Speaker 1: What's up is Angela? Ye, it's lip service. It's me
Speaker 1: Stephanie Santiago and Leah McSweeney. And on this episode we
Speaker 1: had my guy Ray Kwan. Now, you know, my first
Speaker 1: job working in the music industry was with Woo Sang,
Speaker 1: So Ray Kwan and I go way back, and you're
Speaker 1: about to learn a lot of things about him today
Speaker 1: that I had no idea. Maybe I didn't even want
Speaker 1: to know. Okay, all I have to say is Cambodian refugee.
Speaker 1: Check it out. What's up is Angela? Ye? I'm Stephanie Santiago. Yeah,
Speaker 1: put your phone. Yes, the chef is here. You know
Speaker 1: what's funny. So we were just talking about this before
Speaker 1: you walked in, and since you are the chef, this
Speaker 1: is a great question for you to get started with
Speaker 1: Ray Kwan. How I'm praying it? Is it to you
Speaker 1: that a woman can cook ninety nine point nine sing good? Sorry? Leah? Oh,
Speaker 1: I guess yeah, you know, na, but it's it's real
Speaker 1: because it's like, you gotta know how to cook. You
Speaker 1: can't you know, when you're older, can't play those games.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You know, the key to
Speaker 1: a man's heart is is you know it's stommaking. You
Speaker 1: know you gotta feed it. Nick, You know you want
Speaker 1: good dick, you want all of that. It's all about
Speaker 1: the food. If you take something, if you want to
Speaker 1: feed you with his dick, you gotta feed him food. Okay.
Speaker 1: I think that I didn't learn how to how to
Speaker 1: cook until I was older, so I was like twenty one,
Speaker 1: twenty two. I don't agree with the way to a
Speaker 1: man's heart is through eating. Told you he's a man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that's wrong, he said. He said nine point nine percent,
Speaker 1: which means there's that one person one Yeah, that point
Speaker 1: one percent. I think that a way to a man's
Speaker 1: heart is through good pussy. Okay, okay, that's I think
Speaker 1: if you meet a good pussy, you could teach you
Speaker 1: how to cook. That makes sense. You were saying you
Speaker 1: burn grilled cheese sandwiches. I know it's bad, but I
Speaker 1: have other great qualities. There's not It's it's not the
Speaker 1: cooking part. My sister got the good cooking skills and
Speaker 1: I just I don't have them. It's like it's very
Speaker 1: hard for me to like go to the grocery store
Speaker 1: and pick a bunch of stuff out to make a meal.
Speaker 1: And like it doesn't make me feel good. I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm lacking. Like I'm a mother, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: a woman. I should know how to cook a meal
Speaker 1: and like, you know, nurture someone and do it. But
Speaker 1: it's just like I'm at work all day, you know,
Speaker 1: and I come home. It's like I don't have the
Speaker 1: time to go to the grocery store and shop and
Speaker 1: then cook and everything. So it's a little different. Great corn,
Speaker 1: If that woman has good pussy, is it okay that
Speaker 1: she doesn't know how to cook? I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta be good at something though, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And like I said, after Wow,
Speaker 1: you know, you could give a nake a good pussy,
Speaker 1: but sometimes you know, Nigga might not want no pussy
Speaker 1: and Nigga might just want to can I get a
Speaker 1: steak with onions? And you know what I mean. It's like, damn,
Speaker 1: but you can't make something simple, you know, not like
Speaker 1: you can't. You just gotta be willing to want to
Speaker 1: learn it, you know. You know, um, I think at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's not wrong if you don't,
Speaker 1: but you still got to just be willing to try.
Speaker 1: But that is something. That's your point. That's the cated
Speaker 1: relationships period, is to be willing to try something that
Speaker 1: maybe you don't normally. I was dating a guy from
Speaker 1: Atlanta and I did start making grits and brought for
Speaker 1: real and they were good. So maybe if I just
Speaker 1: really like like the guy and I'm you know, cook, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can how to cook whatever. That's too because if
Speaker 1: you really like somebody, you will put some effort into things.
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's things that you thought you would never
Speaker 1: do that you did because you really like somebody who's like,
Speaker 1: what the funk am I doing? I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I get out, I'm not thinking out of freaking and
Speaker 1: serve you. You know, it might just be that moment
Speaker 1: that it might just chef doesn't cook for me, Okay,
Speaker 1: there's something wrong. What's your specialty? What do you like?
Speaker 1: You know? I like fish, you know, which is my
Speaker 1: favorite dish? But you know, bacon and all that, that's simple. Man.
Speaker 1: You may bake baking crazy. So when you cook, like
Speaker 1: breakfast in the morning after like that kind of like
Speaker 1: do it all? I do it all? Baby. You got
Speaker 1: you know, when you're working with a man, that's what
Speaker 1: you get. Whack are you still going to make breakfast?
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I mean, I'm gonna just
Speaker 1: be disappointed, but you know you might, you know, is
Speaker 1: she gonna be hungry? Could you date a woman that
Speaker 1: eas making It's bacon? Yeah, like pork and all of that.
Speaker 1: Does that matter to you? I can't tell a person
Speaker 1: what to eat, you know what I mean, don't just
Speaker 1: you know, be eating in my face and then you know,
Speaker 1: trying to kiss on and they go away respectful, you know.
Speaker 1: But I can't tell a person what they eat, though,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, I can just tell you what? You know,
Speaker 1: what what? What? What did it do to you? Because
Speaker 1: it's hard for me too. Like there's people that I've dated,
Speaker 1: you know who I can't date, no disrespectively, because I
Speaker 1: know you don't drink. I can't date a guy who
Speaker 1: doesn't drink. It's hard for me alcoholics, And it's hard
Speaker 1: for me the date a guy that doesn't smoke weed.
Speaker 1: I can't. I I need like I like to smoke.
Speaker 1: And then when I'm dating a guy who doesn't smoke,
Speaker 1: it's like I would die And you're getting on my nerves.
Speaker 1: Maybe if you got high, and you know what, I
Speaker 1: don't I don't believe. I don't think that's true. I
Speaker 1: think you could date a guy that doesn't drink good
Speaker 1: but a super dope. Yeah know where it's hard because
Speaker 1: like sometimes you'd be like, let's go have a drink
Speaker 1: and sometimes it's fun, like to be tipsy with your man,
Speaker 1: and maybe he's what if you're not chemistry you don't
Speaker 1: need like you don't need it. I don't know he's
Speaker 1: gonna do something no, but I'm already submissive. I'll do it,
Speaker 1: Like if my boyfriend doesn't drink or smoke, I'll stop too,
Speaker 1: Like I will. I'll be like, Okay, I don't drink
Speaker 1: and smoke anymore either. I did this guy one time
Speaker 1: and he didn't drink, but then he had the nerve
Speaker 1: one time he went out and mind you, he was
Speaker 1: having like a double burger with bacon and telling me
Speaker 1: how bad drinking was. I was like, do you know what,
Speaker 1: just let me do me you do you. I'm letting
Speaker 1: you eat it what you want to eat. I think.
Speaker 1: I think when you get somebody that's compatible to you
Speaker 1: on that level, like if you smoke and they smoke,
Speaker 1: you know, it just makes the relationship more fun. When
Speaker 1: you're dealing with somebody that don't have You know, they
Speaker 1: say opposites attract sometimes too, you know, but you know
Speaker 1: how somebody to do what you do and you know
Speaker 1: it's just it just spices it up. Sometimes I might
Speaker 1: be I might be in the move having fun like yo,
Speaker 1: boost thick like yo. I want you to not take
Speaker 1: it like you know, like person who take it like
Speaker 1: to be like you. Every dated a girl who doesn't
Speaker 1: suck dick? Yeah, I mean what does that bother you?
Speaker 1: Who who doesn't? How old was she was she? I
Speaker 1: mean this is back, this was back in the day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I had to be Could that last? Could you? Could
Speaker 1: you go your life without never having no low job? Ever? Again?
Speaker 1: In the year and the year two thousand fifty, every
Speaker 1: hytero sexual woman should put dick in her mouth, every
Speaker 1: single one. It's amazing. And every guy should. I heard
Speaker 1: that Nigga's or something facts only because if I always
Speaker 1: feel like a guy should do it first too, like
Speaker 1: I on you and then you were down on him,
Speaker 1: I feel like he should do it for a sec
Speaker 1: And in the year, you mean, in the relationships were
Speaker 1: like on at night like or whenever, the first time ever,
Speaker 1: the first time ever, the first time ever first Okay, No,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't do it the first time, not the first time,
Speaker 1: but like he should go before me, like before we
Speaker 1: ever do we should throw yes and the top it bowl,
Speaker 1: your bowl, your pussy, you know, you know, because somebody
Speaker 1: just don't know how to wash up, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like I don't know how to get on
Speaker 1: and really get in there and wash that out like
Speaker 1: you want me to eat that. That box gotta be well,
Speaker 1: you gotta get rid of like es magma, and you
Speaker 1: know you supposed to the guys that aren't circumcised, like
Speaker 1: if they're to be young like to, like they don't
Speaker 1: know how don't clean themselves like you hook up. It's
Speaker 1: like yo, get in right please and scrub. Okay now
Speaker 1: I want you guys to finish this sentence. Okay, because
Speaker 1: this is something I was thinking about over the weekend. Okay,
Speaker 1: I know I'm in love when because it's something that
Speaker 1: we do women like. Okay, I must love him or
Speaker 1: I must love her because I did this. So Stephanie,
Speaker 1: what's that with you? I know I know I'm in
Speaker 1: love when I don't want to be with anybody else,
Speaker 1: when I don't want to funk with anybody else because
Speaker 1: I I if I can be working with somebody and
Speaker 1: look at him like I'm sick of you, I need
Speaker 1: to go with my other boyfriend. Yeah, my dather other
Speaker 1: boyfriend exactly, my other other boyfriends exactly. That's how I
Speaker 1: know I'm in love when I don't want to cheat.
