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Speaker 1: but we're back. We got a brand new episode for

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Speaker 1: you today. I mean, we can't say, but we totally

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Speaker 1: weren't at Taylor and Travis's wedding. That's why we didn't

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Speaker 1: last weekend. That would be the most amazing ever found

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, Adam Sandler was the officiat and he

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Speaker 2: did a song, very song that he performs, you.

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Speaker 3: Like, Travis's favorite.

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Speaker 1: I hope we get like more inside looks at it.

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Speaker 1: You know it's going to be a movie that they

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Speaker 1: She's doing that all the time. Yeah, all right, all right,

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Speaker 1: enough about Taylor and Travis. Let's go into some messy relationships.

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Speaker 1: That's more our wheelhouse. All right, Your second episode, brand new,

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Speaker 3: Brooken Free in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Second date updates.

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Speaker 3: When entering a gas station convenience store, what's the number

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Speaker 3: one rule you should have if you're a somewhat normal person.

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Speaker 1: Don't take your shoes off, Don't make eye contact.

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Speaker 3: Jose's on to something. Experts say, don't look at anyone.

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Speaker 3: Don't talk to anyone. If you do, there's a sixty

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Speaker 1: Oh wait a minute, I tell you everybody when I

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Speaker 1: go into convenience stoy, Hey, you're the sketchy one broke. Oh,

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Speaker 3: It's weird. You just gotta go in, grab your slim jim,

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Speaker 3: one of our listeners, Andre, either didn't know about that

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Speaker 1: That I'm curious.

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Speaker 3: I want to know how that happened. Andre, Welcome to

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Speaker 4: Hey, yeah, I was actually looking for someone to rob, so.

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe you stole her heart.

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Speaker 5: That I knew someone was going to say it someone's

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Speaker 3: Anyway, what happened in the convenience store? How did you

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Speaker 4: I was walking out, she was walking in. It was

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Speaker 1: You know, okay, I don't know what look in that

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Speaker 3: You're flirty, like smile or whatever or it's like, get

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Speaker 3: Yeah you tell us, you tell us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So like she smiled and then she said good luck,

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Speaker 4: and I didn't know what she was talking about. I

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Speaker 3: Okay, nice of her to notice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I was like, hey, maybe if you tap it,

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Speaker 3: Everybody else touch my ticket for good luck. I mean

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Speaker 4: It was my only shot, and I know it's corny,

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Speaker 4: And that's where it happens.

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Speaker 4: At the time, I didn't know she was just going

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Speaker 4: I made any excuse to get out of there. I

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Speaker 1: You bailed early and you went over to her house

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Speaker 4: There's just issues with transportation, and like I had to

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Speaker 3: God, figure it out. It's a really bad one. Alexis

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Speaker 1: How did you let her know the second time that

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Speaker 1: After You're not reliable. Now you know that's the problem

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Speaker 1: Well, he sounds like a nice guy, and it's good

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Speaker 1: Have to promise to like not try to change plans

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Speaker 3: And before we call this woman, do we have her name?

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Speaker 5: Kim?

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Speaker 3: Kim Kim Okay. I feel like this is gonna be

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Speaker 3: the moment that all of your bad luck finally turns around.

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Speaker 1: Scratcher.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna help or at least, if not a

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Speaker 3: Actually, well, maybe should do better analogies next time when

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Speaker 3: we come back and do our second date update right after.

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Speaker 1: This Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update if.

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Speaker 3: You're just joining us, Andre's first date with Kim was

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Speaker 3: a series of almost but not quite. He almost made

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Speaker 3: He's just having that kind of luck lately. But hopefully

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm lucky.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Brook, you want to tap it for good luck?

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Speaker 1: Dude, I am the worst. If there is a fifty

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Speaker 3: Okay, Alexis do you want to tap it?

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Speaker 6: Why not?

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Speaker 3: Okay, We're gonna here and that Andre, We're all tapping

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Speaker 4: I feel lucky right now.

