1 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Decatilli and Tan your Bad I Heart 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: Radio and People's Choice Award winning podcast Wow Eastern that 3 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:21,600 Speaker 1: was special. That was so good. I would also like 4 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 1: to say that Easton and his lovely wife Allison decorated 5 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: our little table where we're doing our podcasts. There's chocolate Macadamion. 6 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: It wasn't chocolate Macadamians, chocolate chocolate covered Macadamians, lays a 7 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: pineapple wine. We've got it all. Yeah, truly, because we're 8 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: in Howai or ger Muda. Did you see that Tommy 9 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: was singing, you know, uh, Bahama, come on pretty, but 10 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: you didn't sing one word right, no one? And I 11 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: was stick sobers four o'clock sober. And we were not 12 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: going to any of those islands because we're why. I 13 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: don't know why. I have no idea how that came 14 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: to my mind. Yeah, the people really, I mean we 15 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:13,119 Speaker 1: got I got a big response from that video Germuda. 16 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: So we're in Jermuda also known as Maui on the 17 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 1: set of Temptation Island, Becca's Latest Obsession. Okay, So I 18 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: found out we were coming here, and I thought I'm 19 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,400 Speaker 1: gonna watch an episode or two and then get the concept, 20 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: so I know what I'm singing or what I'm talking about. 21 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: Binge the whole season. It's a new guilty pleasure. I 22 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: watched everyone about it. I do want to watch it, 23 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: just because she's so obsessed. And then we went on 24 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: this like pineapple tour today with a lot of other 25 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: press people and they were all just as obsessed with Becca. 26 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,199 Speaker 1: So I was like, Okay, this show is worth a binge. 27 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: It was really fun. And then we got to meet 28 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: some of the new cast members. I can't say anything 29 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: more than that, except that one of the girls was like, 30 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: you have some advice because you were on reality TV 31 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, no, this is very different than 32 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: what I did. This show. They're canncept Yeah, but anyways, um, 33 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: it's something we have. The host of the show, he's 34 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,839 Speaker 1: going to be on later on in this podcast, which 35 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: I'm very thrilled about because I had an epiphany with 36 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 1: him today at the Pineapple Farm and I feel as 37 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 1: though I have a connection to him for the rest 38 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: of my life. Like he really said something that made 39 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 1: me go, oh, that's it. That is flipping. Well, can 40 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: we go into what what started you even having these 41 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: meeting Eureka moment. So I was went on a few 42 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: dates with Mr D and he ended up canceling like 43 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: our last date because he long story short, had client 44 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: stuff and it was totally fine. I didn't think he 45 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:51,959 Speaker 1: was lying to me, Like I was really chill about it. 46 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: And he's like, can we go out next week when 47 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 1: I get back? And I said, yeah, sounds good. I 48 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: might be going to Hawaii on Thursday, So how about Wednesday? 49 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: Wednesday's great, you know whatever, So I put on my coundar. 50 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: I put everything in my coundar. When isn't I date 51 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,679 Speaker 1: with Mr D? What do you do to prepare? So 52 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 1: here's the thing. The weekend goes by, and like I 53 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 1: didn't hear from him really like or like a couple 54 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:15,519 Speaker 1: yeys ago, but I don't hear from him. He sends 55 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: me a photo. It's a weird it's like a random photo. 56 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: I didn't really say anything to it because I didn't 57 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: warrant a response. So I'm like, I haven't talked to 58 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 1: him in a while. So I made a spray tan 59 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: appointment for Wednesday night and then Mark Mark is not 60 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: here Marcus Son's Hawaii. But Mark said, Tanya, you know 61 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: you doing that is like putting into the world that 62 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: he's not going to call you when like, you're not 63 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: gonna go on this date. And I said, you know what, 64 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: you know what, Mark, You're right. So guess what Tanya did. 65 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: She moved her spray tan, moved my spray tan. I 66 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: could not. So I was the day before I was 67 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: supposed to get a wax Brazilian wax because we were 68 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: coming to Hawaii. Okay, I called to make my appointment earlier. 69 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: They cannot fit me in. So I was like, I 70 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: can't go to whole Why with the hairy badge? I 71 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: say that sure. So I proceed to pluck tweets tweets 72 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: my bikini line so that every hair, every hair along. 73 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: I didn't do a great job, as I showed back 74 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: up so s se today. I was like, Okay, I 75 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: don't know how many you actually did, but you didn't. 76 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: It wasn't a clean job. You know. It was a 77 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: lot more labor intensive than I actually had anticipated. Because 78 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: plucking like your random stray eyebrows is one thing. Plucking 79 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 1: your entire bikini line is another. It makes me shiver, yeah, 80 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: and painful. I am like going on the record saying 81 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: I do not recommend anybody do this. However, I was 82 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: committed to getting my spray tan the day before so 83 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: that I could be free Wednesday night, So I went 84 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: through something. I went through some things, texting Becca during 85 00:04:59,920 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: the whole thing, being like I'm gonna time myself and 86 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: like see how long this takes and like maybe in 87 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: a game, like because you're wondering of our riveting text conversation. 88 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 1: So um, all this goes down and then Wednesday comes 89 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 1: and just crickets and even Mark was like, you know what, 90 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: let's give him till three three pm and then that's 91 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: when we cut it off and walk away. Three pm 92 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: comes and goes nothing. So by like five six pm 93 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: that night, I'm gonna spiral. And I have to say 94 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: this as like a woman, that is I'm very confident 95 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: and I'm very happy and I'm in a good place 96 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: in life. It rocked me. I was not well Wednesday night, 97 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 1: Like not in a good spot because you would tweezed 98 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 1: for this five So yeah, yeah, like truly, I'm like, 99 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: I plucked my bikini line to be free tonight and 100 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: I'm sitting here drinking sock by myself hair frashly spray 101 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: tand with no date on my couch. So it really like, 102 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: and I say jokingly now, but I was like not 103 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: in a good spot. So um, and I actually really 104 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: have a lot. I have more empathy now for people 105 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: that say they got ghosted and things like that because 106 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 1: I thought I was like good and that really took 107 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: me down. So now I'm just like, I couldn't imagine 108 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: if I was not in a good spot and that 109 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: happened to me. It's just not good. So anyways, Um, 110 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: I've been kind of like reeling from that. And what 111 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 1: do I do When I meet Mark Wahlberg. She starts 112 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: asking about his son. Hey seven, good looking pilot army, 113 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: great fami Navy, great family, Orange County, right, And then 114 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: he told me this and I'll save it for when 115 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: he comes because it is. It was a Eureka moment 116 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: and I will never And basically my new thing is 117 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: I quit, and you guys will find out why keep listening. 118 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: So I'm no longer pursuing. I'm deleting every app and 119 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: I'm just living. Don't try and set me up with 120 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: someone because I quit. Um, you want to set you 121 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: up with someone? No, I think I think the thing 122 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: that you quit is asking to be set up. I 123 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: think if someone brings that to you, you don't, that's 124 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: not your quitting. He has to earn it, right, he 125 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: does have to earn it, but by asking you out 126 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: that correct. Yeah. I don't need people setting me up. No, No, 127 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: you can be set up, don't. You're not asking everyone? Yeah, 128 00:07:55,920 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: we need maybe we need to tidy this. I don't. 129 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: She's sitting with tweezed Bikini lives right. Danya's had wine. 130 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: This is our first time we've ever drink on the podcast, 131 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: because we're normally doing it like in the late morning, 132 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: and I have the I have the microphone on my belly. Anyone. 133 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: She's comfortable though, I'm very comfortable. Um so, yeah, we 134 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: we got to Hawaii. Tanya wore sandals that literally she 135 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: has gaping wounds in and as we're walking, this is 136 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: like the middle of the day yesterday, we've been at 137 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: the beach. We're walking to go to the set, She's like, oh, yeah, 138 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: I might need a band aid. My my shoes are 139 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:43,439 Speaker 1: starting to give me a blister. And I'm like, what 140 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: it's like, no skin there. I'm like, it is not 141 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: starting to give you a blister. You might have an infection. 142 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 1: So she has them bandage, but she's been limping around 143 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:06,839 Speaker 1: every It's so good. We got in a fight yet 144 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: last night, Yeah we did. Yeah, but we resolved it 145 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: this morning, but I did. I let her sleep on 146 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 1: it because it felt like a little of a reactive 147 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: fight and I was like exhausted, and I was like, 148 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 1: she wants to talk about it, let her call me. 149 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 1: And she never called me. Yeah, because I was too tired. 150 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: I was. I asked, we have been together all day. 151 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: I came up to the room because we we were 152 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: actually going to record the podcast last night, and um, 153 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to get ready for it 154 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: and I had to go to the restroom and I 155 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: haven't been able to go since we got here, So 156 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: I was like, can you leave while I go to 157 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 1: the restroom and then come back down. We'll have dinner 158 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: together in my room. That upset her that I asked 159 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 1: her to leave me for a few moments. But what 160 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 1: I explained to Becca is it wasn't just that action. 