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Speaker 1: I'm cheating on my husband with his mistress's husband. After

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Speaker 1: what happened next, things got even messier.

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Speaker 2: I actually love that little revenge, Like your husband cheats

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Speaker 2: on you, and so you go find that mistress, Go

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Speaker 2: find that mistress's husband and be like, hey, Boppy, you

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Speaker 2: know they're cheating on you and me, why don't we

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Speaker 2: cheat on them to make it even?

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Speaker 1: You know, you just got you gotta respect the game

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Speaker 1: a little bit. You're just doing a little couple story.

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Speaker 1: Hit the player. I hate the game spicy ooh, it's

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Speaker 1: about to get very spicy. I female thirty six and

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Speaker 1: my husband, male thirty eight have been together for ten

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Speaker 1: years too long, whole decade. Yeah, break it up.

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Speaker 2: Come on, you gonna start swinging or something. Divorce DeVos

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Speaker 2: that where's the divorce chance? Yeah, we need We saw

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Speaker 2: someone in the commons the other day. It's like divorce

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Speaker 2: chance start.

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Speaker 1: We really need a soundboard for like all of the

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Speaker 1: divorce chant would be a top contender. We have one

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Speaker 1: daughter who's female six. She's everything to me, and I

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Speaker 1: found out a year ago that my husband is sleeping

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Speaker 1: with his employee.

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Speaker 2: That is a workplace violation.

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Speaker 1: You know, HR not gonna like this one.

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Speaker 2: Unless it is with hr oh good, they love it

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Speaker 2: very much, loved, oh dear.

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Speaker 1: And she's female thirty how her husband, let's call him Jay,

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Speaker 1: male thirty five, contacted me about this. He was heartbroken

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Speaker 1: and he thought that I ought to know. Oh, it's tough.

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Speaker 1: He provided me with text messages and dates when they

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Speaker 1: had been in hotels together. I recognized my husband's style,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's got style apparently good gravy style, good gravy.

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Speaker 2: And he was just so smooth those texts.

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Speaker 1: So much style just risen the characters.

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Speaker 2: Was undeniable, lip bite emoji getting wet just reading these.

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Speaker 1: And I recognize the other woman. I have seen her

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Speaker 1: on multiple occasions. When I visited my husband at work,

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Speaker 1: she's always doated on my daughter. Oh, like get you

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Speaker 1: like like that of my husband. That is so gross.

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Speaker 1: I asked the guy who told me Jay what he

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Speaker 1: So I requested that we meet he agreed. What do

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Speaker 1: you want to do, jay Ooh good greed.

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Speaker 2: You feel like there might be some way that you

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Speaker 1: You plus me equals sweet sensual events, sexy juices, oh

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Speaker 1: sexy Jesus. I told him about my life and then

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Speaker 1: I'm currently not working after the pandemic.

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Speaker 2: I got nothing but time my hands. But I would

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Speaker 2: love your hands all over me.

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Speaker 1: My schedule is wide open.

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Speaker 2: As open as my legs are for that throbbing rot hard.

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Speaker 1: Scheduler. So let's find a time pencil me in. I

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Speaker 2: Years, studying so hard and law pouring over these pages.

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Speaker 1: If I divorce now, I will not be able to

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Speaker 1: my husband's custody as a primary provider. Yeah, that's bad.

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Speaker 2: Well, can't you get child support?

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Speaker 1: She can, but maybe maybe it's yeah, maybe maybe it's

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Speaker 1: I asked him if he could wait a few months,

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Speaker 1: and to my surprise, he agreed. Huh. I thanked him profusely,

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Speaker 2: like fake her months. Dude, I know I would not

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Speaker 1: You your interactions. It would just be like.

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Speaker 2: All and I'd be like, honey, how is work?

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Speaker 1: Did you stick your penis today? I mean your your proposals? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Did he bang it out? I mean rub one out?

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Speaker 2: I mean, have finished the project with Karen from work?

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Speaker 1: We kept in touch, however, he called me a few

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Speaker 1: other things other than our failed marriages, like how to

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Speaker 2: Ooh, you have a you know, staff and I have

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Speaker 1: Guess what I'm hiring. Afterwards, we started going for walks, coffee, movies,

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Speaker 2: And in the middle I thought about my cheating husband.

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Speaker 1: My cheating of a husband. For the last three to

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Speaker 1: We talk about everything else. So they're full on like dating.

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Speaker 1: They're like essentially like which is so wild because they're

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Speaker 2: Then they're just like, wait, I love you, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, God isn't Let's just watch this Netflix together and

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Speaker 1: They're like essentially they're like going on evolved. They're emotionally involved. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: going on all these romantic dates. Yeah, I kind of

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Speaker 1: I like how they're like, okay, let's say it, like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't think, Yeah, I don't, I don't think.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, maybe this is the pre bang. I love you.

