WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Tap the Window

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update. Today, a listener named Ryan is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone for a second date update, and in his email,

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<v Speaker 1>he said that he's been frustrated with dating recently, so

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<v Speaker 1>he started trying a unique way to meet women. He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't explain what it was, so I can only assume

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<v Speaker 1>that he's dressing up as a dog and going to

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<v Speaker 1>dog parks. Oh, women love puppets, at least expect it.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can smell whoever you want, You can help

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<v Speaker 1>anybody's leg. And then six months later you stand up

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<v Speaker 1>and reveal, Hey, my name's Ryan, I'm not a dog

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Would you like to go on a date? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>horny talking dog? Is that what you're doing? Ryan, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I was thinking? Not quite? Oh yeah, But

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<v Speaker 1>now he's got a plan because this one doesn't work out,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll find out what your unique way isn't just a second,

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<v Speaker 1>but tell us the name of the girl you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call today. What's her name? Chrissy? Chrissy? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>And did you meet her in the unique way that

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<v Speaker 1>you've been meeting people? Sounds creepy, Yeah, it turns out

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<v Speaker 1>I did, all right? So what is that what you doing? Okay? So,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sorry to say that with so much judgment

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<v Speaker 1>in my voice. But this is a second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>and people do weird things. So what are you doing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm self employed. I have my own business and I

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<v Speaker 1>work in an office downtown and my window is on

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<v Speaker 1>the ground floor. It's a lot of people walking by

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<v Speaker 1>all day long. And one day I had some buddies

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<v Speaker 1>come by the office for lunch, and you know, as

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<v Speaker 1>a gag, we put up a sign in the window

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<v Speaker 1>that says, ladies, if you see something you like, tap

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<v Speaker 1>the glass. It's like a sales window for a boyfriend. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean did it as a laugh. Actually worked,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, not really. You know, a few old

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<v Speaker 1>ladies would walk by they tapped on the glass. I

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<v Speaker 1>would wave and smile. You know, some of them would

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<v Speaker 1>tap again. Had give them a thumbs up, like I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Haven't been with a man in years? Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>their average age was like maybe eighty or eighty five.

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<v Speaker 1>Good thing about me is can't get pregnant, menopads want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out. Got menopauds for them was like thirty

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. But yeah, no, I'm unfortunately no one I

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<v Speaker 1>was really interested in. Okay, so you did get some tappers,

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<v Speaker 1>just not the ones you wanted. And so did the

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<v Speaker 1>girl you go out with Chrissy? Did she tap? So

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<v Speaker 1>here's a story, Like after this fourth awkward encounter with

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<v Speaker 1>an old lady and I like, I obviously hadn't thought

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<v Speaker 1>this through and I was about to take the sign down.

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<v Speaker 1>Then this cute girl tapped on the window. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I looked up expecting to see, you know, one of

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<v Speaker 1>this rotating tasks of women. Knew. Yeah, She's like, have

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<v Speaker 1>you been trying to sleep with my grandma? Yeah? You pervert?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing that was Chrissy. Yeah, much to my surprise,

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<v Speaker 1>there was actually like a hot girl standing outside. And

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<v Speaker 1>so what'd you do, like run out of your office? Yeah? Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was like, hold on, hold on. I

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<v Speaker 1>ran outside and I asked her what her name was,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, well, I'm Chrissy. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot believe this actually worked, but almost did. She

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Chrissy, but my name doesn't matter, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just here to tell you that I've walked by for

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<v Speaker 1>a few weeks now, I've seen the sign in your window,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just want to tell you you're never going

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<v Speaker 1>to meet a girl that way. Well, isn't that ironic,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's what we're doing now, Chrissy. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not true. I met you right, She laughed, and

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<v Speaker 1>it felt like we had a good vibe. And after

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<v Speaker 1>she worked around there she told me she did and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, listen, obviously you just came to tell

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<v Speaker 1>me that you thought this was pretty lame, But what

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<v Speaker 1>if we just had one drink together? Okay, good move,

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<v Speaker 1>that's actually pretty smooth. Yeah, And so you know, she agreed,

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<v Speaker 1>she had plans that night, so I text her, we

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<v Speaker 1>made plans, you met up for a drink and you

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<v Speaker 1>know when we met up, she was in this amazing

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<v Speaker 1>sexy red dress. Like literally my jaw dropped when I

