

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<v Speaker 2>least The Times could have gotten but not only to that.

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<v Speaker 2>She forces One Taste in this article to address the

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<v Speaker 2>worst allegations of abuse. Vlan Vleck, who is the CEO

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<v Speaker 2>of One Taste in twenty eighteen, admitted to her we

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<v Speaker 2>took money from people that we shouldn't have. Right, So

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<v Speaker 2>she even gets just within the article before the backlash

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<v Speaker 2>to it, she gets them to like, oh, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what, this lady has our number that we have

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<v Speaker 2>to cop to some shit. So by the late twenty teens,

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<v Speaker 2>One Touch had spread to a number of other countries.

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<v Speaker 2>This started with Nicole ordering specific offices opened first in

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<v Speaker 2>New York and then in Austin, La London. But also

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<v Speaker 2>there's a bunch of independent One Taste houses that are

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<v Speaker 2>being established all over the country. Per the book Empire

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<v Speaker 2>of Orgasm, almost five hundred One Taste students would live

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<v Speaker 2>in thirty three different om houses. This informal network mimic

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<v Speaker 2>the way many Silicon Valley tech startups were metastasizing rapidly

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<v Speaker 2>from city to city. Uber Lift, Instacart, and other on

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<v Speaker 2>demand companies prided themselves on blitz scaling and operating with

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<v Speaker 2>little overhead or liability. To avoid getting dragged down by

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<v Speaker 2>employment costs, the startups hired drivers as as independent contractors

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<v Speaker 2>and required them to provide their own cars and equipment. Similarly,

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<v Speaker 2>many of one TAS's sales workers were independent contractors paid

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<v Speaker 2>on commission. It's all the Silicon Valley grift, right, Hey, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a classic grift, and it's kind of a creative

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<v Speaker 3>grift in that there is actually no real product, Like

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<v Speaker 3>the overhead couldn't be lower because what you're selling is assault.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, speaking of that, when Nicole had established the second

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<v Speaker 2>warehouse commune, you know, they move out of the first

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<v Speaker 2>on folshomen into another one. This is the one that

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<v Speaker 2>has like semi private rooms, which seems like a positive move.

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<v Speaker 2>But when they move into this place, Nicle makes it

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<v Speaker 2>be the rule that none of the bedroom should have

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<v Speaker 2>locking doors. And after this point, all of these om

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<v Speaker 2>house franchises around the country abide by this rule to

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<v Speaker 2>disastrous effect. Now, periodically throughout this long journey, Nicole and

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<v Speaker 2>her top lieutenants would experiment with broadening the curriculum. On

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<v Speaker 2>several occasions, the attempted to create male versions of the

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<v Speaker 2>platoral stimulation workshops right where you're trying to teach people

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<v Speaker 2>how to give a handshob Really well, I guess, and

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<v Speaker 2>this never works out as a business. Nobody, for some reason,

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<v Speaker 2>nobody wants to tell classes.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just so that really funny.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny. No one interested at all in the dick

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<v Speaker 2>version of this. If you tried to tell people that, like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>the penile orgasm is actually a sacred and magical get

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck out of here, Get the fuck out of here.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's God.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't sell that. I'm sorry, nobody's No.

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<v Speaker 3>That's too free, that's too free. You cannot.

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<v Speaker 2>Dudes are so screwed up. You want me to make money,

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<v Speaker 2>and that ways is to make people stop coming. Like

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<v Speaker 2>you can convince people there's magic and never coming, right,

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<v Speaker 2>but you can't convince people that, like a dick is magic.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not. If it was, we would know by now,

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<v Speaker 3>we would certainly know.

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<v Speaker 2>God, Okay, it's very funny to me. And the reason

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<v Speaker 2>Hewitt gives for I like these classes never take off

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<v Speaker 2>is that one touch is a to recruit young women,

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<v Speaker 2>both to pay for classes and to provide the sexual

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<v Speaker 2>labor crucial to the organizations. Focusing doesn't work, they're less interested.

