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Speaker 1: your baby now, I share will Good morning everybody. You

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Speaker 1: One and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying how God thinks, because I really don't know,

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Speaker 1: that's how God works, because I've gone back to him

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Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about what God gifted you to do?

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Speaker 1: If I were you, this is what I would do.

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Speaker 1: Call your mama, Neil. Tell him. Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 1: Sherley Straw right now, right now, Carller for real rat now,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve the bubbly told curly Junior. Oh, y'all, mistress, y'all, y'all, mistress.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell y'all in a minute. Junior, what's something morning? Uncle?

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Speaker 1: Yes he is. Fuh Jay Anthony Brown? What up? Steve Harvey?

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Speaker 1: Watch out, damn man? Top of the Morning, Thomas Miles,

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Speaker 1: Sherley Carller, Junior, and Jay? Well, the reason I'm calling

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Speaker 1: Oh thank you? Junior girl. I know right now she

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Speaker 1: That was greatness all right, coming up in about ten minutes.

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Speaker 1: Things vegans will be saying on the fourth of July.

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Speaker 1: Right this, you're listening to Steve Morning Show. All right,

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Speaker 1: Steve Jay and uh, you guys are here to tell

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Speaker 1: us things that vegans will be saying that the fourth

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Speaker 1: be interesting because three of my kids is vegan. Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: so you'll probably hear a lot of this stuff. Then

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Speaker 1: I'm a vegan right now. I'm a vegan all the

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Speaker 1: way up to the before, y'all. I was gonna fifteen

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Speaker 1: A matter of fact, it'll be all you see you do, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Remember when there was never a vegan, never new one,

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Speaker 1: Everybody ate me. Here we go. These are things vegans

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Speaker 1: and vegetarians will be saying at the fourth of July. Steve,

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Speaker 1: Steven Stephen comes apout it. If you knew what the

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Speaker 1: I eat meet in front of you, behind you, under you,

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Speaker 1: Show right after you're listening to the old school relationship

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Speaker 1: is better. What do you say, do you see? Well?

423
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what were you with that? I wish

424
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 1: we could go to bed and not be mad. I

425
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 1: really do, right, I don't Nobody won't go to bed mad.

426
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: You know you got to sleep back to each other.

427
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: Somebody rolled over and touch you? You jumping? You don't

428
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: damn foot off. Nobody wants that. I think it's better

429
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: to do that. Now. Is it realistic to expect not

430
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: to ever go to bed? Man? Now? I don't think

431
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 1: it is. But that show ain'tcluded to go to bed man.

432
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna be up all night or you wake up mad.

433
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something that you know. I hate

434
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: that if you let a woman go to bed, man

435
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: she wake up, she gonna be just as mad or

436
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: mad earth because she'd have thought about some most stuff. Yeah, now, dude,

437
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: wake up and go, hey, baby, how you doing? How

438
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: the hell you think? How was our last night? When

439
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: you shut your eyes exactly so exact? No, I think

440
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: he's wrong about it's not healthy. All right, Doctor clip

441
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: House says you can change them. He says it's a

442
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: romantic idea, the old cliche, you can change them. But

443
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: he points out, it's not your responsibility to change anyone. Right.

444
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: I agree with him. It's not your job to change anyone,

445
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: nor don't nor do you have the ability, right, that's

446
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,239
Speaker 1: something that women have. I mean, we may as well

447
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: admit that. We're always trying for change. And I think

448
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: it's the nurturer in us. We always Yeah, we all

449
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 1: change him. Yeah, I change. I know he's like that

450
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 1: right now. But once he gave me six months, Yeah, yeah,

451
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: let me work on him. Yeah, don't. I got this.

452
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to work it every day, though, change

453
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: you do it everything. Yeah, but that all right, here's

454
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 1: another one. Some people never change. That's the cliche, the

455
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: old school cliche. Doctor Clip Howe says, on the flip side,

456
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: the suggestion that someone is incapable of changing is wrong,

457
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: and it ignores the fact that we all have control

458
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: over our choices. So I absolutely agree with that. That's one.

459
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: He's only said one thing I didn't agree with, and

460
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 1: that was the first one. Yeah, I agree with that.

461
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 1: You don't go to bed will change? Yeah, people change

462
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: all right all the time. Here's another one, old school

463
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: love will keep you together. Love will keep you together.

464
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 1: He says. This works in an old romantic movie, but

465
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: in real life it takes a lot more than love

466
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: to make it work. WHOA what love got to do? Yeah,

467
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: got to do with it? What love? But a second

468
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 1: handed move? What right? Take it up? Gotta do it?

469
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: Ain't got nothing to do with it, man. Yeah, you

470
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: gotta honor that commitment. You got to compromise, understanding, take

471
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: the blame. Not be right all the time. Why eat? Yeah,

472
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: you on it. It never worked for me never? All right,

473
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,719
Speaker 1: here's Junior. No, it's that love thing. I told her

474
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: I love her. But my replacement with at the dog

475
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: when you I'm just like, who is this? Oh this Chris?

476
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: We're going to dinner? You ain't Chris, I love you though,

477
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 1: to the left, to the left through you've been hard. Yeah,

478
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: it's almost like what but you've grown up now you're

479
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: for now. Yeah you're good now. Yeah that was back. Yeah,

480
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: I ain't hand that. We've all been through some things

481
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: up to the game. Yeah, all right, old school love

482
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: will I mean, know your role in the relationship. That's

483
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: old school. Doctor clip How says, forget this old gender

484
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: stereotype and remember there's not a required way for you

485
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: to act. Your role in a relationship shouldn't always be

486
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: the same. It's constantly shifting. I missed it. Stand Okay,

487
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: you're role. Know your role in the relationship. That's old

488
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: school thinking. Okay, Doctor Clapow says, forget this old gender

489
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 1: stereotype and remember there is not a required way for

490
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: you to act. That's new school thinking. He says, your

491
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: role in a relationship isn't going to be the same

492
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: all the time. It's constantly changing. And that's a good thing,

493
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 1: that's what he's saying. He says, it'll shift organically. Yeah, yeah,

494
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: and that's a good thing. You think your role should

495
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 1: stay the same in a relationship, Well, I mean I

496
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: think I think your roles have to be defined so

497
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: that everybody has an understanding of positioning. And then I

498
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: think there has to be some type of volved give

499
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: and take or sometimes the other person can do that.

