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Speaker 1: Okay, before we get started, I do have to say

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Speaker 1: one week from today, the countdown begins for the top

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Speaker 1: second dates of the year. Yes, yes, we're going to

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Speaker 1: count down the top ten of this year starting next Friday.

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Speaker 2: But how we narrow that down?

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Speaker 3: Amazing lists?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you guys do it for us.

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Speaker 3: There's a number, don't worry. Yeah, there's a number.

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Speaker 1: There's some analytics behind it. Nice, that's always the fun part. Yeah, analytics.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 1: But today we got a brand new second date update,

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Speaker 1: and I'll just say that there was a lot.

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Speaker 3: Of talking about x's on this couple's first date. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: there is, and the guy was very into it. So

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Speaker 3: yeah he was. Let's just strange. You don't hear that often.

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Speaker 1: No, you'll hear why coming up in just a second.

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Speaker 1: But comments, we love to highlight what do you see Alexis?

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Speaker 3: This comment said, Hey, I'm the first comment, love your show.

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Speaker 1: I usually don't comment, but mainly I want to hear

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Speaker 1: you to try to pronounce my name.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I'll give everyone a try.

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Speaker 3: I'm going Mayan, but I feel like that's too obvious.

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Speaker 3: May and okay a a y a, n oh, it

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Speaker 3: could be may. I can't pronounce the emoji after his

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Speaker 3: chocolate bar. Good job that one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, Your brand new second date starts right now.

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Speaker 2: Second Date update.

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Speaker 5: A lot of people say, if you want to date successfully, yeah,

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Speaker 5: you gotta be willing to play the game.

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Speaker 2: Oh, but others will say I'm not here.

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Speaker 3: To play games, but then play games anyway.

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Speaker 5: And those people are single and okay. But our listener

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Speaker 5: David thinks that he's been playing the game too much,

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Speaker 5: too hard, for.

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Speaker 3: Too long, a longtime player.

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Speaker 5: Especially with one lady in particular, and now he fears

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Speaker 5: this girl is good looking, that's according to his email,

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Speaker 2: Up for himself. David, buddy, welcome to the show. What's

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Speaker 2: going on? Man?

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Speaker 4: Uh, it's not good.

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Speaker 2: Guys don't know that, David.

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Speaker 1: Usually Jeffrey sets you up and things sound way more

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Speaker 1: dire than they actually are.

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Speaker 2: But today you're well, let's get the story.

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Speaker 5: Tell us this girl's name and why you feel like

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Speaker 5: maybe you mess things up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, her name is Ava and we met on an app.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I.

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Speaker 4: Took her to like this outdoor mall place like a

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Speaker 5: I think cool it was a rainforest cafe because that's

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Speaker 5: not really Polynesian.

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Speaker 2: Thing's more Brazilian better than that.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, that's cool, tropical cocktails.

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Speaker 3: It a fun, fun vibe.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. She actually really liked it. That's a thing

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Speaker 3: Oh is that what she said?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Okay, so I said, since you brought it up,

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Speaker 4: is that why you left him? Because he wasn't really

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, we're just going to dive into the conversation

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Speaker 1: I mean, are you okay with talking about this at

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know, Like, looking back at it, I

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Speaker 4: So I just kind of went with it, you know, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Just working with what she's given you. I guess A

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Speaker 2: real question, all right, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So you asked, is that why you left him because

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean she's like, no, no, that's not it.

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Speaker 4: But I'll tell you the story. And it turns out

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it does do a good story. I was gonna say, yeah,

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Speaker 1: That, And cheating does take a lot of planning, so

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Speaker 3: Planning. Energy was going.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of weird because when she discovered that he

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Speaker 3: Whoa, that's what she told me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, this came up during your conversation punishment for

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Speaker 5: I've never cheated.

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Speaker 2: I kind of watched, What the hell?

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Speaker 3: Why tell you? And why does she do that? I

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Speaker 3: I reacted that way.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I need to touch using code because

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Speaker 5: she did quote unquote friends friends do.

