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Speaker 1: If you're about to make a change in your life

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Speaker 1: and you feel uncomfortable, that's the best feeling you can have.

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Speaker 2: Because for the first time in your life, you'll make

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Speaker 2: a new decision that's going to be best for you

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Speaker 2: and not for what somebody told you to do. And

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Speaker 2: that's when all bets are off. Welcome to Money Making

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Speaker 2: Conversation Masterclass. I'm your host, Rashan McDonald.

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Speaker 1: Our theme is there's no perfect time to start following

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Speaker 1: your dreams. I recognize that we all have different definitions

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Speaker 1: of success. For you and maybe decide to your HM,

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Speaker 1: it's time to stop reading other people's success stories to

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Speaker 1: start living your own keep winning. I'm Rashan McDonald. As

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Speaker 1: you know, I host this weekly Money Making Conversation Master

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Speaker 1: Class show. The interviews and information that this show provides

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Speaker 1: are for everyone. It's time to stop reading other people's

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Speaker 1: success stories, and you know what I say, start living

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Speaker 1: your own keep winning, folks, because if you keep winning

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Speaker 1: for yourself an eventually you're going to help other people

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Speaker 1: to win. It's kind of like, you know, motivation has

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Speaker 1: to have a core point. Once you develop that core point,

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Speaker 1: then you can spread They call it love. I call

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Speaker 1: it information. My guess. Next guest is full of information.

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Speaker 1: She's a founder and president of the Financial Literacy Institute,

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Speaker 1: and she will be discussing the one hundred and third

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Speaker 1: anniversary of the Tulsa massacre and the destruction of the

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Speaker 1: Black Wall Street in Oklahoma. Plus you'll be telling us

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Speaker 1: how we can participate. Please welcome the Money Making Conversation

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Speaker 1: Master Class. Jasmine Young. How you doing, Jasmine?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing well.

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Speaker 1: How are you pretty good? First of all, where are

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Speaker 1: you based? Just get that out the way.

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Speaker 3: Based out of Atlanta, Georgia?

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Speaker 1: Are you are you? Are you born and raised in Atlanta, Georgia?

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Speaker 1: Are you relocated?

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Speaker 3: Actually no, I'm not in an Atlanta native. I was

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Speaker 3: born in Jackson, Alabama and raised in Indian Reeds. It's

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Speaker 3: about an hour above Mobile, Alabama.

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Speaker 1: Now Jackson, Alabama. Now you know, I'm from a big city. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I have a different point of view versus what

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Speaker 1: your might be. So tell us about life in Jackson, Alabama.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's very small. Everybody knows everybody. It's just a

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Speaker 3: very close knit community. We had we do have a Walmart.

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Speaker 3: That's one of the things that everybody has. We do

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Speaker 3: have a Walmart. We do have traffic lights, but most most,

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Speaker 3: most of us grew up and lived on our own land.

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Speaker 3: Dirt roads, had farms, you know, things of that native

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Speaker 3: very very country, very country.

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Speaker 1: Now now, and how did you get out of Jackson?

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Speaker 1: Was it education and broachradick Jackson? Job opportunities? How did

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Speaker 1: you get out of Jackson? What motivated you get out

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Speaker 3: It was definitely education. I left. I left my hometown

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Speaker 3: on a full scholarship to Alabama and m University in Huntsville, Alabama.

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Speaker 3: And I knew that I was going to leave and

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Speaker 3: early as the eleventh grade. So I knew that I

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Speaker 1: I love it. First of all, you still got that accent.

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Speaker 1: Now you're not getting rid of that accent. Now, You're

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Speaker 3: Astely not. I am a country girl born and braided.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love it.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: You went to the HBCU, you know, Alabama, And did

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Speaker 1: that black excellence that they're teaching academically, and Uh, these hbc.

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Speaker 3: Youths absolutely in a world where we are the minority,

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Speaker 3: going to a place where we were the majority and

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Speaker 3: my self esteem. And it also helped how I looked

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Speaker 3: And especially with the teachers that were there, they prepared

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Speaker 3: So there were things that were taught to us, like

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Speaker 3: And when I say survival skills, I'm not just talking

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Speaker 3: of that nature. No, they taught us how to operate

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Speaker 3: after me have done some amazing things coming from an HBCU.

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Speaker 3: Whereas when I expressed that I would be going to

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Speaker 3: Why would you limit yourself? When in actuality, going to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you are a motivator. I'm telling you. You know, they

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Speaker 1: A and M.

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Speaker 3: Yes, sir, listen to jazz when young.

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Speaker 1: She will teach you right because you know a lot

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Speaker 1: this interview was that your drive about financial literacy spread

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Speaker 3: That absolutely, So I learned early on that my passion

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Speaker 3: I'm blessed that both my passion and my purpose aligned

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Speaker 3: because I had a knack for numbers growing up. I

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Speaker 3: But it infuriated me to make a difference because in

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Speaker 3: all actuality, I don't believe I was fed with a

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Speaker 3: I mean, we're already in the country, but my mom

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Speaker 3: for my brother and I is they worked very very hard.

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Speaker 1: So they came from they came from eight to seventeen.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, but we had a lot of cousins, and

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Speaker 3: was no through traffic. Everybody knew everybody. It was farm

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Speaker 3: I really did come from a rich heritage, not only

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Speaker 3: not only the place that I lived. It's called Indian Ridge,

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Speaker 3: never purchased a cell phone for me. Every minute I

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Speaker 3: And it was that example that allowed us to be

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Speaker 3: And to my peers, because they weren't getting that, it

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Speaker 3: sped with a silver sponge, when in actuality, my parents

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Speaker 3: I decided that I wasn't gonna gonna become a professional singer.

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Speaker 3: Mayor Michael Jackson. I was asked, it gonna be a CPA.

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Speaker 1: Okay, though, can you sing those jasmine?

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Speaker 3: You know I can hold the tune. You know all

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Speaker 3: Jazmine, absolutely, yes, yes, And it's like now when I

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Speaker 1: This is Rashan mcdonald're listening to Money Making Conversation Masterclass

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Speaker 1: and I'm speaking to Jasmineyoung. Great story come from Jackson,

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Speaker 3: Absolutely so. The Black Wall Street Black Business Expo is

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, Now, why aren't you running for public office?

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Speaker 1: Now, when you thought of this idea, what motive did

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Speaker 1: We at business expos Congratulations, Powerful, Powerful Outlook. Powerful Outlook.

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Speaker 3: So you can go to Blackwall Street Atlanta dot org

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Speaker 1: Wow, you know, this is an amazing interview. I want

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Speaker 1: And I'm telling you that Raushan McDonald is in your life, okay,

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 1: This has been another edition of Money Making Conversation Master

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Speaker 1: Class hosted by me McDonald. Thank you to all my

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