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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Scatilly and Tanya Brad and iHeartRadio and

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Speaker 1: People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Boo you guys, is this the best day of my

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Speaker 2: life or the best day of my life? Pick one.

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Speaker 3: It's a good day.

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Speaker 2: It's a really good day.

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Speaker 3: Please elaborate.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think I met my future husband today, So

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Speaker 2: that's exciting.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So, Zachary Levi came in on there with Ryan Seacrest. Correct,

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Speaker 3: I want to get your take. I'll just say quickly

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Speaker 3: that he exceeded all expectations.

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Speaker 2: Correct.

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Speaker 3: We're other guys that we've brought in to meet you

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Speaker 3: that you were kind of interested in have not met expectations. Tall, handsome,

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Speaker 3: super friendly, funny, super charming. I liked him a lot,

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Speaker 3: all the above. What's your take?

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Speaker 2: All the above? I'm so with you. I love that

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Speaker 2: he shaked everybody's hand when he walked in. He said

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Speaker 2: hello to everybody in the room, which, FYI, peeled back

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Speaker 2: the curtain. Not a lot of celebrities do that.

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Speaker 3: They walk in there a lot of the ones that

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Speaker 3: do do that. It feels forced. It feels like my

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Speaker 3: publicist told me to do this, so I'm going to

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Speaker 3: do it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but there are some that comes.

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Speaker 3: Some are legit. Yeah Snoop Dogg is legit. Yes, he

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Speaker 3: will shake everybody's hand in the room, and he will

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Speaker 3: stand there and wait for you. If you are busy

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Speaker 3: doing something else, he will keep that hand out there

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Speaker 3: until you acknowl.

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Speaker 2: Jonas brothers also genuinely I think address.

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Speaker 3: Everything nice guys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's others obviously, but it's few and far between.

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Speaker 2: They normally just walked right in sitting.

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Speaker 1: There focused on Ryan.

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Speaker 2: Makes sense, right, But no, I thought he was so amazing,

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Speaker 2: like totally exceeded my expectations. I literally have like giggy

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Speaker 2: gig giggly like like smirk over him.

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Speaker 3: And then that you took a picture together, and you

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Speaker 3: took a prom picture together, yes, where you were your

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Speaker 3: back to his front and his arms around you.

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Speaker 2: Correct, I loved his arms around me. I was like,

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Speaker 2: this feels right. It sounds so creepy, but he was great.

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Speaker 3: It his idea.

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Speaker 2: It was his idea. Yeah, it was his idea.

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Speaker 3: So here's a question. Yes, and this is a big question. Now,

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Speaker 3: what so because you guys did there was something I

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Speaker 3: thought between you two. A lot of guys are kind

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Speaker 3: of either creeped out by this bit that you're in

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Speaker 3: love with them, or they're rolling their eyes over the

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Speaker 3: bit that you're in love with them because they're like, Oh,

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Speaker 3: it's just a radio bit. I'm not gonna take it seriously, right,

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Speaker 3: this guy seem to take it seriously. And also I

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Speaker 3: love that his people have been sending him clips of

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Speaker 3: you talking about him. Right, I don't know, he was

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Speaker 3: not as Ryan said, he was not not interested, right,

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Speaker 3: So now what.

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Speaker 2: So I think he's on obviously a giant press tour,

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Speaker 2: so he's like in a different country every other day,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like, I think I just

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Speaker 2: life and just see where it goes.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like you should take any action or

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Speaker 3: are you going to wait and let him come to you?

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Speaker 2: I will take action, so I will keep you posted.

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Speaker 3: So once his Amazon theaters huge hit hundreds of millions

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Speaker 3: of dollars, what do you do?

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Speaker 2: TVD? But I will let you know.

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Speaker 3: Will it be social media based?

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Speaker 2: Obviously?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah, aren't you worried about like I don't know

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Speaker 3: what you're gonna do, But aren't you worried about just

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Speaker 3: getting lost in the shuffle of all of his people.

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Speaker 3: So you have you think you have a way to

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Speaker 3: remind him of you. Yes, I do, and you don't

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, so here's the thing. I actually think that

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Speaker 3: Wow does that make sense? Yes?

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Speaker 2: So I will let you know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, fine, Yeah, I'm I don't know what there is

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Speaker 2: Right, I want to like just be cool for a minute,

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Speaker 2: just not you know, I don't want another Tim Teba

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Speaker 2: Part two.

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Speaker 3: Yes, was creeped out, yes, and not.

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Speaker 2: But like creeped out in a good way, Like I know,

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Speaker 3: Weld On Sierra wants to jump into this conversation. Sierra

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Speaker 3: is our digital producer editor some what is your title?

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Speaker 4: Uh, digital editorial producer And I slide in a little

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Speaker 4: social social media manager.

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Speaker 3: All right, secret, And so she's always in rogue.

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Speaker 4: To say I had we had absolutely zero zero chill

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Speaker 4: and cool on the blog.

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Speaker 2: Did you read it yet? No, it's so bad. Just

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Speaker 2: take a cander, it's so good. But look that's the

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing that's you, that's not me, do

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? So, like you guys, do

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Speaker 2: all you want, and that's totally fine. I think for

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Speaker 4: Just of course, but I will say, as a friend

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Speaker 4: and outside perspective, he totally like I think he was vibing.

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Speaker 1: It's not just you.

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Speaker 4: And for all those listening, I will drop the link

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Speaker 4: in the Facebook group for them to watch.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, he was really.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: Sierra is more than that. Sira is like one of

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Speaker 2: my best friends. And you's fantastic, just a fantastic human

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Speaker 2: Sierra fan. I'm a big Sierra fan too, and I

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Speaker 2: It's like a good blend.

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Speaker 3: Behind the scenes what we're doing on there with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'll find stuff really funny, right, but I'm

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Speaker 3: this is really funny.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. My favorite thing is I was watching the Zach

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Speaker 2: So it's translating like it's actually.

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Speaker 3: She's what you used to be. I always looked at

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Speaker 3: that's exciting. So moving on from that, Yes, if you

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Speaker 2: No, I will keep you posted, but I'm feeling good.

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Speaker 3: Team Zach Rad. We have a real life current Grandsonati

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Speaker 3: be cast member coming in Hit today and that's really exciting.

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Speaker 3: And also we should address there's a voice missing right

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Speaker 3: now from this show.

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Speaker 1: Correct.

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Speaker 2: Becca is not here with us today, but she's I

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Speaker 2: don't know if we can say what she's doing, but

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Speaker 2: it's very exciting. She was up early and she actually

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Speaker 3: She was so yeah, that was Obviously it's annoying that

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Speaker 2: Right, well, we had April, but she wasn't on the

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Speaker 3: Correct. That was a big and that was very exciting. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it is annoying that she's not here for this big day,

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Speaker 3: we just have to understand. Yes, so we're happy for Becca.

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Speaker 3: We're of course, all right, so always Camilla Luddington.

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Speaker 2: It's a big day for both parties because I have

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Speaker 2: something that I'm doing after we do this interview, which.

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Speaker 3: You also can talk about and tease her.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know, but it's really exciting. It's something

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, great, Yeah, so there's that. Okay, Okay, So anyway,

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Speaker 3: Joe Wilson, Joe Kirev, Camilla Lettington is coming in here.

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Speaker 3: You watched Less That's episode, Yes, did you? Yes? I cried.

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Speaker 3: I mean really really heavy, very powerful, very powerful and

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Speaker 2: I was just thinking about it. Yeah, it was fantastically done.

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Speaker 3: So that's heavy. So we want to talk to her

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Speaker 3: Just about her life and life and GRAS and what

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Speaker 2: And then get into the topic because it is really

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Speaker 3: I got a lot of emails on this topic, so

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Speaker 2: But I watching the episode back was really hard because

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Speaker 3: Was she still with you?

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Speaker 2: I watched it with my mom and with my friend Haley, Yes,

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Speaker 2: I haven't dealt with it myself personally, but it's been

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Speaker 2: It's very very close to me, So seeing play out

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Speaker 3: Is she here all right, Camill? Let's we'll talk to

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Speaker 3: her next.

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Speaker 2: Oh, guys, hiring can be a beep. It can be

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Speaker 2: a bit of a challenge.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: We were just talking about this as a matter of fact,

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Speaker 3: that it's hard to find great people.

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Speaker 2: It really is, right, they're out there.

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Speaker 3: We know they're out there.

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Speaker 2: We know they're out there. They are amongst us, they

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Speaker 2: are amongst us.

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Speaker 3: How do you find great people? That's not just oh,

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Speaker 3: I know some going you could do it? You know?

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Speaker 3: How do you cast a wide net to find the

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Speaker 3: best people? When you want to hire somebody?

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Speaker 2: And I tell you what that place is, please, it's

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Speaker 2: zipprecruiter dot com slash beca. Obviously, ZipRecruiter sends your job

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Speaker 2: to over one hundred of the web's leading job boards,

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Speaker 1: Letting me.

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Speaker 2: Aka Joe Wilson, Joe karreb. You're always gonna be Joe

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Speaker 1: you're not feeling it? No, okay, interesting, what is it

444
00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:29,560
Speaker 1: about Link that you like? Because I've heard fan feedback

445
00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:30,919
Speaker 1: and I'm wondering if it's the same reason.

446
00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:34,000
Speaker 2: I like that he's more mature and like, I feel

447
00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:35,440
Speaker 2: like he's better with the kids.

448
00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:38,840
Speaker 1: I knew you're gonna say that, and I call him Johmo.

449
00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:42,320
Speaker 2: De Luca feels like he's just focused on his career

450
00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:44,479
Speaker 2: and he's going to be like the next like make

451
00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,320
Speaker 2: Dreamy or whatever he is, and I just feel like

452
00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:50,199
Speaker 2: he can't give Meredith like all that she needs, and

453
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,240
Speaker 2: I think Link is like past that phase and he

454
00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,760
Speaker 2: just wants like a good balance.

