1
00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,760
Speaker 1: My friend's obsessed with my wife. I'm cutting him off.

2
00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,240
Speaker 2: That sounds icy. I have a wife that I had

3
00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:07,480
Speaker 2: been with for over ten years and married for three.

4
00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:09,480
Speaker 2: We have a ten month old son now, and I

5
00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:11,920
Speaker 2: recently met a guy who turned out to have a

6
00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:14,720
Speaker 2: lot of common interest with me. We both think my

7
00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:19,040
Speaker 2: wife is smoking hot, just kidding baby, both in the finance,

8
00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,599
Speaker 2: fitness and stuff a couple of Chad's just Chad Now.

9
00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,759
Speaker 2: We started hanging out more and more and work out

10
00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:29,480
Speaker 2: together weekly in my home gym garage. Obviously, we're spending

11
00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:33,600
Speaker 2: time together and we shoot the crap often. His situation

12
00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:35,559
Speaker 2: is that he's a single father of a seven year

13
00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:39,159
Speaker 2: old girl and his ex is a super be to him.

14
00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,879
Speaker 2: She publicly talks down to him the few times we

15
00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,479
Speaker 2: all went out to dinner together. He still has to

16
00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,479
Speaker 2: see her because they are co parenting, but he's been

17
00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,800
Speaker 2: trying to date for the past year. By the way,

18
00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,240
Speaker 2: this comes from the app user name two toxics. A

19
00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:53,960
Speaker 2: comment from best of Vendor updates.

20
00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,040
Speaker 3: Sounds like they're like a nice little romance, right, Yeah,

21
00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:01,040
Speaker 3: a little bromance is brewing, but I'm predicting that it's

22
00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,560
Speaker 3: not going Yeah.

23
00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,199
Speaker 2: Anyway, we got on the topic of what he's looking

24
00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,520
Speaker 2: for in a girl, because he keeps going on dates

25
00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,840
Speaker 2: and they all suck, according to him, and none of

26
00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,160
Speaker 2: the girls are his type. So I asked what his

27
00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:18,360
Speaker 2: type is, and he starts describing the traits of my wife.

28
00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,839
Speaker 2: Could be a coincidence. Whenever we go to dinner, he'll

29
00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,160
Speaker 2: be telling a story or whatever and show a picture

30
00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:27,200
Speaker 2: on his phone, but only to my wife. I have

31
00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,520
Speaker 2: to ask him to see what the picture is, uh,

32
00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,240
Speaker 2: but before he puts it away. Not that I cared

33
00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,480
Speaker 2: that much, but it does feel susy.

34
00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:35,560
Speaker 1: He's excluding you.

35
00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,840
Speaker 2: He is excluding a little bit, but whatever. We've been

36
00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:40,840
Speaker 2: hanging out more and more and having game nights in

37
00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,319
Speaker 2: my place with him and a few other friends. Whenever

38
00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,679
Speaker 2: he's in the presence of my wife, he takes my

39
00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,080
Speaker 2: son and puts him on his shoulders and plays with

40
00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,320
Speaker 2: him in front of her, makes weird comments. Probly, you

41
00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:51,720
Speaker 2: don't like that.

42
00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:52,440
Speaker 1: I don't like it.

43
00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:56,559
Speaker 3: I can be your new dadut I do rocket ships

44
00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:58,880
Speaker 3: with you. He can't even pick you up, right, He

45
00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,040
Speaker 3: can't even He can't even lift that over his head.

46
00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,320
Speaker 2: He's too weak. He hasn't lifted enough. He hasn't. He hasn't.

47
00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,400
Speaker 1: He hasn't been dedicated enough in a gym.

48
00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:13,200
Speaker 3: Ye, I'm rock climbing. He needs to do rock climbing.

49
00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,120
Speaker 3: But if your jim bro tells you that, that crushes

50
00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:17,080
Speaker 3: you because you're.

51
00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,720
Speaker 2: Right there doing the same amount of reps, same amount

52
00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,160
Speaker 2: of sense as him, and he's saying you're weaker or

53
00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,239
Speaker 2: even worse. He's out doing you in every rep. This

54
00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:29,200
Speaker 2: is tough, This is tough. And the and the family reps.

55
00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,079
Speaker 2: He's trying out to you and the family reps to

56
00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:32,560
Speaker 2: get out.

57
00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:34,960
Speaker 4: Leave leave.

58
00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:42,519
Speaker 2: We've we've, we've, we've broken Riley. The microphone just fell

59
00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:42,919
Speaker 2: out of.

60
00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:46,000
Speaker 4: You.

61
00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,360
Speaker 2: Guys, I wish I had a wife that was as

62
00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:51,480
Speaker 2: good as you as raising kids. Uh, let me know

63
00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,320
Speaker 2: if I can help you in any way with your son.

64
00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:58,280
Speaker 2: Always directed to my wife, never me. Okay whatever, he's

65
00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,519
Speaker 2: in the gym doing this. I wish I had a

66
00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:03,280
Speaker 2: wife like this is hoy, I'm home the kid. I

67
00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:04,880
Speaker 2: wish I had a wife that was as good as you.

68
00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,840
Speaker 2: I wish I had a wife that was good as you.

69
00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:09,519
Speaker 1: What's another one?

70
00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:10,760
Speaker 4: Oh?

71
00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,640
Speaker 3: I think you dropped this, queen. Oh, I think you

72
00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:15,840
Speaker 3: dropped this queen. He's like, that's what he's doing in

73
00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:17,160
Speaker 3: the gym. When Bro's not.

74
00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,240
Speaker 2: He's kidding ready wow, or he's saying it in his

75
00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:21,880
Speaker 2: head with him right there, just to like.

76
00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:24,880
Speaker 3: This is a hug, This is a hug. Okay, Oh,

77
00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,720
Speaker 3: you're just the best. I wish I had someone like you.

78
00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:32,239
Speaker 3: Oh you're just so awesome. This hug feels so right. Yeah,

79
00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,560
Speaker 3: you should marry me instead. We should be together for

80
00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:38,320
Speaker 3: all those things. The thing is, these comments have been

81
00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,120
Speaker 3: setting off eye raises for me. So when I was

82
00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,120
Speaker 3: working out with him the other day, I said, do

83
00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:44,440
Speaker 3: you think my wife is attracted?

84
00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:50,440
Speaker 2: He said, oh, hell yeah, dude, your wife is hot.

85
00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,000
Speaker 1: I said, thanks, but that raised my antenna even more.

86
00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,440
Speaker 2: Now. The reason I'm writing this is because his most

87
00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,760
Speaker 2: recent comment to me was, do you think your wife

88
00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:01,760
Speaker 2: can I had a girl with me at her workout

89
00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,280
Speaker 2: class that looks like her.

90
00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,640
Speaker 1: Oh heck no, oh heck no, oh heck no. Okay.

91
00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,000
Speaker 3: Number one, if you ever talk about a part of

92
00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:13,360
Speaker 3: friends attractiveness of their partner, the only acceptable thing you

93
00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,720
Speaker 3: can say is yes, they are beautiful. Is that crossing

94
00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,080
Speaker 3: the line not ugly?

