1 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to stuff Mom Never told You from how stupp 2 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: Works dot com. Hello, and welcome to the podcast. I'm 3 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: Kristen and I'm Caroline, and today we are looking at 4 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 1: attention deficit hyperactive disorder. And this was a listener request. 5 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: Someone wrote in saying, Hey, I am a girl with 6 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: a d h D, and I've noticed that a lot 7 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: of times when I hear conversations about a d h D, 8 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: it's focused more on boys, the similar kind of thing 9 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: that happens with autism. It's one of those disorders that 10 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: you see a diagnostic gender gap. But it does not 11 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: mean that a d h D does not exist among 12 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: girls and women. Yeah, like a like a lot of 13 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: things along these same lines, you know, it just presents 14 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: differently in girls and women. And I think that's so 15 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: interesting because I too, always just thought a d h 16 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: D affected more boys than girls, more men than women. 17 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: And while more boys certainly are diagnosed with it than 18 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: women are um and girls, that doesn't mean that fewer 19 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: girls and women suffer from it. So what are we 20 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: talking about when we're talking about a d h D. 21 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:17,839 Speaker 1: I have a feeling that it's such a common term 22 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: and diagnosis these days that a lot of listeners are 23 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: probably familiar with it, but just for a refresher, it 24 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: is one of the most common childhood disorders. Now it's 25 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: second only to asthma in the most commonly diagnosed long 26 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 1: term disorders and kids, which is pretty astounding. Um. It 27 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: can last through adulthood, and it's marked by things like 28 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: excessive motor activity and attention and impulsiveness. And they're actually 29 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: three different subtypes of a d h D. Yeah, you 30 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: can be predominantly hyperactive, impulsive, predominantly inattentive, and a combination 31 00:01:55,240 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: of hyperactive and impulsive and inattentive. And it's that inattention 32 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: mention that is really more associated with girls. And when 33 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: you're inattentive, it's it's not that you're not listening, it's 34 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: more that you have trouble focusing or maybe you become 35 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: bored easily. You have poor attention to detail, forgetfulness. But 36 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 1: this is a less disruptive hallmark of it of a 37 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: d h D than being hyperactive and impulsive. So instead 38 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: of sitting there tapping your legs really fast, drumming on 39 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: your on your desk with your pencil, hitting the student 40 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: next to you, children who exhibit in attentiveness as a 41 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: hallmark of a d h D are more likely to 42 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: just you know, kind of sit there quietly and stare 43 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,119 Speaker 1: out the window. And speaking of that hyperactive piece um. 44 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: One aspect too, is that it's commonly associated or co 45 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: occurs I should say, with oppositional defiant disorder has a 46 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,959 Speaker 1: co occurrence rate, and that again is a more outwardly visible, 47 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: outwardly manifesting kind of disorder that also tends to happen 48 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,399 Speaker 1: more often in boys and tends to get the attention 49 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,959 Speaker 1: of teachers and parents because I mean, when you're when 50 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: your oppositional defined, I mean that, I mean the definition 51 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: is kind of they're in the title like you're going 52 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: to notice that kind of hyperactivity, right. Well, there is 53 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: an interesting history to a d h D, but also 54 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 1: an interesting history of the diagnoses and the fact that 55 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: they have been on the rise for the last thirty years, 56 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: but their descriptions and medical literature go back like two 57 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: hundred years. It's just a matter of they weren't called 58 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: a d h D at the time. Yeah, It's been 59 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:36,119 Speaker 1: known by various terms such as sensibility of the nerves, 60 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: having the fidget, having the fidget, having the fidget. I 61 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: definitely get the fidgets sometimes. Um. There was also a 62 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: period of time too, where you know, when medical science 63 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: wasn't so developed, that it was thought that kids, particularly boys, 64 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: who had the fidgets really were suffering from defects of 65 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: moral control. Yeah. It's interesting the phrasing, um, because they 66 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: just assumed that people with these kind of developmental disabilities 67 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: or disorders, um, that they weren't sure what they were 68 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: at the time, they did have some like lacking of 69 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: this internal compass that you know call I don't know, 70 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 1: just it was. It's sort of scary and awful and 71 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 1: terrible to hear a d h D or a d 72 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 1: D described as like a moral problem. Yeah. And then 73 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: after you have the moral control issue sort of fade 74 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 1: from the medical literature, it becomes renamed as a minimal 75 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: brain dysfunction, which also you know, speaking of scary. Um, 76 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 1: So it for a while, you have it for a 77 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: while two hundred years, you have it described here and 78 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: there in medical literature, but doctors never exactly figure out 79 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: what it is. But throughout that two year history, it 80 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: is predominantly described in boys, mostly European boys, and because 81 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 1: of that legacy, that's a a reason why even today 82 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 1: we see often a diagnostic gender gap. Yeah, and we'll 83 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 1: get into more of that, which it's it's super fascinating, 84 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 1: so so stay tuned. But anyway, um, so, moving far 85 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: forward in history, in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual includes hyper 86 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 1: kinetic Reaction to childhood, which also sounds scary. It's like 87 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,479 Speaker 1: something really terrible is going on and you're having a 88 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 1: reaction to your own childhood. And in that first inclusion 89 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: of a precursor to what we now call a d 90 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: D and the d s M, it describes it as 91 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:41,239 Speaker 1: being characterized by overactivity, restlessness, distractability, and short attention span, 92 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 1: especially in young children. And that was the thought back 93 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: then was that it was particularly something that affected kids 94 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 1: and that you would eventually grow out of it. Sure, 95 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: and you have to like, it makes me wonder. You know, 96 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 1: there are a lot of skeptics out there who just 97 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 1: say that, you know, we should just let kids be kids, 98 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 1: and that all kids have a degree of being hyper 99 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: or or you know, maybe we should just let them 100 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 1: run free and and be happy and not worry about 101 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: diagnosing them with things that were over diagnosing childhood. But 102 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess when you're trying to get your 103 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: child actually focus in class, things like that, that could 104 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: be an issue. Absolutely, you can have a very real 105 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: world impact, not just on behavioral issues perhaps at home, 106 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: but on academic performance as well. And we'll also get 107 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: into how a d h D can have particularly negative 108 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: effects on girls and how that interacts with gendered socialization. 