1 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: When you were growing up and you always heard people 2 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: talk about football. 3 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 2: They would talk about like the way it was when 4 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 2: I was younger, or a coach, the way it was 5 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 2: when I was coming up. 6 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: You're not coming up. I mean you're established now. 7 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 2: But let's say fifteen years down the road, some of 8 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 2: your players are trying to tell the story of what 9 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 2: it was like when they played. You're trying to tell 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 2: the story of what it was like. How do you 11 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: even tell the story? Cause you've been a head coach 12 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 2: a few years here, None of those two years have 13 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: been the same. I don't mean your record, I mean 14 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 2: the rules, the structure of the sport, the calendar. Twenty 15 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 2: years from now, someone asks, hey, hey, coach Lashly, what 16 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 2: was it like when you were a young coach, And 17 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 2: you just got to ask which month of which year. 18 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 3: I guess at the radar, sports evolving, I don't know 19 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 3: what it would look like in twenty years. And to 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 3: your point, I've been coaching three years. All three years 21 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 3: have been completely different. Rules of engagement to the game, 22 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 3: how the portal works, how nil works, how. 23 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 4: The rules of the game work. 24 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 3: The day I got hired, basically of December one of 25 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 3: twenty two was the first December we had, you know, 26 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 3: true in IL and an unlimited transfer. That was my 27 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 3: first month on the job, and so welcome to it. 28 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 3: And so it's changed a lot. I was talking with 29 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 3: Mac Brown just last year and he said, man, the 30 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: game has changed more in the last two to three 31 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 3: years than it did my first forty. 32 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 4: And he's right, some of those changes are great. 33 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 3: But you know, change can be good if there's some 34 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 3: planning behind it, as a structure behind it. 35 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 4: Right now we're struggling to have structure behind it. 36 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 2: Don't You have to be a little compartmentalized in a 37 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 2: sense that there's part of you who loves the game 38 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 2: and you're just a fan of the game. That part 39 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 2: of you probably wants to scream about some stuff. But 40 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 2: then you're also the head coach of a major program, 41 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 2: and it's not your job to be negative. It's your 42 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: job to be positive. It's your job to make the 43 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 2: situation at hand and guide your program the best you can. 44 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 2: You don't have time to complain. I mean, people like 45 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 2: me can afford to just do one of those things. 46 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 2: You kind of got to put away that human side 47 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 2: more the natural side, and you just got to steer 48 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 2: the ship, and even if it's foggy all around and 49 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 2: you can't really tell where you're going, you got to 50 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 2: just steer the best you can. 51 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I have was saying you can't complain because 52 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 3: nobody'd listen, right, nobody care it is. You know, as 53 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 3: a coach, your job is to solve problems. That's all 54 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 3: you do. I mean, whether it's problems in game, NonStop, 55 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 3: you're just figuring out how to fix things, how to 56 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 3: solve things. So that's what we do as coaches, and 57 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 3: in a lot of ways in our sport right now, 58 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 3: the coaches, we're just catching all the challenges and just 59 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 3: figuring out the way to handle them the best we 60 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 3: can because we don't have a big voice, we don't 61 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 3: have a lot of say in what happens. But we're 62 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 3: the boots on the ground, we're the ones coaching, We're 63 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 3: the ones living at day and day out with our players. 64 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 4: So it is a challenge, you know. 65 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 3: On one hand, yes, it's the person who loves the 66 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 3: game just the peer. I love college football. I love 67 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 3: the game. It's the best game in the world. It's 68 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 3: the best team sport there is. It's a great teacher 69 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 3: of life. So many of us coach because of what 70 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 3: it did for us. So yeah, I love the game 71 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 3: person and me definitely want to scream. I care about 72 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 3: the players that I coach. I care about I still 73 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 3: call them kids. But the young men that we get 74 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 3: to recruit and coach, we desperately care about them and 75 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 3: what's best for them, both now and in the long term, 76 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 3: regardless of what people think. At the same time, those 77 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 3: two things can be true. And the number one thing 78 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 3: is I'm hired to win. I'm hired to win now 79 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 3: with the rules that have been given to me, and 80 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 3: a lot of times those three things don't line up 81 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: right now. And so that's the challenge as a coach 82 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 3: is how do you lead your program? How do you 83 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 3: lead a winning program? That's what you're hired to do. 84 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 3: That's your job, and that's what we do as coaches 85 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 3: is solve problems and figure out different ways to do things. 86 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 3: At the same time, care about your kids, care about 87 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 3: the love of the game, and want to help sustain 88 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 3: or or maintain the things that make this game great. 89 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 3: You know, because I do have concerns about the well 90 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 3: being of our young men that we're coaching now. Five ten, 91 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 3: fifteen years from now based on the way the game 92 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 3: is today. 93 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 2: You know, there's so much cynicism out there. Anytime a 94 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 2: guy who's making life changing money to coach the sport 95 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 2: says I'm looking out for the best interest of the players, 96 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 2: there's a portion of the public who just calls BS 97 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 2: on it and they say, you're not looking out for 98 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 2: the best interest to players, You're looking out for your 99 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 2: own best interest. You have to sit down with guys, 100 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 2: you have to sit down with families, and you have 101 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 2: to dispel that. And then you have to sometimes tell 102 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: a guy, don't be penny wise, pound foolish in what 103 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 2: you chase. Make forty year decisions instead of maybe four 104 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 2: year four month decisions. How hard and how much harder 105 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 2: are those conversations sometimes? Now, with the way the landscape 106 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: has evolved has of course brought in new challenges. 107 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 3: It is hard, and there is a public opinion out 108 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 3: there about that that is tough. I mean, here's what 109 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 3: I tell you. I've coached eighteen years now, and I 110 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,679 Speaker 3: was making life changing money for the first. 111 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 4: Fifteen of it. I was making good money. 112 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 3: I was able to feed my family, I was living well, 113 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 3: but I wasn't making that kind of money, as you 114 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 3: would say, you earn it. You start with as a 115 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 3: ga making nothing, or you start with your first job 116 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 3: making a couple, you know, fifty sixty thousand dollars, and 117 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 3: you work your way to those opportunities. 118 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 4: You hope you earn. 119 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 3: It, or sometimes you're fortunate and blessed and maybe you're 120 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 3: just in the right place at the right time. But 121 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 3: it doesn't change the fact that we all need to 122 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 3: learn how to grow and struggle and earn things. And look, 123 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 3: I think me and all coaches want our players to 124 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 3: get everything they can. You know, college football is the 125 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 3: best game out there. It's never been more popular, and 126 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,679 Speaker 3: it's a big business now. It's a massive industry, billions 127 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 3: of dollars. Yeah, those guys are the product. They deserve 128 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 3: to share in that. I don't think any of us 129 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 3: would try to take that from them, But how do 130 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 3: we do it in a way that teaches them life 131 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 3: reality to help them be better. I don't worry as 132 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,799 Speaker 3: much about what other people would think. Yeah, there's certain 133 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 3: things that if you say, people will really criticize you 134 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 3: and they don't maybe know your heart. I worry about 135 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 3: the players. I'm dealing with the kids were recruiting what 136 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 3: they think they If they know I care about them, 137 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 3: then I'm good. And hopefully you just live your life 138 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 3: and a way and you carry yourself and away everyone 139 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 3: else will will get it. 140 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 4: And if they don't. I mean, I'm a coach. 141 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 3: There's a lot of people who don't like my third 142 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 3: and eight calls, So I've got to have pretty thick skin. 143 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 1: You just said something there. 144 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 2: So you said, as long as you know your heart, 145 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 2: and as long as your kids know your heart, you 146 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 2: can do without what everyone else thinks. So that applies 147 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 2: to you as a coach, It applies to them as players. 148 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 2: It also applies to everyone who will watch this or 149 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 2: listen to this. Really it's applicable. 150 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: In their life as well. 151 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 2: How life changing is it when you can get someone 152 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 2: to the point where you sort of, for lack of 153 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 2: a better term, make what other people think none of 154 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 2: your business. The ones who matter know, and then you 155 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 2: take comfort in the fact that if my real ones 156 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 2: know where my heart is, I can just kind of 157 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 2: put noise cancellating headphones on and everything else. 158 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 4: It's where you want to be. 159 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 3: I mean, it's the only way you can live with 160 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,720 Speaker 3: some peace and happiness and true joy. It's hard though, 161 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 3: because we care what people think about us, you know 162 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 3: what I mean in this day and age when everything's 163 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 3: on social media and our kids are even more bombarded 164 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 3: by that. And I think that's kind of why we 165 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 3: are where we are is. Look, we're the adults in 166 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 3: the room. We being the coaches and the people that 167 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 3: are making all the rules and things that are affecting 168 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 3: college football, and it's our job to be good stewards 169 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 3: of the game, but also most importantly. 