161 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: I think it was like all day and like she 162 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: always kind of jokes like, oh, like TNA is so annoying, 163 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: Like I don't, I don't. I actually rarely, I don't 164 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: think I've ever said you're annoying. I'm very careful about 165 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 1: that because I think that's mean. But I do joke 166 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: a lot about you needing a lot of attention, which 167 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,959 Speaker 1: you also admit. But I think I took it too 168 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: far in the sensitive state that you're in. Yeah, I 169 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: think it all stems from my, um, vulnerable state that 170 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: I have been in this week. So I was just like, 171 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 1: my best friend doesn't even want to hang out with 172 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 1: me like this, This just the pits, like I have 173 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: hit rock bottom. So it really went bad. Yeah, so 174 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: we we we fixed it and everything's great. Um, And 175 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 1: so yeah, I felt like today was a great day. 176 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: We walked the Pineapple field, got to see meet the couples, 177 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: and then we're gonna we're gonna get to talk to Mark. 178 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: But something I feel like a lot of you are 179 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: very excited about is the game that we're playing later 180 00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: on the Oh. Yeah, there's some good questions there. I'm 181 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: nervous because we don't know the questions. We have shots 182 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: of Rum Malibu Rum because we're classy. I just didn't 183 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 1: think I could take shots of anything, multiple shots of 184 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: anything else. Hopefully I'm not going to have to take 185 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: shots but just in case. Yeah, I mean I think 186 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: the impetus impetus, that's correct. Wow, Tanya is smart, smart girl. 187 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 1: The impetus is for us not to drink, but to be, 188 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 1: but to open up a bit more, right, Yeah, I 189 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 1: just don't know if there's any question that Tanya won't 190 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 1: open up about. I feel at a disadvantage here. Here's 191 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: the thing. We're going to these questions. And yes, a 192 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: lot of the times we're Mark and I were working 193 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: on these and there's a lot of questions. We're like, oh, 194 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: ta is no problem answering this, but I'm excited for 195 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 1: that answer. So that's why, Like, we have some that 196 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: you probably won't want to answer. We're just you know, surprising, 197 00:11:55,840 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: but we found some. We found something. But but the 198 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 1: other ones, I'm like, she she will answer this and 199 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 1: the answer will be a lot of fun. Okay, good, 200 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: that's fun. Okay, great, great. So that's the impetus of 201 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: the game is to to share. Is the thing you're 202 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 1: pronouncing correctly? Don't think you're using it correctly? Oh oh shoot, 203 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: what's the word I'm looking for? The meaning of the game. 204 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I think the goal of the goal. The 205 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: goal is a good word. Yeah, the the impetus means 206 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 1: what inspired it? Right? Which catalyst? I'm looking at Alison 207 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 1: who has a has a literature degree. This is pretty 208 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: legit though, Like where does it? Like Becca's room at 209 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 1: the hotel? Like this is pretty chill. I'm like vibing this. Yeah, 210 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: we're vibing it. Maybe we should just do all of 211 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: our podcasts here from now on. We'll try. I heard 212 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: on board with that. We're gonna wake up tomorrow. We're 213 00:12:56,520 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: gonna get some waves, body, sir, Okay, the waves in 214 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 1: front of our hotel are the biggest ways I've ever 215 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: seen in my own life. And um, Easton and Alison 216 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: saw someone almost drowned today. Yeah, it was nuts. We 217 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 1: were out there in the ocean bobbing around and then 218 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, everyone starts running out of water 219 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: and this guy screams everyone out of the water. So 220 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: we think there's a shark or something out there, so, 221 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 1: you know, and we're we'd try to make our way 222 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 1: in at that point. It takes several minutes when you're 223 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:29,440 Speaker 1: far out there, so uh. And we saw this saw 224 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: this guy laying down and everyone crowding around him, and 225 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 1: someone was giving him CPR and I think he was okay, 226 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: but a very close call and really scary. Yeah, the 227 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 1: waves here on the north shore of Mau we are 228 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:45,839 Speaker 1: no joke. Well, we were watching I rarely get in 229 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 1: the water because I'm so scared of sharks, and and 230 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,559 Speaker 1: I just because of my e T I s yeah, 231 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:54,079 Speaker 1: has to have a dry, slim suited all times, all 232 00:13:54,160 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: times for her freshly tweezed batch situation down there, it's 233 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: very high made um. But we were watching people just 234 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: get like slammed. And I will admit I'm the type 235 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 1: of person when someone falls, like my initial reaction is 236 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 1: to laugh, but I started to actually feel genuine concerned 237 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 1: because people were I felt getting injured out there. My 238 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: initial reaction is like, that is gnarly, and I do 239 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: not want to be any part of that. But you 240 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 1: want to go, you want to go serve somewhere. Yeah, 241 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: but I'm hoping that they're like not as intense as 242 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 1: they were today. I think that's just how it is ocurate. Well, 243 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: you'd be out there. You told me you were a 244 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: professional surfer one shreds and are I used to Yeah, 245 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: I used to be good, but yeah, yeah, longboard shortboard, 246 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: like yeah, can you picture Tania on a longboard like 247 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 1: with like in the squat position, like do as the 248 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: locals do. Well, yeah, it's funny. I don't picture it. 249 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: But interesting fact, toyed about you. I wish that while 250 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: we were here we would have done a surfing lesson 251 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: like they did on Temptation Island, because I feel like 252 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: you would have really thrived. I would have. I've served 253 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: once I got up the first time. 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Um, we 281 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: have a very special guest in the hotel room right now. 282 00:16:55,560 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: We have the Mark Wahlberg of Temptation Island, my new 283 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: favorite show in the building. Thank you I love that 284 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: you call me the Mark Walberg when I'm just a 285 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 1: Mark Walberg. But I'll take your you have now become 286 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 1: the Mark Wallberger. Me um. I started watching I binge 287 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,920 Speaker 1: Temptation Island this past week, so I felt like I 288 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 1: knew you before I got to meet you, and now 289 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: you're even better than I thought. Thank you. Well, yesterday 290 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 1: on the beach when we're shooting, somebody came off of 291 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 1: another boat and they're like, oh my god, are you 292 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 1: shooting Temptation Island to one of our crew and we're 293 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 1: like yeah. He says, oh, that's the show with Mark Walberg, 294 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: not not the short one, And that to me was 295 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:36,120 Speaker 1: like the greatest thing. That's who I am. Now that's 296 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 1: my designator. So maybe your interest should be we're with 297 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: the tall Mark Wallberg. So people are really sure respect 298 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: and we are all drinking. This is our first podcast 299 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: that we've ever done with alcohol, because we are normally 300 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 1: in studio at like ten forty five in the morning. 301 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: I understand. I'm just like, that's the reason. It's not 302 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 1: that you needed to kind of drink it up to 303 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 1: handle me. No, no, but really excited. So this is great. 304 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,679 Speaker 1: We already drink a little bit today because we were 305 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 1: at the pineapple farms and we had some pineapple infused 306 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 1: was pineapple infused vodka. Yeah, I'm so glad you're telling 307 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: the listeners are not me because I was there with 308 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 1: you them that we already drink some today had pineapple vodka, 309 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 1: and we might have had some pineapple blended whiskey, might 310 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: have had some pineapple rum, and we had the other 311 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 1: one that tasted like Coco puffs and the other one 312 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 1: that tastes like pog for your listeners. That's Passion Food 313 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: orange and guapa. It was delicious, So it was a 314 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: good thing they cut us off when they did Okay 315 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 1: before because I know Becca has like a Bazilian temptation 316 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 1: island questions. So before we get into that, I would 317 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 1: like to share a sidebar conversation that we had earlier, 318 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 1: if you feel comfortable. I thought we were in the 319 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,880 Speaker 1: safety zone, but you're welcome to share. No, because this 320 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: was like Rebecca can attest this. This was like a 321 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 1: eurek A moment for me. No, I'm not I'm not 322 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: even kidding you because and I'm very open on the 323 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 1: podcast about everything that's going okay life, So every like 324 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 1: everybody that is not for me. Yeah, yeah, no, no, no, 325 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, no holds bar um. And I've been having 326 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: ever since Wednesday, I've been feeling like really really really 327 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: low and God goes with this guy. It's just been 328 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 1: like one bad guy. She got ghosted by this guy, 329 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:29,640 Speaker 1: is what she said. I got ghosted by that guy 330 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 1: Mr D. By the way, that's a good hook for 331 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 1: a song. So m But now I have realized, um, 332 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: because of something that you told me, that you had 333 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 1: the exact same experience in terms of like career. I'm 334 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:48,719 Speaker 1: just saying your experience is not unlike all of us 335 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 1: and experiences we have when we don't get what we 336 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: think we want, and why is it always the same 337 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: thing that is not happening. The thing we want gets 338 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 1: further way and not closer. But the way that you 339 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 1: put it, I can you used to use the analogy 340 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: of the like light switch, because that really like But 341 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: for your listeners, I was a little drunk, so let's 342 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 1: just try this. But you know, truthfully, I mean, I'm 343 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: here and joking and all that, but on the real tip, 344 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 1: as your children would say, UM, my experience that I 345 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: went through applies to relationship and everything else, and it 346 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: was simply this, you know, I found in my life. 347 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 1: There was a point where, you know, in show business 348 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 1: you never know where you're next paychecks coming, and I'm 349 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 1: I'm a dad with a wife and two kids, so 350 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: like feeding the family is always this grind of a 351 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 1: thought and a worry in my mind all day long. 352 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 1: And there was a point where, you know, you know, 353 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: our careers, there's great moments and then there's these long 354 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 1: stretches of horrible And at one point, I'm like, you know, 355 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:45,160 Speaker 1: I worry about this every day. So I decide, now 356 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: I just for the sake of my life and my 357 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 1: marriage and my kids, I quit. I choose to quit 358 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: that worry thing. And let's rather than spending my whole 359 00:20:54,000 --> 00:21:00,240 Speaker 1: day going I want more television show business paychecks, I say, 360 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:04,160 Speaker 1: guess what, I quit it. I'm done, and let's let's 361 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,479 Speaker 1: just take that off the table. As soon as I 362 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: did that, two weeks later, I'm hired back. This is 363 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 1: the craziness A show I did eighteen years ago when 364 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: I was really young. I get hired back to host 365 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: a reboot of a show like twenty years later, and 366 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 1: it makes no sense. And so what I was saying 367 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 1: to you, is the light switches were when you're younger. 