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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject the

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Speaker 1: back seat and the Barbershop. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a

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Speaker 1: He's a co owner of a barbershop, and that's where

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Speaker 1: we met. That's where I met him. We've been seeing

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Speaker 1: each other for a few weeks and he's got long

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Speaker 1: work hours, so we have to have sex whenever and

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Speaker 1: wherever we can. The first time we were intimate, it

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Speaker 1: was magical. I made an appointment to get my lock shampoo,

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Speaker 1: and I had no idea it would be done by

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Speaker 1: a big, handsome man with magical fingers. Wow. We were

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Speaker 1: knew he was flirting because I'd never been asked to

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Speaker 1: remove my shirt to get my hair washed. I did it,

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Speaker 1: and I leaned back in the chair with my ample

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Speaker 1: bosom filling out of my black lace bra. He told

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Speaker 1: making it hard for him to work. He leaned against

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Speaker 1: me while he shampooed my hair, and I could feel

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Speaker 1: it pressed up on my arm. It was at eye level,

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Speaker 1: so as he shampooed my hair, I did what I

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Speaker 1: had to do. Since then, I've been going by his

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Speaker 1: shop a few days a week. When there are other

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Speaker 1: seat of his car. We're either in his barbershop or

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Speaker 1: on the back seat. I would love to stretch out

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Speaker 1: and thoroughly enjoy myself, but he's always got clients to

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Speaker 1: get back to. It's the quickest, most enjoyable sex I've

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Speaker 1: had in a long time. I try to arrange a

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Speaker 1: meetup for us in the past weekend. This past weekend

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Speaker 1: and he said he can't see me outside of work

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Speaker 1: hours because he's a family man. First, How can he

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Speaker 1: say this after all the kinky things he's done to me.

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Speaker 1: I offered to get us the hotel room, and he said, no.

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Speaker 1: Why is he putting limits on our affair? Why is

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Speaker 1: he putting limits on your affair? You haven't figured it

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Speaker 1: out yet. You're just the back seat girl. Okay, he's

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Speaker 1: not trying to have anything more than that with you.

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Speaker 1: You were too easy the first day in the barbershop.

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Speaker 1: You were doing too much. Then now you want to

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Speaker 1: stretch out and get comfortable and what make love. No,

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Speaker 1: he just wants to do you in the back seat

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Speaker 1: of his car and get back to his clients. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's it. You want to turn things up and have

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Speaker 1: a full blown fair or something with this guy, but

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Speaker 1: that's not happening. You're just some merry chick he's got

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Speaker 1: on the side. Stop trying to make this more than

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Speaker 1: what it is. It's not. He's not gonna get too

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Speaker 1: involved with you because he's a family man. First. That's

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Speaker 1: what he said. You don't mean anything to him. You're

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Speaker 1: not important to him. Isn't this obvious. He's not going

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Speaker 1: out of his way for you. He's not spending any

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Speaker 1: and he's not gonna take you anywhere. Nice, Well, where's

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Speaker 1: your husband? Anyway? While all this is going on, I

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Speaker 1: say to you, get your dignity back. Stop being the

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Speaker 1: backseat girl. Leave this man alone. He's going to end

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Speaker 1: it anyway because you're you're gonna become a problem to him.

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Speaker 1: You're catching feelings you want more than he's willing to give,

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Speaker 1: and that's not a good look for him, this married

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Speaker 1: man who puts his family first. Steve. It amazes me

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Speaker 1: how people send these letters in and they just start

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Speaker 1: typing like his natural the subject is the backseat and

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Speaker 1: the barbershop. Let me walk you through this unnatural natural.

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Speaker 1: Let dear Stephen Shelly. I'm a married woman in my

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Speaker 1: late forties. Okay, I have a boyfriend that's five years

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Speaker 1: younger than i am, and he's also married. You don't

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Speaker 1: see how this letter is justin took so many damn terms, yes,

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Speaker 1: and you know, just be typing like, well, okay, that's

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Speaker 1: just what's happening. You know. I'm in my late tharties.

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Speaker 1: I got a boyfriend that's five years younger than me,

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Speaker 1: and that's why I met him. We've been seeing each

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Speaker 1: other for a few weeks now and he's got long workout.

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Speaker 1: He owns a barbershop, he's the co owner. So we

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Speaker 1: have to have sets whenever and wherever we can. Right

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Speaker 1: down what you have to have sex? But you don't though, See,

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Speaker 1: you created this, and now you're telling us something before

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Speaker 1: you'd even told us how I jumped off. But I'm

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Speaker 1: wherever you can? The first time we were intimate, it

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Speaker 1: by big handsome man with magical fingers. We were only

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Speaker 1: turtlenecks so it wouldn't get wet. Now if he washing

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Speaker 1: your head or washing your neck, what if we had washing?

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Speaker 1: Are we neck washing right right? What we're doing? So

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Speaker 1: now he asked you to take your turtleneck also it

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Speaker 1: you ain't never been an ask to take your shirt

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Speaker 1: off get your head wash? I did it and leaned back.

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Speaker 1: Now you to lean back in the chair with your

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Speaker 1: ample bosom spilling out of my black lace bra. You

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Speaker 1: just design you just you just described a porno movie.

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Speaker 1: Wait what that's a poor barbershop. Barbershop is a portal movie.

