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Speaker 1: Okay, so today, let's get into last night's happenings on

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Speaker 1: Jones season. What did you think?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, so I think it was a very

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Speaker 2: emotional night. There was a lot of sharing, like when

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Speaker 2: people opened up about what they went through. Pescual Pascal,

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Speaker 2: what a story.

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Speaker 3: I felt so bit. I liked him even more.

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Speaker 2: I really do what he went through, and he was

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Speaker 2: determined to make something out of himself. The cardboard in

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Speaker 2: the shoe that was worn out that his dad did.

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Speaker 1: So you know that I've kind of made some jokes

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Speaker 1: about Pascal and his cooking and cleaning and his Gucci

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Speaker 1: and Bluevaton, but I will say that gave it a

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Speaker 1: little context last night that you know, he had he

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Speaker 1: had had a rough time of it. I loved their

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Speaker 1: one on one at the Paris Hotel. That was super fun,

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Speaker 1: dressing up.

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Speaker 3: And playing dressed up.

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Speaker 2: They were so cute, and I think she kissed him

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Speaker 2: a little better than most.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking it was more of a peck.

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Speaker 2: But she does a lot of pecks. But I think

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Speaker 2: she let him kiss her a little bit. But yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: so what if I do like?

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Speaker 1: I do? Like how he said, don't judge by the cover.

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Speaker 1: You have to read the story. And I will say

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Speaker 1: his story is absolutely riveting, so as many of the

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Speaker 1: other guys.

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Speaker 2: My Charles Charles, Charles Charles, he's a new man. It

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Speaker 2: was so sad hearing him about his wife's passing, and

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Speaker 2: Joan got emotional with him. He is so adorable. I

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Speaker 2: just I'm glad that he's he's coming about if you will,

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Speaker 2: like accepting And he blamed himself for a long time,

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Speaker 2: and then he realized.

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Speaker 3: That it was in him.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that was because of a language

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Speaker 2: thing or why he felt that way, but Joan was

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Speaker 2: reassuring that. I'm so happy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was I have to say, before we go

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Speaker 1: through any of the other guys, you and I are both

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Speaker 1: very good friends with Joan, and I have to say

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Speaker 1: she is making us golden women, at least me extremely proud.

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Speaker 1: She is so kind. I keep texting her. She is

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Speaker 1: so kind to these guys. She listens to them, She

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Speaker 1: genuinely cares about So, yeah you, Joan.

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Speaker 3: But the day last night, I said this was hard

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Speaker 3: to watch.

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Speaker 2: It was extremely emotional, and she agreed, yeah, it was hard,

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Speaker 2: and coming about not being sure. I'm sorry Kathy not

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Speaker 2: being sure if she was ready to open herself up.

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Speaker 3: And she has said that to us, she's not replacing

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Speaker 3: her husband.

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Speaker 2: She'll always remember Chalk had a lot to say there.

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Speaker 1: Right, But wait, I thought when Chalk when they were talking.

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Speaker 1: Of course, to me, Chalk is a front runner, if

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Speaker 1: not the guy, I mean that their their their intimate

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Speaker 1: moments are just so definable and clear to me. But

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Speaker 1: I will say, Joan, when when we have children, when

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Speaker 1: you know we had our kids, we had our first kid,

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Speaker 1: and we couldn't imagine how much we love that child,

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Speaker 1: and could we ever love another child? I think, Joan,

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Speaker 1: it's so clear that she'll never forget John, that her

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Speaker 1: heart is just expanding to bring in a new life.

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Speaker 1: So I just love that.

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Speaker 2: Like you, Kathy, if you were to meet somebody, you'd

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Speaker 2: never try to replace your husband. He will always take

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Speaker 2: a piece of your mind, your heart, your soul, you know,

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Speaker 2: but you can move on and accept some more love.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if I agree, I agree wholeheartedly. Theball were so bruised.

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Speaker 1: I mean, did you see them kick holding their thighs

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Speaker 1: And I just thought, who is it? Chalk said, we're

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Speaker 1: playing like we're you know, young kids again, but so fun.

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Speaker 1: I wish we had got to play kickball. I love sport.

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Speaker 2: Look when I hit the lady in the chest trying

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Speaker 2: to play pickleball, that was a lot.

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Speaker 4: And what about I am not going to lose? Jordan

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Speaker 4: was like he was playing because they play. When they

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Speaker 4: at that date. What about Kim writing the song for

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Speaker 4: That just broke my heart.