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<v Speaker 1>saw her. Again. Well, and I will say, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good sign for you. If a woman takes the effort

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<v Speaker 1>to pick out a dress dress to meet up for

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<v Speaker 1>a drink, that means that she wants to impress you.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, in the back of my head, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I cannot believe this stupid sign. Actually where Yeah, congratulations,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it sort of worked. You're not getting a

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<v Speaker 1>call back now, that's true. Yeah, don't count your chickens right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So how was the whole date? It was

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<v Speaker 1>really good. You know, we had a lot in common.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about context that we were into. We both

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<v Speaker 1>like photography and a lot of the same music. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I made her laugh a lot. You know, the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing was great. How long did you guys hang out for?

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<v Speaker 1>I think we had four maybe five drinks, Like can't

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<v Speaker 1>hotly remember we were there for a couple hours. Good, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were talking about things that we wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do together even before the day was even over, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>talking about like maybe taking a hike or okay. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's good that you're planning on another date.

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<v Speaker 1>While you're on that date, did you guys kiss at

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<v Speaker 1>the end or anything? You know, at one point near

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the date, I've wrote in a cocktail napkin,

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<v Speaker 1>if you like what you see, happier lips on mine

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<v Speaker 1>call back to the first original joke how you met her? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was kind of a callback but didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really go over. She was basically like, that was pretty lame,

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<v Speaker 1>but she laughs. I mean maybe it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>pitty laugh, and I was, you know, I know, but

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<v Speaker 1>we should definitely hang out again, and she said okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and we hugged and that was that. And I have

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<v Speaker 1>been more since. Unfortunately nothing. And you've tried texting her? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I texted her a few times, you know, even gave

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<v Speaker 1>her a call. I know you're not supposed to do

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<v Speaker 1>these days, but what's your theory? Why do you think

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling you back? I don't know, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, maybe it was like the lame

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<v Speaker 1>joke at the end, but that's really like the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing I can really think of. I did take the

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<v Speaker 1>sign down, but now I feel like, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like a sad little puppy in the window waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for someone to come and pick me. All right, and

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever seen like a different way to work

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<v Speaker 1>just to avoid a little sad puppy? All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song and then come back and call

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<v Speaker 1>her and get your second date update. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you guys. All right, hang up brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Right in the middle of a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're just tuning in, Ryan is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and he thinks he's not getting a call back

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<v Speaker 1>from a girl named Chrissy probably because he asked her

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<v Speaker 1>to tap her lips onto his lips. It's a weird

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<v Speaker 1>way to ask for a kiss. Kind of makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>if you heard the first part. Though. He met her because,

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<v Speaker 1>as a joke, he and his office buddies put a

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<v Speaker 1>sign on their window. They work on the ground floor

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<v Speaker 1>of a building that said, hey, tapped the window if

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<v Speaker 1>you're interested in anything inside. And she actually did tap

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<v Speaker 1>the window, but mostly to tell him he had never

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<v Speaker 1>made a woman that way. And then he actually got

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<v Speaker 1>a date with her. They went out, had a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>but during the date he tried to bring that joke

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<v Speaker 1>back and wrote on a cocktail napkin, if you like

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<v Speaker 1>what you see, tap your lips on mine. And he

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<v Speaker 1>thinks that lame joke is the reason he's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back. Ryan, Are you ready to call her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready. It just dawned on me. What if the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing was just a pity date, Like she felt

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<v Speaker 1>bad for you that you were so desperate that you

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<v Speaker 1>put up a sign. I mean, who's going to put

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<v Speaker 1>him like that kind of time to just like give

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<v Speaker 1>pity to a stranger. Yeah, and she did dress up

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<v Speaker 1>and everything too, for your days, like most people would

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<v Speaker 1>have like better things to do. Maybe she's evil, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean maybe, yeah, maybe she's like, screw it, I got

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<v Speaker 1>better things to do, but I just want to mess

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<v Speaker 1>with this guy. Either that or she had a real

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<v Speaker 1>dinner date after his date that's what she wore. A

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<v Speaker 1>dress for advertisers. Yeah, I mean, like maybe she was

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<v Speaker 1>just in it for the free drinks, but I hope not,

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<v Speaker 1>because I felt like we had a really strong connection

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<v Speaker 1>with one another. Who knows. All right, we'll call her