455
00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,840
Speaker 1: I see it. You know, it's hard because I've I've

456
00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,280
Speaker 1: sort of been back and forth on it myself. There'll

457
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,639
Speaker 1: be some scenes that have been written and I'll be like,

458
00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm kind of teamed de Luca and

459
00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:07,720
Speaker 1: then I'll be like, no, I'm Link. At this point, though,

460
00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:11,640
Speaker 1: keep watching the season because kids do come up. They

461
00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,400
Speaker 1: had to come up in a conversation between them, so

462
00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,800
Speaker 1: it gets spoken about. She has to acknowledge like I

463
00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 1: have children, Like I feel about that. Yeah, So that

464
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:22,960
Speaker 1: does get so maybe you'll change your mind.

465
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Speaker 2: Okay, she's toying with us because I have had a

466
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:27,639
Speaker 2: little bit of that where I love that you have

467
00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 2: these opinions.

468
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:29,760
Speaker 3: There's not just a job. We don't just get the

469
00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:30,760
Speaker 3: script and knock it out.

470
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,240
Speaker 1: And no, we actually have huge opinions on our set.

471
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:37,120
Speaker 1: It's really funny, Like like the other day I walked

472
00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,119
Speaker 1: into the makeup trailer and I said to Kevin m Kidd,

473
00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 1: make up your mind, like what just pick who? Who

474
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,240
Speaker 1: do you love? And who do you I don't know,

475
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, I love you know. So it's like

476
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 1: we have opinions about our own relationships on the show

477
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:54,200
Speaker 1: and each other's and we talk about and like we're

478
00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,440
Speaker 1: like fans of the show because that's where like that's

479
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,720
Speaker 1: half of our life is like why did you guys

480
00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,080
Speaker 1: break up? I don't get it.

481
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,359
Speaker 2: It's so funny because I think everything in my like

482
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 2: real life can come back to some sort of grays

483
00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:07,720
Speaker 2: Anatomy scenario, like I always bring it full circle and

484
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:11,160
Speaker 2: everything that I do, like truly that's probably our intention.

485
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,919
Speaker 2: So like I would do the podcast and then we

486
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 2: work on the morning show for KIUSEFM with Ryan Seacrest

487
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:19,840
Speaker 2: and he like makes a joke. He's like, how many

488
00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,439
Speaker 2: times is Tanya gonna always bring it back to Grey's Anatomy?

489
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 2: And I'm like, because it always does. Somehow, there's always

490
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 2: some way to bring it back.

491
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:29,159
Speaker 1: We figured out some sort of formula where that is

492
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 1: our intention and it works.

493
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 3: Apparently, Wow, you said something when you came in. You've

494
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 3: heard a lot about Tanya and Becca or this podcast

495
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:37,800
Speaker 3: or whatever. What have you heard?

496
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 1: I've heard that. So I heard that you guys. Maybe

497
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm wrong, Okay, So I heard that you guys started

498
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,120
Speaker 1: out because when I said I was going on this,

499
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,439
Speaker 1: I had a ton of my friends reach out that like,

500
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 1: you are like their favorite podcast. Oh yes, so nice,

501
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,159
Speaker 1: and they're like all these things I was doing, they

502
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:57,120
Speaker 1: were like, we don't care about anything else except the podcast.

503
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, it was so nice. They said

504
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 1: that you guys are crazing on any super fans and

505
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,879
Speaker 1: that they said that, do you want to honestly know

506
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 1: what they said?

507
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

508
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 1: Okay, So they said that at first a podcast started

509
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 1: out with you guys discussing Gray's Anatomy, and then it's

510
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 1: become about your dating life, and that you guys are

511
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 1: terrible at dating.

512
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 3: This is true.

513
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 1: It is really and it's really funny. And that's really

514
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 1: what said. They said, your dating lives are like hysterical

515
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: and they like tune in and it's like so funny.

516
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 2: That's really kind. My dating life is like a joke.

517
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 2: But I think I met my husband today.

518
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,040
Speaker 1: So, oh you did, Okay, I'm totally in. His name's

519
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 1: Zachary Levi.

520
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 2: He's kind of amazing.

521
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 1: Oh really, Oh yeah, I know, zach we met. We did. Ah,

522
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 1: he actually filmed something with me for the first I

523
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,680
Speaker 1: would do the True Radive video games and he had

524
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 1: nerd HQ and so he did stuff with Tom.

525
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 2: Rader And is he just as lovely as we all?

526
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 1: He's lovely.

527
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I have.

528
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,160
Speaker 1: It's Shazam. He's cool. Yeah, it's very cool.

529
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think.

530
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,439
Speaker 1: It might work out. You guys go for it.

531
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Speaker 2: Really taking a turn today, you know, had Zachar Levi,

532
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 2: We've got you.

533
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I fully support it.

534
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's true. We kind of blunder a little

535
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:11,639
Speaker 2: bit in the dating world.

536
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's I mean, if you're a fan

537
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 1: of Grace too, I mean, like you can definitely always

538
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 1: bring it back to grace. I mean, like the dating

539
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 1: world on our show, and you're a dating world.

540
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 2: It's funny though, because I bring it up on dates

541
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 2: a lot, and I'm like, I need to stop.

542
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,120
Speaker 3: She texts guys like a guy, what are you doing

543
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 3: Thursday night? Oh? I have grades in natamts and a

544
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 3: lot of my friends are coming over. I'm a really

545
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,199
Speaker 3: big fan of the season from Aaron, so I can.

546
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 3: And then you never heard from the guy again.

547
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: Do you ever have like Gray's parties? Yeah, you do

548
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 1: for sure, like always, like how you see on a

549
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 1: Bachelor when you have like a group of girls. Oh

550
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 1: my god, oh you should see.

551
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 2: I think I have a pillow with your face on

552
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:47,159
Speaker 2: it back there. Actually no, you no, there's all those pillows.

553
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 3: We should ever sign it?

554
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh no what?

555
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 2: And actually our podcast was nominated for a People's Choice Award.

556
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 1: Congratulations, thank you, we won it. Amazing sane.

557
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 2: But we had these parties where we would watch Grazy

558
00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 2: and Out of Me, so it was like an hour

559
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 2: window and we would say during commercials that we would

560
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 2: respond to people on Instagram if they send us screenshots

561
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 2: that they maxed out their votes. Oh my god, I

562
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 2: love it so right then and there, just every Thursday

563
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 2: for like a month, we were getting like a solid

564
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 2: I don't even know how many because the maxim amount

565
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,199
Speaker 2: of votes was like twenty five and we were like

566
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 2: literally making videos for like two hours.

567
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so funny.

568
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's really I mean, you got I mean,

569
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 2: it's just like just well.

570
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 1: People love you guys. So I'm not surprised you want

571
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 1: Oh that is so and I'm excited to be here.

572
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 2: You're the best guest ever.

573
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 1: Okay, it's true. That's how I feel.

574
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,199
Speaker 2: I'm gonna send like personal notes to all of your

575
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 2: friends that said that. I'll send the shout out.

576
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: Okay, good, Yeah, okay, Okay.

577
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 2: I think we should take a break and then come

578
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 2: back and talk about last night's episode, because it was

579
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 2: really bringing the pillow, bringing all the pillows.

580
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:55,959
Speaker 1: Actually, I told you I look so good as a pillow.

581
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 1: I know the pillows are a little bit it's just your.

582
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 3: Face and it to her, it's not even like my.

583
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 1: Hair, like those two eyeballs on the edge, And I'm like,

584
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:07,400
Speaker 1: why not? Yeah, yeah, I got the we got.

585
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 2: The whole cast.

586
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 3: Were you a fan of the show before you got it? Yes, yes, yeah,

587
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 3: so you must have been pumped when your agent called

588
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 3: and said that you got the party.

589
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 1: I was so nervous, you guys, I was so nervous

590
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: my first scene. Okay, so they wouldn't give me the

591
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: actual script until my deal was done. My deal was

592
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 1: on eight PM, and I had to shoot the next morning.

593
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 1: First scene up. I had a medical monologue that I

594
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:34,119
Speaker 1: just said to Meredith. I was so terrible at saying

595
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: it that I was like, I'm going to get fired.

596
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 1: I couldn't remember it. I was so nervous. The scene

597
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: got cut out of the episode.

598
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 2: You truly, You're truly one of my favorite characters, and

599
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 2: I've never wavered with you. Yeah, we totally honest. Maggie

600
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 2: is not I don't like her. I'm not a fan

601
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 2: of her. I've just never had an emotional connection with her.

602
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 2: And I feel like she's been around for a long time.

603
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 3: Hard for characters that weren't the originals, but you are

604
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 3: different for some reason.

605
00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: It's weird.

606
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then I feel same about Owen.

607
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: You don't You're not feeling oh, and he's been around forever.

608
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: I think that, like, thank you for being so righte

609
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: or die I think that some people find Joe polarizing

610
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 1: because you know, the characters are not perfect, and so

611
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: we do things that they're like, why would you, especially

612
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 1: if it comes to Alex. If there's any element potentially

613
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: hurting Alex, it's like doomsday or my Twitter.

614
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 2: I hope, I really hope you guys, like, really just

615
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 2: make it the long haul.

616
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 1: I really think we. I really hope so too. In fact,

617
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: Justin and I were talking about this last week and

618
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 1: he was like, they're not going to break us up.

619
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: He was like, He's like, no, no, it's not going

620
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: to happen trouble.

621
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 3: The end game is Meredith and together like that. There

622
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 3: is a faction out there and Tanya's in it.

623
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Speaker 1: On it you like it?

624
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 2: I do? No.