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Speaker 1: I love that you think our show is the one

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Speaker 3: I mean, at this point, she's not responding to him,

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Speaker 1: I want you guys to go out again, I really do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll just go out right.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's true.

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Speaker 3: That's right for the first time. So let's see if

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Speaker 6: Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Kim?

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Speaker 3: This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 3: the Morning.

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Speaker 1: We are so thankful you.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Kim.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Hi, as a little over.

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Speaker 3: We're all very eager to talk to you because we've

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Speaker 3: heard a lot about you from one of our listeners,

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Speaker 3: a guy named Andre that you were supposed to go

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Speaker 5: Sorry, this is drawing me all off. It's throwing you

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Speaker 5: we have the radio is calling me about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no. My voice does have that sort of

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Speaker 1: I think it was a good thing, Jeff.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well this is a different situation. Yeah, we're still

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Speaker 1: Can we just say, like he told us about the

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Speaker 1: Like this just doesn't happen very often that you run

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, usually you get ropped at those gas stations

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Speaker 3: by those dudes. But he just had you tap his ticket.

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Speaker 3: Wait did you pickpocket you? We didn't ask, that's fair point.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. It was kind of flirty, fun, I

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Speaker 5: Oh? Absolutely, that would be an understatement.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but listen, he did say that you gave

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Speaker 5: So it didn't make me very happy, but hey, I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, why no, lie, that.

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Speaker 5: Guy called me from the liquor store three or four times.

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Speaker 5: Why what about pink? Should it be California? Maybe a

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Speaker 1: It's like a gas station, I don't think so you.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, it's like his indecide. This almost shows weakness

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's okay. So it's in decisiveness. Definitely turned you

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Speaker 3: So, but I don't know, Andre, are you there, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean I don't think I was being that indecisive,

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Speaker 5: Okay, kind of doing it, dude, Andre, you're doing it

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Speaker 1: You're literally all over the place.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I'm nervous.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I can understand, like when you want

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Speaker 1: It's a it's a positive way to spin it, for sure.

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Speaker 4: I see what you guys are saying.

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Speaker 4: I can definitely come across that way. But on the

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Speaker 3: So, I don't know, you don't we make some good points,

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Speaker 4: I don't know yeah, basically all right.

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Speaker 1: I mean you got to prove to her that you

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Speaker 3: Andre, go ahead, talk to Kim decisively.

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Speaker 4: I would like to go out with you again. We

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, you don't want to figure it out,

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Speaker 4: But like, seriously, I'll be a gentleman. We can go

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Speaker 5: I still don't think that you're really grasping where I'm

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Speaker 5: Do not recognize.

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Speaker 1: That that's right?

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Speaker 1: It's more like under what happened to the guy at

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Kim just wants gas station vibes. Can you get

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Speaker 4: When that happened, I didn't have time to think. It

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Speaker 1: I think this was just saying yes, thank you. I mean,

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Speaker 3: So let's practice right now. Do you want to go

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Speaker 3: on another date with Kim? We paid for it? Yes, perfect,

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Speaker 1: He knows what the problem is, right, and I think

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Speaker 4: I could improve. I'm hoping I do. I'm just really

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Speaker 3: What you right now trying. We need a yes or no.

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Speaker 3: Now you're being indecisive.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm gonna have to pash.

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Speaker 3: But maybe no, maybe I'm not in decisive.

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Speaker 5: I'm very very sure.

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Speaker 3: Andre, dude, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: What do I do with this bottle of wine that's

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Speaker 1: Then you go back to a gas station. You find

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Speaker 1: another attractive, you're ready.

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Speaker 3: Tell her to tap it? Yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: We know that guy has a job, but we never

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about it?

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Speaker 3: What do you think you should do? Yeah? That indecisiveness

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just like I wanted to be more of a

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Speaker 1: because my husband gets into those things too, where he's like,

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Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't want to manage it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Matter what he does. We know it's a cross town

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Speaker 3: and it was a big issue. Yeah, it hurt him. Yeah,

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