368 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 1: Wherever we are, there's all these things we want. Let's 369 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 1: say that's on the right panel of light switches, like 370 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,199 Speaker 1: all these switches and all the things we fear and 371 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 1: we don't want, or on the left time. And so 372 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:38,679 Speaker 1: what we're kind of doing is like we're turning on 373 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,679 Speaker 1: the switch of of money and and and relationship and 374 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 1: health and happiness and and um travel and home and 375 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:47,880 Speaker 1: but we'll get two of them on and three I'll 376 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: switch back off. And you can't figure out how why 377 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 1: would they won't stay on right? And what I was 378 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,399 Speaker 1: saying is that's a lot of work. And so I 379 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 1: came to imagine a whole wall of switches, and on 380 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: the top is a big switch, and on the other 381 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 1: side there's a big switch. And on the left, the 382 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: big switch says fear, and the right one says bliss. 383 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 1: And you can switch all the other ones all you want, 384 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 1: and they're gonna come on and off and on and off. 385 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 1: And if you can just switch the bliss switch and 386 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 1: stay there, the rest of the switches will stay on 387 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 1: for a while and you don't have to make the plan. 388 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 1: It's like a a macro look like zoom out, don't 389 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: try to fix any of it, don't make any plan, 390 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 1: and just be Find what it is that makes you 391 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: happy and go there. Every time you're not, find the 392 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,959 Speaker 1: sentence you say over and over again that sabotages you. 393 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 1: For me, it was like, I'm never gonna work again. 394 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: I can't you know, there's not enough for this, there's 395 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 1: not enough for that, I'm not good enough. Or it's 396 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: like I can never get a man, I can never 397 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: get the right boyfriend, they never hang out. Even more 398 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 1: specific because we don't go that big. We go into 399 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 1: specifics and find that trigger sentence and then write a 400 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: sentence that's not even true for you that you're going 401 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: to replace. So for me, any time a thought came up, 402 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 1: I said, I have plenty of money for everything I want. 403 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,639 Speaker 1: So every time it's like somebody calls and says, you know, 404 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,919 Speaker 1: you gotta buy this three thing, but your credit on 405 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,680 Speaker 1: this is doing and you can't do this, And I'd say, 406 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: I have plenty of money for everything I want, and 407 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 1: I'm lying to myself, I thought, but that became and 408 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:09,159 Speaker 1: oh there's any You have to have an action, So 409 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 1: you say that and then go move yourself physically to 410 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: something that brings you joy. For me to help me, 411 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna be I'm going from like almost 412 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:21,199 Speaker 1: cool to complete nerd. But for me, I grow a 413 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: big vegetable garden and I have chickens and I like 414 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: to build stuff. So for me, when I'm in my head, 415 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: if I go get some wood and build something, or 416 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,120 Speaker 1: I dig dirt or move something around, or I hang 417 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: out with my chickens, I feel better. And I decided 418 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: I'm not playing with any of the rest of the stuff. 419 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,639 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that, and you figure it out, and 420 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 1: you know, I could go deeper. But two weeks later, 421 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,119 Speaker 1: I have plenty of money for everything I want and 422 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,400 Speaker 1: I'm living a really really happy life and all that's 423 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: really really good. So what my wife has taught me 424 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 1: is that the things you want, the more you want it, 425 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 1: the more you want it, the further way it goes. 426 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,160 Speaker 1: It's like mercury. You try to grab it and pushes 427 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:59,159 Speaker 1: away right and as soon as you don't want it 428 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 1: and you're like, I got everything I need and everything 429 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: I want, then everything comes they wanted. It wants to 430 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 1: come to you. And literally what I feel like I've been. 431 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,919 Speaker 1: I've been like in this hamster wheel of like just 432 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: like going through like I'm going on to flipping through 433 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 1: the dating apps, asking every person that I meet to 434 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 1: set me up with somebody, like truly, it's like literally 435 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: And then I said, nothing about you was broken. There's 436 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: nothing lacking in you that you need to change to 437 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,360 Speaker 1: make that fictitious dude come and stay that the guy 438 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: who goes to you. Maybe I shouldn't have talked about work. 439 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 1: Maybe I should have stayed out past ten o'clock because 440 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,160 Speaker 1: I gotta get up at four. But that doesn't work 441 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 1: for relationships. So I can make these compromises because there 442 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 1: must be something I'm doing to create this ghosting. And 443 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,159 Speaker 1: I kind of was trying to tell you to have 444 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: the swagger of that's all BS, and everything about you 445 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 1: is empowered and gorgeous and healthy and working and in 446 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 1: this great job with all this stuff. And he's lucky 447 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 1: if he gets a cheap as to go out with 448 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: you and then ghost you. And if he ghost you, 449 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 1: he's the loser, making room for whoever gets to be 450 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: whoever gets to be that dude that maybe you get 451 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: the ghost if you're not feel enjoy I mean, it's 452 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: just so good. Antonia was just grinning. Her eyes were wide. 453 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 1: It was like a new light headed. It literally was 454 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,640 Speaker 1: like a new light. She was like, did you hear this? 455 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 1: My new hashtag is I quit quit Like I'm done. 456 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: I'm done, Like no more, like, do not ask me 457 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 1: if I've gone on any dates, do not ask me 458 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 1: if if if you can set me up with a 459 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 1: friend past like I am I'm done, Like I'm taking 460 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 1: a beat and like really just being me. Well, people 461 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: when they see the new hashtag, they'll have to listen 462 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 1: to this podcast to understand, so they don't think you're 463 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,640 Speaker 1: like quitting everything. I'm not called. It's a natural thing 464 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 1: to let other people define who we are, right, That's 465 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,879 Speaker 1: what we do all the time. It's like if somebody 466 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 1: tweets something awesome about like on Temptation. And when the 467 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,919 Speaker 1: show came out, there was a regression of the of 468 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 1: Twitter for me because I did the show back in 469 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: UM two thousand one. I think it was right and 470 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 1: it was huge. And then it's eighteen years later and 471 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 1: now I'm hosting it again and so the tweets I'm 472 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:16,640 Speaker 1: getting in the beginning are, what is this ridiculous trashy 473 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 1: show and who is this? This is a quote this 474 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 1: Walmart knockoff of Chris Harrison. He's stealing Chris Harrison's act. Now, 475 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 1: what I could have done is because I wanted something. 476 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,120 Speaker 1: I could have said that's not true. I was there 477 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 1: before him and he's stilling. But instead I'm like, listen, 478 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 1: if there's an act of steal, I'm stealing Chris's because 479 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:38,199 Speaker 1: he's awesome, right, because I don't care. That's not going 480 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 1: to define me. My definition of me is my wife 481 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: and kids and my chickens on my garden. I don't 482 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,639 Speaker 1: I quit totally quickit right, And so, by the way, 483 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,399 Speaker 1: that's much better than the switches. I'm gonna go with 484 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,679 Speaker 1: the eye quick um. But then as it went on, 485 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 1: the more I sort of stood in that the whole 486 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,400 Speaker 1: language changed to wow, this show is really about emotional 487 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:01,200 Speaker 1: intelligence and and Walbert you know, you know, they thought 488 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 1: they were going to go home together, but Walbart should 489 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 1: hold my beer, and you know, you like, so it 490 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 1: became a whole different trip, none of which I created. 491 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,679 Speaker 1: I just surrendered and let it happen. Right, It's like 492 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,640 Speaker 1: so good, Like truly, I'll probably be like talking about 493 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 1: you in six months from now. Oh yeah, she does. 494 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 1: She's like, thank you. But my hope is that you're 495 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,679 Speaker 1: so busy with all this new love and stuff in 496 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 1: your life is so huge that you don't have time 497 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: to remember who I was. And you taught me a 498 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:29,040 Speaker 1: Chris Harrison knockoff. It's all good chance because literally, Chelsea 499 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 1: Handler told me something like my second week on the job. 500 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 1: She's so smart. I still talk about it till this day. 501 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 1: So like, you just I have the same like kind 502 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,400 Speaker 1: of like euphoric moment with you, so like we will 503 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: touch base to hear that, because I really, I really 504 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,880 Speaker 1: had a great time hanging out with you guys. And 505 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: and even though we were hanging out of the bar, 506 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: I literally said like, we're gonna go deeper. Are we 507 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 1: cool with this? Because I'm good with it if you're 508 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:53,120 Speaker 1: good And um, you know, I was like over there 509 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: doing shots of Coco Puff vodka and they're having a 510 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: heart to heart. I was like, I need to get 511 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 1: in on what's going on here. It was a little 512 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 1: bit of that drunk I love you man moment. We 513 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: might have chest bumped after it was over. I don't know. 514 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: There were high fives. We didn't high fives. I remember 515 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: that throwing up the rock. I don't know that didn't happen. 516 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 1: I would never remember that. Um, sorry to switch gears, 517 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 1: but there's something which important for me to talk about. 518 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:27,119 Speaker 1: Talk about that temptation Island bring it so becas obsessed. Okay, 519 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:32,679 Speaker 1: I'm flattered by I The only reality show I have 520 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 1: watched was The Bachelor, and even before I was on 521 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: the Bachelor, I didn't watch The Bachelor, so that was 522 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 1: kind of a recent It wasn't really like your it 523 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 1: wasn't your bowl of cereal. Yeah, I just never you know, 524 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 1: all my friends were like super into it, but I never. 