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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocate online at

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Speaker 1: advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Selena is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Justin.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call him and see

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Speaker 2: if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get

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Speaker 2: her a second date. But first, Selena, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you talked to Justin?

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Speaker 3: Ten days to hold days? Do you believe it?

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Speaker 2: I can't believe it, I know, and I len me

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Speaker 2: sound very nice, so I don't. I don't understand.

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Speaker 4: And it feels like it's meant to be.

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Speaker 5: Right, Selena and Justin. What a coincidence?

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Speaker 3: Right, we could be the couple that makes it.

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Speaker 5: They didn't make it, I know, but she could have.

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Speaker 5: You tried to get a hold of Justin.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I sent him a text, you know, and she

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Speaker 3: did not respond to it. I mean, it wasn't nineteen bad,

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Speaker 3: it was just casual. I said, hey, hope you're not

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Speaker 3: in a lavender donut coma text? Nothing, and then I

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Speaker 3: told him I can't wait to see him again, and

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Speaker 3: still nothing at last.

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Speaker 4: I don't understand the.

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Speaker 5: Inside joke.

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Speaker 3: That's just an inside joke.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I was curious, So what do you guys do

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Speaker 4: on your date?

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Speaker 3: Okay? So we met at a food truck festival, which

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Speaker 3: is already cute, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, right, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was wearing I was wearing my I'm fun and

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Speaker 3: chill but also hot outfit, and he was like in

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Speaker 3: a Patagonia dad gear very I hike for fun energy

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Speaker 3: huh yeah yeah. And we tried everything tacos, dumplings, these

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Speaker 3: insane garlic noodles. I still dream about them. And we

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Speaker 3: ended the night sharing a lavender donut under fairy lights.

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Speaker 5: That's you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he laughed at all my jokes. He said

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Speaker 3: I had the best energy he's been around in months.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, obviously I thought we were vibing hard.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah. So did you guys kiss or anything? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, at the end of the night, like you know, well,

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Speaker 3: actually what happened was like I was wearing like really

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Speaker 3: strong perfume and he started sneezing a lot, and I

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Speaker 3: asked if he was allergic, and he goes, no, no,

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Speaker 3: but he started breathing like a pug and a sauna

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Speaker 3: and I was like, oh shoot, And then I was

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Speaker 3: like maybe I gave him a mile.

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Speaker 2: To asthma pet like, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but we kissed goodbye and he didn't die, so

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Speaker 3: I figured we were cool.

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Speaker 5: Throwing you do have good energy, Okay.

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Speaker 3: I have fun.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Why do you think he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: I really don't know. I mean I was thinking that,

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Speaker 3: you know, the whole like, you know, maybe I was

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Speaker 3: like really actually allergic and he didn't want to say anything,

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Speaker 3: and he's maybe in a coma right now, you know,

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Speaker 3: we don't know.

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Speaker 4: All right, well, let's figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you a second date. Okay, yeah, all right,

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Speaker 2: we'll get your first day follow up, next first.

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Speaker 1: Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online

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Speaker 1: at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up,

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Speaker 2: And if you're just joining us, Selena is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Justin.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna call him in just a second and

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Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her a second date. But real quick, Selena,

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Speaker 2: why don't you break down your date again and why

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Speaker 2: you think you're getting ghosted?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I have the most dreamy date.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: We went to a food truck festival. We ate a

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Speaker 3: lot of stuff, you know. We ended the night with

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Speaker 3: a dreamy kiss, and I think he might just be

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Speaker 3: ghosting me because of the perfume I was wearing. Maybe

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Speaker 3: it was too much, you know, and he didn't want

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Speaker 4: Anything about that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but like, I feel like we had

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Speaker 3: a great date.

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Speaker 5: But he was starting to smell what does that breathe

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Speaker 5: like a pug?

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Speaker 3: All? Yeah, all right, are you.

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Speaker 2: Ready for us to call the pug in asana and

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Speaker 2: see how he's doing?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Justin Justin?

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Speaker 4: How are you I'm doing?

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Speaker 6: I'll care who's calling.

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Speaker 4: This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 5: Hi Justin. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Guys?

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Speaker 4: Not much? Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 6: I've heard of it, but I've been listening to it for.

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Speaker 2: Okay, guess what, Justin, you're on the show today because

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Speaker 2: we got an email about you. Okay, So we do

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Speaker 2: a segment that's called the first date follow up. What

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Speaker 2: that is is if you go on to day with

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Speaker 2: someone and you ghost them, they can email us to

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Speaker 2: call you and ask why you're ghosting and you're ghosting somebody,

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Speaker 2: so they email.

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Speaker 4: Us about you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is about Lena.