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Speaker 1: That's a pretty that's a pretty strong I love you

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Speaker 2: Or it's like I love you now let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, now that we both like it, so

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Speaker 1: I deserve it now right right?

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Speaker 1: When he then explained himself, it just drove the point

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Speaker 2: It's kind of weirdly cute.

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Speaker 1: This is just the weirdest, cutest, like this is.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the rights are about to be sold to us.

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Speaker 1: He said that at first he wasn't sure why he

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Speaker 1: the pure definition my god. And that was exactly how

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Speaker 2: Oh, like, is it only like hot and sexy and

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Speaker 1: Almost like this is probably not the right usage of it,

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Speaker 2: Like they're kind of in this playing in this fantasy world.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So he just beamed at me and said he

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Speaker 2: That's cute.

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Speaker 1: That is cute.

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Speaker 2: This is a good rom comm story.

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Speaker 1: I know. I'm liking the new direction where yeah, he

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Speaker 2: What if he has a micro penis? Though, would you

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Speaker 1: Answer?

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Speaker 2: Answer, answer, be honest, he tell us, Okay, fam, let

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Speaker 1: It's just like, wow, I love it. I love it.

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Speaker 1: Kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: My goal now is to secure my job and leave

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Speaker 1: this marriage. Am I pathetic for wanting to give Jay

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Speaker 2: Nexts Oh God, is she gonna break it? I hope

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Speaker 2: she does. I want to see the fallout.

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Speaker 1: I felt so much sadness and pure horror building up

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Speaker 1: All of us? Yeah? This is such a insane like

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Speaker 2: Like my god, I'm so concerned. I'm like on the

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Speaker 1: The guilt that washed over me seeing my daughter's happy

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Speaker 2: Wow? Yeah, I'm pretty mad that there's there's no update

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Speaker 1: The part of that song where it's like the rest

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what poison would you pick?

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Speaker 1: I refuse to allow my dad to date his dead

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Speaker 1: But that's just not the case here. It's actually it

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Speaker 1: My mom passed away last year, so yeah, that's awful.

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Speaker 2: Damn perfect love life.

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Speaker 1: That's I know, coming from the kid as well. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm shedding a little tear. Seriously, look right there? Here, yeah, here,

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Speaker 2: here it come out.

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Speaker 1: We should we should go to like acting school to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, c G I tears. My dad said the same

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Speaker 2: what if he wants to, you know, do something strange

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Speaker 2: Oh really so so so.

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Speaker 1: However, despite all of this, my dad came to us

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Speaker 1: One? Hey, guys, not only do I want to date

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Speaker 2: I just want to date Robin. Now, Yeah, how I

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Speaker 1: Is that how it ended?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Robin is who he ended up with, And like

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Speaker 2: and then Robin is going to be like his new

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen the last episode of the Office. Actually

440
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:18,439
Speaker 1: I did find it, did I? So?

441
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 2: Did I ruin how I met your mother for you?

442
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? You did. But it's okay because yeah you did.

443
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 1: You had enough time, you know what I mean.

444
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,120
Speaker 2: I just save it the Statute of Limitations on spoiling

445
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 2: How I met your mother's.

446
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:34,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. So here's the thing. My aunt has been

447
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 1: helping us since my mom passed away. We've spent a

448
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 1: lot of time with her and our cousins. Yeah, I

449
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: spend a lot of time the cousins because of your

450
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:44,959
Speaker 1: like siblings.

451
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:48,640
Speaker 2: Like helping out bro he out with what. Let's just say,

452
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 2: those tissues were serving more than just tears, dude, this

453
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:57,879
Speaker 2: is the receptacles for those aunt handy hand jobs.

454
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,119
Speaker 1: We got different fluids, We.

455
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 2: Got different fluids who run more than.

456
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 1: Just tears dripping down her face. God, even I could

457
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 1: barely finish saying I'm like.

458
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 2: She definitely finish him.

459
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, Oh man, this is getting so weird, so

460
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,400
Speaker 1: so damn quickly. Now apparently her and my dad fell

461
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 1: in love and they want to be together. Obviously I

462
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 1: was furious and I told him that he couldn't do

463
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 1: that and that he was betraying mom. Ship. Heavy stuff.

464
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 2: We're starting. How do you respond to that.

465
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 1: For your own son?

466
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:43,360
Speaker 2: Godis feels so bad as the dad, and it's.

467
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 1: Like, of all the women in the world, all the.

468
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 2: Like make the sex better, dude.

