Speaker 1: I have been dying to find out about what happened
Speaker 1: with this couple. Oh my goodness.
Speaker 2: Hey, it's Brogan Jeffrey and we've got a brand new
Speaker 2: update update for you. Remember this is where we played
Speaker 2: the original second date where the couple is first on
Speaker 2: with us, and then they're going to come back in
Speaker 2: part three to update us on what's happened since yes, dude,
Speaker 2: stick around and this is yes. Yeah, so before we
Speaker 2: get there, comments alexis.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Mario said, hi everyone, I can't stop listening to
Speaker 3: you guys doing a marathon these past weeks and having
Speaker 3: a blast.
Speaker 1: Big shout out from Brazil.
Speaker 4: That's so cool, marathon like, because then I'd have a blast.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah. At first I thought binging us, but
Speaker 1: then I was like, no, I think they mean real
Speaker 1: running restaurant.
Speaker 2: Yeah, good job, all right, hey, no, honestly, that's amazing.
Speaker 2: Good Yeah, thank you for making us somewhat healthy to consume.
Speaker 2: All right, here we go, Your brand new update update
Speaker 2: starts right now.
Speaker 5: Some things just pair well together, like Florida.
Speaker 3: And meths Man, midlife crises and convertibles.
Speaker 6: Oh yes, we'll.
Speaker 5: Kind of back to Florida again.
Speaker 3: And that's why we weren't surprised one bit when our
Speaker 3: listener told us about their first date, which involved another
Speaker 3: perfect pairing, church volunteer work and making out. Just seem
Speaker 3: like a match made in heaven. And that's why the
Speaker 3: two of them are back on today to give us
Speaker 3: an update after they both said yes, which is honestly
Speaker 3: a rare thing for this show. You'll find out what's
Speaker 3: happened since they were last on in a brand new
Speaker 3: second date update update.
Speaker 7: Right after this broken Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates.
Speaker 3: I know we've talked about this before, where you may
Speaker 3: have a big plan for your first date, but plans
Speaker 3: change and suddenly you're saying, oh god, I didn't realize
Speaker 3: they remodeled this fancy steakhouse and turned it into a
Speaker 3: chucky cheese and they got rid of the valet too.
Speaker 2: Because all those chuck e Cheese buildings definitely used to
Speaker 2: house fancy steakhouse.
Speaker 8: Right, I kept in my neighborhood.
Speaker 1: They date and the entertainment.
Speaker 3: Now you've got to adjust, And apparently one of our
Speaker 3: listeners had to adjust on the fly and deal with
Speaker 3: a change of plans for her date, and she needs
Speaker 3: our help today.
Speaker 5: Her name is Aria. Aria. I'm assuming you didn't plan
Speaker 5: to call into.
Speaker 3: A radio show for help with your love life either,
Speaker 3: but here you are welcome to the show. Thanks.
Speaker 9: You know I did not.
Speaker 1: That's a good pivot. Can I ask before we get
Speaker 1: into it, is it you that plan the date?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 9: I did not plan the date?
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, who planned it?
Speaker 6: Ryan?
Speaker 10: The guy went out with So we actually met through church.
Speaker 10: We both volunteer, like when we have events. We helped
Speaker 10: put out food and things like that, and obviously we've
Speaker 10: seen each other around and finally he asked me out.
Speaker 2: That means you were hoping for it, volunteering for the
Speaker 2: same area.
Speaker 5: How did he do it?
Speaker 10: I mean he just literally just asked if I wanted
Speaker 10: to go on a date. And I normally don't do this,
Speaker 10: but I did let him come pick me up at
Speaker 10: my place.
Speaker 2: Well, because you know him from church, I mean, yeah,
Speaker 2: hopefully you can trust.
Speaker 10: Him exactly, That's what I thought. So I invited him
Speaker 10: to come inside.
Speaker 1: And when he picks you up right away, yes, because
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 9: I was kind of frustrated at the time.
Speaker 10: I really like cooking and I have been searcheen for
Speaker 10: this ingredient called Aleppo. I don't know to be heard
Speaker 10: of it, but it's like a it's like a special
Speaker 10: chili spice.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 3: I know, it sounds like one of those late night
Speaker 3: infomercials like ask your doctor if is right for you.
Speaker 9: It kind of does. But I had been looking been
Speaker 9: online and then trying to find.
Speaker 10: If it was available at any stores, and I just
Speaker 10: wasn't having any luck. And it was for the focok
Speaker 10: recipe I was trying to do for my family. The
Speaker 10: next day, the.
Speaker 3: Guy scattered, unless Aleppo is like some sort of afrodisiac
Speaker 3: before the date happened, But I don't.
