WEBVTT - Second Date Update Podcast: Never Ask About The Ex 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.600 Okay, before we get started, I do have to say 0:00:02.800 --> 0:00:07.240 one week from today, the countdown begins for the top 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:10.479 second dates of the year. Yes, yes, we're going to 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:13.560 count down the top ten of this year starting next Friday. 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:15.120 But how we narrow that down? 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:17.400 Amazing lists? 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:19.520 Yeah, yeah, you guys do it for us. 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:21.919 There's a number, don't worry. Yeah, there's a number. 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:26.720 There's some analytics behind it. Nice, that's always the fun part. Yeah, analytics. 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:27.240 No. 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:29.320 But today we got a brand new second date update, 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:30.960 and I'll just say that there was a lot. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:33.960 Of talking about x's on this couple's first date. Yeah, 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:36.720 there is, and the guy was very into it. So 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:39.280 yeah he was. Let's just strange. You don't hear that often. 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:41.360 No, you'll hear why coming up in just a second. 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:43.800 But comments, we love to highlight what do you see Alexis? 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:46.960 This comment said, Hey, I'm the first comment, love your show. 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:49.920 I usually don't comment, but mainly I want to hear 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:51.519 you to try to pronounce my name. 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:53.840 Okay, so I'll give everyone a try. 0:00:53.920 --> 0:00:57.000 I'm going Mayan, but I feel like that's too obvious. 0:00:57.400 --> 0:01:02.360 May and okay a a y a, n oh, it 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:09.240 could be may. I can't pronounce the emoji after his 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:12.400 chocolate bar. Good job that one. 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:15.720 Yeah, that's right, Your brand new second date starts right now. 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:17.840 Second Date update. 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:22.760 A lot of people say, if you want to date successfully, yeah, 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:24.960 you gotta be willing to play the game. 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:28.800 Oh, but others will say I'm not here. 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:30.920 To play games, but then play games anyway. 0:01:30.640 --> 0:01:35.679 And those people are single and okay. But our listener 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:38.800 David thinks that he's been playing the game too much, 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:40.559 too hard, for. 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:42.959 Too long, a longtime player. 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:46.640 Especially with one lady in particular, and now he fears 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.279 he might be at the back of the line because 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:52.480 this girl is good looking, that's according to his email, 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:56.040 has many other suitors, so he's worried he may have 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:56.680 screwed it. 0:01:56.680 --> 0:02:00.280 Up for himself. David, buddy, welcome to the show. What's 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:00.960 going on? Man? 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:03.040 Uh, it's not good. 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:07.960 Guys don't know that, David. 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:11.160 Usually Jeffrey sets you up and things sound way more 0:02:11.200 --> 0:02:12.480 dire than they actually are. 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:16.560 But today you're well, let's get the story. 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:18.720 Tell us this girl's name and why you feel like 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:20.240 maybe you mess things up. 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:23.040 Yeah, her name is Ava and we met on an app. 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:24.799 Okay, okay, I. 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.960 Took her to like this outdoor mall place like a 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:30.560 tropical drink kind of spot and Polynesian team. 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:33.480 I think cool it was a rainforest cafe because that's 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:34.519 not really Polynesian. 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:36.880 Thing's more Brazilian better than that. 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:40.359 But yeah, okay, that's cool, tropical cocktails. 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:42.200 It a fun, fun vibe. 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:46.000 Yeah, exactly. She actually really liked it. That's a thing 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:48.920 that she really appreciated that I planned this and I 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:52.639 looked into it beforehand, because apparently her ex never did that. 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:54.239 Oh is that what she said? 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:57.480 Yeah? Okay, so I said, since you brought it up, 0:02:57.960 --> 0:02:59.520 is that why you left him? Because he wasn't really 0:02:59.560 --> 0:02:59.959 a planner? 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:02.720 Oh okay, we're just going to dive into the conversation 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:03.440 about the exit. 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:06.480 I mean, are you okay with talking about this at 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:09.000 this point or like, how are you feeling about where 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:10.160 the conversation is going? 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:12.720 Yeah, I don't know, Like, looking back at it, I 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:14.320 probably shouldn't have brought it up, but it was just 0:03:14.400 --> 0:03:17.359 kind of flowing in the conversation with a natural conversation, 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:19.079 So I just kind of went with it, you know, Yeah. 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.240 Just working with what she's given you. I guess A 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:23.120 real question, all right, Yeah. 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:25.160 So you asked, is that why you left him because 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:26.360 he didn't plan? What'd she say? 