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Speaker 1: All right, every one time. Now for today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationship, dayton works, sex, panting,

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Speaker 1: Letter and says uncle, don't do no introductions. It's on you,

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Speaker 1: unc subject. I make her week in the knees. Here

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Speaker 1: we go this Stephen Sheryley. I'm a thirty year old man.

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Speaker 1: I'm six feet tall. I weigh two hundred and two pounds.

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Speaker 1: I work out, eat right, take care of myself well.

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Speaker 1: In February, I met a beautiful woman that's a few

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Speaker 1: months younger than I am. She's five six and she

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Speaker 1: weighs three hundred and thirty pounds. I like what I like,

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Speaker 1: and that happens to be big girls. She's big and

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Speaker 1: soft in the right places. She's always fly and sexy.

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Speaker 1: She's everything I look for in a woman, smart, caring, intelligent,

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Speaker 1: hard working. There's one problem that I had with her,

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Speaker 1: and in the vast intimacy. I don't have a problem

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Speaker 1: with her size, but it's a problem when we're in

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Speaker 1: the bedroom. See, I tend to get wild and crazy

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Speaker 1: when we intimate. Huh, you know what I'm saying. But

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Speaker 1: she can't handle it because her lower backstars hurting, her

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Speaker 1: knees cramped up, or she gets a child horse in

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Speaker 1: her leg. She can't do but a few positions, and

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Speaker 1: then she started complaining. The other night, I thought she

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Speaker 1: was moaning because it was good to her, but then

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Speaker 1: she yelled out that her knees was killing her, and

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Speaker 1: she made me stop. Well. The next day, I invited

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Speaker 1: her to come to the gym with me to do

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Speaker 1: some squats to help her knees. I had no idea

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Speaker 1: that this would offend her because she immediately thought I

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Speaker 1: was complaining about her weight. I am serious about being

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Speaker 1: with this woman, but she has to be able to

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Speaker 1: please me in the bedroom. I would love for her

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Speaker 1: to get in shape and maybe get some ice at

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Speaker 1: hot if it'll help her when we be an intiment.

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Speaker 1: She can't keep telling me noah and stop it when

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Speaker 1: I'm putting in work. The other big girls outdated didn't

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Speaker 1: have these problems. How can I get her in shape

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Speaker 1: without offending her? Lord Jesus helped me. Father. I don't

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Speaker 1: know nothing I can say that's not gonna be offensive.

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Speaker 1: I guess you, dude. Okay, I'm just telling y'all right now.

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Speaker 1: I don't know anything I can say without somebody getting

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Speaker 1: mad telling you right now. Okay, I'm gonna think about it,

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Speaker 1: but all mine is gonna be in joke form, so

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Speaker 1: I don't show he Let's have face. Let's have face.

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Speaker 1: But let me tell you my answer. Okay. So you

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Speaker 1: are thirty year old man, six foot, two hundred and

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Speaker 1: two pounds. You work out all the time, you eat right,

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Speaker 1: So far, so good. But you met a young lady

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Speaker 1: who was five six, three hundred and thirty pounds, who

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Speaker 1: is smart, carrying, hard working, nice, nice, but she can't

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Speaker 1: handle your extracurricular activities. You tend to get wild and

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Speaker 1: crazy when you all are intimate. Dude, what are you

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Speaker 1: doing that's causing this woman for her back to hurt.

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Speaker 1: Her needs to buckle and catch Charlie horses. What is

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Speaker 1: going on? She can't do but a few positions, and

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Speaker 1: then she starts complaining, what are you in there doing?

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Speaker 1: What are you trying to do? You may be asking

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Speaker 1: a little too much, You're doing way too much. This

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Speaker 1: is definitely a problem. She's you know this one. It's

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Speaker 1: basically crying for help. You need to compromise. She's a

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Speaker 1: little shy about the gym, you know, kind of like

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Speaker 1: most people who don't frequent the gym, who don't work

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Speaker 1: out a lot. So you need to talk this through.

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Speaker 1: If you compromise with the bedroom activities, and maybe she

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Speaker 1: can compromise with you going to the gym. But take

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Speaker 1: it slow, take it easy, and if you keep this up,

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Speaker 1: you're definitely gonna be going in your separate ways because

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Speaker 1: it's too much. You're doing way too much. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you've had time, all right for my answer this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have a statement that I need to make. I

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Speaker 1: began my career on October eighth, nineteen eighty five as

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Speaker 1: a stand up comedian. Yeah, comedy is at the whore

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Speaker 1: of most of my moneymaking ventures. I become a lot

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Speaker 1: more serious as a motivator and a mentor, but the

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Speaker 1: core of my gift lies in the gift of comedy.

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Speaker 1: I cannot forsake who I am. I cannot be something

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Speaker 1: that I'm not. I've heard the letter, and I've heard

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Speaker 1: Carlin's beautiful response, thank you. My response will be nothing

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Speaker 1: like that. We won't stay what we won't stay. Jay

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Speaker 1: all right, Tommy, we won't steve, but we want to

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Speaker 1: keep the show. You got a disclaimer, man, Well, when

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Speaker 1: we come back, I'm going to be what God made

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Speaker 1: me to be. Now, I will also temple it with

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Speaker 1: small doses of consideration, but very little. We're going to

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Speaker 1: commercial break. Yes, I have a few minutes to think

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Speaker 1: about my response further, but I do not see it

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Speaker 1: deviating much from what I've already grasped in this letter.

