WEBVTT - Episode 07 Ft. Raekwon 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:11.400 What's up is Angela? Ye, it's lip service. It's me 0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:16.400 Stephanie Santiago and Leah McSweeney. And on this episode we 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:18.200 had my guy Ray Kwan. Now, you know, my first 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:21.360 job working in the music industry was with Woo Sang, 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.239 So Ray Kwan and I go way back, and you're 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:26.000 about to learn a lot of things about him today 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:29.160 that I had no idea. Maybe I didn't even want 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:33.040 to know. Okay, all I have to say is Cambodian refugee. 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:38.239 Check it out. What's up is Angela? Ye? I'm Stephanie Santiago. Yeah, 0:00:38.280 --> 0:00:44.159 put your phone. Yes, the chef is here. You know 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:46.640 what's funny. So we were just talking about this before 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:48.599 you walked in, and since you are the chef, this 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:50.559 is a great question for you to get started with 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:52.680 Ray Kwan. How I'm praying it? Is it to you 0:00:52.720 --> 0:00:58.720 that a woman can cook ninety nine point nine sing good? Sorry? Leah? Oh, 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:02.760 I guess yeah, you know, na, but it's it's real 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:06.000 because it's like, you gotta know how to cook. You 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:09.600 can't you know, when you're older, can't play those games. 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:11.440 You know what I mean? You know, the key to 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:14.600 a man's heart is is you know it's stommaking. You 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:16.480 know you gotta feed it. Nick, You know you want 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:19.000 good dick, you want all of that. It's all about 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:22.880 the food. If you take something, if you want to 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:25.559 feed you with his dick, you gotta feed him food. Okay. 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:30.000 I think that I didn't learn how to how to 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.360 cook until I was older, so I was like twenty one, 0:01:32.480 --> 0:01:36.120 twenty two. I don't agree with the way to a 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:41.360 man's heart is through eating. Told you he's a man. Yeah, 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:46.840 but that's wrong, he said. He said nine point nine percent, 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:51.000 which means there's that one person one Yeah, that point 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:54.520 one percent. I think that a way to a man's 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:59.320 heart is through good pussy. Okay, okay, that's I think 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:01.280 if you meet a good pussy, you could teach you 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:10.200 how to cook. That makes sense. You were saying you 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:14.000 burn grilled cheese sandwiches. I know it's bad, but I 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:18.600 have other great qualities. There's not It's it's not the 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:22.360 cooking part. My sister got the good cooking skills and 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:24.359 I just I don't have them. It's like it's very 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:26.360 hard for me to like go to the grocery store 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:28.360 and pick a bunch of stuff out to make a meal. 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:30.480 And like it doesn't make me feel good. I feel 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:32.520 like I'm lacking. Like I'm a mother, you know, I'm 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:34.600 a woman. I should know how to cook a meal 0:02:34.680 --> 0:02:36.600 and like, you know, nurture someone and do it. But 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:39.760 it's just like I'm at work all day, you know, 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:41.440 and I come home. It's like I don't have the 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:43.480 time to go to the grocery store and shop and 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:46.639 then cook and everything. So it's a little different. Great corn, 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:48.520 If that woman has good pussy, is it okay that 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:51.120 she doesn't know how to cook? I mean, you know, 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:54.000 you gotta you gotta be good at something though, you 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:56.760 know what I mean. And like I said, after Wow, 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.480 you know, you could give a nake a good pussy, 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.639 but sometimes you know, Nigga might not want no pussy 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:04.679 and Nigga might just want to can I get a 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:07.720 steak with onions? And you know what I mean. It's like, damn, 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:10.240 but you can't make something simple, you know, not like 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:13.120 you can't. You just gotta be willing to want to 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:16.320 learn it, you know. You know, um, I think at 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:18.160 the end of the day, it's not wrong if you don't, 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:20.120 but you still got to just be willing to try. 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:22.760 But that is something. That's your point. That's the cated 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:25.880 relationships period, is to be willing to try something that 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:29.520 maybe you don't normally. I was dating a guy from 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:36.120 Atlanta and I did start making grits and brought for 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:38.320 real and they were good. So maybe if I just 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:44.360 really like like the guy and I'm you know, cook, Yeah, 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:46.920 you can how to cook whatever. That's too because if 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:49.120 you really like somebody, you will put some effort into things. 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:51.200 I'm sure there's things that you thought you would never 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:54.040 do that you did because you really like somebody who's like, 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:58.559 what the funk am I doing? I mean, you know, 0:03:56.320 --> 0:04:01.680 I get out, I'm not thinking out of freaking and 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:06.040 serve you. You know, it might just be that moment 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:09.000 that it might just chef doesn't cook for me, Okay, 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:12.480 there's something wrong. What's your specialty? What do you like? 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:14.680 You know? I like fish, you know, which is my 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:23.000 favorite dish? But you know, bacon and all that, that's simple. Man. 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:38.240 You may bake baking crazy. So when you cook, like 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:40.960 breakfast in the morning after like that kind of like 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:43.600 do it all? I do it all? Baby. You got 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:45.520 you know, when you're working with a man, that's what 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:48.440 you get. Whack are you still going to make breakfast? 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:53.520 I don't know, you know, I mean, I'm gonna just 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:57.480 be disappointed, but you know you might, you know, is 0:04:57.520 --> 0:04:59.520 she gonna be hungry? Could you date a woman that 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:03.400 eas making It's bacon? Yeah, like pork and all of that. 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:07.360 Does that matter to you? I can't tell a person 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:08.960 what to eat, you know what I mean, don't just 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:11.760 you know, be eating in my face and then you know, 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:16.560 trying to kiss on and they go away respectful, you know. 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:19.040 But I can't tell a person what they eat, though, 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:21.760 you know, yeah, I can just tell you what? You know, 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:24.000 what what? What? What did it do to you? Because 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:26.479 it's hard for me too. Like there's people that I've dated, 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:29.000 you know who I can't date, no disrespectively, because I 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:30.800 know you don't drink. I can't date a guy who 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:36.440 doesn't drink. It's hard for me alcoholics, And it's hard 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:38.120 for me the date a guy that doesn't smoke weed. 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:42.800 I can't. I I need like I like to smoke. 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:45.440 And then when I'm dating a guy who doesn't smoke, 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:49.200 it's like I would die And you're getting on my nerves. 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:53.240 Maybe if you got high, and you know what, I 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:55.680 don't I don't believe. I don't think that's true. I 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:57.640 think you could date a guy that doesn't drink good 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:00.919 but a super dope. Yeah know where it's hard because 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:02.719 like sometimes you'd be like, let's go have a drink 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:04.880 and sometimes it's fun, like to be tipsy with your man, 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:10.760 and maybe he's what if you're not chemistry you don't 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:12.800 need like you don't need it. I don't know he's 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:16.880 gonna do something no, but I'm already submissive. I'll do it, 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:19.920 Like if my boyfriend doesn't drink or smoke, I'll stop too, 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:22.080 Like I will. I'll be like, Okay, I don't drink 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:24.560 and smoke anymore either. I did this guy one time 0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:28.240 and he didn't drink, but then he had the nerve 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:29.840 one time he went out and mind you, he was 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:33.120 having like a double burger with bacon and telling me 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:34.960 how bad drinking was. I was like, do you know what, 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:39.440 just let me do me you do you. I'm letting 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:43.000 you eat it what you want to eat. I think. 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:46.120 I think when you get somebody that's compatible to you 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:49.080 on that level, like if you smoke and they smoke, 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.720 you know, it just makes the relationship more fun. When 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:55.760 you're dealing with somebody that don't have You know, they 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:59.680 say opposites attract sometimes too, you know, but you know 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:03.080 how somebody to do what you do and you know 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:06.880 it's just it just spices it up. Sometimes I might 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:09.440 be I might be in the move having fun like yo, 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:12.760 boost thick like yo. I want you to not take 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:14.800 it like you know, like person who take it like 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:22.119 to be like you. Every dated a girl who doesn't 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:25.240 suck dick? Yeah, I mean what does that bother you? 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:28.760 Who who doesn't? How old was she was she? I 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:31.000 mean this is back, this was back in the day. Yeah, 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:35.960 I had to be Could that last? Could you? Could 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:39.520 you go your life without never having no low job? Ever? Again? 