625
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,159
Speaker 1: I mean I'm married to him, so I don't know.

626
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: It's hard. It feels like cheating. I you are the

627
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:02,959
Speaker 1: best guest in America. Yeah, I'm just so invested emotionally

628
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 1: myself and my own TV marriage. No, I get it.

629
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 1: I actually really do get that. Often often my dreamy

630
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: died and I even thought like, because they were a

631
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 1: time when Join Alex went together where they would put

632
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: them together. But also Justin and oh, look we're on TV.

633
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 3: Oh look at that.

634
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: I mean, last night's episode was just.

635
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, we uh we Justin and I just we Justin.

636
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 1: Ellen are just so sibling in real life, like brother

637
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: and sister, so they they can't even see it. And

638
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: I think if you know them, like, it's hard to

639
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: picture those characters together. But I do get it because

640
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 1: I don't think that Alex Krebb isn't a great partner,

641
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: you know, so I get that if you was with Meredith. No,

642
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: I'm going to cry about it, of course, but I can.

643
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:47,479
Speaker 1: I totally get it.

644
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 2: I mean, that's the only thing I really hope you

645
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 2: guys stay together. But I don't hate the idea of

646
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 2: Meredith and Alex ending up together.

647
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 1: Sorry, so I'm gonna go now, I'll be leaving you.

648
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 2: I'm just telling it to you straight. I'll never lie

649
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 2: to you. Well, I feel like I feel like we're

650
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,479
Speaker 2: like best friends from like a past life. We are.

651
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 3: I'm sorry you were trying to transition. We should because

652
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 3: we only have so much time with you, Camilla. So

653
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 3: we did talk about last night's episode. So we'll take

654
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 3: a break. We'll come back and we'll talk about that.

655
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 2: Okay, We're gonna take a break to talk about one

656
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Speaker 2: of my favorite sponsors.

657
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658
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659
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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm actually wearing a Third Love bra right now?

660
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Speaker 2: So you know it's it's we talk about every because

711
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: it's a weekly podcast, so we talk about every episode

712
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 2: of Grades, and we kind of thought, like your character

713
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: Joe has had she's kind of been just like just

714
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 2: kind of cruising around this season, and.

715
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: We were like, we really was coming.

716
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 2: We really wanted something from Joe, and we've been saying

717
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 2: it for a couple of weeks. We've been saying justice

718
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 2: for Joe.

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Speaker 1: You have Yeah, I love it, you regret it.

720
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 2: And now last night's episode was so beyond powerful. You

721
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 2: were fantastic. I had chills the entire time. I actually

722
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 2: cried because it's something that this topic I have never personally,

723
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 2: thank god, had to deal with, but it's very very

724
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 2: close to me and I and to someone that's very

725
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 2: close to me, and so watching it play out like

726
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 2: that was so heartbreaking and knowing what impact it has

727
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 2: had on her, it was just like I think you

728
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 2: guys did such a fantastic job of bringing light to

729
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 2: something that people don't like watching you.

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Speaker 1: Do the what the git the rape kit was so intense, was.

731
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Speaker 2: So intense, and it broke my heart and just your

732
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 2: relationship with Abby, the girl who came in, you know,

733
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Speaker 2: and I think it was and how she was saying

734
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 2: Teddy said, you know you didn't you didn't follow a protocol.

735
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Speaker 2: But I'm glad. Yeah, yeah, like I'm glad that you didn't.

736
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Speaker 2: And I wish, I hope. I don't know what it's

737
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 2: like in real life for people that have to go

738
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Speaker 2: to the hospital and are dealing with that. I don't

739
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 2: know if there's doctors who treat them the way that

740
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Speaker 2: you did, you know, because I think you really had

741
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Speaker 2: to be that compassion and that empathetic for her to

742
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Speaker 2: open up.

743
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Speaker 1: Well, what's interesting to me is that, Okay, So Elizabeth

744
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 1: Finch wrote the episode, and three years ago she went

745
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Speaker 1: with other writers to the rape Treatment Center in Santa Monica,

746
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Speaker 1: La Santa Monica, and she describes as like the gold

747
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 1: standard of how you should treat people that come in

748
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: victims of rape and how they should be treated. And

749
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Speaker 1: so there's a couple things that she soul when she

750
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: was there ended up kind of being in the episode,

751
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: and I didn't know about. So one of the things

752
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 1: is that you get plot and aed up immediately with

753
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: either a counselor or a nurse practitioner, and they are

754
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: with you from beginning to the end. They do not

755
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: leave your side, and they are there after in the

756
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: future months if you want to go back and talk

757
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: to them and see them. And so that's what Joe.

758
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: That symbolicness of Joe holding her hand and being by

759
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: her son and not leaving is something that they like

760
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: to practice. And they're even they're even careful of when

761
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: they move, when they move with men or women from

762
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,479
Speaker 1: one room to the next, to make sure that that

763
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Speaker 1: transition into the new room is not jarring to them,

764
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Speaker 1: you know. And so you see that with that her

765
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Speaker 1: moving into the O army lining the hallways with women.

766
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that scene was so powerful.

767
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, So there's definitely things that that that I hope

768
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: and I hear are you know that we've implemented in

769
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Speaker 1: the episode that sort of are symbolic that you see

770
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: in the episode that do happen. But the rape kit

771
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: was an intense scene because I actually didn't know how

772
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Speaker 1: how many like samples they take and I didn't know

773
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: the entire process.

774
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, the photos, the samples.

775
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: The nail clippings, the hair things, that, all of the swabs.

776
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: It's just it's in your mouth. And uh. And after

777
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: we did that scene, actually because we had we have

778
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: medical professionals on SEP Linna Kline is one of our

779
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: executive producers and she's a surgeon, and so we have

780
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 1: people there showing us exactly what that was and it's

781
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: done in a very specific order. And when they were

782
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: just speaking about it in rehearsal, we started crying because

783
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: it was just overwhelming. We'd write it on the page,

784
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: but once you put it on its feet and you're

785
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 1: actually seeing, I mean, yeah, it just feels it's so intrusive,

786
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 1: and it just feels like, you know, you've already been

787
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: through so much trauma and then you're having to sort

788
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: of do this again. But it was so important for

789
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 1: us to show that also every step of the way,

790
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 1: when it comes to your body, you get to have

791
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: consent on it and you get to say.

792
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 2: Yes, I know. I found that right interesting.

793
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 1: Yes, I was a very clear point that we made

794
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,399
Speaker 1: that there's at any time if she says no, it's

795
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 1: done right.

796
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,399
Speaker 2: I literally get chills just like now talking about it

797
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 2: because I don't even I think. The thing that is

798
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 2: so it is so hard for me to see is

799
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 2: that these people are all victims, and yet they're made

800
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 2: to feel like they deserved it. Does that make sense?

801
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 2: Like she was embarrassed because she said I.

802
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 1: Was too drunk. She feels like it was too short.

803
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 1: She feels like that's what people will believe and say, yeah,

804
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 1: and we've seen that happen, right, We've been, We've been,

805
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 1: that's definitely happened. People are blamed for the clothes they're wearing, right,

806
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 1: they were drunk. We've seen it happen over and over again.

807
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 2: And that broke my heart because I couldn't imagine being

808
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 2: that sad and scared and hurt and vulnerable and still

809
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 2: having those thoughts of I don't want to speak up

810
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: because I don't want I don't want people.

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Speaker 1: To write for even the complication of like her saying

812
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: I had a fight. Was he supposed to be smoking cigarettes?

813
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 1: I went outside to smoke. I have my husband will

814
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: think I cheat on him. We wanted to show how

815
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 1: complicated that.

816
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: Feels, right, and I felt of you right.

817
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: And just to keep drumming home like the message of

818
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: this was not your fault, it's you know, like you

819
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 1: did nothing to deserve this. It was very specific language

820
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 1: that actually Rain gave us to like really drum home

821
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: that that message.

822
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, we got an email from Samantha knowing you were

823
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 3: coming on, just as I have to say, I'm so

824
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 3: thankful for Grays in the episode last night. It was

825
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 3: the most realistic TV episode in regards to sexual assault.

826
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 3: What really happens when a girl struggled to come forward.

827
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Speaker 3: I struggled sometimes still do. My sophomore year in high school,

828
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Speaker 3: I was assaulted on campus after hours prepping for homecoming week.

829
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Speaker 3: I remember the tiniest details, from the smell of his

830
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 3: gross ex body spray to the chilling of the lockers

831
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 3: I was thrown against, to the tiny rocks that dug

832
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 3: into my skin every time he moved. I did come

833
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 3: forward after two weeks of unbearable pain mentally, emotionally, and physically.

834
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 3: I confide it in our vice principle at the time,

835
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 3: who was a woman. She told me there was no

836
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 3: way to prove it, and quite frankly, I should just

837
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 3: let it go because our small town in Southern California

838
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 3: was a good town. Nothing bad happened here, and I

839
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 3: didn't need to tarnish this reputation. It took me a

840
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 3: long time to ever want to talk about it again.

841
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 3: I'm thankful Grace spoke about it not being our fault,

842
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 3: about it being my decision to come forward or not

843
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 3: to give us options af to what's next. My boyfriend,

844
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:27,919
Speaker 3: who has recently made aware of the trauma I went through,

845
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 3: sought through another perspective last night, and it brought us

846
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 3: closer together much loved to the scrubbing and fam Please

847
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 3: know if this happened to you, I am with you

848
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 3: and we are not alone. That's a powerful one.

849
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: Even though I say, I know that's incredible, I mean honestly,

850
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 1: like that's why we do episodes like that. I have

851
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 1: a messages like.

852
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 2: That, and I think I think the more that we

853
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 2: talk about it and the more that it's out there,

854
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:56,240
Speaker 2: I think, the more people. I think that's the biggest problem.