95
00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:20,440
Speaker 5: I think you could be well, I think it depends

96
00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:21,280
Speaker 5: on the scenario, it.

97
00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,320
Speaker 3: Has to be a platonic like something you would say,

98
00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,560
Speaker 3: what would I say to Sofia, Sophia, you're looking nice today?

99
00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:26,039
Speaker 2: Oh?

100
00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,800
Speaker 5: Oh well about yeah. But but I feel like if

101
00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:34,200
Speaker 5: you were to say, like, Sophia, you know your partner's hot,

102
00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:35,120
Speaker 5: I'd be like, hell.

103
00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, well yeah coming from me.

104
00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:38,839
Speaker 2: But if it was like if it's someone you could

105
00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:43,440
Speaker 2: be attracted to, yes, yeah, then uh, it does get

106
00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,080
Speaker 2: into a hypothetical.

107
00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:46,640
Speaker 3: I was in the min and I look at your

108
00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:48,560
Speaker 3: boyfriend and said, I went, I can't wait to get

109
00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:49,359
Speaker 3: into his meat pocket.

110
00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:50,919
Speaker 2: Okay, there's that's different.

111
00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,160
Speaker 1: That's what's happening.

112
00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:55,719
Speaker 5: You've got a hot partner. Yeah in this case. No,

113
00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:57,520
Speaker 5: I'm saying in this case he isn't the wrong. But

114
00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,160
Speaker 5: I'm saying you were like, there's never any scenario where

115
00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,200
Speaker 5: you can say a person's partner's hot. That's I think

116
00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:03,680
Speaker 5: there is.

117
00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:04,880
Speaker 2: What is that scenario?

118
00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,600
Speaker 1: I what I just said, You're like.

119
00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,719
Speaker 5: You got like like you're you're you know, you're talking

120
00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:12,320
Speaker 5: to someone else and you're like, oh my god, I

121
00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:15,719
Speaker 5: love this person my friend's partner there, but you're like

122
00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,640
Speaker 5: with them, You're like they're they're there with you and

123
00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:21,279
Speaker 5: you're like, oh my god, they're partner hot.

124
00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:23,240
Speaker 3: Like have you said that about Angie?

125
00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,360
Speaker 1: Yeah? This couple together with what happened the other day

126
00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:26,800
Speaker 1: at dinner.

127
00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:28,240
Speaker 2: What happened? I'm about to tell you.

128
00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,480
Speaker 1: We were going to dinner with him and his family

129
00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:31,200
Speaker 1: that were in town.

130
00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,760
Speaker 2: It was set. It was at a big shopping center,

131
00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,719
Speaker 2: so we were waiting at a no free sponsors, thank

132
00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:40,000
Speaker 2: you for them to arrive at the restaurant. Uh. So

133
00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:45,000
Speaker 2: he comes to the no free sponsors. Uh where we are? Uh?

134
00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:46,920
Speaker 2: Where are we all with his family at the restaurant?

135
00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,839
Speaker 2: He waves and says, we're ready to go. I start

136
00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,320
Speaker 2: packing my son's bag while my wife handles the Uh.

137
00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:55,200
Speaker 2: While my wife handles the stroller, this dude grabs my son,

138
00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,680
Speaker 2: puts him on his shoulders, and starts walking out.

139
00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:00,280
Speaker 1: My wife is walking out and I'm grabbing the bag.

140
00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,200
Speaker 2: Now I'm literally watching this guy walk next to my

141
00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:06,480
Speaker 2: wife holding my child while she's pushing the stroller, and

142
00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:08,400
Speaker 2: I'm trailing behind them.

143
00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:08,920
Speaker 1: Gritty.

144
00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,800
Speaker 2: I felt like I was watching a couple in their child,

145
00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,240
Speaker 2: and I was seething and feeling displaced. Wonder what the

146
00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,440
Speaker 2: wife thinks about that? Hopefully we see it too. Am

147
00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,520
Speaker 2: I overreacting because I'm cutting this a hold off, not

148
00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,960
Speaker 2: letting him anywhere near my family and my kid again,

149
00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,120
Speaker 2: if we so much has happened to see him in

150
00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,880
Speaker 2: a social setting of six or less, we're leaving.

151
00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,320
Speaker 3: I have a few questions here, Yes, sir, one, what

152
00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:34,000
Speaker 3: does I think she is she entertaining this?

153
00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:34,679
Speaker 4: Yeah? Two?

154
00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:38,039
Speaker 3: This is your jim bro of seven years. Why is

155
00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:39,479
Speaker 3: he all of a sudden doing this to you?

156
00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:40,760
Speaker 5: Yeah?

157
00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,760
Speaker 2: Super? I mean we've seen people in long friendships f

158
00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:48,960
Speaker 2: each over each other over on this show. I'm super

159
00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,279
Speaker 2: curious to hear what the wife thinks. But I think,

160
00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,719
Speaker 2: like OPI feels like this guy's I can croaching it.

161
00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:56,840
Speaker 1: And I think he has a right to be like, hey,

162
00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,279
Speaker 1: I don't want you doing that. Yeah, dude, he's playing

163
00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:00,760
Speaker 1: family with his wife and kid.

164
00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:04,400
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, you have a daughter. And even if that's

165
00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,599
Speaker 2: not his intention, it's like, hey, this is his friend.

166
00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,000
Speaker 2: It's like, I just don't want to be around this

167
00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:10,520
Speaker 2: guy because he keeps doing this.

168
00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:14,000
Speaker 3: And like even though it is so obvious, because he's

169
00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,000
Speaker 3: around him a lot and he sees how healthy that

170
00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,040
Speaker 3: relationship is and he's like I want that. I want

171
00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:19,680
Speaker 3: someone that looks like her. I want someone that is

172
00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,040
Speaker 3: like her. I want Can she find someone that looks

173
00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:22,360
Speaker 3: like her?

174
00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:23,360
Speaker 1: It would the.

175
00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:25,440
Speaker 3: Sad fix to all of this, where it would be

176
00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:27,800
Speaker 3: a happy world for everyone, including the a hole. Here

177
00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,880
Speaker 3: is if she had a twin that was single.

178
00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,360
Speaker 2: Even still, though that would be so weird, it feels

179
00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,200
Speaker 2: more that would make him happy.

180
00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,360
Speaker 3: This is just making the a hole happy in this scenario,

181
00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,160
Speaker 3: But we don't need this. Is he the a hole

182
00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,680
Speaker 3: for cut him off? Should he talk to him and

183
00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:45,200
Speaker 3: tell him wy he's got him off? Or just completely

184
00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:45,800
Speaker 3: cut him off?

185
00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:46,280
Speaker 2: I don't know.

186
00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,720
Speaker 1: It feels it feels pretty agregious the way he's done it.

187
00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, because there are certain people in my life that

188
00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:55,520
Speaker 3: I felt uncomfortable around with my partner and I have

189
00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:57,720
Speaker 3: just kind of cut him off after knowing them for

190
00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,280
Speaker 3: like less than a year. But after a year, if

191
00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:03,000
Speaker 3: I'm like kind of maybe maybe not even a year,

192
00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,480
Speaker 3: I could see cutting off certain people without if it's

193
00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,680
Speaker 3: like five years or more. I do think it's a conversation.