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:43.480 In the year and the year two thousand fifty, every 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:49.120 hytero sexual woman should put dick in her mouth, every 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:59.880 single one. It's amazing. And every guy should. I heard 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:07.520 that Nigga's or something facts only because if I always 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:10.440 feel like a guy should do it first too, like 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:12.680 I on you and then you were down on him, 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:14.000 I feel like he should do it for a sec 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:15.960 And in the year, you mean, in the relationships were 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:19.880 like on at night like or whenever, the first time ever, 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:23.840 the first time ever, the first time ever first Okay, No, 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:26.600 you shouldn't do it the first time, not the first time, 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:29.000 but like he should go before me, like before we 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:31.440 ever do we should throw yes and the top it bowl, 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:36.200 your bowl, your pussy, you know, you know, because somebody 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:37.679 just don't know how to wash up, you know what 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:41.280 I mean, Like I don't know how to get on 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:44.160 and really get in there and wash that out like 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:49.760 you want me to eat that. That box gotta be well, 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:56.400 you gotta get rid of like es magma, and you 0:08:56.480 --> 0:09:05.839 know you supposed to the guys that aren't circumcised, like 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:08.160 if they're to be young like to, like they don't 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:10.400 know how don't clean themselves like you hook up. It's 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:20.720 like yo, get in right please and scrub. Okay now 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:22.920 I want you guys to finish this sentence. Okay, because 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:26.200 this is something I was thinking about over the weekend. Okay, 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:29.240 I know I'm in love when because it's something that 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:31.800 we do women like. Okay, I must love him or 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:33.960 I must love her because I did this. So Stephanie, 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:35.599 what's that with you? I know I know I'm in 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:38.199 love when I don't want to be with anybody else, 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:40.319 when I don't want to funk with anybody else because 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:43.520 I I if I can be working with somebody and 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:45.320 look at him like I'm sick of you, I need 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:47.559 to go with my other boyfriend. Yeah, my dather other 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:52.400 boyfriend exactly, my other other boyfriends exactly. That's how I 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:53.760 know I'm in love when I don't want to cheat. 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:56.839 I'm no desire for another man, Okay, right, I know 0:09:56.920 --> 0:10:01.320 I'm in love win win. I know I'll give a bit, 0:10:02.480 --> 0:10:06.120 not a bit, but you know I know him in 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:08.240 love when I give a bit a lot of time, 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:11.960 you know what I'm saying, Like just really focusing on her. 0:10:12.080 --> 0:10:16.800 You know. Um, really it's all about if you get 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:18.559 time out of a nig I mean, and I'm not 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:21.400 talking about no month for something. I'm talking about like, damn, 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:24.000 I know you for like three years. I really, I 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:25.720 really love you like that. You know what I mean? 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:29.480 Because it's different. It's different levels of love. You see 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:31.720 what I'm saying, Nigga gonna love you because he loved 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:34.640 the person you are and what you about. Could be 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:37.760 in love with you because you are soldier for real, 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:41.800 for real, So it's different along that when I know 0:10:41.960 --> 0:10:44.400 we put that time. But I'm talking about specific things, 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:46.079 like I know him in love. If I take a 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:50.640 book about your note, I feel like, like, whoa can 0:10:50.720 --> 0:10:53.199 you even still be in love after three years? You 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:55.319 know what I mean? Like that's what I love. So 0:10:56.400 --> 0:10:59.679 just I mean in my experience, you know, oh my god, 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:01.800 I'm in love when I want to start popping your 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:05.040 pimples because you don't do that with somebody you just 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:07.520 like yeah, you know, like, oh baby, that pemple on 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:11.959 the back. Let me get that right. You know, I 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:13.480 know I'm in love if I tell you I have 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:16.440 to take a ship and I go do it crazy. 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:20.920 I've never shipped in front of it then in front 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:22.520 of anyone, but I'll tell you I have to, and 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:24.920 I'll go lock the door and I might yell through 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:27.079 the door, but I would never leave the door open. 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:33.120 And I'm with you. You're never do you know, I'll 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:36.640 be a fucking ninja, like yeah, no, no, no, like 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:39.600 if I really like the guy, hell no, like he's 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:42.719 never gonna You know, I went when I went to 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:44.599 Miami that one time, I got a Calonic so I 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:47.280 wouldn't ship the whole time. Are you got a Calonic 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:52.760 just so you would ship? Yes? You're crazy? That's crazy, 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.040 I know, but it's like disgusting. I don't want the 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:57.280 guy knowing. But that's a sign of love. If you 0:11:57.360 --> 0:12:01.000 can tell somebody like, right, wouldn't you agree someone's a 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:04.080 big deal. That's the sign that your relationship is old 0:12:04.160 --> 0:12:08.679 and stale. If you're that, you're comfortable enough that you 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:10.920 could be like, he knows me well enough that it 0:12:11.000 --> 0:12:17.719 doesn't matter that my ship smells, but you have to 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.400 do the courtesy flash like every drop that fars and 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:27.400 your flashing. Am I right your opinion? I said? I 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:29.640 mean I felt like a woman if I'm in the 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:35.600 bathroom taking the ship. Yeah, come in, you know whatever? 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:39.439 I mean, you know mine in my business, Like you're 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:45.079 shipping in front of me and I'm smelling it. So 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:47.240 you've never loved anybody enough. They took up but your teeth. 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:51.240 But she's taking a shoot. No, no, damn, I'm not 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:54.480 taking it. You know, he cannot smell your ship, that 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:56.559 is the end of the relationship. But if she doesn't, 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.640 you took this ship. But I'm not in this. You 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:10.880 don't want you. I can't even be like I can't 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:13.240 have anyone in the bathroom, not even my child in 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:21.080 the bathroom wild, I swear I can't, like you said, 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:24.760 I locked the door. What are you doing in there? Nothing? Now? 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:26.280 What are some other things you do when you know 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:28.679 you're in love? Now? Um, somebody was to tell me, 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:30.880 I know I'm in love when I buy stuff, when 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:33.520 I go shopping and I buy stuff. Can I tell 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:36.680 you something? Today? I googled what happens to your brain 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:38.800 when you fall in love? And there was this there's 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:42.559 this whole there's scientific explanations of what happens with the chemicals. 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:47.680 What's going on, Why you're endorphins, serotonin's dopamine, like, why 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:51.439 you're super focused, why you get obsessive? Why, I mean, 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:53.040 all of it and it's all has to do it 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:56.760 just like procreating, Like it's just chemicals in your brain. 0:13:56.880 --> 0:13:58.679 I mean you know, I mean, I'm sure there's more 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:00.439 to it and love is Why did you google that? 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:09.640 I just felt like it? But I was researching this today. Yeah, 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:11.600 and you know how you know you're well? Okay, now, 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:14.160 let me I don't sleep. If you don't eat, you 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:16.240 can't stop thinking about that. I think when you're in 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:18.120 love you eat a lot more because you guys go 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:20.920 like do things like let's go out and eat, you know, 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:23.400 let me cook for you, Da Dad. It's hard for 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:25.880 me to like when I really like someone in the beginning, 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:28.920 it's hard for me to like eat and do anything 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:31.320 in front of them because I'm nervous. And then you 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:33.160 probably have to stab yourself from like calling them and 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:36.520 texting them all nervous though, what's the pervous of being nervous? 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:39.320 I don't know, it just happens. It's a good nervous. No, 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:41.359 it's a good nervous. Yeah, it's like you know, butterflies 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:42.920 and like the heart racing and all that. But it 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.720 makes me like, not that hungry or that's not being you. 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:49.400 If you can't sit there and be just the beginning. Listen, 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:51.280 if that thing is on you and he liked you 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:53.800 with all that whatever is, it's already in the past 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:56.200 because he have you in his presence right now. So 0:14:56.680 --> 0:14:59.720 it's all about and injecting with that man and seeing 0:14:59.760 --> 0:15:01.560 what he about. It's not about you being nervous and 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:03.200 feeling like you're gonna lose him. You give a funk 0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:05.400 about them like that. Yeah, but it's not I'm nervous 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:08.920 about losing him. I'm just nervous that's it. Yeah, it's 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:12.280 like a jittery you know, fun like I don't know 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:15.120 if maybe nervous isn't the right word. Yeah, maybe not. 