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<v Speaker 2>If there's also hand job classes, that makes this seem

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<v Speaker 2>like something else. If it's all focused on just people

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<v Speaker 2>with vaginas being massaged, right, and if that's the only

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<v Speaker 2>thing that's happening, you can convince yourself this is like

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<v Speaker 2>really women led and like women positive. If like there's

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<v Speaker 2>also jerkoff classes that doesn't work, that's just not a

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<v Speaker 2>good self.

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<v Speaker 3>And so the jerkoff classes being completely unprofitable is incidental,

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<v Speaker 3>super funny, that's so good.

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<v Speaker 2>So a lot of like a lot of these people

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<v Speaker 2>are comfortable being massage taking an om because they're being

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<v Speaker 2>told the men are not getting any sexual gratification out

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<v Speaker 2>of this, right, So if you add any kind of

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<v Speaker 2>male sexual gratification classes in there, even though a lot

1:10:51.640 --> 1:10:53.760
<v Speaker 2>of men are getting gratified, that's kind of how the

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<v Speaker 2>money is being made. You have to hide that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So earlier in the episodes, we talked about a guy

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<v Speaker 2>named Ken Blackman. He was a former member of the

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<v Speaker 2>Welcomed Consensus Orgasm cult who once punched a lady because

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<v Speaker 2>he had been taught that violence was a kind of

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<v Speaker 2>honest communication. Nicole eventually recruits this guy as a teacher

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<v Speaker 2>because she knew him at the Welcomed Consensus and because

1:11:14.520 --> 1:11:19.519
<v Speaker 2>she's reintroducing a lot of these Welcomed Consensus curriculum about

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<v Speaker 2>like violence into the one Taste curriculum, and she changes

1:11:25.800 --> 1:11:30.000
<v Speaker 2>the way they frame it and her words. The way

1:11:30.040 --> 1:11:32.280
<v Speaker 2>she describes this, The term she likes to use is

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<v Speaker 2>skillful violation, and skillful violation means that you know it's

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<v Speaker 2>better for someone to push through their boundaries even if

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<v Speaker 2>they say no, so you don't listen to the no.

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<v Speaker 2>You violate them even though they say no, because you're

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<v Speaker 2>skillful enough to know that they actually need to have

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<v Speaker 2>their boundaries violated. Right, Curia is.

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<v Speaker 3>What your opinions are on this, Like, is why is

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<v Speaker 3>it escalating towards such absurd word violence?

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<v Speaker 2>Because there's nowhere else for it to go, right, it's.

1:12:05.479 --> 1:12:08.400
<v Speaker 3>Just escalating it to like how can I retain control?

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<v Speaker 3>And eventually it just becomes fear tactics.

1:12:10.680 --> 1:12:13.200
<v Speaker 2>That's right. If you're honestly trying to help people be

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<v Speaker 2>more sex positive or like teach them kink stuff, there

1:12:16.000 --> 1:12:18.040
<v Speaker 2>is a point at which, and it's a pretty quick

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<v Speaker 2>point which people are just kind of good to go

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<v Speaker 2>on their own. You know, they don't want to go

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<v Speaker 2>to like parties or events or like take specific technical

1:12:23.439 --> 1:12:26.519
<v Speaker 2>classes on how to use whatever whip or a fucking

1:12:26.560 --> 1:12:29.720
<v Speaker 2>Saint Andrew's cross or whatever. But they don't need to

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<v Speaker 2>keep paying money to a group. They need to keep

1:12:31.840 --> 1:12:34.120
<v Speaker 2>listening to a guru. You kind of give people a

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<v Speaker 2>basic and they're good to go. If you're not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do that, in order to keep them following, you have

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<v Speaker 2>to constantly have more new curriculum, and eventually that's going

1:12:43.760 --> 1:12:46.880
<v Speaker 2>to wind up in some really dangerous directions. Right, and

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<v Speaker 2>for one taste, it ends in skillful violence. And she

1:12:50.200 --> 1:12:54.519
<v Speaker 2>Nicole justifies skillful violation being a thing by teaching that

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<v Speaker 2>only twenty five percent of human communication is verbal, right,

1:12:58.600 --> 1:13:03.120
<v Speaker 2>trained OMXP learn how to read the non verbal seventy

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<v Speaker 2>five percent of communication, which I'm sure you.