Speaker 1: I'm no desire for another man, Okay, right, I know
Speaker 1: I'm in love win win. I know I'll give a bit,
Speaker 1: not a bit, but you know I know him in
Speaker 1: love when I give a bit a lot of time,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like just really focusing on her.
Speaker 1: You know. Um, really it's all about if you get
Speaker 1: time out of a nig I mean, and I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about no month for something. I'm talking about like, damn,
Speaker 1: I know you for like three years. I really, I
Speaker 1: really love you like that. You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Because it's different. It's different levels of love. You see
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Nigga gonna love you because he loved
Speaker 1: the person you are and what you about. Could be
Speaker 1: in love with you because you are soldier for real,
Speaker 1: for real, So it's different along that when I know
Speaker 1: we put that time. But I'm talking about specific things,
Speaker 1: like I know him in love. If I take a
Speaker 1: book about your note, I feel like, like, whoa can
Speaker 1: you even still be in love after three years? You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like that's what I love. So
Speaker 1: just I mean in my experience, you know, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm in love when I want to start popping your
Speaker 1: pimples because you don't do that with somebody you just
Speaker 1: like yeah, you know, like, oh baby, that pemple on
Speaker 1: the back. Let me get that right. You know, I
Speaker 1: know I'm in love if I tell you I have
Speaker 1: to take a ship and I go do it crazy.
Speaker 1: I've never shipped in front of it then in front
Speaker 1: of anyone, but I'll tell you I have to, and
Speaker 1: I'll go lock the door and I might yell through
Speaker 1: the door, but I would never leave the door open.
Speaker 1: And I'm with you. You're never do you know, I'll
Speaker 1: be a fucking ninja, like yeah, no, no, no, like
Speaker 1: if I really like the guy, hell no, like he's
Speaker 1: never gonna You know, I went when I went to
Speaker 1: Miami that one time, I got a Calonic so I
Speaker 1: wouldn't ship the whole time. Are you got a Calonic
Speaker 1: just so you would ship? Yes? You're crazy? That's crazy,
Speaker 1: I know, but it's like disgusting. I don't want the
Speaker 1: guy knowing. But that's a sign of love. If you
Speaker 1: can tell somebody like, right, wouldn't you agree someone's a
Speaker 1: big deal. That's the sign that your relationship is old
Speaker 1: and stale. If you're that, you're comfortable enough that you
Speaker 1: could be like, he knows me well enough that it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter that my ship smells, but you have to
Speaker 1: do the courtesy flash like every drop that fars and
Speaker 1: your flashing. Am I right your opinion? I said? I
Speaker 1: mean I felt like a woman if I'm in the
Speaker 1: bathroom taking the ship. Yeah, come in, you know whatever?
Speaker 1: I mean, you know mine in my business, Like you're
Speaker 1: shipping in front of me and I'm smelling it. So
Speaker 1: you've never loved anybody enough. They took up but your teeth.
Speaker 1: But she's taking a shoot. No, no, damn, I'm not
Speaker 1: taking it. You know, he cannot smell your ship, that
Speaker 1: is the end of the relationship. But if she doesn't,
Speaker 1: you took this ship. But I'm not in this. You
Speaker 1: don't want you. I can't even be like I can't
Speaker 1: have anyone in the bathroom, not even my child in
Speaker 1: the bathroom wild, I swear I can't, like you said,
Speaker 1: I locked the door. What are you doing in there? Nothing? Now?
Speaker 1: What are some other things you do when you know
Speaker 1: you're in love? Now? Um, somebody was to tell me,
Speaker 1: I know I'm in love when I buy stuff, when
Speaker 1: I go shopping and I buy stuff. Can I tell
Speaker 1: you something? Today? I googled what happens to your brain
Speaker 1: when you fall in love? And there was this there's
Speaker 1: this whole there's scientific explanations of what happens with the chemicals.
Speaker 1: What's going on, Why you're endorphins, serotonin's dopamine, like, why
Speaker 1: you're super focused, why you get obsessive? Why, I mean,
Speaker 1: all of it and it's all has to do it
Speaker 1: just like procreating, Like it's just chemicals in your brain.
Speaker 1: I mean you know, I mean, I'm sure there's more
Speaker 1: to it and love is Why did you google that?
Speaker 1: I just felt like it? But I was researching this today. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you know how you know you're well? Okay, now,
Speaker 1: let me I don't sleep. If you don't eat, you
Speaker 1: can't stop thinking about that. I think when you're in
Speaker 1: love you eat a lot more because you guys go
Speaker 1: like do things like let's go out and eat, you know,
Speaker 1: let me cook for you, Da Dad. It's hard for
Speaker 1: me to like when I really like someone in the beginning,
Speaker 1: it's hard for me to like eat and do anything
Speaker 1: in front of them because I'm nervous. And then you
Speaker 1: probably have to stab yourself from like calling them and
Speaker 1: texting them all nervous though, what's the pervous of being nervous?
Speaker 1: I don't know, it just happens. It's a good nervous. No,
Speaker 1: it's a good nervous. Yeah, it's like you know, butterflies
Speaker 1: and like the heart racing and all that. But it
Speaker 1: makes me like, not that hungry or that's not being you.
Speaker 1: If you can't sit there and be just the beginning. Listen,
Speaker 1: if that thing is on you and he liked you
Speaker 1: with all that whatever is, it's already in the past
Speaker 1: because he have you in his presence right now. So
Speaker 1: it's all about and injecting with that man and seeing
Speaker 1: what he about. It's not about you being nervous and
Speaker 1: feeling like you're gonna lose him. You give a funk
Speaker 1: about them like that. Yeah, but it's not I'm nervous
Speaker 1: about losing him. I'm just nervous that's it. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like a jittery you know, fun like I don't know
Speaker 1: if maybe nervous isn't the right word. Yeah, maybe not.
Speaker 1: You know what I do when I'm exciting to somebody,
Speaker 1: that's that's something that I don't usually do. I always
Speaker 1: wear like like amazing underwear. I'm like wearing like six
Speaker 1: hundred dollar bron panties. I don't have no s like
Speaker 1: I'm like wearing l Parla every day. Then we got
Speaker 1: into a relationship, maybe we'll have your panties. I don't
Speaker 1: wear panties normally. I don't wear any That's interesting, all right,
Speaker 1: Now here's the next question. Okay, sud you research somebody
Speaker 1: if you meet somebody, right ray, say you meet somebody
Speaker 1: whatever on the road, whatever happens and wherever you meet
Speaker 1: them to a friend, do you google them or do
Speaker 1: you look for the Instagram, Twitter and go through all that. No,
Speaker 1: to me, it's like, you know, it's like a nigger
Speaker 1: sitting here saying like every every chick you meet or
Speaker 1: whatever might not have a past, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: it depends if you meet somebody and you're like, oh yo,
Speaker 1: I know you'ren't familiar with you or she give you
Speaker 1: that incentive to make you be like, let me investigate
Speaker 1: this bitch, you know what I mean. And that's different.
Speaker 1: But I'm not going on Google or Instagram. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do my own little homework on the low. Like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm like, Yo, you know this chick. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like somebody might know it, you know, and
Speaker 1: and really doesn't make a difference if they do, not really,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's all about the personality of that person
Speaker 1: and what you prepared to, you know, to to one.
Speaker 1: What if they was like, yeah, we ran a chain
Speaker 1: on her back in the day, does that matter? Damn ye?
Speaker 1: How do you know it was ten years ago? Nigga
Speaker 1: might just go at it just based on that. Might
Speaker 1: want the experience or whatever. When I meet a guy,
Speaker 1: I searched his name in the sex Offenders List and
Speaker 1: not the only Google. That's the only search I do. God,
Speaker 1: I've never even thought of doing. I mean, it depends
Speaker 1: but you and has anything ever come up? Yeah? Oh
Speaker 1: my god, where do you need these guys? I was
Speaker 1: dating a guy. Well I didn't. I didn't get to datam,
Speaker 1: But I met this guy and let me tell you,
Speaker 1: I met him. He was amazing, good looking, had perfect teeth,
Speaker 1: he had dreadlocks, he was gorgeous, gorgeous guy. And I
Speaker 1: searched him and I was like, wow, I think I
Speaker 1: think this is going to bed. We had so much
Speaker 1: in common. He was amazing. After like two weeks, he
Speaker 1: wasn't like trying to have sex with me at all.
Speaker 1: He never tried to get alone with me, and I
Speaker 1: I think that's nice. I think that's you know, that's nice.
Speaker 1: I mean he has a small penis. You never know
Speaker 1: that's what that means. When they didn't, the girls like
Speaker 1: my friend's like, girl, there's something wrong with him. He
Speaker 1: can't be that this perfect. He had a good job,
Speaker 1: he lived in a nice neighborhood, nice car. She was like,
Speaker 1: you should put him in the sex offender's list, and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I never thought about
Speaker 1: that nice selling record. There. He's a pedophile, so you
Speaker 1: were too old. He went to jail. He went to
Speaker 1: jail for having sex with a third seen year old girl.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, disgusting. I'm like, okay, So now ever
Speaker 1: since every time I started liking somebody, I'm like, let
Speaker 1: me put you in this sex and check him on
Speaker 1: the sex trauma. I always feel like if there's definitely
Speaker 1: something wrong if you're dating a guy and he doesn't
Speaker 1: try to have sex with you, like immediately, not immediately,
Speaker 1: but after a little while, and y'all go out a
Speaker 1: little while and say he's at your hell to say
Speaker 1: you're at his house and he doesn't try to have
Speaker 1: something's wrong with right. No, I invited him over, I
Speaker 1: was ready to go, and he did not try me.