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:28.239 Yeah, I mean she's like, no, no, that's not it. 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:30.320 But I'll tell you the story. And it turns out 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:31.880 she discovered he was cheating on her. 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:35.920 Yeah, it does do a good story. I was gonna say, yeah, 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:37.240 you want to hear about. 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:39.280 That, And cheating does take a lot of planning, so 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:40.640 maybe it wasn't that bad. 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:43.640 Planning. Energy was going. 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:44.120 Okay. 0:03:44.240 --> 0:03:46.000 It's kind of weird because when she discovered that he 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:48.360 was cheating on her, he came home that night. She 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:51.480 actually made him his favorite meal, had a whole candlelight 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:54.480 dinner form, and then gave him the quote unquote best 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:55.520 sex of his life. 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:57.240 Whoa, that's what she told me. 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:00.880 Yeah, wow, this came up during your conversation punishment for 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:01.960 I've never cheated. 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:04.320 I kind of watched, What the hell? 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:08.280 Why tell you? And why does she do that? I 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:10.240 know I have had this happen to a friend too. 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:12.440 I reacted that way. 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:16.440 Oh my god, I need to touch using code because 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:21.400 she did quote unquote friends friends do. 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:25.680 This is some weird revenge. 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:27.680 Wow. Yeah, I mean there's more to it. I mean 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:30.840 apparently after it was over, she asked him So how 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:33.120 was that? And he said that was the best I've 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:36.400 ever had and she responds, good, because it's the last 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:38.520 time you'll ever get it. I know you've been cheating 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:39.479 on me and I'm leaving you. 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:44.960 Okay, that's the revenge, but still its such a good 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:46.080 way to get broken up with. 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:49.160 Yeah, that is not hitting the way you want it to. 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:52.400 Alexis, Did your quote unquote friend do that too? 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:53.520 No? 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:54.839 I didn't quite that way for them. 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:57.440 I'm guessing they stayed together on and off for the 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:58.479 next four or five months. 0:04:58.960 --> 0:04:59.839 They might be married. 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:04.800 I mean it's like, where do you go in the 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:05.880 date from that point? 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:08.159 Do you like the appetizers? 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:09.520 So what happened next? 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:11.640 David, Well, I mean that was kind of the end 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:14.599 of the date. I mean we did kiss at the end, but. 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:16.080 Kiss after that. 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.240 Yeah, this is the best kiss of your life. Because 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:18.840 it's a bad thing. 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:22.800 That story has been kind of stuck in my head 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:26.080 because now I'm purposely trying to make her mad at me, 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.000 so she want to get back at me. 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:31.520 Ah wait, wait, what are you doing to make her 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:32.159 mad at you? 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:35.960 Like we'll go to dinner and I'll feel prize off 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:38.200 her plates. Is kind of annoyingly. 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:41.920 Oh you you guys are kind of dating right now, 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:42.799 Is that what you're saying. 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:44.480 We've had two dates. We've had two. 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.160 Dates, Okay. 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:48.160 On the second date, I kind of just started to 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:49.840 be kind of a jerk to her. They kind of 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:53.400 see what I can get for being misbehaving. 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:55.480 Right because you want her to be upset with you 0:05:55.600 --> 0:05:58.440 so that she'll cook you a nice meal and give 0:05:58.560 --> 0:05:59.400 you the best night. 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:03.840 She forget the very end where she leaves them. I mean, 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:05.800 you're holding on to the wrong part of the story 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:06.160 for her. 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:08.599 Yeah, yeah, I mean I'm just doing the little, bare 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:10.680 minimum things to annoy her. I'm not cheating on her 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:12.200 or anything, you know. I just I just want to 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:14.000 get to the point where she'll want to do those 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:15.400 things to me, but she won't dump me. 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:20.120 Okay, okay, can give you a lesser ill and you're 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:22.400 like one way the first date and then completely different 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:22.920 the next day. 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:24.919 Maybe she's like, I don't know who he really is? 0:06:26.160 --> 0:06:28.560 You y you yet? 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:31.279 Well you must be coming to us now because clearly 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:33.560 communication is broken down or something like that. 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:36.120 Yeah, what's what's going on? 