194
00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're right. I think that he should

195
00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:13,600
Speaker 2: send him down, not also just as a means of

196
00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,680
Speaker 2: like further drawing the line of saying to be like, listen,

197
00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:17,520
Speaker 2: this isn't like, oh we can't hang out or whatever.

198
00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,880
Speaker 2: It's like, no, I do not want you near us.

199
00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:25,400
Speaker 2: These are what's up? I said, yeah, yeah, Like I

200
00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:26,400
Speaker 2: don't know, it's too much.

201
00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:28,760
Speaker 5: I think if you're if your friends are making you

202
00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:32,240
Speaker 5: uncomfortable or doing behavior that you do not find acceptable,

203
00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,520
Speaker 5: I think you, yeah, having a conversation. I think, yeah,

204
00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,520
Speaker 5: if it's like over a year, having a conversation.

205
00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:39,400
Speaker 3: Having a conversation after a year, because hopefully you.

206
00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,720
Speaker 1: Could do it. I mean you can have a conversation

207
00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:41,240
Speaker 1: any point.

208
00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:45,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And hopefully that would actually aid in him,

209
00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:47,000
Speaker 2: because it could be the case where he, you know,

210
00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,040
Speaker 2: he just keeps like trying to follow up, and they're like,

211
00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,720
Speaker 2: you know, just like kind of not not telling him. Hopefully,

212
00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:56,360
Speaker 2: if they tell him, he'll be like, all right, my

213
00:08:56,360 --> 00:09:01,000
Speaker 2: my my chance is over. The jig's up there, but

214
00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,560
Speaker 2: the story is not up or over. Far from it.

215
00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:06,440
Speaker 2: We're getting into this first edit. I asked my wife

216
00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,720
Speaker 2: if he ever texted her or contacted her in any

217
00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,600
Speaker 2: way on social media or text. She said no, And

218
00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,040
Speaker 2: I told her, just now, I feel like he's peacocking,

219
00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,719
Speaker 2: And she said that she doesn't get that vibe from

220
00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:17,319
Speaker 2: him at all.

221
00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:18,120
Speaker 4: Peacocking.

222
00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:20,160
Speaker 2: Peacocking.

223
00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:21,520
Speaker 3: I've never heard this term.

224
00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:25,040
Speaker 2: It's like, like, you know, presented a bit like over

225
00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,360
Speaker 2: the top to like attract the attention.

226
00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:32,160
Speaker 3: And cannot wait to use that on someone. Peacocking dat

227
00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:36,280
Speaker 3: Oh god, we can't teach Riley these words. And a

228
00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,880
Speaker 3: female friend came over tonight who mutually knows this guy.

229
00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,520
Speaker 3: She agreed that it's strange and thinks that she's that

230
00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:44,559
Speaker 3: he's crushing on my wife intentionally or not, and told

231
00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:47,560
Speaker 3: my wife to and told that to my wife's face.

232
00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:48,120
Speaker 4: Nice.

233
00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,319
Speaker 2: I told my wife that if another female can see it,

234
00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:53,120
Speaker 2: then it's obvious. My wife now says she feels embarrassed

235
00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,240
Speaker 2: that she didn't see it, and says it'll be awkward

236
00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,480
Speaker 2: now because she doesn't want to think of him looking

237
00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,120
Speaker 2: at her that way. Both her and the friend and

238
00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,120
Speaker 2: think it's best if we only see him in social

239
00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:04,800
Speaker 2: settings with large groups and not in our house again

240
00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:09,720
Speaker 2: wyfe w wife, Yeah, she just she just ate it happens. People.

241
00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,760
Speaker 2: People can be oblivious now she knows.

242
00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,000
Speaker 3: Not doubling down on it, she realizes it and it's weird,

243
00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:17,640
Speaker 3: like sort of whenever you notice how people eat can't

244
00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:18,400
Speaker 3: get out of your head.

245
00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:19,240
Speaker 2: It's true.

246
00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:23,520
Speaker 3: Is that A I notice how you eat? I can't

247
00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:25,679
Speaker 3: get out of my head. It bothers it. But no, no, no,

248
00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,760
Speaker 3: it's fine. It's just like once you look at someone

249
00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,720
Speaker 3: as they're eating, you're like, oh, okay.

250
00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:32,600
Speaker 2: It'll never leave your brain.

251
00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,360
Speaker 3: So I'm better than others. You're not on the bad one.

252
00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:37,280
Speaker 2: That's true, but it's like, ah, I'm pretty bad all

253
00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:38,079
Speaker 2: on it.

254
00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:41,320
Speaker 3: It lay like a team of soli. You get and

255
00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:42,840
Speaker 3: you just scorfed down.

256
00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,800
Speaker 2: I do beating that. I do beating that. So the

257
00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:49,319
Speaker 2: lesson here seems like the general consensus is to trust

258
00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:50,920
Speaker 2: my guy. If I feel something is off, and it

259
00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,240
Speaker 2: does going to talk with the wife and then tell

260
00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:54,800
Speaker 2: this dude straight up and they goes to them.

261
00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:56,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so he's gonna tell them.

262
00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:59,040
Speaker 2: I feel like all good steps have been followed here,

263
00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:00,920
Speaker 2: I guess so p of this. This feels good, This

264
00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:03,959
Speaker 2: feels good. Let's look at these relevant comments. So Environmental

265
00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,400
Speaker 2: chart thirty one says, after reading all the comments you

266
00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,600
Speaker 2: have gotten, what does your wife say about this whole

267
00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,000
Speaker 2: thing now? And what are your plans for the near future?

268
00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:14,840
Speaker 2: Opie says, I'm dialing back the contact. I'm talking to

269
00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,720
Speaker 2: her about it, and she is reluctant but supportive. She

270
00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:21,439
Speaker 2: still thinks it's just his attempt at convincing her to

271
00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:24,080
Speaker 2: set him up with a friend by constantly trying to

272
00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:25,560
Speaker 2: remind her of his good traits.

273
00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:26,679
Speaker 1: Either way, I.

274
00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,640
Speaker 2: Told her my thoughts on it. Collector CCG says, the

275
00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,480
Speaker 2: second he expressed interest in another man's infant child is

276
00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:35,280
Speaker 2: the minute that you should have told him to get

277
00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:37,040
Speaker 2: the f out of your house and never spoken to

278
00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:37,559
Speaker 2: him again.

279
00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:39,440
Speaker 4: Okay, that's a little fun.

280
00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:43,320
Speaker 2: People like yeah, because like like you know, you can

281
00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:46,600
Speaker 2: like the friend Auntie uncles, you know. I think that's very,

282
00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,760
Speaker 2: very perfectly reasonable.

283
00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:49,960
Speaker 3: John, Auntie sofio.

284
00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,520
Speaker 2: See come on, But if you wanted to be extra spicy,

285
00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:56,320
Speaker 2: a bit risky, a punch in the face could have

286
00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:58,959
Speaker 2: even came with it. Collector CCG is going kind of crazy,

287
00:11:59,000 --> 00:11:59,640
Speaker 2: did you good dog?

288
00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,640
Speaker 1: The answer thread? No, this is the silliest thread of

289
00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:03,480
Speaker 1: reading a long time.

