WEBVTT - Ep 15: The Politics of A Second Wind

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, what's up, everybody. I'm Jamel Hill and welcome to politics.

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<v Speaker 1>And I heard podcasts and unbothered production time to get spolitical.

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<v Speaker 1>At the time of this recording, we're just a few

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<v Speaker 1>days away from the Super Bowl between Kansas City and Philadelphia.

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<v Speaker 1>And for what it's worth, I've got Kansas City clinching

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<v Speaker 1>the first three peat in NFL history.

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<v Speaker 2>But besides the game, what.

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<v Speaker 1>Millions of people are looking forward to is the Super

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<v Speaker 1>Bowl halftime show, which this year features Kendrick Lamar, who

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<v Speaker 1>is fresh off winning fifty eleven Grammys. Now, last year,

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<v Speaker 1>Usher's Super Bowl halftime performance drew over one hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>thirty million viewers. But believe it or not, there was

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<v Speaker 1>a time where halftime shows, super Bowls or otherwise, weren't

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<v Speaker 1>a thing at all, and certainly not any kind of

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<v Speaker 1>pop culture mega event. When halftime came, players just went

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<v Speaker 1>to the locker room and that was kind of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But that all changed in nineteen twenty two when the

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<v Speaker 1>very first halftime show for a professional football game took place,

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<v Speaker 1>and it wasn't some grand entertainer who performed for the fans.

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<v Speaker 2>It was dogs who were the main attraction. A man

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<v Speaker 2>named Lawalter.

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<v Speaker 1>Lingo was one of the top breeders of Airdale Terriers,

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<v Speaker 1>which were the most popular dogs in America at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Now Lingo became good friends with Jim Thorpe, the indigenous

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<v Speaker 1>football icon who had been playing professional football for years.

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<v Speaker 1>Lingo's big idea was to create a pro football team

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<v Speaker 1>whose main function would be as an advertisement vehicle to

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<v Speaker 1>sell his dogs, which were going for about one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>dollars a pop, big money in those days. The deal

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<v Speaker 1>was Lingo Paithorp five hundred dollars a week to be

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<v Speaker 1>a player, coach and to put together an all Native

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<v Speaker 1>American team. But the players Thorpe recruited we didn't just

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<v Speaker 1>played football. They would also work in Lingo's kennels. Lingo

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<v Speaker 1>wanted the Oorang Indians, the name of the team, to

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<v Speaker 1>pattern their games after the popular Wild Wild West shows

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<v Speaker 1>of the era. Lingo also noticed there was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of empty time before and during the game, so Lingo

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<v Speaker 1>would have the players performed traditional Native American dances before

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<v Speaker 1>the games and at various intervals during the game, but

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<v Speaker 1>most importantly, when it was halftime, the players would perform

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<v Speaker 1>tricks with the dogs, and Thorpe would also do dropkicking exhibitions,

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<v Speaker 1>and those.

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<v Speaker 2>Were your early football halftime shows.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't until some forty years later that the first

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<v Speaker 1>Super Bowl was played, a nineteen sixty seven matchup between

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<v Speaker 1>the Green Bay Packers and the Kansas City Chiefs. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>this was before the AFC and the NFC merged to

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<v Speaker 1>become the NFL as we know it today, and that

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<v Speaker 1>first Super Bowl halftime show also didn't feature some big

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<v Speaker 1>time celebrity. The halftime performers for the first Super Bowl

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<v Speaker 1>were as follows, the University of Arizona, a symphonic marching

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<v Speaker 1>band featuring renowned trumpeter Alhert whose nickname was the Round

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<v Speaker 1>Mound of Sound, the Anaheim High School Drill Team, and

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<v Speaker 1>the Grambling State Marching Band. Now, back then, the Super

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<v Speaker 1>Bowl halftime show just wasn't a big deal. For years,

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<v Speaker 1>it was dominated largely by college marching bands, with the

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<v Speaker 1>occasional celebrity popping up here and there. When you look

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<v Speaker 1>at some of those halftime shows in the nineteen seventies

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<v Speaker 1>and eighties, a lot of them come off like very

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<v Speaker 1>cheesy game shows. Here's the nineteen seventy eight Super Bowl

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<v Speaker 1>halftime show.

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<v Speaker 3>On Earth Earth one point on earth Point earth.

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<v Speaker 1>Point o Mine. I think you got to be kind

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<v Speaker 1>of high to understand what that was. Then there was

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<v Speaker 1>the nineteen eighty two Super Bowl halftime show, which featured

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<v Speaker 1>cast members from Up with People.

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<v Speaker 2>The theme was an ode to the nineteen sixties.

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<v Speaker 3>Today, we're going to bring back some of those unforgettable

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<v Speaker 3>songs and sounds of the nineteen sixties.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a time of.

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<v Speaker 3>Momentous change, and the musical was changing too, for so

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<v Speaker 3>many exciting innovations and insta hudgens, from the Beach Boys

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<v Speaker 3>to the Beatles, Circling to Soul, we Nanny to Motown

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<v Speaker 3>and here are just a few of the highlights.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, isn't that swell?

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<v Speaker 1>But in nineteen ninety two, the NFL finally realized it

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<v Speaker 1>had to stop trotting out these terrible, extremely forgettable halftime shows.

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<v Speaker 1>A fire got lit under them, and it was all

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<v Speaker 1>the black people's fault. In nineteen ninety two, the halftime

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<v Speaker 1>performers for the Super Bowl were Gloria Estefan and Olympic

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<v Speaker 1>skaters Brian Boitano and Dorothy Hamill.

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<v Speaker 2>The theme of the show was Winter Magic, How.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody is come on a field, the hole, come a

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<v Speaker 4>minute Winter's ahead of the time of the year Winter byd.

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<v Speaker 5>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>God blessed Gloria Estefan, who was a pop icon, but

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<v Speaker 1>nobody he was watching her Brian Bortano or Dorothy Hammel

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<v Speaker 1>on CBS.

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<v Speaker 2>Instead, everybody turned to Fox.

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<v Speaker 1>Because In Living Color decided to put on their own

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<v Speaker 1>halftime show opposite of the Super Bowl.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, I know you guys are thinking, you were thinking her.

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<v Speaker 3>These bozo's gonna make us miss any part of the

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<v Speaker 3>second half.

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<v Speaker 5>That's where this comes in our super Bowl countdown clock.

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<v Speaker 5>It'll be coming on later in the show to let

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<v Speaker 5>you know when to switch back to the second half.

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<v Speaker 5>You won't miss any of the senseless brutality.

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<v Speaker 2>But check this out. The Bad Boys and Comedy got

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of action for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Right here find Marshall, Bill men On and calling me

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<v Speaker 5>bad performing here live, and about two thousand censors ready

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<v Speaker 5>to pull a plug at any moments.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you're ready, Hey, we're ready. So let's hang

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<v Speaker 2>out with the home boys right now? What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>That In Living Color halftime show drew over twenty million viewers,

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<v Speaker 1>and the NFL decided I'm not on our watch. So

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<v Speaker 1>in nineteen ninety three, for super Bowl twenty seven, after

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<v Speaker 1>eleven months of negotiation with the King of Pop, the

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<v Speaker 1>NFL changed the course of Super Bowl halftime shows forever

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<v Speaker 1>when they brought out Michael Jackson, who apparently was finally

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<v Speaker 1>convinced to do the show after the NFL mentioned to

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<v Speaker 1>him that the super Bowl would air in one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and twenty countries so his performance could be seen in

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<v Speaker 1>places he might not ever be able to perform in

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<v Speaker 1>concert and true deform, Michael Jackson, as he so often did,

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<v Speaker 1>gave us a performance we would never forget. Michael Jackson

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<v Speaker 1>stood on a stage for two full minutes, didn't move,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say nothing, and he damn near had everybody passing out.

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred and thirty three million people watched that halftime show,

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<v Speaker 1>a record at the time, but after that the NFL

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't going back to their great value version of ice

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<v Speaker 1>capades again blamed the black people. The super Bowl halftime

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<v Speaker 1>show grew to be such an iconic stage that the

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<v Speaker 1>NFL was able to convince the biggest stars in the

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<v Speaker 1>world to perform for free. The NFL pays the cost

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<v Speaker 1>of the production and the artist travel fees, but that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>For example, the NFL paid thirteen million to cover the

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<v Speaker 1>costs of ciated with Usher's performance in twenty twenty four,

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<v Speaker 1>and in some cases the NFL also has donated to

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<v Speaker 1>the charity of the artist's choice, as was the case

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<v Speaker 1>with Michael Jackson. On top of paying his production costs,

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<v Speaker 1>the NFL donated one hundred thousand dollars to Heal the

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<v Speaker 1>World Foundation. In fact, super Bowl performers are only paid

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<v Speaker 1>union wages, which might amount to a little over one

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars per day, but they cash in on the exposure.

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<v Speaker 2>But even with the Super.

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<v Speaker 1>Bowl halftime show being as big as it is, that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean it has been impervious to criticism. In twenty nineteen,

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<v Speaker 1>the NFL was having a difficult time finding a performer

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<v Speaker 1>for the Super Bowl halftime show because of the widespread

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<v Speaker 1>support for Colin Kaepernick, who when twenty sixteen, began protesting

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<v Speaker 1>racial injustice and police brutality by taking a knee during.

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<v Speaker 2>The national anthem.

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<v Speaker 1>In twenty nineteen, the NFL reportedly wanted Rihanna, but she

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<v Speaker 1>declined in support of Kaepernick's protests. Variety also reported the

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<v Speaker 1>NFL reached out to Pink Andre three thousand, Mary J. Blige,

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<v Speaker 1>Cardi b Usher. All of them said no.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Eventually, the NFL that year was able to convince Maroon Five,

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<v Speaker 1>Travis Scott, and Big Boy to be performers, but that

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<v Speaker 1>was met with severe backlash. People wondered if the NFL's

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<v Speaker 1>biggest stage.

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<v Speaker 2>Was now tainted.

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<v Speaker 1>And then came along Jay Z, the NFL partner with

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<v Speaker 1>Jay Z and Rod Nation, who took over the halftime

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<v Speaker 1>show after twenty nineteen, and since then, the performers that

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<v Speaker 1>we've seen have been The Weekend, Rihanna, Usher, Snoop, Mary J. Blige, Eminem,

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<v Speaker 1>Doctor Dre fifty Cent, j Low Shakir, and now Kendrick

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<v Speaker 1>Lamar is the headliner for this year's Super Bowl. In

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<v Speaker 1>the end, I guess what Jay Z said during the

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<v Speaker 1>announcement of this partnership with the NFL turned out to

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<v Speaker 1>be true.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think we've passed kneeling. I'm Jamel Hill and

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<v Speaker 2>I approve this message.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming up next on politics, my favorite reality show on

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<v Speaker 1>television right now is.

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<v Speaker 2>Special Forces World's Toughest Test.

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<v Speaker 1>It airs on Fox, and the gist of it is

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<v Speaker 1>you have sixteen celebrities from sports, social media, and entertainment

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<v Speaker 1>who try to prove that they have what it takes

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<v Speaker 1>to be a part of America's elite special forces unit.

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<v Speaker 1>Now they're jumping off bridges, doing hand to hand combat

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<v Speaker 1>like some really wild shit, and enduring some truly crazy things. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>my guest today is a contestant this season, and that

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't be more fitting, because not only is she an

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<v Speaker 1>elite athlete, but she knows what it's like to endure.

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<v Speaker 1>She was once considered the world's fastest woman, but her

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<v Speaker 1>Olympic career was destroyed after she was convicted for lying

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<v Speaker 1>the federal investigators about her use of performance enhancing drugs.

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<v Speaker 1>She served six months in prison and basically disappeared from

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<v Speaker 1>the Spotlight. But this show and a new podcast she's

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<v Speaker 1>launching soon our Avenue, she's using to show people your

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<v Speaker 1>worst moment doesn't have to be your defining one. This

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<v Speaker 1>woman has a testimony one that she's eager to share.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming up next on Politics, Marion Jones. So, Mary and

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<v Speaker 1>I am going to start this podcast the way I

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<v Speaker 1>start every podcast. I ask every guest that appears on

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<v Speaker 1>Spolitics this question, Name a athlete or a sports moment

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<v Speaker 1>that made you love sports.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna give you two if that's okay. Sis. So,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm originally from California, Los Angeles to be specific, And

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<v Speaker 6>in nineteen eighty four, I was nine years old and

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<v Speaker 6>this was way back in the day, and people listening

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<v Speaker 6>to this watching this will remember that back in the day,

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<v Speaker 6>the US used to parade their athletes in the Olympic

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<v Speaker 6>city prior to the games, even starting right, so you

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<v Speaker 6>had an opportunity to see the greats of sport, like

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<v Speaker 6>literally in a ticker tape parade in your city. And

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<v Speaker 6>I knew, my mom knew, like we didn't have the

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<v Speaker 6>resources to actually go to the events, but my mom

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<v Speaker 6>was like the next best thing besides watching it on

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<v Speaker 6>television is to go to the parade. And so I

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<v Speaker 6>remember standing on the streets in Los Angeles and watching

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<v Speaker 6>the Carl Lewis's, watching the Jackie Joyner Cursey's like parade

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<v Speaker 6>in front of me, and then that summer at the

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<v Speaker 6>age of nine, watching the Games for the first time,

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<v Speaker 6>and that being everything for me. I didn't specifically know

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<v Speaker 6>at what sport I did, it didn't matter. I wanted

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<v Speaker 6>to feel whatever they were exuding when they crossed that

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<v Speaker 6>finish line first, like, tell me what I need to do,

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<v Speaker 6>tell me where I need to go, how I need

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<v Speaker 6>to train, how I need to be. That's what I want.

