WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Not So Spicy 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.759 I have been dying to find out about what happened 0:00:02.800 --> 0:00:04.720 with this couple. Oh my goodness. 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:06.840 Hey, it's Brogan Jeffrey and we've got a brand new 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:09.840 update update for you. Remember this is where we played 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:13.200 the original second date where the couple is first on 0:00:13.360 --> 0:00:15.120 with us, and then they're going to come back in 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:19.840 part three to update us on what's happened since yes, dude, 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:23.319 stick around and this is yes. Yeah, so before we 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:25.280 get there, comments alexis. 0:00:24.880 --> 0:00:28.200 Yeah, Mario said, hi everyone, I can't stop listening to 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:31.040 you guys doing a marathon these past weeks and having 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:31.640 a blast. 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:33.239 Big shout out from Brazil. 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:37.320 That's so cool, marathon like, because then I'd have a blast. 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:39.199 Oh yeah, yeah. At first I thought binging us, but 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:41.000 then I was like, no, I think they mean real 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:44.400 running restaurant. 0:00:44.479 --> 0:00:48.680 Yeah, good job, all right, hey, no, honestly, that's amazing. 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:53.040 Good Yeah, thank you for making us somewhat healthy to consume. 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:55.760 All right, here we go, Your brand new update update 0:00:55.840 --> 0:00:56.560 starts right now. 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:01.840 Some things just pair well together, like Florida. 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:06.000 And meths Man, midlife crises and convertibles. 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:07.600 Oh yes, we'll. 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:08.520 Kind of back to Florida again. 0:01:09.160 --> 0:01:11.759 And that's why we weren't surprised one bit when our 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:15.319 listener told us about their first date, which involved another 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:22.240 perfect pairing, church volunteer work and making out. Just seem 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:25.399 like a match made in heaven. And that's why the 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:28.600 two of them are back on today to give us 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:32.160 an update after they both said yes, which is honestly 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:34.560 a rare thing for this show. You'll find out what's 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:37.440 happened since they were last on in a brand new 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:39.839 second date update update. 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:43.440 Right after this broken Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates. 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:47.240 I know we've talked about this before, where you may 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:51.320 have a big plan for your first date, but plans 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:55.840 change and suddenly you're saying, oh god, I didn't realize 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:58.920 they remodeled this fancy steakhouse and turned it into a 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:05.720 chucky cheese and they got rid of the valet too. 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:06.600 Because all those chuck e Cheese buildings definitely used to 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:08.200 house fancy steakhouse. 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:11.920 Right, I kept in my neighborhood. 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:13.359 They date and the entertainment. 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:16.359 Now you've got to adjust, And apparently one of our 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:19.400 listeners had to adjust on the fly and deal with 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:22.680 a change of plans for her date, and she needs 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:23.799 our help today. 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:27.280 Her name is Aria. Aria. I'm assuming you didn't plan 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:28.080 to call into. 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:30.120 A radio show for help with your love life either, 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:33.240 but here you are welcome to the show. Thanks. 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:34.079 You know I did not. 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:37.520 That's a good pivot. Can I ask before we get 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:39.320 into it, is it you that plan the date? 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:40.400 No? 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:41.839 I did not plan the date? 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:44.040 Okay, okay, who planned it? 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:44.919 Ryan? 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:51.600 The guy went out with So we actually met through church. 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:55.720 We both volunteer, like when we have events. We helped 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:59.399 put out food and things like that, and obviously we've 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:03.359 seen each other around and finally he asked me out. 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:07.679 That means you were hoping for it, volunteering for the 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:09.160 same area. 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:10.280 How did he do it? 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:13.480 I mean he just literally just asked if I wanted 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:17.280 to go on a date. And I normally don't do this, 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:19.760 but I did let him come pick me up at 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:20.639 my place. 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:24.519 Well, because you know him from church, I mean, yeah, 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:26.080 hopefully you can trust. 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:29.680 Him exactly, That's what I thought. So I invited him 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:30.720 to come inside. 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:35.160 And when he picks you up right away, yes, because 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:35.480 I was. 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:37.960 I was kind of frustrated at the time. 