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:18.200 You know what I do when I'm exciting to somebody, 0:15:18.320 --> 0:15:21.520 that's that's something that I don't usually do. I always 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:25.200 wear like like amazing underwear. I'm like wearing like six 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:29.920 hundred dollar bron panties. I don't have no s like 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.760 I'm like wearing l Parla every day. Then we got 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:35.000 into a relationship, maybe we'll have your panties. I don't 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:46.200 wear panties normally. I don't wear any That's interesting, all right, 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:50.720 Now here's the next question. Okay, sud you research somebody 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:54.360 if you meet somebody, right ray, say you meet somebody 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:58.480 whatever on the road, whatever happens and wherever you meet 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:01.800 them to a friend, do you google them or do 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.880 you look for the Instagram, Twitter and go through all that. No, 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:14.200 to me, it's like, you know, it's like a nigger 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:18.200 sitting here saying like every every chick you meet or 0:16:18.280 --> 0:16:21.960 whatever might not have a past, you know, you know, 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:24.440 it depends if you meet somebody and you're like, oh yo, 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:27.200 I know you'ren't familiar with you or she give you 0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:29.479 that incentive to make you be like, let me investigate 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:31.520 this bitch, you know what I mean. And that's different. 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:34.960 But I'm not going on Google or Instagram. I'm gonna 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:38.120 do my own little homework on the low. Like you know, 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:39.840 I'm like, Yo, you know this chick. You know what 0:16:39.880 --> 0:16:42.880 I'm saying. Like somebody might know it, you know, and 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:46.160 and really doesn't make a difference if they do, not really, 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:48.760 I mean, it's all about the personality of that person 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:51.880 and what you prepared to, you know, to to one. 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:53.560 What if they was like, yeah, we ran a chain 0:16:53.600 --> 0:17:00.280 on her back in the day, does that matter? Damn ye? 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:04.520 How do you know it was ten years ago? Nigga 0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:07.080 might just go at it just based on that. Might 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:10.600 want the experience or whatever. When I meet a guy, 0:17:10.680 --> 0:17:13.119 I searched his name in the sex Offenders List and 0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:18.000 not the only Google. That's the only search I do. God, 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:23.200 I've never even thought of doing. I mean, it depends 0:17:23.320 --> 0:17:30.040 but you and has anything ever come up? Yeah? Oh 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:32.720 my god, where do you need these guys? I was 0:17:32.840 --> 0:17:35.680 dating a guy. Well I didn't. I didn't get to datam, 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:36.920 But I met this guy and let me tell you, 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:41.320 I met him. He was amazing, good looking, had perfect teeth, 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:46.080 he had dreadlocks, he was gorgeous, gorgeous guy. And I 0:17:46.200 --> 0:17:48.320 searched him and I was like, wow, I think I 0:17:48.440 --> 0:17:51.440 think this is going to bed. We had so much 0:17:51.560 --> 0:17:56.000 in common. He was amazing. After like two weeks, he 0:17:56.200 --> 0:17:57.800 wasn't like trying to have sex with me at all. 0:17:57.840 --> 0:17:59.800 He never tried to get alone with me, and I 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:02.880 I think that's nice. I think that's you know, that's nice. 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:05.680 I mean he has a small penis. You never know 0:18:06.600 --> 0:18:16.359 that's what that means. When they didn't, the girls like 0:18:17.040 --> 0:18:18.920 my friend's like, girl, there's something wrong with him. He 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:21.040 can't be that this perfect. He had a good job, 0:18:21.560 --> 0:18:25.639 he lived in a nice neighborhood, nice car. She was like, 0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:27.520 you should put him in the sex offender's list, and 0:18:27.600 --> 0:18:29.040 I was like, oh my god, I never thought about 0:18:29.040 --> 0:18:33.639 that nice selling record. There. He's a pedophile, so you 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.200 were too old. He went to jail. He went to 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:38.720 jail for having sex with a third seen year old girl. 0:18:38.800 --> 0:18:42.879 Oh my god, disgusting. I'm like, okay, So now ever 0:18:42.960 --> 0:18:45.639 since every time I started liking somebody, I'm like, let 0:18:45.680 --> 0:18:47.040 me put you in this sex and check him on 0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:50.560 the sex trauma. I always feel like if there's definitely 0:18:50.640 --> 0:18:52.879 something wrong if you're dating a guy and he doesn't 0:18:52.880 --> 0:18:56.200 try to have sex with you, like immediately, not immediately, 0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:58.080 but after a little while, and y'all go out a 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:00.200 little while and say he's at your hell to say 0:19:00.240 --> 0:19:01.600 you're at his house and he doesn't try to have 0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:05.960 something's wrong with right. No, I invited him over, I 0:19:06.080 --> 0:19:08.159 was ready to go, and he did not try me. 0:19:08.280 --> 0:19:13.720 He didn't even try to exact. Let say something real quick. 0:19:14.000 --> 0:19:16.200 Let me let me give y'all some gems bro quick 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:20.600 because number one, I respect y'all because y'all women, y'all, 0:19:20.720 --> 0:19:24.760 y'all a different breed from us. But every time a 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:30.440 man is not always wanting pussy fun the rep because me, 0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:32.800 I'm the type of person with If I feel like 0:19:33.560 --> 0:19:35.920 you're giving me pussy too fast, it's like I'm gonna 0:19:35.920 --> 0:19:40.240 be like this bitch fucking mad niggas, you know what 0:19:40.280 --> 0:19:42.840 I'm saying, Only it's just gonna it's just gonna come 0:19:42.880 --> 0:19:45.600 to me like that. But every time a nigga might 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:47.560 just want to chill and fill you out and see 0:19:47.600 --> 0:19:50.119 what kind of beat you is right now? Because you 0:19:50.200 --> 0:19:53.359 know what if I blow you now, I might not 0:19:53.480 --> 0:19:56.400 even want to deal with you the more. But if 0:19:56.440 --> 0:19:58.359 if I'm just because you know, nigga might just be 0:19:58.480 --> 0:20:01.119 marininging like I know, I got this, ain't worried about it. 0:20:01.560 --> 0:20:03.680 You know what I'm saying. It's it's already in the bag. 0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:06.679 I already know. But you know what, I'm a free car. 0:20:06.800 --> 0:20:09.600 Don't give her no dick tonight. Now you gotta wait 0:20:09.720 --> 0:20:13.200 up for me. He's all about the control. It's like 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:15.440 it's like being a pimp, but being a real nigga 0:20:15.480 --> 0:20:18.200 pimp and still getting out between to see who you are. 0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:20.600 Like if the nigga just come in and just fucked you, 0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:23.399 like they don't take a second. It's like, Yo, you 0:20:23.440 --> 0:20:25.919 don't even don't expect him crazy, But what have You've 0:20:25.920 --> 0:20:28.560 been out a few times and he's come to your house, 0:20:28.600 --> 0:20:30.720 You've been to his house and he still doesn't try anything. 0:20:31.119 --> 0:20:34.800 And he's a widow, That's what I'm saying. And I 0:20:34.840 --> 0:20:36.879 always feel like something has to be wrong with you 0:20:37.119 --> 0:20:40.520 if that with that guy, it means that I always 0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:42.639 think personally, I always think if that happens, that he 0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:44.280 has a small penis because he wants to make sure 0:20:44.359 --> 0:20:49.119 that y'all are cool enough that it's not like I 0:20:49.200 --> 0:20:53.639 gotta build this trust between us. Honestly, if I was 0:20:53.680 --> 0:20:56.840 a guy with a small dick, I'd kill myself. Don't 0:20:56.880 --> 0:20:59.879 say that because I'm not gonna like guys have by 0:21:00.080 --> 0:21:05.160 my agreed that they want you to see that immediately. 0:21:05.280 --> 0:21:08.120 I agree with that too. I mean, it's like, dude, 0:21:08.119 --> 0:21:10.200 I would like travel to the end of the world 0:21:10.280 --> 0:21:13.480 to get a dick and plan like if I think 0:21:13.720 --> 0:21:15.760 like an electronical one that you would press the button. 0:21:17.560 --> 0:21:19.199 If you're a guy, there's nothing you could do if 0:21:19.240 --> 0:21:21.159 you have penis is a mass small that's just it. 0:21:21.400 --> 0:21:23.960 I don't know. I watched the documentary about this guy 0:21:24.040 --> 0:21:27.680 with a small dick, and he went to a documentar 0:21:28.640 --> 0:21:30.840 somewhere so far and the guy came to the hotel 0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:33.879 with a drink like a potion. He was and then 0:21:33.920 --> 0:21:36.119 he had a panic attack and he didn't drink it. 0:21:36.440 --> 0:21:38.399 But he also wants to Korea to get a He 0:21:38.520 --> 0:21:40.320 was gonna get a dick operation because they do them 0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:43.840 like crazy in Korea, because like, because this is what 0:21:44.359 --> 0:21:53.440 I'm not. But yeah, everybody didn't end up doing it. 0:21:53.640 --> 0:21:56.520 But it's cool. It's a good documentary. He did doing 0:21:56.600 --> 0:21:58.040 and he just but he ended up meeting a girl 0:21:58.080 --> 0:22:01.280 who accepted him for a small dick. And women will 0:22:01.320 --> 0:22:04.719 put up with anything. Okay, there's a shortage of good 0:22:04.760 --> 0:22:06.600 men out there, so women will put up with that. 0:22:06.680 --> 0:22:10.560 If you do put up with anything, it's crazy, right, 0:22:11.000 --> 0:22:13.280 If the guy eats you out good and does all 0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:15.399 of that, maybe you could yeah, And I mean like 0:22:15.520 --> 0:22:18.399 you can get toy, you can buy a dick. You 0:22:23.680 --> 0:22:32.440 like a lesbian, you can cup a dick. You know what, 0:22:32.640 --> 0:22:35.879 they should make something that's like some type of you 0:22:36.000 --> 0:22:39.480 know something, penis extension. That for a guy, he could 0:22:40.480 --> 0:22:43.960 let me pet don't even talk. If it's something you 0:22:44.040 --> 0:22:46.480 could add on, go talk to the lawyer, the patent 0:22:46.520 --> 0:22:50.040 lawyer tomorrow. Don't even talk about it. Penis extends. But 0:22:50.200 --> 0:22:52.199 you know what, I think that sometimes also guys who 0:22:52.240 --> 0:22:53.800 have like really big penises think they don't have to 0:22:53.840 --> 0:22:58.040 do a lot of work too. You don't really penis 0:23:00.000 --> 0:23:07.359 just look brag on. But I mean, really giant penis 0:23:07.520 --> 0:23:10.920 is kind of it's a little uncomfortable, you know, a 0:23:11.040 --> 0:23:14.560 really big penis, like you can feel your uterus shifting. 0:23:15.240 --> 0:23:21.760 Oh my god, I know who it's and you know, 0:23:22.000 --> 0:23:25.439 like I don't know. It's it's uncomfortable. But even though 0:23:25.480 --> 0:23:29.160 I don't know, I wouldn't I would rather a little 0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:34.159 bit bigger than average than how many how many inches 0:23:34.280 --> 0:23:36.440 is what's average? I don't even know what that is, dude. 0:23:36.440 --> 0:23:41.200 Average is small just like average average, just like eight inches. Okay, 0:23:41.280 --> 0:23:44.480 you're insane. It's like like like five and a half 0:23:44.600 --> 0:23:49.480 or six that's average. He's like, how what's the average 0:23:49.520 --> 0:23:53.800 penis size in the United States? Oh my god, eight 0:23:53.880 --> 0:24:00.280 inches and a half. That's seven is like big? You 0:24:00.400 --> 0:24:04.680 think seven is? Like seven is like big, like bigger 0:24:04.720 --> 0:24:10.960 than average. Do you think soever average penis size like six? Right? 0:24:11.040 --> 0:24:14.200 So what is the average penis size? And you know 0:24:14.280 --> 0:24:20.040 the wi medag the girl I don't like six inch 0:24:20.160 --> 0:24:27.480 pis Okay, he's seen. So the average penis flaccid is 0:24:28.400 --> 0:24:30.040 that's sent to me to say, oh my god, while 0:24:30.080 --> 0:24:32.560 it's small, it's two point eight to three point nine, 0:24:33.240 --> 0:24:35.960 but when it's hard it is four point seven to 0:24:36.080 --> 0:24:42.320 six point three inches four point seven four. You know 0:24:42.440 --> 0:24:45.000 what's really exciting When somebody's penis was like, it's going 0:24:45.040 --> 0:24:46.240 to be small, but then it gets herd it's like 0:24:46.320 --> 0:24:51.679 way bigger than you should Google that average. You're like, okay, 0:24:51.880 --> 0:24:54.639 I got your average black man's penis is bigger than that. 0:24:55.680 --> 0:24:58.439 Of course that's the stereotype, this that guys with small penis. Yes, 0:24:58.520 --> 0:25:05.520 there is, but I don't know. I don't know. Would 0:25:05.560 --> 0:25:07.760 you like, if if you were gonna about to as 0:25:07.800 --> 0:25:09.280 sex to the guy and his penis is really small, 0:25:09.320 --> 0:25:13.879 would you not do it? And I don't know, I 0:25:14.080 --> 0:25:16.960 might not, I might not. I'm not even gonna lie. 0:25:17.000 --> 0:25:19.800 I've I've been in situations where I like the guy 0:25:19.840 --> 0:25:21.880 a lot and then we get naked and I'm like, oh, 0:25:22.119 --> 0:25:25.560 my mother's calling me. I gotta go. That has happened 0:25:25.600 --> 0:25:31.960 ses a real life story. That's a real life story. No, 0:25:32.320 --> 0:25:34.040 Like we got naked and I was like, oh, like 0:25:34.080 --> 0:25:36.000 I didn't say my mother was calling, but like I 0:25:36.119 --> 0:25:37.880 kind of got out of it. How did you get 0:25:37.920 --> 0:25:40.760 out of it? How do you get out of it? Like, oh, 0:25:41.320 --> 0:25:43.080 I'll go to the bathroom. Oh I got my period. 