Speaker 1: Okay, before we get started, I do have to say
Speaker 1: one week from today, the countdown begins for the top
Speaker 1: second dates of the year. Yes, yes, we're going to
Speaker 1: count down the top ten of this year starting next Friday.
Speaker 2: But how we narrow that down?
Speaker 3: Amazing lists?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you guys do it for us.
Speaker 3: There's a number, don't worry. Yeah, there's a number.
Speaker 1: There's some analytics behind it. Nice, that's always the fun part. Yeah, analytics.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 1: But today we got a brand new second date update,
Speaker 1: and I'll just say that there was a lot.
Speaker 3: Of talking about x's on this couple's first date. Yeah,
Speaker 3: there is, and the guy was very into it. So
Speaker 3: yeah he was. Let's just strange. You don't hear that often.
Speaker 1: No, you'll hear why coming up in just a second.
Speaker 1: But comments, we love to highlight what do you see Alexis?
Speaker 3: This comment said, Hey, I'm the first comment, love your show.
Speaker 1: I usually don't comment, but mainly I want to hear
Speaker 1: you to try to pronounce my name.
Speaker 2: Okay, so I'll give everyone a try.
Speaker 3: I'm going Mayan, but I feel like that's too obvious.
Speaker 3: May and okay a a y a, n oh, it
Speaker 3: could be may. I can't pronounce the emoji after his
Speaker 3: chocolate bar. Good job that one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, Your brand new second date starts right now.
Speaker 2: Second Date update.
Speaker 5: A lot of people say, if you want to date successfully, yeah,
Speaker 5: you gotta be willing to play the game.
Speaker 2: Oh, but others will say I'm not here.
Speaker 3: To play games, but then play games anyway.
Speaker 5: And those people are single and okay. But our listener
Speaker 5: David thinks that he's been playing the game too much,
Speaker 5: too hard, for.
Speaker 3: Too long, a longtime player.
Speaker 5: Especially with one lady in particular, and now he fears
Speaker 5: he might be at the back of the line because
Speaker 5: this girl is good looking, that's according to his email,
Speaker 5: has many other suitors, so he's worried he may have
Speaker 5: screwed it.
Speaker 2: Up for himself. David, buddy, welcome to the show. What's
Speaker 2: going on? Man?
Speaker 4: Uh, it's not good.
Speaker 2: Guys don't know that, David.
Speaker 1: Usually Jeffrey sets you up and things sound way more
Speaker 1: dire than they actually are.
Speaker 2: But today you're well, let's get the story.
Speaker 5: Tell us this girl's name and why you feel like
Speaker 5: maybe you mess things up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, her name is Ava and we met on an app.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I.
Speaker 4: Took her to like this outdoor mall place like a
Speaker 4: tropical drink kind of spot and Polynesian team.
Speaker 5: I think cool it was a rainforest cafe because that's
Speaker 5: not really Polynesian.
Speaker 2: Thing's more Brazilian better than that.
Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, that's cool, tropical cocktails.
Speaker 3: It a fun, fun vibe.
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. She actually really liked it. That's a thing
Speaker 4: that she really appreciated that I planned this and I
Speaker 4: looked into it beforehand, because apparently her ex never did that.
Speaker 3: Oh is that what she said?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Okay, so I said, since you brought it up,
Speaker 4: is that why you left him? Because he wasn't really
Speaker 4: a planner?
Speaker 5: Oh okay, we're just going to dive into the conversation
Speaker 5: about the exit.
Speaker 1: I mean, are you okay with talking about this at
Speaker 1: this point or like, how are you feeling about where
Speaker 1: the conversation is going?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know, Like, looking back at it, I
Speaker 4: probably shouldn't have brought it up, but it was just
Speaker 4: kind of flowing in the conversation with a natural conversation,
Speaker 4: So I just kind of went with it, you know, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Just working with what she's given you. I guess A
Speaker 2: real question, all right, Yeah.
Speaker 5: So you asked, is that why you left him because
Speaker 5: he didn't plan? What'd she say?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean she's like, no, no, that's not it.
Speaker 4: But I'll tell you the story. And it turns out
Speaker 4: she discovered he was cheating on her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does do a good story. I was gonna say, yeah,
Speaker 2: you want to hear about.