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:38.479 Yeah, I mean I'm definitely in my head about it 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:40.280 because she hasn't spoken to me in a bit. 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:45.680 I was a jerk to her, and now she's not 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:46.480 talking to me. 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:48.080 Weird out. 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:51.240 He did say it was bad at the beginning of this, Yeah, 0:06:51.240 --> 0:06:51.640 it is that. 0:06:51.839 --> 0:06:54.200 Yeah, So now I understand why you're probably feeling a 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:55.120 little bit remorseful. 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:57.240 I mean, it just sucks, guys, because, like you mentioned before, 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:00.040 she's in a very attractive woman and you know a 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:01.680 lot of guys have been asking her out. But you 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:03.800 told me I was, you know, the first guy she's 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:05.400 gone out with since the Great Cup happened. 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:08.640 She could have been rebound. 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:11.840 Why would you not add that detail that is so important? 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:14.240 You just said it. He just gave us the details. 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:18.120 Nobody at the beginning, you told your story poorly, So 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:19.080 we're going to hold. 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:19.960 It again your mind. 0:07:21.120 --> 0:07:22.600 There's so many more things wrong now. 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:26.480 Yeah, clearly you may have dug your own grave here, 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:28.480 but we're going to try and turn this around for you, 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:30.280 get you the revenge that you've been seeking. 0:07:30.640 --> 0:07:32.280 Is that way you're looking for or do you think 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:34.000 that you actually want to date this girl? 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:36.640 I mean, can I ask for both? I kind of 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:38.400 want to be in a relationship and hook up. 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:41.680 With not a lot of relationships go that way, but 0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:44.040 we'll try to work our master, Jeff, don't be too 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:44.560 rude to her. 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:48.400 Take a liking to you here. 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:50.280 It's going to be a really weird ending when we 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:52.600 come back, and we're going to call a before you 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:56.280 try to get you your second date update revenge style hold. 0:07:56.160 --> 0:07:58.960 On second date update. 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:03.400 Never in the history of this show have I heard 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:06.000 a tragic breakup story and said. 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:08.000 Gosh, I wish that would have been me. 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:13.160 My god, but it happened today because our listener David 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:15.520 was on a date with a woman named Ava. They 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:19.600 were talking about x'es and she said, quote, once I 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:22.120 found out he was cheating on me, I made him 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:24.840 his favorite dinner and gave him the best safe you'll 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:30.040 ever have in his life, and then she left him. 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:30.640 Wow. 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:34.520 Yeah, obviously the men from the in the room learn 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:35.319 their lessons too. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:35.800 Yeah. 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:39.120 Begging to cheat. 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:41.480 For some reason, that got into David's head, so he's 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:45.600 been purposely trying to annoy Ava so that he can 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:48.360 be the beneficiary of her revenge tactics. 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:50.240 That didn't really work though, No, it's. 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:53.080 Been kind of backfiring, and that remember was an exit 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:58.080 ye a while, totally different situation that's what's brought him here. 0:08:58.920 --> 0:09:01.839 Oh, David, is your head at a lot of. 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:05.840 People texting and O David, Yeah, you guys, I screwed up. 0:09:08.240 --> 0:09:10.360 I have a question though, like, are you wanting to 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:13.640 own up to your behavior of being a jerk on 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:17.600 the dates or or you wanting her not to know 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:18.600 that was on purpose? 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:21.120 Yeah? I mean I'm willing to if it just kind 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:23.760 of comes up organically, but I don't want to put 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:25.160 my business out there right away. 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:26.800 That makes sense, Like if she says, well, I'm not 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:31.319 calling him back because he's a jerk, then we can say, well, yeah, yeah, 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:33.199 he had the wrong idea of what you liked. 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:35.800 Yeah, we're about to call her here. 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:38.280 But my advice for you, David is if we do 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:39.880 get her on the phone and you do get a 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:40.720 chance to talk. 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:43.000 To her, try and be playful with her because it's 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:43.439 kind of a. 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:46.120 Funny thing that's happened this whole way that this was 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:46.720 played out. 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:48.839 Just Jeffrey advice all of a sudden a way. 