Speaker 1: He didn't even try to exact. Let say something real quick.
Speaker 1: Let me let me give y'all some gems bro quick
Speaker 1: because number one, I respect y'all because y'all women, y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all a different breed from us. But every time a
Speaker 1: man is not always wanting pussy fun the rep because me,
Speaker 1: I'm the type of person with If I feel like
Speaker 1: you're giving me pussy too fast, it's like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be like this bitch fucking mad niggas, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Only it's just gonna it's just gonna come
Speaker 1: to me like that. But every time a nigga might
Speaker 1: just want to chill and fill you out and see
Speaker 1: what kind of beat you is right now? Because you
Speaker 1: know what if I blow you now, I might not
Speaker 1: even want to deal with you the more. But if
Speaker 1: if I'm just because you know, nigga might just be
Speaker 1: marininging like I know, I got this, ain't worried about it.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's it's already in the bag.
Speaker 1: I already know. But you know what, I'm a free car.
Speaker 1: Don't give her no dick tonight. Now you gotta wait
Speaker 1: up for me. He's all about the control. It's like
Speaker 1: it's like being a pimp, but being a real nigga
Speaker 1: pimp and still getting out between to see who you are.
Speaker 1: Like if the nigga just come in and just fucked you,
Speaker 1: like they don't take a second. It's like, Yo, you
Speaker 1: don't even don't expect him crazy, But what have You've
Speaker 1: been out a few times and he's come to your house,
Speaker 1: You've been to his house and he still doesn't try anything.
Speaker 1: And he's a widow, That's what I'm saying. And I
Speaker 1: always feel like something has to be wrong with you
Speaker 1: if that with that guy, it means that I always
Speaker 1: think personally, I always think if that happens, that he
Speaker 1: has a small penis because he wants to make sure
Speaker 1: that y'all are cool enough that it's not like I
Speaker 1: gotta build this trust between us. Honestly, if I was
Speaker 1: a guy with a small dick, I'd kill myself. Don't
Speaker 1: say that because I'm not gonna like guys have by
Speaker 1: my agreed that they want you to see that immediately.
Speaker 1: I agree with that too. I mean, it's like, dude,
Speaker 1: I would like travel to the end of the world
Speaker 1: to get a dick and plan like if I think
Speaker 1: like an electronical one that you would press the button.
Speaker 1: If you're a guy, there's nothing you could do if
Speaker 1: you have penis is a mass small that's just it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I watched the documentary about this guy
Speaker 1: with a small dick, and he went to a documentar
Speaker 1: somewhere so far and the guy came to the hotel
Speaker 1: with a drink like a potion. He was and then
Speaker 1: he had a panic attack and he didn't drink it.
Speaker 1: But he also wants to Korea to get a He
Speaker 1: was gonna get a dick operation because they do them
Speaker 1: like crazy in Korea, because like, because this is what
Speaker 1: I'm not. But yeah, everybody didn't end up doing it.
Speaker 1: But it's cool. It's a good documentary. He did doing
Speaker 1: and he just but he ended up meeting a girl
Speaker 1: who accepted him for a small dick. And women will
Speaker 1: put up with anything. Okay, there's a shortage of good
Speaker 1: men out there, so women will put up with that.
Speaker 1: If you do put up with anything, it's crazy, right,
Speaker 1: If the guy eats you out good and does all
Speaker 1: of that, maybe you could yeah, And I mean like
Speaker 1: you can get toy, you can buy a dick. You
Speaker 1: like a lesbian, you can cup a dick. You know what,
Speaker 1: they should make something that's like some type of you
Speaker 1: know something, penis extension. That for a guy, he could
Speaker 1: let me pet don't even talk. If it's something you
Speaker 1: could add on, go talk to the lawyer, the patent
Speaker 1: lawyer tomorrow. Don't even talk about it. Penis extends. But
Speaker 1: you know what, I think that sometimes also guys who
Speaker 1: have like really big penises think they don't have to
Speaker 1: do a lot of work too. You don't really penis
Speaker 1: just look brag on. But I mean, really giant penis
Speaker 1: is kind of it's a little uncomfortable, you know, a
Speaker 1: really big penis, like you can feel your uterus shifting.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know who it's and you know,
Speaker 1: like I don't know. It's it's uncomfortable. But even though
Speaker 1: I don't know, I wouldn't I would rather a little
Speaker 1: bit bigger than average than how many how many inches
Speaker 1: is what's average? I don't even know what that is, dude.
Speaker 1: Average is small just like average average, just like eight inches. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're insane. It's like like like five and a half
Speaker 1: or six that's average. He's like, how what's the average
Speaker 1: penis size in the United States? Oh my god, eight
Speaker 1: inches and a half. That's seven is like big? You
Speaker 1: think seven is? Like seven is like big, like bigger
Speaker 1: than average. Do you think soever average penis size like six? Right?
Speaker 1: So what is the average penis size? And you know
Speaker 1: the wi medag the girl I don't like six inch
Speaker 1: pis Okay, he's seen. So the average penis flaccid is
Speaker 1: that's sent to me to say, oh my god, while
Speaker 1: it's small, it's two point eight to three point nine,
Speaker 1: but when it's hard it is four point seven to
Speaker 1: six point three inches four point seven four. You know
Speaker 1: what's really exciting When somebody's penis was like, it's going
Speaker 1: to be small, but then it gets herd it's like
Speaker 1: way bigger than you should Google that average. You're like, okay,
Speaker 1: I got your average black man's penis is bigger than that.
Speaker 1: Of course that's the stereotype, this that guys with small penis. Yes,
Speaker 1: there is, but I don't know. I don't know. Would
Speaker 1: you like, if if you were gonna about to as
Speaker 1: sex to the guy and his penis is really small,
Speaker 1: would you not do it? And I don't know, I
Speaker 1: might not, I might not. I'm not even gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I've I've been in situations where I like the guy
Speaker 1: a lot and then we get naked and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: my mother's calling me. I gotta go. That has happened
Speaker 1: ses a real life story. That's a real life story. No,
Speaker 1: Like we got naked and I was like, oh, like
Speaker 1: I didn't say my mother was calling, but like I
Speaker 1: kind of got out of it. How did you get
Speaker 1: out of it? How do you get out of it? Like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'll go to the bathroom. Oh I got my period.
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, that's how if you never
Speaker 1: want to again? Tell me that the East infection? Right?
Speaker 1: What would make a guy not when I have sex
Speaker 1: with a girl, like all of a sudden, out of nowhere,
Speaker 1: If you're to do it, what would make you change
Speaker 1: your mind? Older Mayno said, that's not he said, once
Speaker 1: he's committed, he's committed. Yeah, he said he once he's committed,
Speaker 1: even if it stinks, he's going in. How I mean,
Speaker 1: like when you have BV Like if that's like a
Speaker 1: chronic problem, which I've sucking, like my heart breaks for girls,
Speaker 1: And that's like honestly because like you know, like once
Speaker 1: every two years for a week, it happens, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's like the worst experience, the whever smell. It's
Speaker 1: just like you even up with anyone. It's like when
Speaker 1: girls are dealing with that that it doesn't matter about
Speaker 1: like it's not about like hygiene. It's like they got
Speaker 1: that older. Yeah, And for people who don't know what
Speaker 1: that is, like, how does that happen? How do you
Speaker 1: get back to I don't know, it's not it's a
Speaker 1: out like you know, it's about the your pH balance, right,
Speaker 1: So it's like if you change partners, sex partners, or
Speaker 1: if it's like a nude dick or something that throws
Speaker 1: your pH and your pheromones aren't working right, you know,
Speaker 1: it's chemicals again something you know, So that's the only
Speaker 1: thing that would make you stop if it's now what
Speaker 1: about this, okay? Well, all these women wearing waste shapers
Speaker 1: and like you know, padded bras and all that stuff
Speaker 1: and make up. And if a girl, if you get
Speaker 1: her back and she takes all that ship off and
Speaker 1: it looks completely different, is that something that would make
Speaker 1: you not want to do it? I mean, it would
Speaker 1: make me. I don't know. It depends about It depends
Speaker 1: on the moment. But if you got all these these
Speaker 1: attachments and all this ship and I'm gonna look at
Speaker 1: you like you crazy understands bras and all of that,
Speaker 1: like make your cities look big, then you know, you
Speaker 1: take them off and you know you ain't there like that,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? But what about like the
Speaker 1: girdles and all of that. No, no, I never funk
Speaker 1: with a chick with a girl. You ain't old enough
Speaker 1: to rock the girl yet. That sounds so like old
Speaker 1: school and weird that the waste is that really popular though?
Speaker 1: That is like it looks like a torture device. You
Speaker 1: don't need that ship though, I mean, at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, just be you, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't I don't think there's a problem
Speaker 1: with somebody looking at you and being attractive to you
Speaker 1: and already knowing in the back of their mind what
Speaker 1: they might think you're working. You know, a man ain't stupid.
Speaker 1: He's gonna he's gonna sit there in side you up.
Speaker 1: You know, we could see through we could see through
Speaker 1: walls when we want to. I wear a waste trainer,
Speaker 1: but it's because I get liposuctions, so you know, I
Speaker 1: gotta keep everything together so it doesn't swell up. You
Speaker 1: have to wear, yeah, but I don't wear it outside.
Speaker 1: It's only wear it for healing, you know. Once the
Speaker 1: healing is over. Thank god, I don't ever have to swear, because,
Speaker 1: like you said, it looks you can't. I start getting heartburn.