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<v Speaker 6>So that's the first thing. The second moments, I suppose

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<v Speaker 6>is being a part of a team. So I've had

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<v Speaker 6>the pleasure of not only being a part of an

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<v Speaker 6>individual sport in the sport of track and field, where

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<v Speaker 6>by you think it's individual, but it really does take

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<v Speaker 6>a team to get these athletes ready and all that,

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<v Speaker 6>but to actually be a part really of a team

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<v Speaker 6>sport that has surpassed so many doubters and gain the

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<v Speaker 6>respect like so so being a part of the ninety

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<v Speaker 6>three national championship team at the University of North Carolina

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<v Speaker 6>and creating a bond with these women whom I consider

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<v Speaker 6>my sisters, who like we are still like this to

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<v Speaker 6>this day also ranks probably for me, one of one

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<v Speaker 6>of the greatest sports stories in all of sports. Besides

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<v Speaker 6>just us winning the national championship at the point zero

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<v Speaker 6>point seven seconds to go, like that of itself is

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<v Speaker 6>an incredible story, but the bond that was created from

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<v Speaker 6>at the beginning of the season, like nobody had us

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<v Speaker 6>on any radar, like no radar, we were barely we

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<v Speaker 6>might barely win a few games in the ACC, right

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<v Speaker 6>when it was like the ACC is not like the

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<v Speaker 6>ACC now, whereby you got teams from California coming to

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<v Speaker 6>North Carolina to play, which is again a whole other

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<v Speaker 6>story that we can sit and talk about, which I

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<v Speaker 6>don't understand. But those are probably the two greatest moments

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<v Speaker 6>for me, right, They're very personal, and that that was

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<v Speaker 6>my first summer introduction to the to the world of sport,

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<v Speaker 6>and there was something about it that I knew.

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<v Speaker 2>I needed to Hatchell.

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<v Speaker 1>Coach, Sylvia Hatchell, you guys were thirty three and two. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlotte Smith.

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<v Speaker 2>Was the one who hit the buzzer beater, I believe,

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<v Speaker 2>and you were a freshman.

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<v Speaker 6>I was a freshman, but I helped to get the

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<v Speaker 6>jump ball that allowed us to get the pass into Charlotte. So,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I was the frozen freshman on the top

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<v Speaker 6>of the key, right, Like they knew that I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 6>I wasn't hitting any three pointer, okay, So I was

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<v Speaker 6>kind of a decoy at the top of the sheet.

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<v Speaker 6>They knew that I wasn't getting the ball, but hey,

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<v Speaker 6>it was It was an incredible moment, and you know

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<v Speaker 6>the fact that we just celebrated a few years back,

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<v Speaker 6>like our thirtieth year anniversary, Like what, like, there's no

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<v Speaker 6>way that it's been thirty years. Hey, it's amazing, So marry.

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<v Speaker 1>The first time I ever met you, it was I

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<v Speaker 1>was living in North Carolina.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a reporter for the News and Observer And

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<v Speaker 2>do you Oh.

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<v Speaker 6>I hope I was kind you were.

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<v Speaker 1>This was nineteen ninety seven or nineteen ninety eight. You

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<v Speaker 1>were training at NC State, Okay, and I believe your

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<v Speaker 1>coach was Trevor Graham yep. And they had dispatched me

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<v Speaker 1>out to do a story on you because you were

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<v Speaker 1>in prep moo for the two thousand Games. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to be honest, like at that point, this

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<v Speaker 1>was my first professional job out of college.

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<v Speaker 2>As a sports reporter.

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<v Speaker 1>I had not I was not familiar with you at

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<v Speaker 1>all because I didn't follow track and field that closely.

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<v Speaker 2>But everybody around there.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, no, no, no, this is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the next great track Olympian.

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<v Speaker 2>Be a How did I not know this?

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<v Speaker 1>If you went into the archives of the News and Observer,

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<v Speaker 1>you will find that I wrote a story about you

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<v Speaker 1>and your preparation for this because you probably remember this

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<v Speaker 1>reporter because he was the Olympic track guy, Jean Cheerry.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yes, yes, Jean was the guy. But for

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<v Speaker 1>some reason he couldn't do the story on you. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it was, but they asked me to

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<v Speaker 1>step in and go to n C State and talk

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<v Speaker 1>to Trevor and talk to you and you were working out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, man, I don't know much about track,

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<v Speaker 1>but she seems really good people, and they, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>looking doing my research before I headed into the interview

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you about your prep and everything. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you brought up with that moment in to you in

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<v Speaker 1>eighty four in high school. You were running Olympic level

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<v Speaker 1>times in high school, which was crazy to me. And

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<v Speaker 1>at the time in North Carolina, there was all this

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<v Speaker 1>talk because you had decided not to continue your basketball career,

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody was just like, did she make the right decision?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she did. Like it was just so much,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, dare I say controversy. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being hyperbole, but like, you were probably one of

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<v Speaker 1>my earliest moment in my career.

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<v Speaker 2>Where I was like I knew her win, that's dope.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm so glad that you shared that and I always like,

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<v Speaker 6>I know, like character wise who I am and who

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<v Speaker 6>I am to people, And regardless of if this was

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<v Speaker 6>your like you know, first major, I always like was

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<v Speaker 6>I was I cool? Because that was really actually looking

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<v Speaker 6>back in ninety seven when I had made the decision

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<v Speaker 6>to step away from basketball because I missed the sport

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<v Speaker 6>of track and field, I loved it. People in that

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<v Speaker 6>area though in North Carolina like knew me as a

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<v Speaker 6>basketball player. The rest of the world knew me and

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<v Speaker 6>was surprised that I had gone to North Carolina to

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<v Speaker 6>play basketball. But I just I just felt like it

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<v Speaker 6>was time and yeah, that's that's just a cool story.

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<v Speaker 1>Things come full circle, it sure, yes, yeah, So it

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<v Speaker 1>was just sort of amazing, like, oh my goodness. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you went on and obviously all the things you

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<v Speaker 1>did Sydney, it was just like even more remarkable, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I sare like I remember, you know, I could always

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<v Speaker 1>have that as a feather in the cap. But nevertheless,

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<v Speaker 1>what I definitely want to get to because I know

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a ton of time with you, is

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<v Speaker 1>we got to get to Special Forces World. Stuff is

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<v Speaker 1>tests its season three. It's on Fox at premiere January eighth,

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<v Speaker 1>I am a stand.

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<v Speaker 2>Of this show. I've been watching since season one.

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<v Speaker 1>So what you when you announced on your Instagram that

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<v Speaker 1>you were going to be a part of this, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh shit, like it's going down now for

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<v Speaker 1>those who are not familiar, and you better get familiar.

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<v Speaker 2>You should watch the show.

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<v Speaker 1>And I agree with you. You got to watch it

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<v Speaker 1>from season one, like you have to understand the story.

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<v Speaker 2>You know you can pilot in.

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<v Speaker 1>You can watch this season like that's fine, but like

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<v Speaker 1>I think you really need to watch and see and

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<v Speaker 1>really get a feel for it by watching it from

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<v Speaker 1>season one. And it's it's an easy bitch, so folks

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry about it. Yeah, But essentially what happens is

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<v Speaker 1>they take sixteen celebrities, you go through I guess, uh

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<v Speaker 1>special Forces type training.

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<v Speaker 6>That's yeah, which is which is for folks that don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>it's like an elite military style of training, right, Like

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<v Speaker 6>they only take for in the real world of this,

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<v Speaker 6>They only take the best of the best to potentially

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<v Speaker 6>be part of Special Forces. Right. So this is not

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<v Speaker 6>Johnny who doesn't know what he wants to do with

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<v Speaker 6>his life after high school and he signs up like that.

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<v Speaker 6>That's not what we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is more elevated than that, I should say, yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>And it's it's important to know that these are people

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<v Speaker 6>whom attempt this type of training, who have been in

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<v Speaker 6>the military for a number of years, right, and who

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<v Speaker 6>have shown certain character traits physical, mental, emotional, and they

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<v Speaker 6>are ready for this type of training. So so for

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<v Speaker 6>people who are like, oh, no, you know this is

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<v Speaker 6>just a show, I am here right to tell you that, yes,

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<v Speaker 6>you know. It's a show on Fox. Is also being

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<v Speaker 6>streamed on Hulu by the way, for those that want

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<v Speaker 6>to binge watch Heason one in season two and season three.

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<v Speaker 6>But they put together sixteen of us from all walks

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<v Speaker 6>of life, entertainment, social media, and of course sports to

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<v Speaker 6>see who, in essence could last. It took tens supposed

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<v Speaker 6>to take ten days, and they take us through. They

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<v Speaker 6>take us through it. When I say that it's nothing

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<v Speaker 6>just for TV, it is not the challenges they have

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<v Speaker 6>us going through. The things they have us doing, and

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<v Speaker 6>not just have us doing, but things that for people

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<v Speaker 6>who have no military background besides back in the day.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm telling all my age who binge watch.

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<v Speaker 7>Mash Okay, you're going to tell you in age, by

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<v Speaker 7>the way, So like, okay, I did it, although you

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<v Speaker 7>know I in another world in another time.

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<v Speaker 6>I one of the reasons, and there's a number of

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<v Speaker 6>them that I'll get to in a moment, but one

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<v Speaker 6>of the reasons I agreed to do it is because

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<v Speaker 6>in another world, since I really think that like Navy Seals,

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<v Speaker 6>like that world would have been for me, Like I

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<v Speaker 6>have that type of mental toughness, like physically I'm elite.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm not tiptoeing around that, right, and like

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<v Speaker 6>I want to do good and I want to do

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<v Speaker 6>right by my people, right, like that type of stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>So I could totally have seen in another world I'm

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<v Speaker 6>a dick anything Navy Seals type training, like that's what

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<v Speaker 6>I'm binge watching. So to be a part of this,

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<v Speaker 6>like again, I want to try it, right, And you know,

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<v Speaker 6>it checked a lot of boxes for me. I checked

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<v Speaker 6>the need for a physical challenge because I'm at a

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<v Speaker 6>point now I had taken a ten year hiatus from

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<v Speaker 6>like the Spotlight, and I found that because of that.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, do I train, do I work out? Yes? Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 6>But it's different, right, It's different to train like that

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<v Speaker 6>compared to what I put my body through to get

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<v Speaker 6>ready for the show. So I needed a physical challenge.

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<v Speaker 6>I needed a mental toughness type of challenge because we

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<v Speaker 6>also find that as we get older, we start fitting

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<v Speaker 6>into this world of comfort, right, Like, hey, it's part

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<v Speaker 6>of it, right, But the moment that we do that,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm learning, I'm tapping on the door of fifty years

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<v Speaker 6>all this year that the more we get comfortable, the

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<v Speaker 6>quicker it is to age, if that makes sense, right,

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<v Speaker 6>Like I'm at a point where every year until the

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<v Speaker 6>Good Lord calls me home, I am going to put

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<v Speaker 6>on my calendar something so far outside of my comfort zone,

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<v Speaker 6>which will include in twenty twenty five a triathlon which

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<v Speaker 6>we can touch on here in a little bit, right

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<v Speaker 6>like swim bike right what? But I found I don't

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<v Speaker 6>like like the comfort space. No, people misunder don't misunderstand it.

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<v Speaker 6>Like like I like a good, warm, home cooked meal, right,

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<v Speaker 6>and I like the warmth of my house and all

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<v Speaker 6>those types of things. But you gotta do something that's

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<v Speaker 6>gonna challenge you or you're just gonna get stuck. So

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<v Speaker 6>special forces check that boxes and then lastly, know I

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<v Speaker 6>want I just want to continue for my kids to

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<v Speaker 6>see that you get stuck. You have challenges, you have setbacks.

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<v Speaker 6>You don't have to stay there, right, And me putting

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<v Speaker 6>myself out there, stepping into this unknown world, and you

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<v Speaker 6>know where I'm gonna be asked questions. I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 6>in the mirror room. It's the interrogation room. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 6>have to do things that are gonna like a challenge

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<v Speaker 6>me to no end. I needed them to see that.