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:52.880 Yeah, I don't usually give advice to our listeners here, 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:55.480 but yeah, you know, it's kind of a typical guy 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:58.280 thing to think the way that you thought. So hopefully 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:00.800 if you lay it out playfully, she'll see the humor 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:05.080 in it. I can play Thank Goodness for chat GPT 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:08.240 because that was not my wondering, all right, but I 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:10.840 felt like you needed it anyway. I'm gonna dial her 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:13.000 number and let's see if she picks up. 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:20.920 Hello. 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:22.720 Hi, is this Eva? 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:25.240 Yes, this is who's sticking. 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:28.400 Hey, this is jeff I'm on a radio show called 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:29.680 Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:32.240 Yeah, the whole shows here in the morning. 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:36.480 Ah. Hi, guys, get. 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.720 Yeah, we got it from a guy who listens to 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:44.679 our show. We've been very eager to talk to you 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:47.520 about this guy because we know you two went out 0:10:47.520 --> 0:10:49.080 on a date recently. 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:49.640 Two dates in fact. 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:53.280 Yeah, double yeah, who is it? 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:55.760 It's a guy named David and so. 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:59.960 God, oh what do you mean? Oh God, you're not 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:01.120 calling him back on purpose? 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:04.920 Obviously, no response is a response guy? 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:10.080 Yeah, definitely, that's interesting. Why why would you have such 0:11:10.160 --> 0:11:12.120 hesitation to see him again? 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:14.480 I can't believe you guys are calling. 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:14.800 Me about this. 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:19.240 Well, he asked us to call you because he's a 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:22.480 little bit uncertain about what's happening between you two right now. 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:26.319 Well, I'm like new to the dating scene, and I'm 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:28.680 like dating around and I want to keep my options open. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:31.679 So why do I have to be locked in on 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:33.720 one person that I wasn't that big of a fan. 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:36.120 Of him a lot? 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:37.880 So you were scared you were going to like him 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:39.679 too much? You don't want to date anyone. 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:41.320 She just said that she's not a big fan of. 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:45.839 And it's totally fair for you to feel that way. Ava. 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:47.199 We don't judge you on that at all. 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:50.320 But if I told you that David has been dating 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:53.679 for a little bit longer than you and he feels. 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:56.640 Like he messed up, Oh you're okay, you could. 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:59.959 Probably agree with me that everybody deserves a second chance. 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:03.720 What what she says? What everybody? A bold state? 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:07.200 Jefs really on a advice kick today. 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:09.400 I don't know what's exactly going on. We don't even 0:12:09.400 --> 0:12:11.240 know why she's not a fan of him. Aren't you 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:12.120 curious about that? 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:14.400 I one hundred percent agree with you, Brooke. And the 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:18.240 perfect person to tell you that is actually David himself. 0:12:19.320 --> 0:12:21.600 The perfect person to tell me you know how she. 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:26.080 Feels, does Brook? You don't understand how you've been married 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:26.720 for too long? 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:27.120 Yeah? 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:28.360 That you're listening? 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:30.240 No, it's not about healthy communication. 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:33.040 It's about David explaining what's going on because he had 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:36.640 I neednation. But he's on the other line right now 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:37.319 listening to this. 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:40.640 Listening to what. I'm not sure because she hasn't said anything. 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:44.280 I don't know if we want her to share anymore. 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:46.080 But David, David, are you there? 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:49.040 You head? 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.480 What is happening right now? Like? Why are you doing this? 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:56.480 Oh? 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:58.240 I'm doing it to get under your skin? Aren't you 0:12:58.360 --> 0:12:58.800 mad at me? 0:12:59.200 --> 0:12:59.440 What? 0:13:00.960 --> 0:13:01.160 Yeah? 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:05.120 I kind of am, but also like why. 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:06.959 Oh gosh, I bet you want to get back at me. 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:10.680 Huh. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:14.240 You should probably have me over for dinner tonight. No, 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:15.840 because I don't want to. 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:17.920 Have anything to do with you. I didn't even like 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:21.160 hanging out with you. You were really disrespectful. 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:25.199 Well you're right, I am that guy, and you need 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:28.160 to teach me a lesson now. 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:29.920 It's funny. 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:33.760 You doesn't pick up any signs. 0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:36.199 I mean, David, are you trying to be funny right now? 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:36.960 Yeah? That could be. 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:39.760 He's just being playful, like what chatch Pt said to do. 