1:13:06.200 --> 1:13:09.040
<v Speaker 3>Don't even realize what you think or what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>So a skillful violator is someone who's been trained enough

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<v Speaker 2>to be able to read someone's real desires and then

1:13:15.520 --> 1:13:19.000
<v Speaker 2>be able to force them to experience those Right. At

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<v Speaker 2>their annual conference OMX one year, one, TAY staff wore

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<v Speaker 2>shirts with penetrate written on the front. No great stuff. No.

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<v Speaker 2>In twenty thirteen, a member of an OM house in

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<v Speaker 2>Austin posted on oem hub, the colt's internal social network,

1:13:36.000 --> 1:13:39.200
<v Speaker 2>and claimed that a man had repeatedly entered her room

1:13:39.320 --> 1:13:42.200
<v Speaker 2>and sexually harassed her because again, the doors don't lock.

1:13:42.720 --> 1:13:45.920
<v Speaker 2>This blows up internally. This is like a causes problems.

1:13:45.960 --> 1:13:47.880
<v Speaker 2>People are saying, shouldn't we be able to lock doors?

1:13:48.040 --> 1:13:50.280
<v Speaker 2>Who was this guy? Should he even have been there?

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<v Speaker 2>This seems like a problem. And initially Rob comments internally

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<v Speaker 2>and apologizes and says like we'll get right on it.

1:13:58.320 --> 1:14:01.400
<v Speaker 2>But after that a bunch of holes. Lieutenants come in

1:14:01.479 --> 1:14:03.320
<v Speaker 2>and I think this is actually racial. Who comes in

1:14:03.400 --> 1:14:05.599
<v Speaker 2>and is there do damage control? And one of her

1:14:05.600 --> 1:14:09.080
<v Speaker 2>lieutenant's posts as a woman, the easier thing for me

1:14:09.200 --> 1:14:11.479
<v Speaker 2>to do is say I was violated that way, I

1:14:11.520 --> 1:14:13.000
<v Speaker 2>don't have to look at my part in it.

1:14:14.240 --> 1:14:16.679
<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, okay, your part?

1:14:16.880 --> 1:14:19.920
<v Speaker 2>She was in her room that won't lock. What was

1:14:19.920 --> 1:14:20.360
<v Speaker 2>her part?

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<v Speaker 3>Like? It is insane? How regressive? Again? Yeah it guess okay.

1:14:27.880 --> 1:14:31.519
<v Speaker 2>Now. By this point, Nicole has added a section to

1:14:31.680 --> 1:14:35.360
<v Speaker 2>her coaching program lecture where she claims to have seen

1:14:35.400 --> 1:14:38.800
<v Speaker 2>a twenty thirteen study from somewhere, which researchers studied, in

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<v Speaker 2>which researchers studied rape victims to see how they'd healed afterwards,

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<v Speaker 2>and Nicole claimed the women who recovered were the women

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<v Speaker 2>who took responsibility for the action, right right, Okay, so

1:14:49.400 --> 1:14:52.479
<v Speaker 2>this is part of what she's teaching. Now. This becomes

1:14:52.520 --> 1:14:55.439
<v Speaker 2>an increasingly important message for the colt because in twenty fourteen,

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<v Speaker 2>a sales meeting was called and one of Nicole's representatives

1:14:58.120 --> 1:15:01.000
<v Speaker 2>told the company, it's really important that we not break

1:15:01.040 --> 1:15:06.120
<v Speaker 2>any prostitution's laws while selling courses, and attendees say like, oh,

1:15:06.760 --> 1:15:08.760
<v Speaker 2>that was a moment where I realized they're kind of

1:15:08.840 --> 1:15:11.760
<v Speaker 2>telling me to prostitute myself, but just not to talk

1:15:11.800 --> 1:15:13.840
<v Speaker 2>about it that way. Otherwise they wouldn't have brought that

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<v Speaker 2>up at all. Now, Nicole increasingly lectures about how sexual

1:15:18.560 --> 1:15:21.080
<v Speaker 2>trauma is the result of not wanting sex enough, and

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<v Speaker 2>as she taught, if you change your mental state to

1:15:23.520 --> 1:15:26.559
<v Speaker 2>ones that accept one that accepts sex as always a

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<v Speaker 2>positive thing, you literally can't be raped. And while she