855
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 2: I mean, aside from the feelings. So I'm obviously the

856
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 2: violation right. Feeling so alone is like what I hear

857
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 2: from so many people because they're embarrassed to talk about it.

858
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 2: They don't want to share it, they feel guilt and shame.

859
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: And I think the more that we can have the

860
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 2: conversation and people can connect through that, right, even if

861
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 2: it's through a TV show, you know, like right, I

862
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 2: think it's really powerful.

863
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 1: Well, it's interesting because one of the storylines I really

864
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: love in the show that I haven't really spoken about

865
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: yet is between Talk and Ben and the conversation that

866
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: needs to happen with consent. So my fiance, he was

867
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,800
Speaker 1: getting messages last night from like, you know, his sister's

868
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 1: friends and different people saying I have sons. I'm going

869
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 1: to sit them down tomorrow night. I'm gonna make them

870
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 1: watch the episode and start a conversation about consent. Yeah,

871
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,399
Speaker 1: and so I think that's definitely one of the other

872
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: things we wanted to do with the episode is just

873
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: to spark the conversation of like tap on the shoulder, like,

874
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 1: have you spoken to your children about consent? Have your

875
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 1: family this is an open conversation. It needs to be

876
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: an open conversation.

877
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good I never thought of that perspective

878
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 2: of having that conversation with your kids about consent. I

879
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 2: don't yeah, you know, I don't think I ever had

880
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 2: that conversation with my parents.

881
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: No, I don't think that. I don't know if it's

882
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: a generational thing, but I think a lot of people

883
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 1: didn't even speak about sex with their parents, right, So

884
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 1: and so this is what we're trying to do is

885
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: sort of you know, with a show like Gray's Anatomy,

886
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: say it's we need to have those conversations.

887
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, Becca's on the phone.

888
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 2: Let's bring her on.

889
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 3: You would like to say hello because she feels badly

890
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 3: for not being here. Go ahead, Becca, Hi, Hi.

891
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 6: I am. This is the most devastating thing.

892
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 1: Where are you.

893
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 6: I'm at too with Laurel, which is really exciting, but

894
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 6: I was like, we have to figure out a way

895
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 6: for this to work. This is not fair.

896
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well, I'm sad that I missed you.

897
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 6: You you really have no idea?

898
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you don't, you have no idea. But I

899
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 2: have to tell you, she's even more amazing in real

900
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 2: life than you can even imagine.

901
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,280
Speaker 6: I almost called you, Joe.

902
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:21,760
Speaker 1: A lot of people call.

903
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 6: I know, I like, never wanted to be one of

904
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 6: those people. But here we are to listen to the

905
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 6: podcast and hear everything that y'all talked about. It's kind

906
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 6: of exciting to like be a listener for the first time.

907
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 6: But wow, will you come back one day?

908
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: I will come back anytime. You do.

909
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,399
Speaker 2: You live in LA Are you shooting up? Yeah?

910
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 6: Yeah?

911
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, yeah, so I'm here.

912
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 6: Well, or maybe we could just have a girl's night

913
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:54,439
Speaker 6: watch the show together, like whatever.

914
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: Was lying there, I'm in.

915
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,800
Speaker 2: We don't know if you're in the market for new girlfriends,

916
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,800
Speaker 2: but we're here and super fun.

917
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 6: That was super fun. And if you need a babysitter,

918
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 6: like a babysit whatever.

919
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you watch the episode last night?

920
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,359
Speaker 6: No, I have not been about moving in the night

921
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 6: because I've gotten so many treats about it. I'm trying

922
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 6: not to read anything because I want to watch it

923
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 6: and I don't want any spoilers. But I've heard it's

924
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 6: the most powerful episode in Gray's Anatomy history, so we

925
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 6: can controlled statement.

926
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but I have a box of tissues ready.

927
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,359
Speaker 6: I'm so excited. I've been waiting for you to have

928
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 6: a big moment in the storyline, and I'm really excited

929
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 6: that you're part of one of the biggest episodes.

930
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need too, I feel super honest.

931
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 3: Grace never gets any love.

932
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 2: It does in the time, didn't it beginnings.

933
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 3: Like now, No, I was watching last night. That's what

934
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 3: I was thinking was this is not going to get

935
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 3: anything for this, but she deserves it.

936
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what. It sounds cheesy, but like messages

937
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: like from fans like this, like that's that's what we

938
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: that's the act you that is Yeah, because I just

939
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: got so many messages last night. It was overwhelming.

940
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 6: Sure, it's like, you know, and people are finally, you know,

941
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 6: feeling because of things and episodes of on TV and

942
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 6: people coming out and being open and honest about it.

943
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 6: People are being feeling like braver and safer to come

944
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 6: out and talk about it.

945
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

946
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think it's really important for you know,

947
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: guys to watch the episode.

948
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 2: For sure.

949
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 1: We keep pushing like, you know, have your have your

950
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: boys watch.

951
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, well even I mean, I feel like any guy

952
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 6: who starts watching Gray's Anatomy really gets into it.

953
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,919
Speaker 1: No matter how they do them all the time they

954
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: blame it on like their moms and their sisters, and

955
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,959
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, right, yeah, all.

956
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's all the Bachelor is. Everyone's like, but I'm

957
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 6: so bummed that I missed you, but I'm so happy

958
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,439
Speaker 6: I got to at least talk to you and say

959
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 6: hi and like thank you for for doing something so

960
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 6: important on Gray's Anatomy, but also coming onto the.

961
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: Podcast my pleasure.

962
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is like, in fact, I was telling her,

963
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't think you understand. It's almost

964
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:07,720
Speaker 2: like who's your favorite person in the world.

965
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 1: This is my favorite like a famous person. Yeah, but

966
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,280
Speaker 1: I geek out, yeah, I mean like I would probably

967
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:14,720
Speaker 1: geek out about Britney Spears.

968
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is like Britney Spears walking through the

969
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 2: o R with her children. That would be Yeah, that's

970
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 2: how it feels, right now.

971
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,360
Speaker 3: That's why are her children I don't know, just.

972
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: To add the element just happen to add it.

973
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe with a snake, maybe with her snake around

974
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 2: her too, like Cheetos, Starbucks, the whole thing.

975
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:40,240
Speaker 6: I mean yeah, I mean I feel like you probably

976
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 6: got an idea when she heard what the podcast is called.

977
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, they're like, hey, this is about Graze now.

978
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, they're like, what, Oh, it would

979
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 1: be funny if you're like, actually, was er like a

980
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: lot of yourself completely shows.

981
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:06,960
Speaker 2: We actually have I have back in my desk, I

982
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 2: have like gloves and no I mean yeah, like we

983
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 2: used to like really fully get like full into it.

984
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:13,959
Speaker 2: I love that where we used to have that sign

985
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 2: on the door that said oh R two or whatever.

986
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: You guys the reason that we're still in season fifteen,

987
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: so thank you, Oh well, thank you.

988
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 6: We saw the podcast episode and we thought it was

989
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 6: maybe you know, and we.

990
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: Were hoping, yes, we're Maggie, We're hoping they should have

991
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: ad you want I know or amazing when when it.

992
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 2: Was like, what's a podcast? I was like, this seems

993
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 2: like it would have just been the perfect.

994
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 1: Little Yeah, that's.

995
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 6: Okay.

996
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna have to like if I see something

997
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 1: in a script again that could work, I'm gonna I'm

998
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 1: not suggesting Beta.

999
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 2: She actually said that we should just show up to

1000
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 2: the set and like Scrubs and they might not even

1001
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 2: like notice.

1002
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 1: They might not because honestly, also, like the only film

1003
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: thing that films on off set, you know, is General Hospital.

1004
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 1: We're the only two things on that lot, so we

1005
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:06,359
Speaker 1: just like a ton of lend right in. They're like, we.

1006
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:08,879
Speaker 6: Have to do that. That would be the funniest thing ever.

1007
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 2: I'm so down. I even think it's funny if they

1008
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 2: are like, what number yeah, extra are you and we're

1009
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,720
Speaker 2: like fifty four and you're like you're out of here.

1010
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: Like it's only forty like us like arrested totally.

1011
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 2: But it's fine because I now know all about the

1012
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 2: legal systems since i'd jury duty, so I can get

1013
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 2: us out of it.

1014
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 1: Amazing.

1015
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 3: Are you in for the long haul like Justin's been

1016
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 3: there from day one? Or you never know? Because you're actually.

1017
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 1: Hard gig to leave. I mean, I'm pretty attached to

1018
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: it at this point.

1019
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:36,360
Speaker 2: You can't.

1020
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: I also just feel like if I left, it's funny

1021
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: because you feel like loyalty to You're like you're on

1022
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: screen love interest. I'm like, I can't break them up,

1023
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: which is what would happen if i'd left, right, you were.

1024
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 6: Not allowed to leave, Like I know you don't have control,

1025
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 6: but you're not allowed to make that decision to leave. No,

1026
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 6: I'm here to tell you. We need you, Alex needs you.

1027
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: It's an incredible to be on. I have to say,

1028
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:03,399
Speaker 1: it would be very hard to leave.

1029
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 3: And is it also loyalty to old Camilla who was

1030
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 3: struggling and trying to make it as an actress and

1031
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 3: thinking matter off, I could just get a show like

1032
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 3: that wouldn't that be amazing? Like it seems weird to

1033
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 3: walk away from something that's such a dream, Company's actually.

1034
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: Not really that. It's almost like you want to see

1035
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 1: it through if you want to be there on the

1036
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: day the doors closed to the hospital like it's more

1037
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 1: but now being in it as opposed like postumela, it

1038
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: is not like present Camilla wanting to be like in

1039
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 1: the watching the lost shot of Grey's Anatomy happen and

1040
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 1: be part of that legacy of it ending. So it's

1041
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: kind of that, actually even more I have.