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Speaker 1: But so I was gonna say, guy stepped up and

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Speaker 1: with the man. That was his song. No, why do

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Speaker 1: you want the whole crew to do it?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: I just think he was looking for camaraderie. I thought

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Speaker 1: it was such a sweet thing, and it was sad

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Speaker 1: when he went home. But wait, the I think the

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Speaker 1: most poignant are. One of the most poignant parts for

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Speaker 1: me last night was Jonathan when he was talking about

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Speaker 1: packing his suitcase to go home, you know, in case

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Speaker 1: sent home, and he said it just reminded him of

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Speaker 1: I'm not enough. I wasn't enough. I'm not sure I'm enough.

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Speaker 1: And I just thought, you know, that is so revealing

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Speaker 1: that this handsome, athletic guy still was so worried about

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Speaker 1: just amazing.

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Speaker 2: How about how John came back and said, you're on

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Speaker 2: a one on one you know you're enough. I chose

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Speaker 2: you to go that never ever feel that way again.

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Speaker 3: That was beautiful?

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Speaker 1: Was that beautiful? That's what I'm saying. Joan is so

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Speaker 1: in tune with these guys, and obviously she can only

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Speaker 1: pick one, but she's just so genuine with all these guys.

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Speaker 1: I was so so.

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Speaker 2: You know what else that I really love what Jonathan

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Speaker 2: that Jonathan said, and I see that tattoo on his

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Speaker 2: chest when he talked about his heritage.

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Speaker 1: What about Joan? What about Joan with her mom being sick?

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Speaker 1: I just thought, you know your focus? How do you focus?

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Speaker 1: I mean her mom is like ninety two or ninety four.

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Speaker 1: And I just thought, again.

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Speaker 2: How premitted as her on our show was out of

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Speaker 2: troubles with her daughter, and that emotional tear if you will,

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Speaker 2: she's worried about her mom.

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Speaker 3: It was a tough night for her. It really was

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Speaker 3: the other thing it was.

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Speaker 1: It was the other thing I loved was Charles saying,

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Speaker 1: don't pressure yourself, let your heart to take time.

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Speaker 3: I'll still be here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was so sweet and that Gary wait a

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Speaker 2: minute before Gary Chuck, remember he said can I talk

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Speaker 2: to you? And he took her outside and he's like,

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Speaker 2: I'm always here if you want to talk. But wait,

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Speaker 2: remember what she made the comment that she made after that,

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Speaker 2: Not only how safe that she felt, but he is

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Speaker 2: a lot like.

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Speaker 1: John exactly at John And have you noticed it looks

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Speaker 1: like he leaves next week? So I'm a lot concern.

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Speaker 1: But we all know Bachelor Nation. You know, he leaves,

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Speaker 1: goes around the block, and comes back. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: guessing this is not his swan song on this show.

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Speaker 2: Or he shows up right before the overnights or something,

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Speaker 2: you know, some ton of yes, there is going.

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Speaker 1: To be uh, there's gonna be something. Okay, now we

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Speaker 1: have to talk about Gary. Gary. Let me say to you.

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Speaker 1: When Gary said, you know that, have you considered the

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Speaker 1: possibility that your guy is not here? I thought I

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Speaker 1: was very surprised. Honestly, that reminded me sort of of

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Speaker 1: Leslie telling when she was in wherever they were on

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Speaker 1: was a Joey season.

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Speaker 3: On Joey's in Mexico. We were in Mexico, and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like I wanted, I want Joan, and

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Speaker 1: I wanted Joey's girls, and of course he's happily in

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Speaker 1: love with Kelsey.

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Speaker 3: But absolutely you want to embrace.

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Speaker 1: You want to embrace, and you hope that these people

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Speaker 1: know what's on the line, and I think they do

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Speaker 1: what clearly Joan does. And I just wish Gary had said,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I hope the love of your life

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Speaker 3: I support you, And do you think maybe he's not?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just casting down in her mind. So Gary,

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Speaker 1: I love you, but I I think that was phra

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Speaker 1: rephrase that carry work it out. And then what about Joan?

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Speaker 1: At the Rose ceremony when the guys were going home,

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Speaker 1: she was hugging them, saying it it's not you. I

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Speaker 1: made connections with all of you. I think it's hard

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Speaker 1: enough to send people home. I'm guessing I've never had

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Speaker 1: to do it.

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Speaker 2: But no, but we were one of them getting sent

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Speaker 2: right like that feeling like waiting for the name to

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Speaker 2: be called. It's you're so anxious and you're guessing. I mean,

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Speaker 2: you're hoping, but you don't know what's going to happen.