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Speaker 3: This is some weird revenge.

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Speaker 4: Wow. Yeah, I mean there's more to it. I mean

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Speaker 4: time you'll ever get it. I know you've been cheating

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Speaker 4: on me and I'm leaving you.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's the revenge, but still its such a good

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Speaker 5: way to get broken up with.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is not hitting the way you want it to.

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Speaker 5: Alexis, Did your quote unquote friend do that too?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I didn't quite that way for them.

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Speaker 1: I'm guessing they stayed together on and off for the

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Speaker 3: They might be married.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's like, where do you go in the

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Speaker 3: Do you like the appetizers?

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Speaker 2: So what happened next?

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Speaker 4: David, Well, I mean that was kind of the end

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Speaker 4: of the date. I mean we did kiss at the end, but.

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Speaker 3: Kiss after that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the best kiss of your life. Because

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Speaker 2: it's a bad thing.

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Speaker 4: That story has been kind of stuck in my head

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Speaker 3: Ah wait, wait, what are you doing to make her

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Speaker 4: Like we'll go to dinner and I'll feel prize off

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Speaker 1: Oh you you guys are kind of dating right now,

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Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying.

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Speaker 4: We've had two dates. We've had two.

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Speaker 4: On the second date, I kind of just started to

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Speaker 5: Right because you want her to be upset with you

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Speaker 5: so that she'll cook you a nice meal and give

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Speaker 3: She forget the very end where she leaves them. I mean,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean I'm just doing the little, bare

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, can give you a lesser ill and you're

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Speaker 5: like one way the first date and then completely different

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Speaker 2: Maybe she's like, I don't know who he really is?

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Speaker 3: You y you yet?

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Speaker 5: Well you must be coming to us now because clearly

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm definitely in my head about it

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Speaker 4: because she hasn't spoken to me in a bit.

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Speaker 3: I was a jerk to her, and now she's not

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Speaker 2: Weird out.

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Speaker 3: He did say it was bad at the beginning of this, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So now I understand why you're probably feeling a

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Speaker 4: I mean, it just sucks, guys, because, like you mentioned before,

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Speaker 4: lot of guys have been asking her out. But you

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Speaker 4: told me I was, you know, the first guy she's

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Speaker 2: She could have been rebound.

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Speaker 3: Why would you not add that detail that is so important?

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Speaker 2: You just said it. He just gave us the details.

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Speaker 1: Nobody at the beginning, you told your story poorly, So

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Speaker 1: we're going to hold.

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Speaker 2: It again your mind.

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Speaker 3: There's so many more things wrong now.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, clearly you may have dug your own grave here,

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Speaker 5: but we're going to try and turn this around for you,

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Speaker 5: get you the revenge that you've been seeking.

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Speaker 3: Is that way you're looking for or do you think

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Speaker 4: I mean, can I ask for both? I kind of

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Speaker 5: With not a lot of relationships go that way, but

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Speaker 5: we'll try to work our master, Jeff, don't be too

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Speaker 2: Take a liking to you here.

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Speaker 5: It's going to be a really weird ending when we

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Speaker 5: come back, and we're going to call a before you

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Speaker 5: try to get you your second date update revenge style hold.

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Speaker 2: On second date update.

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Speaker 5: Never in the history of this show have I heard

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Speaker 5: a tragic breakup story and said.

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Speaker 2: Gosh, I wish that would have been me.

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Speaker 5: My god, but it happened today because our listener David

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Speaker 5: was on a date with a woman named Ava. They

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Speaker 5: found out he was cheating on me, I made him

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously the men from the in the room learn

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Speaker 3: their lessons too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Begging to cheat.

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Speaker 5: For some reason, that got into David's head, so he's

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Speaker 5: been purposely trying to annoy Ava so that he can

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Speaker 3: That didn't really work though, No, it's.

