1 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: So this is a high class, unrelatable problem, but there'll 2 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: be something connected to it that you relate to, I believe. 3 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 1: So I'll go to restaurants where I know the owner, 4 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: or they want me to say something good about the 5 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: restaurant and review it well, or they know I'm a 6 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: public person, et cetera, and the restaurant, once we've already 7 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 1: ordered our food and we know what we're getting, then 8 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: sends over a bunch of things to try. This is 9 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: a problem. I'm going to explain why I can afford 10 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 1: to buy anything on the menu that I want, And 11 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: I choose what I want to eat, and Brennan and 12 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,319 Speaker 1: I are out to dinner and we together decide what 13 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: we are going to get. Sometimes we're going to dinner 14 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: because we want the experience and we're full because like 15 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: we ate in the afternoon, but we're still out of 16 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 1: town and we want to go, or we had plans 17 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: to go, or whatever the reason is, so we go. 18 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: And this happened three times over our ASTHMI vacation. Again, unrelatable, 19 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: privileged content. But let me just I'm just this is 20 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: the show where I rant and I could have Hillary 21 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: Clinton and Matthew McConaughey on here and you guys don't 22 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: really give a ship. But if I ran to bat 23 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: tuna fish, it rates. So we go to restaurants while 24 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 1: we were away on our ski vacation, and the owner 25 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 1: will send things over. So the problem is one night 26 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 1: we went to a restaurant and we knew what we 27 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: wanted to get. We planned, we're going to get the salad, 28 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: We're going to share it. We got the octopus, we 29 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: got the steak. Okay, So then the restaurant, in an 30 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: effort to impress us, start sending over everything on the menu. 31 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: I'm busting out. I feel like guilty. The problem is, 32 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: now you're moving food around your plate. Now you're wasting food, 33 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: which gives me so much anxiety. So we had ordered 34 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: a slice steak to share. By the time a slice 35 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: steak came, we couldn't eat anymore. And so we had 36 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: gotten things that we didn't want, but we felt compelled 37 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: to eat them because they were sent over tar tar 38 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 1: like carpaccio, like raw beef carpote. That's a very specific thing. 39 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: My daughter doesn't want that. She's fourteen. She I mean, 40 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 1: that doesn't matter her age. She's weird things in caviar 41 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: blah blah blah, but she didn't want the carpaccio. I 42 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: didn't want the carpaccio either, because, frankly, I was eating 43 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: steak for dinner. I wasn't on like a fucking carnivore 44 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: caveman meet the Crudes diet. Like, we knew what we were doing. 45 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: So now we got the carpaccio and it's raw, and 46 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: Brinn's like, oh, she tried it, but we're whatever. We 47 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: know what we're doing, so we I had to take 48 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 1: a little bite and move it over, and then something 49 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: else came and what was the other then giant ravioli. 50 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: I don't want, Like, honestly, I'm not a food combiner, 51 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: but I don't need to be eating every single food 52 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: group in the same meal and then the dessert, Like 53 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: you have to try the dessert, and then we get 54 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 1: the dessert, and we don't like the dessert. It's not 55 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: the desert. We would have ordered your taket. So now 56 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: you give me a problem. Years ago, a boyfriend gave 57 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: me a spa trip to Canyon Ranch in the Berkshires, 58 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: but you had to use it during the next couple 59 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: of months, and it had to be used like between 60 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: a Monday and a Thursday. Like, now you've give me 61 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: a problem. Years ago, jay Z sean Carter because it 62 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: said the Carters gave me a truffle. It was in 63 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: a white like the small version of a Chinese soup container, 64 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: like the small clear one. Just a truffle and it 65 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: was on top of some white raw rice like I 66 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: guess it keeps it moist or hydrated or whatever. So 67 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: and I was before Thanksgiving. It was for Thanksgiving, like 68 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: happy Holidays from the Carters. And it was a truffle 69 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: and it was so freeing and it was amazing. But 70 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: we were going out of town. I'm like, no, I 71 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: don't have a chet. What am I doing with this truffle? 72 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: Like I'm going out of town? So it's like, am 73 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: I going to carry this truffle on the plane to 74 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: wherever I am bring it to? It's a fucking problem. 75 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: I got ninety nine problems, and a truffle ain't one, 76 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: but it is. It is. I got nice eighty nine problems, 77 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: into truffle is one. So then we went to another restaurant. 78 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: We ordered a steak. It was another night. It was 79 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: a couple of nights after we don't only eat steak. 