525 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 1: I never caught onto it. So when I heard we 526 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 1: were coming here, I was like, I'm gonna watch the 527 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 1: show and see what it's about. I thought i'd watch 528 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:58,720 Speaker 1: a couple of episodes to get the concept. I had 529 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 1: the most worthless but successful day of my life where 530 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 1: I watched all eleven episodes. Nice. I had a lot 531 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 1: of emotions watching the whole understand So the new the 532 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,480 Speaker 1: new cast has arrived on the island. You'll about to 533 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 1: start filming. You've started filming, do you wonder, like in 534 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 1: your head when you're meeting these people like what are 535 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: you doing? What have you committed to? You know, that's 536 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: a good question, and I'll answer by saying, the way 537 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 1: I like to approach this is and all the shows 538 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 1: that I've done in my life that I've had edged 539 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: to them, and there's been a few, but the way 540 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 1: I like to approach it is like, if you were 541 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 1: going to ask me what I do this, I'd be 542 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 1: like Hilton, then no, right, this is the stupidest idea. 543 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 1: Who in the right mind will do this? But as 544 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 1: the host of it for these young couples who are 545 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 1: in a rut and having trouble, who are choosing to 546 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 1: do this? If I'm not buying what I'm selling, it's 547 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 1: just fake. Now, after the show airs and air all 548 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 1: the smoke clears, I can see it for what it 549 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 1: is sometimes and kind of laugh at the drama and 550 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 1: it's TV and all that. But I even say to 551 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 1: them on camera sometimes they cut it out of the 552 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 1: show or off camera. I did it back in two 553 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: thousand one, I do it now. I say. Look, I 554 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 1: would say to them sometimes why do you think you're here? 555 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 1: And they'll say something like we have problems with our 556 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: relationship that we really feel like we need to work 557 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,479 Speaker 1: out and then maybe this will be good. And I'll say, well, 558 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,479 Speaker 1: that may be the reason, but probably the reason you're 559 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 1: here is because you have problems with your relationship and 560 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 1: this is gonna make your Twitter go crazy, your Instagram 561 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 1: is gonna get verified, and you might start this business 562 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 1: right and you're gonna be real famous. So I think 563 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 1: that's probably why you're here. But it doesn't matter because 564 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 1: as crazy as this right is, I don't know how 565 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 1: it happens. It becomes real really quickly, and you're gonna 566 00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 1: find out the answers to those questions you said you 567 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,560 Speaker 1: came here with. But what you don't know is all 568 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 1: the questions are going to change that you didn't even 569 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: know you needed to ask. So I sit back in 570 00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 1: this is a crazy ride. I would hate anybody else 571 00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,880 Speaker 1: to host this because I trust me getting you through it, 572 00:30:59,920 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: and I'm afraid for somebody, like if I were a 573 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 1: guy who wringing my hand, going let's see if we 574 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 1: can get them to cheat. It's gross. But from my seat, 575 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:10,720 Speaker 1: you know in August, if if she picks up my option, 576 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 1: it'll be all because it'll be uh thirty two years 577 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 1: of marriage. She could kick me out any time. Right now, 578 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 1: it's looking good because I brought out to mallis kind 579 00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,080 Speaker 1: of man, so I think I'm gonna get it to 580 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 1: But but from my seat, I say exactly that, Look, 581 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 1: this isn't Maybe therapy or talking to family or talking 582 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,760 Speaker 1: to one another might be a healthier way to do this, 583 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,480 Speaker 1: But all right, let's do this. And if you do it, 584 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: I can guarantee you, even if you resist it, you're 585 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 1: definitely gonna get the answers. You're gonna find out how 586 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 1: you feel about the other person, and then I'm gonna 587 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 1: help you figure out what decision to make right. So 588 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: for me, my stance has always been I have no judgment, 589 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 1: and I say this to them. I said, look, I 590 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: already like you, all of you, and I'm here as 591 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 1: best I can to be an advocate for whatever you 592 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 1: think you want to get out of this, and that's 593 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: gonna require sometimes tough love, and I'm gonna always be 594 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 1: straight with you. They're gonna be times where you're really 595 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: gonna hate me. But my intent is never anything but 596 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 1: you're better good whatever you want it to be, not 597 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 1: what I think it should be, what you wanted to be. 598 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 1: And that's how I go into this and I probably 599 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:17,120 Speaker 1: take that even more serious than the contestants do, right, 600 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 1: because I think they come into it and they get 601 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 1: sucker punched, and even worse for a second season, because 602 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 1: first season get sucker punched because oh god, what do 603 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 1: we sign up for? Second season signed up thinking I 604 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 1: got this, I've seen it, let's do this, and then 605 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: they're gonna get double sucker punched. Just was saying to 606 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: Tony at dinner. I was like, this season seems even 607 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 1: more intense because they know what can happen. They think 608 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: they know, well they think they know, but they've seen 609 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 1: other you know, they've seen it happen, and they there 610 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,480 Speaker 1: was this confidence. When we've got to meet the couples today, 611 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: there was this confidence in a lot of them and 612 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: I you almost look at him like you realize you're 613 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: going to battle tomorrow, right, but you're you're right about that. 614 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: But again, I always I think about this on other shows, 615 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 1: like why would anybody have gone on moment of truth 616 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: this light detective show. I did, But for some people 617 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: it's jumping off the cliff. I can't do this by myself. 618 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 1: So if I throw myself in arena, that's gonna force 619 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 1: me to do this in a big you know, the 620 00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: rule spectacle whatever. I've already left off the bridge and 621 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 1: there's no way out, so that it's like they have 622 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 1: to do that to make it happen. I'm assuming, and 623 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 1: I always say to them, I don't care why you 624 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: came here. I don't I don't care why you think 625 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 1: it came here. All I care about is that you're 626 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 1: here now. And and as crazy as this silly, stupid 627 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:39,480 Speaker 1: process is, it can't help but become real. So whatever front, 628 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 1: whatever agenda, whatever posturing you have, melts away, usually on 629 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 1: the beach at two in the morning while you're crying, 630 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: But it melts away and you get to think something 631 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 1: that you, as young people, may not have even experienced, 632 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 1: which is your authentic self self. So why you think 633 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 1: it's about figuring out if he'll be true or if 634 00:33:56,680 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 1: she will stray? The question becomes and I say this 635 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 1: to them, Well, unfortunately, as you share this with me, 636 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 1: you can't control what's happening on the other island. All 637 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: you can do is look inward. And so what it 638 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 1: happens is it's not about is our relationship going to 639 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,360 Speaker 1: be better? But you start to remember, wait a minute, 640 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 1: what is it. I maybe my inner young person wants 641 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,399 Speaker 1: what is it I really want? I think I want, 642 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 1: and I think I want to ring I think on 643 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,719 Speaker 1: this and then all of a sudden, the person that 644 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: declared that on day one you don't even recognize. You're like, 645 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 1: that's not even who I am right now. And I 646 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 1: think the audience really saw the growth of these people 647 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,839 Speaker 1: that at first you're like, oh, Sharry and Javan are 648 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 1: going to make it a night, and then by the 649 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: end of you're like, wow, that's real real, And now 650 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 1: I'm not so sure if it is. I don't know, 651 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 1: but you know what I mean. So I kind of 652 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,239 Speaker 1: trust the process, as crazy as it as it is. 653 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,560 Speaker 1: I can't wait for Tanya to watch the first season 654 00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 1: so we can really go into great deep discussions about 655 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 1: you haven't seen it, are breaking up? Told her everything, 656 00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,200 Speaker 1: So I don't even know. So when we've on that, 657 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 1: we found up semi recent we were coming here, it's 658 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 1: like probably a week ago. Yeah, And I have like 659 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 1: a very um schedule gets a little shouldn't have eleven hours? 660 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,760 Speaker 1: I don't, I don't have, and I think we discussed 661 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 1: this in our stupid earlier So I will, I will, 662 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,279 Speaker 1: I do plan on watching jobs. I don't care if 663 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:20,759 Speaker 1: you watch or not, but I want to because she, 664 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 1: like literally won't shut up about it, and I think 665 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 1: she you have a good, like a good taste of 666 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:32,440 Speaker 1: what I will like as I viewer. Here's the thing. 667 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 1: Everybody who worked on this show, everyone from the p 668 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,279 Speaker 1: A to the top of the the whole thing, came 669 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: in it with the same like sort of energy to 670 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: let's make this great, let's be all about it. And 671 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 1: I think so while I am the face of some 672 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 1: of it and I say things and you're like, wow, 673 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 1: that was cool, that's after they edit all the other 674 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: stuff out. So full team effort. But you've got a 675 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 1: team of a hundred fifty people here in Maui who 676 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 1: are dedicated for these couples to get what they want 677 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,520 Speaker 1: out of it. And the couple that with and I 678 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 1: know this sounds ridiculous, the Maui vibe. There's a loja 679 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 1: spirit which is totally legit if you're coming here, and 680 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 1: that kind of adds as like other level. And I 681 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,160 Speaker 1: know that sounds crazy, but when you're watching the show 682 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 1: you can't figure out what's going on. That's part of 683 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,920 Speaker 1: it too, So enjoy it all right everyone. Temptation Island 684 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,879 Speaker 1: highly recommend catching up on the first season. They're about 685 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,120 Speaker 1: to start filming the second season, and I will be 686 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 1: talking about that NonStop once it premieres in the fall. Um, 687 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:31,759 Speaker 1: thank you so much for your family, Like y'all have 688 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 1: just been amazing since we got here. So I hope 689 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,279 Speaker 1: that's not the Rose talking. No, no, I don't. I 690 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 1: don't feel anything right now. I feel very sober. 