Speaker 1: It's terrible. My god, it's awful. I don't like that
Speaker 1: to look good. Yeah, but I'm just for a few
Speaker 1: hours at home, just so that way the light bulb
Speaker 1: looks good. I come out of it. My waist is
Speaker 1: like twenty three. I'm happy. He's like, what about like
Speaker 1: booty pops and all of that. Have you ever seen
Speaker 1: a girl in their head on like the fake little
Speaker 1: pets now they have butt lifters? Is that it's like
Speaker 1: these panties. It's like a girdle with like holes in
Speaker 1: the butt and like you pull it up and it
Speaker 1: lifts your ass. That's so weird. Yeah, that's tempting. The
Speaker 1: other night I was I was hosting a party in
Speaker 1: the Bronx and this girl she had the butt lifter on.
Speaker 1: You could see it. You could see it. She had
Speaker 1: on a dress, but you could see it on her clothes.
Speaker 1: You could see it. What is it? Butt lifted? I've
Speaker 1: never seen it like a pad on knowledge, it like
Speaker 1: an extra shorts. It's like shorts, like a high waisted shorts.
Speaker 1: And then it has like holes in the bus. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like it has like two holes for each cheeks, a
Speaker 1: hole for each cheek. So you lifted up and I
Speaker 1: guess the box tight underneath it, so it's like shoulder
Speaker 1: pads for the as right. I don't know. There's so
Speaker 1: many illusionary things that we can do. Now. Have you
Speaker 1: ever been with the woman and she looked good, but
Speaker 1: then she took her makeup off and her eyebrows and
Speaker 1: all of that, and he was like, whoa ship, It's
Speaker 1: like way different. I mean, I'm sure at some point,
Speaker 1: of course. I mean back in the day, I mean,
Speaker 1: but you know, it depends if that's your type of thing. Like,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not really into makeup like that, to
Speaker 1: be honest with you, you know, I get it. I mean,
Speaker 1: I know women want to, you know, spice yourself up,
Speaker 1: but I want to be able to look at you
Speaker 1: in the morning and see the real you. You know.
Speaker 1: So if I know who the real you is and
Speaker 1: I say, well, maybe I'll say to myself, maybe she
Speaker 1: you know, she's not aware her ship. First of all,
Speaker 1: you're not aware of but if you just throwing it
Speaker 1: on and you looking like the joking issue, like you
Speaker 1: just don't know how to put your makeup one year,
Speaker 1: that's eternal. But I think that guys, um, you know, guys,
Speaker 1: most guys to say, oh, I'm not really into makeup.
Speaker 1: I don't like they want they want you to be good.
Speaker 1: I'm saying no, no, don't know what I'm saying, you know,
Speaker 1: but you still want to be able to even with that,
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like there should be a nice
Speaker 1: medium somewhere in between where like, it's time to go
Speaker 1: to this event, We're gonna go and get the makeup.
Speaker 1: But when you wake up in the morning on Sunday,
Speaker 1: or you're gonna have lunch. You're just hanging out chilling
Speaker 1: in the car, like you can't be all caked up
Speaker 1: with lashes on. No, no, exactly Have you ever did it?
Speaker 1: Have you ever met a girl who pretended she didn't
Speaker 1: know who you were and was like kicking it with
Speaker 1: you and everything, because I know that happened the other time.
Speaker 1: I artists that act like, oh, I don't know what
Speaker 1: you what do you do? I have no idea, I
Speaker 1: don't know anything about that. Never tell I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: you you just go off with that energy might be
Speaker 1: at the moment. You know, as a rap nigger, you
Speaker 1: always gonna think every chick we're gonna know. But sometimes
Speaker 1: they don't know. You might. I've been around females before
Speaker 1: in the past, and you know, I had a great
Speaker 1: conversation and then they found out later. But I always
Speaker 1: thought that they knew. But but I'm not a nigger
Speaker 1: to be like, yo, how are you doing? My name
Speaker 1: is blah blah. I'm not using that. That's that's cool,
Speaker 1: that's cool happening to use the shield to get what
Speaker 1: you want, you know what I mean? Be able to
Speaker 1: learn that chick you know, on the spot you know,
Speaker 1: if it happens to be where she don't know you,
Speaker 1: that should be a plus because it's like, yeah, and
Speaker 1: I get to see if this bitch really really into me? Right? So,
Speaker 1: you like, you like girls who don't know who you are?
Speaker 1: Or do you prefer would you rather date somebody who
Speaker 1: doesn't know you are, somebody who's like, knows all your
Speaker 1: music and those all your lyrics and everything. What's better?
Speaker 1: It's not? You know, I can't say one is better
Speaker 1: than the upper. I could just say, at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, I like both. You know, if you respect,
Speaker 1: if you respect what what what kind of nigger I am?
Speaker 1: And what I'm about? You know, that's cool. But you
Speaker 1: meet a girl and you really like her and she's
Speaker 1: like the crazy woolf tang fan. She knows all the
Speaker 1: lyrics like I don't tattoo right here? What did you
Speaker 1: think about that award stamped buddy? But when that makes
Speaker 1: you not do it? Like when if she's like, yo,
Speaker 1: you know, I never no, I'm gonna be like, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be like, oh, ship work, wow, you I like that,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But I'm I'm like I said,
Speaker 1: I'm always gonna want to go into her mind because
Speaker 1: she's gonna tell me everything. I know. When I start
Speaker 1: asking questions, you know what I'm saying, I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: able to read us so fast. Like you know, it's
Speaker 1: all about the personality. Like we can't forget that in relationships,
Speaker 1: because I respect a bit who's like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: what it is, this is how we're playing. You know,
Speaker 1: shoot it at me straight, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: So I know what it is. But if it's something
Speaker 1: that I feel is worth looking at for or saying,
Speaker 1: like yo, don really fucking with her. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna pick a brain. I don't want to know things.
Speaker 1: So she got that she got a tattoo and be
Speaker 1: like you know, you know anybody I know or whatever, like,
Speaker 1: don't lie to me because I can I can find out.
Speaker 1: How do you? I'll be like, Wow, Okay, that's what's up?
Speaker 1: All right? You sound like it's kind of like a
Speaker 1: romantic I'm not romantic, though, I'm not as you probably
Speaker 1: were romantic because you've been such an R and Bee
Speaker 1: fan and you like all that, Like you know, ship
Speaker 1: is the music that keep a nigga calm, and it's
Speaker 1: good music. That's how you get you a good chick
Speaker 1: with with good music. Sometimes. See it's like if you're
Speaker 1: not a cook, you know, you might be great at
Speaker 1: playing great music. Like if I had to pick your
Speaker 1: right point, I feel like you would have like a
Speaker 1: playlist or something of some old some oldies. And that's
Speaker 1: mad romantic. Not all the days. I know the don
Speaker 1: and get right to the right to the pussy right
Speaker 1: over right. So there's nothing wrong with it. Though, there's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with me. It's just letting you know what
Speaker 1: kind of nigg I am. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It goes back to like I said, you don't have
Speaker 1: to be nervous or you have to do is just
Speaker 1: be you and learn to understand what he's about. Like
Speaker 1: he's learning you. So he might be like, like you said,
Speaker 1: you don't I can't shop and I can't shoot around
Speaker 1: the snake it right now, this ain't the time right there, Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't do that. Don't shoot around me, right. I'm just
Speaker 1: meeting you, you know what I'm saying. I'm just meeting you.
Speaker 1: So it's a it's a lot of it's a lot
Speaker 1: of mind ship that you gotta. You gotta you know,
Speaker 1: be be ready. For man, what if a girl tells
Speaker 1: you I love you and you don't really love her.
Speaker 1: You don't love me, you don't, but sometimes I like
Speaker 1: you want to just say, I'm gonna be like, you
Speaker 1: don't love me though, you know what I mean? You
Speaker 1: love you? You you want to love me? How do
Speaker 1: you know she don't know what I mean? Love is
Speaker 1: a big word. I mean you might love of me,
Speaker 1: if that makes sense. How many girls have loved you?
Speaker 1: Been in love? Yeah, I could count that on my fingers.
Speaker 1: Might be like, yeah, I'm not. You know, I'm surprised.
Speaker 1: I've been locked down for a long time. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm just one of the niggas that guy got with somebody,
Speaker 1: and you know I found a good one. You know,
Speaker 1: niggas ain't blaze that. Yeah, And I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: she was a good girl, come from a good family.
Speaker 1: You know when, um, are you guys still together? No? No, No,
Speaker 1: free agent, man, I'm a cre agent. Free agent. He's
Speaker 1: got the playlist ready playlist though, like on your love
Speaker 1: making playlist. Oh you know, Keith Sweat, I ain't even
Speaker 1: gonna say that because I remember back in the day
Speaker 1: when I said you used to you used to walk
Speaker 1: around that Thomas. Nah, but I mean, you know, just
Speaker 1: good music alone just to me, like it calms you
Speaker 1: down and you know, keeps everything calm. And you know,
Speaker 1: now you get an opportunity to really have a great
Speaker 1: conversation if if you're dealing with somebody that's at that
Speaker 1: that intellectual level. Do you ever do role play? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Really you do play. You just just go right in,
Speaker 1: just go for killing. Wait, I want to know what, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I've been super bad. That's like to come in and
Speaker 1: you'll you'll flip your head this way, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like you'll put this leave your hand up
Speaker 1: one right now or not. I just look, you know,
Speaker 1: like I like, I like sometimes when the chick don't
Speaker 1: it's not done up, you know what I mean? Like
Speaker 1: she just looks even sexy too, when you know she
Speaker 1: just looked like a fucking Cambodian nigga, like a refugee.