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<v Speaker 6>So that checked that box too. That's why I decided

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<v Speaker 6>to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want people out there who are listening to

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<v Speaker 1>understand that the challenges that they put you all through,

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<v Speaker 1>these are not just oh, you know, run one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>yards no, no, no, no, no, no no no. This

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<v Speaker 1>is some ship that like there is I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how you all would do it. And I'm like, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you convince yourself to jump off this helicopter?

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<v Speaker 2>And then or even the episode where.

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<v Speaker 1>You you had to get the box, you had to

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<v Speaker 1>untangle the box that from the sinking ship, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>so let's.

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<v Speaker 6>Talk about it by the way you are.

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<v Speaker 2>So there are a few I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>right there, like you got it, but school the last

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<v Speaker 2>group I think it was. There are a.

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<v Speaker 6>Few of the physical challenges like jumping on the helicopter,

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<v Speaker 6>like like, really, that's just physical to me, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 6>there are some people who were really thrown off by that.

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<v Speaker 6>That's nothing you just the minute I saw them demo it,

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<v Speaker 6>the the DS demo it, and I realized people, some

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<v Speaker 6>of my my my cast meets, my team were say

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna jump and hold on to it like this,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm thinking, okay, there are very few of these

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<v Speaker 6>people here that can withstand their body weight naturally on

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<v Speaker 6>a pull up.

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<v Speaker 2>Let alone.

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<v Speaker 6>You have a moving helicopter, let alone, it's cold, let alone,

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<v Speaker 6>you got to Oh no, so I'm going to jump

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<v Speaker 6>on and grab it by here because I can hold

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<v Speaker 6>myself immediately I had made that. So the physical challenge

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<v Speaker 6>is jumping off the bridge, all right, I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>some people have a fear of heights oobia. Not me,

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<v Speaker 6>so it wasn't an issue. The challenge that you're referring to,

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<v Speaker 6>I us call it the black box challenge, whereby you

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<v Speaker 6>have to be in the water in the ocean and

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<v Speaker 6>this boat is being submerged waters lifting the boats going

0:25:46.640 --> 0:25:48.679
<v Speaker 6>down and you get the thumbs up from the DS

0:25:48.720 --> 0:25:53.119
<v Speaker 6>to swim down unhook the black box, grab it, swim

0:25:53.160 --> 0:25:55.560
<v Speaker 6>out of the boat, and it's a pass. Right. And

0:25:55.640 --> 0:25:58.160
<v Speaker 6>when they're explaining this to us, this right like, they

0:25:58.200 --> 0:26:02.680
<v Speaker 6>do it purposefully, very quickly, right. They don't say, they

0:26:02.680 --> 0:26:05.159
<v Speaker 6>don't take their time and you have to screw and

0:26:05.200 --> 0:26:07.919
<v Speaker 6>you have to do this. They say, the mission is

0:26:07.960 --> 0:26:09.920
<v Speaker 6>to get the black box out of the water.

0:26:10.400 --> 0:26:10.680
<v Speaker 2>Cool.

0:26:10.880 --> 0:26:13.720
<v Speaker 6>I can do that. So I find myself water going

0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:15.639
<v Speaker 6>down is cold. I'm not a fan of the cold.

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:18.199
<v Speaker 6>I'm not a fan of the water, right, But again,

0:26:18.680 --> 0:26:21.440
<v Speaker 6>I know how to get myself there and deal with it.

0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:26.240
<v Speaker 6>So I swim down. I decided to interlock my fingers

0:26:26.240 --> 0:26:28.520
<v Speaker 6>in the bottom of the boat right with my right hand,

0:26:28.840 --> 0:26:30.879
<v Speaker 6>which is my first mistake. I'll tell you why. Because

0:26:30.880 --> 0:26:33.359
<v Speaker 6>I am right handed, so I should have interlocked my

0:26:33.480 --> 0:26:36.199
<v Speaker 6>hand with my left hand so I can use my

0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:39.880
<v Speaker 6>right to manipulate, because naturally this is my my left

0:26:39.880 --> 0:26:44.159
<v Speaker 6>hand is my weekend. Anyways, I unscrew it and it

0:26:44.280 --> 0:26:47.000
<v Speaker 6>seems to be moving cool. I just grabbed the thing.

0:26:47.119 --> 0:26:49.320
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know it was hooked up in the back

0:26:49.720 --> 0:26:50.240
<v Speaker 2>and all that.

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:52.840
<v Speaker 6>So you'll see me when I swim to the surface

0:26:52.880 --> 0:26:55.920
<v Speaker 6>with the box. I am very confident that I did

0:26:55.920 --> 0:26:58.520
<v Speaker 6>what I was supposed to do. I swim to the side,

0:26:58.600 --> 0:27:01.000
<v Speaker 6>swim over to the DS and you'll see me. He'll say,

0:27:01.280 --> 0:27:03.239
<v Speaker 6>you know number six, because they don't call you by

0:27:03.240 --> 0:27:05.280
<v Speaker 6>your name, number six. How do you think you did well?

0:27:06.080 --> 0:27:09.280
<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm not feeling I'm a little cocky, but

0:27:09.320 --> 0:27:11.040
<v Speaker 6>I don't want it to come across like that. And

0:27:11.119 --> 0:27:14.640
<v Speaker 6>I say, hey, you know, I think I did well,

0:27:15.240 --> 0:27:17.760
<v Speaker 6>and he goes, you fail the mission, right, You're not

0:27:17.760 --> 0:27:20.240
<v Speaker 6>supposed to grab the black box. And then and so

0:27:20.280 --> 0:27:22.680
<v Speaker 6>I'm disappointed in that moment because I want to succeed.

0:27:22.760 --> 0:27:26.119
<v Speaker 6>And then I think to myself, ah, it makes sense

0:27:26.480 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 6>in this real environment because every moment you have to

0:27:30.240 --> 0:27:32.200
<v Speaker 6>go back and say, this is a real thing. If

0:27:32.240 --> 0:27:35.240
<v Speaker 6>I don't do this how it's supposed to be done, uh,

0:27:35.280 --> 0:27:37.840
<v Speaker 6>the enemy can get information like you have to put

0:27:37.880 --> 0:27:40.480
<v Speaker 6>yourself in how it really is. The enemy can get

0:27:40.520 --> 0:27:43.760
<v Speaker 6>the information if you don't have the box right, all.

0:27:43.680 --> 0:27:44.359
<v Speaker 2>Kinds of things.

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:47.959
<v Speaker 6>And realizing that, hmm, if I had maybe done some

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:50.240
<v Speaker 6>different things that you know, we would have failed, we

0:27:50.280 --> 0:27:52.919
<v Speaker 6>would have I would have passed the mission. So frustration

0:27:53.040 --> 0:27:57.000
<v Speaker 6>when it comes to that, but oh.

0:27:57.359 --> 0:27:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, she's right, there she a'll see

0:28:00.160 --> 0:28:02.840
<v Speaker 1>us to do is unhooked as part of it.

0:28:02.880 --> 0:28:03.520
<v Speaker 2>And it was.

0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:07.520
<v Speaker 6>My friends and family they were joking, They're like, that

0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:09.960
<v Speaker 6>is so you Marian, Like you will go. You're gonna

0:28:10.000 --> 0:28:11.879
<v Speaker 6>do it fast, and you can do it strong, and

0:28:11.920 --> 0:28:13.800
<v Speaker 6>you just gonna You're just gonna grab it and go.

0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 6>That's how I am in my house too, rite like

0:28:16.600 --> 0:28:18.440
<v Speaker 6>I am when it comes to stuff like I want

0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:20.440
<v Speaker 6>to get it done quick. You tell me how to

0:28:20.440 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 6>get it done, I'm gonna do it. And sometimes you

0:28:22.640 --> 0:28:24.000
<v Speaker 6>need a little more time.

0:28:24.840 --> 0:28:28.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, as they say, the devil is in the details.

0:28:28.040 --> 0:28:30.480
<v Speaker 1>But nevertheless, now that you've had a chance to watch

0:28:30.520 --> 0:28:35.280
<v Speaker 1>it back with the rest of America, what takeaways do

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:37.000
<v Speaker 1>you have? What strikes you as you watch? How you

0:28:37.040 --> 0:28:43.120
<v Speaker 1>handle these different, very very stressful environments on this show.

0:28:43.200 --> 0:28:48.400
<v Speaker 6>Well, those were all expected, right, like not the particular

0:28:48.800 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 6>like which challenges, but I knew going into the situation

0:28:52.760 --> 0:28:55.200
<v Speaker 6>all of those would be some type of a challenge,

0:28:55.440 --> 0:28:58.280
<v Speaker 6>and I was confident that I would be, you know,

0:28:58.400 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 6>do well in most of them. I think the part

0:29:01.000 --> 0:29:08.880
<v Speaker 6>for me that was important was because now that I'm older, interviews, podcasts,

0:29:08.920 --> 0:29:14.160
<v Speaker 6>different shows, I am so experienced in this what I do,

0:29:14.320 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 6>knowing that most likely notin at least out of ten times,

0:29:19.680 --> 0:29:23.920
<v Speaker 6>whomever I'm talking to is going to have an agenda, right,

0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:27.640
<v Speaker 6>I mean, it's just natural, right, you have an agenda.

0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:30.240
<v Speaker 6>I have an agenda. Who Right, it's just natural. But

0:29:30.400 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 6>going into it saying the show has an agenda, right,

0:29:35.640 --> 0:29:39.520
<v Speaker 6>then me in the mirror room knowing that they already

0:29:39.560 --> 0:29:42.200
<v Speaker 6>had an idea of how they thought they were going

0:29:42.280 --> 0:29:46.880
<v Speaker 6>to portray me. And maybe thirty years ago, twenty years ago,

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:50.760
<v Speaker 6>I would have stepped in there very naives, thinking I'm

0:29:50.800 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 6>just going to answer whatever question you want, Da da Dad.

0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 6>But now at this age knowing, okay, I have made

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 6>the decision to be on this show show because I

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:04.680
<v Speaker 6>also am creating my own narrative. So yes, I get it,

0:30:04.760 --> 0:30:06.960
<v Speaker 6>you have an agenda, but I have one too, right,

0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:09.960
<v Speaker 6>And it's like, let's see who's gonna win. Right. Am

0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:13.040
<v Speaker 6>I gonna walk out of that mirror room feeling successful

0:30:13.120 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 6>knowing that I said what I want the world to know,

0:30:16.560 --> 0:30:18.959
<v Speaker 6>or am I gonna leave it saying, man, they dominated

0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:22.160
<v Speaker 6>the conversation and I didn't really get across what I want.

0:30:22.360 --> 0:30:24.120
<v Speaker 6>I mean, that's to me that was would have been

0:30:24.320 --> 0:30:30.120
<v Speaker 6>the biggest failed mission in all of this, and looking

0:30:30.200 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 6>back now you also there's also a fierceis of how

0:30:33.920 --> 0:30:38.320
<v Speaker 6>they edit things right, because after you sign the dotted

0:30:38.320 --> 0:30:40.560
<v Speaker 6>line that you're gonna participate in it, you kind of

0:30:40.600 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 6>like kind of just pray right, like the they do right,

0:30:46.040 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 6>they do right by a sister, right. But I feel

0:30:51.840 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 6>that I was portrayed fairly on the show. I feel

0:30:59.520 --> 0:31:03.920
<v Speaker 6>that it's my narrative and what I wanted to share

0:31:04.040 --> 0:31:08.720
<v Speaker 6>and how was well represented, and so I'm proud of

0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:11.800
<v Speaker 6>I'm proud of it all.

0:31:13.040 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 2>There.

0:31:13.800 --> 0:31:16.000
<v Speaker 6>I had an opportunity to chat with a good friend

0:31:16.040 --> 0:31:18.360
<v Speaker 6>of mine, Cam Cam Newton, who was also on the

0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:22.200
<v Speaker 6>show with me, and there are some particular like other

0:31:22.280 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 6>opinions on how he was portrayed right and this narrative right,

0:31:26.720 --> 0:31:32.800
<v Speaker 6>like the aggressive you know black athletes, right, And I mean,

0:31:32.840 --> 0:31:34.160
<v Speaker 6>if you've ever I don't know, if you have the

0:31:34.240 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 6>opportunity to chat with Cam, he is the nicest, like

0:31:39.600 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 6>he wouldn't like me to say this, but really like

0:31:41.840 --> 0:31:50.760
<v Speaker 6>he is just a wonderful, thoughtful individual businessman dad And

0:31:50.880 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 6>the idea that oh, they have an agenda, so anyways,

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:57.320
<v Speaker 6>to just kind of recap it all, I am proud

0:31:57.520 --> 0:32:01.240
<v Speaker 6>of how I handled the situation. We only see small

0:32:01.560 --> 0:32:04.040
<v Speaker 6>moments right of the show. I mean literally the mirror

0:32:04.120 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 6>room for me was over an hour and we got

0:32:06.480 --> 0:32:09.000
<v Speaker 6>to two and a half minutes. So I mean those

0:32:09.040 --> 0:32:12.440
<v Speaker 6>are those are good numbers and that I feel that

0:32:12.520 --> 0:32:14.880
<v Speaker 6>I was treated fairly in it all.