170 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 4: Do what's best for our players. 171 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 3: Doesn't mean we give them everything that's either they think 172 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 3: they want or people think they should have what's best 173 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 3: for them. Yes, they should have the ability to earn 174 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 3: money based on their name, image and likeness and what 175 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 3: they do for a sport that has grown in a 176 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 3: massive way in terms of the industry. Yes, they should 177 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 3: have the ability to have some freedom to transfer. If 178 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 3: coach can leave, they should have some freedom. But there's 179 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 3: still rules from a coach leaving, there's contracts, there's buyouts, 180 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 3: Like you don't just pick up and leave every six 181 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 3: months with no consequences. 182 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 4: Right, that's the real world. 183 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 3: And so how do we do that and find that 184 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 3: balance I think that's where the adults have to come 185 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 3: back into the room. 186 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 4: It's no different than me raising my kids. 187 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 3: I've always said my kids would have ice cream for breakfast, lunch, 188 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 3: and dinner if I'd let them. That's what they want. 189 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 3: They don't know that's not what's best for them long term. 190 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 4: Mom and dad do. That's our job. 191 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 3: So how do we give them joy, give them happiness, 192 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 3: give them love, give them what they deserve, but at 193 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 3: the same time raise them and prepare them for the future. 194 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 4: That's where we are right now. In college football. 195 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 3: We've got a little bit of an issue of we want. 196 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 3: Any coach will tell you, man, I want my players 197 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 3: to have everything they can have. I also want when 198 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 3: they're twenty seven, twenty eight, twenty nine, and thirty and 199 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 3: they're married and they have two kids, them to be 200 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 3: successful and to have learned the lessons in our great 201 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 3: game that have helped them. Because what maybe one percent 202 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 3: are going to have a second NFL contract, Most of 203 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,679 Speaker 3: them are going to be successful on other things. 204 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 4: Are we preparing them for that? 205 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 2: You guys just had a hugely successful season here. You 206 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 2: end up playing for a conference championship, you go to 207 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: the playoff, and yet you had virtually no staff turnover. Normally, 208 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 2: it's the opposite. Normally, if you achieve at a high level, 209 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 2: you're constantly having your assistance poached left and right. I 210 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 2: got to assume guys had offers, and I've got to 211 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 2: assume they stayed here because you've actually created something that 212 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 2: they want to be a part of. Now you've heard 213 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 2: the word culture ever since the day you picked up 214 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 2: a football, But now you implement one. What kind of 215 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 2: culture have you implemented here? How rewarding is or maybe 216 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 2: how validating is it? When you look around and you say, man, 217 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 2: we got kind of everyone coming back again. 218 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 3: It's fun. It's a lot more fun than having to 219 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,839 Speaker 3: replace everybody. You know, culture is a big deal. 220 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 4: It's a buzzword in our world, in our industry, and 221 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 4: but it matters team culture, staff culture matters, you know, 222 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 4: some degree, cultures what you allow or tolerate. 223 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 3: But also culture is just the norms and the things 224 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:58,319 Speaker 3: that make up you know, what you believe in. You know, 225 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 3: and as a staff, we believe that. I believe life's 226 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 3: about relationships and lives about people. Our staff believes that, 227 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 3: which also bleeds into our team. You know, you can't 228 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 3: have a healthy team with a good culture if you 229 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 3: don't have a healthy staff, because that all bleeds downhill. 230 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 3: And I credit our staff for creating the culture. We've 231 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 3: got good people, not only on the field. We've got 232 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 3: great support staff and recruiting and operations and player development 233 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 3: and all and on and on, people that you know 234 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:28,599 Speaker 3: aren't on the front lines and don't get all the glory. 235 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: We've got a group of people that we want to 236 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 3: be just honest, genuine, transparent. This is who we are. 237 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 3: We're not perfect, but we're all in this together and 238 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 3: we do. We spend time together as a staff, and 239 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 3: so it is. 240 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 4: It's good when you can win. 241 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 3: Guys are getting jobs offered deservedly so and they're taking 242 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 3: stock personally what's best for me and my family, and 243 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 3: we think right now it's best to stay and we 244 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 3: want to stay. 245 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 4: As a head coach, that's the culture you want to have. 246 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 4: We're blessed to have it now. We have to fight 247 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:00,079 Speaker 4: for it every day and defend. 248 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 3: It to keep it. And we're also not naive. If 249 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 3: we can continue to win, guys are going to get opportunities. 250 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 3: But as a leader, if guys leave this program because 251 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 3: they're getting a better opportunity, then that's what you want. 252 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 3: You know, Johnny Brewer and I have been together for 253 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 3: eleven years. Johnny Brewer was our quarterbacks coach our first 254 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 3: two years here, and he got a chance to go 255 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 3: be an office coordinator for Manny at Duke Like it 256 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 3: was a no brainer. Like we celebrated him as he went. 257 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 3: Those are the kind of moves you want people to 258 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 3: be able to make when they leave your program, and 259 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 3: until then, you want to make it as hard as 260 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,559 Speaker 3: you can or as hard as you can on them 261 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 3: to leave. 262 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 2: You've coached many different places, You've worked under many different guys. 263 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 2: I got to assume along the way you saw a 264 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:42,439 Speaker 2: lot of stuff and you said, if I ever got 265 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 2: my own program, I'm going to do this. Maybe more importantly, 266 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 2: you saw some stuff where you said, if I got 267 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 2: my program one day, it will not be like that. 268 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 2: So you know, generally, as you can possibly speak, what 269 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 2: are some of those things on each side of the 270 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 2: equation where you've kind of observed it along the way 271 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 2: and said yes in the future, no, in the future. 272 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 3: Man, tell you a lot of things. You have this 273 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 3: idea of when, hey, one day, when I'm a head coach, 274 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 3: I'm gonna do this, and then you get the job 275 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 3: and in the first two weeks you just throw all 276 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 3: that out the window and you're just trying to keep 277 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 3: your head above water. 278 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 4: You know, you're right. 279 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 3: You learn how to do a lot of things, and 280 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 3: you learn how not to do a lot of things, 281 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 3: and that's just part of the growth process. I've been 282 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 3: blessed to work for some awesome head coaches in my career. 283 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 3: I mean, I played and worked for Houston Nutt. Everyone 284 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 3: knows my relationship and time with Gus Maleson, Gene Chiswick, 285 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 3: Pat Sullivan, Randy edzel Sonny Dyke's Manny Diaz. 286 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 4: I mean, there's a. 287 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 3: Lot of Coach of the Year awards in that group, 288 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 3: and so I've learned how to do a lot of. 289 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 4: Things from them. You know. 290 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 3: The thing I think that's important to me and the 291 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 3: two things that I don't ever want to be that 292 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 3: when I said I'm gonna be a head coach and 293 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 3: even now after doing. 294 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 4: It for three years, I want to be non negotiables. 295 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a relationship with my staff like outside 296 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 3: of football, and our families as much as they're willing, 297 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 3: are going to be close, and our wives are going 298 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 3: to know each other. I know a lot of coach 299 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 3: that don't do that because they're like, well, don't get 300 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 3: too close because. 301 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 4: If you have to fire them, it makes it harder. 302 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 4: You know what, You're probably right. 303 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 3: The goal is not to have to do those things. 304 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 3: But if you have to, then those things will handle themselves. 305 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 3: But we're gonna We're gonna enjoy what we do and 306 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 3: who we do it with while we're doing it. It's 307 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 3: really too hard to do it any other way. And 308 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 3: the second thing I'll say is with the players, we 309 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 3: are still going to be about relationships and driven with 310 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 3: our players, even in a day and age where they 311 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 3: make a ton of money and the transfer portal and 312 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 3: you're not really programed building anymore. 313 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 4: You're team building every year. 314 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 3: I don't know any other way to do it because 315 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 3: the fundamentals of our game haven't changed. You can coach 316 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 3: them as your hard hard as you're willing to love them, 317 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 3: and they do not care deep down what we are 318 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 3: telling them and doing. If they don't know we love 319 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 3: them and care about them. And so those are two 320 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 3: things and things I don't ever want to compromise, like 321 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 3: I want to make sure that the people on our 322 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 3: staff and in our building they know a bare minimum 323 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 3: I care about them and I'm trying to do the 324 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 3: best I can for them, even if it doesn't always 325 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 3: work out that way. And I don't ever want a 326 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 3: player to come through this program, whether they transfer out 327 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 3: early or whether they graduate and leave and not know. 328 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 3: You know, I may out have agreed with what coach did, 329 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 3: or I may nott of liked this or like that, 330 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 3: but I know. 331 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 4: He cared about me, and that's the most important thing 332 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 4: to me. 333 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 2: You probably got guys sitting in your office all the time, 334 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 2: maybe coaches, definitely players, and they're at various low points 335 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 2: in their life. They're looking for someone to listen to them. 336 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 2: But also, if I'm talking to the authority figure in 337 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 2: the building, I want to know he can relate to 338 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 2: what I'm going through. If I'm going through the worst 339 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 2: part of my career professionally or scholastically. 