Speaker 1: She still look pretty though. It's like, come on, let
Speaker 1: me fu your help, you know what I mean, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: fuck your help. Just to do it. I'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: Get it done again. Okay, So role play for you,
Speaker 1: and she plays a camp look like a fly refuge
Speaker 1: you come out of the barrel. Whatever. You look good,
Speaker 1: but I know you do rope. You know I haven't you?
Speaker 1: I mean, of course I have, so who are you?
Speaker 1: I like to pretend I'm sometimes a cheerleader. I love that.
Speaker 1: It kind of weirded this guy out, though, because he
Speaker 1: was already way older than me, and he was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, this is like a little too like
Speaker 1: I think maybe none of his kids was like a cheerleader,
Speaker 1: you know, so it kind of weird him out certain
Speaker 1: ways that you gotta do ship like safe instance, if
Speaker 1: the nigga came home, he came home right, let's just
Speaker 1: say you with your guy right now, I'm just giving
Speaker 1: you an idea what you could do to blow your
Speaker 1: niggahead off. Not safe as he come home right, you're
Speaker 1: not there right, and you leave him a note and
Speaker 1: you say, yo, meet me here at this time. Boom boom,
Speaker 1: next thing you know, he meeting you there or whatever.
Speaker 1: Then you get there, it's like, you know, you make
Speaker 1: it like I'm not hearing I'm over here. But then
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like just to just make
Speaker 1: it fun form whatever, like a treasure hunt exactly. That's
Speaker 1: the road when I think of role play, like I
Speaker 1: think of like crazy like animalistic ship like when you're
Speaker 1: tied up and like getting whipped in the house. Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: like oh my god, please regular just fuck me, just
Speaker 1: side me, please, I'm psycho, like I'm really rough and crazy.
Speaker 1: Like I like to get slapped in the ship. You
Speaker 1: like to get slapped. I like to get choked. I
Speaker 1: like to get slapped. I like my hair pulled really hard.
Speaker 1: That's why I can't wear We've. I like to get
Speaker 1: my hair pulled, like while I'm sucking dick. I like
Speaker 1: for my hair to get pulled really hard. Like I
Speaker 1: like for him to put his hand in and gripping
Speaker 1: and I like to feel it. And I like to
Speaker 1: like fill in the back of my throat like like
Speaker 1: like I like to be abused. I'm Puerto Rican, we
Speaker 1: like here, but I mean, I think, but you know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be abused like by um, you know,
Speaker 1: when you're in love with somebody. And of course I
Speaker 1: like to be essensual and you know, I like to
Speaker 1: kiss a lot, and you know, breathe each other in
Speaker 1: and have that you know, you know, feel the camest.
Speaker 1: But you know, especially when I'm drinking I'm like slapping marks,
Speaker 1: but if he leaves him mark, is that okay? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter. Is there a safety word?
Speaker 1: No safety word is everything is safe? Okay, so it's
Speaker 1: never hurt. I'm really no, I'm really I'm really rough
Speaker 1: like it. It's like after you come out of it,
Speaker 1: like your lip is swollen from getting bit your your face,
Speaker 1: you got a bruise on your face, you gotta handprint
Speaker 1: on your face. It's afterwards you're like, damn, maybe we
Speaker 1: went so far. You know what. I had a boyfriend
Speaker 1: for a while then and we only had sex like that.
Speaker 1: And now I'm like I don't want to get funk
Speaker 1: like that. I just need to like me. I'm like
Speaker 1: that because I know it's like there's something sexy about
Speaker 1: being objectified and like, you know, and beating treated like that.
Speaker 1: But then it's like not all the time, but not
Speaker 1: all the time you're missing you got off the other
Speaker 1: stuff that medium, you know, you got to find that
Speaker 1: perfect place in the middle. And then there was one
Speaker 1: guy who I said, please, can you like choke me
Speaker 1: a little? And he didn't know how to do it
Speaker 1: and he really had and I was like, I was
Speaker 1: like he was like, oh my god, I'm so sorry,
Speaker 1: and I was like, dude, no, just like grip my
Speaker 1: neck a little, like, don't kill me, like you know,
Speaker 1: I know. The worst for me is when like I'm
Speaker 1: like pull my hair and the guy's like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: are you sure I'm like grabbing the girl like slapped
Speaker 1: me for real, yeah, And they're like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt you. I don't like beings
Speaker 1: very angry. I don't like being do you do stuff
Speaker 1: like that. I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be honest with you. You know what I mean. I'm
Speaker 1: a moral I'm a moral manic type. Check it. But
Speaker 1: you know it goes but I can see with you
Speaker 1: any minute and turn into another person, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Because see it goes back to if you
Speaker 1: care about you know what I mean, if you feel
Speaker 1: like you got a little care for her, like she's
Speaker 1: a good one. You know, she's a good one. You
Speaker 1: you want to treat her like a woman still, But
Speaker 1: then later on then stranglization and all of that killing her,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You know what I In
Speaker 1: the beginning, all of that rough ship is out of
Speaker 1: the question. You gotta really like, we got gotta you
Speaker 1: gotta work, you gotta people, would you let it go?
Speaker 1: Tell you at I don't know, you want to know?
Speaker 1: And like what am I going to do with you? Now?
Speaker 1: Rob him? Like exactly exactly, see nigga, y'all better, y'all
Speaker 1: better listen to this ship. This is real way When
Speaker 1: when do you when do you think is an appropriate
Speaker 1: time to like take a vibrator out during sex? Okay,
Speaker 1: that's another thing you gotta work towards because that could
Speaker 1: be like a good or bad situation you bring out
Speaker 1: the vibrator, or if I'm not good enough exactly? So,
Speaker 1: how do you feel if a girl brings out a
Speaker 1: vibrator in the mix of in the mix of everything,
Speaker 1: she can't bring it out? Man? She vibrating like that
Speaker 1: you want? I mean every time she wants like, you know,
Speaker 1: let me say, and a vibrator the same. But listen
Speaker 1: what you wanting to watch right now? You know what
Speaker 1: I mean? My thing is this Just just take this
Speaker 1: dick right now, give me about fixing fitcing twenty minutes.
Speaker 1: Let me make a sandwich, you know, let me get
Speaker 1: up make it. Yeah, of course, but I'm saying, let me,
Speaker 1: let me chill, because you know you might get a
Speaker 1: nigger that you might run into it. Just dick you
Speaker 1: down real quick, but then he can't even dick you
Speaker 1: in the next ten fifteen minutes when you really really
Speaker 1: you open now. So I'd rather just hit you ten
Speaker 1: times then just give you two one or two good ones.
Speaker 1: But the most times you've ever gone in a row,
Speaker 1: I'm in the tens to be really coming like ten times.
Speaker 1: But that's crazy. I like, I like to win. Ain't
Speaker 1: no more coming out like nothing? Then then no more.
Speaker 1: I remember me and my son's father like we were.
Speaker 1: We were just before we had the baby. We were like,
Speaker 1: let's see how many times we could have sex in
Speaker 1: one day, and we went sixteen times. He came to
Speaker 1: sixteen days, and I mean we weren't It's not like
Speaker 1: two minutes sex. It's like it's like a good fifteen
Speaker 1: twenty minute around every time. Cause we were like, no,
Speaker 1: we went out. I'll never forget the day we woke
Speaker 1: up early and we went and have breakfast and we
Speaker 1: have sex in the car before breakfast, before we went
Speaker 1: into the restaurant. We had sex in the car and
Speaker 1: then we were saying our breakfast, and we're like be able,
Speaker 1: we should see how many times? So then we got
Speaker 1: back in the car. We had sex again in the car,
Speaker 1: in the car, in the car, and then we got
Speaker 1: home and we were like watching the movie more sex,
Speaker 1: and we went sixteen times. I probably got pregnant that day.
Speaker 1: Most likely did he take naps in between? No, we did.
Speaker 1: We took naps in between. We fell asleep. As soon
Speaker 1: as we got home for breakfast, we had sex again.
Speaker 1: I remember I had on this Maxi skirt at the time.
Speaker 1: They were in style, like these Indian looking maxie skirts.
Speaker 1: They were like a really like tight at the waist
Speaker 1: and then like really wasn't married to the yes, Like
Speaker 1: I remember, we got back in the house and like
Speaker 1: he lifted up the skirt and we like had sex
Speaker 1: standing in the kitchen, and then we took a nap, Yeah, nap,
Speaker 1: and we were like I think we fell we went,
Speaker 1: we took a nap, and then we woke up have
Speaker 1: more sex, and then I think we fell asleep inside
Speaker 1: of each other and then we like woke up and
Speaker 1: had more sex. And we were just having sex all
Speaker 1: day long, and we missed sixteen times. My sons. I
Speaker 1: don't miss my speak to him every day, so I
Speaker 1: don't miss having sex with him because I have. I
Speaker 1: really enjoyed my sex life right now with my current boyfriend.
Speaker 1: So okay, you know, I can't say he and my
Speaker 1: son's father, like, he's not a weak guy. He has
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. She don't like you. I don't know what.
Speaker 1: How care? So can you beat that? Sixteen times? Sixteen
Speaker 1: times and one day? That's a lot. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's a lot of time. We went
Speaker 1: crazy that but it was only that one day. But
Speaker 1: I mean There's been other times with different guys that
Speaker 1: I've had sex six or seven times in a day.
Speaker 1: That's kind of normal. Yeah, a lot. Sixteen is a lot.
Speaker 1: So we we like did it on purpose, like six
Speaker 1: nuts a day challenge, six nuts a day challenge. But
Speaker 1: that's forty two much man? Right now? Like I don't
Speaker 1: let him leave the house without coming somewhere, Like you
Speaker 1: coming in, You're coming somewhere. If you're going to have
Speaker 1: you come, You're not going out there with a loaded gun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you are totally drained. The nuts are completely empty. But right,
Speaker 1: does it hurt after you come that many times? And
Speaker 1: you're just shooting out here. Yeah it hurts. Yeah, my man,
Speaker 1: Like I'll be wearing him out and he's like, damn baby,
Speaker 1: come on, like painful, what anything? It looks like, Look
Speaker 1: there's nothing in there, Like okay, fine, because I've heard that.