109 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: There are a lot of different layers to this, um 110 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: but in nineteen eighty the d S M three finally 111 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: renames the attention deficit disorder with or without hyperactivity, right, 112 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 1: and we do see some more diagnostic criteria changing a 113 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: little bit, which actually benefits girls. I would think, um, 114 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: but so where where does where does a d D 115 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: come from? Do you catch it? Are you born with it? 116 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 1: Just catch the fidget? No, that was the different episode. 117 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: That was That was our maths hysteria episode. Oh yeah. 118 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: Can we mentioned though, the German doctor Heinrich Hoffman included 119 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: in this paper on the history of a d h 120 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: D who created a character called Fidgety Phil. That book 121 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: went through something like four editions. Yeah, and this was 122 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: sort of along the lines or in the school of 123 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: thought of a d h D as a moral deficit, 124 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: and so Fidgety fell became this long standing caricature of 125 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: a boy who I mean clearly at the fidgets. But 126 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: but am I thinking of the right book that the 127 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: child always like dies like enters like a fatal like 128 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: he's looking up and he's distracted and then he falls 129 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 1: off a cliff. That fidgety Phil. That might be there's 130 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: fidgety Phil. There's also like absent minded Abe. There's a 131 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: lot of a literation going on, right, But I could 132 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: be fidgety Phil, poor fidgety Phil. Fidgety Phil might just 133 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: fidget himself on the side of the close. So talking 134 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: about where fidgety Fill gets his fidgets from? Do you 135 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: like that? I do? How much would would a wood 136 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: chuck chuck? If a woodchuck we're on adderall um neuroimaging 137 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: suggests that abnormalities in frontal subcordical sarabellar systems involved in 138 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: the regulation of attention, motor behavior, and inhibition have something 139 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: to do with it. Yeah, and doctors aren't entirely sure 140 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 1: why it happens, But there are now a lot of 141 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 1: studies that have been conducted on a d h D 142 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: and there's clearly a genetic component. Um. If your parents 143 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: have a d h D, there's a good chance you 144 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:44,439 Speaker 1: will Sames's with your grandparents. Twin. Studies have shown also 145 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 1: that it's highly heritable, and there seems to be a 146 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: particular gene that is correlated to thinner brain tissue in 147 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: areas associated with attention. And one reason why some people 148 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 1: kind of age out of a d h D is 149 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: because that same brain tissue also tends to thicken as 150 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:09,319 Speaker 1: we age. There have also been links in the literature 151 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: between a d h D and environmental factors like smoking 152 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: cigarettes when you're pregnant, uh, kids exposed to lead. Um. 153 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: There's also a brain injury link, but really only a 154 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: small number of kids with a d h D have 155 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: experienced traumatic brain injury. There's also a question around food additives, 156 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: although the research is pretty sketchy on that one. Yeah, 157 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: there's the idea that excessive sugar and foods is causing 158 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: all of this a d h D, which makes sense 159 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: because we often think of kids plush sugar equals rambunctious. 160 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 1: But the sugar theory has been largely debunked by research. Yeah, 161 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: exactly so. The previous line of thinking it was that 162 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: around five percent of kids in the US were affected 163 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: by a d h D, but diagnoses have been truem 164 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 1: endlessly on the rise since the nineteen nineties and today, 165 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: according to the National Institutes of Health, nine percent of 166 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 1: US children between the ages of thirteen and eighteen years 167 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: old have been previously diagnosed with it, and that rate 168 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: of diagnosis has increased in average of three percent between 169 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 1: and two thousand and six, and then five percent between 170 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: two thousand three and two thousand eleven. So clearly the 171 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: diagnoses are increasing exponentially. And another important piece to this 172 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 1: is not only our children's diagnoses on the rise, but 173 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 1: also adult diagnoses. So now the n i H is 174 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 1: also saying that around four point one percent of adults 175 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: in a given year are diagnosed with a d h D. Right, 176 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 1: because people are starting to realize, oh my kids, my 177 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: kids have it, and they're learning more about the disorder, 178 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: and then they realize, oh, oh, I guess I have 179 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,559 Speaker 1: it too. Yeah, And there has been an important change 180 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 1: in the most recently released ds M five which includes 181 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: having the symptoms stretched back to age twelve rather than 182 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 1: previously aged seven, which is a recognition of girls symptoms 183 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: um as we'll talk about, and also that it can 184 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: just generally happen a little bit later. So if you're 185 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: an adult and you don't know if it goes all 186 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: the way back to seven, that doesn't necessarily mean that Nope, 187 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: don't have it right exactly. So, I mean, speaking of gender, 188 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 1: we talked about how a lot of the early studies 189 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:34,719 Speaker 1: and diagnostic criteria were based on just boys. Boys were 190 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 1: thought to be the ones that this really affected girls 191 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: not so much, or you know, girls were just different 192 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: and they didn't have to experience the horrors of a 193 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: d h D. And I mean that's even reflected in 194 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: the numbers of studies, you know. Um. One researcher noted 195 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: that there were only two studies that she knew of 196 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: at the time examining adult women for instance, and a 197 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: d h D. It just wasn't thought to be a priority. 198 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,199 Speaker 1: This was a boys problem. Yeah, it was really jumped 199 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: out at me to see how the arc of a 200 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:08,560 Speaker 1: d h D recognition started out with boys, then moved 201 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 1: into adult populations, and only recently is circling around two girls. 