1042
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 3: Will Michelle Forbes be back again? I know you can't

1043
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:44,760
Speaker 3: give too much away, but that's my only.

1044
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 1: Thing I can tell you that she's not back this season,

1045
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 1: I mean, which is pretty devastating because the way she left,

1046
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: it's just like brutal. I was watching with my fiance

1047
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: and he knows what was going to happen. He was like,

1048
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 1: what she just left like that, not even but not

1049
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: a goodbye? Like what are we talking about?

1050
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 3: And we didn't even see her with the shots on

1051
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 3: your we definitely.

1052
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 1: Shot it a million different ways, but they yeah, they

1053
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 1: just had her those reactions, which is a super interesting choice.

1054
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: I think it made it like more jarring. We're not

1055
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 1: going to see her back this season. I don't know

1056
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: if we will see her ever again.

1057
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 3: Really excellent actress. So I thought this is the beginning

1058
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 3: of an art.

1059
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 6: We thought we thought she was going to have a stint.

1060
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: No, I think that I think she may have if

1061
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 1: the storyline hadn't been this, But I think that they

1062
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,359
Speaker 1: will wait. If they do bring her back, you'll be

1063
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 1: like shocked. They can't bring her back this season because

1064
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be that shocking. But I think she just

1065
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: show up one day, if she ever does. There's a

1066
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 1: part of me, as much as I love Michelle, I

1067
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 1: almost think the storyline is probably more realistic than maybe

1068
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: they never speak again, right, And so there's a part

1069
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:58,359
Speaker 1: of me that's okay with maybe them never seeing each

1070
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 1: other again. I don't know. I have mixed feelings.

1071
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 6: I have a question Tanya, and I asked these I

1072
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 6: don't know if she told you we did the carpet

1073
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 6: on Pailey Fest a few years ago.

1074
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 1: I saw pictures, yeah.

1075
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:16,959
Speaker 6: And our question everyone was, we don't want you to die,

1076
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 6: but if you could, if you knew that you were

1077
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:19,879
Speaker 6: going to die, and you got to choose your death

1078
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 6: on grease anatomy, what would it be?

1079
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: I think it would like I'd want it to be

1080
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 1: something heroic, like like Alex is dying and I offer

1081
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: him like.

1082
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 2: My head is a head transler, right liver, and then

1083
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 2: there's something happened as a failure.

1084
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:41,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would want to be saving someone else if

1085
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 1: I just ended up, like choking on a peanut in

1086
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: the cafeteria would suck. Yeah, No, so yeah on a sandwich.

1087
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 1: It'll be that. Now that I've said it, I'll be like,

1088
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 1: that's a great idea.

1089
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 6: I'm just like, want to listen to our podcast. We think,

1090
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 6: we don't think, so, we don't think.

1091
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 1: Just kidding, we don't think.

1092
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 2: That's just like way more on her plate than most

1093
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 2: of them.

1094
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 3: Running. Yeah, do you remember you said you had to

1095
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 3: double line because you said it with your your British

1096
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 3: accent instead of your American accent, which, by the way,

1097
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 3: I'm always blown away by that. It's like it's like acting.

1098
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 3: It's like another level of acting to me that you

1099
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 3: have to think about a different accent. Do you remember

1100
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 3: the line you had to dub so that we would

1101
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 3: watch it would be like, ah, that was dubbed.

1102
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,240
Speaker 1: No, I don't remember where for word. I think I said,

1103
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: like cool, doctor Shepherd, and I'm like, that doesn't work

1104
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: at all. I don't even I think their exact morning

1105
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:33,720
Speaker 1: was like I don't even know how you got away

1106
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:37,840
Speaker 1: with that not doing that line again. So it was

1107
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: like it was some sort of like cooling out to

1108
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 1: somebody and they're like you it was completely British. It

1109
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: wasn't even slightly. It was like more British than I

1110
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: even have. It's like cool.

1111
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 3: The way.

1112
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 2: That was also big news this week of did Patrick

1113
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:56,879
Speaker 2: Dempsey almost not being make Dreamy, Yeah, being Rob Low?

1114
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 1: I heard that. Oh my go, so.

1115
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 2: It is since when you am I a fair Weather fan?

1116
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, it seems that way.

1117
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 2: Why was that such big news this week?

1118
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 1: I think because he spoke about it.

1119
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,760
Speaker 2: So how did you know it was the insider intel?

1120
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 1: Because yeah, I remember I know just from talking to

1121
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 1: the cost about like their early days experience, Like not

1122
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 1: many people know that Justin wasn't in the pilot. They

1123
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: shot the pilot and then without him, and then I

1124
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 1: don't know how many months later after they got the

1125
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: show got picked up there like we need a jerk

1126
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 1: and they stuck him in.

1127
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 2: So interesting. Yeah, I would love.

1128
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 6: That I've read a buzzfeeding of like, oh like that.

1129
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: You don't know.

1130
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 6: I'm getting weirder the more i'm.

1131
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 2: I wouldn't hate Rob low Is McDreamy.

1132
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:55,720
Speaker 1: I can't imagine nothing, Patrick Dempsey, Dame. I can't imagine

1133
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:56,760
Speaker 1: it not being Patrick EMPs.

1134
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 6: I know that's kind of we're going to talk about that.

1135
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:01,479
Speaker 2: I'm gonna talked her about Danny and Izzie too before

1136
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:01,879
Speaker 2: she leaves.

1137
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 6: Okay, all right, well I have to go, but I'm

1138
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 6: so happy I got to say Hi. I can't wait

1139
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 6: to meet you whenever that day comes.

1140
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 2: Thank you, we love you, Thank you for having all

1141
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 2: Bye bye.

1142
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 3: I do think she has to go. You have a

1143
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 3: busy day today, Yes, I do.

1144
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:21,280
Speaker 1: It's a little bit crazy today, but it's fun.

1145
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 2: Okay, before you go, then, yes, one quick thing because

1146
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 2: we love obviously, we love love here and you are engaged.

1147
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 2: That ring is beautiful.

1148
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1149
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 2: How did you meet your fiance? It was the cliff

1150
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 2: notes version because I know you have to go.

1151
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 1: We wait at tables together at a sports bar and

1152
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: we've been together ever since.

1153
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 2: Did he like approach you and like, did he pursue you?

1154
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: Or did you know? I truly I never said this.

1155
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 1: I got drunk one night off the walk and I

1156
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: was like, I'm like really in love with you. So

1157
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 1: you made the first move clearly, very clearly.

1158
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:54,919
Speaker 2: I'm into it.

1159
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 3: Yes, I like to lay the handkerchief and let him

1160
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 3: make the first move. She likes to pursue.

1161
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 1: Oh you do, I do. I usually do. But it

1162
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:06,239
Speaker 1: was like TikTok. Do you know what I mean? You know,

1163
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:07,840
Speaker 1: like get it together.

1164
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 2: Well, you were truly fantastic. Thank you so much for

1165
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:16,760
Speaker 2: your time. Everybody. You can catch Camilla on a Gra's

1166
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,800
Speaker 2: Anatomy every Thursday night on ABC.

1167
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 1: Thank you, guys.

1168
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 2: I'm just praying my breath doesn't smell all right now.

1169
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: I was like all up in her is I am

1170
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 2: freaking out?

1171
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 3: She's fantastic, Like I'm gonna take my sweatshirt off. Yeah,

1172
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 3: I'm a little.

1173
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 2: Bit beyond fantastic. Everything I wanted and more.

1174
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was kind and funny and delightful, and you

1175
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 3: know what, she was kind of like Zachary Levi. She

1176
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 3: wasn't freaked out by you, not at all. No, she's

1177
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,840
Speaker 3: not not interested. She's not coming back and.

1178
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 2: Have to come back and discuss storylines. I was like

1179
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 2: public sister.

1180
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 3: That was awesome. That that was peak scrubbing in right there.

1181
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 3: It just happened.

1182
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 2: It just happened.

1183
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 3: Wow, texted me what you say?

1184
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:20,960
Speaker 2: Wow, she's everything, Becca, You're gonna die. She's everything we think.

1185
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 2: But even more. She autographed her face.

1186
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 3: That was cool too. I forgot we had those dumb pillows.

1187
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, we need to use those pillows

1188
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 3: as a checklist. When each person comes in. They signed

1189
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 3: their face, and we got to get them all signed.

1190
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 3: Is she and Justin are my top to come in here?

1191
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:45,760
Speaker 3: There's that's Karev.

1192
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: That's oh, that's what Callie.

1193
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 3: I don't think that's happening. This is Oh, that's easy.

1194
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 3: I didn't realize that these were like Grays Class six D.

1195
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 3: There's Meredith, she's coming in. I'm sure she'll commit in.

1196
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,280
Speaker 2: Are we sure that this is even coming? I can't

1197
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 2: quite tell.

1198
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 3: There's mcdream. Yeah, that's not going to happen. There's Weber maybe,

1199
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 3: I mean he learned what podcasts were. Yeah, maybe he

1200
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 3: can come in.

1201
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 2: Now.

1202
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 3: That's Yang. I don't I don't you know? No, do

1203
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 3: not killing you this magic? She's hosting Saturday Night Live.

1204
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 3: I'm sorry this is airing Monday. So she hosted Saturday

1205
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 3: Night Live last week, And sorry if that might have

1206
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 3: been confusing, by the way to a lot of you,

1207
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 3: because we kept talking about last night's graze. She could

1208
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 3: to commit on Friday. This will still air on Monday.

1209
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 3: Like always, there's McSteamy, I don't see him coming in,

1210
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 3: and then there's oh Jackson Avery maybe for sure, yeah,

1211
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 3: for sure, of course, yeah, lock it in.

