WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Beach Bacteria 0:00:00.640 --> 0:00:03.440 From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.560 --> 0:00:08.440 Ryan Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:12.560 Did to see you guys, cciny good. 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:13.080 To see you too? 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:16.480 Is that country? Was that a little? Uh? 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:22.160 That that you men? Last night? 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:25.160 That Morgan song? No last night, But. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:27.080 I'm going to go to a show on July twenty second? 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:33.120 Here, little Morgan, I am liquor t That's that's how 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:34.919 I I grew up sounding like that. 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:36.960 Did you listen to a lot of country growing up? 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:37.080 No? 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:39.159 I didn't listen to a lot of country, actually being 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:41.440 from Georgia. But I love that. 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:43.440 I love Yeah. I think Luke got me. 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:46.280 Luke Brian working with him got me more into listening 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:47.319 to more country, A. 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:50.800 Very strong country accent, well southern one. 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:54.600 Marguerite to Margherite three Marguerite shot. 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:57.400 Yeah, Tanya, how are you? 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:01.080 I'm doing good? I started watching Well, yeah, I'll tell you. 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:05.480 I started watching. 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:06.960 Should I save it for Friday? 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:07.720 I'm scared? 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:09.600 You can do it now? I won't remember by that. 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:12.560 I started watching The New and just like that season 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:15.720 two and the Sex and the City Show. 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:18.600 Oh okay, yeah, how is it? 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:22.800 It's really good? The opening scene was like very Sex 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:23.800 and the City Vibes. 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:27.240 And so when you do your weekend watch list segment, 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:28.320 do we act surprised? 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.039 Well, I actually it's funny because we have shows. I 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:33.760 have shows that I watched with Robbie and he was 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:36.320 gone last night, and so that's one of the ones 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:37.959 I don't know if he would really get into. So 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:38.960 I watched that on my own. 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:40.120 That's one of those shows. 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:43.199 It's like a treat for me, and I can't watch 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:46.400 it if the kids are around. Yeah, a lot of nudity, yeah, 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:48.520 and so I have to wait until they fall asleep 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:50.560 and it's too late at night, and so then I'm 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:51.720 just so then I haven't started it. 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:52.760 Yet, so. 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:55.800 I don't know. I don't know when I will. 0:01:56.360 --> 0:02:03.200 How's article about Taylor Sheridan who does Yellowstone and all 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:06.640 those series, and he I get maybe it's like six 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:10.320 different shows he does, and most of them are all done. 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:12.160 At his ranch, like where he lives. 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:18.200 Isn't that but all these acres of ranch, and I 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:20.960 guess they go shoot everything there, like you walk out 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:23.200 your door and you shoot it all right there. 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:26.840 Very interesting, it's. 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:29.679 Probably very cost effective and efficient. 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:33.920 Well definitely seems efficient, Yeah, you know, saves them a 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:36.080 lot or makes. 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:36.280 Them a lot. 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:37.120 How's your night? 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:45.240 Let me think what was my night, Georgia? Actually it 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:45.720 was fine. 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:48.600 I ate out of a plastic container last night the kitchen, 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:49.240 which was great. 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:53.360 But Georgia is itchy. Is the season? Like she's itchy. 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:55.320 She's got a little dry skin, so I keep she 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:57.800 keeps biting, like her pinching, you know, with her teeth, 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:02.120 like scratching backs and scratching, and so she got a 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:03.560 little bit, if I'm being honest, a little bit of 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:06.000 dry skin dandriff and on black fur. 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:07.040 You can really see it. 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:10.560 So I'm trying to add something into her food that 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:12.800 creates a little more oil for her skin. 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:14.239 But you know, it doesn't it. 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:16.040 It makes me crazy that she's I can tell she's 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:18.320 itchy and we can't talk about it. 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:19.680 That's annoying. 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:22.960 I I'm going to send you this book that I 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:24.280 got over the weekend. 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:25.960 How to Talk to Your Dogs. 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:27.360 Yes, it's literally it's. 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:28.840 Not how to talk how to talk to your pets. 