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Speaker 1: Second Date Update. Today, a listener named Ryan is on

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Speaker 1: the phone for a second date update, and in his email,

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Speaker 1: he said that he's been frustrated with dating recently, so

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Speaker 1: he started trying a unique way to meet women. He

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Speaker 1: didn't explain what it was, so I can only assume

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Speaker 1: that he's dressing up as a dog and going to

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Speaker 1: dog parks. Oh, women love puppets, at least expect it.

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Speaker 1: So you can smell whoever you want, You can help

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Speaker 1: anybody's leg. And then six months later you stand up

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Speaker 1: and reveal, Hey, my name's Ryan, I'm not a dog

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Speaker 1: at all. Would you like to go on a date? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: horny talking dog? Is that what you're doing? Ryan, because

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Speaker 1: that's what I was thinking? Not quite? Oh yeah, But

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Speaker 1: now he's got a plan because this one doesn't work out,

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Speaker 1: we'll find out what your unique way isn't just a second,

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Speaker 1: but tell us the name of the girl you want

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Speaker 1: to call today. What's her name? Chrissy? Chrissy? All right?

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Speaker 1: And did you meet her in the unique way that

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Speaker 1: you've been meeting people? Sounds creepy, Yeah, it turns out

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Speaker 1: I did, all right? So what is that what you doing? Okay? So,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to say that with so much judgment

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Speaker 1: in my voice. But this is a second day update,

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Speaker 1: and people do weird things. So what are you doing. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm self employed. I have my own business and I

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Speaker 1: work in an office downtown and my window is on

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Speaker 1: the ground floor. It's a lot of people walking by

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Speaker 1: all day long. And one day I had some buddies

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Speaker 1: come by the office for lunch, and you know, as

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Speaker 1: a gag, we put up a sign in the window

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Speaker 1: that says, ladies, if you see something you like, tap

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Speaker 1: the glass. It's like a sales window for a boyfriend. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean did it as a laugh. Actually worked,

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Speaker 1: to be honest, not really. You know, a few old

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Speaker 1: ladies would walk by they tapped on the glass. I

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Speaker 1: would wave and smile. You know, some of them would

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Speaker 1: tap again. Had give them a thumbs up, like I'm serious.

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Speaker 1: Haven't been with a man in years? Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: their average age was like maybe eighty or eighty five.

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Speaker 1: Good thing about me is can't get pregnant, menopads want

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Speaker 1: years ago. But yeah, no, I'm unfortunately no one I

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Speaker 1: was really interested in. Okay, so you did get some tappers,

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Speaker 1: just not the ones you wanted. And so did the

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Speaker 1: girl you go out with Chrissy? Did she tap? So

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Speaker 1: here's a story, Like after this fourth awkward encounter with

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Speaker 1: an old lady and I like, I obviously hadn't thought

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Speaker 1: this through and I was about to take the sign down.

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Speaker 1: Then this cute girl tapped on the window. You know,

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Speaker 1: I looked up expecting to see, you know, one of

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Speaker 1: this rotating tasks of women. Knew. Yeah, She's like, have

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Speaker 1: you been trying to sleep with my grandma? Yeah? You pervert?

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Speaker 1: I'm guessing that was Chrissy. Yeah, much to my surprise,

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Speaker 1: so what'd you do, like run out of your office? Yeah? Basically,

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Speaker 1: you know, I was like, hold on, hold on. I

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Speaker 1: I cannot believe this actually worked, but almost did. She

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Speaker 1: just here to tell you that I've walked by for

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Speaker 1: a few weeks now, I've seen the sign in your window,

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Speaker 1: to meet a girl that way. Well, isn't that ironic,

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Speaker 1: because that's what we're doing now, Chrissy. I was like, well,

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Speaker 1: that's not true. I met you right, She laughed, and

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Speaker 1: it felt like we had a good vibe. And after

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Speaker 1: I was like, listen, obviously you just came to tell

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Speaker 1: if we just had one drink together? Okay, good move,

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Speaker 1: that's actually pretty smooth. Yeah, And so you know, she agreed,

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Speaker 1: she had plans that night, so I text her, we

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Speaker 1: made plans, you met up for a drink and you

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Speaker 1: know when we met up, she was in this amazing

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Speaker 1: saw her. Again. Well, and I will say, that's a

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Speaker 1: good sign for you. If a woman takes the effort

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Speaker 1: And you know, in the back of my head, I

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Speaker 1: I mean it sort of worked. You're not getting a

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Speaker 1: all right, So how was the whole date? It was

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Speaker 1: I think we had four maybe five drinks, Like can't

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Speaker 1: hotly remember we were there for a couple hours. Good, okay,

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Speaker 1: and we were talking about things that we wanted to

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Speaker 1: I mean that's good that you're planning on another date.