202 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: So even adult women might be likelier to get a 203 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: diagnosis compared to girls. And it's for that reason that 204 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:27,559 Speaker 1: the National Institutes of Health says that boys are four 205 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: times the risk than girls of getting an a d 206 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: h D diagnosis. Right, But a lot of experts weighing 207 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: in now contend that boys and girls are equally at 208 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: risk for those diagnostic and referral gender biases that we mentioned, 209 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: And according to one poll, it seems like people do 210 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: have a general idea that girls are less likely to 211 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 1: be served in this area. Yeah, I mean, there is 212 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: a Harris Interactive poll a couple of years ago, I 213 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: think finding of respondents agreed that, yeah, girls are probably 214 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: not going to at any kind of a d h 215 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: D diagnosis. And even though the common line of thinking, 216 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 1: like we said, is that a d h D presents 217 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: itself more outwardly in boys with more hyperactivity, and for 218 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: a long time that's been the assumption as to why 219 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 1: there is this gender gap in diagnosis. It's like, oh, well, 220 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 1: girls predominantly exhibit the inattentive subtype of a d h D, 221 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: so we're just not noticing it because she just seems 222 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: a little dreamy, a little forgetful, No big deal, right, 223 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: So when you look back at early referrals to psychiatric clinics, 224 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: these were motivated by those outward obvious difficulties presented when 225 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: you have the hyperactivity and the disruptiveness. This ended up 226 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 1: being mostly young white boys, so they were the basic 227 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 1: for a lot of the diagnostic criteria. Um Ellen Littman, 228 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 1: who's a psychologist, calls this a referral bias and a 229 00:13:55,600 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: diagnostic bias girls who were diagnosed yours ago, decades ago. 230 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: Typically throughout history, girls who were diagnosed with having this 231 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 1: type of disorder had to exhibit the type of behavior 232 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 1: that boys did, because, like Kristen said, if there was 233 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: anything else, if it was just an attentiveness, it was 234 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: often overlooked. And it was that nineteen eight e d 235 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: s M those new diagnostic criteria that allowed for the 236 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: possibility of inattention without hyperactivity, and starting at that point 237 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: we see this huge jump in the number of girls diagnosed. 238 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: But even when that hyperactivity variable remains constant, gender still 239 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: plays such a strong role in determining whether or not 240 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 1: children are going to be referred to services. At least 241 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 1: according to results from a two thousand nine study in 242 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: the Journal of Clinical Adolescent Psychology, which gave parents and 243 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: teachers these short vignettes to read about boys and girls 244 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: who were exhibiting a d h d behavior in class 245 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: and asked him whether or not they would refer the 246 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 1: kids to learning services, and overwhelmingly whether the girls were 247 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: also displaying in these vignettes, these fictional a little short stories. 248 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: Even if the girls were also displaying hyperactive behavior, the 249 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: boys were still more likely to receive these fictional learning 250 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: services because quote the parents and teachers believe that learning 251 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: assistance is less effective for girls, which is a little 252 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 1: bit of weird wording in the abstract, because what they 253 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: kind of mean to say is they describe more in 254 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: the body of the study, is that it seems like 255 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: there is a greater emphasis placed on boys academic success 256 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 1: than girls academic success. So it's like, even if all 257 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 1: these girls are struggling in the classroom, we're still a 258 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: little bit more likely to pay attention to little Johnny's 259 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 1: progress compared to little Janey's progress. Well, poor little Janie, 260 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 1: poor little Janey. And that's I mean, that's also a 261 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: study funding that needs more research on it. But it's 262 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: interesting to see that it was notable that even when 263 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 1: that hyperactivity is held constant, gender is still the primary variable. 264 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: And it's said to that, um, gender is that being 265 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: a girl essentially um is more of a determinant for 266 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: you not getting a diagnosis compared to living in a 267 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 1: poor area, not having health insurance, not even having like 268 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: access to services nearby. All of those combined, you're still 269 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 1: more likely to get a diagnosis if your boy. Then 270 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: if you're a girl, well, um, we will get more 271 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: into the gendered aspect of a d h D and 272 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: some of the hallmarks of girls experience with a d 273 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 1: h D when we come all right back from a 274 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 1: quick break so we left off, we had established that 275 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: there has at least historically been this gender gap in 276 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: a d h D diagnosis, but that more recent research 277 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: is now ching up to the fact that girls also 278 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 1: experience it as well, but possibly in a different way 279 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 1: than boys do. So let's talk a little bit about 280 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: the hallmarks of female a d h D. Yeah, hormones 281 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 1: are a pain in the neck man like the brain, 282 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 1: pain all over your body because of your endocrine system. Um. Anyway, So, 283 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 1: symptoms of a d h D increase with puberty for girls, 284 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 1: but not boys thanks to handy dandy estrogen. At puberty, 285 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:35,959 Speaker 1: girls a d h D related behavior tends to ramp up, 286 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: while boys calms down a little bit, not saying that 287 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:42,919 Speaker 1: they outgrow it necessarily, just saying that we tend to 288 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 1: notice the hallmarks the symptoms of it among girls as 289 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 1: they get older and as their hormones start to change 290 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,679 Speaker 1: at puberty. So that's a big reason why the criterion 291 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 1: for a d h D has changed from having to 292 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,680 Speaker 1: have it since the age of seven up to now 293 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,879 Speaker 1: having to have it since twelve, when you, you know, 294 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 1: the classic age for puberty to start. Yeah, and we 295 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: also we I mean, girls and women have to deal 296 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 1: with the fact that people are always mixing up our 297 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 1: health symptoms with PMS and PMD D. Oh yeah, I know. 298 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: Well they just figure out, well, if you're having trouble 299 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: concentrating or etceterric, etceterric, etceterric, it's probably just you know, 300 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: something else going on. Um. Dr Littmann, the psychologist that 301 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 1: we sighted earlier, calls this sort of a perfect storm. 