500
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 1: I'm not saying like roles like you do all the

501
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: cleaning eye. I'm not talking about that. Yeah, but if

502
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: you're good with money, yeah, anything, yeah, I mean, you know,

503
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: and if you either side, if you roll playing, then

504
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 1: your roles change. Like you know, I might be Batman

505
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: one night, you know what I'm saying, but then next

506
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 1: night I might be in Credible Hook. You know what

507
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Your roles do change. I have to know

508
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: that organically, right, organically and realistically, you're neither one. All right,

509
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: here's old school. You should stay with them for better

510
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: or for worse, he says. He says. We all want

511
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 1: to think our partner will stick around no matter what.

512
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 1: But if a relationship is unhealthy, you don't. You don't

513
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 1: need to stick it out o death do all? Right?

514
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: More of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show.

515
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Show. COVID nineteen

516
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: is still very real? Um j Anthony Brown, So Jay

517
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 1: you've been in the house. I was just creating songs.

518
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: You've been You've been creating. You've been in creative most

519
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: and very creative this time doing the stuff along with

520
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: some other stuff I'm doing that makes me feel as

521
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:14,840
Speaker 1: if I have company. But that's a whole deal. Nobody.

522
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: Can you get to this? I can't, Damn times I

523
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:25,720
Speaker 1: heard that in another Yes I have. I have murdered

524
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 1: another song. As they say on that show, like to

525
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 1: hit here, you go check it out. Excuse me, miss,

526
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: you can't do that here. If you keep it up,

527
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: I'll be bossed to show you the exit. I'm not kidding.

528
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:04,439
Speaker 1: There's a body at a night you know everybody's going.

529
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: If you feeling li se hain't your batter stay home

530
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: and in the low when you need to get our groom.

531
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:16,360
Speaker 1: Ain't no problem with you fall out these rooms because

532
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 1: if your season it's not right, got a fever? You

533
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: need to take a hike. If your reason, we might like,

534
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: what's the reason why you calling all night? No brothering bader,

535
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 1: no calling on a dance dog, no calling banner, no

536
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 1: coughing on a dance dog. Get out of here the

537
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 1: door by lee, please leave, No father in danda. No

538
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: coughing on a dance dog. No coughing dada, No coughing

539
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: on the dance No, no father in danda, No clown

540
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: on the dance dog. No coffin baby, stupid, How you

541
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: think of that? No coughing baby, how you thinking that?

542
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 1: No coping, babying on the dance floor. But you cof beat, Yeah,

543
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: don't be a lot of that. Don't stop you. Once

544
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 1: you stopped coughing. We have a whole different attitude towards

545
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: a cough now, Oh yeah, yeah for sure. Yeah you

546
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 1: used to let a cough go, you know, yeah, right right, yeah,

547
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 1: you got a little something something going on the No,

548
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 1: every mask is looking at you. Great job. Jam coming

549
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: up in thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll have

550
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this.

551
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Jay, it's

552
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: time for comedy Roulette. Guys, Jay, please set it up

553
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: for us. I can't do this without explaining it because

554
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 1: we have new listeners that are not familiar with how

555
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: this game go. I mean, new people tuning in right

556
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: now don't know what we're doing. So what I'm gonna

557
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 1: do now is explain how it work. Take for a subject,

558
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 1: put it on the wheel, spund the wheel, webstop, we'll

559
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:42,959
Speaker 1: do it. And the reason we can do this because

560
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:46,800
Speaker 1: Junior is a comedian, I'm a comedian, Tim's a comedian,

561
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 1: and Steve's the king comedians watching? Does that go? See

562
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 1: Junior's comedian, I mean Time's comedian and Steve is a

563
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 1: king comedian. All right, before he gets really made? Are

564
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: the subject? It's okay. Number one things people say if

565
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: they've been in jail a long time. Number two, Yeah,

566
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: that is a good one. Number two lies men tell

567
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,439
Speaker 1: when they're caught looking at another woman. Oh I want it. Oh.

568
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: Number three, excuse this, men say when they're not getting

569
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: a lot of sex. Man's that's another, they're good. Number

570
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: four things people say when they don't have cable. Wow,

571
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: any cable? Yeah that's the one I want. Oh it stopped.

572
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 1: All this is a good one. Number two lies men

573
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: tell when they're caught looking at another woman. Let go,

574
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 1: let me start it off. Here you go here girl,

575
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 1: I wasn't looking at her. I was gonna get you

576
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: a pair of pants just like that, And I just

577
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 1: wanted to make sup those out. The one that's all.

578
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 1: Yeah's men say he's been safe when they called looking

579
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: at another woman, baby, looking at her? Okay? Who need

580
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 1: all the abs show? Okay he shot? Why on abs? Right?

581
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: Need all her ass showing? Why? Come on? Yeah? The

582
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 1: only reason why I'm looking at her because you know

583
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 1: my cousin Rolanda that had that just like her. Cousin

584
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: Rolanda looked just like her. That's why I'm staying at hustle.

585
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 1: I thought it was roland All right, come, let's see maybe.

586
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 1: Why are you looking at her h ugly? I'm looking

587
00:40:54,320 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 1: at her hugging? Don't you ever divorced this man? Yes? Yes,

588
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: things men say when the cup looking at another woman,

589
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: I gotta crook in my neck and every nine and

590
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: it just jerked from left to right. So that's all.

591
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 1: That is nothing, it's nothing, right, last men tell when

592
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 1: looking at another woman, babe, let me tell you something

593
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,800
Speaker 1: I was looking over. I did. I will, but I

594
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,400
Speaker 1: don't like her braids hanging off her ass like that.

595
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:39,720
Speaker 1: I don't like ass like that. I don't see the purpose.

596
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: All right, baby, listen, I'm just so glad, I really am.