Speaker 1: I heard that it's a little painful when you're shooting
Speaker 1: out air. I don't know that sounds painful. It ain't painful.
Speaker 1: You just just you should get sold, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like a muscle that you constantly keep hitting,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like, damn, hold up,
Speaker 1: you know no, that's true. And um with me and
Speaker 1: my like me and me and my current boyfriend, we
Speaker 1: know each other for many years, but when we first
Speaker 1: started dating, like we've been together like in a relationship
Speaker 1: for a year. But when we first started dating, like
Speaker 1: the first three or four months of the way we
Speaker 1: are now, we would we were having so much sex,
Speaker 1: and like I was sore and he was sore. We
Speaker 1: were still going, but we were both like time to
Speaker 1: take a break, yeah, because we were having sex like
Speaker 1: seven eight times a day. Like we like we would
Speaker 1: just look at each other in the eyes and be
Speaker 1: like not had no job and nothing. I mean, you know, video,
Speaker 1: I don't know what my boyfriend does for a living.
Speaker 1: I don't know if he has a job. You don't
Speaker 1: know if he has a job. Okay, next subject. Now,
Speaker 1: let's talk about this now. People are always send me
Speaker 1: in questions, right for asking. Now here's a question, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get your take on this. Okay, he said,
Speaker 1: I'm a twenty four year old, good looking dude. I've
Speaker 1: been diagnosed with a very light case of a rectile dysfunction,
Speaker 1: like six months ago. It's not full blown impotency. But
Speaker 1: the doctor said that he has a reduced blood flow
Speaker 1: to the penis because of lack of sex. So he said,
Speaker 1: should you tell a girl, but like if you're about
Speaker 1: to have sex with her, that you have a rectile dysfunction?
Speaker 1: Because he had an experience with a girl one time
Speaker 1: where she felt like it was her fault that he
Speaker 1: couldn't get hard. So is it important to tell somebody
Speaker 1: that before you have sex with them. No, No, I
Speaker 1: don't think it's important for you to tell him. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's all about what arises, what what you might be
Speaker 1: aroused by, you know, you know, but it's a dysfunction,
Speaker 1: like have you ever tried to have sex with the
Speaker 1: girl and you couldn't get hurt? Because it happens to everyone.
Speaker 1: I mean, it happens. What do you say, you just
Speaker 1: be like today in a great day. But his dis function.
Speaker 1: But that's what it comes down to, I think, and
Speaker 1: it's important for the woman to be, you know, not bad.
Speaker 1: The problem is because he's not spreading it around a lot.
Speaker 1: He's not having enough sex. That's why you're not as
Speaker 1: bled flow to his penises. You're not sex making me
Speaker 1: get like this neither too. But it's a dysfunction. You're
Speaker 1: saying it's a dysfunction. But I mean the girl feel
Speaker 1: like it's her fault if a guy can't get all
Speaker 1: the way hid? Have you okay? Ladies, like, have you
Speaker 1: ever been with a guy and he can't get it up?
Speaker 1: The sex is bad? Guys have been to everybody at
Speaker 1: some times. Guys. Yeah, And I think I think that
Speaker 1: all three of us are beautiful girls. D I think
Speaker 1: it's you know what I mean. I just think, you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes guys aren't ready to go like they've really a
Speaker 1: man needs to, you know, get it up. We could
Speaker 1: just bust it open, ready, you know what I'm going
Speaker 1: to go so you know, as a woman, I mean
Speaker 1: when you're younger, you're like, it's like sometimes the guy
Speaker 1: is nervous. It's the first time. They might like a
Speaker 1: lot or be intimidated if you say yeah, but he
Speaker 1: can't dig you down good because he busts off real quick.
Speaker 1: He might just want to just get it off real quick,
Speaker 1: like hold like to come back coming sometimes No, but
Speaker 1: I think that'll be flattered if a guy comes nest
Speaker 1: sometimes though, I mean is like and everything I'm pushing
Speaker 1: stay back to the subject. I think that woman should
Speaker 1: be a little more understanding if you know, if that
Speaker 1: I mean it happens all the time. If you can't
Speaker 1: ever get mad for each other, but if that happens,
Speaker 1: like it's okay, like it's a human body. Like sometimes
Speaker 1: you know it just doesn't work. But did it be
Speaker 1: live if he did each other and be genuine and
Speaker 1: be like you should be like, you know what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna try this summer. I'm gonna get dressed up. I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know that that happens, But you can't just come
Speaker 1: in on the first get down, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: you gotta be like they keep happening, and she gonna
Speaker 1: look at you, And that's when you gotta keep it real,
Speaker 1: like YO might not be as women. Should we be
Speaker 1: flattered if you come fast? Or should we be irritation?
Speaker 1: Should be flatter definitely, because sometimes it's like, don't you
Speaker 1: care enough to try to make me? But they can't
Speaker 1: even help themselves. You can't help yourself, right, You know
Speaker 1: what I do? When you know when I do. When
Speaker 1: I'm when I'm ready to come, I act like I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't want to come. Then I started thinking of
Speaker 1: all kind of ship. I started counting numbers. Aren't say
Speaker 1: that behind you, you know what I mean? Or I
Speaker 1: might just say some ship like I'm about to count
Speaker 1: to a thousand, a thousand strokes, like want to you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like my mind is somewhere else now.
Speaker 1: I'm not in the pussy. I'm just trying to I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to get you right now. It's about getting
Speaker 1: you right Because for females, if we come quick, it's great.
Speaker 1: We don't care because we can keep going. It ain't
Speaker 1: the party woman. I mean, most woman can't even come
Speaker 1: from intercourse like wh I'm talking about them? Like yeah,
Speaker 1: and the intercourse. Right, Yeah, I'm I'm blessed so like
Speaker 1: I'm lucky, Yeah you are. I come from dick, like
Speaker 1: I come from dick. So I do my sister giving
Speaker 1: blow jobs? I can. I ain't got culd if I
Speaker 1: rarely thought about it hard, I think because I love
Speaker 1: sucking dick so much. But my sister, my sisters thirty
Speaker 1: five years old, and she's only had like maybe three
Speaker 1: a handful of orgasms from sexual cancer of course, and
Speaker 1: that's really sad for me. I come from dick, from
Speaker 1: the beginning of time, from the beginning of time when
Speaker 1: dick was invented. BC. Does it bother you if you
Speaker 1: don't make a girl come, like does that matter to you?
Speaker 1: You su but not not no moment. Like I ain't
Speaker 1: dealing with all of that, man. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I would want you to, but if you don't, then
Speaker 1: I'll be like, yeah, I'm gonna get you on the
Speaker 1: next one where I gotta be able to chalk to
Speaker 1: you like you my nigger, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Because like you said, it's just you know, the way
Speaker 1: your body is, It's like you're not you're not happy
Speaker 1: to get up like she said, you you just open up.
Speaker 1: You just know I gotta get up, so I gotta
Speaker 1: you know, you might have to be just you know,
Speaker 1: stroking me off for like twenty minutes, just so I
Speaker 1: could really get right, because I might think I'm getting
Speaker 1: right right away and then I'm not even really right yet,
Speaker 1: you know. So I wanted you know, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: even if you just kiss on it or just not
Speaker 1: give me, just play with me, so I could really
Speaker 1: act like a volture and just be like, yo, it's
Speaker 1: ready now. How do you how do you meet women? Like?
Speaker 1: Where do you meet women? Women? Are you on online dating? Crazy?
Speaker 1: You know? I mean, you know, you know all over man,
Speaker 1: I mean you know, of course walking around, you know,
Speaker 1: like I'm a shot. I don't. I don't like pressing
Speaker 1: chick sause I don't want them to think, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna shot. I'm an laid back in romantic that should
Speaker 1: be his profile. But no, I'm not. If I see
Speaker 1: somebody that I like, I might not, I might not
Speaker 1: go for I might just would you send somebody over
Speaker 1: like I've done that. I've done that before before. Sometimes
Speaker 1: a woman approaches you on the street. No, it might
Speaker 1: just be a random conversation like I remember meeting a
Speaker 1: girl in a shoe store, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: And you know, yo, how you like these? But that
Speaker 1: was she didn't know I was shooting g but that
Speaker 1: was my line to get together. It's like, yo, you're like,
Speaker 1: I think you you look good at these though, and
Speaker 1: I pick out something that I know is a ficial
Speaker 1: or I might ask you how you like these? And
Speaker 1: you know, you know, like what's your name? But you
Speaker 1: gotta have a lot of groupies. Yeah, no, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a big would saying fan. When one
Speaker 1: time I was in the club, I think it was
Speaker 1: whip and like the DJ said your name, and I
Speaker 1: was like, hold on, I gotta go take a picture. Love.