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Speaker 5: Been kind of backfiring, and that remember was an exit

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Speaker 5: ye a while, totally different situation that's what's brought him here.

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Speaker 2: Oh, David, is your head at a lot of.

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Speaker 5: People texting and O David, Yeah, you guys, I screwed up.

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Speaker 1: I have a question though, like, are you wanting to

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Speaker 1: the dates or or you wanting her not to know

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Speaker 1: that was on purpose?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean I'm willing to if it just kind

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Speaker 1: That makes sense, Like if she says, well, I'm not

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're about to call her here.

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Speaker 2: To her, try and be playful with her because it's

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Speaker 5: Funny thing that's happened this whole way that this was

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't usually give advice to our listeners here,

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi, is this Eva?

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Speaker 6: Yes, this is who's sticking.

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Speaker 5: Hey, this is jeff I'm on a radio show called

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the whole shows here in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Ah. Hi, guys, get.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we got it from a guy who listens to

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Speaker 5: our show. We've been very eager to talk to you

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Speaker 3: Two dates in fact.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, double yeah, who is it?

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Speaker 2: It's a guy named David and so.

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Speaker 3: God, oh what do you mean? Oh God, you're not

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Speaker 3: calling him back on purpose?

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Speaker 6: Obviously, no response is a response guy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, that's interesting. Why why would you have such

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Speaker 6: I can't believe you guys are calling.

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Speaker 2: Me about this.

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Speaker 5: Well, he asked us to call you because he's a

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm like new to the dating scene, and I'm

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Speaker 6: So why do I have to be locked in on

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Speaker 4: Of him a lot?

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Speaker 2: So you were scared you were going to like him

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Speaker 3: She just said that she's not a big fan of.

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Speaker 2: And it's totally fair for you to feel that way. Ava.

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Speaker 2: We don't judge you on that at all.

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Speaker 5: But if I told you that David has been dating

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Speaker 2: Like he messed up, Oh you're okay, you could.

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Speaker 5: Probably agree with me that everybody deserves a second chance.

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Speaker 3: What what she says? What everybody? A bold state?

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Speaker 1: Jefs really on a advice kick today.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's exactly going on. We don't even

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Speaker 5: I one hundred percent agree with you, Brooke. And the

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Speaker 3: The perfect person to tell me you know how she.

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Speaker 2: Feels, does Brook? You don't understand how you've been married

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Speaker 2: for too long?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: That you're listening?

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Speaker 2: No, it's not about healthy communication.

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Speaker 5: It's about David explaining what's going on because he had

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Speaker 5: I neednation. But he's on the other line right now

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Speaker 3: Listening to what. I'm not sure because she hasn't said anything.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if we want her to share anymore.

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Speaker 2: But David, David, are you there?

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Speaker 4: You head?

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Speaker 6: What is happening right now? Like? Why are you doing this?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I'm doing it to get under your skin? Aren't you

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Speaker 4: mad at me?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I kind of am, but also like why.

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Speaker 4: Oh gosh, I bet you want to get back at me.

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Speaker 2: Huh.

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Speaker 4: You should probably have me over for dinner tonight. No,

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Speaker 4: because I don't want to.

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Speaker 6: Have anything to do with you. I didn't even like

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Speaker 4: Well you're right, I am that guy, and you need

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Speaker 4: to teach me a lesson now.

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Speaker 3: It's funny.

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Speaker 2: You doesn't pick up any signs.

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Speaker 3: I mean, David, are you trying to be funny right now?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? That could be.

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Speaker 2: He's just being playful, like what chatch Pt said to do.

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Speaker 3: It's icky.

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Speaker 2: Well that's a good.

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Speaker 4: David.

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Speaker 2: You're doing great.

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Speaker 3: Keep going, David, be yourself. Yeah, I fear this is him.

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Speaker 2: That the word was the first day. Okay, David, Clearly

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Speaker 4: Okay, you know that story you told me about your

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Speaker 4: to get back at him, you made him the best

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, oh my god, are you serious right now?

