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Speaker 1: How is your girl XP? And is your girls? Right?

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Speaker 2: In the call and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 2: episode of Poor Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 2: guests today. We don't we don't.

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Speaker 1: So I'll be so excited. I know me too, So

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Speaker 1: I have a question for you.

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Speaker 2: Oh damn, well, how you doing?

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Speaker 1: I'm great? I'm great.

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Speaker 3: So we've been getting a lot of questions lately when

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Speaker 3: we be like introducing ourselves to people.

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Speaker 1: Would you ever change the name of the show? You

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Speaker 1: know what? Honestly, who asks us that? At? Was this Harris?

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Speaker 1: That ax us at Basha? He said we.

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Speaker 3: Gotta change he did, He said, we gotta change the

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Speaker 3: name from poor Minds because even though it's p oh,

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Speaker 3: you are the fact that we have to let people

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Speaker 3: know that every time speaks volumes and we should change

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Speaker 3: it because the power of the tongue is real.

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Speaker 2: But the power of the tongue is real, but it's

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Speaker 2: not we're not speaking on our finances and our I

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Speaker 2: don't you know what if we had to change our name,

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Speaker 2: like if we get picked up by like a major

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Speaker 2: network and they wanted to rebrand the show and grow

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Speaker 1: I won't. I don't care because I'll say this.

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Speaker 2: Our dynamic is our dynamic. And sure the name of

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Speaker 2: the show doesn't make us. So if we absolutely had

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Speaker 1: Of like a higher up or somebody that we're trying

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Speaker 2: paul mind.

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Speaker 1: I know, I like our name. I think it's cute.

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Speaker 1: I think it's cute. I like explaining it. I think

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Speaker 1: it's cute. I also like like the play on words.

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Speaker 3: It's like a double untendre, like that's why we named

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Speaker 3: I like it, but you know, it is annoying though

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Speaker 1: You are well see.

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Speaker 2: I like it because I feel like it's a it's

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Speaker 2: we be getting lit.

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Speaker 1: Now you're gonna get litten. Yeah, maybe, like you know,

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Speaker 1: it makes them feel a little more comfortable. So obviously,

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Speaker 2: Gonna get released and we're talking about things that are

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Speaker 2: we just came back from doing Essence and the BT Award.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So how was your first BET Awards experience? I

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Speaker 3: I really had a good time, Like, which's so crazy

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Speaker 3: because when we went to LA we wasn't even really

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Speaker 2: Feel about the BT experience, right, the media house was great.

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Speaker 2: Really everybody, I'm not lying to y'all. I'm not lying.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know i'd be I'm not lying today. Everybody that

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Speaker 2: Pouring people's shots like I think our experience like when

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Speaker 1: We looked amazing. And we felt amazing.

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Speaker 2: Y'all have to realize we started this show again on

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Speaker 1: To be at the BT Awards. I thought we did that. Okay,

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Speaker 2: We did, I know, But that's okay. But I will

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Speaker 2: the same. It's the same thing. You're commenting on something

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Speaker 2: that you're not experiencing. So y'all are trying to decrease

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Speaker 2: You know, the girls who had booked us for Essence Festival,

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Speaker 1: You're not here. How can you say the BT Awards

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Speaker 2: And you're literally just you're not really Experiencing a concert

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Speaker 2: on the commentary. Everybody was talking about Usher's tribute. Usher

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Speaker 1: He's insane.

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Speaker 2: You're not here, Essence, y'all are seeing clips of a concert.

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Speaker 3: Essence was fun. We had fun in New Orleans. Soon

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Speaker 3: stop it, we did, and our panel.

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Speaker 1: Was really, really good. We ate that up. We did.

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Speaker 3: Thank you and it was it was really fun, like

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Speaker 1: You know. It was a lot of the poor crew

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Speaker 2: And we met our first poor baby breeze shut out

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Speaker 3: And then we went to like the Cash Money Reunion concert.

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Speaker 1: It was good. A few we did and we ate

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Speaker 1: Telling you how the minds belong around the.

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Speaker 2: Bad shoulder and he and our management hit us up

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Speaker 2: Of course, you know my bad y'all tea in my tea.

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Speaker 2: I told y'all should have took that shot.

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Speaker 3: This is the lea's okay. So now we didn't need

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Speaker 3: a little wrap up. We got an X tie. What

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Speaker 1: This is a little more than just champagne. You said

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Speaker 1: the summer anthem is big Mama, Big Mama. So this

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Speaker 3: Okay, have a couple of these you may be calling period.

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Speaker 3: So this this one has a little bit of passion fruit.

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Speaker 1: That's perfect. Well, it's tangy. It's good. You could hit

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Speaker 1: me with a little tequila. Tequila, I got you. I'm

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Speaker 2: And add some vodka asking me, so you ain't gotta

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Speaker 1: Damn Jesus Christ. Okay, So while we get that and

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Speaker 1: Can I tell you something I don't know? I don't know? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: sure so, and please don't judge me.

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Speaker 2: Did y'all know that carrot cake has actual carrots in it?

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Speaker 3: You ain't never seen the strips of carrots in the cave,

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Speaker 1: a carrot flavoring. No, it's real carrots. Okay, that's crazy

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Speaker 3: That's why I did it though, because lex Let's let

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Speaker 1: So I actually.

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Speaker 3: Did that on purpose because I knew he was gonna

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Speaker 1: Tell him about the taxicount. He was sugar.

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Speaker 3: She was asking a man to play Life, classic, her

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Speaker 3: he was like Life, and then she was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: and you love brown Sugar.

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Speaker 1: It never gets on.

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Speaker 3: You always have need that little little quiver. I'm trying

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Speaker 3: to think, what's another song? You've been singing?

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Speaker 1: All the Monica songs? Ohs a mountains, nothing more? You

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Speaker 4: But no y'all ever turn the mac Return of the

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Speaker 2: Okay, But I will say this, when I hear Life,

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Speaker 1: What is it about? Can you explain to me what

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Speaker 1: He came in soul. Something was going on. It was tight.

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Speaker 2: It's like a bird. He was really trying to fly

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Speaker 1: It was hard. That's why he said he want to

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Speaker 3: And because you don't know when to stop, like definitely

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Speaker 1: You never let me do it. You're right, I don't. Okay,

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Speaker 1: to wrap this ship up. It's strict. It's strict in here.

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Speaker 1: And oh he did perform that song. He did, you know, well,

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna get into this first topic to day.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know, we usually don't talk about the things that

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Speaker 2: But we were The topic was basically answering the phone

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Speaker 1: When your man calls and.

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Speaker 2: Say he's like, whether it's calling you once or blowing

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Speaker 1: I feel like not so much.

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Speaker 3: Like you know, I might like just send the text

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Speaker 1: But like, if we're on vacation.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna answer the phone for my men, yeah, because

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Speaker 3: I feel like we gone for like a few days.

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Speaker 3: He probably wanted to check on me.

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Speaker 1: He want to see how I'm doing.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's appropriate. I think it starts to

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Speaker 3: But if you like do a little one two your

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Speaker 1: Would like that's fine, that's appropriate to me.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like this on vacation, I always do this.

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Speaker 2: I might shoot some texts, then I call him before

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Speaker 2: gonna call him and check in with him whenever I'm free.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're at dinner or on vacation

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Speaker 2: I'll be thinking sometimes men, and I'll say women might

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Speaker 2: blowing up his phone. Leave people alone when they're on vacation.

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Speaker 2: Leave people alone. Like when I'm out to dinner with

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Speaker 2: my man and my friend calls, I give him that

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Speaker 1: Hey girl, I'm gonna call you back.

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Speaker 2: So when I'm out with my man and my friend calls,

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Speaker 1: Call you back. It's a respect thing. I feel like.

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Speaker 1: And if we're having girls time, like when we went

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Speaker 2: I would call him in the morning. I'm shooting him

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Speaker 2: text throughout the day. Then I call him before I

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Speaker 2: go to sleep. While do y'all need to be sitting

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Speaker 2: on the damn y'all in the uber were trying to

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Speaker 1: Turn it down. I can't hear day cwying. Girl. Get

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Speaker 1: off the damn phone. You killing the void. I feel like,

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Speaker 1: what if he's trying to make sure you're not you

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Speaker 1: didn't get it abducted or anything. He has life a

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Speaker 1: thing it is, but I feel a body man, don't

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Speaker 1: go I take location.

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Speaker 2: Well, me and my man have each other location on

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Speaker 2: no I know, but I'm saying everybody.

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Speaker 1: Don't everybody.

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Speaker 3: Other people be doing little shit. They might not want

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Speaker 3: they mean to know where they.

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Speaker 1: Are all the phone.

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Speaker 2: Well, if that's the case, not me, you know. I'm

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Speaker 2: just saying, right, But I'm saying, but if that's the case,

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Speaker 2: y'all have deeper issues. But if your woman says, hey, babe,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to dinner with my friends.

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Speaker 1: What are you calling her for? They he need me?

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Speaker 1: It might be an emergency, then you answer the phone.

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Speaker 1: Oh babe, what a remote ad like niggas just be

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Speaker 2: That's an emergency though, that is not an emergen it

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Speaker 2: is it is. It is because if you the bitch

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Speaker 2: that be answers, because if he went because if he

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Speaker 2: went on vacation and I couldn't find a remote, that's

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Speaker 2: a fucking emergency. And he better answer the phone and

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Speaker 2: tell me where they who egg Shoot him a text

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Speaker 2: and he'll get back to you when he came five

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Speaker 3: What if he drunk off the cost of migos. No,

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Speaker 3: I didn't even know where a remote at right now. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: technology need to know where it's at.

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Speaker 1: Write your phone.

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Speaker 2: There's apps on your phone where you can set it

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Speaker 1: Y'all be trying to ruin people's time and ruin people.

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Speaker 1: But I don't even.

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Speaker 3: Think it's that deep like ruin You think that's.

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Speaker 3: To me, if my man called me and I'm on vacation,

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Speaker 3: I be happy, like I be like.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll say it depends like if he calls you

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Speaker 2: and he's just checking on you, that's different. I'm talking

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Speaker 2: about the people that be like no, I gotta go,

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Speaker 1: Reason, like you said, you should be sitting on the phone.

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Speaker 1: What if he call you and he like asking you

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Speaker 1: how to use like the juicer?

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Speaker 2: See that's how real, queen. Are you already juiced them

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Speaker 2: for my man for the week?

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Speaker 1: That's the week? That's real? Like you, right, you gotta

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Speaker 1: set your man.

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Speaker 2: You y'alla set your man up to whenever you leave.

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Speaker 1: He don't need to call you for nothing. Nothing. I

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Speaker 3: And I guess that's the problem because maybe I don't

440
00:20:58,280 --> 00:20:59,200
Speaker 3: mind him.