1:15:29.840 --> 1:15:31.800
<v Speaker 2>gave these courses, she would talk about how she was

1:15:31.840 --> 1:15:34.800
<v Speaker 2>sexually abused as a child and explain, the only way

1:15:34.840 --> 1:15:38.559
<v Speaker 2>I healed is that I accepted I had actually caused

1:15:38.600 --> 1:15:41.360
<v Speaker 2>that situation by coming on to him, and also that

1:15:41.400 --> 1:15:44.120
<v Speaker 2>it was a good thing right, that it made me

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<v Speaker 2>more powerful. Likewise, if someone expressed a fear or a

1:15:47.960 --> 1:15:51.400
<v Speaker 2>phobia related to sexual trauma, the solution was to embrace

1:15:51.439 --> 1:15:54.000
<v Speaker 2>that trauma and find a way to enjoy it. People

1:15:54.000 --> 1:15:57.919
<v Speaker 2>are encouraged, slash forced to participate in rape and bondage

1:15:57.960 --> 1:16:01.799
<v Speaker 2>play because they'd been raped or subjected to intimate partner violence.

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<v Speaker 2>As Nicole said, the places you hate are your practice.

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<v Speaker 2>They're actually your biggest gift. They're the places where you

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<v Speaker 2>get free.

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<v Speaker 3>This line, it's deeply fucking depressing because it's like not

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<v Speaker 3>only practicing dissociation through being actively abused, but again going

1:16:19.760 --> 1:16:23.080
<v Speaker 3>back into like all of these she's capitalizing on these

1:16:23.120 --> 1:16:27.800
<v Speaker 3>popular narratives about kink and by like suggesting that you

1:16:27.800 --> 1:16:31.000
<v Speaker 3>would only be interested in this if you've experienced extreme

1:16:31.040 --> 1:16:34.639
<v Speaker 3>trauma and enjoyed associated like it's just so, it's such horseshit,

1:16:34.760 --> 1:16:36.479
<v Speaker 3>This is so dangerous.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really bad. Yeah. Twenty sixteen, the company made nine

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<v Speaker 2>point four million dollars. Gwyneth Paltrow praised them openly. They

1:16:45.200 --> 1:16:48.800
<v Speaker 2>do some like goop stuff Chloe Kardashian.

1:16:48.640 --> 1:16:50.360
<v Speaker 3>Talks about it took her that long.

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<v Speaker 2>Tim Ferriss does like a podcast thing about them.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>At the most advanced stage of the Grift, one taste

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<v Speaker 2>was breaking into the mainstream, or at least the mainstream

1:17:01.160 --> 1:17:04.400
<v Speaker 2>part of the WU self help world. While the public

1:17:04.439 --> 1:17:06.479
<v Speaker 2>facing part of the company was very much in line

1:17:06.520 --> 1:17:10.280
<v Speaker 2>with the body modification self optimization Bay Area culture of

1:17:10.320 --> 1:17:14.080
<v Speaker 2>the era, that's not what's actually going on internally and

1:17:14.160 --> 1:17:17.360
<v Speaker 2>inside there are ongoing experiments that are like verging on

1:17:17.439 --> 1:17:21.040
<v Speaker 2>a cult nonsense. At one point, Nicole starts initiating priests

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<v Speaker 2>of om and selling like fifteen thousand dollars classes where

1:17:24.960 --> 1:17:28.360
<v Speaker 2>rich guys can participate in these like drug drenched sex

1:17:28.439 --> 1:17:32.960
<v Speaker 2>magic rituals and get like certified as priests. And I

1:17:33.160 --> 1:17:37.479
<v Speaker 2>think Nicole's idea, because this is this never fully turns

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<v Speaker 2>into anything. I think the idea at one point was

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<v Speaker 2>that if this is successful enough, if enough guys are interested,

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<v Speaker 2>if this proves to have legs, maybe we can apply

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<v Speaker 2>for tax free status and call ourselves a religion. Right.

1:17:50.360 --> 1:17:53.280
<v Speaker 2>I think Nicole was like exploring and just doesn't quite

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<v Speaker 2>get the chance to live this Grift out.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she is committing enough sex crimes, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>to qualify as a religion. Yeah, yeah, as well at

1:18:03.600 --> 1:18:07.120
<v Speaker 3>that point she's she's committed enough crimes to be a religion.