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I thought that you came off very very well.

0:32:18.680 --> 0:32:20.840
<v Speaker 1>And this next part is going to be a bit

0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 1>of a spoiler alert. So if you have not watched

0:32:23.240 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 1>the show, just hit you right now, and.

0:32:25.840 --> 0:32:29.120
<v Speaker 6>So no pun intended. Are you going there? Hit you

0:32:29.240 --> 0:32:30.560
<v Speaker 6>right now? Are you talking about?

0:32:31.160 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 1>Yes, the way you left the show is what we

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:39.840
<v Speaker 1>will now discuss. First of all, are your ribs okay?

0:32:38.960 --> 0:32:42.400
<v Speaker 1>So to set up real quick? To set up real

0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:45.800
<v Speaker 1>quick as part of one of the challenges is hand

0:32:45.880 --> 0:32:49.280
<v Speaker 1>to hand combat with another cast made and so they essentially,

0:32:49.520 --> 0:32:50.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, they they say.

0:32:50.680 --> 0:32:52.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay you and you they go fight.

0:32:52.840 --> 0:32:54.360
<v Speaker 1>Of course you have on some kind of gear, but

0:32:54.360 --> 0:32:56.360
<v Speaker 1>the whole point is that like you are fighting somebody

0:32:56.360 --> 0:32:59.040
<v Speaker 1>else that you are on this show with and you

0:32:59.080 --> 0:33:01.520
<v Speaker 1>took a rib shot and that too.

0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:03.840
<v Speaker 2>Ye oh I didn't see O.

0:33:03.880 --> 0:33:05.479
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're right because they only showed us one at

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:07.880
<v Speaker 1>home and so you took you took a rib shot

0:33:08.000 --> 0:33:10.760
<v Speaker 1>and thus you had to medically exit from the show.

0:33:10.840 --> 0:33:12.080
<v Speaker 2>So what happened?

0:33:12.360 --> 0:33:15.240
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so the challenge is called it is, you know,

0:33:15.280 --> 0:33:18.200
<v Speaker 6>a hand to hand comment, but it's called in this world,

0:33:18.240 --> 0:33:24.080
<v Speaker 6>it's called milling right, whereby what happens in real combat

0:33:24.240 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 6>is if your bride, your brigade is captured right by

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:31.120
<v Speaker 6>the enemy. There have been instances where they would make

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:35.480
<v Speaker 6>them fight each other, and if you coast it right,

0:33:35.520 --> 0:33:39.920
<v Speaker 6>if you're like bing bing bing, potentially everybody in your

0:33:40.040 --> 0:33:42.400
<v Speaker 6>unit could be killed, right, So like you have to

0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:45.440
<v Speaker 6>go after it, right, And so that's what the DS's

0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 6>were asking us to do. And they usually will pair

0:33:49.520 --> 0:33:52.760
<v Speaker 6>you up with somebody of similar heights, similar size, et cetera.

0:33:53.080 --> 0:33:55.440
<v Speaker 6>And on the show, right, like there was some itty

0:33:55.480 --> 0:33:58.000
<v Speaker 6>bitty women there right where they didn't even like pair

0:33:58.000 --> 0:34:01.719
<v Speaker 6>me up, and Kayln Nicole, who is a rock star sister,

0:34:01.960 --> 0:34:04.960
<v Speaker 6>social media influencer, it was about my size, my height,

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 6>and so they pair us up. Now, let's talk about

0:34:07.760 --> 0:34:11.400
<v Speaker 6>the equipment really really quick, right, So you would think

0:34:11.520 --> 0:34:17.080
<v Speaker 6>that they're the facial equipment was going to protect everything,

0:34:17.200 --> 0:34:22.120
<v Speaker 6>Like no, No, I looked at it and I said wait, okay,

0:34:22.160 --> 0:34:25.439
<v Speaker 6>so it's protecting my temples in my ears. But all

0:34:25.520 --> 0:34:28.880
<v Speaker 6>of this is exposed what I made them like. I

0:34:28.960 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 6>made a quick decisions, and this is what I said.

0:34:31.239 --> 0:34:35.280
<v Speaker 6>I said, you know what, it's not like beauty paget ish,

0:34:35.400 --> 0:34:37.439
<v Speaker 6>but I like it. I like it.

0:34:38.040 --> 0:34:39.919
<v Speaker 1>You got a face guard, married you've got a face

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:42.719
<v Speaker 1>guard about it.

0:34:42.520 --> 0:34:44.719
<v Speaker 6>Black, don't crack, And I'm gonna try to keep it

0:34:45.040 --> 0:34:47.879
<v Speaker 6>like that. So in my head, I'm thinking, all right,

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:49.799
<v Speaker 6>I'm kind of light on my feet, I can move,

0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:52.960
<v Speaker 6>but I got to protect this because the equipment that

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:55.560
<v Speaker 6>they provided is not protecting this. So if I was

0:34:55.600 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 6>to get hit like Cam hit Nathan and blew up

0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:02.799
<v Speaker 6>his nose, I didn't want that. So we started. I

0:35:02.800 --> 0:35:07.040
<v Speaker 6>get a few jabs protecting this. But if there was

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:09.399
<v Speaker 6>one thing, maybe a few things. But if there's one

0:35:09.400 --> 0:35:11.840
<v Speaker 6>thing in particular that I wish I would have prepared

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:14.760
<v Speaker 6>for better, I would have taken some kickboxing type classes

0:35:15.000 --> 0:35:18.319
<v Speaker 6>because in the previous seasons the milling was on there

0:35:18.360 --> 0:35:21.080
<v Speaker 6>as well, right if you remember, I don't know if

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:22.520
<v Speaker 6>it was both seasons, but at least one of.

0:35:22.520 --> 0:35:25.680
<v Speaker 2>These was on there before. Well, if there's anything.

0:35:25.400 --> 0:35:27.359
<v Speaker 6>I could have done better, in terms of I don't

0:35:27.360 --> 0:35:30.560
<v Speaker 6>have a background in boxing. Kayla Nicole. I mean, she's

0:35:30.560 --> 0:35:34.480
<v Speaker 6>a fitness guru. She likes that world. She's taken boxing classes,

0:35:34.640 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 6>and I haven't done a chance to actually like talk

0:35:37.280 --> 0:35:40.000
<v Speaker 6>to her. I planned to about the details of it,

0:35:40.080 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 6>but as I'm protecting my face, Kayln Nicole is got

0:35:43.680 --> 0:35:46.359
<v Speaker 6>my rib right, and she got it one time really good.

0:35:46.400 --> 0:35:48.840
<v Speaker 6>I went down, right, I've never had any type of

0:35:48.960 --> 0:35:52.080
<v Speaker 6>rib injuries. I'm a sprinter, y'all, like I and I

0:35:52.080 --> 0:35:54.680
<v Speaker 6>played basketball and there is some physical contact, but an't

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:58.839
<v Speaker 6>nobody's hitting me like that? And I went down and

0:35:58.880 --> 0:36:01.880
<v Speaker 6>the DS who's the drill sergeant came over again. You

0:36:01.920 --> 0:36:04.520
<v Speaker 6>all don't see this part, but he had number six.

0:36:04.560 --> 0:36:06.520
<v Speaker 6>Are you giving up? Right?

0:36:06.640 --> 0:36:06.719
<v Speaker 7>Like?

0:36:06.760 --> 0:36:09.840
<v Speaker 6>Those are fighting words to an athlete, right, Like for

0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:12.560
<v Speaker 6>for decades a coach would say, are you Are you done?

0:36:12.560 --> 0:36:16.000
<v Speaker 6>They're trying to like push and prode right, Are you done?

0:36:16.160 --> 0:36:19.000
<v Speaker 6>Are you giving up? Are you weak? Of course not right.

0:36:19.040 --> 0:36:21.759
<v Speaker 6>So I feel something's going on with here. I don't

0:36:21.760 --> 0:36:25.120
<v Speaker 6>know what it is, specifically, but I'm like no, So

0:36:25.200 --> 0:36:29.839
<v Speaker 6>I pulled myself up and again, for whatever reason, I'm

0:36:29.880 --> 0:36:34.200
<v Speaker 6>protecting this face and what is came with the gold.

0:36:35.120 --> 0:36:39.000
<v Speaker 6>She went for the same side, the same rib, and

0:36:39.160 --> 0:36:42.280
<v Speaker 6>when she connected there was I couldn't catch my breath.

0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:44.960
<v Speaker 6>I went down and it felt like and I broke

0:36:45.000 --> 0:36:49.520
<v Speaker 6>two broke two ribs, and that I didn't. I was

0:36:49.560 --> 0:36:52.120
<v Speaker 6>a little bit in shock in that. I'm like, it's

0:36:52.160 --> 0:36:55.600
<v Speaker 6>affecting everything, Like it's affecting how I catch my breath.

0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:58.920
<v Speaker 6>It's affecting when I turned left, turn right, stand, oh,

0:36:58.960 --> 0:37:03.319
<v Speaker 6>walk what? And so as I'm walking to the ambulance

0:37:03.560 --> 0:37:06.920
<v Speaker 6>right like I think they showed this part. I told

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:10.360
<v Speaker 6>the doctor I think these are broken, and she said,

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:16.279
<v Speaker 6>I think you're right. So we get to the emergency room.

0:37:16.320 --> 0:37:18.759
<v Speaker 6>It was confirmed, took an MRI. I got two ribs broken.

0:37:18.800 --> 0:37:21.879
<v Speaker 6>But you got to understand the show was filmed mid

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:25.080
<v Speaker 6>last year and it took me about six to eight

0:37:25.080 --> 0:37:27.560
<v Speaker 6>weeks for them to recover, which which sucks. Like if

0:37:27.560 --> 0:37:29.319
<v Speaker 6>you've ever had any have you ever any had any

0:37:29.400 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 6>rib injuries?

0:37:30.120 --> 0:37:32.680
<v Speaker 1>I haven't, but I had an oblique injury, and trust me,

0:37:32.960 --> 0:37:34.760
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was I moved.

0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:37.560
<v Speaker 2>I can only imagine it affects everything that.

0:37:37.640 --> 0:37:40.520
<v Speaker 6>Everything you sneeze, you cough, you gick up, you laugh,

0:37:41.000 --> 0:37:44.560
<v Speaker 6>anything you pick up a fork. So the hardest part was,

0:37:44.880 --> 0:37:48.279
<v Speaker 6>you know, you know, you can't wear a cast or

0:37:48.320 --> 0:37:50.200
<v Speaker 6>anything like, you just have to deal with it for

0:37:50.239 --> 0:37:52.680
<v Speaker 6>six to eight weeks. So I'm fine now, thankfully. But

0:37:52.880 --> 0:37:53.960
<v Speaker 6>who what.

0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:58.240
<v Speaker 1>Caylen mccoone coming with the uh, the the rib shots

0:37:58.239 --> 0:38:00.840
<v Speaker 1>and then though I hate to identify her as this,

0:38:00.960 --> 0:38:03.960
<v Speaker 1>but this is, you know, obviously who was in a

0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:06.319
<v Speaker 1>long term relationship with Travis Kelce. They broke up, and

0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:08.560
<v Speaker 1>that's a part of the drama of the show, is

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:12.120
<v Speaker 1>just how she's recovering from the way she's been attacked online.

0:38:12.440 --> 0:38:14.880
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I saw somebody, let me tell you.

0:38:14.960 --> 0:38:20.680
<v Speaker 4>It made me laugh when I defended Kayla Nicole on

0:38:20.719 --> 0:38:24.520
<v Speaker 4>my Instagram one day, because I know her as whom

0:38:24.560 --> 0:38:25.799
<v Speaker 4>she presented herself to me.

0:38:26.239 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 6>Rich is everything to me, right, like we all got

0:38:29.560 --> 0:38:34.040
<v Speaker 6>stuff right, But who you are to me in that moment,

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:36.280
<v Speaker 6>and who Kaylen Nicole was for me for that amount

0:38:36.320 --> 0:38:39.600
<v Speaker 6>of time and has been has been like an incredible

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:43.800
<v Speaker 6>little sister, right. She's focused. If anybody does any research

0:38:43.920 --> 0:38:47.120
<v Speaker 6>on her, they know that she's a well seasoned journalist.

0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:47.799
<v Speaker 4>Right.