1212
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 2: I sold so many more questions, but like I guess

1213
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:47,279
Speaker 2: I had to let her go. Well, she had to

1214
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:47,880
Speaker 2: go to West La.

1215
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 3: I didn't want to give short shrift to last night's episode.

1216
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 3: We wanted to definitely spend some time on that because

1217
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 3: it is so important, I know, and I think it

1218
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 3: was so impactful to so many people, and we have

1219
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 3: so many emails that we didn't get to, but I

1220
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 3: mean so many people that have been through it, and

1221
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 3: so many people I think learned from last night how

1222
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 3: they're not alone, and how many people And anyway, we

1223
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 3: couldn't just fangirl for the entire half an hour we

1224
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 3: had her.

1225
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 2: I know, we only had her for half an hour.

1226
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 2: I know it definitely held Actually I was like, we

1227
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 2: definitely held her over for a little bit longer, but

1228
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 2: she was cool.

1229
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 3: She was and by the way, the publicist wasn't getting

1230
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 3: on my case. I just knew we were over, so

1231
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 3: they were very cool about it.

1232
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 1: Wow.

1233
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was really great.

1234
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:28,879
Speaker 2: I'm a high.

1235
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: Yeah real, I just drank.

1236
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 2: I just popped open my little whatever this is to

1237
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 2: just throw it back and keep the high going.

1238
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 3: We're just lucky, and we we're so lucky because we're

1239
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 3: big fans of that show and we get to actually

1240
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 3: meet the people on the show. That is fortunate.

1241
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:42,799
Speaker 2: It is extremely fortunate. I wanted to try and get

1242
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 2: like more videos of her to post so that everybody

1243
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:47,720
Speaker 2: can see how she was just like in the wild.

1244
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:49,720
Speaker 2: But then I felt like kind of creepery creepery.

1245
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:51,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, and what was the last time I got a

1246
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 3: picture with a guest? Never?

1247
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 1: And you never want?

1248
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 3: I don't care, but.

1249
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 2: I felt like you were.

1250
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:58,800
Speaker 3: I was like, marketings, the ones I want are not available,

1251
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 3: Like when Elton John came in. That was exciting for me,

1252
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 3: but I'm not going to make it. I'm gonna selfie.

1253
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 2: I'll post this cute little photo of the two of

1254
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 2: you in the Facebook group.

1255
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:08,719
Speaker 3: Conan O'Brien I got a picture with.

1256
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,879
Speaker 2: She was so cool and I literally like I showed

1257
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 2: her the photos. I was like, do you like any

1258
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 2: of these? She's like, yeah, I don't care. Oh, does

1259
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 2: not even care which one we post? I know, I

1260
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 2: know girl crush beyond Like what do I even follow

1261
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 2: her on Instagram? I need to make sure I follow her.

1262
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 3: You really should do that. If I don't like you,

1263
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 3: I don't know where to go from there. We do

1264
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:31,319
Speaker 3: have some emails. Oh, and I had a game we

1265
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 3: were going to play. No, I mean maybe, but I

1266
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 3: didn't want to waste time with the game with her.

1267
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 3: We had so much to talk to her about. I'll

1268
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 3: let you actually know we should do what we should

1269
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:41,760
Speaker 3: do the Mash game.

1270
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 2: You I don't even follow her.

1271
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 3: That's embarrassing, that's you.

1272
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 2: Oh just followed her?

1273
00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:46,879
Speaker 6: Uh?

1274
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm talking about? The Mash game?

1275
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 2: Yes? Is that fun for people that are listening?

1276
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:53,879
Speaker 3: I think, I mean, I'll explain it, but I think so.

1277
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 2: Okay, before we do the Mash game, is there any

1278
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 2: other housekeeping that we need to tend to.

1279
00:56:58,000 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 3: We're going to take care of that. But no, we're

1280
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:02,319
Speaker 3: good on the not like spots and stuff done with those.

1281
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,880
Speaker 2: No, I mean like just like life stuff.

1282
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:08,840
Speaker 3: Okay, I talked about Zachary Levi. Your mom stayed with

1283
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 3: you all week.

1284
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 2: Which was I have never felt so like I can't

1285
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 2: even explain it having your because every time I'm with

1286
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 2: my parents, I go home to my childhood home. I've

1287
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 2: never had a home where I can have people stay.

1288
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 3: It's interesting.

1289
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's so nice being able to come home

1290
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 2: from work and just like have my mom and she's

1291
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 2: like cooking chicken and like healthy chicken. And I've just

1292
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 2: felt very it's been very, very nice. I'm so sad

1293
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 2: when she left.

1294
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 3: I think it's beautiful that you have that relationship with

1295
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 3: your brother, because I think most people would be over

1296
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 3: it after a few days.

1297
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: Uh.

1298
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 2: She was only here for like the not even like

1299
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:48,439
Speaker 2: I mean like the week.

1300
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 3: A week is a long time you and your mom

1301
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 3: in an apartment.

1302
00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I could have had her for another week.

1303
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 3: That's fantastic. Yeah, she doesn't. She's not nosy. She's not

1304
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 3: getting into your business. She's not constantly telling you how

1305
00:57:58,320 --> 00:57:59,919
Speaker 3: to live or how to eat or how to sleep

1306
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 3: for any of that stuff. No, that's great. No, was

1307
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 3: there anything about your daily routine that she was a

1308
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 3: little way to not buy?

1309
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 2: No, what's really funny is she like opened my friend

1310
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 2: and she's like, why do you have all this beer

1311
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 2: in here? And I was like, well, Ryan and Sisney

1312
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 2: told me to keep it in there just for gud

1313
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 2: guys that come over. And she's like, oh, any special

1314
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 2: visitors coming over here. I was like, definitely not.

1315
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 3: Beer expired in twenty sixteen.

1316
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, So that was funny, but it was really cute

1317
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 2: because she obviously doesn't have to wake up at a

1318
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 2: certain time. She can just wake up whenever she wants.

1319
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 2: But she we wake up at like four thirty, so

1320
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 2: she would literally wake up with me, like in solidarity,

1321
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 2: and like come downstairs and like make coffee and just

1322
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 2: kind of chill, and then when I left to go

1323
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 2: to work, she would go back to bed. And my

1324
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:45,640
Speaker 2: mom doesn't sleep till new like I mean, she normally

1325
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 2: wakes up like eight.

1326
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 3: But she was up till two in the morning watching

1327
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 3: The Resident.

1328
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:51,959
Speaker 2: Yes, she is now a fan of The Resident, which

1329
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 2: made me very happy. But I almost wish she started

1330
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 2: from season one because I kind of started her where

1331
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 2: I was at, and so she's basically caught up on

1332
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 2: season two, but she never want season one.

1333
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 3: What else you got her? Into something else too.

1334
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: If I recall, I watched the Amy Schumer documentary or

1335
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 2: the Amy Stumer stand Up with Her, which was hilarious

1336
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 2: if you have not seen it.

1337
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 3: It's a mum growing I believe.

1338
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 2: I don't know what it's called, but it is fan freakantastic. Right,

1339
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 2: It's a very good laugh.

1340
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 3: I feel like we're heading because of Netflix, we're getting

1341
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 3: into another like stand up age where stand up was

1342
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 3: kind of non existent for a while, but now she

1343
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 3: bringing it back.

1344
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 2: I highly recommend that. It was so good.

1345
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:30,959
Speaker 3: And I watched The Inventor, the HBO documentary YEP, which

1346
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 3: people have compared you to her because neither of you blink.

1347
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know how much I like that comparison

1348
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 2: because she's like kind of nuts. But the one they

1349
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 2: described like they basically say how she's very like persuasive

1350
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 2: and engaging because she doesn't blink. So I'm taking it

1351
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 2: as a positive. Okay, you know, like I'm not.

1352
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 3: Well, that's how she sold everybody on this scam, right.

1353
00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, because she was like very persuasive.

1354
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 3: What else anything else with you that we should know

1355
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 3: about this weekend?

1356
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 6: No?

1357
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 2: But you know what, my heart is very open right now.

1358
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,520
Speaker 2: So cheesy. What's wrong with me?

1359
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 3: It's like I literally have just like this like giggle Puss,

1360
01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 3: so nothing, no dates on the horizon, no dates on

1361
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:08,920
Speaker 3: the horizon. You had a coffee date recently, but you

1362
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 3: don't want to talk about that.

1363
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a coffee date and just crickets. So

1364
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:18,800
Speaker 2: weird beyond weird. And what's the weirder part is like

1365
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 2: I went out with him, like we met for coffee,

1366
01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 2: and I left being like I've never had more in

1367
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 2: common with someone in my life.

1368
01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 3: So you left there feeling pretty good about.

1369
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:30,439
Speaker 2: It for sure, like not even good, like I'll see

1370
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 2: him again.

1371
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 3: Like no question about it.

1372
01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 2: No question about it. And it was one of my

1373
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 2: best friend's birthdays. So I just kind of like after

1374
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 2: I met him, I had to just kind of keep

1375
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 2: going and like run errands and pick up flowers and

1376
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 2: like things like that. So I didn't really give it

1377
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 2: much thought. And then just as the days went by,

1378
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 2: I was like, this is so weird. I haven't heard

1379
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 2: from him and still have not, so I guess the

1380
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 2: ship sailed.

1381
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 3: Did you text him at all? Or was there any

1382
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 3: post coffee taks? Like that was great? Thanks for everything.

1383
01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 2: Good to zero. Wow, isn't that weird.

1384
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 3: How often it happens to you? It's it.

1385
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 2: It can't be me.

1386
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 3: No, I don't. I honestly don't think it is joke

1387
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 3: and stuff and say that it's you. But I don't

1388
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 3: think it is because I think you're very charming and engaging.