441
00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 1: Calling like oh you, like I said, morning, not a

442
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,239
Speaker 1: few text messages anything other than that. I feel like,

443
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 1: what comes up? What you want?

444
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 2: Because my man don't do he just don't. I guess

445
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 2: that's our relationship. Everybody different, different folks. Now, I'm not disagreeing.

446
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 2: You know, I can't call me all the time. I

447
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 2: ain't gonna lie he calls a lie?

448
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 1: He do? Oh I go, he called a lie? He

449
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:29,480
Speaker 1: gonna call like about fifteen times a day. That's about accurate.

450
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 1: I was hoping, right, number I was hoping you would

451
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 1: say the right. But the funny thing is he don't

452
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:38,119
Speaker 1: even be wanting nothing. He just be like, hey, he

453
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,399
Speaker 1: trying to make sure that she ain't gonna go. He

454
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 1: know it ain't. He already knows it ain't gonna go.

455
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,680
Speaker 3: He just be wanting to see what I'm doing, or

456
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,040
Speaker 3: like sometimes I feel like, you know, like he just

457
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 3: likes to be on the phone with me. Like I

458
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,200
Speaker 3: don't know if like other people men be like that,

459
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 3: but like he just like to like be on the phone.

460
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, me and my best friend do that.

461
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,920
Speaker 2: But me and my when we weren't like at each

462
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,119
Speaker 2: this house so much, we would just sit on the

463
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 2: phone while he's doing stuff for a while.

464
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 1: Now I'll just be at.

465
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 2: The house, but that more and so be needed be

466
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 2: like all right, me and Laura said, me and you

467
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 2: used to sit on the phone.

468
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,199
Speaker 1: We did. We used to like that no more though,

469
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 1: all right, yeah, I talk to you later. You got

470
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 1: ship to do.

471
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 3: Now we don't be having ship to do. We just

472
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 3: gonna be wanting to sit on the phone.

473
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,960
Speaker 1: It's because we spend a lot of time with each

474
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,640
Speaker 1: other period because like we work, but also.

475
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,919
Speaker 2: When we're working, we also have our friend time, So

476
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,879
Speaker 2: we spend a lot of time together. Yeah, so I

477
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,040
Speaker 2: think that's why we don't necessarily just sit on the

478
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 2: phone anymore.

479
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean.

480
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:40,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, because like when we're trying to think, Like when

481
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,480
Speaker 3: we was in Miami for your birthday, he had called

482
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,679
Speaker 3: me a lot of songs, but I was trying not

483
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 3: to stay on it.

484
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: I was trying to keep it, letting me Well, I'll.

485
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 2: Say this about you though, you definitely pick up the

486
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 2: phone and you.

487
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: In the house. What's up?

488
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 2: That's how you Hey, what's up? And he say what

489
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 2: you gotta say? You be like, all right, yeah, we

490
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,879
Speaker 2: finna go here, We're finna go there. I'm call you

491
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 2: want to give it into the house. Like you always

492
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:06,199
Speaker 2: keep your convers you never interrupt the vibe by you know,

493
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 2: leaving it.

494
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: I feel like if you gotta leave, no, I feel

495
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,440
Speaker 1: like you're a lame ass nigga. Yeah.

496
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 3: If you be interrupting the vibe the whole time, Like

497
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 3: if you staying on the phone at the table while

498
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 3: we on vacation with your man for thirty minutes, your lad,

499
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 3: that's what I and that's I'm talking about. But like

500
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 3: if I feel like I don't never want my nigga

501
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 3: to feel like I'm acting funny because I'm on vacation.

502
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 3: So it's like I'm an answer the phone, just like

503
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 3: I answer the phone when I'm at home. But I say,

504
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 3: but I'm gonna be I'm gonna keep it short and sweet, because,

505
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 3: like you said, I do feel like you know I'm

506
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:38,679
Speaker 3: on vacation. You know I'm trying to have fun with

507
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 3: my homegirls, So why do you want to be on

508
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 3: the phone with.

509
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: Me for thirty minutes?

510
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 5: Now.

511
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 3: I do feel like in those type of situations a

512
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 3: nigga do, he might be trying to like keep tabs

513
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 3: on you are ruin your time, because if he know

514
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 3: you out with your girls and he trying to keep

515
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 3: you on the phone all the time.

516
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: That's a little weird.

517
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 3: But checking in just trying to make sure you straight,

518
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 3: make sure you good, or see what y'all do today.

519
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:01,959
Speaker 1: I think that's fine.

520
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's okay, But they called that a nigga back

521
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 3: when you get back home, because when you get back

522
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 3: to the house and you chilling you in your room

523
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 3: or whatever, then I feel like then it's appropriate to

524
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 3: talk to your man for like thirty minutes or whatever.

525
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 2: I one thousand percent agree. But like I said, if

526
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 2: my if my man calls, I'm not gonna lie. If

527
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,919
Speaker 2: I'm at the if I'm actually at the dinner table

528
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 2: and we're all talking, I'm not gonna answer.

529
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:24,959
Speaker 1: I'm gonna text he out and say, hey, babe, it's

530
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,639
Speaker 1: loud in here. Are you good? And he'll let me know.

531
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,639
Speaker 1: Oh old baby, I was just checking on you. Are

532
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 1: you good? And I'm like, yeah, I'll call you.

533
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:36,959
Speaker 2: I'm working. You know what's crazy? I feel like I

534
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 2: am a handyman. I fixed the garage door last night.

535
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: You did? I did? What was wrong with you?

536
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 2: Let me say you, I'm such a handyman. But I

537
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 2: get that from my mom.

538
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: What was wrong with the girls?

539
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 2: Something happened and his nephew had like kicked the ball

540
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 2: and it like got off the track. And one thing mean,

541
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 2: I am a YouTube university girl, so I looked at

542
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 2: the brand of garage door with I went on YouTube

543
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 2: and I figured we were like trying to figure it out.

544
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,159
Speaker 2: I was like, something is off the track, because you know,

545
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: I had a garage door growing up and it would

546
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:08,719
Speaker 2: always like get off the track like that.

547
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 1: And I went there and I fixed it.

548
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 2: I said, big Mama, Big stop playing with me. I

549
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 2: don't know how we got on the topic of that,

550
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 2: but yeah, if it's simple, he wouldn't call me about

551
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 2: on ship like that.

552
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 1: Though my man is functional.

553
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 2: I don't like when people act like, you know, oh,

554
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 2: my man, I sent my man to the grocery store

555
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 2: for past and he came back with diapers.

556
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so funny.

557
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 2: No, it's not. It's called weaponized incompetent. That's what they

558
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 2: call it because they think it's cute and it's funny.

559
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: Oh I can't do this, babe. I don't know how

560
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 1: to do this. You're not here. That shit not funny

561
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: to me. I've never thought stuff like that is funny.

562
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 3: I don't be thinking it's funny because when people do

563
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:55,919
Speaker 3: that type of shit, like I said, I really think you.

564
00:25:56,119 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 3: I think you probably a little slow. Yeah, then got

565
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 3: a problem because I got with you. With you a

566
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 3: little slow, we got bigger problems. We got bigger fish

567
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 3: because how you confuse a diaper.

568
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 2: But they be doing that, and they be doing them tiktoks,

569
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 2: and they be thinking it's funny that shit.

570
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 3: Don't but I mean feeling like that should be playing

571
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 3: the thing about TikTok.

572
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: I don't believe nothing I see on TikTok. I told

573
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: you I hate a TikTok. But's how you knew to

574
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 1: set the camera? The camera be right there. They can see.

575
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 2: It'd be a whole set up like this. They'll be

576
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: like I'm about to prank Drea and.

577
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 3: Be like I'm.

578
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 1: About to get robbed. Oh, y'all know.

579
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 2: I saw get ready with me while I go pick

580
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: up a plan B. I said, we too deep in

581
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:36,640
Speaker 2: the trenches.

582
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 6: Get ready, bitch, if you don't put your hand a bunny,

583
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 6: go pick up.

584
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 1: That plan B. Because girls bad into the upper room. Yes,

585
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 1: because why do I want to go with you to

586
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 1: do this? I don't. I don't they get rid? What's

587
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 1: the climax?

588
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 3: That's how I feel when I be watching videos, Okay,

589
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,719
Speaker 3: like get ready to get ready with you? To go

590
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: do something? What's gonna be the climax? Like, what's gonna

591
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 3: be the thing that made me want to keep watching you?

592
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 1: Well, some one of the girls said get ready with me.

593
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 1: I'll go to jail now. I would have watched. I

594
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 1: watched that.

595
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,479
Speaker 2: She was actually like taking her hair down, taking her

596
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 2: lashes off.

597
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what she did. Though.

598
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 3: Those type of people are real interesting to me, though

599
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 3: they'd be a little unhinged because I got a cousin

600
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 3: like that who used to go to jail. She would

601
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 3: have made a killing on TikTok back in the day,

602
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 3: because I think she.

603
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: Got her life together.

604
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 3: Okay, good, good, But she would have made a killing

605
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 3: back in the day because she used to like get tickets,

606
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 3: not pay them, and get warrants and then lifting poll

607
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,479
Speaker 3: up and then she would just go sit it out

608
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:31,879
Speaker 3: because she would be like, they're not about to get

609
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 3: her money, period, so she would just put her if

610
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 3: she would go home, put her pajamas on, eat a

611
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 3: nice hot meal, a nice hot meal, and then she

612
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 3: would just go see in jail in the county jail

613
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 3: for like three days until like she set her warrants out.

614
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: But why wouldn't she just stop getting pulled over?

615
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 3: Now you know that's that's a valid question as a

616
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 3: as a reformed person who used to get pulled over,

617
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 3: Like I don't think you want to get pulled over.

618
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: I just think it happened.

619
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 3: Like I used to speed a lot when I was younger,

620
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 3: So you think you're a good driver, He'll know I

621
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 3: wasn't think I'm a driver, and I don't know why

622
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 3: they let me on the road.

623
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: That's how you know. But that's how you know. When

624
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: people like me get a driver's license.

625
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 3: Y'all want y'all just get that ship to anybody for real,

626
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 3: cause now, hell no, I can't drive. I feel like

627
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 3: I can get us to where we need to go.

628
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 3: But like I feel like people, I feel like, Okay,

629
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,919
Speaker 3: you ain't never dated a nigga where you was like,

630
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 3: because I feel like niggas be great drivers, like men

631
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 3: be really good drivers. Women you do have some women

632
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 3: at a good driver, but I feel like men be

633
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 3: really great driver.

634
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: You ain't never been in a car with a nigga.

635
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: You be like, damn, this nigga could be.

636
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 3: Tied you on a little men, because it's like, damn,

637
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 3: this nigga really could drive.