Speaker 1: That, And cheating does take a lot of planning, so
Speaker 1: maybe it wasn't that bad.
Speaker 3: Planning. Energy was going.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: It's kind of weird because when she discovered that he
Speaker 4: was cheating on her, he came home that night. She
Speaker 4: actually made him his favorite meal, had a whole candlelight
Speaker 4: dinner form, and then gave him the quote unquote best
Speaker 4: sex of his life.
Speaker 3: Whoa, that's what she told me.
Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, this came up during your conversation punishment for
Speaker 5: I've never cheated.
Speaker 2: I kind of watched, What the hell?
Speaker 3: Why tell you? And why does she do that? I
Speaker 3: know I have had this happen to a friend too.
Speaker 3: I reacted that way.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I need to touch using code because
Speaker 5: she did quote unquote friends friends do.
Speaker 3: This is some weird revenge.
Speaker 4: Wow. Yeah, I mean there's more to it. I mean
Speaker 4: apparently after it was over, she asked him So how
Speaker 4: was that? And he said that was the best I've
Speaker 4: ever had and she responds, good, because it's the last
Speaker 4: time you'll ever get it. I know you've been cheating
Speaker 4: on me and I'm leaving you.
Speaker 5: Okay, that's the revenge, but still its such a good
Speaker 5: way to get broken up with.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is not hitting the way you want it to.
Speaker 5: Alexis, Did your quote unquote friend do that too?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: I didn't quite that way for them.
Speaker 1: I'm guessing they stayed together on and off for the
Speaker 1: next four or five months.
Speaker 3: They might be married.
Speaker 2: I mean it's like, where do you go in the
Speaker 2: date from that point?
Speaker 3: Do you like the appetizers?
Speaker 2: So what happened next?
Speaker 4: David, Well, I mean that was kind of the end
Speaker 4: of the date. I mean we did kiss at the end, but.
Speaker 3: Kiss after that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the best kiss of your life. Because
Speaker 2: it's a bad thing.
Speaker 4: That story has been kind of stuck in my head
Speaker 4: because now I'm purposely trying to make her mad at me,
Speaker 4: so she want to get back at me.
Speaker 3: Ah wait, wait, what are you doing to make her
Speaker 3: mad at you?
Speaker 4: Like we'll go to dinner and I'll feel prize off
Speaker 4: her plates. Is kind of annoyingly.
Speaker 1: Oh you you guys are kind of dating right now,
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying.
Speaker 4: We've had two dates. We've had two.
Speaker 2: Dates, Okay.
Speaker 4: On the second date, I kind of just started to
Speaker 4: be kind of a jerk to her. They kind of
Speaker 4: see what I can get for being misbehaving.
Speaker 5: Right because you want her to be upset with you
Speaker 5: so that she'll cook you a nice meal and give
Speaker 5: you the best night.
Speaker 3: She forget the very end where she leaves them. I mean,
Speaker 3: you're holding on to the wrong part of the story
Speaker 3: for her.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean I'm just doing the little, bare
Speaker 4: minimum things to annoy her. I'm not cheating on her
Speaker 4: or anything, you know. I just I just want to
Speaker 4: get to the point where she'll want to do those
Speaker 4: things to me, but she won't dump me.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, can give you a lesser ill and you're
Speaker 5: like one way the first date and then completely different
Speaker 5: the next day.
Speaker 2: Maybe she's like, I don't know who he really is?
Speaker 3: You y you yet?
Speaker 5: Well you must be coming to us now because clearly
Speaker 5: communication is broken down or something like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's what's going on?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm definitely in my head about it
Speaker 4: because she hasn't spoken to me in a bit.
Speaker 3: I was a jerk to her, and now she's not
Speaker 3: talking to me.
Speaker 2: Weird out.
Speaker 3: He did say it was bad at the beginning of this, Yeah,
Speaker 3: it is that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So now I understand why you're probably feeling a
Speaker 5: little bit remorseful.
Speaker 4: I mean, it just sucks, guys, because, like you mentioned before,
Speaker 4: she's in a very attractive woman and you know a
Speaker 4: lot of guys have been asking her out. But you
Speaker 4: told me I was, you know, the first guy she's
Speaker 4: gone out with since the Great Cup happened.
Speaker 2: She could have been rebound.