302 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:34,959 Speaker 1: You have internalized symptoms, escalating estrogen mounting, shame and demoralization 303 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: in response to societal expectations because it's around this time 304 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 1: that you're hitting puberty, your hormones are changing. You're so 305 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: worried about fitting in and being like the perfect girl 306 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: or whatever. Um, but you know your brain has O 307 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 1: their plans for you. Yeah, And experts on girls and 308 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 1: a d h D often point out that gendered socialization 309 00:18:56,560 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 1: has a major impact on how girl manage their A 310 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 1: d h D were likelier to internalize and despite probably 311 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 1: having trouble paying attention getting school work done, there's still 312 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: more of a perfectionism that tends to run through girls 313 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 1: even with a d h D. Um and we are 314 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 1: three times more likely to have been on antidepressants prior 315 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:25,400 Speaker 1: to an a d h D diagnosis, probably because, like 316 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 1: you mentioned, a lot of times, these kinds of symptoms 317 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: that we exhibit are usually mixed up for things like, oh, well, 318 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 1: she's just PMS and her oh she's just depressed, she's 319 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: a little bit moody, give us some paxel, right, right, 320 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 1: And a lot of that has to do with the 321 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: fact that, uh, our social penalties that we undergo that 322 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 1: we deal with us girls tend to be worse uh 323 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 1: than than the ones experienced by boys. Were more likely 324 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 1: to be rejected by our peers. Um, because if you 325 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 1: think about, you know, let's just let's have an average 326 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: stereotypical girl with an antena type A d h D. 327 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 1: You know, she may retreat into herself if she's not 328 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: picking up on jokes fast enough, or if she's unable 329 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: to kind of pick up on your feelings fast enough 330 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: read your face to know, oh I shouldn't make a joke, 331 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,400 Speaker 1: she's sad, or oh she's joking. I don't get it. 332 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: You know, they can tend to be judged as selfish, 333 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,959 Speaker 1: so they internalize their feelings. They try not to. They 334 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 1: don't want to appear selfish. They they're not, but you know, 335 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 1: so they end up retreating into themselves even more. They 336 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:28,640 Speaker 1: might overestimate their social competence, think that they're funnier or 337 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 1: more with it than they are. Uh, they could exhibit 338 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,879 Speaker 1: a rebellious stance and relational aggression. And then there's the 339 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 1: whole perfectionism as far as school work goes where um, 340 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:41,959 Speaker 1: I think it was Ellen Littman talking about when girls 341 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,119 Speaker 1: with a d h D procrastinate as girls and boys 342 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,959 Speaker 1: with a d h D are wont to do, they 343 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:49,919 Speaker 1: are more likely than boys at the last minute to 344 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 1: bust their butts to make this project perfect because they 345 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 1: still have this drive to be little people pleasers. Yeah, 346 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 1: and um, even though we've talked a lot about how 347 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 1: the hallmark symptoms of girls a d h D. That's 348 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:07,200 Speaker 1: in quotes, um, how it's more commonly associated with the inattentive, 349 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 1: dreamy type hyperactivity also exists in girls. That that was 350 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,399 Speaker 1: one thing another expert pointed out. She was like, don't 351 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: forget that the h and a d h D can 352 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:22,199 Speaker 1: also manifest in girls as well. And I was just 353 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 1: thinking about that and the socialization issue and reflecting back 354 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 1: on middle school years and trying to fit in with girls, 355 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:33,359 Speaker 1: and if like just remembering some girls that I was 356 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:37,360 Speaker 1: around who were clearly hyperactive and how they were socially 357 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 1: ostracized for that, because it's like, uh, in those in 358 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 1: those years and through high school too, and even out 359 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: of high school. Unfortunately, it's like this fine line that 360 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 1: girls often have to walk between, you know, being I 361 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 1: don't know, like being not too quiet but not too loud, 362 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And it's like if if 363 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,400 Speaker 1: you have a d h D, you're far more likely 364 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 1: to be either one or the other. And so it's 365 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: probably because of this that research has also found that 366 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 1: if left untreated, girls with a d h D are 367 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 1: at risk for chronic low self esteem, under achievement, anxiety, depression, 368 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 1: and team pregnancy and early smoking in middle school and 369 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 1: high school. And that's coming from psychologist Kathleen Nado, who 370 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,919 Speaker 1: is another expert in girls and a d h D 371 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 1: that we've been citing, and I mean this, reading all 372 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 1: of these articles too about girls and a d h D, 373 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:37,159 Speaker 1: we're they're heartbreaking because it's the same thing over and 374 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 1: over and over again for this kind of internalization while 375 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 1: striving to make the grade and fit in if possible, 376 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: and just manage everything. And we've talked about the impostor 377 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 1: syndrome before on the podcast, but a lot of these girls, 378 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,639 Speaker 1: you know, they they're working so hard and they might 379 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 1: be getting as they might be getting always, but they're like, 380 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,240 Speaker 1: you know, I have to work so much hard, harder 381 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 1: than little Susie over here. Why do I have to 382 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 1: work so much harder just to get an a when 383 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: she seems to breathe through it? And so you feel 384 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: like I must not be very smart. And so that 385 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 1: ties into the whole self esteem issue too. And um 386 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 1: a study in the Journal of Consulting in Clinical Psychology 387 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 1: found that UH girls with a d h D, especially 388 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:23,439 Speaker 1: those with signs of impulsivity, are three to four times 389 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: more likely to attempt suicide and two to three times 390 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,959 Speaker 1: more likely to attempt self injury. And with this study, um, 391 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 1: it's worth pointing out that it followed this group of 392 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 1: girls into adulthood and kind of checked up with them 393 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 1: after a five or ten year period, and it wasn't 394 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,400 Speaker 1: this kind of suicidal or self injurious behavior. Wasn't happening 395 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: like right then in adolescence when they were first talking 396 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,479 Speaker 1: two of them, But it was with girls who perhaps 397 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,959 Speaker 1: weren't getting the treatment that they needed and were had 398 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 1: been dealing for years with all of this stuff. And 399 00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 1: this is how you know it was manifesting in the 400 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:04,879 Speaker 1: kinds of uh, these kinds of negative behaviors. And also too, 401 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,359 Speaker 1: I want to point out that our focus on girls 402 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,919 Speaker 1: with a d h D and these kinds of issues 403 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 1: is not to discount, you know, boys struggles with it 404 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 1: as well, or to say that if you know, boys 405 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: are just running around, they don't they don't care if 406 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: they're having trouble paying attention. But research does find that 407 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,879 Speaker 1: the social penalties for girls are often a lot harsher 408 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 1: for boys. But I'm so sure