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Speaker 1: But when when she said goodbye to them, she hugged

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Speaker 1: she really is. I'm just just so excited for her,

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Speaker 1: and she was so Wait who went home? Kim c

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Speaker 2: How about the football guy Eric Dickerson and Andre Reid?

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Speaker 3: Hello, I mean there's some big shots.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't you have liked to see in

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Speaker 1: a flag football game?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I didn't know what they were going to do.

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Speaker 3: And then they ended up doing the kickball.

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Speaker 3: I mean, all sports are fun, but it's pretty exciting.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty exciting. You know, those guys were thrilled to

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Speaker 2: And how about what Joan said, don't hurt my boyfriends.

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Speaker 3: I heard that loud and clear. That was adorable.

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Speaker 1: Yeah know, It's just I think these guys are genuinely

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Speaker 1: having a good time. They're generally some of them are

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Speaker 1: really making strong connections with Joan, and I truly believe

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Speaker 1: we're three weeks in this process is working for Joan,

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Speaker 1: and I think I still hold out the Chalk as

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Speaker 1: the front runner just because of the way they interact

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Speaker 1: with each other. But you know, she's with Jordan guys.

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Speaker 1: You know, you can see that she's making some connections

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Speaker 2: Hasn't had a one on one with guy yet. No,

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Speaker 2: I think she's probably My guess would be that she

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Speaker 2: will give him a one on one time since she'd

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Speaker 2: like to get to know more.

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Speaker 3: Because Kathy, you know as well as I do those.

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Speaker 2: Three minute times with somebody.

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Speaker 3: You know what else I noticed?

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Speaker 2: And tell me if you saw this or feel this,

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Speaker 2: I watch the conversation or listen to the conversation in

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Speaker 2: that short period of time, and I noticed, like with

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Speaker 2: Gary and I we were generic talking what's your schedule,

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Speaker 2: like what's your morning routine? And yet others go right

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Speaker 2: down deep and they tell their feelings and how they

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Speaker 3: And then others are real light, you know, And I think,

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Speaker 3: I think she truly has a great bunch of guys.

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Speaker 1: Anonymous rights Okay, Dear Susan and Kathy. I first want

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Speaker 3: Don't let this side now.

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Speaker 2: If you have to, like I said, as it advances,

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Speaker 1: I think both of you will get back last Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think you both would get even backlash. That's the hope.

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Speaker 1: Stay healthy, Anonymous, Stay healthy.

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Speaker 3: This is also from Anonymous. Hi, Susan and Kathy.

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Speaker 1: You know what Nike says, not her problem. Just do it,

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Speaker 1: You just do it. You had to talk with her,

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Speaker 3: Leave her alone, let her live her life. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: And if you're a real friend and it doesn't work out,

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Speaker 3: You just be there for But.

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Speaker 2: Maybe try to see something else on the better side

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Speaker 1: I mean, if she's happy, she's happy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, leave it alone.

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Speaker 1: I mean, and you know what do you think? I

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Speaker 2: Because maybe it could be yeah, a little bit that one.

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Speaker 1: It's big.

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Speaker 1: I just love your podcast. I love hearing your perspectives

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Speaker 1: me and I want your opinion. Please keep this anonymous. Well,

445
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 1: yes we will. Backstory. I've been divorced for six years.

446
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 1: During that time, I have dated, but nothing serious until now.

447
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,959
Speaker 1: I met someone online and have been with him for

448
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 1: almost two years. We're having a blast. I can truly

449
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 1: be my one hundred percent self with him. He is amazing.

450
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 1: I am so happy. I was picky because I finally

451
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: found my guy. The issue is I don't really have

452
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 1: the support of my sisters. It's strange. Actually they're happy

453
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: for me, but one recently told me they feel he

454
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: is trying to keep me in a bubble. They feel

455
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: we don't do enough with other people. But honestly, we're

456
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 1: just enjoying ourselves. We don't need to be with others

457
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,640
Speaker 1: to keep us happy. We do surprise dates, we travel,

458
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 1: We have adult children that are included in a lot

459
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 1: of our hobbies. I'm forty seven and he's fifty four,

460
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 1: and don't get me wrong, we love to hang out

461
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 1: with others, but we really enjoy our alone time too.

462
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: We do try to balance friends and being by ourselves.

463
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 1: To back it up, when I was single, I did

464
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: see my friends more and my sisters. But isn't this

465
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 1: what being with a partner is? Isn't this my end goal?