638
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 2: Like the reason I asked that because on the way

639
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: back from New Orleans when you were driving, Shane was

640
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 2: just in the back seat and he was like, sorry,

641
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 2: I was just crying.

642
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 3: I mean I was driving, so I was like focused

643
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 3: on the road. I didn't know if she had seen

644
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 3: something in her phone and gas.

645
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 2: She was just like, oh, she was gribing on to

646
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 2: the thing, you know, the little thing at the top.

647
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: My daddy used to do that and I used to

648
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 1: laugh at him too. Yeah, but I don't think I

649
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: could drive.

650
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 3: I feel like I know how to get to where

651
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 3: we need to go. I'm gonna make sure you get

652
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 3: there safe, too. Were gonna get there safe, I mean

653
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 3: on a good driver. I just drive slow. Now that's

654
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 3: the thing about Shoot, that's the difference between you and me.

655
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: You drive slow, and I'll be driving what's the speed limit? Sixty?

656
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: I'm going forty five? No, Lex does drive slow, y'all?

657
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 3: And you know what's crazy? Like did you did y'all

658
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 3: know that? Like you can get a ticket for boat,

659
00:29:58,840 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 3: you can get a ticket for driving.

660
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: And for real, I said, I was a joining the scenery.

661
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: How dare you? It's a beautiful I'm driving through the land.

662
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 3: Well we know that I forgot how I found out

663
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 3: because the show wasn't because I was driving.

664
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Speaker 1: He said, ma'am, is there an issue? I said, is

665
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: that if you tell me.

666
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 3: No, I'll be driving fast as fucked Like even when

667
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 3: we was coming home, you was flying, even when we

668
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 3: was coming home from New Orleans, like I would look

669
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Speaker 3: down and he said, like ninety eight.

670
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Speaker 1: I said, ooh, bro, because I knew you were driving fast.

671
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 1: We ran out of gas so.

672
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 2: Quickly we ran Like when I drove, I drove the

673
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 2: whole way to New Orleans right by Oh, I ran

674
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: out of gas. We had seventy miles on the trip left.

675
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 2: By the time dre ran out of gas, we had

676
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 2: two hundred miles left.

677
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 1: We had to stop midway for you. We did. Yeah.

678
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 1: When I stopped, we only had like an hour left.

679
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 3: Hey, you know I put that pedal to that motherfucker

680
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 3: you did and I got us home.

681
00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 1: We said six hours.

682
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 7: I said, she.

683
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,479
Speaker 3: I'm fucking wait, he's giving four forty five.

684
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: Now we beat the plane there. I don't be playing, y'all.

685
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: I be going, bitch, I be ready to fucking get home.

686
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 3: Like and then on top of that, I hate driving

687
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 3: long decencies like Lex was like, because even when we

688
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 3: was on the way to New Orleans, you was like, oh.

689
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: I feel fine.

690
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 3: He was like, I'll just drive the whole way, okay, cool,

691
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 3: Because I had offered to drive halfway.

692
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: On the way back, I told Shaye and Elisa, say, look,

693
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: you did. My time's almost us.

694
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 3: I said, well, ladies, y'all did in my three hour beat.

695
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: It's a wrap for me. Okay, to the back seat.

696
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all.

697
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 2: It's your girl lex Pe and it's your girl Dre

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Speaker 1: We gonna move on. You want to bring in the

713
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: second topic?

714
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, So for the second topic, I wanted to

715
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 3: talk about like the order of things, you know, like

716
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 3: people love to say that, like you're supposed to date someone,

717
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 3: get engaged, get married, then have a baby. But obviously

718
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,239
Speaker 3: a lot of people don't do that, and because if

719
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 3: that was the case, a lot of us would not

720
00:32:56,000 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 3: be here, including me. So I just wanted to know, like,

721
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 3: what do you think about that? Like when you see

722
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 3: people online kind of debating all the time about like

723
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 3: the order of how you should I guess technically do life,

724
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 3: Like should you get married first and then have a

725
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 3: baby and then. I also think it's interesting when people

726
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 3: say things to women online, like women who have had

727
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 3: children for men, they say they've been with them for like,

728
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 3: you know, maybe four or five years or so, and

729
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 3: then they're like, I still want to get married. I

730
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 3: still want the ring, And people are like, well, you

731
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 3: should have got a ring before you had a baby.

732
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 3: Do you feel like that really matters as far as

733
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 3: like a man proposing to you, like if you give

734
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 3: him a baby first, or if you just give him

735
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 3: too much I guess in a relationship before you get married,

736
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 3: do you feel like that matters?

737
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 2: Well, I think everybody's timeline is different. What works for

738
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 2: this person may not work for you. I always like

739
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 2: to say that, but I feel like this goes into communication,

740
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 2: and we got to stop projecting because a lot of

741
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 2: times you do see women who have babies they live

742
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 2: with a man and they're like, oh, I still want

743
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 2: to get married, and that man never marries them. But

744
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 2: I also think that goes into communication and having a timeline,

745
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 2: you know.

746
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: What I'm saying.

747
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 2: Like, I feel like if you have a timeline and

748
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,919
Speaker 2: you have open conversations and it's something that you want

749
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 2: and that you're always vocal about, it's not going to

750
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 2: be a problem.

751
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: So let's say like.

752
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 2: Oh, me and my man move in together, and I'm like,

753
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: you know what, well, I want to have a baby

754
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,280
Speaker 2: right now, and I want to get engaged right now.

755
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: I think things should just be discussed.

756
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 2: But I think it's kind of crazy to say, oh,

757
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 2: if you do things in this order, it's never gonna

758
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 2: happen for you.

759
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:33,919
Speaker 1: Now.

760
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 2: I do believe that if you move in with the

761
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 2: man and have a baby for him and you've never

762
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 2: brought up marriage and you've never brought up anything like that,

763
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: and all of a sudden you spring it on him

764
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 2: now that situation, it's gonna be harder to get a

765
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 2: ring out of him, because he thinking everything cool because

766
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 2: one thing I will say about it for let me

767
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 2: not speak for all men, but I think most men

768
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 2: are kind of like they be cool as long as

769
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 2: you cool, you.

770
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:57,399
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.

771
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,760
Speaker 2: So I feel like a lot of times that pressure

772
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 2: of me marriage and the ring, A lot of times

773
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 2: they be wanting the baby me yeah, because they want

774
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 2: their legacy and all this stuff. They don't really care

775
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 2: for the marriage and thing. But I think that's a

776
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 2: conversation that you have to have.

777
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: So I feel like, as long as it's like a deal,

778
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: you know, I give you the baby, you know you

779
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: keep your end of the bargain, I keep my end

780
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 1: of the bargain. If that's the order, y'all want to

781
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 1: do things, you know, if you're not doing it traditionally,

782
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: first come to love, then come to marriage, then come

783
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: to baby and the baby carriage. You need to put

784
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: a time limit on it. If I give you a baby,

785
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: then how long do I get my ring? See? And

786
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: that's where I get the logic of the.

787
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,359
Speaker 3: Women who feel like that, like because I just don't

788
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 3: be trusting these niggas to keep up the end of

789
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 3: the bar. Y.

790
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: That's that's true too.

791
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,399
Speaker 3: Same now, them push this baby out and you feel

792
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 3: like or you feel like I got married, yes, and

793
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 3: granted I'm sure we both wanted the baby, but if

794
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 3: marriage is a priority for me, and that was the agreement,

795
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 3: and now we're like, now our baby eighteen, you still

796
00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 3: ain't eighteen?

797
00:35:58,600 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 1: Is nuts. I'm thought you about to say a.

798
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 3: Year old, I'm away, nah baby, about to go to

799
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 3: college and you still ain't married. Me like that very crazy,

800
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 3: And I feel like it happens all the time. But

801
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 3: I think the main thing is to you gotta be

802
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 3: with a nigga who want to get married. And I

803
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,439
Speaker 3: feel like the signs of men who want to get

804
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 3: married and the signs of me and that don't really

805
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 3: prioritize marriage is always there with signs. I feel like

806
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 3: you could tell by the conversations that you have with

807
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 3: a man whether his intent is to be a family

808
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 3: man and get married or whether his intent is to

809
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 3: just be a baby daddy. Like I think that the

810
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 3: conversations matter. Like a man who cares about marriage and

811
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 3: who actually really wants to be with one woman, he

812
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 3: talks about it, you know, he has conversations about it.

813
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 3: I think he also moves like somebody who don't want

814
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 3: to be out here already.

815
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: It's just like.

816
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 3: Women who, in my personal opinion, if you're ready for marriage,

817
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 3: you're already moving like a woman who wants to get married.

818
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 3: I don't know, that's my thoughts and opinions on it.

819
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 3: But you know, there are people who want to get

820
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 3: married who don't necessarily move like they want to get married,

821
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 3: and they still end up getting married.

822
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: Do you think we move like women who want to

823
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: get married.

824
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 3: I think you do now that you're in a relationship.

825
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 3: But I think you started moving like that when you

826
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 3: got in a relationship because I was sorry, Yeah, but

827
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 3: I think that what you want from this specific relationship

828
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 3: that you're in, you're moving like somebody who wants that

829
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 3: from the relationship. I feel the same way about the

830
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 3: relationship that I've been in. I feel like I've moved

831
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 3: like somebody who wants to be married, who wants to.

832
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: Be like locked down.

833
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 3: I don't want to just be your baby mama, right,

834
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? But in the past, do

835
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 3: I think we moved like women who wanted to be married?

836
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:51,320
Speaker 3: Not necessarily because I never I never heard about marriage though, Well.

837
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,399
Speaker 1: I think you, well, no, because you always I don't know.

838
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 2: I always wanted partnership. Yeah, you did say. I never

839
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 2: said because I was like, I don't know. I said,

840
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm going to have children, I

841
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 2: don't know if I get married, But I want partnership,

842
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:04,439
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

843
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 1: But I never really cared about, you know, marriage like that. Yeah.

844
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 3: And I never even just really cared about being in

845
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 3: like a long term relationship like that until my relationship

846
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:15,439
Speaker 3: right now.

847
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, I don't know, friend, but I

848
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: do feel.

849
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 3: Like you have women who literally from like a younger age,

850
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 3: like and even maybe were groomed that way by their

851
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,240
Speaker 3: parents and like by family members and stuff to like, Okay,

852
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 3: if you want to get married, this is how you

853
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 3: gotta move. It's how you have to present yourself.

854
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: X, Y, and Z.

855
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 3: And it might have yielded them the results that they

856
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 3: wanted if marriage is the goal. But then you know,

857
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 3: that's another topic to get into in itself that I

858
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 3: feel like a lot of people that's married, they ain't

859
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 3: even married to who they want to get married to.