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:42.920 I really like cooking and I have been searcheen for 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:46.960 this ingredient called Aleppo. I don't know to be heard 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:48.560 of it, but it's like a it's like a special 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:49.720 chili spice. 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:50.560 Oh. 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:53.280 I know, it sounds like one of those late night 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:56.680 infomercials like ask your doctor if is right for you. 0:03:56.920 --> 0:04:00.320 It kind of does. But I had been looking been 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:02.720 online and then trying to find. 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.840 If it was available at any stores, and I just 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:07.360 wasn't having any luck. And it was for the focok 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:09.960 recipe I was trying to do for my family. The 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:11.720 next day, the. 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:17.120 Guy scattered, unless Aleppo is like some sort of afrodisiac 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:19.440 before the date happened, But I don't. 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:22.040 Know, maybe not not that I know of. Okay, we'll 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:22.400 good to know. 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:25.679 So him in, yeah, yes, and. 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:27.520 He was being really sweet and he offered. 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:28.800 He's like, well, let's go find it. 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:30.600 He's like, I know some. 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:33.400 Grocery stores in the area that has some cool stuff. 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:34.800 So he's like, let's go check him out. 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:38.239 So this must be the adjustment that you're talking about 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:40.800 where you had something planned and suddenly you're going out 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:42.520 to pick up spices. 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:47.880 Yes, okay, So we went to like three different grocery stores. 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.080 But we finally ended up fighting it at like a 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:51.560 specialty fancy store. 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:55.880 Okay, then did you finally get to go on your date? 0:04:56.680 --> 0:05:00.320 Whoa? So by this point it was really late, so 0:05:01.160 --> 0:05:05.000 we just went back to my place and we did 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:07.440 end up making out okay. 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:10.760 And run Yeah. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:16.040 Yeah, So, I mean I felt a good connection and 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:19.960 we planned on definitely going on another date. 0:05:20.560 --> 0:05:22.600 It's wild that you can't get a hold of this guy. 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:24.400 I mean, assume that's why you're calling us. 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:26.680 I just don't know what happened, you know, Like I'm 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:28.920 assuming he had like a big plan for the night 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.400 and it felt through. But I mean he he was 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.720 being like the sweetest guy. 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:35.400 They went on a second date. He doesn't have to. 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:37.520 But from the way that you're the way that you 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:40.440 just said that, did you not know what his plan was? 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:42.120 I did not. 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:44.120 That's the thing, because. 0:05:43.920 --> 0:05:46.679 There's a chance that maybe he had something really big plan, 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:50.159 something really special, and he feels like he never got 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:50.680 to do it. 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.359 I mean, I feel like he could have said that, 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:56.400 you know, and I want a guy to put in 0:05:56.440 --> 0:06:00.760 that effort, like I want them to plan something special. 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:04.120 And so wait, are you disappointed that he offered to 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:05.960 take you to all those grocery stores? 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:07.360 I'm confused. 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:10.719 I mean did he like just take me there because 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:12.440 he had nothing plan or. 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:18.440 I don't know since that happened, have you been communicating 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:21.920 and trying to put together another date or what's happened there? 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:26.200 Yeah, it just feels like every time we do something's 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:27.080 always coming up. 0:06:27.160 --> 0:06:29.800 Now another spice is missing, and you used to do 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:37.640 another oiseandering. 0:06:34.279 --> 0:06:37.320 Him though No I haven't seen him since. 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:40.400 Sure, but you are trying to put something together, it's 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:42.839 just never materializing into an actual. 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:47.000 Meetup exactly exactly. So I don't know what's going on because. 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:48.560 I feel I mean, I had a good time, even 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:50.479 though I know we were just looking for spices. 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:54.360 Okay, so you weren't disappointed that there wasn't a grander plan. 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:57.400 I mean, if there was a grander plan, you know, 0:06:57.640 --> 0:07:01.120 I don't know that it existed because we never got 0:07:01.160 --> 0:07:05.440 to go out again. So I'd like to see it, Okay. 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:07.919 Yeah, I can't imagine what would be grander than a 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:11.320 grocery store run to several different places around the city. 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:14.520 But if he really does have something in mind, we'll 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:17.760 find that out. We're gonna call Ryan and try and 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:20.920 get you your second date update little spice on top 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:23.920 of it. Yeah, I know, I think we're all hungry. 