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:42.000 It's icky. 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:42.680 Well that's a good. 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:46.280 David. 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:46.920 You're doing great. 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:52.079 Keep going, David, be yourself. Yeah, I fear this is him. 0:13:54.160 --> 0:13:57.600 That the word was the first day. Okay, David, Clearly 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:00.080 she feels like something weird is going on. 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:05.120 Okay, you know that story you told me about your 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:08.520 ex chet story. You know, when you're on our first hangout, 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:10.760 you said you caught your ex cheating, so, you know, 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:12.400 to get back at him, you made him the best 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:14.480 dinner ever, and then you you know, you hooked up 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:16.480 with it and it was the greatest ever. 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:20.200 Oh my god, oh my god, are you serious right now? 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:25.720 Because wait, you thought that was going to happen to you? 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:27.280 I mean, it would it make you. 0:14:27.240 --> 0:14:32.760 Mad if I said, yes, off, I dated that guy 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:35.280 for a year and I would never do that again. 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:41.200 You're saying that you regret that revenge move that wasn't 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:49.160 really of course, I help the guys out there probably 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:51.680 mean you know, it's like you didn't deserve that. 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:54.400 Yeah, we were all like, dude, you gave him a treat. 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:55.800 Yeah, the guy in the room definitely. 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:58.880 Yeah the text. Are you hearing her? 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.160 Yeah? And I didn't know that. 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:03.280 Well now you do? 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:08.560 Ok, all right and show Yeah, David, you need to 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:12.760 follow that up with something like an apology or I'm 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:13.920 not really that person. 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:17.280 Okay, then I probably should tell you, Like, after you 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:19.400 told me that story, I was doing things to bug 0:15:19.440 --> 0:15:21.480 you on purpose, because you know, I thought it would work. 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:24.680 Are you like the biggest idiot ever? 0:15:26.640 --> 0:15:28.400 And I kind of feel like an idiot? Now? 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:33.080 Oh my gosh, So hold on, is that why you 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:35.080 kept stealing my fries even though you had a plate 0:15:35.120 --> 0:15:35.560 of your own? 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:39.280 What you had your own? I'm gonna take a big 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:41.040 handful of his and put him back on my plate. 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:45.560 David, is there anything that you want to say to 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:46.120 Ava here? 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.680 Listen. I'm just I'm just telling you I am a 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:49.280 nice guy. 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:52.240 No you're not. You stole my fries and then you 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:53.400 were just rude to me all night. 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:57.560 I mean, actions kind of speak louder than words. Right now, 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.960 you'd have to, like, but that wasn't a real hand 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:01.920 I mean, you'd have to have Ava give you another 0:16:02.000 --> 0:16:03.720 chance to prove who you really are. 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:06.200 Yeah, Oh, you mean like if she wanted to, you know, 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:07.280 make me dinner one night. 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:09.680 Yeah, that's not happening. 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:11.880 Do you learn nothing. 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:14.200 It's just when you told me that story, it kind 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:15.840 of got in my head and it screwed me up. 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:17.840 Like it's kind of your fault for describing it. The 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:18.280 way you did. 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:22.440 Oh wow, in my fault that I was telling you 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:24.560 a mistake that I made before, and then you were 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:26.440 just trying to make me make the same mistake. 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:30.080 Not happening. It was just a story. And I will 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:30.960 be honest with you Ava. 0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:35.560 Before we had you two together, he sounded very regretful. 0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:38.360 So why isn't he sounding regretful right now? I've had 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:40.600 the chance. You have the chance right now, David. 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:41.880 No, he's an idiot. 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:43.920 Well, yeah, I'm saying it. 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:46.640 He admits that, he admits that he's an idiot, and 0:16:46.680 --> 0:16:48.680 he feels that way, and that's why I think that 0:16:48.760 --> 0:16:51.560 you should be willing to give him maybe one more chance, 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:54.240 and will even offer to pay for the next day. 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:55.960 It'll be on us if you say yes. 0:16:56.200 --> 0:17:01.920 Oh nah, I'll pass. Yeah, this entire conversation, it's like 0:17:01.960 --> 0:17:03.200 I lost brain cells. 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:07.080 You know how many people say that after coming on 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:08.480 our show. Good point, but. 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:10.439 She didn't lose enough brain cells to say yes to 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:14.160 another date. So I'm sorry, David. Right, your strategy didn't work. 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:16.879 All right, guys, I appreciate it, all right, David, just 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:18.040