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:33.320 It's secrets of a dog's mind, inside their thoughts and feelings. 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:35.880 Oh I love that. Where did you learn from it? 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:38.880 So far? So used to cover the book that covers? 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:39.920 Really would you learn so. 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:42.520 Far, I learned the difference in her barks. So it 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:44.840 kind of breaks down the different barks and what they need. 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:47.320 You know, when it's like the security bark, or when 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:50.280 it's like I want to play grou yeah, or like the. 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:52.560 Bark the whiny bark is like I need to go 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:54.160 to the bathroom on man of my crate. You know 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:55.080 that kind of stuff. 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:57.200 So, for example, is it going to tell me how 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.080 to treat dry dog skin? 0:03:59.360 --> 0:04:01.560 It might No, I haven't gotten that far, but I 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:02.720 can send you a copy of it. 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:04.960 Who recommended that book? 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:06.880 I saw it. I saw it when I was checking 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:07.480 out at writing. 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:09.600 Is it funny how if you didn't have a dog, 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:11.960 that would not even obviously grab your attention. When you 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:14.280 have a dog, everything changes. They say the same thing 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:15.520 about kids, and that's. 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:18.280 About kids. 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:20.280 You don't want that book I read. 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:22.760 DJ Khaled said, jay Z told him life changes when 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:24.000 you have kids, and he said it's true. 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:26.279 I literally read that little headline like get inside your 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:26.800 dog's head. 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:31.400 I was like, soldah, how about getting inside your dog's 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:31.880 parents head? 0:04:31.920 --> 0:04:34.840 How about getting inside your kid's head? 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:37.279 You know now that I have the whole show on 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:40.040 a PDF, Like things that are happening. 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:44.600 I have to scroll really far to find for. 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:47.400 The record, you requested this new arrangement. 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:48.880 Which I want to look I want to look at. 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:51.159 I want to look at what's coming up with Kevin 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.920 and Frankie. How do I even find that? 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:55.240 Oh that you should probably print. 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:58.680 Yeah, you might need to print that mark because like 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:00.440 I scrolled the whole show and it's not there. 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:01.400 Yes, I'll print that. 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:03.760 No, yeah, that is because that's only two pages. 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:05.240 Used to be where you could just pick up a 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:07.279 piece of paper and look at it. Now I scrolled 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:08.080 the whole file. 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:09.800 System, so you just got to like, so if it's 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:12.360 a it's a guest, then I think you should print those. 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:14.440 But then I like to look ahead and start thinking 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:15.679 of what, Yeah. 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:18.160 I think guess sheets print those because it's only two pages. 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:22.520 Then I know that the Jonas Brothers just did dis 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:35.960 a Dodger Stadium. I don't know. I didn't let it 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:38.279 go so much online. I did it who at the 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:41.440 end a few days before I did it. I mean 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:44.480 they were a little cooler, but in the beginning it 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:55.920 sound we sound similar. Okay, now right there, right, listen, 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:59.320 it's time, right we sound there? 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:01.520 I mean you enunciate it a little bit more. 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:04.000 I do not see it a little bit more, probably 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:05.880 not as cool. And then at the end I get it. 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:17.440 I want to that wo as my text message. 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:20.720 You know, I'm just reminded constantly of not having it. 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:24.320 You know, I'm just reminded constantly of not having it. 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:28.360 I don't have what's it exactly? 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:32.359 It is you and embrace the you. 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:35.520 Don't need a talk at the end, I should have 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:41.920 just been quiet, just let it go, speaking of woo wooing. 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.120 I hear you want to woohoo at a sorority house. 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:46.320 What's not telling me trying to. 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:50.360 Be in the pie? 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:52.560 I got that in the sky? 0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:54.400 Super cool, I know. 