340 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: What are some of the. 341 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 2: Things you draw, What are some of the stories you 342 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 2: tell guys about your playing or coaching career, And you say, hey, 343 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 2: I can't relate exactly, but trust me, I generally know 344 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 2: how you feel because fill in the blank. 345 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, you always are trying to find a way to 346 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 3: identify and not necessarily say I totally get it, but 347 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 3: build a little bit of a connection. I've been in 348 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 3: a similar situation you're in that worked out okay. 349 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 4: And let me help you through that. 350 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 3: Because when you're going through something tough in life, whether 351 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 3: you're a player or just any of us, when you're 352 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 3: in the middle of the storm, you can never see 353 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 3: outside in front of your face because it just seems 354 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 3: everything is right on top of you. 355 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 4: It seems terrible and. 356 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 3: You can't truly appreciate that there is something on the 357 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 3: other side of it. 358 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 4: And a lot of times. 359 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 3: You're learning things that you didn't know are gonna help 360 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 3: you later in life in this difficult situation, because adversity 361 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 3: makes us all better. And so try to explain to someone, hey, 362 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 3: you're going through this, whether it's with your family personally, 363 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 3: with you, things you're struggling with, disappointments, playing time, whatnot. 364 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 3: You know, any range of things are struggling with. You 365 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 3: want to identify with them to where you can say, look, 366 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 3: I've been in a similar situation. I know it's hard 367 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 3: right now, and I know you can't see the other 368 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 3: side of this, but you're gonna come out on the 369 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 3: other side of it. And when you do, five, ten, 370 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 3: fifteen years from now, you're gonna look back and remember 371 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 3: this time and go, Wow, that time actually made me better. 372 00:15:57,840 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 3: And if I was in charge of my life, I'd 373 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 3: have pulled myself out of it, but thank god I wasn't, 374 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 3: and I got left in the middle of this yuck 375 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 3: and this thing I didn't like. But when you're older 376 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 3: and you've been through those experiences, you can have those 377 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 3: conversations and hope to show them Look, I've been through this, 378 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 3: this and this I didn't understand it, then this is 379 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 3: how it worked out for me. Okay, Now in the moment, 380 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 3: let's just worry about today. What can we do to 381 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 3: make it a little better right now? How can we 382 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 3: help you get through this time you're struggling with instead 383 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 3: of trying to. 384 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 4: You know, find ways just out. 385 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 3: We all want out, But how do we how do 386 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 3: we thrive through the adversity to where one day it 387 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 3: truly made us better and served. 388 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 4: The purpose that it was there for. 389 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 2: No this concept now, so being able to be the 390 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: director or the producer of your life and watching it 391 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 2: play out and knowing if I was in charge, I 392 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 2: would I would have pulled the plug at various points. 393 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 2: I know where I'd go in my life, Like I'd 394 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 2: go back to local news days and you're making nothing 395 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 2: and you don't know if anyone's watching. It's it's local 396 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 2: news too, so it's not really fun. Are there like 397 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 2: specific points in your in your timeline where you go 398 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 2: back and you look at you say, there's a dot, 399 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 2: there's a dot, there's a dot. 400 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm glad I wasn't in charge. Lever would have 401 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: been pulled. 402 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 4: Right there, one one hundred percent. 403 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 3: I'm glad God's in charge of my life because if 404 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 3: I was, I wouldn't be sitting right here. You know, 405 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 3: from when I was a player. I was a really 406 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 3: good high school player. I went to college. I didn't 407 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 3: amount to much my claim to fame as I was 408 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 3: a backup to Matt Jones at Arkansas and uh yeah, sure, 409 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 3: I tore my shoulder up and did this and did that. 410 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 3: It didn't work out how I wanted to. Looking back, 411 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 3: I can see why I went through some of those experiences. 412 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 3: Maybe some of the decisions I made that contributed to 413 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 3: it as well, thinking more maybe easily relatable currently as 414 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 3: a coach. You know, I'm twenty nine when I get 415 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 3: to be the OC at Auburn. We win the Kick six. 416 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 3: I'm thirty when we're playing Florida State for a national 417 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 3: championship game. 418 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 4: MC Bry's Award finalists. 419 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 3: And for the next eight or nine years, everybody just 420 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 3: assumes I'm going to be a head coach. I'd like 421 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 3: to be a head coach. I interview every year for 422 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 3: a head job. I'm not getting head jobs. 423 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,159 Speaker 4: Now. Fast forward to twenty sixteen. We're four years in. 424 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 3: We'd go with the Sugar Bowl, but it's just not 425 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 3: working and I need to go out and do it 426 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 3: on my own. Well, really, the only option that I 427 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 3: went to I go to Connecticut. Everybody's like, what are 428 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 3: you doing? What's going on? I'm probably thinking the same thing. 429 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,959 Speaker 3: That year at Connecticut we went three and nine. We 430 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 3: weren't very good. You know, offensively we got better, but 431 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 3: we didn't win a lot of games. 432 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 4: In that moment, I'm. 433 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 3: Sitting here questioning why am I doing this, and I'm like, hey, 434 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 3: maybe I should just I mean, I told my wife 435 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,679 Speaker 3: on several occasions, maybe I should just get out. You know, 436 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 3: I coached it in twenty eleven at Stanford, I coached 437 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 3: a young a set of twins. Their dad works for 438 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:31,640 Speaker 3: Chick fil A. Maybe I can go get a Chick 439 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:32,400 Speaker 3: fil A somewhere. 440 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:33,679 Speaker 4: You know, they make good livings. 441 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 3: They only work six days a week and that line's 442 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 3: always long, like you know, and it's always a pleasure, right, 443 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 3: So maybe we can do that, make a good living, 444 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 3: enjoy our family, like we don't need all this. In 445 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 3: those moments, you're in the middle of it and you 446 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 3: can't see past the adversity. But now, sitting here, three 447 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 3: years into being a head coach, I know why I 448 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 3: needed to go through those steps. I can look back now. 449 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 3: I wouldn't have then see why I needed that season 450 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 3: at Auburn, that year at Connecticut. I needed for Sonny 451 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:05,199 Speaker 3: to bring me here to SMU for two years. I 452 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 3: needed to go to Miami and do that, like, I 453 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 3: needed those steps to better prepare me for this, and 454 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 3: I didn't know it at the time, and I think 455 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 3: it's helped me be a better head coach when I 456 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 3: did get that opportunity. And again, if I was in charge, 457 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 3: I'd probably been a head coach somewhere else sooner. Instead, 458 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 3: I'm blessed to be the head coach at SMU at 459 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 3: a perfect time to be the head coach at SMU. 460 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:27,880 Speaker 4: It just all worked out. 461 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:31,680 Speaker 3: But in the middle of twenty sixteen twenty seventeen, if 462 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 3: I was in charge, I just pulled myself out and 463 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:36,199 Speaker 3: put me at this school and said, let's go. 464 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 4: Sure every by what you can do. 465 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 3: I needed that process in that time, and I would 466 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 3: have never known it in the moment. 467 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 2: You know, when I was growing up, Like I remember, 468 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 2: I remember literally saying prayers when I was sixteen. There's 469 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 2: this girl I like, and I remember praying, Hey, if 470 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 2: you just give me like one call in life, I'm 471 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 2: using it right now, I'm calling it in and she's 472 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 2: it did not work, And of course, in retrospect, you're 473 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 2: glad it didn't work. But like at the same time, 474 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 2: I remember thinking to myself professionally, everyone wants their big break. 475 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 2: Everyone's looking for their big break. And I remember twenty sixteen, 476 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 2: seventeen eighteen, I'm just fully convinced, man, it's time for 477 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 2: my big break. It didn't come. Thank God, it didn't come. 478 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 2: And so then it does come later on, and you 479 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 2: learn what you didn't know because you couldn't have known it. 480 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 2: And then you see which doors are opened three years 481 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 2: down the road that didn't even exist three years. 482 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: Prior, so it wasn't time yet. 483 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:28,639 Speaker 2: And all the while you realize that, Okay, but this 484 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 2: right here, Lord Willing, is not the final chapter of 485 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 2: my book. So even now I'm probably sitting here wishing 486 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,719 Speaker 2: for things and asking for things that I'm not ready for. 487 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 2: So it's not just like I'm infinitely wise now and 488 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 2: all that's in the past. 489 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 1: It's in the presence. 490 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 2: Still some of it's in the future, because you know, 491 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 2: you're not sitting here talking to me in your early nineties. 