290
00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,560
Speaker 2: And I have no idea why you entertain this crap

291
00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:08,520
Speaker 2: with a guy you barely know, Opie said, I should

292
00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,280
Speaker 2: have said, we've known him for two years, which is

293
00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:14,280
Speaker 2: reason to me, quote unquote, since most of my other

294
00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,280
Speaker 2: friends I've known for ten plus years. The only reason

295
00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,800
Speaker 2: I haven't is because we typically let our friends like

296
00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,400
Speaker 2: a game night, hold our son. He's the only one

297
00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:25,160
Speaker 2: that makes me feel weird with how he does it. Women,

298
00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,960
Speaker 2: I understand men. It's a bit sketch for me. OPI

299
00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,840
Speaker 2: on why his ex left him. He claims she lost

300
00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:34,720
Speaker 2: interest in him and he's been chasing her ever since.

301
00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,440
Speaker 2: But she doesn't want him or treat him nice and

302
00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,240
Speaker 2: is a bee to him and won't ever let him

303
00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,240
Speaker 2: see their daughter without or present.

304
00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:44,920
Speaker 3: I wish we knew a little bit more about her side,

305
00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,560
Speaker 3: because she may have like a good reason why she

306
00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:49,360
Speaker 3: won't allow him to be alone with a daughter.

307
00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:51,439
Speaker 1: One hundred percent. That's a great point. Riley O got

308
00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:51,840
Speaker 1: a great point.

309
00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:52,760
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll get into it.

310
00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:56,920
Speaker 2: Let's do it. Update. Here's the update. After all the advice,

311
00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:58,960
Speaker 2: and thank you all for that, I decided to go

312
00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:01,600
Speaker 2: on the slow c off method rather than be direct,

313
00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,520
Speaker 2: mainly because my thinking is that if you tell someone

314
00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,640
Speaker 2: that you're wise of their bs, they may just try

315
00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,440
Speaker 2: to convert, cover the tracks and be sneakier with their behavior,

316
00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:13,599
Speaker 2: or try to buy sympathy With mutual friends. There was

317
00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,080
Speaker 2: a party where we were invited at his house before

318
00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:19,120
Speaker 2: all this unfolded, and I told my wife we aren't going.

319
00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:21,520
Speaker 1: This caused a bit of tension within our house, but

320
00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:23,320
Speaker 1: it got pretty heated because.

321
00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,760
Speaker 2: While she thinks he's doing it subconsciously, she is your

322
00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,360
Speaker 2: interest in him, so it doesn't bother her. And she

323
00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,680
Speaker 2: said she didn't even notice until I brought it to

324
00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,679
Speaker 2: her attention. Needless to say, the fact that it caused

325
00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,080
Speaker 2: an argument and drama for me was more than enough

326
00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,440
Speaker 2: grounds for me to never have this dude around my

327
00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:42,040
Speaker 2: wife and kids ever again. Yet does seem like the

328
00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:45,439
Speaker 2: wife is maybe not being one hundred percent on the

329
00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:48,160
Speaker 2: same there's a little bit of like, oh no, he's fine,

330
00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:50,920
Speaker 2: and OPI's like, hey, this is like, you know, really

331
00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:51,520
Speaker 2: affecting me.

332
00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:53,800
Speaker 3: You know, I'm trying to give the benefit of a

333
00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:55,760
Speaker 3: doubt to the wife. She probably doesn't want to miss

334
00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:57,680
Speaker 3: a social event. That's the only reason why.

335
00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm not saying that she is entitled for

336
00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:02,960
Speaker 2: her own like feelings on the matter. And you know,

337
00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:06,240
Speaker 2: maybe she could totally be reading this where op, he's

338
00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:10,000
Speaker 2: misreading it. But yeah, yeah, So anyways, because we already

339
00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,160
Speaker 2: have introduced all of my friends in the friend group.

340
00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:14,920
Speaker 2: He invited all of them to this party. We didn't go,

341
00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,079
Speaker 2: and a few friends asked asked if we were going.

342
00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:19,640
Speaker 2: I explained the situation, and a few of them agreed

343
00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,840
Speaker 2: that they saw what I saw. Okay, so we're now

344
00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:25,720
Speaker 2: getting a lot of like second hand accounts for friends

345
00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:29,040
Speaker 2: to see this as well. They said that they were

346
00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,640
Speaker 2: not going to the party. One couple did decide to

347
00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,440
Speaker 2: go because they and him, because they and him became

348
00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,920
Speaker 2: close over the fact that they both realized they were

349
00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:40,120
Speaker 2: into sports. The girl texted my wife and told her

350
00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,160
Speaker 2: that they were the only couple that showed up. So really,

351
00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,000
Speaker 2: my friends are the only so really, my friends are

352
00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:48,960
Speaker 2: the only ones he invited. But she also said that

353
00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,400
Speaker 2: he had a girl with him there. They said the

354
00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:54,440
Speaker 2: girl barely spoke English, but he had, but said that

355
00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:57,560
Speaker 2: they were dating and she was acting very odd. It's

356
00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,920
Speaker 2: just this just keeps getting kind of weirder. I don't know,

357
00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:04,320
Speaker 2: let's just keeps getting Now. This is the part where

358
00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,320
Speaker 2: I'm not sure if he was made aware of my

359
00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,880
Speaker 2: discontent with him, because I had already started cutting him

360
00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:13,480
Speaker 2: off on answering calls, not initiating any text being very

361
00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:17,920
Speaker 2: short with my responses cool bro et cetera. After this party,

362
00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,160
Speaker 2: he randomly texts me photos with him and his girl,

363
00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:23,160
Speaker 2: professing how hot she is, but what a great catch

364
00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:25,680
Speaker 2: she is and how they are dating. One phrase he

365
00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,760
Speaker 2: used with further One phrase he used which further raised

366
00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:30,920
Speaker 2: my suspicions was it'll be good to go on a

367
00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:33,360
Speaker 2: double day so you can see I have a girl.

368
00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:35,160
Speaker 3: He would want to switch. I feel like I get

369
00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:36,040
Speaker 3: in the vibes that he's like.

370
00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:36,680
Speaker 2: Wells'll switch.

371
00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:37,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

372
00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:39,280
Speaker 2: Oh, he's like hyping up how hot? Like dude, look

373
00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:41,400
Speaker 2: how beautiful look hashual agency is. She's like, you know what,

374
00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:42,600
Speaker 2: you can have her?

375
00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna go to a gym day and the

376
00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:49,160
Speaker 3: wapauskies so you can see how hot she.

377
00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:50,320
Speaker 2: Is wife swap right.

378
00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:52,520
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just trying to do you a solid.

379
00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:53,239
Speaker 2: Bro.

380
00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:55,480
Speaker 3: Someone taking him out back written this.

381
00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:59,200
Speaker 2: Man, I'm thinking to myself, why would he care about that?