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Speaker 1: While you're on that date, did you guys kiss at

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Speaker 1: the end or anything? You know, at one point near

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Speaker 1: the end of the date, I've wrote in a cocktail napkin,

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Speaker 1: if you like what you see, happier lips on mine

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Speaker 1: call back to the first original joke how you met her? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, it was kind of a callback but didn't

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Speaker 1: really go over. She was basically like, that was pretty lame,

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Speaker 1: we should definitely hang out again, and she said okay,

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Speaker 1: and we hugged and that was that. And I have

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Speaker 1: been more since. Unfortunately nothing. And you've tried texting her? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I texted her a few times, you know, even gave

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Speaker 1: her a call. I know you're not supposed to do

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Speaker 1: these days, but what's your theory? Why do you think

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Speaker 1: she's not calling you back? I don't know, to be honest,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, maybe it was like the lame

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Speaker 1: sign down, but now I feel like, you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: just like a sad little puppy in the window waiting

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Speaker 1: for someone to come and pick me. All right, and

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Speaker 1: have you ever seen like a different way to work

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Speaker 1: just to avoid a little sad puppy? All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: we'll play a song and then come back and call

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Speaker 1: her and get your second date update. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you guys. All right, hang up brooking jubil in

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Speaker 1: the morning. Right in the middle of a second date update.

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Speaker 1: And if you're just tuning in, Ryan is on the

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Speaker 1: from a girl named Chrissy probably because he asked her

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Speaker 1: to tap her lips onto his lips. It's a weird

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Speaker 1: as a joke, he and his office buddies put a

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Speaker 1: of a building that said, hey, tapped the window if

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Speaker 1: you're interested in anything inside. And she actually did tap

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Speaker 1: but during the date he tried to bring that joke

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Speaker 1: a call back. Ryan, Are you ready to call her? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I'm ready. It just dawned on me. What if the

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Speaker 1: whole thing was just a pity date, Like she felt

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Speaker 1: put up a sign. I mean, who's going to put

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Speaker 1: him like that kind of time to just like give

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Speaker 1: have like better things to do. Maybe she's evil, I

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Speaker 1: dinner date after his date that's what she wore. A

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Chrissy please?

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Speaker 1: This is she? Hey, what's up, Chrissy? How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm sorry. Who is this again? Jewel from

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Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: does that mean anything to you at all? No, I

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Speaker 1: think you've got the wrong number. I don't think I

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Speaker 1: have the wrong number, but I can understand your confusion.

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Speaker 1: So I'm calling from a radio show called Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. And the reason that I'm calling

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Speaker 1: you is because we got an email about you about me. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: we do a segment on our show, and it's called

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Speaker 1: the second date update. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 1: on a date with somebody and then you don't call

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Speaker 1: them after, they can email us to get you on

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Speaker 1: we got an email about you from a dude named Ryan. Okay,

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Speaker 1: remember who Ryan is? I do you remember Ryan? He's

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Speaker 1: the guy with the sign in the window? Yeah, oh god, okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: Well he emailed us because he said he really enjoyed

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Speaker 1: I'm being honest, it just feels like Ryan hasn't dated

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Speaker 1: so he doesn't know how to date anything specific. Well,

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Speaker 1: I will say this, Ryan, very nice guy. We had

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Speaker 1: too soon. He decaid he didn't even kiss you. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: not like that. Um, we're talking about music and we

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Speaker 1: had a lot of music similarities that we enjoyed. And

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Speaker 1: there's this band I hadn't heard of, and he was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you're coming into town. I should get

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Speaker 1: us tickets. And I was like, oh, okay, well the

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, sure, it may not work out in

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Speaker 1: friend instead of you, but like, isn't it nice to

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Speaker 1: I am agreement with you. I do things that it's nice.

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Speaker 1: But it wasn't like that one incident, Like it just

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Speaker 1: can you do that? Yeah? For sure? For sure? All

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Speaker 1: had one in a while. Yeah. Oh, thank you guys

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Speaker 1: so much. Welcome. Make sure to invite us to the

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