0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:50.000
<v Speaker 6>She went to a school down the street from where

0:38:50.040 --> 0:38:52.680
<v Speaker 6>I grew up in Pepperdine University. So of course people

0:38:52.719 --> 0:38:55.600
<v Speaker 6>only know one thing about cayleb. But anyways, I was

0:38:55.640 --> 0:38:58.640
<v Speaker 6>looking at some of the comments. You talk about social

0:38:58.680 --> 0:39:03.319
<v Speaker 6>media humbling, you really right, and I and I have

0:39:04.400 --> 0:39:08.080
<v Speaker 6>I have been able to uh create a certain type

0:39:08.080 --> 0:39:11.000
<v Speaker 6>of armor over the past few decades, right, like you've

0:39:11.040 --> 0:39:15.080
<v Speaker 6>had to right, especially to be somebody who's spotlighted. And

0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:18.760
<v Speaker 6>then in the in the news and I posted about

0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:23.719
<v Speaker 6>Kayla and somebody somebody says something like Kayla, you you

0:39:23.719 --> 0:39:26.000
<v Speaker 6>shouldn't beat up on that old lady.

0:39:27.320 --> 0:39:28.360
<v Speaker 2>No, old lady.

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:32.440
<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean, you know, I have like twenty years

0:39:32.520 --> 0:39:35.839
<v Speaker 6>plus first senior. I was like, dang, I didn't even

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:38.399
<v Speaker 6>look at it like that. Dang.

0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:41.120
<v Speaker 2>They made the same my elder abuse, Like that's how cool.

0:39:42.080 --> 0:39:45.920
<v Speaker 6>So well, if I get another triple A advertisement in

0:39:46.000 --> 0:39:48.920
<v Speaker 6>my mail, like y'all, I am not there yet, not

0:39:49.080 --> 0:39:52.520
<v Speaker 6>making me get there, but non incredible experience, And people

0:39:52.560 --> 0:39:55.439
<v Speaker 6>ask would I potentially do it again? And I want

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:58.680
<v Speaker 6>to say no, But girl, let me tell you, if

0:39:58.719 --> 0:40:02.040
<v Speaker 6>I get that invitation and you I don't even got

0:40:02.040 --> 0:40:03.480
<v Speaker 6>to blink, I will be there and try it again.

0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:06.720
<v Speaker 6>Because I did walk away with the sense, with a

0:40:06.760 --> 0:40:09.400
<v Speaker 6>sense of disappointment. I want to I want to just

0:40:09.480 --> 0:40:12.880
<v Speaker 6>crush everything I do. I think that after the milling

0:40:12.960 --> 0:40:16.000
<v Speaker 6>and so many of us got kicked out, there was

0:40:16.040 --> 0:40:19.160
<v Speaker 6>a slight pivot in what the show meant to do.

0:40:19.200 --> 0:40:23.120
<v Speaker 6>Because you'll notice that a number of the challenges are

0:40:23.160 --> 0:40:26.839
<v Speaker 6>a little less physical, like a little less physical from

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:28.680
<v Speaker 6>those first three or four days when I was on.

0:40:29.440 --> 0:40:31.759
<v Speaker 6>And it has a lot to do with like leadership,

0:40:32.320 --> 0:40:35.600
<v Speaker 6>right and mental toughness and right and like, yes, there

0:40:35.640 --> 0:40:37.960
<v Speaker 6>are you know, certain things. But I think that there

0:40:38.000 --> 0:40:39.799
<v Speaker 6>was a slight pivot. I think the first part of

0:40:39.840 --> 0:40:42.040
<v Speaker 6>the show, and we will see that, you know, the

0:40:42.080 --> 0:40:44.480
<v Speaker 6>next episodes or whatever, but I want to say that

0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:46.440
<v Speaker 6>first part was the physical. Man, if I would have

0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:49.400
<v Speaker 6>gotten through that milling, I really really think that there

0:40:49.400 --> 0:40:52.239
<v Speaker 6>would have been more success. So that I hold on

0:40:52.320 --> 0:40:52.560
<v Speaker 6>to that.

0:40:53.560 --> 0:40:55.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, you know, I think that would be a

0:40:55.719 --> 0:40:58.080
<v Speaker 1>potential thing for the show, is bringing back people who

0:40:58.120 --> 0:40:59.200
<v Speaker 1>want to give it another.

0:40:58.960 --> 0:41:00.959
<v Speaker 2>Go to see if they can they can do it again.

0:41:01.040 --> 0:41:03.279
<v Speaker 1>My husband and I because again we watched this disappointment

0:41:03.360 --> 0:41:06.640
<v Speaker 1>view where we love this show is you know, he's like, hey,

0:41:06.680 --> 0:41:07.960
<v Speaker 1>if they ever asked you, would you do it?

0:41:08.000 --> 0:41:11.320
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, hell, no, I wouldn't do this show.

0:41:11.680 --> 0:41:14.120
<v Speaker 2>But I don't know. I think maybe so.

0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:20.160
<v Speaker 6>But I feel like, y'all, for somebody who's watched all

0:41:20.200 --> 0:41:24.279
<v Speaker 6>three seasons, what was the hardest season that's so far?

0:41:24.600 --> 0:41:28.399
<v Speaker 1>You can be honest with me, you know, I mean,

0:41:28.400 --> 0:41:30.040
<v Speaker 1>the first one was the kind of no joke I

0:41:30.080 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 1>would have. I got to see how the season plays out,

0:41:32.320 --> 0:41:34.480
<v Speaker 1>but I would definitely say the second one, like the

0:41:34.520 --> 0:41:38.800
<v Speaker 1>second one seemed to be very, very challenging.

0:41:40.239 --> 0:41:43.319
<v Speaker 6>We are all sixteen of us would disagree with you, sis,

0:41:43.360 --> 0:41:44.520
<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna take well.

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Like I said, I mean, but the early part, I

0:41:46.560 --> 0:41:50.400
<v Speaker 1>do feel like you guys got stuck in the crazy

0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:53.600
<v Speaker 1>shit earlier, like like they there was no warm up.

0:41:53.719 --> 0:41:55.279
<v Speaker 2>It was just like boom, here we go.

0:41:55.800 --> 0:41:58.920
<v Speaker 6>I mean from that when they pushed us off the

0:41:58.920 --> 0:41:59.680
<v Speaker 6>boat into.

0:41:59.440 --> 0:42:00.120
<v Speaker 2>That role.

0:42:02.400 --> 0:42:05.680
<v Speaker 6>And for so many water challenges, which was probably my

0:42:05.840 --> 0:42:07.640
<v Speaker 6>if there was any fear and all of this, that

0:42:07.719 --> 0:42:10.200
<v Speaker 6>was my biggest fear because cold and water don't mix

0:42:10.280 --> 0:42:12.120
<v Speaker 6>well with me. And so after we got pushed in

0:42:12.160 --> 0:42:15.040
<v Speaker 6>the water, we were all amongst amongst ourselves were like,

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:18.359
<v Speaker 6>they can't really have too many more water challenges, right,

0:42:18.400 --> 0:42:21.320
<v Speaker 6>And we were convinced that we were going to mainly

0:42:21.400 --> 0:42:22.120
<v Speaker 6>be on Land.

0:42:22.320 --> 0:42:26.279
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, well before just to put a bowl on

0:42:26.280 --> 0:42:27.759
<v Speaker 1>this because I definitely want to ask you about your

0:42:27.800 --> 0:42:28.280
<v Speaker 1>new podcast.

0:42:28.320 --> 0:42:28.480
<v Speaker 7>Now.

0:42:28.480 --> 0:42:29.399
<v Speaker 6>We could go on and on.

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:31.280
<v Speaker 2>Listen.

0:42:31.600 --> 0:42:33.680
<v Speaker 1>I told you I could do an hour alone just

0:42:33.800 --> 0:42:35.640
<v Speaker 1>on this show because that's how much I love it.

0:42:36.440 --> 0:42:38.400
<v Speaker 2>And I'm just gonna volunteer. I know you guys did.

0:42:38.239 --> 0:42:41.080
<v Speaker 1>A reunion listen, fox y'all ever need somebody to host

0:42:41.120 --> 0:42:41.919
<v Speaker 1>a reunion, I'm.

0:42:41.840 --> 0:42:45.160
<v Speaker 2>Your girl, trust me. I know you had any I'm

0:42:45.200 --> 0:42:45.600
<v Speaker 2>your girl.

0:42:45.640 --> 0:42:48.040
<v Speaker 1>But I do want to ask you about this particular

0:42:48.080 --> 0:42:50.360
<v Speaker 1>moment that happened on the show that was not to

0:42:50.400 --> 0:42:51.440
<v Speaker 1>do with any of the challenges.

0:42:51.480 --> 0:42:52.600
<v Speaker 2>As you mentioned, the mirror room.

0:42:52.800 --> 0:42:54.919
<v Speaker 1>They take you all into what is a confessional type

0:42:54.920 --> 0:42:57.200
<v Speaker 1>of session, but you're in there with staff, you know,

0:42:57.320 --> 0:42:59.279
<v Speaker 1>and these are the guys who are running the program,

0:42:59.640 --> 0:43:02.359
<v Speaker 1>and they're trying to psychologically understand who you are.

0:43:02.880 --> 0:43:03.680
<v Speaker 2>And one of the.

0:43:03.560 --> 0:43:07.560
<v Speaker 1>Things that you said, and it was a very touching moment,

0:43:08.000 --> 0:43:10.040
<v Speaker 1>was that, you know, you said, when I was sentenced,

0:43:10.040 --> 0:43:12.439
<v Speaker 1>I had two young children. And this is going back

0:43:12.480 --> 0:43:16.040
<v Speaker 1>to you know, obviously your you know, conviction for lyning

0:43:16.080 --> 0:43:19.719
<v Speaker 1>the federal investigators you serve some time you're incarcerated.

0:43:19.719 --> 0:43:20.680
<v Speaker 2>I think for six months.

0:43:20.800 --> 0:43:22.920
<v Speaker 1>You said when I was sentenced, I had two young children,

0:43:23.160 --> 0:43:25.440
<v Speaker 1>too young for them to understand knowing what I that

0:43:25.520 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 1>I had done wrong to me, the hardest part was

0:43:27.719 --> 0:43:30.080
<v Speaker 1>just knowing at some point they were going to have

0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:32.960
<v Speaker 1>to deal with the reality of mom's choices.

0:43:33.840 --> 0:43:35.440
<v Speaker 2>Mary, that was such a moment.

0:43:36.280 --> 0:43:39.680
<v Speaker 1>And I think you know, through all the headlines and

0:43:39.719 --> 0:43:42.120
<v Speaker 1>all the things that you've been through, that's a component

0:43:42.160 --> 0:43:44.040
<v Speaker 1>of this that a lot of people don't even think about.

0:43:44.360 --> 0:43:46.440
<v Speaker 2>So you know, you have three wonderful children.

0:43:47.320 --> 0:43:51.200
<v Speaker 1>They're older now from when you went through your issues,

0:43:51.520 --> 0:43:55.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'm wondering, like, for you, how did you approach

0:43:55.200 --> 0:43:57.279
<v Speaker 1>that challenges of knowing like one day they gonna hit

0:43:57.320 --> 0:43:59.279
<v Speaker 1>Google and one day this is going to happen. So

0:43:59.280 --> 0:44:04.520
<v Speaker 1>how did you process how to explain what happened to

0:44:04.560 --> 0:44:05.160
<v Speaker 1>your children?

0:44:05.680 --> 0:44:08.640
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so it would be it would have been nice

0:44:08.800 --> 0:44:13.279
<v Speaker 6>to have to have something to reference it all too, right,

0:44:13.440 --> 0:44:18.560
<v Speaker 6>But because as the judge like to make sure that

0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:21.279
<v Speaker 6>I knew when I was in the sentencing, I'm going

0:44:21.320 --> 0:44:25.160
<v Speaker 6>to use you as an example Mary and Jones, there's

0:44:25.200 --> 0:44:27.880
<v Speaker 6>nothing to compare it too, And so I made the

0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:32.480
<v Speaker 6>decision after I served the six months and the forty

0:44:32.560 --> 0:44:36.640
<v Speaker 6>nine days in solitary confinement. How am I going to

0:44:36.719 --> 0:44:41.120
<v Speaker 6>go about preparing my kids for not only life? And

0:44:41.200 --> 0:44:43.960
<v Speaker 6>as parents we all do that, but there's always a

0:44:44.000 --> 0:44:46.640
<v Speaker 6>little extra with me. The best way to do that

0:44:47.080 --> 0:44:51.239
<v Speaker 6>is to be about it, to live about it, to

0:44:51.320 --> 0:45:00.840
<v Speaker 6>be that person whom I'm telling them they should be honest, good, respectful,

0:45:00.960 --> 0:45:04.200
<v Speaker 6>all those boxes that we want to check. And with

0:45:04.280 --> 0:45:09.200
<v Speaker 6>the understanding that everybody, at some point in your life,

0:45:09.640 --> 0:45:12.640
<v Speaker 6>you're gonna make poor choices. Right, It's just gonna happen,

0:45:12.719 --> 0:45:18.960
<v Speaker 6>even with the even with the best parents, the best mentors, teachers, pastors, whomever.