492 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 2: You're talking to me in your early forties. And so 493 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 2: when you kind of look at the rest of your career, 494 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 2: how much does that guide you to know that it's unknown. Man, 495 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna sit in the here and now. But 496 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:01,160 Speaker 2: at least I'm not told totally ignorant to the ways 497 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 2: of the world anymore. 498 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 3: Well, I think having that experience gives you the perspective 499 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 3: to then when the challenges come again in the forties, 500 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 3: you go, Okay, this isn't fun. 501 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 4: I don't enjoy this, but I've been here in some 502 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 4: version before. 503 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 3: I know if I can just push through this, it 504 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 3: may be it may be for a good reason, or 505 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 3: it may just be part of life. Right, And so 506 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 3: I think the hardest thing for me and probably anyone 507 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,400 Speaker 3: else is to how do I have goals and big 508 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,400 Speaker 3: dreams and things I want to accomplish, because you got 509 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:31,679 Speaker 3: to have it. 510 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 4: If you don't have it, I mean. 511 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:36,120 Speaker 3: Without vision, you're going nowhere at the same time live 512 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 3: and be present in the moment, and that is so 513 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 3: hard to do. Like, I'll never forget. In twenty eleven, 514 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,719 Speaker 3: Pat Sullivan had hired me to be the OS at Sanford. 515 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 4: I was twenty seven. I have no idea why he 516 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 4: hired me other than we just won a national title 517 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 4: so and I was at Auburn, so that's all connected 518 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 4: for him. 519 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 3: But like, I didn't do it right, and he's given 520 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 3: me a first time OC job at twenty seven. 521 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 4: I didn't know. I mean I thought I knew what 522 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,239 Speaker 4: I was doing and I had it all ironed out. 523 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 3: Right, I'm going to go there and hey, we're gonna 524 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 3: turn They scored seventeen points a game. We're gonna be 525 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 3: so much better. And man, in two years, I'll be 526 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 3: the OC at this school. In three years, I'll be 527 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 3: the head coach there. I mean, And I remember sitting 528 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 3: in my office at June. No one was there and 529 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 3: I just kind of looked out. My boys were not 530 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 3: even a year old yet. So I had twin boys born, 531 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 3: been married a couple of years. I'm the OC at Sanmford. 532 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,679 Speaker 3: Nobody really knew where I was and I could make mistakes, 533 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 3: but I didn't know that yet. I remember just thinking, 534 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 3: you know, God just allowed me to have this piece 535 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 3: of perspective for a moment. 536 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 4: I said, how cool is this. 537 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 3: You're twenty seven, You're getting a call offensive place for 538 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 3: a former Heisman winner, You like living in Birmingham, you 539 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:39,360 Speaker 3: got healthy, like, just enjoy it. And I did and 540 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 3: I didn't mean to. But by twenty nine I was 541 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 3: OC at Auburn, right, But I didn't think for the 542 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 3: next two years about man, I just got to go 543 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,360 Speaker 3: get that, like, and that's so hard. It's so hard 544 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 3: for kids to do, it's hard for adults to do. 545 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 3: Is how can I stay present? Because the reality is 546 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 3: if I don't do a good job with where I 547 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 3: am right now, nothing else is gonna happen. 548 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,400 Speaker 2: It's one of the great struggles being like process orient though, 549 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 2: of being the process oriented person who's always about you 550 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 2: know what it takes to achieve, and you got mid 551 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 2: tier and big tier long term goals. But at the 552 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,679 Speaker 2: same time, happiness can sometimes like be an enemy of 553 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,719 Speaker 2: that because you almost think happiness is an illusion. I'm 554 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 2: not supposed to sit here and look around. I'm not 555 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,160 Speaker 2: supposed to smile. I'm not supposed to take a deep breath. 556 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,679 Speaker 2: I got to keep going, going, going. You can do both, 557 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 2: but is it sometimes not hard? You're describing that right now. 558 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 2: You were happy in your late twenties. You weren't where 559 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 2: you were headed, but you were happy in your late twenties, 560 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,439 Speaker 2: and sometimes you got to know you can kick your 561 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 2: feet up for a little while, not indefinitely, but you 562 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 2: can take a look around, maybe even there to give 563 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 2: yourself a quick pat on the back as long as 564 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 2: no one's looking, yeah, and then you get back to work. 565 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 3: I do think you have to give yourself credit when 566 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,439 Speaker 3: credit is due, and when you have successes, you have 567 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 3: to take a moment appreciate it, celebrate it, but also 568 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 3: humbly appreciate maybe how hard it was to get there, 569 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,120 Speaker 3: others helped you, and know that it's fleeting. You know, 570 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 3: I think anybody in our business who gets the Guru 571 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 3: bird on their shoulder two or three years later, they're 572 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,200 Speaker 3: almost like out of the business. 573 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:04,400 Speaker 4: It's crazy, right, And so. 574 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think at the end of the day, I 575 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 3: just have to be comfortable in any of us too, 576 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 3: just to be able to stay present, which is a 577 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,199 Speaker 3: daily struggle for any of us and not kind of 578 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 3: have strategy drift or get your mind so far off 579 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 3: that you lose focus of the here and now thinking 580 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 3: about what could be. Is you just have to be 581 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 3: comfortable knowing you're not the author of your story. You 582 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,919 Speaker 3: can't control the future as much as we want to, 583 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 3: and so it's like, man, let's enjoy where we are now. 584 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 3: My wife and I have felt that way. I mean, 585 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,199 Speaker 3: our boys are turning fourteen. We've lived in ten homes 586 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 3: in fourteen years, so we've moved plenty, and every move 587 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 3: has been a good move, but also a hard move 588 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,679 Speaker 3: because we were leaving behind people we cared about. 589 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 4: But we also weren't. 590 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:50,359 Speaker 3: Scared to dive in where we were and create relationships 591 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 3: and try to get some deep roots, knowing that they're 592 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 3: going to get ripped out at some point and that's 593 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 3: not going to be fun, but that's the only way 594 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 3: to live, and so that's what we do the best 595 00:24:59,320 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 3: we can. 596 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 4: But it is hard. 597 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 2: The coaching existence is about as close to the military 598 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 2: family existence, I think as you can get in a 599 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 2: sense that you get calloused to moving and you move 600 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 2: in and sometimes you look at a box and you say, 601 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 2: why even unpack this, We're gonna pack it right back 602 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,920 Speaker 2: up in thirty six months, forty eight months. Why even 603 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,119 Speaker 2: get to know the neighbors. It's just gonna make it 604 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 2: harder to say goodbye. I mean, do you ever sort 605 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 2: of over the course of ten moves start to develop 606 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 2: a mentality like that. 607 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 4: Well, and that's the callous and you got to guard 608 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 4: against it. 609 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 3: And it's so easy to happen to us, right is 610 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,880 Speaker 3: I'm just we just took this new job, but we're 611 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,800 Speaker 3: not going to get too close to everybody because we 612 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 3: know we're just going to move and that's just no 613 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 3: way to live your life. Right But yeah, I mean 614 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 3: there's been a couple moves. After the third move, I'm like, 615 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 3: that box was from three moves ago. We probably need 616 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 3: to get rid of it. We haven't really needed it lately, 617 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 3: you know, what I mean. And to your point, you 618 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,440 Speaker 3: kind of get this itch like we're starting our fourth 619 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 3: season here. We have no intention to move, we don't 620 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 3: want to move, but we're moving houses within Dallas. We're 621 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,880 Speaker 3: moving three miles in the next month, probably just because that. 622 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,159 Speaker 4: Two or three year window, we feel like we're supposed 623 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,880 Speaker 4: to move. And to your point, you know. 624 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 3: People always sometimes when you compare it to the military, 625 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 3: it has nothing comparison in terms of what the military 626 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,879 Speaker 3: people do. But the comparison is, you know, there's a 627 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 3: couple of people that they belong really to. 628 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 4: The community, and it's the. 629 00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 3: Military, it's pastors, it's law enforcement and fire department services, 630 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 3: and it's ball coaches. Because I got four kids at 631 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:29,880 Speaker 3: home and a wife, also got one hundred and five 632 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 3: plus guys on this team, a full staff, an entire 633 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:37,919 Speaker 3: SMU family to answer to, and you belong to that community. 634 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 3: But with our job, we're kind of almost like independent contractors. 635 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 3: And a lot of times you're moving constantly and you 636 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 3: can get callous to it, or you can choose to 637 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 3: embrace every move and where you are and say, you 638 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 3: know what, we're gonna be thankful for where we were 639 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 3: and we're gonna find the best in this while we're here. 640 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 3: We don't know how long we're going to be here 641 00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 3: as much as we think we do, and we're going 642 00:26:58,640 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 3: to live in the moment enjoy it. 643 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 2: A few minutes ago, you talked about something you talked 644 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 2: about being at Auburn in the early twenty teens. You 645 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 2: talked about being there on the field wearing a headset 646 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,879 Speaker 2: when the kick six happens. And I mean you probably 647 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 2: realized this is insane at the time. But now we've 648 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,960 Speaker 2: got a decade's plus hindsight, and I think more and 649 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 2: more you look back on that and you realize that 650 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 2: is the total golden age of SEC football. You're going 651 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 2: up against the best of all time in your own 652 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 2: state in Nick Saban, and then you've also got four 653 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,359 Speaker 2: or five other programs that are banging out double digit 654 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 2: win seasons and just live bullets flying constantly. How wild 655 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,920 Speaker 2: was coaching in the SEC in that era? 656 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 4: It was wild? 657 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 3: It was awesome, and you do pinch yourself and go, man, 658 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,639 Speaker 3: some of the moments you got to be a part of, 659 00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 3: Like I remember in six is a GA we had 660 00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:51,640 Speaker 3: Darren mcfatten at Arkansas. 