466
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 1: I feel as if my sisters enjoyed me being single

467
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 1: way more than me having someone. I was available to

468
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: them twenty four to seven as I didn't have anything

469
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: else going on. Some of my friends, who are very

470
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 1: happy for me and extremely sp or to say they

471
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: are jealous, but seriously jealous of their sister. I find

472
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 1: that odd. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

473
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 3: You keep enjoying your man.

474
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 2: Tell your sisters, you guys need to be happy for me.

475
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,719
Speaker 3: This is what my end all is, This is what

476
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 3: I want out of life. No, no, no, don't feel guilty, Anonymous.

477
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 1: I gotta say, Susan and I answer a lot of questions,

478
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 1: and I'm reading this going seriously. I'm saying the same

479
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 1: thing you're saying, like you could have written the answer.

480
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 1: I mean, they might be envious, they might be jealous.

481
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: I think you're right. They loved having you around twenty

482
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: four to seven. So you know what, get tell them

483
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: to get over it.

484
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 3: You are and by the way, guilty.

485
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 1: Susan and I are envos that you have found your

486
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: forever guy. Congrats to you, and we both wish you

487
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: a lifetime of happiness.

488
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 2: Absolutely gosh, I mean, she's so happy.

489
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: Mysters, they travel, they have adult children, they see, they

490
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: do surprise dates.

491
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 3: Anonymous, does he have an older brother?

492
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 1: A single older brother?

493
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 3: Love it all right?

494
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 1: Question number four Casey, Yes, I think his heurname is Cassie.

495
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:21,439
Speaker 3: Cassie Okay.

496
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 2: I just love your show and your upbeat, positive spin

497
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 2: on everything.

498
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 3: Your advice is always honest and spot on.

499
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,719
Speaker 2: I noticed that lately you have been focusing on dating

500
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 2: and relationship issues. But I have a question about grandparent parenting,

501
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,199
Speaker 2: and since I know you are both grandmothers, I was

502
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,639
Speaker 2: hoping you could help me. I have a very close

503
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 2: relationship with my children and see my six grandkids several

504
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 2: times a week. Each of my daughters has three children.

505
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 2: They range in age from three to eleven. I am

506
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Speaker 2: constantly babysitting as well as picking them up from school,

507
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 2: helping with homework, and help prepared dinner. I absolutely adore

508
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 2: my grandchildren and they give me so much love. Right back,

509
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 2: I was a very easy going mom and didn't have

510
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 2: a whole lot of rules. My kids were really well

511
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 2: behaved and I rarely yelled or punished them. The problem

512
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 2: is that my kids have lots of rules as parents,

513
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 2: and I am having a hard time enforcing them. My

514
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 2: children get upset with me because I tend to let

515
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: things go and don't reprimand the kids when they break

516
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 2: those rules. But I believe that the joy of being

517
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 2: a grandmom is not having to discipline. Have either of

518
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 2: you had this issue? Is there any advice you can

519
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 2: give me? Oh baby, do I feel you?

520
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 3: Yes?

521
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,239
Speaker 2: My daughter gets so mad at me, you know what,

522
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 2: and I get mad at her because they're always punished.

523
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,439
Speaker 2: They never have this, They never have their iPad like

524
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 2: my goodness. Yes, grandmoms are post to spoil kids. However,

525
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 2: if they did something disrespectful I'm certain.

526
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,680
Speaker 3: You would reprimmend them. Am I right, cat, you agree.

527
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 1: You're gonna shocker talkers. I don't agree with you, I

528
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: partially agree with you. Here's the thing, my in law, Well,

529
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: i'll tell you why. I think it depends on how

530
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: you're spoiling. Spoiling them my kids, mine in laws. It

531
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: was if I said white, they said black, and if

532
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 1: I said black, they said white. In other words, they

533
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: would do exactly the opposite of what I wanted to

534
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: be contrary. Wait, so my I would say to my

535
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 1: in laws when they came over in my home, listen,

536
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: don't give the kids cookies at five o'clock, because, like

537
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: I'd be there, we're going to be eating soon. And

538
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: they were like, no, we get to spoil them. I

539
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: don't think that's right.

540
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 3: That's the difference.

541
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: Well, here's thing. If if the grandmother is taking the

542
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: kids to her house, then you know what she gets

543
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 1: to do. You get to do what you want to do. Cassie,

544
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: if you're if those kids are at your house. When

545
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: my kids went to my in law's house, they spoiled

546
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: and rotten, and I bit my tongue and just thought,

547
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: you know what, it's their grandparents are going to see

548
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: them for ten days and then we'll go back to

549
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: our rules. But if you're going over there and helping

550
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: them and they're complaining, you know what my advice to

551
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 1: you is, Cassie, stop being so available.