that boys experience a 409 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 1: lot of this as well. It's just the fact that 410 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 1: they are a lot likelier to at least be recommended 411 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: for learning services or diagnosis treatment something, um, whereas a 412 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,400 Speaker 1: lot of girls are just being kind of left left out. Yeah. Yeah, 413 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 1: you're more likely to expect a boy to have to 414 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 1: come up against a d h D and to have 415 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: to treat them for at etcetera, etcetera, whereas you're more 416 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: likely to be like that girls such an airhead. Yeah, 417 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 1: or she can handle it, yeah, little Susie, little Janey, 418 00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 1: I can push on through. Um. But and you look 419 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 1: at women, like the adult population of a d h 420 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 1: D um, women also experience it, and it's like it's 421 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 1: sort of a grown up version of the same kinds 422 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 1: of stressors piled on top of stressors that maybe have 423 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 1: an even harsher impact honest as women because ho hello 424 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: life responsibilities. Yeah. Researchers have found that women adult women 425 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,640 Speaker 1: with untreated a d h D tend to have more 426 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:31,879 Speaker 1: trouble with things like time management and organization, stress management, 427 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: anxiety and depression, and a lot of it ties into 428 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:38,199 Speaker 1: that constant stress they feel due to managing demands of 429 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 1: everyday life. They they are more likely to exhibit a 430 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 1: learned helplessness style of responding to negative situations and feeling 431 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 1: less control over their lives. I mean if if you 432 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 1: are someone who is struggling with inattention and you can't 433 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,199 Speaker 1: focus and you're forgetful, you might feel like everything is 434 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: such a struggle. Oh yeah, I mean just thinking about 435 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 1: not to make this Selbot meet Caroline, but thinking just 436 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 1: about that organization factor. Like for me, if my house 437 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 1: isn't clean and organized, I can't get anything done. It's 438 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 1: like this brain organization connection where like if my environment, 439 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,400 Speaker 1: like if I don't feel like I have control over 440 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,160 Speaker 1: my environment, as I'm sure if you know, for women 441 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 1: with a d h D like that must happen all 442 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: the time, then I can't. I just like can barely 443 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 1: handle myself. Yeah, now I I found so I had 444 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 1: to sympathize with one of the scenarios that one of 445 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 1: these psychologists was talking about, as far as like women 446 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: with a d h D might exert just just the 447 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,120 Speaker 1: way that girls in school might have to work so 448 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 1: much harder just to get that a to focus, to 449 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 1: get that a women with a d h D have 450 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,679 Speaker 1: to work so hard to stay organized that it's like 451 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 1: it's just mentally exhausting. And I totally sympathize, Like, I'm 452 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,879 Speaker 1: constantly cleaning up after myself, past Caroline screws over future 453 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 1: Caroline all the time. I'm not hanging up my clothes, 454 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 1: I'm not putting my stuff away. So I come into 455 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 1: my environment, whether it's my desk at work or my 456 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,919 Speaker 1: dusk at home, or my room or wherever, and I'm like, 457 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 1: I can't focus, I can't accomplish anything. Let me make 458 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: fifteen to do lists. Yeah, it feel, it feels chaotic. 459 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,680 Speaker 1: And that also reminds me of this article that we 460 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:23,199 Speaker 1: read in the week, and it was written by a 461 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 1: woman with a d h D. But she didn't get 462 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 1: a diagnosis until after college, and she just talked about 463 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 1: how like revolutionary it was for her life, like pre 464 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 1: impost diagnosis, because she talked about how before that her apartment, 465 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 1: I mean, she would lose her keys, she would lose 466 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,440 Speaker 1: herself phone, she would find it in just the most 467 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 1: random of places. And not to say that the women 468 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 1: with a d h D like can't get their lives 469 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 1: together anything like that, but you know, it's these environmental 470 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,719 Speaker 1: factors make such a difference as well. And what was 471 00:27:56,760 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: interesting um to regarding women in these a d h 472 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 1: D diagnoses is that the primary way that the light 473 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 1: bulb goes off of like oh wait no, this might 474 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: actually have to do with something going on in my brain, 475 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: not me just being a terrible adult, is that their 476 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 1: kids get a diagnosis and they hear the doctors talking 477 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 1: about these symptoms and they're like, oh, this sounds a 478 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: lot like me, because again there's that highly genetic components, 479 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 1: so interesting, so interesting. Yeah, it's just it's so unfortunate 480 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 1: that there's like this whole lifetime of this whole lifetime 481 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: cycle of a delay in diagnosis just because I'm a girl, 482 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,600 Speaker 1: I must be less likely to have it. Maybe I'm 483 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 1: just an airhead. Maybe I just can't keep track, or 484 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 1: I mean I lose my my mother for like two 485 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: separate Christmas. Is has given me these things that you 486 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 1: put on your key ring to like you, if you 487 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 1: can't find your keys, you you beat this little remote 488 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 1: and it helps you find your keys. But what if 489 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 1: you lose the remote? Oh no, trust me, I lost 490 00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: the remote. I would lose the remote. I would totally remote. 491 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: And and this is one thing too where one of 492 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 1: the articles that we read about this was it was 493 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: phrased in a way of something along the lines of 494 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 1: women and a d D. It's a diagnosis, not an 495 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 1: excuse because there I think there is this perception because 496 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: the rates of diagnosis have increased so quickly, I think 497 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 1: it's raised a lot of skeptical eyebrows. For some people 498 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 1: who don't have these kinds of neurological issues look at 499 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 1: you know, throwing some shade and saying, well, they just 500 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 1: need to pay more attention or do something. But for 501 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 1: these women who have a d h D, I mean, 502 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: it's a very real issue. Yeah, you know, speaking of 503 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:44,480 Speaker 1: the skeptics. Doctors will tell you and and psychologists will 504 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 1: tell you that there are a lot of life things 505 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 1: that can happen to you that can mimic these hallmarks 506 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 1: of a d h D. I mean, if you're going 507 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: through an incredibly stressful time at work, if you're not sleeping, 508 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 1: if you're drinking too much, going through a break up. Yeah, 509 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 1: there's like all of the stressors that can happen that 510 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: can make you feel crazy. And um I started thinking 511 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 1: about it, I'm like, Okay, I see I see that 512 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 1: there are life things like stress that can make this happen. 