382
00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:01,880
Speaker 2: And what odd thing to say? I asked how they

383
00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:06,080
Speaker 2: met and he said tender, Hey, let me go. I

384
00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:10,520
Speaker 2: asked to see the conversation. He deleted the conversation. He

385
00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:13,440
Speaker 2: sent her Instagram photos and she has thirty seven followers

386
00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:16,760
Speaker 2: and half of her photos are her of her in Dubai, London,

387
00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:20,880
Speaker 2: et cetera, et cetera, and doing lube lude photo shoots

388
00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:25,680
Speaker 2: as Oppat's it. Considering he is a exotic dance club

389
00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:27,920
Speaker 2: kind of guy, this makes me think that he may

390
00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:31,720
Speaker 2: be paying for this companionship just to get his foot

391
00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:34,480
Speaker 2: back in the door. But I could also be wrong.

392
00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:38,040
Speaker 2: I don't know. So all this right, I'm plenty busy

393
00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:40,080
Speaker 2: with work and wife and I are fine, son, as

394
00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:42,560
Speaker 2: happy as can be. And I'm gonna make sure I

395
00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:45,720
Speaker 2: keep the grass cut so I can see any snakes

396
00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,960
Speaker 2: before they get to my door. I love that. Thanks

397
00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:53,600
Speaker 2: everyone for the reassurances. Let's close it out here, guys,

398
00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:56,920
Speaker 2: what do you think, Sofia?

399
00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:59,840
Speaker 5: I think that, Yeah, just get he's been weird.

400
00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:01,880
Speaker 1: It's being weird. It's just too like.

401
00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:05,600
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe it's not bad, maybe he's doing it subconsciously,

402
00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:09,160
Speaker 2: but it's just too weird. And he doesn't have to

403
00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:10,160
Speaker 2: be this guy's friend.

404
00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I would be interested in this guy's relationship

405
00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,879
Speaker 3: because he seems materialistic from I mean.

406
00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:18,040
Speaker 1: This is just me.

407
00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,119
Speaker 3: He likes a ship club, he works out a lot,

408
00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:22,240
Speaker 3: so he wants his image to be good.

409
00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:25,840
Speaker 1: Maybe kind of broy. Yeah, like Instagram bro kind of.

410
00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:28,040
Speaker 3: So it makes sense, like why he would maybe look

411
00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,680
Speaker 3: at I don't know, maybe his views on women aren't

412
00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:31,719
Speaker 3: like the healthiest.

413
00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:36,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm just like, maybe there's a world where

414
00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:39,680
Speaker 2: he's just innocent or he's doing a subconsciously or whatever.

415
00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:43,280
Speaker 2: But I'm just like, why, why, why chance it?

416
00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,240
Speaker 1: Why you don't have.

417
00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,960
Speaker 2: To do this? You know he has another great friend group.

418
00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:51,280
Speaker 2: I say, just tell him and move on.

419
00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:55,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly nice, that was good. That was a good one.

420
00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:55,760
Speaker 4: That's it.

421
00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:58,399
Speaker 2: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe, and

422
00:17:58,400 --> 00:17:58,960
Speaker 2: we love you.

423
00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,320
Speaker 4: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

424
00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:12,280
Speaker 2: Time for okop rewam. My boyfriend inherited property and went crazy.

425
00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:15,359
Speaker 2: He chose a shovel over me, and you won't believe

426
00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:16,680
Speaker 2: what he's doing with it.

427
00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:19,399
Speaker 4: Can shovel your shit out of them away? Baby?

428
00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:21,920
Speaker 2: Uh oh, and maybe him and this shovel are getting

429
00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:24,640
Speaker 2: uh this shoveled together if you.

430
00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,880
Speaker 4: Catch my drift, yo, anything's a dial to if you're

431
00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:28,440
Speaker 4: brave enough.

432
00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:32,040
Speaker 2: Oooh, we just win for it. We sent it.

433
00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:34,800
Speaker 1: No better note to start on than that.

434
00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,200
Speaker 2: I know this is a weird question, but my boyfriend

435
00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:40,080
Speaker 2: likes to spend a lot of his free time digging

436
00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,639
Speaker 2: a tunnel on some property that he inherited.

437
00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,199
Speaker 4: Digging a tunnel, digging a tunnel low key, though, that

438
00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,600
Speaker 4: sounds like my ten year old on the beach dream

439
00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,600
Speaker 4: right where. It's like, I don't know if you've ever

440
00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,400
Speaker 4: dug a hole at the beach, there's no better pleasure

441
00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:55,600
Speaker 4: than just digging deep holes with your boat.

442
00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,280
Speaker 2: It's the most oddly satisfying, you know.

443
00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,320
Speaker 4: Literally, when I was in kindergarten, every day I would

444
00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,600
Speaker 4: say with my friends, we're gonna dig to China. We

445
00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:06,000
Speaker 4: never did, but we kept digging every day.

446
00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:10,040
Speaker 2: The persistence and uh, just the imagination and dreams of

447
00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:11,399
Speaker 2: these children are incredible.

448
00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,720
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's beautiful.

449
00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:16,560
Speaker 2: Dig through molten lava and thousands and thousands of miles

450
00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:17,080
Speaker 2: and we're going.

451
00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:17,600
Speaker 4: To do it too.

452
00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:18,320
Speaker 2: You were.

453
00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:19,480
Speaker 4: The system was against me.

454
00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:21,680
Speaker 2: Really, the odds were stacked.

455
00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:23,840
Speaker 4: They kept filling up my hole every day.

456
00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,359
Speaker 2: Now I haven't seen the full extent of it, but

457
00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:30,000
Speaker 2: last I saw it was remarkably deep under the surface.

458
00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:32,960
Speaker 2: God he went deeper on that hole than he did

459
00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:36,000
Speaker 2: with me. The front of the thing is deep, wide

460
00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:37,679
Speaker 2: and well put together.

461
00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,600
Speaker 4: I feel like you're describing like, yeah, this is a metaphor.

462
00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,880
Speaker 4: This is a metaphor. Yeah, just like this pop and

463
00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,960
Speaker 4: puts the deep, wide and well put together.

464
00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:48,480
Speaker 2: At the front of the hole, which is the only

465
00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:51,879
Speaker 2: part I've ever seen. He's got cement beams, electrical lights,

466
00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,240
Speaker 2: even chairs and a small table.

467
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:55,720
Speaker 4: Wow, this hole is like big.

468
00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 2: This is an architectural you know, just masterpiece. Right?

469
00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:00,680
Speaker 4: Is there a reason for this hole?

470
00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,119
Speaker 2: We have to find out. I haven't gotten into it,

471
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:06,040
Speaker 2: but it looked like the quality severely dropped as the

472
00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:09,280
Speaker 2: tunnel went further, mostly becoming open dirt with some wood

473
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 2: beams holding it up. My biggest concern is his safety.

474
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,080
Speaker 2: I'm really worried that he's gonna dig too deep and

475
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,960
Speaker 2: it'll collapse on him or something. I've tried voicing this

476
00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,720
Speaker 2: concern to him, but he just laughs it off and

477
00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 2: assures me that he'll be fine. Big Daddy's gonna build

478
00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 2: the big hole. Aside from safety concerns, there's also the

479
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,520
Speaker 2: fact that he really doesn't have a social life because

480
00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,200
Speaker 2: of the hole. It's all consuming.

481
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:38,480
Speaker 4: Everything must go to the hole or nothing.