0:25:43.480 --> 0:25:46.359 I was just gonna say, that's how if you never 0:25:46.440 --> 0:25:55.160 want to again? Tell me that the East infection? Right? 0:25:55.240 --> 0:25:57.120 What would make a guy not when I have sex 0:25:57.160 --> 0:25:59.160 with a girl, like all of a sudden, out of nowhere, 0:25:59.359 --> 0:26:01.160 If you're to do it, what would make you change 0:26:01.160 --> 0:26:05.840 your mind? Older Mayno said, that's not he said, once 0:26:05.920 --> 0:26:10.480 he's committed, he's committed. Yeah, he said he once he's committed, 0:26:10.560 --> 0:26:13.560 even if it stinks, he's going in. How I mean, 0:26:13.680 --> 0:26:19.200 like when you have BV Like if that's like a 0:26:19.359 --> 0:26:22.440 chronic problem, which I've sucking, like my heart breaks for girls, 0:26:22.480 --> 0:26:25.400 And that's like honestly because like you know, like once 0:26:25.480 --> 0:26:28.520 every two years for a week, it happens, you know, 0:26:29.240 --> 0:26:33.880 and it's like the worst experience, the whever smell. It's 0:26:33.960 --> 0:26:41.920 just like you even up with anyone. It's like when 0:26:42.040 --> 0:26:45.320 girls are dealing with that that it doesn't matter about 0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:48.760 like it's not about like hygiene. It's like they got 0:26:48.840 --> 0:26:51.800 that older. Yeah, And for people who don't know what 0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:54.080 that is, like, how does that happen? How do you 0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:59.840 get back to I don't know, it's not it's a 0:27:00.000 --> 0:27:07.760 out like you know, it's about the your pH balance, right, 0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:10.159 So it's like if you change partners, sex partners, or 0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:12.359 if it's like a nude dick or something that throws 0:27:12.359 --> 0:27:15.440 your pH and your pheromones aren't working right, you know, 0:27:15.560 --> 0:27:18.119 it's chemicals again something you know, So that's the only 0:27:18.160 --> 0:27:20.159 thing that would make you stop if it's now what 0:27:20.240 --> 0:27:22.960 about this, okay? Well, all these women wearing waste shapers 0:27:23.160 --> 0:27:26.760 and like you know, padded bras and all that stuff 0:27:26.960 --> 0:27:30.840 and make up. And if a girl, if you get 0:27:30.920 --> 0:27:32.560 her back and she takes all that ship off and 0:27:32.600 --> 0:27:34.919 it looks completely different, is that something that would make 0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:38.000 you not want to do it? I mean, it would 0:27:38.000 --> 0:27:40.159 make me. I don't know. It depends about It depends 0:27:40.200 --> 0:27:42.760 on the moment. But if you got all these these 0:27:42.800 --> 0:27:45.160 attachments and all this ship and I'm gonna look at 0:27:45.200 --> 0:27:48.879 you like you crazy understands bras and all of that, 0:27:49.080 --> 0:27:51.320 like make your cities look big, then you know, you 0:27:51.440 --> 0:27:53.800 take them off and you know you ain't there like that, 0:27:54.560 --> 0:27:56.080 you know what I mean? But what about like the 0:27:56.440 --> 0:27:59.000 girdles and all of that. No, no, I never funk 0:27:59.040 --> 0:28:01.880 with a chick with a girl. You ain't old enough 0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:05.280 to rock the girl yet. That sounds so like old 0:28:05.359 --> 0:28:08.720 school and weird that the waste is that really popular though? 0:28:08.760 --> 0:28:11.320 That is like it looks like a torture device. You 0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:13.240 don't need that ship though, I mean, at the end 0:28:13.280 --> 0:28:16.119 of the day, just be you, you know what I mean, Like, 0:28:17.000 --> 0:28:18.960 you know, I don't I don't think there's a problem 0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:22.200 with somebody looking at you and being attractive to you 0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:24.440 and already knowing in the back of their mind what 0:28:24.600 --> 0:28:27.560 they might think you're working. You know, a man ain't stupid. 0:28:27.600 --> 0:28:29.679 He's gonna he's gonna sit there in side you up. 0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:31.639 You know, we could see through we could see through 0:28:31.680 --> 0:28:35.639 walls when we want to. I wear a waste trainer, 0:28:35.760 --> 0:28:38.040 but it's because I get liposuctions, so you know, I 0:28:38.120 --> 0:28:41.240 gotta keep everything together so it doesn't swell up. You 0:28:41.360 --> 0:28:43.840 have to wear, yeah, but I don't wear it outside. 0:28:45.360 --> 0:28:47.800 It's only wear it for healing, you know. Once the 0:28:47.880 --> 0:28:50.080 healing is over. Thank god, I don't ever have to swear, because, 0:28:50.120 --> 0:28:54.920 like you said, it looks you can't. I start getting heartburn. 0:28:55.080 --> 0:28:58.040 It's terrible. My god, it's awful. I don't like that 0:28:58.160 --> 0:29:00.560 to look good. Yeah, but I'm just for a few 0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:02.520 hours at home, just so that way the light bulb 0:29:02.560 --> 0:29:04.440 looks good. I come out of it. My waist is 0:29:04.480 --> 0:29:12.320 like twenty three. I'm happy. He's like, what about like 0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:14.280 booty pops and all of that. Have you ever seen 0:29:14.280 --> 0:29:16.080 a girl in their head on like the fake little 0:29:16.280 --> 0:29:22.160 pets now they have butt lifters? Is that it's like 0:29:22.320 --> 0:29:25.200 these panties. It's like a girdle with like holes in 0:29:25.320 --> 0:29:27.960 the butt and like you pull it up and it 0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:32.880 lifts your ass. That's so weird. Yeah, that's tempting. The 0:29:33.040 --> 0:29:35.400 other night I was I was hosting a party in 0:29:35.440 --> 0:29:39.680 the Bronx and this girl she had the butt lifter on. 0:29:39.800 --> 0:29:42.400 You could see it. You could see it. She had 0:29:42.440 --> 0:29:44.600 on a dress, but you could see it on her clothes. 0:29:44.760 --> 0:29:47.840 You could see it. What is it? Butt lifted? I've 0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:50.400 never seen it like a pad on knowledge, it like 0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:55.080 an extra shorts. It's like shorts, like a high waisted shorts. 0:29:55.520 --> 0:29:58.880 And then it has like holes in the bus. Yeah, 0:29:58.960 --> 0:30:01.880 like it has like two holes for each cheeks, a 0:30:01.960 --> 0:30:04.240 hole for each cheek. So you lifted up and I 0:30:04.280 --> 0:30:10.160 guess the box tight underneath it, so it's like shoulder 0:30:10.240 --> 0:30:18.600 pads for the as right. I don't know. There's so 0:30:18.680 --> 0:30:20.840 many illusionary things that we can do. Now. Have you 0:30:20.880 --> 0:30:22.480 ever been with the woman and she looked good, but 0:30:22.560 --> 0:30:24.840 then she took her makeup off and her eyebrows and 0:30:24.920 --> 0:30:27.640 all of that, and he was like, whoa ship, It's 0:30:27.680 --> 0:30:32.120 like way different. I mean, I'm sure at some point, 0:30:32.720 --> 0:30:35.520 of course. I mean back in the day, I mean, 0:30:35.720 --> 0:30:38.080 but you know, it depends if that's your type of thing. Like, 0:30:38.280 --> 0:30:41.560 you know, I'm not really into makeup like that, to 0:30:41.640 --> 0:30:43.680 be honest with you, you know, I get it. I mean, 0:30:43.760 --> 0:30:46.400 I know women want to, you know, spice yourself up, 0:30:46.400 --> 0:30:47.560 but I want to be able to look at you 0:30:47.640 --> 0:30:49.920 in the morning and see the real you. You know. 0:30:50.080 --> 0:30:51.840 So if I know who the real you is and 0:30:51.920 --> 0:30:54.000 I say, well, maybe I'll say to myself, maybe she 0:30:54.840 --> 0:30:56.960 you know, she's not aware her ship. First of all, 0:30:57.040 --> 0:30:58.880 you're not aware of but if you just throwing it 0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:03.200 on and you looking like the joking issue, like you 0:31:03.320 --> 0:31:05.120 just don't know how to put your makeup one year, 0:31:05.200 --> 0:31:08.280 that's eternal. But I think that guys, um, you know, guys, 0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:10.840 most guys to say, oh, I'm not really into makeup. 0:31:11.000 --> 0:31:14.280 I don't like they want they want you to be good. 0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:17.520 I'm saying no, no, don't know what I'm saying, you know, 0:31:17.680 --> 0:31:20.080 but you still want to be able to even with that, 0:31:22.000 --> 0:31:24.400 feel like I feel like there should be a nice 0:31:24.480 --> 0:31:27.680 medium somewhere in between where like, it's time to go 0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:31.120 to this event, We're gonna go and get the makeup. 0:31:32.400 --> 0:31:34.320 But when you wake up in the morning on Sunday, 0:31:36.800 --> 0:31:39.320 or you're gonna have lunch. You're just hanging out chilling 0:31:39.400 --> 0:31:41.800 in the car, like you can't be all caked up 0:31:41.840 --> 0:31:46.320 with lashes on. No, no, exactly Have you ever did it? 0:31:47.200 --> 0:31:49.840 Have you ever met a girl who pretended she didn't 0:31:49.880 --> 0:31:51.960 know who you were and was like kicking it with 0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:55.200 you and everything, because I know that happened the other time. 0:31:55.240 --> 0:31:57.200 I artists that act like, oh, I don't know what 0:31:57.440 --> 0:31:58.920 you what do you do? I have no idea, I 0:31:58.920 --> 0:32:01.160 don't know anything about that. Never tell I mean, you know, 0:32:01.480 --> 0:32:03.720 you you just go off with that energy might be 0:32:03.800 --> 0:32:06.040 at the moment. You know, as a rap nigger, you 0:32:06.120 --> 0:32:09.160 always gonna think every chick we're gonna know. But sometimes 0:32:09.200 --> 0:32:11.920 they don't know. You might. I've been around females before 0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:14.160 in the past, and you know, I had a great 0:32:14.200 --> 0:32:16.760 conversation and then they found out later. But I always 0:32:16.840 --> 0:32:19.240 thought that they knew. But but I'm not a nigger 0:32:19.280 --> 0:32:20.680 to be like, yo, how are you doing? My name 0:32:20.800 --> 0:32:23.560 is blah blah. I'm not using that. That's that's cool, 0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:26.560 that's cool happening to use the shield to get what 0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:28.560 you want, you know what I mean? Be able to 0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:31.800 learn that chick you know, on the spot you know, 0:32:32.240 --> 0:32:34.920 if it happens to be where she don't know you, 0:32:35.200 --> 0:32:37.360 that should be a plus because it's like, yeah, and 0:32:37.400 --> 0:32:40.280 I get to see if this bitch really really into me? Right? So, 0:32:40.400 --> 0:32:42.440 you like, you like girls who don't know who you are? 0:32:42.640 --> 0:32:44.719 Or do you prefer would you rather date somebody who 0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:47.200 doesn't know you are, somebody who's like, knows all your 0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:50.000 music and those all your lyrics and everything. What's better? 0:32:50.920 --> 0:32:53.320 It's not? You know, I can't say one is better 0:32:53.320 --> 0:32:55.160 than the upper. I could just say, at the end 0:32:55.160 --> 0:32:57.680 of the day, I like both. You know, if you respect, 0:32:57.760 --> 0:32:59.840 if you respect what what what kind of nigger I am? 0:32:59.880 --> 0:33:03.040 And what I'm about? You know, that's cool. But you 0:33:03.200 --> 0:33:04.760 meet a girl and you really like her and she's 0:33:04.800 --> 0:33:07.280 like the crazy woolf tang fan. She knows all the 0:33:07.360 --> 0:33:21.120 lyrics like I don't tattoo right here? What did you 0:33:21.200 --> 0:33:29.160 think about that award stamped buddy? But when that makes 0:33:29.200 --> 0:33:31.080 you not do it? Like when if she's like, yo, 0:33:31.240 --> 0:33:34.320 you know, I never no, I'm gonna be like, I'm 0:33:34.360 --> 0:33:40.240 gonna be like, oh, ship work, wow, you I like that, 0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:42.680 you know what I'm saying. But I'm I'm like I said, 0:33:42.720 --> 0:33:45.640 I'm always gonna want to go into her mind because 0:33:45.720 --> 0:33:47.840 she's gonna tell me everything. I know. When I start 0:33:47.880 --> 0:33:50.400 asking questions, you know what I'm saying, I'm gonna be 0:33:50.480 --> 0:33:53.840 able to read us so fast. Like you know, it's 0:33:53.920 --> 0:33:57.800 all about the personality. Like we can't forget that in relationships, 0:33:57.880 --> 0:34:00.840 because I respect a bit who's like, oh, this is 0:34:00.880 --> 0:34:03.920 what it is, this is how we're playing. You know, 0:34:04.080 --> 0:34:05.680 shoot it at me straight, you know what I mean? 0:34:05.720 --> 0:34:08.000 So I know what it is. But if it's something 0:34:08.080 --> 0:34:11.680 that I feel is worth looking at for or saying, 0:34:11.760 --> 0:34:14.439 like yo, don really fucking with her. I mean, I'm 0:34:14.480 --> 0:34:16.399 gonna pick a brain. I don't want to know things. 