Speaker 5: Know, maybe not not that I know of. Okay, we'll
Speaker 5: good to know.
Speaker 1: So him in, yeah, yes, and.
Speaker 9: He was being really sweet and he offered.
Speaker 10: He's like, well, let's go find it.
Speaker 9: He's like, I know some.
Speaker 10: Grocery stores in the area that has some cool stuff.
Speaker 10: So he's like, let's go check him out.
Speaker 3: So this must be the adjustment that you're talking about
Speaker 3: where you had something planned and suddenly you're going out
Speaker 3: to pick up spices.
Speaker 9: Yes, okay, So we went to like three different grocery stores.
Speaker 10: But we finally ended up fighting it at like a
Speaker 10: specialty fancy store.
Speaker 2: Okay, then did you finally get to go on your date?
Speaker 10: Whoa? So by this point it was really late, so
Speaker 10: we just went back to my place and we did
Speaker 10: end up making out okay.
Speaker 1: And run Yeah.
Speaker 10: Yeah, So, I mean I felt a good connection and
Speaker 10: we planned on definitely going on another date.
Speaker 2: It's wild that you can't get a hold of this guy.
Speaker 2: I mean, assume that's why you're calling us.
Speaker 10: I just don't know what happened, you know, Like I'm
Speaker 10: assuming he had like a big plan for the night
Speaker 10: and it felt through. But I mean he he was
Speaker 10: being like the sweetest guy.
Speaker 1: They went on a second date. He doesn't have to.
Speaker 3: But from the way that you're the way that you
Speaker 3: just said that, did you not know what his plan was?
Speaker 10: I did not.
Speaker 6: That's the thing, because.
Speaker 3: There's a chance that maybe he had something really big plan,
Speaker 3: something really special, and he feels like he never got
Speaker 3: to do it.
Speaker 10: I mean, I feel like he could have said that,
Speaker 10: you know, and I want a guy to put in
Speaker 10: that effort, like I want them to plan something special.
Speaker 2: And so wait, are you disappointed that he offered to
Speaker 2: take you to all those grocery stores?
Speaker 1: I'm confused.
Speaker 10: I mean did he like just take me there because
Speaker 10: he had nothing plan or.
Speaker 3: I don't know since that happened, have you been communicating
Speaker 3: and trying to put together another date or what's happened there?
Speaker 10: Yeah, it just feels like every time we do something's
Speaker 10: always coming up.
Speaker 3: Now another spice is missing, and you used to do
Speaker 3: another oiseandering.
Speaker 10: Him though No I haven't seen him since.
Speaker 3: Sure, but you are trying to put something together, it's
Speaker 3: just never materializing into an actual.
Speaker 9: Meetup exactly exactly. So I don't know what's going on because.
Speaker 10: I feel I mean, I had a good time, even
Speaker 10: though I know we were just looking for spices.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you weren't disappointed that there wasn't a grander plan.
Speaker 10: I mean, if there was a grander plan, you know,
Speaker 10: I don't know that it existed because we never got
Speaker 10: to go out again. So I'd like to see it, Okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't imagine what would be grander than a
Speaker 3: grocery store run to several different places around the city.
Speaker 3: But if he really does have something in mind, we'll
Speaker 3: find that out. We're gonna call Ryan and try and
Speaker 3: get you your second date update little spice on top
Speaker 3: of it. Yeah, I know, I think we're all hungry.
Speaker 3: We'll get this done right after this.
Speaker 1: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date updates.
Speaker 2: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 2: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 2: right after you here.
Speaker 1: Part two.
Speaker 3: Just quick recap if you miss part one. Two people
Speaker 3: met at church. That would be our listener, Aria and
Speaker 3: a guy named Ryan. He asked her out, but instead
Speaker 3: of doing their plan date for the night, whatever that
Speaker 3: was gonna be. Instead they went on a night long
Speaker 3: grocery store run all over the city trying to find
Speaker 3: one particular spice to help Aria finish a family.
Speaker 1: Remember it was his idea. It was his idea to
Speaker 1: help her out and go find this thing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, he was totally on board with that. But
Speaker 3: they never ended up going anywhere else except for back
Speaker 3: to Arias for a little C and K cooking and kissing.
Speaker 1: I was wondering about the food situation. Maybe he's not
Speaker 1: calling you back because he's hungry.
Speaker 4: She said. It was like a slow cooker, So I
Speaker 4: was like, they're not eating the chili.
Speaker 3: Whatever ended up happening. That was the last time the
Speaker 3: two of them saw each other. But we never asked
Speaker 3: how long ago was that date?