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:58.320 So I ran into an old sorority sister of mine 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.960 at the laugh Factory a couple of weekends ago. I 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:03.440 haven't seen her since we graduated from college, and we 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:05.680 did the whole sorority thing. We made the kite, we 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:09.040 did the handshake, and we were just like talking about 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:13.280 our like sorority days, and it really made me feel 0:07:14.360 --> 0:07:16.680 nostalgic in like a certain type of way. And I 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:21.480 was thinking that maybe I could get involved with the thetas, 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:24.000 the cap Alpha thetas in southern California in some way 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:29.240 like being a house mom. Some house mooms live in hold. 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:32.000 How are you going to be a house mom and 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:33.480 move into the sorority house? 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:36.200 All houses the show, not all house moms live. 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:38.840 In the best. Yeah. Do you really want to say? 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.360 Do you really want to commit yourself to this new role? Tanya? 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:45.200 I just can't. I can't decide if I do that, 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:47.520 if it's going to be like not the same. 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:50.880 I think of it. 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:53.240 What is the role of the house mom? 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:56.880 So it's different for every chapter. So again, I went 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:58.760 to school in Arizona, so I don't know exactly what 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:01.520 it's like in southern California. But they kind of they 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:05.680 come to chapters which are Monday nights, and they just 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:08.560 go sit there for the chapter service, and then you 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:11.040 attend some of the date dashes, You attend some of 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:12.520 the philanthropy events. 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:14.119 Kind of like overseeing things. 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:16.760 You kind of supervisor in a way. 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:19.480 So did they come to you with problems and issues 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:20.440 and questions. 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:22.200 And concerns might Yeah, when I was pledged mom, like 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:23.120 that's all they did with me. 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:30.480 What's the is a sorority sister freshman? Major crisis? 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:31.880 Your mom my. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:33.920 Boyfriend what's your name? Tana mom? 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:41.160 Let her, My boyfriend just broke up with me because 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:43.640 he said that he's now sleeping with Emily. 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:46.040 But I told him that I wanted to still be 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:49.040 with him. So what do I do now? Emily's my roommate. 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:51.440 And she's a she's a sty sister, she's. 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:53.600 My sority sister, and she's now hooking up with my boyfriend. 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:55.000 So Tanya, mom, now what do you do? 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:57.840 Well, we will have a talk with Emily. 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:04.920 Because do not do that. Talk to Emily. 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:08.080 Yes, we can. We can talk to Emily and live 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:10.160 with Emily anymore. You need to switch rooms, That's fine, 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:11.880 we can get that sorted out. That is not a 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:14.280 problem at all. But actually, but we can put one 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:15.800 of you in the sleeping porch and then give the 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:16.439 another one in the. 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:23.720 Room portide. 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:23.240 Room. 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:25.000 I saw she just got cheated on, and now you're 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:26.120 gonna put her outside. 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:28.680 Outside the sleeping porches. 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:34.400 And then boyfriend your boyfriend. I think maybe we should 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:36.960 rethink this boyfriend if he's going to sleep with your roommate, Emily. 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.840 This is chaos. The Greek system is threatened. 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:44.480 Watched Bama rush on, Max. 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:46.520 I will tell you the most the Most of the 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:49.480 stuff I got was homesickness, like people were like really 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:51.320 like sad being away from home. 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:57.760 Really, we'll play that next time your morning hack. 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:01.640 You know that the shirt you having a closet that 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:04.079 you maybe not wear all the time, but it's a 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:07.280 sweater or something little heavier, and then when you wear it, 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.600 it has those bumps on the shoulders from the hangar. 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:15.160 Yeah, crisis, and it feels like it will never come out, 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:17.000 and no matter if you wash it, it doesn't come out. 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:20.960 I'm not good at I'm really not good at folding 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:28.000 trousers pants and getting them to hang well without wrinkling 0:10:28.480 --> 0:10:29.240 on the hangar. 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:35.560 Browser trousers, that's what they're called. Yeah, I understand. Well, 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:36.559 I'm not good at hanging them. 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:39.160 I always said they never they never really sit right 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:41.120 on the hangar when I fold them over the hangar. 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:42.400 Are you British? 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:44.679 Don't you just clip them with the little clips? 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:47.840 No, my pants are so long they hit the ground 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:49.200 if I clip them with the clips. 