0:45:19.640 --> 0:45:22.080
<v Speaker 6>At some point you're gonna try and do your own things,

0:45:22.520 --> 0:45:24.480
<v Speaker 6>or you're gonna go along with the crowd, or you're

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:26.880
<v Speaker 6>gonna have to make a split decision and it turns

0:45:26.880 --> 0:45:30.920
<v Speaker 6>out to be wrong, it happens that how are you

0:45:30.960 --> 0:45:33.680
<v Speaker 6>gonna How are you going to handle it when it happens?

0:45:34.440 --> 0:45:37.279
<v Speaker 6>Are you? And I remember? Of course, And of course

0:45:37.320 --> 0:45:39.680
<v Speaker 6>I don't. I don't communicate it in a way when

0:45:39.680 --> 0:45:43.759
<v Speaker 6>they were young like this, But in essence, when you

0:45:43.800 --> 0:45:46.440
<v Speaker 6>make a poor choice, whatever it is, you stole the candy,

0:45:46.480 --> 0:45:49.279
<v Speaker 6>you lied about this, you did this, You come and

0:45:49.320 --> 0:45:53.959
<v Speaker 6>you tell me right like you fess up, or you hey,

0:45:54.560 --> 0:45:57.239
<v Speaker 6>I did it right now, you don't know what the

0:45:57.280 --> 0:46:00.000
<v Speaker 6>consequence is gonna be. It depends on what you did.

0:46:00.320 --> 0:46:00.480
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:46:00.800 --> 0:46:03.560
<v Speaker 6>The consequences could be kind of severe, right, you get

0:46:03.560 --> 0:46:07.400
<v Speaker 6>your phone taken away, or you know you'll get spanked.

0:46:07.400 --> 0:46:13.480
<v Speaker 6>I'll say it right because hey, but you you get

0:46:13.480 --> 0:46:18.040
<v Speaker 6>the consequences kind of over with and you move on right,

0:46:18.600 --> 0:46:22.680
<v Speaker 6>And by doing that, you gain the respect of the

0:46:22.719 --> 0:46:26.120
<v Speaker 6>people around you, because generally, if they're adults, say no,

0:46:26.280 --> 0:46:28.920
<v Speaker 6>everybody's going to make a poor choice, or you can

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:31.919
<v Speaker 6>decide to try and cover it up or however long

0:46:31.960 --> 0:46:35.480
<v Speaker 6>and it gets bigger and bigger and eventually worse, and

0:46:35.520 --> 0:46:38.960
<v Speaker 6>then you lose the trust, which is the hardest thing

0:46:39.640 --> 0:46:41.720
<v Speaker 6>to deal with. You lose the trust of your people.

0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:45.239
<v Speaker 6>And so that's how I tried to teach them right

0:46:45.280 --> 0:46:47.879
<v Speaker 6>and then along the way, at different points, because every

0:46:47.960 --> 0:46:52.280
<v Speaker 6>kid is different in how they approach life and obstacles,

0:46:52.560 --> 0:46:56.279
<v Speaker 6>you say, all right, well, you know here's an example, right,

0:46:56.880 --> 0:46:59.880
<v Speaker 6>and I when I'm when I'm looking at sports with

0:47:00.200 --> 0:47:02.960
<v Speaker 6>I got three incredible athletes as kids, all in different

0:47:03.080 --> 0:47:06.680
<v Speaker 6>levels and mindset like, this is where I was and

0:47:06.719 --> 0:47:08.680
<v Speaker 6>this is what I did. I made a poor choice.

0:47:08.719 --> 0:47:11.759
<v Speaker 6>I was away remember that time where mommy had and

0:47:11.800 --> 0:47:15.480
<v Speaker 6>so that's how you put it together to this point.

0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:19.200
<v Speaker 6>Now you know they followly, know the story, and in

0:47:19.280 --> 0:47:23.920
<v Speaker 6>their own way, they have created a community, a world,

0:47:24.040 --> 0:47:26.640
<v Speaker 6>a village. I have helped with that, create a village

0:47:26.680 --> 0:47:31.320
<v Speaker 6>of support. Also, I have been very, very cautious to

0:47:31.560 --> 0:47:36.000
<v Speaker 6>not force certain things on them. My people ask like,

0:47:36.320 --> 0:47:38.640
<v Speaker 6>did you make them run track? I did not. Right

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:44.239
<v Speaker 6>when they decide, if they decide, awesome. My oldest ran track.

0:47:44.280 --> 0:47:46.359
<v Speaker 6>He ran in school. He decided it wasn't for him

0:47:46.400 --> 0:47:51.880
<v Speaker 6>anymore cool, right. My middle played basketballs up until his

0:47:52.080 --> 0:47:55.279
<v Speaker 6>senior year in high school and then decided that he

0:47:55.320 --> 0:47:58.040
<v Speaker 6>wanted to run track and it was great at it.

0:47:58.120 --> 0:48:00.000
<v Speaker 6>Now it is at the University of Texas at Austin

0:48:00.080 --> 0:48:02.640
<v Speaker 6>in as a freshman running track on a full scholarship. Right.

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:06.839
<v Speaker 6>My daughter is just a rock star. Everything she does, volleyball, soccer, track,

0:48:06.880 --> 0:48:09.120
<v Speaker 6>whatever it is. We'll see where she winds up. She's

0:48:09.160 --> 0:48:11.960
<v Speaker 6>interested in IVY League, right, Like, she's an incredible student.

0:48:12.360 --> 0:48:14.759
<v Speaker 6>So again, you just have to know your kid, right,

0:48:14.800 --> 0:48:16.400
<v Speaker 6>and you have to know when the right time is

0:48:16.440 --> 0:48:18.960
<v Speaker 6>to share certain things, and when they have questions. If

0:48:19.000 --> 0:48:21.600
<v Speaker 6>they have questions, you address it. You're up front, You're like,

0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:25.360
<v Speaker 6>this is mom, right, that's this was my season of

0:48:25.480 --> 0:48:29.400
<v Speaker 6>poor choices, and again there were consequences, and because of

0:48:29.520 --> 0:48:31.680
<v Speaker 6>certain choices that I made in terms of trying to

0:48:31.719 --> 0:48:36.160
<v Speaker 6>cover things up, my consequences are still like a part

0:48:36.200 --> 0:48:39.520
<v Speaker 6>of my world now, meaning people don't necessarily believe what

0:48:39.600 --> 0:48:42.520
<v Speaker 6>I say all the time, or or they constantly circle

0:48:42.560 --> 0:48:47.080
<v Speaker 6>back to that one right, bad decision, like don't allow

0:48:47.160 --> 0:48:49.879
<v Speaker 6>that to happen to you. Thankfully now, right, Like, I've

0:48:50.000 --> 0:48:52.719
<v Speaker 6>realized that you don't have to stay there, and I'm

0:48:52.760 --> 0:48:55.799
<v Speaker 6>creating my narrative and I'm changing up the story and eventually,

0:48:55.840 --> 0:48:59.240
<v Speaker 6>hopefully my legacy will not just be that poor decision,

0:48:59.280 --> 0:49:01.200
<v Speaker 6>but it'll be you know, wow, Okay, she made a

0:49:01.200 --> 0:49:03.440
<v Speaker 6>poor decision, but these are all the lives that she

0:49:03.520 --> 0:49:07.399
<v Speaker 6>has affected positively since then, and teaching people like, hey,

0:49:07.600 --> 0:49:10.640
<v Speaker 6>I'm the living example, right that once you make a

0:49:10.680 --> 0:49:13.920
<v Speaker 6>poor choice, it doesn't have to totally define you. Right, you

0:49:13.960 --> 0:49:15.959
<v Speaker 6>can step in the room proud knowing that I'm doing

0:49:15.960 --> 0:49:18.920
<v Speaker 6>what I'm supposed to right now, to help people live

0:49:18.960 --> 0:49:23.400
<v Speaker 6>a better life, because everybody, not everybody says can understand

0:49:23.480 --> 0:49:26.560
<v Speaker 6>being the fastest woman in the world, and they can't

0:49:26.680 --> 0:49:31.120
<v Speaker 6>understand a lot of things, but everybody understands heartache, everybody

0:49:31.200 --> 0:49:35.200
<v Speaker 6>understands poor decision, every youngbody understands a lie or just

0:49:35.320 --> 0:49:39.040
<v Speaker 6>a dark space. How do you deal with it? Do

0:49:39.080 --> 0:49:41.040
<v Speaker 6>you know the tools on how to deal with it? Hey?

0:49:41.800 --> 0:49:42.200
<v Speaker 5>I do.

0:49:42.400 --> 0:49:44.839
<v Speaker 6>I'm here, I'm a shining example that you don't have

0:49:44.920 --> 0:49:47.600
<v Speaker 6>to stay there even if the world at a certain

0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:50.440
<v Speaker 6>time has knocked you down, continue to knock you down. No,

0:49:50.840 --> 0:49:52.040
<v Speaker 6>it doesn't have to be the case.

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<v Speaker 1>So anybody who's followed you, you know, post all of

0:49:55.600 --> 0:49:58.840
<v Speaker 1>that happening, like you are extremely accountable, You're very bored

0:49:58.840 --> 0:50:02.120
<v Speaker 1>about the choices that you made, and you have not

0:50:02.280 --> 0:50:04.799
<v Speaker 1>ducked the smoke, as the kids like to say. But

0:50:04.920 --> 0:50:08.120
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, how was it, How were you

0:50:08.360 --> 0:50:12.600
<v Speaker 1>able to not put yourself in a place of feeling

0:50:12.640 --> 0:50:13.840
<v Speaker 1>a little bit bitter?

0:50:13.920 --> 0:50:15.840
<v Speaker 2>And maybe you went through that place and maybe that

0:50:15.880 --> 0:50:16.319
<v Speaker 2>was part of it.

0:50:16.360 --> 0:50:17.600
<v Speaker 1>And the only reason why I say that it is

0:50:17.600 --> 0:50:20.239
<v Speaker 1>like you said something earlier and it's true, is that

0:50:20.280 --> 0:50:22.440
<v Speaker 1>the judge purposely wanted to make an example for you

0:50:22.560 --> 0:50:26.760
<v Speaker 1>or you it was people involved that were the architects of.

0:50:26.640 --> 0:50:29.759
<v Speaker 2>What they were really after that did less time than

0:50:29.800 --> 0:50:30.239
<v Speaker 2>you did.

0:50:30.600 --> 0:50:33.920
<v Speaker 1>And so how do you keep yourself or what did

0:50:33.960 --> 0:50:36.200
<v Speaker 1>you have to do so that you wouldn't fall into

0:50:36.880 --> 0:50:39.360
<v Speaker 1>a state of bitterness over what happened to you.

0:50:39.360 --> 0:50:42.120
<v Speaker 6>No, there's no way I'm sitting here and going to

0:50:42.200 --> 0:50:46.320
<v Speaker 6>say I haven't experienced any dark space or any type

0:50:46.320 --> 0:50:49.880
<v Speaker 6>of depression or any type of bitterness in all of it,

0:50:49.920 --> 0:50:52.319
<v Speaker 6>because I had my moments, and to be honest, every

0:50:52.360 --> 0:50:55.840
<v Speaker 6>so often, right, I'll sit in it, but I find

0:50:56.040 --> 0:51:01.880
<v Speaker 6>that if I don't create small moments and things to

0:51:02.040 --> 0:51:04.080
<v Speaker 6>pull me out of it, it can be I can

0:51:04.160 --> 0:51:07.319
<v Speaker 6>easily stay there for longer than I need to. And

0:51:07.400 --> 0:51:10.920
<v Speaker 6>I also then know I go back to a story

0:51:10.960 --> 0:51:15.760
<v Speaker 6>that I've shared a few times in that my family

0:51:16.040 --> 0:51:19.080
<v Speaker 6>on my mother's side is from a small, beautiful country

0:51:19.160 --> 0:51:22.680
<v Speaker 6>in Central America by the name of Billie Right, and

0:51:22.760 --> 0:51:26.880
<v Speaker 6>my mom's father would travel to Guatemala when she was

0:51:26.880 --> 0:51:29.680
<v Speaker 6>growing up in Belize. We traveled to Guatemala to work

0:51:29.960 --> 0:51:33.200
<v Speaker 6>right to send money back to the family, and one

0:51:33.280 --> 0:51:36.480
<v Speaker 6>day he came across a what we would call a

0:51:36.520 --> 0:51:39.919
<v Speaker 6>psychic right, and he sat down, he paid his little

0:51:39.960 --> 0:51:43.080
<v Speaker 6>paysos right just to see what this lady would say.