Speaker 10: Are you it's then almost two weeks sow while, Is it.
Speaker 1: So awkward right now because you were volunteering with this guy?
Speaker 10: Yeah, and it's and that's why I don't know, I'm
Speaker 10: weird about it because I feel like it was a
Speaker 10: comfortable state.
Speaker 2: It's one of those things too, are you that like
Speaker 2: when you do just normal errands with someone and can
Speaker 2: still have chemistry.
Speaker 1: That means that there could really really be something there.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 10: Yeah, that's what I thought. And you know, and sometimes
Speaker 10: it's it's timing and it's like, now.
Speaker 9: I feel like we're losing that spark I guess that
Speaker 9: we have.
Speaker 3: You know, it'd be such a shame to have so
Speaker 3: much potential cut down by a six ounce jar of
Speaker 3: a lepo.
Speaker 5: That just doesn't seem fair.
Speaker 10: I mean, yeah, that's what I want to know. I mean,
Speaker 10: it just was going so good.
Speaker 5: I thought, well, let's find out.
Speaker 3: We'll see if Ryan picks up the phone, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: dial his number right now.
Speaker 5: Hopefully he answers, but let's do it. Hello, Hey Ryan,
Speaker 5: is this Ryan?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Who is this?
Speaker 5: Hey man?
Speaker 3: My name is Jeff from a show called Brook and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning. Everybody's here.
Speaker 2: Hey, Ryan, good morning from a showy radio show.
Speaker 7: Is this like a scam called I've been getting a
Speaker 7: lot of those.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we hate those two weeks to Ryan.
Speaker 3: No, yeah, this is not a scam called. This is
Speaker 3: a segment called a second Date Update, where we're trying
Speaker 3: to help out one of our listeners that you went
Speaker 3: out with about two weeks ago, a girl from your
Speaker 3: church named Aria.
Speaker 6: Why.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a cute response.
Speaker 6: Well, why is she contacting you?
Speaker 7: We're still in touch, like we're texting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she said that.
Speaker 3: We got that impression from her, But what she's not
Speaker 3: understanding is why the two of you haven't met up
Speaker 3: a second time in the last couple of weeks.
Speaker 6: I okay, I gotta be honest with y'all.
Speaker 5: I mean, oh, I don't like that sentence.
Speaker 7: I don't even know how to explain this, but I
Speaker 7: have I have this feeling that I just sort of
Speaker 7: can't shake.
Speaker 5: Okay, can you take a pill for it or something?
Speaker 5: Can you shake it?
Speaker 8: With that?
Speaker 1: We're joking, We're joking, what's up?
Speaker 7: Well this is a ridiculous, But I think maybe I
Speaker 7: feel kind of like I love her already.
Speaker 8: Whoa, I cannot think.
Speaker 2: I mean, I will say, you know her more than
Speaker 2: just one date because you guys have been volunteering together.
Speaker 1: No, I don't think that that is totally insane.
Speaker 4: But why wait, why wouldn't you call her back? She
Speaker 4: thinks you don't like her and you love her.
Speaker 7: Well, I'm just nervous that if we like go to
Speaker 7: dinner or drinks, it's just gonna feel different, like we
Speaker 7: did such a boring kind of thing, Like I just.
Speaker 6: Want to go to the post office.
Speaker 3: I don't Okay, you're done with all the romantic aspects already.
Speaker 3: You want to dive right into like boring chores, mundane forever,
Speaker 3: love life together.
Speaker 7: I mean I'm not saying forever, but I'm just feeling
Speaker 7: kind of stuck. And I mean it's funny that you
Speaker 7: call because I think about her all the time.
Speaker 4: To take her out your girl.
Speaker 1: I mean, if chores are fun with her, then imagine what.
Speaker 2: A great night out is with her, Like that will
Speaker 2: just only amplify the goods.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know, I just feel like I might
Speaker 7: mess that up, Like, oh no, we have like this
Speaker 7: volunteering thing coming up, and I kind of think we
Speaker 7: should just do that.
Speaker 8: Oh God, you're friend zone her because it's going too well,
Speaker 8: listen to yourself.
Speaker 6: I don't want a friend zone her. I want more.
Speaker 6: But I think this might be the path to get there.
Speaker 1: I think will be the same, not more, It'll be
Speaker 1: the same.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean there's a lot of stuff running through
Speaker 7: my head, like I feel like I'm in paralysis, and
Speaker 7: I don't.
Speaker 6: Know what to do about it.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, you know, I think you don't have to
Speaker 3: do anything right now. You could just stay paralyzed for
Speaker 3: the moment and let Aria do all the talking because
Speaker 3: she's on the other line waiting to jump in and
Speaker 3: speak with you.