1:18:07.200 --> 1:18:11.040
<v Speaker 2>Yep. So she is getting much more reckless with everything

1:18:11.120 --> 1:18:13.040
<v Speaker 2>as the years go on. I found at least one

1:18:13.040 --> 1:18:15.680
<v Speaker 2>account from a former member who claims Nicole applied these

1:18:15.800 --> 1:18:18.760
<v Speaker 2>rich tech guys with drugs at these high dollar classes,

1:18:18.840 --> 1:18:20.920
<v Speaker 2>and you know these are not only are they basically

1:18:20.960 --> 1:18:24.120
<v Speaker 2>paying to get into an orgy, but like at one point,

1:18:24.400 --> 1:18:27.600
<v Speaker 2>this one member says, Nicole specifically doses a dude with

1:18:27.680 --> 1:18:30.200
<v Speaker 2>a bunch of LSD to try to convince them to

1:18:30.240 --> 1:18:33.639
<v Speaker 2>donate another two hundred and fifty thousand dollars to the company. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>so that's part of what she's doing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm honestly shocked because of how modern this story is

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<v Speaker 3>that there is no it doesn't seem like any member

1:18:44.160 --> 1:18:47.480
<v Speaker 3>of the cult who has that there's been no significant

1:18:47.600 --> 1:18:50.280
<v Speaker 3>whistle blowing incident by this point, not.

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<v Speaker 2>Yet Peace of Surprise have come out. But yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>not going to happen until twenty eighteen when Hewitt puts

1:18:55.520 --> 1:18:59.360
<v Speaker 2>that article out. But because the men with money are

1:18:59.360 --> 1:19:02.840
<v Speaker 2>so core to everything, happening here. Nicole's teachings trended towards

1:19:02.880 --> 1:19:05.599
<v Speaker 2>explaining how it was good for men to be angry

1:19:05.680 --> 1:19:08.559
<v Speaker 2>and controlling to women. She called this letting out your

1:19:08.640 --> 1:19:12.240
<v Speaker 2>beast and praised it. Everyone was increasingly encouraged to be

1:19:12.320 --> 1:19:14.519
<v Speaker 2>brutal towards each other, to cut each other up with

1:19:14.560 --> 1:19:18.800
<v Speaker 2>their skillful scalpels. Nicole also praised intimate partner violence, most

1:19:18.840 --> 1:19:21.160
<v Speaker 2>of which seems to have been man on women. Women

1:19:21.400 --> 1:19:23.360
<v Speaker 2>who were beat by their partners were told that they

1:19:23.400 --> 1:19:26.160
<v Speaker 2>had caused the situation by goading his beast or not

1:19:26.280 --> 1:19:30.520
<v Speaker 2>understanding his beast enough. If they sought to escape abusive situations,

1:19:30.640 --> 1:19:33.400
<v Speaker 2>they were insulted from fleeing it from his beast rather

1:19:33.439 --> 1:19:38.000
<v Speaker 2>than meeting it with love. So these om priest classes

1:19:38.000 --> 1:19:40.200
<v Speaker 2>and orgy sessions could net as much as a million

1:19:40.280 --> 1:19:42.760
<v Speaker 2>dollars for one taste for a five day class. These

1:19:42.800 --> 1:19:45.320
<v Speaker 2>are the real top dollar things. And the guys in

1:19:45.360 --> 1:19:48.320
<v Speaker 2>these they are just paying to get into an orgy

1:19:48.360 --> 1:19:51.360
<v Speaker 2>with a bunch of young women, right, and they have, but.

1:19:51.320 --> 1:19:53.360
<v Speaker 3>It has to seem like school as well.