469
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 1: This is this is just this is We are starting

470
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 1: on on such such a hot it's so hot right now,

471
00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 1: it's so hot. Now my brother agreed with me, but

472
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: our sister thinks it's okay somehow, and try to get

473
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 1: us to listen to dad's betrayal.

474
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:16,159
Speaker 2: Wow, Op's having none of this. Ship. He's like, no,

475
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 2: Dad has betrayed us, dude.

476
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: Dad promised Mom that he would not get with anyone else.

477
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:27,360
Speaker 2: No, not to lawyer you hear ope, but he said

478
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 2: he would never love anyone the same way.

479
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: So he yeah, yeah, he said he'd never love anyone

480
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,360
Speaker 1: else like he loved.

481
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 2: Her, like he loved her. Each relationship is different, Op,

482
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 2: he loves your aunt in a very different, but equally

483
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 2: scrumptious way.

484
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: That good, good catch. I did not. Yeah, I don't

485
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 1: even think about it, lawyered for real if it was

486
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: in in op defense. He's a fifteen year old, so.

487
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, grow up, OPI come on, grow up,

488
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:07,400
Speaker 2: fuck your aunt.

489
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. Plot twist. He grows up and also falls in

490
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: love with the aunt who leaves his dad for him.

491
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,199
Speaker 1: But that that's that would actually be bad because they

492
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: are actually really Yeah, that actually never stopped anyone on

493
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: read it before you know, you know, you know, if

494
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,360
Speaker 1: you know, you know now, if it was someone else

495
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: he found, then maybe I could forgive him. But it

496
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: was my mom's sister.

497
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 2: I mean to be fair again, you know, not not

498
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 2: that they have so much in common. Yeah, ro it's

499
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 2: basically like dating his.

500
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 1: Mind love your sister, You love your sister.

501
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, we have so much like you look like like

502
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 2: my dead wife.

503
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: You're related to my children.

504
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, of the women he could date, this

505
00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 2: is like the most like yeah, yeah, it's like it's

506
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 2: like literally he's just summen, summon the dead mom.

507
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: And man, this is some crazy stuff.

508
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: I wonder if you ever like compared the two. It's like,

509
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:14,360
Speaker 2: oh damn, like he literally care like banging in bed, like, oh,

510
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 2: you're so much better than there is.

511
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: Maybe he hasn't said that explicitly, but he has no choice.

512
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: But like your your brain will decide whether whether you.

513
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 2: At least the little little brain a little the.

514
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:31,919
Speaker 1: Little the lizard brain will will make that decision for you.

515
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: And here's the thing so bad, terrible. My mom would

516
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: have never accepted this.

517
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 2: I I'm sure she would not have accepted him dating. Yeah,

518
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 2: I mean, but like she's dead.

519
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 1: God, this is such a tough one. I'm very interested

520
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: to have the full debrief when when we when we

521
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:58,199
Speaker 1: get to the end here, I would never date my

522
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 1: sister's partner, it's just disgusting. I hope he's fifteen, Like

523
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: girls have cuties goodies? No not, girls don't have cooties

524
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 1: at fifteen anymore. Now it's a whole whole new oh,

525
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 1: whole new ball game. New you're grounded, nephew. Oh, I

526
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 1: hope you don't punish me anymore. It could happen.

527
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 2: Is this the aunt then that's grounding than you? And

528
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, you.

529
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: Can't ground me, aunt mommy, You're gonna have a whole

530
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: world of trouble exactly. Spank the aunt mom. That sounds

531
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: like that sounds like how like how how the hub

532
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: is like trying to get around to make like get

533
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 1: like a loophole for them to make more crazy ship

534
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: like that. Oh, that's what this story sounds. This is

535
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: fodder for your sister passed away. But I just can't

536
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 1: forget how much you look just like her.

537
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 2: Bomb I say, I was trying to do poor music,

538
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 2: but I ended up just singing the Seinfeld songs.

539
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: Bom Bom a lot of similarities. Now I think he

540
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: is betraying my mom in a horrible way. And what

541
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 1: about our cousins? Are they just gonna be our siblings now?

542
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: I think so step siblings, yeah, man, step sibling.

543
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all. That's a whole other series.

544
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: Because it's step sibling.

545
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: But they're rely but there, yes, stepsis siblings, bucks.

546
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 2: Stepsister, cousin, step cousin sister, no step step cousin brother.

547
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 1: I'm having hard with my I'm having a hard time

548
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 1: with my trigonometry. I can't figure out what angles to

549
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: put for the answer.

550
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 2: Do you think it's a cute?