597
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: That's your butt is not that big. I'm just I'm

598
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 1: just you know, I mean, that's just ridiculous, baby. You

599
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: know what, Baby, just look at it. That's just ridiculous,

600
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: ain't it. They have a butt that big. That's just

601
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 1: too much. Okay, So you my wife and asked me,

602
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: excuse you, why are you looking over there at that

603
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:17,720
Speaker 1: other woman. I'm right here, Jesus, she needs Jesus, Jesus,

604
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: you better bring the Lord into she needs what need

605
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 1: hard to hard for me not to holly, hard for

606
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: me not to hollow, hard for me not to hollow,

607
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: to father, hard for me not to All right, come on, see,

608
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 1: we got to shut this one down. Lies. Men tell

609
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: when they're they're caught looking at another woman. You know what,

610
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,800
Speaker 1: that is the cutest dog I have ever seen woman

611
00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: in my wife, that's a dog seeing a dog. All right,

612
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 1: great job as usual, guys. Time to switch gears up. Next,

613
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 1: it is the nephew with the prank phone call coming

614
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: up right after this you're listening to show coming up

615
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.

616
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Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today subject do I choose

617
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: my man or my friends? M Right now, the nephew

618
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call. What you guys?

619
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Speaker 1: H yeah, day a booty taxes? Wait what booty taxes?

620
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Speaker 1: I'm I don't understand, right, Yeah, that's what this is.

621
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Speaker 1: Booty taxes taxing. Boy, guess we'll have to listen to

622
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: the frank to find out what that's all about. What

623
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Speaker 1: you say, ladies and gentlemen, booty taxes? Let's go cat dog. Hello, Hello,

624
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Kendrick. He Kendrick. How you doing, man?

625
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: My name is Anthony Man, Anthony Collins. They called me

626
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Speaker 1: a c. How you doing. I'm good, Bro? How you doing?

627
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm good. Hey listen, uh this right here, man,

628
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Speaker 1: this this I don't even know how to put this though,

629
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: but hey, listen, I'm calling you man because I got

630
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 1: some issues. I'm getting ready to find my taxes and

631
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm going through all my expenses, all my receipts and

632
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: all this kind of stuff. You know. I just I can't.

633
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:50,959
Speaker 1: I can't just let this go. Man. I didn't spend

634
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 1: like twenty thousand dollars on your wife playing ship, and

635
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out. Oh well, bro, wait a minute,

636
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: you asking me? You know I'm spend twenty thousand dollars

637
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: on the chick I'm married too? Is that what you're

638
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:10,800
Speaker 1: telling me? So all I'm trying to do, man, is

639
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do it right off. That's what I'm

640
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 1: trying to do. I'm trying to claim no, no, no, no,

641
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: the right off. Basically, what you're telling me is you

642
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: my word. I ain't say all that. I ain't saying.

643
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: But what you're saying, Bro, all I'm saying is I'm

644
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: trying to figure out is that all right if I

645
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: claim Melanie on my expenses? Man, I'm over twenty grand

646
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,800
Speaker 1: on on money I spent on Melanie last year. So

647
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 1: let me understand something right quick. You asking me for

648
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: permission you to claim my wife? When did you ask

649
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 1: for permission my wife? Hap me with that? Okay, okay, okay, okay,

650
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: let's do this here, Grard. I ain't say I did that.

651
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:53,840
Speaker 1: You saying that. I'm saying, I just want to claim

652
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: the taxes because I spent twenty k on it. That's

653
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. Okay, let let's just let's do this. Brow.

654
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: Put melod on on the phone. Let's put Meil on

655
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: the mother phone. We ain't gonna look up we ain't

656
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,399
Speaker 1: got a brainmeling this. We got brainmeiling that. What I'm

657
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: saying is we already in it? In it? What you mean?

658
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: We ain't gotta brain or anything? See any Maybe you

659
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 1: must be outside joke, he man. All I'm saying is

660
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 1: do you have a problem with me claiming Melody? You mother? Right?

661
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 1: I do, bro? I got a mother problem having this

662
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 1: whole mother time face? How first of all, how did

663
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: you get my information? How do you get my number?

664
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,919
Speaker 1: Bus the I asked round for your numb I ain't

665
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 1: want to call you to me a week to call you.

666
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:36,359
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm just trying to dude,

667
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: I just spent twenty grand. You understand what I'm saying.

668
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: When did you spend twenty grand? That's just I want

669
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: to know. I ain't spent twenty grand on this mother?

670
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: And I'm married to head, So what the do you

671
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,240
Speaker 1: doing that? You spent twenty thousand dollars on my wife

672
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 1: and then you want to claim that. Have me understand next?

673
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: Hey man, I ain't trying to go into all my

674
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: receipts on everything I did for Melon. I'm not trying

675
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: to do that. All I'm trying to do. Is is

676
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 1: just I just want to. I want to. I want

677
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: to know if you. I don't want us both claiming,

678
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:11,720
Speaker 1: because that's how you get in trouble. Bro, you already

679
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: in mother trouble. Trouble is the last mother sign you

680
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 1: ought to be worried about. And you calling my mother

681
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: phone telling me about some that you got going home

682
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: with my old lady, and then you're telling me can

683
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: I have your permission? You? Okay? So we gotta get

684
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 1: some kind of resolution to this. A good resolution is

685
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: a good ass was what you mean? A resolution that?

686
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: That's the only mother resolution we're gonna get. Brother, Ain't

687
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:42,959
Speaker 1: no other resolution. Ain't no other resolution when we ain't

688
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: got to talk about. We ain't got a mother trying

689
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: to talk about. That's the resolution I got back. I'll

690
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: tell you what, brother, I'm texting Meal right now. I've

691
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 1: been texting her since we've been on this mother's phone. Okay,

692
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: And what did you checking her? Father? Don't you mean

693
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 1: when am I texting her? Fuck? She is a step

694
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 1: it matter, So that's why the I'm testing it. But

695
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: you better pray to God. This is some book. I

696
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 1: hope to God. You y'all got y'all people up with

697
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 1: me like this body, This ain't gonna go do it

698
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: bro at all at all? Okay, So I guess I

699
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: can't claim them at this point. Hell mother, now, So

700
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: what you want to do? Though? Bro, I'm already to

701
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: tell you what I'm gonna do, and I'm waiting on

702
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: meals was fun on this? Mother? See that gla she

703
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,800
Speaker 1: slowed in the mother she can't type fail. But somebody

704
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: go get me some mount to day. Okay? The matter?

705
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: Look at Brian, I don't know who this is on

706
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: the other than the end of this zone. I hope

707
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: to God just some somebody of the X fives or

708
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: something that I can't even fathom. You better pray to God.

709
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: Y'all playing with me? This is a boot okay? Okay?