860
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 3: They just married because society made them feel like they

861
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,399
Speaker 3: had to get married by a certain age. And I'd

862
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 3: rather be single till I'm fifty, right, and to marry

863
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 3: the wrong nigga, just because society made me feel like

864
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 3: I had to be married by thirty five.

865
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: And I also think the fact that I have waited,

866
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: I'm so glad I waited, Like I used to feel

867
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 1: like I was so behind. But now being this age.

868
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:09,800
Speaker 2: And I don't have any kids, i've never been married,

869
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,919
Speaker 2: I feel like I know everything I want to partner

870
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 2: because I've been through hell and back. I've experienced so

871
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,359
Speaker 2: much and I know everything. I know what's a red

872
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 2: flag now, I know things I need to look out for.

873
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: So I'm so happy I waited.

874
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 2: But do I feel like the order needs to be love, marriage, baby,

875
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 2: and the baby carriage not necessarily, but I will say

876
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 2: I have my you know, like, oh this needs to

877
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 2: happen before this happens for me, you know what I mean?

878
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,399
Speaker 1: Because I'm not gonna lie.

879
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 2: Though, I do feel like, in my opinion, if you

880
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 2: move in with a man, get pregnant, and have a baby,

881
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 2: and y'all are like splitting bills or y'all doing y'all

882
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 2: have integrated your life and you haven't got married yet

883
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 2: or got a ring yet.

884
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: I think if you've done all that.

885
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 2: And y'all have never had conversations about it, it'll be

886
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 2: harder to get a ring.

887
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: I do feel like that way. And if y'all have

888
00:39:59,280 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 1: never had.

889
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 2: A converse about it, because if he wanted to do it,

890
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 2: he would have been did it. Y'all are living together,

891
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 2: y'all have a baby, y'all are doing all this in

892
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: a household, and it's like, what's the hold of why

893
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: hasn't he.

894
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: Done it yet?

895
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 2: And at that point, I want my man. When my

896
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 2: man proposes to me, I don't want it to be

897
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 2: like I've dropped any hints. I want to be one

898
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 2: hundred percent surprised. I shouldn't feel like, oh I gotta

899
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 2: drop hints and I gotta do this and got I

900
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 2: don't want to feel that way.

901
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: So I think that, yeah, you definitely can't do it.

902
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 2: You don't have to do it in a certain order,

903
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 2: But there is an order of things. I still feel

904
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 2: like you should maybe go by. So maybe I'll change

905
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: my mind on what I said in the beginning.

906
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,479
Speaker 3: I definitely feel like it's the order of things. Okay,

907
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 3: I think I definitely feel like it's the order of things.

908
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 3: If this is what you want, like if you are

909
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 3: hell baby, at least, if you're held men on getting married,

910
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 3: then yeah, okay. If you not, then no. I think

911
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 3: it just really depends on the person. But it's like,

912
00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 3: if this is the result that you want, if you

913
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 3: want to be a married woman, then I feel like

914
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 3: you need to be strict about your goals, just like

915
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 3: you strict about your goals in any other area life.

916
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 3: I don't know why women be afraid to be strict

917
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 3: with these niggas. If this is what you say you want,

918
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 3: then you should make sure that you do what you

919
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 3: need to do to get the ring first. And I

920
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 3: don't think having a baby before the ring it's that

921
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 3: smart of an idea if that's what you say you

922
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 3: want first, especially if this man has not proven to

923
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 3: you or showed you that he really wants that commitment

924
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 3: or that he's really that ready.

925
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: To be a husband.

926
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,840
Speaker 3: And I feel like the signs is always there, you

927
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 3: know what I mean. I personally feel like it ain't

928
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 3: really no.

929
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 1: Order for me. I feel like, whatever order, it happened.

930
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: But that's just how I think. I know.

931
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 3: Some women are really like I have to get married,

932
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 3: I have to get married, or I have to get

933
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 3: married by a certain age.

934
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: It has to happen by this point, or I'm just.

935
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 3: Gonna feel like a failure, or I'm not gonna feel

936
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 3: like i'm a woman or I'm woman enough if I

937
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 3: don't have the ring or get married.

938
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 1: I don't feel it.

939
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 3: But I feel like in a lot of ways, I

940
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,359
Speaker 3: don't let society really put pressure on me to do

941
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 3: things by a certain time frame, which I'm so glad

942
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 3: that I have been released from them, shehackles, because I

943
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 3: feel like when I was younger, I really used to

944
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 3: put time frames on myself, and not just for things

945
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 3: that I'm supposed to have as a woman, but just

946
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 3: things i'm supposed to have in general, like, oh, by

947
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:23,240
Speaker 3: the time I'm twenty five, I need to be driving

948
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,919
Speaker 3: this type of car. By the time I'm twenty six,

949
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 3: I need to be making this amount of money. And

950
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 3: it's okay to have those standards for yourself, but then

951
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 3: if you don't meet them, you're not a failure because

952
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 3: we're not in competition with anybody else. We only in

953
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 3: competition with ourselves and becoming a bus version of ourselves.

954
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 1: No, for real, So isn't even that word.

955
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 3: No, I'm serious, seriously, it's like we're only in competition

956
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 3: with ourselves. The only clock we should be beating is

957
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 3: our clock. So you can look at somebody who was

958
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 3: twenty two to twenty three and.

959
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: Got engaged and then had.

960
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 3: A baby by twenty five, and you feeling like, oh,

961
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 3: I'm twenty seven, I'm twenty eight. I still haven't even

962
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 3: met a man yet. Okay, that's her story. And you

963
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 3: also don't know what be going You don't know what

964
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 3: the fuck be going on behind closed doors in these

965
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 3: people homes.

966
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 1: Y'all need to go watch TikTok murders.

967
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 3: Yes, shit be looking real motherfucking good on social media,

968
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 3: but you do not know what people be dealing with.

969
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 3: So I feel like you gotta stay focused on your

970
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 3: own sheet. And I think that, like I said, I

971
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 3: don't let society force me into thinking like, oh I

972
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 3: have to have this by a certain age, or I

973
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 3: have to have a baby for I mean, get a

974
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:33,959
Speaker 3: ring first, whatever order it happening. If I get pregnant first,

975
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 3: I get pregnant first. If I get a ring first,

976
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 3: I get a ring first. If I don't never get

977
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 3: a fucking ring from the nigga. If I have a

978
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:40,879
Speaker 3: baby and we don't and I don't get a ring,

979
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 3: and I have to go out and start dating somebody else.

980
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 3: That's just the order of things. And I feel like,

981
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 3: God know what's gonna happen in your life anyways. You

982
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 3: can't force sheet. You just gotta leot it fluck.

983
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:59,359
Speaker 1: Liot it flued. Tony did is going with it? She did?

984
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:04,280
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I like that God to let it flow.

985
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 3: You don't agree, it's gonna happen when it happened. Don't

986
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 3: put the pressure on yourself because if anything to a

987
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 3: lot of women, be putt pressure on niggas and then

988
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 3: you run them away because you're trying to force him

989
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 3: to do something he ain't ready to do with. If

990
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 3: a nigga want to marry you, he's gonna marry you.

991
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 1: It's that simple.

992
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 3: You ain't gotta put no pressure on him. You ain't

993
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 3: got to give him no timeline. You ain't got to

994
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 3: tell him all we've been together five years, you got

995
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 3: two more before I leave.

996
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: He know how long y'all been together, and he know

997
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: you ain't going nowhere else, and he know you're probably

998
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:35,320
Speaker 1: not gonna leave in two years.

999
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 2: But especially especially if you depend on him, well, especially

1000
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 2: that That's why I said, y'all got to get Hey,

1001
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 2: we want a man who's ambitches who got money, but

1002
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 2: get your own.

1003
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 3: And do you want and this is another question too,

1004
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,879
Speaker 3: do you want and engagement or do you want to marriage?

1005
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 3: Because it's a lot of people who've been engaged, like

1006
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 3: niggas will give I don't see any to happen numerous times.

1007
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 3: Give you a ring just to shiit you will because

1008
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 3: you was like, oh, I want to ring.

1009
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 1: I want to be engaged.

1010
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:04,879
Speaker 3: They'll give you a ring and then don't never want

1011
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 3: to say to date, don't never want to plan a wedding.

1012
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,280
Speaker 1: But like you said, the signs are there.

1013
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 3: And still be out here doing them because they didn't

1014
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 3: want to get engaged.

1015
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: Like I don't mind a long engagement, but see my thing,

1016
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: but why is it long? If financially stable?

1017
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 2: I'll say this, I don't mind an engagement of like

1018
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 2: one to two years. After that second year mark, we

1019
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:26,240
Speaker 2: should start playing the wedding.

1020
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: I just feel like I don't know.

1021
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 2: I guess my timeline how I look at things like

1022
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 2: I'm either gonna get pregnant and get engaged, or get

1023
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 2: engaged and get pregnant either or but I'm not in

1024
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 2: a rush to because I want my wedding to be

1025
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:39,800
Speaker 2: like my wedding gonna be leag.

1026
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,399
Speaker 1: Not Paris in springtime.

1027
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 3: It's gonna be You're gonna have angels hanging from.

1028
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: The ceiling, but you don't.

1029
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 3: It's gonna give you Harrys in springtime looking at and you.

1030
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 1: Know, I love a good tile of period moment.

1031
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 2: But anyways, I feel like I don't mind the long

1032
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 2: engagement just because, like I just I like to enjoy moments.

1033
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 2: I'm a moment person, So I feel like I want

1034
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 2: to enjoy my engagement. I don't want to be like, oh,

1035
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 2: I spent my whole engagement planning my wedding, yeah, because

1036
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 2: we were in a rush to do it. Like I

1037
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:18,799
Speaker 2: want to be like, man, you remember when we were

1038
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 2: engaged and we had this house. Now we're married and

1039
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,320
Speaker 2: we're in this house or whatever our story unfolds.

1040
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: I'm just not in a rush.

1041
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 3: But see, when I think of a long engagement, though

1042
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 3: a year or two years, it's not long Like I

1043
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 3: feel like you need a year to plan a good wedding. Yeah,

1044
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 3: Like if you want, if you want your wedding to

1045
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 3: be like the wedding of your dreams and you wanted

1046
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 3: to be extravagant and have everything that you want.

1047
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: I think it takes a good year to plan that.

1048
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,879
Speaker 3: When I think of a long engagement, I been thinking

1049
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 3: the people who being engaged for like five years, ten

1050
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 3: years still ain't broke up and got engaged.

1051
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 1: Then you see what I'm saying.

1052
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 2: You know, they fitna be on our ass in these comments.

1053
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 2: They're gonna be like these two bitches neither what do

1054
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 2: y'all got reds?