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:51.440 Oh, your pants are not that long. 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:53.440 Yeah, I'm sorry, and that your pants are. 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:56.320 God, what do you know about my paint? My trousers 0:10:56.440 --> 0:10:57.120 and their trousers? 0:10:57.160 --> 0:11:00.000 Why do you call them trousers. They're just pants. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:02.880 Excuse me, backroom, Mikayla, what would you call your soon 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:04.319 to be boyfriend's pants? 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:04.720 Pants? 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:09.920 Big pants? Just pants? Unless you're British, they call them trousers. 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:14.480 I think technically swallow. Aren't they called trousers? Like old school? 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:18.160 Yes, thank you, sounds cooler trousers. 0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:20.680 But that's also like what when you shop online like that? 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:24.160 That's what they don't say pants. I say like trousers jeans, da. 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:28.160 Da dad, because it's it's the technical if you're you know, 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:29.520 it's a technical category. 0:11:29.640 --> 0:11:30.280 Yeah. 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:31.920 Anyway, I'm talking about the shoulders. 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:34.240 So here's what you do to keep those bumps on 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:36.880 the shoulders from the hangars, to keep them away, hang 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:40.520 them inside out. The bumps may still happen, but your 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:41.800 shoulders will eliminate them. 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:44.360 When you wear it. Spots for your shoulders. 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.360 Oh god, I would just throw the shirt away at 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:49.240 that point. 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:49.720 I don't know. 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:51.760 As a kid, I never had a neat closet. As 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:54.000 an adult, I kind of try to do the best 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:54.280 I can. 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:56.160 Oh yeah, now it's like a dream. 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:00.520 So here's the quote for today. Get in right state 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:05.880 of mind, be patient. Blessings take longer than settling does 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:11.840 be patient. Blessings take longer than settling those just FM 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:13.520 headlines with siciny. 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:15.079 Well. 0:12:15.160 --> 0:12:18.600 President Joe Biden said that high speed internet is no 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:22.480 longer a luxury but an absolute necessity, as he pledged 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:25.160 that every household in the nation would have access by 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:29.040 twenty thirty using cables made in the US. 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You'll be able to check out more 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.679 than three dozen marine species. 0:13:12.920 --> 0:13:18.439 On air with a Ryan Seacrest, Today's National Ice Cream 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:21.520 cake day. I point that out because my mother loves 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.880 ice cream cake and as kids, that's what we had. 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:27.160 We had the Baskin Robins ice cream cake. 0:13:27.200 --> 0:13:30.079 For our birthday, we had the Baskin Robin's ice cream pie. 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:30.959 That was like our thing. 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:32.480 Was it round as well? 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:35.080 It's round, it's like in a pie tin, but. 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:37.040 It had so not like the log right has. 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:39.440 Oreo crust and that has like a caramel on top. 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:42.960 So because you're wondering, I'm not just a cake person. 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:45.240 I need cold with cake. I like the ice cream, 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:50.280 like the cold temperature with the cake. N mostly stay today. 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:53.640 Hi's in the mid seventies. All right, let's put our 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:57.240 relationship guidance caps on for Anthony. 0:13:57.600 --> 0:14:00.080 How are you? Anthony? 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:05.440 Good morning, Ryan, I'm morning. You know I need some help, Okay, 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:06.240 So what. 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:09.760 I know is your girlfriend has a study partner at 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:12.720 school and school is out and she's still hanging with 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:13.600 the study partner. 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:14.520 What concerns you. 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:20.720 Anthony, Yeah, it's just a weird situation. Like I don't 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:23.800 want to be a toxic boyfriend or anything, but he's 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:26.440 over like every day and it's just getting really weird 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:29.400 at this point. Like I know they're good friends, and 0:14:29.480 --> 0:14:34.200 I shouldn't be worried, but you know, school's over. I 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:37.440 never hung out with friends after school was over this much. 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:41.480 I know it's convenient because he lives close by, but 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:44.760 you know, sometimes when I'm not there, Yeah, I just 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:48.360 get a little bit worried because they're just super good 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:50.520 friends and they're both in the same major, and they 0:14:50.560 --> 0:14:54.400 both share a lot of things in common, like, you know, 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:56.720 they're both English majors, that they love a bunch of 0:14:56.760 --> 0:15:01.120 stuff that they just talk about out for hours on end, 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:05.320 and it feels like, you know, maybe she's developing an 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:07.960 emotional connection with him that I just don't have. 