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Like if 754 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 1: the t s A went through my bag, I'd be like, 755 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:10,960 Speaker 1: have a look at my toothbrush. Do you see the 756 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 1: sleekness of this toothbrush? It looks like an Apple product? Yeah, 757 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:18,080 Speaker 1: it does. Um clip starts at just twenty five dollars 758 00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,680 Speaker 1: And if you go to get quip dot com slash 759 00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,439 Speaker 1: Specca right now, you can get your first refill pack 760 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 1: for free. That's your first refill pack at g et No, 761 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 1: that's your first refil pack for free at g E 762 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:36,879 Speaker 1: t q U I P dot com slash Bacca. Yeah. 763 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,799 Speaker 1: I am nervous about this guy. I've been I've been 764 00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 1: like anxiously ready to get this game over with. I 765 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,080 Speaker 1: mean and it's like I've just been like ready for 766 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 1: it to get here, not get it over with. That 767 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:55,400 Speaker 1: was a wrong word, but kind of tony. When you're 768 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 1: an open book like you, stuff like this isn't intimidating 769 00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:03,440 Speaker 1: or daunting. When you're are private like myself, it's scary 770 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 1: and intimidating. But this is going to be good because 771 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:11,160 Speaker 1: our listeners want to know more information, yeah about one thing. 772 00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:16,080 Speaker 1: Hopefully they'll get some answers. Maybe they will, maybe they will, 773 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:19,160 Speaker 1: maybe I'll be drunk, maybe I'll be sober. So the 774 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 1: rules of this game is I'm gonna ask a question 775 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,359 Speaker 1: and if you you can do the Like the Mark 776 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,200 Speaker 1: Wahlberg of the show, I'm going to be the Mark 777 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 1: Wahlberg of this show. We're here for one thing and 778 00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,759 Speaker 1: one thing only, and that's to get information out of 779 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,799 Speaker 1: you two or watch you get drunk. So either you 780 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 1: can answer the question, or if you choose not to answer, 781 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: you can take a shot of this very fine malbou 782 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 1: Caribbean rum with coconut liqueur Uh. We've arranged for ten 783 00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 1: questions for each of you. Yeah, and we're not leaving 784 00:41:52,680 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 1: until each one is asking. I literally thought five math Oh, well, 785 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:02,799 Speaker 1: I think some of them, I would assume are like 786 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: quick answers, right, like would you rather lose a toe 787 00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 1: or lose an ear or something exactly exactly now. The 788 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 1: first question, though, is who is going to go first? 789 00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,520 Speaker 1: Depends on the rock paper scissors, because if you lost 790 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:18,439 Speaker 1: your big toe it would be harmful for the balance. Yeah, 791 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 1: you want to rock paper scissors? I mean I'm also 792 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:23,160 Speaker 1: happy to like, do you want me to go first? 793 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 1: Happy to want to go first? So I can be like, 794 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 1: there you go getting things done. Okay, Okay, here we go. 795 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:34,879 Speaker 1: We got these from most of them from the Facebook group, 796 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:40,360 Speaker 1: which are oil and our loveliest of loveliest of listens. 797 00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna give a first and last name of 798 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,120 Speaker 1: the people who submit these questions so you can go 799 00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 1: to them if you have a problem with it. I will. 800 00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:52,000 Speaker 1: This is from Samantha Elizabeth. This first question for you, Beckham. 801 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,720 Speaker 1: If you had to choose between never seeing or talking 802 00:42:54,719 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 1: to Tanya again, or being handcuffed to her for the 803 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 1: next ten years, which one would you choose? Years? I 804 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,799 Speaker 1: feel like it was two years when I saw the 805 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:15,279 Speaker 1: original comments. I'm handcuffed, handcuffed to seven you never see 806 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,279 Speaker 1: her again, or you never talk to her again. But 807 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,480 Speaker 1: she exists. You'll hear about things she's doing. You just 808 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:27,160 Speaker 1: can never see her talk to her. She's probably so upset. 809 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:31,760 Speaker 1: This is taking me so yeah, I'm like any day before, 810 00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:36,480 Speaker 1: but like that would mean everything I do. She's like there, 811 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,560 Speaker 1: so like me asking her to leave so I could 812 00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 1: take you go to the bathroom. She's she's eyeing me 813 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 1: down right now. The fact that this is even a debate, Tanya, 814 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 1: that is a tough question. He's not saying you have 815 00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,480 Speaker 1: to be handcuffed like an inch away from me. They 816 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,040 Speaker 1: could be lengthy handcuffs. Nobody said in the rule that 817 00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:59,160 Speaker 1: ncuffs are pretty standard. One side, well, we could make 818 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 1: them longer. Can I make the handcuffs along? I mean 819 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 1: I think you can, like it had we have to 820 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:10,279 Speaker 1: be in the same home, but like, yeah, some blocks. 821 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:16,360 Speaker 1: I mean it's ten years versus forever. Trying to influence 822 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 1: the answer. Okay, I'm choosing ten years incuff begrudgingly. It's tough. 823 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,919 Speaker 1: That's a big commitment. I would choose handcuffed any day 824 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,480 Speaker 1: for you. You would because but we're very different people. 825 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:33,040 Speaker 1: You don't need space. She's angry. I mean, it would 826 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:34,400 Speaker 1: be it would be rough tain years. You have to 827 00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,120 Speaker 1: learn a lot about yourselves and read each other in 828 00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 1: that time. But but I guess I'd rather have that 829 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:44,960 Speaker 1: than never talked to her again. Okay, Dania, your turn, 830 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:49,040 Speaker 1: can't wait. Name name a celebrity you have met that 831 00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:54,239 Speaker 1: you really did not like other than Owen Hunt. I 832 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,719 Speaker 1: love it. That was like I didn't know Hunt, you 833 00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,279 Speaker 1: didn't like? Yeah, I remember when you met him and 834 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:03,959 Speaker 1: were like, when we meet, Oh, Owen? I was thinking 835 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:10,720 Speaker 1: Owen Wilson. No remember? At thet came up a lot, 836 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,240 Speaker 1: By the way, it was probably the most popular question 837 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,480 Speaker 1: because you never talked bad about anyone. I don't because 838 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:20,560 Speaker 1: here's the thing. When they come into like meet anybody 839 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,600 Speaker 1: that I'm around, they're on their best behavior, do you 840 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,080 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like they're going to be happy, 841 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:32,000 Speaker 1: They're gonna be nice and polite. Um. But I I 842 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:35,400 Speaker 1: did have an experience with Busy Phillips on a carpet 843 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 1: very early on in my career that I will never forget. 844 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:45,440 Speaker 1: Tell us more. I don't need to go into the details, 845 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:52,799 Speaker 1: but I was treated very um, not nicely. And you 846 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,080 Speaker 1: have to understand also that I'm maybe it was like 847 00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,759 Speaker 1: a month or two into the morning show gigs. So 848 00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,120 Speaker 1: I was really just trying to do my best job. 849 00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:03,360 Speaker 1: I didn't you know what I mean, Like I was 850 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 1: still pretty green and granted I probably um was overly 851 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,680 Speaker 1: zealous and excited and like whatever, but I will never 852 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,839 Speaker 1: forget it and are one of our producers how their 853 00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 1: monday was there with me also and she loved her 854 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,800 Speaker 1: And I don't know how they had the same reaction 855 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 1: as I did because I was on the actually like 856 00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:26,520 Speaker 1: have you know said the words? But yeah, so um 857 00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 1: it's left him not a great taste in my mouth. Yeah, 858 00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:35,239 Speaker 1: but you know, I also have to, um, I think 859 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:38,400 Speaker 1: everybody is allowed to have like a bad day. So 860 00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:45,279 Speaker 1: it's like I don't judge her, but you know, forgiveness. No. 861 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,319 Speaker 1: I honestly feel like if you met her, get into 862 00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,600 Speaker 1: a super pleasant you, you would probably have a different 863 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:52,279 Speaker 1: opinion about totally totally as of now, this is where 864 00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,839 Speaker 1: you stand. She sucked and she was rude, do you Yeah, 865 00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: I didn't enjoy the experience. And yeah, I wasn't saying 866 00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 1: she might have been having a bad day. She might 867 00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:00,000 Speaker 1: be have a good good day. I don't know her. 868 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,399 Speaker 1: I've only had one experience and that was it and 869 00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 1: it wasn't great. Sometimes the first impression is the only impression. Yeah, okay, Becca, 870 00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:14,319 Speaker 1: some of these are hard hitters. I'm gonna build up 871 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:18,279 Speaker 1: to those. So here's here's uh, here's one. I didn't 872 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 1: enjoy answering that. By the way, I could tell her, 873 00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,480 Speaker 1: there's a lot of pain behind your eyes. Pain. Yeah, okay, 874 00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,800 Speaker 1: there's a couple of kiss Mary kills in here. Kiss 875 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:35,280 Speaker 1: Mary kill Dean Anglert Wells, Adams and Ben Higgins. Oh yeah, 876 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:39,160 Speaker 1: I've done this before. Yeah, this is an easy one. Um, 877 00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:50,759 Speaker 1: I'm going to kill I'm going to kiss Wells. I'm 878 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 1: gonna marry Ben. I'm gonna kill Dean. Sorry, love you Dean. 879 00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:59,000 Speaker 1: Yaikes are you Tanya? You have a you have a 880 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:03,759 Speaker 1: kiss Mary kill as well? Uh? Mr d dr W 881 00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:16,280 Speaker 1: and Mr Tippler. Uh, I'm gonna marry Mr Tippler. What unexpected? 882 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:23,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna kiss Mr It's it's actually kind of touched. Okay, 883 00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:38,399 Speaker 1: you know what, Let me rethink that I'm surprised some time. 884 00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:47,640 Speaker 1: I know most because a lot of them are sliding 885 00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:52,640 Speaker 1: back into the picture. So I feel as though I 886 00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:55,759 Speaker 1: need to be You need a drink right now? No, 887 00:48:56,040 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 1: because I can answer it. Um, I'm going to is 888 00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:14,000 Speaker 1: actually kind of hard. Okay, I'm going to who is 889 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:19,040 Speaker 1: off you? There's one who you know is off the table? No? 890 00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:23,439 Speaker 1: Who w Yeah? I thought that would be an instant kill. 891 00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:28,840 Speaker 1: Instant kill, however, Okay, yeah, you're probably right. I should 892 00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:31,600 Speaker 1: that should be an instant kill. Okay, we'll do that, 893 00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:36,600 Speaker 1: and then um we'll kiss d and Mary to Blair, 894 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 1: I did not think or was marriage material, but here 895 00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:45,759 Speaker 1: we are. I didn't think he was either, but here 896 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:53,280 Speaker 1: we are sons sons things. Okay, Becca, are you currently 897 00:49:53,360 --> 00:50:05,000 Speaker 1: in love? Yes? Oh I was so you. I feel 898 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:06,600 Speaker 1: like mine's in the same pain. Do would you like 899 00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:12,080 Speaker 1: to ask me? It's kind of okay, in all seriousness, 900 00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,759 Speaker 1: if Ryan Seacrest secretly asked you on a date and 901 00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: no one would know, would you go on that date? 902 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:23,799 Speaker 1: It's so hard to answer that because it would never 903 00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,319 Speaker 1: happen in a million do you know what I mean? Like, 904 00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:30,200 Speaker 1: it's hard to like play that out because a if 905 00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,000 Speaker 1: some if he ever did ask me on a date 906 00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 1: and we went, I would tell like it would not 907 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,040 Speaker 1: be like a secret, you know what I mean, Like 908 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:38,440 Speaker 1: it would just be like the funniest thing ever so 909 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:42,719 Speaker 1: I'd probably say yes, all right, but even if you 910 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:50,680 Speaker 1: like send over like contracts to sign so dumb. No, 911 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:52,080 Speaker 1: there's no way I couldn't keep it here, and I'd 912 00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:55,120 Speaker 1: be like, oh my gosh, that'd be like, um, like 913 00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:59,120 Speaker 1: tubs asking me on a date. It's great content. Yeah, yeah, 914 00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:02,959 Speaker 1: I mean it is is a content? Um? All right? Cool. 915 00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:05,040 Speaker 1: At some point we're gonna get to a question you 916 00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:09,680 Speaker 1: guys aren't gonna answer. I'm just warning you, Okay, Um, Becca, 917 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:13,640 Speaker 1: this uh, this question is from Brooke Russell from our 918 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 1: Facebook group. You were a virgin when you started The Bachelor. 