0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:19.000 So she got that she got a tattoo and be 0:34:19.080 --> 0:34:25.520 like you know, you know anybody I know or whatever, like, 0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:28.160 don't lie to me because I can I can find out. 0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:36.160 How do you? I'll be like, Wow, Okay, that's what's up? 0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:38.360 All right? You sound like it's kind of like a 0:34:38.520 --> 0:34:45.400 romantic I'm not romantic, though, I'm not as you probably 0:34:45.400 --> 0:34:47.319 were romantic because you've been such an R and Bee 0:34:47.360 --> 0:34:51.640 fan and you like all that, Like you know, ship 0:34:51.800 --> 0:34:54.319 is the music that keep a nigga calm, and it's 0:34:54.360 --> 0:34:57.480 good music. That's how you get you a good chick 0:34:57.640 --> 0:35:00.279 with with good music. Sometimes. See it's like if you're 0:35:00.280 --> 0:35:02.640 not a cook, you know, you might be great at 0:35:02.719 --> 0:35:05.200 playing great music. Like if I had to pick your 0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:06.400 right point, I feel like you would have like a 0:35:06.640 --> 0:35:12.240 playlist or something of some old some oldies. And that's 0:35:13.280 --> 0:35:19.439 mad romantic. Not all the days. I know the don 0:35:19.520 --> 0:35:21.880 and get right to the right to the pussy right 0:35:21.920 --> 0:35:25.960 over right. So there's nothing wrong with it. Though, there's 0:35:26.000 --> 0:35:27.920 nothing wrong with me. It's just letting you know what 0:35:28.040 --> 0:35:30.000 kind of nigg I am. You know what I mean. 0:35:30.120 --> 0:35:32.160 It goes back to like I said, you don't have 0:35:32.320 --> 0:35:34.080 to be nervous or you have to do is just 0:35:34.719 --> 0:35:38.680 be you and learn to understand what he's about. Like 0:35:38.800 --> 0:35:41.520 he's learning you. So he might be like, like you said, 0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:43.719 you don't I can't shop and I can't shoot around 0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:47.160 the snake it right now, this ain't the time right there, Yeah, 0:35:47.239 --> 0:35:49.719 don't do that. Don't shoot around me, right. I'm just 0:35:49.880 --> 0:35:54.440 meeting you, you know what I'm saying. I'm just meeting you. 0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:56.359 So it's a it's a lot of it's a lot 0:35:56.400 --> 0:35:59.200 of mind ship that you gotta. You gotta you know, 0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:03.320 be be ready. For man, what if a girl tells 0:36:03.360 --> 0:36:05.520 you I love you and you don't really love her. 0:36:06.040 --> 0:36:12.360 You don't love me, you don't, but sometimes I like 0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:14.279 you want to just say, I'm gonna be like, you 0:36:14.360 --> 0:36:16.160 don't love me though, you know what I mean? You 0:36:16.320 --> 0:36:18.320 love you? You you want to love me? How do 0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:22.040 you know she don't know what I mean? Love is 0:36:22.080 --> 0:36:24.680 a big word. I mean you might love of me, 0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:28.880 if that makes sense. How many girls have loved you? 0:36:30.239 --> 0:36:33.720 Been in love? Yeah, I could count that on my fingers. 0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:37.520 Might be like, yeah, I'm not. You know, I'm surprised. 0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:39.880 I've been locked down for a long time. You know, 0:36:40.160 --> 0:36:42.800 I'm just one of the niggas that guy got with somebody, 0:36:42.920 --> 0:36:44.480 and you know I found a good one. You know, 0:36:44.680 --> 0:36:51.759 niggas ain't blaze that. Yeah, And I was like, you know, 0:36:52.040 --> 0:36:54.640 she was a good girl, come from a good family. 0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:58.680 You know when, um, are you guys still together? No? No, No, 0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:03.960 free agent, man, I'm a cre agent. Free agent. He's 0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:10.120 got the playlist ready playlist though, like on your love 0:37:10.239 --> 0:37:13.799 making playlist. Oh you know, Keith Sweat, I ain't even 0:37:13.840 --> 0:37:16.160 gonna say that because I remember back in the day 0:37:16.160 --> 0:37:19.399 when I said you used to you used to walk 0:37:19.440 --> 0:37:27.640 around that Thomas. Nah, but I mean, you know, just 0:37:27.760 --> 0:37:32.040 good music alone just to me, like it calms you 0:37:32.160 --> 0:37:35.520 down and you know, keeps everything calm. And you know, 0:37:35.680 --> 0:37:38.479 now you get an opportunity to really have a great 0:37:38.560 --> 0:37:41.520 conversation if if you're dealing with somebody that's at that 0:37:41.840 --> 0:37:45.879 that intellectual level. Do you ever do role play? Yeah? 0:37:46.680 --> 0:37:53.239 Really you do play. You just just go right in, 0:37:53.440 --> 0:37:56.920 just go for killing. Wait, I want to know what, like, oh, 0:37:57.120 --> 0:38:04.840 I've been super bad. That's like to come in and 0:38:05.280 --> 0:38:07.239 you'll you'll flip your head this way, you know what 0:38:07.320 --> 0:38:09.120 I mean, Like you'll put this leave your hand up 0:38:09.160 --> 0:38:11.520 one right now or not. I just look, you know, 0:38:12.080 --> 0:38:14.600 like I like, I like sometimes when the chick don't 0:38:14.680 --> 0:38:16.880 it's not done up, you know what I mean? Like 0:38:17.000 --> 0:38:19.480 she just looks even sexy too, when you know she 0:38:19.640 --> 0:38:25.799 just looked like a fucking Cambodian nigga, like a refugee. 0:38:26.760 --> 0:38:34.319 She still look pretty though. It's like, come on, let 0:38:34.320 --> 0:38:37.879 me fu your help, you know what I mean, Like, yeah, 0:38:38.040 --> 0:38:40.080 fuck your help. Just to do it. I'll pay for it. 0:38:40.200 --> 0:38:42.239 Get it done again. Okay, So role play for you, 0:38:42.360 --> 0:38:46.160 and she plays a camp look like a fly refuge 0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:50.120 you come out of the barrel. Whatever. You look good, 0:38:58.320 --> 0:39:01.719 but I know you do rope. You know I haven't you? 0:39:03.840 --> 0:39:05.719 I mean, of course I have, so who are you? 0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:17.120 I like to pretend I'm sometimes a cheerleader. I love that. 0:39:18.280 --> 0:39:20.840 It kind of weirded this guy out, though, because he 0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:26.040 was already way older than me, and he was like, 0:39:26.239 --> 0:39:27.920 you know what, this is like a little too like 0:39:28.000 --> 0:39:30.240 I think maybe none of his kids was like a cheerleader, 0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:32.840 you know, so it kind of weird him out certain 0:39:32.880 --> 0:39:35.719 ways that you gotta do ship like safe instance, if 0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:38.480 the nigga came home, he came home right, let's just 0:39:38.520 --> 0:39:40.520 say you with your guy right now, I'm just giving 0:39:40.560 --> 0:39:42.799 you an idea what you could do to blow your 0:39:42.880 --> 0:39:46.040 niggahead off. Not safe as he come home right, you're 0:39:46.040 --> 0:39:48.640 not there right, and you leave him a note and 0:39:48.719 --> 0:39:52.040 you say, yo, meet me here at this time. Boom boom, 0:39:53.040 --> 0:39:55.200 next thing you know, he meeting you there or whatever. 0:39:55.320 --> 0:39:58.719 Then you get there, it's like, you know, you make 0:39:58.760 --> 0:40:01.640 it like I'm not hearing I'm over here. But then 0:40:03.120 --> 0:40:04.799 you know what I'm saying, like just to just make 0:40:04.880 --> 0:40:08.719 it fun form whatever, like a treasure hunt exactly. That's 0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:13.160 the road when I think of role play, like I 0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:17.000 think of like crazy like animalistic ship like when you're 0:40:17.080 --> 0:40:22.640 tied up and like getting whipped in the house. Yeah, exactly, 0:40:22.680 --> 0:40:29.000 like oh my god, please regular just fuck me, just 0:40:29.120 --> 0:40:34.840 side me, please, I'm psycho, like I'm really rough and crazy. 0:40:34.920 --> 0:40:36.920 Like I like to get slapped in the ship. You 0:40:37.040 --> 0:40:39.640 like to get slapped. I like to get choked. I 0:40:39.719 --> 0:40:42.200 like to get slapped. I like my hair pulled really hard. 0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:44.480 That's why I can't wear We've. I like to get 0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:46.360 my hair pulled, like while I'm sucking dick. I like 0:40:46.480 --> 0:40:48.880 for my hair to get pulled really hard. Like I 0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:51.240 like for him to put his hand in and gripping 0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:53.160 and I like to feel it. And I like to 0:40:53.239 --> 0:40:55.000 like fill in the back of my throat like like 0:40:55.719 --> 0:40:58.120 like I like to be abused. I'm Puerto Rican, we 0:40:58.239 --> 0:41:03.320 like here, but I mean, I think, but you know, 0:41:03.400 --> 0:41:06.000 I don't want to be abused like by um, you know, 0:41:06.120 --> 0:41:08.480 when you're in love with somebody. And of course I 0:41:08.640 --> 0:41:11.080 like to be essensual and you know, I like to 0:41:11.160 --> 0:41:13.560 kiss a lot, and you know, breathe each other in 0:41:13.840 --> 0:41:16.040 and have that you know, you know, feel the camest. 0:41:17.640 --> 0:41:23.600 But you know, especially when I'm drinking I'm like slapping marks, 0:41:23.640 --> 0:41:26.640 but if he leaves him mark, is that okay? Yeah, 0:41:26.719 --> 0:41:29.600 it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter. Is there a safety word? 0:41:30.120 --> 0:41:33.520 No safety word is everything is safe? Okay, so it's 0:41:33.560 --> 0:41:37.319 never hurt. I'm really no, I'm really I'm really rough 0:41:37.520 --> 0:41:39.600 like it. It's like after you come out of it, 0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:43.160 like your lip is swollen from getting bit your your face, 0:41:43.239 --> 0:41:45.360 you got a bruise on your face, you gotta handprint 0:41:45.400 --> 0:41:48.120 on your face. It's afterwards you're like, damn, maybe we 0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:51.280 went so far. You know what. I had a boyfriend 0:41:51.320 --> 0:41:53.360 for a while then and we only had sex like that. 0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:55.640 And now I'm like I don't want to get funk 0:41:55.719 --> 0:42:01.520 like that. I just need to like me. I'm like 0:42:02.360 --> 0:42:05.120 that because I know it's like there's something sexy about 0:42:05.160 --> 0:42:08.840 being objectified and like, you know, and beating treated like that. 0:42:09.080 --> 0:42:11.719 But then it's like not all the time, but not 0:42:11.840 --> 0:42:15.359 all the time you're missing you got off the other 0:42:15.480 --> 0:42:18.120 stuff that medium, you know, you got to find that 0:42:18.239 --> 0:42:20.160 perfect place in the middle. And then there was one 0:42:20.200 --> 0:42:21.880 guy who I said, please, can you like choke me 0:42:21.920 --> 0:42:24.520 a little? And he didn't know how to do it 0:42:24.640 --> 0:42:27.640 and he really had and I was like, I was 0:42:27.680 --> 0:42:31.200 like he was like, oh my god, I'm so sorry, 0:42:31.200 --> 0:42:32.680 and I was like, dude, no, just like grip my 0:42:32.800 --> 0:42:37.279 neck a little, like, don't kill me, like you know, 0:42:37.560 --> 0:42:41.040 I know. The worst for me is when like I'm 0:42:41.080 --> 0:42:43.520 like pull my hair and the guy's like, oh my god, 0:42:43.560 --> 0:42:51.360 are you sure I'm like grabbing the girl like slapped 0:42:51.360 --> 0:42:53.799 me for real, yeah, And they're like, oh my god. 0:42:53.840 --> 0:42:55.839 I don't want to hurt you. I don't like beings 0:42:57.400 --> 0:43:02.000 very angry. I don't like being do you do stuff 0:43:02.040 --> 0:43:05.200 like that. I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm gonna 0:43:05.239 --> 0:43:07.480 be honest with you. You know what I mean. I'm 0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:12.200 a moral I'm a moral manic type. Check it. But 0:43:12.640 --> 0:43:18.800 you know it goes but I can see with you 0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:22.080 any minute and turn into another person, you know what 0:43:22.120 --> 0:43:23.600 I mean, Because see it goes back to if you 0:43:23.760 --> 0:43:25.680 care about you know what I mean, if you feel 0:43:25.760 --> 0:43:27.600 like you got a little care for her, like she's 0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:30.040 a good one. You know, she's a good one. You 0:43:30.440 --> 0:43:33.040 you want to treat her like a woman still, But 0:43:33.200 --> 0:43:38.120 then later on then stranglization and all of that killing her, 0:43:38.280 --> 0:43:41.239 you know what I mean? You know what I In 0:43:41.360 --> 0:43:43.719 the beginning, all of that rough ship is out of 0:43:43.800 --> 0:43:46.640 the question. You gotta really like, we got gotta you 0:43:46.680 --> 0:43:51.000 gotta work, you gotta people, would you let it go? 0:43:51.160 --> 0:43:59.279 Tell you at I don't know, you want to know? 0:44:00.000 --> 0:44:01.440 And like what am I going to do with you? Now? 0:44:01.960 --> 0:44:10.080 Rob him? Like exactly exactly, see nigga, y'all better, y'all 0:44:10.160 --> 0:44:12.680 better listen to this ship. This is real way When 0:44:13.080 --> 0:44:15.319 when do you when do you think is an appropriate 0:44:15.480 --> 0:44:22.640 time to like take a vibrator out during sex? Okay, 0:44:22.880 --> 0:44:26.239 that's another thing you gotta work towards because that could 0:44:26.280 --> 0:44:28.759 be like a good or bad situation you bring out 0:44:28.800 --> 0:44:34.520 the vibrator, or if I'm not good enough exactly? So, 0:44:34.640 --> 0:44:35.960 how do you feel if a girl brings out a 0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:38.760 vibrator in the mix of in the mix of everything, 0:44:39.080 --> 0:44:43.520 she can't bring it out? Man? She vibrating like that 0:44:45.680 --> 0:44:55.040 you want? I mean every time she wants like, you know, 0:44:55.480 --> 0:44:58.520 let me say, and a vibrator the same. But listen 0:44:58.800 --> 0:45:02.440 what you wanting to watch right now? You know what 0:45:02.520 --> 0:45:05.120 I mean? My thing is this Just just take this 0:45:05.360 --> 0:45:09.440 dick right now, give me about fixing fitcing twenty minutes. 