Speaker 5: Yeah she's here, Yeah, right here, right now.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 9: Oh no, take everything in.
Speaker 6: Look, I didn't know you were listening to all that.
Speaker 6: So I take it back, or take or take a
Speaker 6: lot of it.
Speaker 5: Bout forget the last five minutes of your life.
Speaker 9: I don't think you can take that back.
Speaker 3: Ryan.
Speaker 1: Do you want him to take it back? Or did
Speaker 1: you like hearing that question?
Speaker 10: I I like hearing that, but I'm also concerned because
Speaker 10: I want that romance. I want that planned.
Speaker 9: Special date and I did have fun, like I told him.
Speaker 10: I really did have fun just going grocery.
Speaker 9: Shopping with you, absolutely, But there's got.
Speaker 10: To be more to it.
Speaker 6: So you want me to you want me to move
Speaker 6: in or something. I don't know. I'm just I'm spitballing here.
Speaker 6: I'm distressful.
Speaker 10: I mean, have you ever like planned a date before?
Speaker 10: I mean just something like I'm just kind of thought.
Speaker 7: I mean, I planned one with you, But we went
Speaker 7: to the grocery store and then that was way better
Speaker 7: than anything I came up with.
Speaker 5: What we don't know that it was better or worse.
Speaker 7: We were just gonna go to dinner and drinks, you know,
Speaker 7: the normal stuff.
Speaker 5: No, you're right, grocery store shopping's better.
Speaker 1: You listening to.
Speaker 2: Her and hearing what she needs though, too, Like she
Speaker 2: needs to feel special in taking care of and.
Speaker 6: That's what I was trying to do.
Speaker 7: She needed a spice and I was trying to help
Speaker 7: her find it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he wants to make her feel special by like
Speaker 3: taking her to the pharmacy to pick up her medication
Speaker 3: and helping her, you know, organize her junk drawer in
Speaker 3: her cabinet.
Speaker 10: Yeah. I think the difference is like the love language here,
Speaker 10: you know, Like I need that quality time, that special.
Speaker 9: Time, and he just kind of just wants to like
Speaker 9: do the practical help and that just doesn't reach me
Speaker 9: as much.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, that is a very clear message.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Ryan, are you hearing her?
Speaker 6: Yeah, Aria, I am hearing you. I hear that you
Speaker 6: don't want me to help you anymore.
Speaker 7: And that's fine what she says.
Speaker 4: I don't think anybody heard that, but you how could.
Speaker 1: She have communicated that more clearly?
Speaker 6: Are blogged with love?
Speaker 5: Okay? Ago again, I think there's an ointment for that
Speaker 5: put in your ear.
Speaker 3: But normally here we'd be asking Ryan if he'd want
Speaker 3: to go out, But it sounds like Aria, he's fully invested.
Speaker 2: He's already dropped the album for He's laid it down
Speaker 2: pretty hard.
Speaker 3: Aria, do you want to go on a date with Ryan?
Speaker 3: And if you do, we can pay for that date.
Speaker 10: I just feel like he's already halfway to the practical
Speaker 10: side and that worries me. But I'm willing to give
Speaker 10: it a shot.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you can learn to love practical? Yeah?
Speaker 10: So hot?
Speaker 5: All right, Ryan?
Speaker 3: She has officially said yes kind of. Yeah, So maybe
Speaker 3: bring a little bit of romance with you on your
Speaker 3: dinner date, maybe some flowers.
Speaker 6: I will pack some romance in my pocket.
Speaker 5: Okay, when you keep your romance?
Speaker 1: Is that what's in your right pocket?
Speaker 10: And Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: They told us they would try to give it one
Speaker 3: more shot, and now months later they're back to give
Speaker 3: us an update update.
Speaker 5: So, Ryan and.
Speaker 3: Aria, it sounds like you two are still together. How's
Speaker 3: the relationship going, Ahi, it's.
Speaker 7: Actually going really really good between us.
Speaker 1: Does that mean I love you as well?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 6: Whoa, we're we're engaged?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 6: Wait?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 5: Wow, that's amazing.
Speaker 10: Yes, we are engaged. But honey, don't you think you
Speaker 10: should tell them this caveat?
Speaker 6: Oh? Right?
Speaker 5: Cat?
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, she said yes with a stipulation. I wanted
Speaker 6: to see things up, and I proposed, you know, after
Speaker 6: one month.
Speaker 5: Oh at the one month.
Speaker 2: Mark, I mean when you know, you know, like okay,
Speaker 2: so and she said yes, after a month.