710
00:48:56,120 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 1: So can I go on tell you your dog and

711
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: then I'm gonna get out your way, man, because I

712
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 1: know how it's gonna go after this. Can I just

713
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: gonna tell you something else? I don't know what the

714
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 1: else you can tell me, Bro. The only thing I

715
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 1: can tell you, The only thing I can tell you, Kendrick,

716
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: is that this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey

717
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,919
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Your wife Melanie got me to prank phone

718
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:28,760
Speaker 1: call you dog by y'all from ratting mother. You look

719
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: that about how many was telling about main't y'all ain't man,

720
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 1: y'all ain't. And I'm sitting up at easing crackling, and

721
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 1: I don't threw them the way because my fist fresh

722
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: 'a already have uh you all right, man, I gotta

723
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: make sure you all right before we get off the phone.

724
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: You're good, man. I gotta go get near drink back. Yeah, yeah,

725
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 1: I'm right that boy, y'all ain't all right? Sell me

726
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 1: this man, it's twenty twenty. Baby, tell me this. What's

727
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 1: the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio show in

728
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:14,720
Speaker 1: the land, man, Steve Harvey morn Show with that rotten

729
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 1: man lift you tolling? I did that? Was that was

730
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: she already in it. I do know, I do know

731
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: one thing about that print. He was bragging that he

732
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 1: hadn't spend twenty thousand dollars on he damned show, would

733
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: have to spend twenty thousan I ain't spend twenty thousands. Yeah,

734
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 1: well you're gonna have to spend twenty thousand. Yea, all right,

735
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Listen up next. It is the Strawberry Letter.

736
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 1: Subject Do I choose my man or my friends? We'll

737
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to show

738
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you

739
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:10,399
Speaker 1: need advice on relationship, sex, dating, work, parenting, and more,

740
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM and

741
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,919
Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter

742
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this

743
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,799
Speaker 1: one right now. Buggle up, hold on tight. We got

744
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 1: it for you. Here. It is a Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew.

745
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: Subjects Do I choose my man or my friends? Here's

746
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I am a young, healthy, and wise beyond

747
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 1: my years, single woman that is a leader to my peers.

748
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 1: At my young age, I have found the most handsome

749
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: and amazing man of my dreams. He is respectful, has

750
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 1: a great job, a beautiful home, and he treats me

751
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: like a queen. But here is the problem. Well, it's

752
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 1: not a problem for us, it's more a problem for

753
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 1: our friends and family. I am twenty two years old

754
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 1: and he is forty two years old. Now I know

755
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 1: you are also shocked by our age difference, but I

756
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 1: love him and believe age has nothing to do with it.

757
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 1: When I introduced him to my friends, they all judged

758
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: him immediately because of his age. You can tell that

759
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: he is a bit older. They said that he's using

760
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 1: me and it won't last because he is just going

761
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: through a phase. They didn't even want to get to

762
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 1: know him and experience his great personality. My family is

763
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:36,320
Speaker 1: not happy with me dating him either. We've been together

764
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 1: for a year and he says we're soulmates and he

765
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 1: wants to marry me. I know if I marry him,

766
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: I would be choosing him over my friends. I know

767
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: my family will love me regardless, but now I am

768
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 1: having doubts about marrying him because I want it all

769
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: my friends and my husband. What do you think is

770
00:52:56,760 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: age that important? I need your advice? Well, you know,

771
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you this. First off, it's your life.

772
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 1: You can't get married and you can't live for and

773
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: have a relationship for your friends. This is your life

774
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: and your relationship. I mean, if they're really your friends,

775
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 1: that they're truly your friends, even though they may not

776
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 1: agree with who you're with. But if they're your friends,

777
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 1: they're going to support you and be there for you

778
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,320
Speaker 1: if anything goes wrong or whatever you need, they'll be

779
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: there for you if they're your friends. But I definitely

780
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: don't want to ignore this enormous elephant in this letter,

781
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 1: and that's that you were twenty two and he is

782
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:38,760
Speaker 1: forty two. I mean, this is a huge age difference.

783
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'm not saying a marriage can't work.

784
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:43,840
Speaker 1: I'm sure there are some out there that have with

785
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: a twenty year age span, but it's definitely a chance

786
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: you're taking. It's a chance it could work. Who knows,

787
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:54,439
Speaker 1: But you have to have things in common. You say,

788
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,399
Speaker 1: you guys have been together for a year. You say,

789
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 1: he says your soulmate, and he wants to marry you.

790
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:04,280
Speaker 1: But now you're having doubts because you want your friends

791
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: and you want him. I mean, this is why your

792
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:11,360
Speaker 1: your friends are and your family are a little upset.

793
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 1: And they're so judgmental because of the big age difference.

794
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 1: You know, they probably see things that you don't see.

795
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: They say he's using you, Is he using you? Or

796
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: are you too in love to see that? You know?

797
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,839
Speaker 1: I just say, don't be so much worried about whether

798
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: your friends are gonna still be around or not, you know,

799
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,879
Speaker 1: and having to choose between them and your man. You're

800
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 1: gonna choose your man in this instance. I mean, you

801
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: really are going to choose your man because you love him,

802
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 1: and he's older and he'll probably be able to persuade

803
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: you to choose him. So you know, keep your friends,

804
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 1: don't get rid of your friends. You gotta keep your

805
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,360
Speaker 1: friends because you're going to need them in case anything

806
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,800
Speaker 1: goes wrong in this relationship. I'm not saying it is,

807
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:59,439
Speaker 1: but it could steve because of the age difference. Well,

808
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 1: here's my view on this. You say you found the

809
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 1: most handsome and amazing man of my dreams. You say

810
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: he's respectful, has a great job, he has a beautiful home,

811
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 1: and you say he treats you like a queen. Now

812
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: right there, describing that you found the guy that most

813
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:27,439
Speaker 1: women are looking for. But then you said not nobody else.

814
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: You said, here's the problem, But then you try to

815
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 1: preface it by saying, well, it's not a problem for us,

816
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: it's more of a problem for our friends and family

817
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:45,720
Speaker 1: women in it. So I didn't hear nothing about problems

818
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 1: with your friends. I just heard in the latter problem

819
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 1: with your friends. Are you saying his friends have problems

820
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 1: with it too, it's more of your friend situation or

821
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: is it you all friends? Because you say it's more

822
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: of a problem for our friends and family. Now you're

823
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 1: twenty two, he forty two. That's a twenty year gap.