513 00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: And I see that you can be a d h D. 514 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 1: And I was like, but but aren't the life situations 515 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 1: like the situational a d h D symptom type things 516 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: don't those go away? Might have never gone away, So 517 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 1: I feel like I should Caroline, I think you might 518 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 1: be doing a little bit of your podcast diagnoses you 519 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 1: your your sminty symptom checker. I told my boyfriend last night. 520 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: I was like, ah, I think I have a d 521 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 1: h D. And he looks at me and he's like, 522 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: what are you doing for the podcast this week? It's true, 523 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 1: but hey, you know, it could be worth checking into 524 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 1: a good fear if you're concerned. Yeah, I could finally 525 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: get my apartment organized. But the good news is though 526 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 1: there are so many resources out there specifically focused on 527 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 1: women and girls. There's the National Center for Gender Issues 528 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: in a d h D. There's a National Center for 529 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: Girls and Women with a d h D. They are 530 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: all sorts of books now specifically focused on women in 531 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 1: a d h D, local support groups even so, you know, 532 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 1: the resources and the research are starting to definitely catch 533 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: up with the you know, the female population um. But 534 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 1: where the skepticism kind of starts to creep in a 535 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 1: bit more. I think it's not so much with you know, 536 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 1: whether or not a d h D exists, but more 537 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: in the treatment of it, because we got to talk 538 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 1: about a d h D meds and how for some 539 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 1: people they have been wonder drugs and for some other 540 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: people they've also been wonder drugs, but not necessarily because 541 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: they have a d D. Yeah, I mean, I think 542 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 1: we all know people who have misused things like adderall 543 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 1: or riddle in in order to cram for a test, 544 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 1: to lose weight, to do x y Z, to be 545 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 1: like a wonder woman in their lives wives or a 546 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 1: wonder man. Yeah. I mean there have been trend pieces 547 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 1: since you and I were in college, Caroline about college 548 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: students in the library buying adderall to stay up all 549 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 1: night to you know, to study, or buying adderall to 550 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 1: stay up all night to party. Well, yeah, I remember 551 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 1: friends doing this freshman year and me just thinking, like 552 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: I just like sleep. I'm fine with not studying all night. Um. 553 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: But it's interesting to look at like this, this notch 554 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 1: in the timeline because since the number of kids on 555 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 1: a d h D medication has soared from six hundred 556 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 1: thousand to three point five million people. But you also 557 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 1: have to look at the What happened in the late 558 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 1: nineteen nineties, which is, federal guidelines were loosened, allowing marketing 559 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: firms basically to market controlled substances like stimulants directly to 560 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 1: the public, a lot of kate in a lot of 561 00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: cases marketing them to moms specifically. Oh yeah, there were 562 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 1: you know, all these ads. You've probably see them listeners 563 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: in magazines or in commercials where there's a happy mom 564 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 1: standing there with her usually son holding up a test 565 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: with like a B plus and she's, you know, with 566 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:20,960 Speaker 1: a tagline something along the lines of he's finally living 567 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 1: up to his academic potential. Yeah. They a lot of 568 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,720 Speaker 1: ads driving him the fact of like, don't you want 569 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 1: to ease the tension in your family? Don't you want 570 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 1: the best for your son? Don't you want him to 571 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: perform better in school? Mom? Yeah? So there has been 572 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: this troublesome relationship between pharmaceutical companies like Shire, which makes 573 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 1: adderall and this rise in a d h D diagnoses 574 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 1: in The New York Times magazine recently did a big 575 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 1: piece on how this rise in a d h D 576 00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:02,160 Speaker 1: diagnoses among kids and adults has coincided obviously with the 577 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 1: rise in a d h D medication, and I mean 578 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 1: Shire is making billions off of adderall I mean not 579 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,440 Speaker 1: to mention all of the other kinds of you know, 580 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 1: name brand medications like concert A, riddling, etcetera. And how 581 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 1: a lot of these pharmaceutical companies have recruited a lot 582 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 1: of doctors with really great titles and research, you know, 583 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:29,279 Speaker 1: heavy backgrounds, who have studies that they've published, to go 584 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,959 Speaker 1: out and speak to groups of doctors and suggest that 585 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:36,400 Speaker 1: they really look out for signs of a d h 586 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:40,240 Speaker 1: D and really you know, push some push some adderall 587 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:45,239 Speaker 1: their way. And and that's so unfortunate because clearly this 588 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 1: is you know, a d h D absolutely exists. But 589 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 1: it's once these kinds of murky relationships between doctors and 590 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 1: big pharma come up that you you know, you you 591 00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:01,040 Speaker 1: give more credence to skeptics who say, you know, this 592 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:04,840 Speaker 1: is all made up. Yeah. For instance, Dr Keith Connors, 593 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 1: who's a specialist in a d h D, was almost 594 00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 1: angry in this story when he heard about the numbers 595 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 1: because the numbers of children and adults on a d 596 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,719 Speaker 1: h D meds. He says, the numbers make it look 597 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: like an epidemic, but it's not. It does affect people, 598 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,240 Speaker 1: for sure, people struggle with it, men, women, boys, girls. 