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<v Speaker 1>and find out right now, Okay, all right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Chrissy please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she? Hey, what's up, Chrissy? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, I'm sorry. Who is this again? Jewel from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean anything to you at all? No, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you've got the wrong number. I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>have the wrong number, but I can understand your confusion.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm calling from a radio show called Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. And the reason that I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>you is because we got an email about you about me. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we do a segment on our show, and it's called

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update. That's where if you go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with somebody and then you don't call

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<v Speaker 1>them after, they can email us to get you on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and try to figure out what happened. And

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<v Speaker 1>we got an email about you from a dude named Ryan. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>remember who Ryan is? I do you remember Ryan? He's

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<v Speaker 1>the guy with the sign in the window? Yeah, oh god, okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Well he emailed us because he said he really enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>going out with you. But now you're not answering any

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<v Speaker 1>of us text messages or anything like that, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>wondering if he did something wrong. Well, I guess, if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being honest, it just feels like Ryan hasn't dated

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, so it was just a little awkward. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so he doesn't know how to date anything specific. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this, Ryan, very nice guy. We had

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<v Speaker 1>it the first half of the date and it was

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<v Speaker 1>totally fine. I'm just kind of getting to know you,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I went a little overboard. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>little too much too soon, So I just I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel comfortable answering his text and continuing that too much

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<v Speaker 1>too soon. He decaid he didn't even kiss you. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not like that. Um, we're talking about music and we

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of music similarities that we enjoyed. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's this band I hadn't heard of, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, you're coming into town. I should get

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<v Speaker 1>us tickets. And I was like, oh, okay, well the

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<v Speaker 1>tickets are like seven months in advance. So that was

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<v Speaker 1>a little like, oh, like I thought he was being funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was very like, I could hop on my

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<v Speaker 1>phone and get the tickets right now. Oh so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a little too eager. I mean, we were just getting

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<v Speaker 1>to know each other. Chrissy, is that really a bad thing?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, sure, it may not work out in

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<v Speaker 1>seven months from now, he may have to take a

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<v Speaker 1>friend instead of you, but like, isn't it nice to

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<v Speaker 1>have some and finally just say yeah, let's keep doing this.

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<v Speaker 1>I am agreement with you. I do things that it's nice.

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<v Speaker 1>But it wasn't like that one incident, Like it just

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<v Speaker 1>kept coming on like really strong. And if you have

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<v Speaker 1>any other examples of things that he did, he told

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<v Speaker 1>me that I reminded him a lot like his mom.

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<v Speaker 1>We had famili personalities don't ever do that, but that

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<v Speaker 1>could be good. Yeah, he wanted me to go back

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<v Speaker 1>home with him on this trip to like see his

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<v Speaker 1>mom and hang out with his mom and we get

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<v Speaker 1>along together, okay, And I was kind of playing it

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<v Speaker 1>off with jokes, but they kept coming where it was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did you get along with my family really well? And

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<v Speaker 1>these are these things that we do back home and

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<v Speaker 1>you could join in And I was like a lanning

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<v Speaker 1>and family events and it was like, forty five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>into our date, can we just establish too that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that there's a woman on the planet that

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be like your mom, right, Like it just ever.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sure that he meant it in the

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<v Speaker 1>sweet way. It just came across a little Norman babsy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he's already planning a date seven months from now,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he also wants you to go meet his

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<v Speaker 1>family and go to there all events and everything else,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's all, well, that's not the worst of it.

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<v Speaker 1>As we are leaving, he stops us at the host

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<v Speaker 1>and and he asked the host if he can put

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<v Speaker 1>in a reservation at that same table at the same

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<v Speaker 1>time a year from now. Oh my God, Yeah, that's awkward,

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<v Speaker 1>super awkward. I'd be ready to run. I mean, luckily

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<v Speaker 1>that was the end of the date, so I was

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<v Speaker 1>just I tried as hard as I could till this

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<v Speaker 1>played offs of like, huh, this is funny because like

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<v Speaker 1>he's a very nice guy. He did make me laugh,

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<v Speaker 1>but the second part of the date it was just

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<v Speaker 1>very clean, like he was sending me a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>text messages. Afterwards he called me like I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>just back off, dude. Yeah, and he's like, well, he

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like one of those people that just becomes the

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<v Speaker 1>relationship too. Instead of being two people in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>you're one. You're one person, right, and just kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, it was too much, too soon. And like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, if it were done right at the right

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<v Speaker 1>time and the right fashion, I would be all over it.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, forty five minutes an hour to know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you, you know what else is moving a

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<v Speaker 1>little too fast? Maybe well, and you know that he's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening and wants to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, are you serious? Yeah? I am, unless

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<v Speaker 1>you hung up? Ryan, Are you still there? Yeah, I'm here,

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<v Speaker 1>very christy, Hi, right, I I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 1>to say. Um, I'm sorry that you had to hear that.