Speaker 3: Why would you not add that detail that is so important?
Speaker 2: You just said it. He just gave us the details.
Speaker 1: Nobody at the beginning, you told your story poorly, So
Speaker 1: we're going to hold.
Speaker 2: It again your mind.
Speaker 3: There's so many more things wrong now.
Speaker 5: Yeah, clearly you may have dug your own grave here,
Speaker 5: but we're going to try and turn this around for you,
Speaker 5: get you the revenge that you've been seeking.
Speaker 3: Is that way you're looking for or do you think
Speaker 3: that you actually want to date this girl?
Speaker 4: I mean, can I ask for both? I kind of
Speaker 4: want to be in a relationship and hook up.
Speaker 5: With not a lot of relationships go that way, but
Speaker 5: we'll try to work our master, Jeff, don't be too
Speaker 5: rude to her.
Speaker 2: Take a liking to you here.
Speaker 5: It's going to be a really weird ending when we
Speaker 5: come back, and we're going to call a before you
Speaker 5: try to get you your second date update revenge style hold.
Speaker 2: On second date update.
Speaker 5: Never in the history of this show have I heard
Speaker 5: a tragic breakup story and said.
Speaker 2: Gosh, I wish that would have been me.
Speaker 5: My god, but it happened today because our listener David
Speaker 5: was on a date with a woman named Ava. They
Speaker 5: were talking about x'es and she said, quote, once I
Speaker 5: found out he was cheating on me, I made him
Speaker 5: his favorite dinner and gave him the best safe you'll
Speaker 5: ever have in his life, and then she left him.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously the men from the in the room learn
Speaker 3: their lessons too.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Begging to cheat.
Speaker 5: For some reason, that got into David's head, so he's
Speaker 5: been purposely trying to annoy Ava so that he can
Speaker 5: be the beneficiary of her revenge tactics.
Speaker 3: That didn't really work though, No, it's.
Speaker 5: Been kind of backfiring, and that remember was an exit
Speaker 5: ye a while, totally different situation that's what's brought him here.
Speaker 2: Oh, David, is your head at a lot of.
Speaker 5: People texting and O David, Yeah, you guys, I screwed up.
Speaker 1: I have a question though, like, are you wanting to
Speaker 1: own up to your behavior of being a jerk on
Speaker 1: the dates or or you wanting her not to know
Speaker 1: that was on purpose?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean I'm willing to if it just kind
Speaker 4: of comes up organically, but I don't want to put
Speaker 4: my business out there right away.
Speaker 1: That makes sense, Like if she says, well, I'm not
Speaker 1: calling him back because he's a jerk, then we can say, well, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he had the wrong idea of what you liked.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're about to call her here.
Speaker 5: But my advice for you, David is if we do
Speaker 5: get her on the phone and you do get a
Speaker 5: chance to talk.
Speaker 2: To her, try and be playful with her because it's
Speaker 2: kind of a.
Speaker 5: Funny thing that's happened this whole way that this was
Speaker 5: played out.
Speaker 3: Just Jeffrey advice all of a sudden a way.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't usually give advice to our listeners here,
Speaker 5: but yeah, you know, it's kind of a typical guy
Speaker 5: thing to think the way that you thought. So hopefully
Speaker 5: if you lay it out playfully, she'll see the humor
Speaker 5: in it. I can play Thank Goodness for chat GPT
Speaker 5: because that was not my wondering, all right, but I
Speaker 5: felt like you needed it anyway. I'm gonna dial her
Speaker 5: number and let's see if she picks up.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hi, is this Eva?
Speaker 6: Yes, this is who's sticking.
Speaker 5: Hey, this is jeff I'm on a radio show called
Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the whole shows here in the morning.
Speaker 1: Ah. Hi, guys, get.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we got it from a guy who listens to
Speaker 5: our show. We've been very eager to talk to you
Speaker 5: about this guy because we know you two went out
Speaker 5: on a date recently.
Speaker 3: Two dates in fact.
Speaker 6: Yeah, double yeah, who is it?
Speaker 2: It's a guy named David and so.
Speaker 3: God, oh what do you mean? Oh God, you're not
Speaker 3: calling him back on purpose?
Speaker 6: Obviously, no response is a response guy?