1389
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 3: I don't think that's the you know what's funny.

1390
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 2: So I was talking to back about this because I

1391
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,640
Speaker 2: got really insecure because I'm like, is it the way

1392
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 2: that I look like? Because I'm not crazy. I know

1393
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 2: when conversation is fun and easy and good, and that

1394
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 2: was all there. So I'm like, is it something about

1395
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 2: me physically that's like scary? Like you know, you go

1396
01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 2: to that dark place of like what is it?

1397
01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:35,000
Speaker 3: I understand that. I think everybody goes through that.

1398
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 2: And I went through it and I was really sad

1399
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 2: for like a day, and then I woke up the

1400
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 2: next day and I was like, why am I doing

1401
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 2: this to myself? Like why there's nothing? Yes, of course,

1402
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 2: nobody's perfect. I don't think I'm perfect.

1403
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 3: You're allowing other people to control your emotions.

1404
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, And like if it is something about me physically

1405
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 2: or about my job or about whatever XYZ, that it

1406
01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:00,160
Speaker 2: could be it's on him, that's on him. I have

1407
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 2: a really great life. I'm happy. I love what I do,

1408
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 2: I love the people in it, and like I have

1409
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 2: so much to offer, and if whatever that thing is

1410
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 2: that's scaring people, then their loss, Like I can't take

1411
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:16,919
Speaker 2: it personal anymore. Like I'm over it. I got really sad.

1412
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 2: And then I woke up and was like, I'm over

1413
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:23,400
Speaker 2: this because Becka posted this photo where she's like kind

1414
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 2: of just been feeling a little bit insecure lately, and

1415
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 2: I'm After I saw her caption, I wrote her and

1416
01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 2: said like, I'm so sad that you've been feeling this way.

1417
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 2: I was like, I actually felt like that this weekend,

1418
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 2: and I told her why and something. So we kind

1419
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 2: of had like a encouraging moment with each other where

1420
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 2: we both were just like encouraging each other back and forth,

1421
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 2: because everything everybody kind of goes through those moments in life.

1422
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 3: Do you think they're intimidated? Do you think that's part

1423
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 3: of it because you've got such so much going on.

1424
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 3: I would be if I were saying I would be

1425
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 3: intrigued by that and excited by that.

1426
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 2: That's what I would think too. And like a lot

1427
01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 2: like this guy has his own thing going on, right,

1428
01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 2: you know, like he's not He's got a lot going

1429
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 2: on for himself, and we just really hit it off

1430
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 2: in terms of just the way we live. Our lives

1431
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 2: are very similar, you know. And it sounds so silly,

1432
01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 2: but like a hook up.

1433
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 3: I don't know, I need to get any details, but

1434
01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 3: this is a hook up from a friend, right, Yes.

1435
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:16,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, eat the same way, like eat super clean, work

1436
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 2: out every day, like goes to sleep pretty much the

1437
01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 2: same time I do a little bit like you know

1438
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 2: what I mean, just spiritual, spiritual, everything just kind of

1439
01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:28,480
Speaker 2: mind up. It was weird.

1440
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 3: Well, hey his loss. Yeah, I need a hat if

1441
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:35,919
Speaker 3: we're going to do the mash game. This is something

1442
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 3: that Breonna posted in the Facebook group and seemed like fun.

1443
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 3: Ethan's going to find me a hat while I read

1444
01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 3: you this email from anonymous Ready Tanya. Yes, I'm a

1445
01:03:42,080 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 3: junior in college and I have this crazy connection with

1446
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 3: my teacher. From the moment I saw him. There was

1447
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 3: this connection that just feels right, and I miss him

1448
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 3: when we don't have class. We're friends on Snapchat, but

1449
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 3: the whole class is That's not as weird as it sounds,

1450
01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 3: but we've talked outside of the class. We've even sent

1451
01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 3: heart emojis to each other. We've hugged a few times

1452
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 3: where he initiated, and he's talked to me about his

1453
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 3: past relationships and family. He's almost exactly twenty years older

1454
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 3: than me, and it's single with two kids. What do

1455
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 3: I do with this connection? Wow?

1456
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a ta or teacher teacher and she's how old?

1457
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 3: Well, she's a junior in college. I would imagine it's

1458
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 3: twenty one to forty one. But that's just a guess.

1459
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm kind of here for it.

1460
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 3: I don't know that I Am tell me why. I think,

1461
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 3: thank you Easton for the hat. I think she may

1462
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 3: be misreading his friendliness heart emojis. I'm sorry it might be.

1463
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:36,160
Speaker 2: Look, we're friends and we're coworkers. You've never sent me

1464
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:37,120
Speaker 2: a heart emoji?

1465
01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 3: No, but I've sent emojis Like, maybe he's just trying

1466
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:44,920
Speaker 3: to speak the language of the youths as a college professor.

1467
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe he's I don't know, Am. My concern is

1468
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 3: if well, as long as you're his student, nothing's going

1469
01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 3: to happen.

1470
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 2: Right, But I mean to me, age is not if

1471
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 2: you here's the thing. I dated somebody that was way

1472
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 2: older than me for a hot minute, and he acted

1473
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 2: like my age, but like really put together. He was

1474
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 2: I can't remember old I was at the time. He

1475
01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 2: was in his forties and I was in my like

1476
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 2: earth like right after uh so like twenty I think

1477
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 2: I was twenty five, so good seventeen years old and

1478
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 2: he still served and worked out and then looked really

1479
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 2: good and we really like connected, like I felt like

1480
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 2: he was my age. The only thing is it got

1481
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:29,840
Speaker 2: weird was when he was like I lived in Asia

1482
01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 2: for eight years and he he'd lived a lot of life,

1483
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:38,160
Speaker 2: and I was like, I just graduated from college a

1484
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 2: few years ago, you know what I mean. So like

1485
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 2: all those things started kind of being a little bit

1486
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 2: weird for me because I felt like he just lived

1487
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:47,440
Speaker 2: so much more life than me. So it was it

1488
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 2: got to that point where I was like, I kind

1489
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 2: of want to like live life with Yeah, I don't know,

1490
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:54,919
Speaker 2: Like that's what was hard for me. So I don't

1491
01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 2: think if I don't think the age things should stop

1492
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:03,960
Speaker 2: you in it and more so than like not lining

1493
01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 2: up in life.

1494
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 3: So when the semester is over, yeah shoot your shot.

1495
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 3: At that point, yeah, since you have his phone number

1496
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:11,919
Speaker 3: or at least a Snapchat, you can get a hold

1497
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 3: of him and just say, look, I feel like you

1498
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 3: and I have a connection. Would you be interested in

1499
01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 3: getting together for coffee?

1500
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1501
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 3: I mean, you don't really have anything to lose at

1502
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:20,040
Speaker 3: that point totally.

1503
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,280
Speaker 2: And then if he's like, like, who cares?

1504
01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, he might be like, you know, I'm so sorry

1505
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 3: if I gave you the wrong idea. Blah blah blah, Okay, whatever,

1506
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:29,000
Speaker 3: you move on. But yeah, I guess I guess nothing.

1507
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 2: To lose, nothing to lose, because if he says no,

1508
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,120
Speaker 2: then I who cares? What I'm here for?

1509
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 6: Girl?

1510
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 3: Keep us posted to the rest of the semester. Leigh

1511
01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 3: in the groundwork, Yeah for that texture, gonna send.

1512
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:42,120
Speaker 2: I look good, got look good? And you look goog Gir,

1513
01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 2: I look good, don't you look?

1514
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 1: Gig?

1515
01:06:44,920 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 2: What song am I singing? I don't know, you know,

1516
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:49,240
Speaker 2: nobody knows that song? You look Giger?

1517
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:50,560
Speaker 1: You look gig?

1518
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 3: All right? So Brianna posted this. She actually like, this

1519
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 3: is a game that we should all know. Let's play

1520
01:06:57,000 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 3: in this in game of Mash.

1521
01:06:58,080 --> 01:06:59,959
Speaker 2: She said, yeah, we know, I know Mash.

1522
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 3: Do you know this game?

1523
01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:01,280
Speaker 5: I've played.

1524
01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:04,840
Speaker 2: Mansion, apartment, shack home, that's.

1525
01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 3: What it is. Yeah, okay, great, all right, we let's

1526
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:06,920
Speaker 3: start with that.

1527
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 1: Then.

1528
01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 3: I have taken all of her little ideas and put

1529
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 3: them on little slips of paper, and I've put them

1530
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 3: in this hat. So now you can choose. First, we'll

1531
01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 3: start with your place to live, where you're gonna live, Tanya,

1532
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 3: find out.

1533
01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna live. I'm gonna live in a mansion.

1534
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:24,280
Speaker 3: Oh very nice. But the next question is who is

1535
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 3: your husband going to be?

1536
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 2: What are my options?

1537
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:29,600
Speaker 3: Well, she only gave four here, but I actually took

1538
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 3: every male cast member of Gray's Anatomy and put it

1539
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 3: in this hat. Okay, wow, so here comes your future husband.

1540
01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 2: I'm a little bit nervous because this could really go.

1541
01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:38,480
Speaker 3: It could go a lot aways to go, a lot

1542
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:41,120
Speaker 3: of ways. All right, here is your future husband.

1543
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 1: It is.

1544
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 2: This is the worst possible outcomeing is it going?

1545
01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 6: Yes?

1546
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 2: Okay, this is not cool.

1547
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 3: What did you an imagine together?

1548
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 2: He's gonna be in the different wings, a different, completely

1549
01:07:58,800 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 2: different wing.

1550
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 3: There. All right, a doctor. I have put your possible specialties.

1551
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 2: This is not fair. I don't want to meet I'd

1552
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 2: rather be in a shack with Zachary than a mansion

1553
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 2: with Neuroay.