661 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 1: And Felix Jones and Felix Jones. 662 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 4: And Peyton Hillis you know what I mean. 663 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 3: And that was my first year of coaching as a 664 00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,919 Speaker 3: GA and then twenty ten with Cam Newton and then 665 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 3: you go to thirteen. To your point, you know after 666 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 3: that game, right, that happened the field storm. An hour 667 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 3: after the game, I think we even walked up to 668 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 3: Tumor's corner, which we never did, like we got to 669 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,119 Speaker 3: take this in going home, and I remember my wife 670 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:15,920 Speaker 3: didn't really get it, so I think I probably told 671 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 3: my dad and some friends like this is the Stanford 672 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 3: cow Band is on the field game of my generation. 673 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 3: Like twenty five years from now on Thanksgiving and Christmas, 674 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 3: they're going to be rolling this highlight as the top 675 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 3: ten all time finishes and they have been for twelve 676 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 3: years now. And to get to be in it, I 677 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 3: think helped grow my love for the game and for 678 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 3: the competitive aspect of it. 679 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 4: Also for my appreciation of how. 680 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,239 Speaker 3: Hard it is to win and how hard it is 681 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 3: to get to those moments and be a part of 682 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 3: some of those great rivalries, whether it be to your point, 683 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 3: that Iron Bowl, it was one verse four. I think 684 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 3: there had never been an overtime in the history of 685 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 3: the Iron Bowl at that time, and we were one 686 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 3: second away from going to overtime and then it kicks excels. 687 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 3: You know, So just to get to experience that it 688 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 3: is pretty special. 689 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 2: How frequently are you looking at examples from times like 690 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 2: those and being able to apply them? Everyone wants to 691 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 2: use their experience to draw on when they're trying to 692 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 2: succeed from now moving forward, But like, what are some 693 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 2: specific things, what are some specific lessons that you find 694 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 2: yourself just regularly drawing on now that you're the head 695 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 2: coach at SMU. 696 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 3: Well, I think you know that's always the challenge is 697 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 3: how do you take past experiences and not just cookie 698 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,720 Speaker 3: cutter them to this team because this team is different 699 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,959 Speaker 3: than that team, but the experience may be similar, and 700 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:39,720 Speaker 3: so those experiences should help you maybe handle a situation better. 701 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 3: But then you got to tailor it and custom fit 702 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 3: it to your team. So, for example, you know, the 703 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 3: twenty thirteen team, we go on this run of wins 704 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 3: where though, but if at any point in time, if 705 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 3: we lose a game, you know, once it got known 706 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 3: to hey we're seven and one, okay, now we're in contention. Well, 707 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,959 Speaker 3: you have to win every week so the pressure just 708 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 3: builds every week. And then there was the Georgia game, 709 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 3: and then there's the Iron Bowl, and then there's the 710 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 3: SEC title game. 711 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 4: And if you slip up one time, there is no 712 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 4: national title game, you know what I mean, There is 713 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 4: no SEC Championship. Then you come to here. 714 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 3: Well, my second year here, we hadn't won a championship 715 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 3: in forty years since Eric Dickerson was playing. 716 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 4: And we start out two and two. We lose to 717 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 4: Oklahoma on the road. 718 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 3: Like the games we lost, people probably would have said 719 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 3: we'd have lost, and we start our conference season. Well, 720 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 3: it ended up we had to run the table and 721 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 3: go eight to zero in our conference just to make 722 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 3: the conference championship game because TWU Lane and Memphis records 723 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 3: were up there. So now you're midway through your season 724 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,640 Speaker 3: and you're four to zero in the league and you're going, 725 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 3: we got four games up, then we can't afford the loss. 726 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 3: Being in a situation like that helps you draw up 727 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 3: on how do you get your team focused and prepared 728 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 3: each week as you get closer to the goal of 729 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 3: a championship and not lose sight of staying present, because hey, 730 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,240 Speaker 3: if we don't beat whoever, it is this week, the 731 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 3: next week doesn't matter, like each week gets bigger and 732 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 3: bigger and bigger. Same thing this year happened in the 733 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 3: acc like down the stretch trying to get to Charlotte. 734 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 3: We had no room for error to get to Charlotte, 735 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 3: and we had definitely no room for error to make 736 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 3: the playoff. So having those three scenarios are all very 737 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 3: similar experiences, but three totally different teams, and how you 738 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 3: handle them isn't exactly cookie cutter to each team. You 739 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 3: got to know your team. You have to know the 740 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,479 Speaker 3: experience and now how do I handle it with this 741 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 3: group to where I can focus them on Man, there's 742 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 3: a lot of excitement. All you hear is alt, well, 743 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 3: if we can win the next three games this and 744 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 3: as soon as you get ahead of yourself, you're going 745 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,479 Speaker 3: to stumble, and those experiences help you as a coach 746 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,240 Speaker 3: and the growth you take. Okay, this year's team, this 747 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 3: is what they need to hear to get what we 748 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 3: need to accomplish. This year's team, this is what we 749 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 3: need to do. And I don't hope that answers that 750 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 3: question a little bit. 751 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 1: This whole. 752 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 2: The Down the Stretch part of this past year, when 753 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:54,800 Speaker 2: you realize playoffs are a real possibility, ACC championships real possibility. 754 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 2: There's this thing that there's this mode that coaches shift 755 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 2: into about the time the playoff committee starts releasing their rankings, 756 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,480 Speaker 2: and it just basically becomes politicking. 757 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 1: And it's almost like you're reading off a. 758 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 2: Pr one sheet of well, here's what we've done, here's 759 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 2: our notable accomplishments, and the public learns to sort of 760 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 2: filter it out accordingly. Okay, but every given year there's 761 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 2: someone who's really telling the truth out there, and then 762 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 2: there are other people who are just saying what they're 763 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 2: saying because they're wearing the logo on the polo. So 764 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 2: you get to the a SEC championship game doesn't go 765 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 2: your way in the end. So I've got you giving 766 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 2: your perspective. You got to Boord doing the same. You 767 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 2: got Kiff and doing the same. You got Shane Beemer 768 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 2: doing the same. Sometimes maybe one day in your career, 769 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 2: you'll find yourself in a position where we probably don't 770 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 2: deserve to be in, but I'm gonna try anyway. However, 771 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 2: I could tell you didn't feel that way this past year, 772 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 2: and so there's this longing I would assume inside to say, 773 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 2: all right, look, SMU deserves to be in here. But 774 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 2: I'm dead serious, I'm not just saying this like SMU 775 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:53,200 Speaker 2: deserves to be Yeah, I was watching. I remember watching 776 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 2: at the time the postgame press conference in Charlotte, and 777 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,000 Speaker 2: you just lost, Like there's still the fog of the 778 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 2: game still you and yet you have to go into 779 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 2: this press setting and not even talk about the Clemson game. 780 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,400 Speaker 2: You're talking about why we should be in the playoff. 781 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,640 Speaker 2: And then it's like, I don't care what I say anyway, 782 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 2: but if they do, just know I'm not just saying this. 783 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 2: We actually really do deserve to be in How weird 784 00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 2: was that whole eleven or twelve hour period. 785 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 4: It was weird. 786 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,640 Speaker 3: It was surreal to find yourself in those positions as 787 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 3: a coach. 788 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 4: To your point, you kind of have no choice. You 789 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:24,479 Speaker 4: have to fight four team. 790 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:26,280 Speaker 3: And that's why as coaches, we don't get mad at 791 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 3: other coaches when they say whatever they say, because they're 792 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 3: just fighting. 793 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 4: For their team. 794 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 3: That's our job as a coach is to fight for 795 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 3: our team. You know, I knew when the playoff the 796 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 3: initial rankings came out last year and we were I 797 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 3: think thirteenth or fourteenth, we were like we were just 798 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 3: one outside, but like they did rank us ahead of 799 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 3: some of those SEC schools originally. I mean, on one hand, 800 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,239 Speaker 3: I was like, man, I'm appreciative they gave us our 801 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 3: program the respect of we're right there. 802 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 4: At the same time, you looked at it and go, 803 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 4: we probably have to win. 804 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 3: The league in all fairness, right, And so to get there, 805 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 3: to get to that point where we'd gone undefeated in 806 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 3: our conference, we had beaten like three ranked teams when 807 00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 3: we beat them that were then no longer ranked. Don't 808 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 3: even get me started on how ranked teams should matter 809 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 3: or not matter, because they're ranked by people's opinion, so 810 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 3: it's not even a fair baseline. 