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, that's interesting. Why why would you have such
Speaker 2: hesitation to see him again?
Speaker 6: I can't believe you guys are calling.
Speaker 2: Me about this.
Speaker 5: Well, he asked us to call you because he's a
Speaker 5: little bit uncertain about what's happening between you two right now.
Speaker 6: Well, I'm like new to the dating scene, and I'm
Speaker 6: like dating around and I want to keep my options open.
Speaker 6: So why do I have to be locked in on
Speaker 6: one person that I wasn't that big of a fan.
Speaker 4: Of him a lot?
Speaker 2: So you were scared you were going to like him
Speaker 2: too much? You don't want to date anyone.
Speaker 3: She just said that she's not a big fan of.
Speaker 2: And it's totally fair for you to feel that way. Ava.
Speaker 2: We don't judge you on that at all.
Speaker 5: But if I told you that David has been dating
Speaker 5: for a little bit longer than you and he feels.
Speaker 2: Like he messed up, Oh you're okay, you could.
Speaker 5: Probably agree with me that everybody deserves a second chance.
Speaker 3: What what she says? What everybody? A bold state?
Speaker 1: Jefs really on a advice kick today.
Speaker 3: I don't know what's exactly going on. We don't even
Speaker 3: know why she's not a fan of him. Aren't you
Speaker 3: curious about that?
Speaker 5: I one hundred percent agree with you, Brooke. And the
Speaker 5: perfect person to tell you that is actually David himself.
Speaker 3: The perfect person to tell me you know how she.
Speaker 2: Feels, does Brook? You don't understand how you've been married
Speaker 2: for too long?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: That you're listening?
Speaker 2: No, it's not about healthy communication.
Speaker 5: It's about David explaining what's going on because he had
Speaker 5: I neednation. But he's on the other line right now
Speaker 5: listening to this.
Speaker 3: Listening to what. I'm not sure because she hasn't said anything.
Speaker 2: I don't know if we want her to share anymore.
Speaker 2: But David, David, are you there?
Speaker 4: You head?
Speaker 6: What is happening right now? Like? Why are you doing this?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 4: I'm doing it to get under your skin? Aren't you
Speaker 4: mad at me?
Speaker 5: What?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I kind of am, but also like why.
Speaker 4: Oh gosh, I bet you want to get back at me.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 4: You should probably have me over for dinner tonight. No,
Speaker 4: because I don't want to.
Speaker 6: Have anything to do with you. I didn't even like
Speaker 6: hanging out with you. You were really disrespectful.
Speaker 4: Well you're right, I am that guy, and you need
Speaker 4: to teach me a lesson now.
Speaker 3: It's funny.
Speaker 2: You doesn't pick up any signs.
Speaker 3: I mean, David, are you trying to be funny right now?
Speaker 4: Yeah? That could be.
Speaker 2: He's just being playful, like what chatch Pt said to do.
Speaker 3: It's icky.
Speaker 2: Well that's a good.
Speaker 4: David.
Speaker 2: You're doing great.
Speaker 3: Keep going, David, be yourself. Yeah, I fear this is him.
Speaker 2: That the word was the first day. Okay, David, Clearly
Speaker 2: she feels like something weird is going on.
Speaker 4: Okay, you know that story you told me about your
Speaker 4: ex chet story. You know, when you're on our first hangout,
Speaker 4: you said you caught your ex cheating, so, you know,
Speaker 4: to get back at him, you made him the best
Speaker 4: dinner ever, and then you you know, you hooked up
Speaker 4: with it and it was the greatest ever.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, oh my god, are you serious right now?
Speaker 6: Because wait, you thought that was going to happen to you?
Speaker 4: I mean, it would it make you.
Speaker 6: Mad if I said, yes, off, I dated that guy
Speaker 6: for a year and I would never do that again.
Speaker 1: You're saying that you regret that revenge move that wasn't
Speaker 1: really of course, I help the guys out there probably
Speaker 1: mean you know, it's like you didn't deserve that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were all like, dude, you gave him a treat.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the guy in the room definitely.
Speaker 2: Yeah the text. Are you hearing her?
Speaker 4: Yeah? And I didn't know that.
Speaker 6: Well now you do?
Speaker 1: Ok, all right and show Yeah, David, you need to
Speaker 1: follow that up with something like an apology or I'm
Speaker 1: not really that person.