0:51:43.239 --> 0:51:46.359
<v Speaker 6>And my mom shares a story that the woman told her,

0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:55.080
<v Speaker 6>mister Hall's somebody in your family is destined for greatness, right,

0:51:55.640 --> 0:51:59.520
<v Speaker 6>someone right. She couldn't point pinpoint who which generation, but

0:51:59.719 --> 0:52:02.680
<v Speaker 6>some right, like keep that close to you. He shared

0:52:02.719 --> 0:52:04.520
<v Speaker 6>that with my mother my mom and mother shares that

0:52:04.520 --> 0:52:06.280
<v Speaker 6>with me. And the reason I tell you that story

0:52:06.960 --> 0:52:12.440
<v Speaker 6>is because I have has been I truly feel that

0:52:12.480 --> 0:52:17.120
<v Speaker 6>I've been brought into this world to be dare I

0:52:17.160 --> 0:52:23.560
<v Speaker 6>say great, but a big thinker, right, meaning that I

0:52:23.600 --> 0:52:28.560
<v Speaker 6>Am not going to settle for what somebody says that

0:52:28.640 --> 0:52:33.600
<v Speaker 6>I am because I know right that like like my

0:52:33.760 --> 0:52:37.480
<v Speaker 6>God has bigger plans for me than one judge or

0:52:37.520 --> 0:52:42.279
<v Speaker 6>one individual can ever create for me. Right. And so

0:52:42.800 --> 0:52:44.880
<v Speaker 6>how I've been able to turn that around when I

0:52:44.920 --> 0:52:47.919
<v Speaker 6>have these moments like you shared of bitterness, I say,

0:52:48.480 --> 0:52:54.280
<v Speaker 6>you know what what I've been through for most people

0:52:54.440 --> 0:53:01.320
<v Speaker 6>would have flatlined them, would have drove them in the ground,

0:53:01.520 --> 0:53:04.000
<v Speaker 6>would have you know, you would have never ever heard

0:53:04.040 --> 0:53:07.120
<v Speaker 6>from them. And so I like to go back and

0:53:07.160 --> 0:53:10.520
<v Speaker 6>say wow, like like like my God must think I

0:53:10.520 --> 0:53:17.200
<v Speaker 6>am one bad system because he already knew my story

0:53:17.760 --> 0:53:21.280
<v Speaker 6>right before I even walk through it, and he knew

0:53:22.840 --> 0:53:27.600
<v Speaker 6>how strong he created me to be. And he knew

0:53:27.640 --> 0:53:30.439
<v Speaker 6>that I was not going to fail, right. He knew

0:53:30.480 --> 0:53:32.880
<v Speaker 6>there was going to be moments of failure, but he

0:53:32.960 --> 0:53:34.960
<v Speaker 6>knew that my big picture was not going to have

0:53:35.000 --> 0:53:37.600
<v Speaker 6>a big old f on it, right, And that's what

0:53:37.680 --> 0:53:39.640
<v Speaker 6>I hold on too. I Mean, you talk about you know,

0:53:39.719 --> 0:53:44.560
<v Speaker 6>people work hard because they're living up to their parents' ideas. No, Right, Like,

0:53:44.640 --> 0:53:48.920
<v Speaker 6>I know that I was built for greatness, right, and

0:53:49.040 --> 0:53:53.400
<v Speaker 6>so if I allow myself to stay in that dark space,

0:53:54.640 --> 0:53:57.319
<v Speaker 6>like what like what a waste of time that would be?

0:53:57.320 --> 0:54:00.440
<v Speaker 6>Because I know he has a bigger, bigger, grander story

0:54:00.800 --> 0:54:05.040
<v Speaker 6>than anybody can point and say, any judge, any coach,

0:54:05.520 --> 0:54:08.279
<v Speaker 6>any of that. Right, So that puls me out of

0:54:08.320 --> 0:54:09.360
<v Speaker 6>my dark space.

0:54:09.960 --> 0:54:10.200
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:54:10.360 --> 0:54:13.120
<v Speaker 6>But again, I know everybody doesn't have that view. So

0:54:13.160 --> 0:54:16.279
<v Speaker 6>how do they deal with their dark space? Right? Some

0:54:16.360 --> 0:54:20.200
<v Speaker 6>of the tools that I teach now is create your plan,

0:54:20.360 --> 0:54:22.520
<v Speaker 6>create your life for yourself. You're in your dark space.

0:54:22.560 --> 0:54:24.279
<v Speaker 6>It could be a divorce, it could be a death.

0:54:24.360 --> 0:54:26.760
<v Speaker 6>There could be a bankruptcy, it could be a loss,

0:54:26.920 --> 0:54:30.080
<v Speaker 6>a career you thought you had, which you have no more. Right,

0:54:30.640 --> 0:54:33.359
<v Speaker 6>what's your plan, what's your plan for tomorrow, what's your

0:54:33.360 --> 0:54:36.640
<v Speaker 6>plan for next week, next year, five, ten years from now?

0:54:36.840 --> 0:54:39.600
<v Speaker 6>And you start doing what you need to behind the scenes.

0:54:39.640 --> 0:54:42.320
<v Speaker 6>You don't have to tell anybody, right, right, you start

0:54:42.600 --> 0:54:46.319
<v Speaker 6>taking those classes, right, you start researching different schools for

0:54:46.360 --> 0:54:49.799
<v Speaker 6>your kids out of the ghetto, right where you know

0:54:49.880 --> 0:54:53.000
<v Speaker 6>opportunities are less. Right. And I have a living example

0:54:53.000 --> 0:54:55.200
<v Speaker 6>of a rock star mama who did that for me, right.

0:54:55.239 --> 0:54:58.360
<v Speaker 6>We I was not affluent, but my mom made sure

0:54:58.600 --> 0:55:01.680
<v Speaker 6>that I was in schools in elementary, in middle school,

0:55:01.719 --> 0:55:04.719
<v Speaker 6>in high school, right that were in communities where she

0:55:04.840 --> 0:55:08.400
<v Speaker 6>knew they had resources. We lived, I mean, we were

0:55:08.440 --> 0:55:11.360
<v Speaker 6>a destitute. Like, let's not take this where it doesn't

0:55:11.360 --> 0:55:13.520
<v Speaker 6>need to go. But yeah, I was a in a

0:55:13.600 --> 0:55:16.279
<v Speaker 6>small apartment. We had one bedroom. I was sleeping on

0:55:16.320 --> 0:55:19.359
<v Speaker 6>a couch sometimes because it was in a neighborhood right

0:55:19.600 --> 0:55:21.759
<v Speaker 6>at a high school or at a middle school or

0:55:21.800 --> 0:55:24.600
<v Speaker 6>a junior high that had resources. So my mom was

0:55:24.640 --> 0:55:30.560
<v Speaker 6>thinking beyond her circumstances. There's always a way, right, And

0:55:30.600 --> 0:55:34.120
<v Speaker 6>I'm so fortunate to have a parent like as an

0:55:34.200 --> 0:55:37.920
<v Speaker 6>example like that that you don't have to stay there. Right,

0:55:37.960 --> 0:55:39.719
<v Speaker 6>the world might say you have to stay there, and

0:55:39.800 --> 0:55:41.560
<v Speaker 6>especially in this political climate.

0:55:41.680 --> 0:55:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Right, there's a whole nother podcast. We won't get to

0:55:43.880 --> 0:55:45.160
<v Speaker 2>that one.

0:55:45.719 --> 0:55:48.759
<v Speaker 6>It's a whole oh goodness, but we can't. But even

0:55:48.800 --> 0:55:50.400
<v Speaker 6>in all of that says, let me wrap it up

0:55:50.440 --> 0:55:53.680
<v Speaker 6>with a nice vow, we do not have to stay stuff. Right.

0:55:53.960 --> 0:55:57.440
<v Speaker 6>We can create our own narrative no matter what anybody says.

0:55:58.239 --> 0:56:00.720
<v Speaker 1>All right, And just want to mention real You also

0:56:01.000 --> 0:56:04.280
<v Speaker 1>have a partnership with soul Cap where you're the official

0:56:04.360 --> 0:56:06.600
<v Speaker 1>brand ambassador for people are like, what a so cap?

0:56:07.280 --> 0:56:08.680
<v Speaker 2>It is related to swimming, correct?

0:56:08.800 --> 0:56:08.880
<v Speaker 7>Right?

0:56:08.960 --> 0:56:15.040
<v Speaker 6>You know? So briefly I talked about every year you

0:56:15.200 --> 0:56:18.680
<v Speaker 6>need to create a challenge, something out of your comfort zone,

0:56:19.200 --> 0:56:22.120
<v Speaker 6>and I was like, what can that be. I've always

0:56:22.840 --> 0:56:29.319
<v Speaker 6>greatly admired the work ethic of triathletes. Again, it was

0:56:29.360 --> 0:56:32.480
<v Speaker 6>on my bucket list, but most things that I do,

0:56:32.600 --> 0:56:35.160
<v Speaker 6>if I can't commit fully to doing it at this

0:56:35.200 --> 0:56:36.400
<v Speaker 6>point in my life, I'm not going to do it

0:56:36.400 --> 0:56:40.800
<v Speaker 6>because I'm not going to have ass anything. And last

0:56:40.880 --> 0:56:44.400
<v Speaker 6>year I watched my business partner in Susanna Evans, compete

0:56:44.440 --> 0:56:49.320
<v Speaker 6>in her first triathlon after losing one hundred plus pounds

0:56:49.600 --> 0:56:51.719
<v Speaker 6>right and did it. And I went and watched and

0:56:51.760 --> 0:56:54.560
<v Speaker 6>I said to myself, you know what, this is my

0:56:54.680 --> 0:56:56.960
<v Speaker 6>challenge for twenty twenty five. And so right after my

0:56:57.000 --> 0:56:59.920
<v Speaker 6>birthday in October of last year, I hired a coach

0:57:00.239 --> 0:57:03.160
<v Speaker 6>and I started the process. So in May of this year,

0:57:03.560 --> 0:57:06.400
<v Speaker 6>I'm traveling to Honolulu, Hawaii, and I'm going to compete

0:57:06.400 --> 0:57:10.759
<v Speaker 6>in my first triathlon, and in that journey, so many

0:57:10.760 --> 0:57:12.680
<v Speaker 6>little things that I would have never guessed would be

0:57:13.000 --> 0:57:16.320
<v Speaker 6>a challenge. You don't see a lot of us, a

0:57:16.320 --> 0:57:19.240
<v Speaker 6>lot of people of color in the sport of triathlon.

0:57:19.320 --> 0:57:22.360
<v Speaker 6>I'm one of the reasons that I am so interested

0:57:22.400 --> 0:57:25.800
<v Speaker 6>in if it's just to slowly introduce the sport to

0:57:25.920 --> 0:57:32.480
<v Speaker 6>our community and the little things like putting a swim

0:57:32.640 --> 0:57:37.080
<v Speaker 6>cap on our hair right in the pool. And you

0:57:37.160 --> 0:57:40.760
<v Speaker 6>think generally athletes make it look so easy, right, because

0:57:40.760 --> 0:57:43.080
<v Speaker 6>you don't see a lot of us. So when I

0:57:43.200 --> 0:57:46.600
<v Speaker 6>started this, when I'm starting to put these and they're

0:57:46.640 --> 0:57:49.120
<v Speaker 6>popping and they're not big enough, and I'm trying to

0:57:49.120 --> 0:57:51.479
<v Speaker 6>get all these locks up there, and it is a mess.

0:57:51.520 --> 0:57:53.959
<v Speaker 6>I'm looking like a fool out there at the pool

0:57:53.960 --> 0:57:55.640
<v Speaker 6>and I'm trying to keep it cool, right and kind

0:57:55.640 --> 0:57:59.240
<v Speaker 6>of blending. And I posted on my social media like, hey,

0:57:59.560 --> 0:58:02.760
<v Speaker 6>y'all have any recommendations, and a lot of my followers

0:58:02.800 --> 0:58:04.720
<v Speaker 6>like yet, like have you ever heard of this brand?

0:58:04.760 --> 0:58:08.760
<v Speaker 6>Soul Cap with There are a UK based company that

0:58:09.000 --> 0:58:12.360
<v Speaker 6>makes swim caps for people with a lot of hair,

0:58:12.440 --> 0:58:14.360
<v Speaker 6>not just people of color, but people with a lot

0:58:14.400 --> 0:58:17.840
<v Speaker 6>of hair. But one of the reasons why I partnered

0:58:17.880 --> 0:58:21.720
<v Speaker 6>with them also is because they are interested in bringing

0:58:21.760 --> 0:58:26.040
<v Speaker 6>the sport of swimming to everybody, right and not just

0:58:26.120 --> 0:58:30.080
<v Speaker 6>one genre of people. And so I'm excited to be

0:58:30.120 --> 0:58:32.320
<v Speaker 6>doing a number of things with them in that world.