824
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 1: Now then you say, now, I see this is a

825
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: lot of you assuming, because then you say, I know

826
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:20,279
Speaker 1: you are also shocked by our age difference. We didn't

827
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 1: say that. Sherley didn't say she was shocked by We're

828
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 1: just reading the letter. But you keep prefacing everything with

829
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 1: it's a problem. Well, it's really not a problem for us.

830
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 1: Then you say you're shocked by age difference. See this

831
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: is a problem for you, young lady. But I love

832
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: him and I believe age has nothing to do with it.

833
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: But then when you introduced him to your friends, they

834
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:53,399
Speaker 1: judge him immediately because of his age. Then you said

835
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: you can tell that he's a bit older. Well, now

836
00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 1: what does that mean? What did he do in front

837
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: of your kid ass friends that just made his ass

838
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:08,400
Speaker 1: look old? Was his hands pulled up right up on

839
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 1: his chains? Come on, I'm just saying what because you

840
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 1: said you can tell he's a bit old, yea god?

841
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 1: Does he have a cigarette behind his ear when he

842
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 1: talking school? Does he have a pack of cools roll

843
00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 1: up in the sleeve of his white T shirt? Does

844
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 1: he have on sandals with black socks? Hold that thought, Steve,

845
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 1: Hold that thought. We'll have part two of your response

846
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: coming up. Do we have a stern wheel wrap on

847
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 1: his stern wheel on his car? Coming up in twenty

848
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:50,560
Speaker 1: three after the hour, Today's strawberry letter? Do I choose

849
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 1: my man or my friends? More of Stevens coming up

850
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right, Steve, here

851
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 1: we go. Let's recapt today's strawberry letter subject, Do I

852
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 1: choose my man or my friends? Let's recap. Well, this

853
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 1: is twenty age twenty year age different, twenty twenty two

854
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: year old girl, and it's forty two year old man,

855
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 1: and he's everything she's ever wanted. But here's the problem,

856
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: she said, But here's the problem. Then she said, well

857
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 1: it's not a problem for us. Then she said, it's

858
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 1: more of a problem for our friends and family. Now,

859
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 1: in the letter, she never mentioned anything about his friends

860
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 1: and family, just her friends and family. So then she

861
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 1: said she knowed me and surely shocked by your age difference.

862
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: But I love him. I believe ain't nothing they've gotten doing.

863
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 1: And when I introduced to my friend, they judged him

864
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 1: immediately because of his age. You can tell he is

865
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:58,440
Speaker 1: a bit old. Come on, what when he walked up

866
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 1: to your friends? What did he have on a can go?

867
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just trying. You know, when you when

868
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:13,680
Speaker 1: you say you can tell he's a bit older. When

869
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: y'all pulled up in the car, was the tent on

870
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: his window bubbling? Really, I'm just telling these old school problems. Now,

871
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 1: we just talked about the car right now? Was it

872
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: pillars in the back of the window of the car pillar?

873
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: I'm just asking twenty nineteen, I'm just asking just what

874
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 1: was it about him that screamed old? Let me ask

875
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 1: you this right here? Did he have on Jordan Jeans

876
00:59:57,080 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 1: jus Jordas? I thought Jordan had made him Michael Jordan. Yeah,

877
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:10,120
Speaker 1: I thought he would went French and was calling you Jordead.

878
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 1: So I don't know what it is. Then your friends

879
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: told you that he's using me and it won't last

880
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:24,919
Speaker 1: because he's going through a FID phase. Well, let's talk

881
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: about this phase that he could be going through. And

882
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: why I won't last. Here's the problem I see that

883
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna have. And then let me throw this in.

884
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: They don't even want to get to know him and

885
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 1: experience his great personnelity. And you say your family ain't

886
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 1: happy with me dating him either. Now y'all been together

887
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 1: for a year, and he says with soul mates and

888
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 1: he wants to marry me. I know if I marry him,

889
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 1: I could be choosing him over my friends. And I

890
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:56,600
Speaker 1: know my family would love me regardless. But now let

891
01:00:56,640 --> 01:01:00,440
Speaker 1: me just say this, let me finish this letter. I

892
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 1: know my family will love me gods, but now I'm

893
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 1: having doubts about marrying him because I want it all

894
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 1: my friends and my husband. What do you think is

895
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 1: age that important? I need your advice? Well, let me

896
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:15,040
Speaker 1: just say this to you. Let's say, y'all, dude, get

897
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 1: married and you are happy. In ten years, he gonna

898
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: be fifty two and you're gonna be thirty two. You're

899
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 1: gonna be still scaling up. He's scaling down because he's

900
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 1: crossed the sentry mark. So as you get better as

901
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 1: a woman, though you're thirty two, you're not even as

902
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:40,919
Speaker 1: fine as you're going to be you got some more

903
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 1: years where you're gonna get real fine. All his fine

904
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 1: days it's about damn Neil Behald? What what all his

905
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 1: fine days is about? Damn Neil Behald? Now you think

906
01:01:56,840 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: he looks a bit older, Now you'll just wait until

907
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 1: his ass when you see already and he don't have

908
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: no music downloading, that's already. He still got that little

909
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 1: vinyl case in the back that you snap and its CDs.

910
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:26,480
Speaker 1: So let's just start there. Man, Now here's your problem.

911
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 1: You're gonna reach your point in this relationship where the

912
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 1: difference is going to be very noticeable, and it's gonna

913
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 1: be things you're gonna want in life and things he's

914
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 1: gonna want in life. At thirty two, you'll be wanting

915
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 1: to take exciting vacations. At fifty two he can't too.

916
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: I know I'm when I like great vacation, but that's all.

917
01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: But when I get on my great vacation, what I

918
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 1: want to do. I want to send my great vacation

919
01:02:55,960 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 1: having ass down. Yeah, I don't do events, go out

920
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: and explore the country, climbing cliffs, and if you have

921
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: a child, it's a twenty year gall You know, twenty

922
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 1: ain't all that bad. But you know when he ten,

923
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: granddaddy gonna be coming up to the school. That's what

924
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 1: the other kids is gonna thank you. But it's his

925
01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 1: damn dad. Now, your friends, it's sad that you have

926
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 1: to choose, because how your friends making you choose like this.

927
01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 1: I got some news for you that ain't your real friends,

928
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:43,960
Speaker 1: because your friends will not make you choose between them

929
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 1: or him. Those are not friends. It's just not so.