919 00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:21,319 Speaker 1: What is the current number of people you have slept with? Or? 920 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:27,319 Speaker 1: Are you still urging? Can I have answered this? Can 921 00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,440 Speaker 1: I have answered this question? What does that mean? Like? 922 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,080 Speaker 1: I can answer one part of it not the other. 923 00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:36,960 Speaker 1: Depends on the part. What was the second part of 924 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:40,840 Speaker 1: the question? Well, okay, technically the question is what's the 925 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,440 Speaker 1: current number of people you've slept with? I guess I 926 00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:45,760 Speaker 1: added these. I was trying to give you an outlook, 927 00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,040 Speaker 1: but I feel bad. I I have to be the 928 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:51,359 Speaker 1: host here. You have to if you have to either 929 00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:55,120 Speaker 1: answer the number or you have to take a shot. 930 00:51:55,360 --> 00:52:02,800 Speaker 1: All right, It's not that mini. It's just there's a 931 00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:09,680 Speaker 1: reason why I don't want to oh that I know 932 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,520 Speaker 1: it's the same person in mine. That was really hefty. 933 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 1: I appreciated that poor though. The first shot of the night, 934 00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 1: who did that? Brooke Russell? Brooke Russell, I'm coming for you. 935 00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:32,480 Speaker 1: I like unintentionally shared my number ones. Yeah, that's one 936 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,760 Speaker 1: of my favorite moments from the morning show of all time, 937 00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,799 Speaker 1: of all time. I know we've mentioned this podcast before, 938 00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:43,960 Speaker 1: but it was so I want my husband to be 939 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:47,319 Speaker 1: going like my double digits or whatever. No, it was 940 00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:50,760 Speaker 1: like some some study that said, like before the age 941 00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:54,080 Speaker 1: of thirty, I can't remember something Ryan read and he 942 00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,440 Speaker 1: was like it's it's uh, the numbers. I can't remembers 943 00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,360 Speaker 1: ten or something. And he's like, Tanya, is that accurate? 944 00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:03,040 Speaker 1: And I was like, well kind of, and I was like, well, 945 00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:06,320 Speaker 1: I'm not at ten. I can't remember exactly how it happened. 946 00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:10,560 Speaker 1: It was something like that. It was and You're like, well, 947 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,000 Speaker 1: I'm not there. And then he's like, well, is the 948 00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:14,920 Speaker 1: number higher than nine? And you're like yeah, no, I 949 00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:17,640 Speaker 1: was like, no, it's it's it's not higher than what 950 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:21,480 Speaker 1: was it? It was nine? Was like but it's higher 951 00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:30,320 Speaker 1: than eight. Wow, so good. She's just not good at secrets, 952 00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:33,279 Speaker 1: which is so refreshing. It wasn't even like I was 953 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,000 Speaker 1: trying to keep it a secret, but like the fact 954 00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:36,879 Speaker 1: that what came out of my mouth was just like 955 00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:41,800 Speaker 1: me giving my number without giving it. I was just like, cool, Okay, Tanya, 956 00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:47,040 Speaker 1: here's your question. So some means I'm I'm uncomfortable lasting it, 957 00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:51,359 Speaker 1: but I have to do it. I feel like Mark 958 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:53,160 Speaker 1: came up with these because he knew he wouldn't have to. 959 00:53:55,880 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 1: Mark's like laughing listening. Okay, uh, name someone you have 960 00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:08,200 Speaker 1: thought about while practicing self love and that can mean 961 00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:15,000 Speaker 1: so good Mark had do right now, that is a 962 00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:19,160 Speaker 1: dad question. Practicing self love means masturbating, right yeah, Okay, 963 00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:20,799 Speaker 1: Well I was gonna say it's like self love like 964 00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:26,880 Speaker 1: I listen to like Oprah and like as your coworker 965 00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,279 Speaker 1: who is under the purview of our HR department. I 966 00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:34,799 Speaker 1: just wanted to say that definition is quite vague. Right. Um, 967 00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:38,839 Speaker 1: Let's see, maybe you can answer both Oprah for like 968 00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:43,600 Speaker 1: inward self love Oprah Davon Franklin like when I'm you know, 969 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:55,160 Speaker 1: doing that type of like just enriching my mind. Um, 970 00:54:55,920 --> 00:55:00,960 Speaker 1: and if you're enriching your body, enriching my body. Who 971 00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:06,279 Speaker 1: have I thought about I'm trying to think recently. It 972 00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,720 Speaker 1: has to be a reason or just like ever, whatever 973 00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,719 Speaker 1: you want. Oh, I could go wherever, I could even 974 00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:17,080 Speaker 1: go to like dot w Okay, he's getting a lot 975 00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:22,480 Speaker 1: of screen time tonight, air time whatever. Okay back in 976 00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:26,520 Speaker 1: Alaska that I like, I dated, that makes sense. Let's 977 00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:30,200 Speaker 1: do this one. Pick one a life where you were 978 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,239 Speaker 1: never on the Bachelor, or when where you never had 979 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:39,000 Speaker 1: this podcast with Tanya. This is from Natalie Vosburg. It's 980 00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,240 Speaker 1: tough because I want to have this podcast with Tania 981 00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,319 Speaker 1: without having been on the Bachelor. Is this a hypothetical 982 00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:48,280 Speaker 1: world where I just ended up on a podcast with Tanya? Yeah, okay, 983 00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,279 Speaker 1: I guess I take that right? You were that you 984 00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:55,279 Speaker 1: were never on the Bachelor? Or yeah, okay, I think 985 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:58,200 Speaker 1: because good answer. I felt like I ever needed to 986 00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:05,880 Speaker 1: redeem myself from the funny Okay, Tana, Um, what is 987 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:12,880 Speaker 1: your grossest habit? Grossest? I mean it's not a habit, 988 00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:16,040 Speaker 1: but plucking my bikini line was pretty gross. I don't 989 00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 1: feel like that's gross self care self care. Um, I'd 990 00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:25,640 Speaker 1: like to uh uh, what's the word um angrown hairs. 991 00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,760 Speaker 1: I like to pick up my angrown hairs all over 992 00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 1: my body. Unnecessary, gross, above and beyond. For the question, Yeah, 993 00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:38,879 Speaker 1: well I get you get them in your bikini line? 994 00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:40,879 Speaker 1: Where else? I get them on my legs a little bit? 995 00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:44,239 Speaker 1: What else do you get them? It's pretty much it 996 00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,160 Speaker 1: like I can't see my armpits. I don't know. You 997 00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:50,840 Speaker 1: just want just let him go? Alright, Becka? What number 998 00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:54,879 Speaker 1: we're on? A? We're like a third of the way done. 999 00:56:55,760 --> 00:57:03,200 Speaker 1: We're about halfway. Uh, kiss Mary kill Jojo Haley and Robert? 1000 00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:12,160 Speaker 1: Oh interesting three? Yea, interesting three. I'm gonna kiss Jojo, 1001 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:17,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna marry I'm gonna kill Robert. That's good, solid choices. 1002 00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:20,600 Speaker 1: Something I love about the kiss Mary kill, like making 1003 00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:22,960 Speaker 1: it like safer work, is that like we don't have 1004 00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,680 Speaker 1: a problem just saying we're murdering somebody, but we have 1005 00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:29,040 Speaker 1: to kiss them and it doesn't make me laught. Okay, Tanya, 1006 00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:35,280 Speaker 1: you have a kiss Mary kill as well? Uh, Ryan Seacres, 1007 00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:41,920 Speaker 1: Mark Monitski, and Eastern Allen. I saw this one. I 1008 00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:46,000 Speaker 1: was like, this is so good. I can't kill any 1009 00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:51,440 Speaker 1: of you. Shot shot Okay. So here's what I would do. 1010 00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:54,360 Speaker 1: I would sacrifice myself. This is okay, this is not 1011 00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:57,240 Speaker 1: You don't get to weasel out of this one. Try 1012 00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:59,360 Speaker 1: to weasel every time we do a kiss Mary kill? 1013 00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:03,440 Speaker 1: Can I will you? Don't you take a shot? How 1014 00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:06,240 Speaker 1: can I kill any of you? Guys? Kill Ryan? He's 1015 00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,360 Speaker 1: not part of this podcast. I can't kill Ryan. It's 1016 00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:12,200 Speaker 1: like my other half. I can't kill Easter Mark, can't 1017 00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:14,240 Speaker 1: kill Eastern or kill can't kill Mark. Do you want 1018 00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:20,280 Speaker 1: me to pour it? Oh? I can't sacrifice myself on us. 1019 00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:25,200 Speaker 1: I can't kill any of them. I can't kill any 1020 00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:27,919 Speaker 1: of you. It's not bad. I can't kill any of you. 1021 00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:32,840 Speaker 1: That makes me happy. I was afraid for him on 1022 00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:34,640 Speaker 1: the chopping block. I was looking forward to this because 1023 00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:36,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna look her in the eye and 1024 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:40,840 Speaker 1: watch her say I would kill We were reading I 1025 00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 1: would kiss Ryan and add Mary Mark. Alright, No, I 1026 00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:47,000 Speaker 1: would never. I would not kill any of you. We 1027 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:50,200 Speaker 1: were reading these on the plane and I was like, 1028 00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:51,920 Speaker 1: could you answer this one? She was like, I might 1029 00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:53,240 Speaker 1: have to take I think I'm gonna have to take 1030 00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:56,520 Speaker 1: a shot for that one. I can't. Oh, I love 1031 00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:58,840 Speaker 1: you all so much. I could never kill even in 1032 00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:01,880 Speaker 1: like ipe that to take the full shot poured. I'm 1033 00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,400 Speaker 1: sorry half, I poured half of mine that was in there, 1034 00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:06,880 Speaker 1: and then like a drip. No you did not, Becca, 1035 00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,240 Speaker 1: This was double the amount you took for years. No, 1036 00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 1: it's not. If you're not going to play play fair, 1037 00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:15,280 Speaker 1: then we don't play. But then I'm gonna start pouring 1038 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,200 Speaker 1: years from now. I mean, that's fine, So take the 1039 00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:22,400 Speaker 1: rest of that. I can't kill any of them. She's 1040 00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:28,080 Speaker 1: still saying she can't kill you. There's still more you 1041 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:31,000 Speaker 1: just you just wait, Okay, we'll take the rest of 1042 00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:37,000 Speaker 1: them and then I'll just wait. Wow, she still left them. 1043 00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:42,320 Speaker 1: It's like coconut. You barely can taste them, so foul. 1044 00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:53,040 Speaker 1: She would have killed you, have killed you. Name every 1045 00:59:53,120 --> 01:00:00,320 Speaker 1: former Bachelor contestant you have fooled around with off camera? Oh, 1046 01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 1: what's fooled around with? Anything? More? Kissing and such, kissing, etcetera. 1047 01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:12,160 Speaker 1: I know some of these two, so you better not 1048 01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:15,080 Speaker 1: miss any of them. How many do you know offcamp? 