599 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,400 Speaker 1: But the fact is that he doesn't think and a 600 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 1: lot of other doctors don't think that the numbers are 601 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 1: accurate as far as who's on medicine versus who actually 602 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,600 Speaker 1: has a d h D. Yeah, I think there's definitely 603 00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 1: been some over diagnosis that's gone on. And also, and 604 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,279 Speaker 1: this is kind of a side note, we don't have 605 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,719 Speaker 1: I don't have sources in front of me on this, 606 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:48,759 Speaker 1: but one thing that comes to mind is that we're 607 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 1: now we've come through a generation of kids who received 608 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 1: this diagnosis and maybe a prescription to adderall or riddle 609 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 1: in when they were kids. Now there were there our 610 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 1: age and they still have these prescriptions, And it doesn't 611 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,720 Speaker 1: seem like there has been a lot of attention paid 612 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 1: to long term management outside of just popping pills, because 613 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,920 Speaker 1: just popping pills when it comes to popping stimulants doesn't 614 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 1: always lead to the healthiest lifestyles or healthiest you know, 615 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:26,800 Speaker 1: physical mental impacts. Yeah, because not only would some people 616 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 1: maybe take them for the wrong reasons, but then you've 617 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 1: got to deal with heart palpitations, insomnia, just general ikey 618 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:38,240 Speaker 1: health issues. From maybe taking the wrong dose, or taking 619 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 1: the wrong pill, or maybe not needing to take it 620 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 1: at all. But the fact of the matter is adderall 621 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: and going nowhere. Express Scripts told MPR earlier this year 622 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,879 Speaker 1: that it expects a d h D medications to rise 623 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:58,480 Speaker 1: in the next five years um and it's risen thirty 624 00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: five point five percent between two thousand and eight and 625 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:06,120 Speaker 1: two thousand twelve among people with private insurance um and 626 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,359 Speaker 1: while children's use of a d h D medications were up, 627 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:16,319 Speaker 1: adults use rose fifty three percent. Yeah, because, I mean, 628 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,920 Speaker 1: there's a lot of reasons for that. Part of it 629 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,280 Speaker 1: is that kids are kids are growing up and becoming 630 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,240 Speaker 1: grown ups who need medicine. Part of it is that 631 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,280 Speaker 1: you've got moms who are looking at their kids saying, oh, 632 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,440 Speaker 1: this explains my struggles in school. I need to be 633 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,640 Speaker 1: on this medicine. And then you've got a lot of 634 00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:36,239 Speaker 1: people who are saying, I need to study for exams, 635 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,239 Speaker 1: I need to lose weight, I need to be wonder woman. Yeah. 636 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 1: I mean, because the fact of the matter is, as 637 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 1: as a stimulant, you can get a lot done. You 638 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,440 Speaker 1: know you can if you want an edge. Just happens 639 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,400 Speaker 1: a lot in academia to where, you know, in a 640 00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 1: publishing heavy kind of job where if you need to 641 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,759 Speaker 1: sit there and stare at books and read thick you know, 642 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:03,360 Speaker 1: papers and then thick papers. Adderall has been a wonder 643 00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 1: drug for a lot of people. There are even some 644 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 1: people There is an article, a couple of articles actually, 645 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 1: I think in Slate for instance, from these writers saying, yeah, 646 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:15,719 Speaker 1: I take adderall. It's amazing, I write so much. Yeah. 647 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,840 Speaker 1: And before we make this sounds super attractive to you, 648 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,360 Speaker 1: you have to remember that adderall is a schedule to 649 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:27,240 Speaker 1: controlled substance as our morphine and oxy code own, meaning 650 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:31,399 Speaker 1: it has a high risk for addiction or abuse. Yeah, 651 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: and there are side effects that go along with chronic abuse, 652 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 1: such as severe rash, insomnia, irritability, personality changes. Um. And 653 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:43,759 Speaker 1: we're focusing so much on adderall use in a d 654 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,680 Speaker 1: h D medication because its use is actually increasing the 655 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:52,440 Speaker 1: most demographics wise among young women, which probably has to 656 00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 1: do with a lot of what we're talking about in 657 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:58,160 Speaker 1: terms of, you know, the diagnostic gender gap closing, but 658 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,439 Speaker 1: it probably also has to do a little bit with 659 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:05,920 Speaker 1: some abuse happening because of the side effects of things 660 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,399 Speaker 1: like weight management. Because if you take a stimulant, You're 661 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 1: probably not gonna want to eat too much. Uh, school 662 00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:16,839 Speaker 1: cram sessions, maybe staying out and partying. I mean, there 663 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: are a lot of I don't know, just hang out 664 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 1: on a college campus. Kids will tell you about it. Yeah, 665 00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:23,719 Speaker 1: And I wonder how much of it is tied to 666 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,200 Speaker 1: gender norms. You've got to be the right kind of woman. 667 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:28,840 Speaker 1: You know, you've got to be thin, You've got to 668 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,200 Speaker 1: be organized, you have to be neat and tidy. You 669 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,640 Speaker 1: need to be successful. You have to be successful. You've 670 00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 1: got to you know, work all day, come home cooked in, 671 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 1: or do the dishes, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. Yeah, and I 672 00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 1: think that a lot of people have found out her 673 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 1: all to be a you know, a simple way, it's 674 00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,720 Speaker 1: simple and quotes way to make all of that happen, 675 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:55,480 Speaker 1: to have it all. Um. So, while it's heartening to 676 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 1: see that there, you know, is a greater likelihood that 677 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: if you are a girl, are a woman with a 678 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 1: d h D, that there will be resources there for you, 679 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 1: that you might be more likely to be recommended for something. 680 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:10,440 Speaker 1: Um that treatment is available. But there's that other piece 681 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,440 Speaker 1: of this whole, a d h D issue, which is 682 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,759 Speaker 1: what do we do about I don't think it's so 683 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,680 Speaker 1: much in a d h D epidemic that might be 684 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:23,200 Speaker 1: happening as much as an adderall epidemic. Not a sound 685 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:27,200 Speaker 1: like my mother, you know, But I don't know what 686 00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: do you? Is it too alarmoust to say that. I 687 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:34,600 Speaker 1: think the numbers are pretty crazy. I think Dr Connors 688 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 1: is right when he says that it's not an epidemic 689 00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,759 Speaker 1: of a d h D. It's not that we're we're 690 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:43,920 Speaker 1: birthing all of these children every day who you know, 691 00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,040 Speaker 1: are destined to not be able to concentrate. It's it 692 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,280 Speaker 1: is more than just I think more and more people 693 00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:55,760 Speaker 1: are like, I can get stuff done on adderall. Yeah. Um, 694 00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 1: but it's it's just important too that while a lot 695 00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 1: of docs hail it, like we keep using the term 696 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 1: wonder drug, but that there are side effects as with 697 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 1: any medication, and it's gonna also, as with every health 698 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:14,680 Speaker 1: issue we talked about on this podcast, affect different bodies differently. Absolutely, So, 699 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 1: who did we end this on a down note? I 700 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:19,719 Speaker 1: don't want to end this on a down note. No, 701 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:23,400 Speaker 1: I think we ended it on a kind of a warning, Yeah, 702 00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,400 Speaker 1: a warning of of uh, you know, you want to 703 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,880 Speaker 1: take care of yourself a little buyer, Beware you should 704 00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:31,759 Speaker 1: always be aware a little bit when it comes to 705 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,360 Speaker 1: our bodies and brains. We want, we want little Janey 706 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,919 Speaker 1: to grow up to be healthy. Yeah, but I gotta 707 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:42,480 Speaker 1: say so so fascinating those gendered socialization issues that often 708 00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 1: compound a lot of this a d h D stuff 709 00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 1: for girls, fascinating and tragic. They're they're definitely important things 710 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 