551
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 1: It's all so wrong and weird. My dad tried to

552
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: talk to me about it, but he won't really listen,

553
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: and he thinks it's fine. If he really loved mom,

554
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: he would never do this. I told him he's not

555
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: my dad anymore, and I wow. And if he cares

556
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: more about doing the nasty then he does my own mother,

557
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: then I'm just refusing to talk to him anymore. Wow.

558
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 2: Oh geez, I'm curious, Like, how long has it been?

559
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: That's another really good question. Yeah, if this is.

560
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 2: Like three weeks, three weeks, she's in the ground and

561
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 2: then he's just plowing through the fields.

562
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: After the funeral, Son, there's something I need to tell you.

563
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 2: I've been boning your aunt for the last three years.

564
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 2: Good gravy if they were having three sumes.

565
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: Now, that is, you just made a insane scenario even

566
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 1: more insanity. He betrayed her in a horrible way, and like,

567
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: what about our cousins? Are they our siblings? Now? It's

568
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: all so weird and wrong. Dad. Dad tried to talk

569
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: to me about it, but he really won't listen and

570
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 1: thinks it's fine. If he really loved my mom, he

571
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: would never do this. And I told him that he's

572
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 1: not my dad anymore. Oh and if he cares, and

573
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 1: if he cares more about doing the nasty than my

574
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: own mother, then I'm refusing to talk to him anymore.

575
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 2: Damn. That's some that's laying down the law, dude. I'm

576
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 2: just wondering, though, like, how long has it been since

577
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 2: Mama died?

578
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: That is? That is the question, because I mean, I

579
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: can't imagine it's been very long. I have a feeling

580
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: maybe a few months, is my is my guest?

581
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 2: A few months pretty quick too?

582
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: Oh? Yes, it is for the for the I mean,

583
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: even for someone who's not your wife's sister, that's still

584
00:30:59,080 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: kind of soon.

585
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 2: But I'd say six months is six months is okay?

586
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: You know?

587
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm still early but six six months is like,

588
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 2: all right, you know.

589
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: It's probably time to start, at least start, Like, how

590
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: do I, you know, move on with my life? And

591
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: if you want to, I think it's fair to want

592
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: a partner. That's what you want and you know, but yeah,

593
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, it's tough. Yikes, yikes. Now at this point,

594
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: I want nothing to do with him, and I don't

595
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 1: care if it's hurt him. He deserves it.

596
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 2: Hear that da vindictive as heck?

597
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: Dude. Honestly, OPI is coming on pretty pretty dang strong

598
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: over here, but not as strong as Opie's dad did

599
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: on his odd.

600
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 2: Coming on strong, coming on strong, coming on his once thong.

601
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: That far? Okay, Op, he doesn't doesn't let up here.

602
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: I think it's disgusting what he's doing. He said that

603
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: like three times. Sorry. I don't understand how he could

604
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 1: just not care about Mom anymore. She would hate this

605
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: if she knew about it. But my sister keeps trying

606
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: to tell me that I'm being unfair and selfish and

607
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: to give dad an aunt a chance on this. But

608
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: he made Mom a promise and there's no way breaking

609
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: it with her sister, right, bro OPI I think you're

610
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 1: you're you're going op is convinced. Dude, he he's going

611
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: super hard here. Now there's there's an edit. Dad is

612
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: allowed to date again. In my opinion, while I probably

613
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: won't be super happy, I would let him date someone new,

614
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: but dating my mom's sister is wrong.

615
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 2: I feel like it's better.

616
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: This. I think I think this is fifteen.

617
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:56,239
Speaker 2: So I want to know what are the commons saying. Oh,

618
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 2: I don't know what people are thinking. If Op's responding,

619
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 2: he responded to a comment yeah.

620
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: One of his responses was, I'm not saying my dad

621
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: has to be alone forever, but don't just get me

622
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: with my but don't just get with my mom's sister.

623
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: And yeah, my dad made that promise and she didn't

624
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: make him say it. I don't know how mom was

625
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: so strong about it. I know I wasn't. And yeah,

626
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: she would want him to be happy, but it's still

627
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,239
Speaker 1: her sister. I'd never forgive my sister if she did

628
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: that to me.

629
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 2: Damn.

630
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think he's teenager, very like, I mean,

631
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: his mom just died, like so many emotions like like

632
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: it'll probably take him a long time.

633
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 2: To Yeah, I want to know the comments right now,

634
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: all right? If your mom died, would you let your

635
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 2: dad marry your mom's sister? And how would you feel

636
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 2: about it?

637
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: Tell we we we really do need to know it,

638
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: really do.

639
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 2: Need and then report your findings to the Hub.

640
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: Yes, or or if if that's happened to you, please

641
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 1: share what happened? Yeah, please let us let now insane