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:25.800 We'll get this done right after this. 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:29.360 Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date updates. 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:31.240 You're in the middle of a second date update update, 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:33.240 and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:34.360 right after you here. 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:35.000 Part two. 0:07:36.440 --> 0:07:39.440 Just quick recap if you miss part one. Two people 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:42.960 met at church. That would be our listener, Aria and 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:46.680 a guy named Ryan. He asked her out, but instead 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:49.400 of doing their plan date for the night, whatever that 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:52.240 was gonna be. Instead they went on a night long 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:56.240 grocery store run all over the city trying to find 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:59.760 one particular spice to help Aria finish a family. 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:03.960 Remember it was his idea. It was his idea to 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:05.640 help her out and go find this thing. 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:08.880 Yeah, absolutely, he was totally on board with that. But 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:11.880 they never ended up going anywhere else except for back 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:15.840 to Arias for a little C and K cooking and kissing. 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:20.520 I was wondering about the food situation. Maybe he's not 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:21.840 calling you back because he's hungry. 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:24.320 She said. It was like a slow cooker, So I 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:25.800 was like, they're not eating the chili. 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:29.280 Whatever ended up happening. That was the last time the 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:31.760 two of them saw each other. But we never asked 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:33.440 how long ago was that date? 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:40.199 Are you it's then almost two weeks sow while, Is it. 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:43.000 So awkward right now because you were volunteering with this guy? 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:47.720 Yeah, and it's and that's why I don't know, I'm 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:49.800 weird about it because I feel like it was a 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:51.120 comfortable state. 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:53.880 It's one of those things too, are you that like 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:56.880 when you do just normal errands with someone and can 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:58.560 still have chemistry. 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.960 That means that there could really really be something there. 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:01.959 Yeah. 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:05.000 Yeah, that's what I thought. And you know, and sometimes 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:08.160 it's it's timing and it's like, now. 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:11.560 I feel like we're losing that spark I guess that 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:11.880 we have. 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:13.960 You know, it'd be such a shame to have so 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:17.280 much potential cut down by a six ounce jar of 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:17.720 a lepo. 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:19.040 That just doesn't seem fair. 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:21.600 I mean, yeah, that's what I want to know. I mean, 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:22.960 it just was going so good. 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:24.560 I thought, well, let's find out. 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:26.320 We'll see if Ryan picks up the phone, I'm gonna 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:27.959 dial his number right now. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:38.560 Hopefully he answers, but let's do it. Hello, Hey Ryan, 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:39.800 is this Ryan? 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:43.640 Yeah? Who is this? 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:44.280 Hey man? 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:46.319 My name is Jeff from a show called Brook and 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:47.920 Jeffrey in the morning. Everybody's here. 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:53.520 Hey, Ryan, good morning from a showy radio show. 0:09:54.320 --> 0:09:57.360 Is this like a scam called I've been getting a 0:09:57.360 --> 0:09:58.760 lot of those. 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:02.080 Yeah, we hate those two weeks to Ryan. 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.040 No, yeah, this is not a scam called. This is 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:07.000 a segment called a second Date Update, where we're trying 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.319 to help out one of our listeners that you went 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:12.640 out with about two weeks ago, a girl from your 0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:16.000 church named Aria. 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:16.680 Why. 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:20.640 Yeah, that's a cute response. 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:23.240 Well, why is she contacting you? 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:25.199 We're still in touch, like we're texting. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:26.360 Yeah, she said that. 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:29.800 We got that impression from her, But what she's not 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:33.400 understanding is why the two of you haven't met up 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:35.840 a second time in the last couple of weeks. 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:40.920 I okay, I gotta be honest with y'all. 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:42.560 I mean, oh, I don't like that sentence. 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:45.720 I don't even know how to explain this, but I 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:48.440 have I have this feeling that I just sort of 0:10:48.480 --> 0:10:49.080 can't shake. 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:51.680 Okay, can you take a pill for it or something? 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:52.320 Can you shake it? 0:10:52.360 --> 0:10:52.560 With that? 0:10:55.679 --> 0:10:57.760 We're joking, We're joking, what's up? 