80 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: But for whatever reason, this was this is another restaurant, 81 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: and we love the steaks. We got the steak, and 82 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: we got this salad and a similar situation, and then 83 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: we got this big pasta and it's like, what are 84 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: we all doing? What are we doing? Now? This pasta 85 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: is going to sit there. We took two bites. We 86 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: weren't in the mood for pasta because we can afford 87 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: to buy basta. It's one of the things I've worked 88 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: hard for at this restaurant. If we want any of 89 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: these items, if we wanted them, they were there on 90 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: the menu, we could eat them like we could have them. 91 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: We could have it. I could swing the seventeen dollars 92 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: for the pasta. We didn't want it, so now it 93 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: came one bite. It wasn't even we didn't want it. 94 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: So I was like what And we were paying for 95 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: the bill, So let's just do this. We're paying for 96 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: the bill. Give us you want to give us, somebody 97 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: give us a discount. Sometimes it happens too that another 98 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: table they want to send you a drink, but I 99 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: see that you're not drinking, right, What are we doing? 100 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,119 Speaker 1: A drink is three dollars, like maybe it's seven dollars. 101 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: I don't know how much a drink is. We could 102 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: get our own drink, like now it's an obligation. This 103 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: table four tables away. They look over. Did they not 104 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: accept the drink? We didn't accept the drink because want 105 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: and a Why didn't accept the drink? Because I could 106 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: get my own drink And I'm not trying to be 107 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 1: me And it's just like you offered us a drink, 108 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: offer me like you know, a wallet, something like different, 109 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 1: like a makeup bag. I don't even need that. I 110 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: get those a lot too, but like offer something that 111 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: we like don't. When I buy someone a gift, it's 112 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: usually something that they don't already have or they wouldn't 113 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 1: buy themselves. So if you're sending me a gift in 114 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: the restaurant, it should be like here we sent over 115 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 1: and this is a smart thing. This is what restaurants do. 116 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 1: You want to kiss somebody's ass, give them a fifty 117 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: dollars gift card costs you nothing. They're gonna use it there, 118 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 1: so here and it makes you come back. So you 119 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 1: know what we see you've ordered, but the owners wanted 120 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: to give you a fifty dollars gift card towards next 121 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: time you're here, you'll fucking be You'll you'll have to go. 122 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 1: That's giving them a problem too, because you'll have to 123 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: go and change your whole vacation plans next year you 124 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: have to go back to this restaurant. But it's something 125 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: that feels like it's of value, right, or like we 126 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: have taken twenty five percent off of your bill. The 127 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 1: owners wanted to just thank you for coming. But I 128 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,679 Speaker 1: don't need more food at a food restaurant where food 129 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: is available, Like if I'm in a cave stranded, yes, 130 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: send me over the pasta, I'd love it, or the 131 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: steak or the carpaccio or the tartar or the weirdest 132 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 1: thing on your menu. But if I'm in the very 133 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 1: restaurant that gave me the scroll in the book that 134 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: I get to read and order what I want, trust 135 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: and believe. If there's something else I want on here, 136 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 1: I'll get it. If there's a drink I want to get, 137 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: I'll get it. Now you're giving me an extra drink. 138 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: I have to order to be polite, go over, say 139 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: hello to you. Now I'm doing it. Appearance I don't 140 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: want it. I don't want it. I want it's like 141 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: anything else. I want the food for free, or I'll 142 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 1: choose what I want. I don't want these bizarre in betweens. 143 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: That's why I don't borrow. I don't borrow from designers, 144 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 1: because you know what. They send you something, you get 145 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: to wear it, you send it back. I feel like 146 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: a loser. Oh thank you. I'm so grubby and desperate 147 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: that you're sending something to my house. I'm gonna look 148 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: through it and I'm gonna wear it. I'm giving it back. 149 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. You send something into this house, you never 150 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: see it again. Okay, you send it through the mail. 151 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: I could give it away, I could paint in it. 152 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: It's not coming back, So don't send me. I don't 153 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: want it. I don't want to borrow anything. I don't 154 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: want to borrow your man and I don't want to 155 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: borrow your dress. And I don't want to borrow your necklace. 156 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: I'm buying or I'm taking period. Give it, send it 157 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: over here. It is free game. Also, they send you 158 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 1: something over then you gotta get it altered. You altered 159 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: it to yourself. You're giving it back, double degrading. I 160 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: am not a borrower. Ask anyone, Ask anyone. I remember 161 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 1: Christian Siriano, they gave me a yellow dress. He said, 162 00:07:56,320 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 1: keep it. One time? One time did I borrow? I 163 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: mean from my oscar to the rent it because it 164 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: was last minute for an event that I didn't know 165 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: I was going to. But it's it's like that is 166 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: like that's as rare as an apocalypse, like that that 167 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: doesn't happen. So yeah, you say. And also a Cadillac 168 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: sends something into the driveway for me to look at it, 169 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: and I didn't even like that. You send and Bronco, Bronco, 170 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: I have multiple Broncos. Bronco wanted to send a car 171 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: for here for a month. What what do I get to, like, 172 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: have sex with your husband from and then give him back. 173 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: I don't want either of those things. I don't want 174 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: to Bronco. You send a Bronco on my driveway, I'm 175 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: keeping it. That's it. Don't send it. I don't even 176 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: want all this shit too. Let's talk about all the 177 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: shit in my house. It has become a situation where 178 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to go out of town. I come home. 179 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: Is all the shit? How do they have my address? 