1554
01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 3: Okay, does that work for you? Sure you can see

1555
01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 3: yourself in neuro All right? Uh, this is the tragedy

1556
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,320
Speaker 3: that will ultimately be follow you, because every character on

1557
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 3: Grays suffers the tragedy at some point.

1558
01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 2: Who's hot? Is this? By the way?

1559
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:27,000
Speaker 1: Is this is Sam hat head morphant.

1560
01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 2: Missed head injury after fatal.

1561
01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 3: Car crash and your future? This is how your character

1562
01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:43,559
Speaker 3: will end up living in a mansion with Owen Hunt

1563
01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:45,000
Speaker 3: specializing in neuro.

1564
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:48,720
Speaker 2: I then join doctor Yang and Switzerland. That works for you,

1565
01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 2: and then we can both talk about how awful Owen

1566
01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:51,680
Speaker 2: Hunt is.

1567
01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 3: Well, thank you for the game, Briann, And that was

1568
01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:56,679
Speaker 3: kind of cute.

1569
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:58,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks Brianna, we appreciate that.

1570
01:08:58,960 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 3: I also have a thing that we can next week

1571
01:09:00,360 --> 01:09:03,439
Speaker 3: when Becca's back. We've talked about this. I put all

1572
01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 3: the male cast members in a hat and all the

1573
01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 3: female cast members in a hat, and we can draw

1574
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 3: out couples and see what we think of each couple. Oh,

1575
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:13,880
Speaker 3: that's fine, But then I wondered about that, am I

1576
01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 3: We're living in a post gender sexuality society. Should we

1577
01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:19,000
Speaker 3: just put them all on a hat and you at

1578
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 3: a time and see if they work as a couple. Okay,

1579
01:09:21,240 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 3: that's what we'll do. Great idea, we'll do that next week.

1580
01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:25,599
Speaker 2: Has that been more done? Uh?

1581
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:26,559
Speaker 3: We can be.

1582
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:32,920
Speaker 2: You don't want to be done, but I guess all right.

1583
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 3: Jamie wants your advice. She's twenty seven, she's been dating

1584
01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 3: a guy for two months now. There have been zero

1585
01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 3: red flags. I have never needed to talk, So I

1586
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 3: have never needed to talk to someone or wanted to

1587
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 3: see someone so often. It sounds like Tanya knows the

1588
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 3: ropes for feeling these things so deeply. So help me.

1589
01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 3: They seem to be affecting my day to day emotions

1590
01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 3: and I'm not at ease until I hear from him

1591
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 3: or see him.

1592
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:54,679
Speaker 2: Oh no, this is not good.

1593
01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 3: How do I go about my day without overthinking everything?

1594
01:09:57,240 --> 01:09:59,719
Speaker 3: How do I keep my confidence and my independence? Okay?

1595
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 3: So I don't have to be a modern woman. And

1596
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 3: she feels like she's losing that because she's so enamored,

1597
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 3: so hard eyed with this guy.

1598
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:07,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's her name?

1599
01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 3: This is Jamie?

1600
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:11,759
Speaker 2: Jamie. I feel you, girl, because I'm the exact same way.

1601
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:15,760
Speaker 2: When I'm in on something, I am all in and

1602
01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 2: it can be all consuming and you're not. Like it

1603
01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:23,120
Speaker 2: happens to everybody. I think it's a very common thing.

1604
01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:27,080
Speaker 3: It's the zero chill phenomenon. Yes, the Tanya and Jamie

1605
01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 3: both suffer from.

1606
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 2: Yes, I think the thing that you have to remember

1607
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:34,640
Speaker 2: is like and it's like kind of morbid and like

1608
01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:38,040
Speaker 2: sad to think about. But I never want to fully

1609
01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:42,320
Speaker 2: rely on one person, like and for me it's it's spiritual.

1610
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 2: So like for me, it's my relationship with God. That's

1611
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:46,200
Speaker 2: like my ultimate, my end. I'll be off because he's

1612
01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:49,280
Speaker 2: never going to go anywhere. That makes sense. You have

1613
01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:53,640
Speaker 2: to kind of never have all your expectations on one

1614
01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:55,760
Speaker 2: person and get your joy. Like I know, it's super

1615
01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:57,880
Speaker 2: exciting when you're just like newly talking to somebody and

1616
01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:00,040
Speaker 2: you have that message and you go to sleep and

1617
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 2: and you wake up to a message from them, and

1618
01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:04,439
Speaker 2: like you can get super excited, but you have to

1619
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 2: try your best to kind of keep going, like keep

1620
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:14,640
Speaker 2: your focus on you and not give him everything you

1621
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:19,640
Speaker 2: just can, yeah, because if that relationship ends, and it

1622
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:23,840
Speaker 2: might just might. When that you've been there, Yeah, it's

1623
01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 2: like your whole world's like fallen apart, and that is

1624
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 2: like the worst thing, Like it's truly the worst feeling

1625
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:32,400
Speaker 2: in the entire world, like to feel like the rug

1626
01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 2: was pulled out from under you and your life is

1627
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:36,400
Speaker 2: completely shifted in a different direction that you didn't see it,

1628
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 2: And it's because of the expectations we put on things.

1629
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 2: So I think eliminating eliminating the expectations that we put

1630
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 2: on things is really the key to happiness. Because if

1631
01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 2: you don't expect him to be your boyfriend, husband, and

1632
01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 2: I know I'm joking about zacharlea by being my husband,

1633
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:54,840
Speaker 2: I really don't have that expectation of that. But when

1634
01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 2: it becomes like a real thing that you put on

1635
01:11:57,400 --> 01:11:59,960
Speaker 2: these relationships, when it doesn't go that way, it can

1636
01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:03,920
Speaker 2: be extremely painful. So I think, just like not having

1637
01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:06,639
Speaker 2: expectations and just living for a day by day, you.

1638
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:11,160
Speaker 3: Need a really solid foundation to support those kinds of expectations. Yes,

1639
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:13,200
Speaker 3: if and the foundation is not going to be there

1640
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 3: after two months.

1641
01:12:14,040 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 2: But even when you're like married, I think you still

1642
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:20,719
Speaker 2: have to not have expectations of things.

1643
01:12:20,720 --> 01:12:22,160
Speaker 3: You still have to have your own life and your

1644
01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 3: own friends and your own things going on. My wife

1645
01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:26,320
Speaker 3: was out with her friends for a dinner last night. Yeah,

1646
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 3: that needs to still happen.

1647
01:12:27,960 --> 01:12:28,360
Speaker 2: It does.

1648
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 3: You can't become too obsessed with each other. So what's

1649
01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:33,919
Speaker 3: the advice. The advice is to put throw yourself into

1650
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:38,200
Speaker 3: your work, your faith, your hobbies, something to make sure

1651
01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:40,080
Speaker 3: that you're not thinking about him twenty four to seven,

1652
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:42,040
Speaker 3: even if it's going great.

1653
01:12:41,920 --> 01:12:45,480
Speaker 2: Even if it's going great, always always.

1654
01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:48,160
Speaker 3: Because it's about you. It's about Jamie first, James, and

1655
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:50,559
Speaker 3: that makes you more attractive by the way.

1656
01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I do think relationships are compromised, and eventually

1657
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 2: down the road, like you know, marriages compromised, you're gonna have.

1658
01:12:56,600 --> 01:12:59,519
Speaker 2: You know, you have to give and take. But at

1659
01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:03,360
Speaker 2: the end of the day, you have to be taking

1660
01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:04,080
Speaker 2: care of yourself.

1661
01:13:05,240 --> 01:13:09,439
Speaker 3: Sound advice, Tanya. We need to thank some people. First

1662
01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:11,639
Speaker 3: of all, we need to think Camilla Luttington, I mean,

1663
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:17,839
Speaker 3: because she's our new favorite. This is why Gray's Anatomy

1664
01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:19,479
Speaker 3: is such a family because they have people like Camilla

1665
01:13:19,560 --> 01:13:21,960
Speaker 3: Luddington and Jason George on that set and those are

1666
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:23,479
Speaker 3: both quality folks right there.

1667
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd like to get Miranda Bailey in here.

1668
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:28,000
Speaker 3: We need to do that. Chondra Wilson needs to come

1669
01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:30,240
Speaker 3: in here. She does She and Justin Chambers are top

1670
01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 3: of my.

1671
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:33,719
Speaker 2: List for that would be like the Pinnacle.

1672
01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 3: Can you imagine those two? I mean obviously Allen, but I.

1673
01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 2: Almost like don't want to have her because like she's

1674
01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 2: just this like Mecca, you know what I mean, Like

1675
01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 2: in no.

1676
01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 3: Way it couldn't be a letdown because she's such an icon.

1677
01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 2: True, but I felt the same way about Joe, and

1678
01:13:51,320 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 2: she really exceeded expectations.

1679
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:55,240
Speaker 3: So but it's not Joe's anatomy.

1680
01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:58,120
Speaker 2: Correct, it should be, though we.

1681
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Speaker 3: Yay for now we're losing We're losing the patient.

1689
01:14:28,479 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 1: Uh oh, she's.

1690
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 3: Becoming increasingly tachocartica card oh oh, I pick that up

1691
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 3: from the subtitles. I watched the subtitles though, so I

1692
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:41,360
Speaker 3: can understand tach of cartic. It's not going well. Uh

1693
01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 3: oh oh oh, blood pressures dropping. What should we do? Doctor,

1694
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 3: doctor rad from neuro.

1695
01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:49,920
Speaker 2: Let her go piece.

1696
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:52,280
Speaker 3: Should they push any eppie or no? Don't push the

1697
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 3: no we shoulda then greeting. Everything seems fine right now.

1698
01:14:55,920 --> 01:15:00,719
Speaker 2: I think it's it's no time of death eleven forty