0:45:09.520 --> 0:45:12.480 Let me make a sandwich, you know, let me get 0:45:12.600 --> 0:45:16.440 up make it. Yeah, of course, but I'm saying, let me, 0:45:16.600 --> 0:45:18.719 let me chill, because you know you might get a 0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:20.800 nigger that you might run into it. Just dick you 0:45:20.880 --> 0:45:22.840 down real quick, but then he can't even dick you 0:45:23.200 --> 0:45:25.759 in the next ten fifteen minutes when you really really 0:45:26.040 --> 0:45:30.000 you open now. So I'd rather just hit you ten 0:45:30.080 --> 0:45:33.839 times then just give you two one or two good ones. 0:45:33.840 --> 0:45:35.319 But the most times you've ever gone in a row, 0:45:36.560 --> 0:45:40.320 I'm in the tens to be really coming like ten times. 0:45:40.440 --> 0:45:43.000 But that's crazy. I like, I like to win. Ain't 0:45:43.000 --> 0:45:48.080 no more coming out like nothing? Then then no more. 0:45:48.640 --> 0:45:50.719 I remember me and my son's father like we were. 0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:53.840 We were just before we had the baby. We were like, 0:45:53.920 --> 0:45:55.440 let's see how many times we could have sex in 0:45:55.520 --> 0:45:59.880 one day, and we went sixteen times. He came to 0:46:00.000 --> 0:46:02.759 sixteen days, and I mean we weren't It's not like 0:46:02.880 --> 0:46:06.080 two minutes sex. It's like it's like a good fifteen 0:46:06.120 --> 0:46:12.520 twenty minute around every time. Cause we were like, no, 0:46:12.880 --> 0:46:15.600 we went out. I'll never forget the day we woke 0:46:15.680 --> 0:46:17.719 up early and we went and have breakfast and we 0:46:17.760 --> 0:46:21.000 have sex in the car before breakfast, before we went 0:46:21.080 --> 0:46:23.400 into the restaurant. We had sex in the car and 0:46:23.480 --> 0:46:25.239 then we were saying our breakfast, and we're like be able, 0:46:25.239 --> 0:46:27.600 we should see how many times? So then we got 0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:29.960 back in the car. We had sex again in the car, 0:46:30.200 --> 0:46:33.000 in the car, in the car, and then we got 0:46:33.120 --> 0:46:36.360 home and we were like watching the movie more sex, 0:46:36.480 --> 0:46:41.319 and we went sixteen times. I probably got pregnant that day. 0:46:42.800 --> 0:46:46.680 Most likely did he take naps in between? No, we did. 0:46:46.760 --> 0:46:48.759 We took naps in between. We fell asleep. As soon 0:46:48.760 --> 0:46:50.600 as we got home for breakfast, we had sex again. 0:46:50.680 --> 0:46:53.600 I remember I had on this Maxi skirt at the time. 0:46:53.680 --> 0:46:57.440 They were in style, like these Indian looking maxie skirts. 0:46:57.560 --> 0:46:59.879 They were like a really like tight at the waist 0:47:00.000 --> 0:47:06.719 and then like really wasn't married to the yes, Like 0:47:06.840 --> 0:47:08.480 I remember, we got back in the house and like 0:47:08.680 --> 0:47:10.839 he lifted up the skirt and we like had sex 0:47:10.920 --> 0:47:16.600 standing in the kitchen, and then we took a nap, Yeah, nap, 0:47:16.719 --> 0:47:18.880 and we were like I think we fell we went, 0:47:19.040 --> 0:47:20.400 we took a nap, and then we woke up have 0:47:20.560 --> 0:47:22.920 more sex, and then I think we fell asleep inside 0:47:22.960 --> 0:47:25.920 of each other and then we like woke up and 0:47:26.040 --> 0:47:28.759 had more sex. And we were just having sex all 0:47:28.840 --> 0:47:31.440 day long, and we missed sixteen times. My sons. I 0:47:31.480 --> 0:47:35.000 don't miss my speak to him every day, so I 0:47:35.080 --> 0:47:37.120 don't miss having sex with him because I have. I 0:47:37.800 --> 0:47:40.360 really enjoyed my sex life right now with my current boyfriend. 0:47:40.520 --> 0:47:43.560 So okay, you know, I can't say he and my 0:47:43.680 --> 0:47:46.080 son's father, like, he's not a weak guy. He has 0:47:46.080 --> 0:47:49.360 a girlfriend. She don't like you. I don't know what. 0:47:49.520 --> 0:47:54.440 How care? So can you beat that? Sixteen times? Sixteen 0:47:54.480 --> 0:47:56.719 times and one day? That's a lot. I don't know. 0:47:57.160 --> 0:48:00.640 I mean, that's that's a lot of time. We went 0:48:00.760 --> 0:48:02.719 crazy that but it was only that one day. But 0:48:02.840 --> 0:48:05.160 I mean There's been other times with different guys that 0:48:05.239 --> 0:48:07.319 I've had sex six or seven times in a day. 0:48:07.400 --> 0:48:12.520 That's kind of normal. Yeah, a lot. Sixteen is a lot. 0:48:13.120 --> 0:48:15.799 So we we like did it on purpose, like six 0:48:15.920 --> 0:48:19.640 nuts a day challenge, six nuts a day challenge. But 0:48:20.000 --> 0:48:23.440 that's forty two much man? Right now? Like I don't 0:48:23.520 --> 0:48:26.239 let him leave the house without coming somewhere, Like you 0:48:26.360 --> 0:48:31.000 coming in, You're coming somewhere. If you're going to have 0:48:31.040 --> 0:48:35.279 you come, You're not going out there with a loaded gun. Yeah, 0:48:35.400 --> 0:48:38.840 you are totally drained. The nuts are completely empty. But right, 0:48:38.880 --> 0:48:40.640 does it hurt after you come that many times? And 0:48:40.680 --> 0:48:45.279 you're just shooting out here. Yeah it hurts. Yeah, my man, 0:48:45.360 --> 0:48:47.160 Like I'll be wearing him out and he's like, damn baby, 0:48:47.200 --> 0:48:49.960 come on, like painful, what anything? It looks like, Look 0:48:50.040 --> 0:48:54.719 there's nothing in there, Like okay, fine, because I've heard that. 0:48:55.160 --> 0:48:57.040 I heard that it's a little painful when you're shooting 0:48:57.040 --> 0:49:00.440 out air. I don't know that sounds painful. It ain't painful. 0:49:00.480 --> 0:49:02.640 You just just you should get sold, you know what 0:49:02.719 --> 0:49:06.320 I mean. It's like a muscle that you constantly keep hitting, 0:49:06.360 --> 0:49:08.759 you know what I mean. It's like, damn, hold up, 0:49:08.960 --> 0:49:11.759 you know no, that's true. And um with me and 0:49:11.840 --> 0:49:14.160 my like me and me and my current boyfriend, we 0:49:14.239 --> 0:49:16.399 know each other for many years, but when we first 0:49:16.440 --> 0:49:19.600 started dating, like we've been together like in a relationship 0:49:19.680 --> 0:49:22.040 for a year. But when we first started dating, like 0:49:22.160 --> 0:49:24.960 the first three or four months of the way we 0:49:25.040 --> 0:49:27.600 are now, we would we were having so much sex, 0:49:28.239 --> 0:49:30.000 and like I was sore and he was sore. We 0:49:30.120 --> 0:49:33.560 were still going, but we were both like time to 0:49:33.600 --> 0:49:36.080 take a break, yeah, because we were having sex like 0:49:36.200 --> 0:49:38.480 seven eight times a day. Like we like we would 0:49:38.480 --> 0:49:39.719 just look at each other in the eyes and be 0:49:39.800 --> 0:49:47.759 like not had no job and nothing. I mean, you know, video, 0:49:49.080 --> 0:49:51.160 I don't know what my boyfriend does for a living. 0:49:51.239 --> 0:49:53.120 I don't know if he has a job. You don't 0:49:53.200 --> 0:49:56.440 know if he has a job. Okay, next subject. Now, 0:49:56.560 --> 0:49:58.640 let's talk about this now. People are always send me 0:49:58.680 --> 0:50:02.360 in questions, right for asking. Now here's a question, and 0:50:02.400 --> 0:50:04.319 I'm gonna get your take on this. Okay, he said, 0:50:04.480 --> 0:50:06.440 I'm a twenty four year old, good looking dude. I've 0:50:06.440 --> 0:50:09.440 been diagnosed with a very light case of a rectile dysfunction, 0:50:09.560 --> 0:50:12.719 like six months ago. It's not full blown impotency. But 0:50:12.800 --> 0:50:14.960 the doctor said that he has a reduced blood flow 0:50:15.040 --> 0:50:17.759 to the penis because of lack of sex. So he said, 0:50:18.440 --> 0:50:20.640 should you tell a girl, but like if you're about 0:50:20.680 --> 0:50:23.719 to have sex with her, that you have a rectile dysfunction? 0:50:23.840 --> 0:50:26.319 Because he had an experience with a girl one time 0:50:26.400 --> 0:50:28.719 where she felt like it was her fault that he 0:50:28.760 --> 0:50:32.600 couldn't get hard. So is it important to tell somebody 0:50:32.719 --> 0:50:37.320 that before you have sex with them. No, No, I 0:50:37.400 --> 0:50:39.440 don't think it's important for you to tell him. I mean, 0:50:39.520 --> 0:50:42.960 it's all about what arises, what what you might be 0:50:43.080 --> 0:50:48.120 aroused by, you know, you know, but it's a dysfunction, 0:50:48.400 --> 0:50:49.960 like have you ever tried to have sex with the 0:50:49.960 --> 0:50:51.960 girl and you couldn't get hurt? Because it happens to everyone. 0:50:52.480 --> 0:50:55.520 I mean, it happens. What do you say, you just 0:50:55.640 --> 0:50:59.080 be like today in a great day. But his dis function. 0:50:59.719 --> 0:51:01.560 But that's what it comes down to, I think, and 0:51:01.640 --> 0:51:05.759 it's important for the woman to be, you know, not bad. 0:51:06.920 --> 0:51:10.960 The problem is because he's not spreading it around a lot. 0:51:11.080 --> 0:51:18.359 He's not having enough sex. That's why you're not as 0:51:18.360 --> 0:51:22.000 bled flow to his penises. You're not sex making me 0:51:22.120 --> 0:51:26.719 get like this neither too. But it's a dysfunction. You're 0:51:26.719 --> 0:51:30.200 saying it's a dysfunction. But I mean the girl feel 0:51:30.239 --> 0:51:32.120 like it's her fault if a guy can't get all 0:51:32.160 --> 0:51:37.239 the way hid? Have you okay? Ladies, like, have you 0:51:37.360 --> 0:51:39.319 ever been with a guy and he can't get it up? 0:51:39.680 --> 0:51:42.880 The sex is bad? Guys have been to everybody at 0:51:42.960 --> 0:51:49.480 some times. Guys. Yeah, And I think I think that 0:51:49.640 --> 0:51:54.480 all three of us are beautiful girls. D I think 0:51:54.480 --> 0:51:57.000 it's you know what I mean. I just think, you know, 0:51:57.640 --> 0:52:00.520 sometimes guys aren't ready to go like they've really a 0:52:00.680 --> 0:52:04.319 man needs to, you know, get it up. We could 0:52:04.360 --> 0:52:07.640 just bust it open, ready, you know what I'm going 0:52:07.760 --> 0:52:10.719 to go so you know, as a woman, I mean 0:52:10.760 --> 0:52:17.200 when you're younger, you're like, it's like sometimes the guy 0:52:17.360 --> 0:52:20.080 is nervous. It's the first time. They might like a 0:52:20.160 --> 0:52:25.279 lot or be intimidated if you say yeah, but he 0:52:25.400 --> 0:52:27.919 can't dig you down good because he busts off real quick. 0:52:28.200 --> 0:52:30.200 He might just want to just get it off real quick, 0:52:34.680 --> 0:52:40.920 like hold like to come back coming sometimes No, but 0:52:41.000 --> 0:52:43.480 I think that'll be flattered if a guy comes nest 0:52:44.120 --> 0:52:56.000 sometimes though, I mean is like and everything I'm pushing 0:52:58.080 --> 0:53:02.160 stay back to the subject. I think that woman should 0:53:02.160 --> 0:53:05.000 be a little more understanding if you know, if that 0:53:05.200 --> 0:53:07.319 I mean it happens all the time. If you can't 0:53:07.360 --> 0:53:12.240 ever get mad for each other, but if that happens, 0:53:12.360 --> 0:53:15.960 like it's okay, like it's a human body. Like sometimes 0:53:16.080 --> 0:53:18.400 you know it just doesn't work. But did it be 0:53:18.520 --> 0:53:21.600 live if he did each other and be genuine and 0:53:21.680 --> 0:53:24.440 be like you should be like, you know what I'm 0:53:24.440 --> 0:53:27.360 gonna try this summer. I'm gonna get dressed up. I'm like, 0:53:27.440 --> 0:53:31.319 you know that that happens, But you can't just come 0:53:31.360 --> 0:53:33.840 in on the first get down, you know what I mean, 0:53:33.920 --> 0:53:38.919 you gotta be like they keep happening, and she gonna 0:53:38.920 --> 0:53:40.920 look at you, And that's when you gotta keep it real, 0:53:41.040 --> 0:53:44.719 like YO might not be as women. Should we be 0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:47.680 flattered if you come fast? Or should we be irritation? 0:53:47.840 --> 0:53:50.719 Should be flatter definitely, because sometimes it's like, don't you 0:53:50.800 --> 0:53:52.799 care enough to try to make me? But they can't 0:53:52.840 --> 0:53:57.120 even help themselves. You can't help yourself, right, You know 0:53:57.200 --> 0:53:58.719 what I do? When you know when I do. When 0:53:58.719 --> 0:54:01.560 I'm when I'm ready to come, I act like I don't. 0:54:01.640 --> 0:54:04.080 I don't want to come. Then I started thinking of 0:54:04.160 --> 0:54:08.839 all kind of ship. I started counting numbers. Aren't say 0:54:08.880 --> 0:54:14.719 that behind you, you know what I mean? Or I 0:54:14.840 --> 0:54:17.439 might just say some ship like I'm about to count 0:54:17.440 --> 0:54:23.120 to a thousand, a thousand strokes, like want to you 0:54:23.200 --> 0:54:25.359 know what I mean? Like my mind is somewhere else now. 0:54:25.640 --> 0:54:27.680 I'm not in the pussy. I'm just trying to I'm 0:54:27.719 --> 0:54:30.040 just trying to get you right now. It's about getting 0:54:30.080 --> 0:54:33.000 you right Because for females, if we come quick, it's great. 0:54:33.360 --> 0:54:35.080 We don't care because we can keep going. It ain't 0:54:35.920 --> 0:54:39.759 the party woman. I mean, most woman can't even come 0:54:39.880 --> 0:54:44.319 from intercourse like wh I'm talking about them? Like yeah, 0:54:44.960 --> 0:54:48.920 and the intercourse. Right, Yeah, I'm I'm blessed so like 0:54:49.040 --> 0:54:52.880 I'm lucky, Yeah you are. I come from dick, like 0:54:53.160 --> 0:54:57.799 I come from dick. So I do my sister giving 0:54:57.880 --> 0:55:00.920 blow jobs? I can. I ain't got culd if I 0:55:01.120 --> 0:55:03.120 rarely thought about it hard, I think because I love 0:55:03.200 --> 0:55:07.520 sucking dick so much. But my sister, my sisters thirty 0:55:07.560 --> 0:55:10.640 five years old, and she's only had like maybe three 0:55:10.840 --> 0:55:15.560 a handful of orgasms from sexual cancer of course, and 0:55:15.680 --> 0:55:19.279 that's really sad for me. I come from dick, from 0:55:19.360 --> 0:55:22.359 the beginning of time, from the beginning of time when 0:55:22.400 --> 0:55:32.920 dick was invented. BC. Does it bother you if you 0:55:32.960 --> 0:55:34.800 don't make a girl come, like does that matter to you? 0:55:35.239 --> 0:55:39.680 You su but not not no moment. Like I ain't 0:55:39.719 --> 0:55:41.640 dealing with all of that, man. I mean, you know, 0:55:41.840 --> 0:55:46.359 I would want you to, but if you don't, then 0:55:46.400 --> 0:55:47.680 I'll be like, yeah, I'm gonna get you on the 0:55:47.760 --> 0:55:50.400 next one where I gotta be able to chalk to 0:55:50.440 --> 0:55:52.000 you like you my nigger, you know what I mean, 0:55:52.120 --> 0:55:55.480 Because like you said, it's just you know, the way 0:55:55.600 --> 0:55:58.240 your body is, It's like you're not you're not happy 0:55:58.280 --> 0:56:00.880 to get up like she said, you you just open up. 0:56:01.800 --> 0:56:04.040 You just know I gotta get up, so I gotta 0:56:04.560 --> 0:56:07.279 you know, you might have to be just you know, 0:56:07.480 --> 0:56:10.200 stroking me off for like twenty minutes, just so I 0:56:10.280 --> 0:56:13.720 could really get right, because I might think I'm getting 0:56:13.800 --> 0:56:15.960 right right away and then I'm not even really right yet, 0:56:16.520 --> 0:56:19.279 you know. So I wanted you know, you know, you know, 0:56:19.560 --> 0:56:21.719 even if you just kiss on it or just not 0:56:22.040 --> 0:56:24.279 give me, just play with me, so I could really 0:56:24.400 --> 0:56:27.520 act like a volture and just be like, yo, it's 0:56:27.600 --> 0:56:31.560 ready now. How do you how do you meet women? Like? 0:56:31.640 --> 0:56:41.960 Where do you meet women? Women? Are you on online dating? Crazy? 