811 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 4: But anyways, here you. 812 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 3: Know, just knowing how it went down and knowing that 813 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,840 Speaker 3: at some point, I know the leagues, I've been in 814 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 3: those leagues. 815 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 4: I get it some leagues are stronger than others. 816 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,759 Speaker 3: There's always those arguments, but at some point it does 817 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 3: matter did you win, did you win the games that 818 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 3: you could win and run your schedule, and did you 819 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,759 Speaker 3: earn the right to be in? And I felt like 820 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 3: one we had earned the right to be in, and 821 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,600 Speaker 3: then more importantly, we were in going into that weekend. 822 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 3: So if the committee is already saying we're in, you 823 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,919 Speaker 3: can't punish us for playing in a championship game when 824 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 3: two or three of these schools you're saying could jump us. 825 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,040 Speaker 4: By not qualifying for their championship game. 826 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 3: That to me where it becomes the integrity of our sport, 827 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 3: Like what do we want our sports to look like 828 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 3: in five or ten years. This decision could shape that. 829 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 3: But have to be in that position. Look, if we 830 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 3: win the game, we don't have to be in that position. 831 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 3: So as a competitor, you always realize we could have 832 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 3: just handled it ourselves. 833 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 4: But it was not a fun position to be in. 834 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 3: At the same time, I felt it and the gravity 835 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,719 Speaker 3: of that moment in Charlotte, to your direct question, was 836 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 3: I had just left a locker room where I could 837 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 3: feel our guys who just lost a great game by 838 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 3: a last second, fifty six yard field goal to a 839 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,279 Speaker 3: team that had won eight of the last ten by 840 00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 3: like an average of twenty three points in that league. 841 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 3: I could feel their disappointment was that we didn't win 842 00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,879 Speaker 3: the acc which we really wanted to do. But their 843 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 3: real disappointment was they all felt like twelve hours from now, 844 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,239 Speaker 3: they were going to realize we just lost our chance 845 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 3: at the playoff. 846 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,760 Speaker 4: And as a coach, that's what really was weighing heavy 847 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 4: on me. 848 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,920 Speaker 2: First off, I can't believe he hit that kick. I 849 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 2: was on a rental car bus and I'm watching like this. 850 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 2: I'm saying I got right behind him. As soon as 851 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 2: it left his foot, I took my headset off and 852 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 2: handed it. It was like a no doubt or off 853 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:58,400 Speaker 2: the bat, like as soon as he kicked it, you 854 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,560 Speaker 2: just knew he got all of it on something. So 855 00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 2: I want to I don't want to ignore this. You 856 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 2: just said something that if I had an actual drum 857 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 2: in my studio, I would bang the drum as I 858 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 2: talk about the whole ranked wins concept. 859 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:12,399 Speaker 1: So I've always been of. 860 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 2: The opinion, although it would be imperfect, that we should 861 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 2: have a system that defines the value of the game 862 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 2: you played the day you play it. And there could 863 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 2: be some wiggle room if I play you early in 864 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,240 Speaker 2: the year and no one thinks SMU is worth anything, 865 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 2: but then you go on to go on a run 866 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 2: and I beat you by seven early in the year, 867 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 2: maybe that win I got could increase in value. But 868 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,840 Speaker 2: what I detest is I play twenty third ranked SMU 869 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,760 Speaker 2: midway through the year, I beat you forty nine to thirteen, 870 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 2: your season goes off the rails and retroactively. I don't 871 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 2: get credit for beating you. I don't get credit for 872 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 2: you being ranked. I don't get credit for basically knocking 873 00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:50,399 Speaker 2: you off kilter. And at the end of the whole thing, 874 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,879 Speaker 2: some committee members are going to say that's not really 875 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,400 Speaker 2: a quality win. Once upon a time we thought it was, 876 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 2: but it's not. Nothing's changed since they played the game. 877 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,280 Speaker 2: Mind you, the game was the game. I've hated that forever. 878 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've got a system that's alternate 879 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:03,880 Speaker 1: to that, I've hated it well. 880 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 3: I don't think ranked win should as long as ranking 881 00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 3: is done, Like I voted in the coaches poll, I 882 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,399 Speaker 3: get there's an eight pe pole, and I get there's 883 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,799 Speaker 3: a committee. But as long as ranking is done by 884 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,880 Speaker 3: people's opinions, which is fine, the human element of our 885 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,359 Speaker 3: game is great, then that can't be the barometer though 886 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:20,959 Speaker 3: that we measure a ranked Right to your. 887 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 4: Point, BYU beat us. 888 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,880 Speaker 3: Here in week three we weren't ranked, but later in 889 00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,960 Speaker 3: the year we were top ten. Well they were. Do 890 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 3: they get credit for a ranked win or not. We 891 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,000 Speaker 3: go on the road at Louisville, which was probably the 892 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 3: catapulting win of our season. We just beat Flourida State 893 00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:36,680 Speaker 3: at home. Nobody knew they were going to go two 894 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,040 Speaker 3: and ten and we just beat them forty two to sixteen. 895 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 3: We don't get a lot of credit for that. Well, 896 00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 3: we go to Louisville, they're ranked. We went on the 897 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,040 Speaker 3: road at a top twenty five Louisville. That's a big win. 898 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,440 Speaker 3: But later in the year, because they stumble at Stanford, 899 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,759 Speaker 3: that's no longer a ranked win, you know what I mean. 900 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,799 Speaker 3: And then you have the committee ranking teams late in 901 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 3: the year and they choose to rank in Illinois over 902 00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 3: a Syracuse or a Louisville or a Duke. Well that 903 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,719 Speaker 3: helps one and hurts the other. And so we kept hearing, well, 904 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,640 Speaker 3: they have ranked wins, they have ranked wins. Well, like 905 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 3: to me, there's got to be a better way to 906 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:11,759 Speaker 3: gauge what power is. You know, we don't have a 907 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 3: consistent system, you know, like an RPI or as much 908 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 3: as I don't think people didn't like the BCS, they 909 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 3: didn't like the idea that deep down there was just 910 00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 3: two teams. 911 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So. 912 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 3: If you have a let's all as college football. Just 913 00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,759 Speaker 3: get the four main leagues and say what's important. You know, 914 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,080 Speaker 3: road winds Are they important? I don't know, are they? 915 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 3: You know, ten wins a year is that important? 916 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 4: Like? 917 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 3: Pick the four to five data points that we say 918 00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,760 Speaker 3: this is the most fair way to judge the strength 919 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,040 Speaker 3: of a team, and put it in your computer and 920 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,160 Speaker 3: let that thing spit. 921 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,319 Speaker 4: It out and tell you if it was a good 922 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 4: win or not. 923 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 3: You know, I don't want to lose the human element, 924 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 3: but when you have I said this back when I 925 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 3: was kind of having the politic for SMU. I vote 926 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,799 Speaker 3: in the coach's poll and it's hard. I have a 927 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:56,640 Speaker 3: lot of respect for the committee. They have a hard 928 00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 3: decision when they're picking them between SMU and Alabama and 929 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 3: Indiana at the ends. 930 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 4: That's hard. 931 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,880 Speaker 3: But it's also not fair to them or to us 932 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,240 Speaker 3: to have a committee of people that are current sitting 933 00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 3: ads in certain conferences. 934 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:12,240 Speaker 4: How about let's. 935 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 3: Pick eight people, two from the SEC Big ten, Big twelve, 936 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,920 Speaker 3: and acc former coaches that are retired. They are equal 937 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:23,320 Speaker 3: distribution on how they're represented, and they're former ball coaches 938 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 3: so they know what looks. 939 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 4: Good and what doesn't. 940 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:28,400 Speaker 3: You know, that could be a committee, if we're going 941 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 3: to use a committee to just give it some fair 942 00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 3: and unbiased because good people can still be biased if you. 943 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 4: Put me on that committee. I was putting smu in right. 944 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 3: And so when your committee chair is an ad of 945 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,240 Speaker 3: a power school and one of the conferences that has schools, 946 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 3: and it just feels like it's impossible for that. So 947 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,440 Speaker 3: I don't love the ranked wins deal just because it 948 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,320 Speaker 3: can be controlled by people's biased. 949 00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:00,799 Speaker 2: It ended up working out for you. But Jag and 950 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,879 Speaker 2: Lieu of something we were talking about a little while ago. 951 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:05,360 Speaker 2: If it's out of your control, it's out of your control. 952 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 2: You're trying to control the controllables. And for you, that 953 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:11,360 Speaker 2: meant I can control how I deal with this team, 954 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:13,719 Speaker 2: whether they make it, which they did, But there was 955 00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 2: also this scenario B where they don't make it. And 956 00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,400 Speaker 2: I remember watching Mike Norvell the year before when they 957 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 2: get shut out and they got that live feed, which 958 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:24,120 Speaker 2: is debatable in and of itself to have, and his 959 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 2: head just sinks, and then you know, but he's got 960 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 2: to talk to his team. He's got to deal with them, right, now, 961 00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:30,320 Speaker 2: because it's not like the season's over. They're going to 962 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,480 Speaker 2: go play a game. It was only like eleven or 963 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,160 Speaker 2: twelve hours, but you knew leading up one thing or 964 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:36,919 Speaker 2: another could happen. 965 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 1: How much did you have to. 966 00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:41,799 Speaker 2: Pre prepare yourself if the worst is to happen, I 967 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:43,040 Speaker 2: gotta straighten up quick. 