Speaker 1: I know you guys had some wild times on the
Speaker 1: road because I've heard stories obviously, you know, didn't I know? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you guys, I've seen it on judge shows,
Speaker 1: you know, on court. Oh my god, I don't know
Speaker 1: about this. She was like, we didn't do anything. We
Speaker 1: just having a great conversation at seven o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 1: She was lying she might have got she might have
Speaker 1: went through a different division and subdivision, a parallel universe. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I back in the day, didn't that of guys used
Speaker 1: to get mad like if girls were on the bus
Speaker 1: and try to approach all the fighter of trying to
Speaker 1: fight you or anything. Did that ever happen, Like like
Speaker 1: say one of the girls came on the bus and
Speaker 1: not if anything happened or not, but just mad that
Speaker 1: the girl was on because I know girls used to
Speaker 1: follow you guys around. I used to be there and
Speaker 1: see girls in the hallway trying to meet people. Was
Speaker 1: in every situation where like their boyfriend would come and
Speaker 1: get mad at can you imagine? I mean if if
Speaker 1: a female nigga came and it's like you know, that's
Speaker 1: disrespectful because it's like nigga, don't don't come to me,
Speaker 1: come to her. But if you meet and her when
Speaker 1: she's with me, that I'm gonna look at you like
Speaker 1: Nigga did with that home. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like you don't you don't show another nigga. It's a
Speaker 1: certain kind of you know, over your female you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's like you deal with that in
Speaker 1: a place where you know, you know it's safe for you,
Speaker 1: because it might not be safe for you to try
Speaker 1: to approach your man and you know because of your
Speaker 1: chick you know what I mean, It's like you really
Speaker 1: ain't got your bit under control, fan, And that's that's
Speaker 1: detrimental to to the situation at the moment, because a
Speaker 1: nigga might want to stand on you after that, you
Speaker 1: don't want to. What do you question to me? What
Speaker 1: do you question to me about what she doing? If
Speaker 1: you had your ship on a lock, you wouldn't even
Speaker 1: be here. Would it have been a turner for you?
Speaker 1: If he met a chicken? She she smashed one of
Speaker 1: the homies? Would would it be a turn off? Like
Speaker 1: a no go? If it makes non negotiable like smashed
Speaker 1: one of the homies, like no. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: as long as she could be able to be real
Speaker 1: with me, you know you want her to tell you,
Speaker 1: like yeah, I feel I would do that to her,
Speaker 1: you know what, I wouldn't want to. She had slept
Speaker 1: with him a really long time ago. I mean, if
Speaker 1: it's you know, just it's all about telling me, you know,
Speaker 1: it's like how your mom used to tell you back.
Speaker 1: I mean, it depends who he is. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: my home girl is in a serious relationship with a guy,
Speaker 1: and she slept with his brother brother. Yeah, she was
Speaker 1: in a relationship for a long time with him. She's
Speaker 1: been with a guy for a little over a year,
Speaker 1: almost two. And she slept with his brother and she
Speaker 1: was was brother back in the day. She never told
Speaker 1: him many years ago. You know, you know, it is
Speaker 1: what it is. I mean, like, it is what it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I just feel like for me, if it was
Speaker 1: what a condom, it doesn't count. What the rule is
Speaker 1: that that's my rule, sister, like me, and you are
Speaker 1: not ever like. So they came to you and when
Speaker 1: it to date you and but she ten years ago,
Speaker 1: your brother Dan, what would you would you? Yes, it's
Speaker 1: all about being truthful. I mean, you know, you know
Speaker 1: sometimes so you'll understand. Men, we don't we know what
Speaker 1: we want and we know if we want to stick
Speaker 1: around or not. But we might just do it for
Speaker 1: the sport. We call it for the sport of it
Speaker 1: was for the sport. It wasn't for the that that's different.
Speaker 1: That's why I just said, it's for the sport. Could
Speaker 1: that be whatever? Could that be my girl? And she
Speaker 1: blew my brother? What if you fall in love with
Speaker 1: a girl that who fused with your brother and then
Speaker 1: she could be a good one, and I just be like,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't give us what if your brother but like
Speaker 1: she's really nice, it just didn't work out. It was
Speaker 1: ten years ago. I think it just matters if you're
Speaker 1: honest no matter who, Like if you if you meet
Speaker 1: somebody and you've been with their friends, you have to
Speaker 1: be honest about it. Don't let them find out through
Speaker 1: somebody else's What if you literally sleve with them, like
Speaker 1: fifteen years ago, and it doesn't even drunk, and it's
Speaker 1: like you don't even barely remember a different person. I
Speaker 1: still would years ago. It's a whole different person. Yes,
Speaker 1: I don't even need so you don't even have to
Speaker 1: So you don't have to say anything, right, I think, yeah,
Speaker 1: what happened? Tell us? What have nothing? You both you're
Speaker 1: both like be like you should put it out in
Speaker 1: the air, like listen, years ago, I was like a
Speaker 1: drunk horror I to your brother, But I dropped a
Speaker 1: strunk hoor anymore. I don't drink. That's why you started
Speaker 1: drinking because you fex somebody's brother. No, did you get that?
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. I've never slept a brother
Speaker 1: looking for No, I don't think it's cool though. You know,
Speaker 1: either way you slice, it's either it's fixed Sat twenty.
Speaker 1: If you blew my brother, I don't know if I
Speaker 1: can make you myma lady. You know, I might make
Speaker 1: you my homie, like like y'all got a lot of
Speaker 1: love for you, but to be my queen. And I
Speaker 1: know that you blew my brother, I'm gonna be having
Speaker 1: night mines. I'm gonna be thinking it's in your mouth.
Speaker 1: I'm like, Yo, it's dick, It's good like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's awkward. Hold you guys really think about stuff like that?
Speaker 1: Was his dick bigger than mine? I mean, if you're
Speaker 1: fucking with a chicken bus, you gotta think like that.
Speaker 1: How do you know? I don't know, but I think
Speaker 1: they know. How do you make that up? How do
Speaker 1: you know if you have a big pussy or not?
Speaker 1: Because it's like you don't need a lot to get
Speaker 1: wet or anything different. I don't like. I don't like.
Speaker 1: I don't like. I don't like like like it's like
Speaker 1: hit the back like like like like I have a
Speaker 1: fat pussy, Like there's a lot of meat on that,
Speaker 1: like like there's fat. It's I have a fat pussy.
Speaker 1: But the showed me a small you've seen it, like
Speaker 1: the inside of my pussy. It's signing. It's a little baby.
Speaker 1: She showed me the other because when I'm talking about
Speaker 1: bleaching and my pussy is like really pink. I showed
Speaker 1: it to you. Guys. You don't remember. I didn't see.
Speaker 1: I showed you and it wasn't me. I definitely didn't
Speaker 1: se it. Did he remember? I don't. I don't remember,
Speaker 1: but I saw it, and you know, it's like, really,
Speaker 1: I bleach, Why don't you wax? So because it's pain.
Speaker 1: She's when you bleach, the hairy bleach the skin. I
Speaker 1: just bleached my skin. I bleach to enter and the
Speaker 1: outer my god, to make it really really, I'm bright,
Speaker 1: you like, not your ass? You like? And what do
Speaker 1: you mean you like that beautiful? I think that's really
Speaker 1: like getting waxed. I can't get wax because, like I said,
Speaker 1: I have a fat pussy. So when the bitch pulls
Speaker 1: the strip, I feel like she's taking my soul out
Speaker 1: of the You should really start getting laser hair removed. Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's the best thing you ever Yes, it's gonna best
Speaker 1: thing I've ever done. The best beauty thing I've ever done.
Speaker 1: What it does hurt um their hair remove shaving is
Speaker 1: such a chore. She's so annoying. And the waxing, it's
Speaker 1: like a hundred dollars every time I go to Bliss
Speaker 1: and you can spend four and get the show forever.
Speaker 1: You don't think it's okay? What is it important to
Speaker 1: you if he is clean, like waxed off? As far
Speaker 1: as you know what, you know what I'm not in.
Speaker 1: I'm not I like, I like, I like a little Hey,
Speaker 1: I ain't on front. I like the seventies like because
Speaker 1: you to's not like not like a super jungle. I
Speaker 1: don't know, y'all don't know, y'all. Ain't let me finish speaking.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like as a kid coming up,
Speaker 1: we would look at Playboy books when we was a kid,
Speaker 1: and you would see the bitch and she have like
Speaker 1: hand or pussy. Now, I'm not saying like her ship
Speaker 1: got to be out of control, but you know, sometimes
Speaker 1: you'll removed, sometimes you'll removed ahead because it can get
Speaker 1: part of the smell or whatever. But then that's what
Speaker 1: I think I thought, because like you know what, I
Speaker 1: don't need to be smelling or whatever. Let me keep
Speaker 1: the ship clean. Like actually having the hair probably makes
Speaker 1: you sweat less in a way. No, I don't know
Speaker 1: about that. I don't like a woman have just a
Speaker 1: landing ship or all over. They just gotta be pretty hair.
Speaker 1: You gotta be like baby hair like you know, it
Speaker 1: can't be like that. You gotta be like pretty. You
Speaker 1: gotta look pretty. No, I like my pussy to be
Speaker 1: completely bald. Like. Some guys have a problem with that
Speaker 1: because it feels like they're sucking infant. No, you so, guys,
Speaker 1: Let me tell you. I was eating a guy, not
Speaker 1: my current boyfriend. I was dating a guy a couple
Speaker 1: of like, right after I broke up with my sons,
Speaker 1: did you search his name? You know I did any
Speaker 1: time I was shave, like cheating on me? Who are
Speaker 1: you fucking? Oh my god? I had a guy that
Speaker 1: used to do that to like, oh you got you
Speaker 1: just got wax? Where'd you go? Like? Now, I'm just no,
Speaker 1: I just want my pussy to look beautiful. What do
Speaker 1: you want me to do? Like, I take pictures of it?
Speaker 1: What do you want me you take pictures of it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I take pussy picks, like almost every day. Three single
Speaker 1: day because I think my pussy is beautiful. I like
Speaker 1: to look at it. Stephanie is very sexual and comfortable
Speaker 1: with sexuality. I am. I'm very comfortable with my pussy.
Speaker 1: There's other parts of my body I'm not very comfortable with,
Speaker 1: like my feed, my forehead, but I think is gorgeous.