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:04.280 Well this is a ridiculous, But I think maybe I 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:07.520 feel kind of like I love her already. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:11.440 Whoa, I cannot think. 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:16.120 I mean, I will say, you know her more than 0:11:16.200 --> 0:11:19.600 just one date because you guys have been volunteering together. 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:22.199 No, I don't think that that is totally insane. 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:24.480 But why wait, why wouldn't you call her back? She 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:26.480 thinks you don't like her and you love her. 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:29.640 Well, I'm just nervous that if we like go to 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:33.000 dinner or drinks, it's just gonna feel different, like we 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:36.160 did such a boring kind of thing, Like I just. 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:37.360 Want to go to the post office. 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:41.800 I don't Okay, you're done with all the romantic aspects already. 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:47.000 You want to dive right into like boring chores, mundane forever, 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:48.000 love life together. 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:51.880 I mean I'm not saying forever, but I'm just feeling 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:55.280 kind of stuck. And I mean it's funny that you 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:57.920 call because I think about her all the time. 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.240 To take her out your girl. 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:05.839 I mean, if chores are fun with her, then imagine what. 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.760 A great night out is with her, Like that will 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:10.319 just only amplify the goods. 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.199 Yeah, I don't know, I just feel like I might 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.800 mess that up, Like, oh no, we have like this 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:18.319 volunteering thing coming up, and I kind of think we 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:19.120 should just do that. 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:23.640 Oh God, you're friend zone her because it's going too well, 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:24.600 listen to yourself. 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:27.160 I don't want a friend zone her. I want more. 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:29.920 But I think this might be the path to get there. 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:33.560 I think will be the same, not more, It'll be 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:33.960 the same. 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:34.679 Yeah. 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:36.480 Yeah, I mean there's a lot of stuff running through 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:38.800 my head, like I feel like I'm in paralysis, and 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:39.360 I don't. 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:40.120 Know what to do about it. 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:42.600 Okay, well, you know, I think you don't have to 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:46.480 do anything right now. You could just stay paralyzed for 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.160 the moment and let Aria do all the talking because 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:51.600 she's on the other line waiting to jump in and 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:52.160 speak with you. 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:54.760 Yeah she's here, Yeah, right here, right now. 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:55.600 Yeah, I'm here. 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:57.920 Oh no, take everything in. 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:01.200 Look, I didn't know you were listening to all that. 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.959 So I take it back, or take or take a 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:04.280 lot of it. 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:09.040 Bout forget the last five minutes of your life. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:10.959 I don't think you can take that back. 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:11.400 Ryan. 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:14.280 Do you want him to take it back? Or did 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:16.040 you like hearing that question? 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:22.640 I I like hearing that, but I'm also concerned because 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:26.480 I want that romance. I want that planned. 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:30.880 Special date and I did have fun, like I told him. 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:33.360 I really did have fun just going grocery. 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:36.080 Shopping with you, absolutely, But there's got. 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:37.680 To be more to it. 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:41.960 So you want me to you want me to move 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:50.720 in or something. I don't know. I'm just I'm spitballing here. 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:52.720 I'm distressful. 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:55.840 I mean, have you ever like planned a date before? 0:13:56.080 --> 0:14:01.040 I mean just something like I'm just kind of thought. 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:03.920 I mean, I planned one with you, But we went 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:06.280 to the grocery store and then that was way better 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:07.719 than anything I came up with. 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:14.520 What we don't know that it was better or worse. 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:16.920 We were just gonna go to dinner and drinks, you know, 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:17.880 the normal stuff. 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:21.360 No, you're right, grocery store shopping's better. 0:14:22.280 --> 0:14:23.040 You listening to. 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:25.680 Her and hearing what she needs though, too, Like she 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:28.800 needs to feel special in taking care of and. 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:29.480 That's what I was trying to do. 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:32.120 She needed a spice and I was trying to help 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:32.800 her find it. 