180 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: Because the same pr companies are sending it, and I've 181 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 1: sent to them all. I don't want it. I don't 182 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: want it. If I want it, I'll tell you I 183 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: want I don't want it. I don't want any of 184 00:08:54,679 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: the shit. So I went out one night with someone 185 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: and we accidentally ordered the same appetizer. I'm never gonna 186 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: get over that. I don't care if we just met, 187 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 1: if we're sleeping together, if we're best friends, if you're 188 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: my child, I'm sitting at dinner with you, We're not 189 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: ordering the same thing. That's bizarre. And whenever I see 190 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 1: couples that get the same entre, like Valentine's Day and 191 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: they both got the same entre unless there are three 192 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 1: things on the menu, it's like a preface. I look 193 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: at them like, wow, you must really hate each other, 194 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 1: Like how are you not sharing the thing? And then 195 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: trying something else? I don't understand it. It was an accident. 196 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 1: Maybe the guy wasn't paying attention to what I ordered, 197 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: but he ordered the same thing as I did. What 198 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: are you fucking talking about? Like we could share it, 199 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: you could have half of mine, like or take a bite, 200 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 1: Like you're gonna order the same thing that means we're 201 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: getting like no sample size of this restaurant. Like there's 202 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: all this choice and we're both getting the same thing. 203 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: Like I'm okay, I'll sacrifice what I got. I'll get 204 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: some something less desirable to me to not have what 205 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: you're having. I'll have what she's having that died with 206 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: Harry met Sally. No, you won't have what I'm having. 207 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: I fucking said at first, you're not getting it. Get 208 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:15,719 Speaker 1: something else, figure it out. Absolutely not. You're a sociopath? 209 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 1: Are you crazy? What? I'll never go out with you again. 210 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 1: You got the same thing as I did. We didn't 211 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: even have a meeting about it. This is weird. This 212 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: will never work. It's either like this will never work 213 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: or I want a divorce. Like if someone after years 214 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:34,439 Speaker 1: of being with me, ordered the same thing as I did, 215 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: I'd be like, wow, we are not in a good place. 216 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: And someone who I just met up being like, hey, 217 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: I like the whatever what were you thinking? What were 218 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:47,439 Speaker 1: you thinking? What are you thinking? Britta and I we 219 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: have a meeting the way, what are you thinking? What 220 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 1: do you like? Okay? You make some deals? I like this, 221 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 1: you like that? What even if I'm with ten people? 222 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: I told you guys. On the Housewives, I was the 223 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: one who always ordered for everyone. What does everybody definitely want? 224 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 1: Let's throw that into the mix. So I want the 225 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: frying calin Mari, I want this, okay. So those are 226 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 1: definitely happening, you guys. Those are your ride or dies 227 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: and the rest are like, no, we don't. It's fine, 228 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: it's a flow. I'm like, okay, cool, it's a flow. 229 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 1: Same thing with Britain, Like what do we She's like, well, 230 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: I really want them iron that and it's a negotiation, 231 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: Like but okay. But then she's like, well, how did 232 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 1: I get this and you get that? And we split that? 233 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 1: Mmm okay, Like that's what I undered. That's a bit. 234 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: Let's like running a restaurant culinary business, like of idering. 235 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 1: So we can try more, we can blanket more of 236 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 1: the surface. Like here's how we'll go. We sit down. 237 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: She's like, oh, I like the Barada. I'm not feeling 238 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: barada the chops said. She's like, okay, all right, the 239 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: CHOP's out. I could do that, like it's a negotiation. Okay. 240 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: But now I got to get her back on the main. 241 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: So she's like, I'm not in the mood for scallops tonight. 242 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: She made that very clear a couple of times, like 243 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: I wanted the scalps badly, I'm not in the mood. Okay, fine, 244 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: then what do you want to do? What do you 245 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 1: want to do? What do you want to do? Fine? 246 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,719 Speaker 1: You told me what you didn't want. Put something into 247 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: the table, put your chips up. What do you want? 248 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: So she's like, all right, but I would split the 249 00:11:57,520 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 1: steak of the roast chicken. But the roast chicken we 250 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 1: could eat it all. Like, I feel like we're not 251 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 1: getting resticken. I don't eat lamb at home, pork whatever. 252 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 1: The slice steak, I make it home, but not as much. 253 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, fine, fine, okay, no problem. She's like, 254 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: I really don't want the chili robbed. I'm like, okay, 255 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: no problem, we can get the regular steaks. Negotiation. What 256 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: about the sides? The sides spinach of the broccolini. I 257 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: could rather the broccoli, no problem. You know why because 258 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: I chose the salad and she didn't want this. Guy like, 259 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: it's a negotiation. Same thing with the dessert. Yeah, So 260 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 1: fucking sociopaths order like duplicate meals. I'd rather be home alone,