1:19:53.400 --> 1:19:57.040
<v Speaker 2>It's got a right right and this you know, this

1:19:57.800 --> 1:20:00.920
<v Speaker 2>works for years without them get in trouble, but it

1:20:00.960 --> 1:20:04.120
<v Speaker 2>couldn't last forever. By twenty seventeen, there's a couple of

1:20:04.160 --> 1:20:08.040
<v Speaker 2>pending lawsuits, and there's some like rumblings that bad press

1:20:08.120 --> 1:20:12.200
<v Speaker 2>might be coming, right, and Nicole decides to separate herself

1:20:12.280 --> 1:20:14.320
<v Speaker 2>legally from the group in the hope of gaining some

1:20:14.320 --> 1:20:17.120
<v Speaker 2>sort of plausible deniability. So she sells the company for

1:20:17.160 --> 1:20:21.439
<v Speaker 2>twelve million dollars to like her wealthiest followers, and this

1:20:21.600 --> 1:20:24.240
<v Speaker 2>is framed as the company maturing. Right. Nicole's still going

1:20:24.240 --> 1:20:26.880
<v Speaker 2>to be the spiritual and intellectual leader, but One Taste

1:20:26.960 --> 1:20:28.600
<v Speaker 2>is going to be run like a normal company, with

1:20:28.640 --> 1:20:31.240
<v Speaker 2>like a CEO and a normal business chain of command

1:20:31.400 --> 1:20:34.240
<v Speaker 2>right now. Initially it seems like maybe this will work.

1:20:34.360 --> 1:20:37.840
<v Speaker 2>In twenty eighteen, thirty five thousand people had attended One

1:20:37.880 --> 1:20:40.600
<v Speaker 2>Taste events in cities around the world, and hundreds of

1:20:40.600 --> 1:20:44.080
<v Speaker 2>members lived in om houses in multiple countries, oeming twice

1:20:44.080 --> 1:20:45.880
<v Speaker 2>in the morning and twice in the evening, and often

1:20:45.960 --> 1:20:50.200
<v Speaker 2>quitting their careers to sell courses. But that same year,

1:20:50.479 --> 1:20:54.080
<v Speaker 2>Bloomberg published Hewitt's first bombshell article about the cult, which

1:20:54.120 --> 1:20:57.519
<v Speaker 2>described it as looking like a prostitution ring. That article

1:20:57.600 --> 1:21:01.080
<v Speaker 2>quoted former employees saying stuff like Orgasm was God and

1:21:01.200 --> 1:21:03.680
<v Speaker 2>Nicole was like Jesus. And I want to quote from

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<v Speaker 2>an article in the Times about the fallout from this article,

1:21:06.760 --> 1:21:09.639
<v Speaker 2>One Taste went quiet. It shut down all centers and courses.

1:21:09.680 --> 1:21:12.840
<v Speaker 2>A group of about thirty senior practitioners, including the coal

1:21:13.080 --> 1:21:15.240
<v Speaker 2>retreated to the land, which is like a chunk of

1:21:15.320 --> 1:21:18.360
<v Speaker 2>land that they're starting a compound on. Right then came

1:21:18.400 --> 1:21:22.760
<v Speaker 2>a BBC podcast, The Orgasm Cult, a Netflix documentary, Orgasm Inc.

1:21:22.840 --> 1:21:27.040
<v Speaker 2>A Device documentary, and a Playboy investigation. In June of

1:21:27.080 --> 1:21:29.920
<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty three, the FBI stormed the land to Done

1:21:29.920 --> 1:21:32.519
<v Speaker 2>and shure Wits that's Rachel, were arrested. The company has

1:21:32.560 --> 1:21:35.799
<v Speaker 2>spent about fifteen million dollars on legal fees since twenty eighteen,

1:21:36.080 --> 1:21:39.040
<v Speaker 2>suing the BBC, suing Netflix, suing a former member, being

1:21:39.080 --> 1:21:41.880
<v Speaker 2>sued by another member for alleged sex trafficking, and fighting

1:21:41.920 --> 1:21:46.280
<v Speaker 2>the criminal trial. And yeah, and it's one of those

1:21:46.320 --> 1:21:49.400
<v Speaker 2>things where they were committing these crimes the whole time.