Speaker 4: Okay, then I probably should tell you, Like, after you
Speaker 4: told me that story, I was doing things to bug
Speaker 4: you on purpose, because you know, I thought it would work.
Speaker 6: Are you like the biggest idiot ever?
Speaker 4: And I kind of feel like an idiot? Now?
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, So hold on, is that why you
Speaker 6: kept stealing my fries even though you had a plate
Speaker 6: of your own?
Speaker 3: What you had your own? I'm gonna take a big
Speaker 3: handful of his and put him back on my plate.
Speaker 2: David, is there anything that you want to say to
Speaker 2: Ava here?
Speaker 4: Listen. I'm just I'm just telling you I am a
Speaker 4: nice guy.
Speaker 6: No you're not. You stole my fries and then you
Speaker 6: were just rude to me all night.
Speaker 3: I mean, actions kind of speak louder than words. Right now,
Speaker 3: you'd have to, like, but that wasn't a real hand
Speaker 3: I mean, you'd have to have Ava give you another
Speaker 3: chance to prove who you really are.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh, you mean like if she wanted to, you know,
Speaker 4: make me dinner one night.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's not happening.
Speaker 3: Do you learn nothing.
Speaker 4: It's just when you told me that story, it kind
Speaker 4: of got in my head and it screwed me up.
Speaker 4: Like it's kind of your fault for describing it. The
Speaker 4: way you did.
Speaker 6: Oh wow, in my fault that I was telling you
Speaker 6: a mistake that I made before, and then you were
Speaker 6: just trying to make me make the same mistake.
Speaker 2: Not happening. It was just a story. And I will
Speaker 2: be honest with you Ava.
Speaker 5: Before we had you two together, he sounded very regretful.
Speaker 3: So why isn't he sounding regretful right now? I've had
Speaker 3: the chance. You have the chance right now, David.
Speaker 6: No, he's an idiot.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I'm saying it.
Speaker 5: He admits that, he admits that he's an idiot, and
Speaker 5: he feels that way, and that's why I think that
Speaker 5: you should be willing to give him maybe one more chance,
Speaker 5: and will even offer to pay for the next day.
Speaker 2: It'll be on us if you say yes.
Speaker 6: Oh nah, I'll pass. Yeah, this entire conversation, it's like
Speaker 6: I lost brain cells.
Speaker 3: You know how many people say that after coming on
Speaker 3: our show. Good point, but.
Speaker 5: She didn't lose enough brain cells to say yes to
Speaker 5: another date. So I'm sorry, David. Right, your strategy didn't work.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, I appreciate it, all right, David, just
Speaker 1: be yourself next time.
Speaker 4: I will and uh and aba. If you're thinking about this,
Speaker 4: tonight or tomorrow and it gets you really mad, give
Speaker 4: me a call.
Speaker 6: Oh, trust me, I won't be thinking about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Is it just a blanket statement that people should never
Speaker 5: talk about their exes on a first date? Ever, sometimes
Speaker 5: people are like, Yeah, my ex suck, My X suck.
Speaker 2: When you bought.
Speaker 1: I feel like this gives another reason as to why
Speaker 1: that's not a good idea.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Usually nothing good will come out of it, even if
Speaker 5: the backstory.
Speaker 2: Is super juicy.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, it's good for us, but not great
Speaker 2: for the daters.
Speaker 3: Oh this guy, he couldn't let it go.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: No, man, like he invented this whole scene in his head,
Speaker 5: and it's like it's gonna happen.
Speaker 2: It's like you're inventing this imagining.
Speaker 3: It's not you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's all started with x's what's a good
Speaker 5: subject to talk about on a first date?
Speaker 2: Brooke?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 3: All of the second date podcasts that you totally binge wow,
Speaker 3: look at her ready Spotify?
Speaker 2: Yeah, send them a more horror dating story.
Speaker 3: Or the YouTube videos you watched at Brooke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, they're up on Apple, Spotify, wherever you get
Speaker 5: your podcast, You're Gonna get in here, you can get
Speaker 5: revenge bang so hard.
Speaker 2: After that, while listening to Maybe a Second Day, what
Speaker 2: you Need to Do. Let's find them online at Broken
Speaker 2: Jeffery