1055
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,720
Speaker 3: Don't never take what they say, don't never take advice

1056
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 3: from single women. I'm weak saying that all the time

1057
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 3: in the comments. Behave I just I'm just saying, you know,

1058
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:13,360
Speaker 3: because at the end of the day, it might not

1059
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 3: be married, but I don't see it.

1060
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 2: Look okay, So now let's let us know in the

1061
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,359
Speaker 2: comments what y'all think about the order. First comes love,

1062
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 2: then comes marries, then comes the.

1063
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: Baby, and the baby cares. Do y'all agree with that?

1064
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: Do you believe in common law marriage? No? Now the state.

1065
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 3: That's that's why I say what I say because I

1066
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 3: don't seen it my whole life, like I feelow, we

1067
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 3: all got.

1068
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: Unties uncles who done being with their boo but like

1069
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 1: crazy being a third being.

1070
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 2: A thirty year boo, A thirty year a boo at

1071
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 2: eighty three years old is nuts, yo, that's my boo.

1072
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 1: That's my little friend. That's how we be though, your

1073
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 1: old friend, my little friend, my old friend, a low

1074
00:47:59,440 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: old friend.

1075
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 2: Like once you reach like forty five and fifty, y'all

1076
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 2: should date for like four months to get married.

1077
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: I don't think.

1078
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 3: I think see, And I feel like, if you fifty

1079
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 3: and you ain't been married once, don't get married.

1080
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: Okay, Now I agree with that.

1081
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:14,280
Speaker 2: But I feel like, if if it's your second married,

1082
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 2: you're fifty, and you're dating for four or five months,

1083
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 2: just marry him the fuck?

1084
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 1: What's your white on?

1085
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 3: Like, like I said, if it's gonna be your second one, yes,

1086
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 3: then then cool, then cool.

1087
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: But I feel like I don't know, you don't know

1088
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 1: I'm walking down that.

1089
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 2: Okay, So now it's time to get into you'na say

1090
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 2: the bed, bow my bed, the bed bow bow bow

1091
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 2: bow bout getting into the bed. I'm getting some head.

1092
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,479
Speaker 2: Been a drink my drink. You heard what I said?

1093
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:54,319
Speaker 1: This drink good. I ain't got loud. I'm ready for

1094
00:48:54,320 --> 00:49:00,800
Speaker 1: another one time m hm not gonna die bad segment today.

1095
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 2: Shout out to cast Facts because I seen this post

1096
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 2: that he had posted.

1097
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 1: Shout out to our good friend cast.

1098
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 2: He was saying, ladies, stop bringing your vibrators on vacation.

1099
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 1: It's getting a little too horny in here.

1100
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about bringing vibrators on vacation.

1101
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 1: Why are you looking at me? Because what you said, mmm,

1102
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 1: you don't bring them on. I'm gonna put my thing down.

1103
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm flipping and reverse.

1104
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 2: You keep that thing on you, don't you?

1105
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 1: You accidentally packed a butt plug. It was an accident.

1106
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: Like that's how you know you keep that thing on you?

1107
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: It was an accident.

1108
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:45,240
Speaker 3: I myself was shocked when I pool, when I said, whoa.

1109
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: What is this?

1110
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 3: I thought it was a piece of jewelry and it

1111
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 3: was but jewelry nonetheless not but.

1112
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,760
Speaker 1: Lester, What are you doing here? It was some jewelry

1113
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:01,759
Speaker 1: for a very specific place. But okay, can I admit something?

1114
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: You'll be packed? I know, I know you carry him.

1115
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 1: Not gonna lie. I never have brought my vibrator with

1116
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: me on vacation.

1117
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 2: I don't, But you ain't never brought your role No,

1118
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:15,800
Speaker 2: but I don't have a role with that's your fault.

1119
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 1: I tell you I don't like her role. So I said, well,

1120
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 1: that sound like a problem. But let me tell you

1121
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 1: what happened though. I have I have something to confess

1122
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: to you. I'm scared because why are you getting serious?

1123
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 2: Because I never pack it with me because I'm like, okay,

1124
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be right back.

1125
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: What is it.

1126
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 2: I didn't bring no vibrators to London with me, right,

1127
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 2: I didn't bring nothing with me. I had a quick

1128
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 2: maybe ten minutes when you was in the shower, your

1129
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 2: fingers hey, I was call me DJ many Fresh. I

1130
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 2: had to get to it. I was like, oh fuck,

1131
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 2: I hope you don't come out the shower.

1132
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,319
Speaker 1: Are you serious? I have to get to it. When

1133
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 1: I was in the shower, oh lord, you had the

1134
00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:00,120
Speaker 1: music playing or something. Maybe he was in there and

1135
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: you was out there.

1136
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 8: Uh no no.

1137
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, I couldn't take it no more. I couldn't

1138
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:15,879
Speaker 1: take that ship no more. But I was like, damn

1139
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: if I would have my.

1140
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 2: Because you would have been yeah, would have been quick

1141
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 2: thirty seconds. Max was there like their roles be getting

1142
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 2: you out there.

1143
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 1: I couldn't even focus you. Was scared.

1144
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 3: No, I feel like yes, so like, especially if I

1145
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 3: go out of time with my man, I for sure

1146
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 3: be taking my rolls with your man.

1147
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 1: Yeah for them, Oh be cause y'all be getting.

1148
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:44,800
Speaker 2: Too freaking yeah, like not for like be me by myself,

1149
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 2: Like why would we be having you ain't never used

1150
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 2: your rolls while he was having absolutely but Rose, the

1151
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 2: guy was dating at the time when used the ros

1152
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 2: and he had a role how you freaking no?

1153
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: Because we went and got it. Oh, I was like,

1154
00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 1: you can keep it because y'all sterilized need every time

1155
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 1: I would be you got a boy that rosa for real? Well, No,

1156
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 1: we went and got it together.

1157
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 2: But I told him he can keep it because I

1158
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 2: was like, just keep it at your house because I didn't.

1159
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 1: I didn't actually like it.

1160
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 2: But honestly, I'm not gonna lie going on girls trip

1161
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 2: moving forward, I will bring my vibrator. I'll use it

1162
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 2: in the shower maybe, But I was like, man, I

1163
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:22,359
Speaker 2: need to be I'm gonna be mad if I come

1164
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 2: in the bathroom and you on the wall.

1165
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: Screen, I'm gonna turn around like, what's his name? Boy?

1166
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: I would be terrified by leg. I would never do it.

1167
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: I've never been caught. I would not true.

1168
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 3: Story though, I've never masturbated in the room. Like if

1169
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,439
Speaker 3: I went on vacation one of my friends and we

1170
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,799
Speaker 3: was like in the same room, I've never masturbated. You're

1171
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 3: a freaky ass bitch, but I need to start. You

1172
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 3: need to stay your ass.

1173
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:05,319
Speaker 1: I'll take that, because what didn't you be talking about me?

1174
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 3: I can't believe you was rubbing your pussy while I

1175
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:09,240
Speaker 3: was in the fucking shower.

1176
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: Why cause you was rubbing guard fields so vulger.

1177
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 3: You know, I sound vulgar because I'm saying it, But

1178
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 3: you was doing the shep in the bed we were

1179
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 3: sleeping in, but you didn't no.

1180
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 2: No, well, yeah, we were in the bed together. I

1181
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 2: did it on my side.

1182
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 1: This why this why?

1183
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 2: You know?

1184
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 3: At one point, y'all, at one point, me and LEXI

1185
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 3: used to always share rooms, right when we first started

1186
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 3: like making money with poor minds. Whenever we got a time,

1187
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 3: we'd always share rooms. Then for a little mommy, we

1188
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 3: was like, you know, we need privacy, like we should

1189
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,320
Speaker 3: say in separate rooms. So for a while we started

1190
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 3: saying it staying in separate room.

1191
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 2: But then we will always be in the other person room.

1192
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 2: Then we would always be in each other rooms all

1193
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 2: the time. Anyways, y'all know Lex be missing me? So

1194
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 2: no is that the same head right handed?

1195
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: Sorry?

1196
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 3: So then Lex will be missing me. And we was like,

1197
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:07,760
Speaker 3: you know what, we should just start sharing rooms again.

1198
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 3: So now when we went to London, we was in

1199
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 3: the same room, y'all and like never again.

1200
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 1: Be let's time we go to London. We had in

1201
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:22,920
Speaker 1: a separate room. Was a safe space. I thought it

1202
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 1: was a safe bed and it was nice. I didn't

1203
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:28,400
Speaker 1: get your side was clean. You act like I was

1204
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:30,360
Speaker 1: in that squirten. I don't know.

1205
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 3: I don't know, super soaca and you know this, that's

1206
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 3: fucking wild this. I do be taking my vibrator at

1207
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 3: the time.

1208
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 1: Well now I know I'm taking mine now and my

1209
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 1: butt plug.

1210
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 3: But that was an ectody that I brought it with us.

1211
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 1: You keep that thing on you. I'll be ready, CG.

1212
00:54:54,440 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 7: I cannot deal with you today.

1213
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:31,919
Speaker 2: So y'all make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe,

1214
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 2: follow all that good stuff. And let me say this

1215
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:38,240
Speaker 2: before we close off. Y'all, there is one Twitter account

1216
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 2: that is connected to poor Minds.

1217
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: It's p O.

1218
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 2: You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the

1219
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 2: wrong poor Minds page. If you see at poor minds

1220
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 2: with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not

1221
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 2: follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea and the

1222
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 2: poor Minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram,

1223
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,280
Speaker 2: one Twitter, one.

1224
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:04,319
Speaker 1: TikTok it is p o. You are underscore in my

1225
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: nds a.

1226
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 9: Right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page the

1227
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,879
Speaker 9: Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing is our

1228
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 9: Facebook page actually have the least amount of follow So

1229
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,320
Speaker 9: if you're on face, the one that's ours.

1230
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 1: Got the least amount of but one that's not us

1231
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 1: got like two hundred and fifty.

1232
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,000
Speaker 2: You make if you actually look at the content because

1233
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 2: the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English,

1234
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,280
Speaker 2: because their captures are like bumba claude?

1235
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 1: Should men? Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

1236
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 4: No?

1237
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:40,319
Speaker 2: Check answer below block block pull pull pull, Like that's

1238
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,440
Speaker 2: literally what the captions.

1239
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, what that DG is?

1240
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 10: Bumba claude, bumba claud Okay, so.

1241
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: Now it's time to get into.

1242
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 2: The bop a about bow Bow Bow Bow Bow.

1243
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,239
Speaker 1: This is my Bob of the week. I can't wait

1244
00:56:58,320 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: to talk about this song.

1245
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 2: Oh Okay, stop stop, stop, stop stop.