1:21:49.520 --> 1:21:51.599
<v Speaker 2>It's as soon as that article comes out, the FBI

1:21:51.680 --> 1:21:53.280
<v Speaker 2>is like, oh, I guess we got to look into this,

1:21:53.400 --> 1:21:56.799
<v Speaker 2>and there's just immediately tons of shit to make charges

1:21:56.840 --> 1:22:02.479
<v Speaker 2>on Rachel is like. She's accused of targeting vulnerable people

1:22:02.520 --> 1:22:06.200
<v Speaker 2>by advertising that the companies like classes could fix sexual trauma,

1:22:06.520 --> 1:22:08.719
<v Speaker 2>telling people to take on debt to pay for classes,

1:22:08.720 --> 1:22:14.080
<v Speaker 2>with holding wages from employees, isolating people by demanding absolute commitment.

1:22:15.040 --> 1:22:18.880
<v Speaker 2>She's accused of participating an abusive employment practices, subjecting members

1:22:18.880 --> 1:22:23.160
<v Speaker 2>to economic, sexual, emotional, and psychological abuse, surveillance and doctrination

1:22:23.479 --> 1:22:27.519
<v Speaker 2>and intimidation. And to Doane is accused of, you know,

1:22:27.560 --> 1:22:32.000
<v Speaker 2>participating in or of sexually trafficking people, of a whole

1:22:32.040 --> 1:22:34.840
<v Speaker 2>bunch of bad stuff, right, And there's a lot. We

1:22:34.880 --> 1:22:36.439
<v Speaker 2>don't need to get into everything that happens in the

1:22:36.439 --> 1:22:39.719
<v Speaker 2>court case. You know, just a few weeks ago, earlier

1:22:39.800 --> 1:22:43.040
<v Speaker 2>this year, to Doane was sentenced to nine years in

1:22:43.120 --> 1:22:47.000
<v Speaker 2>federal prison. She is convicted, so is Rachel, and they

1:22:47.040 --> 1:22:50.120
<v Speaker 2>are sentenced both to prison sentences. Nicole again gets like

1:22:50.240 --> 1:22:51.160
<v Speaker 2>nine years.

1:22:51.800 --> 1:22:54.040
<v Speaker 3>Which, as always seems.

1:22:53.960 --> 1:23:00.280
<v Speaker 2>Low, seems low, seems low. Judge Gujarati says that Cole

1:23:00.360 --> 1:23:03.080
<v Speaker 2>caused long lasting, if not a reparable, harm to former

1:23:03.240 --> 1:23:06.400
<v Speaker 2>One Taste employees. What she was doing wasn't about enlightenment

1:23:06.479 --> 1:23:10.599
<v Speaker 2>or operating in a different dimension. It was criminal. Dudoan

1:23:10.640 --> 1:23:14.080
<v Speaker 2>has not accepted any wrongdoing, neither has one taste. The

1:23:14.120 --> 1:23:18.280
<v Speaker 2>people currently leading things still stand by her and basically

1:23:18.600 --> 1:23:22.880
<v Speaker 2>say she's the fucking best there apparently, like at least

1:23:23.000 --> 1:23:24.720
<v Speaker 2>the way they're framing it is, we're waiting for her,

1:23:24.760 --> 1:23:26.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, as soon as she gets out, you know,

1:23:26.680 --> 1:23:29.599
<v Speaker 2>we'll be able to get back to the important work.

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<v Speaker 3>Jesus Jesus famously returns. That is, what does she end

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<v Speaker 3>up getting convicted on. I'm curious.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh, let's get the exact list up here, because

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, obviously part of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's so because every time I hear about a

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<v Speaker 3>case like this and then you hear the actual conviction,

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<v Speaker 3>it does sound like she was able to probably get

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<v Speaker 3>out a lot of consequences by being able to argue, well,

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<v Speaker 3>technically there was a degree of choice, even though people

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<v Speaker 3>were so psychological fucked that I would argue that's not true.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we'll see how much that help. But she

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<v Speaker 2>does get like it's a forced labor conspiracy, Like it's

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<v Speaker 2>conspiracy to commit forced labor that she gets in trouble

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<v Speaker 2>with and gets convicted of. Like forced labor conspiracy, like

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<v Speaker 2>is like the actual crime she's convicted on is forced

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<v Speaker 2>labor conspiracy alongside a little under nine hundred grand in

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<v Speaker 2>restitution and two years supervised release. And it's just so

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<v Speaker 2>far seven victims confirmed, right, that's based on this. The

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<v Speaker 2>only accomplice who goes down with her is Rachel. Obviously

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of other people were complicit and still are.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I don't think one taste is gonna have

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<v Speaker 2>the juice to survive until she's done.