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Speaker 1: Who haul is a portal movie. Hair washing is a

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Speaker 1: You got your big bosom spilling out of your black

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Speaker 1: lace bra. And then when we come back, I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you whatever. All right, hang on for part two of

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Speaker 1: Steve's response, coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's strawberry letters subject the back seat and the barbershop

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Speaker 1: will get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to Steve Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's by letter. The subject the back seat and

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Speaker 1: the barbershop. Well, he didn't married lady in her late

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Speaker 1: or he's got a boyfriend five years longer than her.

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Speaker 1: He married too. He's a call on the barbershop. She

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Speaker 1: went on there to get her lock shampoo, and she

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Speaker 1: didn't have no idea it was being done by a

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Speaker 1: big handsome man. He should call on her the shop

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Speaker 1: he get ready to do that, and then he tells

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Speaker 1: her to take off her turtleneck so it don't get wet.

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Speaker 1: She knew the dude was flirting. She took her turtleneck

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Speaker 1: off anyway, leaned back into shampoo boo shampoe leaned back

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Speaker 1: in the shampoo bowl, and her ample bosoms was sticking

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Speaker 1: out of her black lads bro. She knew he was flirting,

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Speaker 1: so I did it anyway. I didn't even tell him. Look,

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Speaker 1: we can do this without getting my turtle neckwear. Let

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Speaker 1: me roll, Let me tuck my turtleneck into my blouse.

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Speaker 1: You didn't do that. You took it off and leaned

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Speaker 1: back and let him have it. He told me his

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Speaker 1: all man in his breast was making it hard for

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Speaker 1: my arm. See all this is trouble. It was at

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Speaker 1: eye level. So as he shampooed my hair, idea, what

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Speaker 1: I had to do? What? Because it was at eye level,

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Speaker 1: you did what you had to do. Really, you know

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Speaker 1: how much stuff out of had at eye level that

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Speaker 1: I've had to avoid in my life. You know how

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Speaker 1: many women I meet does at eye level, your ass

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Speaker 1: gots to ignore you do stuff just cause it's at

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Speaker 1: eye level. Your answer is how the tricky is to

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Speaker 1: move it up to your eye level. You're sitting down

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Speaker 1: at the banquet all I got doing walk by a level.

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Speaker 1: Since then, I've been going by his shop a few

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Speaker 1: days a week. When now other customers inside the barbershop,

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Speaker 1: we go out to the back seat of his car.

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Speaker 1: We're either in the barbershop on the back seat. I

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Speaker 1: would love to stretch out and thoroughly enjoy myself, but

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Speaker 1: he's always got clients to get back to. It's the quickest,

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Speaker 1: most enjoyable sets I've had in a long time. I

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Speaker 1: tried to arrange a meet up this past week and

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Speaker 1: he said he can't see me outside of work hours.

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Speaker 1: What holway, what what are you going to do? I

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Speaker 1: can't see you outside of him. I'm a family man first.

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Speaker 1: How can he say this after all the kinky things

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Speaker 1: he's done to me. He done it till you're doing

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Speaker 1: work hours. He's done it till you in the barbershop,

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Speaker 1: in the chap in the shampoopo, and in the back

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Speaker 1: limits on our faire because you are in a limited

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Speaker 1: a fail How your start is how you finish. What

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Speaker 1: you demand is what you get. What you ask for us,

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Speaker 1: what we give your ask for it at the shampoopo,

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Speaker 1: we gave it. You come up there a few times

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Speaker 1: a week. You ain't gotta wash your locks a few

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Speaker 1: a few times a week to get washed, not your locks.

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Speaker 1: You come to get washed, and all the washing is

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Speaker 1: up down three four times a week. He don't want

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Speaker 1: no room with you. No, you ain't room worthy. Why

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Speaker 1: in back of that car. As soon as these people

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Speaker 1: get out of here, we're gonna be at this faceboat

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Speaker 1: you the faith you, the faceboat, barber shop, back seat chick.

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Speaker 1: You don't get No. You in your late forty you

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Speaker 1: knew better when you started. Now you aren't. Hen told

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Speaker 1: you I'm a family man. First. Yeah, you just came

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Speaker 1: up in here. This just happened. Appreciate it but that's

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Speaker 1: all this is. I don't even like you like that.

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Speaker 1: You just at work, you would this just man, this

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Speaker 1: just this just popped up out of nowhere. You're nothing

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Speaker 1: to be nothing else. Later quit asked like Shirley said,

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Speaker 1: you're not going to go to dinner, y'all, not gonna

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Speaker 1: take no long walks at the park, y'all, not sitting

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Speaker 1: on the park bench talking things out. He don't care

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Speaker 1: about what your dreams and visions. I don't care about

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Speaker 1: what did you talking about? You think what? He just

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Speaker 1: know you knicking you will do anything because it's at

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Speaker 1: eye level. Whoa high level, And I'm glad that ain't

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Speaker 1: mind ask you. It's at eye level. You know how

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Speaker 1: much trouble I being mess like everything level right right

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Speaker 1: right right right man. I'm on the zoom right now

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Speaker 1: with all my co workers all in that I level.

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Speaker 1: You'll see me sliding in their DMS and stuff. Come

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Speaker 1: on the hand, No, we eye level, every boy. You

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Speaker 1: lady lady gone somewhere what you writing? A husband? We

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Speaker 1: appreciate the letter though, because it wasn't Yes it was Steve.

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