0:58:33.200 --> 0:58:36.600
<v Speaker 6>But the idea of I know how I knew how

0:58:36.600 --> 0:58:39.240
<v Speaker 6>to swim sif and I knew how to ride a bike,

0:58:39.360 --> 0:58:42.280
<v Speaker 6>and I knew how to run, But it's different. Yeah,

0:58:42.280 --> 0:58:44.720
<v Speaker 6>one thing to jump in the pool right in your

0:58:44.720 --> 0:58:47.480
<v Speaker 6>community pool and like do a dive bomb and swim

0:58:47.480 --> 0:58:50.360
<v Speaker 6>with kids, But it's a whole other thing to have

0:58:50.480 --> 0:58:54.240
<v Speaker 6>to swim twenty five meters twenty five meters like NonStop,

0:58:54.280 --> 0:58:57.040
<v Speaker 6>Like that's a whole other world. So to learn technique

0:58:57.600 --> 0:59:00.000
<v Speaker 6>at this age in your life, learn how to breathe

0:59:00.320 --> 0:59:04.760
<v Speaker 6>learn how to not drown, has been a challenge, which

0:59:04.800 --> 0:59:07.240
<v Speaker 6>is again what I was looking for. Then you talk

0:59:07.280 --> 0:59:10.680
<v Speaker 6>about the biking aspect, because triathlon has three disciplines, run,

0:59:10.680 --> 0:59:12.840
<v Speaker 6>the bike and swim. Do I know how to ride

0:59:12.840 --> 0:59:13.160
<v Speaker 6>a bike?

0:59:13.280 --> 0:59:13.600
<v Speaker 4>Sure?

0:59:14.200 --> 0:59:16.160
<v Speaker 6>I know how to ride my BMX around the bike,

0:59:16.320 --> 0:59:18.720
<v Speaker 6>around the block a lot of times and beat you

0:59:18.800 --> 0:59:21.800
<v Speaker 6>from here to there. But in terms of on the

0:59:21.840 --> 0:59:25.920
<v Speaker 6>bike for however many kilometers locked in on that bike

0:59:26.080 --> 0:59:29.280
<v Speaker 6>with all of you know, fatigue, that's a whole other ballgame.

0:59:29.560 --> 0:59:32.120
<v Speaker 6>And then you might say, persis you got the running

0:59:32.160 --> 0:59:37.080
<v Speaker 6>part down? You know how I like to run or.

0:59:37.000 --> 0:59:41.640
<v Speaker 2>How I Yes, that's a big difference bigs.

0:59:41.280 --> 0:59:44.880
<v Speaker 6>From here today, all right, I am not circling in

0:59:44.880 --> 0:59:48.440
<v Speaker 6>this block several several times for miles and miles. And

0:59:48.480 --> 0:59:51.040
<v Speaker 6>there's a whole other ball game to understand this idea

0:59:51.120 --> 0:59:53.600
<v Speaker 6>of endurance, But man, it short does relate. Thank you

0:59:53.680 --> 0:59:57.440
<v Speaker 6>Lord for bringing opportunities my way because it's how I

0:59:57.600 --> 1:00:00.000
<v Speaker 6>have to go about my life. Like with this endurance

1:00:00.240 --> 1:00:03.040
<v Speaker 6>type paints we can't go part and fast with everything.

1:00:04.040 --> 1:00:08.080
<v Speaker 6>You have to learn how to be consistent, how to

1:00:08.120 --> 1:00:11.720
<v Speaker 6>withstand the time, how to do it for long term

1:00:11.880 --> 1:00:14.920
<v Speaker 6>so you can last. And so it's been not only

1:00:15.320 --> 1:00:18.479
<v Speaker 6>applying to the physical challenges that I needed, but man,

1:00:18.560 --> 1:00:20.880
<v Speaker 6>it's been like a such an eye open when it

1:00:20.920 --> 1:00:23.640
<v Speaker 6>comes to applying it to my life. Thank you for

1:00:23.680 --> 1:00:26.240
<v Speaker 6>bringing this opportunity to me, to opportunity to me. So

1:00:26.240 --> 1:00:28.200
<v Speaker 6>that's what soul Cap is. I've partnered with them, and

1:00:28.200 --> 1:00:31.480
<v Speaker 6>I'm excited that. You know, however many decades the world

1:00:31.520 --> 1:00:35.040
<v Speaker 6>said she's done, she's disappeared, Like I posted last week,

1:00:35.120 --> 1:00:38.120
<v Speaker 6>like yo, this is a personal partnership, like this is

1:00:38.280 --> 1:00:41.000
<v Speaker 6>a pantal. Now you'll want to watch out.

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<v Speaker 2>This is exactly intrinsically to who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>And for those who are interested in soul Cap, if

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<v Speaker 1>you use the code marry in fifteen, you will get

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen percent off your purchase.

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<v Speaker 6>And let me tell you, like I know a lot

1:00:53.760 --> 1:00:56.920
<v Speaker 6>of your listeners, like you have such a diverse group

1:00:56.960 --> 1:01:00.240
<v Speaker 6>of listeners, but like people with full hair, and you

1:01:00.240 --> 1:01:01.520
<v Speaker 6>want to get in that pool, you don't want that

1:01:01.640 --> 1:01:05.080
<v Speaker 6>chlorine all over it. These caps are amazing. They also

1:01:05.120 --> 1:01:07.720
<v Speaker 6>have lots of weather products and goggles and swimsuits. Check

1:01:07.760 --> 1:01:09.160
<v Speaker 6>them out. It's an incredible brand.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it good.

1:01:10.880 --> 1:01:11.680
<v Speaker 6>That's doing right.

1:01:11.960 --> 1:01:13.320
<v Speaker 2>That's doing good and doing right.

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<v Speaker 1>My mother is a lifeguard, so trust me, she she

1:01:17.040 --> 1:01:19.400
<v Speaker 1>all about it. Mary, and I want to thank you

1:01:19.440 --> 1:01:22.080
<v Speaker 1>for spending this time with me before I let you

1:01:22.120 --> 1:01:25.000
<v Speaker 1>go go for real. I always ask every guest a

1:01:25.000 --> 1:01:27.840
<v Speaker 1>messy question to end the podcast, and so my messy

1:01:27.920 --> 1:01:31.080
<v Speaker 1>question for you Mary and Jones is, or should say

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<v Speaker 1>Mary Jones Thompson correct?

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<v Speaker 6>That is your Jones? Because the show got it wrong

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<v Speaker 6>Mary Jones.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, all right, sure, yeah, all right, they did?

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, wait, are you hyping that?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay? I thought so.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, did you drop it? Or I thought

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<v Speaker 2>you did? But I was like, what sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Because listen, as somebody who got married five years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>I fully understand now why people when they get divorced

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<v Speaker 1>while women keep the name because it is a bitch

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<v Speaker 1>to change it and coming out of it sucks.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. So a lot of reasons, a lot of reasons,

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<v Speaker 6>a lot of reas.

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<v Speaker 2>So I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>If you have a rematch with Kayla Nicole and those

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<v Speaker 1>in the gear, are you too peace in her this time?

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<v Speaker 5>Mary?

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<v Speaker 2>And I know you got some hands in there somewhere, yo.

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<v Speaker 6>Kayla and I and we joked about it like we're

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<v Speaker 6>going at.

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<v Speaker 2>It there it is and she she would.

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<v Speaker 6>She would not, she would expect this answer from me, right,

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<v Speaker 6>like we are not we are strong women of color, right,

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<v Speaker 6>And I don't care. She's a friend, she's a sister,

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<v Speaker 6>like I consider her sister. She knows that there's only

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<v Speaker 6>one way that I go about it. I'll learn like like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>make mistakes, but I learned from them. I ain't going

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<v Speaker 6>in come on, Kaylen, protect the right. I might be

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<v Speaker 6>the old lady, but this old lady she's gonna handle

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<v Speaker 6>her business. It's gonna it would be very, very fun

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<v Speaker 6>to watch, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we found the undercar for the next flat

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix fight.

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<v Speaker 2>It is Mary and versus Kalin the go.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, Mary and good luck with a second win

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<v Speaker 1>and most importantly the triathlone. I hope you continue to

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<v Speaker 1>document your progress and your training on social media. I

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<v Speaker 1>follow you on there. You're super inspirational. You always have

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<v Speaker 1>a great positive word for everybody. So for those not

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<v Speaker 1>following you on Instagram, y'all need to follow her to

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<v Speaker 1>keep this daily positivity and motivation in your life.

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<v Speaker 6>So no, it's so good, and I mean, I know,

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<v Speaker 6>let to get you at the final word, but it's

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<v Speaker 6>such an honor to be able to chat with you

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<v Speaker 6>like on this level. I'm a fan of yours as well,

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<v Speaker 6>mainly because you just keep it real, right. I have

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<v Speaker 6>the opportunity to talk with a lot of people, and

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<v Speaker 6>you know, you got to do certain things and talk

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<v Speaker 6>to certain people. But when you get a chance to

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<v Speaker 6>connect with the real, real system, like somebody just puts

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<v Speaker 6>it out there, that's true inspiration. So thank you, Sis

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<v Speaker 6>for just you being you.

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<v Speaker 2>All Right, we'll do take care. One more segment to go,

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<v Speaker 2>and you guys know what that means.

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<v Speaker 1>I got questions to answer up next, your viewer slash

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<v Speaker 1>listener questions, and I have plenty of answers coming up

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<v Speaker 1>next on the final segment of Spolatives. Before I close

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<v Speaker 1>out this week's episode, time for a question from the audience.

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<v Speaker 1>This week's question comes from Anastasia via email. Anastasia writes,

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<v Speaker 1>not familiar with the start of this conflict, but Hubby

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<v Speaker 1>was explicit.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit and I'm still lost.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you explain how and or why a franchise won't

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<v Speaker 1>pay Jimmy because they believe that's his worth, but also

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<v Speaker 1>won't trade him unless they get what he's worth. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry if that doesn't make sense. I reworded it

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<v Speaker 1>so many times, and fair warning, I am not well.

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<v Speaker 2>Versed in the world of sports analyzations.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, do me like the doctor had to do

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<v Speaker 1>Detective Spooner and I Robot and thanks, no worries, Anastasia.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know much about this I Robot business, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell you about Jimmy Butler in this situation

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<v Speaker 1>with the Heat. Now, to understand how the situation got

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<v Speaker 1>so on, you need to understand a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>the culture around the Miami Heat franchise. The NBA is

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<v Speaker 1>a player's league, and on most teams, superstar players tend

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<v Speaker 1>to get what they want.

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<v Speaker 2>But Miami is.

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<v Speaker 1>Different because it is run by pat Riley, who is

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<v Speaker 1>known for being tough and hard knows and also a champion. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't cave with superstars, but according to reports, when

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<v Speaker 1>it came to Jimmy Butler, he supposedly gave far more

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<v Speaker 1>leeway than he ever did with stars Dwayne Wade and

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<v Speaker 1>Lebron James, who also played for the Heat. Now, Jimmy

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<v Speaker 1>Butler was allowed to fly private to stay in hotels

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<v Speaker 1>separate from the team when they were on the road.

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<v Speaker 2>The Heat even hired a trainer.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, what's the number one reason most marriages end in

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<v Speaker 1>divorce finances?

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<v Speaker 2>And this situation is no different.

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<v Speaker 1>Last summer, that Heat had an opportunity to give Butler

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<v Speaker 1>a two year, one hundred and thirteen million dollar extension

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<v Speaker 1>and they decided.

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<v Speaker 2>Not to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, keep in mind that the Heat lost in the

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<v Speaker 1>first round of the playoffs last year. Bear not pat

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<v Speaker 1>Riley blamed Butler's lack of availability for why the Heat

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make it further in the playoffs. According to the stats,

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<v Speaker 1>Butler had only been available in sixty four percent of

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<v Speaker 1>the team's regular season games. So now you have two

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<v Speaker 1>levels of disrespect. The Heat didn't pay Jimmy Butler and

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<v Speaker 1>Riley publicly threw a shot at his superstar. Now, some

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<v Speaker 1>would say, and this ain't wrong. Is this any way

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<v Speaker 1>to treat a player that has taken you to two

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<v Speaker 1>NBA finals.

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<v Speaker 2>I think both of these parties.

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<v Speaker 1>Though, have managed to look they're worst at different points

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<v Speaker 1>during this drama. Jimmy Butler is pouting his way out

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<v Speaker 1>of Miami, and the Heat are trying to teach him

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<v Speaker 1>a lesson with these pointless suspensions when we all know

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<v Speaker 1>the end result will be Jimmy Butler getting out of Miami.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, professionalism isn't too much to ask.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're getting paid fifty million dollars as Jimmy Butler

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<v Speaker 1>is this season, And professionalism isn't too much to ask

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<v Speaker 1>when this was once a player you felt like was

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<v Speaker 1>the cornerstone of your franchise. Thank you, Anastasia, and I

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