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<v Speaker 1>I really do think that you are a nice guy. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I'm like sorry if I came on too

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<v Speaker 1>strong or if like that was too fast. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like definitely not my intentions. But you know, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just like febab, like we really hit it off in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, and like when you see something great in

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<v Speaker 1>front of you, you just like really want to take advantage,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, you know, I just wanted to have a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. And I get that and I respect that.

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<v Speaker 1>It just was a little much of having that great time.

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<v Speaker 1>So for like the next fifty years together to be

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<v Speaker 1>planning your year anniversary at the same restaurant, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm assuming that's what you were doing. Ryan. That

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<v Speaker 1>was like kind of a joke, but I mean like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of. I mean, I think it was just because

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<v Speaker 1>that was like the nail on the coffin, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you could say, because Ryan, again, we did have a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. You are fun, funny guy, and we do

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of things in common, but he was

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<v Speaker 1>like one thing after another. Ryan's like speaking of coffins,

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<v Speaker 1>already picked out our graves next to each other. Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you always move this fast like you're

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<v Speaker 1>at lightning speed? Dude. To be honest, but I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to buy tickets to that concert anyway, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, didn't necessarily have to go with you. Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay to just admit that you were really into her,

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<v Speaker 1>because now it sounds like you're just playing everything off

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<v Speaker 1>like I was more of a joke reservations. I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to go to that concert anyway. I mean, shit,

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<v Speaker 1>I figured I got a extra seed on the plane

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<v Speaker 1>to see my mom's. I was like, why not. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'll be honest, like I really wanted into you.

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<v Speaker 1>I really I really did like you. I just like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've got a great relationship with my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, doesn't Freud say that, like every every guy

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<v Speaker 1>is looking for a woman like his mom, Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was a compliment and his complex. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean maybe that's true, but that's definitely not what most

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<v Speaker 1>women want to hear on a first date, especially you know,

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<v Speaker 1>wearing the draft and I was wearing I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be compared to your mom, but like, look, you

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<v Speaker 1>really did look like a younger version of my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like I couldn't, I couldn't stop. Yeah, stop

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<v Speaker 1>talking about that, right, Yeah? I mean Ryan, You've got

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<v Speaker 1>to see, like, if you're already planning your first anniversary

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<v Speaker 1>within the first hour of hanging out with somebody, by

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<v Speaker 1>the third date, you guys are naming your children, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got to slow it down. Can you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I didn't think it was really that serious.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, we can like cancel that reserva

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, do something else for our anniversary. If

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<v Speaker 1>you are stop talking about the anniversary, Chrissy, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go on a second date with Ryan. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it and you can meet up with them

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<v Speaker 1>and see if you can slow things down a bit, Yeah, Chrissy,

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<v Speaker 1>Like before you answer, like again, I'm really sorry, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you give me a second chance, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>go out. I'll play it much cooler and I really

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<v Speaker 1>think that we could have a good time if you're

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<v Speaker 1>willing to give me a do over. Pretty good pitch, Chrissy,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, veris Ryan that I think you're very handsome,

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<v Speaker 1>we're very sweet. We did have a good first part

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<v Speaker 1>of the date. If you can keep saying in the

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<v Speaker 1>now or like maybe in a week from now. I

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<v Speaker 1>would enjoy going on a second date with you. Okay, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>can you do that? Yeah? For sure? For sure? All

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<v Speaker 1>right suh yeah, yeah, you don't sound very sure. But

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<v Speaker 1>congratulations Ryan, you actually got a second date. We haven't

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<v Speaker 1>had one in a while. Yeah. Oh, thank you guys

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<v Speaker 1>so much. Welcome. Make sure to invite us to the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding okay shop, gonna ruin this for me son. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>wait on that engagement ring that you already bought to

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<v Speaker 1>give it to her. Okay, all right, thank you, Broke

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<v Speaker 1>and Juwil in the morning,