930
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but it's gonna be some problems with this age, gal.

931
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 1: And if you don't think it is, they're coming. Y'all

932
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 1: might be so made, but you know, all right, listen

933
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 1: email us on Instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter.

934
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: It's Steve Harvey FM. And check out the Strawberry Letter

935
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: podcast on demand. All right, we'll have more of the

936
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're

937
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 1: listening to show. So, Steve, is there a food that

938
01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: you never get tired of eating? Let's say for a

939
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: year every day and you okay, let's let's throw this

940
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 1: in there. You wouldn't gain weight. I'll just throw that

941
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 1: in there. That's impossible. YEA one thing that you can't

942
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:42,000
Speaker 1: gain weight. You can't get sick. Okay, right, okay, yeah,

943
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,800
Speaker 1: ice cream all day a day long. Yes, that would

944
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 1: be mine. Ice cream. Oh no, I envy that guy.

945
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 1: Diners and they go around guy. Yeah no, no, you're

946
01:04:54,720 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 1: talking about man versus food. Yeah whatever with the blonde here, yeah,

947
01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:03,919
Speaker 1: with the blonde spiky hair. Yeah. Oh, he'd be eating

948
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:07,280
Speaker 1: some ham burgers off the train. Man. I love burgers, pizza,

949
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 1: and ice cream, So that's would be your food. I

950
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:12,919
Speaker 1: like this barbecue, though. So let's see where you would

951
01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: have to go to, Steve Kansas City. You gotta go

952
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 1: to Georgia. Gotta Georgia, gotta go to Tennessee. You've gotta

953
01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: go to milf you gotta go to town. No, Chicago

954
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 1: ain't got no bar they did when I grew up there,

955
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 1: they did. I mean, well, now, now let me tell

956
01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 1: you something. Chicago do have barbecue in it. They got

957
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:39,640
Speaker 1: some good barbecue couching boys from down south. Right. That's

958
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 1: like if everybody at a barbecue place and know the

959
01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: cook name, that's a good place. Like right, Like what's

960
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 1: happening to rate Alabama? Alabama gonna give everybody a little

961
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:55,440
Speaker 1: bit of run. They got some joints up in there.

962
01:05:57,120 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 1: Just think Kansas City. Everybody just started. We don't just

963
01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 1: we started this tripping dripped as we did. I think

964
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 1: about the Commissary of y'all just saw reals, what's the

965
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 1: white bread on my plane? Man? Think about the commissary.

966
01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 1: Oh man, and tell me forget about Big Daddah Yeah,

967
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 1: Big Daddy Chicago, Yeah, Gate Gates, presidential flatter man, Kansas City.

968
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 1: Remember we used to go to Kansas City and get

969
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:36,919
Speaker 1: that every time we go there. Saint Louis got good barbecue. Yeah,

970
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 1: yet in Saint Louis is the truth. Saint Louis is

971
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 1: the truth. Yeah, because it's been got serious, Yeah, it

972
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 1: has done, got serious. Yes about this barbecue, about this Yes,

973
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:54,439
Speaker 1: why don't you que today uncs and we're just talking

974
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 1: about the boy because you can do that. Yeah, I know,

975
01:06:57,160 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 1: I know. Hey, hey, dog, you can ask. I think

976
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 1: Steve and Tommy should have a barbecue cook off. I

977
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: think y'all ship too, because yeah, I know, I know.

978
01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 1: But don't do that because he ain't gonna like the result.

979
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 1: He gonna lose. Like I'm just going to Tommy, Tommy

980
01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:23,920
Speaker 1: did that? I do, dog, not on that grill and man,

981
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:27,480
Speaker 1: just gone, Hew, you look and just stay where yet

982
01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 1: listen coming out fun music. Come over here on the

983
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 1: Steve Harby Morning Show. You're listening to show and the

984
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:41,919
Speaker 1: divided nation we all currently and have it. It's nice

985
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:44,640
Speaker 1: to know that there are still some things we can

986
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 1: still agree on. Uh, and that is sandwiches. Sandwiches are delicious, right,

987
01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 1: everybody loves a great sandwich, right, but still there's plenty

988
01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:56,920
Speaker 1: of room for healthy debate and disagreement about what's the

989
01:07:57,120 --> 01:08:00,920
Speaker 1: best sandwich. Okay, to settle things once and for all,

990
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:05,040
Speaker 1: once and for all, we're gonna settle this. You gov

991
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 1: dot Com ran a pole to find out which ones

992
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: were most cherished sandwiches in our country. Here are the results.

993
01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, let's not do that. Hold Ty Sherley

994
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:20,880
Speaker 1: before you do that. Okay, what's the question we ought

995
01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:24,000
Speaker 1: to ask each other before you do the survey? What's

996
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 1: your favorite all time favorite damn sandwich? I knew it?

997
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:35,720
Speaker 1: H Man, easy, Junior, what is it? Peanut butter and

998
01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:41,680
Speaker 1: jack all day long? Hey, miss hey, miss Timmy, what

999
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 1: is it? Grial turkey and pepper jack cheese. Yeah, gril

1000
01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:55,679
Speaker 1: turkey and pepper jack cheese. He's so white. That's bad.

1001
01:08:56,680 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 1: Nils poets black talking about some damn up at chat cheese. Hey,

1002
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 1: I like pepper, put some salt on. I don't care

1003
01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:10,240
Speaker 1: about they don't hurt my sandwich. Why y'all going to give?

1004
01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 1: What's your favorite sandwich? All time? B l t h

1005
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:23,679
Speaker 1: b lt bacon? Let us into me? That was mine, girl,

1006
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:28,000
Speaker 1: we could ride. When I was a kid, it was

1007
01:09:28,120 --> 01:09:34,800
Speaker 1: ham sandwich. But um, does cheeseburger count? That's not the sandwich. Okay,

1008
01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 1: that's burger, all right, so I gotta say, yeah, I

1009
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:44,360
Speaker 1: thought it was because it's cheeseburger all day, cheesburger. What

1010
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 1: about you, Steve? Come on now, what's my favorite sandwich? Yes?

1011
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:51,720
Speaker 1: All right, y'a all ready buckle up, come up and

1012
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:58,000
Speaker 1: take you ain't I know what you're gonna say? What

1013
01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:09,320
Speaker 1: hot huh veil veto? Real cheese sand's got to be veto.