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Speaker 4: Right, yes, it is about Selena.

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Speaker 6: But look she's well. I had a time, but there

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Speaker 6: was just like there was just something that happened that

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Speaker 6: I couldn't shake. Okay what it was about?

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Speaker 4: Do you have time to tell us what that thing

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Speaker 4: is that you couldn't shake?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? She brought it ziploc bag and in the ziploc

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Speaker 6: bag was just like a fist full of her hair.

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Speaker 6: Whoa wait what Yeah? We were having this like picnic

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Speaker 6: and you know, she pulls out this bag like Cathie

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Speaker 6: and I thought she was bringing out snacks. Nope, it

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Speaker 6: was her hair, her hair.

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Speaker 5: Did you ask her why she had her hair?

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Speaker 6: I think I was just taking it all in. I

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Speaker 6: was just like, uh, oh, okay, there's got to be

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Speaker 6: her explanation to this, and that's her hair. And it

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Speaker 6: was like like she was just like taking hand like

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Speaker 6: oh yeah, like there's the Tuesday pile of hair.

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Speaker 5: Oh. Interesting, every day had its own pile.

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Speaker 6: I asked, and I guess he's tracking her hair scientifically.

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Speaker 6: I don't know what that means. I really asked them

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Speaker 6: many questions, but she said she loses a certain amount

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Speaker 6: of hair every day, and so she collected and she's

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Speaker 6: just checking it for vitamins. What if that means?

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Speaker 4: Interesting?

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Speaker 6: She literally said that. Look, she told me the amount

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Speaker 6: of hair she loses her and since she was more

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Speaker 6: humido like in humid in human weather, I lose you know,

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Speaker 6: a two one hundred and forty strands a day.

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Speaker 4: And she brought up back grew who knows that?

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Speaker 3: Okay, first of all, it's not weird, it's data.

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Speaker 2: Just then that's Selena. She's on the phone and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Hi, do you have something against science or something? I

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Speaker 3: had no idea how judgmental you are?

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Speaker 6: Selena? Why are you on the call? Why might be

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Speaker 6: ambushed with this? This is ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to know why you were ghoasting me,

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Speaker 3: and I can't believe this is your reason. Okay, I

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Speaker 3: am on a hair growth journey. If you can't handle

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Speaker 3: my routine, you don't deserve the results.

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Speaker 6: Wow, Okay, I don't have to be on the hair

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Speaker 6: growth journey with you. I don't have to be on

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Speaker 6: the hair growth journey, Like why, like a zip blocked

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Speaker 6: bag is your hair? That's like, that's a boundaries thing.

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Speaker 6: It's not. That's not normal or comfortable for another person.

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Speaker 6: You're around you pulling out sass of your hair like,

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Speaker 6: I don't care. You could have done it like a

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Speaker 6: no more discreetly. I don't care what you do in private.

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Speaker 6: I have nothing against science, but I don't want to

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Speaker 6: be looking at your science. We're having a picnic.

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Speaker 3: Listen, there is nothing wrong with what I am doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm just tracking my shedding. It's responsible. It's called file feedback. Okay,

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Speaker 3: all right.

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Speaker 6: The range girl, it's called the range. You're the range curious.

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Speaker 3: You're more ankle stocks with slides, so maybe let's not

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Speaker 3: act like you're the pinnacle of.

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Speaker 6: All right. It was a style choice. It wasn't like

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Speaker 6: at least I wasn't wearing slippers may pair on my feet.

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Speaker 3: Oh so that was a style choice. I guess ghosting

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Speaker 3: was a style choice too.

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Speaker 6: Apparently I was supposed to handle a ziplock of hair.

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Speaker 3: I mean subwardive.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but that's not something you do on the first

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Speaker 6: daid I don't have to know about all your business

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Speaker 6: and science. I don't need to know about anything more.

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Speaker 6: Your body is working at that point when we're just

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Speaker 6: trying to enjoy a picnic.

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Speaker 3: Well, I have to keep it with me to track

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Speaker 3: my hair as they fall. Otherwise would it be very scientific?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but I think science could be paused for an

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Speaker 6: actor during a picnic.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe this, Jess. We had such a great

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Speaker 3: time and you're gonna let it go over this. I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna have Lush's hair and you're gonna be bald, all right?

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Speaker 4: Justin, would you like another day with Selena? Will pay

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Speaker 4: for it?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 6: I think I'm good. I'm gonna be living in fear

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Speaker 6: of being sorted in the spreadsheet.

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Speaker 3: You'd be in the low test Asterom zero great column, and.

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Speaker 6: You'd be in the collect your own hair A villain

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Speaker 6: origin story column.

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