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Speaker 1: That's we're gonna start. Now. See y'all in a few minutes.

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Speaker 1: Pray for me over the commercial break, and see how

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Speaker 1: God work with me when we come back. Right back.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, all right? Up Part two? Here it is,

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Speaker 1: Come on, recap the letter force. I ain't gotta recap.

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Speaker 1: I ain't started after this commercial break and giving it

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Speaker 1: further thought, I'm right back. Why I wod So here

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Speaker 1: I go. This is all comedy, y'all. Former Kings of comedy,

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Speaker 1: six specials, one of them in the theater. I'm is

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Speaker 1: who I'm is. It's a thirty year old man, six

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Speaker 1: feet tall. He weighed two old two. That's in shape.

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Speaker 1: I'm six two, right around two thirty. So we leave.

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Speaker 1: He nice but he's missing two inches though. You know

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Speaker 1: I work out a heat right, take care of myself. Man.

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Speaker 1: A beautiful woman a few months ago, a few months

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Speaker 1: younger than I am. She's five six and she's three

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Speaker 1: hundred and thirty pounds. I like what I liken. That

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Speaker 1: happened to be big girls. I agree with you, too, dog,

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Speaker 1: I like big girls too. I'm fond some of my

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Speaker 1: favorite women in this world have been of the larger proportions.

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Speaker 1: And the first woman I fell in love with was large,

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Speaker 1: was my mama, Thank you Jesus. So I got that.

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Speaker 1: She's big and soft in the right places. She's always flying, sexy.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, I know what you're talking about. I'd have

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Speaker 1: seen them out there. Some big girls know how to

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Speaker 1: put it together. Boy, So I'm clapping for you. But

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Speaker 1: now let's get on to what's wrong. She's everything I

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Speaker 1: look for in a woman, a lot of it. Everything

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Speaker 1: you look for in a woman, she got it, got it, Intelligent, caring,

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Speaker 1: hard working. Now Here, the problem is when y'all intimate. See,

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Speaker 1: when you're in the bedroom, you tend to get wild

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Speaker 1: and crazy when you intimate. Now, let me explain something

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Speaker 1: to you. You wild and crazy at six feet two

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Speaker 1: old two. Huh see draw that you six feet two

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Speaker 1: old two? You are? You are number two. Pencil going crazy? Everybody,

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Speaker 1: Take a pencil in your head and wiggly make it

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Speaker 1: go crazy. But now who you dating is five six,

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Speaker 1: three hundred and feating. Now take a water balloon, hold

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Speaker 1: it in your head and shake it crazy. It kind

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Speaker 1: of go airwhere, don't it? Yeah? It see different? Shaking

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Speaker 1: the paper, Shake a shake up into somebody's faith. You

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Speaker 1: can control it. You're going crazy. Take a water balloon

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Speaker 1: and shake it in front of somebody's faith. You go

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Speaker 1: all through your fingers. It gets right from you. So

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Speaker 1: now I'm just saying, now listen, now what I'm about

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Speaker 1: to say, I could say what I'm about to say.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to help you. This is all because

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Speaker 1: this is the problem we have. She can't handle when

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Speaker 1: you get wild and crazy because her knees cramp up.

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Speaker 1: She get a child at horse in her leg. Everything

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Speaker 1: happened to her is in the lower extremities. Child atte horses,

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Speaker 1: legs cramp up, knees going bad because them legs. All

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Speaker 1: day for y'all got intimate, been under pressure. It's been canny.

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Speaker 1: Little car round all day Tea's legs. He's been dragging

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Speaker 1: his five to six, three hundred and thirty pounds around

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Speaker 1: all damn day. That then you come up and you

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Speaker 1: want to take one of them legs and you want

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Speaker 1: to lead back to where it. Don't go back there.

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Speaker 1: You want her to do? What? Crawl up on me

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Speaker 1: on your knees. I've been on my damn feet all day.

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Speaker 1: You ain't canness around miss the jim rat, skinny ass

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Speaker 1: spit at the gym. Now you want to take my

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Speaker 1: ankle and touch my ear with it, Well mine, don't

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Speaker 1: do that. I got a child at horse. You know

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Speaker 1: what the child at horse is. That's a muscle screaming

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Speaker 1: for help. That's a leg locking up. For you take

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Speaker 1: it too far, it collapses, it contracts, and shut it down.

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Speaker 1: Because she all day. I'm just saying. But she's a

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Speaker 1: beautiful girl now listening. So here's what happened to other night.

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Speaker 1: She can't do but a few positions because she started complaining.

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Speaker 1: Other night. I thought she was moaning because it was

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Speaker 1: good to her, but she yelled, my knees is killing me.

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Speaker 1: Her knees dog, so doing to it. That's what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm there. I'm telling you what he's doing

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Speaker 1: to it her knees. He putting more way, He putting

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Speaker 1: his weight on her way. I ready three thirty. What

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Speaker 1: you can't do it be putting your elbow back and

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Speaker 1: on this. She already got three feted on. You can't

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Speaker 1: five five five. Hell, anybody needs gonna be hurting it

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Speaker 1: that five hundred pounds, that's a quarter of a time.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you that for her knees,

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Speaker 1: she can't take this no more. You can wild and

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Speaker 1: craze his ass. You knew all your wild positions. She

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Speaker 1: don't do what the first, all your positions gotta be

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Speaker 1: she can't be on her back with you. You got

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Speaker 1: to be standing up. Do all your crazy stuff. If

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Speaker 1: you're gonna do anything, just dive in and then roll

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