1: to keep in mind if if you have kids with 711 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:52,600 Speaker 1: a d h D, if you're a teacher, if you're 712 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:55,359 Speaker 1: a doctor, whoever you are, it's it's important to keep 713 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,200 Speaker 1: those gender differences in mind. So we now want to 714 00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 1: hear from you because at least theistically there are folks 715 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:04,840 Speaker 1: there listening who have a d h D. So I 716 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 1: want to know how how this resonates with you. Um, 717 00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,600 Speaker 1: let us know your thoughts. Mom Stuff at discovery dot 718 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,680 Speaker 1: com is our email address. You can also tweet us 719 00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:18,880 Speaker 1: at Mom's Stuff podcast or messages over on Facebook, and 720 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,360 Speaker 1: we have a couple of messages to share with you 721 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:28,480 Speaker 1: right now. So I've got a note here from Christina 722 00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,480 Speaker 1: and it made me laugh because you want to talk 723 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 1: about her Napoleon complex, which, uh, you don't hear about 724 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:38,160 Speaker 1: a lot of women describing their Napoleon complex es. But 725 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 1: she says, I'm about five one, and that's being generous. 726 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 1: Because I'm so tiny, I find myself over overcompensating in 727 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,920 Speaker 1: certain areas, such as drinking. I've always ordered whiskey and 728 00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,799 Speaker 1: coke at bars, one because everyone knows how to make 729 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,160 Speaker 1: a whiskey and coke, and too because I know how 730 00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:57,359 Speaker 1: bartenders look at petite women like me. It doesn't help 731 00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,359 Speaker 1: that I look like I'm fourteen. I fig here it's 732 00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 1: a respectable drink that's available in many bars, and I 733 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,960 Speaker 1: just got used to the taste. Even when I ordered 734 00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 1: these drinks, I would still get the occasional condescending comments 735 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 1: or smirks. This personal preference seemed to carry over to 736 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,920 Speaker 1: my tastes and coffee as well. I started drinking Americanos 737 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,320 Speaker 1: when I started working at a cafe. My friends and 738 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,279 Speaker 1: I would also be able to predict what people would 739 00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,239 Speaker 1: order based on how they look. And in this case, 740 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 1: I am guilty of stereotyping since I judge people on 741 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,279 Speaker 1: their drink preferences. I knew firsthand what people thought about you, 742 00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 1: and I just didn't want to be placed in that box. 743 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,080 Speaker 1: Since then, I've learned to really enjoy bourbon, and I 744 00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 1: do enjoy the taste of espresso, even with the occasional 745 00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 1: steamed milk. Mostly it's now because it's simpler to drink, 746 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 1: the better it tastes. As much as I don't want 747 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,919 Speaker 1: to believe that stereotypes shaped me, I appreciate that it has. 748 00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,759 Speaker 1: My drinking preference is the tip of my Napoleon complex. 749 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,320 Speaker 1: I've been more aggressive and stubborn on certain issues because 750 00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 1: of it. I worked so hard on not fitting in 751 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:55,000 Speaker 1: those stereotypes because I didn't want to be defined by them, 752 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:58,640 Speaker 1: but eventually they affect the way I am today. So 753 00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:02,560 Speaker 1: thanks for sharing your experienced Christina, that's so funny. I'm 754 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm five too. I'm also a shorty, and I feel 755 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,719 Speaker 1: sometimes like I have to be a little over aggressive. 756 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 1: I would have never known you were five to you 757 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,239 Speaker 1: are seven ft tall in my eyes, Carol, I'm also 758 00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:19,680 Speaker 1: wearing wedges today. Usually we're a heel and wedges. Um. Yeah, No, 759 00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 1: I I get looks because not only am I really short, 760 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,680 Speaker 1: but I think something about my youthful expression makes people 761 00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,040 Speaker 1: think I am younger than I am. Um. But anyway, 762 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 1: I have a Facebook message here from Amanda. She was 763 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:35,520 Speaker 1: writing in about our thyroid episode and she has a 764 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:38,080 Speaker 1: question for me that I wanted to answer in case it, 765 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 1: you know, helps out anybody else. UM disclaimer. I have 766 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:47,759 Speaker 1: Hashimoto's thyroid itis, which is an autoimmune disorder that causes hypothyroidism, 767 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,920 Speaker 1: which can lead to all sorts of things like weight gain, 768 00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 1: brain fogginess, tiredness, brittle nails. It's really fun. So anyway, 769 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,480 Speaker 1: Amanda wrote to say you said there was a test 770 00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 1: that was helpful in diagnosis, but did not mention the 771 00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,719 Speaker 1: name was that the T s H or free T 772 00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,880 Speaker 1: three T four that ended up giving you some answers. 773 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,840 Speaker 1: I have been going through some of the same struggles. 774 00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:14,920 Speaker 1: The brain fog, weight gained despite diet and exercise, irritability, fatigue. 775 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,120 Speaker 1: My family doctor has attributed to depression and placed me 776 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:21,839 Speaker 1: on antidepressants. My T s H levels were okay two 777 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 1: years ago, but the symptoms have gotten progressively worse since then. 778 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,120 Speaker 1: I will be going back to the doctor and wanted 779 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,919 Speaker 1: to know which test to ask for. By the way, 780 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:32,120 Speaker 1: I love the show. My husband actually turned me onto 781 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:33,760 Speaker 1: you guys about a year ago, and I've been binge 782 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,200 Speaker 1: listening ever since. So I'm really glad you are Amanda 783 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,800 Speaker 1: and husband and Amanda's husband um okay. So the test 784 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,600 Speaker 1: that I had that showed there was a problem because 785 00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:46,759 Speaker 1: my UH, my T S H, and my T for 786 00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 1: free tests results were normal. But my thyro globulin A 787 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,360 Speaker 1: B test, so that's the antibodies, showed that there was 788 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:01,480 Speaker 1: an issue. The standard rain ine for thyroglobulin A B 789 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 1: is under twenty amanda Mine was eight hundred and twenty eight. 790 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:10,240 Speaker 1: So that combined with a sonogram of my neck looking 791 00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,840 Speaker 1: at my thyroid to see if there were any nodules, 792 00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:18,080 Speaker 1: if it was misshapen, anything like that, the sonogram confirmed 793 00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:21,760 Speaker 1: that I had Hashimoto's thyroid itis. That was back in October, 794 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:26,960 Speaker 1: and so I am due UH in several months for 795 00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,719 Speaker 1: a repeat of that test. And I just want to 796 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:33,880 Speaker 1: say that it is super common for you, for doctors 797 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 1: or your family to think that you are just depressed 798 00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:41,680 Speaker 1: or dealing with anxiety. And if you don't have a 799 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:43,880 Speaker 1: history of depression or anxiety, or if you don't have 800 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,160 Speaker 1: a family history of it, I think it is really 801 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,920 Speaker 1: important to get a full thyroid work up. If you 802 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,040 Speaker 1: just can't shake the weight, if you can't shake the 803 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:52,920 Speaker 1: brain fog because who knows. I mean, what could it 804 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:56,240 Speaker 1: hurt besides a couple of vials of blood. 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