552
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 2: So that don't go the same as agreeing with me

553
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 2: though I mean, you said you don't agree.

554
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: Well, I said, it depends like I don't. I did

555
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: not like my in laws spoiling my kids, uh you know,

556
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: giving them literally cake, you know, an hour before dinner.

557
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: I please, And their answer always was, we're grandparents and

558
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: it's our right to spoil. And that's what Cassie's saying.

559
00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 1: So I'm saying, Cassie, reevaluate how you're spoiling them. It

560
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: just because you're the grandmother doesn't give you the right

561
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 1: to do everything that you want whenever you want. On

562
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: the other hand, if if you feel it's your right

563
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: and they're giving you a lot of flak, then all

564
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 1: you have to do is say can't do it today,

565
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: and one or two things will happen. They'll either find

566
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: a babysitter or they'll call you up and say, you

567
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: know what, we really don't care if they have cookies

568
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: five minutes before dinner. It's gonna go one way or

569
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: the other. I mean, do you agree or not?

570
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, when it comes to cookies before dinner, that's a

571
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 2: whole difference. She wasn't mentioning the food part. But I

572
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 2: get it because my daughter's rules and their punishments are

573
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 2: nothing like. I agree with it this time. But I

574
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 2: bite my tongue a lot and I still give it

575
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 2: into my grandchildren.

576
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 1: That's all. Yeah.

577
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 3: Well you know what, Oh, my favorite game's coming.

578
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: I can I'm so excited.

579
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 3: I want to veto this.

580
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: I love this game. All right, here we go. We're

581
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: gonna play more al quandary. You know the rules, Susan.

582
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: You're gonna guess what I would do, and then I'm

583
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: gonna guess what you would do, or say. I'm going

584
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: to get to started with the first one. Here we go.

585
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: You ready, let's have a little enthusiasm here. Okay, your

586
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: daughter has been really stressed out. Say you've been babysitting

587
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: more than usual. You accidentally cursed in front of your

588
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: grandchild and she ended up getting in trouble at school

589
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: for using that word. Your daughter comes to you really

590
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: upset and assumes it's her husband's fault. Do you fess

591
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,959
Speaker 1: up or keep quiet? Susan Knowles would burst out laughing

592
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: and say, have I read?

593
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 3: Is just stupid?

594
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 2: Next, I mean, seriously, of course we're gonna tell. You're

595
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 2: gonna tell though that was me. You're gonna go let

596
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 2: your son in law get blamed, are you?

597
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: Depends if he's been nice to me that week?

598
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 3: Oh my god?

599
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 2: Moving on, No, that was bad all right? You found

600
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 2: out that your child cheated exam without getting caught and

601
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 2: got a very high score. Now they've been accepted to

602
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 2: a very good law school that you're paying for.

603
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:10,239
Speaker 3: What do you do?

604
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 1: Can I answer this question? Yes, it's impossible to cheat

605
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: on the l SAT. I'm an educational consultant, so but

606
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 1: let's just pretend it is possible. It's not. You know

607
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: what I'd say, I'm so proud of you. I'm so

608
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: proud of you going to Harvard Law School. Congratulations, Because

609
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: you know what, that's one test of it's one predictor.

610
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: I mean whatever, I just broke the rule and I

611
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: gave the answer. But because that's I know what.

612
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 2: Every ladies and gentlemen, wait, make everyone aware of what

613
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 2: just took place.

614
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Speaker 3: Did you see and hear that, Susan, Kathy, zippit.

615
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: I'm not sipping it. Do you know what the el

616
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: sat is?

617
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 3: He broke the law, she broke the rules.

618
00:32:56,120 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 1: Let me just say that, this would be Kathy one

619
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: Susan one thousand and one. I think I'm still waiting to.

620
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 3: Make that point because she just got caught.

621
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 2: You recently got a new dog and absolutely loved it.

622
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 2: It's very well trained, except it doesn't do very well

623
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 2: around your young grandchildren, who play a little too aggressively.

624
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 2: Your daughter confronts you about this and asks you to

625
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 2: do something about the dog, since you often have to

626
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 2: babysit the kids at your house.