1246
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, y'all. This licks just running

1247
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 1: this song in the ground.

1248
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:14,840
Speaker 2: Our girl Meg first of all, our Bodi lingual queen.

1249
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 1: Because who you know rapping in Japanese? Who you know

1250
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: rapping in Japanese? Though? Nobody and Japanese. I about to say,

1251
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: but the japan But what did I say? It?

1252
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 10: Like?

1253
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 2: Meg has a song off her new album, which the

1254
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,439
Speaker 2: album is solid. I'm gonna talk about the whole album

1255
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 2: in a second, but she has a song on there

1256
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 2: called Mamushi and she's rapping in Japanese and it sounds

1257
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:46,160
Speaker 2: so good, and I just I love this for her.

1258
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 2: It's featuring Yuki Chiba. I hope I'm saying that right.

1259
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:54,040
Speaker 2: He's very popular in Japan, a Japanese rapper.

1260
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: And when I say it's a bop.

1261
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 2: One thing I love about Meg is like I like

1262
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 2: when artists go in the studio and they make music

1263
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:00,959
Speaker 2: and it.

1264
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 1: Happens to turn into a TikTok.

1265
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 2: I don't like when artists make TikTok music like they're

1266
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 2: trying to. I don't think Meg when the studio was like, oh,

1267
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 2: they're gonna do a TikTok dance to this, you know

1268
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. But the song is fire. It's so catchy.

1269
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 2: It's one of them songs like I get Ready, you

1270
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 2: know you getting Ready? I love to get Ready song,

1271
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 2: and it's just it gets the vib's right. It gets

1272
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 2: the vibs right, cuz like I Get Money, I'm a

1273
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 2: star period because I am. I was listening to that

1274
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:26,919
Speaker 2: the whole day we got Ready for the bt A wards.

1275
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,720
Speaker 1: You was listening to it in LA and New Orleans.

1276
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 2: It was and I'm not gonna stop. So I'm The

1277
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 2: whole album is fire. Very solid album from Meg. I'm

1278
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 2: very impressed. Not that I'm mean anybody's impressed, but I

1279
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 2: feel like this is one of her most solid projects

1280
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 2: since the Tina Snow project. I really do. I think

1281
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 2: she really took her time with this. You can tell

1282
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 2: she was like in her bag rattle. She gave us

1283
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 2: bars on that one where them girls at you going

1284
00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 2: to the club on that one A surprising collaboration. She

1285
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 2: has a song called Miami Blue with Big Crit.

1286
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 1: Y'all know how I feel about Big Crit.

1287
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 2: Legendary, one of the greatest, and it's so it's such

1288
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 2: a smooth record and I love when Meg makes so

1289
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 2: smooth records. Of course, she has UGK on the album

1290
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 2: Victoria Monet. It's a solid album. It's one of those

1291
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 2: things you can listen through straight through and you're gonna

1292
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 2: fuck with it.

1293
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 1: So shout out to Meg Mamushi. That's my bop of

1294
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:25,760
Speaker 1: the week song. I like it. It's very catchy, a hit.

1295
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 1: Shout out to me the HWN period. So my bop

1296
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 1: is from another female rapper. My bop is Big Mama

1297
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 1: Balado Big. I love that song. I think it's so

1298
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 1: catch It is what you're gonna do for Big Mama?

1299
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:43,919
Speaker 1: For real?

1300
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 3: What do I get for my birthday? Oh that's perfect

1301
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 3: for you because your birthday coming up? It is, But

1302
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:55,479
Speaker 3: it's very catchy, like and you know for a long time,

1303
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 3: Why am I gonna say a long time, but like

1304
00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 3: maybe for like a month or so, she kept dropping

1305
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Speaker 3: like that one little tone, and I feel like everybody

1306
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 3: was like, okay when she gonna drop the song, like

1307
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 3: to like build the anticipation, And when she.

1308
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 1: Did drop the song, it definitely hit.

1309
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 3: And I even like the little second half of the

1310
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 3: song to which you know, the beat change. I love

1311
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 3: when songs do that. I love that song, so big Mama,

1312
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 3: Big Mama, It's.

1313
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 1: A good song. I like Lotto.

1314
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 2: I got that's a lot of yeah a Lotto was

1315
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 2: a good artist. She I feel like once an artist

1316
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 2: that she keeps dropping hits.

1317
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 1: She does. She didn't denied the talent.

1318
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 3: And I went to Birthday bash in Atlanta, which was

1319
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Speaker 3: like probably my first I think that was my first

1320
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 3: time ever seeing her perform in person.

1321
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: And she did a good job.

1322
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she had a lot of like great people

1323
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 3: come out, which is just kind of like a testament

1324
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 3: to how many people fuck with her.

1325
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 1: I mean, she did Usher's tribute.

1326
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 3: I think, well, she needed Usher's tribute and then Usher

1327
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 3: came out at Birthday.

1328
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think you know, she was on his

1329
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 1: last album too.

1330
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 2: I think she was the only rapper, female rapper on

1331
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 2: his tribute.

1332
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 1: I want to say she was.

1333
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think that's just a testament to who

1334
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 2: she is in her art artistry as well. So shout

1335
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 2: out to Lotto. We love big lot of period. Hope

1336
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 2: y'all is your girl.

1337
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 1: XP and it's sugarl Dry and the Call. Y'all know.

1338
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 2: We have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of

1339
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 2: the Week. But do you have a product or something

1340
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 2: that you want to promote and you want it featured

1341
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 2: on Poor Minds.

1342
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 1: Your opportunity is here period.

1343
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 3: If you have an item or you have a business

1344
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 3: and you want to get it promoted, we are now

1345
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 3: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1346
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 3: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1347
01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 3: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1348
01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 3: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

1349
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 3: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

1350
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 3: H E W E E K PM at gmail dot com.

1351
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 3: Send us an email and we'll work it out. We

1352
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 3: gonna figure it out.

1353
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 2: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

1354
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 2: you some money.

1355
01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 1: We love to sport a small business man.

1356
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 3: And a black business said that, But I mean on

1357
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:01,280
Speaker 3: a scrimma dad, any business.

1358
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 1: Is welcome, all right.

1359
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 2: So we have the Item of the Week, y'all know,

1360
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 2: I think it's time for me to give a fair

1361
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 2: and honest review.

1362
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: Now.

1363
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about Crowns of Love. Y'all know,

1364
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:15,600
Speaker 2: we had Tracy on the show from Crowns of Love Incorporated.

1365
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 2: And I got the what is it the raw Indian

1366
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 2: curl that I have in my hair. I've had it

1367
01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 2: in my head for a long time. I want to say,

1368
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:26,600
Speaker 2: almost two months at this point maybe, and I'm not

1369
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

1370
01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 1: This is this hair is bomb. It's great hair. It

1371
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 1: is some good hair.

1372
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:34,800
Speaker 2: Because the fact that this hair is like two months

1373
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 2: old and it's still fresh, all y'all do is spray

1374
01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 2: a little one two, comb it through and keep it pushing.

1375
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: Now.

1376
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 2: I don't braid it at night like I'm supposed to,

1377
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 2: because you do have to break curly hair at night.

1378
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 2: But even when I don't braid it, I can still

1379
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 2: just spray it in the morning blend my hair with it.

1380
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 2: I twist my hair to blend it. Y'all gonna see

1381
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 2: the London episodes that are about to drop and the

1382
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 2: ones that previously start previously drop. My hair wasn't blended

1383
01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 2: like I like it because I didn't take the proper

1384
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 2: products to London because I had just gotten the hair done,

1385
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 2: so I didn't really know how to play with it.

1386
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:07,960
Speaker 1: So now I've really figured out how to play with it.

1387
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:10,440
Speaker 2: And when I tell y'all, if you're a curly hair

1388
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 2: girl and you love curly bundles, this is it. I

1389
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 2: amy you did your big one because you have it

1390
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 2: in as well.

1391
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I have in hair from Crowns of Love

1392
01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 3: as well. I'm not sure if this is like the same.

1393
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:25,680
Speaker 3: I think that's alute way, but I don't know because

1394
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 3: I feel like it's not the same texture as the

1395
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 3: hair that I just had in for my braid that

1396
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 3: was like a little looser than this.

1397
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 1: But this also isn't.

1398
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 3: As tight as it's not as tight as my hair,

1399
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 3: but my hair is.

1400
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 1: Also like longer. But y'all, this hair is so good.

1401
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 3: So I have like a flip over quick weave, so

1402
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 3: I have like my real hair out at the perimeter,

1403
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 3: and then you know, I have the bundles from Tracy.

1404
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 3: I think it's like a twenty and two twenty two.

1405
01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 3: And y'all, this hair is so easy to manage. I

1406
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:56,440
Speaker 3: probably should be taking better care of it. But I'm

1407
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:58,680
Speaker 3: one of them girls who I do not betid my

1408
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 3: hair up. When I go to sleep sleeping with a

1409
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 3: bunnet on none of this sheet, And when I say

1410
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:06,680
Speaker 3: I be going to sleep just with my hair out

1411
01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 3: like this, and I'll be waking up in the morning

1412
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 3: and it's never tangled. I literally just have to spray

1413
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:15,840
Speaker 3: water on it and brush through it and I'm ready

1414
01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 3: to go. I don't really even have to put no

1415
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:20,320
Speaker 3: products in it. To be honest, I love this hair.

1416
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 3: It's amazing. I never want to wear Yeah.

1417
01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 2: Same now I will say with the curlier hair, I

1418
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 2: do have to put product in it.

1419
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because cause it's.

1420
01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 2: Like when I don't have products on it, cause like

1421
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 2: y'all have to. It's raw, curly in it hair, but

1422
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 2: it's very good. We'll make sure we put the link

1423
01:04:37,160 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 2: in the bio for you, and yeah.

1424
01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:39,800
Speaker 1: Shout out to Tracy.

1425
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 2: I'm about to get some braids, so I'm gonna get

1426
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna get that texture when I get

1427
01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 2: some braids.

1428
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So what we got next?

1429
01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:51,240
Speaker 3: So now it's time to get into the poor your

1430
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 3: Heart Out segment, which is our favorite segment of the show.

1431
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 3: Y'all know, if y'all have any questions, thank you Tom.

1432
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 3: Y'all can always send them to ask poormids at gmail

1433
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 3: dot com. It's ask you are in my NDAs at

1434
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 3: gmail dot com. Send us your questions, send us your testimonials.

1435
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 1: I feel like y'all ain't really.

1436
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 3: Been sending our testimonials yet, so I feel like maybe

1437
01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 3: we've been doing a good job with the advice, because

1438
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 3: I feel like the testimonials wasn't good ones I was

1439
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 3: getting them. So yeah, just keep writing these questions in

1440
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 3: y'all because we love to give y'all our feedback.