1049 01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:18,000 Speaker 1: That's not That's what I'm trying to figure out. A 1050 01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:20,040 Speaker 1: few I know, but I'm trying to I'm asking you, 1051 01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:27,120 Speaker 1: how many say I remember? Okay, well, Robert, including is three. Yeah. 1052 01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:31,400 Speaker 1: M hmmm, I'm so tempted to take a shot on 1053 01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:37,400 Speaker 1: this one, but I'm just gonna do it. Um Chase McNairy, 1054 01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:46,040 Speaker 1: yep Ding, Robert Ding and I had a very drunken 1055 01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:51,560 Speaker 1: this is a kiss with Dean. Alright, my pan picture 1056 01:00:51,640 --> 01:01:02,680 Speaker 1: is coming true. This is so enlightening. All right, let's uh, oh, 1057 01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:05,000 Speaker 1: I will say all of them, not that I don't 1058 01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:09,400 Speaker 1: think they're amazing guys, but I was drunk for all 1059 01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:13,800 Speaker 1: of them. But Robert true fact, all right? Telling you 1060 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:18,280 Speaker 1: what is what is the largest object you've ever had 1061 01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:36,640 Speaker 1: in your rear end? I not coming Um what have 1062 01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:46,360 Speaker 1: I had in my rear end? Um question? Maybe one 1063 01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:55,360 Speaker 1: to two options? There are two options? Uh. The comparisons 1064 01:01:55,360 --> 01:02:10,920 Speaker 1: going on in your head right now are m I um, 1065 01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:14,800 Speaker 1: I'm so embarrassed to like even tell it. But I 1066 01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:21,560 Speaker 1: have tried putting, um something up there. An eggplant, an eggplant, yes, 1067 01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:26,600 Speaker 1: and I think the eggplant got maybe too like half 1068 01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:30,640 Speaker 1: of an inch its way in and I freaked out 1069 01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:34,320 Speaker 1: and started crying because it hurts so that so I 1070 01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 1: cannot believe you to take a shot hero embarrassed listening 1071 01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:45,800 Speaker 1: to this, I'm kind of embarrassing because my mom listened. 1072 01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,280 Speaker 1: Sorry mom, but it was with a really nice boy. 1073 01:02:56,560 --> 01:03:02,800 Speaker 1: Yeah you trusted, I trusted. Yeah, I don't why. Alright, Becca, 1074 01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,760 Speaker 1: tell us the name of the person you're currently in 1075 01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:13,520 Speaker 1: a relationship with. Here we go. I've been waiting for 1076 01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:17,560 Speaker 1: this moment some time. Bring the shot, and you have 1077 01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,960 Speaker 1: to take the whole thing. Okay, but like, oh no, 1078 01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:21,760 Speaker 1: it's going to be equal as to what I just did. 1079 01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:27,800 Speaker 1: That is no, No, it's not much more than I poured. 1080 01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:32,120 Speaker 1: But it's not let me say fair is fair? No, 1081 01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:35,760 Speaker 1: it's like what I have comparing. I know I had 1082 01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:40,480 Speaker 1: the visual in mind. We're almost to the end, you guys, 1083 01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:44,360 Speaker 1: So is not the last one like this? Yes? Actually great. 1084 01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:47,320 Speaker 1: I just was wondering if there's one. There's one more 1085 01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:50,760 Speaker 1: that might be spicy. But bring it, but I think 1086 01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:55,919 Speaker 1: you'll answer it, hopefully you will. All right, Beca needs 1087 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:59,280 Speaker 1: to finish hers before I go down to finish finish 1088 01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:02,720 Speaker 1: before I answer mine. She made me do it and 1089 01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:06,680 Speaker 1: you all witnessed it. Let's because you put yoursel on 1090 01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:11,840 Speaker 1: the table. M hum, it is oh like watching you 1091 01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:17,280 Speaker 1: do that actually hurt for future boyfriends. What parts of 1092 01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:20,040 Speaker 1: your body are most sensitive and drives you crazy when 1093 01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:27,280 Speaker 1: a partner touches it. If Mark rot that, Um, I 1094 01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:34,640 Speaker 1: am very sensitive around my neck weird PG answer, Well, 1095 01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:39,200 Speaker 1: I mean it's yeah, it's an Uh what is the 1096 01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:46,000 Speaker 1: word phrodisiac? Yeah, that's for sure. That's Tanya's a rogin 1097 01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:49,160 Speaker 1: his own. However, I have heard I have not experienced this, 1098 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:52,360 Speaker 1: but I have heard sucking on toes is very erotic. 1099 01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:55,880 Speaker 1: I have not experiencing myself, but I'm very down to try. 1100 01:04:55,960 --> 01:05:02,120 Speaker 1: So futured boyfriend toes telling me the impetus fetish right here? 1101 01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:04,840 Speaker 1: I heard? Did you not? Have you not heard this? 1102 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:08,040 Speaker 1: I just something about the way you say things makes 1103 01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:15,360 Speaker 1: everything like a little bit grosser. You know, I don't know. 1104 01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,959 Speaker 1: Have you ever had your toe cucled? No? I hate 1105 01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:25,320 Speaker 1: sucked licked. No, I'm telling you. Everybody says it's like 1106 01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:27,760 Speaker 1: the best thing ever. Well, what happened to let us 1107 01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:31,280 Speaker 1: know what it happens to you? Well, it won't happen 1108 01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:34,400 Speaker 1: for a while because I quit, but I will once 1109 01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:38,840 Speaker 1: it happens. Alright, Becca, have you ever gotten caught engaging 1110 01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:41,560 Speaker 1: in sexual activity? This is from Sharon Williams on the 1111 01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:46,760 Speaker 1: Facebook group Uh no, no, no, you've never been caught? 1112 01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:53,200 Speaker 1: All right? Good for you. That was like a deep 1113 01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,840 Speaker 1: sigh of relief being able to just answer that quick. 1114 01:05:56,560 --> 01:06:02,439 Speaker 1: There's only one more for each of you. Oh wait, sorry, 1115 01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:08,600 Speaker 1: Tanya you have you have one extra. Tanya has one extra. Um, 1116 01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:10,960 Speaker 1: if you had to marry one of your ex is, 1117 01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:20,640 Speaker 1: who would you choose? You have to marry them ex boyfriends? Um, 1118 01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:25,120 Speaker 1: well I would say one, but he's like married to 1119 01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:27,240 Speaker 1: somebody else, So I feel like that's like, well, I 1120 01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:30,480 Speaker 1: mean this is messed up, right, Yeah, but you have 1121 01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:38,960 Speaker 1: to do it. Yeah, I would say I dated this 1122 01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:42,080 Speaker 1: guy in college. I'm pretty sure he's dating somebody now. 1123 01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:46,680 Speaker 1: But we had a brief romance and it was good 1124 01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:49,640 Speaker 1: and he didn't screw me over or like do you 1125 01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:50,800 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, he didn't really cause a 1126 01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:53,400 Speaker 1: lot of trauma to me, So I would open that 1127 01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:56,280 Speaker 1: door again. His name is Tyler, the one that you 1128 01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:59,440 Speaker 1: were like kind of like whatever about. Yeah, it was 1129 01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:01,920 Speaker 1: like getting over the it was a rebound a little bit, 1130 01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:05,360 Speaker 1: a little bit. Yeah, so he never did he didn't. Yeah. Well, 1131 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,320 Speaker 1: Like it's like if you go back to like all 1132 01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 1: my boyfriends, they all have created some sort of trauma 1133 01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:12,760 Speaker 1: to me. So I feel like I want to go 1134 01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,200 Speaker 1: to the one that's he's the safest. Yeah, I feel 1135 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:25,640 Speaker 1: like one. No, he did, but peacefully songs songs heartbreak. Yeah. Okay, 1136 01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:28,800 Speaker 1: back at last question, and I'm sorry this is similar 1137 01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 1: to an earlier one, but the people want to know. 1138 01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:33,880 Speaker 1: This is from Aubrey g no time here for a 1139 01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:43,960 Speaker 1: year or no Phoebe for a year. The long pause 1140 01:07:44,120 --> 01:07:53,720 Speaker 1: is slightly concerning. I might have to drink, and we 1141 01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:58,720 Speaker 1: have to drink happy to poor one break. I can't 1142 01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:05,360 Speaker 1: give up Phoebe for a year, and it's fine. I 1143 01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:10,480 Speaker 1: couldn't kill Eastern Mark or Ryan. So there you go. 1144 01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:16,479 Speaker 1: Drink up Buttercup. Oh my god, I'm like, I'm not 1145 01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:23,519 Speaker 1: gonna feel well tomorrow. Drink up girl. It was a 1146 01:08:23,560 --> 01:08:31,040 Speaker 1: simple answer. It wasn't I'd give up Phoebe. She's not 1147 01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:35,280 Speaker 1: your dog. Of course you would, and she'll be okay. 1148 01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:41,000 Speaker 1: I think she's gonna Dania will be okay. I actually debatable. 1149 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,320 Speaker 1: I think Phoebe would be more okay than Tanya would 1150 01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:48,960 Speaker 1: be true. All right, last one, Tanya, you've had one shot. 1151 01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:53,479 Speaker 1: Do you understand that I don't drink flavor to anything. 1152 01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:55,559 Speaker 1: So the fact that we were on the pineapple farm 1153 01:08:55,640 --> 01:09:00,280 Speaker 1: drinking pineapple infused rum and tequila and vodka. And now 1154 01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:06,400 Speaker 1: this it's doing something to me and to my brain. 1155 01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:09,800 Speaker 1: And we kind of got the best of both worlds 1156 01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:11,320 Speaker 1: on this one because she did kind of answer. She 1157 01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:15,760 Speaker 1: didn't answer at all. You don't want to know, you 1158 01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:17,800 Speaker 1: don't you don't want to believe what you heard. I 1159 01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:20,880 Speaker 1: don't want to You were in another dimension. It went 1160 01:09:20,880 --> 01:09:27,960 Speaker 1: by a second for you. I'm chose phoebe drinking. M 1161 01:09:28,120 --> 01:09:31,160 Speaker 1: h oh, it actually hurts No. One gave me shivers. 1162 01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:36,640 Speaker 1: What's the most annoyed you've ever been with, Beccah, like 1163 01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:40,200 Speaker 1: like last night. I don't think it's hard. That's a 1164 01:09:40,240 --> 01:09:43,639 Speaker 1: not hard to answer. Um, I'm the most annoyed I've 1165 01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:48,880 Speaker 1: ever been at you when remember that time you like 1166 01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,679 Speaker 1: stopped talking to me for like a few days. Yeah, 1167 01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:54,080 Speaker 1: but what what what prompted that I probably didn't text 1168 01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:58,479 Speaker 1: you back or something like an hour? No? What was that? 1169 01:09:58,960 --> 01:10:02,720 Speaker 1: I literally think it was something like I hadn't responded 1170 01:10:02,760 --> 01:10:09,120 Speaker 1: to your text or something. There was something I do remember. 1171 01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:12,160 Speaker 1: There was like one No, there was something where like 1172 01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:15,760 Speaker 1: I cant was it the check? No, there was something 1173 01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:18,200 Speaker 1: where like I needed an answer from you and I 1174 01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:21,320 Speaker 1: texted you and like hours on by no response, and 1175 01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:23,320 Speaker 1: I literally kept a question mark question where you know me? 1176 01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:26,040 Speaker 1: And just like rapid fire, and she wasn't texting me back, 1177 01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:28,880 Speaker 1: and yet she was like on Instagram posting stories and stuff, 1178 01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:30,960 Speaker 1: and I was like, are you flipping kidding me? Like 1179 01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:34,920 Speaker 1: I was so pissed, but I can't remember what I needed. 1180 01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:42,599 Speaker 1: It was an answer, Yeah, the most annoying thing I've 1181 01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:47,679 Speaker 1: ever done. Yeah, I think it's a good sign. Yeah, yeah, 1182 01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:51,320 Speaker 1: I feel pretty good about that. So those are all 1183 01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:55,519 Speaker 1: of our truth or their questions. Those were not bad. Yeah, 1184 01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:57,920 Speaker 1: I'm actually surprised. I mean, you took so you took 1185 01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:01,840 Speaker 1: one shot that it took pick three? What were they? 1186 01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:05,280 Speaker 1: What did I take you about? How many people have 1187 01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:09,640 Speaker 1: slept with Tanya and Phoebe and who I'm dating? Yeah, 1188 01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:12,760 Speaker 1: I answered some questions that I like normally would not 1189 01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:16,720 Speaker 1: speak about, but it is what it is. I mean 1190 01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:19,680 Speaker 1: I did too. I just said I put a eggplant 1191 01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:25,840 Speaker 1: up my ask. Um. I'm also like concerned that you 1192 01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:29,080 Speaker 1: guys were like, what was number two? I know what 1193 01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:31,680 Speaker 1: number two was? The enema or whatever? One are those 1194 01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:39,160 Speaker 1: things like the lax that I was a singing finger. No, okay, no, 1195 01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:41,760 Speaker 1: I had to put a laxative because obviously I have 1196 01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:43,559 Speaker 1: pooping issues, and I had to put a laxative up 1197 01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:47,760 Speaker 1: there ones and that was not enjoyable. See, I assumed 1198 01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:52,040 Speaker 1: it was just matter, because that's not what you've played. 