482
00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,919
Speaker 2: I'm pretty much the only person he still talks to

483
00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,719
Speaker 2: outside of his job, and he doesn't want to go

484
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 2: out or do anything anymore. My god. It used to

485
00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 2: be that he'd occasionally head out and do some digging

486
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,840
Speaker 2: on the weekends here and there, but now he spends

487
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:57,119
Speaker 2: almost all of his free time in there man Cave.

488
00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:59,680
Speaker 2: He took man Cave and just brought it to a

489
00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:03,480
Speaker 2: whole not for like dementia, Oh my god, I mean,

490
00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,359
Speaker 2: what else could possibly be it.

491
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,720
Speaker 4: I feel like he's going through something. This is the

492
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 4: weirdest midlife crisis ever.

493
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 2: And he's not like explaining why, Like we have no

494
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:15,080
Speaker 2: idea other than he wants to do it, which is

495
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 2: a poor explanation. He still comes home, but he barely

496
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,719
Speaker 2: spends any time with me, and I know that he

497
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:24,440
Speaker 2: isn't doing anything but digging that dang hole in the ground.

498
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:26,679
Speaker 2: This can't be good for his mental health, but I

499
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 2: don't know how to convince him to stop. He's always

500
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,639
Speaker 2: really happy when he comes back from digging, which is

501
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 2: why I haven't seriously tried to stop him before. But

502
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 2: I was talking to a friend about him, and she

503
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 2: told me he might be going crazy. Obviously, I don't

504
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 2: think he's insane, but I hadn't considered the mental health

505
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 2: aspect of this, and I just don't know what to do. Sam,

506
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 2: We're going to take a pit stop and the digging

507
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,639
Speaker 2: through this story. What do you think so far.

508
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:58,399
Speaker 4: Purely pleasure, like you know how like people will like, okay,

509
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,199
Speaker 4: you know, like I'm creating the garden, right, you know,

510
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 4: and I'm digging in the garden, and there's gonna be

511
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 4: a garden, right like to an end where.

512
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,880
Speaker 2: You're something comes to fruition, like I want to see

513
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 2: it from seed to like strawberry.

514
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 4: Bush, is there like an end goal?

515
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 2: Well, you could garden forever, but you could argue like

516
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,639
Speaker 2: a strawberry plant like ripens and gives the berries, like

517
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 2: you've reached the end of that. Like things cycle, you

518
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 2: could just buy yourself dig for your entire life until

519
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 2: you die and you just lay down and your grave

520
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:28,160
Speaker 2: is already pre dug.

521
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 4: Maybe he kind of likes that. He likes he just

522
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 4: like maybe he just likes the simplicity of like I

523
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,199
Speaker 4: wake up, I dig, I go to sleep, and then

524
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 4: I dig more, and like every day I'm making more progress.

525
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,359
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know what the like term for it

526
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,240
Speaker 2: would be, but there's like a fixation on something that

527
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,880
Speaker 2: like gives you that you know what I mean where

528
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 2: it's like, hey, I have this thing that I know

529
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 2: I can wake up and do, and I can just

530
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,400
Speaker 2: continue progressing forever. It'll never end in a good way.

531
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 4: I think I think he's found something he truly loves.

532
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:56,880
Speaker 4: I think we're convinced. I now I kind of want

533
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 4: to go dig a hole.

534
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 2: Can we just turn this whole podcast into the wholes.

535
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 4: We want to give you? The whole story Reddit story

536
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 4: is while digging holes.

537
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 2: If you really dig this channel, give us a subscribe

538
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 2: and to like the plug I did. Please subscribe, Please subscribe.

539
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 2: Actually though, but Sam put down the shovel. We need

540
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,880
Speaker 2: to pick it back up because there's what we need

541
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 2: to dig to the bottom of this story here. Okay,

542
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 2: all right, So I've spoken with my boyfriend where we

543
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 2: might get some answers, and after a good long chat,

544
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 2: I can successfully say mission accomplished.

545
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 4: Okay, what the mission accomplished?

546
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 2: I sat him down when he came home Thursday and

547
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 2: seriously voiced my concerns both about his safety and about

548
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 2: our relationship. He hadn't realized how big of an effect

549
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 2: this had been on me in regards to our relationship,

550
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 2: and he immediately said that he was gonna cut the

551
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 2: time he's spent down there in half. Oh man, I

552
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 2: feel like that's a huge win for OPI. But it's

553
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 2: like you're gonna spend half the time digging the hole,

554
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:58,399
Speaker 2: like like we need to know why.

555
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 1: I just like, I just love how much he loves this.

556
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 4: Like I'm really happy for this guy, you know, like

557
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 4: make Some people like to play video games, some people

558
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 4: like to cheat on their wives. He likes to dig holes.

559
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 2: There's something problematic about everything. What gets bad about digging

560
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 2: a hole.

561
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 4: Reminds me of that. Remember when Cars Against Humanity raised

562
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 4: a bunch of money to just dig a hole in

563
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 4: the ground, and they just like they poured like a

564
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,119
Speaker 4: million dollars to dig the biggest hole they could.

565
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 2: Not to totally side tangent. But I just have to throw

566
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 2: it out there real quick. Where does the dirt go?

567
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 2: I mean he's literally dug a hole so big that

568
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,479
Speaker 2: he can build a cement and wood beam structure in it.

569
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 2: I mean, all of that dirt would would totally fill

570
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 2: up your backyard. How wide is a hole? I mean

571
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 2: they said wood beams and concrete. That leads me to

572
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 2: believe he at least can like walk in it. He

573
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,199
Speaker 2: said that we could spend the entire weekend together, and

574
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 2: we pretty much did. Friday night, we spent at home,

575
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 2: we went we went out for a nice dinner Saturday night.

576
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 2: After spending the day together, we were able to have

577
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 2: a nice lazy Sunday together. But I could tell that

578
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,639
Speaker 2: he was getting kind of antsy and almost nervous after

579
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 2: church today, so I told him that he could go

580
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 2: ahead and go to his tunnel early if he wanted to.

581
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 2: I won't lie. I was kind of hoping that he

582
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 2: would stay at home, but he decided to go back out,

583
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 2: which is all right with me. I also talked to

584
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 2: him about my concerns regarding gases that y'all made me

585
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: realize I should be conscious of my God. I guess

586
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 2: there's yeah like a messane and yeah like other And

587
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 2: he said that he'd work to get some sort of

588
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 2: ventilation system installed asuth is.

589
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,400
Speaker 4: He like making like a bunker or something? I mean,

590
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 4: why is he making the hole?

591
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 2: He said that he'd even dig with his dad's old

592
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,919
Speaker 2: gas mask if it made me feel better. The only

593
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 2: thing that I didn't bring up was us maybe going

594
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 2: to therapy about it, Therapy about the whole like I

595
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 2: feel like this is like the plot to like a

596
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: Netflix like series like The Holes.

597
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 4: It feels like, uh, like the beginning of like a

598
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 4: horror like TV show.

599
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 2: And he's and he's like been commissioned by like like

600
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 2: Evil Molpie to like build the bridge to the outer

601
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 2: world to wreak havoc.