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Speaker 6: Because wait, you thought that was going to happen to you?

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Speaker 4: I mean, it would it make you.

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Speaker 6: Mad if I said, yes, off, I dated that guy

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Speaker 6: for a year and I would never do that again.

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Speaker 1: You're saying that you regret that revenge move that wasn't

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Speaker 1: really of course, I help the guys out there probably

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Speaker 1: mean you know, it's like you didn't deserve that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we were all like, dude, you gave him a treat.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the guy in the room definitely.

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Speaker 2: Yeah the text. Are you hearing her?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? And I didn't know that.

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Speaker 6: Well now you do?

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Speaker 1: Ok, all right and show Yeah, David, you need to

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Speaker 4: Okay, then I probably should tell you, Like, after you

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Speaker 4: told me that story, I was doing things to bug

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Speaker 6: Are you like the biggest idiot ever?

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Speaker 4: And I kind of feel like an idiot? Now?

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, So hold on, is that why you

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Speaker 6: kept stealing my fries even though you had a plate

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Speaker 3: What you had your own? I'm gonna take a big

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Speaker 2: David, is there anything that you want to say to

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Speaker 4: Listen. I'm just I'm just telling you I am a

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Speaker 6: No you're not. You stole my fries and then you

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Speaker 6: were just rude to me all night.

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Speaker 3: I mean, actions kind of speak louder than words. Right now,

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Speaker 3: you'd have to, like, but that wasn't a real hand

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Speaker 3: I mean, you'd have to have Ava give you another

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh, you mean like if she wanted to, you know,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's not happening.

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Speaker 3: Do you learn nothing.

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Speaker 4: It's just when you told me that story, it kind

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Speaker 4: Like it's kind of your fault for describing it. The

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Speaker 6: Oh wow, in my fault that I was telling you

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Speaker 2: Not happening. It was just a story. And I will

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Speaker 5: Before we had you two together, he sounded very regretful.

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Speaker 3: So why isn't he sounding regretful right now? I've had

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Speaker 6: No, he's an idiot.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I'm saying it.

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Speaker 5: He admits that, he admits that he's an idiot, and

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Speaker 5: you should be willing to give him maybe one more chance,

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Speaker 5: and will even offer to pay for the next day.

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Speaker 2: It'll be on us if you say yes.

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Speaker 6: Oh nah, I'll pass. Yeah, this entire conversation, it's like

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Speaker 3: You know how many people say that after coming on

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Speaker 5: She didn't lose enough brain cells to say yes to

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Speaker 5: another date. So I'm sorry, David. Right, your strategy didn't work.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, I appreciate it, all right, David, just

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Speaker 4: I will and uh and aba. If you're thinking about this,

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Speaker 6: Oh, trust me, I won't be thinking about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Is it just a blanket statement that people should never

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Speaker 5: talk about their exes on a first date? Ever, sometimes

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Speaker 5: people are like, Yeah, my ex suck, My X suck.

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Speaker 2: When you bought.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this gives another reason as to why

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Usually nothing good will come out of it, even if

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Speaker 2: Is super juicy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yes, it's good for us, but not great

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Speaker 3: Oh this guy, he couldn't let it go.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, man, like he invented this whole scene in his head,

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Speaker 5: and it's like it's gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: It's like you're inventing this imagining.

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Speaker 3: It's not you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's all started with x's what's a good

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Speaker 5: subject to talk about on a first date?

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Speaker 2: Brooke?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: All of the second date podcasts that you totally binge wow,

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Speaker 3: look at her ready Spotify?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, send them a more horror dating story.

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Speaker 3: Or the YouTube videos you watched at Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, they're up on Apple, Spotify, wherever you get

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Speaker 5: your podcast, You're Gonna get in here, you can get

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Speaker 5: revenge bang so hard.

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Speaker 2: After that, while listening to Maybe a Second Day, what

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Speaker 2: you Need to Do. Let's find them online at Broken

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Speaker 2: Jeffery