1199 01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:54,639 Speaker 1: It's just it said, what's the largest object you've ever 1200 01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:59,400 Speaker 1: had in your room? The other thing? The other thing 1201 01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:04,719 Speaker 1: was actually larger than fecal matter, which I don't like saying. 1202 01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:13,400 Speaker 1: That's okay. Dannie always guys above and beyond. That's that's 1203 01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:15,880 Speaker 1: what I do. It's my nickname. Al Right, should we 1204 01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:21,200 Speaker 1: answer some emails? Was that game good? Like? As a 1205 01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:26,559 Speaker 1: listener alson, you do I really do? Okay? I think so. 1206 01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,839 Speaker 1: I also think. I mean we've you know, everyone's opening 1207 01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:32,400 Speaker 1: up for being honest with our selves. We all show 1208 01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:35,040 Speaker 1: should be getting into shape and we can do that 1209 01:12:35,120 --> 01:12:43,080 Speaker 1: with open fit. I'm like open fit. Open fit takes 1210 01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:45,639 Speaker 1: all the complexity out of losing weight and getting fit. 1211 01:12:46,040 --> 01:12:49,120 Speaker 1: It's a brand new, super simple streaming service that allows 1212 01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:51,000 Speaker 1: you to work out from the comfort of your living 1213 01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:53,759 Speaker 1: room and as little as ten minutes a day. Everyone's 1214 01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:56,720 Speaker 1: bodies are different, and open fit gets that, which is 1215 01:12:56,720 --> 01:13:01,160 Speaker 1: why it's personalized to your needs with custom tail original content. 1216 01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:03,719 Speaker 1: Open Fit classes are led by some of the most 1217 01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:07,400 Speaker 1: effective and engaging trainers in the world, like Andrea Rogers, 1218 01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:11,799 Speaker 1: founder of the worldwide sensation extend Bar. Um it's super simple. 1219 01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:14,679 Speaker 1: You forget all the complexity and stress around getting fit 1220 01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:17,560 Speaker 1: and just press play and work out on your schedule. 1221 01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:21,200 Speaker 1: You can view from your computer, web enabled TV, tablet, 1222 01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:24,840 Speaker 1: smartphone and roku. Um. I think that especially because like 1223 01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:27,920 Speaker 1: we're traveling, we're in Hawaii. Having something like this is 1224 01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:32,800 Speaker 1: really great because you're traveling, so it's like just super convenient. Yeah. 1225 01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:35,439 Speaker 1: The the extend bar video, I've actually watched it and 1226 01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:36,920 Speaker 1: the thing I love the most about is there's a 1227 01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:38,559 Speaker 1: lot of exercises you can do with just a chair. 1228 01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:42,400 Speaker 1: It's crazy. Yeah, Oh that's awesome. Um. Well, open Fit 1229 01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:44,920 Speaker 1: has changed the way we work out and with our Codebecca, 1230 01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:47,680 Speaker 1: you can join us on a fitness journey personalized just 1231 01:13:47,800 --> 01:13:50,400 Speaker 1: for you. Again, use our code Becca and start using 1232 01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:53,280 Speaker 1: open Fit for your journey to a healthier life right now. 1233 01:13:53,400 --> 01:13:56,040 Speaker 1: During the open Fit thirty Day Challenge, our listeners get 1234 01:13:56,040 --> 01:14:00,160 Speaker 1: a special extended thirty day free trial membership to open Fit, 1235 01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:03,080 Speaker 1: where you can lose up to fifteen pounds in thirty days. 1236 01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:06,679 Speaker 1: When you text Becca to thirty thirty thirty, that's three 1237 01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:10,040 Speaker 1: zero three zero three zero. You will get full access 1238 01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:14,240 Speaker 1: to open fit all the workouts and nutrition information totally free. Again. 1239 01:14:14,280 --> 01:14:18,519 Speaker 1: Just Textbecca to thirty. You're going to text and the 1240 01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:26,840 Speaker 1: word is Specca. I can't feel my lips. The fact 1241 01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:35,240 Speaker 1: that I was able to read sentences right then, shall 1242 01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:37,240 Speaker 1: we call Mr d and see what he's up to? 1243 01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:40,840 Speaker 1: There is an update with that that I will give 1244 01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:43,920 Speaker 1: on our next podcast. Um, because I still like to 1245 01:14:44,160 --> 01:14:49,280 Speaker 1: dive into some territory. But it's a teaser and I'm 1246 01:14:49,280 --> 01:14:53,960 Speaker 1: still quitting. Oh, this is so dramatic because now I 1247 01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:55,719 Speaker 1: feel like you're going to go into like a whole 1248 01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:59,439 Speaker 1: extreme because you love extremes. I do. But you know 1249 01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:03,760 Speaker 1: what's fun is when he said the whole like, uh, 1250 01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:06,880 Speaker 1: turn on the like we're constantly turning on, turning on 1251 01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:09,519 Speaker 1: these lights. I'm not skinny enough, I'm not pretty enough, 1252 01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:13,080 Speaker 1: I'm not far enough in my career. I'm not uh 1253 01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:15,559 Speaker 1: confident enough. I'm not you know, you're constantly flipping some 1254 01:15:15,560 --> 01:15:17,840 Speaker 1: stuff on and then other things are getting turned off. 1255 01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:21,280 Speaker 1: It's like this constant battle and every everybody deals with it. 1256 01:15:21,479 --> 01:15:23,479 Speaker 1: I'm not making enough money. I am making I'm making 1257 01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:25,600 Speaker 1: good money. I'm not losing I'm losing my friends, Like 1258 01:15:25,760 --> 01:15:27,400 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? That's this constant thing. 1259 01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:29,080 Speaker 1: And it's like, if I just make sure that my 1260 01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:35,400 Speaker 1: bliss that I'm just happy as I am, it's gonna 1261 01:15:35,400 --> 01:15:38,040 Speaker 1: come in the way that it's supposed to, in a 1262 01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:39,800 Speaker 1: different way than I would even think that. But it 1263 01:15:39,840 --> 01:15:42,760 Speaker 1: could come. If someone going, I have this amazing guy 1264 01:15:42,800 --> 01:15:44,599 Speaker 1: I want you to meet, would you be interesting going 1265 01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:49,439 Speaker 1: out with him? Right? But it's just saying no. If 1266 01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:53,080 Speaker 1: you're saying, I'm not desperately trying to make this happen 1267 01:15:53,080 --> 01:15:57,840 Speaker 1: on my own exactly, I'm drunk right now. Let's do 1268 01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:02,920 Speaker 1: an email for about This is from anonymous. UH. I 1269 01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:05,800 Speaker 1: assume it's a she. UH twenty three years old. A 1270 01:16:05,800 --> 01:16:07,479 Speaker 1: few months ago, I went through the worst thing I've 1271 01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:10,439 Speaker 1: ever experienced. My boyfriend of almost nine years broke up 1272 01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:13,000 Speaker 1: with me. We've been together since we were fourteen. We 1273 01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:14,720 Speaker 1: grew up down the street from each other, went to 1274 01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:17,080 Speaker 1: high school together. We did long distance for a few years. 1275 01:16:17,080 --> 01:16:19,360 Speaker 1: In college, we ended up moving in together. We got 1276 01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:22,120 Speaker 1: two cats, graduated college together. I know we were going 1277 01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:24,559 Speaker 1: through something bad, but I hoped it would pass. However, 1278 01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:26,719 Speaker 1: my boyfriend decided it would be best to end things. 1279 01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:28,880 Speaker 1: He's about to start medical school and we're about to 1280 01:16:28,880 --> 01:16:30,600 Speaker 1: sign a new year lease on our apartment, and he 1281 01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:32,519 Speaker 1: felt like he had a choice to make. He told me, 1282 01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:34,000 Speaker 1: this is the hardest thing he's ever had to do, 1283 01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:36,000 Speaker 1: and then maybe we can get back together in the future. 1284 01:16:36,439 --> 01:16:38,160 Speaker 1: If I'm being honest with you, the only thing getting 1285 01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:40,000 Speaker 1: me through this is the hope we'll get back together. 1286 01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:42,719 Speaker 1: I'm taking advantage of this time alone. I started counseling. 1287 01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:44,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to focus on me. I believe him when 1288 01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:46,120 Speaker 1: he says he loves me and that he would love 1289 01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:47,800 Speaker 1: if we worked out one day. But am I being 1290 01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:52,479 Speaker 1: naive by believing that we'll get back together. I just 1291 01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:55,519 Speaker 1: want to say that I'm very proud of you for 1292 01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:59,600 Speaker 1: taking this time to focus on yourself. Like, getting counseling 1293 01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:02,080 Speaker 1: is really brave, because a lot of people don't even 1294 01:17:02,120 --> 01:17:04,639 Speaker 1: give themselves the option to do that. I feel like, 1295 01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:08,280 Speaker 1: but I also don't think it's fair to him for 1296 01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:10,400 Speaker 1: him to break up with you and then say, but 1297 01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:13,720 Speaker 1: maybe we'll get back together, Like he's choosing to end 1298 01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:15,920 Speaker 1: things because he doesn't want to be with you right now. 1299 01:17:16,479 --> 01:17:19,880 Speaker 1: Whether he does come back around, you have no obligation 1300 01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:22,960 Speaker 1: to wait for him to do that. Yeah, I mean 1301 01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:26,960 Speaker 1: I think, uh, you can't live your life and operate 1302 01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:30,120 Speaker 1: from a place of hoping you're going to get back 1303 01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:32,880 Speaker 1: together with somebody. It's not a healthy place to be. 1304 01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:36,120 Speaker 1: I've been there, and it's just like not a good 1305 01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:38,200 Speaker 1: place to be. So I think that you need to 1306 01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:43,439 Speaker 1: um be in the mindset that like, you're done and 1307 01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:46,360 Speaker 1: if you are meant to be together and you happen 1308 01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:48,200 Speaker 1: to get back together, then that's one thing. But I 1309 01:17:48,240 --> 01:17:51,400 Speaker 1: think you can't operate from that headspace because it really 1310 01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:54,640 Speaker 1: it changes the way that you act, it changes the 1311 01:17:54,640 --> 01:17:57,000 Speaker 1: way that you do things. So I think just like 1312 01:17:57,080 --> 01:17:59,400 Speaker 1: changing your mental state for sure. Yeah, I think it 1313 01:17:59,560 --> 01:18:01,920 Speaker 1: limits you to really being able to live your life 1314 01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:04,920 Speaker 1: just hoping and praying because you're closed off to other 1315 01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:08,000 Speaker 1: people and other opportunities. And I just think that I 1316 01:18:08,040 --> 01:18:09,640 Speaker 1: really don't think it's fair that he did that. So 1317 01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:11,800 Speaker 1: if he wanted to be with you, he would be 1318 01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:13,680 Speaker 1: with you. He wouldn't end it with the hope of 1319 01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:17,160 Speaker 1: you'll be waiting for him when if he's ready, So 1320 01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:20,519 Speaker 1: I think you move on, focus on yourself, be open 1321 01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:23,160 Speaker 1: to the possibility of someone else coming along, but really 1322 01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:25,519 Speaker 1: focus on being single because you've been single through some 1323 01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:28,320 Speaker 1: like really crucial I mean, you've been in a relationship 1324 01:18:28,640 --> 01:18:33,040 Speaker 1: through some really crucial years of your life. Yeah, I mean, 1325 01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:36,880 Speaker 1: I will be very surprised if he comes, if he says, like, 1326 01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:39,840 Speaker 1: now's the time, let's get back together. I don't think 1327 01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:42,120 Speaker 1: that's happening. I think he's having a hard time making 1328 01:18:42,120 --> 01:18:44,759 Speaker 1: that decision. That's a very hard thing to do, and 1329 01:18:44,800 --> 01:18:47,479 Speaker 1: he's trying to soften it by well, you know, maybe 1330 01:18:47,479 --> 01:18:48,720 Speaker 1: we can get back to you. And I think that's 1331 01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:50,840 Speaker 1: really unfair of him to do that. I think it 1332 01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:53,160 Speaker 1: was to make him feel better that it was like, 1333 01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:55,880 Speaker 1: it was like to make him feel better that he 1334 01:18:55,920 --> 01:18:58,880 Speaker 1: was ending things with you, which was a very selfish thing. 1335 01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:00,720 Speaker 1: And I don't I don't think that he did it 1336 01:19:00,760 --> 01:19:02,640 Speaker 1: in a way of like trying to hurt you, But 1337 01:19:02,680 --> 01:19:06,280 Speaker 1: that's ultimately what he did. And I'm really sorry that 1338 01:19:06,280 --> 01:19:08,040 Speaker 1: you're going through this because nine years with someone is 1339 01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:13,960 Speaker 1: a very long time. Wow, this has been quite the episode. Guys. 1340 01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:17,320 Speaker 1: I can't feel my lip. We've had we have a 1341 01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:21,280 Speaker 1: we've had a lot this episode to drink and to 1342 01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:27,920 Speaker 1: talk about. I think the title should be I quite well, 1343 01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:31,519 Speaker 1: one of the questions that something like, um, what if 1344 01:19:31,560 --> 01:19:35,800 Speaker 1: Gray's Anatomy ends, will this podcast in? No, that's what 1345 01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:40,040 Speaker 1: I mean. Yeah, so you think we have two more 1346 01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:42,960 Speaker 1: seasons locked in? Everybody, but you said the title being 1347 01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:49,519 Speaker 1: I Quit. It's a good little teaser. I quit, I 1348 01:19:49,560 --> 01:19:53,880 Speaker 1: can't feel my lim and Malli. Yeah, so I go 1349 01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:57,800 Speaker 1: off of the time here right, Yeah, Okay, so that's 1350 01:19:58,240 --> 01:20:03,040 Speaker 1: the point. Um No, it's twenty two time a day, 1351 01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:12,120 Speaker 1: two thirty six, I think. Yeah, yeah,