968 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:44,360 Speaker 1: I gotta deal with these guys. 969 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 3: That's the job as the leader. To your point, that's 970 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,839 Speaker 3: why we didn't have a watch party. You know, I 971 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:53,280 Speaker 3: was available to jump on with Quinn Kessinger I think, 972 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,319 Speaker 3: or whoever it was on ESPN once we were in right, 973 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,839 Speaker 3: and we had a team meeting after that and celebrate. Well, 974 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,719 Speaker 3: we weren't going to have a watch part for that thing. 975 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 3: You know, we were talking about learning from past experiences. Earlier, well, 976 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,839 Speaker 3: the year before, on a smaller scale, we had won 977 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 3: our league and it was US or Liberty was going 978 00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:13,480 Speaker 3: to get the New Year's sixth bid. And we literally 979 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,600 Speaker 3: on Saturday night in New Orleans are beating Tulane, celebrate 980 00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,319 Speaker 3: in the first conference championship in forty years. And by 981 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,439 Speaker 3: one o'clock on Sunday, we're realizing we're not going to. 982 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,600 Speaker 4: The Fiesta Bowl. You know, we're going to. 983 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 3: The Fenway Bowl and I had to walk into a 984 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:31,080 Speaker 3: room and try to make sense of that all for 985 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 3: our players. So fortunately I had had that experience. I 986 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 3: really didn't want to do that again, and you know, 987 00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 3: but that's the position we put ourselves in. And I've 988 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,759 Speaker 3: said this, people ask me, did you want to go? 989 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 3: Do you think it's fair to go? I think road 990 00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,400 Speaker 3: playoff games are awesome for college football, and we had 991 00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:46,799 Speaker 3: to go in. 992 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,839 Speaker 4: One of the hardest environments and got our teeth kicked in. 993 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,440 Speaker 3: But you know what, if we didn't want to go 994 00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,200 Speaker 3: on the road, we should be clemsing. But I still 995 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 3: think it's good for college football. 996 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 4: Same thing. 997 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 3: We had our chance to not put it in someone 998 00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,799 Speaker 3: else's hands and we didn't. So that was a hard 999 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:04,720 Speaker 3: twelve hours. I didn't sleep well. I was really worried. 1000 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 3: And it was a really cool moment to not only 1001 00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,080 Speaker 3: see our name called because we were in and our 1002 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,359 Speaker 3: players get to experience something they'd work so hard for, 1003 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,040 Speaker 3: but just to not have to stand in front of 1004 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:16,440 Speaker 3: them and do that other speech. 1005 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 2: I know you're not thinking like this in the time, 1006 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 2: but for my dad's generation, the story of SMU would 1007 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:25,680 Speaker 2: have just been NCAA scandal. 1008 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: Then it ends for a while. 1009 00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 2: I didn't live through that, So my generation watches like 1010 00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:32,880 Speaker 2: the thirty for thirty documentary, which is one of the 1011 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:33,319 Speaker 2: best they. 1012 00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,840 Speaker 1: Produced, by the way, loved it. Probably could recite lines 1013 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 1: from it. 1014 00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:40,239 Speaker 2: But still SMU had just come back as a workable, 1015 00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,880 Speaker 2: functioning football program, and it was like June Jones and 1016 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 2: let's just see. 1017 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:44,760 Speaker 1: How it works out. 1018 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:48,759 Speaker 2: Then you've got another generation that is removed entirely from 1019 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:52,440 Speaker 2: both of those eras, and like their first perception of 1020 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 2: SMU is SMUs a playoff contender, SMU is in a 1021 00:42:56,080 --> 00:43:00,480 Speaker 2: power conference. SMU for your dad's and your granddad's generation 1022 00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,000 Speaker 2: isn't a place that probably they told you they'd never 1023 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:06,399 Speaker 2: be again. And so yeah, the playoff game, you make it, 1024 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 2: you lose, it's one and done. But at the same time, 1025 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,839 Speaker 2: you ever just stopped to think about where this program 1026 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:17,960 Speaker 2: is now and how like impossible that would have seemed one, two, 1027 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:18,879 Speaker 2: three decades ago. 1028 00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's hard to put into words. 1029 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,759 Speaker 3: I'm getting chills here and you say all that just 1030 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 3: because I know how big this year was to so 1031 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:30,640 Speaker 3: many generations of fans here at SMU, so many people 1032 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:35,239 Speaker 3: that never thought they'd see that day again. You know 1033 00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:39,160 Speaker 3: when that story happened, that that's what's been talked about 1034 00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:40,280 Speaker 3: for thirty or forty years. 1035 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,239 Speaker 4: That's kind of defined our program. 1036 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,720 Speaker 3: We lost a generation of fans because of it, literally, 1037 00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,000 Speaker 3: because there wasn't a program for two years and then 1038 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 3: for two decades it was one and two wins every year. 1039 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,400 Speaker 3: You're not going to really solicit a lot of fans 1040 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,840 Speaker 3: when you're not winning. And so to have ourselves now 1041 00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:00,279 Speaker 3: where it's cool to go to SMU and we're fill 1042 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 3: in the stadium and the city of Dallas is embracing us, 1043 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,480 Speaker 3: and then to go out and kind of validate that 1044 00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 3: by what we did in our first year in the 1045 00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,320 Speaker 3: ACC and making the playoff. To me, it closes that 1046 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:14,160 Speaker 3: chapter on SMU's history to where everyone loves to keep 1047 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:15,960 Speaker 3: talking about thirty eight years ago. 1048 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:17,959 Speaker 4: This is the anniversary, and da da da da. 1049 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:22,920 Speaker 3: We have accomplished something that allows that group, the older 1050 00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,359 Speaker 3: generation who remembered the good old days, to say, wow, 1051 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 3: I never thought i'd see this again. And I saw 1052 00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 3: grown men and women weeping, you know when we got 1053 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,720 Speaker 3: into the ACC or when we did. 1054 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:32,479 Speaker 4: What we did this year. 1055 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,080 Speaker 3: But also there's a new generation of fan that all 1056 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,359 Speaker 3: they know now is well, in the last six year, 1057 00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 3: six years, SMUs won more games anybody instead of Texas. 1058 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 3: And I just saw SMU in the playoff and it's 1059 00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,839 Speaker 3: cool to wear the Mustang or the Triple D on 1060 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 3: my chest, it's cool to go to SMU. That whole 1061 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 3: is that has all changed. And so I'm hoping that 1062 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,880 Speaker 3: this year US breaking through allows us to close the 1063 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:56,640 Speaker 3: chapter on that thirty for thirty, the Pony Excess chapter, 1064 00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,480 Speaker 3: if you will, and write a new chapter, have a 1065 00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,880 Speaker 3: new docum come out in the next year that is 1066 00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,120 Speaker 3: more celebratory about the climb back, because it's been a 1067 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:06,600 Speaker 3: long climb back for a lot of people. 1068 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:07,480 Speaker 4: With this program. 1069 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,040 Speaker 3: You mentioned June Jones, there were so many other coaches 1070 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 3: well before me and players well before our players that 1071 00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 3: did so much and didn't get to experience the success 1072 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,000 Speaker 3: we're having now. But if it wasn't for them, we 1073 00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:18,719 Speaker 3: wouldn't be here. 1074 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 2: Everybody's used to watching college football, myself included, and every 1075 00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,960 Speaker 2: brand that's a big brand has been established for generations. 1076 00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,520 Speaker 2: Tennessee football has been Tennessee football since way before I 1077 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 2: was born. It's pretty rare that you see a brand 1078 00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:38,360 Speaker 2: that was irrelevant for part of your childhood scale, Like 1079 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 2: it's just because college football is so set, like it's 1080 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:44,360 Speaker 2: so old as an entity, and yet SMU's parked in 1081 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,919 Speaker 2: this really unique position where they were that at one 1082 00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,359 Speaker 2: point and then what happened happens. But also like the 1083 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:55,080 Speaker 2: plate tectonics of college football shifted to where not only 1084 00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:58,719 Speaker 2: does the program sort of have a rebirth, then there's 1085 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:00,279 Speaker 2: this period and then all of a sudden, there's there's 1086 00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,399 Speaker 2: an opportunity to jump into the acc No one could 1087 00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:04,920 Speaker 2: have ever seen that coming in a million years. I 1088 00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,920 Speaker 2: don't care how much foresight you had. It's an actual 1089 00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:13,080 Speaker 2: opportunity for a program to sort of rescale in the 1090 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 2: modern age of college football. And I don't know where 1091 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,239 Speaker 2: else that would have happened. Like Clemson doing what they 1092 00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:20,640 Speaker 2: did under Dabo was as close to me as a 1093 00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,440 Speaker 2: major program has come to doing that in my lifetime. 1094 00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,200 Speaker 2: But even then, Clemson mattered way before Dabo got there. 1095 00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:29,440 Speaker 2: Clemson was a factor in my mind, way before he 1096 00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 2: got there. He just showed people you could do it 1097 00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:31,880 Speaker 2: at a different level. 1098 00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:34,200 Speaker 1: At Clemson. This is a totally different deal. 1099 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:38,680 Speaker 3: I agree, and it's it's surreal. I mean, they use 1100 00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,680 Speaker 3: the word death penalty because that's what it was with 1101 00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,680 Speaker 3: our program so much and now this is almost like 1102 00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,400 Speaker 3: the resurrection things that you just don't think are going 1103 00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:51,000 Speaker 3: to happen. It took a lot of people for twenty 1104 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 3: thirty years kind of lifting this program and pulling this 1105 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 3: program along when it was really lifeless, you know, from 1106 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:02,239 Speaker 3: a athletic standpoint, from a university standpoint. 1107 00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:03,279 Speaker 4: But I agree with you. 1108 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:07,000 Speaker 3: I mean, rarely do you see a new brand become 1109 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:10,640 Speaker 3: really really relevant. Clemson is a great example. You look 1110 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,799 Speaker 3: at what boys he's done, but it's taken him like 1111 00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,319 Speaker 3: two or three decades. I mean it's been the last 1112 00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,200 Speaker 3: twenty twenty five years since Chris Peterson was there and 1113 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,040 Speaker 3: they beat Oklahoma in that big moment, and now look 1114 00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:24,440 Speaker 3: what it's established. We did have a brand that was established, 1115 00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,000 Speaker 3: but there was such a big gap that the majority 1116 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,400 Speaker 3: of people today that love and celebrate college football, me 1117 00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 3: and you included, had no experience in the old glory 1118 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:34,440 Speaker 3: days of SMU. 1119 00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 4: No one knows that Doake Walker played at SMU. No 1120 00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:37,640 Speaker 4: one knows that. 1121 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 3: SMU's claimed national titles, and hardly anybody knows the college 1122 00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,640 Speaker 3: Eric Dickerson. Everybody knows the NFL single season rushing leader, 1123 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,960 Speaker 3: Hall of Famer, and so for there to be that 1124 00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,560 Speaker 3: big a gap, everything had to line up perfectly. 