0:56:42.560 --> 0:56:45.120 You know? I mean, you know, you know all over man, 0:56:45.200 --> 0:56:49.000 I mean you know, of course walking around, you know, 0:56:49.120 --> 0:56:51.080 like I'm a shot. I don't. I don't like pressing 0:56:51.160 --> 0:56:53.560 chick sause I don't want them to think, yeah, I'm 0:56:53.560 --> 0:56:59.280 gonna shot. I'm an laid back in romantic that should 0:56:59.280 --> 0:57:02.319 be his profile. But no, I'm not. If I see 0:57:02.360 --> 0:57:04.040 somebody that I like, I might not, I might not 0:57:04.239 --> 0:57:08.040 go for I might just would you send somebody over 0:57:08.280 --> 0:57:13.360 like I've done that. I've done that before before. Sometimes 0:57:13.400 --> 0:57:16.240 a woman approaches you on the street. No, it might 0:57:16.320 --> 0:57:18.800 just be a random conversation like I remember meeting a 0:57:18.880 --> 0:57:20.920 girl in a shoe store, you know what I mean, 0:57:21.040 --> 0:57:23.960 And you know, yo, how you like these? But that 0:57:24.120 --> 0:57:26.240 was she didn't know I was shooting g but that 0:57:26.400 --> 0:57:29.880 was my line to get together. It's like, yo, you're like, 0:57:29.960 --> 0:57:32.240 I think you you look good at these though, and 0:57:32.360 --> 0:57:34.240 I pick out something that I know is a ficial 0:57:34.720 --> 0:57:36.600 or I might ask you how you like these? And 0:57:37.040 --> 0:57:40.080 you know, you know, like what's your name? But you 0:57:40.160 --> 0:57:47.440 gotta have a lot of groupies. Yeah, no, I don't know. 0:57:48.520 --> 0:57:50.600 I mean, I'm a big would saying fan. When one 0:57:50.640 --> 0:57:52.080 time I was in the club, I think it was 0:57:52.160 --> 0:57:54.400 whip and like the DJ said your name, and I 0:57:54.480 --> 0:58:00.240 was like, hold on, I gotta go take a picture. Love. 0:58:03.560 --> 0:58:05.640 I know you guys had some wild times on the 0:58:05.720 --> 0:58:10.439 road because I've heard stories obviously, you know, didn't I know? Yeah, 0:58:10.520 --> 0:58:13.000 I mean you guys, I've seen it on judge shows, 0:58:13.040 --> 0:58:18.840 you know, on court. Oh my god, I don't know 0:58:18.920 --> 0:58:22.320 about this. She was like, we didn't do anything. We 0:58:22.640 --> 0:58:24.840 just having a great conversation at seven o'clock in the morning. 0:58:24.920 --> 0:58:28.760 She was lying she might have got she might have 0:58:28.800 --> 0:58:35.439 went through a different division and subdivision, a parallel universe. Yeah, 0:58:35.480 --> 0:58:39.560 I back in the day, didn't that of guys used 0:58:39.560 --> 0:58:41.439 to get mad like if girls were on the bus 0:58:41.520 --> 0:58:43.480 and try to approach all the fighter of trying to 0:58:43.560 --> 0:58:47.240 fight you or anything. Did that ever happen, Like like 0:58:47.360 --> 0:58:48.760 say one of the girls came on the bus and 0:58:48.840 --> 0:58:50.920 not if anything happened or not, but just mad that 0:58:51.040 --> 0:58:52.840 the girl was on because I know girls used to 0:58:52.920 --> 0:58:54.960 follow you guys around. I used to be there and 0:58:55.000 --> 0:58:56.720 see girls in the hallway trying to meet people. Was 0:58:56.760 --> 0:59:00.240 in every situation where like their boyfriend would come and 0:59:00.360 --> 0:59:03.880 get mad at can you imagine? I mean if if 0:59:03.920 --> 0:59:08.480 a female nigga came and it's like you know, that's 0:59:08.640 --> 0:59:13.560 disrespectful because it's like nigga, don't don't come to me, 0:59:14.440 --> 0:59:17.320 come to her. But if you meet and her when 0:59:17.400 --> 0:59:20.840 she's with me, that I'm gonna look at you like 0:59:21.960 --> 0:59:24.480 Nigga did with that home. You know what I'm saying, 0:59:24.600 --> 0:59:28.640 Like you don't you don't show another nigga. It's a 0:59:28.680 --> 0:59:31.000 certain kind of you know, over your female you know 0:59:31.040 --> 0:59:33.040 what I mean. It's like you deal with that in 0:59:33.120 --> 0:59:36.160 a place where you know, you know it's safe for you, 0:59:36.360 --> 0:59:38.080 because it might not be safe for you to try 0:59:38.160 --> 0:59:42.200 to approach your man and you know because of your 0:59:42.280 --> 0:59:43.800 chick you know what I mean, It's like you really 0:59:43.840 --> 0:59:47.000 ain't got your bit under control, fan, And that's that's 0:59:47.080 --> 0:59:50.280 detrimental to to the situation at the moment, because a 0:59:50.360 --> 0:59:52.840 nigga might want to stand on you after that, you 0:59:52.880 --> 0:59:55.240 don't want to. What do you question to me? What 0:59:55.320 --> 0:59:57.520 do you question to me about what she doing? If 0:59:57.560 --> 0:59:59.960 you had your ship on a lock, you wouldn't even 1:00:00.040 --> 1:00:04.720 be here. Would it have been a turner for you? 1:00:04.800 --> 1:00:06.880 If he met a chicken? She she smashed one of 1:00:06.960 --> 1:00:09.760 the homies? Would would it be a turn off? Like 1:00:09.880 --> 1:00:14.240 a no go? If it makes non negotiable like smashed 1:00:14.240 --> 1:00:17.000 one of the homies, like no. I mean, you know, 1:00:17.360 --> 1:00:19.080 as long as she could be able to be real 1:00:19.120 --> 1:00:21.240 with me, you know you want her to tell you, 1:00:21.400 --> 1:00:23.360 like yeah, I feel I would do that to her, 1:00:23.440 --> 1:00:25.480 you know what, I wouldn't want to. She had slept 1:00:25.520 --> 1:00:28.440 with him a really long time ago. I mean, if 1:00:28.520 --> 1:00:31.280 it's you know, just it's all about telling me, you know, 1:00:31.400 --> 1:00:33.200 it's like how your mom used to tell you back. 1:00:37.560 --> 1:00:40.080 I mean, it depends who he is. I mean, you know, 1:00:40.960 --> 1:00:43.640 my home girl is in a serious relationship with a guy, 1:00:44.000 --> 1:00:48.880 and she slept with his brother brother. Yeah, she was 1:00:48.920 --> 1:00:50.959 in a relationship for a long time with him. She's 1:00:51.000 --> 1:00:53.440 been with a guy for a little over a year, 1:00:53.560 --> 1:00:56.080 almost two. And she slept with his brother and she 1:00:56.160 --> 1:00:58.920 was was brother back in the day. She never told 1:00:59.000 --> 1:01:05.840 him many years ago. You know, you know, it is 1:01:05.920 --> 1:01:08.320 what it is. I mean, like, it is what it is. Yeah, 1:01:08.520 --> 1:01:11.520 Like I just feel like for me, if it was 1:01:11.600 --> 1:01:17.040 what a condom, it doesn't count. What the rule is 1:01:17.160 --> 1:01:21.160 that that's my rule, sister, like me, and you are 1:01:21.240 --> 1:01:26.520 not ever like. So they came to you and when 1:01:26.560 --> 1:01:30.320 it to date you and but she ten years ago, 1:01:30.520 --> 1:01:39.800 your brother Dan, what would you would you? Yes, it's 1:01:39.840 --> 1:01:42.440 all about being truthful. I mean, you know, you know 1:01:43.280 --> 1:01:47.720 sometimes so you'll understand. Men, we don't we know what 1:01:47.840 --> 1:01:49.520 we want and we know if we want to stick 1:01:49.560 --> 1:01:51.680 around or not. But we might just do it for 1:01:51.800 --> 1:01:54.280 the sport. We call it for the sport of it 1:01:54.400 --> 1:01:57.600 was for the sport. It wasn't for the that that's different. 1:01:58.160 --> 1:02:00.360 That's why I just said, it's for the sport. Could 1:02:00.400 --> 1:02:03.920 that be whatever? Could that be my girl? And she 1:02:04.040 --> 1:02:05.920 blew my brother? What if you fall in love with 1:02:06.000 --> 1:02:07.560 a girl that who fused with your brother and then 1:02:07.640 --> 1:02:09.520 she could be a good one, and I just be like, 1:02:09.800 --> 1:02:12.000 I wouldn't give us what if your brother but like 1:02:12.160 --> 1:02:15.000 she's really nice, it just didn't work out. It was 1:02:15.400 --> 1:02:17.920 ten years ago. I think it just matters if you're 1:02:18.000 --> 1:02:20.640 honest no matter who, Like if you if you meet 1:02:20.720 --> 1:02:22.840 somebody and you've been with their friends, you have to 1:02:22.920 --> 1:02:25.720 be honest about it. Don't let them find out through 1:02:25.840 --> 1:02:28.200 somebody else's What if you literally sleve with them, like 1:02:28.400 --> 1:02:33.600 fifteen years ago, and it doesn't even drunk, and it's 1:02:33.600 --> 1:02:36.240 like you don't even barely remember a different person. I 1:02:36.360 --> 1:02:41.120 still would years ago. It's a whole different person. Yes, 1:02:41.160 --> 1:02:42.800 I don't even need so you don't even have to 1:02:42.920 --> 1:02:45.920 So you don't have to say anything, right, I think, yeah, 1:02:45.960 --> 1:02:51.440 what happened? Tell us? What have nothing? You both you're 1:02:51.480 --> 1:02:54.120 both like be like you should put it out in 1:02:54.160 --> 1:02:57.480 the air, like listen, years ago, I was like a 1:02:57.640 --> 1:03:03.640 drunk horror I to your brother, But I dropped a 1:03:03.760 --> 1:03:06.880 strunk hoor anymore. I don't drink. That's why you started 1:03:06.920 --> 1:03:11.320 drinking because you fex somebody's brother. No, did you get that? 1:03:11.680 --> 1:03:13.919 I don't know what happened. I've never slept a brother 1:03:14.200 --> 1:03:18.320 looking for No, I don't think it's cool though. You know, 1:03:18.440 --> 1:03:20.680 either way you slice, it's either it's fixed Sat twenty. 1:03:21.080 --> 1:03:22.600 If you blew my brother, I don't know if I 1:03:22.680 --> 1:03:25.360 can make you myma lady. You know, I might make 1:03:25.400 --> 1:03:28.240 you my homie, like like y'all got a lot of 1:03:28.320 --> 1:03:30.720 love for you, but to be my queen. And I 1:03:30.840 --> 1:03:33.240 know that you blew my brother, I'm gonna be having 1:03:33.320 --> 1:03:36.240 night mines. I'm gonna be thinking it's in your mouth. 1:03:37.000 --> 1:03:42.880 I'm like, Yo, it's dick, It's good like that. Yeah, 1:03:42.960 --> 1:03:47.400 that's awkward. Hold you guys really think about stuff like that? 1:03:47.640 --> 1:03:49.600 Was his dick bigger than mine? I mean, if you're 1:03:49.640 --> 1:03:52.400 fucking with a chicken bus, you gotta think like that. 1:03:53.680 --> 1:03:55.520 How do you know? I don't know, but I think 1:03:56.320 --> 1:03:58.040 they know. How do you make that up? How do 1:03:58.120 --> 1:03:59.720 you know if you have a big pussy or not? 1:04:01.320 --> 1:04:03.440 Because it's like you don't need a lot to get 1:04:03.520 --> 1:04:07.520 wet or anything different. I don't like. I don't like. 1:04:07.960 --> 1:04:12.200 I don't like. I don't like like like it's like 1:04:13.200 --> 1:04:17.560 hit the back like like like like I have a 1:04:17.600 --> 1:04:19.680 fat pussy, Like there's a lot of meat on that, 1:04:20.000 --> 1:04:22.760 like like there's fat. It's I have a fat pussy. 1:04:22.840 --> 1:04:26.920 But the showed me a small you've seen it, like 1:04:27.040 --> 1:04:30.080 the inside of my pussy. It's signing. It's a little baby. 1:04:31.440 --> 1:04:34.640 She showed me the other because when I'm talking about 1:04:34.680 --> 1:04:37.640 bleaching and my pussy is like really pink. I showed 1:04:37.680 --> 1:04:39.640 it to you. Guys. You don't remember. I didn't see. 1:04:39.920 --> 1:04:42.720 I showed you and it wasn't me. I definitely didn't 1:04:42.720 --> 1:04:45.040 se it. Did he remember? I don't. I don't remember, 1:04:45.040 --> 1:04:47.160 but I saw it, and you know, it's like, really, 1:04:47.520 --> 1:04:51.760 I bleach, Why don't you wax? So because it's pain. 1:04:51.960 --> 1:04:54.600 She's when you bleach, the hairy bleach the skin. I 1:04:54.720 --> 1:04:57.160 just bleached my skin. I bleach to enter and the 1:04:57.240 --> 1:05:00.560 outer my god, to make it really really, I'm bright, 1:05:00.960 --> 1:05:05.480 you like, not your ass? You like? And what do 1:05:05.520 --> 1:05:09.400 you mean you like that beautiful? I think that's really 1:05:09.920 --> 1:05:13.600 like getting waxed. I can't get wax because, like I said, 1:05:13.640 --> 1:05:15.720 I have a fat pussy. So when the bitch pulls 1:05:15.800 --> 1:05:18.560 the strip, I feel like she's taking my soul out 1:05:18.600 --> 1:05:22.800 of the You should really start getting laser hair removed. Like, yeah, 1:05:23.160 --> 1:05:27.200 it's the best thing you ever Yes, it's gonna best 1:05:27.240 --> 1:05:29.320 thing I've ever done. The best beauty thing I've ever done. 1:05:30.480 --> 1:05:33.400 What it does hurt um their hair remove shaving is 1:05:33.480 --> 1:05:36.920 such a chore. She's so annoying. And the waxing, it's 1:05:36.920 --> 1:05:38.520 like a hundred dollars every time I go to Bliss 1:05:38.600 --> 1:05:40.880 and you can spend four and get the show forever. 1:05:41.160 --> 1:05:43.200 You don't think it's okay? What is it important to 1:05:43.240 --> 1:05:46.440 you if he is clean, like waxed off? As far 1:05:46.480 --> 1:05:48.200 as you know what, you know what I'm not in. 1:05:48.520 --> 1:05:51.760 I'm not I like, I like, I like a little Hey, 1:05:51.800 --> 1:05:54.040 I ain't on front. I like the seventies like because 1:05:54.040 --> 1:06:00.040 you to's not like not like a super jungle. I 1:06:00.040 --> 1:06:02.360 don't know, y'all don't know, y'all. Ain't let me finish speaking. 