1441
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:24,440
Speaker 1: You readily.

1442
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, go ahead, okay. Question number one, this is from

1443
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 3: a Patreon member too. Hey, lex Andrea, how do you

1444
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 3: get back someone that you dubbed because you were unsure

1445
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 3: about them? Now I'm looking back, thinking about the potential

1446
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 3: of how things could have been. I might have stood

1447
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 3: on business too hard. I made a list of things

1448
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 3: I did and didn't like. There was only one thing

1449
01:05:45,360 --> 01:05:48,120
Speaker 3: I really didn't like, but the others weren't anything too crazy.

1450
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:52,920
Speaker 2: Now I'm questioning why you want to go back because

1451
01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:55,240
Speaker 2: you dubbed this person for a reason. Now you might

1452
01:05:55,280 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 2: have I think you trying to see because you see

1453
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 2: them treating somebody else right, or they done moved on

1454
01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 2: and they was impressing you. Because now I'm wondering what

1455
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,520
Speaker 2: your intentions are because if you only had one thing

1456
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 2: that was bad and all the rest were good, why

1457
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 2: did you dub them? So maybe you need to look

1458
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:14,360
Speaker 2: within and take your well and move on. I don't

1459
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 2: like when people do that though, like, don't dub somebody

1460
01:06:18,520 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 2: and then you see I don't know what the situation is,

1461
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 2: but if there was only one con and you had

1462
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 2: all these pros, why did you so and why are

1463
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:28,360
Speaker 2: you trying to change your mind now?

1464
01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 3: I just don't feel like you should want somebody back

1465
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 3: that you dubbed for a long time. I feel like

1466
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 3: people that you dubbed for a long time they becoming

1467
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 3: You get him a chance, Yeah, they be coming back

1468
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:40,480
Speaker 3: with vengeance. He's asked about to do you in and

1469
01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 3: I said, don't get it.

1470
01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 2: I was like, no, they not. I feel like cause

1471
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 2: that listen, girl, it happened to me. It happened to me.

1472
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 3: It happened to me too. Don't get it in, don't

1473
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 3: get in it. Don't get a nigga no chance. And

1474
01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 3: you wouldn't give him no chance the first time he

1475
01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 3: tried or the second time, I would just say, girl,

1476
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 3: let it go. It's more niggas. I think you ain't missing.

1477
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:02,560
Speaker 3: I don't know things because when I tell you he

1478
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 3: gonna do you dirty, he.

1479
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 1: Gonna do you in.

1480
01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:07,440
Speaker 2: He can't wait, all right. Question number two, it's a

1481
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 2: few questions. So it says Heydrea and Lexp, I have

1482
01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 2: a few questions for you, for both of us, What

1483
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:17,000
Speaker 2: did you ladies think of the Usher tribute. I think

1484
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 2: we answered that earlier. I enjoyed it personally. I think

1485
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 2: it was great seeing it live. It was a different experience.

1486
01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 5: I liked it.

1487
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:28,000
Speaker 2: Chloe Bailey did amazing as well, Tanasee, everybody, Marsha, she

1488
01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 2: did great. Like I said, I think sometimes when you

1489
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 2: see something on TV versus actually being there, you don't

1490
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 2: get the full experience.

1491
01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 1: But I enjoyed it. I did too. I thought it

1492
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 1: was really really good and I liked it. It was

1493
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 1: all women.

1494
01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:43,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, Coco Jones, I could have worry about Coco. She ate,

1495
01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 2: she ate, and she said, I enjoyed it. The internet

1496
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 2: sceneed to be less impressed and was wondering where all

1497
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:54,920
Speaker 2: the male artists were. But again, Usher requested a female tribute. Now,

1498
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:57,840
Speaker 2: Childish Gambino was indeed, you know, I think they wanted

1499
01:07:57,880 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 2: to have him kind of intro it and open it.

1500
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 2: But Usher specifically said, because let me say this, this

1501
01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 2: may cause a little controversy. Y'all may not like this,

1502
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:10,920
Speaker 2: but if y'all can name one artist that's relevant right now,

1503
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:14,840
Speaker 2: a male artist that could do Usher Justice, more than

1504
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 2: Victoria Money, more than Tayona Taylor, more than Kiki Palmer

1505
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:21,759
Speaker 2: that can dance and sing right now outside of Chris Brown.

1506
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:24,240
Speaker 2: Because I don't know how Usher and Chris Brown's relationship is,

1507
01:08:24,479 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 2: but there's no male R and B artists that can

1508
01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 2: sing and dance like that right now. I mean, maybe

1509
01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 2: I'm tripping and I listen to a lot of R

1510
01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 2: and B, but these are R and B singers, But

1511
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 2: ain't nobody Finna moon walk and do all that shit

1512
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:43,280
Speaker 2: like Usher besides Chris Brown and Chris Brown on tour.

1513
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:46,599
Speaker 2: So I think there was a good idea for him

1514
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 2: to do female artists right now because the women are

1515
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:54,560
Speaker 2: killing it right now and out Victoria Money is the

1516
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:58,800
Speaker 2: hottest R and B artist right now man and women

1517
01:08:59,120 --> 01:09:02,599
Speaker 2: to me personally, so Teyanna Taylor has been doing amazing

1518
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 2: with her creative directing. Who can out dance Teianna Taylor?

1519
01:09:07,040 --> 01:09:10,679
Speaker 2: The only other person I would have added, what's another woman, Sierra,

1520
01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 2: but she's on tour again. We don't really have any

1521
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:15,719
Speaker 2: men right now.

1522
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:17,599
Speaker 1: That can leak say they want us to see Jack Queeze.

1523
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:21,960
Speaker 2: And the second question said, Lex, have you heard of Nippa?

1524
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 2: He's an R and B artist, and I want to

1525
01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 2: know what you think of his music. You know you

1526
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:28,760
Speaker 2: have an here I haven't heard.

1527
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 1: I haven't heard of n I was trying to read,

1528
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 1: you know, I read slow. I'm the king of R

1529
01:09:40,240 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 1: and B.

1530
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:44,720
Speaker 2: I haven't heard of Nippa, but I'll listen to him.

1531
01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 2: Who is She's trying to put me on an R

1532
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 2: and B artist? She said, I just told you about one.

1533
01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:52,920
Speaker 1: I know who I know.

1534
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 3: That's what the people were saying. They want us to

1535
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:58,280
Speaker 3: see we're people. They were saying that on Twitter. Oh okay,

1536
01:09:58,320 --> 01:09:59,240
Speaker 3: where's Jack Queez?

1537
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:03,679
Speaker 1: Oh? I think his name Jakeyes, yeah, that's fair. Everybody

1538
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 1: has the right to their opinion. That's fair. What do

1539
01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 1: you think?

1540
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 2: I think the tribute was an amazing tribute and there

1541
01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:13,000
Speaker 2: was nothing I would change about it.

1542
01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 1: Would you have liked to see a man I saw

1543
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:19,560
Speaker 1: shouders can be no and that was good enough for me.

1544
01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:21,559
Speaker 2: If there was one man I would want to see,

1545
01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 2: I guess you know, I would say, like Chris Brown.

1546
01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:27,960
Speaker 2: But like I said, fair, this is no shade because

1547
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:30,719
Speaker 2: I love the male. I love R and B music

1548
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:33,320
Speaker 2: right now, but there's nobody in R and B that

1549
01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 2: can sing and dance like us shirt except for Chris Brown.

1550
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:41,040
Speaker 2: Except for Chris Brown. And he's the only one that

1551
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:44,200
Speaker 2: could have only man right now, that's relevant. That could

1552
01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 2: have done him justice. You know, if they were going

1553
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 2: to do a throwback, you know, they could have thrown

1554
01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 2: a little marion in there. Maybe, you know, they definitely

1555
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:53,160
Speaker 2: could have got mar you know, they could have thrown

1556
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:55,599
Speaker 2: a marion in there. That's one another one I would say.

1557
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 2: But I think they were trying to keep it fresh

1558
01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:01,320
Speaker 2: with a young crowd, you know. They That's what they

1559
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:06,400
Speaker 2: have to do when you have to appease gen Z,

1560
01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So for gen Z to

1561
01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 2: tune in, you know you're gonna have to have the Lottos,

1562
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:13,840
Speaker 2: the Coco Jones, the Kiki Palmers.

1563
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 1: You know. So, I think they did amazing at picking

1564
01:11:16,479 --> 01:11:19,679
Speaker 1: and I think it was fabulous. I think it was great.

1565
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:20,639
Speaker 1: I think it was great.

1566
01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:26,360
Speaker 2: Drea, last question for you for me, Yes, she has

1567
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 2: multiple questions. Damn she she got it in, Drea. Have

1568
01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 2: you heard of ching diamond pronounced chan?

1569
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:40,840
Speaker 1: I don't know I read anymore. She said she get aman.

1570
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 2: Pronounced ching like to ching, shake down and another bitch

1571
01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:47,840
Speaker 2: bist to dust are my face from her?

1572
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:48,639
Speaker 1: What do you think?

1573
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:50,680
Speaker 2: I think these are your friends and you just got

1574
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:54,400
Speaker 2: a free shout out. I'm gonna send my inbood because

1575
01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 2: she said ching Diamond and she.

1576
01:11:56,240 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 1: Asked me, yeah, you think that I would know more

1577
01:11:59,479 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 1: than Lyn. Well, this is a rapper, I guess, but

1578
01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:05,960
Speaker 1: you listen to more like indie artists. Yeah, I think

1579
01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:07,680
Speaker 1: these are her friends and she just got them a

1580
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:10,240
Speaker 1: free shout out. But that was smart. You got me.

1581
01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 3: We're gonna I'm gonna listen to it, and I'm gonna

1582
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:13,800
Speaker 3: let you know I'm gonna listen to it too, because

1583
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:15,600
Speaker 3: it's on the next episode of What I Think About It.

1584
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,519
Speaker 1: I got you, see, Thank you for your questions. Thank

1585
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:20,160
Speaker 1: you girl, bully point.

1586
01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:25,679
Speaker 2: So, now y'all know we haven't done the shot line

1587
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:28,599
Speaker 2: in a while, but we do have a shot line number.

1588
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:31,439
Speaker 2: Hobby is gonna put it below or right here, y'all

1589
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 2: can call the shot line.

1590
01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 1: This is not advice. It's just a good things off

1591
01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 1: your chest. How you feeling?

1592
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:39,120
Speaker 2: Keep it short under a minute, please, So let's go

1593
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:41,760
Speaker 2: ahead and play the shot line for the week.

1594
01:12:41,920 --> 01:12:46,719
Speaker 5: On the shot line, Hey, y'all, So I'm a listener.