602
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 4: Or like he knows something about like there's like a

603
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 4: nuclear explosion going to happen, and he's building a bunker

604
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 4: and he's like, man, I need to get rid of

605
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 4: my wife somehow, but I can't. I can't confront her,

606
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 4: and so he's just going to get in the bunker himself.

607
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 2: Someone told him, like, I'm going to tell you how

608
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 2: to protect yourself, but you literally cannot tell another living

609
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 2: soul otherwise I will. I will find you and end you.

610
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 2: I mainly said because mainly because he said that he

611
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 2: would cut back time and I didn't want to push

612
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 2: the issue too far. I think that he could maybe

613
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 2: benefit from the therapy. He's of the opinion that you

614
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,439
Speaker 2: only go to therapy if there's something wrong with you,

615
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 2: and I don't want him to think that I'm saying

616
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 2: there's something wrong with him, which, Yo, what are.

617
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 4: You talking about? Man? Just loves his whole time. He

618
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 4: loves the mindes.

619
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,239
Speaker 2: So all in all, maybe I should have brought that up,

620
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 2: but I'm definitely happy how things turned out, so thanks

621
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 2: to everyone that gave me some advice. Also, a lot

622
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 2: of people were asking why yeh tunnels?

623
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 4: Why the whole? And while I've.

624
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 2: Asked him before, I asked again and this was his answer.

625
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 2: It's just pleasant when I'm down there. I feel safe

626
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 2: and calm, and I'm always happier when I leave than

627
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 2: when I went in.

628
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 4: Dude, the whole provides I want to go to the

629
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 4: beach and diggle hole.

630
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 2: I want him to go to therapy and talk with

631
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 2: someone about why it's so therapeutic for like, I want

632
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 2: to know on the deeper level.

633
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 4: It's like, you know, like why do we go in

634
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 4: caves when we were cavemen? Because the holes provide?

635
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,199
Speaker 2: Holes provide bro I mean I think that was more

636
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 2: of a necessity.

637
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, but like he's like channeling his ancient cave

638
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 4: membrane exactly.

639
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 2: He's like, Oh, like I have this primal need to

640
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 2: be in the hole, and I will satisfy.

641
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 4: I don't think this hobby is There are people that

642
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 4: spend hours and hours like playing Minecraft. He's playing real

643
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 4: life Minecraft. They're play people that's been like hours and hours,

644
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 4: like I don't know, playing like hockey or motorcycle riding

645
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,159
Speaker 4: or whatever a hobby it might be. Man has his

646
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 4: whole hobby. Give a man a whole hobby, I hear you.

647
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 4: We'll ask everyone what what do you all think? Are

648
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 4: you pro hole or anti hole?

649
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 2: The hole?

650
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 4: Whoa?

651
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: Is he the A hole or the A hole? Is

652
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 2: it a hole or is he the a hole? So

653
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 2: tell me what you think. I actually think it's a

654
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 2: fantastic hobby. I think the one problem here is he's

655
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 2: doing less whole time to appease her. I think it's

656
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 2: a bit too obsessive and all consuming where he is

657
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 2: cutting out friends, like not not talking.

658
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 4: About anyone the friend. The friend thing like invite some

659
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 4: of your homies you know, over to your hole or something.

660
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,880
Speaker 2: Literally or just like like we all have things we enjoy.

661
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 2: I enjoy playing drum set, you enjoy surfing. But imagine

662
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 2: if literally like you stop talking to anyone and you

663
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 2: were just in the water, anyone would be like, hey, Sam,

664
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 2: like that she sounds nice. That's the danger. Don't become

665
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 2: opie don't become the A hole the a ocean. I

666
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 2: don't know, but like surfing, but surfing all the time,

667
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 2: OPI is sacrificing all of his external relationships, his partner.

668
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 4: I would feel bad about that, but it does sound

669
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 4: like being out in the water in the sun, like

670
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 4: on a beach in Cabo or something.

671
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 2: It's me, Arianna and the ocean. Those those are the three.

672
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 2: Those are your three. Maybe your parents and sister, but

673
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 2: that's it and the ocean.

674
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 4: I'm okay with that.

675
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 2: You're okay with that? Yeah, yeah, I get it. Though.

676
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 2: I think it's actually like one of the best hobbies ever.

677
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 2: So like a lot like gardening. I think gardening is

678
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: a good way a whole digging hold digging because it's

679
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 2: so I like driving because it's so like you kind

680
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 2: of just get on and you go, and I like,

681
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 2: just like it's like a flow state.

682
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 4: Well, let me know if you're pro hole or an

683
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 4: I hole.

684
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 2: Today, I fed up by taking the wrong class for

685
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 2: a month and now I'm taking the mid term tomorrow.

686
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 4: Okayop, this is OKAYOP. I'm Samuel Donner and I'm John Fry,

687
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 4: and we tell the funniest stories on the Internet.

688
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 2: And Sam, I have to ask, did you ever like

689
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 2: have a terrible situation in school where you had like

690
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 2: stay up the night before.

691
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 4: Or oh I pulled many at all night or in

692
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 4: my university days. Yeah, yeah, I remember like like the

693
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 4: CS projects, beater science projects. I would be working on

694
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 4: them like sixty hours in a week. It was like

695
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 4: all day, every night, and I basically I was delirious

696
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 4: by the time I pulled it in. I think I

697
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 4: pulled like two old nighters in a week, and I

698
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 4: was just stumbling around campus just drunk afterwards, being like

699
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 4: not drunk, actually, yeah, just drunk off of no sleep, sleeplessness. Yeah,

700
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 4: and like almost at the point of hallucinating. So yes,

701
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 4: I have had many sleepless nights.

702
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 2: That's insane. Well, we have a faithful story where someone

703
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 2: had to cram for a class that they didn't know

704
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 2: they had. Oh no, so let's get into it.

705
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 4: Oh no, okay, let's hear it.

706
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: Today. I fed up by taking the wrong class for

707
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 2: a month and now I'm taking the mid term tomorrow.

708
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 2: How do you take the wrong class for a month? Like,

709
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 2: aren't there assignments?

710
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 4: And I said the teacher like saying, this is week

711
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 4: on one oh one, one.

712
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 2: Would think, Samuel one would think. So I am in

713
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 2: my thirty year of university taking engineering.

714
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 4: Uh engineering, that's a I took engineering. It sucks.

715
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: So admitting this is a little extra embarrassing considering my

716
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 2: streak of never being that person in the wrong class,

717
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 2: as in just going to the right classes.

718
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 4: I is that your streak? I have always been to

719
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 4: the right class. WHOA calm down, buddy, big man, big man?

720
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 4: All right?

721
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 2: To start this semester, I ended up missing the first

722
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 2: week of school because I went on a last minute

723
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: trip with my friends. It was completely unplanned and actually

724
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 2: a few of my friends who had graduated helped chip

725
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 2: in to buy my ticket since I technically couldn't afford

726
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 2: to go.

727
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 4: All right, great way to start off the year, though,

728
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 4: like missing the first week of school.