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:13.480 With it, Anthony, what I want to say, because this 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:17.120 is all being broadcast, is don't worry about it. You 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.200 love her, trust her. But what I'm thinking is I 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:20.760 don't like it. 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:24.280 I don't like it. I really don't like it. 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:25.880 And how long have you guys been together. 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:31.160 We've been together for about two sears. 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:32.920 I don't like it. 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:36.000 This is like, these are the ingredients for something bad 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:39.960 to happen in my mind now that I don't know 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.920 if that would be my own insecurity or I just 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:45.760 feel like it is a little like, sure, you should 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:46.760 trust your girlfriend. 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:49.240 But it's a little recipe for disaster. 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:51.480 Why are they spending so much time together if they're 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:54.200 not studying for a test or in some sort of 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:57.120 study group. This you know, like you're saying school is out. 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:01.000 Yeah, school though, I mean I understan them being friends, 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:04.560 and you know they have every right to hang out 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:08.120 with each other. But also you know he's over, Like 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:11.360 every day they spend a lot of time together. 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:13.000 Are you ever around the two of them? 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:17.920 Oh, I mean yeah, I'm home Usually I work hybrids, 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:21.320 so some days I'm in the office, some days I'm 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:25.720 I'm home and so be here for you know, lunch 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:27.080 sometimes dinners. 0:16:27.480 --> 0:16:30.760 The mature me wants to say, don't worry about it, 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:32.920 But the me me says, worry about it. 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:33.400 I don't know. 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:36.800 Then I would address it with her, right, immature me 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:39.840 would say, let's set him up with a girl. 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:45.120 Oh right, you know, detour to the detour route. 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:46.200 Get that guy booed up. 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:48.440 No, it's talking about it's not about the guy. It's 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:51.400 about your girlfriend. And I think that why she's the 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:56.360 immature me. She's taking advantage of your your faith in 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:58.520 her and your loyalty to her. And I just feel 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:00.880 like there is there, there's a line, and there's a 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:03.360 boundary that should be there when you're in a relationship 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:05.320 and how much time you're spending with somebody of the 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:06.080 opposite sex. 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:09.000 She could just be oblivious that she's doing this to you. 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:12.280 So what we should do, Anthony, we meaning you, We're 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:13.080 not can't be there. 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:16.040 But what you should do is be. 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:19.280 Honest with your girlfriend about how you feel and see 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:22.359 her reaction to that, because that reaction is going to 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:24.680 help you with peace of mind, or it's going to 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:26.639 help you realize this is a problem. 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:28.399 But it's gonna go one way the other. Yeah, So 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:29.360 can you do that, Anthony. 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:32.480 She's either gonna explode or it's gonna be no big deal. 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:35.320 You're gonna get some clarity here, and any clarity you 0:17:35.320 --> 0:17:36.560 can't just can't fester her. 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:41.800 Does that work? Yeah, Anthony, Good luck, buddy, Thank you 0:17:41.960 --> 0:17:44.400 very much for calling. Yeah. 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:46.640 It maybe where she puts him totally at ease right 0:17:46.680 --> 0:17:48.280 when when he talks to her, or. 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:51.119 It may be I mean, I hope he's not. 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:54.760 I mean, it may be where she says, I gotta 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:58.240 tell you something, and that sucks. 0:17:58.960 --> 0:18:02.440 But to be doing it right under his nose yikes. 0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:04.040 We don't know. 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:06.960 But you can't just let it. You can't just go 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:10.760 to bed at night not knowing. No, it's time for 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:14.239 a second date update. So listen to this if you've 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:16.280 never heard it before. Basically, we're gonna try and find 0:18:16.280 --> 0:18:19.480 out what happened to Kelsey. Why this guy that she 0:18:19.640 --> 0:18:21.080 met is not into it? 0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:21.440 Right? 0:18:21.440 --> 0:18:23.879 I mean what happened because she says to us that 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:27.360 they met at a ce Sun graduation party. Kelsey, you say, 0:18:27.359 --> 0:18:29.240 you guys hit it off and you thought it was 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:30.800 a wonderful first date, right. 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:35.080 Yeah, I thought we had a lot of fun. I mean, 0:18:35.760 --> 0:18:35.960 it was. 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:37.840 Such a great first date. Tell me. 0:18:39.520 --> 0:18:42.919 Well, I mean we kissed outside the restaurant before we parted, 0:18:44.160 --> 0:18:47.639 so I mean I thought we were you know's going 0:18:47.720 --> 0:18:50.000 to be an item maybe, And so I sent him 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:52.840