1:06:02.600 --> 1:06:04.760 You know what I'm saying. Like as a kid coming up, 1:06:05.120 --> 1:06:07.480 we would look at Playboy books when we was a kid, 1:06:07.840 --> 1:06:09.760 and you would see the bitch and she have like 1:06:09.920 --> 1:06:12.080 hand or pussy. Now, I'm not saying like her ship 1:06:12.160 --> 1:06:15.880 got to be out of control, but you know, sometimes 1:06:15.960 --> 1:06:19.640 you'll removed, sometimes you'll removed ahead because it can get 1:06:19.800 --> 1:06:23.040 part of the smell or whatever. But then that's what 1:06:23.120 --> 1:06:27.160 I think I thought, because like you know what, I 1:06:27.200 --> 1:06:29.520 don't need to be smelling or whatever. Let me keep 1:06:29.560 --> 1:06:32.080 the ship clean. Like actually having the hair probably makes 1:06:32.120 --> 1:06:34.120 you sweat less in a way. No, I don't know 1:06:34.120 --> 1:06:38.800 about that. I don't like a woman have just a 1:06:38.920 --> 1:06:41.880 landing ship or all over. They just gotta be pretty hair. 1:06:41.920 --> 1:06:43.840 You gotta be like baby hair like you know, it 1:06:43.920 --> 1:06:47.280 can't be like that. You gotta be like pretty. You 1:06:47.320 --> 1:06:49.440 gotta look pretty. No, I like my pussy to be 1:06:49.560 --> 1:06:54.120 completely bald. Like. Some guys have a problem with that 1:06:54.120 --> 1:07:00.920 because it feels like they're sucking infant. No, you so, guys, 1:07:01.040 --> 1:07:02.480 Let me tell you. I was eating a guy, not 1:07:02.600 --> 1:07:04.479 my current boyfriend. I was dating a guy a couple 1:07:04.480 --> 1:07:06.720 of like, right after I broke up with my sons, 1:07:08.360 --> 1:07:12.400 did you search his name? You know I did any 1:07:12.560 --> 1:07:16.200 time I was shave, like cheating on me? Who are 1:07:16.240 --> 1:07:18.200 you fucking? Oh my god? I had a guy that 1:07:18.360 --> 1:07:20.560 used to do that to like, oh you got you 1:07:20.640 --> 1:07:24.360 just got wax? Where'd you go? Like? Now, I'm just no, 1:07:24.560 --> 1:07:26.800 I just want my pussy to look beautiful. What do 1:07:26.880 --> 1:07:30.120 you want me to do? Like, I take pictures of it? 1:07:30.280 --> 1:07:32.760 What do you want me you take pictures of it? Yeah? 1:07:32.760 --> 1:07:38.040 I take pussy picks, like almost every day. Three single 1:07:38.840 --> 1:07:41.120 day because I think my pussy is beautiful. I like 1:07:41.240 --> 1:07:44.240 to look at it. Stephanie is very sexual and comfortable 1:07:44.280 --> 1:07:47.200 with sexuality. I am. I'm very comfortable with my pussy. 1:07:48.880 --> 1:07:51.200 There's other parts of my body I'm not very comfortable with, 1:07:51.400 --> 1:07:56.760 like my feed, my forehead, but I think is gorgeous. 1:07:59.320 --> 1:08:05.120 I put it on a question your question at your question, Yeah, um, 1:08:06.880 --> 1:08:10.720 do you think do you think that being with a 1:08:10.800 --> 1:08:12.840 man and just sucking him all the time is enough 1:08:12.920 --> 1:08:16.320 to keep him man? Absolutely not. There's so much to 1:08:16.479 --> 1:08:18.640 keeping a man. Like, like I said, a way to 1:08:18.720 --> 1:08:21.280 a man's heart is, you have to have good pussy. 1:08:21.320 --> 1:08:23.040 A man will never fall in love with you if 1:08:23.080 --> 1:08:27.360 he doesn't. But you have to take care of a man. 1:08:27.400 --> 1:08:29.680 You gotta make him feel like you're there for him, 1:08:30.320 --> 1:08:33.000 like you can do things for him that no one 1:08:33.120 --> 1:08:38.880 can do. You understand your pussy. No, no, forget your pussy, 1:08:38.920 --> 1:08:41.200 because if a man is if you can keep a man, 1:08:41.280 --> 1:08:44.479 if he's already kept, the pussy's already good. It's already 1:08:44.640 --> 1:08:46.960 he's already enjoying the sex. He he likes the way 1:08:47.000 --> 1:08:49.400 you suck his dick, he likes the way you you're 1:08:49.760 --> 1:08:52.160 letting him fuck you, or the way you're getting on 1:08:52.280 --> 1:08:55.439 top of him and fucking him. But there's other things. 1:08:55.520 --> 1:08:58.000 When you're moving forward in a relationship. You have to 1:08:58.040 --> 1:08:59.760 be able to take care of and man, be there 1:08:59.800 --> 1:09:02.639 for him, you know what I mean. Cook him a meal. 1:09:03.479 --> 1:09:05.519 You need to cook him a meal. You give him 1:09:05.560 --> 1:09:08.240 and rub his bag, touch him the right way. You know, 1:09:08.560 --> 1:09:10.920 to be able to kiss him and and let him 1:09:10.960 --> 1:09:14.040 smell you. You smell him, and you know you can't 1:09:14.479 --> 1:09:18.880 fake chemistry. What about conversation. Conversation is so important. You 1:09:18.920 --> 1:09:21.200 need to be able to laugh where your man, be 1:09:21.280 --> 1:09:24.240 able to crack a joke, be able to be really serious, 1:09:25.040 --> 1:09:27.760 you know what I mean. Like, there's so much to 1:09:27.960 --> 1:09:31.360 keep in a man, and it's not easy. It's hard work. 1:09:31.600 --> 1:09:33.280 And I think the same for a woman is just 1:09:33.400 --> 1:09:37.240 a little bit easier for men because women will will 1:09:37.320 --> 1:09:40.360 accept anything. Is that? Who you think? Women will accept anything? 1:09:40.680 --> 1:09:47.040 Almost you think? So you show them like, like I 1:09:47.080 --> 1:09:48.800 could do this for you. I could. I could do 1:09:49.040 --> 1:09:52.120 your laundry, I could clean the house, cook a meal, 1:09:52.640 --> 1:09:56.439 go outside, work, make my money, come home, suck your dick, 1:09:57.320 --> 1:10:00.160 let you fuck me and still not be sweating. I'm 1:10:00.200 --> 1:10:01.720 still good to go. I could do something. You know 1:10:01.800 --> 1:10:03.760 what I think I was like, and I was saying 1:10:03.800 --> 1:10:07.240 this earlier. My my problem is that I don't accept 1:10:07.280 --> 1:10:09.559 a lot of ship. True, you don't accept a lot 1:10:09.600 --> 1:10:13.680 of Yeah, like if you if you funk up, I 1:10:13.760 --> 1:10:15.560 don't know if I'm going to really stick around for 1:10:15.640 --> 1:10:19.240 that up, like in what way? Like in you know, 1:10:19.479 --> 1:10:22.120 in many ways, like if you cheat on me, I 1:10:22.160 --> 1:10:25.680 don't know if I'm gonna stick around after that. I 1:10:25.720 --> 1:10:27.160 don't know if women, but a lot of women do 1:10:27.800 --> 1:10:29.679 a lot of women will stay with you if you cheat, 1:10:29.960 --> 1:10:32.320 And nothing against them because everybody has their own thing 1:10:32.400 --> 1:10:34.360 and maybe some guys learned. So what if you was 1:10:34.400 --> 1:10:36.559 a man? Would you cheat? If I was a man? 1:10:36.880 --> 1:10:40.519 I don't. I think that men stopped cheating when they've 1:10:40.560 --> 1:10:42.360 experienced a lot of things in their life and they 1:10:42.560 --> 1:10:46.360 get older and they don't feel like I listen, But 1:10:46.520 --> 1:10:49.439 this is an honest question, ladies, though, for real, if 1:10:49.479 --> 1:10:52.519 you was a man, would you cheat? Be honest? Now? 1:10:52.800 --> 1:10:55.559 If I was, how I am? No, I'm just gonna 1:10:55.560 --> 1:10:56.920 say I have no idea what it's like to be 1:10:56.960 --> 1:11:00.240 a man. I can't. Okay, so you know you are 1:11:00.280 --> 1:11:03.160 wired differently than us. But see that's the whole thing though. 1:11:03.240 --> 1:11:07.080 It's like, you know, see one thing you gotta remember, right, 1:11:07.600 --> 1:11:11.200 y'all can go get fucked in ten minutes, five minutes. 1:11:11.560 --> 1:11:14.360 You can go down to blocks boom. You know what 1:11:14.400 --> 1:11:16.840 I'm saying that, Man, I don't give a fun. You 1:11:16.920 --> 1:11:20.120 got money, you come to Bentley, whatever you're doing or whatever, 1:11:20.200 --> 1:11:23.080 you still gotta work. You know what I'm saying. But 1:11:23.600 --> 1:11:27.120 my thing is, like I said, if we're different. You know, 1:11:27.360 --> 1:11:29.479 so even if you say that you're not, I ain't 1:11:29.479 --> 1:11:32.680 been in that situation. I mean as a man, if 1:11:32.720 --> 1:11:34.360 you hit that, you're gonna be looking at the next 1:11:34.439 --> 1:11:37.280 It's like I want that too, but not you might 1:11:37.360 --> 1:11:39.000 not look at it. Cheat. You might just look at 1:11:39.040 --> 1:11:41.719 it like yo, if I could get that now. Cheating 1:11:41.800 --> 1:11:46.240 to me is when you really over there like that, 1:11:46.439 --> 1:11:50.439 like if you over there and you just keep Basically, 1:11:59.680 --> 1:12:03.280 I don't think that, you know, people want to put 1:12:04.479 --> 1:12:06.680 this is how men think. I mean, but people want 1:12:06.720 --> 1:12:09.240 to put all the blame on men. Man, cheat every man. 1:12:09.400 --> 1:12:15.400 Cheat wouldn't just as much, a little bit more, a 1:12:15.479 --> 1:12:19.680 little bit more preserved with you're sneaky exactly, were much 1:12:19.720 --> 1:12:25.040 better like they get caught sniffing everybody's ass. We just 1:12:25.120 --> 1:12:29.200 get caught. That's how we get caught. They don't get 1:12:29.240 --> 1:12:33.000 caught exactly. But I also think that this is what 1:12:33.160 --> 1:12:36.000 my experience from like knowing men and knowing different women 1:12:36.040 --> 1:12:39.120 that I'm friends with. I also believe that sometimes for women, 1:12:39.240 --> 1:12:41.400 like a lot of my friends that have been wild 1:12:41.439 --> 1:12:43.640 when we were younger, when once they had kids that 1:12:43.760 --> 1:12:46.519 kind of stopped all that. Because it's harder for women 1:12:46.520 --> 1:12:48.680 because they tend to be more of the caregivers and 1:12:48.760 --> 1:12:50.519 spend more time with their kids, and they just don't 1:12:50.520 --> 1:12:53.680 have the time to cheat, you know what I'm saying. Like, 1:12:54.040 --> 1:12:56.000 I know a lot of guys have more time on 1:12:56.080 --> 1:12:58.080 their hands, they don't have to be homeless. Often they're traveling. 1:12:58.080 --> 1:12:59.960 They gotta do this, they gotta do that for women, 1:13:00.000 --> 1:13:03.280 and sometimes I feel like it's just harder just physically 1:13:04.120 --> 1:13:08.800 to be yeah, unless they're like working at something. But 1:13:08.880 --> 1:13:11.240 I respect to chick who who's like gil before she 1:13:11.360 --> 1:13:14.080 do what she tell you, Like, you know, I'm ready 1:13:14.120 --> 1:13:17.320 to back out. You know, that's one thing. I cheated 1:13:17.400 --> 1:13:19.640 all my son's father and the and the guilt killed me. 1:13:19.680 --> 1:13:21.880 And I told them. You know, they always say you 1:13:21.960 --> 1:13:25.799 cheat on somebody you shouldn't tell them if this mistake 1:13:25.840 --> 1:13:30.400 you could ever make. They always said that because they say, 1:13:30.439 --> 1:13:33.000 if you tell somebody that you cheated, that's to relieve 1:13:33.040 --> 1:13:35.360 your own guilt. And it's really selfish. No it is, 1:13:35.840 --> 1:13:38.680 but it is they're going to help them. It's not. 1:13:38.800 --> 1:13:41.639 I told him. I'm like, listen, you do it anymore. 1:13:42.040 --> 1:13:44.840 See that's your own guilt. That didn't do nothing for him, 1:13:44.840 --> 1:13:47.920 and it did nothing for me either, Like kind of 1:13:48.080 --> 1:13:52.240 in your relationship, what about open relationships? What about those? 1:13:52.760 --> 1:13:55.760 What do you think about? That's disgusting. I can't do it. 1:13:56.560 --> 1:13:58.479 But because you don't want to know your just sucking 1:13:58.560 --> 1:14:01.120 somebody else, you know. I the chicks on me that before, 1:14:01.200 --> 1:14:02.920 like y'all what you wanted to you want to just 1:14:03.080 --> 1:14:11.640 do you? And you know, like, I'm like, so me 1:14:11.720 --> 1:14:13.559 and you're supposed to just come in the door together. 1:14:13.640 --> 1:14:16.439 You're bringing it in in, I'll bring it chicken in 1:14:16.720 --> 1:14:18.320 whatever not, you know what I mean. I'm just like 1:14:18.920 --> 1:14:24.360 that's disgusting, you know I again, man a man with 1:14:24.880 --> 1:14:27.360 a man, y'all could just stick it, you know what 1:14:27.439 --> 1:14:30.000 I mean? Like, we gotta take care of ourselves. Women, 1:14:30.080 --> 1:14:36.320 we are like it doesn't lessanging it could spread out 1:14:36.640 --> 1:14:42.240 gaping like nobody wants a big wide pussy. You're spreading 1:14:42.320 --> 1:14:45.040 it all a lot. As a woman, it's gonna turn 1:14:45.160 --> 1:14:48.240 into that. You have to take care of two kegles, 1:14:48.800 --> 1:14:52.800 take care of yourself. Don't don't funk everybody. A man 1:14:53.400 --> 1:14:58.320 on the really work kegles work for sure, I do. 1:14:58.400 --> 1:15:01.200 I'm doing kegles right now. Me I am two seven. 1:15:04.880 --> 1:15:07.360 You can't do it. You can't do your penis? Can 1:15:07.479 --> 1:15:12.640 you know? What are you telling your vagina muscle on 1:15:12.680 --> 1:15:18.800 you like? It's like a work exactly to do it 1:15:18.880 --> 1:15:23.360 on a dick. It's amazing. It's like a lot of 1:15:25.320 --> 1:15:30.960 you know, for the man tonight, for the men listening 1:15:31.040 --> 1:15:37.040 to our podcast. A lot of women can't make a 1:15:37.120 --> 1:15:39.320 lot of women. I never knew that was the name 1:15:39.439 --> 1:15:41.320 before practice it. You got to do it and do 1:15:41.439 --> 1:15:43.439 it and do it and do it to get better, 1:15:44.880 --> 1:15:49.639 feeling good about He goes tomato, tomato, we all get. 1:15:50.560 --> 1:15:53.000 We live in the building. I don't want me to. 1:15:53.840 --> 1:15:56.920 And that's a big a sex tip for a sex tip, 1:15:57.200 --> 1:16:00.080 like guys like when they like when they're stroke and 1:16:00.160 --> 1:16:03.040 you and they pull out and you squeeze it back in. 1:16:03.680 --> 1:16:10.800 You really like that a lot rabbit like, you know, 1:16:10.960 --> 1:16:12.800 you know, the stroke up and down, in and out, 1:16:12.880 --> 1:16:16.080 in and out when when he goes out, you pull 1:16:16.200 --> 1:16:19.000 back and guys love that. And then he comes out 1:16:19.040 --> 1:16:20.240 of you and you have a bag and then you 1:16:20.320 --> 1:16:25.759 come down. All right. Well look, we gotta say the fans, 1:16:25.880 --> 1:16:30.920 but Wine, thank you so much for coming. Is going 1:16:30.960 --> 1:16:33.400 to do the services. And you know, you know me, 1:16:33.479 --> 1:16:36.000 I'm a I'm a respectable guy. You know what I like? 1:16:38.479 --> 1:16:42.559 I like, yeah, all of that, but for the most part, 1:16:42.600 --> 1:16:44.600 I respected because you know, you got to have a 1:16:44.680 --> 1:16:49.400 little you know, a little life. It's real. All right, Well, 1:16:49.439 --> 1:16:51.840 thank you so much, Reine. I appreciate you. It's weird 1:16:51.880 --> 1:16:54.160 because I like, this is like my brother right here, 1:16:54.200 --> 1:17:01.000 but I learned that. Sorry, and you love too much? Okay, well, okay, 1:17:01.080 --> 1:17:13.320 we all can be Cambodian refugees there. You go. Much 1:17:13.400 --> 1:17:16.519 love to y'all. Man and your relationships, and you know, 1:17:16.880 --> 1:17:19.920 like I said, it's it's so important to look at 1:17:20.000 --> 1:17:22.559 that person and you know, have fun with them too, 1:17:22.640 --> 1:17:24.600 because all of this is a part of fun and 1:17:24.680 --> 1:17:27.400 you get to know that person, you know, and that's 1:17:27.439 --> 1:17:30.960 what keeps a relationship. When you're able to open up 1:17:31.000 --> 1:17:34.360 on both sides. And friends you know, yeah, friends is 1:17:34.439 --> 1:17:37.320 your friends is number one. I have the line if 1:17:37.320 --> 1:17:40.200 you ain't my soldier, if you ain't my soldier, and 1:17:40.320 --> 1:17:43.240 then we're not. Really it is beyond the pussy now 1:17:44.000 --> 1:17:53.760 that's my relationship. I appreciate that friend. Alright, thank you, right,