1014
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 1: I don't give a damn if ye stopped thought them,

1015
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:22,680
Speaker 1: which probably is not even real cheese mercy when you

1016
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:26,679
Speaker 1: sliced it and made a grill cheese sandwich. I don't

1017
01:10:26,720 --> 01:10:30,840
Speaker 1: eat that, no mode, but I could I probably would.

1018
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:39,320
Speaker 1: That's what real cheese sandwich and government greal cheese. That's

1019
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:44,879
Speaker 1: what Steve. Huh. That is the number one sandwich in America.

1020
01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:53,040
Speaker 1: Grilled cheese cheese. Thank you cheese. H read cheese everybody though,

1021
01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:57,160
Speaker 1: adults and junior I like, I like peanut butter sandwiches,

1022
01:10:57,200 --> 01:10:59,800
Speaker 1: but I don't like peanut butter. And Shelly you feel

1023
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:06,600
Speaker 1: just like that with something. She's loosening that up. I

1024
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:13,840
Speaker 1: just like, Sirley, you'd have died at my daddy house.

1025
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 1: You had a great, big, giant jaw of grape jelly. Well,

1026
01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 1: we're graping that jar to No, it was just purple,

1027
01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:34,040
Speaker 1: yall purple it had. I ain't ever read the label

1028
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 1: less than one percent real fruit. Okay, listen to me.

1029
01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:46,479
Speaker 1: If you got some grape jelly and the label says

1030
01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:52,320
Speaker 1: less than one percent real fruit, what they've done, y'all?

1031
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:58,360
Speaker 1: Hold up some hot water with some purple glady now

1032
01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:08,720
Speaker 1: with gelatin in it, and one great skin wonder. All right,

1033
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 1: we got more, more sandwiches and more Steve Harvey Morning

1034
01:12:12,200 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: Show coming up right after this. We'll be back at

1035
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:21,719
Speaker 1: twenty after you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steven

1036
01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 1: tell me you both love barbecuing and all of that.

1037
01:12:24,439 --> 01:12:26,759
Speaker 1: So here's a question for you. One of you guys

1038
01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:29,839
Speaker 1: had a barbecue and the majority of your party were vegans.

1039
01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 1: What would you do? Even the sides got meat in it.

1040
01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 1: So I don't know what you're gonna do. You know

1041
01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:38,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. The green bean got some meat in it. Bro,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna be baked bean baking, black rod and cheese

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Speaker 1: might have some meeting. It's gonna be next to me.

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Speaker 1: Got me, man, potatoes got some meeting. You're gonna beat

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Speaker 1: potato sal the whole time. You chaos salad got needed it,

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Speaker 1: they need not comat salad beat brind with meat. What

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Speaker 1: you think late nuts? You won't be a vegan when

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Speaker 1: you leave? Wow? Put it dead way. At least at

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Speaker 1: least you guys didn't panic. According to a new survey,

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Speaker 1: I put meat mycee tea. So we're gonna ask you,

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Speaker 1: what about yeah, bacon ice cues. Yeah. Well, at least

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Speaker 1: forty six percent of people panic when they find out

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Speaker 1: that vegans are coming to the house for the barbecue.

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Speaker 1: Seventy one percent say they hope their guests with dietary

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Speaker 1: restrictions will be fine with carrots and celery sticks and

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Speaker 1: get by with what is already offered at the barbecue?

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Speaker 1: Oh look, I got roasted corn for you, Bell Pepper's

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Speaker 1: acquinny U Portobello, mushroom steaks. I lay you out. Fifty

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Speaker 1: seven percent of guests with dietary restrictions say they have

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Speaker 1: taken their own food to a barbecue. That's what you

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Speaker 1: need to do. Yeah, yeah, yeah, don't come in here

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Speaker 1: making faces. Yeah, you're listening tow COVID nineteen is still

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Speaker 1: very real. Um j Anthony Brown. So, Jay, you've been

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Speaker 1: in the house just creating songs. You've been You've been creating.

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Speaker 1: You've been in creative most and very creative this time

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Speaker 1: doing the stuff along with some other stuff I'm doing

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Speaker 1: that makes me feel as if I have company. But

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Speaker 1: that's a whole difference. Nobody. Can you get to this times?

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Speaker 1: I heard that you've murdered another Yes I have. I

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Speaker 1: have murdered another song. As they say on that show,

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Speaker 1: like to hit here, go check it out. Excuse me this?

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Speaker 1: You can't do that here? Did you keep it up?

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Speaker 1: I'll be bossed to show you the exit. I'm not kidding.

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Speaker 1: There's a body at a night you know everybody's going

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Speaker 1: if your billy literacy. Had your better stay home and

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Speaker 1: inflow when you need to get our group. Ain't no

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Speaker 1: problem with you follow these rooms because if your season

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Speaker 1: it's not right. Got a fever, you need to take

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Speaker 1: a hike. If that reason, we might bike. What's the

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Speaker 1: reason why you're calling all night? No brother Danner, No

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Speaker 1: called in on a dance dog, No calling banna, No

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Speaker 1: calling on a dance dog. Get out of here the door,

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Speaker 1: please leap, please leap, please leave. No fathering danny, no

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Speaker 1: calling on a dancelow, no callding dandy. No coughing on

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Speaker 1: the dance now, No fathering dandy, No calding on a

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Speaker 1: dance though. No coffin baby, How you thinking that? No

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Speaker 1: coffin baby, how you thinking that? No tothing battering on

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Speaker 1: the dance flow? But you cofing on beat? Yeah did that?