Speaker 5: But what what's the stipulation?
Speaker 10: I told him? If I said yes, the engagement has
Speaker 10: to last a full three years before.
Speaker 9: We even think of starting to plan the wedding.
Speaker 3: Whoa, Okay, why that long?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 10: You know that way it forces you know, him to
Speaker 10: slow things down.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's bad.
Speaker 2: That's kind of smart, like you know you'll be together forever,
Speaker 2: but let's just pump the brakes and it actually date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I see how that works for Aria.
Speaker 5: Ryan. How do you feel about that?
Speaker 7: I mean, it's not my first choice, like I'd rather
Speaker 7: be married and have two kids my.
Speaker 5: Next well but next year.
Speaker 6: But honestly, as long as we get to be together,
Speaker 6: I am I'm beyond happy.
Speaker 1: Okay. Wow, I bet the proposal was such a romantic story.
Speaker 1: I'm sure.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Well it was only our fourth.
Speaker 1: Date, I guess, but you didn't plan anything. You just
Speaker 1: popped the question.
Speaker 5: Well, we're I think she may.
Speaker 1: Want one more redo on that one too, I don't know.
Speaker 5: They sound like they're happy.
Speaker 3: Your guys are in a good spot, and we look
Speaker 3: forward to your wedding in four to seven years.
Speaker 5: Keep us updated you too.
Speaker 9: Okay.
Speaker 5: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: And while we're talking about podcasts and cool tech stuff, Jose,
Speaker 3: didn't you bring some cool tech on a flight with
Speaker 3: you recently?
Speaker 6: Yes? I did.
Speaker 4: It's actually in my hands right now. Sorry I wasn't
Speaker 4: paying attention.
Speaker 1: He's cool.
Speaker 4: It's the new.
Speaker 8: Samsung Galaxy Z Fold eight and it looks like a
Speaker 8: little monitor that's not even.
Speaker 4: Folded open yet.
Speaker 5: Yo, you said fold Yeah.
Speaker 1: It's open, has a huge screen.
Speaker 4: So this is what happened.
Speaker 8: I'm on my flight recently, right there's no TV, so
Speaker 8: I opened my full date and I'm like, this is perfect.
Speaker 8: It connects with the Wi Fi. It looked great. So
Speaker 8: I'm all impressed with myself. But what happens we take off?
Speaker 8: I turn on the movie. Next thing, you know, I
Speaker 8: doze off because it's a flight, right, a little comfy.
Speaker 4: I wake up like an hour later.
Speaker 8: The person sitting next to me is so locked into
Speaker 8: my screen.
Speaker 4: They're practically on my lap.
Speaker 8: They're looking at the movie and I'm kind of just
Speaker 8: waking up, and he notices.
Speaker 4: He looks at me and he's like, what is this?
Speaker 4: Kind of like how Brooks said it.
Speaker 8: I'm like, oh, this is the new Samsung Galaxy Z
Speaker 8: fold eight and he's like, this is crazy.
Speaker 4: The screen works awesome, and I'm.
Speaker 8: Like, dude, I can watch movies, I can get my
Speaker 8: I worked one, I can like edit my content because
Speaker 8: it's big enough that I can really see the videos
Speaker 8: I'm editing.
Speaker 4: And he just can't get off. How cool? The folding
Speaker 4: part is yeah, I can't even see the crease. I'm like,
Speaker 4: I know. So I do a whole thing with him,
Speaker 4: and we end.
Speaker 8: Up watching the rest of the movie together, like the
Speaker 8: last forty five minutes, and he became my.
Speaker 1: Friend, new tech, new friend.
Speaker 3: Oh you could see everything you ever wanted in your
Speaker 3: life and even more.
Speaker 8: And I told him, like, bro, you know exactly what
Speaker 8: to buy for Christmas now, whether it's for you or
Speaker 8: for somebody else, you need this in your life.
Speaker 1: The shape of this thing is crazy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's actually shaped like a passport.
Speaker 8: So Sam's apparently designed that on purpose, so it feels
Speaker 8: like a passport in your hand.
Speaker 4: I mean it's convenient.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you put it in your pocket totally.
Speaker 8: But then you unfold it and it's like you have
Speaker 8: a whole mini tablet almost.
Speaker 5: Right, You're so cool. I want to touch it?
Speaker 1: You want to touch it?
Speaker 7: Here?
Speaker 4: Are you talking about the phone?
Speaker 5: Yeah? The phone?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: Oh my god. It does feel nice, isn't it cool?
Speaker 5: I could play with this whole day.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I'm talking about the phone.
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