627
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: What do you do? What will you would do? I

628
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: let me think, I'm not sure if you would lock

629
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: up the dog or tell your daughter that she could

630
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: do one of the two. You'd either say I'll lock

631
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: up the dog, or you would say, listen, I've got

632
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: this dog. I can't you know. We're just gonna have

633
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: to well, your kids are gonna have to learn to

634
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: play nice.

635
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 3: Get my grandchildren and say this is what happens when

636
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 3: you do this.

637
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 1: Is that what you would do?

638
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, teach them.

639
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,959
Speaker 2: You can't do that in front of the dog, and

640
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 2: if the dog's really out of control, yes, I.

641
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:01,719
Speaker 3: Would lock it up.

642
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: But what do you think I would do?

643
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 3: You would probably put the dog away.

644
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: For the kids, I would do exactly what you would do.

645
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,359
Speaker 1: I would take them. I hate this game. I don't

646
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: know anything I would teach. I would but exactly the

647
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 1: same thing. I would teach them about the dog. And

648
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 1: then if if it was getting bad, I would you know,

649
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: I would lock up the dog. It's your grandkids, after all,

650
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: They're not replaceable.

651
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 3: Exactly.

652
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: Okay, Your close friend, roommate and her boyfriend begin having

653
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,439
Speaker 1: a disagreement as the three of you are hanging out.

654
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: Your friend is very clearly in the wrong, but is

655
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 1: standing her ground and refuses to apologize. The boyfriend, who

656
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: has also become a good friend to you, looks to

657
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 1: you for help. What do you do, Oh, Susan, this

658
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: is a no brainer for you. You are going to

659
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: call it out exactly how you see them.

660
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 3: Yes, ma'am, Okay, what am I going to do? I

661
00:34:57,960 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 3: think you would do the same.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is getting scary. We're agreen again.

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Speaker 3: Because these questions. You're at a concert.

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Speaker 1: It's wait a minute, it's because no, it's not because

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Speaker 1: of the questions. It's because you and I have such

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Speaker 1: high moral standard. Step.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm truthful. I wouldn't want to like embarrass or anything.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, hey yo, because I've done it. Next one, Oh,

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Speaker 2: you're at a concert for an artist you love. You're

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Speaker 2: having a blast until the group next to you starts

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Speaker 2: getting really rowdy, singing loudly, filming themselves with flash and

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Speaker 2: occasionally getting you in the background of the videos. Do

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Speaker 2: you confront them, try to focus on having a good time,

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Speaker 2: or try something else?

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Speaker 1: You are just going to join in and party with them?

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Speaker 1: Am I? Right?

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Speaker 3: It depends if they were pissing me off or something.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yo yo, But yeah, you're outside of a concert.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean that's what am I gonna make it?

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Speaker 3: Really? Why are you being a stick of a month

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Speaker 3: and you shouldn't go to concerts?

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Speaker 1: Wait? What am I going to do?

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Speaker 3: You would have been partying with them from the jump Street.

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Speaker 3: I mean, forget about I.

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Speaker 1: Would have been I would have been sliding into their.

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Speaker 3: Su post it.

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Speaker 2: I think Kathy and I would definitely be on these

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Speaker 2: people's videos on purpose, Like we would definitely jump in.

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Speaker 1: Oh for sure, we would jump in Oh my.

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Speaker 3: Gosh, thank god that game's over.

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Speaker 1: Oh come on, you did such a good job, Susan.

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Speaker 1: You're getting better all the time. Your moral standards. I

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Speaker 1: love it. Okay, well, I hate to break the news

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Speaker 1: to you, Susan, but this is going to do it

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Speaker 1: for this episode of Happy Hour. Thanks everybody for joining us.

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Speaker 1: We hope you've had as much fun as we've had.

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Speaker 3: I sure hope they do.

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Speaker 2: And don't forget submit some questions because look what we

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Speaker 2: do with them, and just submit them to Bachelornation dot

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Speaker 2: com slash Golden Hour. We really love to connect with

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Speaker 2: you guys and like to know what's going on in

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Speaker 2: your world and your mind and keeping our advice. I mean,

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Speaker 2: you could take it or leave it, it doesn't really matter,

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Speaker 2: but we love doing it.

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Speaker 1: Wait, I have an idea, Susan, before we sign off here,

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Speaker 1: how about if they send us their own moral quandaries?

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Speaker 1: What do you think we can like.

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Speaker 3: To send them?

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Speaker 1: All?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: We we love it. We just can't wait to see

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Speaker 1: you next time. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour

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Speaker 1: on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to podcasts

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Speaker 1: until next time. See you. Then, have a great day. Yeah,