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:35.800 Yeah, he wants to make her feel special by like 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:38.360 taking her to the pharmacy to pick up her medication 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:42.840 and helping her, you know, organize her junk drawer in 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:43.760 her cabinet. 0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:47.160 Yeah. I think the difference is like the love language here, 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:52.680 you know, Like I need that quality time, that special. 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:55.280 Time, and he just kind of just wants to like 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:58.440 do the practical help and that just doesn't reach me 0:14:58.720 --> 0:14:59.240 as much. 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:02.280 Okay, Okay, that is a very clear message. 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:04.360 Yeah, Ryan, are you hearing her? 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:07.800 Yeah, Aria, I am hearing you. I hear that you 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:09.400 don't want me to help you anymore. 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:12.000 And that's fine what she says. 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:14.280 I don't think anybody heard that, but you how could. 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:16.120 She have communicated that more clearly? 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:19.160 Are blogged with love? 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:25.800 Okay? Ago again, I think there's an ointment for that 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:26.720 put in your ear. 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:29.760 But normally here we'd be asking Ryan if he'd want 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:33.119 to go out, But it sounds like Aria, he's fully invested. 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:39.080 He's already dropped the album for He's laid it down 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:39.720 pretty hard. 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:42.680 Aria, do you want to go on a date with Ryan? 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.760 And if you do, we can pay for that date. 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:50.080 I just feel like he's already halfway to the practical 0:15:50.200 --> 0:15:54.520 side and that worries me. But I'm willing to give 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:55.479 it a shot. 0:15:55.800 --> 0:16:00.320 Okay, Okay, you can learn to love practical? Yeah? 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:01.920 So hot? 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:03.360 All right, Ryan? 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:08.240 She has officially said yes kind of. Yeah, So maybe 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:10.680 bring a little bit of romance with you on your 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:12.200 dinner date, maybe some flowers. 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:15.520 I will pack some romance in my pocket. 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:19.800 Okay, when you keep your romance? 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:21.160 Is that what's in your right pocket? 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:26.120 And Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:26.800 They told us they would try to give it one 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:31.400 more shot, and now months later they're back to give 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:32.840 us an update update. 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:34.680 So, Ryan and. 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:37.480 Aria, it sounds like you two are still together. How's 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:41.160 the relationship going, Ahi, it's. 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:44.400 Actually going really really good between us. 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:49.480 Does that mean I love you as well? 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:55.040 Oh? 0:16:51.840 --> 0:16:58.680 Whoa, we're we're engaged? 0:16:59.160 --> 0:16:59.440 Wow? 0:16:59.680 --> 0:16:59.880 Wait? 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:02.880 What? 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:05.280 Wow, that's amazing. 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:10.480 Yes, we are engaged. But honey, don't you think you 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:11.879 should tell them this caveat? 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:13.000 Oh? Right? 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:13.760 Cat? 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:19.240 Okay, Well, she said yes with a stipulation. I wanted 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:22.000 to see things up, and I proposed, you know, after 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:22.639 one month. 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:25.080 Oh at the one month. 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:28.360 Mark, I mean when you know, you know, like okay, 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:30.720 so and she said yes, after a month. 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:32.639 But what what's the stipulation? 0:17:33.600 --> 0:17:37.080 I told him? If I said yes, the engagement has 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:40.240 to last a full three years before. 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:42.600 We even think of starting to plan the wedding. 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:46.920 Whoa, Okay, why that long? 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:47.800 Well? 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:50.240 You know that way it forces you know, him to 0:17:50.440 --> 0:17:51.760 slow things down. 0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:53.440 I don't think that's bad. 0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:55.959 That's kind of smart, like you know you'll be together forever, 0:17:56.000 --> 0:17:58.520 but let's just pump the brakes and it actually date. 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:03.600 Yeah, okay, I see how that works for Aria. 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:05.320 Ryan. How do you feel about that? 0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:08.880 I mean, it's not my first choice, like I'd rather 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:11.080 be married and have two kids my. 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:13.320 Next well but next year. 0:18:13.840 --> 0:18:15.879 But honestly, as long as we get to be together, 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:17.639 I am I'm beyond happy. 0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:21.879 Okay. Wow, I bet the proposal was such a romantic story. 0:18:21.920 --> 0:18:22.439 I'm sure. 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:23.720 Yeah. 0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:25.600 Well it was only our fourth. 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:28.320 Date, I guess, but you didn't plan anything. You just 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:29.080 popped the question. 0:18:31.040 --> 0:18:32.800