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<v Speaker 3>But we'll see, Lord, I know, truly, let's I hope not.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope not. But usually with something like this, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 3>there's just gonna be another grifter that innovates in the

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<v Speaker 3>field of you know, taking advantage of people.

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<v Speaker 2>So yep, yep, yep, holy shit.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, well, holy shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Robert, has this influenced any of your thinking on how

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<v Speaker 2>to create your own cult? Jamie?

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<v Speaker 3>Look the colt uh, this was a truly horrific one.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like she really did find a way to

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<v Speaker 3>incorporate almost every grift of the last twenty years.

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<v Speaker 2>It really is impressive.

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<v Speaker 3>A single there's an element of false feminism, there is

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<v Speaker 3>an element of capitalizing on male loneliness. There's a class

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<v Speaker 3>element to it. There's indentured labor, there's force labor. There's

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<v Speaker 3>a tech element. I mean, it really does kind of

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<v Speaker 3>run the gamut. And and she almost became a religion.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that really would have been the bingo right,

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<v Speaker 3>is to rebrand as a religion.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I will do eventually when I finally best

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<v Speaker 2>this with a cult that's about the opposite of orgasming.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to teach people how to poop right. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that that's the.

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<v Speaker 3>Next drift well, and I think that's also I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>You're doing it wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>Poop right. There's actually a good name.

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<v Speaker 2>If you get better at it, there's magic. It'll make

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<v Speaker 2>you immortal.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, media literacy isn't an all time low. I think

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<v Speaker 3>you should call it poop right. Get to the point,

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<v Speaker 3>poop right.

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<v Speaker 2>Call it one day.

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<v Speaker 3>I had to think too hard.

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<v Speaker 2>And like, by three years on, I'll be teaching people

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<v Speaker 2>that like if you're if you're not eating an all

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<v Speaker 2>grape diet, like God is going to kill your children

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<v Speaker 2>or something like that. It'll go crazy after a while,

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<v Speaker 2>but up to that point, we'll have a lot of fun,

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<v Speaker 2>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you'll sell so many supplements.

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<v Speaker 2>So many supplements. It's it's basically, oh my.

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<v Speaker 3>Gosh, she wasn't selling supplements. That's a big that was

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<v Speaker 3>as she wasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, you're right, that was an error.

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<v Speaker 3>That was there should have been a useless product.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there were so many things she could have sold

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<v Speaker 1>on the one daste name.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh fuck it, God, I guess when I'm when I'm

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<v Speaker 3>signing over my twenty thousand dollars check, I hope I'll

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<v Speaker 3>remember to withhold it when you're like, Actually, the best

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<v Speaker 3>way to poop is uh to punch your spouse before.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the only way to really release is to assault

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<v Speaker 3>someone immediately before taking the healthiest of your life.

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<v Speaker 2>I would never do that. But the key to pooping

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<v Speaker 2>is to live on a boat for several years, like

1:27:24.080 --> 1:27:27.880
<v Speaker 2>robbing merchant vessels for me in order that I can

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<v Speaker 2>like sell the proceeds. That's that's how you do it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of brilliant to sell a poop only you

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<v Speaker 3>could you could take.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, That's right. Okay, Well this is a good.

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<v Speaker 3>Thing, I think. Yeah, this is I feel good about

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<v Speaker 3>great stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think we're on our way here, Jim, you've

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<v Speaker 2>got any pluggables here?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Man? The usuals? I I I have a book

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<v Speaker 3>coming out next year that there's no link for uh.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'll let you know when there's a link for it.

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<v Speaker 3>But for the now, listen to the Bechdelcast every week.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen to We the Unhoused every other week, both on

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<v Speaker 3>Thursdays and Tuesdays, respectively. And uh and yeah take it.

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<v Speaker 3>Take a healthy ship for free at your house tonight.

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<v Speaker 3>Do that? Do that for me?

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<v Speaker 2>Yep?

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<v Speaker 3>All right, everybody, I'm trying to undercut your business.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah wow, yeah, thank you. All right, everyone, We're done,

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