729
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 2: Damn Anyway. I came into class a weekly and it

730
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 2: is scheduled for Tuesdays and Thursdays at seven to eight

731
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 2: fifteen pm. Oh pm, that's late, bro, Yeah, that's is

732
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: Sally the class On those days. I have classes all

733
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 2: day until two pm, so I usually go home, eat,

734
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: grab a snooze before the night class. Okay, so my

735
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 2: first Tuesday home I ended up oversleeping and turning up

736
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 2: to class five minutes late. So as part of my degree,

737
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 2: I have to take microeconomics, which all I knew about

738
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 2: previously was it's about the economy and money.

739
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 4: It's about the economy, but only little things. Yeah, the

740
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 4: economics of ants.

741
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: I was once a daycamp counselor and I convinced a

742
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 2: bunch of seven year olds that almond milk came from

743
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 2: microscopic utters on almonds. Really, and I consider that an accomplishment.

744
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 4: Did he teach them how to milk it?

745
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 2: I just said that there was microsoft. They didn't ask

746
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 2: for other questions. Then it asked for the receipts, all

747
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 2: except for one very skeptical eleven year old who almost

748
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 2: busted my entire charade.

749
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 4: And the entire almond operation exactly.

750
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 2: Luckily I made it out. So when I get to class,

751
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 2: they're talking about supply and demand curves shifting. So I

752
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 2: just take a spot in the back, not thinking twice

753
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 2: about what's happening. Okay, now this goes on for three

754
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 2: and a half weeks. I came to class, I took notes,

755
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 2: then did the weekly assignments on the core syllables it

756
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 2: had a date for the midterm, which is February first,

757
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 2: So the class before the exam January thirtieth. I decided

758
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 2: to stick around after class and ask some questions. Now,

759
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 2: I was doing all the assignments, and I thought the

760
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 2: course material was relevant, but it was all theory based

761
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 2: while the class was heavy math based. I understood what

762
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 2: was going on, but there was obviously some disconnect going

763
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 2: on here. I explained my concerns about the midterm to

764
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 2: the professor, and the conversation went like this. I explained

765
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 2: the above material. Professor, what do you mean all the

766
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 2: assignments are filled with math? Were you not using the

767
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 2: hunch bed Me? No, the assignments are online like the websites.

768
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 2: We bought the textbook from what's lunch pad? Professor London,

769
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 2: I don't have a textbook for this course.

770
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 4: There's not even a textbook.

771
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 2: They're not even a textbook. Me. It literally says it

772
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 2: in the syllabus. Look, I show the syllabus, Professor, Wait,

773
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 2: what cuss are you supposed to be in?

774
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 4: Oh?

775
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 2: No, me, what do you mean? This is econ two

776
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 2: oh two right? Professor stars laughing.

777
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 4: Sounds like the professor's like dying in that laugh.

778
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that one was the finishing note.

779
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 4: Literally dying laughing.

780
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 2: This is ECON three oh one. You have to take

781
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 2: two O two before you can take my class. This

782
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 2: is a new one. I've never experienced it in all

783
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 2: one thousand of my years. Me, well, this is awkward.

784
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 2: I better go see my actual teacher and explain.

785
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 4: Oh jeez.

786
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 2: I then grabbed my stuff real quick and sprinted through

787
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 2: the campus to go explain the situation to the other guy.

788
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 2: I caught him just as he was leaving the lecture

789
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 2: and explained my predicament, even showed him my ECON three

790
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 2: oh one notes to prove I could not make this

791
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 2: stuff up. He just laughed and said the same thing.

792
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 2: This is a new one for me. Turns out all

793
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 2: the assignments for both classes were due the same day,

794
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 2: same with the midterms. They were relevant because it was

795
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 2: obviously a level above what I was supposed to be doing,

796
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 2: and the only thing I got wrong was the building code.

797
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 2: They were both classroom one point twelve, both ECON classes,

798
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 2: just different buildings.

799
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:34,800
Speaker 4: Oh god.

800
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 2: So basically I spent the last two nights for getting

801
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 2: everything from class all month and learning the real material.

802
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 2: Wish me luck tomorrow.

803
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 4: It's so impressive that Op messed up that bad but

804
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 4: also got so many things right, like the fact that

805
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 4: he took this different class but still was doing well

806
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 4: in all the assignments is baffling.

807
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 2: And all of the deadlines matched up. They were like, oh,

808
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 2: turn into your homework. He's like, oh, I did mine

809
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 2: last night because it was due today. Like every single

810
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:06,479
Speaker 2: date matched up.

811
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 4: Almost like it was planned. Oh, it's part of a conspiracy.

812
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:16,720
Speaker 2: Speaking of conspiracies, there is an update. Oh no, Well,

813
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: went to sleep and woke up to a text from

814
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 2: another friend saying, you just made the front page of Reddit.

815
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 2: The exam is in a couple of hours and I

816
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 2: will update you on my grade. But to clear up

817
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 2: some of the comments. Yeah, the trip wasn't smartest, but

818
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 2: I had fun. Went to Tiesta's birthday in Vegas, amongst

819
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 2: other cool stuff life goes on. I was doing the

820
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 2: assignments for the actual class with some help from my

821
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 2: good buddy Google, and I had the actual textbook pirated.

822
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,479
Speaker 4: No one buys textbooks, come on, facts, Yeah, I didn't

823
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 4: buy one textbook when I was at U SJLA. And

824
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 4: then also, Google is your best study buddy. Facts stack

825
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 4: overflow for anything engineering related.

826
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 2: Yahoo answers that that was my go to fact back

827
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 2: in the days. I think I should have down rip

828
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 2: so I have a grasp of what's going on kind of.

829
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 2: The professor did everything on the board and there was

830
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 2: online notes, but I figured you did a practical application

831
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 2: in class, and the online notes for my real class

832
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 2: two two were for reference purposes. So I just got

833
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 2: back from the exam. I didn't crush it, but there's

834
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 2: no way I didn't pass. It was twenty multiple choice

835
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 2: and two five mark short answers. The professor also stopped

836
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,439
Speaker 2: me while I was leaving from the exam and said,

837
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 2: I usually don't tell students this before the second midterm,

838
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 2: but if you score better on the final and second midterm,

839
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 2: I will take the average to make up for the

840
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 2: first exam. So basically he.

841
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 4: Will erase the first exam, erase the first one. Okay,

842
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 4: nice teacher.

843
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 2: So all in all, I survived and lived to fight

844
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 2: another day. Just wanted to say thanks for all the

845
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 2: kind words and hilarious stories. I will start going through

846
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 2: my inbox and trying to reply to everyone.

847
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 4: Wow.

848
00:37:55,760 --> 00:38:00,479
Speaker 2: OP got through somewhat unscathed. Dude, OP really got lucky.

849
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 2: On that one.

850
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 4: Yeah he did. He got all the right answers, or

851
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 4: at least a lot of them. But you know what

852
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 4: is an answer you should always get right?

853
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, that you should subscribe to okop, subscribe

854
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 2: on YouTube, follow us on Spotify and.

855
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 4: TikTok, and if you want to be a real one,

856
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,240
Speaker 4: support us on Patreon, Join.

857
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 2: Mohammed Amandeck, Will Combs, Connor van Buren, Desiret, Canterbury King

858
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,439
Speaker 2: and Segments, and Kathy Quigley see his zone. Yeah,