1595
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:50,160
Speaker 5: I've been a listener since twenty twenty two, so I

1596
01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 5: just want to say, like, I don't know, like when

1597
01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 5: I be outside by myself and I'm not with my niggas,

1598
01:12:57,880 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 5: sometimes I just be almost grabbing a bitch to be

1599
01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:05,920
Speaker 5: a third Like, I don't know what's that about, but

1600
01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 5: I just want to tell you about that. I'm not

1601
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:11,840
Speaker 5: in no way like by or like I never did

1602
01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 5: anything with a female. But when I be drunk with

1603
01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 5: my friends and I be outside, I'll be damn near

1604
01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 5: about to grab a bad dish for me and him, Like,

1605
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,400
Speaker 5: I don't know what that's about, but I wanted to

1606
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 5: tell you all about that.

1607
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:28,160
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what it is. A drunk mind speaks

1608
01:13:28,200 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 1: sober thoughts. You want that couchie her mind selling. Oh

1609
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:35,160
Speaker 1: I can't seen that, but y'all know where I was going.

1610
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 2: Y'all know where I was going with that. That drunk

1611
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:42,080
Speaker 2: mind is speaking that sober thought. You want that little

1612
01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 2: coachure that's okay?

1613
01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:45,519
Speaker 1: Try, yeah, I think so too. I feel like, yeah,

1614
01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:47,680
Speaker 1: just try. You know you don't like it. Throw that

1615
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:53,639
Speaker 1: little pussy beg. You know the water all right? Drawn

1616
01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 1: we for the rack like it. That's what I did.

1617
01:13:58,160 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 1: What's up? Y'all's your girl? Xp andy Sgarirls ran a

1618
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:01,640
Speaker 1: call and.

1619
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:04,600
Speaker 2: Y'all do not forget to call our shot line. I

1620
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 2: know you heard of a hotline, but this is the

1621
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:09,639
Speaker 2: poor mind's shot line. Yeah, we love to hear from y'all.

1622
01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:12,000
Speaker 2: Y'all need to call in, y'all, and this is not

1623
01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 2: necessarily for questions. You know, we just want to hear

1624
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:14,680
Speaker 2: from y'all.

1625
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 3: We want to know y'all, feedback, y'all, thoughts on the show,

1626
01:14:17,400 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 3: or just what's going on in your life. So you

1627
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 3: can always call six seven eight eight two seven one

1628
01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 3: eight two seed Yes.

1629
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 1: And y'all know, keep it short and cute.

1630
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 2: Don't be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy,

1631
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:30,280
Speaker 2: says a brother, cousin, boyfriend.

1632
01:14:30,360 --> 01:14:31,840
Speaker 1: Okay, well I want to hear about that.

1633
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 2: Actually, well you know, they can let a little some

1634
01:14:34,040 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 2: but you know, we want to keep it cute and short.

1635
01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:38,600
Speaker 2: Like she said, this is not questions, This is not

1636
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:40,840
Speaker 2: pour your heart out, So just call give us a

1637
01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:42,920
Speaker 2: little feedback, what you want to see on the show,

1638
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 2: any suggestions, what you think about the show. If you

1639
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:47,600
Speaker 2: just want to simply give us our flowers, you know,

1640
01:14:47,800 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 2: or any It could be anything.

1641
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 1: What's bothering you this week? What got on your nerves

1642
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 1: this week?

1643
01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 2: If you just want to vent and get some things

1644
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:56,400
Speaker 2: off your chest, pull the shot line again. The number

1645
01:14:56,520 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 2: is six seven eight eight two seven one eighth too sick,

1646
01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:05,960
Speaker 2: So draw make sure y'all go to Music Beauty Collection

1647
01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:06,720
Speaker 2: dot com.

1648
01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 1: You know I always have that on my lip plane.

1649
01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:13,120
Speaker 1: What you got on today? Oh? What is it? What's

1650
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:18,439
Speaker 1: the like? Chestnut liner? And what's the light? The light?

1651
01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:22,439
Speaker 1: It has like the tint to it. A lot of

1652
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: stuff they got tent it's like the little brown tint

1653
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:30,520
Speaker 1: to it. I wore a different one. It's not less though, marveling, yes, marvelous.

1654
01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:31,439
Speaker 1: You know I can't read.

1655
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:35,400
Speaker 4: I have on.

1656
01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 3: I have on my favorite lip combo, which is chestnut

1657
01:15:40,200 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 3: and honey dip, the Matt liquidlip liner, I mean the

1658
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 3: Matt liquid lipstick, and then I also have on glaze.

1659
01:15:46,200 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm all right, yeah, I didn't do glaze on top.

1660
01:15:48,320 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, trying to get more of a Matt. Yeah.

1661
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 2: I wanted to give a little that look today. So

1662
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:56,439
Speaker 2: once again, y'all go to Music Beauty Collection dot com,

1663
01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 2: get your lippies, and we have a lot of good

1664
01:15:59,520 --> 01:16:00,760
Speaker 2: stuff opping for y'all.

1665
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:08,519
Speaker 1: Can we say something about Yeah? Okay, is it what's today?

1666
01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:10,800
Speaker 1: It's in September.

1667
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:14,680
Speaker 2: Okay, So we're bringing back Poor Solt Karaoke. I don't

1668
01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:17,280
Speaker 2: know if y'all remember we did this with music Soul

1669
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:19,760
Speaker 2: Child last time. So we have some more people coming

1670
01:16:19,800 --> 01:16:23,840
Speaker 2: out this time Poor Sol Karaoke in Atlanta. It'll be

1671
01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:28,760
Speaker 2: at City City Winery September twenty first. I believe it's

1672
01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 2: September twenty first, but y'all get y'all tickets. Y'all can

1673
01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:34,000
Speaker 2: come turn up with us. We're gonna have a good time.

1674
01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:36,760
Speaker 2: So you have were bringing back Poor Soul Karaoke, y'all

1675
01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:40,840
Speaker 2: been asking. So it's back September and.

1676
01:16:40,960 --> 01:16:45,920
Speaker 1: We got a special game. Yes, we do somebody different

1677
01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:48,160
Speaker 1: this time. It's not music. It's not music. Shout out

1678
01:16:48,160 --> 01:16:50,000
Speaker 1: to music. We got somebody different this time and it's

1679
01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:50,519
Speaker 1: gonna be lit.

1680
01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:55,920
Speaker 3: So Poor Soul Karaoke September twenty first at City Winery. Yes,

1681
01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:58,960
Speaker 3: make sure y'all get y'all tikis soon. We're gonna be

1682
01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:01,800
Speaker 3: dropping the links soon. Get him to eat. Come pull

1683
01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:04,240
Speaker 3: up and see your girls period and.

1684
01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 1: We'll see you'll next week you sh sho do your

1685
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:17,120
Speaker 1: dad brand new name. We ain't got a brand new style,

1686
01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 1: We got a brand new sound. Hit it from me,

1687
01:17:22,439 --> 01:17:23,360
Speaker 1: dre yow.

1688
01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:27,800
Speaker 3: They say I'm a rapper and I say no. They say,

1689
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 3: what you're doing trying to do? Sometime to go?

1690
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:31,559
Speaker 5: Just let some.

1691
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:35,240
Speaker 4: Music come from a saul so all of my people

1692
01:17:35,400 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 4: can't stay on the floor. They got a brand new

1693
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,880
Speaker 4: Oh you gotta move your mother, so brand new that

1694
01:17:42,439 --> 01:17:44,000
Speaker 4: it's called a cup and shuffle.

1695
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 1: It don't matter if you're young or your old. We

1696
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:50,640
Speaker 1: gonna show you how. We go to the right, to

1697
01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:55,639
Speaker 1: the right, to the right, left left.

1698
01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:04,240
Speaker 10: Now walking by yourself. All, let me see you out

1699
01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:07,240
Speaker 10: you dance. Then let me see your do the cuban

1700
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,880
Speaker 10: down to your day. Now, let me see your do

1701
01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:11,840
Speaker 10: the cuban down to your dance.

1702
01:18:16,400 --> 01:18:22,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, whoa how down to your name? Do your name?

1703
01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:30,519
Speaker 1: Now down to your early Yeah. We count to the right,

1704
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:34,960
Speaker 1: to the right, to the left, to the left, to

1705
01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 1: the lock, mack cake.

1706
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 10: Knocking, now walking by yourself, now walking by yourself to

1707
01:18:43,520 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 10: the right, through the rake, to the right, to.

1708
01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:48,960
Speaker 4: The ring, to the left, to the left, to the left,

1709
01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:51,520
Speaker 4: to the left, knock knock.

1710
01:18:51,640 --> 01:18:54,839
Speaker 1: Knock, kick nanke now walking by yourself.

1711
01:18:55,640 --> 01:19:02,639
Speaker 6: Hey, you see what I'm talking about. I'm represented from

1712
01:19:02,760 --> 01:19:07,960
Speaker 6: the dirties off. Yeah, don't fuck swing it out. I'm

1713
01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:08,959
Speaker 6: gonna show.

1714
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:16,439
Speaker 1: You what I'm talking about. Yeah, hey, let me see

1715
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:17,000
Speaker 1: you doing it.

1716
01:19:17,120 --> 01:19:20,360
Speaker 4: Keep me hey for the keep cuep it, shuffle thet

1717
01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 4: keep shovel the cup cep in shovel.

1718
01:19:25,000 --> 01:19:31,799
Speaker 1: Whoa hey, hey, whoa.

1719
01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:38,280
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah to the right, to the right,

1720
01:19:38,439 --> 01:19:40,120
Speaker 10: to the right, to the rank.

1721
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:42,600
Speaker 1: To the left, to the left, to the left, to

1722
01:19:42,800 --> 01:19:47,479
Speaker 1: the left. Naki, I'm about bro keep it. Now walking

1723
01:19:47,640 --> 01:19:50,960
Speaker 1: by yourself, keep it. I'm tired. Cuep it. You gotta dream,

1724
01:19:51,560 --> 01:19:53,479
Speaker 1: cuep it. You gotta be a shake to send to

1725
01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:58,960
Speaker 1: cup it shovel God damn na K I done kicked.

1726
01:19:59,040 --> 01:20:00,719
Speaker 1: I'm out of brain. If y'all.

1727
01:20:02,880 --> 01:20:10,280
Speaker 8: Ho y'all, shake that ass, shake that ass, Drea, distract them,

1728
01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:15,439
Speaker 8: dream my breath, shake that ass. Pop that monkey, pop

1729
01:20:15,520 --> 01:20:20,880
Speaker 8: that monkey, pop that mokey them needs really work, pop

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Speaker 8: that mokey them knees.

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Speaker 1: Oh, shut up, to cup it. It's just an exercise.

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Speaker 1: What the ammn cue