Speaker 1: I put it on a question your question at your question, Yeah, um,
Speaker 1: do you think do you think that being with a
Speaker 1: man and just sucking him all the time is enough
Speaker 1: to keep him man? Absolutely not. There's so much to
Speaker 1: keeping a man. Like, like I said, a way to
Speaker 1: a man's heart is, you have to have good pussy.
Speaker 1: A man will never fall in love with you if
Speaker 1: he doesn't. But you have to take care of a man.
Speaker 1: You gotta make him feel like you're there for him,
Speaker 1: like you can do things for him that no one
Speaker 1: can do. You understand your pussy. No, no, forget your pussy,
Speaker 1: because if a man is if you can keep a man,
Speaker 1: if he's already kept, the pussy's already good. It's already
Speaker 1: he's already enjoying the sex. He he likes the way
Speaker 1: you suck his dick, he likes the way you you're
Speaker 1: letting him fuck you, or the way you're getting on
Speaker 1: top of him and fucking him. But there's other things.
Speaker 1: When you're moving forward in a relationship. You have to
Speaker 1: be able to take care of and man, be there
Speaker 1: for him, you know what I mean. Cook him a meal.
Speaker 1: You need to cook him a meal. You give him
Speaker 1: and rub his bag, touch him the right way. You know,
Speaker 1: to be able to kiss him and and let him
Speaker 1: smell you. You smell him, and you know you can't
Speaker 1: fake chemistry. What about conversation. Conversation is so important. You
Speaker 1: need to be able to laugh where your man, be
Speaker 1: able to crack a joke, be able to be really serious,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, there's so much to
Speaker 1: keep in a man, and it's not easy. It's hard work.
Speaker 1: And I think the same for a woman is just
Speaker 1: a little bit easier for men because women will will
Speaker 1: accept anything. Is that? Who you think? Women will accept anything?
Speaker 1: Almost you think? So you show them like, like I
Speaker 1: could do this for you. I could. I could do
Speaker 1: your laundry, I could clean the house, cook a meal,
Speaker 1: go outside, work, make my money, come home, suck your dick,
Speaker 1: let you fuck me and still not be sweating. I'm
Speaker 1: still good to go. I could do something. You know
Speaker 1: what I think I was like, and I was saying
Speaker 1: this earlier. My my problem is that I don't accept
Speaker 1: a lot of ship. True, you don't accept a lot
Speaker 1: of Yeah, like if you if you funk up, I
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm going to really stick around for
Speaker 1: that up, like in what way? Like in you know,
Speaker 1: in many ways, like if you cheat on me, I
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm gonna stick around after that. I
Speaker 1: don't know if women, but a lot of women do
Speaker 1: a lot of women will stay with you if you cheat,
Speaker 1: And nothing against them because everybody has their own thing
Speaker 1: and maybe some guys learned. So what if you was
Speaker 1: a man? Would you cheat? If I was a man?
Speaker 1: I don't. I think that men stopped cheating when they've
Speaker 1: experienced a lot of things in their life and they
Speaker 1: get older and they don't feel like I listen, But
Speaker 1: this is an honest question, ladies, though, for real, if
Speaker 1: you was a man, would you cheat? Be honest? Now?
Speaker 1: If I was, how I am? No, I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: say I have no idea what it's like to be
Speaker 1: a man. I can't. Okay, so you know you are
Speaker 1: wired differently than us. But see that's the whole thing though.
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, see one thing you gotta remember, right,
Speaker 1: y'all can go get fucked in ten minutes, five minutes.
Speaker 1: You can go down to blocks boom. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying that, Man, I don't give a fun. You
Speaker 1: got money, you come to Bentley, whatever you're doing or whatever,
Speaker 1: you still gotta work. You know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: my thing is, like I said, if we're different. You know,
Speaker 1: so even if you say that you're not, I ain't
Speaker 1: been in that situation. I mean as a man, if
Speaker 1: you hit that, you're gonna be looking at the next
Speaker 1: It's like I want that too, but not you might
Speaker 1: not look at it. Cheat. You might just look at
Speaker 1: it like yo, if I could get that now. Cheating
Speaker 1: to me is when you really over there like that,
Speaker 1: like if you over there and you just keep Basically,
Speaker 1: I don't think that, you know, people want to put
Speaker 1: this is how men think. I mean, but people want
Speaker 1: to put all the blame on men. Man, cheat every man.
Speaker 1: Cheat wouldn't just as much, a little bit more, a
Speaker 1: little bit more preserved with you're sneaky exactly, were much
Speaker 1: better like they get caught sniffing everybody's ass. We just
Speaker 1: get caught. That's how we get caught. They don't get
Speaker 1: caught exactly. But I also think that this is what
Speaker 1: my experience from like knowing men and knowing different women
Speaker 1: that I'm friends with. I also believe that sometimes for women,
Speaker 1: like a lot of my friends that have been wild
Speaker 1: when we were younger, when once they had kids that
Speaker 1: kind of stopped all that. Because it's harder for women
Speaker 1: because they tend to be more of the caregivers and
Speaker 1: spend more time with their kids, and they just don't
Speaker 1: have the time to cheat, you know what I'm saying. Like,
Speaker 1: I know a lot of guys have more time on
Speaker 1: their hands, they don't have to be homeless. Often they're traveling.
Speaker 1: They gotta do this, they gotta do that for women,
Speaker 1: and sometimes I feel like it's just harder just physically
Speaker 1: to be yeah, unless they're like working at something. But
Speaker 1: I respect to chick who who's like gil before she
Speaker 1: do what she tell you, Like, you know, I'm ready
Speaker 1: to back out. You know, that's one thing. I cheated
Speaker 1: all my son's father and the and the guilt killed me.
Speaker 1: And I told them. You know, they always say you
Speaker 1: cheat on somebody you shouldn't tell them if this mistake
Speaker 1: you could ever make. They always said that because they say,
Speaker 1: if you tell somebody that you cheated, that's to relieve
Speaker 1: your own guilt. And it's really selfish. No it is,
Speaker 1: but it is they're going to help them. It's not.
Speaker 1: I told him. I'm like, listen, you do it anymore.
Speaker 1: See that's your own guilt. That didn't do nothing for him,
Speaker 1: and it did nothing for me either, Like kind of
Speaker 1: in your relationship, what about open relationships? What about those?
Speaker 1: What do you think about? That's disgusting. I can't do it.
Speaker 1: But because you don't want to know your just sucking
Speaker 1: somebody else, you know. I the chicks on me that before,
Speaker 1: like y'all what you wanted to you want to just
Speaker 1: do you? And you know, like, I'm like, so me
Speaker 1: and you're supposed to just come in the door together.
Speaker 1: You're bringing it in in, I'll bring it chicken in
Speaker 1: whatever not, you know what I mean. I'm just like
Speaker 1: that's disgusting, you know I again, man a man with
Speaker 1: a man, y'all could just stick it, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, we gotta take care of ourselves. Women,
Speaker 1: we are like it doesn't lessanging it could spread out
Speaker 1: gaping like nobody wants a big wide pussy. You're spreading
Speaker 1: it all a lot. As a woman, it's gonna turn
Speaker 1: into that. You have to take care of two kegles,
Speaker 1: take care of yourself. Don't don't funk everybody. A man
Speaker 1: on the really work kegles work for sure, I do.
Speaker 1: I'm doing kegles right now. Me I am two seven.
Speaker 1: You can't do it. You can't do your penis? Can
Speaker 1: you know? What are you telling your vagina muscle on
Speaker 1: you like? It's like a work exactly to do it
Speaker 1: on a dick. It's amazing. It's like a lot of
Speaker 1: you know, for the man tonight, for the men listening
Speaker 1: to our podcast. A lot of women can't make a
Speaker 1: lot of women. I never knew that was the name
Speaker 1: before practice it. You got to do it and do
Speaker 1: it and do it and do it to get better,
Speaker 1: feeling good about He goes tomato, tomato, we all get.
Speaker 1: We live in the building. I don't want me to.
Speaker 1: And that's a big a sex tip for a sex tip,
Speaker 1: like guys like when they like when they're stroke and
Speaker 1: you and they pull out and you squeeze it back in.
Speaker 1: You really like that a lot rabbit like, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, the stroke up and down, in and out,
Speaker 1: in and out when when he goes out, you pull
Speaker 1: back and guys love that. And then he comes out
Speaker 1: of you and you have a bag and then you
Speaker 1: come down. All right. Well look, we gotta say the fans,
Speaker 1: but Wine, thank you so much for coming. Is going
Speaker 1: to do the services. And you know, you know me,
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a respectable guy. You know what I like?
Speaker 1: I like, yeah, all of that, but for the most part,
Speaker 1: I respected because you know, you got to have a
Speaker 1: little you know, a little life. It's real. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: thank you so much, Reine. I appreciate you. It's weird
Speaker 1: because I like, this is like my brother right here,
Speaker 1: but I learned that. Sorry, and you love too much? Okay, well, okay,
Speaker 1: we all can be Cambodian refugees there. You go. Much
Speaker 1: love to y'all. Man and your relationships, and you know,
Speaker 1: like I said, it's it's so important to look at
Speaker 1: that person and you know, have fun with them too,
Speaker 1: because all of this is a part of fun and
Speaker 1: you get to know that person, you know, and that's
Speaker 1: what keeps a relationship. When you're able to open up
Speaker 1: on both sides. And friends you know, yeah, friends is
Speaker 1: your friends is number one. I have the line if
Speaker 1: you ain't my soldier, if you ain't my soldier, and
Speaker 1: then we're not. Really it is beyond the pussy now
Speaker 1: that's my relationship. I appreciate that friend. Alright, thank you, right,