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Speaker 1: Don't be a lot of that. Yes, don't stop you

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Speaker 1: once you stop coughing. We have a whole different attitude

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Speaker 1: toward a cough now. Oh yeah, yeah, sure you used

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Speaker 1: to let a cough go, you know. Yeah, all right, right,

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Speaker 1: yeah you got a little something something on. Every mask

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Speaker 1: is looking at you. Great job, Jo, All right, thank

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Speaker 1: you guys. Coming up next, it is Steve with today's

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Speaker 1: closing remark right after this you're listening to. All right,

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Speaker 1: here we are last break of the day and of

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Speaker 1: the week. Actually this is Friday. It's been a good

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Speaker 1: day and we're looking forward to a good week, weekend

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Speaker 1: and all of that. All right, Steve, you want to

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Speaker 1: send everyone home to the weekend with some closing Here

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Speaker 1: we go. You know, I was reading in my morning meditation, um,

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Speaker 1: this thing that this girl that works with me on

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Speaker 1: Family Future, We'll a nice lady. She's Christian, she praise

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Speaker 1: for everybody, gives a scription. She gave me this daily

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Speaker 1: devotional book to read. I've been reading it every morning. Man,

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Speaker 1: It's really been of great help to me. I think

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Speaker 1: I've shared this with you all several times. One of

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Speaker 1: the things I was reading about was about learning how

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Speaker 1: to master time and not allowing time to master you. Now,

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Speaker 1: I got a little stuck on this room right here

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Speaker 1: because I was saying, okay, how do you master time

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Speaker 1: and not let time master you? And this daily devotional

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Speaker 1: it was reminding us that God created us a certain way.

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Speaker 1: And I'm going to get to that in a second.

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Speaker 1: Because in the Lord's prayer is a clue as to

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Speaker 1: how we should approach each day. In the Lord's Prayer,

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Speaker 1: about three or four lines down, it says, give us

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Speaker 1: this day our daily bread. That's a very important line.

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Speaker 1: And I've taken the time to really study the Lord's Prayer.

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Speaker 1: I've taking the time to really understand twenty third Psalms

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Speaker 1: Isaiah fifty four seventeen Isaiah forty three, one and two.

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Speaker 1: I've really been her Becca two and to really been

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Speaker 1: focused on her, really understanding as I meditate every morning.

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Speaker 1: And one of the things that it teaches us it's

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Speaker 1: give us this day our daily bread. Well, that's an

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Speaker 1: important line, because what you're asking for every day, it's

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Speaker 1: for God to order your steps just for that day.

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Speaker 1: That's not to say that you don't have plans for

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Speaker 1: the future, because you do. But you can't do anything

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Speaker 1: about the future. You can't control it at all. All

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Speaker 1: the circumstances that's gonna be set you the next day.

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Speaker 1: You can't do anything about what has all already happened.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's the past. In so many words, it's

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01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:07,360
Speaker 1: water over the dam. So you can't do anything about

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Speaker 1: the past. You cannot prevent anything in the future coming

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Speaker 1: your way. You know, you could make a lot mentioned

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Speaker 1: plans and stuff, but tomorrow could bring some surprises. So

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Speaker 1: the one thing that you were created to do was

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Speaker 1: master your day. God created us or we deal in

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Speaker 1: twenty four hour segments. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying that you're not supposed to plan, have aspirations, goals, dreams,

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01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:35,559
Speaker 1: and have you know, targets for other thing. Inchybody into

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Speaker 1: anything that sense. I got that. What I am saying

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Speaker 1: to you is you function best in the now, because

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Speaker 1: then now is the one thing that you have to

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Speaker 1: say so in and if you can learn to ask

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01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:53,519
Speaker 1: God to give us this day our daily bread. Just

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Speaker 1: like the birds. Birds don't have silos and barns and

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Speaker 1: storage houses. Birds don't store food. Birds wake up every day.

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Speaker 1: They sing His praises in the morning, and then they

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Speaker 1: get about today. And don't God take care of it? Well,

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Speaker 1: He's made that promise to you. You hear old people

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Speaker 1: singing a song. His eyes on the sparrow. I know

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01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:19,360
Speaker 1: he watches me that. I didn't get that when I

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01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 1: was growing up. I heard it, I sang it in

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Speaker 1: the church. But I'm really starting to really understand that

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Speaker 1: they give us this day, our daily bread. That's an

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Speaker 1: important thing. And when it comes to tomorrow, to worry

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01:21:33,200 --> 01:21:39,160
Speaker 1: about tomorrow is wasted energy because there's nothing you can

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Speaker 1: do about tomorrow until tomorrow gets here. Now you can

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01:21:43,960 --> 01:21:47,519
Speaker 1: dry start dressing it there. But to worry about something,

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01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:53,639
Speaker 1: it's wasted energy. Because I've been learning that worry cannot

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01:21:53,840 --> 01:21:58,839
Speaker 1: produce one extra hour of life for you. By worrying,

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01:21:59,439 --> 01:22:04,519
Speaker 1: you can I extend your life one single hour due

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01:22:04,640 --> 01:22:09,000
Speaker 1: to worry. So if you can't even by worrying, do

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Speaker 1: that thing that's really important, what you're worried about the

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01:22:13,000 --> 01:22:17,679
Speaker 1: rest of before, why would you be worried about anything else?

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Speaker 1: And that's what I've been learning when it says to

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Speaker 1: learn how to master time, so time doesn't master you.

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Speaker 1: If you lose focus of today right now, your presence,

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Speaker 1: your relationship with God right now, and you got it

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Speaker 1: all tied up in your future with that wasted energy,

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Speaker 1: you gotta miss some steps today. We were created as

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Speaker 1: twenty four hour creatures. We're in our absolute best when

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Speaker 1: we are living in the moment. Call now, the moment

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Speaker 1: your whole focus is on your future, You're gonna make

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Speaker 1: missteps today, the moment your whole thought processes about what

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Speaker 1: happened to you in the past, and how you can't

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Speaker 1: get over it that will cause you to make missteps today.

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Speaker 1: And then as you make these missteps today, you keep

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01:23:12,920 --> 01:23:15,680
Speaker 1: blaming it on your pass and God don't love me,

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01:23:15,760 --> 01:23:18,960
Speaker 1: and God don't hear my cry. Now, Partner, you keep

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01:23:19,080 --> 01:23:21,920
Speaker 1: holding on to something in your pass or you keep

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01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:24,839
Speaker 1: worrying about something in your future, and you're not focused

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Speaker 1: on the twenty four pressures hours that He's given you

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Speaker 1: right now. The past belongs to history, the future belongs

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01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:38,800
Speaker 1: to God. Now belongs to you. It's yours. That's why

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Speaker 1: they call it the present, because it is God's gift

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Speaker 1: to you right now. Make better use of now, stop

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01:23:47,200 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 1: worrying about the future, and let go of the past. Bail.

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Speaker 1: That's it, so time, don't master you ain't man. Have

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Speaker 1: a great weekend, told John, Yeah, yeah, all right, Steve,

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01:24:10,000 --> 01:24:23,000
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