1125 00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,200 Speaker 4: And to your point, nobody. 1126 00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:55,480 Speaker 3: Could could have expected that we would get such great 1127 00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 3: alignment at the university and have such an infuse of 1128 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 3: just support financially and just in general, just alignment and 1129 00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:04,920 Speaker 3: support to help us get what we need to do 1130 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,520 Speaker 3: to win to be in a facility like this, then 1131 00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:08,680 Speaker 3: do what we had to do to get in the 1132 00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 3: acc and then on top of it, to win at 1133 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,440 Speaker 3: the level we have so far, to kind of just 1134 00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,319 Speaker 3: throw our brand right back in there and say what 1135 00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,120 Speaker 3: could be over the next five to ten years. 1136 00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:19,919 Speaker 2: So now you've got a lot of players that come 1137 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 2: back from the team that just did historic things. You've 1138 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,680 Speaker 2: got a lot of coaches on your staff that are 1139 00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,879 Speaker 2: retained from doing historic things. But we also know, looking 1140 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,719 Speaker 2: at the history of the sport, progress is never just 1141 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,920 Speaker 2: totally linear. A failure is never totally linear. It just 1142 00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:37,600 Speaker 2: looks like a stock market chart. So how do you 1143 00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:41,799 Speaker 2: make sure people understand that you don't start from where 1144 00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,279 Speaker 2: you left off last year, You start right back at 1145 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,000 Speaker 2: the ground floor, and whether you win six games or 1146 00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,919 Speaker 2: twelve games is going to be totally dependent on this 1147 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 2: and outside of thematical elements and lessons learned, we can't 1148 00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,560 Speaker 2: take anything from last year with us. 1149 00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:00,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the challenge, right, It's a success is hard. 1150 00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 3: Sustained successes even harder. That's why some of the coaches like, 1151 00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,560 Speaker 3: you see what Nick Saban did for so long, like 1152 00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:09,160 Speaker 3: it's just it's awe. You just look at it in 1153 00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:10,879 Speaker 3: alle like how did you do it for that long 1154 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,919 Speaker 3: at such a high level. But that's what our goal 1155 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,839 Speaker 3: is to do here and so but you learned from 1156 00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,839 Speaker 3: the past. So like, as we were making the jump 1157 00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:20,839 Speaker 3: to a power conference, no school had ever gone better 1158 00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:22,920 Speaker 3: than one and one in conference play and we go 1159 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:23,279 Speaker 3: eight to no. 1160 00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:25,720 Speaker 4: Well, beforehand, looked at two. 1161 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:27,200 Speaker 3: People that I think in the last decade have done 1162 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,600 Speaker 3: it the best, and that was Kyle Whittingham at Utah 1163 00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,680 Speaker 3: and Gary Patterson at TCU. Like they took programs and 1164 00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:34,759 Speaker 3: had winning seasons, not even in their league, just a 1165 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,520 Speaker 3: winning record their first year. I think one went seven 1166 00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:39,920 Speaker 3: and six and that one went eight and five. Well, 1167 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,680 Speaker 3: then you look to your point. The next year they 1168 00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,520 Speaker 3: both had losing seasons. As matter of fact, Utah had 1169 00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:48,480 Speaker 3: back to back losing seasons but then year three or 1170 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:50,520 Speaker 3: four they shot up to eleven and twelve wins and 1171 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,920 Speaker 3: started winning the Big twelve in the Pac twelve, and 1172 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 3: their programs were sustained for a long time after that. 1173 00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 4: There is a process to it. 1174 00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,480 Speaker 3: You know, the fact that we had such good year 1175 00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,200 Speaker 3: in year one guarantees us nothing for this year. As 1176 00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:04,880 Speaker 3: a matter of fat It's gonna make this year even harder. 1177 00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,960 Speaker 3: But we have about a three to five year window 1178 00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,480 Speaker 3: where we can build the momentum. 1179 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,839 Speaker 4: And the process to where we want to be one 1180 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:16,279 Speaker 4: of those programs that every year is a preseason top 1181 00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,880 Speaker 4: fifteen team and looked at in the ACC like Clemson 1182 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 4: has looked at in our league now over the last 1183 00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:22,479 Speaker 4: ten to fifteen years. 1184 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,840 Speaker 3: And I think what helps us both with retention of 1185 00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,960 Speaker 3: players and staff is you do this long enough. You 1186 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,480 Speaker 3: know the programs that man, they just had a great 1187 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:32,080 Speaker 3: year or two, but it's going to be hard to 1188 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 3: sustain it, and the ones that maybe have the resources, 1189 00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:39,160 Speaker 3: the good fortune of geography and all the other things 1190 00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,560 Speaker 3: that they could they could stick around for a while. 1191 00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:45,000 Speaker 3: And I think all of us here feel this has 1192 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,240 Speaker 3: all the ingredients of a program that can stick around, 1193 00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:50,440 Speaker 3: whether it be the geography for recruiting the support of 1194 00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:54,480 Speaker 3: our donors, the city, the facilities, the things we need, 1195 00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:57,120 Speaker 3: the league we're in. You know, if we do it right, 1196 00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,840 Speaker 3: we can build a sustainable winner and a brand that 1197 00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:02,920 Speaker 3: stays back where we're hopefully getting it. 1198 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:04,560 Speaker 1: I kind of wanted to wrap on this. 1199 00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,799 Speaker 2: Different places, different coaches rather have different reputations for how 1200 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,239 Speaker 2: easy or hard it is to work for that guy. 1201 00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,920 Speaker 2: Some places it's just known you're in at five point thirty, 1202 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:20,160 Speaker 2: you're out at ten thirty every night. Your reputation although 1203 00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,400 Speaker 2: you guys aren't checking out at lunch every day, is 1204 00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:26,319 Speaker 2: one where it's it's easier to work for him. It's demanding, 1205 00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:29,120 Speaker 2: but there's also a lot of purpose behind how the 1206 00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 2: time is used around here, to where you're going to 1207 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,280 Speaker 2: see your family more than once or twice a week. 1208 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:36,480 Speaker 2: How'd you kind of land that? How do you make 1209 00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:38,080 Speaker 2: that work when there are some other guys out there, 1210 00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,680 Speaker 2: and there's some other programs out there, who you know, 1211 00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 2: I may see dad once a week maybe if I'm lucky, 1212 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,200 Speaker 2: and that's if I'm up at ten thirty at night 1213 00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:49,720 Speaker 2: when he gets home, happy people win more, and that's 1214 00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,879 Speaker 2: that's not just an opinion there's some studies out there 1215 00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:56,480 Speaker 2: that will prove that no happiness is fleeting, happiness, enjoy 1216 00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:57,600 Speaker 2: it's a whole nother conversation. 1217 00:51:57,760 --> 00:51:59,200 Speaker 4: But happy people win more. 1218 00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,560 Speaker 3: And so I look at it like this, Yeah, in 1219 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:04,280 Speaker 3: our business, there's for a long time been this badge 1220 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:08,200 Speaker 3: of honor that ours serve equal output delivered, and they 1221 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:08,720 Speaker 3: just don't. 1222 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:10,399 Speaker 4: Like, here's the deal. 1223 00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,080 Speaker 3: If we work from five am to midnight every day, 1224 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,719 Speaker 3: six seven days a week and we don't win, they're 1225 00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:17,440 Speaker 3: going to replace us. 1226 00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:19,040 Speaker 4: And if we win, they're not. 1227 00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 3: And if we work from seven or eight am to 1228 00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,720 Speaker 3: five or six in the off season and in season 1229 00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,759 Speaker 3: we don't have office hours. It's whatever it takes to 1230 00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,919 Speaker 3: get it done, whatever that is. And we win, they're 1231 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:31,360 Speaker 3: going to keep us. And if we lose, we don't. 1232 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,319 Speaker 3: And so you know, to your point, we want to 1233 00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,920 Speaker 3: have a high expectation program. We want everyone to have 1234 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,879 Speaker 3: high expectations of themselves and of their job. We want 1235 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:42,759 Speaker 3: to try to do it at a high level. We 1236 00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 3: want to be always pushing the envelope of how. 1237 00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:46,840 Speaker 4: Can we do it better than we've done it before. 1238 00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,600 Speaker 3: At the same time, if we're really good at our jobs, 1239 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,400 Speaker 3: we don't have to be inefficient and take forever, and 1240 00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,680 Speaker 3: our families should be part of our lives, and there 1241 00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,279 Speaker 3: are times of years where they're not as much, and 1242 00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:01,399 Speaker 3: there's others where they can be, and there's sacrifices as make, 1243 00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:02,280 Speaker 3: and there's things. 1244 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:04,319 Speaker 4: They get to do that others don't. And so. 1245 00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:07,799 Speaker 3: We've never really said, man, we got to be here 1246 00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:09,919 Speaker 3: from this time to this time, because every year, every 1247 00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:12,960 Speaker 3: team's different. It's like, Hey, whatever it takes, that's what 1248 00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,839 Speaker 3: we're going to do. And if it takes staying until 1249 00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,239 Speaker 3: ten pm one night, great, and if the next time 1250 00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,640 Speaker 3: we can leave at seven, great, Like, how do we 1251 00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:23,440 Speaker 3: do our job the best we can with the people 1252 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,920 Speaker 3: were with and still have enough balance. 1253 00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,160 Speaker 4: There has to be margin in your life. 1254 00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:33,080 Speaker 3: I'm not good if I'm exhausted and grinded into the ground. 1255 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,320 Speaker 3: I'm just not going to be at my best week eleven. 1256 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:37,319 Speaker 3: I'm going to be tired week eleven, no matter what. 1257 00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,640 Speaker 3: But if I've had no margin throughout the season or 1258 00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 3: no margin in the off season, I'm not going to 1259 00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,240 Speaker 3: be at my best. I'm not going to be as happy, 1260 00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:47,080 Speaker 3: and we're not going to be as successful over a 1261 00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:52,279 Speaker 3: long term. That's just my belief everyone's different, and so 1262 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:55,120 Speaker 3: you know, don't get it wrong. We're trying to compete 1263 00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,320 Speaker 3: to beat everybody we play. We want to be elite 1264 00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:02,680 Speaker 3: at what we do. 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